Ramsey Neighbors February 2025

Meet the

MEIMAN

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MAG 7

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Manaf Saker, DMD

Dr. Saker has, for the past 23 years of practice, delivered surgical excellence. As he looks forward to his next 15 years of his professional career, he remains guided by his vision which is delivering an exceptional patient experience while implementing the most modern surgical concepts and medical technology, just as he would like his family to be cared for.

Driven by his great sense of community, passion for surgery and exuberant level of energy, Dr. Saker built two brand new state of the art surgical facilities with highly specialized surgical suites. Our team is probably the most diverse and most qualified team any surgeon can dream of.

“I am very pleased to be the first Oral and Maxillofacial surgeon to introduce robotic guided implant surgery in the state of New

Jersey,” says Dr. Saker. “As Robotic Surgery becomes the more mainstream practice in Oral Surgery 10 years from now, we would be the experts and the most experienced in that field of robotics by then.”

Dr. Saker is excited and optimistic that the future will continue to bring magnificent advances in medicine and surgery to enable him to deliver exceptional care. “I am humbled and grateful to have been chosen so often to care for our community and will continue to strive to be your first choice in the future.”

Dr. Saker is double Board Certified in Oral Maxillofacial surgery and dental anesthesia, he and his wife reside locally and are very fortunate to be able to raise their daughters in such a wonderful and thoughtful community.

DearResidents,

As the month of February evokes a warm blanket of love, Ramsey Neighbors Magazine celebrates the enduring ties of family, tradition, and community that make our town so special.

In our feature story, we honor the Meiman family, who first arrived in Ramsey 63 years ago as a group of seven siblings affectionately known as the “Mag 7.” Today, four of the original seven still call Ramsey home, and their families—the Corbetts, Meimans, Rapps, and Remys—have added eight more children to our vibrant community. In their own words, the Meiman family reflects on their love for Ramsey and the legacy they’ve built here.

It seems fitting that all seven Meiman siblings attended the Academy of St. Paul, which marks its 70th anniversary this month. Principal Dr. Megan Fisher shares the school’s incredible journey, from its founding to the innovative and nurturing institution it is today.

Meanwhile, at Ramsey High School, big changes are underway! In January, the school launched a phone-free initiative, introducing Yondr pouches to help students stay focused and present during the school day. In his monthly Kids These Days column, Dr. Andrew Matteo discusses the inspiration behind this initiative and the anticipated success it will bring to our classrooms. Did you know the Ramsey Farmers’ Market operates outdoors year-round? Bundle up and brave the winter chill— this local treasure is always open on Sundays to connect you with fresh produce and friendly faces.

These articles and more are brought to you by the sponsors within the magazine who have a deep love of serving the Ramsey community. We are profoundly grateful for their dedication and support. Please consider showing them the love they deserve by patronizing their businesses. Thank you for inviting us into your homes each month. We hope this issue inspires you to celebrate the connections that make Ramsey such a remarkable place to live.

RAMSEY

PUBLISHERS

Salina McLaughlin Lauren DePaul

DESIGNER

Lisette Stahl

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Jenny Berberich, Jenny Grant Photography @jennygrantphoto

Kat Yannalfo, Photography by SKY photography_by_sky

ADVERTISING INQUIRIES

Contact: Salina McLaughlin Email: salinamclaughlin@bestversionmedia.com Phone: (201) 286-0197

FEEDBACK/IDEAS/SUBMISSIONS:

Have feedback, ideas or submissions? We are always happy to hear from you! Deadlines for submissions are the 25th of each month. Go to www.bestversionmedia.com and click “Submit Content.” You may also email your thoughts, ideas and photos to: lschreiber@bestversionmedia.com

IMPORTANT PHONE NUMBERS

Ramsey Police Department (201) 327-2400

Ramsey Fire Department (201) 327-0007

Ramsey Borough Hal (201) 825-3400

Ramsey Free Public Library (201) 327-1445

Ramsey Board of Education (201) 785-2300

CONTENT SUBMISSION DEADLINES

ANTI-AGING SOLUTIONS

4Ever Young Anti-Aging Solutions

Alison Warner & Julia Lindblad 11 Edgewater Towne Center, Edgewater, NJ 07020 (551) 313-4110

info@4everyoungedgewaternj.com 4everyoungantiaging.com/location/edgewater

CHIROPRACTIC CARE

Chiro Health Spa Dr. Joe Labriola | Dr. Pilar Labriola 50 South Franklin Tpke, Suite 103 201-962-7633 P | 201-962-7636 F info@chirohealthspa.com | Chirohealthspa.com

COSMETIC & GENERAL DERMATOLOGY

Skin & Laser Center of NJ

500 N. Franklin Turnpike Suite 318 Ramsey, NJ 07446

201-500-7525 | F. 201-500-7527| www.skinandlasernj.com

COUNTRY CLUB LIVING

Ramsey Golf & Country Club 105 Lakeside Drive, Ramsey, NJ 07446 (201) 327-0009 ramseycountryclub.com

DECK & RAILINGS

NJ Decks & Railings 147 E Main Street, Ramsey, NJ 07446 201-327-7864

sales@njdecksandrailings.com| www.njdecksandrailings.com

EDUCATION

Ramsey School District

Dr. Andrew C. Matteo, Superintendent of Schools 25 N. Franklin Turnpike, Ramsey, NJ 07446 201-785-2300 | ramsey.k12.nj.us

LEGAL SERVICES

McDonnell & Whitaker LLC

Bruce E. Whitaker, Esq. 245 E. Main Street, Ramsey, NJ 07446 (201) 934-0110 mcwhitlaw@optonline.net

MENTAL HEALTH

North Jersey Health & Wellness

Ramsey: 35 South Spruce Street

Paramus: 4 Forest Avenue

Edgewater: 115 River Road Suite 118

Florham Park: 171 Ridgedale Avenue Suite N

Red Bank: 241 Maple Avenue (201) 588-3491 (Central Line for All Locations) info@njhwellness.com | www.njhwllc.com

ORAL SURGERY

Ridgewood Oral Surgery & Implant Center

Dr. Manaf Saker, DMD

255 E Main Street, Suite #1

Ramsey, NJ 07446

(201)236-5050

385 South Maple Avenue, Suite 207

Glen Rock, NJ 07452 (201)444-5355

office@ridgewoodoralsurgery.com | ridgewoodoralsurgery.com

ORTHODONTIC TREATMENT

Bancroft-Dobrin Orthodontics

Dr. James Bancroft, DMD

Dr. Ashley Bancroft-Dobrin, DMD, MBA

Dr. Keith Dobrin, DMD, MBA 90 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, NJ 07463 (201) 447-1611

bancroftorthodontics@gmail.com | BDOrthodontics.com

PEDIATRIC CARE

Tenafly Pediatrics

Paramus Office:

26 Park Place (201) 477-5425

Oakland Office:

350 Ramapo Valley Road | (201) 416-3391 www.tenaflypediatrics.biz

PHYSICAL THERAPY

K2 Physical Therapy

Brendan Kirk, PT, DPT, OCS, CSCS, CKTP

245 East Main Street, Ramsey, NJ 07446 201-783-8328

getcare@k2physio.com k2physio.com

RESIDENTIAL REAL ESTATE

RE/MAX Properties

Kristin Graves, Owner

82 East Allendale Road, Suite 4B Saddle River, NJ 07458 (201) 825-6600 kristingraves@remax.net | northjerseytopagents.com

WEALTH PLANNING AND ASSET MANAGEMENT Forefront Wealth Planning and Asset Management Amit Chopra CFP®, Managing Partner 15 Fox Hollow Road Ramsey, NJ 07446 845-652-3449

forefrontwealthplanning.com amit@forefrontwealthplanning.com

Lauren & Salina

Salina McLaughlin Publisher

Lisette Stahl Designer Jenny Berberich, Photographer

Lauren DePaul Schreiber Publisher

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KIDS THESE DAYS

Ramsey High School Launches

Phone-Free Initiative

Starting January 7,

Contributed by Andrew C. Matteo, PhD. Superintendent of Schools

to help create a more focused and engaging learning environment. These pouches are designed to keep students’ phones securely locked during school hours, reducing distractions and encouraging more meaningful classroom interactions.

This change is backed by compelling research.

A survey of over 1,200 schools using similar phonefree systems found that 84% saw better student engagement, 86% reported improved safety and wellness, 72% noticed better behavior, and 68% experienced higher academic performance. Under the new school policy, students keep their phones in Yondr pouches, which stay locked until the end of the school day or at specific release times. While students still have their devices with them, they can’t use them during the day, helping to maintain a productive and distraction-free atmosphere.

The transition was thoughtfully planned and announced in late 2024. On January 2, the school held a virtual community meeting to address questions and concerns, bringing together parents, staff, and administrators to discuss the rollout and share ideas.

After months of research, we came to the conclusion that the an approach like Yondr was necessary to fully carry out the spirit of the Board

of Education’s recently adopted cell-phone policy. With this move, we are striving to recreate a learning environment where learning, focus, safety, community, and belonging are prioritized. Without such a robust and systematic plan, the policy would just be words on paper. As Jonathan Haidt, social psychologist and author of The Anxious Generation states, “Cellphone bans are in place in 77% of schools. But this high number [refers] to any school that tells students they should not use their phone while in class. That’s not really a ban; it’s more of an unenforceable wish.”

The Ramsey Police Department has been a key partner in this initiative. Chief Lyman provided a letter of support confirming that emergency protocols have been developed to ensure phone access when absolutely necessary. This program is part of a growing trend in schools nationwide to minimize digital distractions while still finding a healthy balance for technology use.

