October/November 2011 Tallahassee Woman

COMPLIMENTARY

October/November 2011

candi

Fabulous

Fall

Fashion Plus Our Faves & Raves for Autumn

Business

Fisher

On Family, Football & Faith

DelIghtful Dining Ideas for Thanksgiving

Advice

There’s

by the

Mad

More

Women

Than You Thought

Raising

Awareness

on Breast

Local Arts &

Entertainment

Cancer Health

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Contents T a l l a h a s s e e W o m a n M a g a z i n e | O c t o b e r / N o v e m b e r 2 0 11

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On the Cover

Candi Fisher—On Family, Football and Faith Candi, wife of FSU Football Coach Jimbo Fisher, opens up about the challenges she and her family have faced and how, together, they’re moving forward one day at a time.

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F E AT U R E S

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Arts & Entertainment in Tallahassee

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All in the Family

What is there to do in Tallahassee? More than you thought.

A family stricken with breast cancer turns to humor.

D e p art m e n ts

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Our Thoughts

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Girl Talk

Handling Plan B

Fashion | Knowledge | Wellness | Shopping

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Faves & Raves

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Style & Grace

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Business & Career

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The Dish

Fabulous autumn finds from local merchants.

TuTu Divine Fall Fashion Trends

Seven Habits of Tallahassee’s Mad Women

Start a Cranberry Craze This Thanksgiving

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Community

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Around Town

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Woman We Admire

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Funny Girl

Shining a Light on Lung Cancer | Run for Lawson

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Events and happenings in and around Tallahassee.

Annie Johnson—Tallahassee’s Local Angel

The Starbucks Deal

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About the Cover | Photography by Adam Cohen Styling by Nancy Cohen | Apparel by Narcissus Hair by Lindsey Young of Ardan’s Salon

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OURTHOUGHTS

Plan B

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t’s finally my favorite time of year in Tallahassee, when we are rewarded for enduring the endless days of heat and humidity, and the cool air blowing through our open windows makes us wonder why we were even complaining in the first place. It’s a time of thanksgiving and a time to slow down and remember the sweetness of life and the blessings to be found just about everywhere, if only you choose to look for them.

One of the main joys of my job as Editor and also as a writer is being able to talk to women who inspire me and then being able to share their stories with you. It never fails to amaze me how one woman’s story will echo another’s. Their lives may be dissimilar, but their struggles and triumphs will reach across the divide of any worldly differences and connect in an elemental way. One of my main takeaways from this issue is the idea that life is all about how you handle Plan B. Plan A is when things work out the way you want them to, the way you expect them to. Plan B is not the plan you wanted, where nothing goes as it should and your character may be tested, sometimes beyond what you thought you could endure.

Our cover woman, Candi Fisher, knows a lot about life suddenly opening a door to a road less traveled and one she never foresaw going down. Besides being the wife of Florida State’s head football coach, she is a mother of two boys, with her youngest recently being diagnosed with a rare form of anemia. Her story will show you how she has chosen to take action in a powerful and life-affirming way and finding tremendous strength in the process.

With October being breast cancer awareness month, we can all reflect on how this disease has affected us directly or indirectly. The four women interviewed in our breast cancer feature have a special bond that goes beyond their family ties. They too are choosing to find the good from the bad, filling their lives with hope, love and laughter.

Life will always be handing out different plans than the ones we had envisioned, but the key, as the women in this issue can testify, is all in how you respond to them. You may not be able to choose the plan, or the outcome, but you can choose how you move forward with the circumstances that have been dealt to you. I’m learning that “Plan B” may not be what I wanted, but the more I am willing to shift gears and actively look for the blessings, I tend to find exactly what I’m looking for.

Wishing joy and blessings to all of you.

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Living Well and Loving Life!

October/November 2011 Volume 6 | Issue 5

Publisher Kim Rosier Editor Heather Thomas Advertising sales Director Lynn Solomon GRAPHIC DESIGN Christy Jennings Miqueli INTERNS Taylor Field Cayla McDonald Contributing photographers Shana Beiro Adam Cohen Inga Finch Courtney Gwaltney Tallahassee Woman Magazine LLC Post Office Box 13401 Tallahassee, FL 32317-3401 Phone (850) 893-9624 Fax (850) 254­-7038 info@TalWoman.com Tallahassee Woman is published six times per year and is distributed on a complimentary basis throughout Tallahassee and the surrounding communities. Subscriptions are available for $15 for one year (six issues).

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G i r lta l k FA SHION | K NOWLED GE | WELLNESS | SHOPPING

Sheer Brilliance— Pantyhose are Back The newest old accessory to sophisticate your wardrobe this fall

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t’s time to dig through your sock drawer and find those old nude pantyhose you never thought you’d wear again. Of course, it took a princess like Kate Middleton to relaunch the style for today’s chic woman. Love them or hate them, sheer pantyhose are back and are a great wardrobe staple for smooth, flawless-looking legs.

Sophistication is the attitude of this fall season. Call them nudies or a miracle, their light sheen and tight fit work to make legs appear smoother, slimmer and blemish-free. This trend has spread like rapid fire overseas, with both Middleton sisters donning them amid their formalwear quite often. No surprise, American celeb trend-setters like Beyoncé and Sarah Jessica Parker have jumped on the bandwagon as well.

Wear them with your work or weekend wardrobe whenever you want to create a more polished look.

Brands like Donna Karan Nudes sell high-quality sheers for around $20, but you can find them for less at your local drugstore. To find hose that match your skin tone, stretch them over your hand to see what looks the most subtle. Still scared to be caught in the nude? Black sheer and patterned pantyhose are showing up all over the runways as the fashion must-have this fall as well.

—Taylor Field

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Six Essential Apps Parents Can’t Live Without

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nce you become a parent, life is definitely busier. But the good news is, if you know where to look, a few tools can make the day-to-day a bit easier. Liz Zack, suburban mom of two, is editorial director of Pregnancy & Parenting for iVillage.com, the largest community for women online.

The site is the ultimate resource for women, moms and parents-to-be who are seeking to connect, and share advice and find the life tools that will help them navigate parenthood.

Here, Liz shares the six mobile apps that help her in her daily routine.

Fooducate: A food label may say

the ingredients are “all natural,” but what does that really mean? This app gives you the lowdown on the foods gracing your grocery list and helps locate alternatives if you need them.

Color-coded grades show how your shopping cart stacks up nutritionally.

iTriage: When you’re away from home and someone in your family feels sick, it can be difficult to know how seriously to take the symptoms or whom to turn to. Fortunately, the iTriage app provides

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Peapod: From reading nutritional

labels to conducting price comparisons, shopping via this app is just like being in the physical store, but without the cranky kids and the cart with the squeaky wheel. Scan the bar code of an empty shampoo bottle or use keywords to find the juice your kids are raving about and instantly add it to your order.

Sit or Squat: If you’ve ever been out with a toddler who needs to pee, you will know the value of this app, which helps you locate the nearest restroom.

2Do: Tasks Done In Style:

Moms are known for multitasking, but that mental energy can come at a price. Enter this app, which will take a chunk of the stress out of juggling your responsibilities. It syncs the tasks and to-do’s from existing management systems, plus it prioritizes your tasks.

