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note from our editor theme Bucket List
"My bucket list isn’t about ticking boxes—it's about giving myself permission to dream wildly, love deeply, and live unapologetically. Every item on it is a promise to the woman I'm still becoming." — Anonymous
Kellie Pardi Creative Director/Marketing
This season as we are involved in celebrating Mothers and Fathers— and dear ones who have stepped into those roles—and graduates, and brides and grooms, and births and birthdays, and Memorial Day, you may not have much brain space left to think about your own dreams or visions!
But, in those quiet moments when all the commotion settles and you have a minute to look ahead at the next six months of 2025, (I can’t even believe I’m saying that!), I hope you turn to our magazine for inspiration. Maybe you do have a bucket list, or at least a wish list, but have no idea how to make it happen. Our writers can help.
Kelly Stonerock encourages you to “Put The Moves On!” so you don’t have regrets. She also documents two very specific questions: “Have you found joy in your life?” and “Has your life brought joy to others?” For me, those resonate strongly and serve as a pretty good bucket list by themselves. Jennifer Beard tells us that in the middle of her busy life she’s learning how powerful it is to focus her energy on what truly matters—cutting out the things that don’t bring connection, joy, love, or purpose. Those are good goals for all of us! We are excited to welcome a new writer to our team, Brittany Willingham. She tells us that even failed plans can be a blessing.
Whether you are fearful, too busy, or just stuck, there is something in this issue to spur you on toward creating your own bucket list or vision.
Here’s to dreaming big, finding and giving joy, and getting down to the most important things!
We’re here to support you. What’s in your bucket?!
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10 Bucket List Ideas
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Learn to Play the Drums. Turn chaos into rhythm. It’s therapy with a beat.
Go on a Meditation Retreat. Unplug and tune in. Discover who you are beneath the noise.
Take a Dream Vacation Alone. Get lost in wonder. Find your edges and soften them.
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Get a Tattoo That Means Something. Ink your search for self-discovery.
Live one month without Technology. Reconnect with silence. See what surfaces when the scroll stops.
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“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
~ Anaïs Nin
Run a Marathon. Prove you can do hard things. One mile at a time.
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Create a Time Capsule with Loved Ones. Preserve the present. Future you will thank you for remembering.
Live in a Community Setting. Trade walls for connection. Discover yourself in the mirror of others.
Learn How to Swing Dance. Lose control on purpose— and love it.
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Compose a Piece of Music. Write the soundtrack of your soul—no rules, just expression.
Jennifer Gardner is a wife and mother of two girls. She loves being creative with the ladies of Women2Women Michigan Magazine.
So, where do you get your strength when going through life’s tough challenges?
I have a strong faith, and that faith comes through in this book. Not in a didactic way at all but definitely rooted in being created with a purpose and placed on earth with intention. My story shows challenges (or trauma, though that word is becoming tired), but the overarching theme is “overcoming”.
Tell us about your book and how it will benefit us.
We all address at one point or another that question: Who am I?
If you have ever felt the foundation crack below you, this story will inspire you to climb back up to solid ground. Certainly, readers who are Adult Children of Alcoholics (COAs) will relate to the vignettes in this book. If you have felt the bonds of family severed, this story will resonate with you. If you have struggled with the imperfections of your parents, this story will inspire you to forgive.
The book explores the dynamics of family and how our experiences mold us. It features a father/daughter relationship
that inspires beauty and love. Loss, brokenness and trauma cause an identity crisis that is only overcome through faith and the love that was planted in my DNA from the start. One reviewer put it this way: “Shell’s writing is honest without being bitter. Emotional without being overdone. You can feel the love and pain on every page.”
Nature vs. Nurture addressed. “Blood is thicker than water” explored.
Shell, is there anywhere else that we may access your writing?
I have a publication on Substack called Stories With Shell. These 5-minute narratives flesh out similar themes as my book but are stand alone, separate creative nonfiction. Particularly, one called “Come Walk With Me” provides a little more background to my book. You can find those stories at shellnorman.com.
You will also see me on a new publishing imprint called Fire & Feast Books. https:// fireandfeastbooks.com/
Shell, thank you so much for joining our Women2Women community and being our Cover Girl for this issue!
Subscribe to our Women2Women newsletter to find out when Shell will be at Beloved Books/Bridge Street Brewtique in Linden for a book signing and reading along the Shiawassee River.
We all will want to read your book, so where may we purchase it?
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Living Beyond Limits real life meditation
Itwas 1977. My brother Perry and I were sitting in the concourse of Fairlane Mall in Dearborn, taking a break from shopping. I was 12. Perry was almost 30. It was a pivotal moment that changed the course of my life. Perry shared a concept with me called the power of positive thinking. He told me about a book by the same name, written by Norman Vincent Peale.
At age 4 ½, Perry was stricken with polio, a debilitating disease that afflicted people in varying ways. My parents were told Perry would never walk again, but they had a different vision. Dedication to Perry’s exercise regime and his fiercely independent spirit led him to walk with braces and eventually without them. While still a child, the polio virus attacked Perry’s breathing, leaving him with a collapsed lung and 18 months in an iron lung, a mechanical ventilator wherein a person is confined to a 7-foot metal box except their head, to sustain his life.
While Perry survived that period of his life, he was challenged with a weaker
body, difficulty using his thumbs and deformity of his spine, known as kyphosis, an excessive curvature of the spine giving a hunchback look. He was bullied mercilessly by other children in school and thought of taking his own life.
