A PUBLICATION OF THE SALESIAN SISTERS OF ST. JOHN BOSCO
Dear Friends,
Easter Blessings to you and your loved ones! The windowsill in my office is currently home to three gorgeous amaryllises, blooming and full of life. They are a tangible reminder of how God makes all things new — in nature, and within each of us. I pray this celebration of the Easter season brings renewed life, hope, and energy to all that you do.
While every issue of Partners in Giving is special, there is something uniquely joyful about this one. I especially encourage you to read more about my successor, Sr. Katie Flanagan, on p. 7. Madeleine Petrara Perrin’s reflection on her time at Camp Auxilium is also particularly close to my heart, as I was blessed to spend 18 beautiful years serving there. As you journey through these pages, may you be inspired by the many ways God continues to work through our community. Thank you for being a part of this mission — your support and prayers make all the difference.
Wishing you a joyful and grace-filled Easter season,
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is a bimonthly magazine published by the Salesian Sisters of St. John Bosco 659 Belmont Avenue
MORNESE EXPERIENCE RETREAT for women ages 18-30 - Newton, NJ Thursday, June 12 - Sunday, June 15
NJ SUMMER CAMP SEASON BEGINS
Monday, June 30, 2025
SISTERS' JUBILEE CELEBRATION
Sunday, July 13, 2025
MORNESE PILGRIMMAGE
July 19 - August 4, 2025
Email: happynun@gmail.com for details and to sign up.
CAMP AUXILIUM 65th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION
Fall 2025 More information to come.
Editorial Board
Sr. Christina Chong, FMA, Editor
Sr. Mary Rinaldi, FMA, Director of Development
Sr. Katie Flanagan, FMA, Associate Director of Development
Sr. Brittany Harrison, FMA, Editorial Manager
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Cover: Sr. Margaret Rose Buonauito with a student from St. Philip Preparatory Academy in Clifton, NJ who proudly displays her completed Mary Help of Christians art project.
The Path to Salesian Sainthood
From the time I was little, reading about the Saints and how they lived has always been something I loved. If you’re like me, you had a favorite saint when you were little, and you probably wondered the same things as I did: How did they get to be saints? How do their lives compare to my own — could I become a Saint like them at some point? How hard would that be? What does it take to become a Saint? These questions popped into my head whenever I started reading about Saints.
Becoming a Saint is a rigorous process, yet the Salesians, who are among the youngest orders in the Church, boast quite a number of Saints — nine, soon to be 10! Sr. Maria Troncatti, FMA, was recently approved and will shortly be canonized. Ten Salesian saints…we are about to hit double digits! We can also humbly boast that we have 118 Blesseds, 17 Venerables, and 29 Servants of God. That is a lot of Saints and soon-to-be Saints! How did these Salesians achieve this? As Salesians, there are some common characteristics we share.
The Salesian path to Sainthood centers on joy. As Don Bosco put it, “Here we make holiness by always being cheerful. We try to avoid sin, which is the great enemy that robs us of the grace of God and peace of heart, and we try to fulfill our duties exactly.”
The path to Salesian sainthood is different from the path to Franciscan or Dominican sainthood, for example. A Dominican looks at God as Truth; a Franciscan sees God in Nature. Salesians, as I’m sure you know, are quite different.
When I was presenting on vocations one time, a student asked me, “Sr. Colleen, how do the Salesians look at God?” Sr. Mary Bertha was with me on that trip, and the two of us looked at each other and smiled as she answered, “We look at God as a fun-loving and caring Father.” We brought this dedication to fun to life later that day when we celebrated Sr. Mary Bertha’s birthday; we met the kids at an ice cream parlor and treated them to ice cream. Because ice cream is always fun!
Salesian virtues include the following, and they encompass the Salesian path to sainthood:
• Joy: Salesian Saints are known for their joy, optimism, and happiness. They believe that holiness and happiness go together.
• Service: Salesian Saints serve the young. They offer love, prayer, and service to meet the needs of others.
• Love for the Poor: Salesian Saints have a special tenderness for those who are poor and disadvantaged.
• Humility: Salesian Saints pass almost unnoticed. They are quiet and humble.
• Simplicity: Salesian Saints emphasize the virtues of simplicity and gentleness.
• Kindness: Salesian Saints are known for their kindness, patience, and acceptance.
• Fidelity to the Pope: Salesian Saints have a deep trust in God and remain steadfast in their love for the Pope.
