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WHICH WAY TO BAKER STREET? MARTIN FREEMAN AS DR WATSON—PAGE 36 Dr Watson, I Presume? Martin Freeman on Hollywood, socialism, and his new role as Sherlock's sidekick

Street Attacks On Our Emergency Services Why are those paid to protect us being put at risk?

The Greatest Show on Earth? Dancing chickens, backflippingtoddlers...North Korea's Arirang Mass Games have got it all

I Remember Ronan Keating discusses priests, fatherhood and the earlyyears (yes, that Boyzone performance)

Thought Only One Sex Got Certain Diseases? Think Again! Which of these didyou think were sex-specific?

Britain's Best Hidden Hotels From the Highlands to Devon, discover some of these tucked-away gems

Amy's Legacy How these parents' forgiveness meant their daughter's death wasn't in vain

The Back Problem It affects over a million people in Britain, but is the best treatment slipping under the radar?

What's Hot, What's Not We look at the technology of tomorrow—and the gadgets you can dump today

The Films That Made Our Childhood Five writers pick the flicks that shaped their early years

Roll Up... Who wants to work in a circus? The answer may surprise you

A Reader's Story Ben Duncan enjoys a fishy meal—with a nasty sting in the tail

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some extraordinary stories this month, including: the parents whose daughter was brutally murdered, who then went on to make friends with her killers and invited them to stay; the real-life stories of a circus troupe; amazing photos of one of the world's most spectacular but least-known ceremonies—in North Korea; Britain's best hidden hotels; and the family who went off in search of excitement on a sailing adventure, only to nearly die over an unfortunate choice of supper.

So it's fittingthat our cover star has been doing some tracking down of his own.

Martin Freeman—everyone's favourite as lovelorn Tim in The Office—stars as Dr Watson in the new modern-day TV drama Sherlock. Does this explain his need to "keep vigilant" at all times? Find out on p36!

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Page 36 Meera Syal MBE has written two bestselling books and a successful West End musical, Bombay Dreams. She recently guest-starred in Doctor Who with Matt Smith. Why does she love Laurel and Hardy film The Music Box? Because it reminds her "how delicious it is to laugh like a kid again".

Page 104 Award-winning portrait photographer Philip Fisk has snapped the likes of Paul Merton, Lewis Hamilton and Russell Brand. "The biggest difficulty was the language barrier," he says of our circus shoot.

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A tricky diagnosis I was pleased you addressed the issue of hypothyroidism in "I Told You I Was III". For my family and many others, this condition involved years of visits to specialists, who puzzled over symptoms without identifying the cause. Plenty of sufferers remain undiagnosed for years.

I'd like to draw attention to the charity Thyroid UK, which is at the forefront of changing this situation for the better. If you print this letter, I'll happily donate my fee.

Jane Bull, I've often felt that doctors too often dismiss patients as neurotic. At one stage, I suffered from painful and heavy periods, which had got steadily worse. My doctor told me I should go on the pill, but I knew something was wrong. Eventually I went to hospital.

Within two days, doctors had operated and uncovered a huge ovarian cyst—if it had burst, I could have been left infertile.

It was a salutary lesson for me. I'm so glad I took measures into my own hands.

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Golden slumbers Yet again we hear talk of a magic sleeping pill ("Get the Sleep You Really Need").

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Give God a chance So A C Grayling ("If I Ruled the World") is in favour of "encouraging greater secularism", is he? Yet more proof, if needed, that intelligence breeds its own stupidity.

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Travelling 10mph slower than most lorries is a recipe for road rage

Turn on, tune in Like Sharon Morrison in "A Reader's Story", I've recently discovered a radio station that has made me feel young again. Lastyear I started driving a minibus for a local junior school and the children persuaded me to play Heart Radio Somerset during the trip.

So far it's been a great success—it's lovely to hear the kids singing along to the Black Eyed Peas, Lady Gaga and Lily Allen.

The only downside is havingto listen to the inane chat of the DJs in between.

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check, the staff requested that my uncle remove his belt. He duly did so, allowing his trousers to fall to the floor—and revealing his nether regions to the whole queue!

As we were rushed through by giggling staff, I asked my uncle why he wasn't wearing underwear. "I only had enough to last the ten days away," he replied.

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Reading "What Your Flight Attendant

It's all very well to "squeeze 50 miles from a gallon" in order to save money on petrol ("1,001 Things"), but advising people to travel at 50mph on motorways and dual

Won't Tell You" reminded me of the time we took my elderly uncle on holiday with us. As we passed through the security

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Birds of a feather The letter "Feathered Friends" in your April edition sparked memories of moving into our current home.

I was in the kitchen when I heard a "tap tap" at the back door. Opening it, I saw two blackbirds on the doorstep.

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Radio 2's Stuart Maconie's pick of the recent music releases Beneath This Burning Shoreline by Cherry Ghost

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WHAT I'M DOING RD reader Mike Anderson, 45, claims negotiator.

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dolphins—just some of the tourist attractions you'll find abroad. But, behind the novelty, there often lies a catalogue of cruelty. According to wildlife charity the Born Free Foundation, thousands of animals have their jaws wired, teeth broken or noses pierced to make them safe for tourist photos.

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Then you can... If you're approached on the street to have your photo taken with an animal, try to convey why you don't approve. On pony treks and donkey rides, check the animals are well-fed, uninjured and have access to water. Don't haggle, as they could be worked even harder.

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with her spare time, Latifa suggested that she and Sofia raise the money. They decided to organise an annual dinner event for Muslim friends and family in a local restaurant. The 150 guests bid for goods such as designer clothes donated

A huge Blackburn dinner party helps poor kids thrive If you want something done, goes the saying, ask a busy person. That certainly applies to Sofia Esa and Latifa Umar from Blackburn. Sofia, 41, is a mother of five and a carer for her disabled father-in-law, while 31-year-old Latifa, a mum of two, has her own printing business and is practice manager in a dental surgery. In spite of this, the two women have raised thousands to help make a Malaysian boys' home the

by Latifa and Sofia's business contacts.

The event raised £5,000.

The nextyearthe two women decided to ramp things up, with stalls run by local shops, from boutiques to food warehouses.

The pair tirelessly publicised the event with posters and calls to local media. Word spread outside the Muslim community and soon the pair were forced to rent a marquee to fit all their guests in.

and mother Mehrun had recently retired to Malaysia. Eschewingthe quiet life, they'd opened Rumah Aman, a home for 30 primary-school-age children whose fathers had died or whose families were too poor to support them. The couple were relying on four staff, volunteers and their own moneyto keep it going. The children were well dressed and fed, but more financial

The event is now a major date in the Blackburn social calendar, attracting 600 people over two nights. As well as making individual donations of up to £8,000 to the home, guests also offer their time. Football coaches and English teachers have been to Malaysia to help the boys."We've now got a swimming instructor who's burning to get out there!" says Sofia.

The £90,000 raised has helped equip Rumah Aman with kitchens, more staff and flood defences (it had been swamped several times during monsoons). The boys have enjoyed everything from family fun days to martial arts lessons, and several have won scholarships to local schools.

When Latifa visited, she was struck by how disciplined the children were. "You

help was essential.

Keen to do something truly worthwhile

wouldn't think they'd been deprived.

I hope my boys turn out like that!"

pride of its local community.

When Latifa moved into Sofia's street five years ago, Sofia told her how her father Abdul Rehman Dakri, a clothing retailer,

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Never too busy to help: working mums Sofia (left) and Latifa The next dinner is planned for October and funds raised will go towards building a second home that will house 60 children. Latifa and Sofia are already "hammering the phones" and canvassing sponsors—and everywhere they take their kids over the holidays, a pile of flyers goes as well. > Sofia and Latifa were jointly honoured as Woman of the Year in the North West's Fusion Awards in May. For the Rumah Aman blog, visit rumahaman.blogspot.com.

Phone, a friend Mobiles are giving jobless youngsters a high-tech future, thanks to Iris Lapinski Chatting to your friends, playing games, even using GPS to find your way round—mobile phones have many uses. But Iris Lapinski has taken them an empowering stage further.

The 31-year-old technology consultant > 21

Iris Lapinski thinks that Apps for Good could be her true vocation

would be a great way of distributing information among disadvantaged youngsters and getting them involved in a burgeoning industry.

So, this April, she welcomed nine young men onto the first CDI Apps for Good course in Tulse Hill,

by police, so his Stop&Search app tells youngsters has developed Apps for Good, a their responsibilities course teaching unemployed youths and rights, with the aim how to create applications for smartof defusing trouble. phones (such as the iPhone) that provide A second Apps for Good course has communities with information and just begun and Aaron is one of several give their creators an introduction to former students helping. "This is a great working in IT. opportunity," he says.

The idea came to Iris last summer.

Iris has agreed to turn her short-term She had been asked by the Brazilian CDI contract into a full-time job, developing organisation Centre for Digital Inclusion new projects and expandingthe apps (CDI)—which supplies computers to poor course nationwide. people worldwide to give Do you kno w of Abandoning her corporate them access to education and inspiring st ories in work means a big pay cut, community networking—to your comm unity? but Iris feels ideas like Apps launch a project in the UK. If so, please email the for Good are worth it. "It's PCs and local websites aren't details to th eeditor@ not far from being my true in short supply here, she readersdig est.co.uk. calling," she says. realised, but mobile apps 22

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The eight-week course produced three promising apps, including one that helps young musicians find recording studios and another giving advice about going to university. Aaron Sonson, 23, from Croydon, developed the third with two other students. He'd been regularly stopped

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> A young colleague at my TV company applied for a junior role in the frantic, competitive world of the newsroom.

She spent several days brushing up on her interview skills, but after her interview, she returned to her desk and moaned, "We had to do a current-affairs test."

"How doyou thinkyou did?" I asked, hoping to cheer her up.

"I just wrote at the end of the page that I didn't perform well under pressure," she replied.

Anna Andrews, Eccles, Greater Manchester > As I sat in the waiting room at my doctors' surgery, I watched ayoung mother try desperately to control her three boisterous young children.

"They're not a very good advert, are they?" she groaned apologetically to no one in particular.

A gruff voice behind me muttered, "Only if you're advertising contraceptives, love."

Barbara Wootton, Newcastle-under-Lyme, Staffordshire

My husband and I were talking about lovebirds and how they are 100 per cent faithful to their mates.

My young son overheard and added,"...as long as they're locked together in the same cage".

Geena Sumner,

My friend's mother died recently.

Naturally, my friend was very upset.

The next day, her little daughter turned to her father and asked, "Why is Mummy crying?"

"Well, it's because Granny died," he explained.

"But that was yesterday," said the little girl.

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In a strong Isle of Lewis accent, he shouted from his room. "Come in and make a cup of tea. I'll be through in a minute."

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My sister is always getting her words mixed up, but a recent mistake was particularly traumatic.

I'd won four tickets to the local dog track and phoned my sister to see if she and her daughter would like to accompany me and my daughter Jane.

"She's in the next room introducing her new boyfriend to the family," said my sister. "I'll go and ask."

Fifteen minutes later, I got a call from a very irate niece demanding to know what I was up to and how could I humiliate her so in front of her new love?

Apparently, my sister had walked into the sitting room and announced, "Would you like to go dogging with auntie Margaret and cousin Jane?"

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Word power This month sees the National Eisteddfod, the annual congress of Welsh bards, take place in Blaenau Gwent. How many Welsh words do you know? Pick the correct definition—A, B or C—to find out whether you're more Gavin or Stacey

cromlech

breastplate. C: thicklipped fish.

(lech—the "ch" sounds the way Scots would pronounce flummery n the "ch" in "loch") n A: empty compliments.

A: remote sheep shelter.

B: shed. C: nervousness.

B:tomb made with large coracle n stones. C: bass voice. .. ............ .... A: narrow ladder.

CWM (coom) ../ 411E %... B: hermit's staff.

I Cover star n A: valley. %. C: small wickerMartin Freeman's B: bread oven. i favourite word? I work boat.

C:pretty girl. '''., "LOVE" / crachach n

bath adj A: drystone wall. ..• ......... .•••• A: harsh-sounding.

B: Welsh upper B:jagged-edged. C: small. classes. C: bubbling stream. wrasse (rass) n A: fiery rage. B: metal

Gorsedd (gor-seth) n A: garden boundary.

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B:council of Welsh druids.

C: wet sand. corgi n A: shortlegged Welsh dog.

B: police car. C: duffel coat.

cawl (cowl) n A: steeply arched bridge. B: aggressive question. C: meat-andvegetable soup.

kistvaen (kist-vane) n A: church pew.

B:jilted man. C: stone chest.

crwth (crooth) n A: stringed instrument.

B:coffin. C: doorway. flannel n A: poisonous herb.

B:woven fabric. C: table leg. cynghanedd (kern-hanneth) n A: untidy garden. B: tightly wrapped scarf. C: rhyme.

bara brith n A: sea defence.

B: Welsh fruitcake.

C: millpond.

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Answers cromlech—[B] a tomb made with large stones. "The cromlech had one huge stone teetering on two smaller ones." Crwm (arched) and liech (flat stone).

2, cwm—[A] valley. "The farmhouse was buried at the bottom of the cwm." bach—[C] small. "Richard Burton referred to his small father as Dic Bach."

4. wrasse—[C] thick-lipped fish. "The wrasse has strong teeth and is brightly coloured." Gwrach (old woman). flummery—[A] empty compliments.

"He hated the flummerythat came with being a Hollywood star." From Ilymru. coracle—[C] a small, wickerwork

Word Journey Penguin may come from the Welsh pen (white) and gwyn (head), even though penguins have black heads.

In fact, "penguin" was first used for the Newfoundland Great Auk, before it was applied to what we think of as penguins —Great Auks also have black heads.

Other explanations include the Latin pinguis (fat) and pin-wing, referring to the birds' rudimentary wings. But the Welsh derivation is the most likely—an unobservant birdwatcher is to blame.

boat. "The coracles spread their nets along the estuary." From corwgl. crachach—[B] Welsh upper classes.

"Ffion Hague is a leading member of

kistvaen—[C] stone chest. "The kistvaen was divided up into chambers."

Cist (chain) and faen (stone).

12. crwth—[A] stringed instrument. the crachach."

"He played his crwth like a violin."

Gorsedd—[B] council Ho 3. flannel—[B] woven of Welsh druids. "They held Did Yo fabric. "His flannel trousers the Gorsedd before the were too hot for Swansea in 12-13 Eisteddfod." Originally ress us here Gwlan (wool).

August." meaning throne or mound. you're a cynghanedd—[C] corgi—[A] short-legged word-pow rhyme. "Dylan Thomas avoided wizardl Welsh dog. "The Queen using cynghanedd." particularly likes corgis." Cor 15. bara brith—[B] Welsh fruitcake. (dwarf) and gi (dog).

"The bara brith was piled high on the 10. cawl—[C] meat-and-vegetable plate next to the cakes." Welsh bara soup. "She put bacon in her cawl (bread) and brith (speckled). as a finishing touch."

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Your electricity bill this morning was 50p • By around 2075, paying quarterly utility bills will be an old-fashioned idea: a throwback to a time of scurrying clerks transferring handwritten meter readings from one ledger to another. In a WiFi- and Bluetooth-enabled world, the technology already exists to enable real-time payments. There's no reason why utility companies can't directly monitor how much of their "stuff' a household is consuming as it uses it.

So in the future, expect not bills but accounts. And be prepared to let utility companies stream micro-payments from your bank asyou use their "juice".

No cheer for beer • Forget any impending oil shortage—by 2020 the real worry is that we could have run out of beer. When biologist Craig Venter synthesised an entire microbial genome earlier this year, it was an insight into what he hopes to

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do next: create photosynthetic algae that can convert atmospheric CO2 into petrol—the oil shortage and global warmingtackled in one! It could mean a Nobel prize for him and vast algal lagoons for us. The world consumes 85 million barrels of oil daily, equivalent to a lake two inches deep covering over 62,000 square miles peryear.

And why might this mean a beer shortage? With some brewers already switching their fermentation capacity to lucrative drugs, they might end up brewing fuel instead.

Built by robots? No, from robots • Quantum dots are tiny crystals that improve colour quality in LCD screens and digital cameras. Expect them in gadgets later this year. They're a new breed of programmable materials—including, further down the line, claytronics—being developed at Carnegie Mellon University in Pennsylvania. (Remember the Arnold Schwarzenegger film with the bad Terminator who reshaped himself at will? That's the idea behind claytronics.)

Moulded from nanoscopic robot components called catoms,they may one day be used to self-assemble anything from a chair to a house. By around 2030you could have a door key that can morph into a knife and/or an MP3 player.

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If I ruled the world...

WAYNE HEMINGWAY ...I'd give town planners more power. At the moment developers can overrule planning suggestions, and that's got to change. The areas where we live have such an influence on our sense of self; if you live somewhere with space to kick a ball, where you can walkyour kids to school and neighbours look out for each other, then you've started to build a community. When we design estates we look at the landscape first and the architecture last. ...I'd try to narrow the gap between rich and poor.

Highertaxation isn't what the public wants—but it's a fact that countries with the highest taxes also have the lowest crime and suicide rates. There's less of what David Cameron calls "broken society"; those who feel they have no chance of achieving their potential. It results in a nihilistic group of people—and they cost countries a lot of money.

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...I'd re-examine university funding.