Ramsey High School remains committed to creating the best possible learning environment for its students.

Valentine's Day is just around the corner. Whether you're celebrating with your significant other, a friend or a family member, there are plenty of local options to make the day extra special. From romantic dinners to fun activities, here are some ideas for a memorable Valentine's Day in and around Ramsey.

2025, Ramsey High School introduced Yondr pouches

The Selling Sisters

THE SELLING SISTERS

Patti Ebeling and Catherine Gloria, aka "The Selling Sisters," bring a lifetime of experience and connection to Northern Bergen County, making them a dynamic duo in real estate. Together, they share a unique understanding of the region’s character and charm. Their professional backgrounds—Patti as a former teacher in Ramsey and Catherine as a seasoned Realtor—combine to create a powerhouse team dedicated to personalized service. With deep roots in Ramsey and a passion for helping clients navigate the competitive housing market, these sisters offer not just expertise but also a heartfelt commitment to the community they call home.

TELL US A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELVES.

Patti: We are both deeply connected to Northern Bergen County. We grew up just over the border in Airmont, NY, and have a shared understanding of the unique character of this region. I have a Bachelor of Science degree in Business and a Master’s degree in Elementary Education, providing me with strong analytical and interpersonal skills. Catherine has a Bachelor’s degree in Marketing, giving her a solid foundation in negotiation and market analysis. Our combined knowledge of the area, coupled with our professional backgrounds, allows us to provide exceptional service to our clients. Ramsey has always been a very special town to me personally. I met my husband at the old Casa Maria on Route 17 in 1981, which is now Houlihan’s. I’ve lived in the area since then, raising my family in Mahwah and teaching at Tisdale School for twenty-two years. I retired from teaching in June 2023. My children and grandchildren continue to live in the area, keeping our family ties strong in Northern Bergen County.

WHAT SETS YOU APART FROM OTHER REALTORS? WHAT MAKES YOUR TEAM UNIQUE?

Patti: As a team with deep-rooted knowledge of Ramsey, we offer personalized service. We prioritize your individual needs and guide you through every step of the transaction with care and attention.

With Catherine’s two decades of Ramsey residency and her experience as a Ramsey parent, combined with her forty-plus years in the area and my own twenty-two years as a teacher in the Ramsey schools, our perspective and knowledge of this town are truly unique. No other agent or team can offer this level of insight.

THE REAL ESTATE MARKET IS CONSTANTLY CHANGING. WHAT WOULD BE YOUR ADVICE TO READERS ON THE CURRENT REAL ESTATE MARKET?

A fun fact: I started teaching at Tisdale in 2000. Catherine and her husband were looking to buy a home then, and I raved about the fantastic schools and the wonderful town of Ramsey. She agreed with me, found a lovely home, and moved to Ramsey in 2002. She’s lived in the same house ever since. I was selling the benefits of living in Ramsey even back then!

WHO ARE THE SELLING SISTERS?

Patti: We are two sisters with a shared passion for real estate. Catherine has been a successful Realtor in Bergen County for years, and I’ve always been drawn to the field. Once retired from teaching, I decided to pursue my real estate license and joined Catherine at Keller Williams Valley.

Catherine: Yes, it is ever-evolving. Ramsey’s desirable location, excellent schools, and abundant amenities make it a competitive market, currently favoring sellers due to high demand and low inventory.

Whether you’re buying or selling, informed preparation and the right team significantly increase your chances of success. We recommend a consultation so that we can provide you with the most accurate and up-to-date information on the Ramsey housing market. We can navigate the buying or selling process and answer any specific questions you may have.

To assist homeowners, we offer a complimentary Comparative Market Analysis (CMA) report, providing an accurate snapshot of your home’s value in today’s market.

We also offer a complimentary staging service when listing your home for sale. This includes professional photos, creating an engaging online presence (where buyers begin their search), and a plan to maximize curb appeal. Attracting qualified buyers is our top priority.

PATTI, TELL US ABOUT YOUR BACKGROUND AS A TEACHER AND HOW IT IS HELPING YOU TRANSITION INTO REAL ESTATE.

For over twenty-two years, I had the immense pleasure of teaching second and third grade at Tisdale School. I was truly inspired by the exceptional teaching staff at Tisdale and the dedication I witnessed across the entire district.

As a teacher, I developed strong listening skills, valuing the input of both students and their parents. I used this information, combined with academic and social objectives, to create personalized learning goals for each student. Building trusting relationships with students and their families was paramount, fostering an open and honest communication environment. These skills seamlessly translate to my real estate career. I apply the same dedication and tenacity to helping my clients achieve their real estate goals, just as I strived for student success in the classroom.

CATHERINE, AS A RESIDENT OF RAMSEY, HOW DOES THIS HELP YOU SERVE CLIENTS LOOKING TO GET TO KNOW THE TOWN BETTER?

Our in-depth knowledge of Ramsey’s different neighborhoods is invaluable when working with buyers and sellers. We often take clients on a tour of the town, showcasing its unique character, including a vibrant downtown, distinct east and west sides, and a wealth of amenities.

Ramsey offers something for everyone: excellent shopping and dining options, diverse recreational activities, a fantastic community pool, numerous town events, a recently renovated and community-focused library, as well as Ramsey Country Club.

Ramsey’s close-knit community and charming atmosphere are highly appealing to many residents. We help buyers explore the unique character of each neighborhood to find the perfect fit for their lifestyle. Excellent schools are a major draw and an important selling point for many families. Ramsey’s convenient transportation options, including two train lines (one with a parking garage) and a bus service, make it an ideal location for commuters.

As a long-time resident, I have firsthand knowledge of our schools. My daughter began her education at Tisdale School and graduated from Ramsey High School. Her positive experience in our school system prepared her well for college and her successful career. This personal insight, combined with Patti’s expertise as a long-time teacher, gives us a unique understanding of what makes our schools so special.

After many years with deep roots in the town of Ramsey, we know where to go: the best panini spot, the perfect latte, the go-to holiday caterer, the most effective tutors, romantic date night restaurants, and, most importantly, the intricacies of this hyper-local real estate market.

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The most rewarding part of the job was building lasting relationships with my students and their families. I cherish the ongoing connections I have with many of my former students, some of whom are now thriving in their own careers. First Presbyterian Church of Ramsey 15 Shuart Lane, Ramsey, NJ 07446

201-327-3879 | Website ramseypc.org Please join us every Sunday at 9:30am for Worship and Sunday School

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The Selling Sisters

TRUSTWORTHY. DEDICATED. THOROUGH.

As the Selling Sisters, we bring unmatched expertise and a deep connection to the vibrant neighborhoods, schools, and businesses that make Ramsey truly special. With years of experience and a commitment to personalized service, we go above and beyond to understand your unique needs and goals, ensuring every detail is carefully managed from start to finish. Whether you’re buying your first home, downsizing, or selling, we’re here to make the process seamless and successful.

As told to Lauren DePaul Schreiber

Patti Ebeling with her class on her final day at Tisdale School in June 2023

VEGenerations of

LFor the past 63 years the Meiman family has called Ramsey home. Lee and Joe Meiman raised seven children, commonly known as the Mag 7, on Jean Street.. Four of the seven siblings still reside here today and have raised their own families in town. Each Meiman sibling credits their foundation as one built upon love and sacrifice. Their roots continue to be celebrated together in Ramsey each year on the Saturday of Thanksgiving weekend, a tradition affectionately started by Lee and Joe many years ago. It is a homecoming for the entire family to celebrate what their parents valued most, togetherness. While their beginning is the same, the details and perspectives of their family and Ramsey memories are individualistic. As the Mag 7 recounts their love of faith and family, we hope you find nostalgia, connection, and an appreciation of their collective journey through Ramsey.

JOE MEIMAN

I am the oldest of Lee and Joe Meiman’s seven children. Which means that I was the first to finish school and then the first to leave Ramsey; in my case, I have been gone almost fifty years.

My parents were wonderful people who deeply loved each other and their children. They lived in an apartment in Union City NJ when I was born, and moved to a rented home on Long Island when I was about two years old after my father was transferred from Manhattan to Brooklyn. After about a year in the rented home, they purchased a home several blocks away. My dad could walk to the local train station and take the Long Island Railroad into Brooklyn. My dad’s company closed their Brooklyn location and moved to Totowa NJ in early 1962. My dad commuted from Long Island to Totowa every day for six months, as he did not want to interrupt the school year for my oldest sister and me. Plus, my mom was pregnant with my youngest brother at the time; he was born in April.

the day. Of course, she could not get out much during the day, because she had two very young children at home even when the older three were at school. Which meant that Friday night was designated as grocery night at ShopRite, which was located on Main Street across from the Ramsey Cinema at the time. And since it was her only chance to shop for the week, I was drafted to push the second cart through the store to make the most of the outing.

I went to St. Paul’s for grades 6-8 right after we moved to Ramsey in 1962. Finding a community that had a Catholic school with openings for new students in grades 2 and 6 was a major item on my parents’ checklist for a new home. St. Paul School checked that item on the list and Ramsey became our new community.

criteria. He needed a house big enough for his 5 children, himself and wife AND it needed to be close to a Catholic school and parish in his budget . They responded albeit kindly...Mr. Meiman you won't find that in Ridgewood. You should try Ramsey. So Dad did drive up Franklin Turnpike to Ramsey. Touring the streets, he saw this house being built on Jean St. He found the builder, had him finish the split level into a tri level creating a 4th bedroom and signed the contract. 121 Jean Street was on an oversized lot...had room for the Baby Grand Piano and was walking distance to St Paul School. We were home. Growing up in Ramsey (oldest daughter) was charmed. With a bike you travel far and wide. Summer mornings were spent at the library (air conditioned) after breakfast. Then home for lunch and then off to the pool until dinner. After dinner we were back outside playing until bedtime. Big fans brought in the cooler night air...we did it all over again the next day. We played on Dogwood Terrace and Jean Street. Mom rang the dinner bell 2 X ... first out the front door for those of us playing on Jean and then out the back door for the rest who were on Dogwood Terrace.

