CAREGIVER Magazine-Issue 28-August/September 2023

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August/September 2023 Free Copy Issue 28

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CAREGIVER Magazine Issue 28 CaregiverOklahoma.com 4 42 46 30 34 39 42 44 46 Community Heartbeat Something To Smile About Safety Matters Elder Fraud Masonic Charity Gives Big Hearing Aids To Seniors In Need Oklahoma Gardens Tips For Fall Remember When… Friday Night Football Bring on the Fun! Better With Age FunDay Oct. 12th • 9 A-1 P Save The Date! Delores Beaty 08 A Legacy of Love ASK Lisa 18 Medicare Facts You Need To Know Medicare Jet Setters 20 Groovy & Unique Brunch Spots Movie Spotlight 23 Sound Of Freedom 46th Annual Senior Day 24 See you at the Oklahoma State Fair CAREGIVERS CORNER 26 The Joys Of Caregiving CONTENT 4 CAREGIVER Magazine Issue 28 CaregiverOklahoma.com 44 ON THE COVER: Meet a few members of the Beaty family. Their story is one of love, caregiving, and promises made and kept. Their bond, traditions, and family values are a rich legacy in their own right. Dolores Beaty’s quilts exemplify the unconditional love she had for her family, friends, and her community. Enjoy their inspiring story, Delores Beaty: A Legacy Of Love. on page 8.

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Looking back over the last five years has been humbling. We’ve been through a lot in that period of time and I am grateful for the journey, it hasn’t always been easy but the Lord never promised us easy. Our tough times make us appreciate our good times. Without the tough times in life, we wouldn’t even realize what good times are.

While getting the magazine ready for the press I go through a few hours of really thinking about my Momma and Daddy, my grandparents, and my aunts and uncles, who were all such a part of my raising. I miss them. Their passing left a void in my heart. They left a big legacy and instilled values that are in every fiber of my being still today. I have passed those on to my children.

I am very proud to come from a small town where we all contributed to making it a community worth living in. I love my country and all the idyllic Americana that I strive to hold onto and highlight while showcasing the best of Oklahoma and America.

For this issue, my daughter and I had the privilege of visiting with the Beaty family. For a few hours, it really felt like home to me sitting in Delores’ living room talking about her life, her legacy, and the impact she and her husband made in their lives and community. Her quilts were all around her home each stitched with love and the Rose of Sharon she adored blooming in her backyard.

That entire day was special, it was like traveling back in time. Passing fields of fat cattle grazing in the warm summer sun on our drive there. The feedstore and country diner a buzz with people going about their Saturday routines. A little league game of young boys running around the bases and their families cheering them on. Getting behind a tractor on a narrow country road and just slowing down and soaking up the beauty of Oklahoma.

It got my mind thinking about Sundays after church as a young girl, Mamaw would drive us to her sister Annie Kate’s for lunch. She was a sweet lady, an excellent cook and quilter. Her home was built in the 1890s and was like a time capsule. She had one son and treated my sister Andrea and me like the daughters she always wanted. After lunch, we would go to the parlor and she would lower the quilt frame from the high ceiling, and we girls would sit on the floor under the quilt giggling about their conversations and pushing their needles back to the surface.

I am very grateful and honored to bring this publication to you. I know its message and resources are needed more than ever. We travel down memory lane in every issue and remember simpler times, celebrate amazing people, and share inspirational stories of hope and goodwill. We are going to continue to respect our Elders and Veterans, honor Mothers and Fathers and celebrate the American Family you are the strength and treasure of our nation. May the Lord bless and protect you, your family, and our country.

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There is a metal barn on a ranch in Newcastle, Oklahoma, a large room in the barn is being remodeled for a specific purpose. With this remodeling, Terri and Kerry Bates know how to fulfill a promise made to Dolores Beaty, Terri’s mother.

Willard Beaty and Dolores Faller were married in October 1948 and had seven children: Carol, Gary, Delia, Terri, Susan, Mark and Jeff. Dolores was a grandmother of 29; great-grandmother of 52 and great-great-grandmother of four. Dolores passed in March 2023, at 94. In 2000, she was preceded in death by Willard, her husband of 51 years, and their grandson Brent Bristol at age 17; and by their daughter, Susan in 2020.

The Beaty family has lived in Newcastle, Oklahoma since 1970. It seems they are related to more than half of the community. It is a small town where neighbors watch out for each other. Everyone mentions how kind, thoughtful, and gracious Dolores was and that she and Willard were great parents, friends and family.

