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Publisher Perspective OCTOBER 2025
Happy October! As I sit down to write this, I’m still overflowing with gratitude after all the celebrating we did in September. We just marked 20 years of Forsyth Woman Magazine—the publication we launched back in 2005, and the very first in what has since grown into our family of magazines. Two decades later, I still pinch myself. What began as a leap of faith has turned into 20 years of stories told, friendships formed, partnerships built, and countless memories made. None of it would have been possible without our advertisers, team members, and loyal readers who have walked alongside us every step of the way.
In 2020, my daughter Brooke stepped into the leadership role for Forsyth Woman and Forsyth Family in Winston-Salem, carrying forward the vision while bringing
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her own fresh energy and passion. Together, we’ve also been able to expand our family of publications with LKN Magazine, which just celebrated its third anniversary this September (quite the happy coincidence that it shares a birthday month with Forsyth Woman!). Watching Brooke thrive in this role has been one of my greatest joys as both a publisher and a mom.
This month’s photo captures a little piece of that joy—Brooke, myself, and a few dear friends enjoying time at Dynamis Estate Wines, one of our advertising partners with a presence in both Forsyth Woman and LKN Magazine. If you haven’t visited yet, it’s truly a must. Nestled away from the noise of everyday life, it feels like a retreat hundreds of miles away, yet it’s just a short drive. It’s one of those places that instantly brings peace and perspective.
I’m also thrilled about this month’s cover feature, which spotlights Zen Psychiatric. Over the years, we’ve had the honor of working with many healthcare professionals, but Zen stands out for the compassion, hope, and genuine dedication they bring to mental health—a topic I believe is more important than ever. Meeting their team reminded me once again that when people love what they do, the impact is farreaching and deeply felt.
Of course, October also brings fun traditions and community gatherings! On page 41, you’ll find details about the Holiday Sip & Shop, hosted by Bliss by the Lake, Give Back Boutique, and Hilton Garden Inn. This annual fashion show has become one of our favorite events of the season, and it never fails to get me into the holiday spirit a little early.
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And then, before we know it, Thanksgiving will be here! For my family, the Christian Mission Turkey Trot is a tradition we treasure. Starting the day with exercise, laughter, and community gives so much meaning to the holiday, and I encourage you to join us this year (read more about Christian Mission on page 56).
Finally, from my heart to yours—thank you. Your encouragement, support, and loyalty make this journey possible. Each issue we publish is truly a love letter to the communities we serve, and we are honored to be part of your lives.
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16 PENINSULA PRIME SEAFOOD & STEAKHOUSE: Serving Hospitality at its Finest
24 LAKESIDE POINT, BEECHWOOD CAROLINAS: Crafting a Lifestyle to Love
28 COVER STORY ZEN PSYCHIATRIC SERVICES: A Hopeful New Er
32 DOVE HOURS CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY CENTER: The Path to Successful Outcome
34 MOORESVILLE ARTS: Fall Has Arrived
38 DANA’S FINE JEWELRY: A Sparkling Journey Celebrates Passion, Legacy, and Diamond
40 Country Roads and City Streets: An Evening of Music and Mission to Benefit Watchmen of the Street
44 LAKE NORMAN OLIVE & VINE: A Passion for Good Health and Good Flavor
48 NEPTUNE SOCIETY: Peace of Mind for You and Your Loved Ones
52 Lake Norman’s October Music Scene: Where Fall Meets Fantastic Beats
54 LINCOLN CULTURAL CENTER: Presents Christina Eagle & Friends from The Voice
56 THE CHRISTIAN MISSION: Meeting the Need, Changing the Future
58 Retired Couples: Navigating 24/7 Togetherness
76 And Then There Were the Linens
IN EVERY ISSUE
08 PUBLISHER PERSPECTIVE: October 2025
22 BE WELL TABLE: Sloppy Joe Bowls
26 MARZANO CAPITAL GROUP: The Hidden Cost of DIY Investing
46 DETAILS MATTER: Storing Your Boat After Summer
50 ART IN MOTION: Carla Gignilliat
60 TRACKSIDE TALKS: The Petty Family and Victory Junction, Part 3
62 ONE MAN’S PERSPECTIVE: Priorities
64 919 BACKYARD BBQ: Hibachi at Home
66 JOYFUL JOURNEY: Autumn Leaves Festival
68 ASK DR. KEITH
72 SAVOR LOCAL: The Untouchables and Scott Gilleland’s Next Chapter
78 CALENDAR OF EVENTS
PENINSULA PRIME SEAFOOD & STEAKHOUSE
SERVING HOSPITALITY AT ITS FINEST
Written By MARTIE EMORY, Photography By EMILY BLUE COWAN, ROOTED SOCIAL MEDIA
There’s something decidedly delicious in the air at Peninsula Prime Seafood & Steakhouse in Cornelius.
It’s not just that you’ll be savoring the freshest, most flavorful food, you’ll also feel a genuine connection to the staff who strives for excellence in every detail.
While Robin Gordon, managing partner, and her husband, Jim, have owned the restaurant since 2021, they took full operational ownership last January. The couple relocated to the Lake Norman area from Pennsylvania in 2012, having found their forever home – and the perfect community niche.
“Collaborating with local and regional farmers allows us to offer our customers the highest quality food at a competitive price,” shares Robin. Staying community minded is also a strong element of the unique hospitality here – and delivering the best possible experience to every guest.
Now an autism-friendly dining destination, Peninsula Prime is committed to creating a welcoming environment for all, by accommodating sensory sensitivities and unique needs. Families can receive a sensory kit and menu with pictures for easy ordering. Guests are welcome to contact the restaurant in advance – or simply ask their server.
Even beyond amazing service, superb food, delicious cocktails and relaxing live music every Wednesday evening, there’s an unmistakable vibe at this popular Lake Norman spot. You’ll feel it throughout the elegantly lit dining room, cozy bar area and charming outside patio.
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“We couldn’t deliver on our vision without our excellent staff led by General Manager Angela Broadway and our head chef, David Castillo,” says Robin. “We change our menu twice a year but also add seasonal features every week. Being a steak and seafood restaurant, our most popular dishes are the prime ribeye, Chilean seabass and our meatballs – which are made fresh every day. Our most popular cocktail choices are the Prime old fashioned and the Lake Norman blonde martini. Plus, we have an outstanding selection of bourbons.”
The restaurant’s most recent innovation prompted a switch to all beef tallow preparation.
“My husband has been in the specialty food industry for the last 20 years, and he’s incorporating that knowledge into our restaurant,” Robin explains. “As an example, seed oils, like canola and soybean oil, are often highly processed and contain unhealthy trans fats. They may lead to health issues due to their high omega-6 fatty acid content. By choosing healthier fats like beef tallow and olive oil in our cooking, we not only enhance the quality of our dishes, but also contribute to the overall well being of our customers.”
As the holidays approach, take note that Peninsula Prime is now available to book for your family or corporate party, bringing their farm-to-table goodness to every event. The private dining room seats 40 guests for full dinner service, the mezzanine seats 60 for dinner (including space for a full cocktail bar) and the outside patio is equipped to seat 65 guests across both table and bar seating.
Peninsula Prime also offers unique pairing dinners throughout the year – watch for details on their October 14th event
– a “Cask & Cattle” dinner – partnering with Little Mountain Farm & Cattle Co. Follow the restaurant on Facebook and Instagram @peninsula_prime for event updates and specials!
Call now to book a holiday gathering, 704.655.2727, or visit peninsulaprimelkn. com to make reservations online. Peninsula Prime Seafood & Steakhouse is located at 19918 N. Cove Road in Cornelius, NC. Hours are Monday through Thursday 4:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., Friday and Saturday 4:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m.
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“We couldn’t deliver on our vision without our excellent staff led by General Manager Angela Broadway and our head chef, David Castillo,” says Robin. “We change our menu twice a year but also add seasonal features every week. Being a steak and seafood restaurant, our most popular dishes are the prime ribeye, Chilean seabass and our meatballs – which are made fresh every day. Our most popular cocktail choices are the Prime old fashioned and the Lake Norman blonde martini. Plus, we have an outstanding selection of bourbons.”
The restaurant’s most recent innovation prompted a switch to all beef tallow preparation.
“My husband has been in the specialty food industry for the last 20 years, and he’s incorporating that knowledge into our restaurant,” Robin explains. “As an example, seed oils, like canola and soybean oil, are often highly processed and contain unhealthy trans fats. They may lead to health issues due to their high omega-6 fatty acid content. By choosing healthier fats like beef tallow and olive oil in our cooking, we not only enhance the quality of our dishes, but also contribute to the overall well being of our customers.”
As the holidays approach, take note that Peninsula Prime is now available to book for your family or corporate party, bringing their farm-to-table goodness to every event. The private dining room seats 40 guests for full dinner service, the mezzanine seats 60 for dinner (including space for a full cocktail bar) and the outside patio is equipped to seat 65 guests across both table and bar seating.
Peninsula Prime also offers unique pairing dinners throughout the year – watch for details on their October 14th event
– a “Cask & Cattle” dinner – partnering with Little Mountain Farm & Cattle Co. Follow the restaurant on Facebook and Instagram @peninsula_prime for event updates and specials!
Call now to book a holiday gathering, 704.655.2727, or visit peninsulaprimelkn. com to make reservations online. Peninsula Prime Seafood & Steakhouse is located at 19918 N. Cove Road in Cornelius, NC. Hours are Monday through Thursday 4:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., Friday and Saturday 4:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m.
Generation of Comfort: THE LEBO’S STORY
By MARTIE EMORY
There’s just something extraordinary about a fourth generation family business that’s still passionate about every new customer.
With tradition and trust as the cornerstones of their 102 years in business, Lebo’s is widely known as the premier source in the Carolinas for quality, comfortable footwear. Their tagline – footwear, western, work and dance –speaks to the wide reach of their dedication to a variety of customers – no matter what their lifestyle or hobby!
The very definition of a destination shopping experience, you’ll find Lebo’s in Charlotte, Pineville, Concord, Gastonia, Monroe, Rock Hill, SC and, most recently, at their newest store in Denver, NC serving the Lake Norman area. When you’re out and about around the Charlotte and Lake Norman areas, you’ll spot Lebo’s branded trucks delivering right to local stores.
Sidney Levin founded Lebo’s in 1923, when the first store opened under the same name in uptown Charlotte. A shortened version of his wife’s maiden name – Lebowitz – the name and reputation quickly caught on. By
1952, Jerry Levin – Lebo’s CEO who will turn 101 years old at the end of October – had expanded the brand by adding a dancewear department based on customer requests for tap and ballet shoes. Today, you’ll find leotards, tights, briefs, tutus and, of course, shoes – everything from jazz, ballet, tap, clogging, pointe, ballroom and square dance shoes, to sneakers for Zumba. And, if it’s backto-school season, you can bet the Lebo’s team is visiting local dance schools – fitting aspiring young dancers for their dream shoes.
Another shining example of listening to customers, the Lebo’s western wear department was launched as a response to the needs of local farmers and equestrians.
“Farmers came in after harvesting tobacco, and they needed boots,” explains Mark Goldsmith, Mr. Levin’s son-in-law who came on board in 1984 and is now the president of Lebo’s. “Our current western category includes boots, shirts, jeans and hats, but that’s where the western side of our story began.”
Mark’s son, Brian Goldsmith, vice president, officially joined the business in 2008 bringing financial planning experience to the mix, as well as certification as a
pedorthist. Daughter Tracy Goldsmith Lisk made her official debut with the family business in 2013 and balances many roles as e-commerce director. It’s no small feat to be the fourth generation in a successful family business, and while both Brian and Tracy worked in the stores growing up, each felt led to return by a true desire to continue growing the Lebo’s legacy. Grandfather Jerry couldn’t be more proud!
“I always wanted Lebo’s to be a family business, so my son and son-in-law could be part of what my father and I created,” Jerry shares. “I had my grandchildren work in the stores when they were teenagers, so they would know how it felt to produce an income. I continue to want the family operating the business, so I’m thrilled to know my grandson, Brian, and my granddaughter, Tracy, will continue to make Lebo’s a family institution.”
Brian especially enjoys being out and about in the stores – interacting personally with customers.
“The brands we carry set us apart, but that dynamic between our salespeople and our customers is just very unique,” he adds.
Brian shares their current biggest category is ladies shoes, with men’s boots (both western and work wear) in second place. Comfort brands are what customers seek, and carrying hard-tofind sizes is a definite plus.
“Your podiatrist can also send us a prescription for modifications, and we have the tools for that,” Mark explains. “Plus, many of the top brands we carry accommodate a variety of foot issues. That means shoes that are actually good for your feet can now be cute and stylish, as well!”
Through changing times, trend shifts and the challenges of COVID, Lebo’s has remained loyal to serving their customers any way possible. During the pandemic, online shopping made that happen.
“It was a happy coincidence we had just gotten our website up and running when Covid hit,” Tracy explains. The team quickly adapted, and Tracy stresses you’ll find the same Lebo’s customer service when shopping online that you do in their stores.
