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Summer at Old Salem

Visit

Old Salem and Museum of Early Southern Decorative Arts (MESDA) are open Wednesday through Saturday, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. For more information, visit oldsalem.org

SPECIAL EVENTS DURING JULY:

July 19th, 6:30-8:00 PM Join Old Salem’s Domestic Skills team for an exclusive wood-fired oven baking demonstration and learn to make traditional Moravian sugar cake on Friday, July 19th, from 6:30 – 8:00 PM at The Single Brother’s Workshop Kitchen. Tickets are $50 per person, with a capacity of 12 participants ages 16 and up (under 18 must be accompanied by a ticketed adult).

Come take a vacation in your own backyard this summer with Salem Saturdays, 10 AM – 4 PM!

Anthony L. Masciello MD, FACOG

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C. Aaron Thompson MD, FACOG

Ray M. Braquet MD, FACOG

Happy July!

We’re thrilled to bring you another issue of Forsyth Family! From baby purchases to make your life easier as a busy mom (page 12), to discovering another hidden gem in Forsyth County (page 32), to boating safety for toddlers and kids (page 54), and an article on one of downtown Winston’s must-visit dining spots (page 56)… we’ve got something for everyone and plenty of ideas to add to your summer bucket list.

Summer is my most-loved season. Put me near any body of water and in the sunshine, and I am one happy girl. Summer also means ice cream season, and I’m always here for that! Trying out new, local ice cream spots is one of my favorite summertime hobbies.

A few must-trys:

- The “Kernersville Krunch” Sundae at Whit’s Frozen Custard in Kernersville

- The “Winston Worm” at Twin City Sweets

- Mini Ice Cream Cakes at Gnarly Blends in Bailey Park

- Sea Salt Caramel ice cream in a waffle cone at Kilwin’s at Thruway

This month is special! We’re celebrating a milestone birthday for my mom (KeeKee)! She turns 65 on July 15th!!!! She makes 65 seem like 35 with the amount of energy she has. I treasure our daily morning walks where we chat on the phone and make a game plan for the day. We call it our ‘morning meeting.’ She’s the epitome of “it’s never too late to follow your dreams!” She started LKN Magazine (the FIFTH magazine she’s started in her lifetime) at age 63 and has never looked back. I’m so proud of her and grateful to have her as my mom. Happy Birthday KeeKee, we love you so much!

Wishing you a month full of time with family and friends in the sunshine!

All my best,

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My Favorite Baby Purchases That

I Actually Use

Baby Items That Have Made My Life Easier As A Busy Mom

by SUZY FIELDERS

As a mom in today’s digital world, it feels like I am constantly bombarded with ads or advice on all the things I need to buy for my babies. I have two younger daughters, one who just turned a year old and a toddler who just turned two years old.

I also have a 17-year-old daughter, and so many of the things available for babies now were not even around then – and yet we survived. That said, there are some things that are newer or maybe just more popular now that do make life a bit easier! I wanted to share those things in hopes it helps some other tired and busy moms like myself!

DOUBLE STROLLER

If you have two little ones under 4 or 5, then I highly recommend a double stroller. There are so many options. We have one that has the seats in front of one another vs. side by side which makes it easier to go through doors. I love ours, and it makes things so much easier than when we have to use two strollers.

BABY FOOD POUCHES

These make life so much easier when you are on the go or in a rush. They don’t require spoons like baby food. Also, the combinations are ones my girls seem to love more than the ones baby food jars/ containers offer. It’s so easy to throw these in the diaper bag to have for lunch or dinner. One thing to note though if they don’t finish it in one sitting and you’ll be gone for a while is that you’ll need to trash the leftovers since it goes bad after opening if not refrigerated.

PLAYPEN

For our middle daughter’s first birthday last year, she got a playpen and a mat for it since we have hardwood floors. I put puzzles, books and toys in it, and it is such a great space for her to freely and safely play. After our youngest daughter started sitting up and crawling on her own, she started enjoying it as well. They have so much fun playing in there together!

BOUNCERS

Both my girls loved these from about five or six months old to around nine or 10 months. They would wear themselves out bouncing and playing in it. For our middle daughter, it was wonderful for meal times because, after she was done eating, she’d play in it and we could have a meal in peace!

PLAYARDS

These are great to put little ones in at naptime and bedtime, especially while traveling. Plus, if you need to do something around the house, it’s a great space to put them in that’s safe if you need to do something quickly in another room.

CHANGING PADS

While we have two changing tables, one in each little’s room upstairs, we often end up changing them on our bed or downstairs on the couch. Having a baby pee while changing them or a massive blow out is unfortunately inevitable. Luckily, we throw a blanket and pad down before changing to save our furniture and bedspread!

Casual Furniture World

The Art of Outdoor Living

by MARTIE EMORY

Family

owned and operated for 40 years, Casual Furniture World is an icon in the Triad area, with a polished sense of style and dedication to the customer experience. This savvy team is eager to guide you in making the most of your treasured outdoor living space – keeping time spent with family and friends a top priority.

As there’s still time to spruce up for summer (plus, July is the perfect month to think forward to fire pits and fall updates) in-house sales and design consultant Becky DeBruhl shares expert advice for launching a seamless outdoor space transformation. Offering complimentary design service at all three Casual Furniture World showrooms, or from the comfort of your home, a design consultation always begins with a question of focus – is outdoor dining your main mission or do you want stylish seating to gather comfortably with neighbors at the end of the day? What might be your typical number of guests for a night of entertaining? Are you all about the full grilling experience or casual bites and cocktails?

While your ultimate dream is a well-designed space that’s welcoming and functional, what you love in the Casual Furniture World showroom – or online – might not be well-suited for your current space. That’s where a “space plan” saves the day.

“Always be mindful of scale,” Becky shares. “I listen to what a client wants, and then I tell them what will fit! If their outdoor area is spacious enough, I may offer two or three scenarios.”

A crucial part of the design team’s initial services is creating blueprints and digital floor plans to help you visualize – and fully appreciate the space with which you have to work. Another early step in the design process is zeroing in on what’s your perfect view. Becky stresses finding a focal point for your outdoor setting – maybe it’s a beautiful wooded view, the lake or a fabulous outdoor stone fireplace. Then, curate a “conversation area” around that focal point with well-balanced furniture, a stylish rug and fun accents. Casual Furniture World collections can always be customized with only the specific pieces that work best for your space.

And, while it may seem obvious, remember to be mindful of traffic flow in your outdoor space, with an easy path for guests to move about – and go inside – as needed.

“Your outdoor space should flow from inside your home,” says Becky. “Keep the look consistent, and create your outdoor space to be a continuation of the unique ambiance you’ve created indoors.”

With popular Sunbrella fabric and other acrylic options that can easily last a lifetime, color and style choices are endless. So endless, in fact, that Becky says she’ll typically narrow a wide selection down to two or three options for a client. For example, an aluminum sofa might come in 24 different colors which can be daunting. She’s a fan of staying with neutral textures, adding color with toss pillows or custom cushions. And, if you’re starting small and can only make a few changes this season, think along the lines of a pretty new rug, cool lighting fixtures or colorful blooming plants. The popularity of outdoor cooking seems to increase with every season and can be as simple as a built-in gas grill in one of their outdoor kitchen islands, all the way to the investment of a fully equipped kitchen if the size of your outdoor space allows. Thanks to continuing advancements in outdoor heating accessories and our wonderful climate, outdoor cooking and dining has become basically a year-round activity!

Visit your closest Casual Furniture World showroom, or schedule a consultation online, so their professionally trained sales and design team can help you realize your vision for a new cozy outdoor space – not just for summer, but all year long! They are located at 1500 Hanes Mall Boulevard in Winston-Salem, 336.760.1766, in Greensboro at 3809 Lawndale Drive, 336.252.2640 and online at casualfurnitureworld.com. Hours are Monday through Saturday 9:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., and Sunday from 12:00 p.m – 5:00 p.m. You can also visit their showroom in Myrtle Beach, SC and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @CasualFurnitureWorld.

Let’s Get Crafty:

Art Projects for Family Bonding

by SHERIDAN WATKINS

OUTSIDE CRAFTS

Let nature be your muse with these outdoor craft projects:

1. Nature Wind Chimes: Gather twigs, pinecones, leaves and anything else. String them together with colorful beads or bells to create beautiful wind chimes for your garden. You can even make it a competition for whose chime has the loveliest or loudest sound when the wind blows.

2. Rock Painting: Collect smooth rocks and use acrylic paints to turn them into adorable creatures, designs or inspirational quotes. You can keep them to decorate your house or even hide them around your neighborhood for others to find and enjoy!

3. Sun Prints: Place objects like leaves, flowers or small toys or objects on light-sensitive paper and expose them to sunlight. Wait about 15 minutes and watch as the sun creates stunning silhouettes. You can look up this project on YouTube if you need guidance. This is a great way to show how much we should appreciate and work with the natural elements.

NON-MESSY CRAFTS

For those days when you want to get crafty without the cleanup, I suggest searching online for some examples and trying these projects:

1. Origami Animals: Fold colorful paper into intricate origami animals like cranes, frogs or butterflies. The best part about this craft is it can be easy or complex, so there are levels to challenge everyone.

2. Decorative Paper Lanterns: Use colored paper, scissors and small amounts of glue to create cool paper lanterns that you can hang indoors or in your backyard. Experiment with different shapes and sizes, and buy some lightweight string lights to give them a glowing effect at night. As it transitions to evening, here’s another moment for you to bond as a family and appreciate your artwork together.

Summer is a great time to explore new and fun art projects and DIY crafts together that will make beautiful memories. Make sure you take pictures, so you’ll have them for years to come. Let’s explore some fun ideas that include everyone’s interests.

