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DON'T LET THE NEXT PAY FOR YOUR EX BY JOANN “JOJO” VENANT
In the aftermath of a relationship's end, it's not uncommon to envision a fresh start, clear of the complications and painful memories of what was. Yet, stepping into the future unburdened is seldom as simple as it sounds. Emotional baggage often has a sneaky way of traveling with us, potentially influencing new relationships in unforeseen ways. Unpacking Emotional Baggage Emotional baggage is a collection of unresolved issues, hurtful memories, and lessons that we accumulate over time. In the realm of relationships, it can be anything from unresolved feelings and trust issues to the remnants of old habits or patterns. Types of Baggage: Past Traumas: Past betrayals, deceptions, or painful memories. Insecurities: Stemming from perceived failures or inadequacies in past relationships. Lingering Affections: Unresolved feelings or a lack of closure from previous relationships.
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The Impact of Baggage on New Relationships Entering a new relationship with unchecked emotional baggage is akin to setting off on a marathon with weights around your ankles—it's exhausting and impedes progress. Trust Issues: Past betrayals may cast a shadow, making it challenging to trust anew. Frequent Comparisons: Contrasting a new partner's words, actions, or behaviors against an ex's—often unfairly. Hyper-Reactivity: Minor concerns might elicit heightened emotional responses if they resonate with past experiences.
Entering a new relationship with unchecked emotional baggage is akin to setting off on a marathon with weights around your ankles
