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COVER STORY Little Richards BBQ Better Together: Comfort Food & Community
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Making Room for Joy: Giving Toys a Second Life this Christmas
How to Increase Your “Feel-Good Hormones” with Simple Lifestyle Hacks
Forsyth Family Dental: Compassion, Comfort & Personalized Care
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DJ Hek Yeh, holiday karaoke, photo booth, and more. Every donation supports Twin City Santa’s 22nd Annual Toy Drive!
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Which Holiday Movie Dinner Would You Bring? It’s a Grand Life
As I’m writing this, we’re gearing up for our big “Friendsgiving” at the gym and, of course, Thanksgiving with family. I’ve always loved Thanksgiving because it’s a holiday centered around community, friendship, and good food. Some of my favorite things!
Which feels like the perfect segue into this month’s incredible cover story. Little Richard’s has been a community staple for more than 30 years, and the image on our cover captures that perfectly—friends and family gathered around a table, sharing a meal, and enjoying each other’s company. Be sure to read all about Little Richard’s BBQ and all the exciting things this family business has going on on page XX.
With December comes the holidays… and all the special traditions that make this season so meaningful both within our families and throughout our community.
One of my favorite traditions is going to see The Nutcracker. This year, I’m going with a dear friend, her daughter, and another friend. Maris is at that perfect age where she’s going to absolutely love it, and I can’t wait to see her face light up. One of my earliest memories is my mamaw taking me to see The Nutcracker as a little girl. I got all dressed up, and she loves to remind me that I was too excited to sit down...I stood up for the entire performance! The School of the Arts production is happening December 5–7 this year! Learn more on page 22.
Another favorite tradition: putting up the Christmas tree. There’s just something magical about the glow of the Christmas Tree lights in the evening that I never get tired of.
And of course… giving back. The older I get, the more I appreciate the beauty of generosity. To give truly is better than to receive. Recently, my gym collected 400 bags of rice for The Shalom Project, and it was one of the most rewarding experiences. That number (400) was significant because it meant every family they serve in a month received a 5-pound bag of rice. Such a small thing in the grand scheme, but also so powerful.
We have so many incredible nonprofits in our community, and I’d encourage you to consider making volunteer work a family tradition this year. It’s an experience your kids will remember forever.
On that same note, here’s a small way to make a big impact: consider donating extra toys or household items before Christmas. Local charities are often flooded with donations after the holidays, but the greater need is right before Christmas, when those items can make a child’s morning truly magical. If you can live without it after Christmas, you probably don’t need it before! Make it a fun clean-out project with your kiddos. If you need ideas on where to donate, we’ve got a great article on page 12 with some wonderful local options.
Wishing you and your family a beautiful holiday season filled with warmth, gratitude, and community.
Brooke Culler, @brooke__culler Publisher
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Making Room for Joy: Giving Toys a Second Life this Christmas
Every December, homes across the Triad start to sparkle—Christmas lights twinkling, gifts tucked under trees, and children eagerly counting down the days until Santa arrives. But while many of us are wrapping up shiny new toys, others in our community are quietly worrying about how to make the season special for their children.
A local charity shop volunteer once shared something that completely changed how I think about giving. “I wish people would donate toys before Christmas instead of after,” she said. “The week before Christmas, we see parents come in looking for gifts for their little ones, but the shelves are empty. Then, right after Christmas, we’re flooded with donations.”
That perspective is powerful—and a simple reminder that the timing of generosity can make all the difference. Clearing out toys before the holidays not only helps tidy playrooms but can bring real joy to a child whose parents may be struggling to afford gifts this year.
A NEW TRADITION OF GIVING
If your child’s toy collection is overflowing, consider turning the pre-holiday cleanup into a family project. Sit down together, talk about what each toy meant, and choose a few special items to pass along. It’s a beautiful way to teach gratitude and empathy—helping kids understand that sharing what we have can bring happiness to others.
Donating toys before Christmas ensures that local organizations have time to sort, display, and distribute them to families who need them most. It’s one of the simplest ways to make sure your generosity meets the moment.
WHERE TO DONATE IN THE WINSTON-SALEM AREA
There are many wonderful organizations throughout Forsyth County that welcome gently used toys and children’s items. Here are just a few that can turn your family’s outgrown treasures into holiday joy:
• Goodwill Industries of Northwest NC Accepts a wide range of gently used items, including toys, books, and games. Donations help fund local job training and employment programs, empowering individuals and families throughout the community.
Multiple locations across Winston-Salem | goodwillnwnc.org
• The Salvation Army
In addition to its well-known Angel Tree program for new toys, The Salvation Army also accepts gently used, functional toys throughout the year. Many are given to families in need around the holidays or for birthdays.
1255 N. Trade Street, Winston-Salem 336-723-6366
• Winston-Salem Rescue Mission
This local nonprofit accepts donations of nearly all kinds—clothing, household goods, and yes, toys—to support its shelter and recovery programs for men and families in crisis.
718 Trade Street NW, Winston-Salem 336-723-1848
• City With Dwellings
While primarily serving individuals experiencing homelessness, City With Dwellings occasionally accepts toy or children’s item donations, especially items like games, puzzles, or art supplies that can brighten spirits during the season.
520 N. Spring Street, Winston-Salem 336-577-8649
• Pinwheels Thrift Store & Family Center
Run by The Parenting PATH, Pinwheels accepts gently used toys, clothing, and baby items. Proceeds support parenting education and programs that strengthen local families.
690 Coliseum Drive NW, Winston-Salem 336-748-9028
• Local Daycare Centers
Many local daycares and early learning centers gladly accept gently used toys, puzzles, and books to enhance their play areas. It’s best to call ahead to ask about specific needs and donation policies.
WHAT TO KEEP IN MIND
Before you load up your car with bags of toys, keep these quick tips in mind:
• Call first. Always confirm that an organization is currently accepting toy donations, and ask about any restrictions (for example, no stuffed animals or oversized items).
• Check condition. Make sure toys are clean, functional, and have all their pieces—think “gently used,” not “well-loved.”
• Know the difference. Programs like Toys for Tots and many children’s hospitals only accept new, unopened toys for health and safety reasons, so double-check before you go.
THE HEART OF THE HOLIDAYS
This season, as you make space for the new, remember that what your family has outgrown might be exactly what another family is wishing for. Whether it’s a dollhouse, a box of building blocks, or a stack of storybooks, your simple act of giving could turn into someone else’s Christmas morning magic.
Because the true heart of the holidays isn’t found in what we receive—it’s in what we give away.
GIVE LOCAL — TOY DONATION DROP-OFFS
Goodwill Industries of Northwest NC Multiple locations | goodwillnwnc.org
Accepts toys, books, and games yearround
The Salvation Army 1255 N. Trade Street | 336-723-6366
Donations help families year-round through local programs
Winston-Salem Rescue Mission 718 Trade Street NW | 336-723-1848
Donations support shelter and recovery services
City With Dwellings
520 N. Spring Street | 336-577-8649
Accepts small games and art supplies for families and children
Pinwheels Thrift Store & Family Center 690 Coliseum Drive NW | 336-748-9028
Benefits The Parenting PATH programs for local families
Little Traditions, Big Memories
Six Festive Ideas to Bring Your Family Closer During the Holiday Season
by SUZY FIELDERS
Holidays are the perfect times to create traditions for your family that everyone will look forward to each year. They present so many opportunities for togetherness that sometimes get lost during the year. In contrast, they also tend to carry more chaos and stress. The best way to combat that is to embrace it and turn it into something special and meaningful.
Below are a few ideas for family holiday traditions. Pick and choose the ones you like, adapt them to fit your family and adjust to fit various ages. Just remember to keep the fun and festive spirit alive, and you can’t go wrong!
TURN TRIMMING THE TREE INTO A MEANINGFUL, ANNUAL FAMILY EVENT
When my oldest daughter was a toddler and I was a single mom, we started a tradition of decorating the tree while having a Christmas movie marathon and drinking hot chocolate. It turned what sometimes felt like a chore into a fun time. We both looked forward to it every year! Now that our family has grown, we’ve incorporated all into this fun day.
START THE SEASON WITH A FAMILY ADVENTURE
Instead of kicking off the busy holiday season with stress, plan a family day trip or even a weekend trip. If you need an idea of where to go, check out this month’s Getaway Guide! Whether you want to have the trip before Thanksgiving or after, plan it for right before your family calendar gets too busy.
TURN HOLIDAY TO-DOS INTO FAMILY FUN
As moms, we tend to carry the burden of all that needs to be done. This is especially true during the holidays. Instead of doing it all, find a way to get the family involved. Before the season kicks off, as a family, create a list of everything that needs to be done. Then, divide up the items. Put multiple people on items that are harder or to incorporate younger kids. Make it a festive, fun time with playing holiday tunes.
GIVE BACK & SPREAD GRATITUDE THROUGH SERVICE
A great way to remember gratitude through the season and enjoy family time is volunteering together. If you have a teenager, you tend to have more options for physical volunteer work; however, even little ones can get involved with simple tasks.
STIR UP HOLIDAY FUN & DELICIOUS FOOD IN THE KITCHEN
Baking and cooking is a great way to spend time as a family and make traditions. You can keep it as simple as making cookies together. Or, make it elaborate and create a holiday family meal together. Another fun cooking idea is making a bunch of appetizers and having that for dinner instead of a traditional meal. There are so many festive food options to cook up!
BRING EVERYONE TOGETHER FOR A HOLIDAY CELEBRATION
The holidays never seem complete without parties. Try hosting one this year instead of just attending one. This could be a big party for all your loved ones or even just a simple, small family party. No matter which you choose, it’s a way to join together and celebrate the season.
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Yuletide around the World
by DEBBIE LINVILLE
From country to country, Christmas is marked by a rich tapestry of customs. While traditions like hanging advent calendars, eating roast turkey dinners and waiting for Santa Claus to squeeze down the chimney are part of Christmastime in the United States and many countries, there are myriad unique customs that shape the celebration of Yuletide around the world. Following are some of the most delightful and distinctive traditions that bring extra joy to the holiday season. If you are looking to vacation over Christmas and wish to experience some one-of-a-kind festive sparkle, one of these locations might be just your ticket!
PHILIPPINES: GREAT LANTERN FESTIVAL
This festival takes place in the city of San Fernando – the “Christmas Capital of the Philippines.” Each year, on the Saturday before Christmas Eve, visitors from all over the country (and the world) come to enjoy the festival and watch the fierce competition among the 11 villages as everyone attempts to build the most elaborate lantern. Originally, lanterns were simple creations made from origami paper, around 30 inches in diameter, and lit by candle. Today, lanterns are made from a variety of materials, are up to 20 feet in diameter and are illuminated by electric bulbs.
JAPAN: KENTUCKY FRIED CHICKEN, PLEASE
Forget the turkey, Japanese families make their reservations well in advance to secure a seat at a neighborhood KFC American-owned fast food restaurant on Christmas Day. Many others take advantage of the online service to purchase anything from a standard family bucket of chicken to a premium roast bird feast. A clever KFC marketing campaign convincing locals that fried chicken is a traditional U.S. Yuletide feast has rendered Colonel Sander’s bucket of finger-licking goodness a new, quirky, Japanese Christmas tradition.