Your basic calendar can’t advise you to go to the dry cleaner’s before the grocery store, but this app will. Plus, it can remind you of that important conference call while you’re on the road.

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Etsy.com a craft marketplace

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uy, sell, or just browse, the website etsy.com has thousands of exceptional items for reasonable prices. Categories include accessories, art, bags and purses, bath and beauty, books and zines, candles, ceramics and pottery, clothing, crochet, dolls, furniture, glass, housewares, jewelry, knitting, needlecraft, patterns, plants and edibles, quilts, toys, and woodworking. On this cutesy site, you can search for specific items, browse galleries curated by Etsy members, or create your own gallery of favorite items. It is very personal, quite like a real marketplace.

Many artists from the Tallahassee area use the site as a means to sell their unique creations: items from Happy Little Monkey (monogrammed and specialty children’s items

by Carrie Fraser), Love Dog (animal artwork

by Patti Maney), and The Governor’s Daughter (jewelry creations by Holly Holloway).

Ways to shop include pouncing, which is finding items from recently active and undiscovered shops; the time machine function, which displays recently purchased items on Etsy; or the very clever colors preference, where they boast that you may “Click a color, any color. We’ll find items to match.” It’s a great place for buying—and also selling. There is a Featured Sellers section with interviews, as well.

Discover extraordinary gifts or find something special for yourself! Etsy is a great place to find art, crafts, decorations and jewelry or to start your holiday shopping. You’ll find gifts for your family and friends that they will love. Explore the treasury at etsy.com.

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The Best Day of the Week to...

There’s a best day of the week for just about everything. You can actually save a lot of time and money simply by doing certain things on certain days according to the website funtimesguide.com.

Saturday Shop at department stores • Travel

Sunday Get a great rate on a hotel room • Buy groceries • Start and end eBay auctions. • Fill up your gas tank • Have a garage sale or yard sale.

MONDAy Buy a new car (especially in October, November, and December) • Visit a theme park • Search for jobs • Shop online.

tuesday Move (also Wednesdays) • Go “live” with a new computer product or version.

wednesday Employers to post a job ad.

thursday Buy new clothes (evenings).

friday Want a raise? This is the best day to ask for one.

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C A PITAL

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Delicious food items will be available for purchase catered by the University Center Club. Also included is a Silent auction featuring luxury travel packages. Proceeds from the festival support the Florida State University Dedman School of Hospitality Wine Education program. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit winefoodfest.com.

Walking Ghost Tour of Tallahassee Noteworthy events coming up in the area that you don’t want to miss.

10th Annual Breast Cancer Poker Run

October 9, 2011 Capital City Harley Davidson

Chrome Divas, a worldwide group of female motorcyclists, is getting together to support Tallahassee Memorial Healthcare’s “A Woman’s Place” by doing what they love—riding. After the run, there will be live music, a full bar, a 50/50 raffle, door prizes and an auction. Lunch will be provided. Registration begins at 9 a.m. and the cost is $15 per rider and $10 per passenger. Cages (cars) are also welcome. All proceeds benefit Tallahassee Memorial Hospital’s A Woman’s Place.

For more information, visit chromedivas.com/events.

3rd Annual North Florida Wine & Food Festival October 15, 2011 University Center Club

Come to the North Florida Wine & Food Festival, an evening featuring fine wines and tantalizing foods.

Admission is $30 per person; guests (age 21 and older with photo ID) enjoy tastings from a selection of more than 300 wines.

October 20–23, 2011 Challenger Learning Center

Costumed tour guides will lead you on a fun and spooky 45-minute walking tour of the haunted buildings in old Tallahassee. Tours leave nightly from the Challenger Learning Center and end at the cemetery on Martin Luther King, Jr. Boulevard. Tours are suitable for all ages. Tickets are $15 or $5 per child under 5. To make reservations, e-mail booking@toursintallahassee.com or call (850) 212-2063.

Shine a Light on Lung Cancer Vigil

November 1, 2011 Kleman Plaza

The Lung Cancer Alliance will kick off Lung Cancer Awareness Month with a national vigil to raise support and awareness. According to the Lung Cancer Alliance, lung cancer kills twice as many women per year as breast cancer. Tallahassee’s vigil will begin at 6 p.m. on Kleman Plaza in downtown Tallahassee. For more information or to register (no cost), visit shinealightonlungcancer.org.

Belt Buckle Ball November 4, 2011 The Space at Feather Oaks

Come out and support Shands Hospital for Children at the University of Florida with games, live music and good food. Games will include funny-money poker and a corn-hole tournament. Tickets are $75 and 100 percent of the proceeds go to Shands Hospital Tallahassee’s 2011 for Children. Don’t forget to wear your biggest, craziest belt buckle!

For more Belt Buckle Ball information or to purchase tickets, call (850) 386-6417 or visit shandsgiving.org and click Belt Buckle Ball.

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OXYGEN BALL

November 5, 2011 University Center Club

CLASSIC INTERIORS W I T H PA N AC H E

The American Lung Association is holding its 4th Annual Oxygen Ball, “Dancing with the Local Stars.” Professional dancers will be paired up with six local celebrities for a ballroom dancing competition.

Dinner, ballroom dancing competition, open dance floor and a silent auction are included in your ticket purchase.

All proceeds will benefit the American Lung Association in Florida. For more information and to purchase tickets call (850) 386-2065 or e-mail jpendleton@lungfla.org.

ALTERNATIVE CHRISTMAS MARKET December 3–4 2011, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. at John Wesley United Methodist Church 1689 Old St. Augustine Road, Tallahassee

December 9, 2011, from 6:00 p.m. to 9 p.m. and December 10, 2011, from 8:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at Christ Presbyterian Church 2317 Bannerman Road, Tallahassee

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Many local and international charities will be featured at the Alternative Christmas Market. Shoppers may choose one or more of their favorites charities to support, and the donation is transformed into a gift in honor of someone special at Christmas. Cards are customized to detail the goods or services made possible by the donation. Beautiful gift items handcrafted by third-world artisans and other gift items that benefit local charities are also available. Admission is a nonperishable food item for a needy neighbor. Mail-in orders are available on the website alternativechristmasmarketjwc.com. For more information visit cpusa.org.

The harmonious hues of jeweled tones are found in the autumn flower knit hat from Nepal and traditional woven scarf.

The evocative intensity of emerald, tourmaline, carnelian and amber accessories move right into the fall season.

Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition Through January 2, 2012 Mary Brogan Museum of Art and Science

More than 100 items from the infamous Titanic are now on display at the Brogan Museum. The exhibit tells the fateful story of the passengers using artifacts, powerful quotes and a third-class stateroom replica. The exhibit even features a frigid iceberg that visitors are encouraged to touch. Tickets are $22 for adults and $14 for children. For more information, visit thebrogan.org.

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“Family First”

By Heather Thomas

Candi Fisher has been through a lot of ups and downs being married to a college football coach. However, when her youngest son was recently diagnosed with a rare form of anemia, her foundation was shaken. But like any steel forged in fire, she has become stronger and more resolute in the process.

