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NEW! Forsyth County Library Spotlights
Nurturing New Norms: Raising Culturally Curious Kids
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Getaway Guide: August’s Must-Visit Spot
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While the official anniversary of our sister magazine Forsyth Woman isn’t until September, I can’t help but share a little early—because this year marks 20 incredible years of celebrating local women and small businesses!
What started as my mom’s dream in 2005 has grown into something truly special: 240 issues, thousands of stories, and a thriving community that continues to inspire us every single month.
To mark the occasion, we’re throwing a party—and we’d love for you to join us!
Thursday, September 18th | 6–9 PM The Crest, Winston-Salem
Food, drinks, fun photo ops, and a fundraiser for LEAD Girls of NC—an amazing nonprofit helping preteen girls become confident leaders.
Scan the QR code below to get your ticket! (The first 25 tickets get $15 off!)
Now let’s talk about what’s inside this August issue…
We’re thrilled to feature Starboard Accounting and Consulting on the cover. Kerri and her all-women, allmom team have kept our books in order for years—and they do it all with grace, grit, and humor. Learn more about them on page 18 (and trust me— you’ll want them in your corner).
August 9th is National Book Lovers Day, and while I don’t have kids yet, I know how important it is to build a love of reading early. I was a total bookworm growing up thanks to my parents and some unforgettable teachers. So here’s your reminder: take the kids to the library, read with them every night. It truly makes a difference.
Speaking of libraries—we’re launching a new series this month! Suzy is kicking it off with a spotlight on the Central Library downtown (page 34). Did you know Forsyth County has TEN public libraries? She’ll be highlighting one each month for the next 10 months.
And if you’re looking for a late-summer adventure, check out this month’s Getaway Guide: Hendersonville! Cooler temps, mountain charm, and crisp apples? Yes, please. Turn to page 54 for all the details.
Wishing you a joyful August—and I really hope to see you next month as we celebrate a major milestone for Forsyth Woman!
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FIVE REASONS DIY INVESTORS Choose Morgan Stanley Financial Advisors
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Your family turns to you for financial advice, for good reason. You save for retirement, keep your credit card debt low, and you’ve educated yourself on investing. Then one day, you look at all that you’ve accomplished on your own and realize, if only life was as simple now as it was when you started investing.
WHY WORK WITH A MORGAN STANLEY FINANCIAL ADVISOR?
Your Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor and team will help you build on what you’ve achieved. We are transparent about our compensation - which is generally a percentage of the assets we manage on your behalf – from the beginning. Some commissions and fees may apply depending on the activities we conduct for you. Our interests are aligned as we work toward your goals, helping you manage change, risk and volatility.
NEED MORE REASONS? HERE ARE FIVE.
YOU’LL FEEL MORE CONFIDENT
Count on your Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor—backed by the resources of a global firm—to surpass the bar you set for meticulous research, analysis and thoughtful, forward-looking advice.
FACT: 97% of affluent clients feel more confident as a result of using a financial advisor (Phoenix Marketing, Wealth and Affluent Monitor Q3 2021).
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YOU’LL GAIN ACCESS TO VALUABLE INVESTING OPPORTUNITIES
Your Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor can offer a full range of investments that aren’t always available on self-directed trading platforms. Interested in the latest industry innovation or alternative investing? Supporting environmental and social causes? Your Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor can help.
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YOU’LL HAVE AN EXPERT PARTNER TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS
Goals are personal, planning how to achieve them should be too. Whatever you need – whether it’s investment only advice or a comprehensive financial plan that’s pressure-tested to withstand the unexpected - you’ll have an experienced professional to clearly respond to your questions.
• Guidance on retirement, education, legacy planning and more.
• Tax Management Strategies to help you keep more of what you have earned.
• An open platform for investment solutions that are right for you, even if it’s not one of ours.
• A state-of-the-art risk management system that shows where risks are in your portfolio.
YOU CAN REACH US HOW AND WHEN YOU WANT
Your Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor is available to meet in person, on video and by phone, on your schedule.
YOUR SATISFACTION IS IMPORTANT TO US
Simply put, we listen. We know clients are individuals with unique circumstances, and that we can’t succeed together if only one of us is listening.
FACTS: 97% of our clients say they are satisfied with the firm, and 98% are satisfied with how their Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor handles questions and requests (Morgan Stanley Client Council Survey, Q2 2021).
ONE MORE REASON TO CHOOSE MORGAN STANLEY
We make it easy to find a Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor that’s right for you.
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As August rolls in and summer starts to wind down, some families may be hit with a feeling of guilt. Maybe you didn’t take that big vacation. Maybe you skipped the camps or never got around to the Pinterest-worthy backyard projects or games. Maybe you just feel like you “should’ve done more.”
If that’s you, take a deep breath and hear me when I say – you did enough this summer. And, so did your family.
In a world where every scroll on social media shows sun-kissed beach trips and jam-packed calendars, it’s easy to feel like you missed the mark. But, the truth is, the little moments are what matter most.
Your kids won’t remember the Instagram-worthy day trip or the expensive amusement park, but they will remember the way you made them laugh during game night. The Saturday you all stayed in pajamas until the afternoon. The simple lunch on the porch with an unforgettable memory that you’ll talk about for years to come.
Memories are built in the time you spend together, not in how impressive or expensive those moments are. Memories are what stick, and they mean so much more than what you could ever buy.
SAY GOODBYE TO “SHOULD”
You may be finding yourself saying you “should’ve” gone more places. Or, you “should’ve” enrolled them in more activities. But, what if the stillness of your summer was exactly what your family needed?
What if rest, connection and unscheduled togetherness were the most valuable gifts you could have given?
Swap “should” for “grace.” Grace for the undone. Grace for the not-soproductive days. Grace for the quiet wins you might’ve overlooked.
YOUR PRESENCE WAS ENOUGH
If you showed up for your family, even in the smallest ways, you gave them something meaningful. If you offered kindness, listened when someone needed to talk or shared a good meal around the table, you planted something important.
And, if you didn’t do those things every day? That’s okay, too. This isn’t about perfection but presence. And, if you’re reflecting now, it means you care deeply. That alone speaks volumes.
MOVING INTO FALL WITH PEACE
Instead of packing today with undeserved guilt, pack it with gratitude. Reflect on what did happen this summer, not on what didn’t. Journal about one small memory each person enjoyed and celebrate that.
And, as routines reset and schedules fill back up, remember – you don’t have to be everything, everywhere, all at once. Just be there with love, patience and a little extra grace.
You’ve done more than enough. Now, carry that peace into whatever comes next.
United in Our Love for Reading: National Book Lovers Day
by DEBBIE LINVILLE
What’s so special about August 9th? For all the authors, bookworms and bibliophiles out there, this is your day! National Book Lovers Day is an opportunity to harness all the enthusiasm and passion you have for books and delight in reading the day away...guilt free! If you are a book aficionado, then you know firsthand the boundless pleasure found in reading and the momentary respite it offers from the demands of daily life. Whether you gravitate toward the suspense of a thrilling mystery, the inspiration of a heartfelt memoir or the enchantment of a magical journey, reading wonderfully stimulates the mind and feeds the spirit, page by page. In addition to being highly enjoyable, reading brings myriad benefits as well.
READING IS GOOD FOR YOU
• Increase knowledge
• Reduce stress
• Enhance writing skills
• Improve mood
• Promote well-being
• Enhance creativity
• Strengthen memory
• Increase longevity
• Improve sleep
• Expand vocabulary
• Promote analytic skills
• Improve cognition
• Increase empathy
“A book is a gift you can open again and again.”
~ Garrison Keillor
WHAT’S INSIDE YOUR BOOK JACKET?
Roald Dahl teaches us to dream big, J. K. Rowling teaches us to be brave and C.S. Lewis teaches us to ask questions in the pursuit of truth. These modern fiction authors artfully draw us into the world of fantasy and introduce us to characters who stay in our hearts for a lifetime. Malcolm Gladwell reminds us that success is not determined by talent alone, Eckhart Tolle reminds us to focus on the power of the present moment and Anne Frank reminds us to be hopeful and resilient in the face of adversity. Nonfiction writers can also leave strong, lasting impressions by skillfully weaving together facts and narratives to inform and captivate us. Mary Oliver helps us appreciate the quiet occurrences of nature, Walt Whitman helps us appreciate the complexities of ordinary people in everyday situations and Langston Hughes helps us appreciate the aspiration of creating a more inclusive and equitable society. Poets masterfully use words to give voice to our innermost thoughts and feelings in a way that resonates deeply. These are three of the many genres book lovers can choose from. Depending on how finely the genres are teased out, there can be as many as 110, although most publishers agree there are roughly 50 book genres. With so many incredible books within each genre, it is challenging to crown just one genre as the most popular. But, if you consider the 2025 bestseller lists (e.g. New York Times and Amazon), nearly half of the top selling books fall into the fantasy genre, making it arguably the most popular genre among readers.
10 MOST POPULAR BOOK GENRES OF 2025
1. Fantasy – Elements of magic or the supernatural often inspired by mythology or folklore.
2. Romance – The romantic relationship is the center point of the plot.
3. Biography – A person’s life story written in the third person by someone other than the subject.
4. Children – Written with readers under the age of 12 in mind (board books to middle grade epics).
5. True Crime – True stories, about all things fearful and forbidden.
6. Science Fiction – Distinguished by its preoccupation with real or real-feeling science.
7. Mystery – Characterized by a gripping plot that revolves around a whodunit.
8. Historical Fiction – Carefully balancing creativity and facts in a historical setting.
9. Self-Help – Centers on encouraging personal improvement and confidence.
10. History (Nonfiction) – Accurate facts about a historical era, event or figure.
CELEBRATE THE JOY OF READING
Book lovers of all ages have a variety of genres to explore and multiple ways to savor their reading experiences –physical books (paperback and hardcover), digital books (reflowable and PDF) and audiobooks (a listen-only form of reading). Whatever tickles your literary taste buds, find a cozy spot and dive into just about the most pleasurable activity on the planet. National Book Lovers Day is also the perfect time to share the delight of reading with the people in your life – gather fellow page-turners and host a themed book night, attend a literary event or plan a scavenger hunt at a used bookstore. Consider the thoughtful gift of a well chosen book for someone special – a classic picture book for a preschooler, an antique book for a collector or a parenting book for an expectant friend. There are so many creative and wonderful ways to get into the bookish spirit on National Book Lovers Day!
“Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.”
~ Mason Cooley
Kerri R. Scherer MD, FACOG
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C. Aaron Thompson MD, FACOG
Jennifer Santos
Perfecting the Balance of Life
by MARTIE EMORY
There’s something decidedly refreshing about Starboard Accounting & Consulting in WinstonSalem that’s a win for both their talented team and their fortunate clients.
“Honestly, I think people love that we’re an all-female firm,” shares Founder and President Kerri Stewart.
“We act as the ‘interpreter’ between the business owner and CPA. Nothing against those guys in suits, but that’s just not us. I think we give off a vibe that’s more comfortable and open. Most business owners are amazing at what they do, but for many, the finance side is confusing. Our job is to simplify that process.”
Kerri also says she’s had male clients tell her they don’t feel as judged telling women their business problems. And, since Starboard doesn’t do taxes, they aren’t competing with CPAs or stressing over looming tax deadlines.
“I think our size and setup boosts our professionalism and reliability. We’re a reasonably large company for bookkeeping, as most bookkeepers are a oneor two-person operation. We have six full time employees, one part time employee, plus myself. If your bookkeeper is unavailable, someone else can answer your question – we work as a team!” Kerri explains. “We’re large enough to provide full service
support, but small enough to get to know unique needs,” she adds.
With clients all over the Winston-Salem area, the Starboard team provides payroll processing, QuickBooks consulting and QuickBooks bookkeeping services. But, while balancing numbers and spreadsheets, you’ll also find these savvy women balancing work, motherhood and everything in between!
“It’s interesting to me there are so many options for women today in their work-life balance,” shares Kerri. “It’s culturally acceptable for a mom to have a high-powered position and hire a nanny, or to stay at home 100% and homeschool. Most of us land somewhere in between. Covid did open doors for women, where working from home with children in tow is much more common. I’ve had Zoom calls while nursing a baby, brought my kids to client offices and worked on my laptop while my kids swam in the neighborhood pool.”
Kerri started her business at age 27, did not have children then, but knew she wanted to someday. When she did finally need a maternity leave plan, she started hiring other bookkeepers. One of those, Pamela Rosendale, still works with her today. While situations vary between families, the mom goal is the same and support among women is crucial!
For Kerri, a gamechanger came when her child’s school had a 2:30 p.m. pick-up time, resulting in a new 30-hour work week routine.
“Armed with this hard end time, I became more focused.
No more lunches out. Six hours to work, get it done and then the two of us would walk with the stroller at the park while she snacked on cheese and crackers. Mom win! That’s when it first clicked for me that hours worked do not actually equal results achieved. I’ve also had a ‘take it or leave it’ attitude with taking my kids with me to work from the beginning. Meaning, if I need to bring a kid to an appointment, I will. If that’s not OK, find someone else. It may sound harsh, but you’d be surprised how many people respect that. And, it showcases what is important to me – family first!”
Every Starboard team member would offer this advice to other business women – don’t be afraid to ask for help. You’ll accomplish more by creating a vision and involving great people. For example, the business added an extra room in 2019 – calling it the Kids’ Room – with a couch, TV, toys and a couple of flex-space desks so moms could work there, if needed. They took turns chaperoning at the playground next door and adopted an all-hands-on-deck effort to keep the business running and the kids happy.
Family support is also key! Kerri credits her husband, Garrett, with nonstop cheerleading when it comes to her career and life balance. She’s also grateful for the “heart” of Starboard Accounting – its incredible staff.
“I love them,” says Kerri. “They are all wonderful women – super smart, capable, dependable and extremely knowledgeable in their field. They are, hands down, my favorite thing about the business. In those fleeting moments where I wonder if my time is needed more at home, my staff is what keeps me here. They are great women, doing the same juggling I am, between work and kids.”
Accounting Manager Amy Keegan is another Starboard rock star –consulting, onboarding with new clients and helping bookkeepers as needed.
“Being able to help small businesses and individuals grow their dreams is the most rewarding part of the job,” Amy shares.
“Helping business owners focus on their businesses and being able to provide financial statements to help them make major decisions is my daily focus. Juggling between work and family life is a major part of Starboard’s mission with all our staff. Being able to spend afternoons with our children, doing homework, sporting events or just quality time is the joy of being a working mom.”
Amy remembers being a young mother growing her own career but also being lucky enough to be part of her children’s school by volunteering during working hours and helping in the classroom.
“It was such a blessing. I encourage all mothers, whenever possible, to find the work-family balance. That’s the greatest legacy you leave behind!” she adds.
Kerri agrees and, despite hectic days, she loves showing her own daughters the multitude of interests and possibilities open to them.
While there’s no one-size-fits-all bookkeeping, the Starboard team loves discerning what clients need
to know, their timeframe and budget, and then giving them customized service at an appropriate price. (Note: Starboard has been handling the books for Forsyth Woman for many years and is always a dream to work with – smart, professional and incredibly reliable!)
Starboard Accounting & Consulting is located in Winston-Salem, NC at 632 Holly Avenue. Reach them at 336.397.4974 or online at starboardaccounting.com.
Fancy fork
Welcome back to the Fancy Fork – your seasonal produce insight and farm style recipes that are made to satisfy.
August is one of the best months for garden fresh produce as the sun has ripened all the vines with great harvests for crisp vegetables and juicy fruits. As like most of the summer season, you’ll still notice lots of carrots, green beans, celery, bell peppers, cucumbers, summer squash, corn and swiss chard. But, you’ll also begin to find garlic, eggplants and onions. And even though cherry season has come to an end, you’ve still got figs, cantaloupe, blackberries, plums,
peaches, tomatoes, nectarines, apples and watermelon that are incredibly delicious.
With peach season ending this month, we’re getting creative on the grill to make this Grilled Sourdough Flatbread with Burrata, Grilled Peaches and Prosciutto that’s an easy end-ofsummer dinner! Peaches are not only great on their own, but they are versatile in both baking desserts and cooking savory meals, as well. Studies show that peaches may even help reduce the risk of cardiovascular and bone diseases, aid in maintaining skin and eye health, help prevent stress and anxiety, as well as boost immunity and a healthy digestive system.
GRILLED SOURDOUGH FLATBREAD WITH BURRATA, GRILLED PEACHES & PROSCIUTTO
½ cup Active Sourdough Starter or Sourdough Discard
2 ½ cups All Purpose Flour
¾ cup Warm Water
2 T Olive Oil
2 ¼ tsp. Instant Yeast
1 tsp. Granulated Cane Sugar
1 tsp. Fine Sea Salt
½ tsp. Garlic Powder
INSTRUCTIONS
For the Toppings:
Burrata
Prosciutto, thinly sliced
Baby Arugula
Heirloom Tomatoes, thinly sliced
Peaches, sliced and pitted
Pesto (optional)
Hot Honey
1. In a large bowl, combine the warm water, yeast and sugar. Let sit for five minutes.
2. Add the salt, garlic powder, olive oil and sourdough. Mix just until combined, then add the flour. Mix until a shaggy dough, then turn out on a clean surface to knead for one to two minutes, until a smooth and pliable dough.
3. Place back into the bowl and cover. Place in a warm environment to rise until doubled in size, about 45 minutes to one hour.
4. Roll out the flatbread to ¼” thick oval with a rolling pin.
5. Heat up your grill to 450F – 500F.
6. Toss the peaches in olive oil to grill directly on the racks two to three minutes on each side.
7. Brush the dough with olive oil on both sides, then place on the hot grill racks. Close the grill lid to cook for two minutes, until slightly charred on the bottom, then flip to cook two to three more minutes. The dough should have the grill lines and be puffed up.
8. While warm, add a layer of pesto followed by the arugula, thinly sliced tomatoes, burrata, grilled peaches, prosciutto and hot honey.
9. Season with flaky salt and crushed black pepper to taste.
Recipe developed by LAUREN SEPHTON (@BRIGHTMOMENTCO)
What is Life Like with Toddler Irish Twins?
INSIDE THE WILD, WONDERFUL WORLD OF RAISING TODDLER IRISH TWINS
by SUZY FIELDERS
As I write this, I have two two-yearolds! For three weeks in late May to late June, our Irish Twins are in their “eclipse.” The older one will turn three in a few days and, finally, at least one will get out of the “terrible twos!”
Until I had these girls, I didn’t even know there was a whole vocabulary around Irish Twins! For those who don’t know, Irish Twins are two siblings that are less than a year apart.
So, what’s life like with Irish Twins? Busy, messy, fun, chaotic, emotional and full of so much love. There is also a whole lot of cuteness daily.
Now, when I say emotional, I’m not just talking about the toddlers. Let’s just say when you have two two-year-olds screaming at the top of their lungs because a fly landed on one of them or they’re
refusing to nap, Mom is fighting back the tears some days!
But, the bond they share is amazing to watch! Even at this young age, they cheer each other on with any victories and hold hands when they are scared. They share the sweetest hugs, up until one decides the hug is done yet the other isn’t quite ready to let go.
Somehow, they already seem to have their own language. I seriously often need one to translate what the other said. They always know what each other is talking about though.
The inside jokes are a real thing. Yes, even at two. They were asleep beside each other one night. When the youngest woke up, she was missing a sock. I looked under the blankets, under the bed and everywhere else with no luck finding this sock. I asked her what happened to her sock. She simply says “Sissy.” Now, her sister is still asleep. But, at that moment, she woke up. The missing sock was under her head this whole
time. I’m asking them, toddlers no less, how and when this sock even got off and under her head at night. Naturally, their answers did not match, and it still remains a mystery. But, they just kept cracking up about it to each other like it was the funniest thing ever.