FOOD CRAFTS

Combine culinary skills and art with these edible creations that are as fun to make as they are to eat:

1. Fruit Kabobs: Thread colorful fruits like strawberries, pineapple, grapes and melon onto skewers to make tasty and visually appealing fruit kabobs. You can get creative with different arrangements while staying healthy!

2. Frozen Yogurt Bark: Using the same theme of healthy food crafts, spread yogurt onto a baking sheet, then top it with fruit, nuts, and granola. Freeze it until it’s solid, then break it into pieces for a refreshing and customizable snack.

3. Decorated Cookies: We all deserve a little treat!

A popular food craft is baking cookies in fun shapes like stars, hearts or animals. You can decorate them with icing, sprinkles and edible glitter for a sweet and artistic treat.

PROJECTS THAT INSTILL LIFE SKILLS

Use these hands-on projects to teach valuable life skills that can inspire everyone to dream big:

1. Container Gardening: Start a small herb or vegetable garden in pots or containers on your patio or balcony. Each family member can choose and care for his or her own plant, and this helps the little ones learn about responsibility and patience along the way. Over time, you can use what you grow in your meals or even create another food craft activity!

2. Basic Home Repairs: Involve the whole family in simple home improvement projects like painting a room, assembling furniture or fixing minor plumbing issues. It’s a great way to teach practical skills and foster teamwork.

3. No-Sew Fabric Crafts: Textiles are so versatile, and you can make so many things with them! Cut and knot fabric strips to make fun accessories like headbands, bracelets or tote bags. You can also create 3D artwork to hang up by cutting out different shapes or designs.

3. DIY Birdhouses: Build birdhouses together using simple materials like wood, nails and paint. Hang them in your backyard to attract and care for birds while learning about wildlife conservation.

Whether you’re exploring the great outdoors, getting crafty indoors or whipping up delicious treats in the kitchen, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. So, gather your supplies, get creative and let the crafting adventures begin!

Play & Splash Destinations Part 3

Quaint Parks – Fun Awaits for the Entire Family at These Neighborhood Parks

by SUZY FIELDERS

NC summers are upon us now! That means the kids are home and need to get all that crazy energy out. Luckily, there are tons of amazing parks with playgrounds and splash pads in Forsyth County. In part three of the Play & Splash Destinations series, I’m covering some of the quaint and neighborhood parks our county has to offer that might not be as well known. Each provides plenty of fun for the entire family.

YOU DON’T NEED TO LIVE IN THESE NEIGHBORHOODS TO ENJOY THESE AMAZING PARKS

These parks are nestled in various Winston-Salem neighborhoods and parts of town. That might make them easy to miss, but that shouldn’t be the case this summer. Each offers amazing opportunities for family fun from cooling off at a splash pad to climbing rock walls at a playground.

Little Creek Park

This park features some great amenities for families and is snuggly located deep in a neighborhood off Jonestown Road. One great thing about this park is it has an enclosed playground, splash pad and picnic shelter all within close proximity of one another. The Little Creek Greenway also is a wonderful paved trail that leads up to Hilton Garden Inn off Hanes Mall Boulevard. Other features of the park include basketball courts, soccer field, baseball/softball diamond and tennis courts.

Location: 698 Foxcroft Drive, Winston-Salem

Sprague Street Park

This park is home to Winston-Salem’s newest splash pad (it opened in July 2023)! The splash pad has something none of the others do…a waterslide! There is also a small playground and plenty of room to run around in. It’s located beside Sprague Street Community Center which has a computer lab, gymnasium and even meeting rooms available for rent.

Location: 2200 Tryon Street, Winston-Salem

Hanes Park

Located in the West End neighborhood between William G. White Jr. Family YMCA and R.J. Reynolds High School, this quaint park offers relaxation and fun. There is a relatively new playground and tennis courts, a full-size track and a baseball/ softball diamond. The stone steps, creek and classic-looking bridge provide some great photo opportunities.

Location: 1404 W. Northwest Boulevard, Winston-Salem

Happy Hill Park

The playground and splash pad at this park are right beside each other which makes it easy for back-and-forth play on each. This playground is one of the city’s newer ones and features rubberized flooring materials. There is a full track, paved walking trail, basketball court and picnic shelter.

Location: 1230 Alder Street, Winston-Salem

Rupert Bell Park

This park features yet another wonderful splash pad, full of watery fun. Other features of this park include a playground, baseball/softball diamond, basketball court and picnic shelters. Plus, this park includes some more unique amenities, such as horseshoe pits and bocce courts.

Location: 1501 Mt. Zion Place, Winston-Salem

Be on the lookout for part four of Play & Splash Destinations in next month’s issue. It’ll feature places with amazing walking trails – with plenty of shade just in time for the August heat. Be sure to check out parts one and two on forsythfamilymagazine. com for more play and splash destination ideas!

Smoked Brisket Flat

For the LOVE of

Pit Master Tip:

There are a million different ways and methods to smoke a brisket. This method always seems to work for me. The key is making sure it does not dry out. I recommend smoking the flat before doing a full brisket. They are very expensive, and if you have never smoked one, it’s always great to practice on a smaller cut first.

Brisket is one of the first things you should smoke going into the summer!

Prep Time: 30 minutes | Cook Time: 8-12 hours Yields: Varies

Ingredients:

1 Brisket Flat (3-5 pounds)

2T SPG rub

Mustard

Set your smoker to 250-275 degrees. While the smoker is heating up, trim any excess fat off the brisket. You will want to leave about an inch to an inch and a half of fat on the brisket.

Slather the brisket with mustard as a binder and use your favorite salt, pepper, garlic rub.

Every hour, make sure you spritz with apple cider vinegar. This will keep it moist and keep it from drying out.

Smoke it until an internal temperature of around 170 degrees if the bark is set the way you want it. If not, you can smoke until 180 degrees. Wrap in foil or butcher paper, and put it back on the smoker. You will pull it out at an internal of 203 degrees.

Let it rest wrapped in a cooler for at least an hour before you slice it.

I smoked this on my Big Green Egg from Casual Furniture World. They have locations in Winston Salem, Greensboro and Myrtle Beach. They carry every accessory for the Big Green Egg amongst other brands, all the finest names in outdoor patio sets, fire pits and everything you need to make sure your backyard is set up for all of your summer get-togethers.

Make sure to stop by and pick up your next grill at any of their locations!

Seeing the Beauty of Quality Care

BY MARTIE EMORY

It’s no secret that seeing the world clearly makes all the difference in your daily wellness routine. Always with the personalized care you deserve and nurturing healthy vision with comprehensive eye care since 2009, Hillcrest Vision celebrated its 15th anniversary in Winston-Salem earlier this year by opening a second location in Mocksville, NC. They have also added a third doctor to the practice, Dr. Mark Miriello, to increase the capacity to care for patients in both towns.

Now, they also serve neighbors in Davie County – where founder Dr. Juawana Hall and Dr. Seth Jones, who joined the practice in 2023, both call home. Dr. Hall discovered a void in eye care options in the area and wanted to bring the same level of care to Mocksville residents that patients have come to appreciate from the original location.

“I am grateful to be able to expand our services to Mocksville. My patients know the quality of care I provide, and I have hand-selected both Dr. Seth and Dr. Miriello to continue to extend that care to more patients in both communities,” she adds. “Patients have already begun raving about their experiences with both doctors, and I’m excited to hear about the impact they’re making.”

Through those 15 years of serving WinstonSalem families, a culture supporting supreme patient care has been instilled in the Hillcrest Vision team. That strong work ethic not only contributed to the successful addition of a second location, but also drives their ability to continue making patients feel at ease with their customized treatment plans. And, they offer one of the largest selections of frames and lenses in Winston-Salem.

“Our team has experienced significant growth with the new location and expanded services,

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but it’s built on the foundation of our core team that has been serving our patients for a long time,” Dr. Hall explains proudly. “Joey, our optician, has been with us for 10 years, while Casey, also an optician, and Jamie, who works in administration, each celebrate nine years this year. Heather, our office manager, has been with us seven years, and our technician, Allyson, celebrates five years.”

Dr. Hall explains their patient-centric philosophy. “We have a high-tech, high-touch approach to patient care, utilizing multiple technologies during an exam to allow us to best diagnose and treat eye disease. We extend that technology to our optical products, to ensure the quality of the doctor’s prescription continues on to the lenses and frames our patients select and wear all year long.”

Pairing technology with a passionate desire to connect with patients and truly listen to their concerns allows the team to develop an individualized treatment plan patients can carry out realistically. “We need to understand how our patients use their vision every single day in order to recommend customized optical solutions for them,” she adds.

Three treatments in particular are currently sharing the spotlight in patient care at Hillcrest Vision: Glaucoma, Dry Eye and Myopia.

“New advances in glaucoma care are allowing us to diagnose the condition earlier and provide innovative treatments to arrest the progression of the disease,” Dr. Hall explains. “We offer screening tests for all patients, which can help us find those who are at risk as much as five to 10 years earlier than previously possible with a regular eye exam.”

She also shares that Dry Eye Disease continues to plague more and more patients as we all continue to increase our daily screen time.

“We’ve seen a rapid increase in patients with digital eye strain and fatigue, burning, itching, watery eyes and fluctuating vision,” she adds. “Thankfully, recent innovations have expanded our treatment options dramatically, and we are able to help more patients find relief from Dry Eye Disease, which is so important to their daily lives.”

With increased device use and more time spent indoors, childhood myopia (or nearsightedness) has also become an epidemic in the United States. The Hillcrest Vision team has adopted innovative ways to correct vision in these young patients and slow the overall progression of the disease. There are now contact lenses and eye drops that can slow the progression of nearsightedness in children as much as 59%.

