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My heart is heavy as I write this monthâs note to you. Like many of you, Iâve watched Hurricane Helene leave its mark on our families, friends, coworkers, clients, and communities. While the devastation is hard to bear, I couldnât be prouder to call North Carolina home. The outpouring of generosity and strength weâve seen is nothing short of remarkable.
Though I can't possibly name all the heroes in our community, I want to highlight just a few who have truly touched my heart. First, Joshâs Farmerâs Market, which many of you are already familiar with, has made a commitment to continue collecting and transporting supplies for those in need as long as our community keeps supporting them. Their dedication is inspiring.
Another hero is Greg Biffle, NASCAR driver and athlete, who, along with his wonderful wife and family, has quietly done so much to support relief efforts. There arenât enough pages in this magazine to fully capture the impact they've made.
Amidst all of this, weâre honored to have the incredible Vanessa McGovern grace our cover this month. I wonât spoil her storyâhead over to page 28 to read more about her inspiring journey!
The pictures here were taken the weekend before Hurricane Helene, at the beautiful Glamping Wild in Creston, NC. We spent the weekend hiking, making sâmores by the fire, and playing games, while the dogs lived their best lives. If youâre looking for a relaxing getaway, check out their ad on page 83 and book now for spring 2025âwe canât wait to visit again!
Lastly, with the holidays around the corner, donât miss our Holiday Gift Guide starting on page 46. Itâs filled with unique ways to support and shop local this seasonâlet's come together as a community in more ways than one.
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The Villa homes at Taylor Glen will offer windows and views in two directions. This maximizes light and creates space in these beautifully designed apartment homes. Itâs not just an entrance; itâs an invitation to explore a lovely home.
In these thoughtfully designed apartments, youâll find a place where connections are fostered, personal growth flourishes, and treasured memories are born. Whether youâre looking for a cozy retreat or a space to entertain, a villa apartment floor plan is perfect for you.
16 Bliss by the Lake Boutique: Celebrating Fashion and Fun
18 The Garden Room: Cozy Up to Fall, How to Choose the Perfect Fire Table for Your Outdoor Space
20 Century Communities: A Glimpse of Life at Waterstone in Sherrills Ford
26 Brighter Smiles of Davidson: Sparkling Smiles for the Holidays
28 COVER STORY Vanessa McGovern: Shopping Local Meets the Red Carpet
32 Peony and Gold: All for the Love of Flowers
36 Lake Ridge Outdoors: Connecting Families Through the Great Outdoors
44 Dynamis Estate Wines: Discovering a Hidden Gem in NC Wine Country
46 GIFT GUIDE 2024 Shop Local Holiday Gift Guide
50 CoolVu Greater Charlotte: A Clearer View of What's Important
54 Sweetbay Home and Gift: Your Holiday Stop for Furniture and Fun
58 Forgiveness: The Choice That Sets You Free
62 Bethel Presbyterian Church: Success! Port-a-Pit for the Children
66 Finding Gratitude Amidst Tragedy: Thanksgiving in North Carolina
72 Making it Work: Holiday Traditions for Families on the Move
74 Neighborhood C.A.R.E. Center: Where Hope Fills Everyday
08 The Publisher Perspective
Be Well Table: Creamy Roasted Red Pepper and Gouda Soup
Marzano Capital Group: Social Media's Impact on Your Mindset 34 Art Speak: Hilary Siber Edwards
38 Mother Nurture: Investing in Knowledge that Lasts a Lifetime
Trackside Talks: Off Axis Paint, Cover the Field 60 Ask Dr. Keith
64 Savor Local: Latitudes Bar and Grill, Miracle on HWY 16
70 One Manâs Perspective: Tales of a Telephone Installer-Repairman
76 Calendar of Events
82 Celebrations: Eric and Jasmine Martinez Tie the Knot!
by MARTIE EMORY
Time spent at Bliss by the Lake in Mooresville is so much more than simply a shopping outing âwhich was what Owner Charlotte Parris had in mind when she opened the popular boutique in 2019. Come in, relax a bit, try on outfits and accessories youâll love at first sight, and maybe even make a new friend! Charlotte is quick to say how much she and her staff cherish every customer â and they want you to leave feeling your most beautiful!
Bliss by the Lake also loves celebrating community and friendship, and with the biggest season of celebration upon us, they are thrilled to offer some exciting events!
Mark your calendar for their third annual Sip Shop & Strut Holiday Edition, to be held at Mooresvilleâs Hilton Garden Inn on Thursday, November 21st from 5:30 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. Donât miss this totally free event thatâs focused on fashion and fun, where youâll delight in a holiday runway show featuring 20 local models showcasing fall, winter and holiday attire from both Bliss by the Lake Boutique and The Give Back Boutique. Plus, more than 20 vendors will be set up for your holiday shopping pleasure, featuring clothing, jewelry, skincare and makeup products, holiday table runners, hot chocolate bombs, candles, wreaths, floral arrangements, honey and much more! Enjoy festive food and drinks with friends, along with a chance to win some amazing door prizes!
Bliss by the Lake also invites you to their earlier November events, including a Holiday Charity Fashion Show & Brunch sponsored by NorthMeck Womanâs Club on November 10th at the Charles Mack Center in Mooresville.
In-store events to add to your holiday calendar include a Brighton Purse and Jewelry Trunk Show at Bliss by the Lake on November 8th, a Sharla Jewelry Trunk
Show, date TBA (watch their social media for details) and Bliss by the Lakeâs Be Thankful Girlsâ Night Out on November 26th from 5:00 p.m. until 7:30 p.m.
Charlotte also happily encourages customers to host their own get-togethers at the boutique.
âWe love to host after-hours personal parties and events at our boutique,â she says. âPlan a fun evening with your friends, a fundraiser for your favorite nonprofit, a book club meeting or any event of your choice â right here at Bliss! We will furnish drinks, snacks, fun and, of course, the latest fashion!â
From a little shopping for your own Christmas stocking to finding the perfect accessory for your best friend, make Bliss by the Lake one of your first holiday shopping stops!
Bliss by the Lake is located at 126 Mooresville Commons Way, Suite C, in Mooresville. Store hours are Monday through Friday 10:00 a.m. â 6:00 p.m. and Saturdays from 10:00 a.m. â 4:00 p.m. Open
Sundays by appointment. Reach the boutique at 704.662.0007, email blissbythelakeboutique@gmail. com for more information, enjoy shopping online at blissbythelakeboutique.com and download their free app, available on both Apple and Android devices. Follow them on Instagram @blissbythelake to stay upto-date on all the exciting events to come!
As summer fades and cooler evenings approach, thereâs nothing better than gathering around a warm fire with family and friends. Fire pits and fireplaces have long been popular outdoor features, but in recent years, gas fire tables have emerged as the ultimate combination of style, convenience, and warmth. No more smoky clothes or ash in the airâjust the push of a button, and youâre ready to relax under the stars.
With the growing demand for these functional and stylish pieces, there are more options than ever. But with so many choices, how do you pick the perfect fire table for your space? Whether youâre looking to make a statement in your backyard or simply want a cozy spot to enjoy your pumpkin spice latte, hereâs what to consider when choosing your ideal fire table this season.
One of the first decisions to make is the material. Youâll want something thatâs not only durable but also fits your aesthetic. Here are a few popular options to consider:
Glass Fiber Reinforced Concrete (GFRC): GFRC combines strength and style. Though hefty, itâs lighter than solid concrete, making it manageable. It comes in earthy shades like gray, black, and brown, with finishes that can mimic stone or wood. Perfect for those who want a natural, rustic look without the weight or maintenance of real stone.
Powder-Coated Aluminum: If you prefer something sleek and modern, aluminum might be your go-to. This lightweight material is easy to move and clean, and it comes in a wide variety of colors and finishes, including wood and concrete looks. Ideal for those who love a minimalist or contemporary vibe.
DURAWOOD: For a more classic option, Durawood is as tough as it sounds. Itâs heavy enough to stand up to windy conditions, wonât rust or fade, and is available in an array of colors with a wood-grain finish. Perfect for those who want a lowmaintenance option with timeless appeal.
Fire tables come in a variety of sizes and shapes, from sleek rectangles to cozy circles, and everything in between. Think about how you plan to use your outdoor space and the type of seating you already have.