Don’t even get me started on the trouble this sweet duo gets into already. My husband and I joke, although semi-serious, about what things they will get into together as teenagers. We try not to overthink that one though or we might be in need of hard liquor!
From that first moment we brought our youngest daughter home, and her Irish Twin sister had the biggest smile, we knew they would always be there for each other and share a special and indescribable bond.
While the toddler days with Irish Twins seem long, oh so long, we know it’ll truly go by in the blink of an eye. For now, we just treasure those special and fun moments as they come!
Please join us on Friday, October 3, at Kaleideum when we bring the magic of the Big Top to downtown Winston-Salem with craft cocktails, a spectacular dinner, and a high-wire lineup of games and auction fun. Then, dance the night away to rock and pop classics with HIGH SCHOOL REUNION.
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A NEW WAY FOR STUDENT-ATHLETES
Where elite sports and strong academics come together – right here in Bermuda Run!
If you’re the parent of a dedicated studentathlete, you know the challenge – long school days, late night practices, weekend tournaments and, somehow, keeping up with grades. What if all of that could come together – under one roof – with built-in support for both academics and athletics?
That’s exactly what the new NC RISE Performance Academy is offering at RISE Indoor Sports in Bermuda Run, NC. NCRPA is built for families who want their students to excel both in the classroom and in their sport, without sacrificing one for the other, and in the most efficient way possible.
The Academy is now accepting applications for rising 6th-12th graders as it launches later this month for the 2025–2026 school year. While flexibility is built into the program, NCRPA will operate on a school schedule that coordinates with the WS/FCS calendar.
A SCHOOL DAY DESIGNED FOR ATHLETES
Students at NC RISE Performance Academy (NCRPA) follow a flexible, yet structured 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. four-day-a-week schedule – with time carved out each day for both academic work and athletic training. The schedule is thoughtfully designed so athletes can focus on school, train with intention and still enjoy balance in their day.
Additionally, each athlete’s daily schedule may look different. With the needs of each
TO STUDY, TRAIN AND PLAY
student and sport considered, daily and weekly schedules are customized to ensure that academic, athletic and performance goals are being met.
With RISE’s 123,000-square-foot facility as the home base, students have access to high performance courts, indoor turf fields and a full sports performance training center – all just steps from the classroom.
PERSONALIZED LEARNING THAT GOES BEYOND THE BASICS
Academics at NCRPA are delivered through a flexible, online-based curriculum with an onsite academic coach guiding students each day. The academic model, powered by TPH Academy, provides bestin-class academics and a learning community that is focused on development. The NCRPA curriculum is fully accredited and recognized by the NCAA. Whether your child is pursuing honors or AP courses or needs extra one-on-one support, even through a 504 or IEP, the program meets them where they are.
Students can also explore leadership, time management and future career paths – all part of the Academy’s goal to develop well-rounded individuals, not just strong athletes.
“As a parent, you want the very best for your child –and at North Carolina RISE Performance Academy, so do we. I’m incredibly excited for the year ahead as we continue to create a supportive, challenging and inspiring environment where student-athletes can grow both on and off the court or field. This year is all about helping your child rise to his or her full potential, and we’re honored to be part of that journey with your family.”
- Susan Largent, Director, North Carolina RISE Performance Academy
SERIOUS TRAINING. REAL SUPPORT.
Athletic development is a top priority. Student-athletes train with experienced coaches in their chosen sports – from basketball and soccer to baseball, volleyball, wrestling, jiu-jitsu and many more. The Academy also includes strength and conditioning, active recovery and mental wellness resources to support longterm success.
APPLY NOW
Applications for the 2025-2026 school year are now open.
To learn more about the Academy’s leadership, scholastic opportunities and more, visit RISEIndoorSports.com/ NCRPA.
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Doing your own investing has never been easier. The tools are accessible. The fees are low. The online resources are endless. But, there’s one cost that often gets ignored –financial confidence.
CONFIDENCE FEELS EASY IN GOOD TIMES
When markets are calm and rising, it’s easy to feel in control. A few smart moves can build a lot of confidence. But, the real test isn’t how you behave when things go well, it’s how you react when they don’t. Markets always fluctuate. And, when they do, DIY investors can find themselves secondguessing their decisions.
The Hidden Cost of DIY Investing Making Dollars, Making $ense
by JON MARZANO, AIF®, MANAGING PRINCIPAL
In those moments, it’s hard to think clearly. That’s where advice makes the biggest difference. Not in picking stocks, but in helping you stay grounded when your instincts are pulling you off course.
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WHEN YOU’RE YOUR OWN ADVISOR, EMOTIONS MATTER
Most people don’t make decisions based on spreadsheets, they make them based on feelings.
• Fear urges you to sell.
• Greed pushes you to chase hot trends.
• Regret reminds you of missed opportunities.
TECHNOLOGY IS SMART, BUT IT DOESN’T KNOW YOU
Many DIY investors rely on algorithms and automation. These tools are impressive. They can rebalance your portfolio, minimize taxes and make your dashboard look great. But, they can’t have a conversation with you.
They can’t remind you of your goals. They can’t challenge your assumptions. They can’t keep you from making a fear-based move you’ll regret later. Smart tools are helpful. But, they’re not a substitute for thoughtful guidance.
MISTAKES ADD UP QUIETLY
DIY investors often fall into patterns they don’t notice until it’s too late.
• Trying to time the market.
• Overloading on a single company or sector.
• Ignoring taxes and hidden fees.
• Confusing diversification with duplication.
Each decision might seem minor in the moment, but, over time, small mistakes can snowball into big setbacks.
ADVICE ISN’T ABOUT TRANSACTIONS – IT’S ABOUT OUTCOMES
The value of advice isn’t just in what you do, it’s in what you avoid. It’s about:
• Making consistent, confident decisions.
• Sticking to your plan, even when it’s uncomfortable.
• Avoiding costly missteps.
• Protecting your future from your present impulses.
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Triad Area Events in August
August offers a variety of interesting and exciting events for families to experience in and around the Triad. Here are some of the top offerings:
Donna The Buffalo + Joe Thrift & The Hotz
Blue Ridge Music Center, Galax, Va.
Aug. 2, 7 p.m.
Tickets $35
Donna The Buffalo has become a lifestyle for its audiences. Since 1989, the roots rockers have played thousands of shows and festivals, including Merle Fest, Austin City Limits and Bonnaroo. Joe Thrift is a fiddler who was born in Winston-Salem.
The Songbird Experience Featuring ‘Tish Songbird’ in the Crown Carolina Theatre, Greensboro
Aug. 16, 8 p.m.
Tickets $20
“The Songbird Experience” returns to the Carolina Theatre. The Songbird Raven is back for her third annual show, and she’s bringing Tish Songbird as her special guest. Hosted by comedian Jason Tuttle. There will be soulful singing, nonstop laughs and good vibes all night.
An Evening with Somewhat Petty: A Tribute to Tom Petty
The Ramkat, Winston-Salem
Aug. 16, 8 p.m.
Tickets start at $19
Somewhat Petty is an Asheville-based tribute band playing the best of rock icon Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers. Somewhat Petty is comprised of six musicians with one common goal: playing great rock music that everyone loves.
Dom Flemons
Yadkin Cultural Arts Center, Yadkinville Aug. 22, 7:30 p.m.
Tickets $30
Dom Flemons has built a reputation on presenting 100 years of American roots music. But with his recently released solo album, Traveling Wildfire, his own songwriting skills are in the spotlight. This album reveals his love of country, western, blues, Americana, blue grass and folk music.
The Rocket Man Show
Steven Tanger Center
Aug. 23, 8 p.m.
Tickets start at $40
“The Rocket Man Show” features Rus Anderson, a Scotsman and Elton John’s official body double in the Farewell Yellow Brick Road world tour in the 1970s. Chosen by Elton John, Rus’ performance features greatest hits, gorgeous costumes and fierce piano playing.
Brit Floyd: Wish You Were Here
Steven Tanger Center
Aug. 24, 7 p.m.
Tickets start at $52
This is Brit Floyd’s biggest and most spectacular production. It celebrates the 50th anniversary of Pink Floyd’s classic album, Wish You Were Here.
Needle & Thread: A Hands-On Embroidery Workshop
Körner’s Folly, Kernersville
Aug. 24, Noon to 4 p.m.
Tickets $40, includes all materials
Explore the wonderful world of hand embroidery with Alice Jette, a local artist. From learning the basics to improving your skills, this workshop is for participants 18 and older. Learn about the history of embroidery by Körner family members.
Cirque du Soleil: OVO
Bojangles Coliseum, Charlotte
Aug. 28-31, Various times
Tickets start at $55
Created 15 years ago, the famous OVO show has a reimagined set design, new acrobatic acts, new costumes and reinvented music. This fascinating insect colony brings together 53 acrobats and musicians for a show that delights.
Muscadine Bloodline: The Coastal Plain Tour
First Horizon Coliseum, Greensboro
Aug. 29, 8 p.m.
Tickets $45
Muscadine Bloodline, the country duo, are masters of dynamics. They can belt out a big, bold country-rocking anthem and then bring things down to a whisper with a vulnerable, soul-baring ballad.
Birdies & Brunch 2025: Building Brighter Futures
Get ready for good food, good company and an even greater impact – Birdies & Brunch returns for its 6th year on Tuesday, September 9, 2025, at Forsyth Country Club, and you’re invited to attend!
Hosted by Crosby Scholars, this women-led fundraiser brings together community-minded women for a brunch, silent auction and optional golf clinic, all to support Last Dollar Grants for local public school students. These grants help cover unmet financial need, so Forsyth County students can pursue higher education with less debt.
In 2024, the event raised more than $50,000 thanks to the generosity of 40+ sponsors, led by our presenting sponsor Flow Lexus, and the support of community members who believe in the power of education. This year’s event aims even higher with new auction experiences, a fresh venue and new supporters all while supporting the same mission.
