Pentecost Sunday - May 19 2024

The parish of saint Mary

A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time

OnePhalanxRoad,ColtsNeck,NJ07722

Phone:732-780-2666 Fax:732-780-0394

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.

Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee

Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch

Parish Trustees: Annette Raynor & Roger Zurro

PENTECOST

SUNDAY MAY 19, 2024

Biblical Evidence for the Eucharist

Join us for an evening to discover, How God’s Plan for the Eucharist unfolds in Biblical History

Impact of Christ’s teaching about the Eucharist before the Last Supper

WHEN: Tuesday, May 21, 7:00pm

WHERE: St. Catharine’s Church 108 Middletown Road Holmdel, N.J

All are welcome! Register HERE

OfficeHours

Reminder, Office Hours are 2:00 PM to 7:30 PM every Tuesday and 9:00 AM to 2:00 PM every Monday, Wednesday, & Thursday. NO Friday’s or Saturday’s. Also, one Sunday a month from 9:00 AM to 1:00 PM. This month is Sunday, June 2.

Mass Intentions for:

Saturday May 18, 2024 - Sunday May 26, 2024

Saturday, May 18- 4PM

Pro Populo

Christopher Munger * The Munger and Grabowski Family

Edward Coyle * Rorie and Jack Coppola

Sunday, May 19

8AM

DeStefano/Albruno Families * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti

Theodore Ziemienski * Jane Slattery

Albert Auer * Martha Mary Guild

10AM

Helen LaPorta * Carmel & Peter Vickers

Rosalie LaPorta * Carmel & Peter Vickers

Ronald Morrissey * Marilyn and Carl Simone

12PM

Thomas Morin * The Morin Family

Richard Gerbino * Richard and Maria Gerbino

Joseph E. Morreale * Linda LePre

Monday, May 20 9AM

Maria Zito * Anna Zanobi

Tuesday, May 21- 9AM

Joel Schneider * Sharon Burlew

Wednesday, May 22 9AM

Albert Auer * Angela and Tom Kinlin

Thursday, May 23 9AM

Annamae Alvino * Lorraine Lee

Friday, May 24 9AM

Agnes Pellicone * Nick and JoAnn Pellicone

Saturday, May 25 5PM

Al Spino * Ann Marie Dayton- sister

Mary Louise & Martin Carroll * Louise & Bob Lutkewitte Jon Kopko * The Obalde Family

Sunday May 26

10AM

Pro Populo

Jacqueline Morin * The Morin Family

Harold J. Fiedler * Susan and James Gobat

Mass Intention Requests

Requests can be made in person by stopping at the parish office, or online HERE. Suggested stipend is $10.

Pleaseprayforthefollowingmembersofourparishcommunitywhoareill:

Jack Coppola

Bill Donahue ~ Kaitlin Donahue Nagle ~ Lori Lettieri

Lauren vinci

TOM JACOBSON

Dawn Reinhardt

Jeff McBride

Owen Shoemaker

Ginny Hamlin

Gerard Thompson

Melissa Love

Fran Raleigh ~ Dee Lembo

Toaddorremoveafamilymemberfromthesicklistpleasee-mailONLY parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Please,also,keepusupdatedonyourlovedone’shealth. Nameswillberemovedfromthelistafter3months.ThankyouforkeepingourParishinformed.

Lifelong Catechesis - Week of May 19 May 25

READINGS FOR THE WEEK:

PENTECOST SUNDAY

Acts 2:1-11/1 Cor 12:3b-7, 12-13 or Gal 5:16-25/Jn 20:19-23 or Jn 15:26-27; 16:12-15

MONDAY MAY 20

Gn 3:9-15, 20 or Acts 1:12-14/Jn 19:25-34

TUESDAY MAY 21

Jas 4:1-10/Mk 9:30-37

WEDNESDAY MAY 22

Jas 4:13-17/Mk 9:38-40

THURSDAY MAY 23

Jas 5:1-6/Mk 9:41-50

FRIDAY MAY 24

Jas 5:9-12/Mk 10:1-12

SATURDAY MAY 25

Jas 5:13-20/Mk 10:13-16

Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord.