Size and Shape: For larger gatherings, a rectangular table may provide ample room to set drinks, plates, and dĂŠcor around the
fire element, while a smaller, round option may create a more intimate, cozy atmosphere. Unique designs, like wine barrel or boulder-shaped tables, add personality and can become a conversation starter.
Style: Whether youâre going for modern, rustic, or traditional, thereâs a fire table to match. Consider how it will pair with your existing furnitureâcohesiveness in design can elevate the entire look of your outdoor area.
Functionality: Think about the practical side tooâwhere will the propane tank go? Some tables have discreet storage for the tank within the base, while others require the tank to be housed in a separate side table. Also, check the heightâdo you want a table that works with dining chairs or bar stools? These small details can make a big difference in your outdoor experience.
A fire table is not just an outdoor accessoryâitâs an investment in your homeâs outdoor living experience. Like most quality furniture, prices can vary widely based on material, design, and size. At The Garden Room, we offer a range of options to suit every budget.
On the Low End: Our popular Nantucket fire bowl starts at just $599, offering a compact and stylish way to add warmth to your evenings.
Top of the Line: If youâre looking for something a little more luxurious, our large rectangular fire table, with a polished marble top and powder-coated aluminum frame, comes in at $3,499â an elegant centerpiece for any patio.
Whatever your budget, weâre here to help you find a fire table that not only fits your style but also delivers value.
With so many options available, finding the perfect fire table may feel overwhelming, but it doesnât have to be! Visit us at The Garden Room, and let our team help you discover the fire table thatâs just right for you. Whether youâre looking to host autumn gatherings or simply want to relax under the stars with a hot cup of cocoa, weâve got you covered.
Stop by and check us out!
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by ERIN CLARK
by MARTIE EMORY
If your new home wish list includes a life of leisure â with amazing lake views a given â get to know the experts at Century Communities Charlotte. One of the top new home builders in Catawba County, they proudly offer the versatile floor plans and open concept layouts that provide comfort, style and the simple joys of everyday living.
âCentury Communities stands out in the Lake Norman area due to its exceptional blend of location, superior build quality and remarkable value for price,â shares Marketing Manager Tammy Oches. âOur homes are thoughtfully designed with the highest quality materials â ensuring durability and aesthetic appeal.â
Boasting stunning lakeside views and lavish amenities, Waterstone in Sherrills Ford is currently in the selling phase. Imagine picturesque walking trails, a beautiful amenity center and recreational facilities that foster a strong sense of connection among residents.
âThe perfect combination of prime location and quality craftsmanship truly sets us apart, making Waterstone an ideal choice for those seeking a vibrant, enriching living experience,â Tammy adds.
Waterstone offers an inspired selection of townhome and condo floor plans, many with views of Lake Norman. The townhome collection includes the Stratford III plan and the Youngstown plan. The Stratford III is a three-story, alley-load townhome featuring 2,145 square feet, four bedrooms, three-and-a-half bathrooms and an L-shaped kitchen with an island. The Youngstown is a three-story, front-load townhome featuring 2,660 square feet, four bedrooms, a loft, three-and-a-half bathrooms and a generous kitchen with a center island. All of these exceptional plans feature stylish, designer-selected finishes and modern features.
To date, outstanding amenities available at Waterstone include a dog park, a fire pit with cozy seating, a kayak/canoe launch
and storage, and a paved golf cart/walking trail. Soon-to-be completed amenities will include a pool and cabana!
âWhen potential clients explore this Sherrills Ford community, they are often drawn to its lake proximity which offers an abundance of recreational activities like boating, fishing and relaxing by the water,â Tammy explains. âThe serene environment â combined with the vibrant local culture â creates an enormously appealing lifestyle. Sherrills Ford provides an attractive opportunity to invest in a beautiful home without compromising on affordability, making it a highly sought-after location for families and individuals alike.â
The epitome of small-town living, Sherrills Ford isnât only known for its access to scenic Lake Norman. It also attracts residents for its prime location near shopping, dining and a wide array of outdoor recreational opportunities at attractions like Rock Springs Nature Preserve. With a convenient location along Highway 150, Waterstone is also an easy drive from Charlotte.
Century Communities Charlotte currently offers 14 active communities throughout 12 North Carolina and South Carolina cities, with more wonderful options on the way. Other communities in the Lake Norman area include Cobblestone (Denver, NC), along with Brooke Forest, Brownstone Ridge and Oakridge Farms (Mooresville, NC).
Come discover Waterstone and start your new home journey at 6977 Waterstone Drive in Sherrills Ford. Sales center hours are Monday & Tuesday from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., Wednesday from 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., Thursday through Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., and Sunday from 1:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. For more information or to schedule a personal tour (in-person or real-time video), visit CenturyCommunities.com/CharlotteMetro or call 980.270.4701.
by KATHARINE ROSENTHAL, RDN
A creamy, comforting blend of roasted red peppers and rich gouda cheese offering a smooth, slightly smoky flavor perfect for a cozy meal.
Servings: 6
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 50 minutes
Total time: 1 hour
Ingredients:
⢠4 T avocado oil
⢠3 medium red bell peppers, roasted with skin and seeds removed
⢠1 small white onion, diced
⢠2 large carrots, chopped
⢠3 cloves garlic, minced
⢠4 cups vegetable broth
⢠1 tsp. paprika
⢠1 tsp. Italian seasoning
⢠1 cup heavy cream
⢠1 cup freshly shredded smoked gouda cheese
⢠Salt and pepper, to taste
Instructions:
1. Set the broiler to 500 degrees F. Cut the red peppers in half and remove the stem and seeds. Place the halved bell peppers face down with the skin side up on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Roast the peppers for 15 minutes or until the top of the pepper blackens a little bit.
2. Once the peppers are done, remove them from the oven and cover with foil for about 10 minutes. Once they have cooled off, peel the skin off and set aside.
3. While the peppers are broiling, place the avocado oil, onion, carrots, garlic and spices in a large stock pot and cook for about eight minutes or until the carrots are tender.
4. Add the roasted red peppers and vegetable broth, and reduce to medium-low heat to simmer for about five minutes.
5. Using an immersion blender, puree the soup in the stock pot. Add the heavy cream and gouda. Continue to cook over low heat until the gouda has melted and blended into the soup.
6. Serve with garlic bread. Enjoy!
Note: If you donât have an immersion blender, transfer the soup to a food processor.
For more recipes and nutrition tips, head over to the Be Well Table blog.
by STEVEN GALLO, CFP ÂŽ , FINANCIAL ADVISOR
There are a variety of viewpoints on how social media influences our society â both good and bad. After all, some people are spending hours a day on these platforms and we need to be aware of their impact. From our vantage point, weâre paying close attention to how these networks influence our clientsâ spending, saving, and investing habits.
Social media often showcases a curated and exaggerated view of reality. People donât often post about their childâs behavioral problems at school or about the stress of caring for an aging parent. They post about luxury vacations, great seats at sporting events, and fancy nights out. It creates a distorted sense of what is ânormalâ and can lead to an unconscious pressure to keep up.
Letâs say you follow friends or influencers who travel the globe, stay at the best hotels and dine at Michelin star restaurants. Maybe subconsciously, this alters the way you feel about the âstandardâ vacation you take to the beach, even though youâve enjoyed it for years.
Or maybe youâre seeing posts during the holidays of friends spending time in second homes. You might begin to feel that owning a second home is more common and necessary than it really is.
Remind yourself that social media often highlights the best moments of someoneâs life, not their everyday reality. Set personal
financial goals that reflect your values and priorities rather than the curated lives you see online.
To be clear, thereâs nothing wrong with traveling or buying a second home. In fact, proper financial planning can help you make these choices with confidence and within your means. Itâs just important to avoid the sense of never having enough or always needing to upgrade.
It should also be mentioned that social media has the potential to inspire positive financial habits as well. Many financial advisors, asset managers, and publications have taken to the platforms and can offer valuable advice.
Itâs all about what posts appear in your newsfeeds. You can influence this by the pages and profiles that you follow. Consider following pages that build your knowledge base, rather than aspirational pages of perfection.