Birdies & Brunch is a celebration of access and opportunity, highlighting the young people who are shaping the future of Forsyth County. Crosby Scholars currently serves more than 10,000 public school students in grades 6–12. From FAFSA help and one-on-one advising to community service and leadership development, the program is creating a ripple effect that reaches across classrooms, homes and generations.
And the impact is real: In 2024, 100% of Crosby Scholars’ seniors graduated high school, enrolling in 132 colleges and post-secondary programs. More than $1.2 million in grants and scholarships were awarded – three-fourths of Last Dollar Grants went to Pell-eligible students.
Whether you come to bid, brunch or simply be inspired, Birdies & Brunch is your chance to connect with purpose and help build brighter futures for the next generation.
To purchase tickets or learn about sponsorships, visit: crosbyscholars.org/ how-to-invest/birdies-brunch.
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Forsyth County Library Spotlights:
Central Library – From Childhood Visits to Family Adventures: Why Central Library is a Gem for All Ages
by SUZY FIELDERS
As a writer, I love books and reading. I remember going to the library as a kid and checking out as many books as I could, especially in the summertime. Now, I enjoy taking my daughters to the library!
When I was a kid, we typically only visited the library closest to home. The same tended to be true when I took my oldest daughter to the library. But, now I know what I’ve been missing out on.
Forsyth County has 10 public libraries, and each has its own unique look and offerings. For the next 10 months, I’m excited to share a different one each month. It seems fitting that I share the largest one for part one. Central Library is conveniently located in downtown Winston-Salem and is so much more than just a library!
BOOKS FOR ALL AGES
One of the best things about the Central Library is that there are multiple sections for books that are meant for different ages. There is an entire room devoted to Children’s Books (which includes a fun, interactive wall; another for Teen Books; and an entire floor filled with books that cover everything from fiction to a section with books in Spanish.
BEYOND BOOKS
While I love books, I’m also a fan of movies and technology. Central Library has an abundance of both. You can rent DVDs for free! Just be sure to turn them in on time as they do charge late fees. There is also an entire section on the first floor that’s a computer lab allowing access to anyone with a library card.
COMFORT & NECESSARY SPACES
Want a space to meet with friends for a casual book club? Or, do your teens need a place to discuss a project with their study group? Maybe you want to grab a coffee and get cozy with a book? Guess what? The Central Library has all that and more! They even have a covered outdoor area with tables and chairs to get a little fresh air while you read or work.
CULTURE & HISTORY AWAIT
Not only is this a library, but it is home to a small art gallery. On the second floor, you’ll find several paintings on display. Plus, on one wall, you’ll find a section devoted to displaying a North Carolina collection.
ADDITIONAL OFFERINGS
There is an auditorium on the first floor where events are hosted, and it’s a rentable space. Washington Perk just opened up a cafe inside the Central Library on the first floor. You can grab your caffeine fix before hitting the books. Central Library is also home to maker spaces for those looking to be creative. There are regular events at the library, including storytimes, classes and workshops, craft programs and more.
Parking: There is a garage connected to the library with an entrance on Spring Street, between 4th and 5th Avenues. Additionally, there is a lot diagonal to the library at the intersection of 5th and Spring Streets. Both are free.
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Breaking Barriers: Supporting Children of Color for Lifelong Success
THE FOUNDATION OF OUR FUTURE
Every child deserves the opportunity to reach their full potential, yet too many Black, brown, and children of color face systemic barriers that limit their possibilities before they even begin. At Imprints Cares, we understand that supporting these children isn’t just about individual success—it’s about building stronger communities and creating a more equitable future for everyone.
The early years of a child’s life are critical for brain development, emotional regulation, and the formation of foundational skills that will serve them throughout their lives. When children of color receive the support, resources, and opportunities they need during these crucial years, the positive impact ripples through generations.
CONFRONTING HARD TRUTHS
Despite progress in many areas, children of color continue to face disproportionate challenges. From disparities in early childhood education access to higher rates of trauma exposure, these children often navigate obstacles that their peers do not encounter. The current climate of political division and social tension has only intensified these challenges, creating additional stress for families and communities already working to overcome historical disadvantages.
Too often, stigma and misconceptions create barriers to accessing support services. Families may hesitate to seek help due to fear of judgment, past negative experiences with systems, or cultural mistrust rooted in generations of discrimination. These barriers don’t just affect individual children—they perpetuate cycles that limit entire communities’ potential for growth and prosperity.
THE POWER OF EARLY INVESTMENT
Research consistently shows that quality early childhood interventions have profound long-term effects. Children who receive comprehensive support during their early years are more likely to succeed academically, maintain better physical and mental health, and
contribute positively to their communities as adults. For children of color, who may face additional systemic challenges, early support becomes even more critical.
When we invest in young children of color, we’re not just changing individual trajectories—we’re building the foundation for systemic change. These children become the leaders, innovators, and community builders who will shape tomorrow’s world.
CREATING SYSTEMS CHANGE
Real progress requires more than individual efforts; it demands systemic transformation. This means examining and changing the structures, policies, and practices that perpetuate inequality. It means ensuring that early childhood programs are culturally responsive, that families feel welcomed and valued, and that services are accessible to all who need them.
Systems change also requires honest conversations about race, equity, and opportunity. We must move beyond colorblind approaches and actively work to dismantle barriers while building bridges of understanding and support.
HOW WE CAN MOVE FORWARD TOGETHER
Build Cultural Bridges: Create programs and services that honor and celebrate the rich cultures and traditions that children of color bring to our community. When children see themselves reflected and valued, they’re more likely to thrive.
Address Implicit Bias: Examine our own assumptions and work to eliminate bias in how we interact with and serve families. This includes training for staff, volunteers, and community partners.
Advocate for Policy Change: Support policies that address systemic inequities, from funding formulas for early childhood programs to criminal justice reform that keeps families together.
Foster Community Partnerships: Work with faith communities, cultural organizations, and grassroots groups that already have trust and relationships within communities of color.
Amplify Voices: Ensure that families of color have meaningful input in program design and implementation. Their lived experiences must guide our efforts.
THE TIME IS NOW
At Imprints Cares, we refuse to accept that a child’s zip code, skin color, or family income should determine their future. We’re committed to working alongside families and communities to break down barriers and build up opportunities for every child to succeed.
The current climate of division and negativity makes this work more challenging, but also more urgent. We cannot afford to wait for a better political moment or a more convenient time. Children are growing up right now, and the support they receive today will shape who they become tomorrow.
When we invest in Black, brown, and children of color, we’re not just helping individuals— we’re building the diverse, talented, and resilient communities that will drive innovation, economic growth, and social progress for generations to come.
The question isn’t whether we can afford to make these investments in our children of color. The question is whether we can afford not to.
Imprints Cares is committed to supporting all children and families in our community. Together, we can create a future where every child has the opportunity to thrive, regardless of their background or circumstances.
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Questions to Ask in the Medical World
You’re Not Alone - How to Face Medical Visits With Courage and Clarity
by SUZY FIELDERS
When you become a parent, you can read all the parenting books in the world; but, the reality is, nothing prepares you better than real world experience. While this is very true of dealing with medical issues, it’s also true that it never hurts to be prepared.
Going to the doctors feels daunting enough for a person. When it’s a trip for our kids, it adds a whole new level of concern and hesitation. Part of that is the unknown. Guess what? The best way to combat the unknown is to be prepared. There is no better preparation than having a list of questions ready to ask the doctor.
Over the next few months, I’ll be covering what to ask of different medical fields and professionals. From an ER visit to a regular check-up at the pediatrician and even lab work, I’m going to provide some tips on coming up with questions to help you prepare yourself and your little one for these sometimes-intimidating visits.
MY “RUN INS” WITH THE MEDICAL WORLD
Before I dive into future articles in the series, I want to share a little bit about why I’m even writing about these topics.
I have three daughters, ages two, three and 18, that all have had an unfortunately vast assortment of medical issues over the years. In just the last 12 months, I’ve been to more than 60 doctors’ appointments (I lost track of counting around 64). In the past 18 years, there have been five ER visits, three of which required ambulance rides and one was while we were on vacation for Christmas one year in Clearwater, Florida. I’ve dealt with two surgeries for my 18-year-old daughter, three surgeries if you count my own gallbladder removal. My sweet three-year-old has already been under anesthesia twice. So, I say all this to share that I have indeed been around the medical world a bit!
As this series progresses, I’ll share some of the insight I’ve had to learn firsthand. I hope this helps those reading this to not only feel better prepared in putting together their questions and asking questions that pop up at appointments but also have peace of mind that you are not alone in this!
Furthermore, as a writer and marketing professional, I’ve had several medical assignments and clients. I’ve had to research and write on various medical topics from digestive health to water safety. I even built a website for a local, well known pediatric office!
I’ve had so many scenarios where I’m asking questions of a doctor/medical professional, and their first response is “do you work in the medical field.” It’s to the point my husband finds it humorous and almost starts laughing every single time it happens.
All that said, and joking aside, please always ask a medical professional all your questions. Here are a few initial tips and pieces of advice.
• Trust your instincts. As a mom, you know your child best and, if something doesn’t feel right, follow your gut.
• There are no stupid questions. Seriously. When it comes to your child’s health, ask away, and I promise the doctor will think no less of you.
• Remember medical professionals are human too and make mistakes. So again, trust your gut, and it’s okay to want a second opinion.
• Stay away from Google, especially if you see medical results before you talk to a doctor. It’s just going to scare you and almost always leads to false information.
• Utilize your portal. It’s there for you to send questions. Same goes for that emergency hours triage nurse line. They are there to answer your questions when needed, even after hours.
• Make sure you have a pediatrician/ primary care provider who listens. If you feel like they aren’t taking you seriously, it’s likely time to switch practices.
To wrap up this first part, I want to share what lies ahead in this series!