Over the next few issues, we will take a look at each of these elements to help you understand the Salesian Sisters and our path to sainthood; as part of the Salesian Family, I invite you to travel this path with us. And just for fun, if you want to see some joy in action today, take a look at our Instagram. Our account is @salesiansisters.
I leave you in the heart and hands of Our Lady,
— Sr. Colleen Clair, FMA, is the Superior of St. Joseph Province
The
Catechesis
of the Good Shepherd
By Sr. Margaret Rose Buonaiuto, FMA
Going back to my early years as a high school student at Cathedral High in New York City, I have been trained as a catechist. During those years, I would travel every Sunday, by subway, to teach CCD on Downtown Delancy St. I've taught traditional religion in school and CCD for over 50 years and prepared many students for 1st Communion. In 2008,
“Young children look for the essential realities, the greatest mysteries of our faith and rejoice in them!”
I came to hear about the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd and fell in love with the approach and respect for the religious potential of the child. It touched and enriched my soul, and I realized it was not teaching about Jesus and the faith but helping the children really to know Jesus and enter into a more personal relationship with Him while connecting with Scripture and liturgy.
I had the opportunity to be trained at Level I while in Port Chester, NY, and then Level II training for children from six to nine years old. I would eventually teach CGS, bringing the Atrium with me, to Port Chester, Totowa, NJ, and finally to our school, Villa Madonna, in Tampa, FL.
In 2024, I was called back to NJ to train our young women in formation in this method. Our present Atrium joyfully found a home this February when St. Philip Prep in Clifton, NJ, afforded us the space. Although it has only been two months you can see from the pictures how well the children have responded. What a joy and what peace!
Observing the children in the atrium, I think I begin to understand more and more why Jesus said, “Unless you become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3) Young children look for the essential realities, the greatest mysteries of our faith and rejoice in them! They can teach all of us so much!
A recent priest observer to the Atrium commented: “I was deeply impressed. What I observed was not just a lesson, but a sacred encounter between the child and God…I saw children engaged, joyful and interiorly active. They weren’t being filled with information; they were being invited into a relationship…They were praying with their hands and hearts…it doesn’t speak about God as much as it allows the child to encounter God…This is not just a method; it is a response to the mystery already present in the child.”
I am truly, richly blessed in this work of CGS with the children and our women in formation who I am teaching. My hope and prayer is that more children would have this opportunity to experience and know God in this way. Also that more adults will be moved to train in this method fostering a greater vitality to the Family of God and receiving this gift of the Good Shepherd: “I have come that they may have life and have it to the full.” (John 10:10) To learn more about CGS visit: www.cgsusa.org
WHAT IS THE CATECHESIS OF THE GOOD SHEPHERD?
Based on the Montessori Method of teaching, the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd was founded by Sofia Calvelletti, a Scripture scholar, and Gianna Gobbi a Montessorian in 1954.
CGS fosters the religious potential of the young and is a method of collaborating with them, in which work and study spontaneously become meditation, contemplation, and prayer. It can be described as a common religious experience involving children and adults in which the religious values of childhood — primarily contemplation and enjoyment of God — are predominant.
CGS takes place in a room particularly set aside for it called the Atrium. The Atrium is a place where children and adults place themselves in a listening stance before the Word of God and seek to penetrate the mysteries of the liturgical celebrations.
The level one atrium for children ages three to six is full of materials they can freely choose to use as they learn and pray. These include a miniature altar and vessels of the Mass, tiny mustard seeds for pondering the mysterious growth of the Kingdom of God, a miniature model of the City of Jerusalem for reflection on the passion of Christ, and much more.
From top to bottom: Sr. Margaret Rose explains all the sacred vessels used at Mass with miniature replicas; Aspirant Maria Jose Urdaneta observes as two students set up the prayer space
Sr. Maryann Schaefer Honored as a Woman of Service
On March 27, 2025, eight women of the Haledon, NJ, borough — including Sr. Maryann Schaefer — were recognized for their service and outreach in the borough and beyond. Mayor Michael Johnson presented the certificates to the honorees. Mrs. Shavonda Williams Sumter, Assemblywoman for New Jersey, was also honored and given the keys to the borough.
Both Mayor Michael Johnson and Shavonda Williams Sumter are Salesian Past Pupils (Don Bosco '92, Mary Help '92). In giving the award, Mayor Johnson said to Sr. Maryann, “I'm blessed to have someone like you who molded us and who helped teach us the way in which to go. May God continue to allow you to do His work for his people.”
In her words of gratitude, Sr. Maryann spoke of how honored she was to have two past pupils at her side and that they and many more like them, are the reason why she is who she is — a Salesian Sister. She also thanked all the officers present for their care for the Sisters of the Provincial House.