Students are encouraged to borrow and are left with a millstone of debt. I'm from a single-parent family and lived in a rough tower block in Blackburn but I did well at school, so the council funded me through grammar school and university. But in this

climate there's no way I'd have gone to university; I wouldn't have wanted to get into debt. Yet without that help I wouldn't be where I am now. We need to help low-income students— so long as they want to do well. ...I'd make councils own some of the shops in our towns. That way they could

Wayne Hemingway OBE is one of Britain's most acclaimed designers. Red or Dead, the fashion label that he and his wife Geraldine set up in the Eighties, was sold in 1999 in a multimillion pound deal. They now run Hemingway Design, specialising in affordable and social design. He's also a co-founder of Vintage at Goodwood, a unique festival combining music, fashion and culture this August at Goodwood, West Sussex.

lease them to people trying to start businesses. It would make our high streets much more diverse. Our second Red or Dead shop was in Covent Garden—we paid £65 a week rent. Today that site is £7,000 a week. I feel sorry for young people now; the rich have understood the value of real estate and bought out our towns. ...I'd make cycling safer.

I don't subscribe to the view that business suffers in towns without cars.

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car a pariah, yet it's the most liveable city in the world. Cycling makes you appreciate your surroundings, causes no pollution, getsyou places quicker and means you can eat more! ...I'd restore a sense of community to the Premier League. When I watch Blackburn Rovers, I love to see boys from our hometown. I'd like every team to have three to four players from the local area—it would restore pride to the community.

How can anyone support a team of 11 mercenaries?

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August 2 marks the 20th anniversary of Iraq invading Kuwait, the spark that ignited the First Gulf War. Iraq, which owed huge debts to Kuwait after the Iran-Iraq war, had claimed sovereignty over Kuwait ever since Iraqi independence from Britain in 1932.

After Saddam Hussein's invasion, the UN imposed economic sanctions on Iraq.

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The US president, George Bush Snr, followed up with plans fora military coalition of 34 allied countries, led by the US. After America and

Saudi Arabia, Britain made the biggest contribution.

Their military response, under General "Stormin' Norman" Schwarzkopf, began on August 7, when US troops massed in Saudi Arabia. But the aerial assault didn't start until January 17, 1991, after Iraq failed to withdraw from Kuwait.

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Iraq were three SAS patrols (including Bravo Two Zero, the subject of Andy McNab's best-selling book).

The first priorities were the destruction of the Iraqi airforce and the country's anti-aircraft facilities. Iraq started firing Scuds into Israel the day after the aerial assault began—Saddam's

hope was that Israel would be drawn into the war and the Arab states would refuse to remain in the coalition.

By February 26, Iraqi troops started to retreat from Kuwait, after setting fire to the country's oil wells. The columns of Iraqi troops were sitting ducks for the coalition—the bombed road became known as the Highway of Death.

The victory was quick,

with a ceasefire declared on February 28. But debate still rages as to whether coalition forces should have continued into Baghdad to remove Saddam from power.

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Why Martin Freeman reckons playing the sidekick in new BBC drama Sherlock beats Hollywood every time ry an greying at t e temp es, arctin Freeman is coiled in a chair at a West

End members' club enthusing about Sherlock, a modern-day interpretation of the famous detective story.

The 38-year-old plays Dr John Watson, an army doctor invalided out of Afghanistan and the flatmate of arrogant genius Holmes, a "consulting detective" who helps the police when they're of their depth. >

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"I was freaked out on my first visit to Hollywood"

"Obviously they're what I'm proudest of, but when I grew up I thought all actors were [private] like de Niro. All I've read about him is that he likes black women. These days you have to know everything, and it's tedious.

"I can be as frivolous as the next person, but I'd rather not make a career out of celebrity. When I go to a showbiz event, that's four hours of my life lost. If people make a fuss over me, I just think, You should get out more.

I don't have spectacularly low selfesteem, but I'm not delusional. I'm just about worthwhile.

"I thought actors were dodgy until I hung out with stand-up comedians.

They're pathologically egotistical and make us seem like selfless wallflowers by comparison. I don't want to be around people who can't shut up. I guess they're insecure, but isn't everyone—unless you're mental or boring?"

Freeman began his career in lowbudget films and episodes of The Bill,

This Life and Casualty, until the success of The Office in 2001. At first, he feared being unfairly typecast as

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"John Watson is very pukka and traditional and lends a moral framework to Sherlock [played by Benedict Cumberbatch], who's more interested in the chase than in what's right or wrong," says Freeman.

But, despite his willingness to talk about his latest starring role, the actor who got famous playing nice guy Tim Canterbury in BBC sitcom The Office seems to be one of those unusual creatures: an actor without a huge, celebrity-lifestyle-influenced ego who's capable of self-mockery.

He doesn't drive ("I've never taken a lesson. There are better things to spend money on"); his main indulgence is collecting Motown records on vinyl; and he lives in Hertfordshire with his partner, actress Amanda Abbington, and their two children, Joe and Grace.

They are reportedly five and one, but he declines to confirm their ages.

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Tim-style characters—lovelorn los- dreams and reality are very different.

"I thought naively that if I was any ers—but now he's reconciled. "Why fight it? It's helped me a lot and I'm good it would happen, but I was freaked resigned to being asked about it for out on my first visit to Hollywood in ever. At least I don't get punched in 2004 when The Office won a Golden the face for being a soap villain."

Globe [for best TV comedy]. It's on its He needn't have worried. Since The own planet, not even like America. I've Office he's played many dark characters, got to grips with it a bit more now, but including a frustrated call-centre worker the logistics don't suit me—I'm English, who commits rape in the 2001 Channel have a family and like it here. Please 4 drama Men Only. He's also had a va- God, I have a few years left, so I don't riety of other TV roles, in ITV comedies know what will happen. But you need Hardware and Boy Meets Girl, and more to be emotionally ready to up sticks, than 20 films, such as Love Actually and and I'm not. recent thriller Wild Target.

"If I began to like it out there, I'd think But although he's acted in US- I was going mad, rather than chilling financed films—including playing out and not having a chip on my shoulArthur Dent in The Hitchhiker's Guide der. I give myself chips. It's my way of to the Galaxy—he hasn't taken the Hol- keeping myself in check There's a streak lywood route like The Office's creator in me that says, 'Life is not all great.

Ricky Gervais. "I'm not surprised he's Keep vigilant." done well. They like gall and what they This could be a result of his childperceive as British cheek, straight hood. Born the youngest of five children talking, irony and sarcasm. He's always and raised in Teddington, west London, sailed pretty close to the his parents split when he wind, so good for him. I Left to right: The Office was five and his father died dreamed of a Hollywood (2001), The Robinsons of a heart attack when he (2005), as R embrandt in career as an 18-year-old was ten. Perthes disease, a Nightwatc hing (2010) sitting in the bath, but childhood illness that

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causes the hip bone to soften, meant he walked with a limp.

"It only really hit me later. At ten I was small, had a dodgy right leg, asthma, my parents were divorced and my dad was dead. There was a Tiny Tim aspect to me, but I didn't want people to feel sorry for me."

As his condition improved, he became a talented squash player and made the national "Talent squad, though he gave up at 14. "I gets didn't have the overdiscipline. It goes from being pleaslooked ure to work quite in favour quickly, then of whiter becomes a job and is no longer teeth" fun. Acting is still fun, thank God. I haven't played squash for more than 20 years and I'd have a heart attack if I did."

At 15, he joined a Teddington youth theatre. "It was an outlet for my showing off. Also, I thought I could bring down the Thatcher government with the power of my acting. And I did. A mere five years later she went. You tell me that was coincidence. I think I hoped actors could have some influence."

Far from being a straightforward Mr Nice Guy, Freeman admits with a pleasant smile to having an inner rage and being a political activist as a young man. "I sold Militant [a Socialist Party newspaper] on the street. My politics have dissipated into anger—not about anything specific, but a lot of things, a lot of people. Anger is a useful tool. I 40

don't mean smashing people over the head, but our British cynicism keeps a check on bulls**t. It's not a bad thing to have a social conscience, although I've never wanted to go into politics.

I'd be scared. You name it, I'd ban it This would probably include marriage. "Modern society is so informal, but I get asked why I'm not married as much as I do about The Office. I believe in love above all—but that doesn't mean marriage. If you were looking at it as a business proposition, the evidence ain't great. I've seen couples who are very happy for years and, six months after they marry, it's over."

Originally, Sherlock was a one-off

60-minute pilot, but that was scrapped, (at an alleged cost of £800,000) in favour of three 90-minute episodes. "I loved the pilot and thought, 'Why mess with it?' but the new scripts [by Doctor Who veterans Steven Moffat and Mark Gatiss] are some of the best I've done. Benedict is a brilliant Sherlock. It's a prime-time slot and has a populist touch, without being c**p."

He is unapologetic in his praise for this latest British drama. "We're an odd country—culturally and politically—in that we don't celebrate ourselves. Ricky Gervais has said we haven't made a good film for 50 years, so he's not the most supportive person.

"However much we respect Ken Loach or Peter Greenaway, even smart people who should know better are excited when Tom Cruise comes into the room. It's Beatlemania; girly stuff.

"I've never said British comedy is the READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST ',o

best in the world, because I don't think it is. Are you telling me that the Marx Brothers, Sid Caesar and Harold Lloyd weren't funny? There are millions of Americans with loads more money—as well as being the most creative and desperate people in the world—so it's not surprising they hold cultural sway. But it's disillusioning when talent in this country gets overlooked in favour of someone with whiter teeth.

"If an actor has a huge bank balance and 53 cars, good for them. They're a great business person, but their work may mean nothing. I have much more in common with Tom Courtenayone of the people who made me want to act as a kid—than someone who

can buy planet earth four times over.

Freeman tries to be scrupulous in choosing his work. "I always ask myself, `How honest are you being taking this job?' On my deathbed, I want to know I've done the right thing, so I turn down a lot. Life's too short to do c**p. The things I'm proudest of haven't been widely seen, such as The Robinsons [a six-part 2005 BBC2 series about a frustrated actuary] and Nightwatching.

"If you can crack being enjoyed by more than 53 people in work you're proud of, then you're living. Sherlock is in that category. Unless I've messed it up..."

Sherlockwill be coming to BBC1 soon.

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Yet in the last ten years, the communist government has allowed a trickle of tourists and a few closely monitored journalists into the country. Keen to prop up its feeble economy, it even grants one-off visas to tourists from its bitter capitalist rival America.

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I should know—I was there last year...

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PREPARE TO BE AMAZED! Our man takes a ringside seat Mytourist party is accompanied at all times by a guide and a security official, both of whom could get into serious trouble if it's discovered that one of their party has written an unauthorised article (but luckily, I am allowed to take photographs).

When we arrive at the stadium, our guide informs us that we should smile but remain silent if the state TV camera is pointed at us, and that we are not to do anything that could be deemed disrespectful to the regime. We are here not just to be entertained, he emphasises, but for a history lesson. Every night for the last two months, tens of thousands of local spectators have been educated and re-educated on the trials and tribulations of North Korea's history.

Now it's our turn.

The games begin with a sunrise that plunges into darkness, marking the Korean peninsula's Japanese occupation from 1910-1945. Women solemnly march in nondescript smocks as cards are flipped in sequence to create animated flames surging across the stand. Suddenly, a bright light is hoisted skyward and ignites a torch at the top of the arena. My guide tells me this represents the ideological awakening of Kim it-sung, future revolutionary leader and Eternal President of North Korea.

Next, boys in jumpsuits wave red flags as Kim assembles comrades to stage the post-World War Two revolution. Women dance with pink flowers; the Korean People's Army is founded. Flip cards flash stirring battle scenes—the communists take on the Japanese invaders. There's 46

blood, tears and, with an orchestral crescendo, liberation. My guide wipes a tear from his eye.

But, actually, we've barely begun. Cue

The sun rises over North Korea's mountains at the start of the epic games

trumpets, drums and baton-twirling as hordes of soldiers take to the field to exhibit the nation's improving armed forces. This culminates in the North invading South Korea to "achieve reunification".

They're pegged back as blue-clad US forces intervene—but then red Chinese troops join the communist cause and suddenly the 1950 Korean War is underway, with military marches, flashing flip-card bombs and gasping spectators.

A mesmerising card animation shows the armistice being signed, the peninsula is carved in two and the North celebrates its victory over the invading imperialists.

The flash cards display sickly chocolatebox paintings of grinning toddlers, while thousands of the genuine article backflip their way across the stadium.

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together to form the Korean Peninsula, before two of them break rank to embrace—the longed-for reunification of North and South Korea.

The crowd erupts and my education is complete. I exchange a glance with a fellow wide-eyed Westerner, and then we're herded into the gift shop.

The Arirang Mass Games is a clumsy propaganda tool.

and America, and in building a "thriving" economy (which, in reality, is plagued by regular food shortages and power cuts).

But, if you can bringyourself to put the politics aside, few would dispute that this hour-and-a-half-long show, with its vast army of performers—most of whom have trained for years—is an incredible achievement. It is, without doubt, the most astounding, breathtaking extravaganza I've ever witnessed.

It lauds the "achievements" of Kim it-sung and his son and present leader Kim Jong-il in holding off supposed oppressors Japan

The author of this article has asked to remain anonymous.

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THOUGHT ONLY ONE SEX GOT CERTAIN DISEASES? THINKAGAIN!

BY ELIZABETH ADLAM Some health problems deal you a double whammy. It's shocking enough to find you have a serious disease, but when you're hit by something you thought only affected the opposite sex, there's added stress. You feel "different", isolated and in denial—as these readers discovered.

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The bombshell came on December 19,2003: that's when 53-year-old David Wrigley from Huddersfield learned he had breast cancer. "I'd never even heard of 0 men getting breast cancer—that was the CC biggest shock of all," he says.

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cancer in women," says Cancer Research UK's Martin Ledwick.

When set against the 45,500 women diagnosed and

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12,000 deaths each year, the 300 new cases Apri ( of male breast cancer and 90 deaths get lost in the statistics.

"But the symptoms are the same for men and women," says Ledwick.

Survival rates are similar for both sexes: caught early, 85-90 per cent of patients live for at least five years. Tragically, because of widespread ignorance, many men seek help too late, so chances of survival plummet. "It's vital that men don't delay in goingto their doctor if they spot anything unusual, such as a lump, swelling or discharge," says Ledwick.

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It was July 2003 when David felt the lump below his pectoral muscle, but he didn't get it investigated until October. "I'd had lumps removed before—the result of playing a lot of sport—so I just thought it was one of those. I was also very busy at work," he says.

"My GP sent me for a check-up, but didn't seem worried." But at the hospital, after a mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy, everything went into overdrive. "Nobody mentioned cancer. Even after all the tests, I still hadn't twigged."

On January 4, 2004, David underwent a mastectomy—the most common treatment for men, who have less breast

"I'd had lumps removed before—the result of playing a lot of sport" tissue than women. Sixteen lymph nodes were also removed. "The surgeons had to scrape away three-quarters of the pec muscle because the tumour had attached itself to it," says David.

The biggest risk factor for male breast cancer is age, as it is for women.

Other risks include: high oestrogen levels resulting from gonadal dysfunction; obesity; excess alcohol; Klinefelter's syndrome (a genetic condition involving an extra female chromosome); and exposure to radiation. A specific breast cancer gene—usually a BRCA2 mutation—accounts for ten to 20 per 50

cent of men who get breast cancer.

Treatments for men and women are similar. They're based on the grade and stage of the cancers, and whether they're oestrogen-receptor-positive (90 per cent of men's are). David's grade 3 cancer (the highest grade) was very aggressive. "After the mastectomy, I had the lot: six sessions of chemotherapy and 25 sessions of radiotherapy, followed by tamoxifen.

"My biggest problem was finding someone in the same boat as me," he says.

"When I finally found a fellow sufferer,we agreed we felt sidelined—with no specific information for men and no help.

"I know I've been very lucky. But although I've been cancer-free for sixyears, I've only recently started planning;you just don't know how long the future will be. And I keep checking, just to make sure."

Breast Cancer Care, breastcancercare. org.uk, 0808 800 6000; Cancer Research UK, cancerresearch.org; CRUK Cancer nurses, 0808 800 40 40

AND OSTEOPOROSIS A recent project by Cardiff University's Bone Research Unit found that 75 per cent of men with "lowtrauma" fracture (a broken bone after a minor bump) dismissed suggestions of osteoporosis. "That's something women get," was the response.

True. But although osteoporosis is more common in women, one in five men over 50 will break a bone because of it—and younger men can be affected, too.

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can be compounded by low awareness in health professionals, as Robert Rees from Pontypridd found to his cost. On holiday in the Dominican Republic in June 2002, he was dancing with his wife when there was a loud bang like a gunshot. Rees felt as if he had been hit from behind by a sledgehammer, and fainted from the excruciating pain. When he recovered consciousness, he couldn't feel his legs.

X-rays showed a spinal crush fracture, with "damage so bad that a doctor thought I had fallen three storeys into an empty swimming pool". After tests back in Wales, all the

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expert talk was of bone cancer. No one mentioned osteoporosis.

It took nine months for Rees's severe spinal osteoporosis to be diagnosed—reassuring at the time. "My relief was short-lived when I was told I had the bones of an 80-year-old," he says. "I was only 43!"

"Robert Rees is a classic case of professional lack of awareness leading to delayed diagnosis," says Dr Michael Stone, Rees's consultant physician and Director of Cardiff University's Bone Research Unit.

"When a crush fracture like this happens with no real trauma the first thought should be osteoporosis."

