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Luxury INDEPENDENT LIVING RESORT

Discover the refined elegance at Symphony Park.

CELEBRATE THE SEASON AT OUR FALL EVENTS

Our Fall Festival features a pumpkin patch, pumpkin decorating, live music from Trailblazers, a caramel apple station, fall cider and beer selections, and local crafts. Admission is free, with tours of our beautiful community encouraged during the event.

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POST-THANKSGIVING OPEN HOUSE

Fri, Nov 28 th & Sat, Nov 29 th

10:00AM – 5:00PM

It’s the perfect time to stop by Symphony Park for a personal tour. Explore our beautiful community, meet our team, and see why so many families are choosing resort-style living for their loved ones.

RSVP today - (704) 351-6404

Publisher Perspective “GAMES, GRATITUDE, AND THE GOOD STUFF”

There’s just something about this time of year that fills my heart. Maybe it’s football season (go Panthers!), or the cooler weather that makes evenings at home even cozier. My husband and I love gathering with family and friends for game nights—there’s nothing better than a round of Mexican Train, Jokers and Marbles, or Rummikub with plenty of laughter (and a little friendly competition). For me, it’s these simple joys that make November so special—time with people I love, cheering on my team, and counting blessings big and small.

This month’s cover features a family that knows all about heart, home, and community—the Bennetts of Bennett Funeral Home. For nearly a year, they’ve been wonderful advertising partners, and it’s been such a joy getting to know their caring, compassionate team. The Bennetts are true pillars of our community, serving families with grace, dignity, and heart when it matters most. Be sure to read their beautiful story beginning on page 28.

THIS ISSUE IS FILLED WITH INSPIRING PEOPLE AND LOCAL STORIES:

• Party planning mode engaged! Let COOKE RENTALS help make your holiday celebrations seamless—see page 16.

• BIG BROTHER COACHING & CARE—where were you, Joseph Bega, when my kids were little?! See page 18.

• Who doesn’t need a handyman this time of year? HAMBLETON HANDYMAN has you covered—see page 24.

• MOORESVILLE ARTS Presents: Arts on Main—a celebration of creativity and community—pages 34–37.

• And if you don’t already know PAM WHITE, you’ll have the perfect chance to meet her at her upcoming show, November 22–23. Read more on pages 40–41. If you’re searching for an angel on earth, Pam might just be the one to help with that.

And don’t miss our HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE on pages 54-57! It’s one of my favorite parts of the year—a joyful reminder to shop small and shop local. Every purchase from a local business supports someone’s dream and strengthens the community we all love.

As Thanksgiving approaches, I find myself especially thankful for family. My “bonus dad” (though in my heart, simply Dad) recently had a major health scare and seeing him home and thriving at 91 is nothing short of a blessing. His quiet strength, faith, and kindness are daily reminders of what truly matters.

So, here’s to gratitude—in every form. To game nights, good health, and gathering around the table with the ones who mean the most.

KEELA Publisher, LKN Magazine

So full-circle! Me with our very first Forsyth Woman issue (Sept 2005) and Brooke with the 20th anniversary issue (Sept 2025). What a joy to start this magazine and now watch my daughter carry it forward in Winston-Salem while I continue with LKN Magazine.

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Group, from left to right: Wayne Pope - U.S. Army Veteran (Vietnam), Charlie Miller - U.S. Army Veteran (Vietnam), Wayne Yount - U.S. Army Veteran- (Vietnam), Eddy Caldwell - U.S. Army Veteran (Vietnam), Scott Lail - U.S. Army Veteran (Afghanistan and Iraq) Headshots, top to bottom: Dave Blackburn

Army Veteran (Vietnam), Jim Ball - U.S. Marine Veteran (Vietnam)

TSEASON’S BEST AT

SWEETGRASS HOME

HOME - GIFTS - YOU

he holiday season is just around the corner, and SweetGrass Home is kicking things off in style with a festive open house you won’t want to miss. Guests can sip and savor from on-site food and drink trucks while browsing our latest seasonal arrivals, perfect for gifting or treating yourself. Gather your friends, enjoy the cozy atmosphere, and let Sweetgrass Home help you start the season merry and bright.

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With Christmas excitement already in the air, it’s easy to skip ahead—but don’t forget about the cozy charm of Thanksgiving. At SweetGrass Home, we love helping you enjoy every moment, whether you’re dressing for dinner, hosting at home, or finding thoughtful touches that make Thanksgiving just as special as the holidays to come.

Welcome to 129 Hunts Landing, exquisite residence is designed perfect for entertaining. craftsmanship throughout. and Bosch appliances, tankless seamlessly while large windows custom pool and spa, a flagstone pavilion boasts a built-in gatherings. A fully encapsulated offers luxury, convenience,

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SWEETGRASS HOME

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4 BEDS | 6 BATHS | WITH BONUS ROOM | 7,100 SQFT | $4,900,000 Gated Community. Remodeled. Point Lot. Pool with Cabana. Main Channel Views for Miles. MLS#: 4255222

HOME - GIFTS - YOU

Tround the corner, and SweetGrass Home is kicking things off in style with a festive open house you won’t want to miss. Guests can sip and savor from on-site food and drink trucks while browsing our latest seasonal arrivals, perfect for gifting or treating yourself. Gather your friends, enjoy the cozy atmosphere, and let Sweetgrass Home help you start the season merry and bright.

129 HUNTS LANDING, MOORESVILLE, NC 28117

8170 BAY POINTE DR, DENVER

129 HUNTS LANDING, MOORESVILLE,

4 BEDS | 6 BATHS | 4,085 SQF T | CUSTOM POOL | $1,895,000.00

5 BEDS | 5.5 BATHS | WITH WALK OUT BASEMENT | 9,434 SQFT | $5,999,999 Custom Home. Gorgeous Finishes. Over $1M in Pool, Hardscape, and Seawall. Main Channel Views. MLS#: 4268412

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office, and a home theater. This exquisite residence is designed for elegance and comfort and offers unparalleled indoor-outdoor living with a resort-style backyard perfect for entertaining. Step inside to discover gorgeous high-end finishes, an open and inviting floor plan, and impeccable craftsmanship throughout. Hickory floors, coffered and tray ceilings, a grand stone fireplace, leathered quartzite countertops, Eluctrolux and Bosch appliances, tankless H2O heater, 4 zone heating and cooling. The spacious living areas blend style and functionality seamlessly while large windows frame picturesque views of the backyard oasis. Outside, indulge in your private retreat, which features a custom pool and spa, a flagstone patio, and a covered porch with gas fireplace —ideal for year-round enjoyment. The expansive pavilion boasts a built-in grill, a wood-burning fireplace, and a dedicated bathroom, making it the ultimate space for outdoor gatherings. A fully encapsulated crawlspace creates ease of mind. Located in a highly desirable Mooresville community, this home offers luxury, convenience, and a lifestyle second to none. Don’t miss this rare opportunity. MLS#4244761

Welcome to 129 Hunts Landing, a stunning 4,085 sq ft luxury home with 4 bedrooms/6 baths, an office, and a home theater. This exquisite residence is designed for elegance and comfort and offers unparalleled indoor-outdoor living with a resort-style backyard perfect for entertaining. Step inside to discover gorgeous high-end finishes, an open and inviting floor plan, and impeccable craftsmanship throughout. Hickory floors, coffered and tray ceilings, a grand stone fireplace, leathered quartzite countertops, Eluctrolux and Bosch appliances, tankless H2O heater, 4 zone heating and cooling. The spacious living areas blend style and functionality seamlessly while large windows frame picturesque views of the backyard oasis. Outside, indulge in your private retreat, which features a custom pool and spa, a flagstone patio, and a covered porch with gas fireplace —ideal for year-round enjoyment. The expansive pavilion boasts a built-in grill, a wood-burning fireplace, and a dedicated bathroom, making it the ultimate space for outdoor gatherings. A fully encapsulated crawlspace creates ease of mind. Located in a highly desirable Mooresville community, this home offers luxury, convenience, and a lifestyle second to none. Don’t miss this rare opportunity. MLS#4244761

Eluctrolux tankless H2O heater, 4 zone heating and cooling. The spacious living areas blend style and functionality windows frame picturesque views of the backyard oasis. Outside, indulge in your private retreat, which features a flagstone patio, and a covered porch with gas fireplace —ideal for

and a lifestyle second to none. Don’t miss this rare opportunity. MLS#4244761

8095 WOODLINE WAY, DENVER

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FEATURES

16 COOKE RENTALS: For Dazzling Holiday Events, Cooke Rentals Brings the Merry and Bright

18 BIG BROTHER COACHING & CARE: A Student Leader on a Mission to Mentor the Next Generation

24 HAMBLETON HANDYMAN: Making High Quality Home Repairs Affordable

28 COVER STORY BENNETT FUNERAL SERVICE: Holding Families Close

32 DOVE HOURS CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY CENTER: Meet the Team

34 MOORESVILLE ARTS: Experience Mooresville’s Vibrant Art Scene at the Inaugural Arts on Main Weekend

38 A Reunion Reminiscence

42 BETHEL PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH: A Lake Norman Christmas Tradition, Christmas Bazaar Returns

48 One Year Later: How Touring Continues to be Essential to High-Country NC Counties Hurricane Helene Recovery

50 THE GREEN CREEK COLLECTION: Investing in Vacation Memories

54 SHOP LOCAL GIFT GUIDE: Presented by LKN Magazine

64 SPREADING THE L.O.V.: How One Local Nonprofit is Changing Lives, One Veteran at a Time

70 Cucalorus Film Festival: Wilmington, NC

74 BELLA’S BACKPACKS: Bringing Love and Comfort to Young Child Abuse Victims

82 Zeigarnik Effect: The Stress Isn’t from the Work — It’s from What’s Still Unfinished

For Dazzling Holiday Events COOKE RENTALS

BRINGS THE MERRY & BRIGHT

By MARTIE EMORY

If you’re longing to hear sleigh bells and dreaming of twinkling lights, it’s safe to say you may be planning a holiday event that’s meant to exceed even the brightest holiday expectations!

That’s when you count on Cooke Rentals – the go-to professionals for fabulous events all around Lake Norman. Their amazing team welcomes you to take an afternoon off and visit their Denver, NC location to browse in your very own event planning heaven.

You’ll soon see why happy customers are the ultimate goal for brothers Chad, Andy and Ben Cooke – and in the longstanding Cooke Rentals tradition – their Denver location is filled with everything you’ll need this festive holiday season. Whether you’re hosting a large-scale corporate holiday gathering or the coziest of children’s gingerbread-making parties, Jarret Bradshaw – who’s been with the company for more than 20 years and manages the Denver party location – can’t wait to share some of Cooke’s holiday magic with you!

“Once you catch a glimpse of our Santa sleigh –perfect to fit Santa and your child, along with wrapped presents – you’ll know you’re in the right place,” says Chad. “Our Santa chairs are also a jolly addition to holiday parades and any size community event.”

Even if we’re only dreaming of a white Christmas here around the lake – this is your

chance to create truly magical holiday memories for your family. Cooke Rentals offers snow machines, along with snow globe inflatables that kids can enter for a full snowfall experience!

Known for their wide selection of stylish table linens for year round events, Cooke Rentals dazzles yet again with their holiday linen options – along with plates, flatware, glassware and candles to complement any holiday theme you can imagine. They also offer a full inventory of food serving essentials, whether you’re celebrating at home or at a business location, including chafing dishes and hot cocoa or coffee beverage containers.

From elegant solids to nostalgic patterns, you’ll fall in love with every holiday table option in the Denver showroom. And yes, that includes the actual tables, along with stylish chairs.

“Table linens are our specialty,” adds Chad. “We’ve added new holiday linens for 2025 that are simply beautiful!”

A few examples (featured here and in their ad on page 17) include the classic glistening emerald cloth with a holly runner and vanilla twill napkins, the festive Christmas tiding cloth with matte satin ruby napkins and green carousel goblets, the whimsical Christmas cookies cloth, the Santa toile cloth with velvet hunter napkins – featured with an X-back rustic bar stool, and the always elegant velvet ivory cloth topped with a velvet green runner, plaid taffeta napkins, holiday flameless candles and greenery, and pretty X-back rustic chairs.

It’s always wise to place your holiday event rental orders as early as possible, especially if you’ll require delivery and pickup. Many customers place seasonal item orders during the summer – which should tell you just how magical an event created with Cooke Rentals can be!