Treating customers like family will never go out of style, and Mark will tell you there’s plenty of “old school” ways that still make all the difference! Lebo’s is growing faster than ever, and their devotion remains clear – when it comes to knowing customers by name (and these days recognizing several generations), every employee is keenly aware of their customers’ loyalty.
When you visit a Lebo’s store, you’ll be personally waited on, measured and fitted for the perfect shoes, while enjoying the nearly lost art of personal service. Family is a daily blessing at Lebo’s, and that includes every member of the team – who you’ll likely share a story or a laugh with while you’re shopping.
“We have many employees who have been with us more than 30 years,” says Mark. He then shares that longtime Concord employee –“Miss Joyce” – is now in her eighties. Yes, she was there when the store opened!
Make Lebo’s your destination stop for ultra-comfortable footwear – with convenient locations all around the Carolinas. Visit lebos.com to find the store nearest you. Ordering online and picking up at your favorite retail location is easy – and unsurpassed customer service is available by calling 704.321.5000.
Be Well Table SLOPPY JOE BOWLS
By KATHARINE ROSENTHAL, RDN
Servings: 4-6
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 20 minutes
Total time: 30 minutes
Ingredients:
• 1 tablespoon avocado oil
• 1 small onion, diced
• 3 cloves garlic, minced
• 1 pound ground chicken
• Salt and pepper to taste
• 1 teaspoon chili powder
• 1/4 cup no sugar added ketchup
• 1/4 cup no sugar added BBQ sauce
• 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
• 1 teaspoon red wine vinegar
• 1 teaspoon yellow mustard
• 1/2 cup water
• 20 ounces frozen sweet potato fries
• 2 90-second microwavable whole grain brown rice packets
Toppings:
• Pickled jalapenos
• 4 bell peppers, sliced
• Shredded cheddar cheese
• Hamburger style dill pickle slices
Instructions:
1. If using an oven for the sweet potato fries, preheat the oven to package instructions and place fries in the oven first. If using an air fryer, you will cook fries in step 7.
2. In a large skillet, heat avocado oil over medium-high heat. Once the oil is heated, add the onions. Cook for about 5 minutes until softened. Add garlic and cook for another few minutes.
3. Add in the ground chicken and break it up, cooking until fully browned and no pink remains. Add the salt, pepper, and chili powder. Mix until well combined.
4. Add in the ketchup, BBQ sauce, Worcestershire sauce, red wine vinegar, yellow mustard, and water.
5. Let it simmer over medium heat for 10-15 minutes or until thickened. You can add more water if the sauce is too thick!
6. While the meat is cooking, slice bell peppers into thin slices and sauté with avocado oil in a medium-sized pan over medium heat.
7. Add the sweet potato fries into an air fryer and cook according to the package instructions.
8. Place microwavable rice into the microwave and cook to package instructions.
9. To build the bowl: Add the base of brown rice and sweet potato fries. Top with ground chicken and any toppings you would like. Enjoy!
For more recipes and nutrition tips, head over to the Be Well Table blog.
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LAKESIDE POINTE, BEECHWOOD CAROLINAS CRAFTING A LIFESTYLE TO LOVE
By MARTIE EMORY
With its beautiful Lakeside Pointe community in Sherrills Ford, NC, Beechwood Carolinas brings its customer-first philosophy to an impeccable location that’s a mere 30 miles from Charlotte, but makes residents feel like Lake Norman is their personal backyard.
Presenting the perfect balance of natural beauty and urban accessibility, Lakeside Pointe ensures that every homeowner — regardless of their home’s location within the 217-home community — can enjoy all the riches of premium lakefront living. Lakeside Pointe offers an exceptional lifestyle with nearly a mile of Lake Norman waterfront access across its 83 acres.
The story of Beechwood Carolinas is one of vision, innovation, and skill at crafting lifestyles for residents of all ages. Under the leadership of founder and CEO Michael Dubb, and his son, company president Steven Dubb, Beechwood has grown from a trusted local builder to a national industry leader. This savvy team has shaped more than 80 communities and built over 10,000 homes across New York City, Long Island, Saratoga Springs and North Carolina.
This father-son duo is known for more than just building homes, and their signature approach to quality construction and innovative design speaks directly to the way today’s sophisticated buyers and renters want to live.
Beechwood communities — including Lakeside Pointe — are thoughtfully designed to create environments that appeal to all generations. The design philosophy centers on lifestyles rather than simply building homes, ensuring each development speaks to diverse preferences. Many of the models include first floor primary suites and dual primary suite options.
A stellar example, Lakeside Pointe offers a range of housing options including Summit, Vista and Waterfront homes, allowing a perfect fit for whatever one’s life stage happens to be. Central amenities are designed to bring all residents together, particularly The Beacon Club, positioned at the tip of the peninsula, which serves as a hub for the entire community and encourages everyone to share in the pure bliss of lakefront living.
Light-filled, generous living spaces offer style that appeals to discerning tastes, whether it’s retirees seeking a relaxing retreat with stunning water views or younger couples looking for active adventures with onsite boat docks and fitness facilities. Beechwood’s thoughtful land use and integration with natural landscapes creates environments where all residents feel connected to both nature and each other.
Through The Beechwood Design Studio, residents can collaborate with experienced designers to curate finishes and fixtures specifically tailored to individual preferences. This personalization process allows them to work directly with design professionals to select from premium materials, fixtures and finishes that reflect their unique style and functional needs. The studio experience ensures that while all Beechwood homes maintain the company’s signature blend of classic sophistication and contemporary
vision, each residence becomes a personalized reflection of its owner. There’s even a design style quiz on the website inviting home buyers to determine their personal style. The results assist in-house designers working with buyers to select their own home finishes, from
flooring and bathroom fixtures to kitchen countertops and cabinets.
To see these personalization possibilities firsthand, you can visit the three fully furnished model homes at Lakeside Pointe, including the newest option, The Sailmaker. The model homes showcase what’s possible with Beechwood’s design philosophy.
Rather than just building homes, Beechwood crafts lifestyles and communities that feel more like neighborhoods than planned developments. With central gathering spaces like The Beacon Club, the dog park, playground and walking trails, residents are encouraged to share in premium amenities regardless of their home’s location within the community.
Learn more about the lifestyle that awaits at Lakeside Pointe by connecting with our On Site Team at 704 595 2387, or visiting LakesidePointe.com. To view all communities please visit BeechwoodCarolinas.com. Check us out on Instagram @lakeside_pointe. The community is located at 7235 Fighting Creek Rd., Sherrills Ford, NC 28673.
THE HIDDEN COST OF DIY INVESTING
By JON MARZANO, AIF®, MANAGING PRINCIPAL
Doing your own investing has never been easier. The tools are accessible. The fees are low. The online resources are endless. But there’s one cost that often gets ignored: financial confidence.
1. CONFIDENCE FEELS EASY IN GOOD TIMES
When markets are calm and rising, it’s easy to feel in control. A few smart moves can build a lot of confidence. But the real test isn’t how you behave when things go well, it’s how you react when they don’t. Markets always fluctuate. And when they do, DIY investors can find themselves second-guessing their decisions.
2. WHEN YOU’RE YOUR OWN ADVISOR, EMOTIONS MATTER
Most people don’t make decisions based on spreadsheets; they make them based on feelings.
• Fear urges you to sell.
• Greed pushes you to chase hot trends.
• Regret reminds you of missed opportunities.
In those moments, it’s hard to think clearly. That’s where advice makes the biggest difference. Not in picking stocks, but in helping you stay grounded when your instincts are pulling you off course.
3. TECHNOLOGY IS SMART, BUT IT DOESN’T KNOW YOU
Many DIY investors rely on algorithms and automation. These tools are impressive. They can rebalance your portfolio, minimize taxes, and make your dashboard look great. But they can’t have a conversation with you.
They can’t remind you of your goals. They can’t challenge your assumptions. They can’t keep you from making a fear-based move you’ll regret later. Smart tools are helpful. But they’re not a substitute for thoughtful guidance.
4. MISTAKES ADD UP QUIETLY
DIY investors often fall into patterns they don’t notice until it’s too late:
• Trying to time the market
• Overloading on a single company or sector
• Ignoring taxes and hidden fees
• Confusing diversification with duplication
Each decision might seem minor in the moment. But over time, small mistakes can snowball into big setbacks.
5.
ADVICE ISN’T ABOUT TRANSACTIONS.
IT’S ABOUT OUTCOMES
The value of advice isn’t just in what you do, it’s in what you avoid. It’s about:
• Making consistent, confident decisions
• Sticking to your plan, even when it’s uncomfortable
• Avoiding costly missteps
• Protecting your future from your present impulses
Advisors don’t just build portfolios. They build frameworks for making better choices, even in uncertain times.
THE BOTTOM LINE
If you enjoy managing your investments, have a clear plan, and sleep well regardless of market swings… you may be just fine on your own.
But if you find yourself feeling anxious, stuck, or unsure about what to do next, it might be worth getting another set of eyes on your plan.
Control is good. But confidence is better. And confidence tends to sleep a lot more soundly.
Rebalancing a portfolio may cause investors to incur tax liabilities and/or transaction costs and does not assure a profit or protect against loss. There is no guarantee that a diversified portfolio will enhance overall returns or outperform a non-diversified portfolio. Diversification does not protect against market risk.
ZEN PSYCHIATRIC SERVICES
A Hopeful New Era
Written By MARTIE EMORY
Photography By JEJ PHOTOS
For millions of individuals in the United States who struggle with treatment-resistant depression, finding and bonding with a well trained group of professionals can be life changing.
Zen Psychiatric Services in Mooresville has assembled that wisely trained group of experts who thrive on making people well. Founder Anthony Frasca, MD, MSPH, who received his medical degree and master of science in public health from the University of South Carolina, then trained in psychiatry at Wake Forest University Baptist Medical Center, shares the mission for the newest location of Zen Psychiatric – which has proven to be the perfect complement to sister practices in Asheville and Morganton. The Morganton office began administering Spravato® treatment in 2021.
“We present a compassionate, patient-centered approach to mental health with Spravato® intranasal and intramuscular ketamine treatment,” shares Dr. Frasca, who started the practice to facilitate a new path of depression treatment that can set people free from the slavery of trauma.
“I’ve always known about ketamine and respect the power of these drugs,” adds Dr. Frasca. “It was FDA approved in 2019, and Spravato® is used predominantly when other medicines don’t work for treatment-resistant depression (TRD). We want to set people free – and, ultimately, my job is to work myself out of a job – where people don’t need us!”
The Mooresville Zen Psychiatric practice is a convenient location for Lake Norman area residents. Heading up their team is Dr. Brian Lewis, who graduated from medical school at the University of Missouri, Kansas City in 2001 and
completed a residency in psychiatry at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, DC. Since 2016, Dr. Lewis has also been affiliated with Atrium Health Carolinas Medical Center in Charlotte where he met Dr. Frasca.
Dr. Lewis is joined by two rotating nurses and nurse practitioner Rodney Wike. Crucial for the overall Spravato® experience, the staff has been carefully selected for their psychiatric training and sincere love for impeccable care.
Based on a three-month game plan, treatments are administered twice a week for the first month, once a week for the second month and every other week by the third month.
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“When I came to Zen Psychiatric, I was trapped in a dark place consumed with suicidal thoughts and overwhelming grief. From the very beginning, they became a lifeline. Their ketamine therapy has been transformative, but what’s truly saved me is the compassion, presence and unwavering support I’ve received from their entire team. Every single person I’ve encountered here has been everything I needed. They don’t just administer treatment, they sit with you, listen deeply and share in your pain until you feel less alone. They remind me I am cared for, I am loved and my life matters. That kind of care is rare, and I want to acknowledge Dr. Frasca, who had the courage to step away from the norms of traditional psychiatry.”
- PATIENT
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Dr. Frasca shares that first time patients are excited but nervous. When their second appointment rolls around, they’re a bit less nervous. A session begins with the patient completing a questionnaire designed to monitor the severity of their depression symptoms, followed by a check of current medications and any previous dependency. Returning patients are asked what they remember most from their previous visit and if anything has changed in their life since that time. The peak of the Spravato® event occurs about 45 minutes after being administered, with the plateau lasting five to 15 minutes. In roughly 90 minutes, the patient feels clearheaded again, and vital signs are taken.
“We do a half-hour debriefing after that, before patients are turned over to their driver – a friend or family member,” Dr. Frasca explains. “That part of the treatment is non-negotiable, due to requirements set forth by the Risk Evaluation and Mitigation Strategy (REMS) program, which mandates rules for certified treatment centers.”
After 14 treatments, personal results are 50/50 – split between patients who believe they are okay but choose to make another appointment, knowing they can cancel – and others who fully believe they are okay to move forward.
