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This past month has been full of festive cheer and family fun! I can’t wait to share some holiday highlights and local treasures featured in this issue of Forsyth Family—starting with our beautiful cover story: Gretchen’s Treasure Chest, a delightful children’s boutique right here in Winston-Salem! You’ll find adorable outfits and unique gifts for the little ones in your life, making it the perfect stop for your holiday shopping.
Inside, we’ve packed the pages with heartwarming stories and practical tips to make this holiday season extra special for your family. Be sure to check out:
• Tips on scoring second-hand holiday gifts (page 10)—a great way to shop sustainably and find unique presents.
• A festive local favorite, Old Salem at the Holidays (page 14), offering history and holiday magic.
• Don’t miss out on the timeless holiday tradition of The Nutcracker (page 16).
• Our 10 Things to Do Before 2024 Ends list (page 28)—perfect for making the most of the season.
• Feeling overwhelmed by traditions? Discover how to release guilt and embrace a more mindful holiday with Releasing Guilt Around Holiday Traditions (page 34).
• Plus, we’ve got 5 Ways to Save Money During the Holidays (page 54) to help you celebrate without breaking the bank.
This issue also includes a fun recap of our 2024 Dining Guide (page 56), reminding us all of the importance of supporting local restaurants during the holidays and beyond.
Looking for a fun family outing? Don’t miss Kids’ Morning Out on Sunday, December 8th, from 12-2 p.m. at the Fairgrounds Ice Skating Rink! It’s the perfect opportunity for some festive family fun—find all the details on page 17.
As always, we’re grateful to celebrate the magic of this community with you. Wishing everyone a joyous and memorable holiday season!
What if there’s a way to make the holiday shopping season more economical, meaningful and sustainable?
Enter secondhand shopping! In fact, with the popularity and ease of shopping from your Facebook Marketplace app, there are more people utilizing it as a “don’t miss” shopping resource for the holidays.
THE PERKS OF FACEBOOK MARKETPLACE SHOPPING
Other than the excitement of the chase (anyone else love finding that super exciting deal you’ve been hunting for?), shopping from Facebook Marketplace can help you maximize your budget while minimizing your environmental impact. Thrifting and shopping second hand helps reduce waste, energy consumption and helps avoid adding to our already overwhelmed landfills. Additionally, you can find name brand items and unique products at a fraction of the cost you would from a store or website selling it new.
KICKING THE “NEW IS BETTER” NARRATIVE
There is this notion, especially in America, that gifts need to be brand new to be appreciated. The traditional expectation of “new” when it comes to gifting deserves to be challenged. The personal value of a gift is the thought that goes into it and, sometimes, the story behind it. When you embrace secondhand items as gifts, you’re prioritizing meaningful exchanges and normalizing giving items new life to impact others.
KNOW YOUR BUDGET AND YOUR GIFT NEEDS
Holiday shopping can be a major stressor! Try to have a goal to have your list of gift recipients early on, so you know exactly who you’re shopping for and list out ideas for what you’d like to look for for each person. Maybe some are new items and gift cards while others are perfect secondhand ideas! Look at your finances and set a budget for your gift shopping this year. A total amount is helpful, but dive into the nitty gritty and have individual ranges assigned for each person you’re shopping for so you don’t go over.
SET UP ALERTS AND PERSONALIZE SEARCH RADIUS
Did you know that Facebook Marketplace offers a super valuable tool for those secondhand shoppers on a mission? You can create custom alerts! If you’re on the hunt for specific items like a bicycle, name brand clothing or specific book series for instance, you can set up keyword alerts that notify you when something within that category becomes available. You can even change your search radius to be just within your zip code or within a specific radius that’s a convenient distance for pickup, such as five to 10 miles. These features are incredibly helpful to increase the likelihood of scoring exactly what you want!
PLAN SAFE PICKUPS AND PAYMENTS
Always make sure you feel comfortable picking up your online find when meeting a seller in person. Arrange for contactless porch pickup when possible or have meetups in well-lit public spaces like a grocery store parking lot, library or other easy access area with which you’re familiar. You can check to see if you have any friends in common on Facebook by clicking the seller profile, as this often gives us an added dose of comfort. Bring only the cash you need or use secure payment methods like Venmo or PayPal, which can often provide purchase protection. Let a friend or family member know your plans, or better yet, bring someone along with you, if possible. While the vast majority of online sellers are wonderful community members just like you, it’s important to always be safe.
MAKE YOUR MARKETPLACE MAGIC GIFT-READY
Probably the best part of coming home with your awesome find is getting it ready to be gifted to your loved one. Take time to clean it up, removing any labels or tags, and polish or wipe down with some cleaner if needed. Have fun picking out or making your own holiday gift tags and wrap your item up to make it even more meaningful with a personal touch. If you’re going to be shipping the gift to someone, get some protective wrapping to make sure nothing breaks in transit.
When they open your gift and ask where you got it, you can share your incredible secondhand shopping skills or keep it your little secret! The choice is yours! Let this holiday season be an opportunity to make thoughtful, budget conscious, sustainable gifting a new tradition in your family!
The Future of Dance: UNCSA’s
Young Talent and
the Magic of ‘The Nutcracker’
Before the flowers waltz and the Sugar Plum Fairy dances in the University of North Carolina School of the Arts’ storied annual production of “The Nutcracker,” the tale begins with the liveliest of holiday parties set in the home of the Silverhaus family. The festive scene never fails to bring joy and mirth to the stage for the majority of the first act of this magnificent Triad holiday tradition. Among the families featured in the beloved party scene, you’ll find the youngest members of the cast of “The Nutcracker” each year – dancers from UNCSA’s Preparatory Dance Program.
The Preparatory Dance Program will celebrate its 50th anniversary in 2025 and was born thanks to Robert Lindgren, the school’s very first dean of the School of Dance. At its inception, the program “was seen as a way to reach gifted dance students in the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County school system and other nearby areas to build a bridge into the UNCSA high school dance program,” said Monica Stephenson, who currently leads the program and is a Class of 2001 alumna of the high school dance program at the school.
The program has had just a few dance professionals at the helm in its history, with UNCSA School of Dance mainstay Dayna Fox leading it for 25 years from 1989 to 2014. Also of note, Preparatory Dance Program alumnus Matthew Donnell led this corps of young dancers from which he came from 2014-2018. The program currently works with dancers between the ages of three and 18, with formal recital performances not beginning until students reach the age of six. An impressive list of dancers who have gone through this program have gone on to have professional dance careers.
When it comes to “The Nutcracker,” being a dancer from the preparatory program and dancing in this treasured ballet is the highest of honors. The program, which currently has an enrollment of more than 100 dancers total, holds auditions for children from its Level 4 (10- to 12-year-old) dancers, a group of 15 students. In total, eight of those students were chosen to dance in this year’s production; four in each of the two casts.
But, the fun doesn’t stop there. Because of the popularity of “The Nutcracker” during the holiday season, the program also performs an abridged, narrated version of the story on campus for one weekend in December, the perfect chance for all children in the program to take part in the festive fun.
The four performances, entitled “The Nutcracker Story for Young Audiences,” are wildly popular with the friends and family of dancers and sell out immediately each year. (Sadly yes, that means this year is already sold out!) “This format gives our youngest fans the perfect way to first experience ‘The Nutcracker,’” Stephenson said. “The narration explains the story to them, and its length is a bit easier to take than the longer formal production. It’s a huge hit every year!”
This program is a big one for young dancers, and the dedication, discipline and talent that they possess to be a part of it are much more adult than childlike. When those smallest dancers take their bows at the end of their “Nutcracker” performances this year, take note of the smiles on their faces – they’re usually the biggest ones.
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Old Salem is ready to welcome the warmth and cheer of the holiday season, offering visitors a journey through time filled with tradition, charm and history.
Nestled in the heart of Winston-Salem, Old Salem lies in a historic district where the preserved Moravian traditions of the 18th and 19th centuries come alive. With scenic walkways, beautifully restored buildings and dedicated interpreters, Old Salem invites visitors to revive beloved Christmas customs and even start new holiday traditions with loved ones. It’s the perfect place to step back in time and experience the warmth and wonder of a holiday season filled with history and heart.
This year, Old Salem’s festive offerings, from Salem Saturdays to the beloved Joy of Christmas Evening Tours, bring the 18th and 19th centuries back to life with engaging activities, handcrafted gifts and plenty of cozy cheer for families and friends alike.
Starting on November 30th, Salem Saturdays will run each Saturday until December 21st, inviting guests to experience different historical activities each weekend. On different days, you’ll find the heart of an Old Salem Christmas across the district – Winkler Bakery’s holiday treats, charming local gifts and live Moravian brass music.
On the first Saturday, children and families can create rosemary wreath ornaments, craft candles and make botanical wreaths at various stations, with something hands-on for everyone. Every Saturday brings something new, from the nostalgic sound of Appalachian dulcimers to a children’s caroling parade, capturing the season’s joy in every corner of the district.
The Joy of Christmas Evening Tours offers an intimate holiday experience with lantern-lit walks through Old Salem’s storied buildings. Held on Friday and Saturday evenings, these guided tours begin November 29th, taking guests through the Boys’ School, Vogler House and Salem Tavern. Hands-on activities, like ornament making and storytelling by candlelight, transform each space, evoking a simpler, heartfelt Christmas. Tours will be held regardless of weather, making it an ideal evening to warm up with loved ones and experience holiday magic under the stars.
Whether you come to listen to live music, shop at the Moravian Market or simply grab a ticket to bask in the holiday spirit, Old Salem’s holiday season means moments to cherish, family memories to make and a cozy Christmas charm that hearkens back to the magic of the past.
Child Care Guiding Families & Enriching Children’s Lives Resource Center
by MARTIE EMORY
On behalf of our community’s most precious resource, the Child Care Resource Center (CCRC) in Winston-Salem has spent the past 30 years working diligently to guide families along the path to finding safe, caring child care.
As always, fall has been a busy time for CCRC, as they recently relocated their offices and hosted their successful Corks & Crayons: An Evening of Early Education at the Mansion on Main Street this past September.
“CCRC hosts events year round that everyone can support, such as Corks & Crayons, our Children’s Champion Luncheon and Double Good Popcorn Sales,” said Board President Ashlynn King. “The proceeds from these events help to support the needed work that this organization does. Quality child care resources should not be optional – this work is needed, this work is necessary and this work needs the continued support of our community.”
“We owe the event’s success and impact to the community’s generous support,” shares Executive Director Katura Jackson. “This event had multiple objectives – to shed light on the challenges confronting early education in our community and state, to showcase the valuable services and support offered by CCRC and to provide an avenue for donations to further our mission and vision.”
While locating quality child care is always a challenge –especially in rural areas – the CCRC focuses on educating parents on what to look for as they navigate child care options. The staff also works to clarify all choices available in the community, guide parents in understanding child care rates and policies, and provide data relating to child care trends. Parents will be educated on the average cost of child care by type of facility, the average weekly cost of child care by zip code and the number of child care spaces available in a particular zip code.
“This is all available to guide parents in making an informed choice that feels right for their family’s situation,” said Katura. “There’s no ‘one size fits all’ option when it comes to the best child care.”
The Child Care Resource Center team collaborates with other local agencies to educate community leaders about child care issues, working closely with both state and national children’s organizations who foster initiatives designed to enable all children to develop to their fullest potential.