Both the Winston-Salem and Mocksville offices offer fullservice care including exams, contact lens fittings, diabetic exams, advanced dry eye treatments, glaucoma treatment, emergency care and an expansive optical experience – and patients are grateful for their down-to-Earth care!

“Dr. Seth was very thorough and explained everything. The Mocksville office is lovely and very welcoming, and I am so glad that Hillcrest Vision has come to our town. You will love their caring and compassionate staff.” - J.M.

“Highly recommended on all levels – quality, service, professionalism and atmosphere. Dr. Hall truly changed my life. I have been dealing with keratoconus since my early 20s, and I have never been able to get my vision clear and crisp. My corneas were scarred and just not seeing well even with gas-permeable lenses. For the first time in more than 30 years, I can see clearly!” - P.S.

“Dr. Hall is by far the best optometrist I’ve ever seen. She does far more to maintain eye health than just giving a prescription for new glasses!” - K.

“Dr. Miriello spent time evaluating a recent concern I had with my eyes and contacts, and he gave me several things to try to improve my discomfort.” - E.B.

Hillcrest Vision is conveniently located at 2341 Winterhaven Lane in Winston-Salem, NC, 336.760.2020, and also at 198B Hospital Street in Mocksville, NC, 336.901.2020. Call their offices Monday through Thursday 8:00 a.m. - 5:30 p.m. and Friday 8:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., or visit HillcrestVision.com to request an appointment, order contacts online and obtain Dry Eye products.

“We’ve seen a rapid increase in patients with digital eye strain and fatigue, burning, itching, watery eyes and fluctuating vision,” she adds.

“Thankfully, recent innovations have expanded our treatment options dramatically, and we are able to help more patients find relief from Dry Eye Disease, which is so important to their daily lives.”

- Dr. Hall

It is a gloriously sunny morning, with light streaming through the branches of the dogwood tree in front of my house, rendering its blossoms gleaming and hazy, like a scene out of an impressionist painter’s work. Seven steps up from the ground, on my front porch, I spy Thelonious –King of the Squirrels – sitting on his haunches, white belly exposed, left paw crossed against his chest like some rodent Napoleon standing before his adoring troops, eager as all get-out to partake of the tray of blueberries I have fixed for his morning repast with some of the wild birdseed he likes arranged around the edges. He and I have a relationship which has developed over the past year – every day, I open my front door and see him sitting there, looking me dead in the eye as if to say “where is my breakfast?”

Bold and brazen, I understand he is the ringleader of a band of seemingly indistinguishable squirrels, more reticent, who wait in the further recesses of the yard hoping vehemently to score some possible leftovers. Thelonious, though, has weight, an undisputed presence and a clearly autocratic personality, and he’s not about to share – just yet.

Other creatures – eastern bluebirds, mourning doves, starlings, cardinals and thrashers – have gathered for the possible chance that some of the meal might be left for them, too. Thelonious though is a Big Bad Boy, bigger than his buddies and unquestionably commands respect –deserved or undeserved.

Several of my friends think it odd that I have a connection with this particular squirrel and, more latterly, his band of cohorts who I have all named Poindexter. As an armchair naturalist and lover of all sentient beings, I cannot help but derive pleasure from the supra-

King of the Squirrels

by RENEE SKUDRA

normal inter-species connection that has occurred because some part of me knows it is wondrous and special. As I have gotten to know these neighbors, I have taken to reading about them in various library books. I now know that North Carolina has five species of tree squirrels – gray, red, fox, southern flying and northern flying. According to theNCWildlife.org website, the gray squirrel (i.e. Thelonious) is the most commonly observed mammal in North Carolina and was adopted as the state mammal in 1969. Squirrels are often abundant in many urban and suburban areas, found in every county and are comfortable living near humans. The word squirrel derives from the Greek “skiouros,” meaning “shadow-tailed,” and I notice how the entire group which visits me daily flashes their gray and white delicately etched tails like gaily flying plumes making some kind of important announcement.

Thelonious and his crew benefit from our interaction by getting some rather highgrade food, always doled out generously for their consumption. But, derive a benefit as well – enjoying their caterwauling about, jumping nimbly from tree to tree, while doing the acrobatics they are justly famous for, quarreling at times with each other in what seems to be a highly articulated vocabulary of speech – harsh squalls, warring barks, mews, purrs and teeth chattering. Their antics give me immeasurable joy because they seem to delight in the simple act of living. As I watch one squirrel hiding food in my potted plants and traversing a tall and complex birdfeeder – successfully snatching some booty – and then flying through the air, unworried as to whether he or she will make

a certain landing – I think about my own life, how I have moved through so much grief this year as familiar people and places have fallen unaccountably away, several lives too lost to devastating circumstances. I need moments of happiness. I think of a statement that a writer named Andre Leon Talley made: “I just need green. I need to wake up and see grass and squirrels. I don’t want to see skyscrapers.” Agreeing, I look forward to seeing Thelonious and his underlings each day, resolute in their quest for food, whether braced against an unrelenting rain, frosty winter or oppressively hot day.

I think about the proposition that we are all God’s creatures gifted with the intelligence necessary to thrive and persevere as our particular species dictates. Squirrels, like us, have exceptional problem-solving abilities and complex communication systems. Seemingly, they have different personalities, some fierce and blustery, others shy and easily spooked. Using both sound and scent to chatter with their brethren, they share information about possible danger and food sources. Their impressive memory allows them to recover food (nuts, acorns, seeds, fruits, mushrooms, tree buds and blooms) previously stored, from several locations, hide food as winter approaches, enjoy the six-year lives they typically live and the two litters per year with the two to four offspring which occur. Watching them live their lives adds untold happiness to my own.

The Class of 2024

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Valedictorian Lillie Wray

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Fancy fork

Welcome back to the Fancy Fork – your seasonal produce insight and farmstyle recipes that are made to satisfy.

The local farmer’s markets have been flourishing with all things crisp vegetables, juicy tomatoes, sweet watermelons and more to create those effortlessly delicious summer meals. Throughout the month of July, you’ll continue to find zucchini, tomatoes, cucumbers, green beans, radishes, leafy greens, corn, beets and

asparagus in great abundance. It’s also the perfect time to scout out your favorite fruits like cherries, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, figs, grapes, plums, apples and, of course, watermelons.

This month’s recipe features a homemade arugula pesto, even though you can use store-bought pesto or a basil pesto. Arugula is one of those small but mighty leafy greens that has incredible health benefits from its high concentration of vitamin A, vitamin C and phenolic compounds such as lutein and zeaxanthin. These antiinflammatory and antioxidant properties are great for improving eye health, controlling blood sugar levels and preventing development of cardiovascular diseases.

CHEESY CHICKEN PESTO PITA POCKETS (SOURDOUGH)

PREP. TIME: 20 MINUTES REST TIME: 1 HOUR | COOK TIME: 10 MINUTES

TOTAL TIME: 1 HOUR 30 MINUTES SERVES: 6

INGREDIENTS

3 cups All Purpose Flour

¾ cup Warm Water

¼ cup Warm Whole Milk

¼ cup Olive Oil

1 T Honey

1 ½ tsp. Active Dry Yeast

1 tsp. Salt

INSTRUCTIONS

2-3 cups Shredded Chicken, or rotisserie chicken

1/3 cup Arugula or Basil Pesto, store bought or homemade ¼ cup Sundried Tomatoes, chopped

1 bag Shredded Mozzarella

1. In a large bowl, combine the warm water and warm milk. Stir in the honey and yeast. Set aside to bloom for 10 minutes.

2. Add the flour, olive oil and salt. Mix until a shaggy dough, then turn out onto a clean surface to knead 4-5 minutes, until a smooth dough ball. Place in a clean bowl, cover with plastic or a damp cloth to rise in a warm environment for 1-2 hours, until doubled in size.

3. Divide the dough into 6 equal pieces. Roll into tight balls, then set aside while you prepare the filling.

4. In a separate bowl, combine the shredded chicken, pesto, sundried tomatoes and half of the Italian herb mozzarella. Mix well.

5. Roll out each dough ball to ¼” thick, add 1/6th of the pesto chicken and 1-2 tablespoons of the remaining shredded cheese.

6. Pinch the ends together to seal and place seam-side down onto a plate. Repeat with remaining dough pieces, then cover with a damp cloth to rise for 30 minutes.

7. Heat up a skillet over medium high heat.

8. Roll out the stuffed pitas to ½” thick, then place onto a heated skillet. Cook for 30-45 seconds, then flip to cook an additional 1 minute. Cook for a total of 5-6 minutes, flipping every minute to keep from burning.

9. Brush with a melted butter and herb mixture to enjoy warm!

Recipe developed by LAUREN SEPHTON (@BRIGHTMOMENTCO)

HIDDEN GEMS IN FORSYTH COUNTY PART

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by SUZY FIELDERS

I’m excited to share another hidden gem in Forsyth County. Twin City Sweets is a little “off the beaten path,” so it’s easy to miss or not know about, but it is a must-visit ice cream destination in Winston-Salem! It is located off Clemmonsville Road near Stratford Road making it easy to access from many different routes. You won’t be disappointed you stopped in.

INDULGE YOUR SWEET TOOTH

From sundaes to floats, there is something to satisfy any sweet tooth. You can get scoops of ice cream in cups or waffle cones, or try out one of their amazing sundae combinations. Not only are the sundaes all delicious, but they have fun local names, like The Winston Worm or The Old Salem, as well.

Ice cream flavors range from classics, such as, chocolate and vanilla, to more unique flavors, such as, cappuccino crunch and salted caramel truffle.

