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December 2013 • Phoenix Metro

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Seniors, beware, please, please, please. I was desperate after my husband passed away in the early part of this year. I needed money and I had some foreign coins. This collection of coins was personally gathered in trips to Europe. I had a list of value dated years ago beginning at $59 for just a couple or them. I called a number of a group that was presenting how they would help people give them money for the gold, for their silver at a local community. They said they didn’t have any schedule appearances, but they would be happy to come to my house. They came to the house and gave me $29 and took all of my silver. I was so stupid. I accepted it. Be careful. Be careful. I really love it how I buy three certificates for the “supreme” car wash at a local car wash chain, which has a value of $25 each, thinking that would pretty much include everything because I hate going to car wash places and being pressured into buying “extras.” Of course it

couldn’t be that easy! Once again I go in there with my $25 certificate for the “supreme” and the guy is once again trying to upsell me on more crap! You would think $25 would get you a decent car wash! I’m just going to start doing it at home or just take my chance at the ones where you just drive through because honestly there’s not much difference. I took one car to the auto $3 wash and the other one for the “supreme” wash and, besides a few small water spots and having to vacuum the interior myself, on the $3 wash there’s not much difference! To Drew Alexander: Another breathless doomsday scenario that amounts to nothing more than your usual clichéd jab at Democrats and the president. Drew, when you make statements based on notes cribbed from Fox Network (Official Propaganda Arm of the Republi-Tea Party), you look foolish. Better to put down the notebook and keep your eyes glued to Megyn Kelly’s bare knees. For a real analysis of the debt from a true expert with an uncanny track record of economic prescience, Google Paul Krugman, the Princeton University economics professor and columnist for the New York Times. His

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he pitch black sky above the majestic white castle was shattered by wild streaks of lightning and earsplitting thundercrclaps. Inside, mad scientist Baron Barry von Obamastein stared anxiously down at the carcass of a dead tree; he had taken those parts processed into paper and stitched them together into sections that were now lying inertly before him in a completed massive body of work. His daring experiment was called Barry’s Invention for a Long and Lasting Life or “Bill” for short. Attaching 20,000 pieces of the operating rules manual to the main corpus, Bill would stand 7 feet tall when activated. “We will help you bring it to life, master,” said Obamastein’s assistants,

Harry and Nanny. “With a big dose of Demovote, your creation will become a living, breathing thing throughout the land.” “This will be my signature achievement,” grinned Obamastein, rubbing his hands together. “Generations will praise my name for giving them the secret to a longlasting, perfectly healthy life.” “Yes, master,” said Harry, bowing. “Your legacy will be the greatest of any mad scientist the world has ever known.” “Do it now, Harry and Nanny, give it the Demovote,” ordered Obamastein. Hunched over Bill, the threesome watched as the powerful injection of Demovote took effect. Bill twitched, then moved on the table, straightening out its spine and standing up.

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“It’s alive! It’s alive!” shouted Obamastein. He was so proud of his creation that he took pen and ink and affixed his signature to a part of its body. When the townspeople heard of the conception of Bill, some cheered it as a supreme triumph. Others, however, were skeptical that Bill would perform as promised. “Bill will revolutionize the way life extension is delivered and will cost you less than previous entities,” said Obamastein in the town square. “But if you like the entity you have, you can keep it, period. If you like your mad scientist, you can keep your mad scientist, period.” For a time, much of the populace embraced Obamastein’s seemingly perfect innovation. But they soon became disenchanted, fearful and angry when Bill began bullying the townspeople with heavy-handed rules and forcing them to pay huge amounts to sustain it. Bill was rejected by many of the town’s merchants who lowered the work hours of their employees in

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order to avoid the stifling costs of supporting Bill’s existence. Moreover, the promised option that folks could keep their former entity and their mad scientist proved to be false. Out in public, Bill faltered badly, its various ill-fitting parts making it nearly impossible for anyone to have access to the monstrous Barry’s Invention for a Long and Lasting Life. Entrenched in his castle, Obamastein saw torch-bearing townspeople storming the gates, shouting and demanding that Bill be eradicated. “The fools, they just can’t accept that I know what’s best for them,” Obamastein said to his assistants. But Harry and Nanny were not there. They had run out the back door of the castle and disappeared into the night. Drew Alexander, also known as “The Curmudgeon,” is a monthly columnist writing about political issues. Send comments to or to Drew Alexander, in care of Lovin’ Life After 50, 3200 N. Hayden Road, Suite 210, Scottsdale, AZ 85251.

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’ll never forget my Mother’s screams that Christmas Eve. We’d all adjourned—as good children do—to our beds after “The Andy Williams Christmas Special.” But like most little boys, I was less interested in visions of sugarplums and more interested in catching Santa in the act. On previous Christmas Eves my parents, upon finding my bed empty, would search the house and fish their sleeping child out of whatever nook, high shelf or litter box I’d chosen for a stakeout. So this year, I had stuffed my blankets with enough clothes to resemble a silhouette of my seven-year old self. I topped it with a football, under a knit cap, to resemble my head. Then I turned out the light, and hid in a hall closet with a view of our Christmas tree. That’s where I was when my mother cried bloody murder. What we learned was that Mom had seen my adorable sleeping form and entered the dark room to kiss me goodnight. But when my head slid clean off my body and bounced around the room like a well-placed punt, she took it rather hard. Her favorite gift was Pina Coladas that year—a gift she unwrapped frequently, until school was back in session. But she refused to punish me or even be angry. “Everyone has a head this year,” she said. “It’s a good holiday.” This column appears in early December, so by now you’ve seen the whole Thanksgiving-Black-Friday look-at-those-weirdoes-camping-allnight news cycle that is the first strike of the Holiday Season. If you’re Jewish, you’ve doubled-down on Thanksgivukkah, and you’re still looking at a five-week forecast of: mostly commercial with a chance of ulcers. You’re already watching pretentious cologne commercials, thinking, “What does that mean?” and wondering, for the umpteenth time, why the movie “White Christmas” features a minstrel show number. And even though local stations have been playing carols since Labor Day, you feel like the holidays have snuck up on you.

Every year, I find myself facing Christmas the way the Arizona Cardinals face third-and-long: I understand what it is, but I’m not equipped to deal with it, and I just can’t see it coming off well. But time has taught me to adopt my mother’s approach from way-backwhen: cherish the fact that no one got beheaded—and treat anything else as a bonus. A few finer points: • Lower Your Expectations: Like limbo dancing: How Low Can You Go? If this seems defeatist or negative, it’s a heck of a lot healthier than expecting a dramatic bonding moment (only happens on the Hallmark Channel) or a gift-wrapped Lexus (only on Lexus commercials). Remember, if you’ve outgrown footie pajamas, Christmas is not about you. And if you read this and think, “I just need to connect with my inner child again,” let me clarify: • Don’t Try to Be a Child Again: “I want to enjoy the season like a did when I was a child,” a friend used to say, “when the holidays held a sense of mystery and wonder.” Important caveat to remember: you were a child, then. Cardboard boxes held a sense of mystery and wonder. If you want that feeling back, contact your local Toys for Tots Program (www., or work through your church or office to find an actual child, stoke their sense of wonder and bask in the reflected glow. It’s the closest you’ll ever come to crawling back into those short pants. • Don’t Force Joy: Everybody has moments where they just don’t feel festive. For some reason, this becomes a crime around the holidays. We’re supposed to be joyous—or at least look like it. There’s nothing wrong with feeling blue, as long as you’re not an aggressive buzzkill about it. But there’s a clinical term for forced joy. It’s called “resentment.” • Prepare for a Little Stress: It always amuses me when family and

