A Happy Advent to you and your loved ones! During this time of waiting, we eagerly anticipate the birth of our Lord on Christmas Day! We have already received so many gifts from the Lord - as can be seen by all the good happening in this issue of Partners in Giving. Perhaps the greatest gift of all, though, is the bounty of young women who have been answering God's call to become Salesian Sisters. They bring so much hope to us and perhaps to you, too! Your "yes" in partnering with us can help us to give our "yes" for the salvation of souls, most especially the young. We invite you to help us foster these vocations so that more Salesian Sisters can be present around the United States and Canada. You'll read about the great work being done in Columbus, OH and the many other efforts our Sisters are leading in the ministries to which the Lord has entrusted us. A heartfelt thank you to for your continuing support. We, Salesian Sisters, wish you all a very Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
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Cover image: Sr. Joo Yun Park helps a student make a beaded rosary, during her lunch break, at St. Francis de Sales High School in Columbus, OH.
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Sainthood is an Attainable Goal!
We have discussed each of the cardinal virtues of prudence, justice, temperance, and fortitude. In the Bible, we are encouraged to live the four cardinal virtues, “For [Wisdom] teaches temperance and prudence, justice and fortitude, and nothing in life is more useful for men than these” (Wisdom 8:7).
What is a virtue? It’s a sort of “golden” trait…a characteristic of excellence, which can be moral, intellectual, or social. It's a tendency to act according to high moral standards, even when it's not necessary. As we tell the kids we work with, being virtuous is being your best “when no one is looking.” The cardinal virtues are “cardinal” because they are critical to the growth of all other virtue.
Don Bosco said, “build solid holiness by practicing small acts of virtue.” He was not in favor of long prayers or unusual acts of penance. He taught that small acts of virtue can be practiced in all walks of life. In fact, Don Bosco gave a sermon with three brief points:
1. God wants us to become saints.
2. It is easy to become a saint.
3. God has a great reward in Heaven for saints.
Small acts of virtue immediately make me think of Sr. Carmela Termine. In her quiet way, she is consistent and reliable. She works in the Chapel, caring for the altar linens, the readings for Masses, and much more. She ensures that every liturgical celebration runs seamlessly, keeping the Sisters entirely focused. Her work is often invisible; it is truly a series of small virtuous acts.
Small acts of virtue also make me think of a teenager named Jillian Gorman. Her curly hair and bright smile suggested to me that she was full of life…life that I later learned from her teachers was both impetuous and rebellious! Not long after we met, Jillian went on the Salesian Leadership Retreat and began her re-commitment to her faith. Still possessing a strong will, she became a young woman who loved to pray, especially at Eucharistic Adoration.
Sadly, Jillian was diagnosed with a severe form of cancer. Her eventual passing filled me with sadness. Jillian left an enormous legacy behind; her small steps toward sainthood in her life of prayer - especially during grueling treatments - created a lifetime inspiration to those of us who knew her. I remain confident that she is cradled in the arms of our Loving God.
When I was little, I was sitting in the back of the car with my older brother, Kieran, listening to my mother (Honey) tell us that we both had to become saints. We piped up and assured her that sainthood was NOT in the cards for us. I mean, we were little kids - but we knew we were BIG sinners.
Honey pointed out that if we weren’t saints, then Heaven wouldn’t be in the cards for us, either! We realized together that getting to Heaven meant we needed to see sainthood as an attainable goal. That was a powerful moment of awakening for us both. I still question my ability to achieve sainthood…but I TRY. Many of the Sisters here would affirm that I try their patience more than anything, despite targeting my efforts toward Heaven. But I assert that I try.
I leave you in the heart and hands of Our Lady,
— Sr. Colleen Clair, FMA, is the Superior of St. Joseph Province
Sr. Carmela lights the candles before Sunday Mass.