If you have food restrictions, they are great about working with you to customize their desserts, too. For example, I have celiac disease, so I can’t have gluten. They made sure not to put the mint oreos in my The Triad Triple Mint Sundae. They even have a dairy-free vegan vanilla ice cream option.

In addition to an abundance of ice cream options, they have candy apples, candy apple lollipops, banana pudding, floats and nuts that are either honey roasted or have cinnamon sugar on them.

ENJOY FAMILY FUN WHILE YOU EAT YOUR DESSERTS

Not only can you get the entire family dessert, but you can also have fun hanging out at Twin City Sweets. They have games set up like corn hole, and there is plenty of space for little ones to run around and burn off all that sugar!

Also, they have plenty of cool photo opportunities like a large wooden chair with their logo and holiday or fun backdrops. One thing to note before you go, they have an outdoor-only set-up; there is no indoor seating, so plan accordingly!

DON’T MISS THEMED AND HOLIDAY DESSERTS

Attend from anywhere

We are pleased to o er funeral video streaming services at each of our ve locations. This allows loved ones to be a part of the ceremony no matter where they are located.

Livestreaming videos are recorded as keepsakes and also for future generations.

• Creates a lasting recording

• Available for those that cannot attend

• Make as public or private as you wish

• Livestreaming from chapel, church or graveside service

Don’t miss the holiday and festive themed desserts and the fun they offer all season long. From Independence Day to Harry Potter, there is always something exciting happening at Twin City Sweets.

They even do themed weeks like video game week! Each of the themed weeks brings great new dessert options!

Their open season is typically until late October, but they often host Christmas pop-up events with some amazing festive desserts.

DETAILS TO VISIT TWIN CITY SWEETS

Location: 2594 W. Clemmonsville Road, Winston-Salem

Hours: Wednesday-Friday 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.; Saturday & Sunday 2:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.

Instagram: @twincitysweets

In the Piedmont region of the state, the Reynolds family was also making a lasting impact. In 1875, Richard Joshua Reynolds established his own tobacco factory in Winston. The R.J. Reynolds Tobacco Company was founded in 1888 and, almost 20 years later, in 1907, the Prince Albert smoking tobacco brand was created by R.J. Reynolds. Shortly after, Camel cigarettes appeared in 1913. The innovation of new tobacco blends and advertising brought economic wealth and development to the family and region, just like Duke did in Durham several years earlier.

In addition to the tobacco industry, North Carolina’s textile sector also flourished during the Gilded Age. The establishment of textile mills, such as the Cone Mills Corporation in Greensboro, led to a rapid industrialization. These mills provided employment opportunities for many people, pouring more money into the state’s economy.

North Carolina’s Gilded Age was also a period of political significance and issues. As North Carolina experienced economic growth and industrial development during the Gilded Age, social disparities became more recognizable. The wealth generated by industries, like tobacco and textiles, was centered in the hands of a few elite individuals. This led to increased leading income inequality with harsh working conditions in factories, long hours and low wages for laborers, many of whom were women and children. Racial segregation was also prominent in the state with the implementation of Jim Crow laws.

The Gilded Age’s impact on North Carolina shaped the state’s economy, society and political landscape for years to come. While the era brought about economic growth and industrial progress, it also confronted social inequalities and injustices that filled the state. Today, we still see the majestic structures, companies and achievements of the Gilded Age in the Tar Heel state, as well as the economic and social changes of the time period. Just take a trip to the Biltmore Estate or Reynolda House, and you will feel the impact of the time period.

by KAREN COOPER

HNorth Carolina Museums You and Your Family will Love

istory buffs, science fanatics, art enthusiasts and people simply interested in North Carolina’s past need to look no further than the list below. North Carolina has much to offer in the way of cultural and educational institutions, and we’ve gathered a group you and your family are sure to enjoy. As an added bonus, a day at these museums won’t break the bank. Some are even free!

NORTH CAROLINA MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCES

11 West Jones Street, Raleigh, NC 27601 naturalsciences.org

Hours: Tuesday–Sunday, 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Cost: Free General Admission

The southeast’s largest natural history museum features dinosaurs, whale skeletons, live animals, walk-through dioramas, special exhibits, hands-on science education and accessible scientists. Make sure to see the Dueling Dinosaurs exhibit which is an incredible fossil containing the skeletons of two extinct animals – a tyrannosaur and a triceratops. This museum was an IMLS (Institute of Museum and Library Science) National Medal Finalist in 2014.

NORTH CAROLINA MUSEUM OF ART

2110 Blue Ridge Road, Raleigh, NC 27607 ncartmuseum.org

Hours: Wednesday–Sunday, 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Cost: Free General Admission

Since the initial acquisition in February 1952 of 158 paintings, two sculptures and 25 pieces of furniture and other decorative arts objects, purchased with a $1 million appropriation of state funds, the collection of the North Carolina Museum of Art has grown steadily. It includes major holdings in European painting from the Renaissance to the 19th century (enhanced in 1960 and 1962 by an extraordinary gift from the Samuel H. Kress Foundation of 71 works dating primarily from the Italian Renaissance and baroque periods), Egyptian funerary art, sculpture and vase painting from ancient Greece and Rome, American art of the 18th through 20th centuries and international contemporary art. In addition, the museum offers multiple events, programs and performing art exhibitions as well as a park featuring both permanent and temporary art installations, environmentally sustainable landscapes, colorful and contemporary gardens, 4.7 miles of recreational trails and a terraced pond.

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INTERNATIONAL CIVIL RIGHTS CENTER & MUSEUM

134 S Elm Street, Greensboro, NC 27401 sitinmovement.org

Hours: Monday – Saturday 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m.

Cost: $20 Adults; $15 Students (K-12)

The International Civil Rights Center & Museum (ICRCM), located in Greensboro, is an archival center, collecting museum and teaching facility devoted to the international struggle for civil and human rights. This national landmark and national site of conscience celebrates the nonviolent protests of the 1960 Greensboro sit-ins that served as a catalyst in the civil rights movement. Our vision is to memorialize the courageous stand of the Greensboro Four as they launched, for posterity, the sit-in movement on February 1, 1960.

NORTH CAROLINA TRANSPORTATION MUSEUM

1 Samuel Spencer Drive, Spencer, NC 28159 nctransportationmuseum.org

Hours: April – Labor Day, Tuesday – Saturday: 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m., Sunday: 12:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m.; Memorial Day, Monday, May 27, 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Cost for Admission & Train Ride: $12 for Adults; $10 for Seniors (65+)/Military; $8 for Children 3-12 years of age

The NC Transportation Museum is a historic site, once home to Southern Railway’s largest steam locomotive repair facility in the southeast, and a museum featuring all types of transportation history – railroading, automotive, aviation and more. This is a great place to visit to see historical cars, trains and fire engines, and even an old Piedmont plane being restored. Well worth the trip if you love history and have an interest in how we get things from here to there! Of special interest for kids are old train cars, a hospital car, mail car and an old steam engine where you can take the driver’s seat.

NORTH CAROLINA MUSEUM OF HISTORY (A SMITHSONIAN AFFILIATE)

5 East Edenton Street, Raleigh, NC 27601 ncmuseumofhistory.org

Hours: Tuesday–Saturday: 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m., Sunday: 12:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Cost: Free General Admission

A fascinating place to learn about the history of North Carolina. This museum features the impressive 20,000-square-foot permanent exhibition called “The Story of North Carolina,” which traces the state’s history more than 14,000 years. Visitors can explore everything from historic houses to a life-size replica of the Wright brothers’ plane, the “Wright Flyer.” Other exhibits focus on themes like sports and the Civil War, with rotating temporary exhibits.

KALEIDEUM

120 West 3rd Street, Winston Salem, NC 27101 (Downtown) kaleideum.org

Hours: Monday-Friday: 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m., Saturday: 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m., Sunday: 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Cost: $15 Adults; $12 Youth (Ages 1-19): $13 Seniors (Ages 62+); $2 Off Admission During School Year for Military Personnel (with valid military ID); Free Ages 11 Months and Under, Members & Educators; Group Rates Available

Kaleideum was created from the July 2016 merger of the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem and SciWorks, the Science Center and Environmental Park of Forsyth County. Currently, the museum operates two locations – Kaleideum Downtown (formerly The Children’s Museum of WinstonSalem) and Kaleideum North (formerly SciWorks). See website for more information on the history and impact these organizations have had in the Winston-Salem area and beyond. From events and programs like Kids’ Night Out, Invention Convention and Exceptional Night at the Museum, Kaleideum offers something for everyone and new learning opportunities for every child.

REFLECTIONS of a Southern Yankee

by DAMIAN DESMOND

earned, not deserved

I turn 51 this month. I guess that officially puts me over the hill (50 just means you reached the top). It’s hard to fathom how time has flown by, and I find myself traveling back to my childhood memories more and more often. I know every generation says the same thing – life was so much better and different back then. I often wonder if my own children will feel the same way when they reach my age. As much as things quickly continue to change and evolve, I imagine that they will.

As a true GenX’er, I can actually say that I grew up in a time when we earned things.

My adopted parents worked hard to provide, so I was more than willing to help out around the house and earn my keep. Earning my keep looked like a lot of different things. Depending on the time of year, it ranged from cutting and stacking wood for the wood stove to raking leaves to mowing the yard or pulling weeds in the garden. Sometimes it was a less desirable task like changing out the litter box, folding laundry or doing dishes. As my parents added more members to the family, it became changing diapers and helping out with my siblings. I did all these things and more but never received an allowance – with which I was perfectly fine. I guess

I understood at a young age that my folks were making sacrifices for me, so I could at least do the same for them.

