Oliwia & Tomasz
[BREAKING NEWS] NOT QUITE
Love at First Sight
DO YOU REMEMBER HOW YOU MET?
O: Of course! It was in our first year of upper secondary school, during German lessons. Tomek made a big impression on me right away, but I was far too shy to even think about starting a conversation. So I was secretly thrilled when the teacher paired us up for an exercise – that’s when we first started talking. One word led to another and our acquaintance quickly turned into a friendship – but never anything more. Throughout those school years, I was convinced that Tomek was, unfortunately... out of my league. (laughs) If only I had known then that he liked me too, our lives might’ve gone a little differently. But looking back, it was probably for the best – we gained different experiences, good and bad, before our paths crossed again.
T: Yes, I remember it clearly too. The first time I saw Oliwia in that German class, I liked her right away. I had a feeling we’d get along, although I certainly didn’t expect that friendship to eventually lead us to our wedding day.
SO IT WASN’T LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?
T: Oh no, definitely not straight away! (laughs) We had to wait a while – our paths crossed again only eight years later. But despite the time, we always had each other somewhere in our hearts and minds. The beginning of our relationship was tough – transitioning from friendship to a romantic relationship took a few months. Eventually, though, we found our rhythm. Oliwia let me in, and everything started falling beautifully into place. Our love is a bit like the S&P 500 chart – it keeps growing over time, despite ups and downs!
O: We were great as friends, but when we decided to give romance a shot, it didn’t go smoothly. It really took a few months for us to find our
language as partners. I’ll admit it took (a lot) longer for me to tear down the metaphorical wall and fully open my heart to this wonderful man who’s now becoming my husband
IF YOU COULD GO BACK TO THOSE EARLY YEARS TOGETHER, WOULD YOU CHANGE ANYTHING?
T: There are probably a few moments... We’ve hurt each other at times, but we talk a lot – even about the difficult things – and that helps us learn and grow. Talking is key.
O: That’s true. Some harsh words were said, and we’ve hurt each other with our actions. Still – I wouldn’t change a thing. Everything that happened shaped our relationship into what it is today. We appreciate each other, we know how to communicate, to listen, to talk about feelings. We trust each other.
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU?
O: That’s a tough question. The love I feel for my future husband is so incredibly unique that it’s hard to put into words – but I’ll try. It’s peace, safety, warmth… a quiet certainty that I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. When even the most ordinary moments and daily routines feel special. The joy of everyday life: cooking dinner together, watching movies, holding hands on walks, eating ice cream for breakfast, complaining through sit-ups… all with the feeling that I can be fully myself – and he still loves me. It’s a bit like being on a date all the time – the kind you come home from with butterflies. I know it sounds like a cheesy rom-com script, but when you really fall in love, you suddenly realise you’re starring in one. Yes, I know – it’s a cliché. (laughs)
T: For me, love is a feeling that brings peace, safety and the comfort of knowing that even in the hardest times, we’ve got each other.
WHAT’S YOUR MOST BEAUTIFUL MEMORY TOGETHER?
O: It’s so hard to pick one single moment, because we smile looking back at so many. But if I had to choose just one, I’d pick something from our everyday life – I think that’s where the magic really is.
T: We believe that every day can be special. For me, it’s those moments when it’s just the two of us – and I don’t have my phone with me, scrolling through cars for sale on a classifieds site! (laughs)
TWO BEST AND TWO WEAKEST CHARACTER TRAITS OF YOUR OTHER HALF?
O: It’s hard to pick only two best traits – Tomek has so many more! But he definitely has the biggest, most beautiful, honest heart filled with love. He’s caring, attentive, patient and incredibly understanding – especially when it comes to my (rare!) mood swings. And the worst? Hmm… maybe that he gets annoyed when I change outfits a million times before we go out. Or that sometimes he nods but isn’t really listening. (laughs)
T: The best thing about Oliwia? Her authenticity – she never pretends, she’s just herself. And her amazing organisational skills, especially when it comes to our time together. The worst? Overthinking things and being a bit too jealous now and then.