The CCRC serves Alleghany, Ashe, Davidson, Davie, Surry, Wilkes, Yadkin, Stokes and Forsyth counties with their full range of services and also offers Nanny Solutions services in Guilford, Alamance and Randolph counties. Designed to help families who prefer the popular option of finding an individual to care for their children at home, the center offers guidance throughout the entire nanny interview process – from pre-screening to interviewing and employing a nanny. At a cost of $300, this service includes a onehour intake session with a parent specialist, a search of qualified applicants and pre-screening phone interviews.
Three main goals continue to guide and inspire the Child Care Resource Center:
ENGAGE FAMILIES by providing tools to help parents find quality child care – including questions to ask providers and information on North Carolina’s quality rating system for child care programs.
ENRICH CHILD CARE by providing professional development and onsite coaching to child care professionals, including skills such as CPR/First Aid, cultural competence, early inclusion, child development, developmentally appropriate curriculum and managing challenging behaviors.
ENHANCE COMMUNITIES by advocating for quality child care and for adequate wages for child care professionals. Early learning experiences set the groundwork for future learning, and they stress the link between quality child care, school readiness and future workforce preparedness.
For more information on the educational and community services provided by the Child Care Resource Center, and how you can encourage advocacy, visit childcareresourcecenter. org or come by their new offices at 102 W. 3rd Street, Suite #750, Winston-Salem, NC, 336.245.4900.
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SPONSORED BY CASUAL FURNITURE WORLD
by BRIAN JARED Instagram handle @Winstonsalem_nc_bbq
Pit Master Tip:
There are a lot of different ways to make chili. Adding brisket to the chili brings a whole new depth of flavor to the chili. I also think it thickens it up enough to where it is a lot heartier of a meal. Substitute anything you would like to add or take away, but do not skip the brisket!
Smoked Brisket Chili
Brisket Chili is one of my favorite comfort meals for fall or winter weather.
½ cooked brisket (approximately 1-2 pounds chopped)
1 lb 80/20 ground beef
1 green bell pepper, diced
1 white onion, diced
1 can tomato paste
1 can crushed tomatoes
1 can tomato sauce
Fill empty can 5x with water and pour into Dutch oven
1 can kidney or chili beans
1 packet of your favorite chili seasoning
Set your smoker to 225-250 degrees. While the smoker is heating up, grab your leftover brisket and chop it up. Heat up a pan and cook one pound of 80/20 ground beef, chop up one whole white onion and one green pepper.
Let the onions and peppers simmer until they are translucent. Once the beef is fully cooked, put it all into a Dutch oven with the brisket. I used a chili kit for the seasoning from Fire & Smoke Society. This can be picked up from Walmart.
Add in one can of tomato sauce, one can of tomato paste and one can of crushed tomatoes. Fill up one of the empty cans with five cups of water to pour in as well. Also, add a can of kidney beans or chili beans. I used Bush’s.
Put this on your smoker and stir every hour until it thickens up. Serve with your favorite toppings and enjoy.
I smoked this on my Big Green Egg from Casual Furniture World. They have locations in Winston Salem, Greensboro and Myrtle Beach. They carry every accessory for the Big Green Egg amongst other brands, all the finest names in outdoor patio sets, fire pits and everything you need to make sure your backyard is set up for all your fall and winter gatherings.
Make sure to stop by and pick up your next grill at any of their locations!
Support the RISE Community Fund and Transform Lives Through Sports
As the year comes to a close, many people are seeking meaningful ways to give back to their community. One of the most impactful ways to do so is by supporting the RISE Community Fund. By making an end-of-year donation, you can help provide sports scholarships, fitness programs, and wellness opportunities for both youth and senior adults in our community. You can also donate in honor or memory of a loved one, making your contribution even more special this holiday season.
The RISE Community Fund, established by RISE Indoor Sports in partnership with the Davie Community Foundation, has been instrumental in transforming lives through the power of sports and wellness. Since its
inception, the fund has provided over $300,000 in youth sports scholarships, covering expenses such as team dues, travel, and specialized skill development programs. RISE Indoor Sports has also extended its facility’s resources to more than 11,000 individuals, offering access at either no cost or reduced rates. This support has greatly benefited local schools, senior organizations, and community groups.
Sports are more than just games—they teach leadership, foster teamwork, and promote both physical and mental well-being. Research shows that children who participate in sports are more likely to succeed academically and develop important social skills. For senior adults, regular physical activity reduces the risk of chronic diseases and improves overall quality of life.
“At RISE, we believe in the power of sports to change lives,” said Dawn Creason, Director of Development at RISE Indoor Sports. “Whether it’s a young athlete receiving a scholarship to pursue their dream or a senior adult finding renewed strength through fitness programs, every donation to the RISE Community Fund has a lasting effect on the health and well-being of our community. We are incredibly grateful to everyone who has supported us so far and hope that many more will join us during this season of giving.”
By making a tax-deductible contribution to the RISE Community Fund, you are helping ensure that everyone, regardless of financial circumstances, has access to life-changing opportunities.
There are MANY WAYS you can support the RISE COMMUNITY FUND during the holiday season:
1 MAKE A DONATION – Contributions can be sent to the Davie Community Foundation, with the RISE Community Fund noted on your check. Every dollar you give goes directly toward scholarships and programs that benefit our community. Donations may be made at www. DavieFoundation.org/give or by mailing a check to Davie Community Foundation, PO Box 546, Mocksville, NC 27028
2 GIVE IN HONOR OR MEMORY OF A LOVED ONE –
Consider making a donation in someone’s name this holiday season. It’s a heartfelt way to honor those who matter most to you while making a difference in the lives of others.
3 SPREAD THE WORD – Encourage your friends, family, and colleagues to support the RISE Community Fund. The more people who give, the more lives we can impact.
“We are excited to see how the RISE Community Fund continues to grow,” added Lane Newsome, General Manager at RISE Indoor Sports. “With each donation, we are able to
extend our reach and support even more individuals and families. It’s about creating opportunities for everyone to thrive, both physically and mentally.”
As we enter the new year, the RISE Community Fund aims to expand its offerings. RISE is exploring new programs, including after-school care, transportation services, and additional summer camp opportunities. With continued support for the RISE Community Fund, RISE can remove barriers to participation and provide even more comprehensive support for youth and seniors in our community.
Help RISE Indoor Sports build a stronger, healthier, and more connected community. Your donation, no matter the size, will have a lasting impact on the lives of those they serve. To make your contribution, please send your gift to the Davie Community Foundation with “RISE Community Fund” noted on the check. Together, we can ensure that everyone has access to the transformative power of sports and wellness.
GRETCHEN'S TREASURE CHEST
Nurturing Small Business in Style
BY MARTIE EMORY
PHOTOS BY JODIE BRIM CREATIVE
As both a mother and an enthusiastic entrepreneur, Michele Mathias loves that her Winston-Salem boutique carries mostly small-batch brands which means that typically only about one thousand pieces of each design are made.
Many are exclusive styles which you won’t find anywhere else and, as a bonus, Gretchen’s Treasure Chest is supporting other mom-owned small businesses and many manufacturers who “give back” to a worthy cause with every purchase from their collections.
Happy clients of Gretchen’s Treasure Chest – who also love adorable outfits – are in full agreement with that communityfocused mission!
CUTE MEETS QUALITY
Michele explains that her journey as a mother taught her how quickly her daughter’s clothes sold when she took them to a local consignment store. Often, those outfits that Gretchen had loved but outgrown sold the very same day. It was clear that quality and wearability were very much in demand, and
other customers were asking where she found these adorable children’s clothing pieces. As she was realizing the need for more kids’ clothing options in the area – and once her daughter was off to kindergarten – Michele and her husband, John, entertained the idea of opening their own boutique. The timing was right for a new adventure, and Michele could revisit her background in textiles, retail and management. So, the two decided Harper Hill Commons Shopping Center was a perfect location to launch the new business last March.
As it turns out, Michele’s own shopping hits-and-misses as a mom nudged her to follow her intuition. “I realized that, unlike outfits from the big box stores, the clothing I had found at several online boutiques held up much better after much wearing and several washings!” she shares.
As her small business continues to grow, Michele is always on the lookout for outfits that both children and parents will love – while at the same time, keeping their prices affordable.
We’ve been intentional this year about carrying lots of stocking stuffers that are made in the USA by other mom-owned small businesses.
- Michele Mathias
BRING ON HOLIDAY SHOPPING!
As you’re out and about completing your holiday shopping list, remember that there’s always a “kids’ corner” at Gretchen’s Treasure Chest where children can color and play while their moms and dads shop. And, in addition to amazing outfits your children will love wearing for all your holiday outings, you’ll find some perfect gift ideas.
“We’ve been intentional this year about carrying lots of stocking stuffers that are made in the USA by other mom-owned small businesses,” said Michele. “Be sure to browse the All Natural Lip Balm, LippyClips to carry your lip balm and hand sanitizer, hair bows, jewelry, bath bombs and slime. We also have non-toxic Piggy Paint Nail Polish, fidget toys, fun socks, stuffed animals, dolls and more!”
(Secret shopping hint: Lip Balm, LippyClips and candles make great teacher and coworker gifts!)
After even one visit, you’ll see that every item at Gretchen’s Treasure Chest is unique
and carefully selected, and shopping on the website is a breeze. Their rewards program offers you points for every purchase with different levels of rewards available. Sign-up to begin receiving rewards on the website or in the boutique.
Make Gretchen’s Treasure Chest in Harper Hill Commons Shopping Center part of your holiday shopping game plan – and be ready to launch a new year with adorable outfits that suit your child’s lifestyle and your family’s budget! The boutique is located at 4916 Old Country Club Road in WinstonSalem, 336.306.9930. Hours are Wednesday through Saturday 11:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Sign up for emails at gretchenstreasurechest.com to stay up-to-date on special offers, first-looks, markdowns and any upcoming events. Follow the boutique on Facebook and Instagram @gretchenstreasurechest for an update on expanded hours – coming soon!
Fancy fork
Recipe developed by LAUREN SEPHTON (@BRIGHTMOMENTCO)
Welcome back to the Fancy Fork – your seasonal produce insight and farm-style recipes that are made to satisfy.
There’s nothing better than a slow morning with a hot coffee and something sweet taken fresh out of the oven. And, with the winter season upon us, all the different varieties of pumpkins, cranberries and persimmons make for incredible baking. But, you’ll also find other fruits in season like apples, clementines, dates, figs, grapes, grapefruit, kiwi, limes, oranges, pears and pomegranates. There’s also a lot of veggies like arugula, beets, bell peppers, bok choy, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, butternut squash, celery, kale, radishes, parsnips, sweet potatoes, turnips and radicchio in season.
Last month, we featured a savory pumpkin recipe, but it wouldn’t be fair to pass up on a sweeter pumpkin recipe that is effortless for holiday hosting or mornings with family in town! We’ve already discussed how the vitamins in pumpkins have been studied to boost your immune system, promote healthy eyes and how they’re full of heart healthy fibers. But, did you know pumpkin can be incorporated in your daily skincare routine? Pumpkin has the highest content of naturally occurring vitamin A which helps minimize acne scars, salicylic acid to help reduce acne and beta carotene to help decrease wrinkles and dark spots. Who knew our craving for pumpkin flavored everything could be so beneficial?