“I love being part of people getting well, and ketamine has been proven by decades of science to wake up brain cells,” shares Dr. Frasca. “When depressed, brain cells don’t want to do anything at all – you just keep thinking the same thoughts. Treatment can make
“Since my early teens, I’ve struggled with suicidal rumination and treatment-resistant depression. As an adult living with innumerable issues, my life basically stopped in its tracks with the label of CPTSD. My journey began with an amazing trauma therapist, and during those years, my eyes were beginning to open and faith was restored. Unfortunately, she left the practice, and I was forced to find a new therapist. During this time, I discovered Spravato®. My first treatment completely stopped the suicidal rumination – I cried and let out so many emotions during the beginning – all part of the healing process. Spravato® gives me the ability to experience a deep empathy and understanding of my past traumatic experiences, which allows me to clearly separate feelings from facts in my daily life.”
- PATIENT TESTIMONIAL
you want to make new connections and renew old ones. We absolutely love when we can ‘graduate’ our patients from treatment!”
“We’ve treated patients up to 84 years of age, but we emphasize Spravato® is not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18,” Dr. Frasca shares. While the intranasal ketamine treatments gained recognition in 2022 and 2023 as people began to see a true difference in family members suffering with depression, keep in mind any treatment is never “one size fits all,” and side effects are closely monitored by trained staff.
The newest Zen Psychiatric Services practice is located at 137 Professional Park Drive, Suite D, Mooresville, NC, 828.608.0892. In an initial call, one of their professionals will determine if you’re a good fit for treatment and will schedule an in-person consultation. You’ll provide contact information for your primary care physician, where Dr. Lewis will obtain details of your current treatments, any potential drug interactions and have your doctor provide an official referral. Inquire about treatment at zenpsychiatric.com, or email mooresville@ zenpsychiatric.com. Follow them on Instagram @zenpsychiatric. Office hours are Monday through Friday 9:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m.
Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center THE PATH TO SUCCESSFUL OUTCOMES
By MARTIE EMORY
One of the most powerful attributes of Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center is its dedication to teamwork when it comes to supporting child victims of sexual assault.
Dove House has a top-notch team that provides much-needed services to children who need them most.
From the moment a first report of child sexual abuse takes place, the Dove House multidisciplinary team steps into action, working to reduce the trauma for both the child and their family. That team approach results in higher quality investigations, which leads to optimum conditions for effective prosecution of perpetrators.
“Our District Attorney’s office has consistently averaged between 85-90% successful prosecution rate of these perpetrators since 2003 — a tremendous improvement over the less than 20% success rate prior to Dove House’s existence. Successful prosecution protects future child victims,” explains Executive Director, Beth McKeithan. “Sarah Kirkman, our District Attorney, has served on the Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center board since Dove House opened in 2002. She and her Assistant District Attorneys come together to make a fabulous team that works tirelessly to bring justice to the children and families we serve.”
Successful prosecution of child sexual abuse cases involves a complex and sensitive legal process, and due to the nature of these crimes, achieving a conviction can be difficult. Physical evidence is often limited, especially when disclosure is delayed, and victims may be young or traumatized. Recantation — often due to family pressure — can also weaken the case.
HOWEVER, THERE ARE SEVERAL KEY FACTORS AND PRACTICES THAT DO CONTRIBUTE TO SUCCESSFUL OUTCOMES IN THESE CASES:
1. Victim Support and Preparation: Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center provides a safe, neutral space for children to be interviewed, along with trauma-informed approaches to help reduce re-traumatization and improve the child’s ability to testify.
Consistent victim support — therapy and advocacy — also helps children feel secure and more able to participate in the process.
2. Forensic Interviewing: Conducted by trained professionals using non-leading, developmentally appropriate techniques, interviews are often video-recorded and later used in court. These also minimize the number of times a child must recount the abuse.
3. Medical and Physical Evidence: Timely forensic medical exams can collect evidence of physical trauma or DNA. Even without physical evidence, exams can provide important documentation and help rule out alternative explanations.
4. Digital and Circumstantial Evidence: In many cases, texts, images, search history, and online communications can support the child’s account of trauma. Testimony from other victims may be admissible to show a pattern of abuse.
5. Strong Legal Strategy: Prosecutors with specialized training in child sexual abuse are more effective, along with the use of expert
witnesses to explain typical child behavior, can counter defense arguments. Strategic plea bargaining may also lead to guilty pleas — which avoids the re-traumatization of a trial.
6. Multi-Disciplinary Teams (MDTs): These involve collaboration among law enforcement, prosecutors, child protection, medical professionals, and advocates — which lead to better case outcomes. MDTs improve coordination throughout the process, reduce victim trauma, and increase the chances of successful prosecution.
The wide array of services Dove House offers victims, as well as their non-offending family members, are provided at no cost to the client.
Discover more about Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center, a fully accredited 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization serving Iredell and Alexander counties, at Dovehousecac.org, and follow them on Instagram @dovehouse_cacnc.
1 in 4 girls 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18
Source: National Childrens Alliance
SERVING IREDELL AND ALEXANDER COUNTIES
“On average, Dove House receives 4 to 6 new cases involving child victims of sexual abuse each week”
Beth McKeithan, Executive Director, Dove House CAC
Children* with PTSD from sexual abuse are 13x more likely to develop behavioral disorders, depression, substance abuse, anxiety, personality & adjustment disorders and suicide**.
* compared to children with PTSD without sexual abuse
**Source: Psychiatrist.com - PTSD and TRAUMA - January 17, 2023
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FALL HAS ARRIVED AT MOORESVILLE ARTS!
By JESSICA DEHART
The crisp air and falling leaves signal it is time for one of Mooresville Arts most popular events of the year – Artoberfest!
Now in its forty-third year, Artoberfest is a judged art show and competition, featuring artwork created by our area’s best artists. Painters, potters, glass artists, woodworkers and more participate in this fall showcase of local talent.
Visitors to the gallery can enjoy over one-hundred works of art, ranging from landscapes, florals, portraits, animals, abstracts, and other non-representational pieces. With such a wide range of subject matter and talent, there is truly something for everyone in this exhibit.
Most of the artwork will be for sale, with gallery sales benefiting both the artists and
Mooresville Arts, a nonprofit gallery and arts center. Buyers can take home a piece of artwork while also supporting the local arts community. Artwork will be available for purchase at a variety of price points.
Mooresville Arts would like to thank and recognize its show sponsors for this year’s Artoberfest: LKN Local and Four Corners Framing Gallery. Both of these local businesses have continued to provide support
to this show and our organization. We would also like to thank and recognize this year’s show judge: Molly Kennedy, Gallery Director of Anne Neilson Fine Art in Charlotte, North Carolina. Ms. Kennedy is responsible for curating exhibitions, and helps choose artists for this prestigious gallery, and we are so fortunate to have her join us in selecting the award winners for this year’s show.
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Artoberfest is on display September 30 through November 13, 2025. Gallery hours are Tuesday-Saturday 12-4pm, and we are also open for special events and extended hours – please check our website for more details.
The artists’ reception and awards ceremony will be held on Friday, October 10th from 6-9pm; awards will be presented at 7pm – join us to find out who will take home top honors from this amazing exhibit! In conjunction with the Artoberfest reception, Mooresville Arts is partnering with the Mooresville Downtown Commission to bring “Art & Acoustics” to downtown Mooresville on the same night! Guests can expect to meet artists, experience live art demonstrations, listen to live music, and enjoy our downtown social district on a lovely, fall evening in the heart of downtown Mooresville.
Mooresville Arts showcases artwork from hundreds of local and regional artists each year, and has a thriving and successful gallery program, as well as a popular education program that offers art classes and workshops, for all ages and skill levels. We are a growing arts organization, and we have been celebrating our 70th anniversary all of 2025! Artoberfest is just a sneak peek at the celebrations we have in store, so if you would like to join us in celebrating 70 years of art, be sure to join us in November for our inaugural Arts on Main weekend! More information is on our website, or you can visit the gallery during open hours or during one of our next events for more information. Stop by the Depot and find out what makes us unique –we would love to see you!
Find out more at mooresvillearts.org or find us on Facebook (@mooresvilleart) or Instagram (@mooresvilleart)
Top Right: Artwork on Display at the Artoberfest 2024 Gallery
Bottom Left: Third Place Winner, PK Donson
Bottom Right: Judge’s Choice Winner, “UP in LA” Oil Painting by Bill Hook
A SPARKLING JOURNEY
Dana’s Fine Jewelry Celebrates Passion, Legacy, and Diamonds
By CAROLYN SHORE PETERSON
For Dana Ramseur, owner of Dana’s Fine Jewelry in Historic Downtown Newton, NC, the world of gemstones and fine jewelry has always felt like home. Her earliest memories are of following her grandparents around their store, Gregory Jewelers, which they ran in Newton for 25 years.
“I cherished those moments spent alongside my mom, watching my grandparents help customers and share their passion. My grandfather taught me how to engrave and my grandmother showed me how to wrap presents and take care of customers,” recalled Dana.
Though she initially pursued nursing, Dana’s heart was always in jewelry. That calling eventually led her to wholesale trade shows, showroom management, and jewelry manufacturing. “Working in wholesale really helped me learn so much more about the industry. I got to see jewelry from the design stage into a wax and then into a beautiful piece of art,” she said.
In 1996, at just 24 years old, Dana’s lifelong dream became reality. When her grandparents’ former building became available, she took a leap of faith. “I was determined to pursue my passion and not spend my life wondering ‘what if,’” Dana said. Nearly three decades later, Dana’s Fine Jewelry continues to thrive, offering a trusted, personal, and family-oriented jewelry experience.
A Partnership Sparked at Trade Shows
Part of Dana’s success story is her longstanding partnership with Hala, a diamond wholesaler and manufacturer from Los Angeles. Dana first met Hala’s brother, Gabbie, while working in wholesale. “He taught me so much about diamonds and gemstones. Later, I met his sister, Hala, and we bonded over our shared love for jewelry. When Gabbie passed away, Hala carried on the family business and our partnership only grew stronger,” said Dana.
Hala is deeply connected in the jewelry world. “She is a member of the Diamond Council and has incredible resources. If I need something rare, like a five-carat diamond or a unique gemstone, we can find it. Because they manufacture, it cuts out the middleman, so the pricing is amazing,” Dana explained.
The Semi-Annual Diamond Extravaganza
The partnership shines brightest during the Diamond Extravaganza, held twice a year at Dana’s Fine Jewelry. This year’s event is set for Friday, October 10, 11 a.m.–6 p.m., and Saturday, October 11, 10 a.m.–4 p.m.
“Hala brings a huge selection of diamonds and gemstones in all shapes and sizes, as well as finished pieces like tennis bracelets, rings, and necklaces. She always surprises me with something unique and breathtaking,” said Dana. Guests can expect loose diamonds, canary yellows, sapphires in many colors, and an extensive selection of finished jewelry. It’s also the perfect time for upgrades. “Normally, we don’t purchase diamonds in-store. But during this event, customers can bring in their
diamonds to trade up. Having Hala here is so valuable—she can evaluate each stone in front of the customer,” Dana said.
Beyond Diamonds and Into the Holidays
While centered on diamonds, the event also includes buying pre-owned Rolexes, old gold, and unwanted jewelry. “If it’s something worth saving, we can sell it in our consignment and estate case,” Dana explained.
The store also specializes in redesigning outdated jewelry. “Jewelry is meant to be loved and worn. We love giving new life to old pieces,” she said. With the holidays approaching, now is the perfect time to design something special or take advantage of layaway through Christmas.
A Store with Heart
What sets Dana’s Fine Jewelry apart is its unwavering focus on customers. “Customer service doesn’t exist at most places anymore. We listen, explain the jewelry they’re purchasing, and go the extra mile to create their dream ring. I get just as excited as they do when we find it,” Dana said.
She also keeps wish lists on file, offers complimentary gift wrapping, and shares tips on Facebook.
As Dana reflects on her journey, her passion shines as bright as her diamonds. “I love hosting events like the Diamond Extravaganza, educating customers, and sharing my love for jewelry. Shopping local ensures you get the best quality, service, and price. Jewelry is meant to be seen, felt, and cherished.”
As Dana puts it, “Every day since opening my doors has been a celebration of a dream come true and I am so grateful for the journey that led me here.”
Dana’s Fine Jewelry is located at 108 N Main Avenue, Historic Downtown Newton, NC. For appointments, call 828-466-1999 or email danaknowsjewelry@gmail.com.
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Country Roads & City Streets AN EVENING OF MUSIC & MISSION TO BENEFIT WATCHMEN OF THE STREETS
On Thursday, November 20th at 7:00 p.m., the rolling hills of Grace Reins Farm in Maiden, NC will come alive with the sounds of praise, country and hometown soul.
The “Country Roads & City Streets” concert will bring together three powerhouse voices – Christina Eagle, her brother Daniel Eagle and John Sullivan – for a one-night event that blends music and mission in a way only community can.
No stranger to the national spotlight, Christina Eagle captured hearts on NBC’s The Voice, Season 26, as a member of Team Snoop Dogg, soaring to the top eight with a voice that’s both tender and powerful.
Her brother, Daniel Eagle, honed his craft as a Nashville songwriter and performer for nearly a decade before returning home. Together, the siblings create a magnetic energy that feels authentic, heartfelt and uniquely their own.