Chad also explains the importance of meeting every customer’s needs – pointing out the company often adds to their holiday inventory to fill last minute requests.

Call or visit Cooke Rentals in Denver – 5743 East Highway 150, Denver, NC, 704.483.2722 and 5352 E Maiden Rd for equipment rentals.

WITH GRATITUDE TO CROWE MANSION FOR GRACIOUSLY PROVIDING THE EXQUISITE SETTING FOR THIS PHOTO SHOOT AT THEIR VENUE LOCATED IN LINCOLNTON, NC.

BIG BROTHER COACHING & CARE

A STUDENT LEADER ON A MISSION TO MENTOR THE NEXT GENERATION

By CAROLYN SHORE-PETERSON

For Joseph Vega, mentoring didn’t begin as a career idea – it was a calling nurtured from his earliest memories. Growing up in Miami, Florida, Joseph spent much of his childhood in the halls of Potential Church, where both parents served faithfully. His mother, who overcame years of addiction, found her purpose working in ministry while his father devoted his time to serving alongside her.

Joseph credits his father with showing him what it means to be a man of God. “My dad modeled for me what a male Christian figure should look like,” Joseph said. “He was the one who made sure our family went to church and stayed consistent in our faith. He’s always led with compassion and courage, and his willingness to sacrifice and work hard to give us a great life has shaped the man I am today.”

The church quickly became more than a place of worship – it was the heartbeat of their family and the foundation of Joseph’s faith.

“I was practically raised at church. From third grade to eighth grade, I was there Monday through Sunday. My youth pastors even came to my birthday parties – they were like the big brothers I didn’t have,” Joseph recalled.

As the oldest child and only boy in his family, Joseph often felt the weight of responsibility, yet he also knew the joy of being mentored by men of faith who pointed him toward Christ. By high school, he had logged more than 1,000 volunteer hours serving in Kids and Youth Ministry. “It felt like the only response I could give to all that God had done in my life,” Joseph said.

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LEARNING TO LEAD BY LETTING OTHERS LEAD

Those early experiences shaped the way Joseph mentors today. “I don’t want students to follow me – I want them to lead each other,” Joseph said.

Each week, with his middle school boys at Elevation Church in Lake Norman, Joseph creates lesson plans with games, questions and discussions, but then steps back. “I let one student lead the game and another lead the questions. My role is to facilitate. That way, they learn by leading,” he explained.

It’s an approach rooted in intentional trust. “When I was young, leaders handed me real responsibility – running lights in the youth ministry, leading a worship song as a seventh grader, etc. They saw something in me before I saw it in myself. I want my students to feel that same confidence,” he said.

A LEAP OF FAITH TO DAVIDSON

childcare and Christian mentorship. “What sets us apart is that we focus on intentional connection. It’s not just about academics or sports – it’s about pointing students to Jesus in every moment of life,” said Joseph.

Already, Joseph has seen transformation. One student he’s mentored for years went from arrogant and immature to leading daily Bible studies for his friends. “That’s not me – that’s God. But, I get to witness the change, and it’s incredible,” he said.

FAITH AT THE CENTER

At the core of Joseph’s work is his faith. “Whether we’re solving math problems or taking a water break during basketball, I remind students we do this to glorify God, not ourselves,” Joseph said.

To him, mentoring is an act of service modeled after Christ. “Jesus washed His disciples’ feet. If He could do that, the least I can do is serve with humility,” he said.

A VISION FOR THE FUTURE

Looking ahead, Joseph dreams of expanding Big Brother Coaching & Care into a nationwide movement. He envisions chapters in Miami, Dallas, Los Angeles and beyond – each led by strong Christian mentors who can be the role models kids desperately need.

“Students shouldn’t have to look up to celebrities. They need real big brothers who know them deeply and point them to Jesus. I feel called to be a pastor one day, maybe even plant a church. But, whether I’m preaching or mentoring, my mission is the same: to help people know who they are in Christ. I want my legacy to be that I reminded students they are children of God,” Joseph said.

For more information on Big Brother Coaching & Care and the services offered, visit www.bigbrothercc.com

That foundation of trust carried Joseph to Davidson College, where he was awarded the prestigious Posse Miami Scholarship, one of only 10 chosen from more than 1,000 applicants.

Leaving his home and moving to Davidson, North Carolina meant building his faith outside the familiar. “Going to church without my parents or sister was strange, but it pushed me to grow,” Joseph said. At Elevation Lake Norman, he found not just a church but a mentor in Youth Director Stuart Branstetter, as well. “Now, his daughters see me as ‘Uncle Joe’ – that’s how close we’ve become,” he shared.

On campus, Joseph has become a leader through Fellowship of Christian Athletes and co-founded UNITE, a movement designed to bring Christian groups together across Davidson. Their first month of gatherings drew more than 150 students. “I believe revival starts with unity,” Joseph said.

THE BIRTH OF BIG BROTHER COACHING & CARE

The idea for his mentoring business came during a season of prayer. When campus jobs fell through, Joseph got on his knees. “I asked God for a job where I could make a difference and do what I love,” he recalled.

The answer came quickly. Within days, he launched Big Brother Coaching & Care, a program blending tutoring, sports training,

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LEARNING TO LEAD BY LETTING OTHERS LEAD

Those early experiences shaped the way Joseph mentors today. “I don’t want students to follow me – I want them to lead each other,” Joseph said.

A LEAP OF FAITH TO DAVIDSON

That foundation of trust carried Joseph to Davidson College, where he was awarded the prestigious Posse Miami Scholarship, one of only 10 chosen from more than 1,000 applicants.

THE BIRTH OF BIG BROTHER COACHING & CARE

The answer came quickly. Within days, he launched Big Brother Coaching & Care, a program blending tutoring, sports training,

FAITH AT THE CENTER

To him, mentoring is an act of service modeled after Christ. “Jesus washed His disciples’ feet. If He could do that, the least I can do is serve with humility,” he said.

A VISION FOR THE FUTURE

For more information on Big Brother Coaching & Care and the services offered, visit www.bigbrothercc.com

Be Well Table KALE SALAD WITH CRISPY CHICKPEAS

By KATHARINE ROSENTHAL, RDN

Servings: 6

Prep time: 10 minutes

Cook time: 20 minutes

Total time: 30 minutes

Ingredients:

• 5 cups kale, chopped

• 1/4 cup pumpkin seeds

• 1/4 cup panko crumbs

• 15-ounce can chickpeas

• 1 tablespoon avocado oil

• 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder

• 1/2 teaspoon onion powder

• Salt and pepper to taste

Healthy Caesar Salad Dressing:

• 1 cup plain Greek yogurt

• 1/2 tablespoon Dijon mustard

• 1/2 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce

• 1/2 lemon, juiced

• 2 cloves garlic, minced

• 1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese

• 1/4 teaspoon sea salt

• 1/4 teaspoon black pepper

Instructions:

1. Preheat oven to 425 degrees.

2. Drain and rinse the chickpeas, then transfer them to a large bowl. Coat the chickpeas with avocado oil, garlic powder, onion powder, and salt and pepper.

3. Place the chickpeas on a baking sheet and roast for 20-25 minutes un

4. For the dressing - put all the ingredients into a blender and blend for a minute or until the dressing is very smooth. If it is too thick, add a splash of milk or water and blend again.

5. Chop the kale and add it to a large salad bowl.

6. Add the panko crumbs to a small pan and toast them over medium heat until they brown. Keep mixing the panko so they don’t burn.

7. Add the toasted panko, crispy chickpeas, pumpkin seeds, and dressing to the kale and toss. Enjoy!

For more recipes and nutrition tips, head over to the Be Well Table blog.

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HAMBLETON HANDYMAN: MAKING HIGH

QUALITY HOME REPAIRS AFFORDABLE

Hambleton Handyman is a family business known for combining expert craftsmanship and simple pricing to give their customers a better home repair and renovation experience. The team is excited to be expanding its presence in the Charlotte area.

The company’s story started in Northern Virginia, when the Hambletons’ home and kitchen remodel business kept receiving requests from customers to offer handyman services after the renovations were complete. And so, in 2014, they opened the handyman business with the goal to offer high-end repairs without the high-end costs. Hambleton Handyman is now a thriving company with offices and staff in Virginia, Maryland and North Carolina.

BETTER HOME REPAIRS START WITH THE RIGHT TEAM

The things that set Hambleton Handyman apart from other handyman companies are the rigorous hiring process, hourly pricing model and emphasis on service and relationship.

“We are very picky with our hiring process,” shared Scheduling Manager James Salmon. “We look for quality people who know how to communicate well, present themselves professionally and make a good first impression.”

“It can take a long time to find and train the right people,” Salmon continued. “But, we would rather invest in building a team, and we tell our craftsmen to focus on building relationships.”

Hambleton prides itself on hiring craftsmen who, when combined, provide a large range of skills and abilities. Their craftsmen are multi-talented professionals with decades of experience, and together, their team can handle any job, no matter how big or small. Carpentry, drywall, painting, patching, plumbing and electrical work are all within the team’s capabilities.

Their emphasis on excellent service is what customers love most. Rather than approach each job as a single opportunity to upcharge and finish the work quickly, Hambleton focuses on the client relationship just as much as the home project.

“We want to be called back again and again to help, to be a company you can trust,” Salmon said.

FOUNDED TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS, WITHOUT THE SURPRISE FEES

When Hambleton Handyman was founded, the primary goal was to reenvision a handyman company that could take on any job. Part of

making that possible was sorting out how to put a price on such a wide range of services.

Instead of quoting by the project and charging more on materials, Hambleton charges by the hour. Clients are given the control and flexibility to add or remove work, based on the clients’ budgets and Hambleton’s performance.

There is a flat rate for the first hour, no matter how big or small the project, and then a lower, hourly rate for the rest of the project. Materials are charged at cost, and every customer benefits from the discounts Hambleton receives from local stores.

While the craftsman is at your home, he can work on a wide variety of services. Some people simply have the craftsman knock out a huge list of small to-dos, like hanging pictures, installing light fixtures or making minor drywall repairs. Others have their craftsman pause working on one, bigger project to help tackle smaller issues that arise.

“People love the convenience,” shared one of Hambleton’s craftsmen. “They feel relieved that they are able to take care of issues as they come up without being shocked by a big surprise bill.”

KNOCKING OUT TO-DO LISTS AND WISHLISTS WITH EASE

“Hambleton Handyman was born from listening to the needs of our clients,” shares Michael Accettullo, regional service manager of the Carolinas.

This means that no job is too small or too specialized. When a Hambleton craftsman

arrives at your house, he stays until the job is done and you are happy with the outcome. If something arises he cannot handle, another craftsman is sent who has the necessary expertise.

“Some of our most-used services are carpentry and drywall work, along with addressing and repairing wood rot,” Accettullo said. “We regularly do full kitchen and bathroom remodels and tile work. Being able to make many clients’ dream home transformation become reality is the best part of the job.”

GET AHEAD OF THE SEASONAL SHIFTS

Now is the perfect time to invest in energyefficient home upgrades, ahead of the cold winter months. Repairs such as replacing your sliding glass doors, resealing windows or fixing leaky pipes can help cut down on your monthly energy bills and prevent worse damage.

If you want to see what it’s like to hire a skilled craftsman to knock out your to-do list this season, call Hambleton Handyman today! You can receive an estimate for your larger repair or renovation, or simply hire a craftsman for an hour to see how the process works and start right away.

The Hambleton team can be reached by calling 704.240.5495 any time between 7:30 a.m. through 6:00 p.m. Monday through Friday. You can also read more about our team and services by visiting our website at hambletonhandyman.com/charlotte-nc.

The Hambleton Handyman team is proud to be serving the Charlotte community!

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BENNETT FUNERAL SERVICE

Holding Families Close

Written By MARTIE EMORY, Photography By CARRIE ALLEN

While staying true to the authentic family values that inspired Robbie and Rhonda Bennett when they established Bennett Funeral Service in 2013, Kyle and Lindsay Bennett are introducing fresh ideas for a new generation of families.

The steadfast vision at Bennett Funeral Service is to provide families with both modern and meaningful ways to honor their loved ones – and always blending the warmth and goodness of family tradition, now with new opportunities for remembering.