Both of my sons, now 23 and 20, grew up in the “everyone gets a trophy” era. As much as I disliked the idea of everyone getting rewarded, it was the way things were, and I had more to worry about than getting upset about it. I seriously do wonder how much of the entitlement we see today was brought on by all of the trophy nonsense.

Again, as a proud GenX’er, I can honestly say I never won an award that I didn’t earn. I don’t have a massive collection of dusty trophies in a box in the attic because most of the teams I played on didn’t win championships. Field Day, however, was a different story. Many of my fondest memories from elementary school are centered around that one day of the year when the entire school went outside and participated in activities – except our activities were actual competitions (and boy, did we take them seriously). For most of the day, we ran races of various lengths, threw water balloons for distance, battled in the classic tug-of-war – the list went on and on. And, throughout every competition, records were kept of times and results by our teachers. Finally, a little sunburned and tired but happy group of children would sit in the shade of one of the large trees around our school for the award ceremony. Here’s the kicker though. Not everyone got an award! Ribbons and medals were given out to the top three students in each grade level for each competition. And, at the very end, the class with the most points received a trophy. For those who walked away with awards, it was a wonderful feeling. For those who walked away empty handed, it was a wonderful lesson –work harder, try harder and better yourself.

Watching the world today, I’m beginning to fear that the lessons we learned from failing or losing aren’t being learned because people aren’t being allowed to fail. Some of my greatest gains and successes have come only after some of my greatest failures. Yes, those failures were painful at the time, but they have also proven to be very valuable in the long run.

Yes, this old codger is turning 51, and I might sound a bit outdated, but I’m still pretty darn proud to say that everything I’ve ever gotten was earned.

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Triad Area Events in July

July offers a variety of interesting and exciting events for families to experience in and around the Triad. Here are some of the top offerings:

Jurassic Park: The Musical, 3D

Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance, Gray Smith Stage

July 6, 7, 13 and 15, various times

Tickets $12

This ridiculously unauthorized parody is a multi-dimensional musical spectacular with singing, dinosaurs and chaos.

Crooked Road Show with the Alum Ridge Boys & Ashlee + New Ballards Branch Bogtrotters

Blue Ridge Music Center, Galax, Va.

July 6, 7 p.m.

Tickets $20, under 12 Free

The Alum Ridge Boys & Ashlee play dynamic, deeply grounded old-time music. The Bogtrotters have been playing old-time mountain music since 1986.

Storytime in the Garden

Paul J. Ciener Botanical Garden, Kernersville

July 9, 10-11 a.m.

Free

The Garden has partnered with the Kernersville Library to bring stories to the garden. There will be stories, songs and activities. Recommended for ages 6 and under.

Moonlight Curator Tour

Reynolda House Museum of American Art, Winston-Salem

July 9 and 10, 7-9 p.m.

Tickets $125

Phil Archer will lead a tour back to the fateful night of July 6, 1932 when Smith Reynolds was shot on the Reynolda estate. Tour is for ages 21+.

Rain: A Tribute to the Beatles

Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro

July 9, 7:30 p.m.

Tickets start at $29

This is an electrifying concert experience celebrating the timeless music of the legendary fab four. You will be transported back to the iconic eras of Sgt. Pepper and Magical Mystery Tour.

Lyrics by the Lake

Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art, Winston-Salem

July 12, 6-9 p.m. on the back lawn

Tickets $20

Hosted by LB the Poet, Lyrics by the Lake is a communitybased cultural arts series that uses different art forms: musical performances, spoken-word poetry, comedy and live painting.

Charlotte Bluegrass Allstars and Reedy River String Band

Reeves Theater and Café, Elkin

July 12, 8 p.m.

Tickets $23 to $34

The Blue Grass Allstars are a genre-defying powerhouse. They bring together diverse musicians from rock, blues, classical and jazz. Reedy River takes a fresh approach to Appalachian roots music.

Community Performance Candlelight: A Tribute to Coldplay

UNC School of the Arts, Freedman Theatre, Winston-Salem

July 13, 6:30 p.m. and 8:45 p.m.

Tickets start at $33

Experience the music of Coldplay, a British rock band, performed by Listeso String Quartet under the glow of candlelight.

Boys Like Girls: Lost in Wonderland

Greensboro Coliseum Complex, Piedmont Hall

July 27, 8 p.m.

Tickets start at $22.50

An American rock band from Massachusetts that formed in 2005. The group performs a blend of emo pop, punk and alternative rock.

Danny Go! Live!

Bojangles Entertainment Complex, Ovens Auditorium, Charlotte

July 31, 5 p.m.

Tickets start at $39

“Danny Go!” is a live-action educational children’s show filled with music, movement and silliness. The show inspires learning and off-the-couch exercise for kids 3 to 7.

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The Birth That Taught Me Hope

My Birth Story: Part 2

by SUZY FIELDERS

If you read my birth story part one in last month’s issue, then you know I had a breeze of a pregnancy and a very trying labor and delivery. My second daughter was the opposite.

In February 2021, we suffered a miscarriage. Those weeks that followed were emotional. But, once we decided to try again a few months later, the five months of trying to conceive felt so long and sometimes hopeless that we’d get pregnant again.

However, in late October 2021, I finally had a positive pregnancy and couldn’t stop smiling all day. Almost immediately after the morning sickness kicked in – unlike the name would imply, though I was sick well past the morning most days.

While I felt miserable for the next three months or so, a.k.a. the first trimester, in some ways, I’m so grateful for it. Why in the world would I be happy to feel sick? Well, it was quite the distraction from the fears of another miscarriage sneaking into my mind.

I finally got past the morning sickness only to get Covid. Since Covid during pregnancy increases the risk of a smaller birth weight,

I had regular ultrasounds to keep watch on her size. I loved seeing her each time in those ultrasounds. She was small, but there was nothing overly concerning; however, to be safe, they scheduled to induce me at 39 weeks. Our little rainbow baby had other plans though and came a few days before that date.

was likely due to the fast change in hormone levels. Soon after, I got an epidural, and thankfully that took most of the pain away.

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Monday, June 20th around lunchtime, I started having regular contractions, so I called my husband to come home from work, and off to the hospital we went. When I got there, they monitored my contractions, which were under five minutes apart. Although they said I was only around three centimeters dilated. After about an hour, I was still under four centimeters dilated, but since my induction was only a couple days away, they agreed to admit me.

After a few hours, my water broke. That’s when the contractions started getting more painful. Things started happening fast then. I vividly remember I kept violently shaking, which they said

If you read part one of this birth story series, then you know I had to push for an insane six hours. So, when our daughter arrived at 10:30 p.m. after only 30 minutes of pushing, I was in a bit of disbelief. Grateful, blissful disbelief.

It was love at first sight when we finally met our sweet rainbow baby. In that moment, knew that journey from conception to when our eyes met, she taught me to always hope. Even in the hardest of times, it’s important to never give up hope that your dreams are always possible and might even be just around the corner.

Triad Moms on Main is an online parenting resource for the Triad, NC area that launched in October of 2010. We are an all-inclusive resource for parents that features daily blogs, directories, a detailed local events calendar, contests and giveaways. Our website explores new topics daily through our blog – from how to find the right school or summer camp for your child, to showcasing local restaurants and birthday party venues. Our team focuses on the needs and interests of parents raising children in the Triad while also hosting guest blogs from a variety of viewpoints. Thanks to our sponsors, all Triad area parents are welcome to use our website at any time, free of cost.

Triad Moms on Main BACK TO SCHOOL BASH

This year, we are excited to announce our First Annual Back to School Bash. This free event is open to families in the Triad to come together and give summer a celebratory send off as the school year draws near. We will be hosting this event at Paul J. Ciener Botanical Gardens in Kernersville from 12:30 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. on August 4, 2024. Parents and caregivers will have the opportunity to talk with local businesses about helpful resources available to their families, and kids will be able to enjoy classic Italian ice and the activities and entertainment organized just for them on the lawn of the garden.

Sponsors and vendors (both indoors and outdoors) will include Girl Scouts Carolinas Peaks to Piedmont, dance studios Lismore Academy, Le Petit Ballet Co. and Southeast School of Dance, local boutiques like Posh Pickle, face painting and fairy hair from All Things Fun, tutoring services, Taco Bros food trucks and the perfect summertime treat, Sunset Slush. Local artists and makers Camachos Pottery and The Snarky Chicken will also be joining in on the fun, plus many, many more.

The first 100 families through the door will receive a free goodie bag and chances to win raffle prizes, too.

Triad Moms on Main will also be supporting Backpack Beginnings during this event. Backpack Beginnings is a mission driven nonprofit striving to create a community of healthy, well nourished children. Attendees are encouraged to bring donations for Backpack Beginnings to help them start the school year strong. Donation ideas include hygiene products, school supplies, clothing and shoes. There will be a drop-off location for your contribution at the entrance of the event.

Our loyal TMoM readers, followers and fans are extremely special to us, and we are so glad to have the opportunity to meet you in person at our Back to School Bash. We look forward to sharing this festive time together to kick off the back to school hustle and show our appreciation to our TMoM Community!

EVENT: Triad Moms on Main Back to School Bash

DATE: August 4, 2024

LOCATION: Paul J. Ciener Botanical Gardens Kernersville, NC

TIME: 12:30 p.m. – 3:30 p.m.

COST: FREE

For more information and updates on this event and other all inclusive family resources we provide, please visit triadmomsonmain, follow us on Instagram and Facebook and be sure to subscribe to our newsletter!