friends get hip-deep in the season and are SHOCKED to discover the holidays are stressful! Let’s look at Christmas’ own playbook, shall we? Charlie Brown’s Christmas pageant failed and his tree died; George Bailey attempted and dodged an embezzlement charge; Ebenezer Scrooge was abducted and tortured by ghosts, and the Who’s of Whoville were all robbed blind. See a pattern? All of these folks came to love the holidays—but none of them had an easy time getting there. • Don’t Compare This Holiday to Previous Holidays: This is like crawling out of bed, getting on Facebook, seeing a friend’s vacation photos and saying: “They have a better life.” It’s not a fair fight. People guild, edit, and airbrush the hell out of their memories. It gives them a fond recollection or two, but the present always suffers in comparison. With that in mind: • Try to Remember Your Terrible Holidays, Too: Here’s a fun exercise to do with the family: every time someone recalls an idyllic moment from holidays past, try to recall a horrific moment from that same year. (The tainted yams, the fight at the nativity scene, the time we lost grandpa at the grocery store, etc.) These stories are not only funnier and more interesting, they make your current holiday better just by contrast. • Let It Be: Is not a holiday song, but

it should be. All of the gift buying, present wrapping and table setting gives you the illusion that the holidays are yours to control. They aren’t. You can’t govern how someone else will react to your present, or appreciate your green bean casserole. So why try? Do your due diligence, then show up with an open mind. The rest is a reality show. • Use Your Peripheral Vision: Here’s the marvelous thing about the holidays as we age: if you dial back your expectations, the holidays still deliver in unexpected ways: the longforgotten ornament you haven’t seen in years; the familiar arguments that you have every year; the corny movie you watch because everyone’s here to watch it with you. These understated blessings don’t jump out and shout at you. But they twinkle on the periphery—yours to quietly observe. And finally: • Take a Headcount: Back to my Mom’s criteria. Look around when your holiday chaos is at its height: is everybody here? Is everybody healthy? Are their heads securely attached? If the answer to all of these is “yes,” then everything else is gravy. For my part, I wish you a very Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Lovely Solstice, Awesome Kwanzaa. Whatever you celebrate, I hope yours rocks. Michael Grady is a Valley-based freelance writer, reporter and playwright. NOW A CCEPTING M EDISUN, SCAN, AVESIS EYEMED, UNITED HEALTH CARE, B LUE CROSS B LUE SHIELD, A ETNA, H EALTHNET AND MANY MORE.

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... from page 6 posted on her public Facebook page oppose various political topics. These a political post clearly Democratic in elected officials have never blocked nature. As a constituent, I responded me and often times have responded to the post. My post was short; did not with their reasons for their stance contain foul language, and was not of further explained. The Constituents a personal nature toward Dalessandro. of LD2 need to be aware that Andrea But it was my opinion, and not in favor Dalessandro will not be receptive to of her political opinion posted. Without hearing their point of view unless it is discussion as to the disagreement in the in agreement with her. I have since met posting, my representative blocked me and will be voting for Chris Ackerley from her page—essentially snuffing in 2014.—Lisa Andrews, Green Valley my First Amendment rights. When contacted by email, Dalessandro failed On commercial television, to acknowledge her wrongdoing but have you noticed sometimes instead said I had posted a political the commercials are better statement to her “legislative page.” It entertainment than the show’s appears she has since removed the so- juvenile-minded production writers, called legislative page thus eliminating who apparently just discovered their the possibility of her constituents to bodies and that magic thing called see her true political views. She does “difference” that must be shown openly continue to have her personal page and often to the equally ignorant which you can ask to be her friend. I viewers where modesty is forbidden? pointed out to Dalessandro that as a That’s interesting. vocal person I have commented via Facebook or Twitter or email to Gov. Mark Oct. 24, 2013, as another Brewer, John McCain, Jeff Flake, Ron day in infamy. The ignorant Barber and Ray Carroll sometimes in have spoken their racial hatred approval of their votes or comments but openly in Congress. As if we didn’t more often than not with opinions that already know. Poor, poor America.

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sell. Bah humbug on them. Run them out of town. At last, all the dirty little secrets are coming out in Washington. It was no secret there were people who just wanted the president to fail. They’ve been fighting for that victor ever since day one—the election. Shame on you, you lousy Americans. Shame on you, you lousy traitors. Give the man the information he needs to succeed and stop undercutting the people that know what they’re trying to be doing correctly. You’re all traitors. Well years ago, many Arizonans mocked former Sen. Sam Steiger’s predictions about the oil problems in the Near East and the electorate Rick Renzi. Well, finally Rick goes to jail, thanks to Sam long, long ago. But Arizona still needs more new bad, old Sam-style predictors. Oh yeah you’ll want to live in America and just work and have a normal life. Well guess what? Learn to speak the English ...continues on page 42

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ear Old Bag: On March 7, 2008, my husband died at age 83. We were married 61 years. We were alone at his death. We have one loving daughter in Alaska with three grown children and grandchildren. We have one deceased daughter and son-in-law with grown sons and grandchildren in Idaho and South Dakota. It’s now been five years since my husband’s death. Our daughter has been to see me for two days. My grandsons never came. I feel it is because I live with my sister and brother-in-law. The daughter does call six nights a week. I feel I have been shunned. It hurts. Please give me your advice. Sincerely, CMF Grand Junction, Colo.


ear CMF: Forgive me for shortening your letter, but hope I got the gist! I feel for you and understand how you feel, having been through some of it myself. I think what you describe is very common. I hear from those who complain about not seeing their children and grandchildren who live in the same city! One thing I know for sure is that families are busy nowadays. Remember when people had time to sit in the porch swing and drink lemonade? Young families today can’t do that. Busy is part of it. The other part of it is that they have no idea how important their visits and messages are to us, and they will not understand it until it happens to them! I am sure it is a factor that you are living with your sister. Visiting there is not the same as visiting you at your home. I believe we have to be happy with what we get. We can either make ourselves unhappy over it, or say, “My daughter calls me six days a week. Isn’t that wonderful?” If you are able, you should visit them. Don’t wait until they invite you. Call them and say, I would like to visit you. What date would work for you?” Signed, O.B. Dear Old Bag: ‘Tis the season, and what do I buy for my well-to-do married children and grandchildren? They have everything! I am ready to say “no more gifts.” Signed, Help!


ear Help: My son put me on to this: He said, “Mom we do not want you to buy any more traditional gifts for us or our kids. We would like you to write something for each. It could be a story of when you were a kid, or an anecdote, or an event, but it would be something from your heart.” One year I wrote them about what their dad was like as a little boy. This is another idea that I like and have mentioned before: Give them something of yours to treasure. Start giving away those things that your kids will have to figure out what to do with after you are gone. They may not treasure it now, but when you are gone, they will be happy to have something you gave them, and they can pass it on to their children. Signed, O.B.


ear Old Bag: Since the giftgiving season is upon us, I would like your help in gift-giving for our grandparents, who I am sure have everything they need. Suggestions, please. Signed, Out of Ideas Dear Out of Ideas: This may seem utilitarian, but I am in favor of talking to them and say, “Gramma, we are going to buy you a gift, but we would feel better if we bought something you wanted. So what would you like?” I personally love gift cards to my favorite book store, restaurant or clothing store. I do not want “things” such as knick knacks that my kids will have to get rid of when I die. When my dad died we found one drawer full of unopened pajamas and another full of unopened shirts. Good luck. Signed, O.B. Dear Readers: This month’s assignment for those who want to show the younger generation how to get along and respect each other: Make one friend who is different from yourself.