ICELAND: MISCHIEVOUS YULE LADS
Much like the famed Irish leprechauns that run amok playing tricks on humans, the fun and naughty Icelandic Yule lads are out in force at Christmas in one of the more fun and mischievous Christmas traditions. As Christmas approaches, 13 tricksy troll-like characters make their debut – a different one each night leading up to the big day. For each night of Yuletide, children place their finest shoes on the windowsill and a different Yule lad leaves gifts for nice girls and boys and rotting potatoes for the naughty ones!
NORWAY: HIDE YOUR BROOM!
One of the more unorthodox Christmas Eve traditions can be found in Norway. Norwegians believe that Christmas Eve coincides with the arrival of witches and menacing spirits that take flight and glide across the winter night sky. With the coming of cursed winds, households tuck their brooms away before they go to sleep. Sometimes people take the tradition up a notch and launch a warning shot to keep the night’s mischief at bay. After all, nothing spoils Christmas quicker than finding your broom stolen or broken into pieces by a joyriding witch.
VENEZUELA: ROLLER SKATING TO CHRISTMAS MASS
During the days leading up to Christmas, Venezuelans head to church early each morning for Misa de Aguinaldo (a series of masses held at dawn). What makes this long-running holiday tradition unique is that, in the capital city of Caracas, churchgoers travel on roller skates. Many of the roads remain closed until 8:00 a.m. to ensure the “worshippers on wheels” can safely get to and from mass. Since the 16th century, the tradition of holding 5:00 – 6:00 a.m. mass for nine consecutive days has endured, but the curious twist of incorporating roller skating didn’t emerge until the 1950s. Locals embrace the quirky addition wholeheartedly, though its origins remain a mystery.
UKRAINE: SPIDER WEBS ON CHRISTMAS TREES
The standard tinsel, twinkling lights and ornaments may adorn Christmas trees in Ukraine, but it is the addition of artificial spiders and spider webs thought to bring good fortune and prosperity that are the real showstoppers. This beloved tradition stems from a late 19th century Ukrainian folktale of a poor family who could not afford to decorate their tree and woke on Christmas morning to discover spiders had covered it in glorious sparkling webs. When the sunlight hit the tree, the silken threads transformed into strands of gold and silver.
Better Together: Comfort Food & Community
by MARTIE EMORY
Loyal to recipes passed down through generations and delivering true comfort with every meal at each of their five locations, Little Richard’s BBQ is an icon for Winston-Salem area residents.
From the lively Stratford Road neighborhood vibe to smaller destinations in Clemmons, Yadkinville, Mt. Airy, and Walkertown, both first- and secondgeneration members of the Karagiorgis family are proud to keep growing their family’s beloved business. By feeding, serving, and bringing people together across Winston-Salem and Forsyth County, Little Richard’s continues to be a vital part of the community!
Community is really the backbone of how Little Richard’s BBQ operates, and that local spirit is especially evident at the Stratford Road location, where regulars gather for sports watch parties, memorable family occasions, and lively dinners with friends. You can always catch your favorite teams playing on wall-to-wall TVs and enjoy a full-service bar along with your favorite game-day appetizers and entrées.
“We want guests to feel like family when they dine with us,” shares Victoria. “We hope our restaurants feel like gathering places, where the ambiance and food make you feel right at home. That sense of belonging is a big part of our identity.”
While maintaining the charm and comfort you feel at each of their locations, owner Stephen Karagiorgis and his sister, Victoria Kaliviotis, have expanded Little Richard’s reach with catering for community events of all sizes. The versatility of the restaurant’s menu pairs perfectly with any special occasion, and guided by Kristen Absher, general manager and head of operations, every event is seamless!
“With the growth of our catering efforts, we have also built many wonderful community partnerships — just one way we stay connected to the community that has supported our family business for decades,” shares Victoria.
You may have seen their black and gold catering van at Wake Forest Demon Deacon home football games, as this season fans have enjoyed pre-ordering their tailgating favorites and picking up that delicious custom meal in the Gold Lot at Allegacy Stadium.
“We’ve been thrilled to partner with Little Richard’s BBQ — as Wake Forest fans have already been enjoying their BBQ for decades,” adds Neil Bishop of Wake Forest University Athletics. “Bringing that local flavor to the stadium lets fans enjoy an even more authentic Winston-Salem experience on football game days. We’re proud to team up with Little Richard’s in continuing their strong tradition of serving our great community.”
Little Richard’s also supports several schools across Forsyth County — including Whitaker Elementary and R.J. Reynolds High School — through fundraising and engagement events.
“Little Richard’s is a natural partner,” explains Jane Duncan, who coordinates Whitaker’s Business Partners program. “They’ve invested at our highest level for the past two years and have contributed in-kind with catering for events — allowing us to sell their delicious food to raise funds for the school.”
“At Little Richard’s, community isn’t just something we talk about — it’s who we are. As a family-owned business, we’ve always believed that supporting local schools, university teams, and organizations is part of our responsibility and our joy. Our new partnerships let us give back to the same people who’ve supported us for generations, and they help keep us connected to what really matters — our community,” shares Stephen.
Partnering with Little Richard’s BBQ is also a tremendous boost for student-athletes at Salem College. The partnership began after Michael Williams, Athletic Director, attended a GWSI event at Little Richard’s BBQ, where he connected with Victoria about a potential collaboration.
“She was immediately enthusiastic and set up a meeting to discuss how they could work within Salem Academy & College’s budget to support our teams,” shares Michael.
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“Victoria has been a wonderful partner, and what makes this relationship even more special is learning that her mother, Stacey Karagiorgis, is a Salem alumna!”
The Little Richard’s BBQ partnership allows the school to provide studentathletes with healthy, nutritious post-game meals that support recovery, wellness, and performance. Hallie Kramer, a sophomore soccer player from Wisconsin, says being involved with the Winston-Salem community is vital for Salem students.
“By getting involved, we stop seeing Winston-Salem as merely a college town, and instead we start seeing it as our true home away from home,” she adds.
As Little Richard’s continues to make connections and partnerships across the community, they consider every customer and partner part of the family. They hope to bring their Southern classics to everyone’s holiday celebrations — because bringing folks together and sharing a meal has always been at the heart of what they do.
This holiday season, there’s nothing better than serving Little Richard’s deliciousness for festive gatherings with friends and family. Visit www. littlerichardsbarbeque.com/holiday-specials/ to pre-order their Holiday Meal Specials! Options include both turkey meals and BBQ meals (plus sides) to feed four to six guests (small) or 10 to 12 guests (large).
For more information on sharing the many flavors of Little Richard’s BBQ at your next school or community event, email catering@ littlerichardsbarbeque.com to discuss partnership options. Follow them on Facebook and Instagram @littlerichardsbbq.
Contact Little Richard’s Smokehouse BBQ at 6470 Stadium Drive, Clemmons, 336-766-0401; in Mt. Airy at 455 Fredrick Street, 336-783-0227; Yadkinville at 916 South State Street, 336-679-7064; Walkertown at 5182 Reidsville Road, 336-754-4495; and Little Richard’s Smokehouse Bar-N-Que at 109 S. Stratford Road in Winston-Salem, 336-999-8037.
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Felipe Tristán to Conduct UNCSA’s “The Nutcracker”
The University of North Carolina School of the Arts’ (UNCSA) production of “The Nutcracker” — a beloved holiday tradition throughout the Piedmont Triad — will return for its 60th season in 2025. For the third year, “The Nutcracker” will take place at the Steven Tanger Center for the Performing Arts in Greensboro while the Stevens Center in Winston-Salem, the traditional home of “The Nutcracker,” continues to undergo a comprehensive renovation.
“The Nutcracker” is presented by Flow Automotive and will feature the highly acclaimed Mexican musician and UNCSA alum Felipe Tristán (P.A.C. ’11) as guest conductor.
“Returning to UNCSA to conduct ‘The Nutcracker’ is very special for me as a proud alumnus,” said Tristán. “It’s one of the most cherished ballets, filled with magic, wonder, timeless music, iconic scenes and the spirit of the holidays. To share that joy with the talented UNCSA students from across the Dance, Music and Design and Production conservatories and the superb production team at the Tanger Center is truly an honor.”
UNCSA will offer five performances of “The Nutcracker” December 5 through 7. Opening night will be Friday, December 5, with a performance at 7:30 p.m. On Saturday, December 6, there will be a matinee at noon and an evening performance at 7:30 p.m. Sunday, December 7, will include 1 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. shows.
“We’re thrilled to continue the beloved UNCSA tradition of ‘The Nutcracker’ at the Tanger Center this year,” said Endalyn T. Outlaw, dean of the School of Dance. “It’s a privilege to provide our students with the opportunity to perform in such a spectacular venue while delighting loyal patrons from Winston-Salem, welcoming back Greensboro patrons, and engaging new audiences from the Piedmont Triad area and beyond. We look forward to raising the curtain on opening night, December 5.”
Tickets for “The Nutcracker” begin at $39 (taxes and fees not included) and can be purchased at TangerCenter.com. Optional upgrades include on-site VIP parking, Lee & Wrangler Lounge access and the Tanger Center’s pre-event Prelude Dining experience for select performances. More information about “The Nutcracker” can be found at uncsa.edu/nutcracker.
ABOUT FELIPE TRISTÁN
Felipe Tristán is one of the most distinguished Mexican conductors of his generation, known for his artistry and leadership across the Americas, Europe and Asia. He serves as artistic director of the Brooklyn Symphony Orchestra, associate conductor of the San Antonio Philharmonic, principal conductor of Ballet de Monterrey and conductor at the Manhattan School of Music.
A University of North Carolina School of the Arts alumnus, Tristán became the first Mexican conductor to receive Poland’s Muzyczne Orły Award for best recording in 2024, recognizing his album “Flute Concertos – Penderecki & Reinecke” with the Janáček Philharmonic Orchestra. That year, he also completed a residency with the San Francisco Ballet, returned to conduct at the MET Gala and appeared in the Disney+ documentary “In Vogue: The 90s.”
A Carnegie Hall alumnus, Tristán has led orchestras worldwide and collaborated with Grammy-winning institutions including Belongó Afro Latin Jazz, Carnegie Hall Citywide, Lincoln Center and the New York Philharmonic. He is also principal conductor of the Texas New Music Festival, where he mentors emerging composers and conductors.
His upcoming 2025-26 season includes “La Traviata,” “The Nutcracker” in San Antonio and North Carolina, “Giselle” with Ballet de Monterrey, “Juan Gabriel: A Philharmonic Tribute,” and a European tour with the Hungarian State Symphony Orchestra and debuts with the Sofia and North Czech philharmonics.
How to Increase Your “Feel-Good Hormones”
with Simple Lifestyle Hacks
by DEBBIE BARR
SEROTONIN (“THE MOOD BOOSTER”)
About 10% of serotonin is made in the brainstem, and about 90% is made in the gut. Serotonin is a mood regulator that also influences our behavior. It helps us stay focused and makes us feel calm, stable and happy. Serotonin also impacts blood clotting, plays a role in our sleep/wake cycle, digestion, appetite and memory.
When serotonin is low, we are more likely to feel anxious and depressed. The most commonly used antidepressant medicines increase the level of serotonin in the brain. If you or a loved one take an antidepressant, you can probably attest to the positive effects of serotonin on mood.