Social mediaâs influence on our views of money, spending, and investing is undeniable. By being aware of its impact, practicing mindful consumption, and seeking credible information, we can navigate the digital landscape without compromising our financial well-being. Remember, your financial journey is unique, and staying true to your values and goals is the key to long-term success
âRemind yourself that social media often highlights the
best moments of someoneâs life, not their everyday reality. Set personal financial goals that reflect your values and priorities rather than the curated lives you see online.â
B righter S mileS of D aviDSon
As the holidays near and weâre dreaming about festive gatherings with friends and family we donât see often enough, imagine showing off a brilliant new smile for those important selfies and once-a-year keepsake group photos.
Letâs be honest â is it possible that a brighter smile is on your holiday wishlist? Statistics from the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry suggest only 50% of Americans say they are satisfied with their current smile status. If you are less than thrilled about grinning big in photos this season, itâs time to schedule a whitening appointment with Brighter Smiles of Davidson.
Owner Jasmine Egoavil has found her own personal inspiration for building a successful small business â and that philosophy brings as much joy to her as it does to her loyal clients!
âI strive to live my life by my favorite ancient Chinese proverb: âUse your smile to change the world, donât let the world change your smile.â It makes me so happy to know that our services can help so many people feel more radiant and instantly boost their confidence,â she shares. âA brighter smile can brighten your day and the day of all those around you â itâs contagious!â
What a wonderful thought for the holidays and as we embark on a new year! Some of the best reasons to schedule an appointment with Brighter Smiles include affordability and effectiveness, products that are FDA-approved and made in the USA, and knowing the process is safe for even the most sensitive teeth.
Jasmine is excited to introduce the brand new Beyond Ultra Machine that not only cuts down on sensitivity issues, but also lessens a clientâs time spent in the chair. Thatâs the perfect option for your busy entertaining and shopping schedule.
âOur new Beyond Ultra machine is the safest, most effective method to whiten your teeth,â explains Jasmine. âIt not only eases sensitivity, but also cuts down on whitening time by about half! The Beyond ll Ultra Whitening Accelerator features a unique combination of high-intensity LED lights coupled with patented ultrasound technology. For only $225, you can expect to see a difference of up to 16 shades whiter in just one session!â
Itâs also a game changer for the large number of clients Jasmine meets who have never had their teeth whitened and are wary of what will happen because of their sensitivity. Jasmine is diligent about taking the time to explain all aspects of the process, what realistic results clients can expect and any necessary aftercare instructions. To further soften the experience, she has curated her studio to evoke a calm, restorative ambiance where you can relax and listen to your favorite music or TV show, while beginning to envision a more confident smile to share with the world! (Fact: Many clients simply enjoy a nap during their whitening!)
Look for Brighter Smiles of Davidson to offer some fun giveaways for the holidays, plus specials coming up in both November and December. Stay tuned to their social media for events and updates â Facebook and Instagram @brightsmiles_davidson â or call 561.886.8081 to hear about upcoming sales or to purchase a gift card for someone special on your holiday list.
Now that youâre ready to book an appointment with Jasmine, visit brightersmiles-whitening.com. The studio is conveniently located at 21000 Torrence Chapel Road, Suite 104 in Cornelius, NC. Appointments are available Monday through Friday 9:00 a.m. â 5:00 p.m. and Saturday 9:00 a.m. â 3:00 p.m.
by MARTIE EMORY
by MARTIE EMORY
WHILE A TYPICAL DAY FOR VANESSA MCGOVERN INVOLVES THE CHANCE TO EMPOWER SMALL TRAVEL ADVISOR BUSINESSES ACROSS THE COUNTRY â WHILE MEETING SOME WONDERFUL PEOPLE â SOMETIMES THE STARS ALIGN FOR AN UNEXPECTED DOSE OF GLAMOUR!
As Chief Sales & Marketing Officer for Gifted Travel Network, Vanessa co-founded the company in 2013 to support travel entrepreneurship and the local professionals who are making it happen. âGTN is not the direct seller of travel, and we are not consumerfacing,â she explains. âAs a host agency, our role is to support approximately 400 travel advisors who are small business owners around the country, through a focus on business education, various programs and industry affiliations. Our travel advisors are among the most respected in luxury travel.â
Just as her professional career has been built on supporting small local businesses, Vanessa was thrilled to reach out to some of her favorite Mooresville small business owners when she was honored with the opportunity to attend the 76th Emmy Awards this past September.
While Vanessa certainly never thought sheâd be walking the Emmy Awards Red Carpet, it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience that offered her team the chance to connect with some amazing Mooresville entrepreneurs and spread our very special brand of Lake Norman community vibes all the way to Los Angeles!
âItâs proof that big or small, you can always dream big!â she says.
Vanessa attended the Emmys as a guest of The Ritz-Carlton â the official hotel partner of the 76th Emmy Awards and one of her own close business partners. Her whirlwind three-day visit to Los Angeles included a behind-the-scenes tour where she watched some of the eveningâs talent rehearsing, her own Red Carpet âmomentâ and the chance to attend the Governors Ball, the Emmysâ
well-known after-party. (And, while Vanessa met many celebrities that weekend, she especially loved meeting Connie Britton â whom she described as exceptionally lovely and down-to-Earth!)
Above: Vanessa McGovern with Dominic West from The Crown on the Emmys red carpet. Photography provided by Vanessa McGovern.
Left: Vanessa McGovern with Executives from The Ritz-Carlton enjoying an activation set up on the red carpet by The Ritz-Carlton at the Emmys. Photography provided by Vanessa McGovern and friends.
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A natural extension of her personal quest to support independent businesses, Vanessa was thrilled to showcase a few of her favorite Mooresville spots that were instrumental in helping her achieve her stunning Emmys look!
If youâre a fan of Juelerye in Mooresville (Vanessa is a frequent customer of the boutique known for artisan jewelry, art and memorable gifts), you already know that Owner Jacqueline Bassett is something of a master organizer â and Vanessa credits Jacque with basically acting as her âagentâ during preparations for this event. Once Vanessa had selected her dream dress for the night, Jacque offered her artistic expertise by suggesting exquisite Melinda Lawton earrings â a brilliant mix of Ethiopian opals, emeralds and diamonds â as the perfect jewelry accent. She also knew an iconic clutch from the Kent Stetson collection would finish the elegant look in style. (You can purchase your own finishing touches from both Melinda Lawton and Kent Stetson at juelerye.com.)
Now for that breathtaking gown that Vanessa wore so splendidly! A shopping appointment with Dina Haugstatter at The Perfect Dress in Mooresville was a given, and Dina shares that this beauty by Ivonne D, a montage collection, was the first style she selected for Vanessa to try on. âNone compared to this one!â says Dina, describing the black sleeveless, strapless crepe mermaid-style gown with classic sweetheart neckline, 3D organza layered skirt and detachable 3D organza cape.
Vanessa relied on the expert services of John Emily Studio in Charlotte for precise alterations and an amazing fit.
âIt really means everything to me to be able to support these local businesses and share the beauty of what they do, right here in our Lake Norman community!â adds Vanessa. âWeâre promoting the beauty of shopping local, with women-owned and women-led businesses.â
As a guest of The Ritz-Carlton company, Vanessa was one of only three clients invited to walk the Red Carpet and garner their own up-close Emmy experience. The evening awards ceremony was held at the glorious Peacock Theater in downtown Los Angeles, right across the street from The Ritz-Carlton.
Above: Photography provided by Richard Anthony Photography. Kent Stetson purse provided by Juelerye Artisan Gallery. Dress provided by Dina Haugstatter, owner of The Perfect Dress.
Left: Earrings provided by Melinda Lawton Jewelry and Juelerye Artisan Gallery. Featuring opals, diamonds, and emeralds. Worn by Vanessa McGovern.
When sheâs not educating and guiding travel advisors across the country, Vanessa is happy at home in Mooresville, with her husband, Don, son, Ethan, 13, and daughter, Ella, 10, who was especially delighted to discover her mom was going to be our âcover girlâ for November!
Experience the joys of Juelerye for yourself by visiting the boutique at 112 South Main Street in Mooresville. Shop both Melinda Lawton jewelry and the Kent Stetson collection on their website at juelerye.com, and stay updated on the latest designs and events by following them on social media @juelerye. For more details or inquiries, call 704.728.9880. The Perfect Dress is your local go-to boutique for proms and homecomings, mothersâ gowns, special occasions and quinceaĂąeras, and is located at 500 S. Main Street, Suite #116, in Mooresville, 704.978.9928, or online at theperfectdressnc.com. Boutique hours are Monday through Friday 11:00 a.m. â6:00 p.m., Saturday 10:00 a.m. â 5:00 p.m. and Sunday 12:00 p.m. â 5:00 p.m. And, for a perfect fit every time, John Emily Studio is located at 1222 East Boulevard, Charlotte, NC, 704.705.5282, johnemilystudio.com.