Instead, he created unique ways to play the sports he loved, left home for college, became an auditor for Consumers Energy, studied poker and backgammon to the point where he could have played professionally if his body could endured it, and bought and rented homes.
In 2013, Perry passed away as a result of a faulty BiPAP, a device that helps people breathe easier so they can have a better quality of sleep. As I was writing Perry’s eulogy, it occurred to me that I never heard him complain, not even if he was sick. He truly lived by the power of positive thinking.
Perry was my mentor and inspiration. In 2011, I began taking steps to leave my 20+ year career in Occupational Safety and Environmental Health to
pursue a calling to teach mindfulness to children. I started my business, Presence to Pupils, LLC, then co-founded the Michigan Collaborative for Mindfulness in Education (www. mc4me.org), the first nonprofit to bring mindfulness to schools in Michigan. I taught 1000s of children from Detroit to the Upper Peninsula how to use mindfulness. In 2013, I became certified as a Meditation Instructor and began working with adults in addition to children.
Mindfulness meditation puts you in the driver’s seat of your internal state, so that you are better able to withstand the constant barrage of stressors life launches at you, whether they come in the form of middle school bullies, illness, bills, or relationship challenges.
Mindfulness is more than meditation; it is a way of being in the world that can be used throughout your day. The practice of meditation helps you become the observer of your life. It teaches you to pause and allows space for a change in perspective, resulting in potentially a different reaction,
Iwas inspired when I heard the theme of this magazine was going to be “Creating your Vision or Bucket List.” So much so that I decided to re-watch the old 2008 movie entitled, “The Bucket List.” The movie stars Jack Nicholson as Edward and Morgan Freeman as Carter. These two strangers meet in a shared hospital room as they both struggle through the grueling diagnosis and treatment of cancer.
Edward and Carter are strikingly different. Edward owns the hospital that they are being treated in and has lived a filthy rich lifestyle. Carter, while not financially filthy rich, is rich in family relationships. By contrast, Carter, though highly intelligent, chose not to complete community college and became a car mechanic to provide for his family. These two individuals form a bond as hospital room mates. They also both receive the news that they have six months to a year to live. Carter declares, “Forty-five years goes by real fast.” To which Edward responds, “Like smoke through a keyhole.”
salmon fishing, bear hunting, duck hunting, quadding, water skiing, tubing, snorkeling, boating, sailing, biking, hiking, on train rides, scuba diving and, most recently, I rode on the Flint Firebird Zamboni.
I have a lot more left on my bucket list to complete, mostly places I still want to visit, and I need to go skydiving when I am 60 years old…..just like my mother did. The point is, whether your bucket list is big or small or has limited adventures or multiple adventures, don’t wait. Don’t let the excuses win! Where there is a will, there is a way! You don’t want to reflect back on the “would of” and “could of” excuses that stopped you. It’s time to work towards your bucket list or at least start creating one.
Edward then discovers a crumpled-up piece of paper on the floor; it’s Carter’s bucket list, disposed because he sees his list as an unobtainable pipe dream. However, Edward has the money to travel the world and complete this list. It is not an unobtainable pipe dream. Edward yells to Carter, “Let’s put the moves on!” That was code for “Let’s fulfill this bucket list” and that’s exactly what these two strangers, now friends, do as they simultaneously add new items to the list.
The movie is filled with humor and tears as they attempt to fulfill each item on the list. The movie will keep you engaged because nearly every line appears to be written with purpose and is infused with life lessons. It made me take notes and wonder how I could apply some of the lessons to my own life. It encourages viewers to prioritize living a life of purpose and adventure, to embrace experiences and to find meaning in the present moment, rather than solely focusing on material success or future achievements. The purpose of the movie sounded like my favorite scripture in Ephesians 5:15-17, “Live purposely, worthily and accurately, not as the unwise and witless, but as wise, sensible and intelligent people, making the most of our days, because the days are short.”
A bucket list is supposedly a list of career goals, travel destinations, health, finance or relationship goals that you hope to accomplish before…you kick the bucket and die. Admittedly, I am somewhat of an adventure junkie. I have glided down Mexican zip lines, taken an Alaskan helicopter ride to drink from a glacier, paraglided over the Grand Tetons, felt the heat from a doors off helicopter ride over a Hawaiian volcano (the pilot turned our helicopter on its side so I could get better pictures from my open door), jet skied in Cabo, gone night diving with manna rays, flown a private plane across Michigan and air boated in the Everglades. I have gone downhill skiing in Vermont and Colorado, horseback riding in Yellowstone, mountain climbing at Angels Landing in Zion National Park, repelling,
Interestingly, one of the many facts that Carter has stored in his head and tells Edward is that statistically 96% of people say they’d rather not know the date they will die Carter, on the other hand, announces that he thinks he falls in the 4% that would want to know. Why? So, he could fulfill his bucket list before that date.
One striking moment, atop an Egyptian pyramid, Carter shares that the Egyptian Gods would ask two questions to help determine whether a person deserved to enter heaven. The first question was, “Have you found joy in your life?” The second question was, “Has your life brought joy to others?”
Both are valuable questions, though not the actual biblical standard for entrance into heaven, which is far easier to obtain. The Bible, in Romans 10:13 says, “Whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord, shall be saved.”
However, these Egyptian questions do make you think. Have I found joy in my life? If not, what can I do about it now? Has my life brought joy to others? If not, what can I do about it now? Both questions are great additions to a bucket list. So, if you are reading this article right now, stop, get out a piece of paper or the notes app on your phone and start that bucket list.