Men with a family history of osteoporosis tend to have lower-than-average bone mineral density, putting them at risk.

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long-term corticosteroid treatment for asthma or rheumatoid arthritis; and heavy alcohol consumption. Hyperthyroidism, and coeliac or Crohn's disease (conditions that affect nutrient absorption) can also result in osteoporosis.

However, about half of male sufferers, including Rees, have "idiopathic" osteoporosis, with no known cause.

Treatment of osteoporosis aims to relieve pain, halt further bone loss and rebuild bone. "There are very effective treatments for women that are also licensed for use for men, but not all of them are available to men," says Stone. "This is discriminatory, and we'd like to reverse it."

Research suggests oestrogen may play a key part in maintaining the male skeleton—and there are drugs being developed that may treat oestrogen deficiency in men. "Oestrogen levels in men are considerably higher than levels in post-menopausal women," says Stone.

Manyyounger men with osteoporosis—in their thirties, forties and fifties—have aggressive osteoporosis, which women don't get in the same way. Experts don't know why.

Ageing is the biggest risk factor for both sexes—some experts believe we are storing up problems in years to come with our sedentary lifestyle, says Stone.

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a diet rich in calcium and vitamin D; take weight-bearing exercise to strengthen bones—jogging, tennis, brisk walking; don't smoke (it inhibits bone-building cells); and stick to a moderate alcohol intake. "Small changes can help to keep bones healthy," says Rees. Dr Stone advises any man over 60 who has a low-trauma fracture to have a DXA (Dual Energy X-ray Absorptiometry) scan to check out bone density.

Women are bombarded with material on the menopause and brittle bone disease.

Men need to be aware that osteoporosis can happen to them too, and that they are not alone. "It was such a relief to talk to someone who understood the condition," says Rees. "I felt a lot more in control because I understood."

The National Osteoporosis Society, nos.org.uk, 0845 450 0230

AND WOMEN GET GOUT It's subjective of course, but gout —the most common cause of inflamed joints—is said to be the most painful type of arthritis. Most varieties cause chronic pain on a daily basis, but gout isn't like that.

"Gout is usually sudden attacks of

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excruciating joint pain, accompanied by redness, swelling and tenderness," says Dr Edward Roddy, consultant rheumatologist at Arthritis Research UK Primary Care Centre at Keele University. "Classically, patients go to bed pain-free and wake the next day in agony. Patients commonly report not being able to put afoot to the floor, or not being able to bear the weight of a single bed sheet. It's very, very dramatic."

This is exactly what happened to 64year-old Margaret Heath from Werrington, Stoke-on-Trent, five years ago. "I didn't know what had hit me," she says. "At first I thought I must have stubbed my big toe and broken it." But her GP diagnosed gout.

"I was amazed, as I'd never heard of another woman with gout," she says. "I didn't even realise that women could get it."

But they can and do. Although gout is predominantly a male disease—six men to every one woman—women suffer more than most people realise.

The reason for the misconception? As far back as 4 BC, Hippocrates observed that women don't get gout before the menopause. Men get it in their thirties and forties, but women tend to get it most often in their sixties.

Why gout? "We've all got a substance called uric acid in our blood," says Dr Roddy, "but some people have too much, and crystals form that lead to inflammation around joints. In time, people get tophi—lumps of uric acid crystals just under the skin—on elbows, fingers and toes. The most commonly affected joint in the early stage is the bunion joint in the foot. Butyou can also get it in other joints, such as ankles, knees, fingers, wrists and elbows.

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Uric acid levels tend to be lower in premenopausal women: the drop in oestrogen makes their levels similarto men's, Dr Roddy says. That's when women get gout.

There are lots of risk factors. Family history is one, but lifestyle factors are also important: how much alcohol you drink; being overweight; and having a diet rich in purines—natural substances found in red meat and seafood. Other medical factors are important: high blood pressure; kidney disease; and certain medications (especially diuretics, which many people take).

All these points apply to men. In women, however, family history and lifestyle factors are less important and medical problems are more significant. Margaret Heath has no family history of gout and no lifestyle triggers, but she has heart disease, impaired liver function and only one kidney—and takes a lot of medication.

There can be differences in the presentation of the disease, too. Men tend to have regular attacks over several years and develop tophi later. Women more

commonly present with tophi early on.

Margaret Heath developed one of these lumps on her right toe within the first couple of years of her gout's onset.

But it is curable. This is an important message, says Dr Roddy. Treatment for both sexes is twofold: to reduce inflammation and arrest the attack; and to lower uric acid levels to prevent attacks.

"The problem is that many people don't want to take a tablet every day for something they regard as an intermittent problem," he says. "They need to be made aware of the possible progression of the disease." For some, the removal of risk factors will work, but for most, it's not that simple.

The British Society for Rheumatology says that two or more attacks a year is the threshold for considering long-term treatment. And as most gout sufferers are managed in primary care, it's key to notifyyour GP, so he or she can treat you appropriately. This could make a huge difference.

Arthritis UK, arthritisresearchuk.org, 01246 558033

Don't come and play This is a photo of a children's play area in a five-star hotel in The Gambia.

It did make me wonder how exactly the kiddies were meant to get to it.

Submitted by Daniel Ross, Spitat, Wirral

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She was a young woman killed by the South Africans she was trying to help. But her death wasn't in vain

BY ANGELA NEUSTATTER

A single cross marks the site of Amy's death in Gugulethu

LINDA BIEHLWASRETURNING TO HER HOME IN CALIFORNIA, in good spirits after

a shopping trip with her son Zachary on the afternoon of August 25, 1993. The memory remains starkly imprinted.

As she walked into her house the phone was ringing. "It was my eldest daughter Kim calling," Linda says. "She just said: 'Amy is dead... Amy is dead.' " Amy, the vivacious 26-year-old daughter of Peter and Linda Biehl, was in South Africa when she died. She was a Stanford scholar, and her subject was sub-Saharan Africa. During a visit to South Africa, Amy heard Nelson Mandela talk of how vital it was that non-white people should be free.

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tried to run but was stoned to the ground and then stabbed fatally in the head.

A SIMPLE WOODEN CROSS HANGS BESIDE THE PETROL STATION AT GUGULETHUTOCOMMEMORATEAMY AT THE SPOT WHERE SHE DIED.

Gugulethu consists of a cluster of corrugated iron shacks and brick shelters.

Children squat in the gutters, playing; adults of unfathomable age shuffle past.

It is far from the images of South Africa that World Cup visitors were encouraged to see.

It's home to Ntobeko Peni. He and his friend Easy Nofomela were found guilty of Amy's murder.

On a scorching afternoon on a recent visit to South Africa, I was taken by Ntobeko to see the cross; he and Easy had agreed to talk to me about what happened. It is something they have refused to do so far, finding it too painful. But they would do it, he said, to honour Amy's parents Linda and Peter, who had granted them the gift of an extraordinary act of reconciliation.

It's an act that even today, 17 years on, is seen as so significant that this year, the now-widowed Linda was awarded the European "Unity is Strength" Anti-Discrimination Award, in Amsterdam.

Soon after the killing, Ntobeko and Easy (both now in their thirties), were arrested for Amy's murder and sentenced to 18 years each in prison. The Biehls didn't feel triumphant, but they did feel justice had been done.

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Inspired, she got herself a scholarship to the almost entirely black University of Western Cape. There, she worked with future political leaders and created voter programmes for South African blacks, as well as helping people at grassroots level.

Over the next few days, the Biehls learned details of what had happened through phone calls, emails, letters—and from a media that found the tale irresistible. A beautiful young woman had taken on the African cause, but had been killed by black freedom fighters.

Indeed, Linda recollects, her composed voice cracking: "Amy would tell us that blacks killing whites were only doing what had been done to them for so long under apartheid."

But that compassion didn't protect Amy on the fateful day when she was driving three African friends to their home in Gugulethu, one of the most deprived townships in Cape Town. As she arrived she was confronted by a mass of some 300 black teenagers blocking the road.

All were members of the youth branch of the radical Pan African Congress (PAC) and had returned from a demonstration full of excited energy.

They were fuelled by their mission to kill the enemy, voiced in their chant of "one settler, one bullet". All whites were seen as settlers.

The young men saw Amy through the car windscreen. She was white—and so a target. They hurled stones at the car; one broke the windscreen and hit Amy. She struggled out but was hit on the head by someone with a brick. She

death seem less futile." So they set up the Amy Biehl Foundation in the US, to raise money for a programme of education and activities for disenfranchised young black people in townships in Cape Town.

But then, in 199Z they learned that their daughter's killers were asking the new government's Truth and Reconciliation Commission to give them amnesty as political prisoners.

The Biehls, plunged back into the

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Amy during her time in Cape Town

overwhelming confusion of that moment: "My life had been shaped by apartheid; I had seen my parents' impotence in the face of terrible treatment by white people. At school the Afrikaaner police regularly came and shot the students, calling them terrorists.

But here were white people we had hurt so badly saying that we should be given a new start. I thought it was a trick."

Ntobeko's reaction was more dramatic: "They can't be biological

Nelson Mandela on Amy Biehl: "She made our aspirations her own and lost her life in the turmoil of our transition as the new South Africa struggled to be born in the dying moments of apartheid. Through her, our peoples have also shared the pain of confronting a terrible past"

emotional turmoil they had experienced after Amy's death, didn't know what to do. Archbishop Desmond Tutu, who had become a friend, suggested they attend the hearing and speak "from the bottom of our hearts about Amy", Linda adds.

Ntobeko and Easy, sitting opposite, thought this was all "white man's propaganda". Then they heard Peter tell the court that he and Linda believed the killers should be released and offered education and rehabilitation.

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parents. I could never do such a thing."

(Both men now have children of their own. They are protective, saying only that Easy has one daughter and Ntobeko three, all born in the past decade.)

THE BIEHLS'ACT OF RECONCILIATION WAS NOT ABOUT FORGIVENESS OR SELF-HEALING. Linda says simply, "It

was our way of honouring Amy." They thought the amnesty would be the end of things. But once the men were released, after nearly five years in prison, they asked to meet the 57

Biehls. Ntobeko, in his quiet voice, explains, "What happened was a turning point for me. I thought if this family can do such a thing, then I have something to learn. But first I must disengage from political activism with the PAC." Easy, whose voice is harder as he insists on explaining the political background to the PAC's actions before going further, then, too, becomes gentle. "I just wanted to apologise to these incredible parents and tell them how much I wished I could bring Amy back."

The Biehls who, by this time, had set up a base for the Amy Biehl Foundation in Cape Town to expand their work, met with Ntobeko and Easy. "They didn't want to know about Amy's death, but about how and why Easy and I had become political," Ntobeko muses.

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LINDA SHARED AMY'S WRITINGS WITH THEM, AND THIS TOUCHED EASY DEEPLY: "We grew to know Amy

and to appreciate that she and her parents are whites only in the colour of their skins. With their actions, Peter and Linda also made it possible for us to forgive ourselves."

The young men made it clear they would be interested in working with the Amy Biehl Foundation. After leaving prison they had set up their own programme taking inner-city youths out of town on walking, swimming and climbing expeditions. Ntobeko says: "We have black rule now—but there are still many problems and a lot of disillusionment. Our young people need help in making the most of their abilities and learning to have pride in READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST ',o

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themselves, otherwise they may turn to violence as we did."

The two were offered jobs with the foundation as van drivers. They have since worked their way up to become highly respected leaders in the community school they helped to build; it offers education, art, physical exercise, and leadership programmes, as well as drama, dance and clubs for learning

about growing food and looking after the environment.

Kevin Chaplin, director of the foundation in Cape Town, explains: "These men are at the heart of our work with children aged five upwards who are in the townships where there are gangs, drugs, unsafe sex and hugely negative influences. They are wonderful role models. They train other mentors, and they bring the young people in."

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Then Chaplin pauses before saying: "I have no doubt that if Easy and Ntobeko had been given the kind of help we offer they would not have killed Amy." But even though they did, and the pain of Amy's loss cannot be taken away, Linda tells me how she and Peter came to care for, and believe in, the two young men ever more as they got to know them. When Peter died of cancer a few years ago, Linda says, their support was "heartwarming".

They welcome her to their homes with open arms when she is in South Africa, and she has had them over to visit her family in America, too. Ntobeko and Easy give her the honoured name makhulu—grandmother.

Linda is pensive as she reflects on the past 17 years: "What Peter and I did was not virtuous. We simply knew Amy would have been disappointed if we had not done as she would have wanted.

She saw herself as part of the same struggle as Ntobeko and Easy. By honouring that, Peter and I gained two very dear friends instead of being trapped for our lives in anger and hatred." >> To find out more about the Amy Biehl Foundation, visit amybiehl.org.

The Red-eyed tree frog (Agalychnis callidrya) sleeps by day, hiding its brightly coloured eyes from hunters. When disturbed, it flashes its red peepers to startle predators—and niftily springs to safety.

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Are you up to speed on

the technology that's changing everyday life?

By George Cole TECHNOLOGY TODAY

WHAT'S HOT & WHAT'S NOT Mark Twain once said that the only certainties in life were death and taxes. If Twain were alive today, he might want to add another item to his list: the pace of technological change. The ways in which we shop, spend money, listen to music, watch TV and receive information are being totally transformed. Over the next ten years, many of the things we do today will be consigned to history, as the technology that supported them heads for the great techno-scrapheap in the sky. So what will we be saying goodbye to, what will be taking its place—and what are the pitfalls to watch out for?

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HOT ELECTRONIC PHOTO ALBUMS Some digital-photo albums sit on our home-computer hard drive, while others are placed in online libraries such as Flickr. The great thing about electronic libraries is that they make it easy to share photos with friends or relatives—or even the world. Photos can also be electronically tagged, so it's straightforward to index and find specific shots.

Electronic photo frames can store hundreds of images and display them individually or as a slide show.

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No more stacks of albums or shoe-boxes full of snaps that hardly see the light of day. Just as film cameras have largely been replaced by digital models, so traditional photo-storage systems are being supplanted by digital alternatives, which make it easier to find those holiday pics.

HOT MOBILE PAYMENTS

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In Japan, consumers can already use their mobiles to purchase goods from selected retailers—users simply swipe their mobile handset over a scanner and funds are transferred from the owner's bank account. European and US banks and retailers are planning similar services.

Many small cash payments will be replaced by smart cards equipped with short-range radio technology. When making a purchase, you will simply hold your smart card in front of a scanner and the payment will be made.

In this world of digital payments, more secure ways of identifying ourselves are required, so expect to see the growing use of biometric ID systems, which use fingerprint and facerecognition technology. Biometric passports are already in use.

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NOT SLOW INTERNET

Seven out of ten homes in the UK now have a broadband connection and most home networks use Wi-Fi wireless technology, which means no trailing cables round the house.

Bluetooth, a shortrange wireless system, is also used by many devices, including headsets, keyboards and computer mice.

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Remember the days when going online meant a squawking modem box and snail-pace internet speeds? The arrival of faster, always-on broadband has changed all that, but within five years, today's broadband will be the electronic equivalent of the horse and carriage as superfast services arrive.

NOT CHEQUES

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The chequebook could become a collector's item of the future. The Payments Council wants cheques to be phased out by October 2018— provided an alternative system is available.

Only three per cent of retail transactions are now made by cheque. In 1990, we wrote 2.4 billion personal cheques—this year, the figure is expected

machine. But this is just to be 600 million. What's the start of a number of more, many retailers have forthcoming ID systems started to refuse cheques that could make the and many of us now prefer to use signature obsolete. cash, debit Even cash isn't cards or immune to change. pay online.

It still accounts for This is 60 per cent of all linked with transactions, but the need for 80 per cent of those more up-toare for less than £10. date identification The Payments Council systems. Instead of forecasts that cash will signing for a credit-card be used for less than half transaction, we now of all transactions in five reach for the chip and PIN years' time.

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NOT CDs AND DVDs

Online music retailers such as Apple's iTunes are doing a roaring trade—of the 150 million singles purchased in the UK last year, 98 per cent were downloads. On the back of that has come a new type of audio system, with the home stereo being replaced by PCs with music libraries or iPod docking stations.

Super-fast broadband (see left) will make streaming music and video services over the internet even more irresistible, as we'll be able to download feature films in a few minutes.

For decades we've been listening to music on discs—first LPs and then CDs. But sales of discs have been falling steadily for the past six years in succession as we switch to other ways of listening to or purchasing music.

The mighty DVD is feeling the pinch, too—DVD disc sales fell by almost six per cent lastyear. Film and video companies hope the Blu-ray disc will tempt us to replace our DVDs with a superior system that offers even sharper picture quality. But the jury is out. > 63

HOT EVEN MORE BUYING ONLINE We can already pay our TV licence and utility bills online, and the trend for online payments and shopping will continue to grow rapidly. Over 51 per cent of British adults shopped online in the

first three months of this year—many of us clearly enjoy the convenience of clickand-buy.

We'll also spend more time online using mobile devices such as smartphones. These

BUT BEWARE! Movingto the online world offers convenience, for sure, but it comes with the risk of your computer being targeted by viruses and Trojan horses—rogue programs that can disruptyour computer or steal personal information, including passwords. Using a good anti-virus package (eg, Norton or AVG) will help prevent any damage, be wary of fake bank or store websites, and don't click on email links—always type the web address into your web browser window.