Above: Earrings provided by Melinda Lawton Jewelry and Juelerye Artisan Gallery. Featuring rubies and diamonds set in 18k gold.
Below: Vanessa McGovern (far left) and other agency leads with Anthony Capuano, CEO of Marriott International and Donna McNamara, Vice President, Global Luxury Strategy & Sales of Marriott International (right). Photography provided by Vanessa McGovern and friends.
by MARTIE EMORY
From the most delightful fresh florals ready and waiting in the shop each day to once-ina-lifetime celebrations that mirror the softness of romance, Laura Stephens has created a truly magical mix at her first stateside, full-service floral shop.
Located in Cornelius, NC, Peony and Gold has captured the attention of discerning clients since opening in early September, offering luxury arrangements and breathtaking event dĂŠcor along with simple wrapped flowers perfect to treat yourself at the end of a long day!
Laura has fully realized her personal dream to bring the wondrous feeling of walking into a designer floral boutique in London or Paris to the Lake Norman community. While she and her family moved here in 2022 for her husbandâs job â initially for only six years â they realized, after only two years, that North Carolina was destined to be their permanent home.
She had initially started Peony and Gold in 2017 in Northumberland, England, UK, and it quickly became an awardwinning bespoke wedding florist there, bestowing beautiful florals on more happy couples than she can count!
âI have always loved flowers, and I always had them around the house,â Laura shares. âI am very creative and was a graphic designer before I started Peony and Gold â so this seemed like a perfect way to turn a hobby into a career.â
With a love for luxurious, romantic, natural designs, Laura describes her dĂŠcor style as âEnglish country garden crossed with Bridgerton!â
A self-defined lover of âall things pretty,â Laura tends to favor muted tones with lots of texture, which she says she doesnât see as much here in the United States.
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âI typically create floral designs in softer, muted colors and I love classic white,â she adds. âI think delicate blooms and soft textures bring a sense of romance to a design that you just canât achieve with brighter colors.â
In addition to same-day delivery of distinctive arrangements available to Cornelius, Davidson, Huntersville and Mooresville, the shop also offers grab-and-go gifts simply to brighten someoneâs day. Laura feels blessed with two amazing employees â Jessica and Sheniz â who seem tailor-made for her creative mission.
âJessica is from Lake Norman and is such a fun personality, just a lovely person to be around. She keeps me organized with little notes so I donât forget things. Sheniz is also British, so she understands my British references and knows exactly what I mean when I go off on a tangent!â
Meeting with brides-to-be is a large part of Peony and Goldâs business, and Laura feels most prospective clients come to her because of her English garden-inspired style.
âMany brides donât know a great deal about flowers, and they trust me to create something beautiful,â Laura shares. âA color scheme is my most important reference but that doesnât mean we have to stick with only one or two colors. Sometimes bringing in subtle changes in tone can make an arrangement really pop.â
Laura is thrilled to be embarking on her first holiday season with the new business in Cornelius, with plenty of creative notions already in mind for Thanksgiving centerpieces in November, and Christmas floral gifts, centerpieces and festive wreaths for clientsâ homes in the month of December.
She also shares two outstanding recognitions the business has received â being selected for Style Me Prettyâs Little Black Book list of vetted and approved vendors, and an appearance on Junebug Weddingsâ list of the top wedding suppliers in the world. âWe are delighted to be one of only a few wedding florists listed in the U.S. and the only one in North Carolina,â Laura adds.
Peony and Gold offers nothing less than an impeccable high-end experience when it comes to setting the mood for any occasion, as well as personalized subscription services for your home or office, easily selected on the website. Treat yourself to the unmistakable luxury you deserve â as a blushing bride or as a lover of fresh flowers gracing your everyday surroundings.
Peony and Gold is located at 9606 Bailey Road, Suite D, in Cornelius. 704.237.8780. Store hours are Monday through Friday 8:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., and Saturday 10:00 a.m.2:00 p.m. Visit peonyandgold.com for floral and wedding photo galleries or to request a private consultation for your wedding, birthday party, baby shower or other momentous gathering. Be sure to follow Peony and Gold on Instagram @ peonyandgoldfloraldesigns.
by LAURA CZERWINSKI
This monthâs featured artist is Hilary Siber Edwards.
How would you describe your work?
I would describe my work as colorful, textured, spatial and nuanced.
Which other artists most inspired you?
Julie Mehretu, Vija Celamins, Gerhard Richter and Ann Gale are the artists who come to mind.
Where do you find your best sources for inspiration? Literature, conversations, Sunday morning sermons⌠a poetic line from a piece of music. Inspiration is everywhere! Iâve made paintings that are inspired by things as disparate as a broken piece of glass or a critical essay on prison reform!
What is the greatest compliment youâve received about your work?
The greatest compliment is when someone wants to have a conversation with me about the piece Iâve created â to know the âwhyâ behind the âwhat.â
What are you working on now that you are excited about?
I am currently working on a large three-sided mural in Uptown across from Bank of America Stadium. It is exciting to be working so publicly and so large!
What is one piece of creative advice you wish you had learned sooner?
âDonât worry so much,â and a sweet friend once encouraged me that âthere is room enough for all of usâ (speaking about the art world).
To learn more about Hilary and see some more examples of her work, visit her Instagram account at @hilary_siber.
by MARTIE EMORY
A haven for every outdoor enthusiast, Lake Ridge Outdoors in Denver, NC, has a new look and an ever-growing excitement for connections and camaraderie â all via the great outdoors!
Owner and Operator Travis DePree shares his passion for small business with his wife and co-owner, Lindsay, and both feel thereâs just something about the tight knit, small town feeling in Denver. Raising their two boys here seemed the natural thing to do â and they invite you to bring your entire family out to shop for all your lake essentials together, while you start building lifetime memories!
âWe've created a space where the whole family can feel welcome with samples from the grill, refreshments for adults and sweet treats for the kids,â says Travis. âWe encourage you to stay and hang out.â
After playing professional basketball overseas, Travis moved to North Carolina and spent most of his career in corporate and logistics roles at both Target and Amazon. Yet, he always dreamed of creating something of his own that would connect his family more personally with the local community.
âWhen our favorite local store â Denver Outdoors Co. â was closing, we felt it a perfect sign to take that leap, quite literally, when we spotted a âbusiness for saleâ sign on the side of the road,â says Travis. âThe original owner, Ed Young, had built something
truly special in our community. When he retired, we saw rebranding as a natural step to mark the next chapter of the store, while preserving everything we loved about Denver Outdoors.â
In fact, Travis says they love the area so much, it prompted them to bring high-quality products right to the community, so finding what you want and need is never far from home! Thatâs especially true for items customers prefer to feel or experience for themselves â as opposed to ordering online.
âWe focus on offering premium brands that support the lakeside lifestyle which you won't typically find elsewhere in Denver,â Travis explains.
That lake lifestyle is likely to include grilling and boating in the summer, tailgating and time around the fire pit during the cooler months, plus plenty of year round pursuits such as pickleball and golf. Lake Ridge Outdoors has equipment and apparel no matter what your favorite pastime, with the added benefit of building personal connections while shopping and gathering with friends at the store.
âMany Saturdays, we fire up the smoker for samples or set up the pickleball court in the parking lot for happy hour,â shares Travis. âOn Friday afternoons, you might find folks just hanging out, unwinding after the week. This is the best part for me âchatting with people about their grilling plans or helping them discover something new in the store they'll love. That's what makes this my dream job!â
The front of Lake Ridge Outdoors showcases Traeger Grills, Breeo smokeless fire pits and a variety of accessories, seasonings and sauces. They also offer premium lifestyle apparel, gear, drinkware and the ability to do custom engraving on various products such as tumblers, cutting boards, coasters, glass and even wine and spirits bottles. Plus, look for gift baskets and other fun gift items for the holidays!
