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Agony aunt advice column Are you grappling with an issue and in need of guidance? Our inhouse Agony Aunt, Jacquie, is at your service. Send your queries her way, and she’ll assist you in unravelling them with her insight and sound counsel. Whether it’s a personal dilemma that’s been troubling you or a question that’s of general concern, sharing it could not only provide you with relief but potentially aid others too. Jacquie addresses a spectrum of issues ranging from family disputes, loss, eating disorders, phobias, and lifestyle challenges, to intimate and relationship difficulties, workplace stress, and financial anxieties. Her life’s work is devoted to aiding individuals in liberating themselves from the shackles of undesired emotions, adverse memories, trauma, and interpersonal strife. She is a certified Master NLP Practitioner with specialisations in Relationship Counselling, Hypnotherapy, Mental Health, and more, ensuring that her advice is rooted in extensive training and a wealth of experience.
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Solo at Christmas
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hristmas is a time when being alone can feel particularly overwhelming and lonely, especially if you are single. The holiday season often conjures images of cosy couples sharing intimate moments by the fireplace or families gathered around a festive table. In this sea of romantic narratives, it’s easy to forget that the essence of Christmas extends beyond romantic connections. When you find yourself single during the holiday season, it’s a poignant reminder that connections come in various forms, and the warmth of friendship can be just as, if not more, comforting. Friendships are the unsung heroes of our lives, providing a support system. The joy of exchanging simple gifts, sharing laughter over a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and simply being present for one another during the holiday hustle creates moments of memories. During good times, friends are there to share in your joy and celebrate your achievements. Their genuine happiness for your successes adds depth and meaning to the positive experiences in your life. In moments of triumph, friends become your cheerleaders and fanatics for emotional support. As life evolves and circumstances change, it’s common for the circle of friends to shift. While it’s natural to have fewer friends as you get older, it’s essential not to miss out on the opportunities to continue making meaningful connections. Check out local social clubs like ‘Bored in Berkshire’; they offer a selection of social meetups, walks, drinks, dinner parties, and more within Wokingham, Reading, and
Bracknell. If you would like to make new friendships, remember it is a gradual process, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. You are not alone in wanting to expand your social circle. The key is to remain open, approachable, and willing to invest time and ef-
fort to get out there beyond your front door, after all, you never know whom you might meet in the process. ‘There is always room in your heart for one more friend.’ Merry Christmas, Jacquie
A festive rebirth: The Bull at Barkham opens under new ownership just in time for Christmas! BY NICK MARR PHOTOS BY PAUL KING
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his holiday season, the community of Barkham is receiving a special present: the reopening of their cherished local pub, The Bull. The establishment, now radiating new life under the experienced guidance of Lilly Washington, is set to welcome patrons back just in time for Christmas festivities. Lilly, who is also at the helm of The Four Horseshoes in Sherfield on Loddon, brings her unique flair and seasoned expertise to The Bull at Barkham. In a recent conversation with My Wokingham, Lilly shared her motivation for taking over the pub: “I live in Barkham and couldn’t bear to see The Bull sitting empty. The community yearned for its return, and I knew I had what it takes to restore its glory and make it a beloved gathering spot again.” The Bull’s revival isn’t just about pouring pints. Lilly plans to introduce a full Thai menu alongside cherished British classics, catering to a wide
range of tastes and preferences. “Our goal is to create a culinary experience that’s both familiar and exciting,” she explains. Looking forward to 2024, Lilly envisions further transformations for The Bull. Drawing inspiration from her past experience running Safari Lodge in Kenya, she intends to infuse some Af-
rican aesthetics into the pub’s decor, making it not just a place to eat and drink, but a vibrant and inviting destination. Lilly’s vast experience in hospitality, including her successful tenure at Safari Lodge, has equipped her with the skills to create an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere. “Our pub is open to everyone,” she asserts. “We’re crafting a space where every visitor feels at home.” The Bull’s reopening under Lilly’s ownership marks more than just a business venture; it signifies the rejuvenation of a community landmark. Lilly extends a warm invitation to all: “Come by and experience the new Bull at Barkham. A warm welcome and a memorable time await you.” The Bull stands ready to offer not just food and drinks, but a place where community spirit is celebrated and cherished memories are made.