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are combined mobile phones and computers that use wireless technology to connect to the internet. Smartphones contain a cutdown version of the web browser found on home computers; just click on it to go online from almost anywhere.

With a smartphone, you can use systems such as location-based services. Want to find the nearest post office or restaurant? These use satnav technology to provide you with useful information on the move.

Wireless networks can be hi-jacked by others unless they are made secure.

And as more of our lives move into the virtual world, the danger is that we'll come to agrinding halt the minute our broadband connection goes down.

There's also the question of all those who don't have internet access. In the UK, more than six million people over the age of 65 are not online.

And then computers can crash, puttingyou at risk of losing valuable data, such as the family photo library— unless it's regularly copied or backed up.

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NOT HIGH-STREET SHOPPING More of us are shopping online for items such as books and records, which is changing the face of the high street.

In 2004, there were about 780 independent record stores—now there are fewer than 300.

High-street book sales were down seven per cent last year dropping to only 55 per cent of the market. Most observers expect Internet book sales to take the lion's share soon.

HOT READING DEVICES Books, newspapers and magazines won't disappear, but e-book readers and devices like the Apple iPad will account for a fair share of our reading (download this issue of Reader's Digest for FREE at store.apple.com/ uk). Life will never be the same again.

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generations might not be able to access files like our digital snaps, because their formats have become obsolete. Even archiving images onto compact discs and DVDs could create problems, because no one knows how long those formats will last.

The e-book format wars mean you can't read most e-books on different e-book readers. Another issue is digital rights management (DRM) technology, which stopsyou from copying or sharing e-books—so no more passing on your finished paperback to a friend or charity. And technology is never foolproof. Even the best biometric READER'S DIGEST

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Radio is switching from FM analogue to digital, with digital services offering a wider selection of radio stations. The way we watch television is also changing, thanks to digital recorders and "TV on demand" services includingthe BBC's iPlayer.

ID system is not 100 per cent accurate, so you could find yourself unable to withdraw money or even travel if a biometric system misidentifiesyou.

Finally, of course, there's the small matter of having to read through a mountain of instruction manuals in order to learn how to use all these new technologies... >> Author George Cole writes about science and technology. His work has appeared on The Register website and in national newspapers such as the Financial Times and The Daily Telegraph.

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A MIDDLE-CLASS FACTORY WORKER, A.ONIVERSITY GRADUATE FROM KENT r AND A MILK-BAR OWNER'S SON? THE STARS OF ZIPPOS CIRCUS AREN'T WHAT YOU MIGHT EXPECT...

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Spotligh s The heady smell of popcorn mingles with sawdust. Children beam funnels of bright colour across the ring floor. wave flashing lights that blur into neon Catherine wheels.

One boy, his face painted like Spiderman, clutches a cloud of pink candyfloss four times the size of his head. The renowned Zippos Circus has arrived in Croydon, the latest of almost 100 UK destinations this year.

Ringmaster Norman Barrett MBE (left) peeks through the thin slit in the tent. lie's backstage, taking the pulse of the crowd. Britain's most famous exponent of his art slips

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PHOTOGRAPHED BY PHILIP FISK WORDS BY NICK MORGAN on his trademark red jacket and slides his fingers into spotless white gloves. Around him, artists are warming up: clowns check props; acrobats stretch. Then, suddenly, it's go. Cue music and bright lights. In the ring, showgirls wave, clowns chase each other and acrobats leap through the air.

Norman steps centre stage and proclaims, "My lords, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Zippos Circus." Children teeter on the edge of their seats. If the 75-year-old seems like the sort of showman who was born to be in the circus, he was.

His father ran a show and Norman's first act was at 12 with a performing goat (he now has an act with budgies).

But not all his fellow performers arrived at the big top by the decades-old circus-family routes you might imagine...

Cheers of a clown: Alex Morley's antics are a huge hit with the kids

ALEX THE CLOWN Life changed for Alex Morley shortly after his fifth birthday. His mum, a cleaner, and his father, an architect, took him to see the circus in his hometown of Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk. "I saw a clown up on stilts and that was it. That's all I could think about; all I wanted to do."

His parents indulged this fad and let him dress up to perform for friends. But the fad didn't go away—word spread of his talents and, by the time he was 14, people were paying him to joke and juggle at their birthday parties.

A careers teacher asked him what he envisaged for his future. Alex explained.

The teacher leaned forward, looked over the top of his glasses and said, "Don't you want a proper job?"

So, after his GCSEs, Alex did get a proper job—in a paintbrush factory. But that was

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only to save money. At 17, he had reached the entry age for the Academy of Circus Arts (ACA), a Zippos-funded travelling school that expects students to give public performances almost as soon as they join.

The course covered everything from mime to trapeze, but Alex's true calling remained.

Now 20, he is a "new clown" at Zippos.

His nose is a blob of red, but his make-up is light—not the sinister look you'd associate with Stephen King's It. Today, when he takes to the ring, his boyish frame and shock of blond hair make him an instant hit with the children.

Another clown tries to squirt him, but Alex dodges the water, outsmarting the opposition at every turn. Alex is loving it—every molecule of his body and soul is living out his childhood dream. > "I want to do this for ever," he says.

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YIN AND YANG Backstage Jian Zhang ("Yin") rests on a table and looks out at the audience. He's next up, and he'll be throwing a ceramic vase high into the air and catching it on the back of his neck, bending his knees at just the right moment to absorb the weight.

"A strange way to make a living," he says in broken English—and a dangerous one, too. A split second out and the pot will crack his head open. But he knows it's the danger that thrills the audience. Norman Barrett announces, "Yin and Yang!" and Jian and his acrobatics partner QiangXie ("Yang") are on.

The pair, 25 and 23 respectively, have been friends since junior school. Growing up in Beijing, it was the done thing to have a traditionally Chinese hobby— so they both got involved in circus skills, later joining the Chinese State Circus.

On a visit to Britain lastyear, they led some training sessions at the ACA. By that Christmas, Zippos had persuaded them to take on relatively lucrative performance roles at a Hyde Park show.

China has its own distinct style of circus act, says Qiang. "We use everyday objects, hence throwing ceramic jugs and spinning plates."

The double act's next stunt sees them perched on a large round table in the middle of the ring. They perform a series of acrobatic poses, then Yin's whole body weight is supported by Yang using just one arm.

Next, Yin holds himself above Yang's head, again with just one arm. They are dressed only in short trousers and you can seethe enormous strain on their muscles; their bodies begin to shake with the sheer effort. But they don't flinch and they take the audience's applause with modest bows.

"Where we come from, acrobatics grew from a Taoist desire to perfect physical skill and mental concentration," explains Qiang.

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If you go down to the woods today, you might just see Yin and Yang in spectacular midpose. But mind that dog, boys...

JACKIE Acrobat Jackie Armstrong's parents are in the audience for tonight's show, something that used to make her nervous—but not any more.

The 25-year-old grew up in Lydd, Kent, amid the trappings of a conventional life with a civil-servant father and receptionist mother. She was an excellent trampolinist and graduated from Canterbury Christchurch University with a degree in theatre studies, but a life as a performer didn't quite grab her—until she saw Cirque de Celebrite, the 2006 Sky reality show. / want to be that girl up in the air spinning around, she realised.

She signed up for the ACA, but her parents couldn't take her decision seriously. It took nine months of her hard work and brilliant performances for them to accept that their little girl wasn't destined for something sensible in an office.

When it's her time to peform,Jackie enters the ring in red sparkly shorts and top to thumping dance music. A rope hoists her close to the tent's roof where she performs a complex routine of swings, twists and poses hanging by her ankles. "I fell once," she says. "There was a safety net. It spooked me for a while, butyou get over these things."

Tonight she is perfect. When her feet touch the ground the audience goes wild.

"I love the applause and I love the circus. It's in my blood now. I'll never leave it."

MISS GEORGETA Fellow acrobat Georgeta Milutin sits in the box office selling tickets. "Three children,two adults," she confirms in a thick Romanian accent. Underneath her baggy red top is a leotard. Forty minutes ago, duringthe second performance of three this bank holiday Monday, she was doing the splits in a plastic bubble 30 feet up in the air.

"I was three when my parents sent me to gymnastic school," she says. Her talent was quickly spotted and, at 14, she was selected for the national junior gymnastics team, granting her family high status and a nice house in communist Romania. That changed in 1989 with the Eastern Bloc's collapse, but the new commercial freedom allowed her to set up her own gymnastics school at just 17—and buythe family a house of its own.

Awhile later, one of Georgeta's students hurt a bone in her foot. She was an acrobat at the state circus and begged her teacher to take her place. Georgeta felt too embarrassed to tell her parents. "But when I got home my mum hugged me and said how proud she was. I was bemused until she explained it had been on TV." Renowned aerial artiste George Marinov spotted Georgeta and asked her to be his new partner. They performed in 16 different countries. She's been with Zippos for five years, but now, aged 36, she's planning a new life in Britain, tutoring.

"Last year I got a BSc in sports studies. I'd like to mentor the artists of the future." >

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Jackie (left) and Georgeta enjoy a moment of reflection backstage

The brains behind the bonanza: Zippo impresario Martin Burton surveys his empire

MA R TIN "ZIPPO" BURTON Zippos' owner Martin Burton leans back in his office chair, resisting the urge to put his feet on the desk, despite having built the biggest travelling circus in the UK. To his right is a collection of eggs with clowns' heads painted on them. "This is how clowns used to copyright their makeup," he says. "When a new clown works for us we have his face painted to add to the collection, so we keep the tradition alive."

Brought up in a milk bar outside the stage door of New Theatre, Oxford, the six-year-old Martin's first job was to take snacks to the actors. "I saw all the things you shouldn't see: showgirls in laddered tights smoking Woodbines."

Martin specialised in drama at teachertraining college, but when he went for a job, there were 350 other applicants. "I told my dad I'd take three years off to try some other things."

He'd become interested in clowning during his course and, to earn some money,

he began performing on Brighton beach as a clown called Mr Muscles who lifted fake weights. "I collected El 0 in ten minutes.

My mortgage was only £70 a month!"

His next clown incarnation was Zippo, afire-eater (a college friend had taught him how to do this)."This was during the Vietnam war and the news showed the US troops all carrying exotic lighters. The name was contemporary and dangerous."

Martin formed a clown troupe and they started touring, but he dreamed of staging more elaborate shows. In 1980, with Arts Council help, Martin got sponsorship from BP for Zippos' first big top.

Zippos now has 60 performers and staff, a multimillion pound turnover and has toured the US and Asia. Martin rarely has time to clown these days—there's too much admin to wade through.

"I'm at mycomputerat 6am doing risk assessments on the dangers of horse poo," hegrins,his innerclownshowingthrough. ■

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This woman's job is to help people who've been hurt.

So why would

n August last year, emergency ambulance worker Suzanne O'Rourke had just treated a patient in Leyton, east London, when she was shot.

"I was returning to my fast-response car when I heard a noise followed by something hitting me hard in the back," says Suzanne, 40. "As I turned, I heard the same noise and the second shot hit me on the shoulder. I quickly got in the car, drove off and called for assistance."

She was only saved from serious injury because one shot was stopped by her stab-proof vest, while the

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Suzanne O'Rourke with the stab-proof vest that may have

other grazed off her shoulder. Suzanne was so shaken she needed two days off to recover.

Ambulance staff are not the only ones coming under attack. According to the Department for Communities and Local Government, fire crews in England and Wales were subjected to 967 attacks in the year up to April 2008. But the Fire Brigades Union (FBU) claims official figures are "woefully inadequate". It says there are 40 attacks on crews every week and under-reporting could mean the real figure is twice as high.

In the same year, the NHS Security Management Service says there were 1,006 assaults on ambulance staff, with 1,240 the following year.

The rise in incidents could be partly

due to better reporting practices. But, says Jonathan Fox, press officer for the Association of Professional Ambulance Personnel, "There's a general consensus among ambulance personnel that the working environment is now more hostile than at any time previously, with paramedics facing escalating levels of violence on a daily basis."

Why is it happening?

"The highest numbers of attacks are in areas characterised by poor housing, poverty and few facilities," claims Matt Wrack of the FBU. "Boredom, alcohol and drug use all fuel the problems of youngsters in communities they feel are on the margins of society."

Ed Case of the Staffordshire Fire Service speaks of unemployment sometimes "THE CREW WERE SHOCKED" blighting several generaEd Case of the Stoke Area Command Risk Reduction tions.

"Stoke used to be team, Staffordshire Fire Service, describes an attack a thriving town with the on firefighters in a deprived inner-city area of Stok potteries.

A young peron-Trent. son could leave school "In the run-up to Bonfire Night, a gang of ten- to with no qualifications 18-year-olds were running feral across four streets— and still get a job. Now attacking households, breaking windows and racially 90 per cent of that inabusing an Asian family. dustry has gone and the "Up to midnight, they were breaking into empty kids have no aspirations properties to remove fittings and make fires on a because their parents disused railway. Initially, the fires were small and th' are struggling to get kids would disperse when we arrived. But the fires jobs themselves." started to get bigger and the kids became fearless John Cartwright, an they'd throw bricks, spit and verbally abuse us." officer from the Greater On two consecutive nights, a brick hit the fire Manchester Fire and engine. "The crew were shocked. If that brick had hit Rescue Service, who the driver, an 11-ton truck would have been out of himself has come under control. It's very frustrating when you have a job to attack from mobs of do, and it does feel like a personal attack." youths, believes there's

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a lack of responsible parenting: "Kids have more freedom than they used to.

We see a lot of children that shouldn't be out after dark and some parents are afraid of their teenagers."

He, too, believes boredom is a big problem: "Councils put so many people in a small space with no entertainment for the kids. They are then more likely to build a fire or be antisocial."

Ged Bailes is a consultant forensic clinical psychologist, based at the Forensic Psychiatry Service for East

ambulance crews seem to be facing individuals with different problems.

"What I hear from people working in the public sector, again and again, concerns the link between violence and alcohol," says Bailes. "Alcohol disinhibits people and changes how they interpret what's going on around them."

Tackling the problem The Government brought in the Emergency Workers (Obstruction) Act in England, Wales and Northern Ireland

"What I hear from people working in the public sector concerns the link between violence and alcohol" Anglia, who's run conflict management courses for the emergency services.

He believes violence has become sensationalised and glamourised.

"Look at some of the content on YouTube and so-called 'happy slapping'.

It can trigger aggression in people." He believes that some youngsters have a cartoonish view of the world. "They've watched violence on TV and don't realise that shooting or stabbing someone may kill them."

He points out that the loss of individual identity and diffused responsibilty in crowds leads people to commit acts they wouldn't do on their own.

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in 2006, which can attract a fine of up to £5,000. It follows on from a scheme in Scotland and aims to tackle violence against emergency service workers in the course of their duties.

Inspired by the police force, the Association of Professional Ambulance Personnel initiated a campaign to help protect frontline ambulance personnel.

It recommended robust reporting of incidents, conflict-management training and personal protective equipment, including stab vests.

When these were first issued to London Ambulance Service staff in 2003, a spokesman called it "a reactive step we have taken in order to protect our staff. We wish there were no demand 79

or need for body armour, but sadly there is. Our crews are being attacked while trying to save lives."

Jonathan Fox is saddened that only London, Essex and the South Western Ambulance Service Trust have issued staff with body armour. And since last December, the East of England Trust is no longer issuing it to new employees— despite rising numbers of assaults.

Fox says, "The major opposition comes from our management. The trusts provided the same old excuses: stab vests look provocative and convey

ambulance trust doing what I'm doing," says Dixon, local security management specialist for the ambulance services on the south-east coast.

His role includes keeping an up-todate register of dangerous addresses and making best-practice changes.

"Last year we introduced the Airwave service, which the police use. Portable digital radios have now replaced our outdated analogue radio, so that staff can call for urgent assistance."

Dixon also acts as a liaison point between the trust, police forces, court

"It's only a matter of time before an ambulance worker is killed" the wrong impression. We were urged to remember that our role was to treat patients, not to fight crime."

Shockingly, Fox predicts, "It's only a matter of time before an ambulance worker is killed."

At least ambulance trusts now keep

registers of addresses where there's been a violent incident—so that ambulance personnel are forewarned and can request a police escort. The North West Ambulance Service Trust alone (Merseyside, Greater Manchester, Cheshire, Cumbria and Lancashire) has more than 3,000 such addresses.

People like David Dixon are hired for the task of keeping emergency crews safe. "Now there's someone in every So

systems and other NHS bodies. His patch covers Kent, Sussex and Surrey.

"I've been involved in 65 convictions where people have been brought to account where previously they would have got away with it," he reports.

"There's a changing culture now and staff who are assaulted or abused are much more ready to step forward."

In contrast, an independent report, conducted by the Labour Research Department for the FBU found that while some fire-and-rescue services have well-developed policies for tackling violence, others don't.

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"WE NEEDED TO MEET THE KIDS" "The fire service used to be about putting out fires," says Neil Ashworth (left), watch manager at Burnley Fire Station, Lancashire. "Now it's all about prevention."

In autumn 2007, his crews came under a hail of stones and abuse from Asian youths for five consecutive nights when they had to put out bonfires in two areas of high ethnic tension.

In October 2008, Reader's Digest covered the initiative Ashworth took to reach an understanding with the youths. He recalls, "We needed

1- to meet the kids, without the engine and uniform. We liaised with the police and youth leaders, and ayoung colleague from Pakistan came with me.