HEALTHIER PUMPKIN CREAM CHEESE MUFFINS
PREP. TIME: 15 MINUTES | COOK TIME: 20 MINUTES
TOTAL TIME: 35 MINUTES | SERVES: 12
INGREDIENTS
For the Pumpkin Muffin Batter:
1 ¾ cup All Purpose Flour
½ cup Granulated Cane Sugar
½ cup Brown Sugar
1 tsp. Baking Soda
2 tsp. Pumpkin Pie Spice
15 oz Pumpkin Puree
½ cup Olive Oil
2 large Eggs
1 tsp. Vanilla Extract
INSTRUCTIONS
For the Cream Cheese Filling:
4 oz Softened Cream Cheese
2 T Maple Syrup, or sugar
1 T Flour
1 T Milk, or heavy cream Pumpkin Seeds, for topping
1. Preheat oven to 350F. Using either homemade parchment paper liners or regular store bought liners, line every other muffin tin. You’ll bake in two batches, but if you have two pans, you can bake all at once.
2. In a bowl, whisk the flour and baking soda. Set aside.
3. In a large bowl, beat the sugars, eggs and olive oil for 1-2 minutes.
4. Add the pumpkin puree, pumpkin spice and vanilla. Mix well, then fold in the flour mixture just until incorporated.
5. Divide the batter between the 12 muffin liners.
6. In either a separate bowl or the bowl of a stand mixer, beat the softened cream cheese, maple syrup, flour and milk until smooth.
7. Pipe ½ tablespoon dollops in the centers of each muffin, then top with pumpkin seeds.
8. Bake for 20-25 minutes until a toothpick inserted into the centers comes out clean.
9. Let cool in the pan for at least 5 minutes before enjoying!
10 Things To Do Before 2024 End
Make the Most of These Last Few Weeks of
the
by SUZY FIELDERS
Who else feels like 2024 went by in the blink of an eye?
As another year ends, it’s a great time to make some changes and prepare for the new year. Below are 10 things you can do before 2024 ends to help get 2025 off to a good start before it’s even arrived!
REFLECT ON THE HIGHS AND LOWS
It’s always a good idea at the end of the year to reflect on both the highs and lows of that year. It allows you to remember what you’ve accomplished as well as what you’ve overcome.
PURCHASE AND UTILIZE A GOOD PLANNER
There’s no better way to get ready for 2025 than by utilizing a good planner. There are so many out there, so you have plenty of options to find something that works best for you to get and stay organized.
ORGANIZE & PRINT YOUR PHOTOS
If you are like me, you have a ton of photos on your phone of all the amazing memories of the year. There is no time like the end of the year to organize all those photos – save them somewhere like Google Drive – and print them out to bring those memories out all around your house.
CREATE A NEW FAMILY TRADITION
End the year strong as a family by creating a fun, new endof-year tradition. It can be something as simple as an indoor picnic at your house (or outdoors if it’s a nice December day) or as elaborate as a family trip. Be sure to keep doing this special tradition every year!
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CELEBRATE THE PENDING ARRIVAL OF A NEW BEGINNING
While New Year’s Eve festivities are fun, you don’t have to wait until December 31st to start celebrating. In fact, consider finding ways to celebrate new beginnings around the corner all month long!
PUT TOGETHER A LIST OF GOALS
Get rid of the “resolutions” and put together a list of actual goals you want to accomplish in 2025. Remember, it doesn’t even have to be huge goals, just anything you want to focus on completing or doing in the new year.
PRACTICE SELF-CARE
As mothers, we tend to put ourselves last, but we need to focus on our own well being as well to be the best version of ourselves. Self care is a great way to do that. The end of the year brings about an opportunity to remember the importance of self care routines and tasks in our lives.
SPLURGE A LITTLE
In addition to self care, allow yourself a treat or two to end the year. You made it through another year, and that is always an accomplishment and reason to celebrate. A few ways to splurge include:
• Allowing yourself to eat that sweet you’ve been dying to try.
• Taking the time for a spa day, manicure or facial that you don’t usually get.
• Enjoying a nice meal out.
• Taking a day or weekend trip.
These are only a few suggestions for splurging. You should pick something that really makes you happy!
ESTABLISH A BUDGET FOR THE NEW YEAR
If you don’t already have a monthly or annual budget set, this is the time to put one together. This is a great way to start 2025 off in the right direction of financial stability.
ENJOY EVERY MOMENT
I know this is easier said than done, but with the end of each year, it’s more and more obvious how fleeting every second is in our lives. Therefore, as 2024 ends, remember to enjoy every moment. From hugging your little ones a little tighter at bedtime to savoring a bite of your favorite food, cherish each moment and commit it to memory.
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A Family Financial Summit might be a new concept for many of you, so let’s start by defining it before delving into whether or not you need it. Essentially, it’s a family meeting that allows for the sharing of financial values and goals.
It can be helpful in aligning expectations about inheritance, responsibilities and the legacy the family wishes to build. By discussing these topics in advance, families can ensure that everyone is informed, prepared and in agreement with the strategies and plans in place.
Few families have these types of meetings, and if they do, the conversations can be complex and emotional. Why not involve your financial advisor? We can help make this a productive experience that benefits everyone involved. A little bit of structure and neutrality can go a long way.
In determining whether or not you need a Family Financial Summit, it might be helpful to consider the wide range of topics that could be addressed. The following list is likely too long for one meeting, but it should help in creating your own unique agenda:
• Inheritance and Wealth Distribution: Delve into how assets will be distributed, including conditions or guiding philosophies behind these decisions, to manage expectations and ensure fairness.
• Financial Responsibilities: Clearly outline what financial contributions or support are expected within the family, whether for elder care, education expenses or funding business ventures, to foster a sense of shared responsibility.
• Estate Planning Details: Discuss the essentials of wills, trusts and the overall estate plan structure to make sure everyone understands their role and the procedural aspects, ensuring a smooth transition when the time comes.
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• Family Legacy and Philanthropy: Articulate the family’s vision for its legacy, including philanthropic pursuits or values to be upheld, to instill a sense of purpose and continuity.
• Investment Strategies and Management: Explore the family’s approach to investments including risk tolerance, asset allocation and long term goals, to align financial strategies with family objectives.
• Education Funding Strategies: Address plans for funding education for younger family members, including savings plans like 529s, scholarships and grants, to prioritize educational aspirations.
• Budgeting and Living Within Means: Stress the importance of creating and adhering to a budget, highlighting how living within or below one’s means is crucial for long term financial stability.
• Insurance Planning: Review insurance needs, including life, health and property insurance to protect against potential financial losses and provide peace of mind.
• Tax Planning and Efficiency: Explore strategies for minimizing tax liabilities through charitable giving, investment choices and other tax-efficient planning techniques.
• Succession Planning for Family Businesses: If applicable, discuss the future of any family owned businesses, including leadership transitions and maintaining the business’ legacy.
• Financial Education for Younger Generations: Emphasize the importance of financial literacy, discussing ways to educate younger family members about money management, investing and saving.
Preparation is key to a successful discussion. This involves setting clear objectives to guide the conversation, choosing the right location and drafting an agenda in collaboration with your financial advisor. This groundwork helps in creating an environment that’s suited for open and productive dialogue.
Is this concept for you? That’s for you to decide, but we’re happy to help. For many, the benefits are too great to be ignored. These conversations are an investment in your family’s financial health and harmony, ensuring that wealth serves as a tool for unity rather than a source of division.
by ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE
As the holiday season is now in full swing, there are certain iconic traditions. One of which is the gingerbread house. According to the Medium article, “A brief history of the gingerbread house,” by Antonia Wilson, “the tradition of decorated gingerbread houses began in Germany in the early 1800s, supposedly popularized after the not-so-Christmassy fairytale of Hansel and Gretel was published in 1812.” This popular Grimm’s fairy tale includes the infamous house where the wicked witch lived, which “was built of bread and roofed with cakes, and the window was of transparent sugar.”
Inspired by the tale, German bakers began to make houses made of “lebkuchen,” spiced honey biscuits. From here, ginger was added. While the exact origin of gingerbread is not known, “ginger root was first cultivated in China around 5,000 years ago and thought to have medicinal and magical properties.” Some food historians cite Greece to be the birthplace of gingerbread in 2400 BC. In the end, it was none other than Queen Elizabeth I, who first made gingerbread shaped cookies popular after shaping them in the likeness of famous guests.
While it is important to understand the history of these consumable houses and cookies, what makes this tradition even more special are the gingerbread events and recipes. Read on for a few gingerbread house suggestions to enjoy.
GINGERBREAD LOCATIONS TO VISIT
There are popular places to visit during the holiday season which feature gingerbread houses. One of the most notable is the historic Omni Grove Park Inn in Asheville, NC. The inn features a National Gingerbread House Competition. According to their website, the inn “display(s) every entry throughout the resort beginning on Tuesday, Nov. 19, 2024 and continuing through Sunday, Jan. 5, 2025.” There are not only stunning gingerbread houses to view, but delicious hot chocolate drinks and treats to enjoy while walking through the famous inn, as well.
For those wanting to enjoy the holiday season at the coast, consider attending the “Crystal Coast Hospice House Gingerbread Festival” in Morehead City, NC. Taking place December 13th-15th at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, the event features gingerbread activities for children and adults, sweet treats from the Gingerbread Café, as well as beautiful gingerbread houses to view. Best of all, this event is the primary fundraiser for SECU Crystal Coast Hospice House, the premier inpatient hospice care facility. This facility provides high quality end-of-life care for patients and families within the five-county service area (Carteret, Craven, Jones, Onslow and Pamlico Counties).
Why is the Gingerbread House Synonymous with the Holidays?
If you want to stay a bit closer to WinstonSalem, consider driving to Wilkesboro, NC for the annual Wilkes Literacy Gingerbread House Festival. According to their website, “the Gingerbread House Festival will be a family event where visitors will have the opportunity to walk through and view the creative gingerbread houses from local contributors.” The event, hosted by 1915 Event Venue, takes place in downtown Wilkesboro from Friday, December 6th through Saturday, December 7th. The 1915 building itself will be transformed into a Christmas gingerbread wonderland.
GINGERBREAD RECIPES TO ENJOY
If traveling this season is not possible, one of the most delicious ways to celebrate gingerbread houses is to incorporate the rich flavor of gingerbread spice into holiday beverages and dishes.
First, consider making Gingerbread Hot Chocolate. This recipe, from the Food Network website, is incredibly easy to make. You will need: six cups milk, ¼ cup Dutchprocess cocoa powder, ¼ cup sugar, two tablespoons molasses, three tablespoons ground ginger, two tablespoons ground cinnamon, ½ tablespoon freshly grated nutmeg, ¼ teaspoon allspice, seven ounces high-quality milk chocolate chopped, whipped cream and mini marshmallows for serving. After gathering ingredients, combine the milk, cocoa powder, sugar, molasses, ginger, cinnamon, nutmeg and allspice in a medium saucepan. Next, cook over medium heat, stirring occasionally until the sugar, cocoa powder and spices are dissolved and the milk is steaming (about five minutes). It is important to not let the mixture come to a boil. Whisk in the chopped chocolate a little at a time until smooth. Divide among six to eight mugs, and garnish with whipped cream and mini marshmallows.