A recently added brand that customers are excited about âTurtlebox â features rugged, waterproof speakers perfect for tailgates or an afternoon on the water. Youâll find Johnnie-O, a men's golf and lifestyle brand known for its stylish, highperformance fabrics, Free Fly apparel for men, women and kids, and the just-launched Rhone's women's line which includes golf, tennis, pickleball gear and cozy loungewear sets.
Whether youâre a true master of watersports, a novice grill master
looking to learn or simply ready to entertain on the patio and soak up cherished outdoor time with your family â Lake Ridge Outdoors has the right gear and every accessory you need!
Lake Ridge Outdoors is located at 1251 NC-16 Business in Denver, NC, 704.966.0320. Follow them on Instagram @ lakeridgeoutdoorsnc or email shop@lakeridgeoutdoors.com with any questions about their inventory. Store hours are Tuesday through Friday 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and Saturdays 9:00 a.m.3:00 p.m. â always the perfect time to bring the family!
by CLAIR CROW
When my husband and I found out we were moving to Mooresville three years ago for him to pursue a career within the motorsports community, a lucky connection was made with Greg Stumpff, owner of Off Axis Paint (OAP) and fellow Missouri Ozarks native. Anyone who knows Stumpff will tell you heâs the nicest guy in the world. He became an instant friend and supporter of my husband upon meeting which has been a huge blessing.
Off Axis Paint is an airbrush company that specializes in race helmets. Arguably the most important part of the racing uniform is the helmet which drivers are required to wear to ensure their safety. The helmet is also the only part of the uniform that can be customized to reflect driversâ personalities. OAP takes pride in its ability to not only create unique pieces of art for drivers to wear on the tracks, but also in its training to ensure no helmet goes out the door without having properly met safety regulations. Stumpff takes this very seriously as most of his clients quickly become friends, and you never want to send a friend out on the track with safety in question.
I was more than excited when Stumpff took time out of his busy schedule to answer a few questions about his journey to creating and maintaining a successful business right here in Race City, USA.
When did your love for motorsports begin?
Some of my earliest memories were at a local short track, but it was always dirt racing back when I lived in Missouri. I never really paid attention to what was going on in the NASCAR world since it seemed so far out of reach. Once I was old enough, I jumped in a truck with a friend, Will Vaught, who was racing a dirt late model at the time, and we began years worth of traveling the country to just about every dirt track from Florida to Arizona. This is when I knew I wanted a full time career in the motorsports industry.
How did you get your start in professional painting?
My story began as a hobby in the back of an art room at a small school in Reeds Spring, MO. I had a great art teacher, Matt Locke,
that showed me how an airbrush worked and introduced me to the business side of visual arts. By my junior year in high school, we were bidding jobs at other schools in the district and spending weeks at a time decking the halls with murals and custom art. Then, as a bonus at the end of it all, we got paid. So, I guess this is really where I became a âprofessionalâ artist. We were just having fun, doing what we loved and it never felt like an actual job.
After your move from Missouri to NC in 2012, how did Off Axis get its start?
After a few years of being on the road with the dirt team, I was still painting a few helmets on the side for drivers while living in Missouri. I continued to network with more people in the NASCAR realm while adding names like Kenny Wallace, Ken Schrader and Mark Martin to my resume. The more helmets I began to acquire, it kind of just snowballed out of control and the thought of picking up and moving to NC seemed like a realistic idea if I wanted to try to paint for a living. In October of 2012, I found a small storage unit to work out of, loaded up a U-Haul trailer and made the jump to give this career a go. I told myself that if I failed and had to move home in six months, at least I tried and that was better than always wondering âwhat ifâ when I got older. So far, itâs working out. I have a team of incredible artists working by my side. Noel NcEwen, Michael Sauers and Ryan Timm possess the same passion for quality, and without this welloiled machine, Off Axis wouldnât be where it is today. Weâre all incredibly blessed to have a career doing what we love.
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What project are you most proud of?
Everyone usually asks what my favorite helmet has been over the years, but itâs such a hard question since each one takes about 30-40 hours to produce. Each one of us in the shop really tries to make the next one better than the last. I would say Iâm really most proud of the helmets that have a story behind them. Whether itâs a helmet to commemorate a 500th start or a retirement gift for a long-time sponsor, I love to see the look of surprise or joy when they open the box. Every year, we paint a playoff helmet for Justin Allgaier. His daughter, Harper, comes in and helps us with every step from designing to the finishing details. It all comes from her ideas, and he has no idea what it looks like. We started when she was three years old, and sheâs now 11, so itâs become such a cool tradition in the shop. Itâs a great project everyone looks forward to, and I know having that timeline of helmets for Justin is special for him to look back on one day after heâs done racing.
What detail do you believe makes a good helmet a great helmet?
I really believe having our shop in Mooresville or around your customers is key. The helmet is the last piece of the car the driver can add some personal creativity to, so when they can stop in and talk face to face, it really helps us bring whatâs in their head to reality. Iâm sure some artists are different, but I couldnât imagine trying to do what we do strictly over phone calls or email.
Who has been your biggest mentor in the industry?
Iâve had a few over the years in different areas of my life as Iâve grown into a business owner, but Iâd say the biggest would be Sam Bass. He was NASCARâs first officially licensed artist and really paved the way for commercial artists in racing. He taught me more of the business side of things than anything. A lot of artists use one side of the brain very well, but to be well rounded and be able to use both to run a business can be very challenging. He taught me to not give up, and he set an amazing example of how to treat people. Since he passed in 2019, I canât tell you how many stories Iâve heard of people walking into his gallery and him stopping whatever he was doing to show them around or just have a long conversation with them. I really try to keep that same atmosphere alive in our shop today.
Besides being able to paint and produce incredible helmets for world class athletes, whatâs the most unique work of art to come from Off Axis Paint?
You literally never know whatâs going to come through the door here! Weâve painted shoes for Snoop Dogg, helmets for NFL players and guitars for tons of music artists. We stay booked up with helmets year round, so we canât take on as many side projects as we used to; but itâs always nice to take a break and paint something different for a week especially after a long offseason getting ready for Daytona.
Follow @offaxispaint on Instagram to view artfully crafted helmets you can expect to see showcased by some of your favorite NASCAR drivers!
Full throttle, Clair
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At Dynamis Estate Wines, we elevate your sensory wine tasting journey with personalized, guided experiences. Without the distraction of a traditional wine bar, each estate tasting is a curated, luxurious affair, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the nuances of our wines. We bring the elegance and sophistication of Napa Valley right here to North Carolina. Guests are served by knowledgeable wine ambassadors who are passionate about sharing the story behind each wine, making the experience both educational and enjoyable. Cheese & charcuterie and other small bites like the new smoked trout menu item are available to enjoy while visiting. Reservations are required.
The Dynamis Wine Club is a community of wine enthusiasts who enjoy amazing wine, private club events, and educational opportunities. Whether new to the wine scene or a seasoned wine connoisseur, all are welcome to join to obtain amazing benefits such as up to 20% off wine purchases, complimentary tickets to quarterly pick-up parties at the Dynamis Estate Home, reduced tasting fees for members and their guests, and priority access to limited-release wines. There is no yearly fee to join, scan the QR code on this page and sign up today!
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Landscapes like ours inspire poets, painters, and, thankfully, winemakers.
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Owners Chu Wong and Billy Phillips launched CoolVu Greater Charlotte in 2022, impressed by CoolVuâs high-quality products and lean operations. As a franchise of Window Film Depotâan industry leader for nearly 30 yearsâCoolVu offers U.S.-made products and superior customer service. âThe operation is lean and efficient, and we often get inventory in 24-48 hours,â explains Chu.
CoolVu provides a lifetime warranty on residential installations and a 15-year warranty on most commercial projects. Their products offer real solutions to everyday concernsâwhether youâre addressing solar, privacy, or security needs. With window tinting, architectural films, custom graphics, and mural options, itâs never been easier to upgrade your space while enhancing energy efficiency and protection from UV rays.
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by MARTIE EMORY, photography by STEPHANIE WISEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
One-of-a-kind style is in plentiful supply at Sweetbay Home & Gift in Mooresville, where Owner Courtney Brownewell and her team are gearing up for the very best holiday season!
Nestled in historic Merino Mill, the charming home dĂŠcor and gift store is a popular destination for gifts all year long and all the pretty things that make gathering with friends and family a joy. Youâll find the most unique furniture and accessories for your home, including luxury candles from LKN Candle Company, entertaining pieces to enhance every celebration and sparkling ornaments to adorn that beautiful family tree.
