From Starting Over to Standing Out

The Beauty of Becoming Who You Were Always Meant to Be

By the time I turned forty-three, I had already accomplished what some might consider a lifetime's worth of achievements. Yet, I found myself just getting started.

My journey hasn't been a straight line. When I earned my MBA online from overseas and became a member of the Honor Society, I felt like I was finally on track to realize my dreams. However, as I began applying to universities and employers I quickly learned that most required U.S.-based graduate credentials, and I started to uncover unexpected barriers I hadn’t anticipated. Due to degree stipulations and credit transfer complications, I had to start over and pursue an American bachelor’s degree. That moment could have been a stopping point. But instead, it was a spark.

In 2023, I created my bucket list. Not the kind filled with vague "someday" ideas, but a clear, purpose-driven list of goals that lit my soul on fire. At the top of that list: finishing my education in the U.S., becoming an author, and writing for a magazine. Today, I can proudly say I’ve crossed off all three.

I’ve been blessed to have been published six times as an author, each piece representing a step in reclaiming my voice and discussing topics that matter and are deeply important to me. I’ve contributed articles to Women2Women Michigan magazine and Real Women of Atlanta, sharing real-life experiences that empower and inspire other women. In November of 2024, I had the honor of being the cover girl for Women2Women Michigan magazine—an unforgettable milestone that reminded me how far I’ve come.

I completed my bachelor’s degree in psychology with a 4.0 GPA and was granted early admission into a Ph.D. program in forensic psychology directly from my undergraduate program. It hasn’t been easy. Balancing work, life, and school takes sacrifice. But when your vision is clear, the "how" becomes less daunting. I’ll be forty-four years old this month, and every year has taught me that success has no deadline. There is no expiration date on ambition, purpose, or dreams.

Education topped my list, but my vision extends beyond academics. I still plan to travel to Europe and Asia, not just for the scenery but to soak in the cultures that have long fascinated me. I dream of being published in a psychology journal, contributing meaningful research to a field that drives my passion. I envision myself as an adjunct professor at an R1(First in Research) university, teaching future scholars the very lessons that shaped my own journey. I aspire to design programs for major hospitals in at least three states, building systems that truly help communities thrive. And one day, I want to take the stage to deliver a TED Talk, sharing my story and motivating others to chase their dreams fearlessly.

Creating a bucket list gave my goals structure and life. But more importantly, it reminded me that I am allowed to dream—boldly, wildly, and unapologetically.

To every woman reading this: If you’re wondering whether it’s too late to chase that dream, launch that project, or go back to school—I’m here to tell you it’s not. Your dreams don’t have an age limit. Your vision doesn’t expire. Whether you’re twenty-four or fifty-four, the moment you decide to believe in yourself is the moment things start to shift. All it takes is the courage to write it down, say it aloud, and take the first step.

So go ahead—create your list. Dream bigger than you ever have. You might be surprised how many checkmarks you collect along the way. And remember: the best time to start is now!

Lynn Nicole Turner is a seasoned mental health professional with 20+ years of experience. Specializing in suicide prevention and high acuity patients, she is a trusted counselor, addiction treatment specialist, and certified life coach. Lynn's dedication extends to mentoring young women and advocating for the vulnerable in mental health.

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