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here was a time when Candi Fisher lived a life without the game of football, but she doesn’t remember it much.

For the past 18 years, Candi has been married to Jimbo Fisher, Florida State University’s head football coach. Yet, if the saying is true that behind every great man is a great woman, then Candi has certainly proved that she is more than just her husband’s shadow. Jimbo even calls her “the rock of the family.”

A devoted stay-at-home mother of two boys, Trey, 10, and Ethan, 6, Candi is an independent woman of passion and determination. She is competitive by nature, and her steel-blue gaze speaks of a quiet strength that has been honed from the battle of keeping her family strong— and grounded. No matter what comes

her way, Candi has kept family as the center of life. Candi says, “For me, it isn’t about putting our marriage first or our children first. It all goes together.” They are unwaveringly one unit, one team.

Nevertheless, Jimbo’s job comes with a lot more responsibility than most, which means a bulk of the parenting goes to Candi, especially during the football season. With Jimbo working 17-hour days, Candi has learned to accept that being married to a college football coach is not a typical partnership and has embraced her role as the one to make it all happen behind the scenes. “When Jimbo comes home, we’re his refuge. He soaks up time with me and the boys, and I want to make sure he has that time and not bother him with the small stuff.”

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“We have the ability to change the face of this disease and help lots of other families who otherwise would not have a voice. We will be their voice.”

Also intrinsically selfless in her mothering, Candi feels that the football team is part of her family too. She works with the other coaches’ wives to provide a sense of “home away from home” for the players and has become close with many of them in the process. She brings her sons to their dad during practices as often as she can during the season and says, “It’s the highlight of his day, and it reminds him and me of what’s important.

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The kids feel that they are a part of the team, and I enjoy mothering them.”

I tell the boys, ‘At the end of the day, it’s just his job. It’s not who we are.’”

Reminding themselves of what is important is what keeps them all grounded while living in the football spotlight, and Candi tries very hard to impart this to her sons. “Both Jimbo and I come from humble origins. We don’t take anything for granted since we know that at any moment this can all be gone.

Last March, Candi’s rock-solid foundation was severely shaken when Ethan was diagnosed with Fanconi anemia, a rare genetic blood disease that will eventually lead to bone marrow failure. Their family’s world came crashing down, but day by day, Candi and Jimbo began to pick up the pieces

and rebuild, ultimately forming a game plan to help Ethan in his fight for life but also to rally round all of the children affected by this disease and those in need of bone marrow transplants. In August of this year, the Fishers began a campaign called OnaKwest for a Cure that will raise money for the Kidz 1st Fund, which will help support research into Fanconi anemia in order to find a cure and to help raise awareness of the importance of bone marrow donations.

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For Candi, her life has been separated into two halves: before the diagnosis and after. “I had to mourn and grieve for that old life and then decide what to do next, how to move forward into this new life that we are now living.” These are uncharted waters, since Candi is moving outside of her family’s sphere by spearheading the OnaKwest campaign and is hoping to make a difference in hundreds, perhaps thousands of lives. She also realizes that this is a defining moment in her children’s lives. “How we handle this will play a large part in the men that they will become. How we respond to this will be how they respond too.”

Even though Candi’s journey with Ethan and Fanconi anemia has just begun, in many ways, she has already come so far. She is a problem solver by nature and has been humbled by a problem that is too big for her to fix alone. Instead of seeking answers within herself, she has become strengthened by her faith and the support of the Tallahassee community. Candi says, “I’m realizing that I can’t do this on my own. God has a plan for all of us, and good things can always come from something bad.” Perhaps searching to make sense of why his younger brother was afflicted with the condition, Trey asked his mother, “What could be good about Ethan being sick?” Candi told him, “We have the ability to change the face of this disease and help lots of other families who otherwise would not have a voice. We will be their voice.”

Team Fisher is growing by the thousands as momentum for their quest builds and gains support. Candi says, “Our family is even closer than before, and we are more mindful of our time together. We have gained tremendous strength from going through this.” Ethan is in the early stage of bone marrow failure and, as of yet, is not in need of a donor. They are hopeful for his future and finding a bone marrow match for him when the time comes, having a successful transplant procedure and ultimately, finding a cure. Now stronger at the broken places, Candi is determined that life be lived to the fullest, fueled by hope and the love of family and community.

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With temperatures in Tallahassee being warmer than the most of the country this time of year, it’s hard to believe that fall is just around the corner. Cooler weather is coming though, which means a change in your wardrobe. This season’s runway trends have already arrived on the scene, and they are proving to be truly TuTu Divine!

For carryover trends, ‘70s fashion remains at the top of the list.

Wide-leg trousers, bell-bottoms, slimming and graceful maxi-skirts (some with mile-high slits), and dresses are all still a must for this fall. Contrasting this, the Gilded age charmed the runway with high-neck collars, lady-like lace dresses, and faux fur pieces. w w w.tutudivine .com 30 t a l l a h a s s e e

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Red Bolero Jacket Animal Print Blouse Red Short: BCBG/ MAX AZARIA Mary Jane Shoe: White House/Black Market

Polkadot Shirt Floppy Red Hat Red Shoes Red Handbag: White House/ Black Market High Waisted WideLegged Black Pant: Narcissus

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Lace Byron Lars Dress: Narcissus Boots: Way Out West Braceletes Earrings: Cole Couture

Serape top Skinny Jeans: Cole Couture Leather Belt Leather Hat Leather Bag: Way Out West Boots Jewelry: Cotton Etc.

The designers were also “mad about plaid” this season. Plaid blouses, skirts, dresses and jackets were all the rage on the NYC Fall 2011 Fashion Trends runway.

But remember, just one plaid piece per outfit! Native graphics and crochet dresses reminiscent of “Little House on the Prairie” are blazing a trail on the fashion scene. Bold, American Indian-inspired patterns are seen on ponchos, blouses, skirts and dresses and create a very “Wild West” inspired look.

Dominating the fall fashion palette is the color red and its variations: crimson, bordeaux, ruby and garnet will all take precedence. Deep green and goldenrod hues will also be prevalent. Furthermore, be on the lookout for animal prints, playful polka dots, camo-inspired fabrics, pleated skirts, choker necklaces and feather trimmings.

Last but not least, a softer side of the “biker chic” look still rocks on. Add an old pair of military boots, or a more mild Western variation paired with a dainty dress for a more edgy look. Open slit-front ankle booties are a fun, stylish, and sleek way to jazz up outfits. Tall wooden or nude wedges and platforms are the perfect accompaniment to ‘70s inspired maxi dresses and skirts to elongate legs—the chunkier, the better. For a more elegant toe, the Mary Jane, as always, is classic and sophisticated. Make them a peep toe for a dash of sexy. Keep your eye out for the garnet and ruby shoes adding a splash of color to the pavements this fall too. Step out in style this season with any of these TuTu Divine looks.

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What is there to do In Tallahassee?