Finally, consider making an iconic batch of Gingerbread Cookies with this simple recipe from the Food Network. First you will need: one package of sugar cookie mix, one egg, ½ cup all-purpose flour, ¼ cup melted butter, two tablespoons pumpkin pie spice, ½ tablespoon ground ginger, ¼ cup dark molasses and one teaspoon vanilla extract. After getting the needed ingredients, blend all ingredients together and chill for up to one hour. Next, roll dough out on a floured board about 1/8 inch thick. After, cut desired shapes with cookie cutters and place onto sheet pan. Finally, bake for eight minutes in a preheated oven. Colored icing can be used to add flair to each cookie.
Releasing Guilt Around Ditching Traditions
by TARYN JEREZ
There are some family traditions that bring warmth, joy and waves of treasured nostalgia to us each holiday season. Some traditions, however, bring a weight of obligation and expectation. This time of year has so many opportunities to choose exciting ways to create memorable experiences and, for those wanting to deviate from some of their older family’s time-honored traditions, there may be feelings of guilt. As you build your own family, embracing holiday traditions that feel authentic to your values despite them being different from those you grew up with, may lead to a holiday season of fulfillment instead of frustration.
EMBRACING CHANGING VALUES
It’s not always easy for extended families to understand, but as we get older and have children, sometimes our values evolve. Maybe your parents and siblings have always had a secular Christmas approach, whereas you and your family hold Christian beliefs. Perhaps your parents made the holidays a large extravagant affair, but you treasure simplicity. Evolved values aren’t a rejection of your family and their long time traditions, it’s honoring your own values and what feels meaningful versus what doesn’t.
ADAPTING TO NEW SCHEDULES
One of the largest shifts in traditions reportedly comes from having small children. The desire to continue with the same early morning get-togethers
or late-into-the-night parties along with long distance drives and travel aren’t conducive to young family schedules. If you are working hard to prioritize your little one’s nap or feeding schedule, it might mean you aren’t participating in the usual traditions. You want to strive for an enjoyable holiday season, not an overwhelming one – at least where you can help it!
HONORING DIFFERENT STYLES
There’s a reason so many movies incorporate the scenario of the mother of the bride trying to hand down her wedding dress to her daughter only to reveal a gaudy old-timey gown. How many of us can relate to something being passed down or expected that is completely outside of our own style and taste? Maybe traditional sit-down dining makes you feel too formal, and you prefer casual buffet style serving. Your family may want a colorful christmas tree whereas your grandparents have always gone green and red. It’s okay to change up your decor, events and hosting styles.
SHIFTING HOLIDAY PRIORITIES
There can be such a weight from other people’s expectations that we don’t want to “rock the boat” or cause anyone to take offense. The truth is, your priorities changing is your inner compass to point you towards what’s going to make you feel at peace. Maybe trips on Christmas to your parents, in-laws and friends’ homes were part of your tradition in the past. This
year, maybe you’re prioritizing a calm, at-home family focused day instead. Just because something has been a tradition in the past doesn’t mean it has to be part of your holiday season. You and your immediate family are allowed to choose something different.
COMMUNICATING WITH FAMILY
Lots of families come to a place where they aren’t on the same page. Instead of approaching these conversations with defensiveness, try to be honest and empathetic. You can come from a place of love for your family’s traditions and holiday memories while sharing your own children and spouse’s change of heart. Wanting to do something different this year isn’t about rejecting them, it’s about embracing what’s best for you at this time. You may even find that your extended family is open to exploring new ways of doing things when you come from a place of gratitude and love.
HONORING BOTH OLD & NEW
Family traditions are meant to evolve the same way individual families do. Remember when that guilt starts to manifest, your past generations created traditions that aligned with their wants, needs and priorities, and you can give yourself permission to do the same. This year, embrace the old and the new by crafting experiences that include what feels the most important and treasured. You’ll look back at the season with such love and joy.
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Discovering the Origins of Popular Holiday Traditions
by ELISA WALLACE COPPEDE
The holiday season holds countless traditions, with many celebrations based on religion, ethnicity, and cultural ties. Most of today’s modern Christmas traditions come from Victorian Era holiday traditions. However, other customs originate from other ancient cultures. Curious to learn about today’s most popular traditions? Read on for the surprising origins of seven of our beloved holiday traditions!
1 THE CHRISTMAS TREE: The true origin of the Christmas Tree is often debated. According to the Desert News article, “11 Holiday Traditions and Their Surprising Origins,” historians first credited Ancient Romans and Egyptians for bringing greenery into one’s home. Since winter months often brought death and famine, people brought plants into their homes to celebrate winter festivals with triumph of “life over death.” According to Medevalists.net, “the Baltic cities of Riga, Latvia, and Tallinn, Estonia, both claim they were home to the first official Christmas tree.” In cities like Riga, winter trees were decorated and brought into the town’s square for all to enjoy.
2 FRUITCAKE: This often beloved or hated gift has ties to the Egyptian times. According to the Reader.com article, “5 Popular Holiday Traditions and Their Origins,” legends state Egyptians would leave fruitcakes on the tombs of their dead loved ones to pay homage to them. “In England, people would place fruitcake under their pillow to dream about their sweet, eventual loved one,” the article states, and many European countries banned the sweet treat during the 18th century due to its “sinfully rich flavor.” This may explain why today, fruitcake is often given as a gag gift to someone.
3 THE HANUKKAH GELT: Known as a timeless tradition of Jewish culture, many of the earliest Jewish records express the importance of unique coinage, because its minting symbolized Jewish independence. According to the Reader. com article, “The coinage was an early symbol of prosperity, and when their use began to wane, coinage was still given to Jewish teachers in support of children’s education and their learning the Torah.” Today, Gelts are given to children as well, in support of their academics and studying Judaism.
4 ELF ON A SHELF: Love it or leave it, this Christmas tradition often keeps parents up to the wee hours of the night during the holiday season, attempting to find a new spot to leave the “elf.”
According to the History.com article, “How 25 Christmas Traditions Got Their Start,” when author Carol Aebersold and her daughter, Chanda Bell, published the book Elf on the Shelf: A Christmas Tradition in 2005, the world caught Elf on the Shelf fever! Today, over 13 million “elves” have been adopted and hidden throughout homes across the world.
5 GINGERBREAD HOUSES: The English and Germans are credited with first developing the idea of baking and decorating a gingerbread house. According to the PBS.com article, “The History of Gingerbread,” specifically we can thank Queen Elizabeth I for first developing the idea to richly decorate a gingerbread cookie. “Queen Elizabeth I is credited with the idea of decorating cookies in this fashion, after she had some made to resemble the dignitaries visiting her court,” the article states.
After the Brothers Grimm’s published, Hansel and Gretel, 16th century Germany began to bake “elaborate cookie-walled houses, decorated with foil in addition to gold leaf,” that “became associated with Christmas tradition.”
6 KWANZAA CANDLES: The candles used throughout Kwanzaa have significant symbolic meaning. Many African Americans celebrate Kwanzaa from December 26 to January 1 as a secular festival paying homage to their cultural heritage and traditional values. According to the Reader.com article, “5 Popular Holiday Traditions and Their Origins,” each candle has meaning. “Kwanzaa candles consist of red, black, and green candles,” and are lit from left to right. The three red candles represent the struggle for freedom for people of African heritage. This candle is followed by “one black candle which represents the color of the people.” Finally, on the right, “three green candles are lit which symbolize the rich and fertile land of Africa.”
7 MISTLETOE: According to the Readers Digest article, “The Fascinating History Behind These 24 Christmas Symbols,” Norse mythology is why we must kiss if we happen to stand together with someone under the mistletoe. Legend has it that “Gods used mistletoe to resurrect Odin’s son Baldur from the dead.” This said, Baldur’s mother, Frigg, the goddess of love, “made the plant a symbol of love and vowed to kiss anyone who passed under it.” Today, the plant is tied to the holiday season because it blossoms even despite frigid weather.
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by KATIE MAXEY, MS, RD, IBCLC
You may have been told by a medical professional to eat more fiber, or you’ve heard it on the news and through social media. But you may not know what foods are high in fiber (that taste good!) or how much you should aim to consume a day. Most Americans do not consume enough, despite knowing fiber is good for their health. Let’s start by talking through why fiber is important for each of us.
Fiber is a part of plant foods that our bodies cannot digest or absorb. It’s sometimes called “roughage.” Unlike other nutrients in foods such as fat, carbohydrates and protein, fiber cannot be broken down and digested by the body. It will pass through your stomach and intestines pretty much intact. If it cannot be absorbed, then why is it good for us? Because it’s not absorbed, it helps to lower blood cholesterol and lower blood glucose levels. Soluble fiber, which is the part of fiber that does dissolve in water, turns into a gel-like material as it goes through the intestinal tract. As it does this, it pulls the cholesterol and glucose from your body. The second type of fiber, which is called insoluble fiber, does not dissolve in water. This type of fiber helps to push the foods through the digestive system, producing stool; this fiber can help anyone having trouble with constipation or irregular stooling. Not only does fiber help us with lowering cholesterol and glucose, as well as helping us stay regular in the bathroom, it also helps us achieve and maintain a healthy weight. Foods with fiber tend to be more filling, which helps us consume more appropriate amounts of food.
Fiber?
On average, it is recommended that we eat around 25 grams of fiber a day. If you’ve never paid attention to the fiber in foods or how much you consume in one day, you should try tracking it for a day or two! Most people find it eye opening to see that they are only eating 10-15 grams of fiber at the most. You can find fiber on the nutrition label for all packaged foods. For fresh produce, you may have to look up how much fiber is in the serving you consumed. But I do have a warning! If you begin to increase your fiber intake, make sure you also increase your water or fluid intake! If you do not have enough fluids going into your body but you increase your fiber intake, it may have the opposite effect on your stooling! Fiber needs fluids to aid in the process of moving through the digestive system since it is not absorbed. So as you up your fiber, up your fluids as well!
GOOD SOURCES OF FIBER:
BEANS AND LENTILS: kidney beans, black beans, lima beans, edamame, chickpeas
These are just examples of foods with fiber but there are more than just this list! Pay attention to food labels and look into the produce you are choosing. Are there higher fiber options that you could switch out throughout the week?
DIY Presents for the Whole Family Gift-Giving from the Heart:
by SHERIDAN C. WATKINS
There’s something special about a handmade gift because it’s personal and thoughtful. All ages can appreciate the love that goes into making and receiving handcrafted gifts because it’s heartfelt and made specifically for the recipient or occasion. If you want to skip the crowded stores and get crafty, gather the family together for these fun projects to make as gifts or holiday decor:
1. HANDMADE MEMORY JARS
It’s a little different than creating a jar with cute decorative items inside. With this project, you can grab a jar or decorative container, and fill it with notes, photos and small mementos that remind you of special moments shared with your loved ones. Each family member can write down their favorite memories or include little messages of appreciation. This is a great project for kids and adults and will serve as a keepsake that can be cherished for years.
How to Make It:
• Use a mason jar or a small decorative box.
• Fill it with colorful strips of paper, photos, ticket stubs or small trinkets from memorable events.
• Decorate the jar with ribbons, stickers or paint to make it personal and festive!