Some interesting tidbits were shared about Dolores. She hated – HATED – snakes. No snake was safe around her and her shovel – off

with its head! In her younger years, she enjoyed playing card games with her neighbors. She was very artistic and enjoyed crafts. Bowling was her sport! She baked cookies nearly every day. Dolores did not like dill pickles, but her children did, so for them she canned dill pickles. She loved to go out to eat; although, she always had a MOM (to-go) box. She was an active member of her church. She was spirited and always busy. In the past, she was very involved in community projects. She was the rock you leaned on, the hand you held when life got rocky.

Daughter, Carol Stier, of Guthrie, remembers as a very young child watching her mother make quilts. Many of those quilts were held together by running a large needle with yarn through all the layers and tying off every square at each corner. Carol said, “When I was very young, in the evening, Daddy would help Mother tie the squares; working to complete quilts together. Then they donated many of them to the church for families less fortunate. We learned to give by their example.”

Sewing was only one of Dolores’ many gifts. She had sewn all her life and made most of the clothes for her children. She made the curtains and drapes in their home, upholstered furniture, and sewed garments for entire wedding parties. As she aged, needing to fill her days, have a purpose, and continue making a positive impact on the world around her, she made what seemed to her to be the obvious transition from sewing garments back to making quilts.

With severe arthritis, Dolores couldn’t hand stitch the squares. She made the quilts on her 1960s

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sewing machine then took the tops to Beth’s Quilting Quarters and Fabric Shop in Blanchard to have them quilted. In 2015, Dolores gifted each of her children a quilt. From there it was just natural; she made quilts for all of her grandchildren – yes – all 29 grandchildren. Then, you got it; she began the task of making quilts for her 52 great-grandchildren and four great, great-grandchildren. Her family calculates that she made over 100 quilts before her health limited her activities. She averaged completing a quilt per month for nine years.

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When arthritis and severe shoulder pain limited her activities, Dolores added small decorative pillows made from her clothing remnants and Willard’s old socks.

What a legacy to leave on this earth for those who loved her, tangible evidence of loving and being loved. Family and friends were asked to bring their quilts made by Dolores to be displayed at her funeral

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service. The sanctuary was covered in beautiful quilts, all made with love by Dolores. Can you imagine wrapping your grandchild in a blanket sewn by that child’s greatgrandmother? Or the joy of a dad, holding his child wrapped in a quilt made by his great-grandmother? It’s called connecting or bonding or remembering or sharing, the legacy, building on that legacy. Family is everything. Family is there for the good, the bad, and the ugly. Family wipes away tears, whether of joy or sorrow, with the edge of a quilt, and says, “WE got this.”

Daughter, Delia Bristol, credits her mother for mentoring her as she learned to cook and sew. That love of cooking and sewing is part of Delia’s legacy. Delia said, “Mom taught me not to be afraid to fail. So I have tried to cook, and sew, without fear of failure. Most of my projects have been successful. She taught me shortcuts and little tricks that make garments look and fit nicely. I miss calling her for advice or sharing a new shortcut.”

Granddaughter, Diana Bristol, RN, has over 28 years of experience in the healthcare field and has built an intricate network of contacts that played a significant role in Dolores remaining in her home. The entire family was committed to keeping Dolores at home. When she had a stroke, rehab with a feeding tube was necessary. From Rehab she went home

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with physical therapy; then, palliative care, and finally hospice. Daughter Terri and her husband, Kerry Bates, leased their ranch and moved in with Dolores in 2014 to be her primary caregivers. This care became a constant need after the stroke. Kerry stated,

Dolores inspired that kind of love and commitment because she gave that kind of love.

According to Terri, Dolores had a small bell at her bedside. “Mom would rearrange her table periodically throughout the day and as she moved the bell it would ring. I would go in and ask her what she needed and, acting surprised, she would say ‘Why nothing, I was just cleaning my table’. Other times, the bell would ring and I would go in and she would say, ‘I was just wondering if I was alone.’ And I would reassure her that she was never alone. That bell could be frustrating, but right now, I’d give anything to hear it one more time.” shared Terri in a trembling voice.

As Dolores’ health became more fragile, she was worried that she had not made a quilt for every child. She asked Terri to finish the job for her. Knowing they would not be able to make quilts like Mom’s Terri found some large printed fabric panels of animals, flowers, farms, and other pastoral scenes. She sewed rows of “blocks” to edge the panel until it was the size needed.

Many family members have committed to keep the legacy going and that’s where the barn comes into the picture. One room of the big, metal barn is being remodeled to also serve as a sewing room complete with Dolores’ old sewing machine. Delia’s husband, Wayne, has the knowledge and talent to make old sewing machines work like new and he kept Dolores’ in good repair. The family plans to continue making

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“Caring for Dolores was one of my greatest blessings in life. It is the best thing I’ve ever done. Caring for her was a privilege.”

quilts, and pillows in honor of, and as a tribute to, their loving, wonderful mother, grandmother, aunt, sister, great-grandmother, friend, Dolores.