Pray for Military & First Responders

AMT Colton Boag, USCG

LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC

Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army

TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF

LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC

FOR DEEPER REFLECTION:

Question for Children: When have you heard your inner voice or conscience guiding you to do what is right?

Question for Youth: When have you felt the Holy Spirit in your life?

Question for Adults: Share about times when you felt the power of the Spirit, giving you the right words, giving you insight into a dilemma, or in other ways.

Life Long Catechesis

Lt. Col. Douglas Coppola, US Army

~ Lt. Mary Herman, USN

SN Christian Houlihan, USN

LT. Jason Joseph Howe, USN

SPC Michael John Mento, US Army ~

LTJG Matthew Motola, USN

LCpl Bradley O’Ree, USMC

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SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army

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Captain Richard Savo, US Army

1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army

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Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army

This week the Sanctuary Lamp burns for… Church: Rita&NicholasBonamo Requested by: Annette Raynor

Sanctuary Lamp

Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one.

One intention is accepted per week (Sunday - Saturday) for the Lamp. The suggested donation is $25. Request online HERE.

Andrew J. Macirowski - Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Worship & Music

Pentecost Sunday

The Solemnity of Pentecost occurs 50 days after Easter. Because Easter is a moveable feast without a fixed date, and Pentecost depends on the timing of Easter, Pentecost can fall anywhere between May 10 and June 13.

The timing of these feasts is also where Catholics get the concept of the Novena - nine days of prayer - In Acts 1, Mary and the Apostles prayed together continuously for nine days after the Ascension (40 days after Easter) as they awaited the coming of the Spirit.

Pentecost is the celebration of the Holy Spirit coming upon the Apostles, Mary, and the first followers of Jesus, who were gathered together in the Upper Room.

A “strong, driving” wind filled the room where they were gathered, and tongues of fire came to rest on their heads, allowing them to speak in different languages so that they could understand each other, and also gave the apostles the other gifts and fruits necessary to fulfill the great commission - to go out and preach the Gospel to all nations. It fulfills the New Testament promise from Christ (Luke 24:46-49) that the Apostles would be “clothed with power” before they would be sent out to spread the Gospel. This is also considered to be the birth of the Church, as after this, the Apostles were confident to travel far and wide, and make disciples of all the nations.

DIACONATE ORDINATION

Bishop David M. O'Connell, C.M. will preside the Diaconate Ordination Mass at the Cathedral of St Mary of the Assumption on Saturday May 18 at 10 AM. One of our parishioners, Richard “Rich” Gerbino, will receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders in the order of permanent deacon at that ceremony. Please join us at this Mass to celebrate Rich and the other men being ordained deacons for our Diocese. Sunday May 19, Solemnity of Pentecost, at the 12 noon mass, the newly ordained Deacon Rich will serve at the Mass and give the homily for the first time. After the mass, light refreshments will be served, and we will have the chance to congratulate Rich in his new ministry. Please join us for this important celebration.

Joan of Arc, Virgin, 1412-1431

Joan was the youngest of five children of Jacques d’Arc, a peasant farmer. She was only thirteen when she experienced the first of her visions, which she described as a voice accompanied by a blaze of light. She later identified the voices as those of St. Michael, St. Catherine, St. Margaret and others. They revealed to Joan that her mission in life was to save France by assisting the Dauphin, the rightful heir to the throne of France.

When she tried to embark on her mission, she was scoffed at by the French commander and initially ignored by the Dauphin, who preferred the life of luxury to pursuing his father’s throne. Eventually, however, Joan convinced the civil and church authorities that she was not a heretic and did have a mission to save France. Clothed in a suit of white armor, Joan led an expedition to relieve the besieged city of Orléans. After this success, she gained a great victory over the British and, shortly after, captured Troyes. Read More HERE.