You can increase your serotonin naturally with:
• Sunlight. 10 to 15 minutes of daily exposure to sunlight boosts serotonin levels. Those who don’t have access to sunlight may experience a drop in serotonin that causes a low mood known as seasonal affect disorder (SAD). The treatment for SAD is artificial light therapy.
• Exercise. When we work out, our bodies release tryptophan, the amino acid that serotonin is made from. Five 30-minute aerobic workouts and two strength training sessions a week is enough to increase your level of serotonin.
• Food. It seems reasonable to assume that eating foods containing tryptophan, such as turkey, would increase serotonin. But fruits, vegetables, legumes and whole grains are more likely to accomplish this. These complex carbohydrates trigger insulin, which helps tryptophan reach the brain.
Hormones are chemical messengers produced in various glands of the body. They travel through the bloodstream to help the organs that keep our bodies healthy. There are about 50 hormones, but only a few that can make us feel happy, sometimes even euphoric. Three of these “feel-good hormones” are serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin. What’s amazing is that it’s very easy to increase each of these hormones naturally – and increase our own happiness – with simple lifestyle hacks.
DOPAMINE (“THE REWARDER”)
Dopamine is made by nerve cells at the base of the brain and also by the adrenal glands. Dopamine is created when one amino acid, tyrosine, is converted to another amino acid, L-dopa. When enzymes act on L-dopa, it becomes dopamine. Dopamine plays a role in movement, memory, attention, sleep, kidney function and motivation. It’s called “the rewarder” because, when we do something pleasurable, the brain rewards us by releasing a large dose of dopamine. Dopamine makes us feel happy, motivated, focused and alert. It makes us want to repeat whatever triggers a dopamine reward. This is why junk food is so addictive!
When dopamine is low, our mood may also be low. Motivation and sex drive may be low, too. Low dopamine makes us feel tired and unhappy, and may result in memory loss, difficulty sleeping and make it hard to concentrate. Low dopamine is associated with restless leg syndrome, Parkinson’s disease and ADHD.
You can increase your dopamine naturally with:
• Food. Foods rich in tyrosine are known to increase dopamine. These include chicken, almonds, apples, avocados, bananas, beets, chocolate, green leafy vegetables and green tea.
• Relaxing activities. Any activity that relaxes you may trigger a dopamine reward. For many people, reading a book, exercising, yoga, playing with a dog or hiking in the woods may stimulate the release of dopamine.
OXYTOCIN (“THE LOVE HORMONE”)
Oxytocin is made by the hypothalamus gland but stored in and released by the pituitary gland. Oxytocin causes the uterus to contract during childbirth and moves breast milk toward the nipple. Both of these facilitate bonding between mother and baby. But, oxytocin also helps connect people socially and romantically. It is involved in creating trust, romantic attachment, relationship building and sexual arousal. That’s why oxytocin is called “the love hormone” or “the cuddle chemical!”
It’s uncommon to have a low level of oxytocin. But, when it does occur, it may play a role in bringing on depression, especially postpartum depression.
You can increase your oxytocin level naturally with:
• Hugs. Simply touching someone can increase his or her oxytocin! Cuddling, hugging, getting a massage and romantic intimacy can all stimulate the flow of oxytocin.
• Music. Music has a unique ability to connect and bond people, and oxytocin may be part of the reason. In one study, oxytocin levels were found to increase when measured before and after a group of people participated in improvised singing.
• Exercise. According to one study, exercise can also increase oxytocin. The study measured oxytocin in the saliva of participants after highintensity martial arts training and found that it was elevated.
• Laughter. When we laugh, it triggers oxytocin which, experts remind us, is an important part of social bonding. As if to prove it, they claim that if you laugh on a date, you’ll be more likely to have a second date! (Worth a try, for sure!)
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Easier said than done, right? We hope working with our team has made you and your family feel more confident during times of market sell-offs and headline risk (like recently).
If you think about it logically, the “time in, not timing” theory applies to most goals. Retirement, health and fitness, college savings, your golf or tennis game, etc.
Small steps, like continuously adding to your 401k or nonretirement accounts during market sell-offs can make substantial differences over time.
In our opinion, the success of investment returns depends on your commitment to stick to the plan. Staying invested during times of market volatility can be unnerving, but if you look back at the more violent “market crashes,” patient investors typically came out the other side positive.
Staying invested and being strategic by shifting portions of your portfolio to buy quality stock and bond sectors when they are lower in price is what we try to achieve for you.
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FORSYTH FAMILY DENTAL
Jeffrey M. Gallisdorfer, DDS
Charlotte C. Broughton, DDS
Compassion, Comfort & Personalized Care
Elizabeth D. Corbin, DDS
Sarah E. Simpson, DMD
by MARTIE EMORY
W ith a practice situated in the very heart of Forsyth County, Forsyth Family Dental has built its outstanding reputation on serving patients through a true team effort focused on comfort and ease.
Going above and beyond your expectations is second nature here, where every aspect of your personalized care plan is delivered with the same level of compassion the staff would offer their own families!
If you’re searching for dental care that ensures your needs are met with thoroughly professional service – and always with a smile – Forsyth Family Dental offers the most comfortable experience possible. Proud of the practice’s longevity within the WinstonSalem community and steadfast commitment to a family focus, Charlotte Broughton, DDS leads a group of professionals who boast stellar professional reputations of their own.
Locally owned and operated, Forsyth Family Dental has served patients from this same Jonestown Road address since 1984. In
addition to Dr. Broughton, the dental team now includes Elizabeth Corbin, DDS, Jeffrey Gallisdorfer, DDS and Sarah Simpson, DMD.
Individual patient needs and concerns always come first for this dedicated group of dentists, hygienists, assistants and front office staff that brings a combined 589 years of clinical experience to the practice. Their passion for caring about both their “work” family and the family of loyal patients who count on their professionalism is easy to spot at every office visit.
“We also appreciate your time is valuable, and our entire team works diligently to keep wait times to a minimum,” shares Dr. Broughton. “Your trust in us is priceless, and we hope our dedication to you and your family reflects that vital relationship.”
Forsyth Family Dental also utilizes the most up-to-date, cuttingedge technology for every office procedure, as well as offering patients fast, painless surgery when necessary. Continuing education is also part of every provider’s routine, and it’s always their hope for your experience to be as stress-free as possible
– even for those who do feel anxiety before a dental procedure. Providers make sincere efforts to get to know and understand a patient’s specific fears, in order to create as calm a setting as possible during every appointment.
The practice is also committed to being mindful of the varied financial situations and unique personal needs of every patient. Part of that personalized dental care plan includes educating patients of every age on the importance of oral health – so those beautiful smiles can last a lifetime!
Forsyth Family Dental’s quality care services include cleaning, digital X-rays, fluoride treatments, oral cancer screening and periodontal evaluation, restorative care (fillings, same-day crowns, bridges, partials, dentures and implant restorations) and cosmetic care that includes veneers, bonding and whitening procedures. Additional services include extractions, assistance with night guards and addressing emergent needs.
Forsyth Family Dental is conveniently located at 116 Jonestown Road in Winston-Salem, 336.768.7495. Office hours are Monday through Thursday 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., and Friday 8:00 a.m. until 2:00 p.m. For more information on their services and patient philosophy, visit forsythfamilydentalnc.com or email frontdesk@ broughtondds.com.
Triad Area Events in December
December offers a variety of interesting and exciting events for families to experience in and around the Triad. Here are some of the top offerings.
Wreath Decorating Classes
Reynolda House Museum of American Art, Winston-Salem
Dec. 3- Dec. 7, various times
Tickets $65
Horticulturist Michelle Hawks guides classes in wreath decorating.
Charlotte Invitational: Frances Tiafoe vs. Taylor Fritz & Madison Keys vs. Venus Williams
Spectrum Center, Charlotte
Dec. 4, time TBA
Tickets start at $51
For the second year, the Charlotte Invitational will host four elite tennis players who are all fan favorites.
Holiday Inn
Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance
Dec. 5-7, 12-14, 19-21, various times
Tickets $25
This joyous musical, based on Irving Berlin’s classic film, features thrilling dance numbers, laugh-out-loud comedy, and a parade of hit Berlin songs like “Blue Skies,” “Easter Parade,” and “Steppin’ Out With My Baby.”
The Nutcracker: Presented by UNC School of the Arts
Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Dec. 5-7, various times
Tickets start at $55
This holiday tradition returns for the 60th consecutive year. This beloved tale features ballet and contemporary dance students.
The Chairmen of the Board
The Reeves Theater, Elkin
Dec. 6, 8 p.m.
Tickets start at $30
The Chairmen of the Board, one of soul music’s great groups for over 30 years, was formed in Detroit. In the ‘70s, they had the classic hit, “Give Me Just a Little More Time.”
The Outsiders
Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Dec. 9-14, various times
Tickets start at $53
This dynamic musical, adapted from Francis Ford Coppola’s iconic film, won the 2024 Tony Award for Best Musical. It’s a story of friendship, family, belonging, and the realization that there is still lots of good in the world.
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever: The Musical
Yadkin Cultural Arts Center
Dec. 11-14, various times
Tickets $25
The Herdmans are the worst kids in the world. When they crash Sunday school and demand parts in the Christmas pageant, the whole town panics.
Photona
UNCSA Freedman Theatre, Winston-Salem
Dec. 12, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets $25
This is a spectacular multimedia showcase of lighting, projection, and sound. Experience the talents of students displaying their skills with state-of-the-art equipment from leading lighting companies.
A Live Conversation with Chevy Chase, following a screening of “Christmas Vacation”
Bojangles Entertainment Complex, Charlotte
Dec. 12, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets start at $67
This is a celebration of a timeless movie classic, followed by a live conversation with Chevy Chase and his wife, Jayni.
Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve
Spectrum Center, Charlotte
Dec. 13, 2:30 and 7:30 p.m.
Tickets start at $71
This rock opera tells the story of a runaway girl who turns her life around on a snowy Christmas Eve.
Handel’s Messiah: Winston-Salem Symphony
Wait Chapel, Wake Forest University
Dec. 13, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets start at $45
Handel’s Messiah is one of the most celebrated oratorios of all time. The glorious “Hallelujah” chorus, tenderly expressive arias, and the majestic choruses have been drawing crowds since the composition premiered in 1742.
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St. John’s Lutheran School
If you’ve ever wished school felt like a place where your child is known, valued, and encouraged every single day, here’s your chance to see it for yourself.
On Tuesday, December 9, parents of 2-year-olds, preschoolers and rising kindergartners through 5th graders are invited to experience St. John’s Lutheran School in Winston-Salem during a regular school day. Tour begins at 9:30 am with visits to classrooms in action, and a chance to meet the teachers who make this community special. Can’t make it that day? Call 336-725-1651 to schedule a private tour.
At St. John’s, small class sizes mean personal attention, genuine relationships, and strong academics. Teachers love what they do, and it shows. Each day begins with a sense of purpose and faith, and students attend a weekly chapel service that builds character, kindness, and gratitude.
Students explore their interests through clubs they help create, like baking, fitness, Legos, art, choir, comic books, and more, which builds creativity and teamwork along the way. They also learn about giving back through community service projects, and enjoy fun, educational field trips throughout the year.