Terri wrote a poem (her first) when her dad died. She told Dolores she would write one for her. Dolores immediately said, “I want to read it.” Laughingly, Terri said, “Well you are still here and I haven’t written it.”

Such disappointment! As the end neared, Terri’s heart filled with words. Her poem is a tribute to a wonderful mother who opened her eyes and focused long enough to hear Terri read the poem to her.

Caregiving is challenging and exhausting. Dolores was visibly declining and so fragile the family knew she was transitioning. Dolores slipped away early in the morning, Terri at her side, and her son Gary driving to her to say ‘’Goodbye.” His heart broke that she slipped away before he could get there.

This is not a story of a heartbroken family. This is a story of a family with grieving hearts and empty arms who will heal and share the joy that was Dolores for years to come. Dolores’ quilts

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Quilts of LoveIn Memory of Dolores Beaty

She’s our Sister, our Mother, Our Grandmother, our Friend She caresses our hearts, As her long journey ends.

In many ways, She has shown us her love. From warm hugs to kisses, Delicate as the down of a dove.

But the most memorable gifts She leaves to us all, Are the quilts made with love Sewn from pieces so small. Quilts made from fabric Pieced together by hand, To cover each one of us, While flows the hourglass sand.

For children and grandchildren And sisters and brothers, For friends and loved ones And so many others.

She stitched and stitched, Both by day and by night. She worked ‘til it hurt, Making sure they’re just right.

Her body became frail, Her mind not so sharp, But she continued with love, Straight from her heart.

We will cherish forever, These fine Quilts of Love, As she continues her work From heaven up above.

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exemplify the unconditional love she had for her family and friends. You cannot create art like her quilts without sewing love into every stitch.

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(b) Medically Fragile Waiver. The Medically Fragile Waiver Program is a Medicaid Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) Waiver used to finance non-institutional long-term care services through Oklahoma’s SoonerCare program for medically fragile individuals. To receive Medically Fragile Program services, individuals must be at least 19 years of age, be SoonerCare eligible, and meet the OHCA skilled nursing facility (SNF) or hospital level of care (LOC) criteria. Eligibility does not guarantee placement in the program as Waiver membership is limited.

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We stumbled upon the ultimate spot that ignites our inner hippie and patriotic spirit all at once. The name of this magical place is Zero Tolerance. As soon as we stepped inside, we were greeted by a warm and joyful energy that enveloped us. Two seasoned performers were strumming their guitars in the corner, belting classic hits from the 60s and 70s. We kicked off our brunch with a heavenly mocha latte made with whole milk from the legendary Red Ridge Creamery in Lahoma, Oklahoma. It was clear from the first sip that this was no ordinary cup of joe. Neil opted for the twoegg house omelet, overflowing with delicious cheese, savory skillet pepper mushrooms, sweet peppers, and juicy tomatoes. To top it off, the dish came with flavorful beef sausage, toast, and fresh apple slices.

Moreover, Zero Tolerance Coffee and Chocolate is run by veterans who pour their hearts and souls into every drink and dish they create from scratch. Their name reflects their unwavering commitment to quality, from top-notch products and services to fair trade practices. They go straight to the source, working with independent farmers to ensure they are treated fairly and compensated generously. For Zero Tolerance, their farmers, community, and customers are everything; they go above and beyond to show them the utmost care and respect.

Thirty Nine Restaurant

659 First Americans Blvd., Oklahoma City, OK

This restaurant is simply stunning! The bright and cheerful atmosphere is illuminated by the natural light that floods in through the many windows, and the beautiful bar is the perfect spot to grab

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in and then find some amazing food. The perfect start to any adventure is guaranteed when you visit one of these tasty brunch locations.

a drink and relax. The cushioned chairs are adorned with traditional First American designs that add a unique touch to the decor. But what really sets this place apart is the incredible acoustics. We could actually hear each other talk without having to shout.

And let’s not forget about the food! The menu boasts Modern Indigenous Cuisine that honors the traditional ingredients of the 39 First American Nations. The mushroom frittata was absolutely divine, overflowing with eggs, mushrooms, peppers, onions, goat cheese, and smoked jalapeno aioli. If you’re looking for a great brunch spot, check them out on Saturdays and Sundays from 11 am to 3 pm. Trust us, you won’t be disappointed!