What are some bucket list ideas to add joy to your life? What are some bucket list ideas to bring joy to others? Add those to your career, adventure, health, finance and relationship bucket ideas and include some tangible plans to achieve those goals. Why? Because, like Edward said, “It’s time to put the moves on!”
Kelly Stonerock was raised in Clarkston. She has been a resident of Goodrich for 29 years. She is presently the CEO of BatsAndTraps.com, an animal removal company that services Genesee County and it’s surrounding communities. Kelly has five children of her own and she raised three other children. She was featured on ABC’s television show, “Wife Swap” in 2005. Her episode is available on Hulu, Season 2: Episode 11.
body mind spirit
Hey there, fabulous women! Life is a wild ride, filled with twists and turns, ups and downs, don’t you agree? Often it leaves us yearning for a fresh start. Whether you’re hitting a milestone birthday, navigating a career shift, or just feeling the itch for something new, the good news is that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself. Here are five simple steps that I have used personally and in my coaching career, to help embrace change and step into the next chapter with confidence and style.
1. REFLECT & RECONNECT: THE TWO RS
Before you dive headfirst into reinvention, take a moment to reflect. What makes your heart sing? What passions have you tucked away? Grab a cozy blanket, a cup of tea, or a glass of wine, and spend some time journaling your thoughts. Write down your dreams, goals, and what you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the chance to pursue. Or something you’ve done in the past and enjoyed. This is about reconnecting with yourself—your desires, your values, and what truly makes you feel alive and fulfilled!
2. SET YOUR INTENTIONS: THE BIG
I
Once you’ve done some soul-searching, it’s time to set your intentions. What do you want to achieve in this new phase of your life? Maybe you want to start a new hobby, change careers, or simply adopt a healthier lifestyle. Whatever it is, write it down. Setting clear, achievable goals will help you stay focused and motivated. Keep it simple. Don’t forget to break them down into bite-sized steps; small victories can lead to big changes! Then keep track of them!
3. EMBRACE
A GROWTH MINDSET: HUGS FOR THE GM
Change can feel daunting, scary and sometimes painful, but embracing a growth mindset can turn those fears into excitement. Instead of thinking, “I can’t do this,” try reframing it to, “I’m learning and growing.” Remember, every expert was once a beginner! Every invention began with an idea. Surround yourself with positive influences— friends who encourage you, books that inspire you, and experiences that challenge you. This mindset shift will empower you to take risks and explore new opportunities. Reflect upon your growth and pat yourself on the back!
4. EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE: GET UN-COZY
Let’s face it: change doesn't happen in the comfort zone. It’s time to stretch those boundaries! Sign up for that dance class you’ve been eyeing, volunteer for a cause you’re
passionate about, or even take a solo trip to a place you’ve always wanted to visit. Each step outside your comfort zone is a step toward your new self. Plus, you might just surprise yourself with what you can accomplish!
5. CELEBRATE
YOUR JOURNEY: SELF CELEBRATION
As you embark on this exciting adventure of selfreinvention, remember to celebrate every milestone along the way. Whether it’s treating yourself to a spa day after completing a goal or simply sharing your progress with friends, acknowledging your achievements is crucial. Selflove and appreciation are powerful motivators that will keep you inspired and energized. Remember, it’s not just about the destination—it’s about enjoying the journey!
FINAL THOUGHTS
Recreating yourself is all about embracing change with open arms, even if they feel closed right now. No matter your age or circumstances, YOU have the power to reinvent yourself and pursue the life you want. So go ahead, take that leap of faith, and watch as you blossom into the best version of yourself.
Here’s to new beginnings, exciting adventures, and the fabulous journey ahead! Cheers!
Much Love, Coach Deb
Deborah St.Hilaire is a unifier, enlightener and catalyst for change in the way women are treated and treat each other. Author, speaker, transformational coach and teacher, Deb, the founder of MyBodyMindSpirit.com, is dedicated to enriching lives through selfcare, meditation, movement, thought and journaling. She can be reached at 989.450.4200 or deb@ mybodymindspirit.com.
What is “Mothering”?
MOTHERING. WE ALL NEED IT. Those of us who are most fortunate have experienced it. Those of us who are a blessing have given it.
At this time of year we honor our mothers and those who have been like a mother to us. Actually, mothering can come from many people during our lives, and can be defined as relating to others in a way that would be characteristic of a mother, especially in being caring, protective, and kind.
Everyone’s definition and experience of being mothered is different because our situations differ.
As a newborn’s needs are different from those of a young adult, so are ours as we grow independent and pursue our goals in life. However, our need for mothering—as defined by being nurtured—is something we never outgrow.
Being mothered, or nurtured, brings to mind someone who cares for us emotionally, someone who listens to and understands us, and who is willing to help us with a problem.
It also means to be encouraged and supported—perhaps by someone who is like a personal cheerleader.
And someone who mothers us is someone we can count on, who is loyal and dependable.
You probably have several people in your life that fit into these categories, because mothering is not limited to a relationship between mother and child. This nurturing relationship can come from friends, non-parental family members, mentors and teachers, or can even happen in professional settings where someone takes on a nurturing role.
If you have experienced a close relationship where someone has given you emotional support or guidance and advice, who has taught you or nurtured you, then you are most fortunate, for you have received the nurturing and kindness that is mothering.