2. DIY FAMILY RECIPE BOOK
If your family has favorite recipes, it could be great for everyone to create a recipe book together so the best ones are always remembered. Everyone can design a page and write breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert recipes to compile into a beautiful, handmade recipe book. This is a practical way to preserve the family’s most-loved dishes and a great way to pass down family traditions.
How to Make It:
• Get a blank notebook or binder with inserts. You can use construction paper to make it colorful as well.
• Write or type out the recipes, including notes on why each dish is special.
• Have kids help by drawing pictures or decorating the pages with stickers.
3. HAND-PAINTED CERAMICS
A hand-painted mug, plant pot or other ceramic is a personal, fun and practical gift that can be customized for anyone in the family. You can personalize these items with a family member’s name, a favorite quote or scripture. This project is easy and fun for everyone without the pressure of perfection.
How to Make It:
• Buy plain ceramic mugs or pots and use special ceramic paints or markers.
• Let everyone paint his or her own design and add a special message or name.
• Bake the mugs according to the paint instructions to set the design.
• Fill them with hot cocoa mix, small candies or starter seeds for a special touch.
4. PERSONALIZED ORNAMENTS
A DIY personalized ornament is a classic and timeless holiday gift, perfect for family members and friends. You can make these ornaments using clear glass balls and a multitude of materials to fill them with, like glitter, handwritten notes or small photos. These ornaments have the potential to become holiday heirlooms to decorate your space for years to come!
How to Make It:
• Buy clear ornament balls and fill them with anything you want!
• Use paint pens to write names or holiday messages on the outside.
• Hang them on the tree or package them in gift boxes for family and friends.
DIY gift-giving is not about saving money but about creating something meaningful with love and intention. Whether you’re crafting together as a family or packaging it up to give to a loved one, these DIY presents will bring joy, warmth and lasting memories to your holiday season. So, order some supplies, look on Pinterest for even more ideas and get creative!
Triad Area Events in December
December offers a variety of interesting and exciting events for families to experience in and around the Triad. Here are some of the top offerings:
Christmas at Körner’s Folly
Kernersville
Nov. 26-Jan. 4, Various times
Tickets available online
Körner’s Folly will be transformed into a Christmas wonderland. The house will be adorned with Victorian décor. This year, volunteer decorators are creating spectacular displays to celebrate “A Gilded Christmas.”
A Carolina Christmas, Winston-Salem Symphony
Reynolds Auditorium, Winston-Salem
Dec. 1, 3 p.m.
Tickets start at $10
Ring in the holidays with your favorite carols and tunes for orchestra and chorus with guest soprano – and Maestro Michelle Merrill’s former classmate – Dee Donasco.
Donna the Buffalo Reeves Theater, Elkin
Dec. 6-7, 8 p.m.
Tickets $39-$59
Donna the Buffalo has become a lifestyle for its members and audiences. Since 1989, the roots rockers have played thousands of shows. They’ve opened for The Dead and toured with Peter Rowan, Del McCoury and Los Lobos.
The Nutcracker
UNCSA at Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Dec. 6-8, Various times
Tickets start at $39
The magical world of “The Nutcracker,” has been a cherished holiday tradition at UNCSA since 1966. This holiday classic features student-artists bringing Ilya Kozadayev’s captivating choreography and Tchaikovsky’s enchanting score to life.
Yo Ho Ho: A Pirate’s Christmas Theatre Alliance, Winston-Salem
Dec. 7, 14, 21
Tickets $11
What will become of Christmas when Santa Claus and the citizens of the North Pole at kidnapped by a bunch of directionally challenged pirates? It’s up to Eve, a 7-year-old girl, to save Christmas for everyone.
Winter Show
GreenHill Center for NC Art, Greensboro
Dec. 11-Feb. 15, Various hours
Free GreenHill’s annual Winter Show features 70 artists from across North Carolina. Painting, sculpture, photography, ceramics, jewelry, woodwork and fiber art will all be on display. All works will be available for purchase.
She Loves Me
Yadkin Cultural Arts Center, Yadkinville
Dec. 12-15, Various times
Tickets $24
This show was nominated for five Tony Awards in 1964. “She Loves Me” is a romantic comedy with an endearing innocence and a touch of old-world elegance. It inspired the film “You’ve Got Mail.”
Sesame Street Live! Say Hello
Ovens Auditorium, Charlotte Dec. 14, 2 p.m.
Tickets start at $34
Elmo, Abby Cadabby, Cookie Monster and their friends from Sesame Street sing, dance and play alongside their furry friends. And Elmo’s puppy, Tango, plays a fun game of hide and seek.
Disney On Ice presents Let’s Dance!
First Horizon Coliseum, Greensboro
Dec. 19-22, Various times
Tickets start at $20
Mickey and his pals are rocking the DJ table. Feel the electric atmosphere as they remix favorite Disney tunes. Fan favorites from “Wish,” “Frozen 2,” “The Lion King,” “The Little Mermaid” and “Moana” are included.
Hamilton
Steven Tanger Center, Greensboro
Dec. 26-Jan. 5, Various times
Tickets start at $49
A revolutionary story of passion, unstoppable ambition and the dawn of a new nation. “Hamilton” is an epic Broadway saga that follows the rise of Alexander Hamilton as he fights for honor, love and a legacy that will shape the course of a nation.
A New Christmas Tradition
A Ceremony of Carols Set to Premiere in New York, Philadelphia, and Winston-Salem
As the holiday season approaches, a fresh and captivating Christmas ballet is ready to light up stages in three major cities. Claire Kretzschmar Productions, in collaboration with Ballet Hartford, proudly presents A Ceremony of Carols, a heartwarming double feature that promises to bring the magic of Christmas to life through dance and music.
Set to debut in New York City, Philadelphia, and Winston-Salem, this festive program is spearheaded by Claire Kretzschmar, former soloist of the New York City Ballet and Artistic Director of Ballet Hartford. Featuring Kretzschmar’s original choreography, the production offers a new holiday tradition that blends artistic brilliance with the spirit of the season.
At the heart of the program is the world premiere of Weihnachtsbaum German for “Christmas Tree”—set to the enchanting music of Franz Liszt. This ballet evokes the warmth and joy of a Christmas gathering, capturing the essence of the holiday spirit. Following this, the production will culminate in A Ceremony of Carols, a masterful ballet set to Benjamin Britten’s twelve beloved songs, featuring the angelic harmonies of Grammy Award-winning singer Katy Avery and a live ensemble of piano, harp, and choral music. “This project is a dream come true,” Kretzschmar shared. “Christmas has always been my favorite time of year, and presenting A Ceremony of Carols as a new holiday tradition is something I’ve always wanted to do. The two ballets are joyful and inviting, each telling its own story of holiday cheer. I’m honored to collaborate with such talented artists, and I hope
these performances will feel like a gift to the communities that have shaped my own artistic journey.”
The upcoming tour is particularly meaningful for Kretzschmar, who grew up in WinstonSalem, NC. Not only does the program showcase her choreographic talent, but it also celebrates her connection to her hometown and the broader artistic communities she’s been a part of throughout her career.
A HOMETOWN RETURN: SPECIAL COLLABORATIONS AND PERFORMANCES
A shared love of art and Christmas has brought together a talented group of collaborators, including Winston-Salem native Katy Avery. Avery, co-producer and featured vocalist in the production, expressed her excitement about this unique opportunity. “Combining my love of dance with my singing career has always been a dream. When I saw Claire’s post about A Ceremony of Carols last year, I knew it was something I had to be a part of. I’m thrilled to return to the stage I danced on so many times as a child,” she said.
The Winston-Salem performance will feature a special solo by Kretzschmar herself, adding a personal touch to the homecoming show. Additionally, Kretzschmar will offer two master classes at the Academy of Dance Arts on Saturday, December 14, giving local dancers a rare opportunity to learn from the accomplished choreographer and performer. These classes, designed for both beginner and advanced students, reflect her commitment to giving back to the community that first nurtured her love for ballet.
TOUR SCHEDULE AND TICKET INFORMATION
The Ceremony of Carols tour represents a significant milestone
for Ballet Hartford as well, highlighting the company’s growing reputation for artistic excellence and innovation. With the combination of original choreography, live music, and a community-focused spirit, this production promises to become a cherished part of the holiday season in each city it visits.
The performance schedule is as follows:
• New York City, NY: Monday, December 9, 7:30 PM at Symphony Space
• Philadelphia, PA: Wednesday, December 11, 7:30 PM at Performance Garage
• Winston-Salem, NC: Sunday, December 15, 3:00 PM at Reynolds Auditorium
Tickets are available for purchase through Claire Kretzschmar Productions’ website, claire-k. com, or through Ballet Hartford at ballethartford.com. Be sure to secure your seat for what promises to be an enchanting and unforgettable Christmas ballet experience! For more information, including details on Ballet Hartford’s fall schedule of performances and events, visit their website. Celebrate the joy of the season with this stunning production and make A Ceremony of Carols part of your holiday tradition!
HIDDEN GEMS IN FORSYTH COUNTY PART 8
by SUZY FIELDERS
Get in the Holiday Spirit This Year at The Graylyn Estate
It’s only fitting for my December hidden gem that I share something very festive! While The Graylyn Estate might not seem like a hidden gem as so many know about it, all they offer during the holidays is truly a hidden gem that many don’t know about!
From hosting holiday parties to enjoying a festive meal in a stunning decked out dining room, there is so much holiday cheer at Graylyn. You won’t want to miss visiting this stunning estate during the holiday season!
The staff does a wonderful job of capturing not only the spirit of the season but the love the Gray family had of this time of year, as well. There are many ways to incorporate a holiday experience at The Graylyn Estate!
DINE AMONG FESTIVE DECOR
Did you know The Graylyn Estate dining room is open to the public for lunch and dinner? You can make a reservation on OpenTable or by calling their reservations team at 336.758.2425.
While enjoying an amazing meal, you will also get to experience the magic of the season with all its festive ambiance. The Gray family loved the holidays, so every year, the estate is beautifully decorated with themed Christmas trees and gorgeous poinsettias. Be sure to check out the Library Tree, inspired by the Gray family’s world travel adventures, on your visit. The tree is adorned with ornaments that highlight destinations from around the world.
Please note dining reservations are subject to availability, and larger parties may require advance reservations.
ENJOY A RELAXING STAYCATION DURING THIS CHAOTIC SEASON
While every time of year at The Graylyn Estate is beautiful, something about December there is pure magic. The festive atmosphere and warm hospitality puts you in the holiday spirit, no matter how chaotic life gets in December.
There’s also a great deal going on for December bookings. Book your overnight holiday stay at The Graylyn Estate now and use code SANTA24 to receive $50 off your December 2024 stay. Restrictions and blackout dates apply. This offer cannot be combined with other promotions or discounts. Offer available for bookings on graylyn.com only. Click add coupon on the checkout screen and enter the code.
THROW AN UNFORGETTABLE HOLIDAY PARTY OR CORPORATE MEETING
Party in style at Graylyn with special event offerings. You can book magical experiences for holiday parties, December corporate meetings and special team building events. Whether it’s a festive corporate dinner, a team building retreat or a year end meeting, Graylyn is the perfect backdrop.
The coordination team even offers festive team building activities in December, like gingerbread house or cookie decorating team bonding activities or their ornament scavenger hunt. To book a holiday event at Graylyn, fill out the online form at graylynmeetings.com.