The Red Cup

3122 N. Classen Blvd. OKC, OK 73118

Stepping inside The Red Cup was like entering a kaleidoscope of vibrant colors and bohemian artistry. The staff was as unique as the décor, and every meal option on the menu seemed to be an explosion of freshness that was uniquely Californian. I couldn’t choose what to order; this kind of food was something I loved but had difficulty finding in other places. I eventually decided to go with their loaded toast - marbled rye bread, hummus, cashew cream cheese, avocado slices, tofu scramble, greens, pica, lemon vinaigrette, and jalapeno aioli - and it absolutely blew my

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outdoors on The Red Cup’s patio and soak in the energy of all sorts of groovy people who also found their way there: hippies, beatniks, artists, poets, vegans... even a man holding a chicken! The Red Cup deserves nothing less than a Medicare Jet-Setters ‘grooviest place’ rating.

Aurora

Located in the heart of the historic Plaza District at 1704 NW 16 St., OKC

As Medicare Jet-Setters, we love supporting local businesses like Aurora! Many Americans dream of having their own company, and Aurora is a perfect example of that dream coming true. The building is a narrow, straight structure, but don’t let that fool you - there’s a hidden gem waiting for you at the back door, the cutest patio ever!

Aurora brings back that sense of serenity and peace for those who remember the coffee houses of the sixties. You’ll want to stay forever in this peaceful haven. And let us tell you, the coffee is absolutely amazing! A piping hot mug of coffee and a cute little milk bottle filled with cream appeared before us in just a few minutes. That first sip was like a party in my mouth - I’d never tasted coffee like this before! One of Aurora’s specialties is its hand-crafted coffee; you can taste the love and care that goes into each cup. The service is top-notch - your coffee cup will always be full, and the food will arrive quickly. We highly recommend trying Aurora’s overnight oats or avocado toast for a delicious treat that will have you returning for more. Your tummy will thank you.

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Sound of Freedom is a movie that will undeniably impact your emotions. It is based on the true story of Tim Ballard, who has rescued countless children from sex and labor trafficking. While watching this movie, my stomach was in knots; these kids were treated like property instead of human beings. One point the film emphasizes is that the perpetrators can make more money from children than any other item – whereas you can only sell a TV once, a child can be sold multiple times each day. The performances by the young actors are remarkable; they convey such strong emotions with their body language and expressions. I am sure they will be nominated for awards.

This film will undoubtedly change you – I know it changed me. When I go out now, I’m always observing, looking for signs that something might be wrong with how someone is treating a child, and if so, I won’t hesitate to call 911. If everyone who sees this movie takes the extra step to look out for signs of child exploitation, we may save many more lives in the future. As Jim Caviezel, who played Tim Ballard in the movie, often repeated, “God’s children are not for sale.”

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The Joys of Caregiving

Yes, you read that title correctly. Many times I write about the challenges caregivers face or the practical chores that need to be done every day. Most choose to become a family caregiver because of the love you have received from a family member who has raised or taken care of you.

Dave, my family member, developed dementia at age 75. He could still talk but it sometimes felt like talking to a child. When I visited, I took Dave out to give his wife a break. “Do you have your wallet and house key, and are you wearing your depends?” I asked. Dave checked everything and made sure his suspenders were holding up his pants. All his adult life Dave was known for his colorful suspenders.

First, we went to the grocery store. Dave only needed to pick up some Aspercreme but we had to go to the Deli counter first. “Hi Sally, how is your grandchild,” Dave would say a little too loudly. Sally’s face lit up. Dave even with his fading memory still remembered her and their last conversation. She felt a connection with him. He picked up the Aspercreme and made sure to pick the checkout line that Mike was running. “Hi Mike, how is the landscaping around your house going?” Mike replied, “I am almost finished and the plant food you told me to buy has helped my roses.” Dave used to be a landscaper.

Next, we went to a hardware store. Dave just enjoyed walking around with all the tools nearby. Lastly, Dave went by the old firehouse he had volunteered for before his wife had taken away the car keys. I had to meet the five firemen on duty and hear all about their families. Next to the house was a ranch with a donkey who came up to the fence. Of course, the donkey got an apple we had brought along.

It was an enjoyable day. What all these people had in common was that Dave had crocheted everyone and their family member’s scarves. When Dave was sitting at home watching television he crocheted scarves. After giving them all to family and friends some people took the extra and gave them away to the homeless. Dave’s wife enjoyed a day off without being asked the same question over and over again.

There is sadness that the Dave we all knew was fading, but the loving caring Dave still shone through despite the memory loss. At first, we brought in home care two days a week to give Mary, Dave’s wife a break. Eventually, Dave went to an adult day center three times a week. He had a chance to talk to individuals like himself as many friends did not know how to relate to Dave. He would come home with his backpack sometimes full of his monthly pills and tell us about his day.