Photos from top left going clockwise: Sr. Ramona Beltre dotes on the youngest guest at the Gala; John Capeci, Eleanor Rigalosi, Maura and Michael Testa; Students from MHC Academy dance with the Sisters and Aspirants; Eileen Seeburger and family hold their teddy bears; Deborah Rohde, Sr. Mary Rinaldi, Beverly Rohde, and Theresa Rehain; A guest looks at some of the items up for silent auction; the Sisters participate in an interactive game; members of the Gala Committee
Celebrating a Legacy of Faith: the 21st Annual Autumn Gala
The 21st Annual Autumn Gala, held on Thursday, November 21st, was a night of celebration and support for Mary Help of Christians Academy. The evening honored the late RoseMary "Honey" and Joseph A. Clair, III and their legacy of faith and strong family values which their sixteen children inherited - including Sr. Colleen Clair, Provincial of the St. Joseph Province of the Salesian Sisters. In addition, two outstanding alumnae, Frieda Tahan Aboyoun and Josephine Infante, were named Alumnae of Distinction for their remarkable achievements in the fields of business and community development.
The guests enjoyed a cocktail hour, sit-down dinner, and lively dancing throughout the evening. One of the highlights was an interactive game of chance that the Sisters animated. The gala also featured silent and live auctions with all proceeds going toward the Academy’s initiatives. Seniors from MHC Academy were also in attendance and several even won prizes during the teddy bear raffle. Overall, the evening was a resounding success filled with laughter, generosity, and an outpouring of support for the Sisters and the Academy.
Top photo: Members of the Clair Family honoring RoseMary "Honey" Clair and Joseph A. Clair III. Bottom photos (l-r): Some Seniors from MHC Academy attended the Gala; Alumnae of Distinction Josephine Infante and Frieda Tahan Aboyoun
In the Heartland, Faith is Flourishing!
The Salesian Sisters of St. Francis de Sales convent in Columbus Ohio, are awake early on a Monday morning ready to begin their day in prayer. With the final “Amen” said to close out Lauds, the Sisters are on the move to their many and varied apostolates. The newest convent in the St. Joseph Province is located in “the heart of it all” in Old North Columbus, close to The Ohio State University.
Established in 2021, the six Sisters of St. Francis de Sales convent are missioned in three distinct apostolates, touching lives through education, campus ministry and diocesan service. Three of the Sisters dedicate themselves to St. Francis DeSales High School either teaching or assisting in campus ministry; two are among college students at The Ohio State University; and one serves the Diocese of Columbus as the Delegate for Religious.
Sr. Colleen Clair, the Provincial, underscores the significance of this location:
“For many years, our Sisters have served on the periphery of North America: New York, New Jersey, Florida, Montreal, Louisiana, Texas, California… Being in Ohio has put us in the center of the map! The good being done here, especially with young people at The Ohio State University, is a singular opportunity for our community to grow and share our ministry and spirituality with the young.”
Sr. Loretta DeDominicis has embraced her role as Student Life Assistant at the Newman Center, which serves over 3,000 registered students at The Ohio State University. She is a presence at numerous events hosted by the Newman Center ranging from OCIA (Order of Christian Initiation for Adults) to student retreats and
Sr. Janna San Juan, in her first year as Coordinator for Diocesan Campus Ministry, has found new ways to engage young adults through a STEM group where members discuss the intersection of faith and science
“They bring so much joy to our school, and the Salesian spirit really shines brightly here because of them.”
and Avow, a weekly program for women discerning religious life. Together with students, the Sisters attend daily Mass at 7:45 a.m. and weekend liturgies, helping to build a vibrant spiritual community.
Across town at St. Francis DeSales High School, Sr. Nicole Daly, Sr. Joo Yun Park, and Sr. Denise Sickinger serve the school’s 800+ students, embodying the Salesian charism as they teach and help coordinate campus ministry. Sr. Nicole brings theology to life for juniors in her classroom, while Sr. Denise introduces freshmen to the beauty of the Italian language. Sr. Joo Yun can
Sr. Nicole Daly with students from St. Francis DeSales High School
be found fostering moments of prayer and reflection throughout the day. For example, her office becomes a gathering place each Wednesday, during lunch when students gather to watch The Chosen and discuss which characters resonate with their lives.