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n this busy time of year, it’s tough to focus on money issues. However, some things just can’t wait until January. Here are five things to do in December to take advantage of tax and financial rules to make next year a more prosperous year. Take tax losses As I write this article at the beginning of November, the stock market reached another all-time high last week. It is likely that if you’ve invested in stocks, you have made money this year. However, you may also have some losers in your portfolio. If this is the case, you may want to investigate selling them to offset gains that you have elsewhere in your portfolio. If you like the company and believe that the long-term prospects are good, you can always buy the stock back in January. Just make sure that you wait at least 31 days to avoid the “wash sale” rules. Be True to Your School The Arizona state school tax credits are some of the best deals around. When my son graduated from the New School of Arts and Academics in Tempe (Yes, this is a shameless plug for the school), he asked me to continue to make donations to the school that he attended and loved. For those of you who have grandchildren or want to support a neighborhood school, this is a great way to provide additional funds to a school that you care about. You receive a federal tax deduction (if you itemize) and a direct dollar-fordollar credit on your Arizona state taxes. There are credits for public as well as private schools. Say goodbye to estimated taxes with form W-4V One of the ironies of retired life is that paying your taxes may be more complicated than when you were working. When you were working, you likely had most of your tax liability withheld from your wages and reported on form W-2. When your employer is no longer paying taxes on your behalf, it’s up to you to find

another way to pay your federal taxes. Many CPAs use form 1040-ES, which requires taxpayers to send a quarterly payment to the IRS. This can be time consuming and cumbersome. To avoid this headache, I use the IRS Form W-4V to withhold the annual tax liability from my client’s Social Security payments. To find out if this will work to simplify your life, check with your local Social Security office, your tax preparer, or visit w4v. It doesn’t work for everybody, but many retirees can utilize this method of paying their taxes instead of having to worry about making those pesky estimated tax payments. Make sure that Uncle Sam doesn’t put coal in your stocking next April If you were born before July 1, 1943, and have a 401(k) or IRA account, you are subject to the rules regarding required minimum distributions. The penalties if you don’t take your distribution out are high—50 percent of the distribution that you should have taken. So be sure to get the money out before the end of the year. Keep in mind that some administrators have a Dec. 15 cutoff date for processing payments. Don’t wait till New Year’s Eve to get this done. Also, you may want to investigate setting up automatic required distributions from your account while you’re setting up your required distribution this year. Some providers will automatically calculate and send you your RMD each year. Help Those Less Fortunate This time of year is often the time when people focus on the needs of those less fortunate then themselves. Food banks and shelters are often overwhelmed with merchandise gifts this time of year, but green cash is always welcome. The state of Arizona assists in your philanthropy by allowing you to take a credit for charities that help the working poor. There are many charities that qualify. The complete 13-page list is found at

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National Watercolor Society 2013 Traveling Exhibit and Dick Termes Exhibit, thru Dec. 5, Peoria City Hall Art Gallery, 8401 W. Monroe St., Peoria, free, (623) 972-0635,

Grandparents’ Play Day, 9 a.m. to 8 p.m., Doll House and Toy Store, 16447 N. Scottsdale Rd., Suite D115, Scottsdale, free admission, (480) 948-4630, www. Grandparents are invited to come in with their grandchildren and have a wonderful time playing and coloring together in the toy store. Free coffee will be served all day. All grandparents will also receive a special 10 percent discount.

Parkinson’s Disease Treatment Discussion, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., Mondays in December, Helen Foundation, 105 S. Delaware Dr., Suite 8, Apache Junction, free and reservations required, (480) 389-5431, “A Diamond Evening,” 7 p.m., Sunland Village Auditorium, 4601 E. Dolphin Ave., Mesa, $10, (480) 8329003. “A Diamond Evening” is a tribute to Neil Diamond performed by award-winning entertainer, Stan Foster.

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“Depression: When It’s More Than the Blues,” 9 a.m. to 10:30 a.m., SCAN Health Education Center, 1400 E. Southern Ave., Suite 735, Tempe, free but registration required, (855) 901-7226, ext. 3420. Wisconsin Club Holiday Dinner, 5 p.m., Briarwood Country Club, 20800 N. 135th Ave., Sun City West, call for admission fee, (623) 399-8237. Country Store, 8:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, free admission, (480) 832-3844. Held a new day and time, the store features many new vendors. MS Disease Treatment Discussion, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., Tuesdays in December, Helen Foundation, 105 S. Delaware Dr., Suite 8, Apache Junction, free and reservations required, (480) 389-5431,

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“The Emotional Impact of Heart Disease,” 12:30 p.m., Belmont Village Scottsdale, 13850 N. Frank Lloyd Wright Blvd., Scottsdale, free but reservations required, (480) 945-3600. Carol Klein discusses heart disease, high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol, congestive heart failure, stroke, heart attack and other heart-breaking issues. Learn about the emotional impact of diagnosis and how individuals and family members can learn to live successfully with the disease.

Mainstream and Plus Square Dance, 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $5, (480) 832-3844. Tom Roper is the featured caller. Society for the Arts Social Hour, 4:30 p.m., Remington’s Lounge at the Scottsdale Plaza Resort, 7200 N. Scottsdale Rd., $2 hospitality fee plus charge for food and drinks, (480) 851-5101. Dance on the new patio floor or relax and enjoy Rags Allen and Margo Reed. Bingo, 7 p.m. Thursdays in December, Sunland Village Auditorium, 4601 E. Dolphin Ave., Mesa, charge for cards, (480) 832-9003. Game features a $900 progressive pot. Chronic Pain Treatment Discussion, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., Thursdays in December, Helen Foundation, 105 S. Delaware Dr., Suite 8, Apache Junction, free but reservations required, (480) 389-5431, Dec. 6 Friday The Engineers Club of the West Valley, 11:30 a.m., Briarwood Country Club, 20800 N. 135th Ave., Sun City West, $18, reservations required, (623) 544-0942. Blake Sacha, director construction supply chain, Intel Corp., will illustrate the steps required to go from sand to a silicon chip capable of powering the latest computer, tablet or smartphone. Myron Sommerfeld and His Music of the Stars, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., Venture Out, 5001 E. Main St., Mesa, $7, (480) 832-9000,, www. Arthritis/Neuropathy Treatment Discussion, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., Fridays in December, Helen Foundation, 105 S. Delaware Dr., Suite 8, Apache Junction, free but reservations required, (480) 389-5431,

Dec. 7 Saturday Crown of Life Lutheran Church Cantata, 4 p.m., repeats 3 p.m. Dec. 8, church’s Sanctuary, 13131 W. Spanish Garden Dr., Sun City West, free, (623) 5466228. The event features the combining of the church choirs, along with piano, string quartet, and flute under the direction of Dennis Lilleberg, choir director. Minnesota Club of the Sun Cities’ Christmas Holiday Luncheon, 11 a.m., Union Hills Country Club, 9860 Lindgren Ave., Sun City, call for cost, reservations required by Dec. 3, (623) 546-0557.

