TUTUM summer 2022 • issue 6 • womanhood
Journal
Where Childless Women Come First
Rekindling Your Sex Life
After Infertility
Staying Healthy
After 50
Detaching Womanhood
RISA LEVINE
From Motherhood PLUS
Escape To
Adults-Only Destinations
A Legacy Of
Law & Infertility Rights tutumjournal.com
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WOMAN
Cover Photo: LENA DI • Makeup & Styling: JOSE PARRON
CONTENTS
Copywriter and prose poet Sandy Deringer’s densely layered poetry depicts what it is to be a woman.
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5 Steps To Detach Womanhood From Motherhood
Mindfulness coach Sheri Johnson breaks down five ways to cultivate your self-worth.
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Reflections Of A Barren Wife
Podcaster BonnieRuth Rolf shares introspective advice for the infertile wife.
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How I Reframed Womanhood
Cover Story
Yoga teacher and women's health mentor Veronica Santini shares how yoga saved her from premature ovarian insufficiency.
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Inspirational advocate and real estate lawyer Risa Levine opens up about fighting for infertility rights and access to care, by Charlie Bishop.
Unapologetically Me: Woman In The Black Hijab
Coach Aisha Balesaria unpacks her experience as an infertile Muslim woman living with chronic illnesses.
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CONTRIBUTORS Page 5
EDITOR’S REFLECTION Page 18
I Don’t Need To Be A Mother To… Activist Míriam Aguilar shares a poem on life purpose and value as a non-mother.
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Peace In Uncertainty Christian writer Briea Peace shares a transparent poem about her journey on peace to come.
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Are You There Uterus (Aka Ruth)? It's Me Stephanie… Again Poet and writer Stephanie Keesey-Phelan shares a candid poem about contemplating a hysterectomy.
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Let’s Talk About Sex… And Childlessness Blogger Brandi Lytle interviews seven women and three men from varied paths to childlessness on their sex lives.
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8 Strategies To Get Out Of A Rut Worksheet
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TUTUM SURVEY Readers reveal what they think about key subjects relevant to the childless community.
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RESEARCH IN PROGRESS Reflects our global reach, demonstrating the full scope of lived experiences through primary research.
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GAME CHANGER Spotlighting the achievements of trailblazing childless/childfree women.
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MEDICAL AWAKENING Examines medical conditions and relevant information of interest to childless/childfree women.
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NAVIGATING AGING Explores topics, gaining new perspectives, advice, and relevant information associated with women aging without children.
Tips that will help you along the path to get unstuck in your life.
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BUILDING BRIDGES
My Thoughts Create My Reality
A Q&A with industry experts that tackle wide-reaching issues that affect and strengthen the childless community.
Affirmation reflections on reprogramming your mindset and thinking pattern. VOLUME 2, ISSUE 6, Tutum Journal™ (ISSN 2766-9580) is published quarterly by Tutum Global. For more information about Tutum Journal, please visit us at www.tutumjournal.com, or email us at info@tutumjournal.com. www.tutumjournal.com
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