Natalie Everitt, a junior, shares: “The Ohio Salesian Sisters are all very amazing. They bring so much joy to our school, and the Salesian spirit really shines brightly here because of them.”
The Salesian Sisters serving in the heartland of America are sowing seeds of faith and joy in the lives of students, young adults, and the wider Catholic community. Their work is a testament to the Salesian spirit — alive, vibrant, and ready to meet the challenges of today’s world.
Photos from top, going clockwise: Sr. Loretta participates in a meeting with small group leaders prior to an OCIA session; Sr. Nicole, Sr. Joo Yun and Sr. Janna meet college students after Sunday Mass; Sr. Loretta greets friends in the common area of the Newman Center; Sr. Joo Yun with students from St. Francis DeSales High School, waiting in line for lunch; Sr. Antoinette Cedrone at her office as the Delegate for Religious in the Diocese of Columbus, OH.
The Master of the Harvest Has Sent Laborers into His Vineyards!
My Dearest Friend,
2024 is coming to a close and I reflect that you have been the wind under our wings giving and caring about our mission - especially for the young.
Today, I present our great need for our St. Joseph Province which is near and dear to me: fostering young women who have heard the call to Salesian religious life. Sr. Elfie Del Rosario, our vocation director, told me that funds are needed to welcome, educate, and form the aspiring young women searching to fulfill God’s will for their lives.
At this moment, we have over 30 Aspirants, Postulants, Novices, and young Sisters in first vows. On one occasion, Jesus told His followers to ask the master of the harvest to send laborers into His vineyard (Matthew 9:38). We’ve prayed. You’ve prayed. And they are coming!
This request for funds is a sign of a future full of promise and hope. Our need is great, and our goal is $75,000. Yes, it is tremendous, but all things are possible with God.
At Mass this morning I prayed for you, then I said these simple words: “Jesus, surprise me”. Thank you! My Sisters and I wish you a Merry and Blessed Christmas!
God Bless You,
Sharing the Joy of Christ with the Young at NCYC
By Sr. April Cabaccang, FMA
The National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC) is an event where thousands of young people from all across the United States gather to pray, reflect and celebrate as young Catholics. This year, it was held in Long Beach, CA on November 13-16. The theme was “The Way.” Through the talks and reflections, more than 3,000 young people were invited to look deeply into their walk with Jesus, and trust Him in every step, whether in times of happiness or difficulties.
Sr. Elfie Del Rosario gave a breakout session entitled "Living a Joyful Life." It was an interactive workshop wherein she encouraged the young to reflect on where they are putting their joy. In true Salesian style, the workshop involved music, a game, and deep reflection on their call to holiness. She encouraged them to go back to their Baptismal call to holiness to discover a deep and lasting joy that they can only find in Jesus, and to continue that journey through the Sacraments of the Eucharist and Reconciliation.
Other members of the Salesian Family were also present to animate a booth, introducing the young to discover holiness in the Salesian Family. The booth was put together by Salesian Sisters, Postulants, Priests, Brothers and leaders in the Salesian Youth Movement.
At the end of the Conference, the organizers announced that the next NCYC will be in Indianapolis, IN on November 20-22, 2025. Our very own Sr. Elfie will be one of the emcees for this event. It is a joy to journey alongside our young people!
Top to bottom: Sister Elfie with new friends at NCYC; Sr. Elfie giving her breakout session on "Living a Joyful Life;" Members of the Salesian Family working side-by-side throughout the weekend.