Wisconsin Club Breakfast, 8:30 a.m., Tivoli Gardens, 12535 W. Bell Rd., Surprise, annual dues are $6 plus meals, (623) 546-0853. Former or present Wisconsites in the area are invited to join in on the fun and activities. Dec. 11 Wednesday

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Dec. 12 Thursday Missouri Opry Christmas Concert, 7 p.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $10 in advance, $12 at the door, (480) 832-3844. Sunland Village Songsters’ Choir, 7:30 p.m. repeats 2:30 p.m. Dec. 8, Sunland Village Auditorium, 4601 E. Dolphin Ave., Mesa, $5, (480) 832-9003. The choir, under the direction of Cynthia Hoff, will perform holiday material. “A Swingin’ Christmas,” various times thru Dec. 21, The Palms Theatre, 5247 E. Brown Rd., Mesa, $30 to $45, (480) 924-6260, “A Swingin’ Christmas” is a new show that features a swingin’ six-piece band (including a horn section) and top-notch singers bringing Christmas tunes to life. Dec. 8 Sunday Scottsdale Concert Band’s “Holiday Pops” Concert, 3:30 p.m., Saguaro High School auditorium, 6250 N. 82nd St., Scottsdale, free, (602) 327-3168, The 75-member ensemble, now in its 36th season, is a winner of the prestigious Sudler Silver Scroll Award of Excellence. Sun City Women’s Chorus Concert, 3 p.m., Sundial Auditorium, 14801 N. 103rd Ave., Sun City, $5, (623) 933-7647. “Merrily Sing Noel!” features familiar holiday carols and new tunes. Dec. 9 Monday Sun Lakes Democratic Club, 7 p.m., Sun Lakes Country Club’s Navajo Room, 25601 N. Sun Lakes Blvd., Sun Lakes, admission is donation of nonperishable food items, (480) 895-1378, (480) 895-1162. Join the group for a relaxed holiday party. Dec. 10 Tuesday “Picture Perfect: The Jodi Arias Story,” Book Signing with Author Shanna Hogan, 7 p.m., Barnes and Noble at the Desert Ridge Market Place, 21001 N. Tatum Blvd., Phoenix, free, (480) 538-8520, Award-winning true-crime author Shanna Hogan will discuss the high-profile Jodi Arias trial and sign copies of her New York Times bestselling book.

Mainstream and Plus Square Dance, 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $5, (480) 832-3844. Tom Roper is the featured caller.

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Dec. 15 Sunday Poinsettia Tea, 1:30 p.m., Hyatt Regency Scottsdale at Gainey Ranch, 7500 E. Doubletree Ranch Rd., $70 in advance, reservations required, (602) 274-5022, www. The 23rd annual event features DanceMotion from Bender Performing Arts, mistress of ceremonies Destry Jetton from Channel 12, and an afternoon tea with scones, sandwiches and desserts. The afternoon benefits Duet.

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The Handbell Ringers of Sun City’s Christmas concert, “Christmas Through the Eyes of a Child,” 3 p.m., American Lutheran Church, 17200 Del Webb, Sun City, $5, (262) 237-4258, (480) 398-6776. Attendees will hear “Away in a Manger,” “Little Drummer Boy,” “Rudolph,” “Silent Night.” The 24 members will be directed by Libbie Randels. Sherrill Tyacke will be a guest conductor.



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Jack Jackson Christmas Concert, 7 p.m., 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $10 in advance, $12 at the door, (480) 832-3844. Canada’s “Country Gentleman” entertains in Mesa. “White Christmas” Movie Day, 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., SCAN Health Education Center, 1400 E. Southern Ave., Tempe, free but registration required, (855) 901-7226, ext. 3420. Lunch will follow the movie.

“Boogie Nights Rock ‘n’ Roll Dance,” 6:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m., Palm Ridge Summit Hall, 13800 W. Deer Valley Dr., Sun City West, $5 members of SCW Dance for Health of It Club, $8 guests, (602) 679-4220, www. Singles and couples dance to great rock music from past decades with host and DJ Kort Kurdi. Friday Night Dance, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., Sunland Village Auditorium, 4601 E. Dolphin Ave., Mesa, $7, (480) 832-9003. Dance features entertainment by Anger Senger and Friends Country Band.

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Desert Divas Holiday Concert, 6:30 p.m., Sonoran Plaza, Sun City Grand, 19753 N. Remington, Surprise, $10, (623) 975-2284, Myron Sommerfeld and His Music of the Stars, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., Las Palmas Grand, 2550 S. Ellsworth Rd., Mesa, $8, (480) 357-1148, htm, Dec. 22 Sunday West Valley Symphony, 3 p.m., Valley Vista Performing Arts Center, 15550 N. Parkview Place, Surprise, $15 to $25, (623) 236-6781, www. westvalleysymphonyorg. The symphony presents “Amahl and the Night Visitors” with Cantilena Chorale. The symphony will perform the concert version of this one-act opera composed by Gian Carlo Menotti. Dec. 23 Monday Suns vs. Lakers, 7 p.m., US Airways Center, 201 E. Jefferson St., Phoenix, $3,917.75 to $80.50, (800) 7453000, Dec. 25 Wednesday Merry Christmas from all of us at Lovin’ Life After 50! Dec. 26 Thursday Mainstream and Plus Square Dance, 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $5, (480) 832-3844. Tom Roper is the featured caller. Dec. 27 Friday Coyotes vs. Sharks, 7 p.m., Arena, 9400 W. Maryland Ave., Glendale, $20.05 to $355, (800) 745-3000 or Dec. 28 Saturday Hillcrest Dance and Social Club’s New Year’s Dance Party, 7 p.m., RH Johnson Social Hall, 19803 RH Johnson Blvd., Sun City West, $4 members, $6 guests, (623) 546-6845. Enjoy a complimentary waltz lesson at 6:15 p.m. and dance to music by the Danny Kealey Orchestra from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. Complimentary finger foods buffet during intermission. Dec. 29 Sunday Arizona Cardinals vs. San Francisco 49ers, 2:25 p.m., University of Phoenix Stadium, 1 Cardinals Dr., Glendale, $30 to $455, (800) 745-3000, www. Larry Fitzgerald and the rest of the Cardinals close out the home season with a game against Colin Kaepernick and the 49ers.

Dec. 30 Monday Parkinson’s Disease Treatment Discussion, 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., Mondays in December, Helen Foundation, 105 S. Delaware Dr., Suite 8, Apache Junction, free and reservations required, (480) 389-5431, Dec. 31 Tuesday Calculated Couples New Year’s Eve Singles Dance, 8 p.m., Doubletree Paradise Valley Resort, 5401 N. Scottsdale Rd., Scottsdale, $15, or $14 with pet food or pet toy for animal rescue, (602) 765-0200. Dress to impress; no old jeans or sneakers. New Year’s Eve Dance, 8 p.m. to 1 a.m., Greenfield Village RV Resort, 111 S. Greenfield Rd., Mesa, $15 tickets available Dec. 18, (480) 832-3844. Ring in the New Year with Mr. G’s Swing Band. New Year’s Eve Dinner Dance, 6 p.m. to 12 p.m., Sunland Village Auditorium, 4601 E. Dolphin Ave., Mesa, $40, (480) 832-9003. With a dinner catered by Ed, the dance features music by the Rich Howard Band.