“We want kids to love learning and their parents to feel confident in what we are doing every single day,” says Principal Tiffany Banks. “When you walk through our doors, you can feel the difference of calm classrooms, happy children, and a genuine sense of care.”
A PLACE OF STABILITY AND GROWTH FOR 75 YEARS
The next school year marks St. John’s 75th anniversary, and the school will be celebrating generations of families who have trusted the school to provide a stable, faith-based education.
At a time when many local schools face budget cuts and uncertainty, St. John’s stands out for its consistency, structure, and accountability. Families know their children are safe, supported, and challenged to do their best.
See What School Should Feel Like!
GROWING WITH PURPOSE
This coming school year, St. John’s is adding 6th grade, with 7th and 8th grades to follow in 2027 and 2028, respectively.
The school also offers extended day care and summer camps for all students, giving families flexibility and students opportunities to grow year-round.
AFFORDABILITY THROUGH OPPORTUNITY SCHOLARSHIPS
Private education is now more accessible than ever. Most families at St. John’s qualify for the North Carolina Opportunity Scholarship, providing $3,000–$7,000 per student depending on income. If your child lives in North Carolina and turns five by August 31, you may qualify. Applications for the 2025-26 school year are open until December 31, 2025.
SAFETY AND SECURITY YOU CAN TRUST
Visitors enter through a secured, monitored front entrance, and all guests check in before accessing classrooms. Student safety is a top priority every day.
NOW ENROLLING FOR KINDERGARTEN FOR 2026 –SPOTS GO FAST!
Kindergarten enrollment for the 2026-27 school year opens January 15. Families are encouraged to attend Tour Day and reserve their spot early, or schedule a private tour at their convenience. There will be another Tour Day on January 15, 2026 and again on February 10, 2026.
CALL TODAY AND SCHEDULE YOUR TOUR
To learn more about St. John’s Lutheran School call 336-725-1651.
ProStone Granite & Cabinetry
Design Style for Your Most Lived-In Spaces
by MARTIE EMORY
Design inspiration is in plentiful supply at ProStone Granite & Cabinetry – where their duo of well-stocked showrooms will tempt you with fresh ideas to visualize in your own kitchen or bath.
Both the Winston-Salem and Greensboro locations feature marble, granite and quartz – all stylish options to revitalize the most important spaces in your home. And, as a family owned business serving the Triad for more than 20 years, you won’t find more efficient service or better understanding of how a home project can affect your family’s daily schedule. You’ll leave your consultation with a realistic timeline that suits your personal needs and a clear picture of who will actually be working in your home.
“We do not use subcontractors for any of our work,” shares Manager Ross Edwards. “Our installers all work directly for us, and many of them have been with us for more than 10 years.”
When it comes to durability and functionality – and never without a splash of style – the ProStone team is well versed in what’s trending in the home design arena.
“We are continuing to see a trend of warmer toned countertops,” Ross explains. “Currently, we’re also carrying quartz countertops that beautifully mimic the look of natural stone quartzite such as Taj Mahal Quartzite. This alternative that we carry has become extremely popular – we installed four jobs last month alone with this unique stone, as well as included it in a Parade of Homes project. Our quartz counters mimic this look at a fraction of the cost.”
Ross also notes that while tariffs haven’t affected the company’s project costs thus far, it’s certainly a possibility moving forward.
“If you’re considering a home project, moving sooner rather than later could end up saving you a good bit of money!”
In other inspiration, Ross says more clients are carrying stone work up the kitchen wall as a backsplash, eliminating grout lines and offering a sleek, more modern look.
To launch your kitchen or bath project, a qualified ProStone team member can visit your home, take measurements, offer style guidance and help you begin visualizing the finished product.
Or, drop by either of their showrooms, where it’s always fun to get a glimpse of ProStone’s latest model kitchens and baths, featuring cabinetry in a variety of finishes and an inventory of approximately 50 different stones in stock!
“We sell everything by the square foot, so you are only paying for what you use,” Ross explains. “With ProStone, you’re never paying for any wasted product.”
Be sure to bring along photos and a rough sketch of the space you’re looking to refresh, and based on your stone preference, you’ll usually receive a quote right there in the showroom.
When you’re ready to dive into a new home project (hint: now’s a good time), come visit ProStone Granite & Cabinetry at 1079 Hanes Mall Boulevard in Winston-Salem, 336.765.2977, or their Greensboro showroom at 312 Doughtery Street, 336.574.2755. Browse their gallery of beautiful countertops and cabinetry, and learn more about their impeccable services at prostoneusa.com. For even more inspiration, trends and current projects, follow them on Instagram @prostonegranite.
Crafting the Perfect December Cocktail
by ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE
THE WINTER DAIQUIRI
While rum is often enjoyed within warm weather cocktails, this liquor can also be delicious in winter months! The Winter Daiquiri, courtesy of Delish.com, is the perfect beverage to enjoy on a frigid winter evening!
INGREDIENTS
1 ounce Banks 5 Island Rum, 1 ounce Cruzan Black Strap Rum, ¾ ounce freshly squeezed lime juice, ¾ ounce simple syrup and a lime wheel for garnish!
DIRECTIONS
1. Add the Banks 5 Island Rum, Cruzan Black Strap Rum, lime juice and simple syrup into a cocktail shaker with ice and shake until well chilled.
2. Strain into a coupe glass.
3. Garnish with a lime wheel.
4. Instead of using rum, use pineapple juice for a virgin version of this cocktail.
YULE MULE
As the seasons transition from fall to winter, temperatures drop, causing us all to retreat indoors. This month is already filled with holiday activities and parties. With the holiday season in full swing, now is a fantastic time to investigate new beverages to present at your next holiday party. Rather than simply offering the expected holiday beverages, read on for a few fresh ideas to try out with your guests! Forsyth Family has compiled a list of five delightful cocktails to try, with or without alcohol.
MULLED CIDER
This cocktail, from GoodFood.com, will not only taste delicious, but will also make the room smell amazing while you heat it up!
INGREDIENTS
1 ½ liters dry cider, 7 T Calvados, 400mL apple juice, 75g dark brown sugar, zest 1 orange pared into strips, 4 whole cloves, 2 cinnamon sticks broken in half, 1 T allspice.
DIRECTIONS
1. Pour the cider, Calvados, apple juice and sugar into a large saucepan.
2. Gently heat to mull.
3. Add the orange zest and spices, bring to a simmer, then turn down and keep on a low heat for 20-30 minutes.
4. Ladle into glass mugs to serve.
5. Substitute the Calvados for club soda, or simply omit it, for an alcohol-free version.
APPLE SPRITZ
JINGLE JUICE
This crowdpleasing punch, also from Delish.com, is festive and perfect to offer during a holiday party. Not only will your guests enjoy the flavor, they will also admire the look of this delicious drink.
INGREDIENTS
Lime wedges for glasses, ½ cup granulated sugar, 2 (750mL) bottle red Moscato, 1 (750mL) bottle Prosecco, 4 cups cran-apple juice, 2 cups frozen cranberries, ½ cup vodka, 1/3 cup mint leaves and 2 limes sliced into rounds.
DIRECTIONS
1. Rub rims of glasses with lime wedges. Dip in sugar until coated.
2. In a punch bowl, combine Moscato, Prosecco, cran-apple juice, cranberries, vodka, mint, and lime rounds.
3. Divide between prepared glasses.
4. Substitute the Moscato, Prosecco and Vodka for club soda for an alcoholfree version! 1 2 3 4 5
Also, courtesy of Delish.com, this drink looks as good as it tastes. While the traditional Moscow Mule uses lime juice, this version substitutes the lime with cranberry and orange juice.
INGREDIENTS
2” sprig fresh rosemary, plus more for serving, 2” orange peel, 1 ½ ounces vodka, ice, 1 ½ ounces of fresh orange juice, 1 ounce of unsweetened cranberry juice, ginger beer for topping off and an orange wedge and fresh cranberries for garnish.
DIRECTIONS
1. In a cocktail shaker, muddle rosemary sprig and orange peel to release oils. Add vodka and muddle until combined and fragrant, about 30 seconds.
2. Strain it into an ice-filled copper mug. Add orange and cranberry juices and stir until the cocktail is cold and condensation forms on the outside of the cup, about 30 seconds.
3. Top off with ginger beer. Garnish with orange wedge, cranberries and rosemary sprig.
4. Consider substituting vodka with club soda or more ginger beer for an alcohol-free version.
Move over Aperol Spritz, Apple Spritz, courtesy of GoodFood.com, is here to heat up those frosty winter nights. Alcohol can again be substituted with club soda for an alcohol-free version.
INGREDIENTS
Ice, 2 red apple slices to garnish, 80mL Aperol, 140mL apple cider, 80mL Prosecco, soda water for topping off.
DIRECTIONS
1. Put a couple of ice cubes and two apple slices in two glasses, then divide the Aperol between them.
2. Divide the cider and Prosecco between the glasses, then top with soda water, if you like.
3. Stir briefly to combine, then serve.
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THE NATIVITY SCENE A Holiday Tradition We
“Think” We Know
by DEBBIE LINVILLE
From candles glowing in windows to angel-topped evergreen trees, the stories behind various Christmastime customs are rich in history and steeped in Christian beliefs. One of the most treasured holiday traditions is the re-creation of the very first Christmas - the nativity scene. Saint Francis of Assisi is credited with designing the first nativity in Italy, 1223 AD in an effort to shift the emphasis of Christmas away from gift giving toward the worship of Christ. This artistic representation of the birth of Jesus grew in popularity in Christian communities around the world and today, centuries later, nativities of all types and sizes are on display in homes, churches, stores, and any number of public and private places. Amid the flurry of ribbons and bows, shopping mall Santas, and all things exterior illumination, the simplicity of the nativity reminds us to slow down, reflect upon, and celebrate the ultimate gift of the season: the birth of Jesus.
Unlike many other holiday decorations, the nativity has a direct link to New Testament scripture.
Two of the four gospels (Matthew and Luke) provide narratives regarding the birth of Jesus, but surprisingly, the details about the cast of characters around the swaddled baby in the manger are quite sparse. So, just how accurately do today’s nativities reflect the gospel events? As it turns out, biblical historians and nativity buffs agree that the scenes of today bear little resemblance to the day/night Jesus was born. Both the original Greek text and an understanding of the ancient Near East culture are needed to properly translate the events around the first Christmas (which was not December 25th…that date was later adopted by the Roman Emperor Constantine in the 4th century).
Following is a closer look at the events, individuals, and animals most frequently associated with the manger scene through this “informed” lens. Separating conjecture from scripture is an interesting exercise in uncovering misinterpretation and misrepresentation.
BIBLICAL NATIVITY SCENE:
Mary and Joseph made their way from Nazareth to Bethlehem an unspecified number of days prior to the birth of Jesus for the purpose of tax registration. Mary may have ridden to Bethlehem on a donkey, but there is no mention of this in the Bible.
When the couple reached their “hometown” of Bethlehem, the cultural hospitality practices of the day would normally have had relatives graciously open their homes to the couple or, as “royals” from the line of David, local townspeople would have been honored to do so.
The image of an innkeeper with a “no vacancy” sign posted on the door, turning Mary and Joseph away in their hour of need is often what we have in mind about the Christmas story, and it is easy to see how this idea came about. Scripture, however, supports a slightly disparate set of circumstances. The Greek phrase “no room in the inn” is composed of “topos” and “kataluma” and is translated “no space in the guest room.”