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by COCA (Council on Culture & Arts)

Tallahassee is a culturally vibrant community, home to an amazing number of artists who produce work that rivals any from around the country. Arts organizations in the Capital city create a kaleidoscope of activities and events second to none. From classical to contemporary, downtown to midtown, on campus or off, the concerts, plays, exhibitions, films, and dance events in our area are sure to entertain and inspire! Our diverse history is preserved for visitors to discover in unique settings worthy of exploration in the city limits and throughout the region. Take some time for the adventure, and you will be amazed at the treasures waiting to be found.

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isual art fans can feast their eyes on paintings, sculptures and fiber art at galleries in every part of town, from those at our local colleges and universities to a myriad of funky galleries, fine art galleries and individual artist studios and shops popping up all over the city. Take a trip to the gallery at City Hall or visit the Airport Gallery to see what new exhibit of local artists’ work COCA has curated on behalf of the city of Tallahassee.

Explore independent galleries like 621 Gallery and the LeMoyne Center for the Visual Arts that feature new exhibits throughout the year. All of those galleries will help you find just the right pieces of art to purchase for your home. Among the other unique places to discover is the FSU Master Craftsman Studio, a working professional studio that also offers tours of their facility and holds events like “iron pours” to provide an insider’s view of their unique crafts. A great way to sample many galleries at one outing is to venture out on the First Friday of every month, when you’ll find lots of galleries open late. You can join hundreds of fans enjoying the eclectic offerings at Railroad Square, which usually include music and food, and ride on the Art

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Showcase Trolley that tours the artful components of the Parkway District.

If you are inspired by the drama of the big stage, you’ll find the next Broadway stars treading the boards in their universities’ seasons at the FSU School of Theatre, Theatre TCC!, and FAMU Essential Theatre. Broadway shows arrive on tour for performances at the Leon County Civic Center throughout the year. Local actors are hard at work with Theatre A La Carte and Tallahassee Little Theatre as they gear up for their abundance of theatrical offerings. The Mickee Faust Club, “community theatre for the weird community,” always brings surprises with their cabaret, and never underestimate Tallahassee’s kids, who take their turn on-stage at Young Actors Theatre and in high school productions throughout the county. You can also travel down the road a bit to be entertained by the performances at the Dixie Theatre in Apalachicola, the Quincy Music Theatre, and the Monticello Opera House.

Dance comes in many forms in Tallahassee, from the classically trained dancers of the nonprofit Tallahassee

We’ve offered just a sampling of the arts and cultural opportunities in our community, and to learn about more, visit COCA (Council on Culture & Arts) for our area at COCAnet.org.

You’ll find extensive information about all of the arts organizations, historical sites and individual artists that create and perform in our community. You can learn how to get involved in the arts with classes or lessons and find out where to shop for local art as well. COCAnet. org is the “Grand Central Station” for the arts in our community!

Contact COCA at (850) 224-2500 or e-mail at cultural@cocanet.org.

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Auditorium. FAMU adds a magic touch with its Orchesis Contemporary Dance Theatre performances. Classes in dance for young people and adults are available at commercial dance studios, the Tallahassee Senior Center and community centers throughout the county. If you feel like putting on your own dancing shoes, check out the Argentine Tango Society of Tallahassee and Olde Time Friends of Dance or find classes and workshops in adult ballet, belly-dance, ballroom, Arabian, contra dance and swing.

Expand your musical horizons in a city that boasts top-notch musical artists and offerings in every genre, from blues at the time-honored Bradfordville Blues Club, jazz at the Hi-Fi Jazz Café, a diverse mix at Chez Pierre and the Mockingbird Cafe, and edgy music at the Engine Room.

Local and regional performers such as Del Suggs, Sarah Mac, and Charles Atkins play multiple gigs around town, along with upcoming new bands like “4:35 on a Thursday,” amp-ing up Tallahassee as a real player in the music scene. There are places for those who are still under

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eighteen, for those eighteen and up, places for young professionals to mingle, and baby boomers to meet and greet.

Even the greatest generation will find places with wonderful music to gather with friends and enjoy a night out.

Classical music fans will relish solo and chamber music performances from internationally acclaimed artists hosted by the Artist Series of Tallahassee and the Thomasville Entertainment Foundation.

You’ll hear powerful performances from the Tallahassee Symphony, the FSU Symphony Orchestra and the FAMU Symphonic Band, as well as Baroque concertos from the Tallahassee Bach Parley. Local players can perform in the Big Bend Community Orchestra and share their music with the community in free concerts throughout the year.

The sound of singing can be heard by the women’s choral group, Voces Angelorum, the 100 plus-member Tallahassee Community Chorus, the Tallahassee Civic Chorale, the Capital Chordsmen and the internationally renowned FSU Opera in their glorious productions. Kids share the spotlight

in groups such as the Boys’ Choir of Tallahassee and the Tallahassee Youth Orchestras, among many others.

Where can you find a Mastodon in a downtown setting? Here in Tallahassee at the Museum of Florida History, where history is alive and well. Peer into Tallahassee’s past at the John G. Riley Center/Museum of African American History and Culture, a historic building open for public viewing. See history come alive at Mission San Luis, where you will see plays inspired by Native American and Spanish traditions. Stroll through the outdoor setting of the Tallahassee Museum, one of the most unique museums in the Southeast, with trails leading through Florida flora and fauna and a pioneer farm that takes you back in time. This fall, Titanic: the Artifact Exhibition has made a stop at the Mary Brogan Museum of Art and Science, where more than 100 legendary artifacts offer visitors a poignant look at this iconic ship and its passengers.

Science and art are also on exhibit at the Brogan, and their neighbors at the Challenger Center keep the space program alive for generations to come.

independent-American films year-round.

The IMAX theatre downtown at the Challenger Center offers films about science and nature and commercial films in the IMAX format. FSU’s Student Life Cinema provides a tempting mix of sure-to-please classics, screenings and independent films and hosts the alwaysunpredictable screenings of the FSU Film School’s student thesis films. These films’ next stop will be film festivals throughout the country, perhaps starting right here in our very own Tallahassee Film Festival.

Have you ever asked “What is there to do in Tallahassee?” The answer is the name of COCA’s easy-to-use event calendar MoreThanYouThought.com. Visit the site, and you’ll find hundreds of events listed: comedy, drama, movies, music, visual arts

The Miracle Theatre may now be a thing of the past, but movie buffs can still enjoy a variety of films at All Saints Cinema from the Tallahassee Film Society, presenting foreign and

There is simply not enough space to mention all of the cultural offerings in this one article, so be sure to check out COCAnet.org to find the rest. Soon you will join the throng with the answer to the question “What’s there to do in Tallahassee?” The answer is also a website: morethanyouthought.com.

exhibits, poetry readings and an eclectic mix of more. Search by event type or date, and add your events as well. To top it off, sign up to get arts and cultural events for the upcoming week delivered to your inbox every Monday.

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aughter fills the air when Kay Cable, Steffany Lendon, Jessica Poppell and Kasey Emerson are together. Because breast cancer is serious enough, they feel that humor is the only appropriate response, and in addition to their familial love, it has become the glue that holds them together. As a whole, they uniquely reflect the different ways and stages breast cancer can affect women, and they are proud of their history and determined to leave a legacy of hope and humor for all of those impacted by this disease.