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s y e C urn Jo lose to six million Americans carry the diagnosis of heart failure. Heart failure also is the leading cause of all hospitalizations in individuals older than the age of 64. Additionally, once hospitalized for heart failure, the patient carries a 30 percent risk of being readmitted with heart failure in the next 30 days. Can these admissions and readmissions be prevented or at least reduced? The answer is an astounding yes. The patient has a vital role in avoiding one of every five hospitalizations for heart failure. Furthermore, a dedicated patient may decrease the risk of annual readmission by almost 40 to 45 percent.

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Driving vs. Flying: “It’s hard to compare flying and driving. Really, when you drive, you have a radius of a few hundred miles. When you fly, that radius is doubled, maybe tripled. On a weekend, one could travel 600, 800 miles distance and enjoy themselves in that radius. In a car that would be hard to do. Plus, you have a lot of really dangerous situations on the road. Cars are passing and you are driving at a high speed. In an airplane, it’s a big open sky. Most of the dangers—other than weather related—usually occur around airports where you have more congestion.” Why Flying? Komm formerly had multiple practices in California, so he would fly himself between San Francisco, Los Angeles and San Diego. “That’s fine, but sooner or later you have to decide if that’s too much for one person. It spreads a little bit thin.” He decided on Southern California and then moved to Arizona in 2004.



year Perspective Through a Active Listener Pilot’s Eyes,” which he selfTo bepublished an active listener, through Xlibris.the cardiologistHe is earned lucky, as she already his private pilot has the certifi important ingredients of cate in 1952, followed compassion care. However, active by and commercial, multi-engine, listening also requires time and patience. glider and instrument ratings. To have time, the vital component on her side, the cardiologist would need to schedule her Heart Failure Clinic with


Motivation: “I saw a movie once, ‘Annie Hall,’ where Woody Allen turns to Annie and says, ‘A relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.’ You have to keep motivated and keep an interest in life. If you keep an interest in life, the reverse is true.”

The Roles of the Doctor The role of the cardiologist does not stop after diagnosing and treating the failing heart with medications, surgery and/or devices, such as pacemakers and defibrillators. The role of the cardiologist is fourfold in such a setting. The cardiologist wears several hats. She not only has to connect with the patient, engage as an active listener, convey and deliver the treatment plan, but most importantly, she assumes the role of the patient’s coach, as well. Connecting with the Patient r. Richard A. Komm One would has think for such a hadthat a long-standing common love disease aswith heartaviation. failure, the affair treatment would be universal cut A psychologist byandtrade, and dry, as well. Unfortunately, that is Komm learned to fly in St. not the case. There is no cookie cutter Louis, Mo., when he was approach15, to heart Theand, treatment backfailure. in 1947 at age plan not 81, onlystill has aviates to complement the alone across patient’s lifestyle, likes and dislikes, but the United States. Komm also has totook be consistent with his abilities a momentary break and habits. Mostflying importantly, the heart from to recover from failure treatment plan has to conform a six-way heart coronary to the beliefs the patient. the arteryofbypass graft inAll March above-described patient characteristics 2012. However, he’s since have to be identifi ed, recognized been cleared to fly and and has acknowledged by the doctor. returned to his first love. The cardiologist must his respect and He’s captured adoration accept these characteristics in her of transportation in the book patients. “Cubs to Bonanzas: A 65-

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with shades of the subprime mortgage meltdown, many were sold to homeowners who were bad risks for the loans. Some who were promised they could never lose their home by taking out a reverse mortgage, nevertheless did, by blowing the lump sum too soon or taking on risky investments, and not leaving enough for fees, property taxes and insurance, which the borrower still has to continue paying. Other couples were talked into putting only the oldest spouse’s name on the loan, which became a problem when that spouse passed on and the surviving spouse was faced with eviction. “There have been some scary things in some of the reverse mortgages I’ve seen,” Goddard says. “Things like adjustable rates, and hidden costs, and slippery terms that you need to watch out for. When I first heard that there was an adjustable rate for reverse mortgages, I was horrified. Because the main reason for entering a reverse mortgage is to get a regular, fixed, predictable payment. And you definitely don’t want that payment you get going down in the future. We

already have enough uncertainty in our later years.” Cracking the Nest Egg The way a reverse mortgage is supposed to work is like this: homeowners older than 62 are allowed to borrow up to (currently) $625,500 against the equity in their home, receiving the amount either as a lump sum, monthly installments, a line of credit or a mix of all three. The loan, plus the accumulated interest, is paid back to the bank from the sale or refinancing of the house when the homeowner dies, moves out or sells it. If the house sells for less than the value of the loan, the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) insurance covers the lenders’ losses. An attractive feature of the reverse mortgage is that it’s a nonrecourse loan, meaning borrowers are not personally liable to repay the loan—which also applies to their heirs, who won’t get stuck with a debt, although they also won’t inherit the equity. “That’s the biggest advantage of reverse mortgages,” says Sandy McKee, loan

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adviser at Sunstreet Mortgage in Tucson. “You’ll never have to pay back more than the net proceeds from the sale of your home, even if it sells for less than the original loan.” Still, that doesn’t mean a house can’t be foreclosed on, if the borrower fails to leave enough in the till to cover the regular obligations of paying property tax, insurance and maintenance of the home. Dana Anspach, president of Sensible Money LLC in Phoenix and author of the financial advice book, “Control Your Retirement Destiny,” feels that’s an unfair objection to raise against taking on a reverse mortgage. “Those are just things you have to do anyway, regardless of whether or not you have a reverse mortgage!” she exclaims. “It always drives me crazy when I hear that. What happens if you don’t have a mortgage at all and you don’t pay your taxes? They can still take your home!” Even so, the figures have been alarming. The current default rate for reverse mortgages is around one in 10, according to the Consumer Protection Bureau—up from roughly 2 percent a decade ago. In many cases, savings-poor Baby Boomers were

Former Arizona Attorney General Terry Goddard, who prioritized protecting seniors against fraud while in office, says he was surprised when his mother-in-law told him she was considering a reverse mortgage.

talked into draining the equity out of their homes too early—at 62, when a homeowner becomes eligible—and were encouraged to draw most of it out at closing, which sometimes went toward bad investments, leaving not enough to pay the continued financial upkeep on the home. With many of us living longer lives, retirees who crack

of the stipulations of the loan is that the house must remain your primary residence for more than 180 days a year, which could become a problem if the borrower becomes ill and needs to go into assisted living, or move in with a relative. If you live outside of the home for more than 12 months, the loan will have to be repaid. “And then what do you do?” Goddard asks. “These loans can’t be redone. Once that equity’s taken out, it’s gone.” ‘Fonzie’ Scheme In TV commercials running on networks geared toward older adults, Henry Winkler pitches the advantages of reverse mortgages to the over-60 set. The former Fonzie, his famous black ducktail now a dignified grey and his leather jacket replaced by a pastel dress shirt and khakis, announces he’s here to tell folks 62 years and older about “a great way to live a better retirement.” “Things sure have changed, haven’t they?” he says, before launching into the two-minute mini-infomercial. For Baby Boomers entering their 60s, Winkler (who actually closes one ad with the phrase, “There can still be so many happy times ahead of you”) comes across as a reassuring and trustworthy friend as the face of One Reverse Mortgage, a subsidiary of Quicken Loans and the company ranked by HUD as the largest reverseonly mortgage lender in the United States. “Who doesn’t trust the Fonz?” Goddard observes, with a laugh.