Sr. Elfie's College Campus Tour of the South
Sr. Elfie Del Rosario, Vocation Director, has been making her way through the South! At Auburn University (left), she spoke at a women's retreat about the Litany of Trust focusing on how to be free of resentment and preoccupation with the future, in order to live the present moment with love. She then travelled to Virginia Tech's Newman Center, speaking to a group of 80 college students. Then, it was on to Louisiana State University where Sr. Elfie met one-on-one with students for spiritual direction. She then headed to Nicholls State University in Thibodaux, LA, and the University of Miami. Finally, she stopped at the University of Louisiana Lafayette where she spoke at a Greek retreat about the joy of waiting (bottom photos).
The Heart of Giving: What I've Learned From Sr. Mary and Our Donors
By Sr. Katie Flanagan, FMA
This past September marked a big change in my life — I stepped away from the classroom and entered the world of development. To be honest, the move was not easy for me. I had been a teacher for 15 years and being among our young people brought me so much life and joy. Fundraising was a mystery to me. I had no idea what to expect.
Joining our Development Office has opened up a world I never expected to love so much. I’ve had the incredible privilege of learning the art and heart of fundraising from none other than the true legend herself, Sr. Mary Rinaldi. Watching her in action is like taking a masterclass in mission-driven generosity. She has not only taught me
“Each event is a reminder of just how much good can happen when we work together for the young.”
practical skills but also shown me the deeper meaning behind every phone call, every event, and every personal connection. Don’t worry, Sr. Mary Rinaldi is not leaving development just yet. I still have so much to learn from her — and we’ve discovered that we make a pretty great team.
What has touched me most is the opportunity to meet so many of the wonderful people who support the Salesian Sisters. From my first trip to Florida to
countless visits around New Jersey, I’ve met donors who are the very embodiment of generosity. Their kindness and faith continually humble me. They don’t just give — they believe. They trust that our office will be good stewards of their gifts, and they share in our mission with open hearts.
Over the past several months, I’ve seen the magic of our community come alive—from the glitz of the Autumn Gala to the joyful chaos of the Christmas Party, and the hopeful energy of the Spring Challenge. Each event is a reminder of just how deeply our mission resonates with people, and how much good can happen when we work together for the young.
Looking ahead, one initiative especially close to my heart is the Adopt a Sister program. It’s a beautiful way to form a personal connection with one of our beloved Sisters, supporting her through prayer, friendship, and financial assistance. If you haven’t yet joined this program — or if you know someone who would love to be part of it — we’d be thrilled to welcome you into that family.
This new chapter has been one of grace, growth, and gratitude. I may have left the classroom, but I feel like I’m still teaching—this time, sharing the story of the Sisters and their mission with all who will listen. And in return, I’m learning every day from the greatest teachers of all: the Sisters themselves, and the generous people who walk beside us in mission.
With Pat Connors and friends in Florida
With adopters Don and Diana Renne and friends in New Jersey
Lenten Twilight Retreat at St. Anthony Parish
Chosen
By Nanci Wyman
On March 20, 2025, a Twilight Retreat, organized by Sr. Betty Ann Martinez, Director of Faith Formation, and Sr. Mary Jackson, Principal, took place at St. Anthony Church. The faculties of the Faith Formation Program and St. Anthony School were invited to attend.
Fr. James Heuser, SDB, presided over the prayer encounter. Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament opened the moment of prayer, followed by a talk given by Fr. Jim, silent adoration, Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament, and dismissal. The group then enjoyed a meal at Puzo’s Restaurant, located near the Church.
Several of the faculty members commented how much they enjoyed the retreat, going so far as to say that they needed it…even though they did not know they needed it! Also, the good-natured time together in the restaurant was a bonus. The Lord of all hope allowed this simple yet meaningful encounter to fill the hearts and minds of all those in attendance!
& Called: Walking with Women of the Bible
The Salesian Sisters hosted a retreat for young women to deepen their faith during Lent. Led by Sr. April Cabaccang, Sr. Elfie Del Rosario, and Sr. Catherine Hurley, the theme of the retreat was hope and learning about different women in the Bible, who led holy and meaningful lives.
We meditated on Mary of Bethany and Mary, the Mother of God. We learned how they held onto hope and that their example teaches us that we too can do the same and be pilgrims on this earthly journey. On retreat, I found a place to connect with other young adults as we held silence and had time for confession and prayer in front of the Blessed Sacrament. I learned that my little daily yeses to the Lord are way greater than I think they are. He desires me, and I desire Him.