“One new initiative – Bennett Broadcasts – provides televised memorial announcements created by Bennett Funeral Service in partnership with Chptr,” shares Kyle. “Aired on WBTV Monday through Friday between 3:00 p.m. and 4:00 p.m., these broadcasts are created to share your loved one’s memory with an even wider community, inviting friends, neighbors and family to come together in remembrance. Families will receive a digital keepsake of the broadcast which acts as a lasting tribute they can revisit and share for years to come.”

For those who wish to tell a more complete story, Heirloom Films also offers a cinematic way to celebrate a beloved family member’s life. Provided by Bennett Funeral Service with the help of Chptr’s innovative platform, these customized memorial films bring together a beautiful blend of photos, videos and personal stories from loved ones, capturing the moments and milestones that defined their life.

“The result is a meaningful keepsake that preserves not only memories, but a legacy for generations to come, as well,” adds Lindsay.

Bennett Funeral Service has also partnered with OneRoom to provide professional live streaming services, allowing family and friends who cannot attend the service in person to still be present in real time, no matter the distance. Each service is broadcast with care and detail, ensuring no one is left out of the sacred time honoring a loved one’s memory.

“Through live streaming, we close the gap that distance creates, allowing hearts to gather even when they are miles apart,” explains Kyle. “It’s one more way we make sure every life is honored and every family feels supported –both near and far.”

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“Their service is the best around, and they are so kind and accommodating. They really cared about our family when my mother passed – and that didn’t end after the funeral service. They checked on us afterwards and offered grief services if we needed it. I would highly recommend them to anyone.”

- JANET W.

“Bennett came highly recommended, and after my father passed, I found out why. They were very helpful and respectful throughout the process. I would also highly recommend them when that need arises. You can feel confident they will assist you and your loved ones during that difficult time.”

- BRIAN N.

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The original Bennett Funeral Service location is still part of the Conover, NC community, while the main office in Newton opened in November of 2019. Kyle and Lindsay are personally dedicated to the mission of creating a home-like atmosphere for the families they serve. While they’ve developed a full understanding of the nature of funeral service, continuing to pass down experiences from one generation to another still makes all the difference.

The bonding spirit of community shines brightly during times of losing a family member. Knowing the grieving family’s personality and specific requests, often through shared community interaction, can be highly beneficial. The Bennett Funeral Service team – a compassionate group of 30 – work together to always be the professional local families know they can count on.

Our work is deeply personal and often sensitive,” shares Lindsay. “Something that truly sets us apart is the people who do that work. Our team not only cares for the families with compassion and professionalism, but we also lift each other up and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. That spirit of kindness carries through to the families we serve.”

Bennett Funeral Service was named Best Funeral Home in 2025 by Charlotte’s Best and voted Best Funeral Home for the Hickory Daily Record’s Best of Catawba Valley for 11 consecutive years.

Visit them at 7878 NC Highway 16 in Newton, NC, 828.465.2111, and in Conover, NC at 502 1st Avenue South, 828.465.2025.

“My family suffered a great tragedy that sent our heads spinning out of control. When we got our heads back together, we contacted Bennett Funeral Service. When I called the office number, I was greeted by the voice of a sweet lady who took my information and said my call would be returned shortly. They rang right back, and Robbie Bennett was on the phone, ready to serve my family immediately. The care and compassion I could feel through his voice made me realize I called the right place. Throughout the entire time – with issue after issue arising – I was assisted with love, compassion and true dedication to his profession. Thank you just doesn’t seem like enough to say. I feel like I extended my family this past week and will ALWAYS use Bennett Funeral Service in my future time of need. Thank you, Robbie, and all your staff for being compassionate about what you do.”

The Heart of Healing MEET THE TEAM BEHIND DOVE HOUSE

CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY

CENTER

By MARTIE EMORY

When a child experiences abuse or trauma, finding a safe space to begin healing can make all the difference. For more than two decades, Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC) has been that place for countless children and families across our community – leading a child-focused, community-wide response to prevent abuse, protect children and restore hope.

The safest place to begin healing, Dove House provides a calm, welcoming environment where children are seen, heard and supported by an extraordinary team of professionals. When a family first contacts Dove House, an appointment is promptly scheduled, where they are met with empathy and reassurance. From that first visit, the process is designed to minimize stress for the child. Rather than having to travel between agencies, every necessary service – from interviews to medical exams to therapy – is coordinated under one roof.

A specially trained forensic interviewer meets privately with each child to help establish a clear record of concern in a childsensitive manner. Caregivers also receive support through family assessments, which gives them their own safe space to share experiences and learn how to best respond to their child’s needs. Onsite medical care is provided by pediatric specialists who help children understand their bodies are okay and that what happened to them doesn’t define who they are. If further assessment is needed, children and their parents meet with licensed therapists to develop an individualized treatment plan, often spanning 10 to 25 sessions.

Behind the scenes, the Multidisciplinary Team (MDT) – made up of professionals from multiple fields – meets weekly to review cases, ensuring each decision is made in the best interest of both the child and the family.

The true strength of Dove House lies in its dedicated staff of professionals – each bringing expertise and heart to their work:

• Beth McKeithan, Executive Director

• Colleen Medwid, Forensic Interviewer

• Candy Feimster and Allegra Hope, Family Advocates

• Katherine Smith, Outreach and Education Coordinator

• Amy Stevens, Director of Development

Two staff members – Colleen Medwid and Candy Feimster – have been part of Dove House since it first opened its doors in 2002, and their longevity is a testament not only to their personal dedication, but also to the culture of compassion and collaboration that defines Dove House.

Each team member is trained in traumainformed care, ensuring every interaction is guided by empathy, understanding and respect for the child’s emotional well being. They continuously pursue professional development to stay current on the latest evidence-based practices, ensuring the center provides the highest quality of care.

Perhaps most importantly, collaboration isn’t just encouraged within the Dove House walls – it’s absolutely essential. The staff works hand in hand, creating an environment where children and families feel safe and supported at every step. Their multidisciplinary approach allows for comprehensive care – a model that has become a cornerstone of how communities across the country respond to issues surrounding child abuse.

Equally important is the sense of teamwork within the organization. Dove House fosters a workplace where staff feel valued, supported and empowered. That internal strength radiates outward, shaping how the team shows up for every child who walks through the door. Dove House will continue to expand its team and its impact as local needs grow.

At Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center, the message is simple – healing begins with heart – and it’s the dedicated staff who make that healing possible every single day.

Discover more about Dove House Children’s Advocacy Center, a fully accredited 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization serving Iredell and Alexander counties at dovehousecac. org, and follow them on Instagram @dovehouse_cacnc. There is currently a position open at Dove House for an operations coordinator – visit their website for more details.

1 in 4 girls 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18

Source: National Childrens Alliance

SERVING IREDELL AND ALEXANDER COUNTIES

“On average, Dove House receives 4 to 6 new cases involving child victims of sexual abuse each week”

Beth McKeithan, Executive Director, Dove House CAC

Children* with PTSD from sexual abuse are 13x more likely to develop behavioral disorders, depression, substance abuse, anxiety, personality & adjustment disorders and suicide**.

* compared to children with PTSD without sexual abuse

**Source: Psychiatrist.com - PTSD and TRAUMA - January 17, 2023

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EXPERIENCE MOORESVILLE’S VIBRANT ART SCENE AT THE INAUGURAL ARTS ON MAIN WEEKEND

Written By MOORESVILLE ARTS STAFF, Photography Courtesy of MOORESVILLE ARTS

The Town of Mooresville is an integral part of North Carolina’s rich culture. With such an interesting history to explore and exciting things to experience in the present, there are many different avenues to discover something new about the town in which you live. For example, have you ever been curious about the art scene here in Mooresville? Artists of all media don’t just live in bustling metropolises, but also in growing cities like ours–and they are eager to share their expertise and talents with the wider community.

If you have yet to experience the abundance of creativity that our local artists’ community has to offer, you are in luck. Mooresville Arts is proud to present Arts on Main: A Weekend of Creativity, Culture & Community! For three days in November, there will be many opportunities to experience the arts in downtown Mooresville, with each day offering unique ways to connect with local and regional visual artists and submerse yourself in creativity, culture and community!

On Thursday, November 20th, Mooresville Arts will host A First Look at the traveling show for the American Watercolor Society’s (AWS) 158th Annual Juried Exhibition from

6-8pm. Not only will you get the first look at this incredible exhibit, but you’ll also enjoy live music performed by Lakeside Vibes and a live watercolor painting demonstration by Dan McCrary, a local artist whose work is featured in the AWS exhibit. Guests can enjoy a curated menu of heavy hors d’oeuvres

from Epic Chophouse, delicious desserts by Queen City Pastry and Cyntucci’s Bakery, and craft beer and wine from On Tap Crafty Brews. Limited tickets for this special event are on sale now for $50 a person!

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Photographer Michael Ritzie will display his dynamic and awardwinning landscapes at the Mooresville Fine Arts Festival.

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The second day of Arts on Main, on Friday, November 21st, Mooresville Arts will partner with neighboring art galleries–EAST Style House + Gallery, Four Corners Framing Gallery, and Juelerye Artisan Gallery & Gifts–to bring you the Downtown Mooresville Gallery Crawl! At Mooresville Arts, this will be the first opportunity for the public to see the AWS traveling exhibit free of charge. From 6-8pm, each gallery will have its own activities and refreshments. It will be a night of fun conversation and inspiring artist demonstrations!

And last, but certainly not least, on Saturday, November 22nd, Mooresville Arts will end the weekend in style with the Mooresville Fine Arts Festival at the Charles Mack Citizen Center, located at 215 N Main Street. This indoor and juried event will feature seventy fine artists and artisans from across North Carolina and neighboring states, and these artists will be onsite displaying and selling their work to the public. Visitors can explore a wide variety of art, including paintings, pottery, woodworking, photography, glass, jewelry, culinary art, and more. With live music provided by Lakeside Vibes, and activities for all ages, be sure to stop by anytime from 10am - 5pm. It will be a wonderful way to close out a weekend of celebrating art and creativity!

Of course, none of this would be possible without our presenting sponsor, Visit Mooresville, as well as the support of so many wonderful local businesses and organizations. Mooresville Arts would also like to thank: Anonymous, Bragg Financial, Town of Mooresville, Thomas & Webber - Law at the Lake, Mooresville Downtown Commission, Four Corners Framing Gallery, Juelerye Artisan Gallery & Gifts, Chesapeake Containment Systems Inc., On Tap Crafty Brews, Epic Chophouse, Queen City Pastry, Cyntucci’s Bakery, North Carolina Arts Council, and the Iredell Arts Council. With such strong community support, this is sure to be an amazing inaugural event for the arts!

Mooresville Arts is located in the historic Depot in downtown Mooresville at 103 W Center Avenue. For more information about Arts

on Main–including how to purchase A First Look tickets and view a list of participating artists in the Fine Arts Festival–please visit mooresvillearts. org or follow us on Facebook and Instagram @mooresvilleart. Questions may be sent to info@mooresvillearts.org.

Whether you are attending the First Look for the AWS show, strolling Main Street during the Gallery Crawl, or stopping by during the Fine Arts Festival, we would love to see you during the Arts on Main weekend. It’s sure to be an inspiring celebration of creativity and community!

Top Left: Jewelry artist Phyllis Flora will showcase her vibrant handcrafted pieces, inspired by nature and whimsy, at the Mooresville Fine Arts Festival.

Top Right: A striking watercolor painting by local artist, Dan McCrary, which will be featured in the American Watercolor Society’s travel show.

Bottom Right: Also, at the Mooresville Fine Arts Festival, you will find paintings by Nancy Joyce whose contemporary work combines texture, color and movement.

A REUNION Reminiscence

By JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

When the email invite to my 50th high school reunion hit my inbox, I uncharacteristically fired back: I’M COMING! I hadn’t attended a single reunion over the years, and for reasons too many and too deep to recount, I knew that I needed to be there, no matter what. Thus ensued a flurry of emails to my oldest and dearest friends, “Las Chicas,” Joan and Sue:

I’M GOING.

NO! I CAN’T BELIEVE IT!

WELL I AM. LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU BOOK YOUR TICKET. OH, & LET’S SHARE A ROOM.

Talk about being presumptuous. But, we Chicas had that kind of closeness –regardless of how much time had passed. And so yes, we went, and more or less shared a room. That experience stirred the pot on some of life’s biggest themes – love and its counterpart, loss. It all started beforehand, with the intended shoes – a pair of Stuart Weitzman peep-toe, high-heeled beauties. Teetering around my bedroom for days, I fretted. My suitcase stood frozen like an open clamshell for nearly a week – such was the depth of my dilemma. In the end, a reality check sealed the decision to swap

them out for the more practical but less stunning choice: a wedge heel more suited to my altered gait. One can learn to live with such a loss.