But, itâs their transformation furniture â both pieces for sale and their custom work â thatâs at the heart of Sweetbayâs mission. The store always has refurbished pieces, with a ratio of close to 2/3% refinished or âestate saleâ items that were already in excellent condition. Courtney loves mixing the old and new to create an eclectic feel, and she adores finding unique, affordable furniture for clients.
âWe work closely with our consigners, investing time to fix, sand, paint and embellish these pieces as needed,â she shares. âMixing old and new works well, since the older furniture is so well built, often from reputable manufacturers. We look for features like dovetailed drawers which you just donât find at a good price in newer furniture these days.â
This month at Sweetbay, you may also learn a new hobby that could jumpstart your own creative efforts for the new year!
For the perfect artful holiday gift, Sweetbay is hosting a Rustic Christmas Ornament Class on Thursday, November 7th, from 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Come out, bring a friend and make a distinctive rustic Christmas ornament with live-edge wood pieces and your favorite Christmas napkins! Youâll learn how to create beautiful ornaments for yourself, or as gifts, using either Christmas napkins you have at home or choosing from several options that will be available at the class. Call the store for more details!
If youâve noticed a nod to Makeover Mondays and Transformation Tuesdays on Sweetbayâs Instagram page â youâll see even more fun on the horizon.
âWeâve sold a lot of refinished furniture since we reopened,â explains Courtney. âSo, weâre now doing furniture painting classes once a month, as well as offering custom paint jobs for our clients.â
The Sweetbay staff will offer a furniture painting class on Saturday, November 16th from 10:30 a.m. until 12:30 p.m. If youâve ever wanted to turn a piece of your well-loved furniture into a stunning showpiece but felt intimidated by the process, this is the event for you! Join us for a transformative furniture painting class, and you may just launch a new creative hobby!
⢠Preparation: How to properly prep your furniture or other chosen piece.
⢠Tools: Learn types of brushes and how to make the best brush selection.
⢠Techniques: Discover painting methods, distressing techniques and other useful tips.
Remember to dress for some messiness as this class is hands on and perfect for anyone age 16 and older. As a bonus on the day of the class, participants will enjoy 10% off storewide â excluding consignment. Spaces for the furniture painting class are limited, so register soon to bring your creative side to life! Call or come by the store to sign up.
Now happily realizing her lifelong dream of opening her own boutique, Courtney is proud to be able to present customers with a fun, eclectic mix of the old and new while inspiring them to refresh and bring new life to their current pieces. Let the creativity begin!
by MARTIE EMORY, photography by STEPHANIE WISEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
Courtney is also beginning to offer in-home design services, as well as VIP Sip & Shop events where customers can âhostâ their friends for an evening of shopping at Sweetbay. Enjoy a private shopping experience with light snacks and drinks because nowâs the perfect time to grab all the seasonâs most unique gift items and accessories while sharing precious time with your girlfriends!
For the perfect artful holiday gift, Sweetbay is hosting a Rustic Christmas Ornament Class on Thursday, November 7th, from 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Come out, bring a friend and make a distinctive rustic Christmas ornament with live-edge wood pieces and your favorite Christmas napkins! Youâll learn how to create beautiful ornaments for yourself, or as gifts, using either Christmas napkins you have at home or choosing from several options that will be available at the class. Call the store for more details!
Sweetbay Home & Gift is a joyful shopping experience, filled with the most charming accessories and inspired dĂŠcor to add charm and comfort to your home this holiday season. Visit Sweetbay Home & Gift at 500 S. Main Street, Suite 111, in Mooresville, NC, 704.658.9792. Be sure to follow them on Facebook and Instagram @sweetbayhomeandgift for the latest in exceptional gift ideas and creative winter inspiration!
One-of-a-kind style is in plentiful supply at Sweetbay Home & Gift in Mooresville, where Owner Courtney Brownewell and her team are gearing up for the very best holiday season!
Nestled in historic Merino Mill, the charming home dĂŠcor and gift store is a popular destination for gifts all year long and all the pretty things that make gathering with friends and family a joy. Youâll find the most unique furniture and accessories for your home, including luxury candles from LKN Candle Company, entertaining pieces to enhance every celebration and sparkling ornaments to adorn that beautiful family tree.
But, itâs their transformation furniture â both pieces for sale and their custom work â thatâs at the heart of Sweetbayâs mission.
The store always has refurbished pieces, with a ratio of close to 2/3% refinished or âestate saleâ items that were already in excellent condition. Courtney loves mixing the old and new to create an eclectic feel, and she adores finding unique, affordable furniture for clients.
âWe work closely with our consigners, investing time to fix, sand, paint and embellish these pieces as needed,â she shares.
âMixing old and new works well, since the older furniture is so well built, often from reputable manufacturers. We look for features like dovetailed drawers which you just donât find at a good price in newer furniture these days.â
This month at Sweetbay, you may also learn a new hobby that could jumpstart your own creative efforts for the new year!
by DEBBIE BARR www.debbiebarr.com
Itâs practically impossible for any of us to go through life without sometimes stepping on someone elseâs toes. That means, of course, that sometimes itâs our own toes that get stomped on. Every time we are offended by another person, we have to decide whether we will forgive that person or whether we will harbor resentment. A simple choice, right? Sometimes yes, but itâs rarely quite as simple as it sounds. Thereâs a lot of confusion about forgiveness. And, that confusion often gets in the way of our forgiving someone. To understand what forgiveness really means, it helps to first be clear about what forgiveness doesnât mean.
Forgiving someone does not mean:
⢠that what was done to you is okay.
⢠that the person is not accountable for what they did.
⢠that your pain doesnât matter or that you should âjust get over it.â
So, what does forgiveness mean? Simply put, forgiveness is the decision to no longer hold someoneâs offense against them. Itâs the choice to cancel the debt it feels like that other person owes you. But, when weâve been deliberately insulted, violated or betrayed, and the wound is deep and painful, it can be very, very difficult to forgive. In fact, the more hurtful the offense, the harder it can be to forgive. So, how do we do it â and why should we?
Thatâs exactly what this book is about!
I learned so much in the process of researching and writing this book. One of my biggest personal âahaâ moments was learning that there are two kinds of forgiveness â unilateral and transactional.
Unilateral forgiveness is one-sided forgiveness. It takes place entirely within the mind and heart of the offended person. The person who caused the hurt is not even involved. Because unilateral forgiveness requires nothing from the person who caused the offense, it doesnât matter if that other person has asked for your forgiveness or not. It doesnât matter if they have no remorse for what they did. It doesnât matter if theyâre not speaking to you. It doesnât even matter if the person has died. You can still forgive them â because the purpose of unilateral forgiveness is to set yourself free! Forgiveness is for us, for our peace of mind and heart, for our happiness and for our spiritual and emotional freedom from the toxic effects of resentment and unforgiveness. Forgiving others brings about the inner freedom that God desires for us. This is where the title of the book comes from: Forgiveness: The Choice That Sets You Free
The other kind of forgiveness is called transactional forgiveness. This kind of forgiveness is interpersonal, between two people. It involves a conversation between the person who was hurt and the person who hurt them. Transactional forgiveness can only occur if both people are willing. Usually it means one person is asking for forgiveness, and the other person is giving it. But often, itâs both people forgiving each other. Transactional forgiveness has the potential to restore broken relationships.
This forgiveness that leads to reconciliation is not âforgive and forget.â âForgive and forgetâ is actually a myth â because we donât have the ability to just decide to no longer remember something. Painful memories may dim over time, but itâs not likely that youâll completely forget a deeply painful wrong that was done to you. Because of this, you may never get to the point where you feel like forgiving. The truth is, real forgiveness, like real love, is a choice. Forgiveness is ultimately a decision of the will, not the emotions.
If you struggle with forgiveness, I invite you to read this book. If you do, I hope it helps you make the choice that sets you free.