• September – Questions to ask a pediatrician
• October – Questions to ask in an ER visit
• November – Questions to ask the specialists
• December – Questions to ask for surgeries and procedures
• January – Questions to ask about labs
• February – Questions to ask about medications
• March – Questions to ask your own PCP (Primary Care Provider)
All I Really Need Is A Little
Good News
Aug 1, 2025
There are days that the axiom rings true: “If it weren’t for bad luck, I wouldn’t have any luck at all.” In the past month, I have had the lion’s share of things go wrong – unexpected dental problems, “check engine” lights flashing on my Toyota dashboard, family conflicts, well meaning but insensitive comments from friends about my financially unsuccessful life and the biggest cockroach in North Carolina deciding to set up camp in my Art-Deco styled living room. If there was any good news to be had, it certainly wasn’t headed my way. When I turned on a country western station and heard a song entitled “All I Really Need Is A Little Good News” by someone named Shaboozey, I felt that I had met my soulmate in musical cyberspace.
I’ve spent a lot of time this year ruminating on the proposition that maybe I am just not a lucky person since I seldom seem to be the recipient of good news. When I recently scoured the psychological literature about lucky and unlucky people, I came upon a lifechanging article which set my emotional equilibrium to rights. The writer boldly said, you make your own good luck or good news. She said that the funny thing about pain and misery is that they are terribly addictive, a sentiment I could relate to because I was constantly mired in thoughts of my victimhood and how I didn’t deserve good things because I simply wasn’t good enough anyway.
According to that author whose name I have lost in the annals of too-muchmemory overload, lucky people actually generate their good fortune because of four essential principles.
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turned it down, figuring that I wouldn’t be able to deal with the deluge of assignments that I was assured I would be getting. I banked on being a failure, made a quick exit and licked my own psychological wounds. I missed the chance and, foreseeably, the regrets poured in hours later.
Listening to your intuition. Feeling that I was terminally unlucky, I finally realized, was directly linked to my lack of self-confidence. The intuition was often there, but the follow through didn’t happen. When an acquaintance mentioned to me that the vintage jewelry I was wearing was really exquisite, she followed that thought with “you really should open up an online store and sell this stuff.” I had had that same intuition before but figured there probably wasn’t a market for my heirlooms, so why bother trying to set up a website to display it? I wasn’t listening to my intuition and kicked it to the curb.
Creating self-fulfilling prophecies anchored in positive expectations. Being of the “woe is me” school, I didn’t have any positive expectations anyway. A friend emailed me a quote from Seneca, a philosopher in antiquity, which averred “luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” The problem was, I couldn’t get myself to the preparation stage because I didn’t believe I had the innate ability to make a go of things –even if an opportunity presented itself. It felt ultimately better to wallow in despair and the voices of “I told you so, you’re just unlucky by nature.” By now, I could see the writing on the wall.
named Viktor Frankl, who survived the concentration camps of The Holocaust in World War II, did. In his famous book, “Man’s Search For Meaning” he argues: “Forces beyond your control can take away everything you possess except one thing – your freedom to choose how you will respond to the situation.” Choosing to do nothing, while not a happy idea, required no energy and I was good with that.
When I came upon Ernest Hemingway’s quote “you make your own luck,” I finally resolved that I would do just that. I began to visualize good things happening and doing good things, too – being of service to others, doing community service, cleaning up a park and sending money to animal rescue operations. The positive mindset eventually set in motion a stream of fortuitous events – several stories which were published in various venues, a great roommate who joined our home and a juicy job offer I could not turn down.
The Dalai Lama remarked:
“Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.” Ironically, all the bad luck I had had turned my life around. The former geography of despair is now one filled with hope.
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Noticing and creating chance opportunities. In my case, I had the pre-existing attitude that “this wouldn’t work out for me anyway.” When I was offered a job as a magazine editor, I
Adopting a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good. I didn’t have that attitude – but a renowned psychotherapist
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What We Leave Behind:
For years, it was a running joke with me and my parents when they’d say, “One day this will all be yours.” I guess it never dawned on me that would indeed be the case and as an only child, everything would be on my shoulders. I had no idea the weight of going through closets, drawers, cabinets, tool boxes and photo albums could be so terribly sad. To say the process is overwhelming is an understatement, but there are things I have learned that might help if you ever find yourself in my shoes.
WHEN GRIEF SHOWS UP, YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT, NOT AROUND IT
There’s no handbook for how to go through your parents’ belongings after they pass. No guide to explain the pangs of guilt you’ll feel as you open drawers filled with decades of receipts, letters and mementos. No one warns you that every object might whisper a story or that even a chipped coffee mug could bring you to your knees in grief. My parents kept the cards from the flowers they received when I was born, the band on my little wrist from Baptist Hospital, my certificate of graduation from preschool and all the pieces of a life lived. To anyone else, these things were just “stuff,” but to me, they were bits of the lives of a family of three.
MORE THAN JUST THINGS
My parents kept everything, literally, everything. My baby bassinet, clothes marking milestones of my life, report cards, my class
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volume is overpowering. Closets packed, drawers brimming, shelves lined with what we called “doo-dads,” so where do I start and what do I keep or throw away? Could there be a note tucked away in an insignificant book as a final message to me? What if I part with something I didn’t know was important?
THE GUILT OF LETTING GO
From the day I started going through the house, there was one question that haunted me – would my mom and dad be upset with what I am doing? Would they be hurt to know the things they saved were going to be auctioned off to people who never knew the struggle they went through to purchase those things?
I walked a tightrope between wanting to honor their memory and trying to reclaim my own life.
But, here is what I learned – grief isn’t just about losing a person. It’s about saying goodbye to a chapter…to the physical remnants of a life that no longer continues and that chapter deserves closure.
Letting go of objects doesn’t mean letting go of love. It doesn’t mean forgetting, and it doesn’t make me a bad daughter or an ungrateful one. To me, it means choosing what truly carries meaning and memory and releasing what doesn’t, so that I am not crushed under the weight of everything my
Sorting Through a Lifetime of Love and Loss
FROM BURDEN TO HEALING
After about a year, I made the hard decision to hire an auction company to come in and help me along with the process. I had made very little progress and needed objective eyes on things, but ones that understood my feelings, and I found the perfect person in Lynn Myers. He was so caring and focused on respecting my loss, and that made a big difference in me being able to part with things.
The process of sorting through things and having an auction, as painful as it was, began my healing. I kept the things that I felt filled my heart with the best memories I could find. Life with my parents was hard, through every stage of my life, but in their own way, I know they loved me.
LIFE GOES ON
The day of the auction, I watched my parents’ possessions go away with people I didn’t know, but I hoped things like the picnic basket that made many trips to Mabry Mill would bring a new family good memories, the antiques my dad had will bring another person joy, because in the end, it’s not about keeping it all. It’s about keeping what speaks to my heart and allowing the rest to go, knowing that my parents and our life together didn’t live in things but in our hearts, and mine is now the only heart left to remember.
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NURTURING NEW NORMS:
by TARYN JEREZ
Each month, this series introduces fun and impactful healthy habits to help families with kids and teens prioritize physical, mental and spiritual well being – fostering a lifestyle of shared growth and lifelong wellness. Healthy habits built together are the ones that last a lifetime.
Our world is more connected than ever before and, with so much visibility to the world, it’s a true gift to help our children appreciate life beyond their own lived experiences. Anyone who has spent time around children knows how curious they are about people who don’t look, sound or do things differently than themselves. While their curiosity may sometimes spark discomfort in the idea of singling out someone with differences, it can instead be a powerful doorway to appreciating other cultures.
WHY CULTURAL APPRECIATION MATTERS LONG TERM
Our children are growing up with rich diversity around them! When children learn to respect and appreciate different cultures from an early age, it shapes how they view the world even as teens and adults. As parents and caregivers, we have an opportunity and responsibility not to teach “tolerance” but to raise humans with interest and respect for the many cultures that make up our communities. Creating open dialogue and visibility to these cultures outside our own brings kids up with bigger hearts, kinder perspectives and more inclusive world views.
HOW TO CREATE INTENTIONAL EXPOSURE TO OTHER CULTURES
Studies have shown that early exposure to diverse cultures and experiences help children develop increased social and emotional intelligence, stronger problem solving and richer
Raising
CULTURALLY CURIOUS KIDS
critical thinking skills. Attending events rooted in different cultures such as a Diwali celebration or Passover dinner with friends can give them respect and understanding as well as spark interest in new things. Many adults who have prioritized travel, learning world languages, enjoy international cuisine and more were once children who were given opportunities to appreciate how others live, believe, eat, dress and celebrate.
SIMPLE WAYS TO GET STARTED
Here are a few ideas on how to incorporate culturally diverse experiences as a family.
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Explore the World Through Food
Some families wait for travel to open the door to try new foods, but a simple trip to the international aisle at your local grocery store works just fine! Plan a themed dinner around a country or culture you’re learning about or watched in a movie this month. Try recipes from friends or online or head to a new restaurant to try foods together.
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Make Diverse Media Part of Your Routine
Open up interesting and inclusive conversations with your kids by including books, documentaries and even cartoons and movies from other countries and cultures. Encourage questions and curiosity, being open to answering what you can and together finding out any answers that you don’t know.
Attend Local Cultural Events
You can find family friendly events in your community that are centered around music, food, dancing, art and traditions from other cultures. You can find events online or in your local newspaper with everything from Juneteenth celebrations, Lunar New Year festivals, Greek or Spanish food festivals and more!
CREATING PRACTICES THAT LAST A LIFETIME
How our children treat others begins with what we model in our home. When we thread cultural appreciation into the natural parts of life, we raise kind, curious, globally minded humans who are ready to thrive in a diverse world!
Smoked Buffalo Chicken Sandwiches
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Pit Master Tip
If you have never spatchcocked a chicken, it is a much easier process and makes cooking it more efficient. You can add a lot of different toppings to your sandwich to make it your own. You can also substitute a whole chicken for a breast or thighs. I like shredded chicken best. Make it as spicy as you want and have fun!