I am the local Ramsey Meiman sibling who had the great good fortune to marry the local Ramsey boy. Bob (Rapp) grew up on Dogwood Terrace. He is now retired from the Ramsey PD. We were both in Ramsey HS at the same time...but did not know each other then. We met after.

“August of 1966; four years after our parents moved to Jean Street in Ramsey. Their expressions are so reflective of their love for each other and for their family.”

-Tom Meiman

With a family of five children, my parents were looking for a bigger home. They searched numerous locations in Northern NJ, looking for the right community and the right home. A big item on their must-have list was a Catholic school relatively close to the new house. And that Catholic school had to have room for my sister and I, as we moved into grades two and six. Talking to multiple realtors in multiple towns, my dad wound up looking at Ramsey. I think it was a bit further – about a half hour drive – from Totowa than he would have liked, but he liked Ramsey for what it offered. [And he never complained about his commute!] The community was nice, the home was new, had four bedrooms and a big yard, and the parochial school was within walking distance and had room for his children.

One thing I remember about the first year we were in Ramsey is that we only had one car. My dad would drop us off at St. Paul’s on his way to work in the morning, and we would walk home “through the woods” with some neighbor kids in the afternoon. But this meant that my mom did not have a car during

After St. Paul’s, I went to St. Joe’s in Montvale for four years, graduating in 1969. Then I was off to LeMoyne College in Syracuse NY for the next four years (1969-1973). I graduated from LeMoyne College in 1973 with a degree in Math and Computer Science. I went to work for AT&T right after graduating and picked up a master’s degree in industrial engineering from Purdue University along the way. AT&T spun off the division I was working for as Lucent Technologies in 1996, and I worked there until retiring in 2001. After a year enjoying a variety of work opportunities, I started teaching high school in the fall of 2002. I retired a second time in 2022 and have managed to stay retired since then.

In January 1973, St. Paul’s welcomed a new pastor, Father O’Neill. The parish hosted a welcome reception for him on a Sunday evening in the school auditorium. I was home from college between semesters. Since my mom was the parish organist at the time, we went to the reception as a family. While there, I happened to speak with one of my dad’s friends, Tom Skrobala, who I believe still lives in Ramsey. During our chat, he offered to take a copy of my resume to his employer, if I was still looking for a job after graduating in May. I gladly took him up on his offer, and an interview and a job offer followed. That led to a twenty-eight-year career at AT&T and Lucent, during which time I was lucky to meet my wife. So, I really owe the direction my life took after college to a community event on a Sunday evening in Ramsey. [I did thank Tom Skrobola numerous times during my AT&T days for his efforts. And I contacted him again in June 2023 on the fifty-year anniversary of my starting at AT&T.] It is definitely a small world, and community is a big part of it.

Our girls have followed in our school footsteps...in Ramsey HS. However, they certainly were smarter. Now we have the joy of witnessing our grands taking in everything good about Ramsey.

Our oldest daughter Chrissy, married a local Ramsey boy...Joe Losos and they are also Ramsey residents raising their 2 children who attend Tisdale in the footsteps of their mother and 2 aunts.

Our twin daughters Rachel and Ashley are still Jersey Girls and are not too far away in West New York. We explore NYC and the Hudson Gold Coast from their home location.

Growing up in Ramsey was more than magical...the streets had not yet been paved. Bikes were freedom. Movies at the downtown theatre...Mary Poppins, Sound of Music, penny candy at the corner store. We played on Dogwood, Jean and in the woods at the end of the street. Even today...that magic feeling persists. While we did not have immediate family close by...we had great neighbors and fellow parishioners that became our family. I remember vividly... When my Mom was sick in 1969, we were stunned. Then without notice 2 moms presented themselves daily to take care of our family and house so Dad could continue to work. There was no family leave. There was no cell phone, texting or email...just people who cared and stepped up to help someone else. That same spirit remains today. The people of Ramsey step in and up to those who might need assistance and never expect payment or accolades in return. Lucky us...that these kind women quietly stepped in to help the family with now 7 children.

My wife, Sheila, and I have two daughters. The older one is heading into her final semester at NYU Law School. The younger one graduated last spring from NJIT. We currently live in Philadelphia PA.

Looking back on my time in Ramsey I fondly recall it being a community. It is a collection of people who care about and support their family and friends and neighbors. And they do it again and again, just because it is the right thing to do and because it makes the community better. Ramsey people always look out for and help their family and friends and neighbors.

MADELINE RAPP *CURRENT RAMSEY RESIDENT*

How did Mom and Dad find themselves in Ramsey you ask? You may say they "stumbled into Ramsey" at the suggestion of a wise real estate agent. You will hear me quote "lucky us" many times. Lucky us that we found Ramsey. It was fate meeting luck that brought Mom and Dad to Ramsey. Dad was working for Benzinger Brothers and they were moving the plant and office to Totowa NJ. So like Dad, he pulled out his map and drew ever wider circles around this location to explore neighborhoods to move to. One weekend he came from Stewart Manor on Long Island and found himself in Ridgewood. Not unusual -- even to this day -- those looking to move to NJ often start their search in Ridgewood. Meeting with the kindly RE agent, he gave them his

So yes! We still live here. We love it here. Bob and I live just behind St. Paul School, surrounded by exceptional neighbors who truly care, walking distance to school and church and library and town. Lucky us.

Ramsey Residents: Corbett, Meiman, Rapp, Remy Families

As Told to Salina McLaughlin | photography by Kat Yannalfo, Photography by SKY

Last day at 121 Jean Street

It is fitting that this edition is in honor of February... Mom and Dad immersed and soaked us in love- We don't take for granted what has been given us. We are privileged to have the next generation - our family be a part of Ramsey - the schools, the activities, the sports, and so much more.

As a real estate agent, I have the honor of assisting people making their next move. I strive to make sure their next move is the right move for them. Ramsey was the very BEST move for us both then and now. My wish is that their hometown is as lovely as Ramsey was and is for us.

You ask about a display of love... drive down Main St and see the war memorial at Bonnieview Park, the example of the ultimate sacrifice, see the townspeople supporting small businesses, the parent coaches at Finch Park, see the creche set up at the Lutheran Church where our pictures were taken every Christmas by Dad to honor the season, the first responders including Ambulance and Rescue along with the FD and RPD. These are all concrete daily examples of love. Ramsey loves their residents.

I have given this much thought...and find it hard to summarize the magic and the deep appreciation for growing up and staying here in Ramsey NJ.

TOM MEIMAN

I was just two months old when my parents moved to Ramsey; I defer to my more mature siblings about what our parent’s life looked like at the time they arrived in Ramsey. We all (siblings) attended St. Paul's School (now the Academy of St. Paul) for elementary school. High school for me was at St. Joe's in Montvale; so, except for about six months of kindergarten at Dater School, I missed the Ramsey School District experience.

There are so many fond family memories, all of them are in the context of being brought together as a family. I don't know if it was Mom and Dad or someone else, but their offspring were known collectively in the family as

"Magnificent 7". We shortened the title to "Mag 7" and still use the reference today.

I also note a tradition begun by our parents many decades ago: celebrating Thanksgiving on the Saturday following the actual holiday. This arrangement facilitated a resolution to schedule conflicts for any of the Mag 7 who had a significant other, spouse, etc. with dinner plans on Thursday. No need to split time or eat two dinners on the same day, just go and be present with that family on Thursday and then come and be present with Meimans on Saturday. The wisdom and consideration of this gesture is so appreciated, and the tradition continues.

Favorite Ramsey memories include spending summer afternoons at the pool on East Oak Street. When I was about in sixth grade, I started delivering the Bergen Record six days each week, first with my brother Jim and then on my own when he went to high school. We picked up the papers by bicycle on Momar Drive and then delivered to homes on the route including Jean Street, Donna Court, and North Jean.

I went to college in Baltimore and, other than returning to Ramsey for holidays and summers during undergrad years, I did not move back. I started a career in banking right after college in Baltimore. My wife, Carol Ann, and I met in Baltimore a few years after graduation. Incidentally, we were introduced by a mutual friend and former Jean Street, Ramsey resident, Gina (Ciaudelli) Maclean. Our three children - Mary, Owen, and Sarah - were born in Baltimore before a job opportunity saw the family relocate to Pittsburgh, PA. We are now retired there. Over all the years that we made our home elsewhere, we consistently returned to Ramsey several times each year to visit family and friends.

JIM MEIMAN *CURRENT

RAMSEY RESIDENT*

When my dad got a new job in Totowa, my parents knew they had to relocate to NJ. I recall Dad saying it was a realtor in Wayne that pointed him to Ramsey when he described the type of community he and Mom hoped to find. They looked at houses on South Central, Schierloh Court and Island Park Ave. He wanted to find who owned the undeveloped land on Woodland to perhaps build a house that would be walking distance to St. Paul’s Church. But while driving down Jean Street he saw a new home being built. That would become their home for the next 40 years.