Saturday, 25 5PM

Sunday, 26 8 AM

Ministry Schedule: The Most Holy Trinity May 25 & 26

Alex Gruenling Anthony Gruenling Carly York Maryellen Griffin Charles Young

Sunday, 26 10 AM Chloe Cullen NOT FILLED Cantor/ Choir Julia Cullen Carl Simone

OH - Elvira Dapul

TH - Susan Murphy

TH - Liz Turkovic

ALT - Nick Turkovic

OH - Linda DickinsonPancila

TH - Sue Fitzpatrick

TH - Fran Vaina

ALT - Carol Donahue

Sunday, 26 12 PM

Speak with a Priest

 Struggling with a life event and in need of spiritual assistance?

 Want to celebrate the Sacrament of Penance outside the normal Confession times?

 Trying to find your way back to engagement with the Church?

 Discerning vocation?

 Looking to complete your Sacraments of Initiation and wish to chat about the journey?

St Mary is offering the opportunity for parishioners to chat with a priest who are only indirectly engaged with the parish. If interested please contact Fr. Mike Walsh by phone (732)780-2666 x205 or email frmike.walsh@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Baptismal Preparation Session

St Mary Parish is offering our next Baptismal Preparation Session on: SUNDAY, June 2, 2024 at 1:00 PM

Pre-registrationisrequired aweekinadvance. ContactUs

Sacrament of Baptism

Parents wishing to baptize their children must be registered parishioners of St Mary Parish. Please contact the Parish Office at 732-780-2666 x329 at least 3 months in advance of the desired date for baptism. More information can be read HERE.

Please remember in your prayers those who have recently died. GLORIA ZIEMIENSKI

Faith Formation

Julia Cullen - Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation / Religion Education

Religious Ed CALENDAR:

1 June 2024

Intergenerational Digital Recording List Due Link below 22 June 2024

Summer Intensive Orientation

Following the 5pm mass in the church

23 June 2024

Summer Intensive Orientation

Following the 12pm mass in the church

Registration/Re-Registration for the fall 24/25 RE program continues through the month of May Register HERE

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION LINKS : 2023 - 2024

• YRE Yearly Calendar

•Parent - Student Handbook

•Intergenerational List

•Intergenerational Digital Recording Sheet

Summer Service Hours

The RE Summer Intensive is in need of volunteers! sign-up here to assist in the July or August Program

ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 309

This weekend we celebrate Pentecost, the Church’s birthday!

Check out the video link to watch as a family: https://watch.formed.org/ videos/ep-8-god-how-did-youbegin-our-church

Please be reminded that Intergenerational Recording sheets are due 1 June 2024 and are important to ensure your child’s placement in the 24/25 RE program.

We again thank all of our students, parents and catechists for a terrific RE year and look forward to seeing everyone at mass!

Summer Intensive Orientation

22 June, beginning at the 5pm mass 23 June, beginning at the 12pm mass Mandatory for all summer students grades 1-6

Rose

Farrow - Coordinator of Faith Formation / Youth & Adult Catechesis

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org

732-780-2666 X 310

We are pleased to announce the celebration of the Sacrament of Confirmation

Date: 18October2024

Time: 4:00PM

Other Mandatory Dates:

Confirmation retreat

Sunday, September 15 2024

Beginswith10:00ammass, Candidate MUST beaccompaniedbytheir parentand/orsponsor

Confirmation Practice

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Beginswith4:00pmmass Candidate MUST beaccompaniedbytheirparent and/or sponsor

Please keep the Confirmandi in your prayers

Create a free account: https://formed.org/signup

“In the beginning I was trying to go it alone. I was reading the Bible by myself, and even though it’s a very strong time and emotional time to sit and read the Bible, I learned that you can’t go it alone. You need community. To be part of the Catholic Church is that bigger part that was missing.” – Kyle

Being a Catholic means being part of a spiritual family. Often, it can be your flesh-andblood family, or it can be a close friend who invites you to “come and see.” As you enter the Church, the parish community and the RCIA Program will walk with you on your journey of faith.