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Mary's “Yes” Changed the World
By Sr. Colleen
In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph, of the house of David, and the virgin’s name was Mary. And coming to her, he said, “Hail, favored one! The Lord is with you.” But she was greatly troubled at what was said and pondered what sort of greeting this might be. Then the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” But Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?” And the angel said to her in reply, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God. And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren; for nothing will be impossible for God.” Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her.
The Annunciation is a moment of profound significance in our faith. It is the beginning of the fulfillment of God's plan of salvation, a pivotal
moment where the divine intersects with the human; it hinges on Mary’s acceptance, and her free will dictated the outcome...Mary's humble obedience, her unique role, and the power of the Holy Spirit all come together to initiate a new era of salvation history.
Despite her initial confusion, Mary’s response to this divine call is a model of humility and faith. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 486) teaches us, Mary's “fiat” (or “let it be" in Latin) expresses her total surrender to the Divine will and her acceptance to become the Mother of the Savior. Jeff Cavins beautifully sums it up: "Mary's 'fiat' is the greatest yes ever spoken.” The echoes of this “yes” still resonate today.
AMDG - AD MAJOREM DEI GLORIAM
“FOR
THE GREATER GLORY OF GOD”
Mary’s agreement put her in a precarious position socially. In a very real way, her “Yes” also put her very life in peril. So, then WHY did Mary agree to this plan that left her with questions, a lifetime of shame, harassment, and maybe even death? Mary said “yes" because she knew that this would bring glory to God.
Her conversation with Elizabeth, her cousin, indicates how central the glory of God was to the heart of Mary: “And Mary said: ‘My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. For he has looked upon his handmaid’s lowliness; behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed. The Mighty One has
Clair, FMA
Annunciation by Leonardo da Vinci
done great things for me, and holy is his name.’ ” (Luke 1:46-50) All that Mary did was “for the greater glory of God.” (“Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam”) She lived the Jesuit motto of “For the Greater Glory of God” before St. Ignatius made it famous.
MARY’S PRAYERFUL HEART
Certainly, Mary offered Jesus lessons about how to be a person of reflection and prayer. One can easily and rightly imagine her teaching Jesus to pray and reflect as well. In His adult life, Jesus often quoted Scripture and took time away from His ministry to pray.
Pope Francis explains in his most recent encyclical, Dilexit Nos, “The Gospel tells us this in speaking of Our Lady, who saw things with the heart. She was able to dialogue with the things she experienced by pondering them in her heart, treasuring their memory and viewing them in a greater perspective.” (Dilexit Nos #19)
The Evangelists tell us that Mary both “pondered” and “kept” what she heard from the angel, what Simeon prophesied, and other events during her life. All mothers have treasured memories of their children that they, too, keep in their hearts. “What Mary “kept” was not only her memory of what she had seen and heard, but also those aspects of it that she did not yet understand; these nonetheless remained present and alive in her memory, waiting to be “put together” in her heart.” (Dilexit Nos #19)
MARY AS THE NEW EVE AND THE ARK OF THE NEW COVENANT
The Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, Lumen Gentium, discusses the Blessed Virgin Mary and her role in the Church's history of salvation. The Annunciation underscores Mary's unique role in God's plan of salvation. She is chosen to be the Mother of God, a privilege that sets her apart from all other human beings.
The Annunciation marks the beginning of the fulfillment of God's plan of salvation, as St. Pope John Paul II highlights in Redemptoris Mater. Just as Abraham's faith initiated the Old Covenant, Mary's "fiat" marked the beginning of the New Covenant. This moment is the blessed intersection where the Word becomes flesh and dwells among us, making Himself our brother.
As Scott Hahn puts it, "The Annunciation is the moment when God's eternal plan of salvation intersects with human history." It is a pivotal moment that initiates a
“Mary Consoles Eve” by Sr. Grace Remington, Our Lady of the Mississippi Abbey
new era of salvation history and marks the beginning of the Church's journey. Mary connects the Old and New Covenants; standing between the Old and New Testaments, ushering in a time of grace, God’s favor, and God’s presence, walking with His people in a very literal sense.