Prep Time: 30 minutes | Cook Time: 3-4 hours
Yields: Varies
This is the perfect sandwich for the next cookout.
Ingredients:
1 Whole Chicken (4-5 pounds)
2T Nashville Hot Seasoning
1 Cup Buffalo Sauce
Start out by setting your smoker anywhere from 225-275 degrees. While the smoker is heating up, go ahead and get a 4-5 pound chicken ready. I like to spatchcock the chicken, so it lays flat on the grill. This makes it cook more even throughout and cuts your cooking time in half. Season your chicken with a spicy rub. I like to use Nashville hot seasoning to give the sandwich an extra kick.
Put your chicken on the smoker and spritz every 30 minutes with apple cider vinegar. Make sure your chicken reaches 165 degrees internally. Pull off the smoker and let it rest for 15 minutes. Then shred it up.
Grab a brioche bun and build your sandwich. I added Lanes One Legged Chicken buffalo sauce, ranch and lettuce. This sandwich is so good you may never order one at a restaurant again.
You can pick up all Lanes products from Academy Sports or Ace Hardware.
I smoked this on my Big Green Egg from Casual Furniture World. They have locations in Winston-Salem, Greensboro and Myrtle Beach. They carry every accessory for the Big Green Egg amongst other brands, all the finest names in outdoor patio sets, fire pits and everything you need to make sure your backyard is set up for all your summer get-togethers.
Make sure to stop by and pick up your next grill at any of their locations!
ADVENTURE AWAITS: PART 5
Sports Mania – From Bases to Aces: Don’t Miss Summer Sports Adventures in Winston-Salem
by SUZY FIELDERS
Nothing says outdoor adventure like being a spectator at an exciting sports event! Luckily, there are some great options for families during August in Forsyth County. In fact, your family can enjoy major sports fun right here in Winston-Salem. From a baseball game with fireworks to a tennis match with kids’ activities to learn about the sport, there is so much family outdoor fun ahead this month!
WINSTON-SALEM DASH
Baseball is called “America’s pastime” for a reason. It’s full of food, excitement and good times for everyone. The Winston-Salem Dash levels up all of that to make each game an unforgettable experience for families.
Every Friday and Saturday, there are fireworks after each game, the kids’ area with a carousel and games is free to enjoy, and kids run the bases at the end of every game.
The Dash outdoes itself every year with food options, and this year is no different. Kids, and kids at heart, will love the fried Uncrustables. Parents will love $5 drafts every Thursday!
Tickets: Ticket prices range from $14-$31, depending on seat location and upgrades like suites.
WINSTON-SALEM OPEN
Every August, tennis blows up in the area with the Winston-Salem Open. This weeklong event is so much fun for all ages. The first Saturday is typically also a family day with extra games and offerings for kids.
There are plenty of food options to satisfy all taste buds, even younger, picky eaters. One great
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thing about these matches is everything is relatively close by, and it’s not a huge space like some sporting events.
Location: 499 Deacon Boulevard, Winston-Salem
Website: winstonsalemopen.com
Instagram: @winstonsalemopen Fee: Ticket prices range from $12.10-$94, depending on session attending and seat location.
TIPS FOR SUMMER OUTDOOR SPORTS EVENTS
The only downside to outdoor sports events in NC in summer is the heat. Here are a few tips and things to help make it more manageable:
• If you have a baby or toddler, consider investing in and bringing a stroller fan. Even if you don’t bring a stroller, you can put it on the baby car seat or let your toddler hold it.
• Make sure everyone stays hydrated. Most local sporting events let you bring water for formula or in toddler sippy cups. There are also usually water fountains around if you don’t want to purchase bottled water.
• Make sure everyone has sunscreen on. Nothing is worse than getting a sunburn or a farmer’s tan from watching a game or match.
In part six of this Adventure Awaits series, I’ll be sharing some fun picnic spots in Forsyth County!
Mark Miriello, OD Juawana Hall, OD Seth Jones, OD
CELEBRATING 20 YEARS OF FORSYTH WOMAN
What started as a 26-page, partially black-and-white, newspaper-style magazine in 2005 has grown into a vibrant, full color, full gloss, 100+ page publication that continues to celebrate, connect, and uplift our community.
At our core, Forsyth Woman has always been about supporting local—from small businesses and entrepreneurs to community leaders and everyday women making a difference. We believe in the power of storytelling, the strength of collaboration, and the magic that happens when women come together.
Twenty years later, our mission remains the same: to be a trusted, inspiring space that celebrates all things local and helps women feel seen, supported, and empowered. Here's to the next chapter!
2005 2025
Facebook was just for college students
Carrie Underwood won American Idol
Most people had flip phones
1st issue of Forsyth Woman hit the stands!
Gas was $2.30 a gallon
Starbucks had just launched the Pumpkin Spice Latte
You made mix CDs for your car
Did You Know?
You can now follow Forsyth Woman on IG + FB
She’s still touring—and we’re still obsessed You’re probably reading this on your iPhone 17 240+ issues later…we’re just getting started Don’t even ask.
PSLs… still iconic. Just like us.
Now your playlists live on Spotify and Apple music
• Our very first cover featured Fox8 News Anchor, Cindy Farmer
• We’ve printed over 2.5 million copies of Forsyth Woman since 2005
• Forsyth Woman has hosted 150+ Girls’ Night Out events (and counting!)
• Our “Women on the Move” column is the ONLY feature that’s appeared in every single issue since 2005—spotlighting well over 1,000 women!
• When founder Keela Johnson launched Forsyth Woman, she had zero publishing experience—just a dream and determination!
August’s Must-Visit Spot Getaway Guide
Cooler Temps, Crisp Apples and Mountain Magic Await in Hendersonville This August
by SUZY FIELDERS
If you thought the heat was brutal last month, the August heat is just as bad! That means this month’s Getaway Guide also features a North Carolina mountain town. However, last month’s mountainous destination was closer to the Tennessee border, and this one is much closer to South Carolina’s border.
Just slightly south of Asheville down I-26 is Hendersonville. It’s an easy route from Forsyth County as you can simply take I-40 West to I-26 South. This small town provides big fun for families, especially in August during the North Carolina Apple Festival.
A SMALL TOWN WITH BIG OFFERINGS
Located in the Blue Ridge Mountains, Hendersonville is the perfect weekend getaway destination. If you want an outdoor adventure, there are so many options from mountain biking and hiking trails to iconic waterfalls. Need to unwind and relax? There are wineries, B&Bs, Inns and delicious dining options. Plus, there is no shortage of scenic overlooks around virtually every turn.
Henderson County is not only where Hendersonville is located, but it is also the largest apple-producing county in North Carolina. In fact, it regularly ranks among the top 20 apple-producing counties in the United States.
TOP 5 THINGS TO DO IN HENDERSONVILLE
When you visit Hendersonville, these are some stops you need to factor into your trip planning.
1. Hands On! Children’s Museum – An interactive museum with exhibits that showcase everything from real world experiences like the grocery store to water play tables.
2. Henderson County Heritage Museum – Filled with artifacts and historical exhibits, learn all about Hendersonville’s rich history.
3. Stroll Downtown S. Main Street – From shops to restaurants, this thriving downtown area has something for everyone.
4. Cheers Trail – Beer, Wine, Cider, Mead and Spirits – This fun and lively “trail” has truly something for every taste.
5. Western North Carolina Air Museum – While Kitty Hawk might be home to the Wright Brothers’ first successful powered flight, Hendersonville is home to North Carolina’s first air museum.
WHY VISIT IN AUGUST?
You can’t go wrong visiting the North Carolina Blue Ridge Mountains any time of year. But August in Hendersonville is very special. For more than 70 years, it has been home to the North Carolina Apple Festival.
At the NC Apple Festival, you’ll find a large assortment of appleinspired treats, a parade, live music, a street festival, many family friendly activities, and see & meet 14 Henderson County growers. If you or your family love apples, this is the place to be. If you are looking for an unforgettable time, you shouldn’t miss this delicious festival!
DETAILS TO VISIT HENDERSONVILLE & ATTEND NORTH CAROLINA APPLE FESTIVAL
Distance from Winston-Salem: Around 2 and ½ hours
Learn more about Hendersonville: visithendersonvillenc.org
Learn more about NC Apple Festival: ncapplefestival.org
Dates: NC Apple Festival takes place Friday, August 29th - Monday, September 1st
Instagram: @ncapplefest and @visithendersonvillenc
Build Your Perfect Day in Forsyth County
and We’ll Tell You What It Says About You
From cinnamon roll mornings to creative afternoons, Forsyth County has something for every personality. Choose your perfect local day and we’ll reveal what it says about you. Let’s go!
1. HOW ARE YOU STARTING YOUR MORNING?
A. Strolling through Cobblestone Farmers Market with a fresh bouquet and local honey in hand
B. A rich chocolate croissant from Bobby Boy Bakeshop (and maybe a second to go)
C. Brunch with the crew at Young Cardinal, with a mimosa flight on the side
D. A gooey cinnamon roll from Louie & Honey’s, eaten on a park bench in the sun
2. WHAT’S YOUR MID-MORNING ACTIVITY?
A. A community WOD at Washington Park CrossFit—sweaty, social, and strong
B. A quiet walk with your pup at the Tanglewood dog trail
C. Exploring and learning with the kids at Kaleideum
D. Window shopping downtown—hitting up Mast General Store, Bookmarks, and Design Archives
3. WHAT’S ON THE AGENDA THIS AFTERNOON?
A. A peaceful hike at Salem Lake or Pilot Mountain with a picnic lunch
B. A round of golf at Reynolds Park or hitting the driving range
C. Letting your creative side shine at Mixxer Community Makerspace
D. Relaxing at Incendiary with a cold drink and friends
4. PICK YOUR PERFECT EVENING PLAN:
A. A romantic dinner at Jeffrey Adams on Fourth
B. A movie and popcorn at a/perture Cinema
C. An ice cream flight at Chill Nitro
D. A slice of five-flavor pound cake at Midtown Dessertery
RESULTS: WHAT YOUR DAY SAYS ABOUT YOU
MOSTLY A’S: THE INTENTIONAL EXPLORER
You’re grounded, thoughtful, and fully present in every moment. You seek out meaningful experiences—whether that’s a mindful hike or a farm-fresh morning. People love how centered and calming you are to be around.