Rounding out the lineup is John Sullivan, a fan favorite from Season 19 of The Voice, where he competed on Team Blake Shelton. With his soulful sound and easy connection to the crowd, Sullivan ensures the evening will be as memorable as it is meaningful.
Behind the music, there’s a mission with immeasurable heart. Since 2013, Watchmen of the Streets – Habit Missions has faithfully served
men, women and children experiencing homelessness across Charlotte, Lake Norman, Winston-Salem and throughout North Carolina.
“We help hundreds of people each month through meals provided by some of Lake Norman’s best restaurants and by delivering emergency survival aid to those living on the streets and in the woods,” shares CEO Heath Burchett.
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That survival aid includes tents, tarps, sleeping bags, socks, shoes, bug spray, hygiene packs, flashlights and more – tangible items that meet immediate needs. Equally important, Watchmen offers friendship, prayer and hope.
“The numbers on the streets are rising,” Heath explains. “Together, we are saving lives, providing resources and helping people transition into housing. Together, we truly do make a difference!”
This intimate night of community will unfold at Grace Reins Farm, owned by longtime friends and former board members Mike and Debbie Chapman. Purchased nearly two decades ago, the 34-acre property was dedicated to the Lord and built into a sanctuary that has hosted countless weddings, baptisms, church gatherings and community events.
The Chapmans have always believed their farm was meant to bring people together, and this November 20th, its barns and fields will once again echo with stories of redemption, music and hope.
With just 125 tickets available, the evening promises to feel personal and connected. Guests can expect:
• Unforgettable Music: Christina, Daniel and John sharing the stage in a rare, collaborative performance.
• Food on Site: Delicious eats from B’s Grill (“Fastest buns in the west!”) featuring hot dogs, burgers, BBQ and tacos.
• Raffle Prizes: Extra chances to win something special while supporting the cause.
• Tickets: $35 donation each, available exclusively through Eventbrite. Every ticket directly supports survival aid for our homeless neighbors.
So much more than a concert – this will be a gathering of hearts and voices united for those in need, both on country roads and city streets!
For those who can’t attend, donations can be made online at watchmenofthestreets.com. If you are interested in volunteering with Watchmen of the Streets, contact Heath Burchett by email at habitmissions@gmail.com.
Above: Heath Burchett with his homeless friend Wayne. Top Right: Grace Reins Farm
Left: Mike & Debbie Chapman, Owners of Grace Reins Farm and former board members of the mission.
LAKE NORMAN OLIVE & VINE: A PASSION FOR GOOD HEALTH AND GOOD FLAVOR
By MARTIE EMORY
Ai vid cook Rhonda Caldwell and her ihusband, Ronnie, have always made ia point of keeping unique olive oils and vinegars on hand for whipping up their favorite savory dishes. As long-time Lake Norman residents, they also discovered a tasty niche that was missing in the area, and this past September, they celebrated the first anniversary of opening Lake Norman Olive & Vine in Denver, NC.
While nurturing their small business and educating customers on the health benefits of cooking with olive oil – Rhonda and Ronnie love their life of sharing flavor and fun!
“Most people know the benefits of cooking with olive oil to support heart health, lower bad cholesterol and increase good cholesterol, but these products also contain antioxidants like vitamin E, with anti-inflammatory benefits. It’s even a boost for your hair, skin and digestion,” Rhonda shares. “With a focus on education and high quality, ultra premium olive oils and balsamic vinegars, we give customers the tools to elevate their home cooking experience –plus, they can taste potential new favorites while they shop.”
Their Denver store proudly offers a handpicked selection of 85 different varieties of ultra premium oils and balsamic vinegars including rare, single origin oils and expertly infused blends. And, they love to spread the goodness via specialty gifts and local events.
With the holidays on the horizon, now’s the time to put together your list of corporate gifts, neighbor gifts and flavorful goodies for anyone else with whom you’d like to share the Olive & Vine experience. If you’re looking for a unique ladies’ night outing, schedule a private tasting with your girlfriends over the holidays, and you’ll all likely leave with a new favorite vinegar flavor! Your personal evening consists of a private interactive tasting party – for groups of 15 or more – led by the shop’s knowledgeable staff. Oil and vinegar pairings are served with everything from bread to pasta, and a variety of appetizers, even balsamic vinegar on ice cream!
“And, yes, we’re already taking holiday gift orders, so call now for specific details and delivery options. We ship anywhere within the United States!” adds Rhonda.
For the most unique Christmas or corporate gift that you know they’ll fall in love with, take a look at Olive & Vine’s classic duo sets which feature premium olive oil paired with a bestselling balsamic vinegar or their tasting flight boxes filled with four to six sampler bottles of a variety of oils and vinegars. Gift certificates are also available so friends and family can mix their own new favorite flavor combinations.
“We’re also happy to create custom gift baskets – small, medium or large – to meet your corporate gift budget,” Rhonda adds.
Some of their extra offerings around the store include local honey and glazes, seasonings and spices. They sell an assortment of gourmet goodies including stuffed olives with garlic, orange, green and red chili peppers, Soberdough Brew Bread (just add a beer), regular and gluten free pizza dough, Litys three ingredient potato chips (potatoes, sea salt and olive oil), Offbeat nut butters from Clean Simple Eats, olive oil cake mixes, handcrafted teas, cookbooks, Love Square One clean burning candles, plus other unique items that make perfect gifts for fellow foodies.
“We’ve also just added some adorable tin Christmas ornaments which would make a cute gift presentation on a bottle of olive oil or balsamic vinegar bottle,” shares Rhonda. “And, they are also pretty for your own holiday tree or an ornament exchange at the office!”
Whether you’re shopping online or onsite, Lake Norman Olive & Vine delivers a refined experience for those who are passionate about
quality, taste and all the flavors. After this first year, loyal customers in the Lake Norman area now know what’s been missing from their culinary repertoire!
Lake Norman Olive & Vine is located at 6608 Campground Road in Denver, NC, 704.880.6115. Store hours are Tuesday through Friday, 11:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., Saturday, 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., closed Sunday and Monday. Follow them on Instagram @ lknoliveandvine, and visit lknoliveandvine.com for more information and to shop online for olive oils, vinegars and amazing gifts for everyone on your holiday list!
BECAUSE NO BOATER WANTS TO WAKE UP TO MOLD AND MILDEW IN THE SPRING.
By KENYON STANLEY, DETAILS MATTER
Fall boating season is prime time on Lake Norman. The crowds are gone, the water is warm, and Cocktail Cove finally feels like a private lagoon instead of a floating parking lot. But while you’re soaking up these golden weekends, it’s also time to think ahead. Winter will come, and how your boat looks and runs in spring depends on what you do now. Here’s the top 10 checklist every Lake Norman boater needs to know.
1. SCRUB OFF THE LAKE NORMAN SCUM-STACHE
That green-brown ring on your hull isn’t “character.” It’s algae, minerals, and grime. Leave it until spring and it bakes in like a bad casserole.
Pro Tip: Use a marine hull cleaner or let a pro acid wash it. A clean hull protects your finish and helps performance.
2. DEEP CLEAN CARPETS AND FLOORING
Lake glitter (sand) multiplies like rabbits. Add spilled seltzers and crushed snacks, and by spring your carpet smells like gym socks and stale beer.
Pro Tip: Vacuum and steam clean before storage. Snap-in carpet? Pull and scrub it.
3. DRAIN FUEL, FRESHWATER, BALLAST, AND LIVEWELLS
Fuel should be topped off with stabilizer. Freshwater, ballast, and livewells need to
be bone dry unless you want to discover new life forms.
Pro Tip: Run the engine after adding stabilizer so it cycles through the system.
4. COVER YOUR BOAT LIKE YOU CARE
A blue tarp from Lowe’s is not a cover. That’s an invitation for muskrats, raccoons, and rainwater.
Pro Tip: Invest in a fitted cover or shrink wrap. Breathable covers prevent mold; shrink wrap needs vents.
5. PROTECT AND MAINTAIN YOUR BATTERY
Two kinds of boaters in April: the ones who fire up and the ones swearing at a dead battery.
Pro Tip: Disconnect, trickle charge, or store indoors. Label cables so you’re not guessing come spring.
6. GIVE YOUR TRAILER SOME TLC
Too many Lake Norman ramps have been blocked by trailers untouched since the Obama years. Bearings dry out, tires rot, and lights fail.
Pro Tip: Grease hubs, check brakes, test lights, and inflate tires. Blocks under the frame save the rubber.
7. STOP WILDLIFE FROM MOVING IN
Your boat is prime real estate for winter pests. Mice chew wires. Muskrats shred vinyl. Raccoons trash the place like a frat house.
Pro Tip: Use dryer sheets, cedar blocks, or steel wool in entry points.
8. REMOVE AND STORE LIFE JACKETS, TOYS, AND GEAR
Life jackets and inflatables left onboard become moldy science experiments. Nobody wants to strap on a mildewsoaked vest in May.
Pro Tip: Wash and dry gear before storing. Check expiration dates and sizes now, not
when the Coast Guard pulls you over.
9. CLEAN AND PROTECT THE ENGINE COMPARTMENT
Your bilge is the easiest place to ignore and the most expensive place to neglect. Dirt and lake funk breed corrosion.
Pro Tip: Wipe it down, clean the bilge, and spray corrosion inhibitor on exposed metal and wiring.
10. DETAIL BEFORE YOU STORE
Boats stored dirty come out dirty. Boats stored clean come out looking new. Wax, polish, and interior detail now will save springtime headaches.
Pro Tip: Schedule a professional detail before winter. A fall detail around Lake Norman means you start spring ahead of the game.
WRAPPING IT UP
Fall boating on Lake Norman is the bestkept secret — warm water, empty coves, unbeatable sunsets. But don’t slack on storage prep.
Future You — the one itching to hit the water on that first warm Saturday in March — will thank Current You for putting in the work. At Details Matter, we’ve seen it all: sand in cupholders, muskrat paw prints on vinyl, spider colonies big enough for HOA status.
Handle this checklist now, and your boat will be ready when the season kicks back in.
Planning Ahead with Neptune Society
PEACE OF MIND FOR YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES
For many families, the thought of planning a final farewell can feel overwhelming. Yet, more and more people are discovering that making these important decisions ahead of time offers peace of mind—not only for themselves but also for the loved ones who will one day carry out their wishes.
That’s where Neptune Society, located in Charlotte, steps in. Known for its compassionate care and dignified services, Neptune Society has been helping families for decades navigate one of life’s most tender passages with thoughtfulness and ease.
WHY PRE-PLANNING MATTERS
Pre-planning allows individuals to make choices now, while they are calm and clear-minded, rather than leaving difficult decisions to family members during a time of grief. From selecting the type of service to outlining personal preferences, pre-planning ensures that wishes are honored while relieving loved ones from emotional and financial stress later on.
As one Neptune Society advisor shared, “Families often tell us the greatest gift they received was knowing exactly what their loved one wanted—it removed the guesswork and let them focus on celebrating their life.”
OPTIONS THAT HONOR EVERY LIFE
Neptune Society offers several meaningful options, including their unique Scattering at Sea service—a timeless tribute that allows memories to live on in the rhythm of the waves. Families can choose from personalized memorials, simple cremation services, or nature-inspired farewells, all designed to reflect what made their loved one special.
Whether you’re planning ahead or coping with a recent loss, Neptune Society provides
guidance 24 hours a day. Their compassionate team at 7340 Smith Corners Blvd, Ste 200. in Charlotte is ready to walk families through every step, ensuring each farewell is dignified and meaningful.
A LASTING GIFT
Taking the time now to make your wishes known isn’t just about preparation—it’s about love. It’s about giving your family the freedom to gather, remember, and heal without the added stress of urgent decision-making.
Neptune Society invites you to explore your options, ask questions, and discover the peace of mind that comes with thoughtful pre-planning.
To learn more, visit NeptuneSociety.com or call their Charlotte office at (704) 755-5819.
Art in Motion
INSIDE THE STUDIO WITH CARLA GIGNILLIAT: NATURE, MEMORY, & INTUITION ON CANVAS
By AUTUMN PAYNE
For artist Carla Gignilliat, creativity has never been something she stumbled upon. It has always been a part of her. From making mud sculptures as a toddler to experimenting with batik and pottery in high school, Carla’s path as an artist has felt both natural and inevitable. Encouraged early by her mother, Gail Riggins, who is also an artist, Carla grew up with the freedom to “color outside the lines.” Later, under the guidance of her high school art teacher, Mrs. McClanahan, she discovered new mediums and showcased her work for the very first
time in an exhibit, a moment that helped solidify her love of creating.
Today, Carla’s studio practice is rooted in community and peace. She works out of Urban Art Collective (UAC) in Chamblee, GA, where more than 30 artists share space and inspiration. Most days, you’ll find her in the studio from late morning to late afternoon, music or an audiobook playing as she paints across two easels and a canvas wall. Often juggling multiple works in progress, Carla thrives in the rhythm of creativity. “My studio is a place of community and peace,” she says. “I absolutely love going to work every single chance I get.”