Dear Dr. Keith,
I am a 62-year-old married man who recently celebrated our 42nd wedding anniversary alone. My wife was present physically, however, mentally, she wasnât capable of being present since her Alzheimerâs diagnosis a couple of years ago. I was her caregiver up until a few months ago when she started becoming agitated and violent, no longer the person I married, a shell of her former self. Thatâs when I, with the approval of our children, moved her into a residence that specializes in Alzheimerâs care. I gave it my best effort to take care of her at home as long as I could without sacrificing my own sanity; I felt like I was going crazy. I love my wife and want to honor my marriage vows, to take care of her in sickness and in health. I feel like Iâve abandoned her, with the guilt and shame overwhelming me at times. This led me to finding help in the form of an Alzheimerâs support group. What had started out as a positive step in my understanding and acceptance of the situation, and comfort in knowing I wasnât alone, has now led to some confusion and more guilt. Iâve befriended a woman in the group who Iâm quite attracted to and have a lot in common with. Weâve met for coffee a few times, and the conversations have been amazing. The more I see her, the more I want to see her. Sheâs told me she feels the same and would like to take our friendship to another level. Her husband recently passed, and she knows my wife is still alive, and I visit her frequently. Sheâs fine with it and has offered to go with me for support knowing that my wife has know idea who I am, and her health is failing. According to her doctors, she doesnât have much time left. This is where I struggle and feel guilty. Am I cheating on my wife and dishonoring my marriage? Is it wrong to move on and create a life of fulfillment moving forward. Iâm lonely and confused.
Jeremy R., Cornelius, NC
by KEITH OâNEILL, PH.D.,C.HT.
Hey Jeremy,
Iâm sorry youâre struggling, however, yours is a challenging, yet not uncommon situation as Alzheimerâs has become more prevalent in recent years. It is unique to other illnesses because those of us who have lost loved ones to this horrible disease go through the grieving process twice, the mental and then the physical demise. When you said your vows, you didnât expect your wife to become ill, and she certainly didnât expect it. Illness is one of the unknowns of life, and nobodyâs immune to it. The one certainty in life is uncertainty. Life is not linear, and itâs certainly not fair; and itâs our ability to adapt, or not, that will determine our future and the quality of our lives. You still have a lot of life to live; donât let guilt, regret or shame tarnish it. The only time we should feel those is if we do something with intent to harm, hurt or deceive someone which you havenât done. I applaud your decision to get help and engage with a support group. You might want to consider working with a therapist to help with your grief and the inevitable loss of your wife. I donât know your background, faith or family dynamics which all can affect your feelings and decisions. Youâve been a good husband and are honoring your commitment to take care of your wife. Unfortunately, this horrible disease is shortening her life, not yours. As far as moving forward, what are you going to be comfortable with and what is going to bring you joy? People are going to talk and have their opinions. Donât allow the opinions, judgments and expectations of others keep you from finding that joy. I know youâre not getting any younger, however, donât be in a hurry. Relationships are a lot like trees, they both need strong roots to grow and need time and nourishment to flourish. However, give yourself the time to grieve and move beyond the loss thatâs coming before you make any life-altering decisions. As far as your new friendship goes, I recommend being patient. Iâve seen too many people make quick and poor decisions due to loneliness and the fear of being alone. Both can easily blur clarity, reasonability and lead to poor decisions, a direct road to regret. Itâs not the mistakes in life that are hard to live with, itâs the regrets, so donât be in a hurry, take your time. If your new friend is worth her salt, sheâll be patient, understanding and there for you when the dust settles. The potential for a life and relationship free from regretâŚ
Keith OâNeill Ph.D., C.Ht is a Psychotherapist, Professional Speaker, Author, Clinical and Sports Hypnotherapist, Mental Performance/Self-Esteem Coach and survivor of a life threatening head injury. If youâre struggling emotionally, need a speaker or a mental performance coach, visit theself-esteemcoach.com for more information.
If you have questions for Dr. Keith, email them to keith@s-teamkids.com.
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by ROBIN SHUPE KELLER
As North Carolina prepares to celebrate Thanksgiving this year, the atmosphere is imbued with a complex mix of gratitude and somber reflection. In the wake of Hurricane Heleneâs devastation in Western North Carolina, communities are coming together not only to share their stories of loss, but to count their blessings and support one another in the aftermath of the storm, as well.
Hurricane Helene, which struck Western North Carolina with fierce winds and torrential rain, left many families grappling with loss. Homes were lost or damaged, lives were lost or disrupted, and the emotional toll on residents is palpable still today. As people sift through the remnants of their lives, the challenges they face are significant â yet, so is their resilience.
In the face of such adversity, the spirit of community shines brightly. Neighbors are banding together to provide aid, share resources and offer support to those in need. Local organizations have mobilized, providing food, shelter and financial assistance to families affected by the hurricane. Many volunteers have stepped forward locally, around the state and entire country, embodying the essence of thankfulness by giving their time and energy to help others.
This Thanksgiving, many North Carolinians are choosing to reflect on not just what they have, but the strength and solidarity that has emerged in their communities, as well. Itâs a poignant reminder that, even in the darkest times, hope and support can flourish.
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Gratitude can be a powerful tool for healing. For those affected by the hurricane, acknowledging what they still have â family, friends and a community that cares â can provide comfort amid loss. This Thanksgiving, many are sharing their stories of resilience, finding solace in the small moments of joy and connection.
Families are gathering around tables filled with food, sharing meals that symbolize sustenance and togetherness. For some, this holiday may be less about the traditional feast and more about simply being present with loved ones. Gratitude practices, such as sharing what they are thankful for, have become a poignant part of many familiesâ gatherings, fostering a sense of hope and renewal.
As North Carolina reflects on the lessons learned from Hurricane Helene, there is a collective understanding that recovery will take time. The rebuilding process is just beginning, and the path ahead may be challenging. However, the spirit of Thanksgiving serves as a beacon of hope.
This year, as families gather to give thanks, they carry their own stories of loss and survival as well as the stories of their neighbors. In the act of giving thanks, they are also giving back, reinforcing the bonds that make their communities stronger going forward.
Even though this yearâs Thanksgiving in North Carolina is marked by a deep sense of loss and tragedy, a sense of gratitude, resilience and hope continues to shine brightly among the hard hit communities. Amidst the trials brought by Hurricane Helene, the people of Western North Carolina are finding strength in each other and recognizing the importance of community. As they gather to share meals and memories, they remind us all that gratitude can illuminate even the darkest of times, paving the way for healing and renewal.
The holiday season is a time for joy, reflection, and togetherness. For many, itâs the most wonderful time of the yearâuntil the logistics of visiting multiple families enter the equation. Between Thanksgiving and New Year's, families who have to split time among several households often face a juggling act that can feel overwhelming. Yet, despite the challenges, many families have found creative ways to make it work, ensuring that the spirit of the season remains intact.
For Jessica and her husband, Tim, holidays mean visiting both sides of their family, spread out across the state. Jessica shares, âWe realized early on that we couldnât be everywhere on the same day, so we had to get creative. One year, weâll do Thanksgiving with my parents and Christmas with his. The next year, we flip it.â
This alternating system helps avoid the pressure of squeezing in multiple holiday visits in a single day. Instead, each holiday is spent fully immersed with one family, allowing them to relax and enjoy quality time without feeling rushed. For families navigating multiple commitments, flexibility is key.
Some families embrace the opportunity to create their own holiday traditions that fit their unique situation. For Keisha, who has three sets of grandparents to visit with her kids, she realized they needed to stop trying to replicate everyone elseâs traditions. âWe started celebrating âThanksmasââa blend of Thanksgiving and Christmasâon the first weekend in December. Itâs become a day where we gather with one set of family, and everyone knows itâs âourâ holiday. No one feels slighted because weâre creating something special thatâs just for us.â
Blended or non-traditional families may also have to coordinate schedules for kids with different households. Mary, who shares custody of her daughter, learned early on that trying to split Thanksgiving Day between homes was too stressful. âWe do Thanksgiving on Friday, and itâs actually worked out so well. We avoid the rush and the pressure. Itâs still special, and we have a whole day together.â
Holiday visits can sometimes come with emotional baggage, particularly if extended family members have expectations about how things "should" be done. Open communication is critical to making holiday logistics work.