2nd Annual

April 27th, 2024

HOSTED BY: Ana Redfearn, Special Moments Venue

2538 Somerset Center

Winston-Salem, NC 27103

GOAL: We honored men, women, and children who have fought or are still fighting various cancers: Breast, prostate, pancreatic, bone cancers; acute lymphoblastic leukemia; metastatic breast cancer; meningioma on the optic nerve; ovarian, colon, inductive carcinoma HR-; stage III cervical cancer; and stage IV triple-negative metastatic breast cancer.

Hosting this event has been life-changing, opening our hearts to gratitude. We aim to spread joy and uplift those battling cancer.

EVENT HIGHLIGHTS:

• The Cancer Survivor Honorees were greeted with a beautiful Rose and warm hugs from the volunteers.

• Cancer survivors shared inspiring and uplifting testimonies at the beginning of the event while greeting one another and enjoying light hors d’oeuvres, including charcuterie cups and sangrias by Sensational Sangria, along with desserts by Lei Lei Bakery, the desserts were sponsored by Joy Nelson with New Level Management.

• Our youngest honoree, 8-year-old Asher, attended with his mother, Jennifer, who brought him to receive his award and other gifts. Asher was in between treatments but his mother was determined he would not miss this event.

• Surprise video messages from family and friends added a special touch.

• Each honoree received an “I Choose Joy” award from Ana Redfearn, handcrafted by Justin and Chantae Kankula of JKwoodwork.

• Honorees enjoyed a beautifully decorated outdoor brunch, catered by Terrance Mann of Catch This Tea Catering, with Lavender Lemonade from Be Kind Coffee.

We released balloons to honor those who have passed.

THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS:

• Jodie Brim Creative (photos)

• Sugar Mama Movement - Amy Jah

• New Journey Management

• American Moving & Hauling

• Edward Jones

• Russell Funeral Home

• JKWOODWORKED

• McIver Law Office

• The Gorham Group

• Designer Soiree

• The Cancer Ribbon Balloon: by Design Soirée, Santana Mobley

Thank you or your support, we look forward to the 3rd annual iChoose Joy Cancer Survivor Brunch. To join our next brunch, contact Ana Redfearn at specialmomentsvenue@gmail.com or 336-779-8223.

photography by JODIE BRIM CREATIVE

Thunder and Lightning:

What Causes a Storm and How to Stay Safe

At any moment, about 2,000 thunderstorms are occurring worldwide… but what causes thunderstorms?

A thunderstorm needs three things in order to form – moisture, unstable air and a lift.

Moisture: For a thunderstorm to develop, there must be an adequate amount of moisture in the lower levels of the atmosphere. This moisture is necessary to form clouds and precipitation.

Unstable Air: An unstable air mass is characterized by warm air at the surface that is cooler higher up. This instability can be caused by warm air existing underneath much colder air.

Lift: Something must lift the warm, moist air to allow it to rise. This can be due to the landscape, such as mountains, or it can be due to the sun’s heat causing the ground to warm up and the warm air to rise.

The summer heat means more moisture in the air which is prime time for thunderstorms in most parts of the U.S., though thunderstorms can happen any time of year.

So, what about lightning? Lightning causes thunder!

In a thunderstorm, lightning happens when an electrical event occurs within or between clouds or between a cloud and the ground.

Although thunder and lightning occur simultaneously, you see lightning before you hear thunder because the speed of light is much faster than the speed of sound. If you are very close to a lightning strike, you see lightning, hear the sound of the electrical event, and then both hear and feel the booming shockwave of the thunder.

And, what should we know about thunder?

Thunder is the sound of the shockwave produced by the rapid heating and expansion of air, followed by cooling and flowing into the vacuum formed by the expansion. The shockwave resembles that of an explosion.

Thunder is loud. Close to its source, it is about 165 to 180 decibels, although it can exceed 200 decibels.

If you listen carefully, there are different types of thunder: Claps or Thunderclaps: Claps are very loud, last between 0.2 and 2 seconds, and contain higher pitches of sound.

Peals: A peal of thunder changes irregularly in loudness and pitch.

Roll: A roll of thunder has a regular variation of loudness and pitch.

Rumbles: Rumbles are low pitch and not very loud, but they last a long time (up to 30 seconds).

A few different factors play into the sound of thunder, including the presence or absence of a temperature inversion and whether the thunder comes from the first lightning strike (louder) or return strokes (quieter).

UNDERSTANDING THE STORM

The time between seeing lightning and hearing thunder gives a good estimate of how far away you are from the lightning strike. Use some simple math to figure it out. Count the number of seconds between seeing lightning and hearing thunder, then divide this number by five, and you have an approximate distance in miles to the lightning strike.

KEEPING SAFE IN A THUNDERSTORM

Although the odds of being struck by lightning each year are less than one in a million, some factors can put you at greater risk. Lightning most often strikes people who work outside or engage in outdoor recreational activities. Regional and

by KAREN COOPER

seasonal differences can also affect your risk of being injured by lightning.

In 2022, Florida had the most lightning deaths. Florida is considered the “lightning capital” of the country, with more than 2,000 lightning injuries over the past 50 years.

The consequences of lightning strikes are serious. From 2006 through 2022, lightning caused an average of 27 deaths per year in the United States.

Staying safe during a thunderstorm involves taking immediate action to minimize the risk of being struck by lightning or affected by other stormrelated dangers.

Here are the key safety measures to follow:

Find Shelter: Seek a substantial building or a car with a metal roof and sides as shelter. Avoid trees, small structures and open areas.

Stay Indoors: Remain inside until the storm passes, and stay away from windows and doors.

Avoid Electrical Devices: Do not use landline phones or any devices connected to electrical outlets and stay away from plumbing.

Prepare for Secondary Risks: Be aware of potential flooding, power outages and other hazards that may follow a thunderstorm.

Thunderstorms can be beautiful, peaceful and even relaxing if you understand them, respect their power and take the necessary measures to keep yourself protected.

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Heels. Hope. Happy Little Soles.

On behalf of everyone at Ronald McDonald House Charities® Piedmont Triad, we extend our heartfelt thanks for your incredible support of the Wine Women & Shoes event. Your generosity helped make this event a resounding success, exceeding our expectations!

Event Impact:

Thanks to our sponsors, in-kind sponsors, wineries, vendors, and every individual who contributed, we raised a net revenue of $126,823. These funds will have a significant impact on the families we serve, enabling us to provide:

• $10/night Guest Family donations for 16 bedrooms for one year

• Operating costs for one bedroom for one year

• Snacks, drinks, and personal care items for all three Family Rooms for five months

• 16 days and nights of bagged lunches and evening meals for Guest Families

• Snacks, drinks, and comfort items for all nine Hospitality Carts for four shifts

Thank You:

We couldn’t have achieved this without your support. Your contributions are making a difference in the lives of the families we serve. Thank you for helping us provide comfort and care when it’s needed most.

For more information about our ongoing efforts and how you can continue to support Ronald McDonald House Charities Piedmont Triad, visit our website rmhcpt.org or follow us on social media @rmhcpt.

Your kindness and generosity truly make a world of difference. Thank you for being part of our community!

Photos by Sail Off Photography

Child Safety Series

Ensuring a Safe Boating Experience with Toddlers & Kids

by TARYN JEREZ

Each month, this series will provide important facts and tips surrounding child safety in an effort to support parents and caregivers as they navigate reducing risks and creating the safest environment possible for the children in their lives.

As you are checking fun activities off your summer bucket list for your family, boating is definitely one to add to the list! It’s a great experience for learning and observing nature and wildlife while creating sweet childhood memories. The number one priority when bringing your youngest family and friends for a boating adventure is to ensure safety and reduce risk of any accidents.

In hopes of giving you the confidence to bring your toddlers and kids on the boat, we’re sharing careful preparation steps and safety guidelines that are easy to follow and crucial for a safe and fun summer out on the water.

#1 – LIFE JACKET SAFETY

Regardless of swimming ability, it’s critical to ensure that children are wearing US Coast Guard-approved life jackets that fit snugly for their size. A properly fitting life jacket will have the child’s weight and chest size specifications on the label. Before taking off, share safety rules and practice water safety drills with your kids while they have their life jackets on, so they understand how to float wearing it. It’s important to note that according to the U.S. Coast Guard’s Office of Boating Safety, “...babies should not travel on any type of boat until they are at the appropriate weight to wear an approved personal flotation device (PFD). This includes rowboats, kayaks, motorboats and sailboats.”

#2 – CREATE A PROTECTED AREA

When boating with young kids, designate an area on the boat that can be a safe space for them. Choose a spot without any clutter of tools, fishing gear or boating equipment that could be a hazard for them. If the boat is large enough, you can also install a safety gate or create barriers to prevent them from getting into unsafe areas without you. Teach children the basic rules of boating, such as staying seated, not running and keeping hands and feet inside the boat. If other caregivers are on board, let them know which space will serve a protection purpose, and make sure you’re on the same page for supervision to help kids stay where they are supposed to at all times.

#3 – DEHYDRATION & SUN DAMAGE

Most of the time, boating activities tend to include long hours of exposure to the elements which can cause harm to children and adults alike if not prepared. Always check the weather before your excursion to see how harsh temperatures will be, so you’re on extra alert of sunburn or dehydration risk. Pack lots of water and non sugary drinks, and ensure everyone is drinking regularly. Apply a broad-spectrum sweat proof sunscreen and reapply as needed to skin especially when swimming is involved. When choosing clothing and swimwear for the day, go for lightweight, long-sleeved clothing, such as rash guard swim shirts, and wear hats to stay extra protected.

ACCIDENTS & INJURIES

Always be prepared for the unexpected with a first-aid kit, fire extinguisher and a throwable flotation device. Discuss and practice an emergency plan with all passengers, so everyone knows what to do in case of an accident. Even when you’re proactive, things can happen out of your control. If serious injury or accident occurs, contact the Coast Guard immediately letting them know your location.