CAPTURE THE MAGIC OF SEEING SANTA AND RINGING IN THE NEW YEAR
Finally, there are two very memorable events The Graylyn Estate hosts each year. First, is their Santa experience on select Saturdays every December. This event sells out and is booked this year, but it’s one you won’t want to miss next year. In addition to meeting Santa, there is a kid-friendly holiday buffet. Limited reservations open in the fall, and interested families should contact The Graylyn Estate in the fall of 2025.
New Year’s Eve at The Graylyn Estate is a sophisticated and glamorous experience. From elegant accommodations to chef curated multi-course dining offerings complete with a champagne toast, it is a one-of-a-kind night. Limited reservations will be available on graylyn.com, or you can inquire about NYE reservations at 336.758.2425.
DETAILS TO VISIT THE GRAYLYN ESTATE
Location: 1900 Reynolda Road, Winston-Salem Website: graylyn.com, Instagram: @graylynestate Reservations required for dining and accommodations.
Child Safety Series
Safe & Snug: Choosing the Safest Winter Clothes for Kids
by TARYN JEREZ
Each month, this series will provide important facts and tips surrounding child safety in an effort to support parents and caregivers as they navigate reducing risks and creating the safest environment possible for the children in their lives.
Brrr! As our families enter the coldest part of the year, we want to make sure our kids are kept warm and safe with freezing temperatures to come!
This month, we’ve rounded up a winter clothing guide to help you choose essential items to complete your kid’s winter wardrobe while ensuring you feel confident shopping for the right materials, fit and features!
COATS & JACKETS
As you can imagine, a comfortable, warm winter coat is essential for keeping kids and teens safe in the cold weather. As temperatures drop and wind increases, insulated coats are going to offer the best protection. Try to aim for down or synthetic insulation and waterproof coats so it stays warm and dry. Always have your child try on coats and jackets with additional layers on to make sure it doesn’t fit too tight. Depending on the age of your kids, look out for safety hazards like long strings and toggles with big ties. Brightly colored coats are going to help ensure high visibility outside, so you can keep an eye on your kids and others can see them.
HATS & BEANIES
Did you know that we lose the most body heat from our heads? If you have little ones who will agree to keeping their hat on this winter, get them a snug fitting one that covers their ears and forehead. Make sure it’s not too tight to avoid headaches or meltdowns! Water resistant fabrics are best if you want them warm in the snow or rain when playing or heading into school. Chin straps and ties are amazingly convenient for younger children, so they don’t constantly lose their hats when playing.
GLOVES & MITTENS
Tiny fingers need the most warmth in the cold weather! Younger kids may do better with mittens than gloves, not only due to the fit being easier to put on, but also the shared warmth from fingers inside. When you’re choosing a size for gloves and mittens, make sure they fit snug at the wrist so snow can’t get inside. Look for waterproof, insulated materials as well as fleece lined so they stay dry during play. Almost every parent knows the headache of losing gloves, so aim to find the ones that include velcro or snaps to keep them together when not being worn.
SCARVES
Make sure your child’s scarf is long enough to cover his or her neck for warmth but not so long that it can be a strangulation risk. When it comes to your smallest kids, you’ll want to trade scarves for neck gaiters to avoid this risk completely as even short scarves can pose a huge threat. Opt for breathable fabrics that are nice and soft. Pay close attention to your child’s skin as some children have reactions to specific animal fibers like wool. Consider removing scarves before rough play or heading to the playground in case it gets caught on equipment.
SOCKS & SHOES
Avoiding winter sickness? Start at the bottom! Leave cotton socks for spring and summer as these retain moisture. Instead shop for woolblend socks that create insulation and help your child stay warm and dry. Choose high top sneakers and boots that are waterproof or at least water-resistant with non-slip soles for wet and snowy days. If you’re trying winter shoes on, make sure your kids wear their thick winter socks to make sure they can still wiggle their toes!
SMART SHOPPING THIS WINTER
Don’t forget that with winter clothing prices and the rate your children are growing, second hand options are wonderful choices. Consider creating a winter clothing swap with other parents in your immediate circle or community to have varying sizes to choose from. You can also check Facebook Marketplace or local consignment and thrift shops for great options on a budget.
HELPFUL RESOURCES
• The American Academy of Pediatrics and HealthyChildren.org
CELEBRATIONS
ALEXANDRA AND RYAN BRADY
by Ish and Ash Productions
Congratulations to Alexandra and Ryan Brady! On November 9, 2024, they celebrated their love with a beautiful wedding surrounded by family and friends. Wishing them a lifetime of happiness and cherished moments. Thank you to Ish and Ash Productions for capturing the joy and magic of this unforgettable day!
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Exploring the Power of Learning a New Language
by ELISA WALLACE
When it comes to learning a new language, adults may feel they have lost their chance, since past studies showed only children were able to learn languages at a quick and efficient pace. However, this is not entirely true. While children can grasp new languages quickly, it is not to say that adults cannot acquire a new language with similar speed. According to the Medium article, “MIT Scientists prove adults learn language to fluency nearly as well as children,” a recent study by MIT scientists revealed that “adults of any age can obtain incredible mastery nearly as quickly as children.” Data from the study revealed many late English learners outperformed many native English speakers after mastering the language. This was after taking a language test where students needed to score above 90%.
Another interesting point the study revealed was that it does not matter what your native language is regarding language acquisition. People from any linguistic background have the same capability of learning whatever language they would like to learn. While it may be common to hear “this language is hard to learn” or “that language is so easy,” this data showed this not to be true. “They found that there was little difference in the learning speeds or ultimate attainment.”
The last point to pull from this study was the period that one should dedicate to picking up a new language. According to the study, one should dedicate at least one year to learning a new language to become “fluent.” As the article states, “After a year of studying, the 20+ year old start group is commonly scoring 80-85% on this incredibly difficult grammar test.” The last 10% of language acquisition one needs to be considered a “native speaker,” may take extra time, but overall, it is incredible one can obtain an entire new language in only a year or less.
With all this said, there is no reason for anyone to now feel like they may be “too old” to learn a new language. On top of feeling great about accomplishing this feat, there are also countless benefits from learning a new language. Read on for the top five reasons why all ages should dive into language acquisition!
BENEFIT #1 INCREASE OF ATTENTION SPAN
With the constant interruptions that today’s life presents us, it is wonderful to know that one can enhance his or her attention by learning a new language. Studies have shown that, while speaking, bilinguals or multilinguals are constantly switching between two or more languages in their head. This constant juggling improves the brain’s ability to focus and ignore irrelevant information.
BENEFIT #2
AS AN OLDER STUDENT, ACCESS TO LANGUAGE MAY PROVE TO BE EASIER
Since we are not children, it is possible that the language you want to acquire may already be at your fingertips due to experience. Whether it was when you studied abroad for a semester or developed a new friendship with a native speaker of the language, whatever this exposure is can help when one is learning. The brain’s ability to relearn vocabulary words will be faster than somebody encountering them for the first time.
BENEFIT #3
LEARNING A NEW LANGUAGE CAN STIMULATE YOUR BRAIN
The older we get, the more vital it is for all to challenge our minds. According to the University of the Potomac article, “9 Benefits of Learning a Second Language,” there is a specific part of the brain that is most stimulated – your gray matter. This area refers to how many cell bodies and dendrites there are. By being bilingual, your gray matter becomes denser, meaning you have more cells, a clear indication of a healthier brain.
BENEFIT #4
CREATIVITY WILL FLOW WHEN LEARNING BEGINS
As the language acquisition process begins, the student will begin to learn about the culture that coincides with the language. For example, if you are learning Italian, it is only natural for you to want to learn more about Italy and its rich culture. As this process continues, subconsciously this influence will, in part, make you a more original, elaborate and flexible person, hallmarks of a creative person.
BENEFIT #5 SELF ESTEEM WILL BE BOOSTED
Even for those who do not like to be in the spotlight, the feat of learning a new language is one for all to boast about. It is one incredible accomplishment! Naturally, your self esteem will receive an ample lift, as you are able to communicate with the new language in various scenarios. From taking a trip abroad to the country where the language hails and using it throughout the trip to simply using it at a local restaurant where waiters may be native speakers, all will be impressed with your new skills.
COPPEDE
Ways to SAVE MONEY During the Holidays 5
Enjoy the Holiday Season Without Breaking the Bank This Year
by SUZY FIELDERS
The holidays are magical but also get expensive quickly between the gifts, decorations and parties. It is often a source of stress for many people, especially parents. Luckily, there are ways to save money this year during the holidays. These five tips are some ideas to help your family save money this year but keep the magic!
RE-USE PAST HOLIDAY DECORATIONS
While it is fun to have new holiday decorations, remember that’s not what the holiday season is truly about. So, before you break the bank at Target purchasing new decorations each year, always bring them out and go through what you have from past years. After you see what works for this year’s decor planning, you can fill the holes with new decorations, if needed.
CREATE TRADITIONS THAT ARE AFFORDABLE
Family holiday traditions don’t have to break the bank to be fun and memorable! There are many things to do that are free or low-cost. A few ideas include:
• Drive around different neighborhoods to look at lights on all the houses.
• Enjoy a holiday movie marathon.
• Play various holiday-themed games, look some free ideas up online if you don’t have any.
• Create a holiday scavenger hunt and do it as a family.
KEEP AN EYE ON SALE ITEMS
Create a gift list on Amazon and check it daily. Many items often have deals on various days if you just keep an eye on that list. Once you see it hits a lower amount, purchase it then to lock in those savings!
Similarly, keep checking stores online where your children want certain gifts to see if any deals pop up.
MAKE HOMEMADE GIFTS
If you are a great crafter or baker, consider making a few homemade gifts this year for family, friends or co-workers. Utilize your talents to create something they will love but also helps save money.
Instead of buying gifts from the kids for your spouse, try making something with the kids that will be cherished for many years. Grandparents also usually love homemade gifts from their grandbabies!
BE SELECTIVE ON YOUR HOLIDAY PARTY INVITES
In addition to getting expensive, the holiday season also gets overwhelming with the many time commitments it requires. It’s okay to say “no” to some holiday party invites. If you tend to go to all the parties, then maybe cut back this year. If you typically bring a hostess gift, this will help you save a little money, as well.
In contrast, if you typically host a holiday party, consider cutting back in some areas, like food. You can still put out a great spread, but keep it simple to avoid high costs. Buying in bulk is also a great way to save money for party supplies.
I hope these tips help you enjoy this holiday season with your family without stressing out too much about money!
Dining Guide : 2024 RECAP
Supporting local restaurants is essential not only for enjoying great food but also for building community and preserving the unique character of our city. As part of our 2024 Dining Guide column, we’ve featured several standout eateries that exemplify Winston-Salem’s vibrant food scene. Here’s a recap of some of the local favorites we’ve highlighted this year.
BE KIND COFFEE CO.
Founded by mother-daughter duo Natalie and Amanda Gogolak, Be Kind Coffee Co. offers more than just great coffee. With a mission to “inspire the world to be kind,” this cozy spot serves as a community hub where hospitality, kindness, and connection are the main ingredients. The warm atmosphere and welcoming service make it a favorite among locals.