Brant Pitre, in his book Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary, draws parallels between Mary and Eve, highlighting Mary's role in reversing the effects of Eve's disobedience and bringing salvation to the world. He presents Mary as the Ark of the New Covenant, carrying within her the presence of God in the person of Jesus Christ. This imagery connects deeply with the Jewish Scripture and tradition, presenting Mary as the fulfillment of Old Testament prophecies and types.
MARY'S MEDIATION AND INTERCESSION
In the heart of the Church, the mediation of Mary as our intercessor and mother can only be understood as "a sharing in the one source, which is the mediation of Christ himself," the sole Redeemer. (Redemptoris Mater 38) Devotion to the heart of Mary in no way detracts from the sole worship due the heart of Christ,
but rather increases it. Thanks to the abundant graces streaming from the open side of Christ, in different ways the Church, the Virgin Mary, and all believers become themselves streams of living water. In this way, Christ displays his glory in and through our littleness.” (Dilexit Nos #176)
TRUE DEVOTION TO MARY
Saint Louis de Montfort, in his treatise True Devotion to Our Lady, advocates a deep and total consecration to Jesus Christ through the Blessed Virgin Mary. He argues that Mary is the most perfect creature and the chosen channel of all God's graces. Therefore, the surest path to holiness and union with God is through complete surrender to her. Maybe you have heard the invocation, “To Jesus through Mary.”
This devotion involves not simply honoring Mary but giving oneself entirely to her. This is a profound act of love and trust, recognizing Mary's unique role in God's plan. The core of this devotion is to perform all actions “with Mary, in Mary, through Mary, and for Mary,” striving to imitate her virtues and allowing her to guide one's spiritual life.
Take a moment to reflect: How is Mary present in your life? Do you allow her to accompany you in your faith journey or is this something new to you? Write to us and let us know if you have any special Marian stories you want to share.
Adapted from Sr. Colleen's "Advent by Candlelight" talk given at St. Anthony Parish in Hawthorne, NJ.
From the Mailbag: A Marathon Miracle!
Hi Sr. Mary.
Hope you are doing well. I wanted to thank you and all the beautiful Salesian Sisters for praying for my special intention on November 3, the day Gerard ran the NYC Marathon. Gerard was very excited when I showed him the Give Us This Day card before the race and wanted me to take a picture of him with the card afterwards.
On December 27, it will be 10 years since Gerard's accident. He was hit by an SUV while riding his bicycle. Shortly after the accident, my mom reached out to her then-adopted sister, Sr. Frances. And Sr. Frances together with all the beautiful Salesian sisters prayed for Gerard. We all did! It has now been 10 years of recovery, 10 years of marathons and 10 years of prayers! Gerard's many accomplishments since his accident have exceeded the expectations of all of his doctors and physical therapists! And all thanks to his tireless determination and the power of prayer!
Since his accident almost 10 years ago, he deals with many lingering injuries. I know how important it is for him to continue doing the things that he loved to do before the accident, and I wanted him to have a good experience during the marathon this year. And he did! He finished in about 4 hours and 30 minutes. Thanks for helping through 10 years of recovery! And please continue to keep Gerard (and us all) in your prayers.
All the Best, Phyllis (Brew)
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Sr. Catherine Altamura with Rosanna and Gemma Fahy
Frieda Tahan Aboyoun & Josephine InfanteMHCA Class of 1964
Frieda Tahan and Josephine Infante, friends since eighth grade at Mary Help of Christians Academy (MHCA), have dedicated their lives to community service and leadership. Their friendship has been a touchstone through decades of success, with both women embodying the values instilled by their education and upbringing.
Frieda Tahan Aboyoun
Frieda Tahan: From Student to Respected Business Leader
In her high school yearbook, Frieda was described as “obliging, observant, and optimistic.” Although these words didn’t resonate with her at the time, she later recognized their truth as her career and life unfolded. Raised by her mother, Camilla B. Tahan — a nurse and co-founder of the Passaic County Food Bank — Frieda was instilled with compassion and a drive to give back.