Her process usually begins with a clear idea. She often references photographs, many taken during her travels or time outdoors, but gradually lets intuition take over. The result is a style that balances precision with feeling. Using acrylic paints, charcoal, collage, and even gold leaf, Carla creates paintings that radiate calm and mystery. Softness is a hallmark of her work, a reflection of the peace she finds in the act of painting.
Nature, unsurprisingly, is a recurring theme. Carla spends much of her time in the North Carolina mountains or near water, whether fishing, hiking, or exploring waterfalls. These experiences directly influence her art. After a family trip to Alaska, for instance, she returned home with countless bear photographs that became references for her wildlife paintings. A journey to Glacier National Park inspired her to embed collaged maps and papers into her landscapes, layering
personal memory into her work. For Carla, art is not just about what she sees, it is also about what she feels in those moments outdoors.
“When people experience my work, I hope they feel emotion,” she explains. “Whether it’s joy, peace, or nostalgia, I want them to know my artwork is genuine and original.” That sense of authenticity is what keeps collectors returning to her work. For Carla, success is not about fame, it is about connection. She takes pride in knowing her art lives in the homes of people who treasure it and in hearing from admirers who share how her paintings move them.
Recently, Carla completed an artist residency at Château Orquevaux in France, where she fell in love with painting on linen canvas, something she’s eager to continue exploring. This fall, she’s preparing for several exhibitions, including the Holiday Art Walk at Urban Art Collective on December 6 and 7. She’ll also take part in Juelerye’s Classic Christmas event in Mooresville on December 12, where she hopes to debut a collection of hand-painted ornaments.
Looking back, Carla says she would reassure her younger self that being a successful artist is possible. “Follow your dreams and make a living doing it if you’re passionate and work consistently. Don’t compare yourself to others, be true to yourself. Your people will find you.”
It’s advice she now shares with emerging artists: consistency matters. Even a few hours of dedicated work each week can build skill and confidence. Just as importantly, she encourages artists to share their creations with the world. “You have to put your art out there for people to see it,” she says.
With her blend of intuition, nature-inspired vision, and authentic storytelling, Carla Gignilliat is not just making art. She’s building connections that stretch far beyond the canvas.
EXPLORE HER WORK AT www.CarlaGignilliatArt.com or follow her on Instagram @carlagignilliatart.
LAKE NORMAN’S OCTOBER MUSIC SCENE: WHERE FALL MEETS FANTASTIC BEATS
By ROBIN SHUPE KELLER
October in Lake Norman is magical. The leaves are turning brilliant shades of gold and crimson, the air is crisp and perfect for outdoor events, and the music scene is absolutely electric. Whether you’re a longtime resident or visiting this stunning North Carolina region, October 2025 promises an incredible lineup of live music experiences that capture the essence of fall in the south.
THE SOUND OF AUTUMN
The Lake Norman region, encompassing charming towns like Davidson, Cornelius, Mooresville and Huntersville, has established itself as a vibrant hub for live music. The area offers local hotspots for live music and vibrant nightlife, with concerts and music festivals throughout the year, and October is no exception.
One of the crown jewels of fall entertainment is the annual Laketoberfest celebration. This free community event features live music, local beer and wine, a variety of great food trucks, a KidsZone with crafts and games, axe throwing and more. Proceeds from beer and wine sales will go to the Lake Norman Wildlife Conservationists to protect and enhance the natural resources and wildlife habitats of the greater Lake Norman area for all to enjoy.
VENUES THAT ROCK
Davidson’s music scene particularly shines in October, building on the momentum from their popular Concerts on the Green and Concerts at the Circles series. While Davidson’s summer concert series may wind down, the town doesn’t let the music die when autumn arrives. The beloved Concerts at the Circles continues bringing live music to this charming college town, creating the perfect gathering spot for families and music lovers alike.
Meanwhile, over in Huntersville, the iconic Live Under the Oaks series at Birkdale Village keeps the music flowing well into fall. This beloved event features live musical performances in the Plaza and historically runs from spring through October. The series has become a cornerstone of the Lake Norman music scene, offering rotating local acts every Friday evening where families can simply bring a chair or blanket and enjoy an evening of entertainment under the beautiful oak trees that give the series its name.
BEYOND THE BIG EVENTS
What truly makes Lake Norman’s October music scene special is the abundance of smaller, intimate venues scattered throughout the region. From cozy coffee shop acoustic nights to waterfront restaurant performances, there’s something for every musical taste. Jazz enthusiasts, country music fans, rock lovers and folk aficionados all find their home in this diverse musical landscape.
The lakeside setting adds an extra dimension to evening performances, with many venues offering outdoor seating where you can enjoy live music while taking in stunning sunset views over Lake Norman’s pristine waters.
October 2025 in Lake Norman promises to be a month where autumn’s natural beauty harmonizes perfectly with the region’s thriving music scene. Whether you’re dancing at Laketoberfest, discovering new artists at fall festivals or enjoying an intimate acoustic set by the lake, the soundtrack to your October will be unforgettable.
Lincoln Cultural Center Presents CHRISTINA EAGLE & FRIENDS FROM THE VOICE
By MARTIE EMORY
In her always lovely, sweet spirited style, Catawba native Christina Eagle is gathering a group of supremely talented vocalists for one amazing concert at the Lincoln Cultural Center — Friday, November 7th, at 7:30 p.m.
The Center is proud to present Christina and six of her fellow contestants from season 26 of NBC’s popular show The Voice.
“When Cathy Davis, Executive Director of the Lincoln Cultural Center, approached me to perform in Lincolnton I knew it was a perfect opportunity to bring a night of unique entertainment to the community here,” shares Christina. “As former contestants from touch and always love shining a spotlight on each other’s careers whenever possible. You’ll hear a variety of music styles from this talented group!”
Tickets for this exciting event are $20 each. Visit LCC.booktix.com for more information and to order your tickets! The Lincoln Cultural Center is located at 403 East Main Street in Lincolnton, NC, 704.240.4989. Follow them on Instagram @lincolncultural_403eastmain. Follow Christina on Instagram @christinaeagle.
CHRISTINA EAGLE
Hero Image: Event Headliner, Christina Eagle
Above: Christina Eagle and Gail Bliss Perform as Battle Partners on The Voice
DREION
GAIL BLISS
FRANKIE TORRES
WANYA
MEETING THE NEED, CHANGING THE FUTURE
By AMY FREEZE, DEVELOPMENT DIRECTOR
Since 1939, The Christian Mission has been a catalyst that empowers the community to become advocates and serve those in need to achieve an improved quality of life. Through collaboration with the community, the Mission exists to break the cycle of poverty by providing crisis assistance, case management, educational programming and community engagement. The Mission serves Mooresville, Cleveland, Troutman, Mt. Ulla and Mt. Mourne.
The Mission’s core programs fall into three “buckets” – crisis assistance, ongoing stabilization and individual betterment. Crisis assistance includes rent and utility assistance, the client choice food pantry and the resource store. Last year, the Mission prevented 810 individuals from becoming homeless – almost double the number from the prior year. The client choice food pantry allows clients to choose nutritional foods to meet their needs. Last year, the Mission distributed $1.5 million worth of food into the community.
The second bucket, ongoing stabilization, offers case management. Client navigators meet clients where they are and offer one-onone case management to help clients set goals,
budget, access resources and receive referrals to other local agencies. The Mission also offers a senior companion program wherein the Mission packs senior food boxes three times a month for seniors who cannot get to the pantry. The boxes are delivered, and the deliveries also serve as a wellness check.
Individual betterment, the third bucket, is the Mission’s life skills classes. Life skills is a 10week program offered several times throughout the year. The classes focus on topics such as budgeting and financial literacy, credit repair, resume building, job preparedness, mental health resiliency, conflict resolution, car maintenance, goal setting and more. The Mission has also begun teaching these skills in the local schools, helping students learn these skills upon graduation.
On May 1st, the Mission opened its new location at 919 N. Main Street. In this location, not only will the Mission continue these services but will also be able to expand services to help more clients and to help them more effectively. With this new space, the Mission has added a computer lab, more than 1100 square feet of classroom space, a conference room and private offices for client navigators to work with clients.
The new space also houses two partner agencies – the Iredell County Partnership for Young Children and NC Works. With these, the Mission now serves as a hub – serving ages birth to seniors.
The Mission’s work comes at a time when the need for help is higher than ever before. With the cost of living rising 20% since 2020 and the cost of food rising 30%, the Mission’s client base continues to increase. More than half of Iredell County residents struggle to afford their rent, paying more than 30% on rent alone. In fact, according to the North Carolina Housing Coalition, the fair market rent across Iredell County is $1,387. That means, one must earn $26.67 an hour to afford it. These are teachers, restaurant workers, firefighters, childcare workers who cannot afford to live in the community in which they work. We all know someone who needs our help. The Mission, then, is critical because it provides the only rent and utility assistance program in southern Iredell County. Without the Mission, these individuals and families would have no place to go.
A fun way you can help is by joining in the Mission’s 15th Annual Turkey Trot 5k and Fun Run. Held on Thanksgiving morning, this is an event for the whole family. Last year,
more than 1,600 runners participated! The race begins and ends at the Mission, and the route runs through Church Street and Main Street in downtown Mooresville. If you are interested in running, sign up now! If you are interested in helping to sponsor the race, see the email below.
With expanding programs and increasing need, there are two other ways the community can become involved. One, by giving. This year’s goal shows a 13% growth over last year across all programs so that we can serve more clients and serve them more effectively. That is quite a gap in funding, and you can help fill that gap.
Two, by volunteering. There are opportunities for every skill and ability level. Opportunities for the pantry, resource store, warehouse and more are all located on our website. The Mission could not operate day to day without its volunteer base.
Celebrating 85 years this year, the Mission is so thankful for this community and its support. It is this community that steps up to help in so many ways, not just the Mission’s programs but the clients it serves, as well. Behind every number is a name, and behind every name, there is a story. Each person who walks through the doors of the Mission can be met with kindness, respect and compassion thanks to this community who provides basic needs and who offers hope.
The Christian Mission is located at 919 N. Main Street in Mooresville. For more information, visit thechristianmission.org, email afreeze@thechristianmission.org or call 704.664.2357. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Tuesdays through Fridays.
Retired Couples: NAVIGATING 24/7 TOGETHERNESS
By JEAN MARIE JOHNSON
When was the last time that you and your spouse spent an extended period of 24/7 together? Think about it: while “partnered,” we’ve mostly lived our lives on parallel, but intersecting tracks:
• You went your way during the week and he went his, like ships in the night
• He ran the kids to soccer on Saturday, while you tackled the grocery shopping.
• You went to Book Club for a Girls’ Night while he tinkered in the garage.
And the together time you did manage to eke out was something you both looked forward to. All of that can change drastically in retirement as a newfound uber-togetherness introduces a host of unexpected challenges:
• “I love him to pieces but he’s driving me crazy!”
• “She may want to travel all over the place, but I sure don’t!”
• “I’m not signing up to be the full-time cook and housekeeper. No way.”
• “Did he just win the lottery or has he forgotten that we’re on a fixed income now?”
Let’s put this into perspective: of the 20 most stressful life events, retirement ranks number 10! Is it any wonder that the number of arguments couples have increases when our work lives end? I don’t think so.
So rather than feeling fearful of what may lie ahead, or discouraged because all of this sounds way too familiar, here are a few things to keep in mind:
• Just as marriage itself, parenting, and relocating are all major life changes that you worked through together, so is retirement. You can do this in a way that works for both of you – if you put in the work.
• Just as you are and have always been on your own, individual life journey, so is your spouse. You’re married and you’re committed, but you are also two separate, unique people. And so are your expectations and experiences of retirement. You need to think it through and talk it out.
The process of figuring out your coexistence in retirement is both individual and joint. Before you start the conversation with your spouse, you may want to first grab a notepad while you take a look inward to explore the following:
Homebody, volunteer or something else?
Some folks can’t wait to get off the treadmill to embrace puttering around the house. Others feel a strong desire to help others, or to take classes they had no time for while working. How are you leaning? Maybe a combined focus sounds right to you.
Me Time versus We Time
Be honest with yourself: how much time do you want to just “do you”? Maybe you want to
garden extensively, read voraciously, or throw yourself into a fitness routine. Or perhaps you’d prefer to have a lot more time with your spouse doing shared activities. What sounds right to you?
Whose space is this?
How you want to spend your time influences your space needs and preferences. After all, there is a reason that She Sheds and Man Caves are a thing. My dear man and I enjoy both shared and separate spaces that accommodate our different interests and space requirements.
Steady and predictable versus new and different
Do you want to take an adventurous approach to daily life, or do you prefer the known and predictable? I swear that when I talk to some of my GFs, their adventures make my head spin!
I thought you would handle that
To prevent misunderstanding and resentment, you’ll need to consider household responsibilities and chores. Do you want to be the Chief Operating Officer or are you more than happy to see your spouse take that on? How about the daily business of laundry, dishes, vacuuming and other chores?