HELPFUL

RESOURCES:

U.S Coast Guard – uscg.mil

• VHF-FM Channel 16 (156.8 MHz). If you’re using a cell phone, you can call *16 to directly reach Coast Guard Radio.

Discover

Nestled in the heart of downtown WinstonSalem at 527 N Liberty Street, Twisted Pine offers a unique blend of American-style food with a delightful twist. This local gem is part of the popular Andrews Restaurants group, which includes nearby favorites like Dogwood Hops and Crops and the Trophy Room. If you’re looking for a vibrant, casual dining experience, Twisted Pine is the place to be.

Twisted Pine is renowned for its diverse and mouth-watering menu. Whether you’re in the mood for a smash burger, tacos, or a refreshing cocktail, you won’t be disappointed. One of our personal favorites is the raspberry margarita, served with a tajin rim for that perfect blend of sweet, sour, and spicy. Add this to your list of must-try drinks!

The atmosphere at Twisted Pine is another reason to visit. They boast a fabulous outdoor patio, perfect for enjoying a meal or drink with friends while soaking up the lively downtown vibes. The indoor setting is equally inviting, with a fun and casual ambiance that makes it an ideal spot for both lunch and dinner. They are open Monday through Thursday from 11:30 am to 9 pm, and Friday through Saturday from 11:30 am to 10 pm.

If you’re active on social media, be sure to follow them at @twistedpine_ws. They’ll keep you informed about their latest menu items, special events, and promotions.

Speaking of special events, mark your calendars for Wednesday, July 10th! Twisted Pine will be hosting Forsyth Woman Magazine’s Girls’ Night Out. It’s an evening dedicated to fun, friendship, and fantastic prizes. It’s the perfect excuse to gather your girlfriends and enjoy a night out at one of Winston-Salem’s favorite dining destinations.

Supporting local restaurants like Twisted Pine not only helps our community thrive but also ensures that we continue to have amazing places to enjoy good food and great company. Twisted Pine has quickly become one of our top picks, and we’re confident it will become one of yours too. With its unique menu, vibrant atmosphere, and commitment to quality, it’s a dining experience you won’t want to miss.

So, the next time you’re in downtown Winston-Salem, head over to Twisted Pine for a meal that’s as delightful as the company you bring along. Enjoy the twist on American classics, the friendly environment, and perhaps a raspberry margarita or two. We promise, it’s worth every sip!

10 Places to Take your Teen this Summer

by TMOM CO-FOUNDER RACHEL HOEING

Most teens will spend their summers playing summer sports, hanging at the pool, working, babysitting, traveling or sleeping in. While these are all great ways for them to enjoy their summer, the bad news is that very few of those items involve spending time with their parents! I feel like each time I look at my own teens, I see the clock ticking off how much more time I have left before they are on their own. So, I asked my teens and some of their friends what activities they would enjoy with their parents this summer and came up with the list below.

Suggested BY teens, FOR teens to enjoy with their parents:

1THE QUARRY AT CARRIGAN FARMS – Carrigan Farms is located in Mooresville and offers open swim time in the spring-fed quarry. You can enjoy just hanging, jumping or rope swinging while there. Reservations must be made online. There is a $5 deposit and $20 cash or check due at the door.

DISC GOLF – This is a great way to have time to talk with your teen while also enjoying a sport, getting them outdoors and getting some exercise! The best part is that it is free, and chances are that there is a disc golf course close to you. You can use our Parks/Playgrounds directory here to find a park that has this option. Some of our favorites for disc golf are Horizons Park in Rural Hall, Triad Park in Kernersville, Barber Park in Greensboro and Springwood in Burlington. If it’s your first time playing, don’t worry about fancy discs, just bring a few frisbees and have fun!

HAW RIVER CANOE AND KAYAK CO – This is a great opportunity for your children to disconnect from the internet and reconnect with nature. You can enjoy kayaking on the rapids, stand-up paddleboarding, canoeing or even fly-fishing.

MAD SPLATTER – Pottery and canvas design is open for walk-ins. The Splatter Zone is open by appointment only and is so much fun! Check out the photos on the website of this unique way to create your own art.

CAROWINDS – Another one of our favorite places to hit in Charlotte is Carowinds amusement park and their waterpark, Carolina Harbor. If you think you will go more than once, a season pass is definitely worth the money. You can easily spend a full day just in the water park or just in the ride section.

TRIAD ECO ADVENTURES – Triad Eco Adventures hosts sightseeing tours in Winston-Salem, Greensboro and High Point. You can choose between segway tours, electric bikes or even a trolley. They also offer stand-up paddleboard instructions and activities.

iFLY – iFLY is located in Concord and gives you the opportunity to experience flying with modern indoor skydiving. Your iFLY experience includes a brief training session and your time in the air. Watch the videos on their website to see the fun!

KERSEY VALLEY – Located in Archdale, Kersey Valley has enough to offer your teens that you can return again and again. Ziplines, escape rooms, laser tag, high ropes course, ax throwing and even more additions in the fall! Visit their website to see all the options and book your adventure.

HEBRON ROCK COLONY – Maybe it’s because we’ve raised them to love Appalachian State, but my kids have always enjoyed a day trip to Boone and a hike at Hebron Rock colony. Check out the linked blog for tips on where to start. Be sure to bring snacks or a lunch and encourage all family members to disconnect! Other fun hiking spots are Hanging Rock, Stone Mountain and Pilot Mountain.

WET ‘N WILD – Wet ‘n Wild Emerald Pointe in Greensboro is great when you have a mixture of thrill seekers in your house. If one of your teens would rather sit by the pool while another wants to try out “daredevil drop,” it can be done here! It features more than 36 water rides and includes plenty of dining options on the premises. You can also choose to eat a picnic lunch outside of the park.

It’s a Grand Life Grand

And It Is A Grand One!

by SUSAN WOODALL

Last month, the ages of my grandchildren really took up residency in my mind. It’s not as if I hadn’t thought about it before, but this time, it really has given me pause. I’m pretty sure I know what triggered it, but no matter how much I wish time would slow down, it just keeps rolling along.

As the school year continued, day to day routines were fairly predictable. Go to school, come home, do homework, go to after school activities, have dinner, relax, get ready for the next day and go to bed. As a grandparent, most days, the parents dealt with their schedules. I had the occasional call to pick them up, take them to an activity or stay overnight when the parents were out of town, and I loved being able to do that. It was especially fun to hear all about their days. It is nice to know that some things dealing with education never change while others are immensely different. Personally, I prefer the old way in several areas but applaud other changes.

So, what made my brain lock onto what was coming down the road with the grands? It is the fact that these fabulous young people are growing up. While it is wonderful on the one hand, it is happening too fast on the other. Our amazing granddaughter will be a high school junior this coming school year. This summer, she has several college tours lined up. She recently had her first tour of Davidson College. She is fairly familiar with the campus as both her parents are graduates, but learned more about academics and student life. She will also tour Duke, Wake Forest, NC State, UNC, UVA, Princeton and Yale this summer. Yes, she’s not only brilliant, she’s extremely well rounded.

So, in only two years, she’ll be off to college. It will be wonderful to see where life will take her and what her future holds. My issue is how fast the next two years, if like the first 16, will fly by. Next in line is her brother who is three years younger. Right now, the ages of my seven grandchildren are 16, 13, 11, 10, almost nine, eight and almost six. My fervent prayer is that I will live long enough and have the mental acuity to see what the future holds for each of them.

I am fortunate to live close to four of the seven. I am able to attend their school functions, soccer games, dance recitals and most impromptu family activities. The other three are only a few hours away, so being there for them needs to be planned. I realize how lucky I am to have them that close by. have several friends whose grandchildren live several states away. My cousin, who lives several months in England, has children and grandchildren who live in New York and California.

Growing up in northern Virginia, I only saw both sets of grandparents once a year. They lived in Texas, and summer vacation always included a trip south. I loved them with all my heart, but it was impossible, in 14 days with each set, for them to really know what my sister’s and my life included throughout the entire year. There was a year of growth both mentally and physically, too many activities and new likes and dislikes, to discuss anything in depth.

I know how very lucky I am to have this closeness to my precious grandchildren. To see how they are growing and maturing, their talents, their personalities and how beautifully they are being raised by their incredible parents brings me such joy. I guess that’s why I wish time would slow down, so I could enjoy each day with them to the fullest. Then I laugh remembering that, when I was young, every day seemed to drag wishing I could be older. Guess the takeaway from it is be careful what you wish for. Writing this has made me aware of that. So now, instead of wanting life to slow down, I will be grateful and enjoy every day to the fullest, no matter how quickly they go by.

“Creativity

now is as important in education as literacy, and we should treat it with the same status.” ~ Ken Robinson

5th

1st

Kamya Ingram

Grade / Brunson Elementary

Cynthia Sanders, Art Teacher

Kalise Koger

Grade / South Fork Elementary

Kristen Kluttz, Art Teacher

Na’tashja Harden 12th Grade / Parkland High School Alexis Michelle, Art Teacher

Aric Turner

8th Grade / Clemmons Middle School Katherine Howard, Art Teacher

LOCAL EVENTS

*Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites & social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.*

JULY 4

WINSTON-SALEM DASH VS. HICKORY CRAWDADS

7pm, Truist Stadium, Tickets start at $15

The Dash are home for the Fourth of July. Don’t miss Winston-Salem’s largest fireworks show, presented by City of Winston-Salem.