During her years at MHCA, Frieda found a sense of belonging, inspired by John F. Kennedy’s words, “Ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country.” She carried this sentiment into college and then into her career. After graduating from Western Michigan University, Frieda earned an MBA in Professional Accounting from Rutgers University, where her volunteer work on a student project gained her an entry into a Big 8 accounting firm. She progressed through top firms like Deloitte and Coopers & Lybrand, pioneering the firm’s first business ethics program and achieving recognition on Training Magazine’s Top 100 Award.
At 57, Frieda established Clarewood Consulting, LLC, a certified women-owned consulting firm where she continues to serve clients in industries like BioPharma and Financial Services. An advocate for women in business, Frieda also supports future female leaders through her involvement with the Rutgers Business School Center for Women in Business. Family remains central to Frieda, and she finds her greatest joy in her children and grandchildren, whom she mentors with the same dedication her mother showed.
Josephine Infante
Josephine Infante: Transforming Communities Through Economic Development Josephine Infante, born to Dominican immigrants, grew up in New York City and takes pride in her parents’ sacrifices and values, particularly her father’s service as a World War II veteran. At MHCA, Josephine was a standout student-athlete and class leader, serving as Class President and Varsity Captain across multiple sports. She shared Frieda’s commitment to John F. Kennedy’s call to public service, a call which shaped her lifelong dedication to her community.
After MHCA, Josephine briefly taught before pursuing a marketing career in health services. Her true calling emerged when she transitioned into economic development in the 1980s, eventually becoming President of the Hunts Point Economic Corporation in the South Bronx. Working closely with government, local businesses, and community members, Josephine helped secure millions in funding for Hunts Point, turning it into a hub for economic empowerment. Her efforts included relocating the iconic Fulton Fish Market, a move that established Hunts Point as the world’s largest food distribution center.
Josephine’s contributions have earned her numerous awards, including from the U.S. Small Business Administration and New York officials. In addition to her economic development work, she served as an adjunct professor and con-
tinues to give back by teaching online from her ancestral home in the Dominican Republic. Here, Josephine honors her family’s legacy by empowering young people in underserved communities.
A Friendship Rooted in Service
Through their lifelong friendship, Frieda and Josephine have embodied MHCA’s values of leadership and service. Despite their differing career paths, both women have remained true to their commitment to others.Reflecting on their accomplishments and the principles that guided them, both credit their friendship and shared MHCA values for their successes. Their story is one of mutual support, resilience, and enduring dedication to family, community, and each other.
A VIDES Family Reunion
What a wonderful evening of music, laughter, dancing, and reconnecting with family and friends for this year’s annual VIDES (Volunteers In Development, Education, & Solidarity) fundraising event that took place on November 16th at St. Benedict Salesian parish of Etobicoke, Ontario, Canada. The presence of Salesian Sisters, Salesian Priests and Brothers, Cooperators, ADMA, and many parishioners added to the joy of the atmosphere. Refugees from Nigeria, Albania, and Ecuador were also invited to be part of the celebration as a way for them to feel welcomed in Canada.
The objective this year was to raise money for the children of Myanmar. During the evening Anton Luat, a former VIDES volunteer in Thailand, gave an inspiring witness talk about his experience. The event was a success not only for the money raised but especially for the building of relationships, making it, as someone said - a “family reunion.”
Giving Thanks in the North and South!
Salesian Sisters gathered in Newton, NJ and Tampa, FL to celebrate Thanksgiving together and thank the Lord for all His graces. (Photos, l-r) Sr. Juliana Alfonso and Sr. Monique Huart arrange massive fruit platters; Sr. Kim Keraitis and Sr. Janet Keller cut into some pies; Sr. Joanne Holloman and Sr. Domenica DiPeri snack on appetizers.