“Allen and Jack had played spades and it was fun to watch them Dave exclaimed. “The chaplain talked about Joseph going down to Egypt then we prayed.” That was Dave’s

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favorite part of the day because of his incontinence and memory loss group church was no longer an option for Dave. Of course, whenever Dave was home we kept him stocked in yarn to crochet scarves. He began mixing all different colors together not able to remember how to color coordinate. He also made some short and wide and others long and skinny. We accepted these gifts as Dave was still contributing to society.

Dave had other health problems. He had constant pain in his feet and his arthritis made walking hard. Medications to treat those problems made him fall. He never complained but as his memory faded he found it harder to cope with the pain. His care needs became too hard for his wife and he moved into a memory care community. He was set up in a corner with his yarn and made scarves for all the workers.

Eventually, Dave developed a massive infection and his quality of life deteriorated. His wife made the unselfish decision to place Dave on hospice where he passed peacefully.

At the funeral friends and family gathered wearing our scarves, imperfect though they were to celebrate someone who gave even when their memory was fading. There were hard moments and stress that come to all families who are caregivers. Yet in those hard times, we can find the joy of enjoying that person where they are at.

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ASSISTED LIVING

Longterm Care Options in Oklahoma —

ASSISTED LIVING

A home or establishment that may provide assistance with personal care, medications, ambulation, nursing supervision and intermittent or unscheduled nursing care. They cannot provide 24-hour skilled nursing care. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health Mainly Private Pay, LTC Insurance may cover , VA Aid & Attendance, & Tribal Benefits Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver)

ADULT DAY CARE

Provides health, recreational, social and supportive services to impaired adults for more than four hours per day. Participants do not stay in the center overnight. Adult Day Care Act - November 1, 1989

Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health VA allows respite benefits

Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver)

CONTINUUM OF CARE

Combines the services of a nursing facility with an assisted living center or an adult day care center. It is licensed under the Continuum of Care and Assisted Living Act and must also meet requirements applicable to nursing facilities, assisted living centers and adult day care centers. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health Currently inOklahoma, all Continuum of Care’s only have assisted livings. Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver) for Assisted Living and Adult Day Care.

INDEPENDENT SENIOR LIVING/HOME CARE

Apartments, cottages, and single-family homes for seniors 55 & over who do not require assistance with daily activities or 24/7 skilled nursing but may benefit from convenient services, senior-friendly surround-ings, and increased social opportunities. NOT Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. No oversight since they are not licensed. May have “High Acuity” that is receiving Home Health and or Hospice services.

NURSING HOME

A nursing facility that provides 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care. Nursing Home Care Act - October 1, 1980. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. Nursing homes provide the highest level of care. Options for Medicare/Medicaid

VETERANS CARE

Created in 2013, this program is for residents who are veterans living in the state veteran’s centers. They are licensed as a nursing facility and can provide 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care . Falls under Nursing Home Care Act - May 29, 2013. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health

RESIDENTIAL CARE HOMES

Provide residential accommodations, food service, and supportive assistance. May also provide assistance with meals, dressing, bathing, other personal needs, and medication administration. Cannot provide medical care such as skilled nursing. Residential Care Act - November 1, 1984 Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health A typical residential care resident is younger than other long term care options and only requires assistant with medication administration. NO Options for Medicare/Medicaid

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• Three chef-prepared, dietician-approved meals daily and snacks provided.

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C MMUNITY HEARTBEAT SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT

The D-DENT mission is to improve the overall health of Oklahomans by improving their oral health. It is a dental facilitating agency. This innovative organization, led by an active Board of Directors, mobilizes a state-wide network of dentists and other dental professionals who volunteer their time to serve Oklahoma’s most fragile citizens. Services are provided at no cost to clients accepted into the program. While dentists volunteer their services, D-DENT pays all lab bills associated with the client’s treatment. These fees include dentures, partials, crowns, and bridges. Over the past thirtyseven years, D-Dent has developed a strong collaboration of dentists, dental labs, and community referrals, allowing the organization to grow into a premier provider of dental services to the target population.

D-DENT’s goal is to provide oral health access and preventative dental education to Oklahomans in need. They provide dental education, enlist and support volunteer dentists and hygienists, and connect them with people in need.

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Lack of access to quality dental healthcare impacts families, employers, the community, and the uninsured individual. Poor oral health affects the circulatory system and can be a sign of life-threatening illnesses, such as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, and osteoporosis.

The Restorative Dental Care program is the foundation of the organization. Through this program, they offer hope to anyone in need of oral health care and full mouth restorations to those who are eligible.

The Comprehensive Care Program has two components: • Direct Services: D-Dent’s experienced staff coordinates the efforts of over 460 volunteer dentists, dental labs and suppliers. Each dentist sees up to 4 clients a year and participating dental labs provide a discount for all prosthetic devices (crowns, bridges, partials and dentures) necessary for good oral health. The target population includes the elderly (60 and older), disabled, veterans, and people with special needs (cancer patients, transplant cases). All recipients must be uninsured and low-income.