Diagnosis When Kay, a former pediatric nurse, was first diagnosed at age 45, she was raising a house full of girls. She wasn’t completely shocked, since her family was predisposed to the disease. Nonetheless, she was still very shaken, since most of the breast cancer cases on her father’s side had been terminal.

Jessica says, “Cancer back then was like a death sentence, since every experience we had ended in a loved one dying.” Kay had done a self-breast exam, felt something and went to get it checked out. But even then, she had to advocate for further testing. Kay says, “This is one of the main things I learned from my experience— you must be your own advocate. When you know something is wrong, pursue for answers and confirmation.”

When Steffany, Kay’s oldest daughter was diagnosed at age 36, being proactive with her own body and learning from her mother’s experience led to an early diagnosis and aggressive treatment.

Healthy, vivacious and raising a young daughter of her own, Steffany was taken aback by the lump she found after doing a monthly self-exam. “I called my mom first, then my doctor, and then scheduled a mammogram and subsequent biopsy.

It all happened within a few days so the doctors were surprised and couldn’t believe how well I handled the transition

from healthy one minute to choosing a chemo plan and demanding a double mastectomy the next. I had my mom to thank for that kind of strength.”

Treatment Whenever one of the women have been in chemotherapy treatment or undergoing a mastectomy and recovery, Kasey says, “We circle the wagons and come up with a game plan of who is going to be where and when. We never leave each other alone.”

Steffany remembers a time when Kay was woozy on painkillers in the hospital after her double mastectomy, and they were all watching Jeopardy on TV and trying to get Kay to “play along.” “Come on, Mom, you know the answer to this one. What?

What was that you said?” We would giggle and laugh at the answers that would come out of her mouth, since they were unintelligible,” Steffany says with a smile.

Jessica remembers another funny moment. “I took my 3-year-old son to the hospital to visit Steffany. I had prepared him days earlier that she had gone to the hospital to get her cancer taken out. When we got to her room, he was looking around with a confused look on his face and asked, ‘Where’s the hamster she got taken out?’ Who knew cancer and hamster could rhyme?”

This is certainly a family that chooses laughter over tears, but there were bad days too. “Chemotherapy is not fun, and mastectomies and reconstructions are no walk in the park either,” says Steffany.

Compounding this was Steffany’s loss of hair. Every woman has her vanity, and for Steffany, it’s her beautiful auburn hair. When it started to fall out during chemo treatments, she mourned its loss but decided to shave it all off and donate it to Pantene Beautiful Lengths. She didn’t want to scare her daughter Kaylin, who was 7 at the time, with what was

happening to her body, so she stayed strong and asked Kaylin to help her cut it. “I knew that she would react how I reacted, so I made it into a fun experience.

Now Kaylin has donated her hair twice.”

Mastectomies and Reconstruction Because Jessica tested positive for the BRAC 2 gene, the breast cancer gene, and Kasey had several abnormal breast screenings, they both opted for preemptive mastectomies and reconstruction. “At the time I got tested,” said Jessica, “I had three children and did not want to leave them motherless. There wasn’t a doubt in my mind that getting a double mastectomy was the right thing to do.”

Kasey agrees. “Even though I did not test positive for the gene, after my multiple abnormal mammograms, coupled with our family’s history, I knew I was a strong candidate for a mastectomy as well.”

All four women have had mastectomies and subsequent reconstruction procedures, saying “ta-ta” to the old and welcoming a new outlook on life.

Previvors, Survivors and Cohorts Because of their special bond, all four women believe that they couldn’t have gotten through any of it without the strength of the other. Kay is now 15 years cancer-free, and Steffany is 5 years cancerfree and was this year’s honoree at the Cards for a Cure event on October 1st.

Her main message is based on two points: “I am a firm believer that knowledge is power. Educate yourself and be your own advocate. I am a survivor by the grace of God but also because I was aggressive in my diagnosis and treatment.”

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All four women amazingly shifted gears when cancer was put in their life’s path and faced it bravely head on. When asked what words best described their sisterhood of strength, “resilient, courageous, empowered, and compassionate,” were the words that came first, but the word, “cohorts,” shouted out by Kasey, made them all chortle and heartily agree.

For this family of women, when it comes to breast cancer, laughter and the love of family really are the best medicine. As Kay, wearing a “Save the ta-ta’s” T-shirt, eloquently says, “Anyone can buy boobs, but a sense of humor is a gift from God.” In this, these four women certainly have had the last laugh against breast cancer and are laying the building blocks of hope for the next generation.

Breast Mastectomy & Reconstruction Helpful Information Provided by Tallahassee Plastic Surgery Clinic Dr. Alfredo Paredes, Jr. and Dr. Larry Harper Women diagnosed with breast cancer often have multiple options to consider for treatment and reconstruction. To begin with, your breast cancer surgeon will advise whether lumpectomy (small lump removal) or mastectomy (entire breast removal) is needed. Some women choose a single mastectomy, but a growing number are choosing a double mastectomy, oftentimes with immediate reconstruction of both sides. If you are considering reconstruction after a mastectomy, it is important to ask for a consultation with a plastic surgeon prior to mastectomy to discuss your options. Each patient is different, so your plastic surgeon should evaluate multiple variables including breast size and shape, age, medical conditions, smoking history, prior medical treatments and prior surgery. There are three procedures of choice for women when it comes to reconstruction: Tissue Expansion, Latissimus Flap, and TRAM Flap. Each has their pros and cons that can be discussed with your surgeon.

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By Beth Moss

The women of Pea Green Solutions share a few lessons on swimming with the sharks.

“I love Mad Men,” says Samantha Strickland, CEO of Pea Green Solutions, referring to the hit television drama, “but thankfully, the advertising world has changed. The work place, in general, has been transformed for women.” She’s not simply referring to the way computers dominate offices now, rather than the ash trays and open bars reflected in the show. She’s referring to the fact that now, more than 40 years later, women regularly hold positions of power, make creative decisions and even, in her case, start their own marketing companies.

In honor of their mentors, role models and the Mad Women who paved the way, the ladies of Pea Green Solutions offer these timeless tips:

Everything I Need to Know I Learned From Mad Men • Smoke like a chimney.

We’re not talking about smoke of the cigarette and cigar variety, of course; that’s just gross. Where there’s smoke, there should be fire, the fire of enthusiasm, coupled with the kind of smokin’ ideas that make you one hot commodity in the office. But don’t just “blow smoke.”

Go ahead and big yourself up—but you’ll be judged by what you actually do, not what you say you can do.

• Always know where the bar is. And raise it.

If we stop striving, challenging and improving ourselves, we die inside. Ruts are for sissies.

• Charm the ladies.

One of the biggest mistakes women can make is being catty and over-competitive with other women in the workplace.

You aren’t going to form a sisterhood with every woman with whom you work, but by being supportive of other talented, successful women, we can keep that glass ceiling shattered.

• Be a lady who lunches.

Eat. And don’t obsess about your diet to coworkers.