Sr. Hae-Jin Lim and Sr. Jeanine Landry with guests at the evening VIDES event.
ACADEMY OF OUR LADY HIGH SCHOOL, Marrero, LA — Students at Academy of Our Lady hosted Mother Mazzarello Day for the first time in history, inviting their Salesian brothers from Archbishop Shaw High School to celebrate Salesian feminine sanctity. The celebration included a skit featuring Mother Mazzarello’s virtues of courageous leadership, strength under pressure, and advocacy for girls’ education. The schools also had a friendly canned food drive competition to help the poor, and various games including volleyball.
Students and their grandparents, gathered together, to celebrate the Solemnity of All Saints. Families were blessed to share special moments with those they cherish the most.
The Academy of Our Lady’s Newspaper Class took a field trip to the Clarion Herald, the official newspaper of the Archdiocese of New Orleans.
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JOHN NEUMANN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL, Naples, FL — On November 8, 2024, about 110 sophomores embarked on a memorable class retreat at St. William Parish. The day was filled with time to reflect and pray and have fun as students participated in small group discussions and a lively group chant competition. They also listened to an inspiring witness talk. The day was capped off at the beach!
VILLA MADONNA SCHOOL, Tampa, FL — The 21st Annual Thanksgiving Basket Dinner and Fundraiser was held on Saturday, November 23rd on Villa Madonna Campus. Mark and Cecilia Cacciatore (pictured with their family and Sr. Teresa Gutierrez) were honored for their good works for the Salesian Sisters. Catering By The Family provided a wonderful meal, and over 50 baskets were up for a chance drawing as well as over 40 silent auction items. Sr. Janet Keller (photo on right) emceed the evening's festivities!
ST THERESA SCHOOL, Kenilworth, NJ — Students raised over $15,000 to support programs at the school. They beat the $8,000 benchmark set by Principal, Sr. Marisa DeRose, who promised the ice cream truck would come to school if they met their goal. The students joyfully celebrated both a successful fundraiser and a sweet treat!
St. Theresa School enjoyed the benefits of working hard and playing hard. The JV and Varsity Volleyball teams won 1st place in the Union County Catholic Youth Organization (CYO) tournament. Coaches Anh Bui, Karen Lopina Carpenter, Elissa Demorin, Phil Salvatore and Mike Hanley celebrated bringing home the trophies with the team.
IMMACULATA-LA SALLE HIGH SCHOOL, Miami, FL Freshmen Cornerstone participants and upperclassmen leaders joined forces with the Global Humanitarian Mission and “Feed My Starving Children Mobilepack” to turn hunger into hope, one meal at a time. They packed food for those in need, kickstarting a retreat weekend focused on giving back and growing in faith. There was time for reflection and fun on retreat as they were reminded that their faith is the Cornerstone of their lives.
Through their work with Catholic Relief Services, Immaculata-La Salle High School students engage with policymakers and community members to show how Catholic Social Teaching can be put into action by young people. Recently, the members of the CRS @ ILS Initiative wrote cards to Senator Marco Rubio to urge him to vote to reauthorize the 2025 Farm Bill and to thank him for his public service. By combining the skills and practice necessary for advocacy, students grow in learning how to be active and engaged citizens.
MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS ACADEMY, North Haledon, NJ Intramurals Week at MHC Academy is a beloved, long-standing tradition that takes place annually. The three days are filled with a variety of games and activities, including classic favorites such as volleyball, tug of war, musical chairs, and “Chicken in the Hen House” The event is also a chance for alumnae to return to campus, cheer on current students, and reconnect with their alma mater. This year's winners ended up being the Seniors. Congratulations, Class of 2025!