WHAT’S YOUR SECRET TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP?
O: Definitely talking instead of assuming! We always try to say things directly when something bothers us – and we look for solutions together. We spend a lot of time together, but we also value our own space.
T: Talk, talk, and talk some more! At first, it wasn’t easy, but now it’s natural – if something upsets or bothers us, we talk about it. And after a while – or a few hours (but never days!) –things get back on track.
SO ARGUMENTS DO HAPPEN SOMETIMES?
T: Oh yes, of course! Usually about silly things – the one who’s having a worse day tends to start it, and
the one who calms down first ends it. When it happens, we say what bothered us and let it go – with laughter or a hug.
O: I usually start – when I’m hungry. Tomek ends it – when he cooks something delicious. (laughs) But seriously, we do have disagreements, especially in daily matters when we’re tired or stressed. We try not to blame each other, but rather talk about how we feel and really listen. Sometimes all it takes is a ten-minute break and we come back with a new perspective.
HOW DO YOU REMEMBER YOUR ENGAGEMENT?
O: We went hitchhiking to the Polish seaside. Tomek used to travel that way during school, and for me, it was my first time. We left on Friday after work and made it to Sopot by Saturday morning (after a VERY cold night in a tent at a station). We spent the day relaxing, and in the evening – after dinner – we sat on the beach with a blanket, pizza, Prosecco, music and the sunset. I was taking a picture when my ring slipped off and got lost in the sand. Tomek insisted we’d find it, but I just waved it off! We sat and talked, and after a while Tomek pulled a ring out of the sand… “I found it!” he said. I turned around, looked at him, and the first thing that came to mind was: “But… that’s not my ring!” It all became clear just moments later. It was a beautiful trip.
T: It really was a special proposal! That night in the tent was chilly –6 degrees in June! – but it was an amazing adventure. The proposal happened on the beach in Sopot –there was a sunset, pizza and two bottles of Prosecco (one for courage!). Oliwia lost her regular ring in the sand, and I pretended to search for it for an hour… then secretly pulled the engagement ring from my backpack and hid it in the sand. A moment later I „found” it and gave it to her. There was so much emotion, disbelief and joy – and of course, she said „yes”!
AND THEN CAME THE WEDDING PLANNING. HOW HAS THAT BEEN?
T: Chill and easy. Most of it was handled by the bride – perfectly, I might add! Stress? Minimal. Our parents probably wish we were more nervo-
us, but honestly, it’s thanks to them we’re so calm – that’s how they raised us.
O: Exactly – everything has gone really smoothly, which surprised me in the best way, especially considering we changed the venue, location and date in January this year! Turns out it’s totally possible to plan a whole wedding in 3–4 months. (laughs) Our parents gave us incredible support – they were deeply involved and helped us so much. That’s probably why everything has gone so well. We’re so grateful to them!
ANY PLANS FOR THE FUTURE TOGETHER?
T: After the wedding, we’re planning a getaway to relax.
O: Definitely rest first! I dream of a week on a warm beach, just the two of us, enjoying the sun and being together as husband and wife. Then we’re planning some more distant travels (we’ve already got our tickets to the US!). That’s the plan for the next few months.
T: And after that? In the longer term, we’d love to grow our family – we dream of having two kids, but we’ll see what life brings.
IS THERE ANYTHING YOU’D LIKE TO SAY TO YOUR FUTURE SELVES – THE TWO OF YOU READING THIS ON YOUR 10TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY?
O: So, how’s it going after 10 years? Flew by, didn’t it? And now there’s another 10, 15, 20 ahead! Don’t stop appreciating each other. Go on dates! Love and laugh together at the silliest things. Talk about everything – the best and worst parts of your day. From the biggest meetings to the flavour of that amazing cake you ate. Go to Mysłowice for Istne Lody Rzemieślnicze (the best artisan ice cream in town!). Talk! Cook dinner together, take long walks without your phones. Do the things you don’t always feel like doing. Go hiking, sign up for JapFest or spend a day at Silesia Ring!