Mimi Matthews is in the “encouragement business” as the owner of Empowordment Cards by Mimi. She is also a speaker, workshop leader, writer, and our editor. Visit her shop at www.etsy.com/shop/EmPOWordmentCards and her blog at www.particularpassions.me.
From Starting Over to Standing Out
The Beauty of Becoming Who You Were Always Meant to Be
By the time I turned forty-three, I had already accomplished what some might consider a lifetime's worth of achievements. Yet, I found myself just getting started.
My journey hasn't been a straight line. When I earned my MBA online from overseas and became a member of the Honor Society, I felt like I was finally on track to realize my dreams. However, as I began applying to universities and employers I quickly learned that most required U.S.-based graduate credentials, and I started to uncover unexpected barriers I hadn’t anticipated. Due to degree stipulations and credit transfer complications, I had to start over and pursue an American bachelor’s degree. That moment could have been a stopping point. But instead, it was a spark.
In 2023, I created my bucket list. Not the kind filled with vague "someday" ideas, but a clear, purpose-driven list of goals that lit my soul on fire. At the top of that list: finishing my education in the U.S., becoming an author, and writing for a magazine. Today, I can proudly say I’ve crossed off all three.
Education topped my list, but my vision extends beyond academics. I still plan to travel to Europe and Asia, not just for the scenery but to soak in the cultures that have long fascinated me. I dream of being published in a psychology journal, contributing meaningful research to a field that drives my passion. I envision myself as an adjunct professor at an R1(First in Research) university, teaching future scholars the very lessons that shaped my own journey. I aspire to design programs for major hospitals in at least three states, building systems that truly help communities thrive. And one day, I want to take the stage to deliver a TED Talk, sharing my story and motivating others to chase their dreams fearlessly.
Creating a bucket list gave my goals structure and life. But more importantly, it reminded me that I am allowed to dream—boldly, wildly, and unapologetically.
"Your dreams don’t have an age limit. Your vision doesn’t expire."
I’ve been blessed to have been published six times as an author, each piece representing a step in reclaiming my voice and discussing topics that matter and are deeply important to me. I’ve contributed articles to Women2Women Michigan magazine and Real Women of Atlanta, sharing real-life experiences that empower and inspire other women. In November of 2024, I had the honor of being the cover girl for Women2Women Michigan magazine—an unforgettable milestone that reminded me how far I’ve come.
I completed my bachelor’s degree in psychology with a 4.0 GPA and was granted early admission into a Ph.D. program in forensic psychology directly from my undergraduate program. It hasn’t been easy. Balancing work, life, and school takes sacrifice. But when your vision is clear, the "how" becomes less daunting. I’ll be forty-four years old this month, and every year has taught me that success has no deadline. There is no expiration date on ambition, purpose, or dreams.
To every woman reading this: If you’re wondering whether it’s too late to chase that dream, launch that project, or go back to school—I’m here to tell you it’s not. Your dreams don’t have an age limit. Your vision doesn’t expire. Whether you’re twenty-four or fifty-four, the moment you decide to believe in yourself is the moment things start to shift. All it takes is the courage to write it down, say it aloud, and take the first step.
So go ahead—create your list. Dream bigger than you ever have. You might be surprised how many checkmarks you collect along the way. And remember: the best time to start is now!
Lynn Nicole Turner is a seasoned mental health professional with 20+ years of experience. Specializing in suicide prevention and high acuity patients, she is a trusted counselor, addiction treatment specialist, and certified life coach. Lynn's dedication extends to mentoring young women and advocating for the vulnerable in mental health. www.linkedin.com/in/lynnnturner
Creating a Vision Law of Attraction Style law of attraction
In Franklin D Roosevelt’s 1933 inaugural address he said, “There is nothing to fear but fear itself.”
I read this long before I was introduced to the Law of Attraction (LoA) so it really didn't have a lot of meaning to me because up until 2004, a big portion of my life was spent creating visions where I made choices and decisions based upon what other people said I needed to do to be successful.
Suddenly I was up for the challenge. For the next three years I set out to prove the LoA to myself. I selected various visions for my business and for my personal life. I kept practicing and observing myself as I manifested things I did and did not want. Finally, I began to understand how to consistently and effectively use the LoA to benefit me. I used to think I was a victim of bad luck, good luck, or potluck. What helped me turn the corner and move
away from these disempowering old habits of thought was that I now held myself accountable for creating all my experiences, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Several years later I wrote a book in 2017 explaining how I turned this corner. Www.steppingintoalifeofjoy.com.
After fully embracing the concept that I created my own reality, creating a vision for my future became much more fun and enjoyable. Every New Year's Eve I
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The Women2Women Michigan team was proud to sponsor and attend the Flint Women’s Forum Celebration of Women in April. We enjoyed connecting with inspiring leaders, hearing from a dynamic speaker, and deepening community ties. Events like these are powerful reminders that growth, impact, and sisterhood thrive when we gather.
Flint Women's Forum Luncheon GISD Youth Pitch Competition
The Genesee Intermediate School District (GISD) Youth Entrepreneurship program, led by Kim Dehmel, Youth Entrepreneurship Coordinator, had its culminating event, the Final Pitch Competition, on April 24, 2025. The top 10 students/teams from Genesee County High Schools pitched their business ideas to an audience of approximately 155 people. A panel of five judges, including Women 2 Women's Publisher, Debra Collins, voted and revealed the winners.