The Theme Song

“We Do Believe, O Lord” is a new Eucharistic hymn by Diane Mahoney, a member of Divine Mercy Parish in Burlington, Iowa. The piece has been named the theme song for the Revival movement! Link to song:

https://www.eucharisticrevival.org/post/sheetmusic-available-for-new-eucharistic-hymns

May 15–-29, 2024 St. Veronica- Howell

Jun 1 15, 2024 St. Mary’s -Dover

Jun 16 24, 2024 St. Thomas-Old Bridge

Jun 24—July 8, 2024 St. Catherine'sMiddletown

The National Eucharistic Revival Pilgrims will be here in our Diocese of Trenton on Tuesday, Wednesday, & Thursday May 28,29, and 30, 2024.

Bishop David O’Connell will be the Celebrant: Mass will be Livestreamed by the Diocese

Tuesday evening 5/28

St Mary’s Cathedral in Trenton Mass at 7:15 PM

Wednesday evening 5/29

St Mary of the Pines in Manahawkin Mass at 6:30 PM

Thursday morning 5/30

St Mary in Bordentown Mass at 9:00 AM

We invite all to attend! Please pray for these pilgrims as they make their way to the Eucharistic Congress

For more information and Diocesan events,: https://dioceseoftrenton.org/ eucharistic-revival

To find more information about the movement, click HERE.

Quo vadis for May 19. .

My Dear Parishioners:

This weekend we celebrate the Solemnity of Pentecost. The Spirit is given for the sake of mission, but the Spirit’s indwelling affects each of us personally, too. Our baptism-Pentecost requires that each of us die to ourselves and to anything that is evidence of our own sinfulness (second reading: “immorality, impurity, lust, idolatry, sorcery, hatreds, rivalry, jealousy, outbursts of fury, acts of selfishness, dissensions, factions, occasions of envy, drinking bouts, orgies, and the like”). When we choose to die to ourselves we experience the new life that comes in the Spirit: “live, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, gentleness, self-control.” When the two lists are laid out side by side like this the choice seems rather easy and obvious: live in the Spirit so as to have the fruit of the Spirit. In our everyday lives the choice isn’t always so clear and easy. Our temptations to “works of the flesh” might be more subtle; for example, letting ourselves get too tired to respond charitably, choosing to sit watching TV rather than really talking with one’s spouse or children, getting by on our tasks rather than doing the best we can. The dying is most often in the little things! Come, Holy Spirit!

This weekend, Saturday 18 May 2024 at the Cathedral of Saint Mary of the Assumption in Trenton, Richard Gerbino will receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders as a Deacon of the Church. We congratulate Rich, his wife Maria and their family We offer our prayerful support as Deacon Rich begins ministry as a deacon of the church serving our Diocese of Trenton and our Parish of Saint Mary. Dea con Rich will offer the homily at 12 Noon, Sunday, 19 May in our parish church. There will be light refreshments following the mass in the Narthex.

This Solemnity concludes the Liturgical Season of Easter. We begin the Liturgical Season of Ordinary Time on Monday. The coming Sundays are

Solemnities within Ordinary Time, Trinity Sunday and then Corpus Christi. We will return to the Mass Setting from the Roman Missal throughout the Summer months. The liturgical color is Green during Ordinary Time and the decorations are simplified. During the Month of June the Church observes the Feast Day of Saint Anthony of Padua, The Solemnity of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, The Feast of Saint John the Baptist, & the Solemnity of Sts. Peter & Paul.