Whining about calories is so last millennium.

• Embrace your curves.

Life is unpredictable. You’re going to get thrown your share of curve balls. Roll with it. An unexpected project can be an opportunity to prove yourself. Constructive criticism from your boss can be an opportunity to improve yourself. Even a lost job can be an opportunity to reinvent yourself.

• Marry well. Parent well. Friend well.

Focusing on your commitments to others will pay dividends in your personal and professional life. Appreciate those qualities in your employees too. A good mother is a great multitasker. A good friend understands how to be a team player. And a cheater … well, is a cheater.

• Start and end the day with a drink.

Drink in the moment. Don’t be so busy planning the next step that you forget to stop and “sip the nectar” of life.

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Cranberry Craze start a

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Traditional Thanksgiving meals usually include a sliced cranberry mold or cranberry sauce, and the dash of red to the table tableau makes for a picturesque setting. However, typical cranberry dishes don’t always please guests’ palettes. For distinct and different variations on cranberries, consider giving these recipes a try. From whipping up a potpourri blend to give your home a lovely scent, to delicious muffins and spritzer, your family and guests will truly be thankful to have come to your home to celebrate the day.

Cranberry Craze Stove-Top Potpourri In a small sauce pan, add one sliced orange, Photo by Randi Shiver

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Cranberry-Orange Cream Cheese Muffins These muffins are hiding a surprise bite of sweet cream cheese in the middle. Package these up in cute bags for your Thanksgiving guests to take home for breakfast the next day. They are best when reheated for 10 seconds in the microwave.

1 box of cranberry-orange muffin mix (Krusteaz brand) 1 cup of orange juice 1 cup of fresh or frozen cranberries Half a block of cream cheese, softened (4 oz.)

3 tablespoons of sugar Combine the muffin mix and one cup of orange juice in a bowl. Gently fold in the cranberries (discard the ones that come in the box).

In a separate bowl, combine the cream cheese and sugar. Place 12 muffin liners in a muffin tin. Add 2 tablespoons of muffin batter to each cup. Drop a heaping teaspoon of the cream cheese mixture into the middle of the muffin batter. Add 2 more tablespoons of muffin batter to cover the cream cheese. Sprinkle the tops with sugar. Bake for 16–18 minutes at 400 degrees.

Cranberry Spritzer 1 ½ cups of white wine 1 ½ cups of cranberry–apple juice 1 cup of sparkling water Stir ingredients together and serve over ice.

If you are feeling fancy, you can roll damp cranberries in sugar and freeze them to use in place of the ice. Chilling the liquids before mixing them is recommended.

Serve with an apple wedge for garnish.

Randi Shiver’s blog, TheHomemadeParade.com, features recipes, crafts, party planning and an overall sense of inspiration to people who enjoy celebrating life. Randi is a mother of two boys and is a kindergarten teacher at Gilchrist Elementary School.

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Shining a Light on Lung Cancer

By Karen Thurston Chavez

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n November 1, Tallahassee will join states across the country in the Lung Cancer Alliance’s “Shine a Light on Lung Cancer Vigil” to raise awareness of the leading cause of cancer death and the second-leading cause of all deaths in the United States.

The worldwide vigil kicks off Lung Cancer Awareness Month. The Lung Cancer Alliance’s (LCA) goal for the 2011 vigil is to have every state represented and reach 1 million participants.

“Shine a Light on Lung Cancer Vigil is a special way to bring families, friends and loved ones together to show compassion and support for the entire lung cancer community,” says Laurie FentonAmbrose, LCA President and CEO. “These events honor loved ones, increase disease awareness and further grassroots efforts to secure a more comprehensive plan for lung cancer research funding.”

Tallahassee’s vigil will be held Tuesday, November 1st, from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. on the College Avenue section of Kleman Plaza. For more information and to register to attend and/or participate, visit shinealighttallahassee.kintera.org. There are no registration fees or expected donations; however, organizer Kimberly Smith and Leon High junior Kanlie Buell ask that participants share the

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information with their family, friends and colleagues and invite them to join in raising awareness by attending the event.

“Many people here in the area have been impacted by lung cancer. We want to honor those fighting lung cancer and those who have lost someone through recognition and education about next steps to fight this disease. The event will highlight this as well as have local physicians talking about research and advancements. It’s going to be a great event with DJ musical entertainment, hors d’oeuvres and giveaways from local businesses. We want to build on it each year!” The event is locally hosted by Simply Southern Events.

Facts about Lung Cancer: • Lung cancer kills an average of 437 people each day in the United States.

• It kills three times more men than prostate cancer and twice as many women as breast cancer.

• More than 60 percent of new cases were never smokers or former smokers, many of whom quit decades ago.

• 1 in 5 women and 1 in 12 men diagnosed with lung cancer have never smoked.

• Lung cancer takes more lives than breast, prostate and colon cancers.

• The five-year survival rate for breast cancer is 88 percent and for prostate cancer it is 99 percent. However, the five-year survival rate for lung cancer remains at 15 percent.

For more information: For more information visit the Lung Cancer Alliance online at the website lungcanceralliance.org. To learn more about the Shine a Light on Lung Cancer Vigils, visit lungcanceralliance.org/ shinealightonlungcancer.

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Lawson Mayfield Memorial Foundation to Hold Inaugural Benefit Run in Honor of Tallahassee Teen and Meningitis Victim

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n September 2009, local 18-year-old Lawson Mayfield’s life was cut short unexpectedly after she contracted bacterial meningitis.

A lifelong Tallahassee resident, Lawson made an indelible mark on everyone who crossed her path, and her sudden passing sent shockwaves through her family, friends and the entire community.

“Lawson simply loved life,” said her mother, Cathy Mayfield. “She had an insatiable curiosity to experience everything.” From a very young age, Lawson discovered a love of horses, building a national reputation as an accomplished equestrian, soon qualifying for prestigious competitions, including the Pennsylvania National Horseshow and the Washington International Horseshow.

Above all else, though, she poured her energy into being a good student, daughter, sister, aunt, niece and friend.

According to the National Meningitis Association (NMA), bacterial meningitis strikes an average of 1,500 Americans annually, with 1 in 7 cases proving fatal and another 20 percent of victims suffering serious long-term consequences. To benefit NMA, which aims to increase awareness about the disease, Lawson’s parents have established the Lawson Mayfield Memorial Foundation. “Through the foundation, we hope to spread the word about the availability of the safe meningitis vaccine, ensuring that others fulfill their dreams as a testament to Lawson’s memory,” said Cathy. “Through the Foundation’s first event, Run For Lawson, we will celebrate her life and give the gift of knowledge to parents and young people.”

Run For Lawson, a 5K and 1-Mile Run/Walk, is scheduled for Saturday, Oct. 8, 2011, on the campus of Holy Comforter Episcopal School and Welaunee Plantation grounds. The 1-mile event will begin at 8 a.m., with the 5K following at 8:30 a.m. The chiptimed run is open to participants of all skill levels and will take place on a new cross-country course through pristine greenery. The registration fee is $15 per runner/walker on or before October 5 and $25 after October 5. Proceeds from the event will benefit the NMA.