The first-place winner, Kassidy Muldrew, pitched a business where dolls will be sold with an experiment to encourage girls to go into the Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM) fields. Kassidy received a $2000 check and will go on to compete in a National Competition in NYC in the fall, which is fully sponsored by Network for Teaching Entrepreneurship (NFTE), an organization that also provides the curriculum to the students to learn about becoming entrepreneurs. Total student prize winnings at the event were over $8000.
Trice Berlinski, Executive Assistant at Women 2 Women Magazine, announced that Patrice Howard, a home-schooled 10th-grade student, with a business called Understand the Brand, will be featured in our Summer Issue, as a young woman leader upcycling clothing and already making a presence at fashion shows in Flint, Detroit, and New York City. Patrice took 4th place in last year's Final Pitch Competition and had a booth this year, along with several other students, selling their products. She is also one of many students selling at the Flint Farmers Market each month. Saturday, May 10th, is the last date to find Patrice and the others for this school year.
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Mushroomcoffee is a burgeoning trend in the health and wellness sector, lauded for its potential benefits and intriguing flavor profiles. Unlike traditional coffee, mushroom coffee blends typically combine ground coffee beans with powdered medicinal mushrooms like Reishi, Chaga, or Lion's Mane, offering a unique twist on the classic morning brew.
For those like Andrea Tinsman, who are seeking healthier alternatives to traditional coffee, mushroom coffee represents more than just a trend; it's a lifestyle choice. Her journey into the world of fungi-infused beverages is not only about personal wellness but also about educating others on the benefits of clean, natural ingredients.
Andrea was born and raised in Holly, Michigan, known for its charming Main Street and historical allure. In 2019 she was 23 years old, recently graduated from college with a degree in interior design, a good job in corporate America, working on her master’s degree in architecture. She was also desperately unhappy. She was working 80 hours a week getting paid for 40, struggling with working in a very maledominated industry and trying to navigate an increasingly abusive relationship with her boyfriend. Just as COVID19 began to impact the world, Andrea had had enough. She boldly took a deep breath, and jumped from the cliff that had become her life into the great unknown, to pursue a heartfelt
mission rooted in the healing power of nature.
The catalyst for the unexpected turn in her journey was when she discovered the healing potential of medicinal mushrooms. Struggling with anxiety and depression, these little forest dwellers became her savior and sparked a deep fascination with fungi! It wasn't long before she began experimenting with growing her own mushrooms and crafting unique blends as alternatives to traditional coffee. Little did she know, her newfound passion was not merely a hobby; it was a calling that would reshape her life.
Initially she was just trying to find healthy alternatives to coffee because she didn’t want the caffeine adding to her anxiety. She’d always had a passion for clean, healthy eating. Most chain coffee shops use cheap, artificial ingredients, gums and fillers in their products which can impact one’s physical and mental health. Armed with her creations, and encouraged by her friends and family, Andrea decided to share her blends with the world, starting at local farmers markets and pop-up events. The response was overwhelmingly positive, and she quickly realized the potential for something greater.
Andrea isn’t the first entrepreneur in her family. Her great, great, great grandfather Charles Tinsman was one of the founding fathers of Holly in 1865, and her grandfather owned an ice cream shop
just around the corner, next to Ethos Yoga which is now owned by her older sister Randie! Her family is so deeply embedded in the history of Holly that they have a road named after them!
In 2023, with her sister by her side, Andrea opened Tinsman’s Farm Apothecary, dedicated to clean, healthy food and natural remedies. Starting a business is a big deal for anyone, but at 27 it’s HUGE, so it took a bit of time for her to find her feet and allow her funky, fun-loving disposition to shine through. In her own words, “I guess I’ve always been the sort of person who doesn’t do things I don’t want to do. If I feel like something is not working, I’m not afraid to burn it to the ground and start over, which I think is an important quality to have as a small business owner.”
In 2024, Andrea decided to rebrand their venture as Funky Fungi Tea House, a vibrant and welcoming space dedicated to all things fungi. Despite having no formal business degree, Andrea's passion for creating clean alternatives and educating people on the hidden ingredients, was stronger than her fear of failure. She has embraced the turbulence of being a small business owner head-on, learning the intricacies of running a business on the go. Her journey is marked by trial and error, but her resilience and willingness to pivot has allowed her to navigate obstacles with grace.
Sometimes Failed Plans Are a Blessing!
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
~Jeremiah 29:11
Sometimes failed plans are a blessing. Especially since we live in a world where “appearing successful” is encouraged and desired. Nobody wants to be seen as the person with the imperfect life.
“Trendy Christianity” teaches us that God wants us to accomplish all our goals, make all the money we can, live a lavish life and that any opposition or resistance to our plans is not God.
It’s the belief that we write our own story and we just “plug God in” where he fits. The God of trendy Christianity doesn’t make plans, he furthers our personal agendas. This is bad theology.
From one person who has failed (so many times and miserably too) to another…there is a BLESSING IN FAILED PLANS.
The God of the Bible (and not of social media) has plans to prosper us, not harm us, and to give us hope and a bright future! (Jeremiah 29:11). We may not know what all His plans consist of, but we should know that whatever they are, they’re GOOD. Sometimes we jump in the driver’s seat of our own lives, and we take the position of “author” instead of being diligent followers. We want to control our own destiny, and we can go ahead of God. What may appear to be a path to sure success can actually be a path to our own self-destruction.
God loves us. Instead of allowing our own will to destroy us he jumps in front of our plans and blocks it. And
even though our heart may really want it, he will allow us to fail.