A guest room in a common house was a small, empty room which offered a place of safety and privacy for the night. Those who permanently resided in the home slept in the main part of the house just above the ground level animal pens. And it was common in Eastern society for the family to be accompanied by a few milk goats, a donkey, and a cow as
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a way to protect their valuable assets from theft during the night. As such, there would have been a manger (aka feeding trough) in that room to keep the animals quiet in tight quarters until they could be returned outside to graze.
Scripture makes no mention of Jesus being born in a stable, but it does strongly suggest that Jesus was born in the lower portion of a common home as there was “no space in the guest room.” Thus, it seems that Mary and Joseph may have had to stay in the room where the animals stayed at night.
With Westerners’ understanding that feeding troughs are found in the stalls of a stable/barn, the conclusion that Jesus was born in such an outdoor place is a reasonable one, although it is unfounded.
Additionally, scripture does not suggest that Mary gave birth on the evening of their arrival into town.
The Bible states that while Mary was in Bethlehem, she gave birth to Jesus and that shepherds received word in the evening on the day of his birth (so it is easy to see how the leap to an evening birth developed). But while the Bible doesn’t provide the exact location or hour of day Jesus was born, scripture is very clear that Mary gave birth to Jesus, wrapped him in cloths, and placed him in a manger.
While many modern nativities reflect the presence of sheep, cattle, lambs, an ox and donkey around the baby Jesus, historians agree that any animals, as well as any men, that may have been present at the time of Jesus’ birth would have been ushered out. The ladies in the home (and perhaps a local midwife) would have been with Mary when she “brought forth her firstborn.”
And the angels? Luke 2 mentions an angel and a “heavenly host” appearing to the shepherds, but it does not support shepherds, an angel, or a unique star being at the location of the birth.
What about the wise men? The Bible specifically states that magi followed a star to locate and worship Jesus, but it does not specify how many wise men there were (we have assumed three because there were three gifts mentioned), how long it took to get there, if they rode camels or even how old Jesus was when they arrived. What is clear, however, is that when the magi eventually arrived, they found the holy family in a house and bowed down to worship Jesus.
While we may never know the exact facts and circumstances that Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus experienced at the time of Jesus’ birth in Bethlehem, the scriptural support for placing Mary and Joseph in an outdoor stable with baby Jesus in a straw filled manger, surrounded by barnyard animals, shepherds with their sheep, three wise men with their camels and gifts, a brilliant star and an angel is lacking. The good news, though, is that regardless of the accuracy portrayed in most present-day nativities, the center of the Christmas story remains the same: the celebration and adoration of the arrival of Jesus on that first holy night over 2000 years ago.
But what would a nativity be without this cast of characters that have become holiday tradition? Fortunately, personal aesthetics and artistic interpretation is not only permitted, but encouraged… whether assembling a few or many figurines, display what feels meaningful to you. Joy to the world! The Lord is come.
Forsyth County Library Spotlights:
Southside Branch Library – A Welcoming Space for Readers, Learners and Neighbors Alike
by SUZY FIELDERS
Tucked away, not far from Peters Creek Parkway, sits the Southside Branch Library. This Forsyth County Library has an awesome children’s room and lots of great amenities.
It is easy to get to as it’s off Buchanan Street which easily connects back to both Peters Creek and Silas Creek Parkways. However, as it’s not technically on the major roads and completely surrounded by trees, it feels quaint and peaceful.
A COLORFUL AND ACCESSIBLE SPACE FOR YOUNG READERS
The children’s room at this library is large and spacious. One cool thing to know about this library is they have a unique collection of books in Braille for children.
Other features of the children’s room here include a coloring table, toy bins, kids’ computer with games, reading or playing area with bean bag chairs, and tons of book options. My favorite aspect of this children’s room is the colorful Very Hungry Caterpillar-inspired rug!
CELEBRATING LANGUAGE, LEARNING AND DISCOVERY FOR ALL AGES
In addition to the Braille section for children, this library has an emphasis on English as a Second Language (ESL) and bilingual programming. This is seen through their programming and book selection.
There is also support for students and children’s services. Southside offers vast programming for all ages and types of learning. For example, they offer Science Saturday at Southside on December 6th. It’s a fun, hands-on way for children and tweens to explore exciting STEM concepts through experiments and activities.
BRIGHT SPACES FOR READING, STUDYING AND COMMUNITY CONNECTION
Throughout the Southside Branch, you’ll find plenty of comfortable reading spots as well as study or working spots. The big bay windows bring in lots of beautiful natural light.
This library branch offers a large meeting space for the community. In fact, the auditorium can fit up to 100 people.
When winter arrives, there’s nothing quite like curling up in a cozy corner with a good book. It is a time to snuggle up with a blanket, sip on something warm and lose yourself in a good book. As the days grow shorter and the chill sets in, the allure of cozy reads becomes irresistible. Whether you’re curled up by the fire or nestled in a quiet nook, the right book can help transform a frigid winter day into something magical. To help make your cold-weather reading even more delightful, here’s a list of cozy book ideas perfect to read on a long winter’s night.
THE NIGHTINGALE by Kristin Hannah
This emotional tale of two sisters in Nazi-occupied France during World War II is perfect for those looking for an impactful historical novel. The book’s deep plot and the strength of its characters will keep you turning pages all winter long.
THE SNOW CHILD by Eowyn Ivey
Set in the wilds of 1920s Alaska, this magical novel mixes winter landscapes with themes of loneliness, longing and hope. The beautiful writing and the story of a couple who builds a snow child that comes to life is a win for snowy days.
THE SEVEN HUSBANDS OF EVELYN HUGO by Taylor Jenkins Reid
This best-selling novel is a captivating look at Hollywood glamour, love and betrayal. Through the eyes of aging movie icon Evelyn Hugo, readers are taken on a journey through her complex relationships and the price of fame. Reid’s compelling storytelling and richly developed characters make it an engaging read that’s as comforting as it is dramatic.
THE MIDNIGHT LIBRARY by Matt Haig
The Midnight Library is a must read. It follows Nora Seed, a woman who finds herself in a magical library that allows her to explore alternate versions of her life. This uplifting and thought provoking novel is ideal for a reflective winter read with themes of regret and hope.
THE GIVER OF STARS by Jojo Moyes
Set in 1930s Kentucky, this novel tells the story of a group of women who become “packhorse librarians,” braving the rugged Appalachian mountains to bring books to remote areas. Filled with themes of friendship and resilience, it’s an inspiring, feel good read for any day, not just winter.
THE THURSDAY MURDER CLUB by Richard Osman
The Thursday Murder Club is a witty and heartwarming mystery that follows a group of septuagenarians who meet once a week to solve cold cases. However, they quickly find themselves embroiled in a real murder.
PEOPLE WE MEET ON VACATION by Emily Henry
This lighthearted, yet emotional romantic comedy follows two best friends who go on vacation together every summer, but a falling out has left them estranged. Now, they’re back for one last trip to mend their relationship and focus on love, friendship and second chances.
IN FIVE YEARS by Rebecca Serle
This book takes a different approach to romance, blending love with an exploration of fate and destiny. When Dannie, the protagonist, wakes up five years in the future, she must navigate the mysterious circumstances that led her there. A poignant, unforgettable story of love and life, perfect for a reflective winter night.
THE HOUSE IN THE CERULEAN SEA by TJ Klune
This magical, heartwarming tale is set in an orphanage for magical children. Linus Baker, a quiet government worker, is sent to investigate the home but soon becomes enchanted by the children and their guardian.
As the winter season settles in, these book titles will keep you entertained, comforted and, perhaps, even inspired. Just a suggestion – I would start with either In Five Years, The Giver of Stars or The Nightingale. All three of these books were ones I couldn’t put down! Happy reading!
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Questions to Ask for Surgeries and Procedures
Ease Pre-Surgery Stress With These Essential Questions for Every Step of the Process
by SUZY FIELDERS
Whether it’s you, your child or your significant other undergoing surgery or a procedure, these tend to be the most stressful of medical appointments. Often the unknown is what ends up worrying us the most. Therefore, just like with other medical issues, asking questions and getting as much information as possible helps to ease some of those worries. That is why part five of this series is devoted to what questions to ask for surgeries and procedures.
WHAT TO ASK DURING THE CONSULTATION/FIRST APPOINTMENT
In that first appointment, you’ll want to ask your doctor as much as you can about the surgery or procedure. While there will be situation-specific questions, here are some general questions to consider asking.
• What are the benefits of this surgery/ procedure?
• What are the risks of it?
• How long does it typically last?
• Is anesthesia required? If yes, what type?
• Will a biopsy or any other lab work be conducted? How long will it take to get the results?
• How long is the recovery period?
• What foods should be avoided pre-surgery and when should that be started?
• What activities and foods should be avoided post-surgery? For how long?
• What post-op infection or other warning signs should I look for?
• Is it outpatient? If not, how long of a hospital stay is required?
• Do I need to schedule a post-op appointment now? Sometimes this is done when scheduling the surgery and sometimes it’s done on the day of the surgery.
• If applicable, is this a surgery or procedure that I/my child might need done again someday?
• Do you have an online portal or MyChart that shows labs and allows me to send messages?
This is a good start to create a list of questions prior to a procedure or surgery. But, be sure to also consider anything that’s specific to the surgery/procedure or medical condition.
WHAT TO ASK THE MORNING OF THE SURGERY
Ideally, you want to have asked most of your questions at the initial appointments, but sometimes it makes more sense to ask the day of the surgery/procedure. A few questions you might need to ask then are:
• Where is the waiting room where my family can wait?
• When can they see me, or when can I see my child post procedure/surgery?
• How long will it take for the effects of the anesthesia to start wearing off?
• If staying overnight, how long will it take for me/ my child to be transferred from the surgical area to a room?
• How do I schedule a post-op appointment? If not done prior, as mentioned above.
• Who do I call once I go home if there are signs of infection or other post-surgery warning signs?
If it’s your appointment and you need anesthesia, you will likely feel groggy and possibly not even remember talking with the surgeon after the appointment. So, it’s important to ask anything pre-surgery if it’s your appointment or make sure your loved ones know in advance what to ask on your behalf.
WHAT TO ASK DURING YOUR POST-OP APPOINTMENT
Now that the hard part is done – the actual surgery or procedure itself – hopefully you are getting relief! Here are a few things to potentially ask in your or your child’s post-op appointment.
• If you or your child is still experiencing any pain, whether at the incision site or from what was causing the need for surgery, ask if that is normal.
• Are any additional tests, procedures or surgeries needed? This is important to ask if still dealing with any issues or symptoms or if it was a test type procedure like a MRI.
• If biopsies were conducted, the procedure was a test or labs were taken during the surgery, be sure to inquire about the results and what they mean.
I hope this list of potential questions helps you get answers that put your mind at least a little at ease before you head into a surgery or procedure. Up next in part six of the series, out in January, “Questions to Ask About Labs.”
Mark Miriello, OD Juawana Hall, OD Seth Jones, OD
Celebrating
by ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE
With fall months now officially behind us, winter and the holidays have officially arrived. This time of year is known for being incredibly busy, hectic and downright stressful. On top of holiday shopping, meal prepping and planning various visits to see friends and family, this month can also bring bitter wintry weather. December is the perfect month to participate in self care and indulge in cozy indoor activities, designed to warm both your heart and soul. These ventures can be done as a solo project, or they can be something you do with loved ones.