experience his father-in-law had with a reverse mortgage. Nevertheless, Smith agrees he’s a perfect paid spokesman to attract the huge influx of Baby Boomers now settling into their 60s. “We know that there are 10,000 Baby Boomers turning 65 every day,” he says. “That’s going to continue for 20 years. We know that right now there are about 25 million folks 65 and older that are homeowners, and two-thirds of them don’t have a mortgage. What a reverse mortgage does for folks is it allows them to liberate that money tied up in their home for other things.” However, Smith bristles at the suggestion that people in this age group are too young to be tapping into the equity of their homes. Today nearly half of homeowners considering a reverse mortgage are under age 70, according to HUD statistics, compared to 1990, when the average person taking advantage of the plan was in their late 70s. A recent MetLife study reports a 67 percent majority of them are doing it to lift themselves out of the dire straits caused by the financial crisis. Boomers are often referred to as the generation that has tragically undersaved, and some advisers fear they may be too quickly exhausting their one source of equity as a result. Smith maintains the situation is not quite so desperate for many of their clients, and that many are, in fact, liberating that “tax-free cash that you can use for anything” to live the good life Winkler touts in the ads—taking well-earned vacations, putting in home

Happier Days If you’re still not quite able to reverse your fears about taking on a reverse mortgage, the good news is that today’s most-utilized version of the program, the FHA’s Home Equity Conversion Mortgage, or HECM, has recently been revamped with new rules aimed

at better protecting the borrower. Earlier this year, the FHA eliminated the program choice which allowed homeowners to withdraw the maximum amount of money available in one big lump sum, requiring them to receive it in monthly payments better suited for today’s longer lifespans and rising health care costs. Starting in January, borrowers will also have to submit to a credit check and income assessment, to ensure they’ll be able to make their required property tax, utility bills and insurance payments over the life of the loan. Understandably, not all lenders are thrilled about the changes, as they in effect will make it harder to qualify people for the loan. “They’re already required to go through a counseling session before they’re even allowed to take on a reverse mortgage—that’s one of the FHA mandates,” says Anspach. “That in itself should educate people on whether it’s right for them. It’s only the kind of person who constantly overspends who will not be able to maintain the house and continue to pay the property tax. And they need to look at downsizing their habits in general, not just avoiding a reverse mortgage.” ...continues on page 22 ADAM MORENO

improvements and so on. “This program is not strictly for folks who are in a needsbased situation,” he says. “We also offer a program where you can use a reverse mortgage to buy another home. The issue is not so much that you can take it out too young, it’s how you utilize that reverse mortgage In TV commercials running on networks geared toward older adults, Henry Winkler, to balance your retirement the former Fonzie on “Happy Days,” pitches the advantages of reverse mortgages to the years.” As for all the naysaying over-60 set. Today nearly half of homeowners considering a reverse mortgage are under and hand wringing, Smith the age of 70, according to statistics. says the worries over reverse Gregg Smith, CEO of One Reverse, open their nest egg too soon may find mortgages have been overhyped. themselves outliving their money— insists the still actively working Winkler “We have a saying: ‘Think in reverse,’” which is not always as good as it sounds. (who last year had choice recurring TV “You get to live in your house for life, roles in “Parks and Recreation” and he says. “Most of the bad things that whether or not you’ve exhausted your the rebooted “Arrested Development”) you hear about reverse mortgage, just reverse mortgage,” says Goddard. But has a “personal connection” with think the reverse of what you’re being that can also be a curse, if the borrower the program—in interviews, Winkler told. That’s generally the case with ends up needing care later in life. One has said he was inspired by a positive most attributes of the program.”

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t’s been called one of the most influential programs in the history of television drama. “The Twilight Zone,” an anthology series that aired in the early 1960s, was created by Rod Serling (1924-1975), a veteran of radio and World War II. Both influenced his career as a writer. “When he returned from war in the Philippines, he went to college and wrote for the campus radio station,” daughter Anne Serling recently recalled to me. “He later wrote plays for commercial radio, then television. He said writing was a way to get the war trauma ‘out of his gut.’” During the show’s five-year run, Serling was executive producer and chief writer, penning more than half the some 150 episodes. But he is best remembered as the program’s stone-faced host, whose foreboding narrations introduced the show each week. In biographies after his death, the master storyteller of chilling sci-fi

and fantasy tales was often described as dark and depressed, inaccuracies that led Anne “to set the record straight” in her own book about her father. “He was described as a tortured soul, but that wasn’t my father at all,” said Anne, who published “As I Knew Him: My Dad, Rod Serling in 2013.” “Although the war left scars, he was also a very positive, fun, down-toearth person. My friends adored him and any apprehension they had about meeting him would instantly dissolve because he could make anyone feel at ease. He was brilliantly funny at home, a great practical joker, and was always at the dinner table each night.” As a child, Anne had little knowledge of her father’s career. “I knew he was a writer, but didn’t know what he wrote about until I was about 7. Some mean boy on the school playground asked if I was ‘something out of the “Twilight Zone,”’ but I had no idea

Rod Serling chats with Charlton Heston on the set of “Planet Of The Apes” with director Franklin Schaffner.

what that meant because I wasn’t allowed to watch much TV during the week—my mother’s rule! A few years later, we watched ‘Nightmare at 20,000 Feet’ together, the episode where William Shatner sees a gremlin on an airplane wing. I remember


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How old was Priscilla, future wife of Elvis, when they first met? What was on the b-side of the Rolling Stones’ “We Love You”? Who released “Do You Wanna Dance?” in 1962? Name the 1974 Hollies hit. Name the song that contains this lyric: “You step inside but you don’t see too many faces, Coming in out of the rain to hear the jazz go down, Too much competition, too many other places.”


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ou get two Italians together and it’s not long before the conversation settles food and family—especially during the holidays! Thus began my friendship with Vinny Dejohn, formerly the wine and specialty food buyer at Whole Foods Market in Scottsdale. Getting his suggestions for a good vintage was great, but getting his vintage family recipe for an Italian fig cookie was even greater. It’s one of the most delightful and delicious Sicilian holiday treats called Cucidati. Thankfully, Vinny’s mission a few years ago was to contact his great aunt, carve out some time and preserve a family recipe once and for all. Here’s how Vinny put it: “Great Auntie Antoinette Arnone was 93 years old when she died. Ten years ago during the holidays, I went back to New York and I made arrangements to spend time with Auntie Arnone and have her teach me how to make ‘Goog-i-dottie,’ as she would call them. “We spent all afternoon making the cookies. Not only did I leave with Cucidati, but also her handwritten recipe card and her grandmother’s meat grinder that she herself has been using to grind the fig mixture for 60 years! I was so appreciative of her for taking the time to pass along her recipe. I often think of those treasured moments together.” Vinny’s version of this soft, flavorfilled fig cookie with icing and little colorful candies is now part of my own holiday tradition. What better way to honor my own Sicilian father. The time put into making these delights is well worth it. Keep them in an airtight container and pass them around the table for a festive holiday treat.


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Macy’s window displays capture the magic of Christmas.