Failure teaches us one of the most loving things about God: HE IS SOVEREIGN. He will do whatever he must to protect you from danger. He won’t allow anything (not even you) to destroy the great plan he has for you. God will use that failed plan as a stepping stone to fulfill His amazing plan for you. Even when we mess up, his plans never change.
He will allow what should’ve destroyed you to build you for the next place he wants to take you! Although failing is hard, it’s one of the best things that can happen for you if you allow it to be. So, cheers to things not going your way. God is up to something amazing girl!
Brittany Willingham is an alumni of U of M-Flint and Grace Christian University where she obtained her Master’s degree in Ministry. Most recently, Brittany has been appointed as Associate Pastor of People of Christ Ministries (Flint). She has an undeniable call to serve women, which inspired her to found, "Dear Sis Ministries", which ministers to and mentors over 3K women in the areas of identity, purpose, womanhood, singleness and sisterhood. Brittany has authored two books: "Dear Single Sis" and "Dear Sis: 101" as devotional tools for women to survive their journey and strengthen their walk with God. More info at www.facebook. com/groups/Dearsisministries.
The “Nudge” of Purpose
Sometimes we don’t even realize we have a dream or purpose. But when we experience “nudges”, whatever their source, if we don’t follow them we may miss out on something truly amazing!
I’m sharing this story because March 2025 marked its five-year anniversary. I am still in awe of the whole experience.
In March of 2020 (yes, the year that was!), while I was praying about the COVID-19 virus that was overtaking our country and the world, I felt led to start praying for unborn babies and the mamas who carried them. I posted on Facebook what I was doing; asking my friends to please let me know if they knew of anyone who was pregnant. Well, they did, and that list grew to 165 names!
Things got a bit crazy so to keep things straight I made a spreadsheet with the mom’s name, due date, and then delivery dates and baby names. Many of my friends joined me in praying for these precious babies and their mamas. When a baby (or babies—we had four sets of twins and one set of triplets) was born, I announced their birth and what number they were on Facebook and everyone rejoiced.
The miracle: all were born healthy without either the mama or the baby contracting Covid!
And here is what else happened (God does not waste an opportunity!), as shared by those in the #prayingforthebabies community:
• Primarily, it brought us together as a community, creating a connection
between us during one of the most isolating, chaotic, and fearful of times.
• “Warrior Women” all across Facebook united to pray for and support these babies.
• We focused on others, not on the virus, and on something positive, rather than the negativity around us.
• We were being reminded daily that there are “others” out there and we are not alone.
• Doing this gave us hope, and it was wonderful to focus on new life.
• And it helped our own spirit to pray for someone else, to have a purpose.
I was not naïve, knowing that even in the best of circumstances sometimes babies are born with problems, and there were a few non-Covid-related ones. But in faith we prayed that these babies would be healthy, that they would be protected from the virus, that their mamas would feel peace and calm, that all of their physical needs would be met, and that there would be joy in the home and family.
The first birth was in March and they extended through September, at which point I wasn’t given any more names. These babies are four-and-five-years old now!!
It was truly an honor to do this and, thankfully, I had the time while sequestered at home. I am encouraging you to follow those nudges which may lead to a fulfilling purpose. If I had not, I would have missed out on this incredible experience.
Here are a few “praise report” posts:
Zoe, born five weeks early, in an ambulance, during a pandemic. Now that’s a miracle! #91
Precious Leena is here! This is the breech baby we prayed for. God is good. #102
Please pray for mama Ashlie and her baby who were in a car accident. Update: both are fine!
A mama I’m praying for was exposed to Covid. Six co-workers tested positive—but not her!
Triplets! Welcome miracles #75 boy, #76 boy, and #77 girl to our world.
If you’d like to read the posts on Facebook just search #prayingforthebabies.
Mimi Matthews is in the “encouragement business” as the owner of Empowordment Cards by Mimi. She is also a speaker, workshop leader, writer, and our editor. Visit her shop at www.etsy.com/shop/ EmPOWordmentCards and her blog at www.particularpassions.me.
What If Time Isn’t the Problem?
It’s wild to think that we have the same 24 hours as Oprah, Mr. Beast, and LeBron James. It feels like they must have more time than the rest of us, but they don’t. Time is one of the few things in life that’s truly equal—no one gets extra, and no one can buy more.
Still, most people I know are always sprinting: school drop-offs, long workdays, dinner, dishes, practices, home projects… repeat. I see it in my clients, my friends, and sometimes in myself. We’re trained from a young age to keep moving—school, homework, dance class, bath, bed. Then we grow up and keep running, without ever stopping to ask: Is this how I want to spend my time?
We’re told that slowing down is indulgent, or worse, lazy. But the truth is, being constantly busy doesn’t always mean we’re doing what matters. In fact, it can distract us from the things that actually make life meaningful. Some tasks can’t be skipped (if only I could pay somebody to go to the dentist for me), but not everything deserves a place on the schedule.
These days, I have a business, home school my son, take a course, and coordinate a women’s group. I’m busy—but I’m learning how powerful it is to focus my energy on what truly matters. I’m still
refining and readjusting, but I’ve started cutting out the things that don’t bring connection, joy, love, or purpose.
I’m learning to live life by my values, and to make the changes needed to see those values reflected in my day-to-day. It's not a one-time shift—it’s a practice. But I believe we can all get there, one intentional choice at a time.
We can retrain ourselves. We once learned to thrive on hustle. What if we taught ourselves—and our kids—that time is our most valuable asset?