Throughout the weekend, we also experienced great joy! We had time for recreation, laughter, fun, and even some bubble tea. Every time we come to the Lord, it’s like our first time — He does not see our brokenness and sins the way we sometimes see them. He sees us as His little children, with good intentions and He meets
us. He met me on retreat and invited me to come to Him again as if it were my first time — to look at Him with joyful and glad adoration.
A Salesian Family Retreat to Remember
On April 12th, the Salesian Family gathered for a retreat themed HOPE: Holiness, Optimism, Prayer, and Eucharist, bringing together 3rd–8th graders and their families from the area Salesian Kids Club and Salesian Jr Apostles Club. Students came from St. Theresa (Kenilworth, NJ), St. Anthony (Hawthorne, NJ), Corpus Christi-Holy Rosary (Port Chester, NY), and St. James of the Marches (Totowa, NJ). The day was filled with faith-filled activities as the young took part in discussions, arts and crafts, and games, while parents attended sessions in both English and Spanish, including a Lectio Divina prayer moment.
The full-day retreat featured a family Mass, adoration, and a rosary that brought everyone together in prayer. A special highlight was visiting the Provincial House for snacks with the Sisters. Many families expressed gratitude for the chance to grow in faith together. The day truly embodied the Salesian spirit and left hearts full of HOPE!
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A New Rector Major for the Salesian Family
In March 2025, the Salesians of Don Bosco — the religious congregation of priests and brothers founded by St. John Bosco — gathered for a special event known as the General Chapter. Held every six years, the General Chapter is the congregation’s highest governing assembly. Delegates from around the world come together to evaluate the state of the Salesian mission, vote on matters concerning its charism and operations, and elect a new Rector Major, the title given to the successor of St. John Bosco.
On March 20, Fr. Fabio Attard, SDB, a native of Malta, was elected as the 11th Rector Major, becoming the latest successor of St. John Bosco. A Salesian for more than forty years, Fr. Attard brings extensive international experience and deep pastoral insight to the role.
Born in Gozo, Malta, in 1959, Fr. Attard was ordained a priest in 1984 and earned a doctorate in moral theology at the Alphonsian Academy in Rome. Fr. Attard is perhaps best known for his twelve-year tenure as General Councilor for Youth Ministry, a role in which he coordinated and provided vision for Salesian educational initiatives worldwide. Under his leadership, youth ministry in the congregation underwent significant renewal, with a strong emphasis on accompaniment, vocational discernment, and digital evangelization.
In 2018, Pope Francis appointed Fr. Attard as a Consultor to the Dicastery for Laity, Family, and Life, affirming his leadership in the Church’s mission to serve young people, families, and lay communities. Following his term as Councilor for Youth Ministry, Fr. Attard spearheaded the creation of the Salesian Human Rights Office in Geneva and worked closely with various NGOs to amplify the Salesian commitment to justice, peace, and youth advocacy on the global stage.
WHAT DOES THE RECTOR MAJOR DO?
When St. John Bosco began his mission with young people in 19th-century Turin, he dreamed of a diverse family of priests, brothers, sisters and lay people dedicated to forming “good Christians and upright citizens.” This vision gave rise to what is today called the Salesian Family, a vast spiritual movement made up of 32 officially recognized groups and more than 200,000 members worldwide.
Among the core groups directly founded by Don Bosco are the Salesian Priests and Brothers (SDB), the Salesian Sisters (FMA), the Salesian Cooperators, and the Association of Mary Help of Christians (ADMA). As Rector Major, Fr. Attard now serves as the spiritual father and center of unity for the entire Salesian Family. He provides vision, direction, and pastoral leadership across five continents. Each year, he offers a spiritual theme known as the “Strenna”, drawn from the charism of St. John Bosco and the needs of the times, to guide the apostolic work of the Salesian Family.
For the 13,750 Salesian priests and brothers, operating in 92 provinces and 136 countries, the Rector Major functions as the congregation’s global superior — overseeing major decisions, pastoral strategies, leadership assignments, and ensuring fidelity to the Salesian mission. Together with the Mother General of the Salesian Sisters, who is the successor of St. Mary Domenica Mazzarello, the Rector Major also represents the Salesian Family within the wider Church, advocating especially for the needs of youth and marginalized populations.
New Partners Circle Board Member
On Saturday, March 29th, the Partners Circle Board of Trustees gathered for the annual meeting in North Haledon, New Jersey, with some members joining through Zoom. Sr. Mary Rinaldi shared encouraging updates from the Development Office, and Sr. Colleen Clair provided a report on the growth of the Province and its current financial needs.