MOSTLY B’S: THE COMFORT-SEEKER
You know what you love, and you make no apologies for it. Whether it’s a perfect pastry, a familiar trail, or a cozy movie night, you surround yourself with warmth. You’re dependable, kind-hearted, and a master of making everyday moments feel special.
MOSTLY C’S: THE PLAYFUL MULTITASKER
You thrive in chaos—in the best way. You’re constantly moving, learning, and experiencing, and your joy is contagious. Whether it’s crafting at Mixxer or wrangling little ones at Kaleideum, you make life fun and full of adventure.
MOSTLY D’S: THE SOCIAL BUTTERFLY
You bring the energy wherever you go. You’re curious, outgoing, and always up for a good time—especially when good food and conversation are involved. Your perfect day includes connection, laughter, and a little indulgence (you’ve earned it!).
Mistakes to Avoid When Eating Out with Kids
by TMOM TEAM MEMBER DENNETTE BAILEY
A vacation is an opportunity to relax and spend quality time with people you love and care about. On the vacations we spend with our children, we want to make them fun for adults and children, and a key to that fun is avoiding mistakes that hinder us from having enjoyable vacation memories. Here are seven mistakes to avoid when planning to take your children on a vacation that just might save you from regretting the trip.
1
RELYING ON THE CUPS FROM THE RESTAURANT
We want the best for our children, and sometimes we feel like they want something because we want it when the truth is they are happy with receiving the same routine you have always done because it was the best. Your child’s cup is clean, BPA free and easy to hold and manipulate, so they are least likely to have a spill. Bring your child’s cup, preferably with a healthy drink, but if you must order a drink, ask for water and lemon or your preferred version of milk. Try to avoid sodas and “fruit “drinks. Punches and lemonades are full of sugars and dyes and not good for our little one’s brains.
2
NOT PRACTICING THE OUTING AT HOME FIRST
The best way to help your child adjust to this different environment in which they cannot get up and walk around as they choose is to practice by playing “restaurant” at home. Help the child come up with solutions to their needs at home during restaurant play so that if issues come up at the restaurant, they are ready. Help them see what it feels like if the person sitting at the table behind him does not want to take a sip out of their cup or share their meal, for example.
3
FORGETTING TO BRING BUSY ACTIVITIES
Bring paper and crayons and colored pencils or, even easier, bring a magnetic doodle board. The child can write and draw and move the lever to erase it and start over. Books are also great.
6
BRINGING A HANGRY CHILD TO THE RESTAURANT
A child should be eating at least every four hours. It is not reasonable to expect them to miss their regular lunch time because a special restaurant is planned for an hour and a half later. Please give your child a fruit salad or a protein drink to hold them over, so they can enjoy the restaurant without a growling tummy that is sure to cause some friction at the table.
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GIVING THE CHILD THE SUGAR-FILLED SAUCES AND DRINKS
It is very surprising the ingredients you can find in a simple ketchup or ranch sauce. Sometimes there are six to 10 ingredients including the dyes, sugars and preservatives. Do not feel bad about bringing your own sauce for your child. Avoiding these sugared sauces will help you and your child at home when it is time to put them to bed and they are not all wound up from the extra sugar.
No matter the child, if you avoid these seven mistakes, eating out with kids is likely doable. If you practice or pretend to be at a restaurant several times before you go, not only will you have some valuable time spent with your child, but it will also make eating out with kids much easier because your child will know what to expect and how to get what they need. Children thrive when they feel safe when they can anticipate what will happen in their environment, so I recommend “playing restaurant” be a priority.
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CHOOSING A RESTAURANT THAT IS NOT KID FRIENDLY
Think about any sensory issues your child may have. Is the restaurant too dark or too light, too warm or too cold? Does the restaurant not receive children well? You will know this because they have no children’s menu or seating for young toddlers.
NOT CHECKING THE MENU AHEAD OF TIME
You already know what foods your child likes to eat. The restaurant is not a place to make sure your child tries a new vegetable. If you want to make sure they get all their components of food, bring a cute little lunch box with the extras, so your child can have the foods they like and they will be less likely to become fussy.
It’s a Grand Life Grand
Well, That Was Quick!
by SUSAN WOODALL
Didn’t I just write about the summer starting? And now it’s almost over? I realize it isn’t officially over until September 22nd, but August signals schools are going to reopen, vacations have been taken, camps have closed, as have some community or club pools. The heat may linger on for a while, but the lazy days are behind us.
I have to admit I have had a wonderful summer so far. Soon after school let out, my youngest granddaughter went to camp. This was her first experience and, fortunately, her friend was going, too. I got to go along for the ride and, after seeing the camp, I wished I could stay! She had a great time, but it will be interesting to see how she feels about going again next year.
My sister, who is pretty much a homebody, finally came for a visit. She won’t drive this far, and she won’t fly. She decided to come by train, which had its own issues, but we had a wonderful time for the few days she was here. Our eldest daughter came for a few days while her aunt was here, along with two of our three grandchildren – our oldest grandson was attending a sports camp. My sister got to see him on her last day here, but missed seeing the granddaughter who was at camp. A day trip to Southport with our daughters, and all but two grandkids, was an outing we all enjoyed.
The end of June had three of our grandkids off to camp. Our eldest granddaughter and our middle granddaughter were back to the camp that their mothers attended when they were young. The older one, after
being a camper for years, was now a counselor. She had a great time with her group of seven year olds. Meanwhile, the other granddaughter was enjoying her three weeks getting to be with friends she’s made from past years and making new friends, too. While the girls were at their camp, our middle grandson went to two different camps. He had no complaints either. We missed them over the Fourth of July celebration, but I know they were having a great time where they were.
The end of June also meant a new addition to our home as we adopted an adorable little dog. There was no information about him, but the minute he came into the house, he fit right in. Our veterinarian put him at about 2 ½ years old and gave him a clean bill of health. He needs a bit of fattening up, but that shouldn’t take long as he loves to eat. He and our other dog get along fine and didn’t have any trouble adjusting to each other.
Most of July has been hot and steamy, with the typical summer storms – which just make it hotter and steamier. Soon, all the grands will be back from camp, more time will be spent at the pool and participating in the final swim meets.
July will soon be over with just a few more day trips and enjoying being with family and friends. The month of August will have things winding down, and now with schools starting earlier, less time spent with our precious grandchildren. We will have two in high school, two in middle school and three in elementary school. It will be hard to keep up with all their schedules, but their Pabo and Gigi will certainly try. There will be an anniversary to celebrate along with three birthdays that are only a few days apart. Lots of cakes and ice cream to be eaten – no complaints about that!
So, I guess instead of wondering how summer went by so fast, I’ll look forward to what the fall will bring – especially the cooler weather!
“Art is not a mirror held up to reality, but a hammer with which to shape it.” - Bertolt Brecht
FEATURED ARTISTS
Katrina Vang Grade 8
Clemmons Middle
Stacey Bauer, Art Teacher
Angelina Patterson
Grade 11
Career Center
Sydney Bibbs, Art Teacher
Alexander Landaverde
Grade 3
Mineral Springs Elementary
Hannah Wilkinson, Art Teacher
Ellie Turner
Grade 12
RJR High
Trina Olson, Art Teacher
LOCAL EVENTS
*Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites & social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.*
JULY 28-AUGUST 1
LET’S LAUGH CAMP
9:30am-4:30pm, Little Theatre of W-S. From jokes to funny stories, we will explore everything that makes us laugh. Campers will explore how to tell a joke, what faces are the funniest and how it all goes together to create a fun, creative and laugh-out-loud story. A Hilarious Showcase will be at the end of the week.
JULY 28-AUGUST 1
CREATING A CHARACTER CAMP
8am-5pm, Little Theatre of W-S. Creating a Character is the most fundamental part of acting. Campers will explore how their voice, body and facial expressions change a character. They will explore how motivation and backstory determine how a character behaves in a scene. In this camp, our actors will expand their acting skills, getting them ready for middle and high school audition season! There will be a Character Showcase at the end of the week.
AUGUST 3
JAZZ CLASSIQUE BY MUSIC CAROLINA SUMMERFEST
3-5pm, Salem College. Jazz Classique returns to Summerfest with a program entitled “A Jazz Collective” featuring the music of pianist John Mochnick. Composed over the past 20 years, this varied program of blues, bebop, ballads, etc. provides the audience a rare opportunity to hear these original unique works combined into one program.
AUGUST 4-8
MY STORY TIME CAMP
9:30am-4:30pm, The Little Theatre of W-S. Grades K-4. Gather round for a week of storytelling where you are the storyteller. Campers will explore the parts of a story, beginning, middle and end as well as how the story is driven by the characters. They will explore how vocal and facial expressions can portray different characters and emotions. A fun filled story time will be held at the end of the week.
AUGUST 4-8
INTRO TO IMPROV CAMP
9:30am-4:30pm, The Little Theatre of W-S. Grades 5-12. Ready to up your theatre experience? Improvisation is not only fun and funny, it is a great skill on and off stage, as well. This class will help with public speaking, confidence and acting. And, we’ll have a lot of laughs along the way! There will be a showcase on the final day of class.
AUGUST 9
BACK TO SCHOOL POP UP KIDS’ CLOTHING SALE &
MORE
9am-12pm, 406 Harvey Street in W-S. Join us for a fun morning of shopping! There will be kids’ clothing, bakery items, handmade soap, and more.