Mom & Dad didn’t socialize much out of the home. Raising seven kids required time and money that they couldn’t afford. But they never made us feel guilty about that. Raising a big family was the life they wanted and loved. Our parents—an Office Manager and a part-time parochial school Music Teacher—had to make many personal sacrifices to be able to raise their family in Ramsey. My brothers and sisters and I benefited from their sacrificial love. I try to follow their example: Make your family your priority, trust in God, and you can make a wonderful life for your own family.

We all attended St. Paul’s grammar school and I attended St. Joe’s Regional in Montvale. When we grew up, St. Paul School began at First Grade so I attended public school Kindergarten—but the classroom was the basement of Redeemer Lutheran’s Church!

Some of my favorite Meiman family memories are:

1. Summer vacation trips to visit our grandparents in Chicago were always memorable. My dad would complete the 800-mile drive in one day in our Volkswagen “bus” van. Each of the seven kids was given an empty cigar box—everything we wanted to bring for amusement during the drive had to fit into the cigar box!

2. We had a big brass bell Mom would ring at the foot of our driveway when it was time to come home for dinner. You could hear that bell wherever we were on Jean Street or Dogwood Terrace.

3. As my siblings and I grew up, Dad crafted an organizer of sorts out of wooden pegboard and golf tees. It had all our names with a golf tee for each person that showed if we were in for the night or still out. At the bottom of the board was the reminder “Last one in, lock the door and turn out the lights”.

As for some of my favorite Ramsey memories, I loved baseball season and playing ball at a crowded Finch Park. That was a great way to get to make friends with many of the kids who went to public school. During high school I coached a team for three years with my friend Nick Childs and volunteered as an umpire for many years after returning from college.

During the early 1990’s I lived in East Rutherford for a few years when a Ramsey friend fixed me up on a blind date with her neighbor. The woman she set me up with would later become my wife. I loved moving back to my home town after we were married and we’ve been in our home on Elm Avenue for over 25 years.

My wife Linda and I have two grown children who both live in Connecticut: Kristin is a licensed Social Worker and James is a mechanical engineer working for Electric Boat. We also are blessed with a granddaughter, Mackenzie.

Linda and I are both very active in the parish life at Saint Paul’s Church.

Saint Paul’s has been such an integral part of the Ramsey community and our family for four generations. In some ways, I think it is the best-kept secret in Ramsey. By that I mean whether you are Catholic, a member of another church in Ramsey, or not involved in organized religion, the staff and parishioners of Saint Paul’s can be of service in so many ways.

Linda served as an EMT with Ramsey Ambulance Corps for over ten years. I enjoyed the nine years I served on the Ramsey Board of Education. The other trustees I served with are tremendously dedicated volunteers. I have some nieces and nephews that would make terrific BOE members. It’s a wonderful way to serve the Ramsey community. Professionally, I am the Creative Director at Kanebridge Corporation that, until recently, was based in Bergen County. I’ve worked there for 40 years. Linda just retired as a Physical Therapist with Valley Home Care.

MARY BETH REMY *CURRENT RAMSEY RESIDENT*

My parents wanted the best for their five children when they decided to move to Ramsey. They saw a town in the center of many neighborhoods where their children could walk or bike to the park, pool, downtown shopping, the library and church. I’ve heard my dad tell the story about when they started to think about moving to NJ. He took out a map, put a compass in the center of the area he and mom were looking at and then drew a circle. Ramsey was within that circle and I know they looked at several houses in Ramsey before deciding on new construction at 121 Jean Street.

Growing up in this town was the best. I have fond memories of leaving the house on a summer morning, playing outside all day without a care in the world whether it was with my friends playing house or school in the backyard or playing kick the can on a warm summer night after catching fireflies. It was great! Some of my best friends are like sisters and we are still very close to this day.

I went to kindergarten at Hubbard school and had Mrs. Bagelli as my teacher. I went to Saint Paul’s first through eighth grades. My mom was a music teacher there and the church organist. So, I’m not sure if we got a break on tuition or not, but my parents had a solid faith foundation and wanted us to have a Catholic school education. Most days we would go to my neighbors',

wait for them and walk to school together and then walk home again after school. These are great memories to be thinking of today.

I went to Immaculate Heart Academy in Washington Township for high school. My 8th grade class was pretty much split between IHA & Ramsey High School. It didn’t seem to matter because we all stayed close friends no matter which school we attended.

Answering which is my favorite Meiman family memory is a tough one! One of my favorite memories is the Christmas that Ann and I opened cars for our Barbie dolls on Christmas Eve. We went to bed and my brothers were helping my parents wrap Christmas presents that year after midnight mass. They thought that the Barbie cars needed to be wrapped so they wrapped them up again and Christmas morning Ann and I opened up two more Barbie cars and we thought we were the luckiest kids on the block because we got not only one but two Barbie cars each.

Another favorite memory was watching my dad mow the lawn on a summer afternoon, followed by sitting on the patio after as he started up the charcoal grill before putting burgers and dogs on that mom had made. The sound of the mower and the smell of the grass being cut and the charcoal fire being stoked before the food being put on is very vivid to me to this day.

Traveling with my entire family for 16 hours in a VW bus from New Jersey to Chicago to spend two weeks of summer vacation at grandma's house is another cherished memory. It was the only time all year we got name brand cereals in the individual serving boxes because we ate them in the car after we woke up from our early morning nap as we headed west. Also having it still be light out at 10 o’clock at night as we headed west because of the time change -very cool memories.

Music playing in our home - different kinds of music all the time. Mom playing the piano, transistor radio going, records on the Hifi stereo in the living room or the small plastic electric organ that Ann & I played. Music was a constant in our house.

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It is equally tough to choose a favorite Ramsey memory. One I recall is when I had leukemia as a child and that Christmas I couldn’t leave the house; so when Santa came around on the fire truck, he waved and jumped off the truck, walked up the driveway and actually came into the front hall, where he delivered a candy cane to my dad so he could give it to me as I watched from my living room window. I had the privilege of growing up at 121 Jean Street. Now I am privileged to live next-door to the house I grew up in.

My husband Russ and I met on a blind date in December 1983 and were married 6 years later. We lived in Mahwah for three years before raising two beautiful daughters here in Ramsey. Amanda attended Saint Paul’s kindergarten through fifth grade then Smith School and Ramsey High School. She attended Sacred Heart University and has worked for Madison Square Garden in NYC since graduating. Danielle went to Saint Paul’s kindergarten - first grade then to Ramsey 2nd grade through high school graduation. She attended University of Scranton, worked as a Special Education teacher until September, and now works as an HR training specialist for Philadelphia College of Osteopathic Medicine. Our girls were very active in Ramsey sports throughout their childhood, both played volleyball in high school and club volleyball in college. Russ coached many of their rec teams over the years and enjoyed seeing the girls and many of their friends mature in their talent and skills in bar sports. Some still come up to him to this day and say hey Mr. Remy, I remember when you coached me on such and such a team. Very cool.

I get asked the question a lot about what made us stay in Ramsey. Having such a great childhood here Russ and I wanted our children to have a similar experience. We both worked hard and did the best we could for our kids as they grew up. There is something to be said about this town, how it wraps around you like a warm blanket on a cold day and no matter where you are whenever you come back to Ramsey you truly feel like you’re coming home. I can’t say enough about the unique bond we have with our neighbors and sense of community/family we have on Jean Street.

Both Russ and I have been actively involved in the Ramsey community over the years. I have strong ties to Saint Paul’s church. I have taught CCD, been a lector, and active in the women’s ministry. I worked both senior galas at the high school for Amanda & Danielle. I look forward to Earth Day cleanup every spring as the roads and pathways in town need extra care after a long winter. Add to that, block party organizer, RPEF annual run participant, annual Home for the Holidays attendee and weekly farmers market supporter. Russ is a fourteen-year volunteer for the Ramsey Knights of Columbus. Professionally, after college, I worked for an orthopedic surgeon's office as a medical assistant, then transitioned to a corporate role at Osteonics/Stryker and am still there 32+ years later. I began in customer service then transitioned to Medical Education Senior Program Manager. I managed educational programs for orthopedic surgeons, both domestically and internationally- I traveled a lot for work. I currently manage joint replacement surgeon education for the Stryker NY Metro Sales branch territory. I love what I do because I do what I love and

continue to learn something new every day at Stryker. It’s become my 2nd family. Russ works in technology sales and is owner of Ellie Mental Health in Allendale. In celebration of Valentine's Day, you ask me what is the ultimate display of love in my opinion? The love my mom displayed for our family as she was selfless and always took care of others before she thought of herself. Raising 7 children in the 60s and 70s could not have been easy, yet it never looked or was conveyed that it was difficult. Mom and dad loved each of us in their own way, and the foundation that they provided to all of us as children has molded us into the parents and the adults that we are today. That is the true meaning of the word love in my mind. Being together with Russ 40+ years and we’re still best friends - That to me is another example of pure unconditional love.

JOHN MEIMAN

Mom and Dad – Leona and Joe – moved from Queens on Long Island when my father’s company, Benzinger Brothers (a printer of Christian mass books and school text books, and related religious articles), moved their eastern operations from New York City to Totowa, NJ. They narrowed down their selection of homes to a few in Bergen County, but ultimately selected to build a new one in Ramsey, based on what they learned about the schools, St. Paul’s RC Parish, and I believe the price for a larger lot and construction. As they had in Stewart Manor, they made friends and became active in their neighborhood and their parish, as did their five children, with two more children being born by 1968. Mom Lee was a church organist, and later, music director and taught the music program at St. Paul’s Academy. When Dad Joe worked for companies after the Totowa operation closed down, Mom ably served both of their parental roles, and taught us to responsibly look after each other. He had to survive sea-changes in the book publishing industry, but no matter how long his later workdays and commutes, he remained active in all seven of our lives and in Ramsey.