The board is pleased to welcome Mr. Chandler Rohde as the newest member, expressing confidence in the fresh perspective and expertise he brings. Mr. Rohde is currently a senior associate at Gladstone Capital Companies. He brings a wealth of knowledge in investments of consumer-facing businesses within the lower middle market.The Salesian Sisters express deep appreciation to Dr. Joe McAleer and Mr. Mike Guanieri for their many years of faithful service as Board of Trustees officers.
The Partners Circle Board of Trustees is pleased to announce Board Officers who will be serving from 2025-2028:
CHAIRMAN: Mr. Dennis B. Clair
TREASURER: Hon. Madeleine Petrara Perrin
SECRETARY: Mrs. Linda Christiansen
Please “Give Us This Day”!
Our Exchange of Love
Do you have a happy occasion you would like to share? The Salesian Sisters will celebrate with you. Is it a time to mark a less-than-happy occasion? Our prayer for your special day will commemorate this event. Do you have someone to thank? All of the Sisters will help multiply your gratitude. When you “Give Us This Day” the Sisters will pray for your intention and for the person whose sacrificial gift supports the endowment for our retired Sisters. Let this gift of time be an expression of our concern and love for one another. Thank you, and God bless you!
Camp Auxilium: Lessons in Faith and Friendship
By Madeleine Petrara
Iwas honored to be asked to write a few paragraphs about Camp Auxilium. I immediately replied, “I could write a novel! The Salesian Sisters are my favorite subject ever!” To start off, I am so very proud to say I am 100% Salesian from head to toe. My entire being exudes the Salesian Spirit, and I approach every facet of my life with this spirit. Being Salesian dictates what I say and do — all day, every day. It defines me.
I have been a camper (yes, once a camper, always a camper) for 50 years and still maintain strong relationships with two campers — Maria D. and Jo Ann P — and many of the Sisters, most of whom I have known since they were novices. Each of them is dear to my heart, regardless of the passage of time.
“To say that my years at Camp Auxilium were the happiest of my life is an understatement.”
These Salesian relationships, fostered by the summer camp environment and sustained over the years, are true friendships with people who possess qualities I admire and seek in others I encounter — friends who are kind, wholesome, and respectful; friends with a moral compass; friends with humor; and most of all, friends with a shared love for our Blessed Mother.
A day in the life of a Camp Auxilium camper included the Sisters instilling in us a knowledge and a love for Mary, Help of Christians, St. John Bosco, and St. Mary Mazzarello. Yes, it was constant — always there, in every activity we did. I approach all areas of my life, personal and professional, with these teachings in mind and a love for Mary, Help of Christians, in the forefront. My morning rosary calms me and affords me peace of mind to face the challenges and craziness of the day. It is my equivalent to the now popular “mindfulness”.
Most of us campers returned to Camp Auxilium each summer because we were drawn to the Sisters and their energy. They were youthful and fun and had a spirit that was contagious! We loved to be with them!
From top to bottom: Madeleine (r) with her friend, Lorraine, in the summer of 1982; campers riding horseback by the pond; Sr. Margaret Rose Buonauito and Sr. Arlene Rubino help to prepare a meal in the early 1980s.
I would do anything to go back and relive the simplicity of my days at Camp Auxilium, whether it be cleaning the pool with Sr. Karen Dunn, learning how to row a boat from Sr. Liz Ryan, having a visit with the camp nurse, Sr. Susan Bagli (I was always sick), painting the open shelter with the Sisters, saying the Angelus on the hot blacktop outside the kitchen with Sr. Mary Rinaldi around, and being the recipient of Sr. Kim Keraitis’ humor. Other highlights include gathering for mail call even though I never received any mail or sneaking to the Novitiate, down the hill, to see if we could catch a glimpse of a novice or two.