"Many of these kids are from large families living in a two-up two-down. When the community centre is shut they've nowhere to go, so they build a fire and sit around chatting." For his part, he explained that while his crews were dealing with a bonfire, they wouldn't be able to help if one of their families was trapped in a fire.

"The kids said sorry. A few days later, we showed about 30 of them around the fire engines and half of them expressed an interest in firefighting! It showed the progress we'd made. We've not had an incident like that since."

Since then, Lancashire Fire and Rescue Service has run fire-safety courses for primary and senior school pupils. "We also run the Prince's Trust Team Programme, where 16- to 25-year-olds are introduced to team working and given skills that boost their work or further education prospects."

send it to the police to identify offenders. And over the last few years CCTV has been installed in fire engines. But the FBU claims much of the footage is unsuitable and many firefighters feel it undermines efforts to foster better relations with local communities. Matt Wrack of the FBU has said, "Good practice does exist, but it's patchy. So the FBU has called for a governmentled and funded national strategy."

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has been working in youth intervention.

"I go into schools with representatives from the police and the community safety department to do workshops with children from ten to 14.

"First, we educate the kids about the consequences of antisocial behaviour.

Second, we carry out interventions such as Asbos and Acceptable Behaviour Contracts (voluntary agreements made between the child and the police, signed by them and their parents). Third, we divert kids with activities such as youth clubs and karate coaching, financed by the council and local businesses."

He reports massive improvements

as a result. "As a station, we haven't had an attack in 18 months. We've also had a 50 per cent drop in vehicle and empty property fires."

He stresses the importance of treating local areas on a case-by-case basis: "It's essential to have finance from central government. But you need to give local people, who have a

the fire service is. We're the acceptable face of authority," he says.

The service has recently started a two-day-a-week, six-week course called Fire Team Six. Cartwright says, "We get unruly kids who have been excluded from school standing to attention. We give them activities like raft-building

"There's no easy solution, but we have to address the issue of poor parenting" knowledge of the area, the resources to make changes."

John Cartwright is just such a person.

"Like a lot of these kids, I grew up in a bad part of Salford. A lot of my mates went down the wrong path. There's not enough for kids to do, so I like to give them another avenue."

He's chairman of the Fire Services Youth Training Association, which advises fire brigades on setting up youth programmes. It runs a range of programmes, including Community Fire Cadets—a two-year evening course for 13- to 16-year-olds at risk of becoming involved in antisocial behaviour or crime. Apart from learning firefighting skills, the course promotes selfdiscipline and teamwork, and includes charitable projects such as laying footpaths in a local park.

"When they're not alcohol-fuelled, young people listen to us. Where other services aren't reaching them, 82

and say that unless they play the game they can't continue. At the passingout parade at the end, you wouldn't recognise them as the same kids."

He recalls one difficult cadet of 15: "We had to try to control his swearing, behaviour, everything about him."

When the boy's school told Cartwright he was on the verge of expulsion, he stepped in to mentor him. "I said, `If you're expelled from school, you'll have to leave Cadets,' and he started behaving," recalls Cartwright.

"He went on to represent the UK in a fire brigades drill competition in Austria. Once you peeled off the hard exterior, he was one of the nicest lads I've ever been in contact with."

Meanwhile, some experts are focusing on the generation above. Consultant forensic clinical psychologist Dr Derek Indoe says, "It's parenting that sets a young person's social norms." In partnership with Avon Fire and Rescue READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST '10

Service, Indoe spent several years running courses for the parents of youngsters attending courses run by the fire service. "They all had problems—some had criminal records, drink problems or a depressive outlook," he says.

"One of the most important issues was for parents to realise how their own feelings, thinking and behaviour was affecting their parenting. They were taught how to set boundaries, handle stress, ignore behaviour they didn't want and reward good behaviour."

One father said that the course had given him "a kick up the a***" and enabled him to express more warmth and endearment to his family. One youth complained that his mother had started putting her foot down!

Indoe concludes, "There's no easy solution. But if we want to stop this kind of behaviour, we have to address the issue of poor parenting." Maybe that way our emergency crews can get back to focusing on what they do best: helping save people's lives.

Game for a laugh The world of computer gaming has come a long way since the days of Pac-Man. Which is not to say that designers haven't taken the occasional surreal turn...

PaRappa the Rapper PaRappa is a rapping dog who wants to learn more raps. He takes instruction from, among others, an onion with a black belt, a talking frog and an Italian moose dictator called Mooselini.

Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney A courtroom role-playing game with a twist:you're able to commune with a psychic lawyer who advises you from beyond the grave. You even get to cross-examine a parrot.

Takeshi's Challenge "This game was made by a man who hates video games," proclaims thetitle screen. It's certainly not the most accessible—at one pointyou're told to do nothing for an hour.

And the main villain needs to be hit 20,000 times in order to die.

Bible Adventures The holy book in computer-game form. Load the animals onto the ark, battle against Goliath and transport the baby Moses down the Nile (but don't accidentally drown him).

Bad Mojo Inspired by Kafka's Metamorphosis (who says these games are dumb?),you play a scientist transformed into a cockroach, trying to find a cure while scuttling through a hostile landscape.

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I remember Ronan Keating, 33, on scary priests, being a dad, Saturday jobs and, erm, that early TV appearance I remember... singing for my ma. Me and my brother Gary used to have singing competitions when we were little lads. We'd turn the house into a concert hall and perform a whole show for her. As soon as we'd finished, we'd start shouting, "Ma, Ma...who was the best?" She'd never vote for either of us, but made us both feel like winners. ...family holidays in Killarney. Getting all of us packed into

Dad's Ford Escort was a laugh. There'd be my ma and dad in the front, my four brothers and sisters on the back seat and me squeezed up in the back window.

The world felt like a safe place back then. All five of us kids would disappear in the morning and we wouldn't get back to the b&b until dinner time. We all got on like a house on fire, but you could guarantee at least one or two fights every day.

Either somebody had nicked someone's favourite pair of jeans, or somebody had got the best deckchair. Isn't that what families do—fight on holiday? ...taking communion. I was raised a Catholic, so I knew that

communion was a major milestone. It was my big day. Sadly, when I look back on those early years, I realise how scared we were of the priests in our area—they wielded such an awful power over the community. The world now knows what was really happening and it's utterly disgraceful.

In my view, those people who covered up what was happening are just as bad as the ones who were doing it.

I've got close friends who are priests and I know you can't tar the whole Catholic religion with the same brush. But STAY STILL/PHOTOSHOT

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the wounds run deep in Ireland and it's going to take a long time before they're healed. ...the first record I bought was "Last Christmas" by Wham! George

Michael has had his troubles over the years, but that man is an incredible talent. Thanks to my elder brothers and sisters, there was a fantastic record collection in the house. I was probably the only seven-year-old kid at school who was listening to stuff like Frank Sinatra and Cat Stevens. ...winning the All-Ireland Under-13s 200 metres race and dreaming of going to the Olympics. My brother

runs on the beach every day. He was actually the Irish Veterans Champion over 60 metres. I guess athletics is in my blood.

...meeting the lads in Boyzone in October 1993. We were all there at the audition but, of course, none of us knew whether we were going to be in the band or not. I was 16 and, if I'm honest, probably still had one eye on the athletics

The call eventually came through in November and my life was changed overnight. We were catapulted onto the Smash Hits Tour and every day was airports, hotels Angel face: Ronan on and screaming girls.

had emigrated to the US on an athletics scholarship and I was expected to follow in his footsteps.

Dad's nearly 70 now, but he still

his confirmation day ...working in Korky's shoe shop, on Henry Street in Dublin.

I was still at school at the time, but I got most of my education at Korky's.

Just watching people and how the world worked. I don't think there's anything wrong with kids having a Saturday job—you learn to carry responsibility on your shoulders.

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...our very first TV appearance.

We managed to get a spot on The Late Late Show, which was the main TV show in Ireland. Unfortunately, it was so early in our career that we didn't have much of a plan worked out. The whole lot of us just danced around in the studio...badly!

There aren't many things I've done that make me cringe, but that minute of footage is going to haunt me for the rest of my life! [Sorry, Ronan, but if any readers haven't seen it, they can find the clip on YouTube.1

when she had her first. Next to that, 22 seems like a wise old man.

I'm convinced that being a good parent has nothing to do with age. It's about accepting the responsibilities that come with it. Some people are ready for that at 19, some at 22, some not until they're in their thirties. Jack, our eldest, is 11 now I can't believe I've been a dad for 11 years. It makes me sad to see how

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...getting to number one. These

days, it's all about selling Get ready albums, but back in 1996 to cringe: Boyzone having a number-one about to prove they can't dance single was really on The Late Late Show important. We were actually up at the Top of much childhood the Pops studio has changed. I when we found could disappear out "Words" had with my mates got to the top. and Ma would We had one hell know I was safe, of a hooley that but if Jack goes night! We all had to out, I have to make be on a flight to Asia sure he's got his phone the following morning and with him. there were one or two sore heads. ...driving to the hospital at four in the morning after Yvonne [his wife, from whom he recently separated] went into labour. Eleven

hours later I was a father! Looking back, Yvonne and I were very young.

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...losing my ma to breast cancer 12 years ago. Like any family, we really

struggled to come to terms with it.

There were a lot of bad feelings.

Eventually, we decided to turn it into something positive, so we set up the Marie Keating Foundation.

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...the first time we went into the studio without Stephen [Gately].

Starting work on the new album without my brother next to me was strange. We all shed a lot of tears that day. Losing him last year broke my heart, but it also taught me a lot. First, don't sweat the small stuff. There's so much out there that doesn't really matter— concentrate on the things and the people that do.

There were one or two journalists who wrote some small-minded, nasty things after he died, but I never read

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them. I think I'd have ended up saying something just as bad! ...posing nude for Cosmopolitan.

That was just one of the mad things I've been asked to do over the years.

I also sang for the Pope at the Vatican and managed to get included in the Guinness Book of World Records [for having 30 consecutive Top 10 UK singles, more than Elvis].

At the time, you don't think about this stuff. It's only when you look back that you think, Did that really all happen to me?

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So what's all the fuss?

The simplest explanation is often the best one—that's the moral of a recent searchand-rescue operation scrambled for a "missing" woman in Shetland.

When the 72-year-old failed to return to her hostel in Lerwick, her concerned friend alerted the authorities. But the truth was rather more banal—she'd simply changed rooms without telling her travel companions. Helicopters and search teams were duly called off when she appeared for breakfast.

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I've also been working with Cancer Research UK and I was proud to get an award from them last year.

Some people turn their noses up at pop stars who get involved with charity, but so what? For every person that moans about it, there must be a hundred who appreciate it.

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The Pool House, Poolewe, Ross-shire Overlooking Loch Ewe, one of the most beautiful Atlantic inlets of the western Highlands, this is an immaculately restored five-star Victorian hotel.

Through the dark-crimson wallpapered reception is a book-lined sitting room with rugs overlaying the carpet, needlepoint cushions, antique tables and swagged curtains.

There's a full-sized billiard table next to the bar, and a wood-panelled room dedicated to select whiskies, which are illuminated by spotlights.

Amongthe bedrooms are an Indian-styled suite with heavy carved wooden doors, intricate ceiling screens and pink-and-gold friezes, and the Titanic-themed "HMS Diadem" suite with the lights around the bed cast from the ship's original moulds.

The view over the water is astonishing; the ground floor feels as if it's floating on the loch. You can spot minke whales, porpoises, basking sharks and seals from every rocky promontory—but should you want to improve your chances, ask The Pool House to charter a boat foryou. For avid twitchers, the hotel can arrange day trips to Isle Maree, home to red-throated divers and golden eagles.

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Bedruthan Steps Hotel, Mawgan Porth, Cornwall If you haveyoung children, you're likelyto fall upon Bedruthan Steps with cries of relief. The premise here is simple and effective. This large 1960s hotel above a beautiful beach, with soothing sea views from almost every room, provides ample activities for kids while still catering for those of us parents who haven't yet given up all pretensions of style.

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from Tadpoles (up to age one) to Sharks (8-12 years). The fabulous Jungle Tumble room contains slides, towers, troughs of coloured balls and thoughtfully placed armchairs for the adults.

Outside, there are pools, tennis courts, an assault

course, a pirate ship and a trampoline. The resident surf guru will helpyou master the Atlantic waves.

Children's events— from magicians to discos—are staged every evening of the school holidays. Parents can arrange a babysitter and visit Bed ruthan's adults-only sister hotel The Scarlet, which is glamorous, has fabulous European food and is just across the road. Nearby Padstow has several Rick Stein restaurants.

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"More is more" at Glangrwyney Court

This delightfully over-the-top b&b stands in almost 40 acres amid the Brecon Beacons in Wales. Warwick and Christina Jackson brought up their combined families here before slowly converting the rooms for guests as the children left home. It now has eight rooms in the main

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house and two in a converted stable.

Christina's decorating ethos is "more is more". The floors are densely packed with antique furniture, ceramics, glass, books, paintings and a grand piano. The rooms are beautifully decorated with French country wallpaper, lovely furniture, trays with bone-china teacups and quite the most comfortable beds I've slept in.

Single men may feel it's overwhelmingly feminine, with colours tending to rose and pale blue, but the erotic nudes in the bathrooms may console them.

The main thing people do to amuse themselves around here is walking in the mountains—Pen-y-Fan is a famous

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challenge. Anybody with a literary bent will want to visit the legendary literary festival in nearby Hay-on-Wye in late May. From £6o per person per night; glancourt.co.uk

Old Parsonage Hotel, Oxford The Old Parsonage was constructed in 1660 by Edward Selwood, the cook at the neighbouring St John's College. The oak front door reinforced with iron studs is original, as are the stone windows and the wide-arched fireplace in the lobby, where a log fire is kept burning all year.

You feel as if you're in a private club.

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Gallon House, Knaresborough, North Yorkshire

green-leather buttoned chairs. Stunning 20thcentury art throughout the buildinggives the impression of a private show.

As you'd expect from an old building, the 30 bedrooms vary in size and layout. Room 31 is a lovely, light-filled deluxe space situated at the top of its

an airy oak-panelled living room. Owner Sue Hodgson

dedicating an entire afternoon to.

Rooms from £138 a night;

was runner-up in the AA Friendliest Landlady of the Year awards in 2008.

Should you want an evening meal, her husband Rick, who once had Marco Pierre White under his tutelage, will ask about your food preferences when you book and create a menu accordingly. Guests share the big oak table in the dining room, which may be disconcerting at first, but is

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beautiful chapel, among others, while relating some of the scurrilous events that occurred duringthe city's development.

The Oxford University Natural History Museum and Pitt Rivers Museum, with its totem poles and shrunken heads, are worth

Overlooking a dramatic gorge and flanked by the ruins of a 14th-century castle, Gallon House is designed in an 1830s Bavarian style, with traditional cosy rooms and

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The hotel offers complimentary walking tours around Oxford.

Resident art expert Isabella Underhill will usheryou through the gothic glories of Keble College and Wadham's

The Rookery, London Step back in time in this intimate, painstakingly restored hotel, hidden in the heart of the capital.

The entrance, in an insignificant alleyway in bustling Clerkenwell, is discreet and easily missed. Only a small sign announces your arrival at the right place, and you have to ring to be allowed in.

Once inside, though, the 33-bedroom 18thcentury building charms guests with its intimacy, astonishing period detail,

Wander the pretty streets of Knaresborough or, if the weather and your mood concur, rent a boat on the river and cross to Mother Shipton's Cave, reputedly the birthplace of the 16th-century soothsayer. The nearby Petrifying Well contains objects from top hats to teddy bears that have been left to turn to stone under mineral-rich waters. The spa town of Harrogate is ten minutes away by train.

Rooms from £85 a night;

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dark woods, Edwardian bathing machine, log fires and plush drapes. It feels as though it's been here for ever, but until recently it was a roofless wreck previously used as a meat-hanging warehouse.

Many rooms have spectacular views, but the Rook's Nest suite has a retractable

roof and overlooks St Paul's Cathedral.

Discover more about Clerkenwell by going on an Urban Gentrytour, led by artists and designers, which takes in everything from architecture to East End street markets.

Rooms from £149 a night; rookeryhotel.com

Gilpin Lodge, near Windermere, Cumbria Set amid the mountains of the Lake District, Gilpin Lodge is a shining example of one of the most successful family-owned-and-run hotels in the UK. From its modest beginnings as a five-bedroom house, it has over the past 22 years been slowly and lovingly transformed by Christine and John Cunliffe—and, more recently, by their son Barney and his wife Zoe. It marries the traditional country-hotel look of sofas, freshly cut flowers and antiques with modern twists such as Swedish Seventies-style garden suites and a new bar with a walk-in wine cellar. The blending of styles is partly due to the Cunliffes always adding, refurbishing and improving.

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under-sevens. Personal touches abound, from old photos of the family and house to cuddly toys that guests leave outside their room as "Do Not Disturb" signs.

Gilpin Lodge has 20 acres of garden, woodland and meadow.

The list of activities could keep guests busy for weeks and includes mountain biking, sailing, fly-fishing and horse riding.

Rooms from £78o a night; gilpinlodge.co.uk

The Queensberry Hotel, Bath "Not whatyou might expect" is this hotel's motto and it's apposite. While there are few establishments I can think of that would be brave enough to have a Union Jack carpet

or British Bulldog cushions in the bar, the Queensberry pulls off both with a cheeky sense of humour and trademark quirky style.