The winter months can also become a perfect time to recharge and regroup. The first step to doing so can be setting time now to nestle in the cozy comfort of your home. While there are the traditional winter indoor activities, such as reading a new thriller or enjoying a new baking recipe for a holiday gathering, there are plenty of other options geared towards enjoying these frosty winter months. Curious about what types of indoor activities make the cut? Read on for five innovative ideas to kickstart winter and make it a time of refuge, not anxiety.
PLAN A PUZZLE NIGHT!
MAKE ONE NIGHT A “CLASSIC MOVIE-THON” NIGHT!
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While this would be an ideal time to stay in and watch all the holiday classics, you could also investigate and watch all the movies within a particular genre or certain decade. For example, if you normally enjoy comedies, consider researching classic Hollywood comedies and watching these one evening. If you love the style of the 1940s, then this is the time to research the classic movies from within this decade. Another idea is to watch specific movies by a favorite director, say Alfred Hitchcock, or starring a favorite classic actor or actor, like Marlon Brando or Audrey Hepburn. Grab those soft blankets, pop some popcorn and get ready to enjoy a movie night!
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This can be something you do by yourself, with a partner or with a close group of friends. If you choose the latter, consider asking each friend to bring a puzzle to do together. Clear off the coffee table, turn on a relaxing playlist, pour a warm beverage for everyone and enjoy figuring out a tricky puzzle together! The best part of this type of activity is that you often enjoy sharing stories as you are looking for pieces. If this is a project you would rather do by yourself, consider visiting a secondhand consignment store to pick up a new puzzle!
PLAN A COOKIE SWAP!
Do you have a favorite cookie recipe? Now is the time to show it off! The concept is simple – everyone brings a batch of their favorite cookies, baked plain (without any frosting or toppings) and everyone goes home with a mixed batch of all the cookies. You can level up your gathering by providing light, savory snacks as well as some protein to offset all the sugar. Also, make sure to have fresh, cold lemon water on hand and/or festive drinks. End the night by giving each guest a box with parchment paper and ribbon, so they can take home beautifully wrapped treats!
LEARN A NEW TEXTILE CRAFT, LIKE NEEDLEPOINTING!
If you already know how to crochet or have tried out knitting but want to try something new, consider taking time this winter to learn how to use a needlepoint. There are plenty of different needlepoint kits which include canvases, needles and thread, and walk you through how to complete the project. Oftentimes, the canvas can be inserted into beautiful frames or even Christmas ornaments. In the end, decide to either keep your final piece or make it a holiday gift for a special loved one!
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GRAB YOUR NOTEBOOK, AND TAKE TIME TO REFLECT.
Since this month is the final of the year, it is also a wonderful time to sit back and think about all you have accomplished, as well as about what you would like to accomplish next year. If you do not already have one, consider buying yourself a new notebook and pen, slip on some fuzzy socks, light a few candles, play some soft music and start writing. If you are feeling a bit of writer’s block, consider first reading a journaling guidance book, such as The New York Times bestseller, “Bird by Bird,” by Anne Lamott, which not only offers witty life advice, but also, tips on writing in general.
NURTURING NEW NORMS:
by TARYN JEREZ
Each month, this series introduces fun and impactful healthy habits to help families with kids and teens prioritize physical, mental and spiritual well being – fostering a lifestyle of shared growth and lifelong wellness. Healthy habits built together are the ones that last a lifetime.
“It’s the most hectic time of the year” – or whatever it is that Andy Williams sings at Christmas time! This season brings full calendars and jam-packed to-do lists, school parties and family plans that seem to need tweaking at least a dozen times. But, what if, this year, instead of turning our “ho ho ho” into “go go go,” we embraced rest instead? It might feel impossible in a month so traditionally rooted in busyness –but what if we could have both?
REST ISN’T EARNED, IT’S A NECESSITY.
In 2025, with a world that doesn’t stop changing and asking more from us, adolescents and adults are reporting burnout in larger numbers than ever before. In fact, a recent survey found that one in four Americans report experiencing burnout before the age of 30. The truth is that resting, recharging and setting boundaries is in short supply when, instead, it should be our top priority! As parents and caregivers, it’s easy to talk about the importance of rest, but it’s not enough – we have to model it for our kids.
HUSTLE CULTURE CAN TAKE A HIKE IN YOUR FAMILY.
Teaching our families the value and power of rest is a bit rebellious in a time where hustle culture is so deeply embedded. When kids see that rest is essential, we are helping prevent them from finding their self worth in productivity and busyness! We want balanced children – not
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burnt out ones. What if helping them set goals, commit to activities and stay active was taught alongside taking time to pause and recharge? Imagine how different the generations before them would be!
3 SIMPLE & FUN WAYS YOUR FAMILY CAN START PRIORITIZING REST
Add a
“Press
Pause” Day to the Calendar
Create one day a month where you and your family schedules time to “press pause” and choose rest. This could be a full day or even a half day where you have a minimal schedule or a totally clean calendar day! You can make it a fun day without errands or commitments where you do things like bake, nap, read books, watch movies, play board games or go on a nature walk as a family.
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Create a Quiet “Cozy Corner” in the House
Think back to the fort building days of your childhood! Create a cozy spot with pillows and blankets or soft seating where your kids can have uninterrupted quiet time. This is perfect for coloring or reading on a rainy day or quietly snugging up listening to music and relaxing for a nice break.
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Set Tech Breaks Each Evening
One of the largest reasons for increase in burnout is the accessibility and constant attention to technology in both children, adolescents and adults. Set a “tech break” time each evening or on weekends where all devices are put out of reach to let your family focus on other activities. The biggest part is making sure the adults are also participating in the tech break! When kids see adults taking time away from devices, screens and technology, they also see that constant connection can be overrated.
CREATING PRACTICES THAT LAST A LIFETIME
This time of year, life is going to continue full of errands, obligations and commitments, but how we choose to respond to “busy” helps our kids learn from us. Taking time and intention to remind your family that it’s safe to hit the pause button and listen to their bodies can create generational change for the better. Help your kids lean into balance and not burnout. When we model rest as essential – not a reward – we give our kids permission to keep their cups full, not pour from empty ones.
Banish the Blues at Any Time of the Year
by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON
When I tell my northern family and friends that winter “is a real thing here,” they think I’ve forgotten where I come from! But, you know what I mean, right? We experience temperatures below freezing, ice storms and an occasional dusting of the white stuff now and then. In fact, my very first southern winter brought with it a bona fide winter snowstorm! It was then that I regretted leaving behind my winter survival kit complete with ice scrapers and snow shovels. But, there was one thing I didn’t forget – my “banish the blues” strategy that is at the ready 365 days of the mostly sunny year.
UNDERSTANDING “THE BLUES”
Everyone experiences the blues from time to time. That’s right, everyone. We recognize those unwelcome feelings of gloominess, sadness, being out-of-sorts or down in the dumps. Almost always, though, we feel blue for a reason. I haven’t always agreed with the research on this, but I’ve come to realize that when I’m down, it’s because something has triggered me. It could be the consequence of a decision that didn’t work out as expected, a challenge in a relationship that really matters or an unfavorable diagnosis that has to be dealt with. It could be anything. When this happens, we might fear that we are depressed. LCSW Cynthia Catchings differentiates:
“Depression is stronger than feeling the blues. When depression is present, it’s more difficult, and sometimes nearly impossible, to stay motivated or complete our daily activities. Conversely, feeling the blues is more of a state of sadness, but we’re still able to perform our daily activities.”
A STRATEGY FOR BANISHING THE BLUES
While you may feel the urge to lay low, isolate or blame yourself, doing so isn’t helpful because it can reinforce those blue feelings. Here are seven actions you can take instead:
Get introspective to identify the source of your feelings. Remember, there is almost always a reason for feeling blue. Once you understand what that is, consider what actions you can take to address the cause or at least work with it. Maybe you can’t actually change anything, but you can at least take a lesson from it – if you are willing to look for it.
Express yourself. Having the blues is no time for self-imposed isolation. Seek out that friend who is a great listener so that you can unburden a little and be reminded of the fact that you are not alone. Balance that by also connecting with the one who pumps you up with positivity and good vibes. That’s what your “She Circles” are for!
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Take care of yourself. You know what this means – don’t stop doing all of the disciplined good things that support you mentally, emotionally, physically and socially.
Also use this bluesy pause to consider the bigger picture. Ask yourself: Are there a few lifestyle changes that are in order? Habits that aren’t serving me that I need to work on? Would I benefit from modifying my daily routine? When the blues found me a few months back, I recognized that one action I could take was to get back into the discipline of engaging with more obscure words by relearning (it’s been a while) their Greek and Latin origins. That may not be up your alley, but I know that something else is.
Laugh...a lot! Laughter is healing, period. It’s a “habit” we can lose if we allow the ups and downs of life to make us somber. We need to laugh more, blues or no blues. Watch funny movies or tried and true sitcoms, read old timey comics, play board games or try laughing yoga. Also known as Hasya yoga, this practice combines the joyful act of voluntary laughter with the calming breathwork of yoga. I think I may look into it, LOL!
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Treat yourself. I won’t even describe this one because you know exactly how “treat” translates for you.
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Get outside. I know it’s cold out there right now, but that’s what those fuzzy hats and gloves you acquire over the holidays are for. Remember that nature provides its own therapy.
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Listen to music. One study noted that listening to upbeat or cheerful music significantly improves both short- and long-term mood. Other research – which may sound counter intuitive – found that many of us experience “emotional resonance” when we listen to the blues. We feel heard, understood and comforted there. I’m in!
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December’s Must-Visit Spot Getaway Guide
Small Town Charm Meets Mountain Magic in the Heart of the Blue Ridge
by SUZY FIELDERS
photos courtesy of HALLEY BURLESON
Located just south of Boone and not far from the Tennessee border sits the quaint, hidden gem of a mountain town, Banner Elk. Like all the other small towns I’ve featured this year, it’s a special place full of charm, history and fun.
Since it’s basically a straight shot on US-421 North, the approximately two hours it takes to get there seem to fly by. Its proximity within the Blue Ridge Mountains makes it an ideal mountain escape for families before the busy holiday season.
THE HEART OF THE BLUE RIDGE AWAITS
From the small town vibes to the gorgeous mountain views, Banner Elk captures the hearts of every visitor. During the holidays, all the festive decor and events only seem to amplify everything special about this NC town.
“Banner Elk is a friendly, walkabout resort town in North Carolina’s Blue Ridge Mountains that blends small town relaxation with the amenities of a larger city. Visitors enjoy outdoor adventure, fabulous dining, professional theater, curated shopping and family attractions,” says Craig Distl, president of Distl Public Relations.
TOP 5 THINGS TO DO IN BANNER ELK
Banner Elk is the ultimate holiday winter adventure town for families. It’s basically like being in a snow globe! While you are there, be sure to check out these five destinations.
1. Wilderness Run Alpine Coaster – Experience the thrills and excitement of the first alpine coaster in North Carolina.
2. Grandfather Mountain Nature Park – This is a must visit NC mountain destination for its views, hiking trails and the Mile High Swinging Bridge.