This isn’t about doing less. It’s about choosing better. Creating space for reflection. Living with intention. And building lives that feel full in the ways that matter most.
So, what will you choose to spend your time on today?
Jennifer Beard, owner of Bold Life & Bold Life Academy, guides individuals through transformative shifts in behavior, beliefs, and emotions, unlocking the path to their most extraordinary lives. Visit Jennifer at JenniferBeard. com.
Your Subtle Voice Being Felt, Not Just Heard
When we think about authenticity, unique expression, and “finding our voice,” we often picture something bold. Something loud. Something big and visible— like speaking our truth publicly, sharing art with the world, launching a mission.
But what if authenticity can be incredibly subtle? What if it’s not even heard, but simply felt?
I’ve come to believe that we can have a profound impact on others even when we are quiet. Even when we are still. If we can find peace and calm within ourselves, that quality can ripple out into the spaces and people around us. If we can cultivate joy in our own lives, I’ve found that this helps others access their own joy, too. Not through effort, but through resonance.
What if finding our authentic expression doesn’t begin with a megaphone—but with a tuning fork?
THE FREQUENCY OF AUTHENTICITY
I see voice now not only as the words we speak, but as the energy we carry. We’re always transmitting something—our emotional tone, our nervous system state, our embodiment of truth (or lack thereof). I’ve found that being deeply present and real within myself—acknowledging both the light and the shadow—is a form of voice. It’s how I communicate to the world: “This is me. I’m here.”
Our voice doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful. We all know the phrase actions speak louder than words—but I would say that also energy speaks louder than words.
We are energetic beings, each resonating at a specific frequency. And just like a tuning fork can bring an instrument into harmony, I’ve found that the frequency I hold—especially when I’m truly being myself—can activate something in others. Not to change or fix them, but simply to remind them of their own authentic self. Their own truth.
ENERGETIC LANGUAGE AND INVISIBLE INFLUENCE
There is a subtle energetic exchange always happening between people. It’s quieter than body language, deeper than tone of voice. Some might even call it telepathy. You’ve probably felt it before—walking into a room and instantly sensing the energy, or feeling soothed just by being near someone grounded and calm. It’s the same reason why we feel more at ease in nature. Trees don’t speak, but they emanate something ancient, grounded, and pure. Sit with one and feel yourself attune.
In my work holding space for others in healing sessions, I don’t think of myself as “doing” something to them. I see myself as holding a frequency. I’m not here to guide, push, or mold— but to inspire. I sit in my own authentic frequency so that others feel safe to sit in theirs. My presence becomes a gentle invitation, a mirror, and the permission to be themselves.
THE WORK OF JUST BEING
There’s a term in New Age and metaphysical circles called grid work—it refers to the act of showing up in a place to do energetic work or realignment on a specific location. I never set out to do this, but being somewhat nomadic, I’ve started to notice a pattern. I feel called to certain places with no clear reason why. And once I’m there, I discover that what I thought I was there to do… wasn’t the point at all.
I’ve had multiple experiences over the past year where my presence alone seemed to shift something. It offered lessons, both for myself and those around me. It reminded me that we don’t live in isolation. Whether we speak or not, whether we intend it or not, we influence each other deeply. We are each part of an energetic ecosystem. The way we show up matters.
LETTING EMBODIMENT SPEAK
So maybe “finding your voice” doesn’t always look like writing a book, taking the mic, or launching a brand. Maybe it starts with doing the inner work. With becoming intimate with ourselves. With honoring our wounds, claiming our joy, and radiating from that grounded, truthful place.
Maybe your voice is in how you walk into a room. In how you breathe when someone else is losing it. In the way your presence makes others feel safe to be more of themselves.
We are not only here to speak—we are here to resonate.
So let your calm be contagious. Let your joy be felt. Let your stillness shift a room. Let your voice ring out in the most invisible, miraculous ways.
You don’t always have to be loud. You just have to be you
Joy Dettling of Ignite Life specializes in helping individuals release unseen stuck stress patterns and embody their true potential. To find out more, visit ignitelife.net or contact joy@ ignitelife.net.
Book Club Classics Books that Change You
Braiding Sweetgrass
Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants
by Robin Wall Kimmer
As a botanist and professor of plant ecology, Robin Wall Kimmerer has spent a career learning how to ask questions of nature using the tools of science. As a Potawatomi woman, she learned from elders, family, and history that the Potawatomi, as well as a majority of other cultures indigenous to this land, consider plants and animals to be our oldest teachers. In Braiding Sweetgrass, Kimmerer brings these two lenses of knowing together to reveal what it means to see humans as "the younger brothers of creation." As she explores these themes, she circles toward a central argument: The awakening of a wider ecological consciousness requires the acknowledgement and celebration of our reciprocal relationship with the world. Once we begin to listen for the languages of other beings, we can begin to understand the innumerable life-giving gifts the world provides us and learn to offer our thanks, our care, and our own gifts in return.
world is the foundation for protecting it. When we have an embodied sense of the interconnectedness of all life, stewardship comes naturally.”
The organizers had no idea how many people would come or how their message would be received but there was an intense need to do something, so they started making phone calls and sending emails, and in a matter of days they had speakers, vendors, donors, and volunteers. It came together with an ease that made them certain they were on the right track!