We need to talk about the budget
Retirement often involves taking a fresh look at finances. One of you may be inclined to live it up, while the other may want to tighten the purse strings. You may also consider reengaging your financial planner for a reality check before buying that dreamy weekend cabin or taking that coveted tour of the Continent!
Now it’s your turn to identify potential or current challenges for you and your spouse to consider. Maybe these pertain to your grown children, or whether or not to mosey down to the animal shelter to round out your empty nest household? You decide.
With your needs and preferences in mind, invite your spouse to engage in the same exploration. Keep in mind that:
Retirement is both an individual change and a change in your shared experience. You may not understand all of your partner’s needs and preferences, but it is important to respect them.
The goal is to create something new together that works for both of you.
Trackside Talks DRIVEN BY LOVE: THE PETTY FAMILY & VICTORY JUNCTION
By CLAIR CROW
The last two months, we took a look into the formation of Victory Junction, a medically safe camp for kids with serious medical conditions right here in North Carolina. We learned about the loss of Adam Petty and how the Petty family turned that loss into blessing for others — all inspired by Adam’s dream to give back. In our final part of this series, let’s take a look at what NASCARnival night is and hear from Kyle Petty, Adam’s dad.
After my interview with Richard Petty, my family and I were able to visit Victory Junction in person and experience their NASCARnival night they do each Tuesday night of their summer camps. It’s true that nothing anyone says can paint the picture better than seeing it in person. These nights are filled with so many fun activities for the campers like hot air balloons, dunk tanks, pies in the face, yummy snacks and more! The most exciting part of these nights is when varying pit crews and their drivers show up to do a live pitstop up close for all the kids to see! We happened to be there when Cars Tour driver, Lanie Buice was there with her pit crew. She is the first female driver who they’ve had out for a NASCARnival night, which was so cool! It was such an honor to witness such genuine fun and joy that night. Michael Cottingham,
Chief Marketing Officer at VJ showed us around the campgrounds and used the phrase “challenge by choice” often when sharing the opportunities the kids are presented with. We also got to speak with Frances Beasley, Chief Development Officer at VJ. It was clear they were both proud of and happy to be a part of the lasting change VJ creates for these kids and their families.
There was one conversation that still needed to happen to bring this full circle and that was with Kyle Petty, Adam’s dad. We were able to speak on the phone for a few minutes as he spoke to the camp and his own experience. I mentioned how grief often has the power to bring families closer together or drive them apart, though for the Petty family it seems to have made them even stronger. I wondered what it has meant for him to be backed by his family during a time of such loss and still today. He shared, “There is no one way to feel an emotion like grief, joy, love… everyone experiences it in their own way. What fascinates me about the camp and my family is that we all ended up in the same place and that place is Victory Junction. It gave us a purpose, but the fans are the ones who built this place. We just had an idea.” He added, “It shows how connected we all
are and how we always will be no matter what and if nothing else brings us together, Victory Junction will.” I asked what got him through that time and what still gets him through the hard days that inevitably still sneak up on him. He spoke a lot about his roots of growing up in a rural, farmland community and how everyone touches everyone else’s successes and tragedies in some way, shape or form. He spoke about his family’s faith and involvement in their local church, notably his Grandma Owens who had experienced a lot of personal tragedy in her lifetime. He said, “When you asked her about it she would always say you can choose to be bitter or you can choose to be blessed, but it’s a choice”. After losing Adam, that’s the first thing that he thought of, and it has continued to be his mindset still today. “Vacation Bible school, going to church, God, faith and [his] Grandmother Owens” all gave him the strength to move forward. Finally, I wondered what he thinks Adam would say about Victory Junction today if he could be here. He shared, “I think he would be incredibly honored and humbled. I think it would mean so much to him that his family raised their hand to continue his dream. I think he would be humbled to know names like Kevin Harvick, Jeff Gordon, Dale Jr., Michael Waltrip, Matt Kenseth, Kenny Schrader, Kenny Wallace all helped to make this place happen… I can’t name anyone who hasn’t touched it — and I know he’d be humbled by the kids.”
I am grateful to Kyle Petty for his willingness to set aside time in his busy schedule to speak with me. He was vulnerable, thorough and kind. I am also grateful to Richard Petty for meeting with me. It’s hard to know if any other interview I might conduct could top one with The King. He was kind, wise and inspiring. I felt as though I was having a conversation with my grandpa where nuggets of wisdom were casually dropped throughout the conversation and I was hanging on every word. He was welcoming to me, my husband and 1-year-old son who
tagged along. My son doesn’t know yet how cool it was that he got a high-five from The King himself, but he’ll know soon enough.
Dear readers, if you’ve been inspired by what you’ve learned about the Petty family and Victory Junction and would like to become part of the Victory Junction Donor Family, visit this link or scan the QR code: victoryjunction.org/ support. Give one-time or become a part of Adam’s Heroes by committing to give monthly, becoming a hero to the kids at Victory Junction. The mission doesn’t continue without YOU! Be sure to also check out their socials @VictoryJunction and on YouTube @Victory-Junction.
Full throttle, Clair Crow
One Man’s Perspective PRIORITIES
By CHARLIE SCHULER
Irecently got involved in a conversation about Priorities. This person said they did not have any priorities. I said that I’m sure that he does. And I’m sure you do as well. My question to you is, do you do everything you’re told? Are you simply following others’ priorities? I hope not.
This brought back memories of my ‘Walk to Emmaus’. One of the 15 talks was about Priorities. It has been my experience in life that most people do something and try to pray their way out of it. I prefer to pray first and then follow God’s will.
It is important to set priorities in your life and to reflect on what your current priorities are. The basic difference between humans and the rest of the created order is our freedom to make decisions; our ability to respond creatively to our life situations; and to establish priorities for our lives. This is about having priorities that will give direction and meaning to your life.
You may have reflected on many things in your own life – relationships, a need or concern, your purpose in life, or even your purpose in being here at this moment. This is to invite you to identify your current priorities and to remind you that you have the power to consciously choose the priorities that will govern and direct your life. So… what is or are your priorities?
The ability to set our own priorities wields great power in our lives. You owe it to yourself to use this power consciously and wisely if you are to achieve the potential God has created for you.
To choose priorities, you need to use the resources of your imagination, your intelligence, your will, and your actions. When you can see the possibilities (imagination), evaluate the options (intelligence),
resolve to move towards that which you desire (will), and then set out to accomplish your goal or priority (action), you are exercising the freedom and power of choosing your own priorities.
What are the qualities of an authentic priority? It is consciously chosen by you as a reflection of what you want for your life. Do you choose your own priorities, or do you allow the expectations of others to influence the quality of your life? Priorities are not a guarantee; they are a direction. There will be times in your life where something must be done immediately, such as a pipe bursting. That jumps up to do something now. But your priorities remain in place.
Priorities give your life purpose, direction, and meaning. A life without priorities is aimless and often leaves one feeling useless. Priorities can give you enthusiasm, energy, and motivation. It frees you from the forces of circumstance and expectations. It is realistic and attainable.
What is your priority? There are as many kinds of priorities as there are people. Priorities change as people grow and life changes. It can be personal, or it can be for family or community. The question is – have you set your own priorities, or have you let the world or someone else set them for you?
ASK YOURSELF THESE 3 QUESTIONS:
What do you think about?
Where do you spend your money?
Where do you spend your time?
The answer is your priority.
919 Backyard BBQ BETTER THAN TAKE-OUT: HIBACHI AT HOME
By TANNER JOHNSON
This one is a year-round staple in our house and probably the meal we cook most often. It’s quick, easy, and great for a crowd. We make this almost weekly and it’s perfect for the griddle. If you don’t have a Blackstone, you can still knock it out with a couple of skillets or even an indoor griddle. I like to marinate the chicken and cook the rice the day before, so when it’s time to cook, it all comes together fast.
Ingredients:
• 1 pack (about 6) boneless/skinless chicken thighs – cut into 1/2–1 inch cubes
• Marinade: salt & pepper, 2 Tbsp olive oil, 2 Tbsp soy sauce, 2 Tbsp sesame oil, 1 Tbsp rice vinegar, 1/2 cup Bachan’s Japanese BBQ Sauce (or any teriyaki), and a squirt of sriracha if you like heat
• Jasmine rice (1–1 1/2 cups for 2 servings – I usually make 2–2 1/2 cups so there’s leftover for fried rice)
• 2–3 eggs
• Zucchini, broccoli, or both
• Butter, soy sauce, sesame oil for cooking the rice
Instructions:
• Cook jasmine rice the day before if you can. I always cook it in the rice maker, then put it in the fridge overnight. Cold rice gives the fried rice better texture.
• Marinate chicken with all the ingredients listed above. Overnight is best, but even a few hours helps.
• Preheat griddle to medium heat. Toss on the chicken and veggies, stirring often. Chicken thighs usually take 10–12 minutes.
• While that’s cooking, melt a little butter and spread out the rice in a thin, even layer so it can crisp up.
• Crack the eggs on the griddle, scramble, then mix into the rice.
• Add soy sauce and sesame oil, stirring everything together. Taste and add more if needed. Let the rice cook 10–12 minutes until it turns darker brown and a little crispy.
• Pull everything off and mix together. Plate it up for hibachi at home without the take-out bill.
For more recipes and demos, follow me on Instagram: @919backyardbbq
Joyful Journey AUTUMN LEAVES FESTIVAL
By ROBIN SHUPE KELLER
Deep in the heart of North Carolina’s Yadkin Valley, the charming town of Mount Airy transforms into a bustling hub of creativity and tradition every October. The Autumn Leaves Festival, marking its 59th anniversary in 2025, stands as one of North Carolina’s longest running and most successful events, consistently earning recognition as one of the “Top 20 Events” in the southeast.
The Autumn Leaves Festival takes place October 10-12, 2025 in downtown Mount Airy, NC, located at 200 N. Main Street at the corner of Rawley Avenue. Festival hours are Friday and Saturday from 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m., and Sunday from 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.. Admission to the festival is completely free, and visitors can take advantage of free parking available around the festival area, though some paid parking options are also available for added convenience.
A CELEBRATION OF ARTISAN HERITAGE
The festival’s beating heart lies in its remarkable showcase of craftsmanship. More than 200 skilled artisans line both sides of Main Street, transforming downtown Mount Airy into an open-air gallery and workshop. What makes this festival truly special is witnessing craftspeople demonstrate talents and skills passed down through multiple generations – living links to Appalachian tradition.
Visitors discover an impressive array of handmade treasures including intricate jewelry, pottery shaped by skilled hands, masterful woodwork and countless unique arts and crafts. The festival creates an authentic connection between modern visitors and time honored mountain traditions, offering pieces that carry both artistic merit and cultural significance.
MUSICAL HERITAGE ON DISPLAY
True to its Appalachian roots, the festival resonates with the sounds of old-time, bluegrass and gospel music. Live performances throughout the weekend showcase the region’s rich musical heritage, providing an authentic soundtrack to the festival experience. These performances aren’t mere entertainment, they’re cultural preservation in action, keeping mountain music traditions alive for new generations.
“FOOD FOR THE SOUL”
The festival organizers aptly describe their culinary offerings as “Food for the Soul,” and the variety doesn’t disappoint. Local civic and service organizations serve up authentic regional fare with genuine mountain hospitality. Festival favorites include hearty ham biscuits, traditional collards and cornbread, slow-smoked barbecue, ground steak, fresh Amish doughnuts and pretzels, and numerous other treats that represent the best of southern comfort food.
PEAK FALL FOLIAGE TIMING
The festival’s October dates coincide perfectly with peak fall leaf viewing season in the North Carolina mountains. Visitors experience a double treat – incredible autumn colors painting the surrounding landscape while enjoying downtown festivities. This timing transforms Mount Airy into a photographer’s paradise and nature lover’s dream destination.
PLANNING YOUR VISIT
The festival attracts thousands of visitors annually, with more than 20,000 followers on social media and growing. Those planning to attend should arrive early for the best parking options and to fully experience all the festival offers across its three-day run.
Whether you’re seeking authentic Appalachian crafts, traditional mountain music, delicious regional food or simply want to experience one of North Carolina’s most enduring cultural celebrations, the Autumn Leaves Festival delivers an unforgettable autumn weekend that honors the past while celebrating the present.
As an outdoor street festival, the Autumn Leaves Festival continues rain or shine, embodying the resilient spirit of mountain communities. Visitors are encouraged to prepare for various weather conditions while enjoying this beloved autumn tradition
The Greater Mount Airy Chamber of Commerce organizes this cherished annual event, ensuring its continuation as a cornerstone of North Carolina’s festival calendar.
Dear Dr. Keith,
ASK DR. KEITH
By KEITH O’NEILL, PH.D.,C.HT.