The eccentricity is inspired bythe 9th Marquess of Queensberry (his family commissioned the row of Georgian terraces in which the hotel is found), famous for his boxing rules. You will see his dandyish image around the hotel, drawn from Vanity Fair, with atop hat, boxingglove in one hand and umbrella in the other.

The hotel has a homely, higgledypiggledy layout, with a purplevelvet-furnished lounge next to the wacky Old Q Bar and a restaurant with quiet jazz and abstract paintings by Cornish artist Monica Longhorn.

Set amid the historical splendours of Bath, with its Roman spa, this is Queensberry rules: the perfect place for a city break. eccentric charm with Rooms from £125 a night; a dash of patriotism thequeensberry.co.uk

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The George of Stamford,

a splendid sirloin of beef, another old-fashioned

Lincoinshire This is the kind of hotel that you almost cannot believe still exists. It's not boutique nor achingly chic. Indeed, the decor can only be described as cheeringly traditional. But who cares? As soon as you arrive, the staff coddle you and display reassuring professionalism. This is how hotels used to be.

The restaurants are pretension-free, but the spring lamb I had was exceptional.

The Oak Room does a trolley featuring

The Stapleton Arms, Buckhorn Weston, Dorset Despite being only 15 minutes from the A303, the village of Buckhorn Weston feels about as remote as you can get in southern England.

Indeed, as you head blithely in the wrong direction down single-track lanes, you may find yourself, like me, resolving to buy a satnav on your return. But getting lost is no hardship as you admire the hills of Blackmore Vale, backdrop to Thomas Hardy's Tess ofthe D'Urbervilles.

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concept foolishly abandoned by most hotels.

It doesn't hurt that Stamford is film-set lovely.

It was the first town to be designated a conservation area in 1967; it has numerous independent shops to visit; it also has Burghley House— a huge Elizabethan mansion with great art covering every wall and a Garden of Surprise, designed by Capability Brown, with a maze, grotto and water jets.

Rooms from £120 a night; georgehotelofstamford.com

40 foreign varieties of beer.

The food places an emphasis on local produce—Lyme Bay scallops and apple crumble with cider-brandy custard.

Decor is modern for an old country pub but sympathetic, and the restaurant's darkblue livery and candles make it very atmospheric at night. The four bedrooms have hand-sprung mattresses and Crabtree & Evelyn toiletries.

Landscape aside, local attractions include Shaftesbury, with its cobbled Gold Hill lined with thatched cottages, which featured in Ridley Scott's 1973 Hovis ad.

Rooms from £90 a night; thestapletonarms.com

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Back pain is one of Britain's biggest health concerns, with around 1.6m sufferers.

So why is the best treatment for it so rarely recommended?

BY JEROME BURNE

Eddie Pratt has had severe back pain for

decades and he's angry. Some years ago he found something that worked better than anything else for him. But it's not a well-known treatment and not many people get it.

"It's one of the best-kept secrets in backpain treatment and that's appalling," says Pratt, the head of a green products company.

"I must have tried every possible treatment —including three operations. One was so painful that it still makes me cry uncontrollably to think of it years later. The only thing 99

that really made a difference was an intensive three-week rehabilitation course."

The treatment has been around for 30 years and doesn't involve anything high-tech or unusual. Even its name is dull: functional rehabilitation. "It's an intensive form of treatment that combines well-known physical and psychological approaches," says John O'Dowd, consultant spinal surgeon at Guy's and St Thomas' Hospital Trust in London, one of only a few units in the NHS that provides it.

But the big surprise in the new back-pain guidelines put out last year by the National Institute for Clinical Excellence (Nice) was that functional rehabilitation was recommended as the best treatment available for serious back pain, rather than the widely available mechanical treatments involving drugs or surgery.

Serious pain can be very lonely; you can't gauge how well you're doing

As well as conventional

physical treatments such as physiotherapy and exercise, the approach includes cognitive behavioural therapy to help you handle your fears about back pain. It's also cheaper than other treatments and there's no risk of further damage or infection.

Pratt explains what it involves. "There were about 50 of us and we were immediately struck by the benefit of sharing our experiences. Being in serious pain can be very lonely; you don't have any way of gauging how well you're doing. Suddenly, I was being inspired by those who were worse off than me and coping brilliantly."

The programme gave Pratt and the others techniques for negotiating daily pitfalls—ways of avoiding the agonising pain that can result if you brush your teeth or get out of bed the wrong way. Each day there was also an increasing amount of exercise and physiotherapy.

"The trainers were brilliant at getting you to set goals and push yourself. You learned that you didn't have to avoid things just because they hurt." Afterwards, Pratt was able to go back to work, and for the next ten years, although

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not pain-free, he was also able to travel and play sport.

Dr Charles Pither founded the rehabilitation unit at St Thomas' and is now head of the Real Health Institute, a private company that runs a course similar to the one that benefited Pratt. "Surgery usually isn't the answer," he says, "because it involves trying to correct abnormalities that show up on a scan. But some people can have abnormalities and no pain, while others can be in agony with no visible problem. We concentrate on the psychological side."

It's similar to treating phobias, he says. "Chronic backpain patients are frightened of damaging themselves further.

We show them that it's OK to move and exercise. Once they understand how best to do it, they begin to regain control. Your attitude to pain has a big effect."

PRACTICAL The approach also helps with anxiSTEPS TO **' ety and depression. Research shows TACKLING BACK PAIN that if you're in an unhappy marriage, It's worth making a serious effort to control your back pain is likely to be more seyour pain with exercise. This is the best vere. "If you put ten people into our solution because it strengthens the muscles programme, six to seven of them will and ligaments that support the spine. get better and three to four will say they One major British trial—the Back and feel fantastic," claims Pither.

Exercise Manipulation study in 2004— Real Health has been providing a found people who took regular exercise functional rehabilitation programme (up to eight one-hour sessions over one in Holland for several years that's availor two months) had less pain than those able to everyone, but in the UK, the following standard GP care. The most company is still having discussions popular options include: with local health commissioners about Yoga Not the more intense forms, buying it in for NHS patients.

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which could make things worse. It's worth

But if functional rehabilitation has

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been around for such a long time, why is it still not widely used or known about? It may be that, while drugs have lots of promotion behind them, nondrug treatments don't have anyone spreading the word.

Another factor is the small number of NHS centres that offer it. While your GP may refer you to a physiotherapist,

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Pilates Originally developed for dancers. Strengthens the three main muscles in your trunk that surround the area in which low-back pain develops.

Alexander Technique Helps you unlearn bad posture habits and so relieves the pressure they can put on the spine.

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SIMPLE EXERCISES YOU CAN DO AT HOME When you no longer have acute pain, try these gentle exercises from health website Revolution Health, which should help you recover faster and lessen the chance of it returning. Stop the exercise if you experience any pain.

If the pain gets better when you stand or walk, try these two exercises to stretch tissues along the front of the spine and strengthen the back muscles.

1 Get onto the floor on your hands and knees; tighten your stomach muscles. Raise one leg off the floor and hold it straight out behind you: hold for five seconds, then lower your leg and switch to the other leg. Repeat eight to 12 times on each leg.

2 Lie on your stomach with your hands underyour shoulders. Push with your hands so your shoulders begin to lift off the floor. If it's comfortable, put your elbows on the floor directly underyour shoulders so you can rest in this position for several seconds.

If your pain eases when you're sitting, try these two exercises to strengthen the stomach and stretch muscles and ligaments in the back.

3 Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor; bring one knee to your chest, keeping the other foot flat on the floor. Keep your lower back pressed to the floor.

Hold for at least 15 to 30 seconds. Repeat two to four times with each leg.

4 Lie on your back with knees bent at a 90-degree angle and feet flat on the floor, about 12 inches from your buttocks. Cross arms over chest. Raiseyour shoulder blades off the floor.

Keep your head in line withyour body—don't press your chin to your chest. Hold for one or two seconds, then slowly loweryourself back down. Repeat eight to 12 times.

AVOID THESE EXERCISES: Straight-leg sit-ups; lifting both legs while lying on your back; lifting heavy weights above the waist; toe touches while standing.

it's harder to get a referral to a clinic that takes a psychological approach because there aren't many—finding somewhere that does both is a challenge. Even if you do, the week-long course is far more expensive than a few sessions of physiotherapy or something more alternative like the Alexander Technique (also approved by Nice).

Functional rehabilitation is still available on the NHS at St Thomas', but on a fairly small scale. "We treat about 300 people a year," says Dr Adnan Al-Kaisy, head of the pain management centre at St Thomas'. He reckons that, of the 1.6 million UK adults who suffer lower-back pain, around ten per cent currently benefit from functional 102

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rehabilitation, so we could do with a lot more places.

Lower-back pain is one of this country's biggest health problems, losing five million working days and costing the NHS £500 million a year. As many as 85 per cent of us are said to feel back pain at some point and six per cent visit the GP for help.

"There's something heart wrenching about those with chronic back pain," says David Murphy, head of psychological services at Imperial College in London, who's worked in pain management for 20 years. "Often they lose their job, break up with partners and become depressed. The rehabilitation approach is not a magic bullet, but it can get people functioning again. It needs a shift of attitude to make it widely available, but it should be."

The rehabilitation approach is not a magic bullet, but it can get people functioning again

)> As well as alleviating pain, functional rehabilitation has the potential to save Britain a lot of money in the longterm. So we're petitioning Health Secretary Andrew Lansley for it to be more widely available on the NHS—and we'd love your support!

If you wantyour name to be on our petition, please email theeditor@readersdigest.co.uk.

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Many congratulations to rock legend Ozzy Osbourne, who last October passed his driving test at only the nineteenth attempt. So why the delay? He fessed up to Reader's Digest: "I was always drunk, stoned or something. I remember one of the tests—I'd gone to the doctor and said, 'Doc, I'm gonna

go to the test, I'm nervous.' He said, 'Just take two of these pills.'

So I took eight or something. Then, doing a turn in the car, I passed out. When I woke up, the door was open and I noticed that the instructor had gone. He left a note saying, `Mr Osbourne, you failed your test and I strongly suggest thatyou don't drive this vehicle any further now."

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The remake of 1984 film The Karate Kid will see legions of 30-something men

queueing outside multiplexes and weeping nostalgically into their popcorn.

Inspired by the tale of a boy who learns martial arts from caretaker Mr Miyagi to overcome school bullies, a generation spent their afternoons perfecting "wax on, wax off" karate moves, perching on poles and making "Hi-Ya" noises. But it wasn't just about fighting.

The film taught character-building lessons on the importance of friendship and how discipline can help you overcome huge odds.

From The Wizard of Oz to Harry Potter, we all have favourite childhood films that inspired, amazed or made us laugh —and even influenced our future lives.

So which films bowled over our panel of five writers and comedians?

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Monty Python's Life of Brian (1979) RILHARD HERRING

I wasn't allowed to watch

Life of Brian when it came out in 1979. I was 12 and it was an "A!' certificate so I was forbidden by law— and, more importantly, by my parents.

Not a chance. Not until I was 14. I could protest as much as I wanted. We all had our cross to bear.

But, of course, the forbidden fruit only became more tempting. I made it my mission to see a film so controversial it had been banned

in Norway. Ironically enough for a Monty Python fan, Life of Brian was my Holy Grail.

Even so, by the time my 13-year-old self finally managed to sneak in to Wells cinema in Somerset, I already pretty much knew the film off by heart. I had listened to the LP over and over and had memorised the book of the script.

I could even recite sketches that hadn't made the final cut.

That didn't make it any less magical, though. Growing up in a Christian household and questioning the inconsistent things adults were telling me to believe, it was mind-blowing to see organised religion so hilariously dissected.

The film doesn't mock Christ, but the people who mould what spiritual leaders say to fit their own views. At the time, this was taboo-busting stuff.

The film is full of blisteringly funny moments that challenge closed systems of thought. My favourite is when Brian addresses the hundreds of followers he has unwittingly attracted: Brian: "You don't need to follow me. You don't need to follow anyone.

You've got to think for yourselves. You're all individuals."

Crowd (as one): "Yes, we're all individuals."

Brian: "You're all different."

Crowd (as one): "Yes, we are all different."

Lone Man (quietly): "I'm not."

This made me laugh every time .1°6

I heard it in 1980. And it still does. An eloquently made point and a beautiful, unbeatable gag.

• Richard Herring's show Christ on a Bike is at the Assembly Rooms, Edinburgh, August 5-30.

The Music Box (1932) I think I first saw this famous Laurel & Hardy film

on a rainy Sunday afternoon in front of our teninch black-and-white telly.

I laughed so hard that a bit of wee came out (I was only seven, so fair dos).

Nothing much happens plot-wise: Stan and 011ie are delivery men who have to deposit a piano at the home of one Professor von Schwarzenhoffen.

Crazy name, crazy guy, and HAL crazy house—it sits on top of an unfeasibly huge flight of steps. Cue 20 minutes of sublime physical clowning where the hapless duo proceed to crash, bang and heave their way through the professor's home.

The returning professor is so appalled by the damage that he smashes the piano with an axe—only to discover it's a surprise present from his wife.

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as she trotted up the gararen't going to work; they den for a stealthy smoke, hurt each other often; and I reclaimed my place on lie outrageously to save the sofa. their own skins.

But they never stop tryThe story tells of a ing and they always turn youngster named Billy to camera afterwards and whose eccentric, failedgive you a teary look inventor father gives him a (Stan) or a resigned sigh strange animal called a GREML (011ie) that both makes mogwai. It spawns the gremyou howl and breaks lins—evil creatures that teryour heart. rorise Billy's town. There The Music Box influfollows a dazzling parade enced me hugely. The humour springs of remorseless slapstick violence and from subtle character study blended malevolent puppets. with physical comedy. They play every My callous, juvenile mind relished moment to the max, but there's always how unsentimental Gremlins is, unlike truth—laced with a twist of pain. other Christmas movies. The titular • Meera Syal appears in Shirley Valentine beasts are hell-bent on destroying smallat the Trafalgar Studios, London, until town America, not because they've had October 30. damaged childhoods or seek revenge for some old wartime grievance, but solely for fun. To a member of the E.T. Gremlins (1984) generation, the image of Mrs Deagle,

BY HELEN ZALTSMAN the meanest woman in town, silhouetAs a child, my cultural ted against the moon as she flies to her tastes were very much death on her gremlin-tampered stairlift shaped by my two broth- was satire of the highest order. ers who were nearly twice Seeing it again last Christmas for as old as me. Hence, I saw the first time in years, my mind turned far more Dennis Potter, Monty Python to more adult concerns. Could young and cricket than was normal for a Billy ever recover from the ruination seven-year-old girl, and far fewer Dis- of his neighbourhood? Would he spend ney films. Singing princesses were his life in psychotherapy because his much weirder to me than a psoriasis- father's focus on his hopeless career covered Michael Gambon. meant he disregarded his family?

So one chilly day in 1987, when my And how would Billy's mother clean elder brother was ill and was allowed up her kitchen after despatching a to watch Gremlins on video as a treat, gremlin in the blender without putting I wanted to see it too. Mum banished the lid on? me from the living room—but as soon My boyfriend's face grew grim. "Do READER'S DIGEST • rdmag.co.uk

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we have to watch this?" he asked sadly.

"It's horrible."

He's right. It is horrible. Children are horrible. Without blinking an eye they can stomach fairy stories in which people's eyes are pecked out and their feet cut off. Like many such children's classics, Gremlins is dark, disturbing and has a high body count.

But it's also cathartic—and much less unpleasant than High School Musical.

ear on the bus to school and sang hymns deliberately out of tune in assembly. I was the shy Hillary who did her homework for her.

But Beaches had warned me that the path of true BF love never runs smoothly. As young adults, CC (Bette Midler), a poor but vivacious actress, and Hillary (Barbara Hershey), an intelligent, sensible lawyer, begin to resent each other. Like Hillary, I was jealous of my BF's showbiz career. She • Helen Zaltsman and Oily Mann's weekly was cast as the lead in the school propodcast Answer Me This is available on duction of Jane Eyre and got to wear iTunes. a ball gown. I had one line and had to a beard.

Beaches (1988) wear And Jenny failed to heed Beaches'

BY CATHERINE most important BF lesson: never go SHEPHERD out with-the same boy. CC steals HilI was sent to a girls' school lary's beau John and years of estrangeaged 12, and learned that ment follow. My BF kissed a boy I liked in order to survive, it was essential to at Alton Towers. Admittedly, he hadn't have a Best Friend. Being teenage BFs shown me any interest; but I felt I had is very much like a romantic relation- "bagsied" him somehow by liking him. ship—it's wonderful and horrific in Suddenly, there was distance between equal measure. Thankfully, that sum- us. Our lifelong friendship appeared mer, I had watched girlie buddy movie to be over, even though it was only Beaches at a sleepover and it prepared the Easter holidays.

But Beaches reassured me for the highs and lows. me that, like all good In the film, brassy child GIl FR malvo,\ 1-1FR`o'L romances, BF love consinger CC Bloom meets 111 eV; quers all It may take an preppy Hillary at an Atunwanted pregnancy and lantic City resort one Hillary's premature death summer holiday. They are (cue Bette singing "Wind opposites who attract and Beneath My Wings") stay in touch throughout v• —but in the end, true their teenage years. friendship survives.