Like my brothers, I played little league baseball and CYO football, rode bicycles everywhere, went to summer science and music day-camps, and later, took after-school jobs cutting grass, painting houses, working at a Main Street delicatessen. There were kids my age with whom to play guitars, fly kites, and do school homework projects, during my St Paul’s elementary school and Ramsey High days. It was a truly wonderful life, and whether doing nerdy things like building a rock collection or hiking and camping, Ramsey was a terrific place to grow up in the 1960s and 70s.

swimming, and experiencing a rural riverfront life with the entire family. The siblings ranged in age from 18 to 1, and everyone had a terrific time – including the long drives east and westward, all of us in a Volkswagen minibus! We still relive both glorious and embarrassing memories of that epic trip.

I have so many favorite Ramsey memories. Participating in town parades, meeting friends by bicycling to the Dairy Queen or Sal’s Pizza, record shopping at Al Trapkin’s, the summer “Ramsey Days” precursor town-wide events, art and music camp at the Presbyterian Church, and the summertime movies and concerts at Finch Park. I loved summer breaks in Ramsey, even when I was old enough to travel down to the shore, because it was always possible to get a basketball or baseball game going, and the Ramsey Pool was a great place to spend a whole day, or even just an hour or two late in the day, both as a youth and later as a parent. When my children were little, they would go on walks with their Poppop Joe to throw stones in the brook by the Ramsey Library, or to climb up Campgaw Mountain with him. . . those are my most treasured memories.

As for my own family, I met my wife, Deb, while we were students at Rutgers University in 1978, and we were each the first to be married among our respective siblings, in 1981. For 20 years, we lived away from New Jersey – in Toledo (OH), Pittsburgh (PA), Bethlehem (PA), and Chicago (IL) – before returning to our state in 2001, and settling near Seaside Heights, to help look after her nonagenarian grandmother. Throughout our marriage, wherever we lived, we always traveled back to NJ and to both Ramsey and South Plainfield, where Deb’s parents and siblings lived, for holidays and summers. Despite growing up elsewhere and now living in Connecticut and California, our three children all have an emotional connection to Ramsey, even more than to the Toms River area and schools they attended when we moved back east, and we all come back here regularly.

I left Rutgers with an engineering degree and Deb had her degrees that targeted working with university administration. I graduated before her, and took a position in Baltimore, MD, while she worked at a congressional internship in nearby Washington, DC. From there, we kept getting pulled

toward other professional positions across the eastern half of the United States. My parents had moved to a new part of the country, far from other family when they started their life together, and had counseled that as a good way to learn to rely on each other. Since we always felt the pull of family to return to visit, this seemed to be a pretty good model to follow.

I love returning to Ramsey for family graduations, weddings, births, parties – and we still know the good places to get a pizza, bagels, ice cream or coffee! St. Paul’s parish is still the friendly welcoming community (within the Ramsey community) that I grew up with, and years peel away when I am there. I also love the many green spaces in Ramsey; the unique sound of trees here as they stretch and flex in the wind, and the way the town looks at Christmas time. The people were readily friendly when I grew up here, and the people my sisters and brother know here are still very friendly.

Professionally, I am a retired materials science engineer. Early on, I worked for companies mainly involved in glass coatings and specialty materials for the energy harvesting industries. I later moved into technology and business development, finding product lines that fit well with the companies I worked for, and their customers.

In honor of Valentine’s Day this month you ask what my opinion is on the ultimate display of love- When you know that you can absolutely trust another person with your heart, that makes anything possible, and there is virtually nothing you won’t do for them. I believe that was a life lesson from our folks, Joe and Leona, and despite a mountain of adversity in their lives, because of that love, life never became unmanageable. They wanted all of us to have that for ourselves, and with each other as family, and I know that we do.

ANN CORBETT *CURRENT RAMSEY RESIDENT*

My parents married in 1950 in Chicago, where my mom was raised. My dad, a Navy pilot, trained for World War II, but fortunately never saw combat as the war ended before he was deployed overseas. However it also meant it had

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My favorite Meiman family memory is our two-week trip to Chicago, Wisconsin and Minnesota in August 1969. With my mother’s extended family still in Chicago, we would travel there to see grandparents, favorite aunts and cousins every 2-3 years. In the summer of 1969, we drove to south side Chicago to see everyone, take in a Chicago White Sox game, as well as see the museums and an amusement park. We traveled up to Minnesota’s Mississippi river coast, stopping off for a boat ride through the Wisconsin Dells before spending a week with my father’s parents and full run of an expansive park and lodge, hiking,

to make his living in a different way than as a pilot and he did just that. After living in Stewart Manor/Garden City on Long Island, they moved to Ramsey in 1962 with 5 of their eventual 7 children. Deeply committed to their Catholic faith, my parents always let those beliefs guide their decisions, including where to settle. My dad famously told the real estate agent he only wanted to look in towns with Catholic grade schools and within walking distance of both the church and school. He even drew radius circles on maps around Catholic schools, asking the agent, “please find us a house inside one of these.” The agent found the perfect match: a four-bedroom house on Jean Street that was still being built. Though it wasn’t listed publicly for sale yet, she directed my dad to the builder. The moment he saw it, he knew it was the right place for our growing family. In 1962, they moved into 121 Jean Street, our family home for the next 40 years. It was brand new, with fresh finishes, lots of space and a big, flat yard perfect for playing ball. My mom must have felt like she’d hit the jackpot. Ramsey was quieter and more sparsely developed back then, with most houses on Jean Street yet to even be built. But the welcoming neighbors quickly became lifelong friends. My best friends lived down the street and behind us on Dogwood Terrace and we are close to this day!

Looking back, I feel so fortunate for the idyllic childhood we had in Ramsey. It was the picture of small-town America, with Finch Park, the Ramsey Pool, and Main Street boasting gems like the Ramsey Cinema and Rosie’s candy shop. All 7 of us attended and graduated from Saint Paul’s School. I was the last to graduate in 1982 before heading to IHA, following my two older sisters. My brothers, except John, attended Saint Joseph’s in Montvale, while John and Madeline graduated from Ramsey High School in the ’70s.

Some of my fondest family memories are the simple summer barbecues on our backyard patio. Even today, the smell of charcoal briquettes instantly takes me back to those warm evenings when dad was manning the grill and I was running barefoot in the grass, catching fireflies with my sister. Another favorite Ramsey memory is the summers spent at the Ramsey Pool, swimming until I was

waterlogged, indulging in frozen Milky Ways, Pixy Stix, and hot dogs from the snack stand. At 14, I got my first job there as a badge checker, riding my bike to work each day feeling like a grown-up. Jack McKeown, after whom the Ramsey Run is named, was my first boss. I followed my older siblings into my next part time job working as the “switchboard operator” at the Darlington Seminary Manor Home which is now Rio Vista in Mahwah. However, my greatest memories will probably be the sound of my beloved mother playing the piano whether it was at church as the church organist or at home with the baby grand in our living room. Mom taught music to generations of children going through Saint Paul’s School and played for all the parishioners on Sunday morning masses (sometimes sitting through 2 or 3 masses every Sunday!) We often said “Lee’s at the Keys” again. It’s hard to listen to the Hallelujah Chorus being sung on Christmas Eve without expecting her to be sitting right there playing the music.

When my husband and I married at Saint Paul’s 30 years ago, it was an easy decision to settle in Ramsey. After a brief stint in a Mahwah townhouse, we bought our first home here in 1999 and moved to a second (our current home) in 2007. Raising our two children—Taylor, 26, and Leah, 22—here was a no-brainer. With excellent schools, beautiful parks, a vibrant Main Street, and strong sports programs, it was the perfect environment. Having their local cousins nearby to grow up with only added to the daily charm of life. Taylor even started his own thriving landscape design business here 6 years ago and his red “Corbett Landscape Design” trucks can often be seen around town. Leah’s large group of lifelong Ramsey friends lived through being “COVID Seniors” but are resilient and bonded together with memories of fun, laughter and shared experiences.

After graduating from TCNJ in 1990, I returned to Ramsey and while job searching, I began training and volunteering as an EMT with the Ramsey Ambulance Corps. Those years introduced me to incredible people whose dedication and generosity to our town left a lasting impression. I trained with the best and spent many Ramsey Days manning the drink sales! As my children grew, we embraced Ramsey’s recreational programs. My happiest memories include sitting on the Finch Park bleachers, cheering for their baseball and softball games, where my husband, Bill, often volunteered as coach. Those years brought nonstop games, a few scrapes and injuries, and countless cherished moments.

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INGREDIENTS

2 lb bag of frozen hashbrown potatoes 8 oz shredded cheddar cheese

For the past 33 years, I’ve been a licensed NJ Realtor, proudly living by the motto, “I live here. I work here. I love it here!” Ramsey real estate is a natural fit for me, combining my love for the community with my passion for architecture and history. Even as a child, I begged my parents to take me to open houses, fascinated by the unique features of each home. Now, I get to share that enthusiasm with clients every day. I enjoy working closely with Marge Roche from Ramsey Responds as our 2 jobs get to overlap with each other in a very meaningful way! Plus looking out for my aging parents years ago has given me the natural inclination to want to work with and look out for the Seniors of our community who deserve our respect, protection and courtesy at every turn.