Other things which come to mind include the scary, haunted clubhouse, Christmas in July, campfires on the gravel in front of the cabins (where I remember Sr. Fran DaGrossa told me she was entering the convent), honor cabin, defective fanny farmer lollipops, banana bread all the time, the Miss Auxilium Pageant, the Olympics competitions, horseback riding (which consisted of waiting in line only to be led on horseback by a Don Bosco camper for an entire two to three minute “ride”), night
From top right, clockwise: Madeleine (center) with friends; Campers and Sisters sing together under the shelter; Madeleine visiting Camp Auxilium in 2024 with two camp friends and the daughter of one of her friends; Sr. Arlene Rubino, Sr. Rosemary Cordes, Sr. Liz Ryan, Sr. Virginia Dickey, Sr. Margaret Rose Buonaiuto.
swimming (which I never really loved because our bathing suits were never fully dry from the afternoon swim), endless prep when Mother Provincial was coming for a visit, watching the same two movies on rainy days (Trouble with Angels and Our Lady of Fatima), Sr. Kim rollerblading, arts & crafts, trips to West Haverstraw, and Saturday mornings with Sr. Mary going through the lost and found. Sr. Mary would hold up each item on display and say, “Anyone?” Some of my items are likely still at Camp Auxilium because I was embarassed to claim them! And, of course, Sr Rosemary Cordes' cinnamon toast on hot dog rolls!
Even now, we continue to enjoy a taste of the camp experience each summer when we have a little reunion with Sr. Theresa Samson and Sr. Fran at Camp Auxilium for a day of cooking, eating, reminiscing, golf carting, etc. No doubt, this day is the highlight of my summer. To say that my years at Camp Auxilium were the happiest of my life is an understatement. It was my happy place; and today, whenever in the company of a Salesian, I am again in that happy place.
Baptism: Gift and Challenge!
By Sr. Theresa Kelly, FMA
The Lenten Season was a time for all of us to renew the beauty, depth, and meaning of our Baptism, and the commitment to live as followers of Jesus. During these 40 days, we prepared ourselves to renew our Baptismal Promises at EASTER and at the Easter liturgy, we lit our candles from the Paschal Candle and passed the light of Christ to one another, symbolic of how we should live our lives!
“What does it mean to me that I am claimed for Christ?”
Since most of us were probably baptized as children, we may not always realize the importance and meaning of the symbols we received in Baptism and how they should impact our everyday lives.
CLAIMED FOR CHRIST!
The first moment of the Baptismal Rite is when the priest or Deacon asks the parents what they want for their child – they respond: “Faith or Baptism”. Then the child’s forehead is signed with the Sign of the Cross by the celebrant who says: “(Name), I claim you for Christ!” The parents and godparents are invited to do the same thing. We are claimed for Christ! We belong to him! It would be beautiful to share this with those who perhaps have never fully realized what happens at that moment. What does it mean to me that I am claimed for Christ?
ANOINTINGS
We are anointed both before and after the actual pouring of the Baptismal water. The first Anointing, with the Oil of Catechumens, is meant to strengthen us for the living of our Christian life. The second anointing, with the Oil of Chrism, is meant to highlight the fact that through Baptism we participate in the mission of Jesus as priest, prophet, and king. We are brought into the very life of Jesus.
POURING OF THE WATER (OR IMMERSION)
Water is a sign of life, cleansing, refreshment, and renewal. The prayer that accompanies this ritual says: “Father, you give us grace through sacramental signs which tell us the wonders of your unseen power. In Baptism,
we use your gift of water which you have made a rich symbol of the grace you give us in this sacrament.”
THE WHITE GARMENT – PUTTING ON CHRIST
“(Name), you have become a new creation and have clothed yourselves with Christ. Receive this baptismal garment and bring it unstained to the judgment seat of our Lord Jesus Christ, so that you may have everlasting life.”
THE LIGHTED CANDLE
“You have been enlightened by Christ. Walk always as a child of the light and keep the flame of faith alive in your hearts.” This candle is lit from the Paschal Candle and calls us to keep the light of Christ burning in our lives.
THE BAPTISMAL PROMISES
At the Easter Vigil and at all the Easter Sunday Masses, we are asked to hold our lighted candles and to renew our Baptismal Promises that our parents and Godparents made for us when we were baptized. We need to make these our own throughout our lives. We are then sprinkled with the newly blessed water so that we can faithfully live the commitment of our Baptism.
Let us thank God for this beautiful gift of Baptism and celebrate our belonging to Jesus. If you know the date of your Baptism, it’s wonderful to celebrate that day as the beginning of our new life in Christ! Encourage your children or grandchildren to memorize the date of their Baptism, too, and celebrate it in some small way in the family!
Sr. Katie Flanagan at goddaughter Claire Bohorquez's baptism.
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Please consider joining our friends of all faiths who have experienced the transforming power of prayer and loving friendship with a Salesian Sister, every day of the year, through our Adopt-a-Sister Program
Whether the Adopted Sister is for you, a family member, or a friend in need of spiritual strength, you will find comfort knowing that your intentions will be remembered each day by your spiritual prayer partner, and your sacrificial gift will support our elderly Sisters. It makes the PERFECT gift, especially for a wedding, birthday, anniversary, First Holy Communion, graduation — or any occasion! Simply complete the form below, call us toll-free: (877) OUR-NUNS, or visit www.salesiansisters.org. Thank you, and God bless you!