Upon arrival, we 67-year-olds were handed a lanyard which displayed our black and white senior year photo. Peering at mine, a wave of sadness filled my heart and rattled my mind: so serious, with a mere hint of a smile, no more. The loss I felt was not for the girl I had been, but for the one who never was. Was this the person my classmates remember? How will they reconcile who I was with who I later became, with who I am now? Of course, I was making too much of this. For me, the “loss” of that 17-year-old was a blessing, reminding me that so often, a loss can be a good thing when it means personal growth.

I am reflecting now, as the weeks have passed, on my classmate, “S.” Back in the day, I just couldn’t fathom her seemingly boundless confidence, her bravado and the coveted place she occupied in our high school hierarchy. It was much easier not to like her than to see that she wasn’t the issue. My low self esteem was. Over the years, I came to understand this, to heal and to emerge. I was determined to reach out to “S,” who knew nothing of my past feelings. I needed to make things right. For me. We spoke, exchanged brief life stories and shared a few memories of teachers and classes. “S” was as

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approachable and likeable as anyone else. In fact, despite all of her high-octane ambition, she had retired quite early to tend to her garden and to oversee her mom’s care. Her story appeared no more or less perfect than my own. We even exchanged email addresses. “Stay in touch” we both said with warm smiles. On the flights, connections and delays homeward, I reflected on this exchange with “S” and saw clearly how the loss of a distorted perception can open one’s mind and one’s heart.

There was one more monumental reminder that accompanied me on the journey home: the pricelessness of my dearest old friends, Las Chicas. We had lived on the same side of the tracks, were study partners and confidants. And, then there we were, 50 years later, holed up in a hotel room over wine and snacks, reminiscing about old times and racing to fill one another in on the highs and lows of the lives we had lived. It was abundantly clear that we’d all lost things over time, important things that matter. But, one thing we could hold onto was our forever bond of love, connection and friendship.

I brought that old black and white lanyard photo back home, too. As I looked at that serious face staring back at me, I told her how proud I was of the woman she had become, the one who had the courage and the confidence to go back 50 years in time.

Art in Motion GOLD LAYERS AND HIDDEN STORIES: THE ART OF PAM WHITE

By AUTUMN PAYNE

If you’ve ever seen Pam White’s work, you know it’s impossible to look away. Based in the charming town of Bluffton, South Carolina, Pam has found her artistic sweet spot with encaustic wax – a medium that is equal parts science, magic and a little controlled chaos. Her pieces shimmer, breathe and hold secrets you can almost feel beneath the surface.

So, what exactly is encaustic wax? In simple terms, it’s melted beeswax combined with damar resin, creating a surface that is both durable and responsive. Layers of pigment, texture and, sometimes, natural objects are fused with heat until they form a luminous, almost living finish. Pam doesn’t just paint; she builds worlds. She embeds grasses, barnacles, cloth and other treasures from the natural

environment, giving each piece a tactile richness that invites exploration. Her work isn’t just seen – it’s experienced.

Pam’s journey to wax was anything but linear. She began with acrylics and oils, painting to navigate life’s ups and downs. Her early exhibitions at outdoor markets earned her recognition, awards and a growing reputation. But, then life intervened in the form of a fall on a tennis court, breaking both her wrists. For an artist used to the precision of brushes, painting suddenly became a challenge. Enter encaustic wax. Pam discovered photo encaustic, a technique where photographs are adhered to a surface and layered with wax, and she was instantly captivated. The medium’s flexibility and luminosity offered her a path back to creation during recovery – a way to make art without limits.

Since then, Pam has embraced wax fully, pushing its boundaries. Her textures rise inches from the canvas, sculptural additions turn flat surfaces into dynamic landscapes and her experiments with light and layering give her work an almost ethereal quality. Recognition soon followed – her pieces have appeared nationally, including a juried exhibition at the Museum of Encaustic Art in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

Among her most beloved works is her angel series – a collection born of serendipity. While working on a memorial commission, Pam noticed rust patterns forming the shape of an angel in the background. That small, unexpected moment sparked a series that has resonated with collectors nationwide and even raised $10,000 for Dove House. For Pam, each angel is more than a painting – it’s a story of resilience, hope and transformation. Some commemorate loss, others celebrate healing and many capture life’s fleeting golden moments emerging from rusted textures.

Pam’s work is also deeply intertwined with the lowcountry itself. Marshes, oaks draped in Spanish moss and coastal landscapes seep into her pieces, not just as imagery but as emotion, as well. Through wax, she captures the light, the texture and the ever-shifting beauty of her surroundings, weaving stories and sentiments that speak to viewers on multiple levels.

The magic of Pam White’s art lies in the marriage of process and story. Encaustic wax, with its layers, textures and surprises, becomes more than a medium in her hands – it’s a conduit for reflection, connection and wonder. Her work encourages viewers to slow down, look closer and appreciate not just the visual beauty but the layers of life that inform it, as well.

Seeing a Pam White piece in person is unforgettable. Luckily, you don’t have to wait long to experience it firsthand. Meet Pam White during the Downtown Mooresville Gallery Crawl on Friday, November 21st, from 6:00 – 8:00 p.m., or explore and shop her work at an exclusive one-day gallery event on Saturday, November 22nd (time TBD).

EXPLORE MORE OF HER WORK: Online at pjwhiteart.com, on Instagram @pamwhite3 and on Facebook at Pam White.

A LAKE NORMAN CHRISTMAS TRADITION

Bethel Presbyterian Church’s Christmas Bazaar returns with local vendors, Port-A-Pit BBQ, and holiday spirit for a cause.

By MARGIE PERSONS

The holiday season in Lake Norman wouldn’t be complete without the sparkle and charm of Bethel Presbyterian Church’s annual Christmas Bazaar, returning on Saturday, December 13, 2025, from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at 19920 Bethel Church Road in Cornelius. This much-loved community tradition blends festive shopping, delicious food, and holiday spirit, all while supporting a worthy cause.

Each year, Bethel Presbyterian dedicates the bazaar’s proceeds to local children’s ministries. This season, all funds will benefit Cornelius Early Scholars, a nonprofit devoted to providing early childhood education opportunities for local families. It’s a chance to shop for meaningful gifts while making a difference in the lives of children right here in our community.

The bazaar will showcase an impressive lineup of local artisans and vendors, including: Thee Potter’s Touch (handcrafted pottery); Olen’s Wood Art (unique wooden creations); Donna’s

Paintings (original fine art); Jane’s Oyster Art (coastal-inspired pieces); J Be Sassy Boutique (trendy apparel and accessories); C&L Diamond Art (sparkling handmade designs); NC Pixie Creations (whimsical crafts); Erica’s Classy Crystals (jewelry and gifts); Hullabaloo Hats & Accessories; All Things Wood (custom woodwork); and may more. In addition,

guests can browse the ever-popular BPWM Bake Sale, pick up a one-of-a-kind quilt at the Bethel Quilt Ministry Quilt Sale, or find treasures in the Christmas Shop and Kitchen Shop. With so many options, the bazaar is the perfect spot to discover unique holiday gifts while supporting talented local makers.

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No holiday shopping trip is complete without a hearty meal, and Bethel has that covered, too. From 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., visitors can enjoy a Port-A-Pit BBQ chicken lunch, available for dine-in or carryout. Plates may be preordered at BethelLKN.org, ensuring no one misses out on this seasonal favorite.

From the festive booths and flavorful food to the joy of giving back, Bethel Presbyterian’s Christmas Bazaar is a true celebration of community and holiday spirit. Mark your calendar, bring your family and friends, and join in a tradition that makes Christmas shine even brighter in Lake Norman.

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DEFINING YOUR MONEY VALUES

By STEVEN GALLO, CFP®, PARTNER, FINANCIAL ADVISOR

Understanding your money values seeks to ensure that your financial decisions align with what matters most to you and your family. These values serve as a foundation for making consistent, purpose-driven choices, while potentially reducing financial stress and potential arguments.

For instance, prioritizing education might mean setting aside funds for college rather than opting for an extravagant vacation. It’s not that you wouldn’t vacation, family memories are important too, but opting for something in-state may align better with your family’s goals than taking three weeks in Bali.

Let’s get practical and discuss some steps to help arrive at meaningful goals as a family. We think you’ll find the exercise itself to be rewarding and insightful.

REFLECT ON PAST DECISIONS

Take a moment to examine major financial decisions your family has made. Were these decisions driven by a need for security, a desire for freedom, or a spirit of generosity? For example:

• Did you prioritize saving for a rainy day over purchasing luxury items?

• Are you involved in philanthropy, showcasing the value of giving back?

• Are there values represented by your parents and grandparents that you’d like to carry forward?

HAVE A FAMILY CONVERSATION

The only way to establish family values is… to talk as a family. Host a family discussion and ask a series of questions to each adult or near-adult. Consider sharing the list of questions in advance to help everyone prepare. Think along the lines of:

• Fill in the blank. As it relates to money, our family values _________.

• What does financial success look like to you?

• What are your top three life priorities, and how does money help achieve them?

Involving the younger generation in these conversations not only gives them a voice but also instills a healthy financial mindset early on. For example, discussing how money supports family goals like education or vacations can help children grasp the importance of saving and planning.

LIST CORE VALUES

Once your discussions reveal recurring themes, write down your family’s core money values. Common examples include:

• Security: Building financial safety nets like emergency funds or insurance

• Education: Saving for college or lifelong learning opportunities

• Generosity: Supporting causes or helping others in need

• Freedom: Reducing debt and saving for travel or retirement

• Legacy: Preserving wealth to pass down responsibly

Defining and living your money values is a journey, not a one-time exercise. It requires reflection, open communication, and regular commitment. By aligning your financial decisions with your values, you not only strengthen your family’s financial health but also cultivate a sense of purpose and harmony.

Start today—your money values can be the compass that guides your financial choices and helps secure your family’s future.

One Year Later: HOW TOURISM CONTINUES TO BE ESSENTIAL TO HIGH-COUNTRY NC COUNTIES HURRICANE HELENE RECOVERY

Written By ROBIN SHUPE KELLER, Photography by ARMANDO GARCIA

One year ago, as Western North Carolina prepared for Thanksgiving 2024, communities throughout the High Country were still reeling from Hurricane Helene’s devastating impact in late September. My family, friends, and neighbors faced the holiday season amid unprecedented destruction. In my 2024 article “Finding Gratitude Amidst Tragedy,” I wrote about the resilience and community spirit emerging from the rubble.

Today, as we approach Thanksgiving 2025, that same spirit has evolved into something equally powerful: a determined effort to rebuild not just homes and infrastructure, but entire economic foundations—with tourism leading the charge toward long-term recovery.

THE LONG ROAD TO RECOVERY

The path forward from Hurricane Helene proved even more extremely challenging than many initially anticipated. While the immediate emergency response showcased remarkable community solidarity, the long-term recovery has required sustained commitment and creative solutions. In HighCountry counties, where the storm’s impact was particularly severe, residents quickly realized that rebuilding would require more than just repairing what was lost—it would demand reimagining their economic future.

The High Country’s pre-Helene economy heavily relied on tourism, outdoor recreation,

and the natural beauty that draws visitors from across the Southeast and beyond. When the hurricane damaged trails, destroyed scenic overlooks, flooded popular destinations, and disrupted the infrastructure that supports tourism, it didn’t just take away jobs—it threatened the very foundation of how these communities sustain themselves.

TOURISM: MORE THAN JUST VISITORS

What became clear in the month’s following Helene is that tourism in the High-Country represents far more than leisure activity. It’s an economic ecosystem that supports local businesses, funds municipal services, and provides the tax revenue necessary for infrastructure maintenance and improvement. When visitors stopped coming—whether due to damaged attractions or the perception that the region was “closed”—the ripple effects were immediate and profound.

Local restaurant owners found themselves without customers. Outdoor gear shops saw sales plummet. Hotels and vacation rentals sat empty. But perhaps most critically, the tax revenue that funds road repairs, emergency services, and community development dried up precisely when it was needed most.