I realised to my delight It was a bit more lowthat my BF and I, too, comA(_ V-1 LS key than that with Jenny pleted each other. Jenny was (I recently accepted her cool, had pierced her own

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friend request on Facebook), but we never really stopped caring.

people: gay assassins, judo-trained killers in bikinis called Bambi and • Catherine Shepherd appears in the new Thumper, an eccentric millionaire, beauBBC1 series of Harry and Paul this autumn. tiful women who glittered with jewellery and, of course, Sean Connery.

He appeared to be wearing evening Diamonds Are dress throughout, even in the scene Forever (1971) where he drives a moon tractor through the desert (I went straight home and DAVID QUANTICK bought the Corgi Moon Tractor. It had I remember it like it was a little James Bond in the driving seat, yesterday: walking down wearing a tuxedo). a street in St Ives, CornIt taught me that you could be funny wall, the air and dangerous, exciting smelling of fish and salt, and daft. It may not seem Sean C .James past a cinema that was like a film whose lessons 'Diamonds vibrating with the theme can be applied to daily song to Diamonds Are Forlife, although I became a ever. It seemed as if a giant comedy writer instead of Shirley Bassey was trapped a solicitor because it gave in the cinema and was me less money but more trying to escape using the absurdness. And now I power of her voice. I had go to ceremonies wearing to see the film. I was nine a tuxedo, surrounded by and it was my first Bond. glamorous ladies.

I don't think I underI don't know any of stood the plot (to be honthem, but that's not the est, when the film has been on TV since, point. I owe it all to the daft majesty I still haven't understood it), but I did of Diamonds Are Forever. like the film.

• David Quantick's The Dangerous Book It was just an endless parade of crazy For Middle Aged Men (Arrow) is out now. .40011.1041.-.

Storking the world STORK MARGARIN E

Such This month sees the 90th birthday of delicious flavo ur_ so nourishing. margarine giant Stork—and it's still as too! ,4 1 ik popular as ever. Last year 19,148,539kg of Stork tubs were sold. This is equivalent to 2,148,539 Stork birds or 128,421,198 pounds of Victoria sponge. The amount of marg involved could fill over four Big Bens.

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A Reader's Story "I was sure I

was going to die" 39, and their children Jean Jacques, four, and Louis, two, had set off from the Isle of Wight to sail round the world in their 46-foot catamaran Pegasus. I was on board to film happens when them crossing the Bay of Biscay for dinner turns out to be a Channel 4 documentary, to be screened this autumn. a deadly catch I was slightly alarmed when Jason mentioned that he didn't really know It was four in the morning, in the how to sail a catamaran, having sailed middle of the South Pacific, when I realised I might be dead by midday. mono-hulls all his life. Amanda, not As a TV producer, I've rounded Cape such an enthusiastic sailor, rolled her eyes. Jason, gung-ho as Horn with explorer ever, said, "If we turn Sir Ranulph Fiennes, the boat over, we can the BBC's John survive and it'll be an Simpson and sailor Sir experience for the Robin Knox-Johnston; kids." He told Amanda skied the 110-mile that a family had done Haute Route between that and survived for France and Switzerland; two months before chased avalanches being washed up in in New Zealand; New Zealand. lived with tribes in Mongolia...and now I left them in Spain to here I was, about to continue across the die because I'd eaten Atlantic, rejoining the wrong fish. them four months later Nine months before, when they sailed in September 2008, through the Panama Canal. My next Jason Lawrence, a 42-year-old trip to meet them took me to the entrepreneur, his wife Amanda, 110

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A hidden danger lurked in the South Pacific's idyllic waters

, . sparsely populated Marquesas Islands 3 in the South Pacific, -•!', After a 40-hour journey from London, I checked into a hotel on Hiva Oa island—where the painter Paul Gauguin died in 1903—to await their arrival after three weeks crossing the Pacific. The children were in high spirits, desperate to run around on a beach.

They had one problem: the fridge was broken and the fish they caught didn't stay fresh in the 40-degree heat. Atuona, the island's capital, isn't a hub of activity: a couple of restaurants, a petrol station and a fridge-repair man, who refused to board their boat because he suffered from sea-sickness. After a ten-day wait for a replacement

compressor belt to be sent from Australia, we set off to explore the islands.

After a few hours we pulled into a beautiful bay on the island of Nuku Hiva.

Jason went off in the dinghy to catch a lobster for lunch and three red snapper for dinner, while Amanda and the boys collected fresh limes, grapefruit and mangoes from the trees along the beach. "This is just what life should be like," said Jason, as we ate the lobster.

Later, Amanda, a professional chef for GMTV, gutted the snapper, cooked them in the galley and served them with lettuce and limes. Louis had gone to bed exhausted and Jean Jacques was grouchy, so he only ate a small piece of fish and some bread.

We had a couple of beers on deck

death." Isolated outbreaks reported a 20 per cent death rate, although others say it's less.

Initial nausea is usually I was tired and happy, but accompanied by chronic couldn't sleep. My fingers neurological illness that and legs tingled, my mouth was numb, my teeth felt can last for months—up to "When 20 years in extreme cases— as if they were falling out.

I closed with poison remaining in I was hallucinating, drifting in and out of consciousness. my eyes the body for 25 years. It can The wind was building to also cause psychiatric and I felt dermatological disorders.

30 knots; the sea rolled, the masts juddered. giddy and Volume for volume, it's times more potent When I closed my eyes saw fish 1,000 than arsenic and among the I felt giddy and saw fish scales deadliest poisons known. scales floating in front of We learned—too late me. I didn't realise Jason floating —that there are ways of and Amanda were having in front determining if a fish is the same problems until Jason entered my cabin at of me" contaminated: flies won't land on it, cats won't touch 4am and asked, 'Are you it, and a silver coin placed under awake? You need to see this." I went the scales turns black. into the boat's cockpit. On the computer screen was a picture from The nearest hospital was either a Grant's Guide to Fishes of what we'd six-hour donkey ride over difficult eaten with the warning: "DO NOT EAT. DANGER OF DEATH." Amanda terrain or sailing against the increasingly strong wind for 12 hours was white, fear etched on her face to a hospital in Hiva Oa. A local and a bucket on the floor into which doctor told us to get there as soon as she'd vomited several times. possible, adding ominously, "There's We'd mistaken our red snapper no known effective treatment." He "catch of the day" for paddletail, told us to take lots of aspirin and which looks the same but carries antihistamine, and drink water. We ciguatera, a deadly poison endemic discovered, unhelpfully, that there's to tropical reef fish. an ancient Cuban remedy—a guanaI read on hurriedly, noting our bana juice enema. symptoms—nausea, hallucination.

We phoned NHS Direct for a It continued: "Seek medical attention second opinion. They'd never heard immediately. This will be followed by fits, spasms, coma and possible of ciguatera, but advised us to put before retiring for the night, reflecting that life couldn't be better.

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out a distress call; not much help as there was no one within range. Jason continued to research and found an account of a restaurant that served shark stew containing ciguatera to 500 people. One hundred died.

The wind was blowing too strongly for us to leave—not that it made much difference. As the sun came up, we couldn't move. Luckily, the children hadn't eaten enough to be affected; they played with their toys, leaving the cabin in a mess. Amanda's face and lips swelled alarmingly, while Jason vomited several times.

For two long days we were immobile, eating dry crackers, drinking water, sometimes hoping we'd fall asleep long enough not to wake. Amanda wailed, "This

is not the time to ask your mum to pop over and help with the kids."

After four days we began to feel better and sailed to another bay

where we found a restaurant. We had a beer, but Jason immediately vomited and had hallucinations and tingly fingers. It's common to suffer relapses after consuming nuts, coffee, alcohol, animal protein foods or fish. Amanda was still unwell, so she drank water with brown sugar, a local remedy.

As for me, I left for London the next day. I've never eaten fish since. » Tell us a personal story of your own: touching, inspiring or about an exceptional event in your life. It could earn you £100.

See page 6 for details.

Taking centre stage Whitney Houston's vocal problems at London's 02 Arena this year are a reminder that concert-goers looking for a tuneful evening occasionally get more (or less) than they bargained for: Bob Dylan, Arizona, 1980 Bob was deep into his Biblically inspired phase, but the crowd wanted to hear the hits instead. "If you want rock 'n' roll, you can go see Kiss instead and rock 'n' roll all the way down to the pit!" snarled the 60s legend.

Fiona Apple, New York, 2000 Sound problems led the frustrated popster to scream, "This song is dead! Just stop it! This is a nightmare!" before warning the assembled press, "If there's any critic here who gives me a bad review because of this, I'll killyou."

George Jones, Nashville, 1979 "My friend Deedoodle the Duck is going to take over the show," announced the troubled country singer, "because Deedoodle can do what George Jones can't." He then proceeded to sing in a Donald Duck voice.

John Mayer, London, 2010 The stud-like guitarist seemed in a flighty mood.

"I could make it happen with any of you ladies tonight," he cooed. "Someone's getting preggers. It only takes nine months and eight hours from now."

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IF EVER THERE WAS A CASE OF BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR, THIS IS IT. But what if old age wasn't about wheelchairs and bed baths? What ifyou were fit enough for tennis and smart enough for bridge until your nineties and beyond?

It could beyou, even if you missed out on the longevity gene. "Twice as many people over 85 live independently, compared with the 1970s," says gerontologist Professor Kay-Tee Khaw of Cambridge University.

It doesn't take much to improveyour chances of a birthday card from the Queen.

Khaw's study of 30,000 people age 40-79 found that four simple behaviours—drinking a moderate amount of alcohol, gettingyour five a day, not smoking or being inactive—knocks 14years off your age. And that's just for starters.

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Here, based on the latest research, is the experts' prescription for the elixir of youth.

1. Give up salt. Wave bye-bye to salted peanuts, ready-meals and bacon. Studies in 52 centres worldwide show that salt makes blood pressure zoom, a major cause of stroke.

2. Eat plants. In Khaw's study, people with more vitamin C in their blood (a sign of high fruit and veg intake) had better lungs, lower blood pressure, cholesterol and blood glucose, and were less likely to suffer heart attacks.

3. Stand rather than sit. "People who stand at work or cycle for half an hour a day cut their risk of dying in the next ten years by 20 per cent," says Khaw.

4. Enjoy the sunshine (but don't burn). It increases bone-protecting vitamin D. As good weather's rare in Britain (older Brits particularly suffer from low vitamin D levels), try taking a supplement-2.5mg a day increased levels in over-65s to that of 20-year-olds, cutting the risk of broken bones by 22 per cent.

5. Draw your pension. Once you get to 65, women can bank on another 20 years (17 for men).

6. Find life meaningful and be resilient when it's not. It can add eightyears to your life.

7. Join the awkward squad. Insist on gettingyour own way, be sceptical and you too could see your second century, says US gerontologist Leonard Poen—though you may not have too many friends when you get there.

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• Google Maps (pre-installed on some phones, go to m.google.com/maps for others). Gives directions, traffic news and even tells you where you are if you get lost. > READER'S DIGEST

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...party like a grown-up LEAVE KINGS OF LEON TO THE KIDS and find a festival for you. There are half a dozen events from Richmond to Liverpool this month—and unlike rock fests, they won't cost you a penny. In London, travel to South America for free at the Carnaval de Pueblo or to India at the Mela Festival, Ealing. Or go back in time at Dunfermline's (Robert the) Bruce Festival, which celebrates the hero with jousting and feasts.

For bonkers British events, catch a spot of bog snorkelling in Wales or football in the river at Bourton-on-the-Water.

After that, relax in front of a film on BT Vision's Big Day Out (August 30, countrywide)—check free-events.co.uk.

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• Wi-Fi Finder (iPhone and iPod Touch). Finds free Wi-Fi hotspots in 140 countries.

• ATM Hunter (iPhone and BlackBerry, mastercard.com on your PC). Findsyour nearest cashpoint, worldwide.

• 0870 (iPhone and Android, or go to saynoto0870.com). Converts all 08 numbers to cheapergeographic ones.

• VoucherCloud (iPhone or go to vouchercloud.com). Sends you the latest discounts, which you claim by showingyour handset, with no need to print. "It can even tell you the nearest deals—great if you want a cheap lunch," says technology expert Zara Rabinowicz of almostzara.com.

114171W T I KNOW A BANK WHEREON THE WILD THYME BLOWS—but Titania wouldn't have stayed there long, because it grows on anthills. "Ants are very fond of thyme—they grow it in their gardens," explains Natural England's Duncan Mackay, author of Eat Wild (£8.95). You can see why, because it's deliciously piquant. Grab a handful of wild garlic too and you need never patronise the herb stand at Tesco again.

Now is a great time to feast for free, so head for the woods and hedgerows.

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this month. Better still, go on a guided walk. His rainbow selection includes the white giant puffball ("as big as a sheep—just slice and dip in egg and breadcrumbs"), the amethyst deceiver, the coal-dark charcoal burner, the fennel-like aniseed toadstool plus two disturbingly meaty fungi.

Look for the dark-red beefsteak fungus which drips "blood', and the golden chicken-of-the-woods, which blooms on oak trees (take care—it can make you feel dizzy if you're sensitive to it). And check the stem when gathering chanterelles and field

mushrooms; a yellow streak means it's a poisonous yellow stainer.

First-time foragers might prefer to stick to recognisable foods.

Blackberries, elderberries, rosehips and crab apples are everywhere, but you'll also find bilberries hidden under the plants' leaves.

And at the beach, gather samphire and sea lettuce, and barbecue limpets.

Gourmet cooks should visit eatweeds.co.uk, where nutritionist Marion Turnbull works magic with wild food. Her dishes include meadowsweet sorbet and wild garlic focaccia. "I forage and eat wild plants every day—it's a joyous way to reconnect with nature," says Robin Harford, who runs the site (and foraging courses in East Devon).

And it nourishes both mind and body.

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FRAN HALSALL PHOT OGRAPHY

THAT'S A LOVELY PICTURE OF THE CHILDREN, AND THOSE ROSES LOOK A TREAT. It's just a shame that the landscapes are so ho-hum. The view was glorious, or you wouldn't have stopped to snap. But now you're hard pushed to tell one misty valley from another. So what went wrong?

Don't blame it on your camera. The photo's bland because there's no focal point, says award-winning photographer Fran Halsall, whose book Light and Shadow (£18.99) is full of tips to make the countryside come alive. "You need to create a 3D effect from a 2D image, so look for strong shapes, a clear arrangement and connections between elements. A pile of rocks on a distant hill looks dramatic. A view of the middle distance looks flat," she says.

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beginning, a middle, and an end—so start where you are, not halfway into the story.

A path leading away from you or a nearby tree gives context. And pick your time; big vistas look better side-lit, which means shooting early or just before sunset when the play of light and shade gives contrast.

Buildings have crisper lines and can take the harsh light of midday.

As sunshine isn't a major problem in the UK, Fran has plenty of tips for dull days. They're perfect for taking detail shots or pictures of water, which reflects the available light and looks smoother given a long exposure time. And don't cut out the sky, which is at its most magnificent when the weather is lairy.

"The way clouds and light interact intensifies the image," says Fran, and adds the extra dimension you need.

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...go on a home safari AFRICA CAN WAIT. There's plenty of spectacular

wildlife in the UK,from beavers in Argyll, red squirrels on Brownsea Island, Dorset, and fish-eating raft spiders in Shropshire to our very own Jaws off Lizard Point— a top shark-watching hotspot.

Satisfying as it is to spot a rare species, seeing any creature in the wild is heart-lifting. "There's nothing more exciting than glimpsing a deer or a fox skulking in the woods," says Kate Humble, president of the RSPB, whose wildlife sanctuaries aren't just for birds. Many

What your hotel receptionist won't tell you The true cost of your room is £10 a day. Clean sheets and fresh towels come to £3.50, newspaper £1, toiletries £2.50, cleaning products £1, wear and tear and theft (thanks to you, dear guest), £2.

Tip the front desk.

We can bend the rules to get you checked in early or let you leave late, upgrade

are free—and so are the activities. The RSPB's Lake Vyrnwy in Wales has free guided walks, and Saltholme near Middlesbrough offers a walled garden and adventure playground along with a glimpse of the great-crested grebe.

You'll have to actively seek out most wildlife, though if you climb the North Downs in Surrey this month, clouds of blue butterflies will rise atyour feet. Midday is the best time to see insects, but twilight is when mammals emerge. Move quietly and hide behind rocks and trees. That won't work if you wear a fluorescent parka, so stick to neutrals, says the National Trust. Even better, make sure they're in need of a wash—animals can sniff washing powder a mile away.

Take binoculars so you can see small creatures, but listen as well as look. Above all, think like an animal. Find where they drink, shelter and bask, and there they'll be.

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you to a suite and knock the Wi-Fi charge off your bill.

Give us enough to split with the chambermaid and we'll even rent rooms by the hour for romantic liaisons.

While you're about it, tip the room maids. You wouldn't believe what they have to clear up. But put the tip under the pillow so the porter doesn't take it.

And here's a tip for you: wash the glasses in your room. The maids just run them under the tap and give them a squirt of glass

polish in almost every hotel. If you're really unlucky and the wash basin is too shallow, they'll rinse the coffee pot in the loo—so give that a going over too.

We know you take the toiletries and we sometimes shut our eyes when

single business travellers who don't stay long enough to run up a big bill.

Choose a corner room if you want more space.

Enjoy the chocolate on Please check out by 11am. We ask you to, but

your pillow. It's the best

as long as you're gone by 1 pm, we won't charge for an extra night.

pricey breakfast only costs us £2 and we get away with charging top dollar for drinks by offering canapes.