From herbalism to mushrooms, hunting to headwaters, they brought together people doing interesting and inspirational things! The event culminated in a community meditation, led by Darcel Hawkins, and a drum circle facilitated by StrongHeart DrumMedicine. It was a free event, so there was no official head count, but the group estimated between 200-300 people attended! They gave away 360 tree saplings, and other seedlings, and collected $1200 in donations for 3 local non-profits doing great things in nature!
as though we were all remembering something ancient and essential together. Each speaker carried a voice of truth, offering stories, wisdom, and medicine that lingered long after the words had been spoken. The entire day felt like a living prayer—beautiful, powerful, and deeply needed.”
The group is determined to keep it a free, annual event. “It is not scientific statistics, protesting, or pointing the finger that is going to shift the scale when it comes to the degradation of our biosphere,” said Bowler, “Rather it is remembering our rightful place as human beings on this earth and creating kinship with all life.”
“There was an unmistakable sacredness to the day—like the earth herself was part of the gathering, listening, responding, holding us,” said Jamie McNeill, “To volunteer at this Earth Day event, surrounded by some of my dearest friends, was more than an act of service—it felt like a homecoming. The unity was palpable; a weaving together of hearts, hands, and hopes. I was continually moved by the joy on people’s faces as we offered them free plants—tiny, rooted blessings that carried so much more than soil. The gratitude that poured from the community was humbling,
In a world facing unprecedented environmental challenges, events like this serve as vital reminders that our actions matter. Each of us has the power to make a difference, whether through advocacy, sustainable choices, or community engagement.
When we gather to celebrate Earth Day, let us leave with a renewed sense of purpose and a commitment to protect the natural world we all cherish. Together, we can inspire a wave of change that honors the beauty of our planet and secures its future for generations to come.
Kellie has a BA in Journalism with a focus in Marketing. She has been a freelance writer and designer since 2011. With seven years experience in marketing in the non-profit sector. Her passion lies in the transformative power of storytelling, art, sound and nature. She also curates immersive mediation experiences.
called to create
Manifesting the Canal Street Little Free Library
Have you ever marveled at the fact that everything surrounding us—from the chair you're sitting on to this very magazine you’re reading—began as an idea in someone’s mind? The incredible ability we all possess to breathe life into thoughts and transform them into tangible realities never ceases to captivate me.
My late husband, a master manifester himself, shared a piece of wisdom: don’t stress about crafting a detailed plan to manifest your desires. Simply take the next logical step, trusting that today’s actions will reveal tomorrow’s path.
►SERENDIPITOUS ENCOUNTER
Six days later, while exploring a new neighborhood with a friend, an unexpected detour led us to the first Little Free Library I’d ever seen. Discovering it felt like pure magic, as if fate was nudging me forward.
I applied this philosophy to a deeply meaningful project: creating a Little Free Library in honor of my late mom. Without a detailed master plan or pressing timelines, I simply embraced each logical step as it naturally unfolded. Unlike other endeavors, this journey seemed to blossom with serendipity and a touch of pure magic, imparting invaluable lessons about trust and courageous action. As you delve into my story, I hope it inspires you to harness this approach, transforming your dreams into tangible realities with a sprinkle of magic, one step at a time.
A SEED IS PLANTED
My first introduction to the Little Free Library movement came from a magazine article about Todd Bol, who built the inaugural little library to honor his late mother. The idea resonated deeply with me— "What a perfect tribute!" I thought. At the time, I was deeply immersed in the care of my elderly parents, and the thought faded quickly. Yet, unbeknownst to me, a tiny seed had been planted.
◄Two years later, during my parents' estate sale, a brief encounter caused this idea to blossom. Watching family treasures depart in the hands of strangers left me emotionally drained. In the midst of the chaos, a young man, captivated by my mom’s spiritual books, remarked, "Wouldn't it be wonderful to share your mom's books with people who would truly appreciate them?" Instantly, the vision of a Little Free Library re-emerged.
►PIECES OF THE PUZZLE FALL INTO PLACE
While premade libraries are available on http:// LittleFreeLibrary. org, I aimed for something unique using repurposed materials. Pinterest offered ideas galore, igniting my creativity. Then it struck me—a cabinet I had saved from the landfill 2-years prior was perfect for this project!
▲HELP ARRIVES
Learning about my unfolding library project, a friend suggested I contact her husband, a Boy Scout Master. Through him, I met a young scout in need of an Eagle project. Our first planning session inspired him to build eight Little Free Libraries in total all from repurposed cabinets.
BRINGING THE VISION TO LIFE
Throughout the following year, the scout diligently weather-proofed the cabinets and fitted the doors with plexiglass to allow passersby to easily glimpse the library's enchanting contents.
My library’s arrival was a joyous milestone. It marked a young man’s Eagle Scout achievement, provided our neighborhood with a vibrant community hub, and honored my mother’s love for reading. Meanwhile, the seven other libraries found homes across Detroit after a Facebook contest.
►A NEW PURPOSE
Before installation, the library was painted in bright colors reflecting my mom's vibrant soul. As soon as the paint dried, my co-librarian, 9-year-old Chloe, eagerly stocked it with gathered books, including cherished ones from my mom’s collection.
◄MANIFESTING 101
Chloe envisioned a reading bench, so we set an intention to manifest one. The very next evening, as if by magic, a wooden bench appeared curbside near my childhood home! In the following days, my neighbors stepped up to refurbish and paint it to match the library, adding charm and community spirit to our gathering spot.
►COMMUNITY JOY
The morning after the bench was installed, Chloe eagerly settled into her new favorite spot, a comforting reminder of the magic of manifesting.
◄She was often found reading to her little sister.