Residents in Avery, Ashe, and Watauga Counties and neighboring areas quickly recognized that welcoming back tourists wasn’t just about returning to business as usual—it was about survival and renewal. Every visitor who chose to vacation in the

High-Country despite the challenges was directly contributing to the rebuilding effort.

THE RIPPLE EFFECT OF RECOVERY TOURISM

As communities began actively encouraging “recovery tourism,” something beautiful emerged. Visitors weren’t just coming for the traditional attractions; they were coming to be part of the healing process. They stayed in locally owned accommodations, ate at family restaurants, and shopped at businesses that were struggling to rebuild. Many visitors explicitly sought out ways to support the recovery, turning their vacations into acts of solidarity.

The influx of tourism dollars provides the immediate cash flow that many businesses need to repair and reopen. More importantly, it demonstrates to residents that their communities remained viable and valuable destinations. The psychological impact of seeing visitors return—of witnessing outsiders choose to spend their money and time in these recovering areas—provides a boost to morale that statistics cannot capture.

As visitors continue to return, these revenue streams begin flowing again, enabling counties to accelerate repairs to roads, bridges, and public facilities that serve both residents and tourists. Moreover, many tourism-related infrastructure improvements serve dual purposes. Trail repairs don’t just benefit hikers—they prevent erosion and support environmental recovery. Road improvements for tourist access also help residents get to work and school. Upgraded communication systems that help visitors stay connected also strengthen emergency response capabilities for local communities.

THE THANKSGIVING 2025 PERSPECTIVE

As we approach Thanksgiving 2025, the gratitude I want to convey in pen about the resilience over a tragedy a year ago has deepened and evolved. Residents are grateful not just for survival and community support, but for the recognition that their home is a place worth visiting, worth investing in, and worth rebuilding.

There’s also gratitude for the visitors themselves—people who choose the HighCountry of NC, for their vacations, their weekend getaways, and their outdoor adventures. Every tourist dollar spent in these mountain communities and throughout the High-Country represents someone’s conscious decision to support recovery efforts.

This Thanksgiving, as we count our blessings, let’s include gratitude for the recognition that choosing where to travel, where to vacation, and where to spend our leisure time can be acts of community support and economic development. In Western North Carolina’s High-Country, every visitor continues to be part of the recovery story— and that’s something truly worth celebrating.

THE GREEN CREEK COLLECTION : INVESTING IN VACATION MEMORIES

By MARTIE EMORY

Through years of dreaming, building and growing together, siblings Landon, Reece, and Heather Schlabach have made a shared dream come true in stunning fashion!

This is the dynamic trio that launched The Green Creek Collection — a real estate development venture that’s focused on creative, memorymaking, short-term vacation rentals. While their projects have varied through the years, the three siblings are dedicated to thoughtful design, strategic planning, and most of all — the idea of collaborating as a family. (And yes, they still have fun together!)

“As The Green Creek Collection, the three of us invest in real estate — a business we started together,” shares Heather, highlighting the importance of authentic team work, where each sibling brings a different set of strengths and talents to the mix. “Ridgeline was a project we never thought we could take on — and the fact that we did — and now we own it — is super cool for all of us!”

During a relaxed evening conversation on their parents’ back porch in 2020, the savvy trio (now ages 33, 31, and 29) tossed around ideas of building unique, memorable vacation stays that would offer everything families needed for an unforgettable escape from their daily routines.

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“At the time, Landon and I were already operating our short-term rental management company, BNBbreeze,” Heather explains. “Landon had long been pitching innovative, one-of-a-kind rental concepts to investors, though the ideas struggled to gain traction. Frustrated, but inspired, we simply decided to build the concept ourselves!”

Their shared vision and creative enthusiasm inspired what became The Green Creek Shipyard. The first project — a fully renovated 40-foot shipping container — was an intense collaboration. Reece contributed his outdoor expertise, Heather oversaw design, and Landon kept alive their entrepreneurial drive and spirit. The result — “Container 1” — quickly gained popularity among vacation guests, and the ever-enthusiastic sibling team moved on to a second project. When “Container 2.0” was complete, they had streamlined the process

considerably, learning what really worked — and what needed fine-tuning.

“Around that same time, we seized the opportunity to develop a larger-scale luxury rental, resulting in beautiful Ridgeline,” Heather explains. “A modern mountain property located in Lake Lure, NC, this is a dream vacation home with a heated pool, hot tub, fenced-in six-hole putting course, outdoor kitchen, cozy fire pit, and panoramic mountain

views. Ridgeline quickly earned its place as a guest favorite.”

An absolutely stunning property, Ridgeline is truly an unforgettable vacation destination, where relaxation is guaranteed. The home sleeps 10 guests, surrounded by an open-plan living area perfectly suited for comfort and style.

Besides awe-inspiring mountain views and incredible outdoor amenities, Ridgeline was designed with love — and the hope that as a welcoming vacation home, it fosters glorious family memories, new friendships, and empowering conversations.

“We hope you love the space as much as we loved creating it!” shares Heather.

Stay tuned for what’s next for Landon, Reece, and Heather — who know their best efforts and most amazing, picture-perfect projects may be yet to come!

For more information follow the siblings on Instagram @thegreencreekcollection and visit greencreekshipyard.com to catch a glimpse of their shipping container projects. Learn more about availability and amenities at Ridgeline by visiting bnbbreeze.co.

LKN MAGAZINE PRESENTS

SHOP LOCAL GIFT GUIDE

Holiday shopping around Lake Norman is so much more than checking items off a list—it’s a chance to discover one-of-a-kind treasures while supporting the people who pour their heart and soul into this community.

This season, every purchase from a local boutique or shop is a vote of confidence in the neighborhood businesses that make Lake Norman feel like home. From artfully curated gifts to personalized service that feels more like family than retail, each local store reflects the character and creativity of our area. By choosing to shop locally, you're not just bringing home a special gift— you’re helping to fuel the dreams of our neighbors and strengthen the legacy of our community.

So, make every gift count this holiday season: shop local, celebrate small businesses, and share in the story of Lake Norman.

#ShopLocalLKN #SupportSmallBiz #LakeNorman

UNWRAP THE TASTE OF LITTLE MOUNTAIN FARM! LITTLE MOUNTAIN FARM

This holiday season, give a gift that’s truly unforgettable — 100% pasture-raised, dry-aged beef from Little Mountain Farm & Cattle Co. Choose from curated beef boxes or create your own custom gift box, shipped nationwide straight from our North Carolina farm.

We also offer home delivery, digital gift cards, and corporate gifting options — perfect for clients, family, and friends who appreciate incredible flavor and honest food.

Location: Sherrills Ford, NC

Shop Online: littlemtnfarmco.com

Instagram: @littlemtnfarmco

Facebook: Little Mountain Farm & Cattle Co.

UNWRAP THE GIFT OF FLAVOR!

LKN OLIVE & VINE

Looking for something truly unique? Lake Norman Olive and Vine offers 85+ varieties of exquisite olive oils and balsamic vinegars — perfect for corporate gifting, holiday celebrations, or any moment worth savoring.

Location: 6608 Campground Rd, Denver, NC 28037

Instagram: lknoliveandvine

Facebook: Lake Norman Olive + Vine

IN-HOME YOGA & WELLNESS RETREATS FLOW HAVEN AT-HOME WELLNESS

Give the Gift of Wellness—at Home

This season, offer peace and renewal with Flow Haven Retreats. A 3-hour guided yoga, meditation, and mindfulness experience delivered to your loved one’s home—solo or shared experiences. Customizable and unforgettable, it’s the perfect way to recharge, reset, and reconnect without leaving home.

Phone: 419-377-8155

Email: Flowhavenretreats@gmail.com

Website: daniellemerceryoga.com/flowhavenretreats

ROBERTO COIN NECKLACE WINDSOR JEWELERS

Elevate your elegance with this 18K yellow gold Venetian Princess Carnival 17-inch necklace from Roberto Coin. Featuring a captivating medium flower design, it’s beautifully adorned with 0.18 tcw sparkling diamonds and 0.10 ctw vibrant rubellite gemstones. This piece adds refined sophistication and a touch of color to any ensemble, perfect for special holiday occasions or enhancing your everyday style. Available at Windsor Jewelers.

Location: 6809-D Phillips Place Court, Charlotte

Phone: 704-556-7747

Instagram: windsorjewelersNC

PARK AND REC GIFT CARD NORTHERN REGIONAL RECREATION CENTER

Give the gift of fun and fitness! Use the card for daily admission, program registration, or memberships. Available in any denomination (minimum $10), with no activation fee. Purchase at Northern Regional Recreation Center, 18121 Old Statesville Rd, Cornelius, NC 28031.

Phone: 980.314.6772

Online: Parkandrec.MeckNC.gov

MAKE SPIRITS BRIGHT— AND SHOP LOCAL!

HOME2COURT

Home2Court features festive finds including Cornelius Crunch peanuts, holiday cups, napkins, and more.

The perfect stop for easy, local gifting.

18056-4 West Catawba Ave, Cornelius 704.506.3752

LAKE NORMAN SWAG

LKN LOCAL

Calling all lake lovers! LKN Local has you covered this holiday season with Lake Norman gifts and high quality, comfy, flattering apparel that is on trend. Trucker hats, long sleeve tees and pullovers for those hard to shop for men in your life, sweatshirts and tees for the ladies, stickers for kids and stockings, ornaments and fleece blankets for neighbors and out of town guests… and more!

Visit LKN-Local.com to explore their locally designed and printed apparel and unique LKN gifts. Available for local delivery and shipping!

MAKE SPIRITS BRIGHT— ON THE WATER! AQUA VENTURE

Give the gift of lake life with an AquaVenture Boat Club membership. Enjoy all the fun of boating without the hassle—just reserve, board, and go! Memories made, not things bought.

Mooresville, NC | Denver NC 704-724-0996 www.aquaventureboatclub.com

MAKE SPIRITS SHINE— AND SHOP LOCAL!

BLISS BY THE LAKE BOUTIQUE

Bliss by the Lake Boutique has your holiday looks covered, including the stunning Liquid Leather outfit in classic black. Find beautiful styles for every festive occasion.

126 Mooresville Commons Way, Suite C, Mooresville 704.662.0007

BlissByTheLakeBoutique.com

FUEL THEIR HOLIDAYS! PUMPED UP FUEL

Skip the gas station runs and give the gift of convenience this holiday season. With Pumped Up Fuel, you can schedule regular fuel delivery for cars, fleets, RVs, and boats right to your driveway or dock.

Our monthly membership makes fueling simple and stress-free, with the option to add digital gift cards and corporate gifting for clients, family, or friends. This year, give a gift that keeps life running smoothly.

Call or Text: 704-776-3099

Schedule: pumpedupnc.com

Instagram: @pumpedupfuelnc

CHOPARD SPORT WATCH WINDSOR JEWELERS

Enhance your wrist this holiday with Chopard’s Happy Sport watch in 18K ethical rose gold and stainless steel with a red alligator strap. Playful, free-spinning diamonds and rubies dance between two sapphire crystals for a unique style that’s sporty and chic, all in one timepiece. Available at Windsor Jewelers.

Location: 6809-D Phillips Place Court, Charlotte Phone: 704-556-7747

Instagram: windsorjewelersNC

MAKE GAME NIGHT SPARKLE! HOME2COURT

Home2Court has all your Mahjong musthaves, from beautiful tiles to playful accessories and gift cards. Let them know what you’re looking for so they can keep your favorites in stock for gifting or playing.

18056-4 West Catawba Ave, Cornelius 704.506.3752

LUXURY WINE GIFT BOX

DYNAMIS ESTATE WINES

The Mountain 2021, presented in a premium gift box alongside two Josephinenhütte No3 wine glasses. A refined pairing of craftsmanship and precision, from vineyard to glass.

Location: 1004 Highland Road, Jonesville, NC 28642

Phone: 336.468.6702

Online: dynamisestatewines.com

GIVE THE GIFT OF EVERYDAY ELEGANCE! DANA’S FINE JEWELERS

Discover Michou Jewelry at Dana’s Fine Jewelry—handcrafted “wearable art” in sterling silver and 22k gold vermeil with natural gemstones inspired by Balinese beauty. Perfect for Christmas or any special occasion. Visit danasfinejewelryinc.com

CURATED ARTISAN HOLIDAY DECOR

JUELERYE | ARTISAN GALLERY & GIFTS

1. Glass Ornaments

Each hand-blown glass ornament is torch-fused with a delicate figure inside. Cardinals, symbols of love and hope, are customer favorites, while the full collection spans over 20 designs — bluebirds, hummingbirds, swans, sea turtles, foxes, and more. Complete with display stands, these meaningful ornaments are cherished gifts to enjoy during the holidays and throughout the year.