T: And always remember to talk like you do today – with honesty, no bottling up emotions. And to keep enjoying the simplest, everyday moments together.
„Lhotse”
MIUOSH ⨯ JULIA PIETRUCHA
Their First Dance? Of course, they’ll dance to “Lhotse” by Miuosh and Julia Pietrucha!
The emotions this song stirs in them are impossible to fake. Every time they hear it, something shifts – things suddenly feel more touching… and so romantic that at one point they even made a promise to trek to Lhotse base camp on their first wedding anniversary (although Oliwia has some doubts whether Tomek really knew what he was signing up for).
What makes this song so magical? Just listen to the lyrics – they say more about love than many books ever could:
“Everyone has their own summit, like Kukuczka had Lhotse”
A reminder that sometimes, the greatest summit is a shared life – with morning coffee and unfolded laundry.
“With you beside me, with her in my arms –That’s all they ever need to remember me for”
About how the most important thing is simply being together – and how beautiful it is when someone is always close by.
“I’m too weak to stop going, Too strong to give up on purpose”
And a little about how yes, there will be hard days –but it’s easier to move forward when you know you’re doing it not just for yourself, but for each other.
How do you spell LOVE? You don’t spell it. You feel it.
All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.
Wedding Party Survival Guide
1. The wedding starts at the beginning and ends when the newlyweds fall asleep.
2. Anyone arriving in a bad mood will be cheered up.
3. All guests are kindly asked to use the Memory Room and leave a video message for the newlyweds.
4. Exploration missions under the table are strictly forbidden.
5. Anyone with complaints about the wedding will be required to organise a better one within six months.
6. Empty glasses are not tolerated. To avoid staring too deeply into them, they will be refilled immediately.
7. Anyone who loses the thread can collect it after the floor is swept in the morning.
8. Throwing flowers at the bride and groom is forbidden if they are still in a vase.
9. You should stop drinking if you can no longer say: “red lorry, yellow lorry” without tripping over your words.
10. All gentlemen are advised to dance at least once with their wives. It only takes a few minutes and saves a lot of trouble.
11. If alcohol spills on your clothes, please don’t panic! Another bottle will arrive shortly.
12. Women are forbidden from rolling their eyes or using other methods to make men go home.
13. Anyone going home is kindly asked to take their partner with them. No swaps allowed.
14. If you find yourself alone in the room, it means the party is over and it’s time to go home.
15. Each guest is required to follow the above rules or face doing the washing-up after the wedding.
PIZZA FOOD TRUCK FIREWORKS
WEDDING CAKE CUTTING
THANK YOU SPEECHES FOR PARENTS
MIDNIGHT GAMES ( OCZEPINY )
The listed times are approximate and may slightly change during the evening.
Dear Guests,
If you’re holding this newspaper in your hands, it means you’re part of one of the most important days of our lives – and for that, we’re truly grateful.
Thank you for being here with us on this beautiful and meaningful day. Thank you for the heartfelt wishes, for dancing the night away, and for all the wise advice. Thank you for every dance, every laugh, and every raised glass!
We’ll remember this day forever – not only through the photos, but above all thanks to you.
We hope you’re having a wonderful time, that your feet won’t stop dancing and your glasses never stay empty for long!
Thank you for being here. We love you dearly!
DOWN:
CROSSWORD
ALL ABOUT THE COUPLE
1. In which city was the Bride born?
3. The Groom’s dream car brand.
4. Traditional midnight moment at Polish weddings.
8. What’s the name of the Groom’s dog?
9. Fun fact: the Bride’s and the Groom’s mums share the same name. What is it?
10. His birth month is June. Hers is...
12. In which city did the couple get engaged?
ACROSS:
2. Name of the Bride’s best man.
5. Raised today for the Bride and Groom.
6. The place where the couple first met.
7. Where will the Newlyweds live?
11. What does their surname mean?
13. The Groom’s favourite drink.
SOLUTION:
SCAN
Life is more delicious when seasoned with love. It should be added everywhere. Wherever possible.