• Case Management-Indirect services: D-DENT provides Oklahomans in need of oral healthcare with information regarding available low-income and/or free dental clinics near their area of residency; increasing access to dental care in order to help improve the oral health of Oklahomans statewide.

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They do this by providing referrals to low-cost or free dental clinics near their area of residency to those who do not qualify for the restorative program. Applications are sent to prospective clients that might qualify for services through our restorative dental care program.

A Dental Hygienist provides oral healthcare tools (toothbrush, floss, toothpaste) and educational presentations regarding the importance of daily oral hygiene to the youth, elderly, and staff in living facilities, group homes, schools, daycares, and WIC clinics. Where relevant, the care of dentures is also addressed and free denture-care kits are provided.

D-DENT has matched over 18,750 patients with Volunteer Dentists and their staff for oral health care. The value of the services provided exceeds $27,500,000.

D-DENT contact information: Karen Chadwell, Executive Director, (405)424-8092; Karen. chadwell@d-dentok.org, (405)424-8092. Website: www.d-dentok.org.

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An individualized plan of care is developed for each patient, identifying his/her special medical and physical needs and strengths.

Intensive rehabilitation

Our center’s progressive treatment program is ideal for those recovering from surgery, illness or injury. We use an interdisciplinary team approach to manage the physical and emotional care needs of our patients.

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The transition from hospital to home is further enhanced by a nursing staff trained and experienced in both medical management and rehabilitation.

Following physician’s protocols, our professional nursing team provides medical assessment and monitoring, medication and pain management as well as rehabilitative support.

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ELDER FRAUD

Each year the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3.gov) publishes a report on the top crimes for the previous year. From this report, they also publish a sub-report called the Elder Fraud Report which reflects the internet crimes that affected those over the age of 60. According to this report, losses were up 84% from 2021 and topped $3.1 Billion! That is a tremendous increase! This report lists the top 4 crimes rated by dollar value as Investment Scams, Tech Support, Business Email Compromise, and Confidence/Romance Scams. There are 23 additional internet crimes outlined in the report but losses for each are significantly lower than these top four. So here are a few tips to keep in mind.

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With regards to Investment scams remember if it sounds too good to be true, it is! Promises of high rewards with little or no risk are a big red flag for a scam. Additionally, unsolicited investment opportunities are also a red flag. You should be the one seeking out an investment advisor and you should thoroughly vet any potential advisor through the SEC or FINRA. So if an old friend contacts you out of the blue, or a romantic interest wants to share their ‘good fortune’ with you, it is almost certainly a scam. Cryptocurrency is another red flag for a potential scam. While there have been millions made on crypto there have also been millions lost and you would be wise to only use a well-known, reputable, financial advisor that you have an ongoing business relationship with if you are delving into this for the first time.

Tech Support is a scam I covered in the previous issue so I will not go into detail here other than to say you should be running good virus protection software on all of your devices, including your phone. Additionally, remember that your tech support company does not know you need help with your device and will never ask to access your device unless YOU contact THEM. Lastly, remember not to click on links – this includes advertisements and unsubscribe. Business Email Compromise is one that has many potential manifestations and may present itself in the form of an email appearing to be from a friend or business colleague

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needing your help with a business transaction or in helping someone else out. Or it could be that an email you are expecting from a business transaction has been intercepted and the information altered before you receive it. A good rule of thumb when conducting any financial transaction through email, even if it is a transaction you have been working on and expecting, confirm the information through another method BEFORE sending any personal or financial information. Pick up the phone and call the person or send them a text to confirm before taking any action on the email.

Romance/Confidence Fraud is still alive and well. We are all fairly familiar with the idea of Romance scams but sometimes these appear to be just friendships or something we refer to as affinity connections such as a car club, quilting club or the like. Remember that if you are not sitting at a dinner table with a person, or introducing them to your family and friends, you don’t really know who they are. This is going to be an increasing issue with AI advancing as it is and any interactions other than in-person can easily be faked, including video chat. So never share personal information or give any money to anyone you do not know on an in-person basis, no matter how long you have been interacting with them or how well you think you know them. And if your family and friends are raising a red flag – listen to them!

If you’d like information on a free 1-hour class covering a new topic each month, please call my office at 405-869-1086. We offer in-person classes at 20 locations around Oklahoma County, or you can register for an online option by going to Metrotech.edu/events and

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Have You Heard The Good News?