LITTLE RICHARD’S BBQ
A local staple since 1991, Little Richard’s BBQ is known for its smoked meats and familyfriendly atmosphere. Whether you’re craving ribs, chicken, or their famous “Whole Lotta” sauce, this Winston-Salem favorite offers an authentic Southern barbecue experience. Their Stratford Road location and several others in the area are perfect for both casual dining and catered events.
JEFFREY ADAMS ON FOURTH
Located in downtown Winston-Salem, Jeffrey Adams on Fourth is the go-to spot for farmfresh ingredients and creative comfort food. Dishes like Pot Roast Nachos and Smoked Bacon Crab Dip showcase the restaurant’s commitment to quality and innovation. Whether you’re stopping by for a casual meal or a special occasion, Jeffrey Adams offers an unforgettable dining experience.
YOUNG CARDINAL CAFE
If brunch is your favorite meal, Young Cardinal Cafe should be at the top of your list. Known for its innovative specials like Grilled Peach, Mascarpone Cheese, and Blackberry Bourbon Syrup French Toast, this downtown cafe also excels at classic comfort foods. With its fresh, locally sourced ingredients and vibrant atmosphere, it’s a weekend brunch spot worth the wait.
TWISTED PINE
Twisted Pine offers a fun and casual dining experience with a menu that includes
everything from smash burgers to tacos. This downtown spot, known for its creative cocktails like the raspberry margarita with a tajin rim, is perfect for a relaxed meal with friends or family. Part of the Andrews Restaurants group, Twisted Pine has quickly become a local favorite.
HEALTHY MADE SIMPLE
For those looking to maintain a nutritious diet without sacrificing flavor, Healthy Made Simple in Clemmons is the perfect option. Owners Pamela and Inkem Baker offer freshly prepared grab-andgo meals that cater to a variety of dietary needs. Their weekly rotating menu and portion-controlled options make healthy eating easy and delicious.
MOSSY’S
Mossy’s Sports Bar in Clemmons, owned by the same family behind Little Richard’s BBQ, is a local favorite for its welcoming atmosphere and classic American fare. With a strong following of regulars, Mossy’s is the perfect spot to catch a game or enjoy a meal with friends and family.
HAKKACHOW
HakkaChow is a standout for Asian fusion in Winston-Salem. Known for its extensive sushi menu and creative appetizers like Kobe beef dumplings, it offers a versatile dining experience that’s great for both casual lunches and special dinners. Their sushi towers and poke bowls are popular menu highlights.
SAGE & SALT BISTRO
Sage & Salt Bistro is one of Winston-Salem’s newest fine-dining spots, offering a menu full of locally sourced, seasonal ingredients. From hand-crafted cocktails to dishes like paprika-seasoned octopus and braised short ribs, Sage & Salt provides an elevated dining experience that’s quickly earning a dedicated following.
Dining Guide
These local restaurants have made 2024 an exciting year for WinstonSalem’s dining scene. Supporting them not only means enjoying great meals but also investing in the heart of our community.
Tips for Successful Family Photos
Capturing beautiful memories of your little ones during family photos can be such a rewarding experience! But, as any parent knows, kids can be unpredictable. That’s why preparation is key. Whether you’re planning family photos or just snapping pictures of your kids, these tips will help you have a stress-free and fun experience, while also getting those picture-perfect moments. Here’s how to set yourself up for success:
PLAN YOUR PHOTOSHOOT EARLY
Avoid the last-minute scramble by setting a reminder to book next year’s photoshoot early. Fall is a busy season for photographers, and it’s easy to forget until their schedules are full. To make sure you don’t miss out, add a reminder for the end of summer to start coordinating your session. This way, you’ll secure your favorite photographer and get your ideal time slot. Scheduling in advance not only saves you stress but also ensures you’re ahead of the game for those picture-perfect fall family photos.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT PHOTOGRAPHER
The first step to great family photos is finding the right photographer. Look for someone who has experience working with children. A photographer who knows how to engage kids will be able to capture their unique personalities and make the session fun.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT SESSION TYPE
If your child tends to be shy, a longer session might give them time to warm up to the photographer. On the other hand, mini sessions are ideal for younger children with shorter attention spans. Make sure to choose the session type that best fits your family’s needs! Prepare your kids for the family photos before the day of the family photos by explaining what to expect. Tell them how fun it will be to have their pictures taken and remind them to look at the camera. Make sure they are well fed, so they aren’t grumpy. Also, don’t forget to use the bathroom. There might not be a bathroom nearby.
WHAT TO WEAR TO YOUR PHOTOSHOOT
Choosing the right outfits for your family photoshoot is key to getting those picture-perfect shots. Start by selecting a color palette that compliments the season and works well together. Coordinating colors look great, but avoid being too “matchy-matchy.” For example, choose tones that are in the same color family or neutrals. You want your family to be the subject of the photo and not to have your clothes take away from that. You will want simple patterns, nothing that stands out too much. Choosing comfortable outfits is also important. While everyone wants cute clothing, be sure your child’s outfit doesn’t cause discomfort.
EMBRACE THE UNEXPECTED DURING FAMILY PHOTOS
Kids are naturally full of energy and may not always sit still for posed shots. That’s okay! Some of the best photos come from candid moments. Have patience and keep the mood light. A stressed-out parent often leads to anxious kids, so try to keep things fun. If your child is feeling restless, take a break and switch things up with playful prompts. Try games, tickling or even spinning them around for more natural smiles. Playful interactions often lead to the best expressions and joyful memories.
TRUST YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER
Parents, your job is simple – relax and smile! Trust your photographer to do the hard work of capturing your children’s attention. Even if it feels like things aren’t going perfectly, remember that photographers are experts at catching those split-second smiles. Some of the cutest photos come from the moments you least expect. So, even if your child seems uncooperative, don’t stress. You’ll likely be surprised by how many photos you’ll love when you see the final results.
OFFER REWARDS FOR GOOD BEHAVIOR
Bribing your kids? Yes, it works! Offering small rewards like stickers, ice cream or extra screen time can motivate them to cooperate. Let the photographer in on your bribe so he or she can remind the kids when they need a little extra encouragement. Just be mindful of what snacks you bring along. Choose mess-free treats like fruit snacks or marshmallows to avoid any accidental stains on their outfits.
By following these tips, you can make your family photoshoot a fun and memorable experience. With a bit of preparation and a relaxed attitude, you’ll be able to capture those special moments with your little ones.
It’s a Grand Life Grand
And So Another Year Ends
by SUSAN WOODALL
Every time I write the December column, I wonder how another year could have flown by so fast. I have come to the conclusion that it is my aging that has caused it to do so. As a child, the school year seemed to go on forever before there was a small break for a holiday. Those few days off sped by, and it was right back to school. I can’t remember a winter without several substantial snows, so there were five snow days built into the school calendar. As nice as that was, there were very few years that all those days weren’t used. If we missed more days than those allotted, we had to make them up. As a child, I was too busy sledding, making snowmen and angels, and warming up with hot chocolate to realize I would be making up days on Saturdays, or losing a day or two from spring break. Like most children, once we passed Christmas, it seemed like forever before school was out for the summer.
Now, it seems like every season is over much too soon. It feels like school has just started and, suddenly, it’s Halloween. This shouldn’t be that much of a surprise considering most stores start decorating for it about that same time. Before I can turn around, I am sitting down for a Thanksgiving feast. I love the holiday season; I just wish it didn’t come and go so fast. I love to decorate the house for each one. I love unpacking the boxes, especially the ones for Christmas, and rediscovering cherished ornaments and other items collected over the years. Since our daughters were very young, we have ventured up to Ashe County to cut down the perfect tree. Our oldest daughter has kept this tradition alive with her family, and we continue to go with them.
It is special times with my seven fabulous grandchildren that take me back to remembering their sweet faces the first time they experienced something new. Sometimes there was a look of apprehension, and other times, it was the happiest grin that lit up their whole face. The holidays always make me a bit nostalgic. Most every decoration holds some special meaning to me. I have salt dough ornaments that were made with tiny handprints painted
to look like Santa Claus. It is that kind of thing that makes me wonder how so many years have passed by so quickly.
Our eldest grandchild turns 17 this month. She has been touring colleges, keeping pro and con lists of each one she has visited. It seems like she should be 12 years old at most. Our youngest is now six – he should be two! Although I love seeing how they have grown and matured, it seems to have happened in the blink of an eye.
I remember one day when our three girls had been a handful. The minute my husband got home from work, my first words to him were how hard a day I’d had dealing with them. He looked at me and said, “one day, they’ll all be grown and out on their own, and you’ll wonder how it all went by so fast.” That day, I doubted it, but he was so right. I know my daughter is feeling that now, wondering how it is possible her daughter will be off to college in just a year and a half.
I know I am so blessed to have my daughters and grandchildren close by. I also know I can’t slow down time, but I can make memories that will enrich my life for years to come! I have learned that the best gift I will ever get is spending quality time with family. While I can’t be with them every day, especially the ones that live in Charlotte, I can make mental pictures of the times we spend together and the memories we’ve made. Today, while I was staying with a couple of my grandchildren, my granddaughter came up behind me, wrapped her arms around me and said, “did you know you are a wonderful grandmother?” Yes, that one will always be one of my favorite mental pictures.
However you spend your holidays, hopefully, you’ll have time with family. Being with your grandchildren will bring you so many wonderful memories and stories to share with your friends and relatives. This will be the one gift to give yourself that will continue to give you new memories with each visit. And, though it may not slow down time, it will make it easier to accept.
One last note…please remember our North Carolina neighbors who are still recovering from the devastation they suffered this September. Please reach out to any of a number of organizations, if you are able, to see what is needed. Your help will be greatly appreciated.
“Art does not reproduce what we see; rather, it makes us see.” - Paul Klee
FEATURED ARTISTS
Annie Nealeans
Grade 4
Clemmons Elementary School
Frann Paige, Art teacher
Duaar Warris
Grade 12
Glenn High School
Erin Jones, Art teacher
Joey Winters
Grade 4
Lewisville Elementary School
Amy Swift, Art teacher
Amelia Pettigrew
Grade 7
Virtual Academy
Rhesa Rogers, Art teacher
LOCAL EVENTS
*Event details are subject to change. Please check event websites & social media pages for updates as the dates draw near.*
NOW THROUGH JANUARY 4
CHRISTMAS AT KÖRNER’S FOLLY
10am-4pm, Körner’s Folly, 401 South Main Street in Kernersville. Körner’s Folly will be transformed into a Christmastime wonderland. Join us for an unforgettable holiday tour! Every year, volunteer decorators transform Körner’s Folly into a magical holiday experience by decorating the historic home with Victorianinspired trees, wreaths, garlands, ornaments, lights and more! Self-guided tours take approximately one hour. Tickets are available on our website or can purchased on-site inside the Visitors Center. Be sure to wander through our gift shop to find Victorian-inspired Christmas gifts for friends and family, or treat yourself to a special something!
DECEMBER 6
FESTIVE FAMILY FRIDAY AT KALEIDEUM
6-9pm, Kaleideum. Catch the holiday magic at Festive Family Friday in Kaleideum’s new museum in the heart of downtown WinstonSalem! The whole family can listen to live music, create festive holiday crafts and reindeer food, and visit Santa in the enchanting setting of our Rooftop Adventure, with the beautiful downtown skyline and twinkling lights behind you. For an extra-special holiday treat, add on the Cupcakes & Cocoa with Santa in the Digital Dome! For just $15 more per person, you can enjoy a delicious treat, a special craft and a professional photo with Santa in a cozy holiday setting. Pre-registration is required for this exclusive experience! Purchase your Festive Family Friday tickets online for $7 per person and save! Tickets for Festive Family Friday will be $10 at the door the evening of the event. Museums for All tickets will also be available at the Welcome Desk for $3 per person at the door with an EBT, WIC or Link2Feed card. Don’t miss this magical family night!