I am a 22-year-old male who recently graduated college with a degree in fire science. My dream since I was a kid was to grow up and become a firefighter. I’ve been a standout athlete my entire life, a blessing and a curse. What was a blessing when I was young has become a curse as I have gotten older. I started loving and playing sports when I was in preschool. When I started playing organized sports, I excelled and was either the best or one of the best players on my team. Baseball became my passion, and I started playing it exclusively year round when I was 11. Little League, traveling teams and tournaments were a huge part of my life. Eventually, I made the varsity team my freshman year in high school, earning all-league and all-state honors my junior and senior years. Pro scouts took notice, however, I opted to accept a full ride scholarship to play baseball in college. This was the blessing and now the curse.
My father met my mother in high school, both kind of shy and antisocial. They gravitated toward one another and eventually started dating. They married right out of high school. My father never went to college and took a job at an oil refinery. My mom continued her education, graduated with a nursing degree and landed a great job in the local hospital. My mom flourished in her new career and developed great friendships and confidence. My father became disillusioned with his job and his life. My parents decided to have a baby, thinking that would give him a sense of purpose and save their marriage. Soon after, I was born. My dad was never an athlete and really hadn’t accomplished much in his life. I became his obsession which eventually led to my mother leaving him. He was the typical Little League dad, criticizing coaches, umpires and players and was ejected from
the stands multiple times for his behavior. Even when I had a good game, he criticized my play and belittled me. Both my mother and I pleaded for him to change his ways and stop living vicariously through me; he wouldn’t. He became an embarrassment to me and couldn’t control himself. I learned to cover for him and make excuses for his poor behavior. The balance and wisdom of my mother kept me sane, however, as time went on, I started to lose my love for the game. I wanted to quit playing baseball after high school, but my mom couldn’t afford to put me through college, so I accepted my scholarship. My mom was my rock.
Here’s my dilemma. My dad only knows me as a baseball player and not a person. After my parents split, the only time I saw him was at my baseball games and practices. Important events in my life such as birthdays and graduations, he was a no show. It was my mom who made sure I was at practices, games and tournaments; she financed everything. Sans baseball, my dad was pretty much non-existent in my life. To her credit, my mom never bad-mouthed my dad even though he never paid child support. He has had difficulty holding a job. Whenever I try to discuss giving up baseball with him, he gets angry. His blanket statement to me; “What do I say to people when my son gives up the chance to be a professional baseball player to be just a firefighter? How do I explain that?” I’ve stopped trying. I have one year of eligibility left to play baseball due to an injury my sophomore year. My dad is pressuring me to play. I have started the interviewing process with a couple of fire departments, and my prospects look good. My fear is, if I give up baseball, my dad will remove himself from my life. I hate the thought of letting him down and losing him, however, I dread the thought of playing baseball. What I once loved, I now despise. Please advise.
Joshua D., Charlotte, NC
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Hey Joshua,
I’m sorry you’ve lost the love for a game you truly enjoyed. Unfortunately, this is too common a story. Parents live vicariously through their children by criticizing and putting unnecessary pressure on them, ultimately destroying the joy of participating in sports, dance, voice and many other extracurricular activities. I’m a firm believer that, if it’s not enjoyable, it’s not worth doing. These types of activities are meant to be fun and bring joy to the participants, as well as their spectators. Competition can be healthy, but it breeds ugliness in some, which is unhealthy. Sometimes ego, like in many other aspects of life, rears its ugly head and brings out the worst in people. Throughout history, it’s destroyed numerous relationships and has led to many parents, coaches, teachers, politicians and others in positions of authority to act poorly, make bad decisions and ruin what was intended to be a positive experience. They ignore the damage they’re doing and blame everyone/everything else when things go wrong, unwilling to acknowledge their part in its destruction. However, we can’t control what other people say or do; we can only control ourselves. If you can’t change a situation, change your attitude about it. Then, you’ll have the clarity to respond in a positive manner that’ll be beneficial to you.
Who are you living your life for, you or your father?
Notice I said father and not dad. You call him dad, but I don’t believe he’s earned that privilege. Dads show up! They show up for birthday parties, back-to-school nights, picnics and all the important things in your life, not just for baseball games. They show up for the good, bad and ugly. They support you physically, mentally and emotionally. They help you financially until you’re grown and on your own. They teach you to become responsible, respectful, adaptable, flexible and resilient in a world that’s not fair; not everybody wins or gets a trophy. They become the person they want you to be, modeling good character and integrity,
and choose to be a positive influence in your life. That’s a dad. Fortunately, you have that person in your life, your mom. Unfortunately, there are a lot of fathers who aren’t capable of becoming dads. Your father sounds like one of them, and he can only change if he chooses to. Again, he may never be capable of becoming your dad. He showed that he doesn’t care about what you want when he said “just a firefighter” instead of a professional baseball player. Many in my family are firefighters, police officers or first responders – honorable and rewarding professions. You’re not responsible for your father’s happiness or obligated to meet his expectations. Your obligation is to yourself and to create a life and find a career that brings you joy and contentment.
You’re at a crossroads in your life. Do you continue to chase your childhood dream to become a firefighter, or give it up to please a man who’s manipulating you to feed his ego? I’ve worked with professional athletes throughout my career, and what allows them to become successful in their sport is their passion and dedication. If you lack that, you may toil in the minors for years and never make it to the bigs. You would be sacrificing and wasting years that could be invested in chasing your passion and dream. For what? A selfish and unhappy man who doesn’t accept and love you for who you are and what you want for your life. That’s wasted time and energy. You’re afraid of him removing himself from your life if you give up baseball. Sounds like he did that in all other aspects of your life already. Something to ponder. If he wasn’t your father, would you choose to have him in your life? If the answer is no, you have your answer.
Keith O’Neill Ph.D., C.Ht is a Psychotherapist, Professional Speaker, Author, Clinical and Sports Hypnotherapist, Mental Performance/Self-Esteem Coach and survivor of a life threatening head injury. If you’re struggling emotionally, need a speaker or a mental performance coach, visit theself-esteemcoach.com for more information. If you have questions for Dr. Keith, email them to keith@s-teamkids.com.
A SLICE OF COMMUNITY: THE UNTOUCHABLES & SCOTT GILLELAND’S NEXT CHAPTER
If you’ve spent any time around Newton, chances are you’ve stepped through the doors of The Untouchables Pizza. Since opening in 1983, the restaurant has become more than a place to grab a slice. It’s where families gather around the “infamous” buffet, where kids celebrate after ball games, and where neighbors come together in support of schools, churches, and nonprofits.
At the heart of it all is Scott Gilleland—a small business owner, community servant, and now candidate for Newton City Council.
The restaurant’s buffet remains a local favorite. With salad and potato bars, rotating pizza options, hearty wings, and creative specials, the spread has earned a reputation as one of the best values in town. Lunch and dinner hours draw regulars and newcomers alike, and the welcoming atmosphere makes it feel like home.
But for Scott, the measure of success isn’t just in full dining rooms—it’s in the lives touched beyond the restaurant’s walls.
GIVING BACK, ONE SPIRIT NIGHT AT A TIME
FROM BUSBOY TO BUSINESS OWNER
Scott’s journey with The Untouchables began humbly in 1986, when he started clearing tables as a busboy. Nearly four decades later, he proudly owns and operates the very same business that gave him his start. His leadership has kept The Untouchables true to its roots: affordable, family-friendly dining with a focus on fresh, made-fromscratch ingredients.
The Untouchables has long been a fixture in community fundraising. “We’re proud to support local schools and nonprofits through spirit nights,” Scott shares. “It’s a simple way to give back—neighbors come to eat, and proceeds go right back to the organizations that shape our community.”
Whether it’s the high school band, a local church, or a nonprofit meeting critical needs, countless groups have benefited from these efforts. Over the years, thousands of dollars have been raised, strengthening the very fabric of Newton. The restaurant also extends discounts and appreciation to first responders—police, EMS, and firefighters— who serve on the front lines every day.
A LIFE ROOTED IN SERVICE
Scott’s commitment to community stretches well beyond business. Born and raised in Catawba County, he has called Newton home for more than 20 years. His parents instilled the values of hard work and service—his father as a plant manager in North Newton, his mother and aunt shaping young lives in the preschool program at Newton Parks and Recreation.
Together with his wife, Scott raised their son here, celebrating his graduation from Discovery High School. Along the way, Scott invested his time as a Boy Scout leader for Pack 383.
Service became a central theme of his life. He is a past president and active member of the Newton-Conover Rotary Club, where he helped organize car shows and community fundraisers. In 2022, he was honored with the Dr. William T. MacLauchlin Memorial Award for lifetime “Service Above Self.” He has also served on the board of the Catawba County Council on Aging and as a trustee for the Saleen Club of America.
Professionally, Scott has owned and operated multiple small businesses—from Belmont Drive-In to Redline Automotive and Owen Outdoor Advertising—while also working on real estate development projects and community initiatives. At each step, mentors and partners have reinforced his belief in honesty, humility, and building strong relationships.
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A SLICE OF COMMUNITY: THE UNTOUCHABLES & SCOTT GILLELAND’S NEXT CHAPTER
The restaurant’s buffet remains a local favorite. With salad and potato bars, rotating pizza options, hearty wings, and creative specials, the spread has earned a reputation as one of the best values in town. Lunch and dinner hours draw regulars and newcomers alike, and the welcoming atmosphere makes it feel like home.
But for Scott, the measure of success isn’t just in full dining rooms—it’s in the lives touched beyond the restaurant’s walls.
GIVING BACK, ONE SPIRIT NIGHT AT A TIME
If you’ve spent any time around Newton, chances are you’ve stepped through the doors of The Untouchables Pizza. Since opening in 1983, the restaurant has become more than a place to grab a slice. It’s where families gather around the “infamous” buffet, where kids celebrate after ball games, and where neighbors come together in support of schools, churches, and nonprofits.
At the heart of it all is Scott Gilleland—a small business owner, community servant, and now candidate for Newton City Council.
A LIFE ROOTED IN SERVICE
HIS CAMPAIGN PRIORITIES REFLECT THAT VISION:
Scott’s commitment to community stretches well beyond business. Born and raised in Catawba County, he has called Newton home for more than 20 years. His parents instilled the values of hard work and service—his father as a plant manager in North Newton, his mother and aunt shaping young lives in the preschool program at Newton Parks and Recreation.
Together with his wife, Scott raised their son here, celebrating his graduation from Discovery High School. Along the way, Scott invested his time as a Boy Scout leader for Pack 383.
Service became a central theme of his life.
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WHY HE’S RUNNING: “CHANGE AIN’T POLITE”
This November, Scott is running for Newton City Council, teaming up with fellow candidates Bill Powell and Recil Wright. Their shared message is clear: real change takes courage, and as Scott says, “Change ain’t polite.”
He is a past president and active member of the Newton-Conover Rotary Club, where he helped organize car shows and community fundraisers. In 2022, he was honored with the Dr. William T. MacLauchlin Memorial Award for lifetime “Service Above Self.” He has also served on the board of the Catawba County Council on Aging and as a trustee for the Saleen Club of America.
Professionally, Scott has owned and operated multiple small businesses—from Belmont Drive-In to Redline Automotive and Owen Outdoor Advertising—while also working on real estate development projects and community initiatives. At each step, mentors and partners have reinforced his belief in honesty, humility, and building strong relationships.
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“I’m not a politician—I’m a small business owner, a neighbor, and someone who truly cares about Newton,” he explains. “We need leadership that’s accountable, transparent, and focused on people first.”
The Untouchables has long been a fixture in community fundraising. “We’re proud to support local schools and nonprofits through spirit nights,” Scott shares. “It’s a simple way to give back—neighbors come to eat, and proceeds go right back to the organizations that shape our community.”
• Repeal the $30 Vehicle Tax – A “double tax” on citizens he believes must be eliminated fairly and quickly.
• Accountability & Openness – Ensuring council decisions are transparent, ethical, and accessible to all.
• Fiscal Responsibility – Managing Newton’s $70 million budget with care, cutting waste and funding true needs.
Whether it’s the high school band, a local church, or a nonprofit meeting critical needs, countless groups have benefited from these efforts. Over the years, thousands of dollars have been raised, strengthening the very fabric of Newton. The restaurant also extends discounts and appreciation to first responders—police, EMS, and firefighters— who serve on the front lines every day.
• Improved Relationships – Restoring cooperation and respect with Catawba County governments.
• Better Services & Lower Fees – Reviewing and reducing unnecessary fees while improving core services.
• Public Safety – Supporting police, fire, and emergency services while addressing crime at its roots.
• Recreation for Everyone – Ensuring programs meet the real needs of all citizens in cost-effective ways.
• Fairness for All – Treating every citizen and neighborhood equally, with no preferential treatment.
Scott emphasizes that meaningful change requires more than one voice on council. “To fix what’s broken, to stop wasteful spending, and to give citizens a real voice—we need a majority. That’s why I’m proud to run alongside Bill and Recil.”
A NEIGHBOR, NOT A POLITICIAN
At the end of the day, Scott sees himself as a neighbor first. His love for Newton is woven into every slice served at The Untouchables, every fundraiser hosted, and every hour spent volunteering.