The Masonic Charity Foundation of Oklahoma has awarded a $125,000 grant to purchase hearing aids through the statewide Senior Citizens Hearing Aid Program operated by the Oklahoma School for the Deaf. Since 2018, the Masonic Foundation has donated four times to clear waiting lists and help lower-income seniors get hearing aids through the OSD program.

A new study by Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health found that seniors with hearing loss have a greater chance of developing dementia, but dementia

prevalence is lower among hearing aid users compared to non-users. “When older Oklahoma start to lose their hearing, many can’t afford to purchase hearing aids,” John Logan, Masonic Charity Foundation executive director said. “Our board is proud to make a significant grant to help them because we know this outstanding program runs out of money every year. “We appreciate the detailed information OSD gives us showing how funds are used and their map of services which indicates only two counties in Oklahoma were not served by this program last year,” Logan added. When Masonic Charity Foundation President Neil Stitt and Grand Master Glen A. Chaney presented the grant, Sarah Jameson, OSD administrative coordinator, said, “Your donation enables OSD to not have a waiting list so we’re able to serve for an entire year,” Jameson supervises OSD’s Equipment Distribution Program, which includes the Senior Citizens Hearing Aid Program.

Masonic Charity Foundation of Oklahoma President Neil Stitt (left) and Grand Master Glen A. Chaney (right) present a donation to Oklahoma School for the Deaf to purchase hundreds of hearing aids for low-income senior citizens: (2nd from left) Renate Neal, equipment distribution program coordinator; Sarah Jameson, OSD administrative coordinator; and Dr. Heather Laine, OSD superintendent.

“Because of the Mason’s donation, seniors served by this program are able to meet with their friends, have lunch, have conversations with their grandchildren, their husbands, their wives – just conversations that they haven’t been a part of for a long time,“ Renate Neal, equipment distribution program coordinator, explained.

OSD’s hearing aid program is funded by a 5-cent fee on telephone service for those who have conventional metal wire or optical fiber telephone connections, known as

landlines. “Regular funding for the program has declined because many Oklahomans have switched to cell phones, which do not currently pay the telephone service fee,” OSD Superintendent Dr. Heather Laine said. “We could help more people if this small fee applied to cell phones and mobile devices.”

To qualify for the Senior Citizens Hearing Aid Program, Oklahoma residents must be 60 years of age, with limited income and a 35-decibel hearing loss in their better ear. The program pays for an audiology examination, ear mold impression, hearing aid fitting, and one non-digital hearing aid per person due to limited funding and the need to serve as many seniors as possible.

OSD contracts with audiologists across the state so seniors can be served as near as possible to their homes. Individuals can only receive two hearing aids if they are deaf and blind, or if they have waited five years after receiving their first hearing aid through the program.

OSD is a division of the Oklahoma Department of Rehabilitation Services. For more information about the program, phone 866-309-1717, video phone 405-294-3977 or visit www.osd.k12.ok.us/edp/senior_hearing_aid.pdf.

S U P P O R T & E D U C A T I O N

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LA TISA LEE

July 2023 Employee of the Month

I’ve worked in home health for 27 years and I absolutely love caring for others. It has always been a passion of mine to make sure that people young and old are properly cared for and I pride myself on doing that. It is a pleasure working at ComForCare Home Care. I adore the staff and residents/clients. It feels good to be able to work somewhere you truly enjoy the atmosphere. Recently I lost my son and at one point I didn’t want to do anything at all, but ComForCare gave me the comfort and support to be able to come back to doing what I love. I am truly grateful for that. I don’t know where I’d be right now if I wasn’t able to do what I love. Thank you so much to my supervisors and all my colleagues for honoring me with being Employee of the Month!

RUBY S. JOHNSON

August 2023

Employee of the Month

“What I like about working for ComForCare is that family comes first. I like the interaction with the clients the most. I love just being able to talk with them about their life! When they are talking about their kids and grandkids it just puts a smile on my face. I love my job and I love what I do!”

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MASTER GARDNER TIPS FOR FALL

Planting a fall garden in July and August can provide fresh vegetables until Thanksgiving. Oklahoma’s mild autumn seasons offer an ideal time to engage in vegetable gardening, and now is the perfect moment to start. Surprisingly, there is still time to sow cool-season plants.

David Hillock from Oklahoma State University Extension states, “People who garden develop an appreciation and a desire for fresh, nutritious fruits and vegetables. Some of the highest-quality garden vegetables in Oklahoma are grown and harvested in the fall when warm, sunny days are followed by cool, humid nights.”

Here are some tips to ensure a successful fall garden: Watering: Proper watering is crucial to keep the new plants cool and moist. Since temperatures may still be warm in early fall, it is essential to provide consistent and regular watering to prevent the soil from drying out. Water deeply, but avoid overwatering to prevent root rot.