DECEMBER
6
TROUBADOURS’ CHRISTMAS CONCERT
7:30-9pm, The Carolina Theatre. Staged in the charming, historic ambiance of The Carolina Theatre, during Greensboro’s Festival of Lights celebration, the Concert will feature “Troubadour Artists” performing in a wide variety of musical genres, each representing a church or artistic center. Now in its 11th year, The Troubadours’ Christmas Concert is an eclectic celebration of the wonders of Christmastime. It’s made possible by area churches and local businesses. The concert is a fundraiser to benefit the work of Room At The Inn. Select seats will be reserved for Concert Patrons and Sponsors. All other seats will be general admission, on a first come, first served basis. The lobby will open at 6:30pm, and concessions will be available. The house opens for seating at 7:00pm with the event starting at 7:30pm. Free parking is available at the Greene Street Parking Deck, across from the Theatre. Donations to Room at the Inn will be requested and encouraged to help cover event costs and to support the vital work of Room at the Inn as a services provider to homeless mothers in our community. (roominn.org)
DECEMBER
7
CHRISTMAS TREASURES SALE
8am-12pm, Clemmons Moravian Church. All gently used holiday related items including ornament, lights and many other decorations. Proceeds will be shared with the Clemmons Food Pantry. Call 336.941.3062 to donate items.
DECEMBER 7
CHRISTMAS AT BETHABARA
1:30-4:30pm, Historic Bethabara Park. Celebrate the season by touring the decorated 1788 Gemeinhaus and listening to a performance by Duo Licht; tasting Christmas treats made by Moravians in the 1800s; enjoying the sounds of a Moravian Brass Band; making Christmas crafts; dipping a candle; observing a potter, blacksmith and woodworker; and meeting Sister Anna Catharina (a first-person dramatization). Admission is free!
DECEMBER 7
MISTLETOE RUN 2024
William G. White, Jr. Family YMCA in downtown W-S. A run in the cold can warm the heart! Half marathon, 5K, fun run, free childcare and an after party. All proceeds benefit children’s programs at the YMCA. Learn more and register at ymcamistletoe. org.
DECEMBER 7 & 21
CHRISTMAS BY CANDLELIGHT
5-9pm, Körner’s Folly, 401 South Main Street in Kernersville. This enchanting evening event transports visitors to Christmas in the Victorian era as spectacular decorations shine and the 22-room house glows from within! Costumed guides from Kernersville Little Theatre will be stationed throughout the house receiving company, singing carols, reading from “A Visit from St. Nicholas” and sharing historical tidbits. Our festive farewell snacks will return this year, featuring hot apple cider and Moravian cookies in the Visitors Center Community Room after your tour! Due to limited availability, tickets are nonrefundable and nontransferable for candlelight tours. Entry times are limited to 20 people every 15 minutes.
DECEMBER 8
KIDS’ AFTERNOON OUT
12-2pm, Winston-Salem Fairgrounds, Fairgrounds Annex Ice Rink, 414 Deacon Boulevard in Winston-Salem. Get ready for some icy fun at the Fairgrounds Arena Ice Rink! Mention you’re there for the Forsyth Family magazine’s Kid’s Morning Out and get FREE admission; $3 skate rental for kids; $5 skate rental for skate helpers. Youth hockey and group lesson personnel will be on hand to answer questions. Concessions will be available for purchase. And, as always, each parent will have a chance to win prizes from the fabulous prize board!
DECEMBER 8
COMMUNITY
CHRISTMAS FESTIVAL
5-7pm, WinMock at Kinderton, Church of the Good Shepherd. Come join the whole community at the beautiful, historic WinMock barn to start off the advent season with a fun night of fellowship! We will have plenty of vendors selling community crafts and goods, some Christmas singers and musical performances, and a short kids’ program. In addition, we will have a food truck selling meals, a bounce house for children, a family photo area and some carnival games. All ages are welcome, and there is no cost for admission.
DECEMBER 10
GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT CHRISTMAS PARTY
6-8pm, Legacy Stables and Events, 4151 Thomasville Road in Winston-Salem. Join us for a festive Girls’ Night Out! Get ready for a fun and fabulous evening filled with holiday cheer. Cash bar available, heavy appetizers provided, exciting door prizes courtesy of Forsyth Woman, a DJ to keep the party going and plenty of fun photo ops to capture your holiday spirit. This is the perfect excuse to pull out your favorite holiday dress and get festive with us!
Tickets are $25 per person. Be sure to check out the Forsyth Mags Instagram page for ticket information (@forsythmags).
DECEMBER 12-15 & 19-22
A CHRISTMAS CAROL
Times vary, Reynolds Place Theatre, Little Theatre of Winston Salem. Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol is one of the most beloved stories in history, and Charlie Lovett’s play adaptation is truly a holiday treat for the whole family. Join us for this imaginative production that engenders dreams of wintry wonderlands and spectacular spirits that seem all too real!
DECEMBER
13-14
TWISTED
CHRISTMAS FEST:
GET READY FOR A WILD CELEBRATION
7-10pm, Spooky Bottom Haunted Trail, 6059 Union Grove Church Road in Seagrove. Prepare for a Terrifying Yuletide Adventure Enter our twisted holiday world as Krampus and his demented elves unleash their horror upon Spooky Bottom once more! Brace yourself for a one-of-a-kind backwoods Christmas like no other event in the state. Are you ready to uncover the dark secrets of Christmas past and survive the unrelenting terror that lurks within? Join us for an unforgettable journey that spans nearly one mile of forgotten lands. As you traverse through our haunted winter wonderland, you will witness the remnants of forgotten Christmases, where twisted toys, macabre decorations and gruesome surprises lurk at every turn. Whether you are a horror enthusiast, adrenaline junkie or simply seeking a unique way to celebrate the holiday season, Spooky Bottom’s Haunted Christmas Experience will surpass your darkest expectations. Buy your tickets today and celebrate Christmas like never before!
DECEMBER 14
KALEIDEUM AFTER DARK: UGLY SWEATER PARTY
6:30-9:30pm, Kaleideum. Every second Saturday, adults get to take over the museum WITHOUT the kids at our Kaleideum After Dark events! Join us for the Ugly Sweater Party during the December Kaleideum After Dark. Raleigh band Hold Tone will return with some Jingle Bell Rock, so wear your ugliest holiday sweater and plan to dance and play the night away! Buy tickets online and save money: $20 online; $25 at the door. Ticket includes two drink vouchers for beer and wine. Cash bar available for more drinks, and you can buy your dinner at the food truck out front or take your Kaleideum After Dark ticket or receipt to Hungry Palate Bar & Grill that night for 20% off your meal! Kaleideum After Dark is sponsored by Mast General Store.
DECEMBER 14
KERNERSVILLE YULETIDE 2024
Multiple locations. Festive family fun takes center stage in Historic Downtown Kernersville this December! Kernersville destinations come together to host a Yuletide to remember. Visit kornersfolly.org/events/kernersville-yuletide-4 for more information.
FUTURE
JANUARY 17-19
WHAT THEY HAVE
7:30-9:30pm (17th-18th); 2-4pm (19th), Mountcastle Forum, The Little Theatre of Winston Salem. Connie and Jonas appear to have it all while their artist friends struggle to stay afloat. But, a crumbling roof and a chance encounter unravel secrets and forge new bonds. This funny, poignant play reminds us that life can change in an instant. Discover the healing power of human connection.
The View from My Section – A Father’s Perspective
The Moments that Matter
by A. KEITH TILLEY
As a father, I’ve come to realize that time is a peculiar thing. When you’re young, it feels like an endless resource, something you can afford to waste. As you get older, you start to see time for what it truly is – a precious, fleeting gift. It’s funny how we don’t think much about time until we start to see it slipping through our fingers like sand. Or, when we start to notice its effects – like when you find yourself grumbling about “kids these days” or realize that your favorite band is now considered “classic rock.” Our kids seem to grow up overnight. One day, they’re asking for bedtime stories, and the next, they’re asking for the car keys. You would think they were time travelers! It’s a reminder of how time is always moving forward, whether we’re ready for it or not.
I’ve also learned to understand an obscure truth about parenting. It’s not always about the big moments you share, but, oftentimes, it’s more about the simpler moments that have a lasting impact on their lives. Tony Robbins once said, “It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.”
Mark Twain once said, “The secret of getting ahead is getting started.” But, when it comes to appreciating time, the secret is simply to stop and take notice.
I remember when my first-born son took his first steps on New Year’s Eve 1999. Yeah, that one, when we were all afraid the power would go out and we would be in survival mode until someone could figure out how to add two digits to the year on the computer. It was a moment of pure joy and a reminder of how quickly it all passes. One minute, he was a baby learning to crawl, and the next, he was toddling around the living room, exploring his world.
Then there were the times I taught both my sons (individually) how to drive while I inconspicuously held onto the hand lever above the passenger window with my right hand and kept my left hand subtly on top of the hand break. (Advice a State Trooper once offered me.) It was worrying in the beginning, but eventually, the blood flowed back into my fingers and I made it through.
Being a parent is hard work. It plays on our patience, maturity, understanding and commitment to doing what’s right, even when you don’t know exactly what that is. Brené Brown, a researcher known for her work on vulnerability, said, “Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome.” As a father, I’ve learned that just being present and showing up for my family, even when I don’t have all the answers, is what really matters.
The magic lies in the everyday moments, the bedtime stories, game nights, movie nights, the family dinners and the spontaneous jokes and casual conversations while gathered in the kitchen after dinner that create many lasting memories. The secret in these moments is nicely captured by Psychologist Barbara Fredrickson’s explanation, “Love is that micro-moment of warmth and connection that you share with another living being.” It’s these shared experiences that bind us together, and the ones we need to hold onto. They may seem insignificant at the time, but they’re the ones that stay with you, long after the kids have grown up and moved out.
“Time flies, but memories last forever.” While we can’t stop time, unfortunately, we can make the most of the moments we have. We can create memories that will stay with us and bring us joy and comfort in the years to come. In the end, it’s not about how much time we have, but how we choose to spend it. It’s about being present, about appreciating the people in our lives and the moments we share. Again, Sinek reminds us, “The value of our lives is not determined by what we do for ourselves. The value of our lives is determined by what we do for others.” This rings especially true when it comes to family. The quality time we spend with our children, family, spouses and friends – these are the moments that define us.
Academy Award winner and humanitarian, Audrey Hepburn, expressed, “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” This holiday season, let’s make the most of this time we share. Let’s laugh, love and create memories that will last a lifetime. Because, in the end, it’s not the years in our life that count, but rather, the life in our years.
Musical Selection – Micah Edwards - December 26 (Lyric Video)
I’d like to wish blessings upon all those affected by the tragic natural disasters this year. To our neighbors in Western North Carolina, may you persevere, rebuild and make new again the wonderful communities that we all know and love. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
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