Visit runforlawson.org to learn more and register for the run.

“Lawson loved to tell stories and laugh, and her playful demeanor and constant smile put everyone around her at ease,” said her father, Emory Mayfield. “She was such a giving person, even serving as an organ donor. Lawson was able to save or improve at least seven lives as an organ donor.” t a l l a h a s s e e wo m a n

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The Old School Open Benefiting Kidz 1st Fund The 1st Annual Old School Open was held on September 15 & 16. It consisted of a wine dinner and auction sponsored by Carrabbas Italian Grill and Napleton Infiniti. Old School had a goal to raise $50,000 for the Kidz 1st Fund but ended up raising over $100,000 for this cause.

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Chris Barnard and Ashley Bales

Suzanne Ballard and Litzie Martin

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Bobby Jacobsen and Dr. William Woodyard

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LOcal angel feeds community

Annie Johnson Shana Beiro Photography

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or more than a decade, Annie Johnson has served her community. It’s her passion to help those who may be down on their luck, and she does so throughout the year with a hot, home-cooked meal.

“I love helping people. It’s great to see their smiling faces,” Annie said.

The decision to begin feeding those in need started back in 1998 when Annie retired from the Florida State Department of Insurance. The now 78-yearold is a devout Christian and decided to follow God’s Word on what to do with her free time during retirement.

“You have to keep on working for the Lord, you don’t just stop, your work is never done.”

“He said feed his people, and I started [Project Annie] in June or July. And he said feed his people, so I thought I would make Thanksgiving and then Christmas [dinner], and I‘ve been doing it every year since then,” she said.

Project Annie is a nonprofit organization that caters to the homeless, disabled, elderly and those less fortunate. But it also serves those looking for just a little help now and then and those who simply need the company of others.

“It’s really for the poor people, but really anyone who gets in line, I serve them,” Annie said. “You really don’t know the person’s situation—you never know, so if they get in line, I feed them.”

The Thanksgiving and Christmas meals consist of turkey and/ or ham and all the fixings, most of which is donated. But the giving doesn’t stop when the holidays are over. Annie and her team of volunteers are constantly preparing hot meals for anyone who needs one, and you can find them in the kitchen at the Project Annie building on Fourth Street in Tallahassee every Wednesday and every other Saturday.

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“You have to keep on working for the Lord—you don’t just stop,” said Annie. “Your work is never done.”

And that is why she continues on. The local missionary also gives out baskets of food to the elderly, disabled and those who need them in times of emergency.

Whether you consider it a passion, a calling or plain old generosity, Annie is arguably the epitome of all things good.

She gives to anyone and everyone in need and never asks for anything in return. Her meals are hot, homemade and full of love, yet the woman behind the successful Project gives all the praise to the “man upstairs” and her volunteers here on Earth.

“I would like to thank them from the bottom of my heart, and may God bless them,” she said.

Still, their work is never done, as Annie and her crew will soon begin preparing for this year’s Thanksgiving and Christmas meals. This year marks the 14th straight year for Project Annie.

Those involved will collect the necessary ingredients and cook up a collection of dishes to warm the bellies and the hearts of those in need, spreading hope and cheer to those who need it most, when they need it most.

For more information, or how you can help, call (850) 222-6133.

2011 Belt Buckle Ball

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An evening benefiting Children’s Miracle Network at Shands Hospital for Children at the University of Florida.

Friday, November 4, 2011 5:30 p.m - 10:30 p.m. at The Space at Feather Oaks Enjoy dinner, drinks and entertainment at the 2011 Belt Buckle Ball.

The event includes: Live auction Mechanical Bull Funny-Money Poker Corn Hole Musical entertainment Tickets are $75 per person

For more information contact Stephanie Nicholas at (850) 386-6417, or e-mail andrse@shands.ufl.edu, or by visiting online at shandsgiving.org/Belt Buckle Ball Sponsorship opportunities are also available.

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Women to Watch

is a listing of women with new jobs or promotions, business openings and changes, awards and installations or women who are reaching out and making a difference in our community.

E-mail information for Women to Watch to listings@TalWoman.com.

Carla Ureña Hutchinson

Jenna Lockwood

Carla Ureña Hutchinson founded ARTS Afterschool, a unique program combining scientific learning with dance, martial arts, music, fine arts and life skills to promote whole-child success and well-being.

She has a Ph.D. in Instructional Systems Design.

Jenna Lockwood has recently joined Coldwell Banker Hartung and Noblin, Realtors as a Realtor Associate, specializing in the marketing of residential homes.

Barby M. Moro is a recent graduate of Leadership Tallahassee Class 28 and was appointed to the Leon County Commission on the Status of Women & Girls. She serves as the Director of Student Affairs for the North Florida campuses of the Southern Scholarship Foundation, a recent finalist for Nonprofit of the Year through the Chamber.

Barby M. Moro

Cecka Rose Green

Cecka Rose Green was recently named Editor-at-Large for the lifestyle website TrueAlum.com. In

addition, she authors a blog on the site titled TAILS from the Cougar’s Den, which focuses on love, life and power as a millennial 40-something woman.

Patti Booth, owner of Total Face and Body, recently moved to a new location in the Alexis Center and is now in her sixth year of business.

Lila Jaber was elected by Leadership Florida as its chair for the 2011-2012 year at the organization’s Patti Booth

Lila Jaber

annual meeting. Lila is a graduate of Leadership Florida’s Class XXIII and served as their program chair.

A former chairman of the Florida Public Service Commission and current member of Workforce Florida Inc., she brings both public and private sector experience in public affairs, energy, natural gas, water, telecommunications and workforce development to the chairmanship of Leadership Florida.

Holly Pitts Kanagy, recently opened a new boutique, BluHeaven, offering affordable, trendy fashions for the young and young at heart. Holly plans to sponsor a monthly outfit giveaway to a girl in need by working with local youth organizations.

Martha Rodriguez

Jennifer Sullivan Davis

Martha Rodriguez recently published her first children’s picture book, A Reel Cool Summer. The story follows three young siblings on a movie-making adventure with the ultimate goal of having fun and cooling off on the hottest, most boring day of summer.

Jennifer Sullivan Davis was recently installed as the President of Tallahassee Women Lawyers. Jennifer is a litigation attorney with Guilday, Tucker, Schwartz & Simpson, P.A.

Katrina Harvey, an Administrative Assistant with the Elder Edward Buckner Miracle Village Complex, recently became certified as a Certified Occupancy Specialist.

Katrina Harvey

Tammy Young

Tammy Young, the Business Development Coordinator at Information Systems of Florida, Inc., has attained a Project Management Professional certification from the Project Management Institute.

Two women of the Holland & Knight law firm have been appointed to leadership positions at the American Bar Association. Karen Walker has been reappointed to serve as the vice chair of the Public Contract Law State and Local Division and reappointed co-chair of the IT Procurement Committee.

Shannon Hartsfield Salimone was appointed co-chair of the Programs Executive Committee and vice chair of the Teleconference Committee.