3. Wildcat Lake – Enjoy this 13-acre lake with some great fishing. Be sure to come back in the summer to enjoy the white sand beach and swimming.
4. Apple Hill Alpaca Farm – A great spot for families, they offer Christmas-themed tours, guided alpaca tours and a petting zoo.
5. Skiing, snowboarding and snow tubing at Sugar Mountain Resort and Beech Mountain Resort – These happen to be the south’s two largest ski resorts!
WHY VISIT IN DECEMBER?
Every year, during the first weekend of December, Banner Elk is transformed into a magical wonderland for families. It is the perfect way to kickstart the holiday season!
For years, the town hosted “Christmas in the Park” as a one-day event. It was always well received, so, in 2016, it was expanded to an entire weekend of festivities and called A Small Town Christmas. It’s a great way to enjoy a relaxing, old fashioned Christmas getaway before the inevitable holiday rush begins.
A Small Town Christmas kicks off with the lighting of the town tree at dusk on Friday evening. Saturday includes a pancake breakfast with Santa, Christmas sing-a-long, storytelling, ornament making, cookie decorating and shopping. The day finishes with a Christmas Parade at dusk, followed by a celebration with music, Santa and holiday train rides on the green of the Historic Banner Elk School. On the last day (Sunday), there is an Ensemble Stage show, and families are encouraged to visit area choose-and-cut tree farms to select their Christmas trees. Throughout the weekend, Apple Hill Alpaca Farm hosts holiday tours.
It’s so much fun, your family will likely want to make it a yearly tradition!
DETAILS TO VISIT BANNER ELK & A SMALL TOWN CHRISTMAS
Distance from Winston-Salem: A little more than 2 hours
Learn more about Banner Elk: bannerelk.com
Learn more about A Small Town Christmas: bannerelk.org/ small-town-christmas-weekend.html
Dates: A Small Town Christmas takes place Friday, December 5, 2025 – Sunday, December 7, 2025
Instagram: @bannerelknc and @bannerelkncchamber
Which Holiday Movie Dinner Would You Bring?
The holidays aren’t just about the movies… they’re about the food! From candy-covered spaghetti to decadent roast feasts, every classic holiday movie comes with a menu we secretly wish we could taste. Take this quiz to discover which iconic holiday movie dinner matches your personality—and maybe get some inspo for your own festive feast!
Question: If you could bring the ultimate dinner from a holiday movie, which would you choose?
ANSWER OPTIONS:
1. Buddy the Elf – “Spaghetti with Maple Syrup & Candy” You’re fun-loving, spontaneous, and a little mischievous. Life’s too short for boring food!
2. Home Alone – “Classic Roast Chicken & Mashed Potatoes” You’re practical, cozy, and everyone feels at home around your table. Comfort is your love language.
3. Love Actually – “Elegant Holiday Feast with Roast & Dessert Spread” Romantic, thoughtful, and a bit indulgent—you love creating memorable experiences.
4. The Grinch – “Whoville-Inspired Sweet Treats & Quirky Snacks” You march to the beat of your own drum and bring the unexpected to every gathering.
5. National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation – “Tons of Over-the-Top Comfort Food” You’re chaotic, hilarious, and love a little holiday messiness. Your table is always overflowing, and laughter is mandatory.
6. The Polar Express – “Hot Chocolate & Magical Treats” You’re whimsical, dreamy, and love creating cozy, magical moments with every bite. Sweet treats and a warm beverage are always part of your plan.
RESULT INTERPRETATION: Tie the answer to personality: fun-loving, cozy host, romantic indulgent, quirky & creative, or candy-obsessed holiday spirit.
THE PLOTT HOUND: STATE DOG OF NORTH CAROLINA
by RENEE SKUDRA
If you never heard tell of the Plott Hound, you’d assuredly be in the majority of the population.
A large scent hound with outsize pendent ears, originally bred for hunting bears and wild boar, the breed was designated in 1989 by the NC General Assembly as the official State Dog. Senator Robert Swain of Buncombe County introduced the bill and, months later, State Rep. Hugh Lee of Rockingham brought his Plott Hound, Lucy, to a senate committee meeting which must have sealed the legislative deal to the admiring politicians. The Plott Hound was first registered with the United Kennel Club in 1946 and recognized as a breed by the American Kennel Club in 2006. What was all the fuss about though? The authorities would have it that the Plott Hound is a “rugged, relentless hunting dog who is a mellow gentleman at home but fearless, implacable and bold at work.” Known for its ability to track game over considerable distances, the AKC breed standard refers to the Plott Hound’s stamina, courage and athletic ability when hunting which undeniably has secured the love and accolades of canine enthusiasts.
The Plotts are unique among the six AKC coonhound breeds.
They are actually descended from German Hanover hounds – not from English foxhounds. We would be remiss if we didn’t give a nod to a German immigrant named Johannes Plott who, in 1750, arrived in North Carolina from the old country with five of his prized mixed scent hounds. He and the future six generations of Plott family members – were largely responsible for the development of the breed, renowned for its tenacity and bravery. Plott settled in the mountains where he raised a family, hunted bears with his hounds and neighbors, and bred his dogs to local stock. Folks like the branchwater mountaineers appreciated the breed and began to purchase and utilize them as well. Judging from the large attendance at the annual Plott Fest event in Maggie Valley every summer, respect and love for the Plott Hound has a very strong following with people
traveling from near and far to celebrate this mountain breed known for its alertness, loyalty and intelligence.
In his November 22nd article “State Dog: Plott Hounds – Carolina Born and Bred,” author Mark Kemp explains how these dogs are inextricably linked to the history of western North Carolina. In an interview with Bob Plott, the then 66-year-old keeper of the breed’s history, he states that the story of his ancestors and their dogs is nothing short of epic. “It’s classic Americana with roots that run deep throughout the state on so many levels. There’s buffalo along (their travels), there’s panthers, there’s Indians and outlaws…. But, they had these dogs that were hunters, they were herders, they were protectors, they were friends…. They defended households during the French and Indian War, during the Revolutionary War, the Civil War. It doesn’t get any more American than that.”
I confess to a big affection for the breed (but don’t tell my Bichon Frise that). Plotts come in a diversity of appearances – you will see an array of brindle-stripe patterns from black-flecked with gold to flaming orange and russet in addition to some solid colors – brown, black, buckskin. All are, however, streamlined, long-tailed, lightfooted hunters with a smooth, fine, glossy coat which requires minimal maintenance
(just a weekly brushing and an occasional bath). The Plotts are generally healthy dogs with a life expectancy of approximately 1214 years. The male weighs 50-60 pounds, with females weighing in at 40-55 pounds. Average height for males is 20-25 inches and 20-23 inches for females. For anyone considering getting a Plott Hound, it is critical to know that these dogs require lots of exercise and outside time. Because they are extremely prey-driven, they should always be walked on leash. Prospective owners should plan on an extremely smart and energetic puppy who requires a lot of attention. He or she can be a peopleloving dog, but can be a bit standoffish. Thorough socialization with gentle exposure to a wide variety of people and other animals should militate against that happening.
Bob Platt’s affection for the hounds named after his family is eminently clear, but more important are his efforts to document his family’s legacy and how human and the Plott Hounds’ lives were incontrovertibly interwoven. His book, “Strike and Stay: The Story of the Plott Hound” was published in 2007 and more works followed. At the interview with Mr. Kemp, Bob Plott bends down to pet his Plott Hound and wryly remarks, “I’ve always said that when you touch the face of a Plott Hound, you’re touching the face of history.” This is definitely a dog who can rest on its laurels.
It’s a Grand Life Grand
My Favorite Time of the Year
by SUSAN WOODALL
I love that there are four seasons. There are reasons I like parts of each. My favorite, however, is autumn plus the last weeks of December, which belong to winter. Living on the coast, four distinct seasons is a stretch. There is a joke about North Carolina weather and how almost every day is a different season from the one you’re actually in. I’d say we have more summer days than those on the calendar. However, when the humidity is low, there is a lovely soft breeze and the sun is shining in a bright blue sky, there is no better place to be.
So, besides the weather, why do I love the fall? It has to do with my grandchildren. Schools are back in which means they are usually around. There are soccer games to watch on the weekends, school fall fests, dance recitals, apple picking and corn mazes. But, the best part is the three holidays that occur.
I guess I am still a child at heart because I love Halloween. I still decorate our home, even though we live on a private road and don’t get any trickor-treaters. I like to think that my grandchildren see me as someone still enjoying celebrating this holiday. Their grandfather and I used to rotate between going to Charlotte to be with our grandchildren there and staying home to be with the other four. The Charlotte kids don’t need adults walking around with them anymore, but we still have a few more years to be with the younger ones who live here. It’s fun to see all the different costumes and decorations while getting in a good walk.
The Halloween decor gets packed away, but some autumn items stay with the addition of turkeys and cornucopias. This year, our youngest daughter was the hostess with the mostest. As usual, it was wonderful! For years, the day after Thanksgiving, we would head up to the mountains to get our Christmas tree. We would go to a wonderful restaurant for lunch and, while waiting for our food, my father-in-law would pass out paper,
pens and envelopes. We would all write down what we were thankful for, put it in the envelope and give it back to him. The next year, we would read the one from the year before and then write a new one. This went on for years. We tried to keep it going, but once our daughters were married, it was hard to always spend Thanksgiving together. We do, however, still go to the mountains the Saturday after Thanksgiving with our Charlotte family to get a Christmas tree, buy beautiful wreaths and eat lunch.
Now comes my favorite holiday – Christmas! I start listening to Christmas music as soon as Halloween is over. I love decorating the house and will keep our tree up until January 6th. Even then, I don’t like taking it down. This year, we will be in Charlotte, as we rotate celebrating between families. I love that we are fortunate enough to have everyone living in North Carolina and that we can FaceTime everyone. So, even though we’re not there in person, we can still see the smiles on our other grandchildren’s faces as they open gifts and show us what Santa brought.
This year, I have gone shopping with one granddaughter that lives here before Thanksgiving to buy food to donate to the local Food Bank. I will go with my other granddaughter to do the same thing before Christmas. We are all so blessed, and I think it’s important for them to help, in some way, others who are less fortunate. I am proud of our community, schools and churches for taking donations throughout the year to help those in need.
However you celebrate the season, may you ever be remindful of the needs of others and help in whatever way you can. Have a wonderful, safe holiday and a very blessed 2026!
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LOCAL EVENTS
*Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites & social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.*
DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON
HOLIDAYS AT
REYNOLDA
The former estate of R.J. and Katharine Reynolds is dressed for the season with special programs at Reynolda House and Reynolda Gardens. Included with museum admission: Caroling Fridays (Dec. 5th & 12th). Ticketed highlights include Enchanted Christmas Evening tours (Dec. 13th & 17th) and Wreath Decorating classes (Dec. 3rd-7th). Don’t miss shopping and dining in Reynolda Village which features holiday specials and festive decor throughout the season.
NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 20
HOLIDAYS
IN OLD SALEM
Old Salem. Old Salem Museums & Gardens feels extra magical this time of year. An All-In-One Ticket grants access to a dozen+ historic buildings adorned in period décor. Meet costumed interpreters, see festive trade demonstrations, and experience Moravian traditions. Highlights include: Joy of Christmas Evening Tours. Nov. 28–Dec. 20 (Fridays & Saturdays) where you can explore several historic buildings by lantern light. Tours run 6:30–8pm, depart every 15 minutes and last about one hour. Tickets: $60 adults; $40 students. Suitable for all ages. Salem Saturdays at Christmas. Nov. 29–Dec. 20 (Saturdays) where you can enjoy an elevated mix of holiday activities during operating hours (10am-4pm).
NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 21 (WEEKENDS)
SPECTACULAR HOLIDAY BLOOMS
5:30-9pm, Paul J. Ciener Botanical Garden in Kernersville. Stroll among illuminated “recycled tulips” at Paul J. Ciener Botanical Garden, plus festive trees and more than 10,000 glowing “flowers.” The display is open to tour each weekend evening (Friday to Sunday). Tickets: $5 adults; $2 students; free ages 5 and under.
NOW THROUGH JANUARY 1
TANGLEWOOD FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS
6-11pm, Tanglewood. One of the southeast’s largest light displays returns with 80+ scenes and more than a million lights along a five-mile route. Admission: $20 cash/$23 credit per family vehicle. Mid-route Gift Village features shopping and s’mores at S’moresville. Open nightly.
NOW THROUGH JANUARY 3
CHRISTMAS AT KÖRNER’S FOLLY
The “strangest house in America” shines with Victorian-inspired décor across 22 rooms. Self-guided tours: Tuesdays-Saturdays 10 am-4pm; Sundays 12-4pm (last entry 3pm). Tours take about one hour. Tickets: $12 adults; $6 ages 6-18; free 5 and under. Also, see Christmas by Candlelight evening tours on December 13th & 20th.
DECEMBER 4
4TH ANNUAL HOLIDAY SIP AND SHOP IN KERNERSVILLE
6-8pm, 811 East Mountain Street in Kernersville. Come in for free pictures with Santa, sip a little and shop a lot! Support small business and cross items off your Christmas shopping list!
DECEMBER 5
FESTIVE FAMILY FRIDAY AT KALEIDEUM
2-8pm, Kaleideum. Put the festive in your Friday with an afternoon and evening full of joyful, memory making moments at Kaleideum! The museum will be buzzing with music, laughter, creativity and holiday cheer. Whether you stay for a few hours or enjoy the full six, you’ll find something magical waiting around every corner. Highlights include: photos with Santa in the Storytelling Exhibit, captured by photographer Devin Lane (2:30-4:30pm and 5:30-7:30pm); DJ Hek Yeh spinning holiday tunes in La STEAM (2:30–4:30 pm); live performances by Titifara Puppets, Seasons Best Carolers and Spring Theatre; holiday magic by Steve Feldman; reindeer food making, Snow Much Fun Sensory Room; and other hands-on holiday crafts celebrating the many traditions that make up the holiday season. Festive Family Friday is a can’t-miss celebration designed to delight kids and grown-ups alike. From sweet holiday moments to playful surprises, it’s the perfect way to kick off the season in the heart of downtown Winston-Salem. Don’t miss this magical family night!
DECEMBER 6
SAWTOOTH SPOTLIGHT
11am-4pm, Sawtooth School for Visual Art, 251 North Spruce Street in W-S. Join Sawtooth for their year-end celebration of art and community! Discover unique artworks perfect for gift-giving from local artists, including ceramics, jewelry, textiles and more. Admission is free with a suggested donation of $5 to support Sawtooth’s scholarship and community outreach programs.
DECEMBER 6
CHRISTMAS TREASURES SALE
8am-12pm, Clemmons Moravian Church. All gently used holiday related items including ornaments, lights, trees and many other decorations. Proceeds will be shared with Clemmons Food Pantry and The Storehouse for Jesus. Call 336.941.3062 to donate items.
DECEMBER 6
CHRISTMAS AT BETHABARA
1:30-4:30pm, Historic Bethabara Park. Travel through time as we explore eighteenth and nineteenth century Christmas traditions in Old Town Bethabara. Explore the decorated 1788 Gemeinhaus and 1834 Log House; enjoy seasonal music from Duo Licht and a Moravian Brass Band; interact with 18th century craftsmen; meet Sister Anna Catharina (a lively first-person performance); and make a Christmas craft or two. Admission is free!
DECEMBER 6
2025 WS AMBASSADORS HOLIDAY PARADE
4:45-5:45pm, 4th Street at Poplar Street in Downtown W-S. The official event of the WS Ambassadors Holiday Parade!
DECEMBER 7
UNCSA CANTATA SINGERS HOLIDAY CONCERT
3-5pm, Home Moravian Church, 529 Church Street in W-S. The season of celebration begins with the UNCSA Cantata Singers’ joyous annual holiday concert. This beloved free event ushers in the holidays with grand, melodious cheer.
DECEMBER
13
KALEIDEUM AFTER DARK: TWIN CITY SANTA
7-11pm, Kaleideum. Dress to dazzle in your seasonal best, bring an unwrapped toy ($25 value) and get ready for a night packed with holiday magic. DJ Hek Yeh will keep the dance floor moving, the Digital Dome will turn into the ultimate holiday karaoke stage, the photo booth will capture all the memories and hors d’oeuvres will keep you merry and bright. Best of all, every donation helps bring joy to local children through Twin City Santa’s toy drive tradition – and your admission includes two drink tickets for beer, wine or non-alcoholic beverages. Cost: $30 online + bring a $25 toy | $35 at the door + toy (or $25 donation). Unwrapped toy or monetary toy donation of $25 is required for entry. Event sponsored by Mast General Store.
DECEMBER
14 & 21
TOUR POUR DU JOUR AT THE GRAYLYN ESTATE
4-6pm, The Graylyn Estate, 1900 Reynolda Road in W-S. Travel back in time as you learn about the Gray Family’s beginnings in W-S and learn more about the mysteries of The Graylyn Estate. Enjoy a guided tour of the Manor House while viewing the architectural gems of our estate. Cost: $60/person and includes appetizers and wine in our library. To book a tour or to make a dinner reservation, please call 336.758.2425. Tour Pour Du Jour reservations may also be made at the event link. Dinner reservations may be made on OpenTable.
DECEMBER 21
BRUNCH
WITH SANTA
10am-2pm, Harmon House, 149 S. Main Street in Kernersville. Bring the family, and enjoy a festive brunch while Santa makes a special appearance. Tickets are $20/person, and seating is limited!
DECEMBER 31
NEW YEARS EVENING DINNER AT SHELTON VINEYARDS
5-9pm, Shelton Vineyards, 286 Cabernet Lane in Dobson. Get ready for a New Year’s Eve that shines bright! Join us at the Harvest Grill for an unforgettable night filled with sparkling wine, silver style and celebration. Enjoy a special chef-crafted menu, a complimentary glass of our sparkling Riesling for each guest 21+ and plenty of festive fun – from our themed photo booth to interactive resolution cards to kick off 2026 in style.
FUTURE
JANUARY 7-FEBRUARY 28
DEAN ROLAND JOHNSON EXHIBIT
Salem College’s Elberson Fine Art Center. After receiving a MFA from Pratt Institute, he taught art in college for several years. During that time, he exhibited and received several museum purchase awards. While his professional journey has taken many paths, the common thread has been all things visual. This exhibit features botanical paintings inspired by his love of nature. Dean has been painting with passion since childhood.
The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective
The Magic of Christmas – “Daisy’s Way”
by A. KEITH TILLEY
As the late Andy Williams once sang, “It’s the most wonderful time of the year!” Don’t get me wrong, summer’s great and spring and fall have their moments. But, this time of year, with Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa all bundled into the same month, this is the celebration season at its peak!
You know when someone says, “I know everyone says theirs was the best…”, well, let me tell you, mine really was the best! I don’t know how I got so lucky, really. When I think back on the period from my childhood to adulthood at Christmas time, I see a picture only the great Norman Rockwell could paint.
Though we weren’t wealthy, we did get a satisfying amount of gifts during the season. I recall only a tiny fraction of those gifts. For instance, the time my middle brother and I decided to get up well before sunrise to see if Santa came. He did – that was the year my brother received a drum set. The initial surprise and jubilation were short lived when we were told to go back to bed until sunrise. Or, the year my siblings (two brothers, one sister, all older than me) put together their wish list, and I only put one thing – a television set. I wanted my own TV in my room. That Christmas morning, my siblings and I came into the living room. My sister (16 years older than me) by that time was married and living two houses up the street, and she was there. They first went to their designated present section within the living room, but then they stopped and looked at me. I didn’t see mine at first among all the other presents, and then suddenly, as if almost hidden under the tree, there it was – a Panasonic portable, black and white television with a nine-inch screen. The actual TV was twice that size. It was AWESOME! For reference, the 36-inch was the largest TV at that time. My brothers immediately said, “Hey, why does he get a television set?” To which my parents replied, “That’s all he asked for.” That was one of the best Christmas Days ever. Even better than an “official, Red Ryder, carbine action, 200-shot, range model air rifle.” Shout out to Ralphie.
The presents were nice, of course; however, I knew then as I know today, what I had at the holidays was more special than mere gifts. It was Dr. Seuss who understood, “Maybe Christmas, he thought, doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas... perhaps...means a little bit more!” The Pulitzer Prize winning novelist Edna Ferber describes it purely: “Christmas isn’t a season. It’s a feeling.”
It began with the matriarch of the holiday season in our family, my very dear late grandmother, Daisy. Mama Daisy, as we called her, was a widow for several decades after her husband, Daddy Robert, passed away early in his life from cancer. She never remarried, yet she had the most active social life, surrounded by good friends from the church, family down the street and others who were always around her. Daisy’s place was where all major holidays were held. She lived in a small mill town named Fieldale in Virginia. The cliché, “everyone knows everyone in this small town” is appropriate when referring to this community.
Here’s the most special thing about Daisy’s version of Christmastime. Although there were no handwritten or spoken “rules” during the event, it always came across as if everyone was on their best behavior. The reason – they were genuinely happy and grateful to be there. No politics, no bad blood, no hurtful picking, no negative memories to dredge up, just plain old elation, excitement and joy. Sounds a bit corny, I know, but believe me, it was real. That sweet, wonderful, tiny old woman really knew how to throw a good time gathering. I attended more than two and a half unforgettable decades of them. Delicious turkey, ham, gravy, mashed
potatoes, sweet potatoes, stuffing, cranberry sauce, green beans and enhanced with the sweet aroma of Daisy’s homemade buttermilk biscuits, all placed on the country sideboard and table buffet style. The seniors were at the main table, the remaining adults in the den and adjoining living room, and the small children in the kitchen. Does this remind you of an old black-and-white holiday movie now? If so, you’re beginning to get my point.
No extravagant gifts or grand decorations involved here, just the family, all together, sharing in this moment, one light shining on another, collectively embracing the joy of the season in the only way we could ever imagine –at Daisy’s place.
After her passing, my mother and uncle carried the torch, and though they were very memorable in their own right, nothing beat Daisy’s way to celebrate the holidays. A warm, loving, inviting, friendly, energetic and kind environment with the delicious scent of homemade buttermilk biscuits.
Happy Holidays to all our readers, advertisers and my Forsyth Magazine family. May you always hear the bell ring.
Musical Selection: Pentatonix - Please Santa Please (Official Video)
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