Ramsey will always hold my heart. It gave me a “Bedford Falls” childhood— filled with kickball in the streets, games of SPUD, games of CLUE with fresh lemonade, flashlight tag, whiffle ball, climbing trees, and riding bikes to visit friends through the Dogwood Terrace backyard shortcuts. Of course, I can't forget "Day Camp" (as it was called) at Finch Park or the summertime movies on the big screen there as well. It was a simple, joyful time, and I carry those memories as a foundation for everything I’ve built since. The top-rated schools, parks, train station, and wonderful neighbors make it an unbeatable place to live, and I can’t imagine being anywhere else.

The love and sacrifices of my parents set the tone for our family’s legacy. Their focus was never on material things but on togetherness, faith, and celebrating life’s milestones. My mom, who passed in 2005, met all 19 grandchildren, while my dad lived to see his 5 great-grandchildren before passing shortly before COVID. His funeral brought a 2-hour line of mourners that encircled Van Emburgh, a testament to the impact of his humble, loving life. Every day, I thank God that my parents found their way to 121 Jean Street in 1962, creating a life that has blessed us all. And having 2 sisters and a brother still in town is just icing on the cake! I’m extremely lucky and extremely blessed. What more could anyone ask for?

1-pint sour cream

1 10,5oz can cream of celery soup

1/2 cap chopped onions (green scallions with tops chopped) 1/1 lb (1 stick) butter, melted

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Mix all ingredients together.

2. Grease baking dish.

3. Bake at 350 degrees for one hour fifteen minutes.

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Saint Paul Church Men’s Ministry

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another”(Proverbs) Prayer • Service • Fellowship

Saint Paul Church MEN’S MINISTRY

Wby John Nunziata

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (Proverbs) PRAYER

Saint Paul Church Men’s Ministry

We are a robust community of over 200 Catholic guys... men of faith dedicated to prayer, service and fellowship. We are a quiet source of support for many people, gathering to worship, grow in faith and help the greater community. Come, inquire and join us. For more information, reach out to John Nunziata, Pastoral Associate at jnunziata@stpaulrcchurch.org

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another”(Proverbs)

Prayer • Service • Fellowship

(Some of) What We Do:

CELEBRATING 70 YEARS OF EXCELLENCE:

• Prepared & delivered over 21,000 meals over 11 years to area soup kitchens & via Ramsey Responds

Academy of Saint Paul’s 70th Graduating Class

• Gather to pray Tues @6:30 AM & 7:30 PM; monthly on Sat @7:30AM

• Serve St. Paul’s as lectors, eucharistic ministers, catechists, etc.

by Dr. Megan Fisher, Academy of St. Paul Principal

• Respond to residents in need—no job too big or too small

• Host friendly Cornhole tournaments twice a year

• Periodic “Mens Night Out” gatherings

I• Annual retreats—local & offsite on private island in Mystic CT

We are a robust community of over 200 Catholic guys... men of faith dedicated to prayer, service and fellowship. We are a quiet source of support for many people, gathering to worship, grow in faith and help the greater community. Come, inquire and join us. For more information, reach out to John Nunziata, Pastoral Associate at jnunziata@stpaulrcchurch.org

(SOME OF) WHAT WE DO:

e are a robust community of over 200 Catholic guys... men of faith dedicated to prayer, service and fellowship. We are a quiet source of support for many people, gathering to worship, grow in faith and help the greater community. Come, inquire and join us. For more information, reach out to John Nunziata, Pastoral Associate at jnunziata@stpaulrcchurch.org

• Prepared & delivered over 21,000 meals over 11 years to area soup kitchens & via Ramsey Responds

• Gather to pray Tues @6:30 AM & 7:30 PM; monthly on Sat @7:30AM

• Serve St. Paul’s as lectors, eucharistic ministers, catechists, etc.

• Respond to residents in need—no job too big or too small

• Host friendly Cornhole tournaments twice a year

• Periodic “Mens Night Out” gatherings

• Annual retreats—local & offsite on private island in Mystic CT

(Some of) What We Do:

• Prepared & delivered over 21,000 meals over 11 years to area soup kitchens & via Ramsey Responds

• Gather to pray Tues @6:30 AM & 7:30 PM; monthly on Sat @7:30AM

• Serve St. Paul’s as lectors, eucharistic ministers, catechists, etc.

• Respond to residents in need—no job too big or too small

• Host friendly Cornhole tournaments twice a year

• Periodic “Mens Night Out” gatherings

• Annual retreats—local & offsite on private island in Mystic CT

n 2025, the Academy of Saint Paul graduates its 70th class. Celebrating this milestone, the school community has planned many events recognizing ASP’s accomplishments and continued dedication to scholarship, spirituality and service. Lead by a committee tapped to plan a yearlong celebration, events include alumni outreach and an alumni Mass in the spring, an historical exhibit for the Ramsey library entryway on display for the month of December, specially designed ASP 70th anniversary spirit wear and a beefsteak gala for current and veteran families and alumni to be held at the school on February 1, 2025. The celebration will culminate with the 70th commencement to be held on June 6, 2025. Alumni will be invited to participate in the Baccalaureate Mass.

From its modest beginnings to its current status as a beacon of educational excellence, the Academy of Saint Paul has consistently nurtured and inspired generations of students. As we celebrate our 70th graduating class and honor past graduates, we note the resilience, dedication,

and achievements of our students throughout the years. Each graduate embodies the Catholic values and principles that have been the cornerstone of the institution founded by the Sisters of Charity seven decades ago. These students are well-prepared to face the challenges of the future, equipped with the knowledge, skills, faith and moral compass that the Academy of Saint Paul instills in all its students – Traditional Values in a Modern World. As we look to the future, we remain committed to fostering traditional values and educating the whole child by providing an exceptional education that fosters intellectual growth, character development, and a lifelong love of learning. The Academy of Saint Paul will continue to evolve, embracing new technologies and methodologies to ensure our students are prepared for the ever-changing modern world and equipped with foundational Catholic ideals.

The timeline below reflects on the rich history and remarkable achievements that have shaped the school.

A JOURNEY THROUGH TIME

1950-1989: The Foundation Years

1950: Monsignor Quinn purchased 12 acres of land on Wyckoff Avenue in Ramsey for $6,200, laying the groundwork for what would become a cornerstone of the community.

1953: St. Paul School opened its doors with 130 students in grades one through six, taught by the dedicated Sisters of Charity of Convent Station.

1955: The school celebrated its first graduating class, consisting of 18 students, marking the beginning of a legacy of academic excellence.

1989: The Superintendent of Schools in the Archdiocese of Newark developed the co-sponsorship school model, enhancing governance and fiscal responsibility.

1990-2014: Growth and Development

1990: St. Paul School transitioned to St. Paul Interparochial School (SPIS), reflecting its expanding role in the community.

1998: SPIS received accreditation from the Middle States Association Commissions on Elementary and Secondary Schools, a testament to its commitment to high educational standards.

2000-2014: Significant infrastructure improvements were made, including the construction of a computer lab, science laboratory, gymnasium, and new classrooms, ensuring students had access to state-of-the-art facility.

2009: Little Shepherd Pre-School at St. Paul Interparochial School opens for PreK3 and PreK4 students.

2015-Present: A New Era of Excellence

2015: The school earned the prestigious Academy designation, becoming the Academy of Saint Paul (ASP).

2015: ASP received the U.S. Department of Education National Blue-Ribbon School designation, recognizing its outstanding academic achievements. 2020-2024: Continued enhancements included the addition of the Chapel, STEM lab, water bottle refilling stations, and the selection as a Middle States Association Commission on Elementary and Secondary Schools Responsible Artificial Intelligence in Learning (RAIL) Founding School.

ELLIE MENTAL HEALTH

by Salina McLaughlin

Ellie Mental Health, located at 1 De Mercurio Drive, Suite 7-8, Allendale, NJ 07401, opened its doors in August 2023 to provide accessible and personalized mental health services to the surrounding communities. Russell Remy, a Ramsey resident and Business Director of Ellie Mental Health, purchased the franchise two years ago. “We wanted to offer something impactful,” Remy explains. “Mental health affects so many people, and we wanted to create a space where therapy is both accessible and effective for everyone.” Remy partnered with Barbaros Dinler, the Clinic Director, who brings over 22 years of experience in mental health and substance abuse counseling. Together, they launched Ellie Mental Health in Allendale, focusing on therapy in a comfortable, approachable setting.

The clinic offers a comprehensive range of services, including individual, couples, and family therapy, catering to clients across the lifespan—from children and adolescents to adults. Their therapeutic approaches address various mental health concerns such as anxiety disorders, depression, trauma, and more.

A distinguishing feature of Ellie Mental Health is its commitment to accessibility. The clinic is in-network with most New Jersey-based health insurance companies, striving to make mental health care both affordable and convenient. They offer flexible therapy options, including in-person and virtual sessions, allowing clients to choose or switch between modalities as needed to fit therapy into their busy lives.

Barbaros Dinler emphasizes a solution-focused approach to therapy, integrating techniques from various therapeutic models to tailor care to each client’s unique needs. Dinler values authenticity within the therapeutic relationship, stating, “I believe in being my true self because we’re asking clients to be their full selves so we can address their mental health needs.”

This commitment to authenticity sets the clinic apart. Dinler highlights the importance of therapists presenting themselves in a way that makes both them and their clients feel comfortable. “For years, the mental health profession has been associated with a formal, institutional vibe—therapists in suits behind

big desks,” Dinler says. “At Ellie, we encourage therapists to dress how they feel comfortable, as long as it’s professional. It’s about creating a relaxed space where both therapists and clients feel at ease.”

One common misconception about therapy is that it’s always emotionally intense or centered on deep, raw emotions. Dinler works to challenge this by integrating humor and lightness into sessions when appropriate, helping clients feel that therapy can be a balanced, even enjoyable experience. “Many people expect therapy to be heavy or all about crying on a couch,” Dinler says.