FROM BUSBOY TO BUSINESS OWNER
Scott’s journey with The Untouchables began humbly in 1986, when he started clearing tables as a busboy. Nearly four decades later, he proudly owns and operates the very same business that gave him his start.
“My work has always been about people,” he says. “If I don’t know the answer, I’ll tell you—and I’ll work to find it. That’s the kind of common-sense leadership I believe Newton deserves.”
His leadership has kept The Untouchables true to its roots: affordable, family-friendly dining with a focus on fresh, made-fromscratch ingredients.
For Scott Gilleland, community and council are simply two sides of the same coin: a chance to serve, to uplift, and to build a stronger Newton—one decision, one neighbor, one slice at a time.
Photo Credit:
William Avery Photography
Venue:
The Ruth by Beau Monde
AND THEN THERE WERE THE LINENS
By JEAN MARIE JOHNSON
On a brisk October afternoon
some years ago, my 90-yearold mother-in-law, Margaret, returned to us after a brief stay in a convalescent home. It was, after all, quite unexpected. The pneumonia that beset her was just the most recent incident in a yearlong roller coaster ride of ill health. Something about turning 90, she seemed to think, adding in her quiet way, “Dad only lived to 89, you know.” Margaret sure knew how to drop a bomb that was loaded with feeling and meaning.
That year of frailty, and the unpredictability that arrived in its wake, had taken its toll on my husband and me. Burning the candle at both ends, we were weary. Once Margaret was admitted, we began the process of rearranging the details of our everyday life. A dogwalker for our precious papillon, Madam Butterfly, and two placemats at dinner, instead of three. The reminder to “lock the doors on the way out, Grandma’s not here.” And so on.
With the realization that she might live out her days elsewhere, our actions became more “final.” Yes, Margaret would always be a part of our family, but the personal effects that say, “I belong here” would move out. In time, we knew that we’d convert her large bedroom into a study and sitting room – ushering in a new phase in which we would occupy the antique Victorian house by ourselves. Just us.
And then there were the linens… Grandma’s room was a virtual warehouse of vintage linens and aprons whose fine detailing and delicate embroidery reflected a life lived in an entirely different time and place. Because her stash was always “for good,” neither our daily lives nor the celebrations the year bestows were ever “good enough.” And so the linens remained in the drawers of an old dresser, off limits to younger hands. My husband encouraged me to seize the moment, claim the bounty and live in the wild and crazy notion that
every day is good enough. After some hesitation, I immersed myself in the tactile gratification of prohibited bounty.
But, the pace of my road warrior work life interfered. There just wasn’t enough time. I told myself that I would get back to that pile before long. Wash it, starch and press it, love it and put it to good use in all of our good days ahead.
Or so I thought.
Margaret wasn’t back at home more than a few days when, in her matter-offact manner, she announced that she’d put her aprons back in the drawers. In a flash I realized that I’d left that project midstream and had never gotten back to claiming my would-be bounty. Chagrined and sheepish, I began to mutter an apology, which fell on deaf but kind ears. “Those aprons are pretty special, you know. All those funerals and bake sales and church fairs, so much time in the kitchen. But, many hands make light work, you know.” And off she went.
“You know.”
But, did I? I stood for a long while in that moment. Looking back, I believe that Margaret trusted that one day, I would.
Whatever pangs of guilt I had felt eventually dissipated, allowing me to savor the sweet lesson of just what is “good enough.” It’s quite good enough to know that an old woman’s cherished memory of time well spent, hands laboring in love is life’s real bounty. When Margaret passed at 92, I eventually claimed those linens, determined to labor in love with them – just as she had.
CALENDAR OF EVENTS
OCTOBER 4-NOVEMBER 23 (SATURDAYS AND SUNDAYS)
RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL
9:30am-5:30pm (rain or shine), 16445 Poplar Tent Road in Huntersville.
The Carolina Renaissance Festival was introduced in 1994 with six acres of exhibits, attractions and entertainment. The event has grown into a 25-acre theme park filled with charming cottages and castles, kitchens and pubs, and a most unusual collection of people powered rides, games of skill and immersive entertainments – all nestled in 325 acres of pristine woodlands just north of Charlotte. The Carolina event has grown to be one of the largest of the Renaissance Fairs nationwide. Visit carolina.renfestinfo. com/about-us for more information.
OCTOBER 8
FLOWER DESIGN WORKSHOP
7-9pm, The Garden Room, 162 N. Main Street in Mooresville.
Join us for a night of flowers, fun and new friends at The Garden Room! Learn how to make your own fresh flower arrangement for your home. The class is $75 per person, no experience is necessary and all supplies are included! To sign up, call 704.213.9279 or email Erin at erin@thegardenroomlkn.com.
OCTOBER 10
ARTISTS AT STORY HILL CHURCH
6-9pm, Storyhill Church Lobby in Davidson.
What happens when five artists share one night, one vision and one space? Expect bold creativity, inspiring stories, live music and meaningful conversations. Come see how five artists challenge and sharpen each other, pushing their work to new levels of excellence. You’ll leave encouraged, refreshed and maybe with a new favorite piece of art! Admission is free.
OCTOBER 10
ARTOBERFEST ARTISTS’ RECEPTION
6-9pm, Mooresville Arts.
Join us to find out who will take home top honors from this amazing exhibit! In conjunction with the Artoberfest reception, Mooresville Arts is partnering with the Mooresville Downtown Commission to bring “Art & Acoustics” to downtown Mooresville on the same night! Guests can expect to meet artists, experience live art demonstrations, listen to live music and enjoy our downtown social district on a lovely fall evening in the heart of downtown Mooresville.
OCTOBER 11
LAKE NORMAN DIWALI CELEBRATION
3-7pm, Veteran’s Park, 201 Huntersville-Concord Road in Huntersville.
Enjoy a community Diya lighting ceremony, cultural performances and prize distribution, art competition prize distribution, an interactive cultural experience, fashion walk, food, shopping, DJ and dance floor finale. Open to all – free entry! Visit diwali-huntersville.com for more information and to RSVP.
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Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites and social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.
OCTOBER 11-12 & 18-19
PARADE OF HOMES OPEN HOUSE AT LAKESIDE POINTE
11am-2pm.
Step inside style at our Parade of Homes Open House. Join us for a self-guided tour of our Designer-Curated Model Homes and experience the perfect blend of modern luxury and lakefront living.
OCTOBER
13
4TH ANNUAL SICKLE ON THE GREEN GOLF TOURNAMENT
10am-5pm, North Stone Country Club in Huntersville.
Join us for the 4th Annual Sickle on the Green Golf Tournament, benefiting the fight against Sickle Cell Anemia. Gather your team or join one of our existing teams and play a great day of golf for an awesome cause! Check us out at: sickleonthegreen.org IG: @ sickleotgreen. Register now: birdease.com/32028/register.
OCTOBER 18
FALL FESTIVAL
3-6pm, Northern Regional Recreation Center, 18121 Old Statesville Road in Cornelius.
We will have inflatables, glitter tattoos, balloon artists, fun activities and candy. Don’t forget to visit the pumpkin patch to pick out your pumpkin! The event will be held rain or shine. The event will move indoors in the event of inclement weather. Costumes are welcome! Please note that, for the safety of all our participants, with the exception of service animals, we ask that you leave your fury friends (pets) at home!
OCTOBER 21
DOVE HOUSE CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY CENTER
CHILDREN’S VOICE LUNCHEON
11:30am-1pm, Charles Mack Citizen Center, 215 N. Main Street in Mooresville.
Free to attend. Donations are welcome. Please plan to arrive early as we will be serving a southern buffet featuring The Smoke Pit. Register by email at events@dovehouse.us.
OCTOBER 24-26
LAKESIDE ARTISTS STUDIO TOUR
Art lovers, mark your calendars for the Lakeside Artists Studio Tour! Artist studios and neighborhood sites will open their doors down the Brawley corridor in Mooresville, so you can explore the artists’ work environment and meet visiting artists displaying their creations! A wide array of artwork will be available for purchase by 18 participating artists – just in time for the holidays! The tour is free to attend. Visit lknstudiotour. com for a list of studios to visit.
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“The taste of local honey is something you will never forget. It stays with you like a fond memory.”
George McAllister, Owner, Bees of Lake Norman
HARVEST FEST
4-6pm, Christ Community Church, 615 N. Main Street in Mooresville.
This free, family friendly event will feature inflatables, carnival games, 30+ decorated cars for trunk-or-treat and live theater performances of Daniel and the Lions’ Den. Harvest Fest has become a favorite fall tradition in Mooresville, drawing more than 1,700 attendees last fall. All are welcome to join in the fun and celebrate the season with us! Visit cccmooresville.com/harvestfest for more information.
NOVEMBER 1
FALL FARM CHARM MARKET AT BROKEN ARROW FARM
10am-3pm, Broken Arrow Farm.
Join us for our Fall Farm Charm Market this November. It’s going to be a day filled with vendors, food and fall fun. If you’re interested in becoming a vendor, please email Kristen at teaguekristen1894@gmail.com with all questions and application requests!
NOVEMBER 6
SIP, SHOP & STRUT HOLIDAY FASHION SHOW
5:30-8pm, Hilton Garden Inn, 159 Gateway Boulevard in Mooresville.
Enjoy a fashion show, food, drinks and holiday shopping. Free to attend.
NOVEMBER 8
NAMI WALKS
9am-12pm, Mint Museum – Randolph.
It will take all of us to demand victory over mental illness. That’s why we provide a safe space at NAMI Walks in everything we do, for everyone who joins our mission. Each participant will stand by you and walk by your side, every step of the way. This is your NAMIWalks moment.
NOVEMBER 10
NAMI FAMILY AND FRIENDS
6:30-8pm, Sally’s YMCA, 1601 Forney Creek Parkway in Denver, NC.
A free two-hour seminar that informs people who have loved ones with a mental health condition how to best support them. It’s also an opportunity to meet other people in similar situations and gain community support. The seminar is led by trained people with lived experience of supporting a family member with a mental health condition.
NOVEMBER 15
CHRISTMAS BAZAAR
9am-2pm, Lake Forest Church, 8519 Gilead Road in Huntersville.
Absolute Hope Foundation invites you to our 3rd annual Christmas Bazaar. Raffles, bounce house, food and more! Free admission, 50+ vendors and pictures with Santa (reserve your spot today by texting “Santa2025” to 76278. All proceeds go towards helping local children in need.
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NOVEMBER 15
AUTUMN GLOW
11am-2pm, Uplift Skin and Body MedSpa, 21016 Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.
Celebrating beauty and skin health with Uplift Skin and Body. Bringing together a community of local women owned businesses. Enjoy refreshments, a Q&A with trusted providers, event specials and raffle prizes. Admission is free. Visit upliftskinandbody. com/2025-autumn-glow-upliftskinandbody for more information.
NOVEMBER 20
AMERICAN WATERCOLOR SOCIETY “A FIRST LOOK” RECEPTION
6-8pm, Mooresville Arts.
Mooresville Arts invites you to “A First Look” reception for the American Watercolor Society travel exhibit. Enjoy a fun-filled evening of art, live music, heavy hors d’oeuvres, desserts, wine and craft beer. Limited tickets will be for sale for this special event.
NOVEMBER 20
COUNTRY ROADS & CITY STREETS CONCERT
7pm, Grace Reins Farm in Maiden, NC.
Enjoy music from brother and sister due Daniel and Christina Eagle from The Voice as well as John Sullivan, also a fan favorite from the show. Tickets are limited to 125 and are $35 each available through Eventbrite. There will be food onsite as well as raffle prizes. Proceeds benefit Watchmen of the Streets – Habit Missions. Visit watchmenofthestreets.com for more information.
NOVEMBER 21
DOWNTOWN
MOORESVILLE GALLERY CRAWL
6-8pm, Mooresville Arts.
Four Downtown Mooresville galleries will be open: East Style House + Gallery: 125 N. Main Street, Four Corners Framing + Gallery: 148 N. Main Street, Juelerye | Artisan Gallery + Gifts: 112 S. Main Street, and Mooresville Arts: 103 W. Center Avenue. Enjoy light refreshments while you stroll through these unique galleries.
NOVEMBER 22
MOORESVILLE FINE ARTS FESTIVAL
10am-5pm, Charles Mack Citizen Center.
Presented by Mooresville Arts, the Mooresville Fine Arts Festival will be held in downtown Mooresville. The festival is an event for selected local and regional artists to display and sell their original fine art. More than 50 artists will participate, showcasing a diverse range of artwork, including paintings, pottery, photography, jewelry and more for sale. The event is free to attend.
DECEMBER 13
CHRISTMAS BAZAAR AT BETHEL
PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH
9am-2pm, Bethel Presbyterian Church.
Bethel Presbyterian Church’s Christmas Bazaar returns with local vendors, PortA-Pit BBQ and holiday spirit for a cause. Each year, Bethel Presbyterian dedicates the bazaar’s proceeds to local children’s ministries. This season, all funds will benefit Cornelius Early Scholars, a nonprofit devoted to providing early childhood education opportunities for local families.