Congratulations and THANK YOU to all those who have participated in the 2024 Easter Collection. Your faithful deliberate Stewardship of Treasure enables our parish to continue providing the very best for our parishioners and all those whom we serve. We have listed an overview of the gifts received this year as well as some facts from previous years. Next Monday, 27 May, is the civic holiday in which we honor those who have given their lives in maintaining the freedom that we enjoy. Memorial Day is an opportunity for us to come and pray for all our men and women in uniform, especially those who have died. Mass will be celebrated at 9:00am. Come and begin your holiday observance by receiving Holy Communion and praying for all those who have given their lives for the freedom we enjoy. Also, there is a parade in Colts Neck along Heyers Mill Road. Come and be a part of this great local tradition.

Memorial Day Weekend begins the Summer Mass Schedule (through Labor Day Weekend) and we will observe an abbreviated mass schedule on Saturday and Sunday (as well as Independence & Labor Day Weekends). Please be mindful as you prepare for mass next weekend. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace! Father Jeff

Temporal Admin., Stewardship & Outreach

Sharing Our Treasure May 12 2024 – Ascension of The Lord

Edwin A. SevillanoTemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Sign-in for our Online Giving system to make your parish offerings from your bank account or Credit Card!

To set up an online giving account please visit https://giving.parishsoft.com/smcn

# Registered Parishioner Households 957

Thanks to your generosity we have sent $ 500 to the appeal for the Catholic Communications Campaign

"But grace was given to each of us according to the measure of Christ's gift. Therefore, it says: He ascended on high and took prisoners captive; he gave gifts to men." Eph 4:7-8

Memorial Day Weekend / The Most Holy Trinity Abbreviated Mass Schedule

Saturday May 25 - 5 pm Mass

Sunday May 26 - 10 am Mass (No 8 AM or 12 noon)

Memorial Day Mass schedule

Monday May 27 9 am Mass (in the Chapel)

Alternatively, just Text SUNDAY to (732)-889-7800 and follow the instructions to complete your offering. Should you require our assistance setting up your new account, please call the parish office at (732)780-2666.

You can also download the Connect Now Giving App for Android or iOS.Thank you for your continuous support!

.We are excited to announce that the latest edition of the ACA newsletter, Gratitude & Grace, has been received by parishioners. Initiated last year, the Gratitude & Grace newsletter serves as a key tool for enhancing transparency regarding the use of the funds raised through the Annual Catholic Appeal. You may pick up a copy of the newsletter in church this weekend.

If you have not yet made a gift, there are pledge forms available in the back of church, or you can visit www.dioceseoftrenton.org/catholicappeal to send your gift electronically. Make sure to select St. Mary Catholic Church, Colts Neck in the Parish Affiliation box so we can receive credit for your gift. Your gift will truly make a difference. Thank you for your prayers and support.

2024 Easter Collection: $89,228

as of May 16, 2024

CONGRATULATIONS & THANK YOU!

Dear Parishioners & Friends,

Below is a simple accounting of our 2024 Easter Collection. The sacrificial sharing of many has enabled us to exceed our expectations. Your contributions will continue to enable us to regain our financial solvency. Please know that the sacrifices we make for the future of our parish do not go unnoticed and I pray that each of us will receive the blessing promised us. Again, thank you for this sacrifice and the sacrifices that you make each and every week so that our Saint Mary Parish continues to proclaim God in word and deed.

Pattern of Giving

PENTTECOSTSUNDAY

AlmightyGod,onthisdayyouopenedthewayofeternallifetoeveryraceandnationbythepromisedgiftofyourHoly Spirit:ShedabroadthisgiftthroughouttheworldbythepreachingoftheGospel,thatitmayreachtotheendsofthe earth;throughJesusChristourLord,wholivesandreignswithyou,intheunityoftheHolySpirit,oneGod,foreverand ever.Amen.

"Caring for People by People Who Care" Serving Monmouth and Ocean Counties

I wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself. My name is Dena Glynn, Director of Development at Caregiver Volunteers of Central Jersey. We are thrilled to have you as part of our coalition of caring!