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he day is frosty cold, and I say establishments both big and small. But again, we’re not here to shop. a silent thanks to the unknown goose that donated his feathers to fill We’re here to see the former Marshall my parka. My husband hands me a Field’s, which was once one of the mug filled with Glühwein. The hot, most renowned and most innovative spicy drink burns my throat in a nice, department stores in the world. It cinnamon-y way and, as the name offered the first bridal registry, the first implies, makes me glow with holiday personal shopping assistants, the first department store restaurants, the first cheer. We, along with several hundred escalators, and was the first store to other folks, are braving the weather at create holiday window displays for the Christkindlmarket, Chicago’s largest sole purpose of spreading joy. This holiday tradition, which began open-air Christmas festival. The in the early 1870s, holds atmosphere is distinctly true today. There are no European, with chaletwindows filled with glitzy style stalls offering a clothes, new appliances mind-boggling selection or tempting foods, no of Alpine delicacies attempt to lure folks to and crafts. We taste the cash register. The test a variety of wursts, displays are meant to schnitzels, strudels bring smiles, not to and chocolates, and extract cash. Now how gaze longingly at the nice is that? imported cuckoo clocks When, in 2005, after and nutcrackers. I buy a a series of corporate small ornament for my changes, the iconic store brother, but, like most of was acquired by May the Christkindlmarket Co., the terms included crowd, I’m more the requirement that interested in having Diners at Macy’s historic many Marshall Field’s fun than in seriously Walnut Room sit under a 45foot tall tree. traditions be continued. shopping. Afterward, well fortified with another So, although the Chicago store, which mug of Glühwein, we move on to “The is the third largest department store in Loop,” where we walk along streets the world, now goes by the name of lined with government buildings, Macy’s on State Street, its Christmas museums, theaters, public art, parks, windows continue to delight hundreds restaurants, skyscrapers and, yes, retail of onlookers.

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We walk slowly, carefully admiring wanted to show that they supported each animated scene, and then enter America’s World War II allies. The the store to view the celebrated domed museum placed a single pine tree in the ceiling that’s made of more than 1.6 rotunda and volunteers representing million pieces of iridescent glass. various nationalities changed the Designed by Louis Tiffany in 1907 and decorations on a daily basis. The handset over a two-year period, it’s a result: a rotating display that honored glorious mosaic of serpentine swirls diversity as well as community. In the 70-plus years since then that and graceful ovals in tones of amber, blue and gold with touches of red. I single pine has morphed into a 50-tree stare in awe until my neck begins to exhibit that lasts from mid-November hurt, after which we take the escalator until the end of December. We walk up to the fifth floor where I can see the slowly, admiring the ornaments on each tree. The tree representing Kenya details more clearly. Eventually we make our way to is adorned with wood animal carvings. the historic Walnut Room, known The one from Denmark is laden with for the classic chicken potpie that woven hearts, while the one from was first served in 1907. As always Bosnia-Herzegovina has miniature during the Christmas season, a 45- dolls and skis. And on it goes...Russian foot tree festooned with more than matryoshkas (nested dolls), Romanian 1,000 ornaments brightens the room. snowmen….an international display We try to get a table, but no luck. The for an international city. As we head back to our hotel, a restaurant doesn’t take reservations and the wait, according to the very nice gentleman who is sitting behind me on the train begins humming an old Frank hostess, will be more than an hour. Instead, we satisfy our hunger by Sinatra tune, “Chicago is my kind of purchasing—and devouring—some town.” My sentiments exactly. For the latest information on Frango chocolates. The minty truffles have been associated with the store Chicago’s 2013 Christmas activities, go since Marshall Field’s acquired the to original candy company in the late 1920s. Although they are no longer made in-store, in my mind there’s no doubt about it: chocolate beats chicken potpie any season of the year! Our final stop is at the Museum of Science and Industry, which hosts “Christmas Around the World,” an annual exhibit that celebrates the world’s— and Chicago’s— cultures and traditions. The first such display took place in 1942 when Chicagoans of all ethnicities Bugles herald the holiday season on State Street.







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... from page 8 language first. My neighbor’s been previous condition insurance, either. here for 15 years and is still waiting for Lots of luck trying to find one that me to learn to speak Spanish. Baloney. works. Learn to speak English. That’s the No. 1 priority. Goodbye. I don’t think it’s right to discriminate against gay people. I just want to say More tragedy on the Interstate 10 dusty roads. We rarely that many of them are rude and had that when the land was irresponsible in their behavior around growing cotton and grazing stock, people who do not share their sexual and the water still was allocated to the proclivities. Many times I have been reservation farmers. That’s what greed subjected to unwanted advances from gay males who have wrongly assumed does for you. But feed those casinos. if someone looks good to them, that What school children today person is fair game. don’t know about only 30-year-ago Arizona is as bad I think it’s time for the U.S. as their equally ignorant parents’ misgovernment to make changes knowledge of history, animals, weather to our federal income tax and vegetation. Shame on the present regulations. Why is it OK for me to have education expert reports. to claim taxes on anything that I win over $600 on a raffle but I am not able Interesting. “It’s disrespectful to to claim that raffle ticket as an expense? deny students of illegal parents And why is the limit so low on having for their free education” but it’s to claim a prize as income? If I work at not disrespectful of those parents who a job for “income,” I am able to write break us laws to bring those kids over off certain things as a work-related the border? Hmm, double standard. expense, right? Six hundred dollars is a joke! Have they heard of inflation? It’s Only spoken in Spanish. been $600 forever! It should depend on Oh boy, if you heard the what the actual prize is in order for you story of the radio historical to have to claim it as income and they broadcast that panicked should raise the limit! So if I am lucky the nation in 1938—it hasn’t much enough to win a trip to Vegas for two changed for the ignorant watchers of for $605 why should I have to claim that television who rush to their Twitters as income? It’s not income! The tickets with the unconfirmed dumb rumors are non-transferrable so I can’t sell that can still panic the ignorant of them so how exactly is that income? It’s just a free trip. It’s nothing steady. It’s a America. Well it’s new phone book time one-time trip. You should not be taxed and there’s no need to cut trees on any prize except maybe money, over to print new books. Just use the $1,500 or more. If I win a car not only recycled old books and enough drained do I have to come up with the money ink to color the Sunday advertisement for state and sales tax, but I also have to pullouts. See, each one keeps the other claim it on my income taxes! How does circulating ad nauseam. Well, it’s what that make sense? It’s just our wonderful we’re supposed to be doing—to go government trying to squeeze the little guy for every penny they can so some green. “fat cat” in Washington can get free Have you noticed in all the haircuts and trips out of town for free advertisements for hearing aids, steak dinners with high-priced call girls. not one ever mentioned the price? Maybe because the $1,000 is the I really wish that if a doctor’s cheap one? My primary recommended office is going to be closed for and others start at $4,000 and up. One lunch from 1 p.m. to 2 p.m., or two ears. This is the latest advertising they would have enough sense to not rip-offs on the market? No mention of make an appointment for 2 p.m. or at

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feedback from their customers. If you don’t want to give it, that’s fine. I just ask that you please be nice about it and say “No thank you.” While Gilbert cashes in on a gigantic Heritage Marketplace project, the clowns in Queen Creek have not learned their lesson! This after borrowing triple digit millions and putting their eggs in the house building industry, and watched it explode like a giant balloon in their faces! They keep raising my taxes for absolutely nothing! Instead of taking advantage of the Phoenix/ Gateway Airport traffic and freeway extension to the north, and building a hotel, restaurants and developing the actual old town facade on an actual town street that currently looks like a ghetto, they are building eight to 10 more home communities. Huh? There are no jobs. The town center has not been developed. There are lots of undeveloped roads. Rittenhouse is still one lane, even by Schnepf Farms. Where are all those potential extra thousands of cars going to go? And Eastmark, Morrison Ranch and scads of other communities are building all around us...The traffic on Ellsworth was bumper to bumper at 2:30 p.m. today. There is nothing to do. No theater, town waterpark/pool, a few corporate restaurants and a huge sales tax. Some vanity project included a horse park that 99 percent of the town doesn’t use. They don’t encourage small businesses by allowing excessive rent, high taxes and very little community support. The dirt storms are epic and it’s like I landed in hell....stay far away from this dirty “burb!” I hope I can sell my house before this terrible idea continues and it drives my house price into the gutter or converts it to a HUD home.