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Students from MHC Academy were guests on Paterson Bishop Kevin J. Sweeney's podcast "Beyond the Beacon." They discussed the value of a single-sex Catholic education and how the Academy strengthened their faith and allowed them to focus on academic excellence away from the pressures many students face today. Bishop Kevin and Cecile Pagliarulo lead the conversation, which was recorded on location in the school’s production studio.
The MHC Academy Theater Department presented a wonderful performance of the musical, "Into the Woods" from March 20th through the 22nd. From the enchanting performances to the set design and live orchestra, every element came together to create a truly magical show. The cast delivered powerful vocals and heartfelt acting, bringing beloved characters to life in a way that captivated the audience. Bravo to the talented students, dedicated crew, and incredible directors for their hard work and passion.
ST. FRANCIS DESALES HIGH
SCHOOL, Columbus, OH — Sr. Nicole Daly and Sr. JooYun Park accompanied a delegation of students to the March Salesian Leadership Retreat held in Stony Point, NY. The participants returned to the school empowered to encourage others to participate more fully, actively, and consciously in the spiritual life of the school. Also pictured is Sr. Guerline Joseph, who was missioned at St. Francis De Sales High School previously.
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VILLA MADONNA SCHOOL, Tampa, FL — March 27th was Career Day at Villa Madonna when parents, alum, and friends of Villa come to share their careers with the students. Students dressed up as what they want to be when they grow up. Thank you to all who took the time out of their busy day to teach the students about their careers.
The seventh graders at Villa Madonna School put together a puzzle to figure out where their class field trip would be this year. The clues were "H," "2," "0," "C," and a picture of a globe. That could only mean one thing Sea World in Orlando, FL! What a beautiful field trip they had with Sr. Lillian Foxx and the other middle-school teachers!
ST. ANTHONY SCHOOL, Hawthorne, NJ — The hills are alive with the sound of music! St. Anthony middle-school students performed the musical "Sound of Music" which takes place in Austria, 1938, and tells the story of Maria von Trapp, an exuberant young governess, who brings music and joy back to a broken family. Congratulations to all the students, faculty, and parents who made this amazing production possible!
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IMMACULATA-LA SALLE HIGH SCHOOL, Miami, FL On Sunday, March 9th, four catechumens from ILS took a significant step in their faith journey by participating in the Rite of Election at St. Mary’s Cathedral. Alongside hundreds of others from the Miami Archdiocese, they inscribed their names in the Book of the Elect, signifying their readiness to receive the Sacraments of Initiation at this year’s Easter Vigil in their local parishes. The ceremony, enriched by a beautiful choir, marked a joyful and solemn moment in their preparation to fully enter the Catholic Church. In addition to these catechumens, the ILS sacramental program includes 38 other students who are preparing to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation this May.
ILS student Alessandra Malagon's Key Club project, Holding Hands Across Borders, was a huge success. Alessandra and her family traveled to Mexico to personally deliver the donations of ILS students' to Escuela Primaria Dr. Jorge Jimenez Cantú.The students and teachers received new school supplies that were a practical expression of the service-oriented spirit nurtured at all Salesian schools.
ST. JOHN NEUMANN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL, Naples, FL — SJN Campus Ministry students beautifully led the school in a prayerful reflection of the Stations of the Cross. Through their reenactment of the Passion, they helped the school walk with Christ and enter more deeply into the spirit of Lent. Thank you to the Neumann student leaders for sharing your faith!
ACADEMY OF OUR LADY HIGH SCHOOL, Marrero, LA — Academy of Our Lady’s flag football team is off to a strong start this season, winning two of their first three games under the leadership of Coach Joel Lutz. Recently featured in a WDSU news segment highlighting girls flag football as the fastest-growing high school sport in the New Orleans area, the team continues to gain momentum and recognition. Earlier this year, Coach Lutz was honored by the New Orleans Saints at Super Bowl Opening Night, where he was surprised with tickets to Super Bowl LIX. “All glory to God,” Lutz shared. “I’m just grateful for the opportunity to coach these incredible girls.” Principal Sr. Michelle praised Lutz for the values he instills in his team—teamwork, perseverance, and faith. As the season continues, the Penguins are playing with heart, purpose, and pride.