AUGUST 9
YOUR HOME MARKETPLACE SUMMER FESTIVAL
9am-6pm, Your Home Marketplace, 670 S. Stratford Road in W-S. Come prepared to shop! Every booth in Your Home Marketplace’s 11,000-square-foot showplace will feature a sale! Peruse a beautiful and eclectic array of home decor and furnishings, vintage items and antiques, furniture, jewelry, clothing, Fusion Mineral paint, lots of gift ideas and much more! Bring family or friends and be sure to put your name in our gift certificate drawing box!
AUGUST 9
INDIGENOUS PEOPLES AND MORAVIANS: A CELEBRATION
OF CULTURES
1:30-4:30pm, Historic Bethabara Park. Learn about the connections between the Cherokee People and early Moravians through interactions with the Atsila Anotasgi Cultural Specialists from the Museum of the Cherokee People; a hands-on exhibit of North Carolina Native American artifacts and displays presented by the Lam Museum of Anthropology; and an informative tour around the park grounds. Admission is free!
AUGUST 9
PART OF YOUR WORLD: SONGS OF DISNEY BY MUSIC CAROLINA SUMMERFEST
7:30-9:30pm, Salem College. A sampler of some of the great Disney songs over the decades, including: “Can You Feel the Love Tonight,” “Colors of the Wind,” “Someday My Prince Will Come,” “When You Wish Upon a Star” and more.
AUGUST 15
JAZZ, POETRY & WINE AT ACADIA FOODS
7:30-9:30pm, Acadia Foods, 228 W. Acadia Avenue. Join us for an evening of Jazz, Poetry, and Wine at Acadia Foods, a unique and alternative space that promises a memorable experience. The event features the Dave Fox Group and the evocative verses of poet Spencer Aubrey. Enjoy original compositions by Dave Fox, paired perfectly with Aubrey’s stirring poetry. Wine Selections by John Engel of Acadia Foods will be available for purchase.
AUGUST 17
INTERGENERATIONAL DANCE WITH HOT JAZZ
2-4pm, Intergenerational Center for Arts and Wellness. New work by choreographer Christina Soriano, with “Gypsy Jazz” performed by The Piedmont Hot Club. The program is a cross-disciplinary and cross-generational dance project co-choreographed by Christina Soriano. Music is in the Django Reinhardt style of “Gypsy Jazz” performed by The Piedmont Hot Club.
AUGUST 22
CUBAN
GROOVES WITH JAZZ AND BLUES
7:30-9:30pm, Piedmont Music Center. Get ready for a soul-stirring evening where the cool swing of straight-ahead
jazz meets the fiery pulse of Cuban rhythm! “Vibrations of Cuba” is a one-night-only musical experience that brings together world-class musicians for an electrifying fusion of melody, groove and cultural fire. Hosted by Roberto Orihuela on vibraphone, this unique ensemble brings together the warmth of traditional Cuban music and the sophistication of modern jazz, all through the shimmering tones of the vibes.
AUGUST 22-24
MEISNER TECHNIQUE INTENSIVE
6-10pm (22nd); 12-4pm (23rd-24th), The Little Theatre of W-S. This three-part intensive led by instructors Jack Schultz and Daphne Escalante introduces and deepens your understanding of the Meisner technique, guiding you from authentic presence to scene work. Part 1 helps you break free from overthinking and connect to the moment through playful, immersive exercises. Part 2 dives into “imaginary circumstances,” helping you access emotional truth and your creative instincts. In Part 3, you’ll apply Meisner to scene work, leaving with practical tools to confidently bring the technique into any rehearsal room. All experience levels are welcome to join! No experience with the Meisner technique required.
AUGUST 26
SUMMER FLUTE SERENADE
7:30-9:30pm, Home Moravian Church. Debra Reuter-Pivetta, flute; Federico Pivetta, piano; Sophie Anderson, violin; Jessica Ronnevik, viola.
AUGUST 30
LABOR DAY MILE
5pm, Forsyth Country Day School, 5501 Shallowford Road in Lewisville. Join us this Labor Day weekend for a fun and fast mile race designed especially for runners of all paces and backgrounds! Whether you’re chasing a personal best or just out to enjoy a festive run, this is the perfect way to enjoy
your holiday weekend. After you cross the finish line, grab some refreshments and stick around to watch the excitement build as top local elite runners take the course in the final wave. It’s a rare chance to witness homegrown talent up close, cheer them on and feel the energy of competitive racing at its finest – all in one unforgettable day.
AUGUST 31
MARTHA
BASSETT’S
QUINTETO BRASIL
7:30-9:30pm, Milton Rhodes Center for the Arts. North Carolina singer/ songwriter Martha Bassett and her Quinteto Brasil present a night of bossa nova standards and new arrangements such as Desafinado, Meditation, One Note Samba and more.
FUTURE
SEPTEMBER 18
FORSYTH WOMAN TURNS 20!
6-9pm, The Crest at the Hawthorne, 102 Cherry Street in W-S. Join us for a fabulous evening of memories, milestones and magazine magic as we celebrate 20 years of Forsyth Woman! Wear your best cocktail attire and enjoy heavy hors d’oeuvres plus full event access for $40 per person. Cash bar, photo ops, sweet treats and more! Early Bird Bonus: First 25 tickets get $15 off -- don’t wait, space is limited! Proceeds benefit LEAD Girls of NC.
SEPTEMBER 20
SHREDDING EVENT SPONSORED BY BERMUDA RUN GARDEN CLUB 9am-12pm, 120 Kinderton Boulevard in Bermuda Run. Cost is $5 per brown grocery bag or equivalent size box. Cash only. Rain or shine. Proceeds go to various Davie County organizations supported by the Bermuda Run Garden Club. Contact Marie at 336.650.5518 with questions.
JOIN US AS WE CELEBRATE TWO DECADES OF EMPOWERING WOMEN AND SUPPORTING LOCAL! Thursday September 18th, 2025 6 - 9pm The Crest Winston-Salem
Cocktail Attire I Cash Bar Heavy Hors d’oeuvres A Walk Down Memory Lane + Plenty of Photo Ops
Limited Tickets Available First 25 tickets receive $15 off *Proceeds benefiting LEAD Girls of NC
Scan the QR code or visit forsythwoman20.eventbrite.com to buy your ticket!
The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective
The College Crisis – A New Era for Higher Education
by A. KEITH TILLEY
I have a few special interests; one of them is the educational system. I’m particularly intrigued by higher education. When you add my schooling, career stops as a representative in higher education at the collegiate level and raising two sons, one of whom will be graduating from NC State University in the spring of 2026, you have total exposure within the educational system of more than 40 years. I’ve researched educational concerns and trends, both present and future, and have educated myself about as much as one can, not currently working in the system. Fortunately, my son, Dusty, also shares my interest in this area and has studied it intensively. We work on projects related to this field together. That’s how we first came to realize it was facing such calamity.
For the sake of brevity, I’ll focus specifically on higher education. The idea of acquiring advanced learning through a “traditional” college degree does not go away, but will begin to transition and morph into something new within just a few short years. Several factors historically led to this phenomenon, including declining birth rates (not enough high school seniors applying for college), cuts to state and federal student aid, and a wellintentioned student loan program designed to help more students afford college; which was not carefully regulated, allowing banks to loan higher and higher amounts without sufficient limits. This led to some colleges and universities gaming the system and increasing tuition, fees and living expenses threefold over the last four decades, thus inflating the overall costs to the point that fewer and fewer families can afford this option. The younger generation has seen the result, and their interest and incentive to take this path is enthusiastically diverting to other more affordable and effective options. Kudos to them for being fiscally responsible.
There’s also the inevitable paradigm shift in employers’ acceptable education credentials. Even today, traditional degrees are complemented by micro-credentials, certificates and digital badges. They compete with concentrated, certified programs focused on specific fields of expertise and are
designed by leading experts and entities within the industry. Some of these specialized programs are on-site training, while many others are online.
Next, there’s the colossal rise in online programs. I still remember a time when colleges and universities did not appreciate these programs in the manner they should have. I can count on one hand how many total online degree programs were offered nationally at the time. I thought it was foolish then for institutions to overlook this tremendous opportunity when I was involved 30 years ago, and I think, as a result, many are behind in where they could be with this learning methodology today. This unfortunate miscalculation by some, however, will be nullified by another factor that will change education –online, hybrid and in-person – sooner rather than later. I’m speaking of artificial intelligence. What AI can do for online programs alone is nearly beyond imagination. Fortunately, we won’t have to wait long to see its impact.
Thomas Friedman, political commentator, author, three-time Pulitzer Prize winner and New York Times columnist, recently said on PBS’s Washington Week, “We are on the eve of the greatest technological revolution in human history. We are very close to birthing a new species, not a new machine, a new artificially intelligent species. It is not going to change one thing. It’s going to change everything.”
There you have it. Whether it’s rising tuition and fees for colleges and universities deterring potential applicants; a shift in the “industry standards of acceptance” for a more diverse set of education credentials; new, more abundant, specialized training/certification programs; plentiful, enhanced online degrees; and/or whatever AI has in store for our future; higher education, as we know it, is about to change dramatically. For those institutions not prepared for this pioneering reform, they’ll likely suffer a decline in enrollments (many already have) and perhaps even shut their doors completely (we see evidence of this happening today). They’ll become more reliant on international students who pay full price tuition, reduce the number of programs offered and be nudged, at the very least, to enter the world of providing online learning opportunities. I anticipate they’ll
add many more “adult learners” to the applicant pool for degrees, certificates, digital badges (and whatever new name they give to digital learning) and, equally important, innovative “continuous lifetime learning” options for adults while developing creative, neoteric corporate partnerships in learning.
This is the new tapestry of higher education; we see some of this already taking place. For institutions that are open minded and prepare strategically, the future is bright. For students of all ages, exciting new opportunities are on the horizon. The doors of higher education are about to open to a much broader audience. Initially, for the sake of the institutions’ survival, fortuitously, the students benefit remarkably as well. To that, I say, it’s about time.
“So, if you’re tired of the same old story. Turn some pages…roll with the changes.” ~ REO Speedwagon
Musical Selection: REO Speedwagon –Roll With the Changes (Black and White Version)
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