2. Whimsical Glass Gnomes

Inspired by Nordic folklore, these glass Tomte gnomes bring joy, protection, and a touch of mischief. Hand-shaped from molten glass, each stands 3.5–4 inches tall with colorful hats in 16 hues. Every gnome carries its own name and meaning, making them delightful to collect or gift. Playful and full of character, they bring cheer year-round.

3. Glass Holiday Trees

From classic reds and greens to frosty blues, golden elegance, festive plaids, and even Hanukkah designs, each glass tree is a one-of-a-kind treasure. Hand-cut, kiln-fused, and set on natural bases, no two are alike. With more than 40 named styles to discover, these collectible trees bring joy, sparkle, and personality to any holiday home.

Location: 112 S. Main Street, Mooresville, NC 28115 Phone: 704.728.9880

Only 25 spring detail spots available! Treat your favorite boater to a prepaid 2026 Spring Detail gift card—just $20/ft (regularly $25)—plus two complimentary power washes for those extra-pollen days. Perfect stocking stuffer, complete with a bow and receipt for gifting.

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SAVOR THE SEASON! PENINSULA PRIME

From perfectly aged steaks to the freshest seafood, Peninsula Primea is where Lake Norman celebrates. This holiday, buy $100 in gift cards and receive a $20 bonus gift card—ideal for sharing the gift of an unforgettable dining experience.

19918 N Cove Rd, Cornelius 704-655-2727 | peninsulaprimelkn.com

HOLIDAY CHEER STARTS HERE! THE TURTLE’S SHELL

Location: 3681 Terrell Park Drive, Suite 103, Sherrills Ford, NC. Phone: 828.620.7405 GIVE THE GIFT OF A SHINE! DETAILS MATTER

The Turtle’s Shell has festive home décor, women’s apparel, and sweet newborn gifts—perfect for stockings, showers, and under-the-tree surprises. Shop local and make spirits bright.

SPREADING THE L.O.V., HOW ONE LOCAL NONPROFIT IS CHANGING LIVES—ONE VETERAN AT A TIME

Alot can change in a few short years—especially when community, compassion, and purpose come together. Just over three years ago, Gini and Kevin Popko founded Love Our Veterans, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit charity with one simple goal: help local veterans in need. Since then, they’ve done that—and so much more.

When we first featured their story in LKN Magazine two years ago, the couple had just opened the L.O.V. Thrift Store in Denver, NC. With 6,000 square feet of retail space and 21 veterans served, their impact was already taking root. Today, their mission has grown exponentially—along with their reach.

Now operating out of an expanded 8,500-square-foot thrift store, Love Our Veterans has served 100 veterans to date— and they’re not slowing down. With Veterans Day on the horizon, the Popkos have set a new goal: to reach 111 veterans by 11/11. “It might sound a little silly,” Gini says with a smile, “but how meaningful would it be to hit 111 on 11/11? It’s a fun goal that keeps us motivated—and keeps spreading the L.O.V.”

For many veterans, help means staying afloat— covering a late car payment, a past-due utility bill, or rent that’s about to fall behind. “But

not every situation is that simple,” says Gini, who not only manages the store but also personally handles every application and interview with compassion and care.

Some stories are more complex—and more emotional.

“We’ve had veterans come to us in crisis,” Kevin shares. “There was one Vietnam veteran living in his childhood home, which was literally collapsing around him. We partnered with Purple Heart Homes to build him a brand-new house.”

Another time, a woman arrived with her dog, asking if she could pitch a tent behind the store. “We said no—and instead, we put her in a hotel,” Kevin recalls. “Within a month, she had a permanent apartment. And we gave her a vehicle—one of three we’ve donated so far.”

Other efforts include paying for life-saving surgery for service dogs or placing homeless veterans in hotels while helping them secure jobs and housing. At any given moment, the Popkos are connecting veterans with the resources they need—whether it’s transportation, employment, or simply hope.

Still, Gini is quick to point out that while she and Kevin may help “connect the dots,” it’s

the Lake Norman community that brings the mission to life. “We get thanked all the time,” she says, “but the real heroes are the people who shop, donate, and volunteer. Every single item purchased in our store goes directly toward supporting our veterans. Together, we’re doing this—collectively, we’re changing lives.”

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Isabel, Army Veteran, tearing up as Gini hands her the keys to her new vehicle.

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And the store itself? It’s more than a place to treasure hunt—it’s a hub of giving that rivals any big-box store in variety and charm. Inside the walls of L.O.V. Thrift, you’ll find everything from clothing and shoes to artwork, furniture, electronics, tools, appliances, records, books, and holiday décor—even vintage beer taps and wine crates.

New items arrive daily, and the warm, welcoming atmosphere makes it easy to become a regular. “Every purchase has a purpose,” Gini says. “You’re not just buying a coffee table—you’re helping a veteran keep the lights on.”

Whether you’re donating, volunteering, or simply browsing, you are part of something bigger. You’re part of the L.O.V.

GOAL IN SIGHT: 111 ON 11/11!

Love Our Veterans recently celebrated serving their 100th veteran—and they’re not stopping there.

With Veterans Day coming up on November 11, their new goal is to reach 111 veterans by 11/11.

“It’s a fun milestone,” says Gini Popko. “But more than that, it’s a reminder of how much can happen when a community comes together. Every single purchase, donation, and volunteer hour helps us get there.”

Join the mission. Help spread the L.O.V. and be part of making 111 on 11/11 a reality!

VISIT, SHOP, OR SUPPORT

L.O.V. Thrift Store is located at 6012 Highway 16 South in Denver, NC. Open yearround, it welcomes shoppers, donors, and volunteers alike.

Learn more or donate online: loveourveteransinc.com

Follow them on Facebook: L.O.V. Thrift Store

As we pause this November to honor the brave men and women who’ve served, Love Our Veterans reminds us that meaningful support doesn’t always come in grand gestures. Sometimes, it looks like a donated lamp, a warm hotel bed, or a used car with a full tank of gas.

It looks like love—shared generously by a community that cares.

Top Right: Army Veteran and his best man, service dog Mac, celebrating his wedding day. LOV funded the surgery Mac needed to stay by his side.

Bottom Right: Veteran in grey sweatshirt with his PTSD service dog — surgery funded by LOV.

Inside the LOV store in Denver.

Donald and Gini in front of his former home before it was demolished.

Kevin and Gini Popko with Donald, Army Vietnam Veteran, at his new home reveal.

One Man’s Perspective AMERICAN EAGLE

The American Eagle was launched in 1930 vessel. Today, she sails tours out of Rockland, Maine. She carries up to 26 guests with a crew of six. The deck is 92 feet long (123 including the forward spar). Her beam is 19’9” and her draft is 11’4”. There is one shower available to guests, and meals are served topside when weather allows. True to tradition, cooking is done on a wood-burning stove — and the meals were outstanding!

Our cabin was cozy. I couldn’t stand up straight in it, but Marianne could. We had comfortable bunk beds with reading lights at each head. Normally, we shower nightly before bed, but with only one shower for all guests, we had to adapt.

On our cruise, one evening we dropped anchor off a small island. The crew ferried gear ashore, then the guests. Before long, we were eating lobsters with all the trimmings on the beach — a meal to remember!

A typical day started with the American favorite,

we were gliding across the waters of eastern Maine, enjoying the sunshine, scenery, and

In one harbor, the captain pointed out a greenhulled sailboat, 125 years old and restored by a local school. After rowing ashore, we toured the school and saw the meticulous work being done on wooden canoes and other boats. Another day, anchored in a different harbor,

919 Backyard BBQ CHICKEN GREENS & GRAINS BOWL WITH TACO SALAD VINAIGRETTE

By TANNER JOHNSON

For this month I wanted to do a weekday favorite around my house. A chicken greens & grains bowl. It’s so much better at home and a fraction of the price vs. going to a Cava or Sweetgreen. It’s healthy, full of flavor and pretty simple to make.

Ingredients:

• 1 Pack of chicken thighs or breasts

• Romaine lettuce head (butter lettuce, or iceberg works fine too!)

• 1 Cup White (brown, any other kind) rice

• 1 Bell Pepper

• 1 white onion

• Chopped cilantro

• Black beans

• Seasoning of choice for chicken (I have been using Cuso’s Tequila Lime Habanero lately, it is great!)

Taco Salad Vinaigrette ingredients:

• 1/4 Cup White Wine Vinegar

• 2 Tbsp sugar

• 2 Tbsp Olive Oil

• 1 Tbsp taco seasoning mix (any kind works)

• 1/2 tsp salt

• 1/2 tsp ground cumin

• 1 Tbsp lime juice

• 1 Tbsp fresh chopped cilantro

Instructions:

• Mix all above vinaigrette ingredients in a small mason jar or bowl - set aside

• Season your chicken before lighting up the grill

• Start your rice if cooking on the stove or a rice maker, if using instant microwave rice just do it at the end.

• While the grill is getting hot, chop your onion and bell peppers, cilantro, romaine etc. You can also get the black beans cooking on low heat throughout the rest of the cook

• Get the chicken on the grill, I always use chicken thighs for this, and they only take about 10-15 minutes on high heat over charcoal.

• Once the chicken is getting closer to done, I’ll start sauteing the peppers and onions

• Pull the chicken around 175-180 if it’s thighs, 160 internal for breasts

• While the chicken rests for 5-10 minutes, finish sauteing the peppers and black beans

• Once the chicken has rested, I like to dice it up into small bite size pieces, lay down a bed of rice and romaine in a bowl, then assemble all the rest of the ingredients on top

• Once everything is in the bowl, drizzle that Taco Salad Vinaigrette all over and you’re ready to eat!

• The taco Vinaigrette and some fresh chopped cilantro on top really brings the flavors in this bowl to the next level.

For more recipes and demos, follow me on Instagram: @919backyardbbq

Joyful Journey FROM MEDIEVAL MADNESS TO MODERN MARVELS

By ROBIN SHUPE KELLER

The Lake Norman area’s cultural landscape is like a time machine that forgot to coordinate its destination settings. In one weekend, you can witness jousting knights, hipster coffee art, and 18th-century Moravian craftsmanship – all a day trip from the Lake Norman area. Welcome to the wonderfully unique world of our outlying areas’ arts scene, where historical accuracy and creative chaos collide in the most delightful ways.

RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL CHARLOTTE: WHERE IMAGINATIONS RULE SUPREME

Every October and November weekend, the Carolina Renaissance Festival transforms 25 acres near Charlotte into a medieval fever dream that would make historians weep – whether from joy or confusion remains unclear. Named one of the best Renaissance festivals in the United States by the Travel Channel, this event perfectly captures our sometimes questionable relationship with historical accuracy: in order to enjoy a day of enthusiastic fun and fantasy.

The festival sprawls across 325 acres of pristine woodlands with over 140 purveyors of crafts and food, plus non-stop entertainment on 14 stages. Here, you’ll witness the beautiful chaos of period-appropriate minstrels performing alongside guests dressed as everything from Shakespearean nobles to Star Wars characters. Because apparently, in Renaissance Festival Land, time travel is not only possible but encouraged.

The festival blends history and fantasy through outdoor theater, circus entertainments, jousting tournaments, falconry, mermaids, and fairies – because why stick to one century when you can have them all? The jousting is real, the turkey legs are enormous, and the commitment to “thee” and “thou” pronunciation varies wildly depending on how many ales the performers have consumed.

NODA ARTS DISTRICT: WHERE GRIT MEETS GLITTER

Meanwhile, in Charlotte’s NoDa (North Davidson) neighborhood, the Renaissance is decidedly more recent – think post-industrial chic meets artisanal everything. NoDa is well known as the vibrant arts district of Charlotte, where local businesses, artisans, homeowners, and renters work together to improve and grow their neighborhood.

This treasure trove offers unique experiences like Old News Vintage, Curio Craft & Conjure (where magical supplies and artisan crafts unite), and Mac Tabby, where cats and coffee create a harmonious haven. Only in NoDa could you buy vintage records, magical crystals, and caffeinated feline companionship within a three-block radius.