The Light Shines in the Darkness
As the Christmas season approaches, I often find myself grappling with an unspoken grief—an ache that lingers quietly in the background, especially when the world is focused on joy and celebration. For many of us, Advent—the time of waiting and preparation—can feel heavy with loss, whether it’s the absence of loved ones, unhealed wounds, unfulfilled hopes, or the ongoing challenge of illness. Living with a chronic condition like lupus, the physical pain often serves as a backdrop to the emotional weight of the season, making it hard to embrace the joy others seem to feel so effortlessly. Yet, amid this grief, Advent still calls us to hope. In the story of Christ’s birth, we encounter a God who enters into our pain, not to erase it, but to walk with us through it. Advent reminds us that, even in the darkest moments, the light of Christ shines—offering healing, peace, and the comfort of His presence.
“Just as faith in God is beautiful during good times, it is in the dark times that our faith shines brightest."
I was diagnosed with lupus during the first week of Advent seven years ago. The experience felt surreal. I had gone to the doctor with joint pain, a rash, and a fever that wouldn't go away. It had started suddenly and lasted for months, draining me physically and emotionally. After some tests, I received a call from my doctor while I was working at Sr. Mary’s annual Christmas party. I remember answering the phone and hearing I had lupus. Sitting on the bleachers in the Mary Help gym, I looked around at people laughing, shopping for gifts, and enjoying their meal. I felt so disconnected from their experience. The relief of having a diagnosis was quickly replaced with anxiety: What does this mean? What will my life be like with this disease? Anger followed—why did I have to suffer this? Though I made an act of surrender to God’s plan, it wasn’t out of warm devotion, but as a choice in the midst of emotional chaos.
As Advent unfolded, with its scriptural readings on the days leading to Christ’s birth and the prophecies surrounding His first and second coming, I found comfort in Mary—not because I saw her as a powerful queen or even as my mother, but because of her deep trust in
God, a trust that is often difficult and full of unexpected twists. I realized that Mary’s “Let it be done to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38) did not mean her path became easy, nor that she understood everything. It was a choice to trust God in an overwhelming and confusing situation—much like my own diagnosis, and perhaps like what you might be facing today.
Grief is often overlooked at Christmas. We hide it behind decorations and festivities because it’s uncomfortable. But when Jesus was born, He entered a world steeped in grief. There were no carolers, no celebratory crowds. He could have been born anywhere, yet He chose to come into a place of sorrow. The grief in the Christmas story offers encouragement to those of us struggling with it during this season. Grief has a place in our celebration. We all feel it when we notice missing loved ones or experience loneliness. To ignore it is to miss the full beauty of Christmas. The first chapter of the Gospel of John contains one of the most poetic and powerful passages in the New Testament, which speaks to grief:
What came to be through him was life, and this life was the light of the human race; the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
In the midst of suffering and grief, there is a light, and it has a name: Jesus. The Christmas lights we enjoy are a reminder of this. We often forget that the beauty of the lights can only be fully appreciated because of the surrounding darkness. They lose their impact in daylight. Just as faith in God is beautiful during good times, it is in the dark times that our faith shines brightest. God doesn’t ask us to suppress our grief but to offer it to Him, allowing Him to accompany us in it. His birth didn’t restore the world to perfection but invited us into a deeper relationship with Him, the One who can wipe every tear from our eyes (Rev. 21:4). Grief opens space for this relationship—a relationship not built on comfort or pleasant emotions, but on the trust that God can carry us in our greatest weakness. It’s about the intimacy of sharing our vulnerability with Him, giving Him room to act. The Star of Bethlehem wasn’t just a celestial guide for the shepherds, but a reminder that sin, sickness, and suffering will never overcome God’s love. That, ultimately, is the true message of Christmas.
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The Paterson, NJ Firefighters hosted their annual Christmas Party for clergy and religious of the Paterson Diocese in honor of Sr. Loretta Weingart, SC. The event was held at the Paterson Fire Headquarters on Tuesday, December 3rd. The delicious meal was cooked by the firefighters and their families and guests were gifted poinsettias to take home.