“While that can happen, therapy isn’t always about intense emotions. It’s about understanding yourself, building connections, and finding balance.” Dinler also emphasizes that therapy isn’t about waiting for a dramatic transformation. “Therapy is about making incremental progress,” he explains. “The goal is to help clients see the small changes that contribute to their overall well-being.”

The clinic’s design reflects a commitment to creating a comfortable, judgment-free environment where clients can be their authentic selves. This atmosphere is part of Ellie’s broader mission to break down treatment barriers and provide customized counseling services that meet individual therapy needs. Ellie Mental Health’s nationwide presence ensures a consistent and streamlined experience for clients. The admission process is uniform across all clinics, and therapeutic spaces are designed similarly, facilitating easy orientation for clients who may transition between locations. Despite being part of a larger network, the Allendale clinic is locally owned and operated,

reflecting a personal investment in making Bergen County a welcoming place for mental health care. “Our goal is to provide the best care so clients can connect with their therapist and start the journey that will be with them as long as they need,” says Barbaros Dinler.

With a growing team of six full-time therapists and plans for future expansion, Ellie Mental Health in Allendale is poised for continued success. Remy and Dinler remain committed to creating a safe, supportive environment where clients feel empowered to take control of their mental health.

“We want to be a part of the community,” Remy says. “Whether you’re seeking therapy for the first time or looking for a fresh approach, we’re here to help you find the support you need.”

For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit the Ellie Mental Health website at elliementalhealth.com/locations/allendale-nj.

Elementary school teachers lay the foundation of how to study, but in middle school, students are expected to have these skills. Middle school expectations are higher, and students must be independent learners who take responsibility for their own learning.

What are some of the middle school study skills your student should be cultivating as they move toward high school? Here are five of the most essential:

TIME MANAGEMENT – Time management is a skill that new middle school students have not always mastered. Encourage your child to use their planner or homework app to keep track of their work. When it comes to upcoming quizzes and tests, they should always plan ahead. That means developing a study plan well in advance. Remind your child that spaced out study sessions have been proven to be much more effective than fewer, longer study sessions. Encourage your child during middle school to develop a consistent study schedule. Tips:

• Work backward from tests/quizzes when creating a schedule

• Prioritize hardest and soonest tests/quizzes

• Incorporate study time every day leading up to tests/quizzes around other responsibilities and school hours

VISUAL AIDS – Even students who learn effectively by reading and listening can benefit from visual aids such as diagrams, charts, flashcards, lists, visual memory devices and diagrams. When there are opportunities for your child to incorporate visual study tools, do so.

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TAKING QUALITY NOTES – Note taking is new for most middle school students. Writing down what a teacher says isn’t enough, however. Your child needs to learn how to take useful notes that will help them prepare well for quizzes and tests. Help your child develop this skill. Talk with their teachers about effective methods, whether they recommend the Cornell note-taking method or have other note-taking tips. Your child’s notes should:

• Summarize important concepts

• Call out key terms and information that jogs their memory for more details

• Record essential concepts they should study more deeply

ORGANIZATION – For many new middle school students, organization is a big challenge. These students have never faced the challenge of managing so many separate materials for different classes. Help your middle schooler create an organizational system that keeps track of all physical items like handouts and syllabi as well as any electronic files. While organization is not exactly a study skill, being organized helps students minimize wasted time and stress so that when they do sit down to study, they can easily access what they need and get focused.

Lastly, it is wise to get your child help in middle school when they struggle with studying or homework. If your child seems to lack discipline or tools to study effectively, you should address these issues sooner than later. Middle school is a big transition period for students and a time when you should help them become more independent. Honing those study skills is an important part of that. Huntington can help! Call us at 1-800 CAN LEARN to learn how.

PRACTICE TESTS – Not every teacher will offer or use practice tests as a way for students to get prepared for actual tests, but if your student ever does have access to mock exams or can ask the teacher for any, these are useful. Another idea: have your child create their own practice tests. They can use their detailed notes and textbook to create test questions. Some texts even include summary questions at the end of chapters.

RAMSEY FARMERS MARKET:

by Salina McLaughlin

Nestled in the heart of downtown Ramsey, the Ramsey Farmers Market is more than just a place to shop—it’s a vibrant gathering space where community spirit thrives. Held every Sunday at the Ramsey Main Street Train Station’s Erie Plaza, the market operates outdoors year-round, welcoming visitors rain, snow, or shine. This steadfast commitment to accessibility reflects its mission to “provide fresh, local, healthy food while supporting and promoting our diverse agricultural community.” The market is held from 10-1 during the winter months of December-April and 9-2 during the months May-November.

Market Manager Nancy Boone fondly recounts the evolution of the market. “In 2010, the Ramsey Mayor and Council accepted a proposal to hold a weekly, non-profit farmers’ market for our community. Sponsored by the Ramsey Historical Association and supported by the Borough of Ramsey the market kicked off its first season in

June 2010 with only 12 vendors. As market manager for 15 years, I’m so very proud of what we have, as a community, continue to thrive and be voted Best in Bergen year after year.”

Founded on the principles of sustainability, health, and community connection, the Ramsey Farmers Market offers an impressive array of farm-fresh produce, artisan foods, and handcrafted goods. With approximately eighty vendors affiliated with the market who are located generally within 150 miles of Ramsey, shoppers can browse a plethora of seasonal fruits and vegetables, pasture-raised meats, fresh seafood, baked goods, cheeses, and unique crafts. The market prides itself on partnering with vendors who embrace sustainable and organic practices, ensuring the highest quality for its patrons. Boone adds, “We have just concluded our 15th anniversary season, stronger than ever, and now year-round outdoors, offering so many options from which to choose, from our many dedicated vendors. Our Ramsey Farmers’ Market is the perfect venue for small business and entrepreneurs testing new products, introducing more culturally diverse food items, and welcoming folks from communities far and wide to visit our lovely town. We are proud that so many folks now make Sundays in Ramsey part of their weekly shopping routine.”

The market’s dedication to community extends far beyond its weekly offerings. Ramsey Farmers Market embodies a spirit of giving back, frequently donating surplus goods and contributions to support local nonprofit initiatives. These efforts have helped fund special projects such as food drives, school programs, and other community-based endeavors. By prioritizing the welfare of its neighbors, the market continually pays it forward, proving that its mission is about more than food—it’s about building a stronger, more connected Ramsey. The market offers sponsorship opportunities to local businesses who support their mission. Sixty-six

sponsors supported the market in 2024. With their help, the market continues to thrive and boost the local economy. Visit ramseyfarmersmarket.org to learn more about the sponsors and how you can support the mission as well.

Additionally Nancy Boone remarked, “The market could not thrive without the support of many, including our Mayor and Council, the Ramsey Police Department, the staff from the DPW, our loyal business sponsors, our wonderful small staff of volunteers answering customer questions and hosting children’s crafts during the summer, our talented and dedicated community of outstanding farmers, food purveyors and artisans, and, of course, all the folks, young and not so young, who join us at the market.”

When you visit the market, bring your furry family members along. Dogs are welcome at the Ramsey Farmers Market, provided they are leashed and wellbehaved. To maintain a safe and pleasant experience for all visitors, the market encourages owners to keep their pets at their side and clean up after them. These guidelines ensure the market remains a welcoming space for everyone, including furry friends.

The Ramsey Farmers Market also embraces its role as an educational hub. Visitors can enjoy live music, cooking demonstrations, and workshops on topics like sustainable gardening and healthy cooking. Seasonal celebrations and holidaythemed events bring added excitement, making every visit a unique experience.

The market’s commitment to its mission shines through every aspect of its operation, from its dedication to promoting local agriculture to its contributions to nonprofit initiatives. For residents and visitors alike, the Ramsey Farmers Market is more than just a shopping destination—it’s a place where connections are made, traditions are celebrated, and the community comes together to support something meaningful. “For me personally, every single Sunday is a celebration!”

Nancy Boone exclaimed.

For more information about the Ramsey Farmers Market and its vendors, policies, and upcoming events, visit www.ramseyfarmersmarket.org. Be sure to sign up for the email newsletter and follow their Facebook page to keep abreast of the vendors and events taking place each week.

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MEET LUCAS VALVERDE:

THE 11-YEAR-OLD INNOVATOR

BREAKING BARRIERS WITH RUBIK’S CUBES, ROBOTICS, AND BIG DREAMS

by Lauren DePaul Schreiber

At just 11 years old, Lucas Valverde has already mastered more than most kids his age. From solving Rubik’s Cubes to building BattleBots, Lucas is driven by a passion for learning and pushing technological boundaries.

It all started when Lucas was 8 years old. On the way to a family ski trip, Lucas found himself without any devices for the long car ride. That’s when his dad handed him a Rubik’s Cube. “He told me to try it, and I became interested right away,” Lucas recalls. “I was fascinated! When I first started, it took me a long time to even figure it out.” That small challenge turned into a big hobby.

The current world record for solving a Rubik’s Cube stands at an astonishing 3.8 seconds. While Lucas’s personal best is 43 seconds, he’s determined to get faster. “I’m trying to beat the world record,” he says. “Whenever I time myself, I feel extra pressure. I always feel like I can do it faster when I don’t time myself.”

Lucas’s rapid improvement didn’t happen overnight—well, except for that one time it almost did. “This past summer, I was really practicing a lot. I got tips from YouTube videos. One night, I even stayed up all night practicing and solving the cube with algorithms based on what I learned from the videos,” he admits. He also credits his summer camp experience at ID Tech, where his instructor gave him helpful tips for solving the cube. “I built a BattleBot there,” Lucas says. “It’s a really cool camp; everyone should go!”