Art is everywhere in NoDa, from murals to street art and galleries scattered throughout North Davidson Street. The Evening Muse provides intimate settings where emerging artists and established talents perform, proving that sometimes the best cultural experiences happen in converted warehouses rather than marble halls.

OLD SALEM: WHERE TIME ACTUALLY STOPPED (INTENTIONALLY)

Then there’s Old Salem in Winston-Salem, where historical accuracy isn’t just encouraged – it’s the law. This living history museum represents the opposite end of the authenticity spectrum from the Renaissance Festival and therein lies its charm. Here, Moravian traditions dating back to 1766 are preserved with the kind of meticulous attention that would make a medieval reenactor jealous.

Old Salem, along with the Reynolda House Museum of American Art, offers glimpses of historical art and nods to the past, while Winston-Salem’s Downtown Arts District Association (DADA) around Trade Street features contemporary galleries, working studios, shops, restaurants, and nightlife in an ultra-hip downtown area.

The beauty of Winston-Salem’s arts scene lies in this juxtaposition: you can watch a Moravian baker use 18th-century techniques to create traditional sugar cakes in the morning, then spend the evening galleryhopping through cutting-edge contemporary art installations. It’s like having your historical cake and eating your modern art too.

THE BEAUTIFUL MADNESS OF IT ALL

What makes this area’s arts landscape so compelling isn’t the individual excellence of these venues, and many more not mentioned – though each of these certainly delivers – but their collective willingness to embrace contradiction. You can spend a Saturday pretending it’s 1572 while eating a turkey leg, Sunday morning appreciating 21st-century street art while sipping artisanal coffee, and Sunday afternoon learning about 18th-century religious communities while nibbling authentic Moravian cookies.

This cultural dichotomy, within driving distance, is a secret weapon in the local arts world. While some other areas specialize in one particular aesthetic or era, the vibrant Lake Norman area cheerfully embraces them all, creating an arts ecosystem where medieval fantasy, industrial chic, and colonial authenticity coexist like the most interesting dinner party guests.

Serving arts and culture to the Lake Norman Community

Dear Dr. Keith,

I’m a 58-year-old man who was recently diagnosed with cancer. I’ve been married to my wonderful wife for almost 40 years. We started a business together in our early twenties that has thrived. Working together all these years, we’ve successfully balanced our personal and professional lives, and we’re as close as we’ve ever been. We’ve raised two amazing kids and recently welcomed our first grandchild. Our success allowed us to sell our business for an amount that will enable us to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. A couple of years ago, we made the decision to retire here in North Carolina. The transition has been wonderful, and overall, life has been great.

My wife was one of the most upbeat and positive people you could ever meet. She always saw the good in people and was the first to offer help when needed. The only issue we struggle with is our communication at times. I tend to wear my feelings on my sleeve and want to deal with issues right away. My wife tends to bury or hide her feelings and brush things under the rug. Denial sometimes becomes her coping mechanism. We were extremely active and very involved in the community until I started feeling sick about a year ago. We were in a good place physically and emotionally.

That was then, and this is now. Since my diagnosis, my wife has changed. In a short amount of time, she has transitioned from being a cheerful and optimistic person to a gloomy and pessimistic one. Her energy levels have plummeted, and she blames me. I’m struggling to maintain a positive attitude during my treatments, trying to be strong, loving and supportive. However, my limited energy makes it hard to be optimistic when my partner isn’t. Since my illness, I’ve lost the energy to engage in most of the activities we used to enjoy, and I believe she resents this. We used to have the ability to sit in silence and simply enjoy each other’s company. Now, when we’re alone together or in the car, she can’t remain silent. She needs to talk, and most of our conversations revolve around negative topics. I understand that she loves me and wants to help, but it’s becoming increasingly difficult to be around her. My stress levels are skyrocketing, and not good for recovery. What can I do to support her and help her regain her former kindness and love? I want to heal and reclaim my wonderful wife and life. I would greatly appreciate your guidance.

ASK DR. KEITH

By KEITH O’NEILL, PH.D.,C.HT.

Hey Bruce,

I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a tough time. As the survivor of a traumatic brain injury, I can relate to how stress and fear can hinder the healing process. During your treatment, it’s crucial to minimize, if not eliminate, as much negativity and stress as possible. Your situation is unfair, but not uncommon. With the right attitude and commitment, you can overcome it. Focus on your healing, and establish an environment conducive to open and honest communication with your wife. This can be challenging for most couples. You both need to work together to create a safe space to be honest without consequences. Then, you can negotiate a solution that allows you to concentrate on your healing and her to feel secure.

I understand your dilemma. While maintaining a positive outlook is crucial, it can be difficult to maintain a good attitude when you consistently feel bad. As much as your wife wants to understand, she can’t because she’s not going through it. Be patient with her; we only know what’s in our own backyard. I recently spoke to a group of 300 Alzheimer caregivers about coping mechanisms and their challenges. The common thread among the group and anyone caretaking someone with an illness is the fear of the unknown. Once fear takes hold, it’s hard

to mitigate, let alone eliminate it. Your wife’s anger stems from her fear. Most anger is rooted in fear. More than a year ago, you were both happy, healthy and enjoying the life you created together. That’s changed, yet it’s important for both of you to keep telling yourselves, “this is temporary,” and continue doing the things that physically and mentally expedite your healing. I encourage you both to find a cancer support group for couples and explore ways to reconnect.

When you decide to get married, your commitment is to take care of each other which is easier when you’re both healthy. However, it becomes more challenging when adversity arises. You don’t want to burden your wife, so you choose to stay quiet, and when you’re quiet, she doesn’t know what to say or do. You mentioned that she’s become pessimistic and that her comments are mostly negative. Fear can do that, and she’s afraid, just like you are! It’s sometimes challenging for men to open up about our feelings because we’re not wired that way. I believe that revelation breeds intimacy. The one certainty in life is uncertainty, and it’ll be liberating for you to let her know that you’re afraid, too. Healthy, honest communication will help you both find peace and allow you to focus on your healing. Equally important, it’ll help your wife rediscover her genuine, positive and upbeat self.

Keith O’Neill Ph.D., C.Ht is a Psychotherapist, Professional Speaker, Author, Clinical and Sports Hypnotherapist, Mental Performance/Self-Esteem Coach and survivor of a life threatening head injury. If you’re struggling emotionally, need a speaker or a mental performance coach, visit theself-esteemcoach.com for more information. If you have questions for Dr. Keith, email them to keith@s-teamkids.com.

Bruce M., Charlotte, NC

CUCALORUS FILM FESTIVAL, WILMINGTON, NC

By ROBIN SHUPE KELLER

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when independent filmmakers, performance artists, and caffeine-fueled cinephiles converge on a charming Southern port city, look no further than the Cucalorus Film Festival. Taking place November 1923, 2025, in downtown Wilmington, North Carolina, the 31st annual celebration promises to be as delightfully unpredictable as its name suggests.

Yes, “Cucalorus” – a word that sounds like either a dinosaur species or a particularly exotic pasta dish. Founded in 1994 by the underground filmmaking collective Twinkle Doon (because of course it was), this festival has grown from humble beginnings into what MovieMaker magazine has recognized as “One of the Coolest Film Festivals in the World” for three years in a row.

The festival presents around 150 independent films each year, often controversial, with an emphasis on supporting films directed by women and people of color. But Cucalorus isn’t content to simply screen movies and call it a day. Oh no, that would be far too conventional. The festival also showcases performance art, fringe-style theatre and panels about social justice, rather than having just one art form, you can have several all colliding in beautiful, chaotic harmony?

The festival schedule is packed with more than 100 independent and international films paired with a fringe-style selection of performance and installation art – imagine trying to explain to your grandmother why you’re watching an experimental short film about existential dread while, later, someone in the corner performs interpretive dance with kitchen utensils. This is peak Cucalorus energy.

The festival’s commitment to being anticompetitive is refreshingly honest in an industry obsessed with red carpets and golden statuettes. Instead of pitting films against each other in a winner-takes-all cage match, Cucalorus celebrates the beautiful diversity of independent cinema. It’s like a film festival that went to therapy and learned to embrace everyone’s unique creative vision.

Wilmington, North Carolina – known for its historic charm, stunning riverfront, and as Hollywood East due to its film industry presence – suddenly transforms into a hub of avant-garde artistic expression every November. Picture stately antebellum architecture serving as the backdrop for experimental multimedia installations, and you’ll get the idea.

At the inaugural event, crowds wrapped around the block to see 16 local films, proving that even in 1994, people were hungry for something different. Fast-forward three decades, yes, decades, and that hunger has only grown, along with the festival’s reputation as a place where emerging filmmakers can take creative risks without worrying about box office appeal.

So, mark your calendars for this November adventure. Whether you’re a serious film buff, an art enthusiast, or simply someone who enjoys saying “Cucalorus” repeatedly until it loses all meaning, this festival offers a uniquely Wilmington blend of Southern hospitality and artistic expression.

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FREE seminar that informs people who have loved ones with a mental health condition how to best support them.

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BLU STAR GRILL: WHERE THE FRESHEST INGREDIENTS MEET CULINARY MAGIC

By MARTIE EMORY

Proud to have served the Lake Norman area for the past 13 years, Blu Star Grill in Mooresville, NC, continues to set the perfect stage for birthday dinners, anniversary toasts, celebratory meals with friends and midweek date nights that are simply unforgettable.

It’s the little things like fresh seasonal flowers on every table and the intimate detail of how they refer to customers as guests, as well as the bigger things like presenting the most conscientious staff around – a team that’s always happy to hear your thoughts on the latest dinner specials!

“We’re always trying to bring our guests the best of everything!” shares Owner Nelson Bass. “Listening to what they are saying helps us create new entrées for the menu. While we will always remain a family friendly establishment – with our great kids’ meal still only $5.50 – we’re also coming up with new and tasty items to keep things interesting!”

Their fall, winter and holiday menu speaks for itself – with tempting dishes made from only the freshest locally sourced ingredients.

Driving the evolving menu options at Blu Star Grill is Head Chef Fredi Martinez who tops every entrée with a little culinary magic.

Nelson feels especially blessed to bring Chef Fredi’s vast knowledge and expertise to his loyal guests. A seasoned professional in the industry, Chef Fredi introduces recipes from his 18 years of personal culinary experience.

His talents have been instrumental in every recent update of the excellent Blu Star Grill menu. Their most recent additions for fall and winter – as well as the upcoming holidays –feature guest favorites such as all wild-caught fish, fresh (never frozen) grass-fed black Angus burgers and Angus meatloaf, fresh natural “no antibiotic” raised chicken breast, fresh organic salads, Canadian elk and their many in-house guest favorites including delicious fresh soups and mouthwatering desserts.

Nelson shares their newer menu for the cozy fall and winter months will include more dishes featuring halibut, grouper, sea bass, lobster and crab Coquille. Several tasty new sandwiches will also round out the handheld portion of the menu.

For Chef Fredi, learning the intricacies of preparing these amazing dishes is personal. “Steak and fish both demand respect,” he explains. “With steak, it’s the perfect sear that locks in flavor – and I love finishing with butter, garlic and herbs in a cast iron pan. Fish is more delicate, which requires timing and a lighter touch. Whether seared or poached, it’s all about enhancing natural flavor.”

Chef Fredi enjoys the challenge of preparing both steak and fish to perfection. “Both require different techniques, and both bring out the best of land and sea on a plate!”

You’ll find mouthwatering combinations that include blackened salmon with blue crab mix, topped with a lobster cream sauce, and served with Yukon mashed potatoes and sautéed spinach. On the steak side of the menu, nothing compares to a five ounce New York steak topped with Asiago lobster cream sauce, accompanied by scalloped potatoes and grilled asparagus.

As a bonus, you’ll always know where your proteins are coming from when you dine at Blu Star Grill – and you’ll know how they were raised! Highly rated on the Gluten Free North Carolina website, the restaurant offers a menu that is 95% gluten free.

Change up your weekly schedule with a memorable lunch or dinner outing, or plan to celebrate a family milestone over the holidays at Blu Star Grill, located at 120 Marketplace Avenue in Mooresville, NC, 704.660.5577, online at blustargrill. com and on Facebook and Instagram @ blustargrill. Restaurant hours are Monday through Saturday 11:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m., closed Sunday. Nelson Bass and the Blu Star Grill team is also proud to partner with Watchmen of the Streets, an outreach mission of Habit Missions, to provide nutritious meals to our neighbors in need. For more information, email habitmissions@gmail.com.