• Medical Transportation: Door to door transportation to medical appointments

• Grocery Shopping: Volunteer is assigned to do in person food shopping bi-monthly

• Companionship Home Visits: Weekly visits offering friendship

• Caregiver Canines®: Pet Therapy weekly visits from a certified therapy dog

• Caregiver Respite: Support and weekly visits for those living with dementia or other chronic illness to give the family caregiver a break

• Connect thru Music: A beautiful music program designed to connect dementia clients with their former self

• Handy Andy: Simple home repair & maintenance services, in & out doors

• Healthy Hop: Free on demand door to door transportation using Uber

Getting Ready for the Martha Mary Guild

Clothing Sale

It’s “Spring Cleaning “time! Please remember to set aside your men’s, ladies and children’s clothes that are in good condition. The Sale will be Sept. 5, 6, 7 and 8 and we will start collecting on Aug 18.

Volunteers are needed to help sort and setup during collection days and as staff during the Sale. Our youth can earn Community Service credit.

To add your name to our list of wonderful volunteers or for further information, call any of our Chairs:

Kathy Adleman at 732 946 8631

Ien Yoe at 732 331 4756

Rorie Coppola at 732 933 0720

Thank you for your time and your contributions. Without you, the Guild would be unable to donate to deserving charities!

Way Forward

For anyone suffering from the loss of a loved one we are offering 6 weeks of guided grief sessions for adults June 5, 12, 19, 26 July 3, 10 at 11am or 6pm (the early session on July 10th will be at 1pm)

In the Parish Center 50 Hurleys Lane Registration required stleothegreat.com/bereavement

“Easter Duty”

The Catholic Church requires of us as baptized Catholics to observe the following:

The obligation, the privilege really, of receiving the Eucharist at least once a year often called “Easter duty” for those in the state of grace should still be fulfilled during the period from the First Sunday of Lent, February 18, 2024 to Trinity Sunday, May 26, 2024. However, the Church’s law does permit this precept to be fulfilled at another time during the year when there is a just cause.

MOTHER MARY & SAINTS PILGRIMAGE to ENGLAND, IRELAND, SCOTLAND.

Sept 16-27, 2024. 12 Days $4990. Includes RT Airfare from Newark, Daily Breakfasts & Dinners, Hotel accommodations, professionally guided tours, deluxe motor coach & more.

Fr Abraham Orapangkal, pastor St Mathias parish, Somerset Tour Chaplain. Daily Mass & Prayers, For more information kindly call or Email:

JULIET HOBSON 732-439-2835

Email: yetjcb@icloud.com

Becoming a Catechist will make all the difference here at The Parish of St. Mary. As disciples we are called to share the GOOD NEWS and create new disciples . Training and Support is Provided ! God doesn't always call the qualified. He Qualifies The called! Are you being called?

You are invited to “The Art of Catechesis.” This 6hour course provides the support and encouragement , as well as the skills and tools a Catechist needs to pass on the faith. Join us to learn about this ministry! For a current list of in-person and virtual course offerings, go to https://dioceseoftrenton.org/art-of-catechesis

LOOKING FORWARD TO CARNIVAL 2024

June 17th through June 22, 2024

The Parish, School and surrounding community come out in droves to support this event and have a "GREAT" time, too!

The food is scrumptious; hamburgers, french fries, pizza, sausage and peppers, and our famous zeppoles are outstanding! There are rides and games of chance.

Church Of Saint LeoThe Great

50 Hurleys Lane Lincroft, NJ

Mark Your Calendars!

June 24 to June 29, 2024, because it's time for the most anticipated event of the year!

The Great Fair of Saint Mary’s! Join us at the heart of the Saint Mary’s Church parking lot for six nights of unforgettable family fun!

Parish Of Saint Mary

9 Cherry Tree Farm Rd Middletown, NJ