Mulching: Apply organic mulch around the plants to retain moisture in the soil and regulate soil temperature. Mulch acts as a barrier against evaporation and helps keep the roots cool.

Shade and Protection: If fall weather remains hot, consider providing shade to shield plants from excessive heat. You can use shade cloth or position taller plants or structures strategically to create shade for late-season plants.

Cold Frames or Row Covers: As temperatures drop in the progressing fall, protecting plants from cooler temperatures, frost, or light freezes becomes necessary. Cold frames or row covers can provide insulation and shield plants from extreme weather conditions.

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Plant Selection: Choose plant varieties that thrive in cooler temperatures and shorter daylight hours. Opt for cold-tolerant vegetables like lettuce, kale, spinach, radishes, carrots, and broccoli, which flourish in the fall. Other suitable vegetables include mustard, beets, Swiss chard, turnips, pole and lima beans, winter squash, and Chinese cabbage.

These vegetables are best started in warm soil and reach maturity during cool days and nights. Local shops and stores offer a wide variety of fall-planting vegetables. Additionally, if you have leftover seeds from spring planting, you can plant them in late summer for a second harvest. Tender crops like tomatoes, cucumbers, okra, squashes, eggplants, and beans only require around 50 days to mature.

Casey Hentges of OSU Agriculture’s Oklahoma Gardening show explains, “Some plants, such as radishes, mature in as little as 20 days, but other vegetables like broccoli and pumpkin can take 100 days or more before harvest. Gardeners need to ensure they have enough time between planting and harvest before winter arrives.”

If your spring planting didn’t go as expected, now is an opportunity to try again. August is an ideal month to plant bush beans, pole beans, cucumbers, and squash. Remember to monitor your garden regularly, paying attention to soil moisture levels and adjusting watering accordingly. Take note of any specific requirements for the plants you’re growing, as different species may have varying needs. Enjoy the process of planting cool-season vegetables and relish the delicious fall dishes they will provide for your kitchen table! Happy gardening!

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Thank You To Our Photo Booth Sponsor

With two With two FunDays completed and one FunDays completed and one more FunDay on the horizon, 2023 has more FunDay on the horizon, 2023 has definitely been an exciting and Fun year! definitely been an exciting and Fun year! The upcoming FunDay will be the best The upcoming FunDay will be the best yet with over 90 exhibitors bringing over yet with over 90 exhibitors bringing over 80 door prizes for you to win. 80 door prizes for you to win.

Tom Nix, will be playing the piano and Tom Nix, will be playing the piano and singing, with a little help from the singing, with a little help from the audience! The legendary Oklahoma audience! The legendary Oklahoma singer Cathy Castello will perform our singer Cathy Castello will perform our opening ceremony Patriotic medley. DJ opening ceremony Patriotic medley. DJ Jammin Jeff Aynes, another superb talent Jammin Jeff Aynes, another superb talent will emcee and play our favorite tunes! will emcee and play our favorite tunes! OHAI instructors always do a great job OHAI instructors always do a great job showing us how to add exercise into our showing us how to add exercise into our day. The lovely ladies of the “Not Just day. The lovely ladies of the “Not Just Country Line Dancers” will dance and Country Line Dancers” will dance and teach the more adventurous attendees teach the more adventurous attendees and exhibitors a few new steps. The and exhibitors a few new steps. The Oklahoma Senior Games is bringing their Oklahoma Senior Games is bringing their game zone packed full of fun. game zone packed full of fun.

Many thanks to our sponsors: Centric

Many thanks our sponsors: Centric Home Health and Hospice, Home Health and Hospice, Woundynamics, Advanced Body Scan, Woundynamics, Advanced Body Scan, Spanish Cove Retirement Village and Spanish Cove Retirement Village and Compass Sr. Living Solutions. Courtesy of Compass Sr. Living Solutions. Courtesy of Spanish Cove and Advanced Body Scan, Spanish Cove and Advanced Body Scan, our food and beverage sponsors, a great our food and beverage sponsors, a great variety of complementary beverages, variety of complementary beverages, food items, and snacks will be available, food items, and snacks will be available, including hot breakfast and lunch. including hot breakfast and lunch. Providing everyone options for Providing everyone options for nourishment for the entire event nourishment for the entire event

Centric Home Health and Hospice are Centric Home Health and Hospice are our Photo Booth Sponsor stop by the our Photo Booth Sponsor stop by the fountain area and get your fountain area and get your commemorative photo taken. Add the commemorative photo taken. Add the October 12th Better With Age FunDay October 12th Better With Age FunDay to your calendars. Great information, fun, to your calendars. Great information, surprises, and prizes are waiting! surprises, and prizes are waiting!

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