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BELLA’S BACKPACKS, BRINGING LOVE AND COMFORT TO YOUNG CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS

By MARTIE EMORY

With heartfelt determination, 16-year-old Isabella DiFiore launched Bella’s Backpacks in February of 2022 at the tender age of 12. Although young in years, her compassion and recognition of those in need was already strong!

“At the age of 12, I didn’t really understand child maltreatment and the effects it has on a child’s development – all I knew was this was something I couldn’t just let go. I had many friends in elementary school who came from adverse environments, whether that be low income families or abusive households. At my elementary school, there was a program, Backpack Buddies, that filled backpacks with canned food for the children to take home every Friday so they and their siblings wouldn’t go hungry over the weekend. I remembered friends who were part of this program and how much joy it brought to them to be provided food for the weekend. This inspired my program – Bella’s Backpacks – an initiative rooted in providing hope and comfort to victims of child maltreatment, one bag at a time.”

Locally, Dove House Advocacy Center in Statesville, NC was the first organization Bella’s Backpacks became involved with, and Isabella now also partners with Mitchell Community College – Safelight (Hendersonville, NC), Guardians of the Children (High Country and Mooresville Chapters), The Dragonfly House (Mocksville, NC), Safe Spot (Wilkesboro, NC), the Iredell County Crosby Scholars and the Thomasville Police Department.

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Her beloved backpacks include a soft blanket, coloring book, notebook, colored pencils, crayons, hairbrush and comb, toothbrush and toothpaste, water bottle, snacks, stress ball, hand sanitizer, lip balm, a stuffed animal and note paper with an inspirational quote and Isabella’s favorite Bible verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Phillipians 4:13)

“Blankets, small hand sanitizers, stress balls, small stuffed animals and nice reusable water bottles are the items I run out of most often because fewer are donated,” Isabella shares. “I also customize the bags depending on need. Last fall, I sent more than one hundred backpacks to Western NC after Hurricane Helene – which included socks, gloves and toboggans.”

For the past two years, Isabella has hosted an annual fundraiser – Bella’s Heart Ball – during the month of April which is also Child Abuse Awareness Month.

“The Heart Ball raises funds and awareness for both Bella’s Backpacks and The American Heart Association,” shares Isabella. “Each year, we aim to get more and more people to attend the Heart Ball in order to raise more money for both organizations. The event includes a DJ, performances, food, photo area and a silent auction with items donated from local businesses.”

Isabella also speaks at various civic clubs around the area and holds local fundraisers such as a recent event at Jeremiah’s Ice Cream in Statesville – the perfect chance to spread awareness and encourage more local donation drives.

The daughter of Jennifer and Steve DiFiore, Isabella is also a gifted dancer and classically trained soprano who’s been competing in pageants since age three. She’s a title holder with the Miss America Opportunity, a nonprofit scholarship and community service

based organization that helps young women collect scholarship dollars, while becoming more involved in their communities. Dually enrolled at Mitchell Community College in the Career College Promise Program, as well as being a junior this year at North Iredell High School, Isabella also aspires to compete for the title of Miss America’s Teen as Miss North Carolina’s Teen.

In 2022, Bella’s Backpacks provided 225 bags, in 2023 they provided 450 bags and in 2024, they provided 620 bags. Through the end of September 2025, 437 bags have been given –and with Isabella’s passion and determination, the sky’s the limit!

“I’m so blessed and appreciate all the love and support I’ve received since starting my community service initiative. It may take one person with a vision, but it takes all of us to make a difference!” she shares.

For more information on Bella’s Backpacks –a 501(c)(3) nonprofit – you can reach Isabella at 704.500.7442, email info@bellasbackpacks.com or donate online at bellasbackpacks.com.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Disclaimer: Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites and social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.

NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 23 (SATURDAYS AND SUNDAYS)

RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL

9:30am-5:30pm (rain or shine), 16445 Poplar Tent Road in Huntersville.

The Carolina Renaissance Festival was introduced in 1994 with six acres of exhibits, attractions and entertainment. The event has grown into a 25-acre theme park filled with charming cottages and castles, kitchens and pubs, and a most unusual collection of people powered rides, games of skill and immersive entertainments – all nestled in 325 acres of pristine woodlands just north of Charlotte. The Carolina event has grown to be one of the largest of the Renaissance Fairs nationwide. Visit carolina. renfestinfo.com/about-us for more information.

NOVEMBER 1

FALL FARM CHARM MARKET AT BROKEN ARROW FARM

10am-3pm, Broken Arrow Farm.

Join us for our Fall Farm Charm Market this November. It’s going to be a day filled with vendors, food and fall fun. If you’re interested in becoming a vendor, please email Kristen at teaguekristen1894@gmail.com with all questions and application requests!

NOVEMBER 6

ENERGIZED SPIRIT WELLNESS CENTER RIBBON CUTTING

3-5pm, 110 Charleston Drive, Suite 108 in Mooresville.

We are thrilled to officially open our doors to the community and share our vision for a Holistic Approach to Wellness! A holistic approach to wellness is crucial because it focuses on your entire well-being of mind, body, soul and spirit. For more information, visit energizedspirit.org.

NOVEMBER 6

SIP, SHOP & STRUT HOLIDAY FASHION SHOW

5:30-8pm, Hilton Garden Inn, 159 Gateway Boulevard in Mooresville.

Enjoy a fashion show, food, drinks and holiday shopping. Free to attend.

NOVEMBER 8

NAMI WALKS

9am-12pm, Mint Museum – Randolph.

It will take all of us to demand victory over mental illness. That’s why we provide a safe space at NAMI Walks in everything we do, for everyone who joins our mission. Each participant will stand by you and walk by your side, every step of the way. This is your NAMIWalks moment.

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NOVEMBER 8

SYMPHONY PARK FALL FEST

2-5pm, Symphony Park, 12221 Sam Furr Road in Huntersville.

Our Fall Festival features a pumpkin patch, pumpkin decorating, live music from Trailblazers, a caramel apple station, fall cider and beer selections, and local crafts. Admission is free with tours of our beautiful community encouraged during the event. RSVP by calling 704.351.6404.

NOVEMBER 10

NAMI FAMILY AND FRIENDS

6:30-8pm, Sally’s YMCA, 1601 Forney Creek Parkway in Denver, NC.

A free seminar that informs people who have loved ones with a mental health condition how to best support them. It’s also an opportunity to meet other people in similar situations and gain community support. The seminar is led by trained people with lived experience of supporting a family member with a mental health condition. Register now at namicharlotte.org/event/family-and-friends/

NOVEMBER 11

“CASK & CATTLE” WOODFORD PAIRING DINNER

Peninsula Prime Seafood & Steakhouse, 19918 N. Cove Road in Cornelius. In partnership with Little Mountain Farms. Call 704.655.2727 for details.

NOVEMBER 13

2ND ANNUAL CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE

10am-7pm, The Turtle’s Shell, 3861 Terrell Park Drive in Sherrills Ford. The season for shopping is here!

NOVEMBER 13

HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT SWEETGRASS HOME

4-8pm, SweetGrass Home.

With Christmas excitement already in the air, it’s easy to skip ahead, but don’t forget about the cozy charm of Thanksgiving. We love helping you enjoy every moment, whether you’re dressing for dinner, hosting at home or finding thoughtful touches that make Thanksgiving just as special as the holidays to come.

NOVEMBER 15

CHRISTMAS BAZAAR

9am-2pm, Lake Forest Church, 8519 Gilead Road in Huntersville.

Absolute Hope Foundation invites you to our 3rd annual Christmas Bazaar. Raffles, bounce house, food and more! Free admission, 50+ vendors and pictures with Santa (reserve your spot today by texting “Santa2025” to 76278. All proceeds go towards helping local children in need.

Local honey made from the abundant variety of flowering plants growing around Lake Norman.

“The taste of local honey is something you will never forget. It stays with you like a fond memory.”

George McAllister, Owner, Bees of Lake Norman

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NOVEMBER 15

AUTUMN GLOW

11am-2pm, Uplift Skin and Body MedSpa, 21016 Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.

Celebrating beauty and skin health with Uplift Skin and Body. Bringing together a community of local women owned businesses. Enjoy refreshments, a Q&A with trusted providers, event specials and raffle prizes. Admission is free.

Visit upliftskinandbody.com/2025-autumn-glow-upliftskinandbody for more information.

NOVEMBER 19

LADIES’ NIGHT OUT

5-7:30pm, Bliss By The Lake Boutique, 126 Mooresville Commons Way in Mooresville.

Enjoy food, drinks, drawings and fun!

NOVEMBER 20

AMERICAN WATERCOLOR SOCIETY

“A FIRST LOOK” RECEPTION

6-8pm, Mooresville Arts.

Mooresville Arts invites you to “A First Look” reception for the American Watercolor Society travel exhibit. Enjoy a fun-filled evening of art, live music, heavy hors d’oeuvres, desserts, wine and craft beer. Limited tickets will be for sale for this special event. Cost: $50/person.

NOVEMBER 20

COUNTRY ROADS & CITY STREETS CONCERT

7pm, Grace Reins Farm in Maiden, NC.

Enjoy music from brother and sister due Daniel and Christina Eagle from The Voice as well as John Sullivan, also a fan favorite from the show. Tickets are limited to 125 and are $35 each available through Eventbrite. There will be food onsite as well as raffle prizes. Proceeds benefit Watchmen of the Streets – Habit Missions.

Visit watchmenofthestreets.com for more information.

NOVEMBER 21

DOWNTOWN MOORESVILLE GALLERY CRAWL

6-8pm, Mooresville Arts.

Four Downtown Mooresville galleries will be open: East Style House + Gallery: 125 N. Main Street, Four Corners Framing + Gallery: 148 N. Main Street, Juelerye | Artisan Gallery + Gifts: 112 S. Main Street, and Mooresville Arts: 103 W. Center Avenue.

Enjoy light refreshments while you stroll through these unique galleries.

THE STRESS ISN’T FROM THE WORK — IT’S

FROM WHAT’S STILL UNFINISHED

Lately, I’ve realized something important: my stress isn’t actually coming from the work I’m doing — it’s from all the things I haven’t finished.

My brain is constantly juggling a heavy mental load of open loops: half-written emails, unread articles, unanswered texts, and half-started projects that quietly hum in the background of my day. None of them feel urgent enough on their own, but together, they create a persistent, low-level buzz of stress that never fully shuts off.

Psychologists have a name for this — the Zeigarnik Effect. It’s the idea that our minds fixate on incomplete tasks, keeping them active in our working memory until they’re finished or resolved. It’s why you can’t stop thinking about that email you meant to send, or why your brain brings up a random “don’t forget to…” at 2 a.m. Our minds hate open loops.

And when those loops pile up? It’s not just distracting — it’s draining. That mental clutter saps our focus, creativity, and energy, even when we’re technically “off the clock.”

I’ve been experimenting with a few strategies to lighten that load and start closing some loops — not perfectly, but intentionally.

1. THE 2-MINUTE RULE

If a task takes less than two minutes, I do it immediately instead of adding it to a list. Sending a quick reply, paying a small bill, forwarding a file — these tiny actions are surprisingly satisfying. Each one is a loop closed and a little mental weight lifted.

2. BATCHING SMALL TASKS

I’ve started blocking out “admin hours” — specific chunks of time to tackle all those minor, nagging to-dos in one go. It helps keep them from scattering across my entire week. There’s something incredibly calming about clearing a cluster of small tasks in one focused session.

3. THE BRAIN DUMP

When my mind feels cluttered, I write everything down — every unfinished task, idea, and reminder, no matter how small. Getting it out of my head and onto paper instantly relieves pressure. It’s not about finishing it all right away; it’s about freeing my brain from the job of remembering it all.

4. PRIORITIZING RUTHLESSLY

Maybe the hardest part: accepting that I can’t finish everything. I’m learning to choose what actually matters this week — not everything that could, in theory, get done someday. Focusing on just a few key priorities helps quiet the noise and makes progress feel tangible.

Because here’s the truth: productivity isn’t just about doing more. Sometimes it’s about clearing space — mentally, emotionally, and logistically — so we can actually think, rest, and create again.

Does anyone else feel this? That quiet exhaustion that comes not from hard work, but from too many open tabs in your mind?

I’m curious — how do you close your loops and quiet your brain?

Photo Credit:

William Avery Photography

Venue:

The Ruth by Beau Monde