Melanie Barnett has just returned to Tallahassee from Atlanta and is now Vice President of business Shannon Hartsfield banking at SunTrust.

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w om e n to w a t c h Jolanda Powell, owner of the Next Level hair salon, is returning to the salon as a lead stylist after

completing training in Chicago with Avlon Industries. In addition to managing the Next Level Salon, Jolanda has spent the last five years as an instructor at Lively Technical Center. The Next Level, located near downtown Tallahassee, is a multicultural salon catering to people of all ages and ethnicities.

Samantha “Sam” Hobbs, Government Affairs Coordinator of the Florida Engineering Society (FES) Jolanda Powell

Samantha Hobbs

received the FES President’s Award at the 95th Annual Summer Conference held in August. The award recognizes the person who made the greatest contribution to the success of the FES President during the past year. Samantha was honored for her dedication, pleasant attitude and overall outstanding support.

Felecia F. Mackey of Capital Health Plan (CHP) has been promoted to Director of Member Services, as a result of her hard work and dedication as the company’s Member Services Supervisor. Felecia has been with CHP for 15 years.

Dr. Emilee Anderson has joined North Florida Spine and Wellness Institute, where she focuses on Felecia F. Mackey

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on natural methods to restore patients’ vitality and health. She centers her practice around nutrition, rehabilitation and spinal manipulation.

Renee Glennon, with Coldwell Banker Hartung and Noblin, was recognized with the Million Dollar Milestone for having transactions in excess of a million dollars.

Nancy Grissom, who recently joined Jolynn Greenhalgh in the office of Silhouette Laser, has completed her certification training on the Skin Classic machine. This machine uses radio frequency to treat and diminish all types of cosmetic irregularities in the facial skin. Nancy is a medical aesthetician who specializes in anti-aging and skin rejuvenation.

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CALENDAR

Art Exhibits October 1–November 13 History of Photography FSU Museum of Fine Arts Admission is Free mofa.fsu.edu October 14–November 20 Cute & Creepy: A Survey of Contemporary Surrealism FSU Museum of Fine Arts mofa.fsu.edu

Theatre & Dance October 14–October 23 Jesus Christ Superstar An FSU School of Theatre Production (850) 644-6500 or tickets.fsu.edu November 2–November 3 Shrek: The Musical Leon County Civic Center tlccc.org

Special Events October 7 2011 Catholic Charities Starfish Charity Gala A three-course dinner to benefit the poor.

The Soundside Club (850) 244-2825 October 8 2nd Saturday Space Mission Simulation 10:00 a.m.- Noon Challenger Learning Center Admission fee: $10 members, $15 non-members (850) 645-7777 October 8 2011 Havana Merchants Auction and Hamburger Cookout Proceeds, in part, go to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation Kellum’s Furniture parking lot 104 N Main St, Havana, FL 5 p.m. until sold out Contact Jim Kellum at (850) 545-0824.

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October 8 Green Home Expo The Market District Shops and cafes will participate with the theme of green, sustainable living, recycling, etc.

Admission is free. tallyba.com or call (850) 545-7818 October 9 10th Annual Breast Cancer Poker Run Chrome Divas of Tallahassee will ride to support “A Woman’s Place.”

Capital City Harley Davidson chromedivas.com/events.

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October 13 Girls Night Out Capital Regional Comprehensive Breast Center 5:00 p.m.–8 p.m.

2626 Care Drive, Tallahassee capitalregionalmedicalcenter.com October 14 Oktoberfest 6:00 p.m.–10:00 p.m.

Admission Fee: $50 per person (850) 921-5554 or ecsbigbend.org October 15 Pink Glove Dance for Breast Cancer The Market District Pinkglovedance.com October 15 North Florida Wine & Food Festival University Center Club’s 6th floor Osceola Grill 6:30 p.m.–9:30 p.m. winefoodfest.com October 15 2011 Pumpkin Festival Downtown Havana, FL 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Hayrides, pony rides, face painting, craft and food booths, a costume contest, pumpkin decorating, games and more.

Proceeds, in part, go to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.

October 21-22 Fall Fever Festival of the Arts Live music, arts and crafts vendors, festival food and fun Railroad Square Art Park Admission is Free November 1 Shine a Light on Lung Cancer Vigil Kleman Plaza shinealightonlungcancer.org November 4 Belt Buckle Ball Come support Shands Hospital for Children with games, live music and food.

The Space at Feather Oaks For tickets call (850) 386-6471 shandsgiving.org/Belt Buckle Ball

November 5 4th Annual Oxygen Ball: Dancing with the Local Stars Dinner, silent auction, dancing competition and dancing.

All proceeds benefit the American Lung Association.

(850) 386-2065 or tallahasseeoxygenball.org

Music October 6 Chanticleer Thomasville Center for the Arts Auditorium Admission: Adults: $35; Students: $15 For tickets, call TEF Box Office at (229) 226-7404 or purchase online at TEFconcerts.com October 21 Sugarland The Incredible Machine Tour with special guest, Sara Bareilles Tallahassee-Leon County Civic Center tlccc.org October 27 Amy Grant & Michael W. Smith 2 Friends Tour Tallahassee-Leon County Civic Center tlccc.org

Other Activities October 20–October 23 Ghost Walking Tours Downtown Tallahassee $15/adults, $5/children age 5 and under Reservations recommended Call (850) 212-2063 or e-mail Booking@toursintallahassee.com October 23 Take Steps to End Crohn’s and Colitis Walk featuring local Hero’s: Helena Higgins, Tracie Manrique & Amy Campbell Smith. Event will be held at Florida High from 4 p.m.–7pm.

Register at online at cctakesteps.org/ tallahasseewalk.

November 4 and November 5 Mud Pie Event at That’s Mine Monogramming and Gifts Friday (5:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m.)

Preview and coctail party Saturday (10 a.m.-2 p.m.)

Letters to Santa childrens event (850) 668-8300 November 3–13 70th Annual North Florida Fair Rides, games, food, attractions, shows, animals, and a flower show. northfloridafair.com November 6 Alzheimer’s Project Forget-Me-Not Walk and Fall Festival Music, bounce house, craft vendors, food and prizes.

St. Paul’s United Methodist Church 1700 North Meridian Road 1:30 p.m.-4:00 p.m. For information call (850) 385-5146 or saintpaulsumc.org November 11 Veterans Day 5K Begins at the Vietnam Memorial on Apalachee Parkway 8:00 a.m. For info visit veteventstally.org November 19 St. John’s Episcopal Church Market Baked goods, casseroles, pies, crafts, greenery, and treasures.

All proceeds go to inreach and outreach missions.

211 North Monroe Street Admission is free.

November 26 Giving Thanks: Exploring 17th Century Food Traditions Mission San Luis Park 10:00 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

Admission: Adults: $5; Seniors 65+: $3; Children 6–17: $2; Children under 6 are free. missionsanluis.org December 1 Holiday Open House Southeastern Plastic Surgery, P.A. 4:30 p.m.- 8:00 p.m.

Mini spa treatments, mineral makeovers, refreshments, and door prizes. RSVP by November 25th to se-plasticsurgery.com or call (850) 219-2000.

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