His approach to the cube is methodical: “It’s an if/then statement. If you see this pattern, do this,” he explains. Lucas practices as often as he can. “I try to work on Rubik’s Cubes every day if I’m not too busy,” he says, noting that his sister, Olivia, often mixes up the cube for him to solve.

Lucas’s interests, however, go far beyond solving puzzles. He’s deeply fascinated by robotics and technology. “I’m looking into joining the robotics team at Smith School, or even starting one with my friend Nathaniel,” he shares. Lucas also loves coding and has even taught himself some basic PC

POSTCARDS FROM THE PAST

by Daniel Kennedy, Ramsey Historical Association

Postcards from the Past will be an ongoing column in Ramsey Neighbors, contributed by Daniel Kennedy, President of the Ramsey Historical Association. This series will explore various aspects of Ramsey’s history through the lens of vintage postcards.

H.R. Parvin, Druggist as the store appeared on Main Street in 1908. Also called a pharmacy, by 1900 such establishments stocked their shelves, at least in part, with prefabricated medicines mass produced by what would become the pharmaceutical industry, whereas earlier they would largely be produced by an individual pharmacist. Thus the role shifted from one of being a producer of medicines to a dispenser of them. The postcard indicates Parvin's is 'where we buy our souvenirs', and unsurprisingly the name Parvin appears on the back of many early postcards. The advertisements in front include one for '10 cent cures', bonbons and chocolates, and 'Frank's Ice Cream' on the pole out front. Above the advertisement for ice cream is a sign indicating a phone booth is inside with the 'Bell system' logo. The original Parvin's postal window is on display in the Old Stone House.

networking skills. His dad bought him a PC Networking for Dummies book as a gift, and he wouldn’t put it down until he was finished. “I love playing video games. My favorites are Age of Empires IV, Minecraft, Roblox, and Fortnite,” he says, proving his versatility as both a gamer and a tech enthusiast. But Lucas doesn’t stop at what already exists. He has a keen curiosity for emerging technologies, including artificial intelligence. “I design with 3D printing, and I’m very interested in AI technology,” Lucas says. He’s even tested the AI behind Quizlet. “I figured out that Quizlet can get mad at you,” he laughs. “I’m very interested in AI. I want to know how far AI can push the boundaries of what’s possible with technology. I want to invent something one day to help people, but I don’t want it to take over human jobs.”

Lucas’s love of learning extends into the classroom as well. “Math has always been one of my better subjects, and I really like science,” he says. “I really like all of my teachers at Smith.” When he is not in school or practicing his Rubik’s Cube, Lucas enjoys golfing, basketball, Jiu Jitsu, lacrosse, and spending time with his parents and sister at home.

Eight years ago, Lucas’s family moved to Ramsey from New York City to be close to his grandparents, who are avid golfers. His grandparents, Michiko and Sam Yada, lived in the community for many years and have won championship titles, which can be seen all over the RGCC championships wall. Lucas is very proud of his grandpa and says, “My grandpa is a legend!” He hopes to be as great a golfer as his grandparents and play golf with his family in Hawaii. They moved to Hawaii permanently last year. Lucas and his family snowboard during the winter and play golf during the summer. They also enjoy spending time with friends at the RGCC pool— swimming, kayaking, and fishing.

At just 11 years old, Lucas Valverde is a prime example of how curiosity and hard work can open doors to endless possibilities. Whether it’s coding, robotics, or breaking records with a Rubik’s Cube, Lucas is just getting started.

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FURRY FRIENDS AND FEBRUARY FUN:

by Lauren DePaul Schreiber

NATIONAL PET DENTAL HEALTH MONTH

Did you know February is National Pet Dental Health Month? Oral health is just as important for pets as it is for humans. Dental disease can lead to pain, infections, and other health issues if left unchecked. Use this month as a reminder to schedule a dental check-up with your veterinarian. You can also brush your pet’s teeth regularly using pet-friendly toothpaste. For an extra treat, consider dental chews or toys designed to reduce plaque and tartar. Your pet’s smile—and health—will thank you!

HEART HEALTH AWARENESS FOR PETS

February isn’t just about human hearts; it’s also a time to pay attention to your pet’s cardiovascular health. Regular exercise and a balanced diet play a vital role in keeping their hearts strong. Take your dog for an extra-long walk this month or engage your cat in a new game of chase with a feather wand. If your pet is older, talk to your vet about screenings for common heart conditions.

WINTER COMFORT FOR YOUR PETS

February can still bring chilly weather, so it’s important to ensure your pets are warm and cozy. Invest in a snug pet bed or sweater for short-haired dogs. Make sure your outdoor animals have proper shelter from the elements. Cold weather can also dry out your pet’s skin, so consider using a humidifier indoors and moisturizing paw balms for pets that love outdoor adventures.

SHARE THE LOVE

If you’re looking for a way to share the love this month, consider supporting local shelters. February is an ideal time to adopt a new furry friend, donate supplies, or volunteer your time.

Pets waiting for their forever homes could use a little extra love during this season of compassion.

THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNITY CONNECTION FOR MENTAL HEALTH: A SCIENTIFIC PERSPECTIVE

by Salina McLaughlin and Lauren DePaul Schreiber

In an increasingly digital and globalized world, where the hustle and bustle of daily life often leads to isolation, the importance of being connected to one's community cannot be overstated— especially from a mental health perspective. Research consistently shows that strong community ties are vital for maintaining and improving mental health, providing not only a sense of belonging but also tangible psychological and emotional benefits.

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNITY

Humans are inherently social beings. This fundamental truth is reflected in the way our brains are wired for connection. Studies have shown that social relationships are crucial for mental well-being. A landmark study by Holt-Lunstad et al. (2010)

found that social isolation and loneliness are associated with a significant increase in mortality risk, comparable to other well-established risk factors such as obesity and smoking. This study underscores the critical role of social connections in our overall health and longevity.

COMMUNITY AS A BUFFER AGAINST STRESS

Engagement with a community provides a buffer against stress, a major contributor to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. According to a study published in the American Journal of Community Psychology, social support from community ties can mitigate the impact of stress on mental health. The study found that individuals who reported stronger connections to their communities experienced lower levels of stress and better overall mental health compared to those with weaker social ties.

THE ROLE OF COMMUNITY IN REDUCING DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY

Depression and anxiety are two of the most common mental health disorders globally. Research indicates that community involvement can significantly reduce the risk of these conditions. It has been widely studied that people who participate in community activities, such as volunteering or social clubs, have lower levels of depression and anxiety. These activities foster a sense of purpose and belonging, which are key factors in combating these mental health issues.

THE SCIENCE OF BELONGING

Being connected to your community isn't just about reducing loneliness; it's about sustaining and enhancing your mental health through the supportive power of human relationships. Ramsey Neighbors Magazine is proud to live out our mission of bringing people together.

REFERENCES:

1. Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T.B., & Layton, J.B. (2010). Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: A Meta-analytic Review. *PLOS Medicine*, 7(7), e1000316. doi:10.1371/journal.pmed.1000316.

2. Baumeister, R.F., & Leary, M.R. (1995). The Need to Belong: Desire for Interpersonal Attachments as a Fundamental Human Motivation. *Psychological Bulletin*, 117(3), 497-529.

3. Cohen, S., & Wills, T.A. (1985). Stress, Social Support, and the Buffering Hypothesis. *Psychological Bulletin*, 98(2), 310-357.

4. Steptoe, A., Shankar, A., Demakakos, P., & Wardle, J. (2013). Social Isolation, Loneliness, and All-Cause Mortality in Older Men and Women. *Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences*, 110(15), 5797-5801.

5. Holt-Lunstad, J., & Uchino, B.N. (2019). Social Support and Health. In H.S. Friedman (Ed.), *Encyclopedia of Mental Health* (2nd ed., Vol. 4, pp. 437-444). Elsevier.

The feeling of belonging is a fundamental human need. A study by Baumeister and Leary (1995) posits that the need to belong is a powerful, fundamental, and extremely pervasive motivation. When this need is fulfilled, individuals experience positive emotions and better mental health. Conversely, a lack of belonging can lead to feelings of loneliness, which has been linked to numerous mental health challenges. Community connection, therefore, serves as a critical component in fulfilling this need for belonging.

THE ROLE OF HYPER-LOCAL COMMUNITY PUBLICATIONS

In this context, hyper-local community publications like Ramsey Neighbors Magazine play a crucial role in fostering a connection to the community. The publication serves as a bridge, connecting residents with local events, businesses, and each other. By highlighting stories, achievements, and opportunities within the community, magazine nurtures a sense of pride and belonging among readers.

STRENGTHENING COMMUNITY TIES FOR BETTER MENTAL HEALTH

It is clear that staying connected to a community is not just a social nicety but a fundamental necessity for mental health. Whether through social clubs, volunteering, or simply maintaining close relationships with neighbors and friends, fostering community connections can provide significant mental health benefits. Ramsey Neighbors Magazine plays a role in this process, helping to ensure that the sense of community remains strong, and with it, the mental well-being of the readers.

For instance, when residents see their neighbors featured in stories or learn about local initiatives and events through the magazine, they are more likely to participate and engage with their community. This engagement not only strengthens community ties but also provides the social support networks that are vital for mental well-being. Ramsey Neighbors Magazine can thus be seen as more than just a source of information—it's a tool for building and maintaining the social connections that are so essential for mental health and a connected community.