JULY 8-12

AROUND THE WORLD TOTALLY KIDS CAMP

Salem Gymnastics & Swim. Receive a passport and spend the week traveling to different countries around the world like France, Italy, England and many more. Participate in theme related obstacle courses, games, crafts and activities as we bring each one of our “visited” countries to life. Totally Kids Camp is from 9am-2pm with an optional add-on until 5pm. Camp Imagination is offered for 3-5-year-olds every week from 9am-12pm with the option to stay for lunch bunch.

JULY 10

GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT

5pm-until… Twisted Pine, 527 North Liberty Street in W-S. Grab your mom, your sister, your girlsfriends and/or your co-workers and join Forsyth Woman Magazine for a muchneeded Girls’ Night Out! We’ll have our prize board with tons of awesome prizes! Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook @ forsythmags for reminders and updates about our monthly GNO events!

JULY

BEAUTIFUL BEADS WORKSHOP

2-4pm, Lam Museum of Anthropology. Beads are worn by people around the world as personal adornment and are also used as decoration on clothing, masks and many other objects. In this workshop, participants will see many types of beads from the museum’s collections and learn about how they were made and used by a variety of cultures. Participants will make their own beads out of polymer clay, paper and tin. This workshop is designed for ages 8 to 99. The fee is $20 per participant ($15 for Lam Museum members). Space is limited, and advanced registration is required.

JULY 15-19

NINJA TOTALLY KIDS CAMP

Salem Gymnastics & Swim. Salem Ninjas will train and race through several different obstacle courses and stages throughout the week. They will be climbing, leaping, jumping, and crawling their way to the big event to be held the last day of camp where everyone walks away a winner with a medal of their very own. Totally Kids Camp is from 9am-2pm with an optional add-on until 5pm. Camp Imagination is offered for 3-5-year-olds every week from 9am-12pm with the option to stay for lunch bunch.

JULY 21

NATIONAL THEATRE LIVE: DEAR ENGLAND

2-5pm, a/perture cinema. The country that gave the world football has since delivered a painful pattern of loss. Why can’t England’s men win at their own game? With the worst track record for penalties in the world, Gareth Southgate knows he needs to open his mind and face up to the years of hurt to take team and country back to the promised land.

JULY 22-26

WIZARDS & MAGICAL CREATURES TOTALLY KIDS CAMP

Salem Gymnastics & Swim. Calling all witches and wizards to a fun-filled week at Salem Gymnastics & Swim! Campers will be sorted into their houses, play magical games, make their own wands and participate in our very own Tri-Wizard Tournament. It is sure to be a magical experience! Totally Kids Camp is from 9am-2pm with an optional add-on until 5pm. Camp Imagination is offered for 3-5-yearolds every week from 9am-12pm with the option to stay for lunch bunch.

JULY 26

SUGAR MAMAS SEXUAL HEALTH AND WELLNESS SEMINAR

5-9pm, Historic Broyhill. Welcome to the Sugar Mamas Movement Sexual Health + Wellness Seminar! Join us for an evening of empowering discussions and valuable insights on sexual health and dismantling the stigma and shame surrounding feminine sexuality. Light dinner will be provided by Catch This Tee Catering; cash bar provided by Marjae’s Wine Bar; Jolie Boudoir Photography will be available for consults; and JFran with Pure Romance will be vending. Come learn from experts in the field and connect with like-minded individuals.

JULY 28

AFRICAN TIE DYE WORKSHOP

2-4pm, Lam Museum of Anthropology. Adire cloth is a beautiful indigo-dyed textile created by the Yoruba people of West Africa. In this workshop, participants will see adire examples from the museum’s collections and learn about the techniques used by the Yoruba to create patterns and designs. Participants will use indigo to tie dye tote bags. Each participant may bring one additional item (i.e. a t-shirt) to dye. Colors other than indigo will also be available. This workshop is designed for ages 8 to 99. The fee is $20 per participant ($15 for Lam Museum members). Space is limited, and advanced registration is required.

JULY 29-AUGUST 2 & AUGUST 5-9

OLYMPICS TOTALLY KIDS CAMP

Salem Gymnastics & Swim. Go for Olympic gold at Salem Gymnastics! Join us as we follow (Salem Style) Team USA this summer in Paris. Participate in individual and team sports, play theme related games, make crafts and learn about Paris: the “City of Lights.” Totally Kids Camp is from 9am-2pm with an optional add-on until 5pm. Camp Imagination is offered for 3-5-year-olds every week from 9am-12pm with the option to stay for lunch bunch.

FUTURE

AUGUST 4

TRIAD

MOMS ON MAIN BACK TO SCHOOL BASH

12:30-3:30pm, Paul J. Ciener Botanical Gardens. Triad Moms on Main is excited to host their first annual Back to School Bash. This event will feature local businesses, kids activities and more!

SEPTEMBER 7

MEADOWLARK BEACH BLAST

3-9pm, Meadowlark Beach Blast is fortunate to have one of the great beach music bands of all time, the Embers featuring Craig Woolard, this year. Join us for a great time and a great purpose of raising $5,000 for North Carolina Special Olympics. Music will begin around 3pm with the Embers starting around 6:30pm. There will be food trucks and a hot dog stand providing some very tasty variety of food. You can bring a small cooler, chairs and tent. Tents will be set up on the back row. There will be a silent auction of various donations from many sponsors. Did I mention there will be a corn hole tournament? The event is free, but remember the purpose of supporting the kids.

OCTOBER 5

2024 BOUTIQUE CRAWL

Presented by Hawthorne OBGYN. Join us for an adventure through several boutiques in and around WinstonSalem. Your $10 admission supports our event, grants access to giveaways worth more than $2,000, unlocks exclusive discounts and includes refreshments at each stop. Plus, kick off with a pre-game party featuring vendors, mimosas and more! Let’s shop local and strengthen our community together! Registration required: tinyurl.com/FWBC2024

The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective Imagination Comes to Life, Sort Of

by A. KEITH TILLEY

In the 2024 film “IF” from Writer and Director John Krasinski (“The Office”), starring himself, and a whole cast of notables including Ryan Reynolds, Emily Blunt, Steve Carell, Awkwafina, Matt Damon, Vince Vaughn and Cailey Fleming, amongst others, a young girl “discovers she can see everyone’s imaginary friends (a.k.a. IFs) and proceeds to embark on a magical adventure to reconnect forgotten IFs with their kids.” (IMDb)

Though the movie is fiction, the idea of seeing someone else’s IF is a reality today. Only this IF is created by AI (Artificial Intelligence). In an article entitled, “My A.I. Buddies” by Kevin Roose in the New York Times (May 9, 2024), he describes “artificial intelligence companions.” That’s right, your personal friend and companion brought to you by none other than AI itself. And, you thought it was only good for helping write presentations, emails and create customized pictures. There are apps available (partially free and partially subscription-based), that allow you to create a personalized “buddy.”

The implications of this – much like everything else with AI – are endless. Some apps mentioned include Nomi, Kindroid and Replika. Now, before you get too excited, they won’t replace a real friend, nor are they sentient, but they do have some very practical uses and benefits. With a user experience similar to ChatGPT (novice user friendly), the users can create these custom companions within the virtual environment. Once created, you can talk and text with them very similarly to how you would anyone else. You may also create multiple friends as well, and communicate with them in combination (groups).

Now, I admit, this all sounds a little strange. Kinda like the digital version of talking to yourself. However, it’s much more than that. The more you communicate, the more it learns about you, your likes, dislikes, preferences, job, hobbies, special interests and more. By learning these things, it’s able to interact with a human-like response. I admit, I started seeing scenes of HAL from “2001 – A Space Odyssey” in my head when I learned this. When you think about it, we already have algorithms directing our newsfeeds, TikTok and other social media toward those things we’re most interested in. This simply takes that logic and puts it into a more user-oriented, conversational aspect to communicating information, not simply the latest breaking news, sports and trends, but also, a more casual approach which includes back and forth, that’s more endearing.

Initially, I’m sure it feels a bit odd to interact with a virtual friend. Yet, experience has shown it doesn’t take long

for users to feel comfortable about new technologies and innovations once they’ve become accustomed to them or they become ubiquitous. Imagine, for example, you have a job interview and decide to run some response ideas by your artificial friend to see if they sound good. Or, you’re trying to decide what to have for dinner that evening. Perhaps you’re not feeling well that day, and you need to get some things off your chest. This is merely the tip of the iceberg of things that can be talked about and shared with this virtual buddy.

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I’m always a bit skeptical and overly cautious until I feel I can trust the technology; that would apply in this case, as well. However, I do think it has the potential to be a good virtual personal assistant, a source for inspiration and advice, and perhaps even a pick-me-up when needed. It might even be entertaining and a good source of comfort in those situations when you’re alone or by yourself in a crowded subway or airport terminal, among other places. It could also be used for safety and security if it learns to contact authorities and literal friends and family in an emergency. Given that we have Google Nest and Alexa already, we’re used to asking questions to our digital devices and hearing their responses. This seems like a natural progression and takes it to the next level, making the interaction more personal.

I think, in the long run, it has upside potential and could be a valuable tool to aid those struggling with depression and social isolation issues. Eventually – with safeguards – it could help older children adapt and develop their socialization skills further without the risks, awkwardness or anxiety they typically face in real-world situations. It’s impossible to know all the applications at this time, suffice it to say, they will be varied and possibly quite beneficial.

Picture yourself sitting on the sand this summer, having a good long chat with your virtual buddy or buddies and entertaining yourself alone on the crowded beach, without actually feeling that way. No one would know the difference these days. Just be careful not to let it replace the real thing.

Musical Selection: “Summerland” by Half-Alive (Official Video)

Join us for an ’80s-inspired evening that includes a movie on the rooftop (Weird Science), curious questions answered in the hallways, and a Stranger Things laser show in the Digital Dome.

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