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DRAWER LL1450 WWF young 60’s widow, sense of humor, just moved to the Gilbert area. I’m from the Midwest. ISO WITH A STROKE, a new single white friend man or woman 60’s to 73 with time to go T I M E L O S T I S B R A I N L O S T. WITH A STROKE, to a movie, lunch, dinner, sightT I M E L O S T I S B R A I N L O S T. seeing, bowling, board and card games, etc. Must have a sense of humor, sincere, dependable, N/S and not sloppy. Let’s have warning W I T H ALearn TTR Ksigns ES,atT R O K E , WSIthe HOA or 1-888-4-STROKE. fun! Please write with your phone WITH A STROKE, TIME LO T EI SL O BR A IIN T ISM ST S L BO RS AT. I N L O S T. number. Learn the warning signs at or 1-888-4-STROKE.

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T HE F INISH L INE Arizona’s Leader in Senior Fitness Thunderbirds Return as Partners to Senior Olympics 2013 Sponsors nce again this year Arizona


Senior Olympics will be partnering with The Thunderbirds to raise funds for the organization. “It’s a fun way for people to get involved and also be of real help to ASO,” commented Irene Stillwell, ASO executive director. The Birdies for Charity is a program of Waste Management Inc. and The Phoenix Thunderbirds. All the money that is collected by ASO’s efforts goes directly to them. The Thunderbirds bill for and collect money, thereby saving ASO that expense. “I hope everyone will realize that this is an ideal end-of-the-year donation because every cent of the donation goes directly into the program they are supporting,” Stillwell said. Arizona Lifelong Fitness Foundation, the 501(c)(3) parent corporation of ASO, will be sending out an email blast in early December and every donation is fully deductible from 2013 taxes. Watch for the “birdies” e-mail in early December. Everyone who donates before Dec. 31

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Making Good Health a Habit

Pioneer Athlete Tells Her Story

(Listen to music or audiobooks. By Ellie Kallal Do things you love, mix it up.) 6. Make it an active decision. Nancy Kummen just turned 63, and (Take stairs, park far away, has been competing locally in the sport of stretch while talking on the triathlon. In the past few weeks, she has had phone.) some of her fastest times. She took second in Healthways SilverSneakers Fitness her age group at the World’s International Program is the nation’s leading Triathlon in Chicago and plans to qualify in fitness program. It is provided at June to compete again the following year. no additional cost to with many At one time she broke her back in three Medicare Advantage and Medicare places and used water exercise and massage Supplement plans. So start today. to recover. A firm believer in activity, she urges Give Yourself Six Months There are great benefits that come Make a habit of walking, swimming, others to get into a program to boost their with exercise. But to achieve them taking exercise classes, gardening, or mood and improve their overall health. When all, it is important to keep going even chasing your grandkids. No matter she’s not competing, she stays busy teaching when you don’t want to. Some days what you choose, you already have a swimming and water aerobics and gives private lessons in her pool. will be easier than others, but if you support team. Below are just a few SilverSneakers This is Nancy Kummen’s story in her own Triathlon in 1978 on the Hawaiian can stick with an exercise routine for Island of Oahu, where I lived. I was so words. six months, you’ll be on your way to benefits. taken aback by this event that I started creating a healthy habit that can last • Choose from more than 11,000 I consider myself one of the to train for it. a lifetime. Back then, people thought you locations in the United States. pioneers in the sport of triathlon. I • Take group classes made just was able to see the very first Ironman were “nuts” to do such a thing. I was Stick To It for active older adults. Exercise will improve your quality • Read health and wellness of life. It’s good for you. Yet, sometimes articles online. it’s hard to find the motivation to keep • Talk to a SilverSneakers it up. But with a few life changes, you program adviser for more can make exercise a part of your daily support. life today, and for the rest of your life. • Join in on fun group events and Need someone to help you register for the Arizona Senior Olympics? ASO more! 1. Make it a priority. (Mark it on volunteers are ready and happy to help. your calendar, every day.) This year the organization is offering in-person registration at the following For more information call (888) locations: 2. Make it easy. (Lift weights while watching TV, walk the 423-4632 or go to www.silversneakers. • The ASO office by appointment only on Dec. 10, Dec. 11, Jan. 2 com. Find us on Facebook at facebook. mall, take a daily class.) and Jan. 8. It is located at 4205 N. Seventh Ave., Suite 200, Phoenix, 3. Make it safe. (Talk to your com/silversneakers. For even more 85013. Call (602) 274-7742 for an appointment. help, sign up for PACT, a new Web doctor; listen to your body.) • The Lovin’ Life After 50 Expo at the Sun Dial Recreation Center in Sun 4. Make it social. (Get a workout experience that allows members to City from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. Jan. 21. set fitness goals and create a support buddy or take classes.) • The Lovin’ Life After 50 Expo at the Mesa Convention Center at 9 a.m. 5. Make it interesting and fun. network. Jan. 29. Bad habits are hard to break—but so are good ones! This fall, create some healthy, fun habits that will enrich your life every day. Decide today to make exercise a regular part of your routine, just like brushing your teeth or having that morning cup of coffee. By the time the holidays roll around, you’ll be happier, healthier and ready to take the New Year by storm.

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and hollered to me, “Hey lady, you’re swimming crooked.” I almost swam to the other shore, instead of to the ship. I finished in 13:24:00. Since then I have completed nine Ironman distances and would like to do more but races are getting so expensive; it’s difficult to do them without a sponsor. I’ve done more than 500 triathlons and countless swimming, bike and running races. I never get bored with the distance and training. I get into a zone and enjoy myself. I look forward to tomorrow, and I’m glad to be a part of the Senior Olympics. I was looking forward to competing in Cleveland, but fell ill and couldn’t go. I’m planning to qualify and go to Minneapolis in 2015. I enjoy teaching kids to swim and stay safe, and helping people get started in an exercise program. I’ve learned as you get older you need to have the discipline to watch diet, train and get rest.

q Yes, I would like to be a friend of Arizona Senior Olympics Send your tax-deductible contribution by check, money order, credit card or go online to Amount Enclosed $ I am paying by q Check/Money Order qVisa qMastercard qDiscover qAmerican Express. You will be charged by Senior Games Payment Services if paying by credit card. If paying by check, please make it out to the Arizona Lifelong Fitness Foundation. Credit Card. #: Expiration Date: 3 digit code on back of card: Name as it appears on your credit card: Address: City/State/Zip: Signature:

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