âBeing upfront is the best way to handle it,â says Sarah, who travels between her parents and in-laws every year. âWeâve learned to set expectations early. We let both families know well in advance what the plan is, so thereâs less room for disappointment or last-minute stress.â
She also advises setting boundaries to prevent overcommitting. âThere was a year we tried to do Thanksgiving lunch at my momâs, then drive an hour for Thanksgiving dinner at my in-laws. By the time dessert rolled around, the kids were exhausted, and we were stressed. We realized it wasnât worth trying to be everywhere. Now we donât rush, and we limit the number of places we go.â
For some, the holidays arenât about the specific day you celebrate, but the time you spend together. âWhat matters most is the memories we create, not the date on the calendar,â says Greg, a dad who travels with his family every holiday season. âWeâve had Christmas morning in a hotel room before, and it ended up being one of our kidsâ favorite memories. We made it fun, packed some small gifts, and had hot cocoa in bed. Thatâs what the holidays are really aboutâfinding joy in the small moments.â
The holiday season, with all its complexities, is a time when many families have to balance love, time, and logistics. Whether it's through alternate schedules, creative new traditions, or open communication, there are countless ways to make the season work for families with multiple places to be.
In the end, itâs not about where you are or who gets visited first, but about creating a space for love, gratitude, and togethernessâeven if it means celebrating a little differently. For families on the move, the holiday spirit can be found wherever they gather, no matter how many households are on the list.
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NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 13
(WEDNESDAYS)
10am, Location TBD.
Huntersvilleâs Miles and Smiles Walking Club is back! Join us Wednesday mornings as we explore all of Lake Normanâs greenways and trail systems throughout the fall. Register yourself and all your friends at secure.rec1.com/NC/ Huntersville-nc-/catalog. Cost: $20-$30/person.
NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 2 (ONGOING)
Born nine weeks premature, Marek Czerwinski spent seven weeks at Levine Childrenâs Hospital in Charlotte as a patient. As a way to give back, he chose to partner with a program called Inflatable Joy after developing a major love of inflatable decorations. He collects new, inflatable decorations (less than 4-5 feet tall) to donate to kids who will be in the hospital during the holidays.
Contact inflatedjoy@gmail.com with questions. Visit Inflated Joy on Facebook at facebook.com/InflatedJoy, and check out the gift list and registry at myregistry. com/giftlist/inflatedjoy. All donated items should be new, with tags or in the original packaging, and toys should be easy to clean and sanitize due to health regulations. At this time, cash, used, stuffed animal and homemade donations are not accepted. Deadline for donated items is December 2nd.
NOVEMBER 2
8:30-11:30am, Sallyâs YMCA, 1601 Forney Creek Parkway in Denver.
2nd Annual 5K hosted by Soul to Soul Outreach to support the homeless in our community.
NOVEMBER 2
10am-3pm, 2385 Old Island Ford Road in Claremont.
We are so excited to host our Fall Farm Charm Market again this year and canât wait to see all of you and our amazing vendors! We are looking for more vendors to add to the roster, so if interested, please send an email to teaguekristen1894@gmail.com.
NOVEMBER 2
10am-4pm, Charles Mack Citizen Center.
Come join for a fun-filled day of holiday shopping. Discover treasures for every taste and interest, from jewelry and home dĂŠcor to clothing, baked goods, paintings, lotions and more! Donât miss out on this free event â itâs the perfect opportunity to find one-of-a-kind gifts and enjoy the holiday spirit! Are you interested in applying to be a vendor? Download the vendor application at tinyurl.com/WFCS24.
NOVEMBER 2, 3, 9, & 10
November 2: 11:00am-1:00pm or 3:00-5:00pm. November 3, 9, and 10: 1:00-3:00pm. Dynamis Estate Wines.
We are excited to announce that our fall release pick-up event will be held again at the beautiful Crosby Estate. The celebration will include Dynamis wine, a Charcuterie table, and music. The event is complimentary for each club member and a plus one. Each additional guest will be $50 extra, charged to the membersâ account.
Join the club and RSVP at https://highland-vineyards.obtainwine.com/club
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NOVEMBER 7
6-8pm, Home 2 Court, 18059-4 W. Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.
Meet local author Kayla Rogue who will be signing copies of her delightful and inspiring new book, Always Squeezing Lemons. We canât wait to see you there!
NOVEMBER 8-9
10am-7pm (8th); 10am-4pm (9th), Davie Parks & Recreation, 151 Southwood Drive in Mocksville.
Food trucks available onsite during show hours. Live music and entertainment during the show. The DC Cruisers will be there on Saturday with classic cars. Admission: $1/person. A portion of the proceeds will benefit local charities. There will be 50+ local artisans showcasing jewelry, handbags, paintings, soaps, holiday items, home dĂŠcor and more!
NOVEMBER 9
9am-4pm, The Red Barn Marketplace.
Come out for Christmas shopping and enjoy BBQ with Little Mountain Farms and music!
NOVEMBER 9
11am-3pm, 3791 Club House Drive in Conover, NC.
Art Show at Rock Barn benefiting the Backpack Program of Catawba County. Local artists from around the area will be sharing their art. Proceeds from the silent auction help to feed children over the holidays. rockbarn.com/About/Rock_Barn_Art_Show
NOVEMBER 14
4-8pm, SweetGrass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.
The areaâs most anticipated holiday open house. We offer tons of giveaways from our vendors, Tacos on the Road food truck and Side Bar Cart offering specialty cocktails â all with your raffle ticket from any purchase.
NOVEMBER 14
6-8pm, Mooresville Arts.
Join us for the fall gallery crawl in downtown Mooresville! Participating galleries are EAST Concepts; Four Corners Framing & Gallery; Juelerye | Artisan Gallery & Gifts and Mooresville Arts. Each gallery will have its own exhibits, sales and specials, and artsy happenings! Free to attend!
NOVEMBER 16
11-11:45am, Everest Gymnastics Training Center in Cornelius.
Join us at Everest Gymnastics for our specialized skill clinics, designed to help young gymnasts of all levels perfect their technique! Our clinics provide a supportive and engaging environment where participants can build foundational skills while having fun. Sign up today! Cost: $25/person.
NOVEMBER 16
2-5pm, Symphony Park, 12221 Sam Furr Road in Huntersville.
This event is the perfect way to celebrate the beauty of the season with a day full of autumn-themed fun, food and activities for all ages. Enjoy a pumpkin patch, arts and crafts, savor seasonal treats, festive ciders and beers, and enjoy live entertainment from province of thieves. Tickets will be sold at the event for the purchase of food, drinks and crafts. We will be accepting cash or card. Everyone is encouraged to dress in their favorite fall attire!
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NOVEMBER 17
2-3pm, Mooresville Arts.
Join us for our last installment in our fall art lecture series! Art historian and curator Marisa Pascucci will give a presentation on history of women artists in art history. Our art lecture series is free to attend as it is our gift to the community. Join us!
NOVEMBER 23
6-9pm, Everest Gymnastics Training Center in Cornelius.
Looking for a fun and active evening for your kids? Everest Gymnastics offers Parentsâ Night Out where kids enjoy exciting gymnastics activities like trampoline jumping, foam pits and tumble tracks. Theyâll have a blast while improving their gymnastics skills through structured play. The night also includes pizza, music and social games. Cost: $45 (non-members), $40 (members), $30 (siblings). Spots are limited, so reserve today!
DECEMBER 14
9am-2pm, Bethel Presbyterian Church.
Enjoy the world-famous Port-A-Pit, chicken BBQ plate, bake sale, wreaths, art, jewelry, homemade greeting cards, beautiful glass angels, childrenâs art table, Christmas music, Christmas stories, fascinating hat vendor and many, many more! 100% of the proceeds will go directly to Childrenâs Hope Alliance of Troutman, NC.
DECEMBER 14
6-9pm, Everest Gymnastics Training Center in Cornelius.
Looking for a fun and active evening for your kids? Everest Gymnastics offers Parentsâ Night Out where kids enjoy exciting gymnastics activities like trampoline jumping, foam pits and tumble tracks. Theyâll have a blast while improving their gymnastics skills through structured play. The night also includes pizza, music and social games. Cost: $45 (non-members), $40 (members), $30 (siblings). Spots are limited, so reserve today!
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CHEERS TO LOVE, LAUGHTER, AND FOREVER AFTER!
Eric and Jasmine Martinez, owners of Brighter Smiles Teeth Whitening, tied the knot on October 1st in beautiful Santorini, Greece. The happy couple resides in Davidson with their two daughters, Elena and Aubrey. With their family growing, theyâre excited to expand their business across Lake Norman and Charlotte!