Academy of Our Lady's ECHO (Excellence, Commitment, Humility, Obedience to God) Choir has been invited to perform at the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Festival on April 25th. This is a great honor for the school and an exciting opportunity for many AOL students who dream of pursuing a career in the performing arts. The ECHO Choir previously excelled at the 2025 Louisiana Music Educators Assocation (LMEA) Spring Vocal Competition, earning an overall Superior Rating for their breathtaking performance of Ave Maria!
ST. THERESA SCHOOL, Kenilworth, NJ
— St. Theresa School families participated in the monthly family rosary for March. Different classes and also the Knights of Columbus led the various decades. At the end, Fr. Roberto Moreno, Parochial Vicar, gave a blessing to all in attendance. Mary, Help of Christians, pray for us!
You Can’t Pull on Plants to Make Them Grow: Cultivating Hearts the Salesian Way
I'm pretty good at growing plants. A room doesn’t feel complete to me without at least one living thing to give it some soul. Over the years I’ve nurtured African violets, bonsai trees, money plants, snake plants, air plants, and the ever-ambitious pothos — those longlimbed wonders that seem to reach into space. But until recently, I had never dared to befriend an orchid.
Last year, a visitor gifted me an orchid for my office. It was beautiful — but I looked at it with suspicion. Orchids, in my experience, are sensitive. And I don’t like sensitive plants. I remembered how, in Florida, Sr. Pat Roche would place orchids in trees after they lost their blooms, and they’d flower again like clockwork. But this isn’t Florida. New Jersey is no tropical paradise.
For most of the year, I stared at a small pot with what looked like a dry stick poking out of it. “Do I throw it out or wait?” I’d ask myself, prodding the soil, searching for signs of life. Was it dormant or dead? Was it in the wrong spot? I moved it to a sunnier window and gave it a desperate pep talk, “Listen, orchid. If I don’t see even the smallest bit of growth in the next three months, you’re going in the bin.” The orchid didn’t flinch.
The image reminded me of a parable Jesus tells in the Gospel of Luke 13:6-9:
“There once was a person who had a fig tree planted in his orchard, and when he came in search of fruit on it but found none, he said to the gardener, ‘For three years now I have come in search of fruit on this fig tree but have found none. So cut it down. Why should it exhaust the soil?’ He said to him in reply, ‘Sir, leave it for this year also, and I shall cultivate the ground around it and fertilize it; it may bear fruit in the future. If not you can cut it down.’”
While the snake plants on my window sill plotted their leafy takeover and the pothos grew long enough to strangle a file cabinet, the orchid just sat there, still and silent — more like the fig tree in the parable, doing nothing visible. I studied it,
wondering if all it needed was fertilizer, or time. We were in a standoff.
And then, unexpectedly, it stirred. A small shoot reached toward the light. That shoot grew longer with tiny buds along it. One morning, I walked into my office and froze. The buds had turned into glossy pink marbles—signs of impending bloom. I hovered like a nervous nurse, “Do you need anything? More water? Less sun?” The orchid blinked at me in quiet defiance.
Soon after, the first bloom appeared, and then four more. They were vibrant, unapologetic, and surprisingly large for a plant that had played dead for a year. I was overjoyed — not because I had coaxed it into blooming, but because it had grown on its own terms. All I had done was stay present and consistent with a little water. That, it turns out, was enough.
I recently came across a quote that put words to the experience: “You can’t pull on plants to make them grow.” Believe me, I tried. I poked. I scolded. I begged. But growth doesn’t respond to pressure. It responds to trust, time, and patient care. Orchids, in particular, demand that we believe in what we cannot yet see. They need us to have faith in them.
In many ways, we are all orchids. Our personal growth often feels invisible — slow, frustrating, or even nonexistent. We may feel like the barren fig tree or act like the impatient landowner, ready to give up. But the Salesian approach mirrors the wisdom of the gardener: don’t yank, don’t force — cultivate. Accompany. Fertilize with love and presence. Trust there is growth beneath the surface.
Although we can’t pull on plants to make them grow, we can cultivate the conditions for growth with intention, patience, and faith. That’s the Salesian way: accompanying each person with steadfast love, even when the results are not immediate. And when the bloom finally comes, often quietly, unexpectedly, it’s not just beautiful. It’s inspirational.
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The Temporary Professed Sisters of the United States and Canada — from both the Western and Eastern Provinces — gathered together in March for a formation workshop on the Theology of the Body given by Sr. Christina Chong and Sr. Katie Flanagan. Fr. Frank Lennie presided at Mass.