But at £3.50 for two, those truffles are the real deal.

the towels disappear. But please don't repack the Kit

We're rarely full on Sunday night. If you ask nicely and you've booked

Kat and put it back in the minibar. We're onto that.

for several days, we might even throw it in for free.

I'm terribly sorry, the

Here's how to get the best rate. See what the

last guest was too ill to move. She wasn't, butyour room's not ready and I'm desperate to fob you off.

The bar makes more than you think. If I pour you a single when you order a double, the staff will have a couple of bottles of vodka to share at the end of the night. And we love a wedding. The father of the bride isn't going to count the empties, is he?

We overbook by 20 per cent. But don't worry if you're on holiday. We're most likely to bump IMAGE BROKER/ALAMY; ALESSANDRO CHIARINI/ALAMY

afternoon (when it's quiet), and ask us for our best price. We won't have to pay the website, so you could save 20 per cent.

best deal is online, then call late morning or early

bargain in the hotel. That

Of course we change the sheets, but we rarely touch the blankets. If they smell musty, order extra from housekeeping; they're properly stored so they'll be cleaner. But beware of asking for an extra pillow. It's slang for prostitute.

Bed bugs are the new plague. Strip the bed and check the mattress for blood spots. Or switch off the light, thump the mattress, then flick the light again to catch them on the run. If you spot any, leave, or you'll take them home them with you.

If you do nothing else, check that the fire doors aren't locked.

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Here's how to get better results from your sessions, keep your motivation high—and make that membership pay for itself! >> Avoid the mirrors. In a study by McMaster University in Canada, women felt less calm and more tired after working out in front of their reflections. Some gyms now have "reflection-free zones" —worth a whisper in your gym manager's ear. >> Ask the experts. If you see someone lifting heavier weights or using a different technique, don't just copythem—you could injureyourself.

Ask them what they're doing and check whether it would work foryou. >> Warm up specifically. Cycling for ten minutes isn't going to prepare you for an upper-body workout.

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at 30-60 per cent of your optimum pace. >> Invent a competition with the person next to

you. They're using the cross-trainer at level ten and you're only on level five?

Up your game! You'll push yourself harder and have somethingto focus on. >> Don't confuse your brain with your body. Long day at work? Skippingthe gym for an early night could be a bad move. Your brain may be beat, but your body's probably raring to go. Hit the gym and you'll de-stress and clearyour head. >> Use free weights. Yes, machines are easier, but they have their downsides. Most are designed for the male body (yes, really!), so anyone smaller may have trouble; and free weights mean that you can work both sides of your body separately and target different muscle groups. >> Remember why you're there. Go to the gym often enough and it becomes more of a social READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST '10

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event; you chat to other members between reps, hit the bar afterwards... you're having a nice time, but how much work areyou doing? Check your focus every few weeks. >> Spritz up with a few essential oils. Mix rosemary with water and sprayyour gym kit just beforeyou begin: it enhances energy. > Time your rests. If you want to be able to move the next day, a rest between reps is necessary. But don't spend rests gazing into the distance. If you rest for too long,your body won't reap any benefits; too short and your muscles won't recover.

Speak to a trainer and ask what the right time frame is. >> Slow down. Not the most obvious advice, but research shows that people who lifted weights more slowly (at least 14 seconds per rep) gained more strength than those who worked at seven seconds per rep, partly because it stops you using momentum

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Fast fact A US study found that 75 per cent of adverts between kids' TV programmes were for foods high in fat and sugar.

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5 steps to stronger arms MAKE BREAD instead of buying it.

The kneading action is a good arm and shoulder workout.

Plus, homemade always tastes better than bought!

SKIP THE WEEDKILLER. Once a week, get down on your hands and knees and rip those weeds out. It'll build arm, shoulder and back strength, and theyankingwill build extra arm strength. Just remember to alternate hands.

EAT STEAK on the nights you work out. Research from the University of Wollongong, Australia, found that people who did weightlifting exercises and whose diet included 700g of red meat per week gained more muscle than people who ate just 350g.

Red meat contains amino acids, which build muscle.

TRY ISOMETRIC EXERCISES. You do these by pushing against something that doesn't move, like a wall. Pressyour hands together as hard as you can for five seconds at a time whileyou watch TV, or stand 12 inches from a wall, legs apart, and push against it.

CURL YOUR SHOPPING. Carry one bag in each hand, and asyou walkfrom car to kitchen, lift your hands towards your shoulders, keepingyour elbows close toyour sides.

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Doctor on the Ward Sometimes science can't explain everything, says Max Pemberton

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nurses looking after Mr Simcock. He's come in to A&E with pneumonia, and he has to be admitted. "He

she'd probably been buried a week, when I saw her," Mr Simcock says, as if it were the most normal thing in the world.

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nag, so I suppose she feels she needs to keep her eye on me," he laughs.

Surprisingly, he doesn't find this unsettling, but rather a comfort. "It's nice

"She'd probably been buried a week when seventies, and it's perfectly I saw her," he says understandable that he's

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says he's got to get back to see his wife," explains Andy.

Mr Simcock is in his late

anxious about leaving his wife alone. Perhaps she's

that she visits him most evenings, just as he's

bedbound, I imagine, or can't see well. "Seems reasonable to me," I say, and leaf through the directory for Social Services' phone number.

Andy looks at me directly: "Max, she died six months ago,"

dropping off to sleep.

Sometimes they talk, and other times they

he says, starkly. "Oh," I say slowly as Andy hands me Mr Simcock's notes.

Mr Simcock was married to his wife for nearly 50 years.

When she died suddenly, he didn't know what to do with himself. "And then,

don't. "She was always a bit of a

to know she's still there for me," he says.

Post-bereavement hallucinations (where people see their dead loved ones) are a surprisingly common response to grief.

It's wish-fulfilment—the brain's way of giving the bereaved person what they so desperately want.

Mr Simcock is worried that if he stays in hospital he won't see her. But I can't let him leave, so I change tack.

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The kidneys "That's true," he says, slowly. "And if I'm honest, it would be nice to get away from the old battleaxe for a bit. Over 5o years, and no time off for bad behaviour," he says with a chortle.

With that settled, he's admitted to a medical ward and I make arrangements for him to be followed up by the psychologists.

The night shift finally comes to an end, and !think of Mr Simcock and his wife as I walk home. Medicine attempts to explain things as a set of biochemical pathways and pathological

Kidneys are much more than an accompaniment to steak in a pie—they're amazingly complex organs.

First things first The kidneys are most famous for filtering the

complex than that.

Mr Simcock's visions may well be easily explained by neurochemical interactions; but at that moment, I could only see them as a touching testament to the love he has for his wife.

blood. Each one has about a million tiny units called nephrons that act as filters, allowing waste products and excess water in the blood to be excreted as urine, while keeping cells and proteins in the bloodstream. Cleverly, as the blood is filtered, the nephrons can return to the blood any necessary chemicals that leak out.

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They also control the amount of sodium and potassium salts—or "electrolytes"—present in

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Under pressure A little-known function of the kidneys is their role in controlling blood pressure.

They do this by secreting hormones that control the amount of fluid present in the blood, which affects the amount of pressure on the blood vessels.

If all that wasn't enough The kidneys also secrete a hormone (erythropoietin) that tells the bone marrow to make more blood cells, and another hormone (calcitriol) that makes the bowels absorb calcium.

If things go wrong...

Damage to the kidneys (through infection, dehydration or high blood pressure) results in chronic renal failure. Without them, waste products quickly build up to toxic levels, so artificial filtering of the blood has to be considered —kidney dialysis. But luckily, having two kidneys means they can still function with a degree of damage.

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How can you treat it?

1. Anti-inflammatories are used to prevent the clogging of hair follicles, either as a cream or orally. The most common oral treatment is isotrenoin, better known as Accutane.

2. Newer drugs, such as clindamycin, plus a peeling agent (benzoyl peroxide) can hit acne doubly hard. Experts suggest using the benzoyl on

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3. Photodynamic therapy uses light treatment combined with a photosensitising agent called 5-aminolevulinic acid. As it's anti-inflammatory, it's most effective on mild acne. Most dermatologists offer this treatment—check privatehealth.co.uk for details.

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On reflection Jan Masters extols the virtues of time spent at the dressing table

stressed, a psychologist friend suggested devotingtime every day to "mindfully" cleansing my face at the dressing table.

It sounds superficial, but there's something about the ritual that soothes, reconnecting me to my physical self.

When I was a child, my mother's dressing table was painted a faded French antique pistachio green, and was home to a beautiful bottle of Fidji by Guy Laroche and glass dishes full of earrings.

My friend's big sister's dressing table was even more tantalising, with covetables such as Aqua Manda perfume, purple

Top make-up artist Lee Pycroft recounts organising a beauty day for carers, some of whom were depressed: "As their hair was styled and their make-up done, their whole body language changed. The simple ritual

eyeshadows, patchouli oil, and cherry-flavoured lip gloss—the epitome of all that was exotic!

But only recently did I fall back in love with the dressingtable. Or, rather, the role it could play in lifting my mood. When I was

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of applying make-up sends a message that you're worth taking care of."

Doing our pampering at a dressing table can also bring a dash of old-style glamour back into our lives.

Many of us have long since transferred our toilette to the bathroom—but lately there's been renewed interest in dressing-table elegance. For Heal's department store's bicentenary this year, designer Johnny Egg has created a dressing table called Vanity; or for real luxury, Claridge's offers the Dior Dressing Table service!

The late, great Mr Shu Uemura, Japanese cosmetics giant, once said that takingtime to look in the mirror helps you reflect on your life and

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hat-hair? Here's how to prevent it...

1. Buy a hat that's the right size— sounds obvious, but if a hat's too tight, it can create dips in your hair and indentations on your forehead.

2. Lightweight hats tend to be more forgiving on your style.

3. Avoid a fringe kink by sweeping it to one side, or back completely, before putting on your hat.

4. Long locks? Don't plonk your hat down, leaving two curtains of hair—the band tends to leave a tramline around your head. Instead, pull hair back or to the side; asyou put your hat on, pull a few strands free. It looks more stylish, too.

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enables you to prepare for the day ahead. But, of course, you can always just lovingly layyour own dressing table with your fave beauty products and simply powder your nose!

Hats are vital to your sunprotection armoury. But how often haveyou removed them only to reveal

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• Specialist dentists Susan Tanner and Andrew Dawood have introduced the first British professional dental brand—a new tooth-cleansing range featuring flavours from essential oil extracts including English Peppermint, Sicilian Lemon, Brazilian Lime and Garden Mint (£3.99 each, Boots). Forshort films on tooth care, check out their website deliciousteeth.com.

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How to cut your Now that the summer holiday season is finally upon us, check out these top tips for makingyour money go further.

Car hire Planning to hire a car? It's almost always cheaper to book it before you leave. Check out cheap car-hire websites such as holidayautos.co.uk, carrentals.co.uk and expedia.co.uk.

It's also important to think about insurance.

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When you hire a car, you'll usually be sold basic insurance known as "collision damage waiver",

your car-hire company.

Websites such as Carhireexcess.com offer cover from as little as

but this will carry a hefty excess (the amount of moneyyou'll have to pay if you have an accident before your insurer steps in to coveryour claim).

You'll be much better off purchasing"excess

£2 or £3 a day—compared with around El 0 for car-hire companies.

insurance". And remember, it's cheaper to buy this type of insurance in advance, as opposed to buying from

Currency Always order your currency in advance. Exchange rates, fees and charges vary widely, so it's important you giveyourself time to shop around for a good deal. Check out online READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST ',o

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Remember the golden rule: never buy currency at the airport. And watch

like parking4less.co.uk, airport-parking.co.uk and APH.com to compare prices. It's also worth looking for private parking

out for companies that claim to be "commissionfree"—they may offer a poor exchange rate to make their money back.

Credit and debit cards If you plan to use your credit or debit card abroad watch out for extra charges such as foreign currency loading fees, cash withdrawal charges (for both debit and credit cards) and higher interest charges.

It pays to be savvy and apply for a credit card that waives these rates before you go away. The Santander Zero credit card and the Post Office credit card are good choices: while most cards load a flat fee of around 2.75 per cent onto the exchange rate—makingyour £100 spend actually cost you £102.75—kinder cards such as these two don't.

Airport parking Airport parking can be extortionate, especially if you turn up on the day and don't book in advance.

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facilities near the airport.

And be aware that if you're late collectingyour car—even if it's only by a few minutes—the penalty charges can be crippling. At Heathrow airport, for example, if you run into another 24-hour period

FIVE REASONS your travel insurance might not pay out

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Icelandic volcanic eruptions, for example.

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you'll be liable for an additional day's charge. And that can be as much as £16.30 for long-stay parking.

Calling from abroad If you plan to useyour mobile phone abroad, watch out for expensive roaming charges.

Check your rates with your provider before you go, and ask what add-ons or bundlesyour mobile phone company offers. Bear in mind that you can't normally use your inclusive minutes and texts allowance when out of the country.

One moneysaving tip: it's worth getting a local SIM card if you'll be making lots of calls to numbers within the country.

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Millions of consumers may be wasting hundreds of pounds every year paying for current accounts with "free" extras they never use.

Known as "packaged accounts", this type of bank account gives customers a handful of benefits—such as travel insurance or breakdown cover—in return for a monthly fee of anything between £5 and £25.

However, according to Which?, these accounts are useless, and simply not worth paying for.

So, are packaged accounts a rip-off? The key thing to remember is not to fall for clever sales jargon. It's often easy to be tempted by attractive extras and freebies, but no matter how much banks proclaim the benefits of a packaged account, if you never use them they aren't worth a penny.

Jo Ganly, a spokesperson for uSwitch, warns: "Very often people end up using only one or two benefits,which they could probably buy more cheaply as standalone products elsewhere. With so many products offering little or no value, plus many that cross over or duplicate others, the old saying 'buyer beware' still applies."

Take time to ensure the account has the right mix of benefits that suit you. Also, checkyou're not payingfor productsyou already have—these days many homeinsurance policies cover mobile phones, for example, so you may not need extra cover.

It's also important to look at each product individually and assess whether it's actually worth paying for.

Michelle Slade, from Moneyfacts, says: "Most packaged accounts offer mobile phone insurance or breakdown cover, READER'S DIGEST • AUGUST ',o

but these aren't always as good as they first appear. Breakdown cover tends to be of the most basic kind—and some is limited to within 20 miles of your home. Not much use if you regularly travel further."

To ensure you don't get caught out by exceptions and exclusions further down the line, read each product's small print carefully. For example, many products require you to register. If you forget to do this, you may find you're not covered when you need to claim.

Shop around. While the monthly fees for packaged accounts may seem small,you'll be surprised at how quickly they can add up over the course of ayear.

Kevin Mountford, head of banking for moneysupermarket.com, says: "If consumers have the time and inclination to shop around,they'll inevitably find better deals."

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So make sure you work out if it's cheaper to purchase the products you plan to use as standalone policies. For example, these daysyou can buy an annual travel insurance policy for under E40 online, compared with hundreds of pounds when it's part of a packaged account.

And bear in mind that manyfee-free bank accounts actually offer better rates than packaged accounts—as well as perks such as travel insurance and cashback.

RD Money Editor Victoria Bischoff is also a personal finance reporter at Citywire Money, an independent website that helps people make the most of their money. See citywire.co.uk/money.

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debts (such as 0% deals) first. As a result,your more expensive debts are left to accrue hefty interest, meaning you pay more. monthly repayments Remember, if you only ever pay the MMR each month it'll take you years to repay even a relatively modest debt—and cost you a fortune in interest charges.

Unlike with loans, your lender can put your credit card interest rate up any time it wants. If this happens, you can refuse to accept it and continue repayingyour debt at your current rate, but you won't be able to spend any more on your card.

Typical APRs. Be aware that if you have a poor credit rating the "typical APR" on a credit card won't apply to you and you'll end up paying a much higher interest rate on your debt.

Monthly APRs. These rates may sound like a good deal—but they almost always work out more expensive.

For example, a 2% monthly APR ends up equating to a whopping annual charge of 27%!

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On the Lamb Marco Pierre White throws a prime joint and trimmings on the barbie but get them wrong and the disappointment won't go away in a hurry. Leave nothing to

Ail chance. Don't just throw on a few chicken

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wings and bangers—go all the way by tenderising the meat in advance. Your efforts certainly won't go unrewarded.

Americans and Australians have long been barbecue fans, but we're catching up. And for good reason. For many people (well, many men), the barbecue is a ritual, a rite of passage undertaken as soon as the sun emerges.

From my experience, barbecues can also lead to chaos.

Egos are bruised, tempers are frayed—and that's just over the lighting of the wretched thing! But don't let that put

MARINATED BARBECUED LEG OF LAMB One medium-sized leg of lamb, boned out by your butcher For the marinade 2 cloves garlic, puréed 100mlolive oil 2 red chillies, diced 2 thyme stalks, picked 2 tbsps honey ltsp Dijon mustard 1tsp coarse cracked

black pepper you off: successful barbecuing is a clear case of practice 50m1sherry vinegar making (almost) perfect.

The key thing to remember is: don't have the barbecue 1. Mix all the marinade too hot. If you do, the food will burn rather than cook. ingredients together.

A few flames isn't a problem, but you don't want to be 2. Prepare the leg of dousing them every few minutes with water. This only lamb by making incisions leads to unhealthy smoke. in order to butterfly the I'd recommend serving jacket potatoes with this leg open, or alternatively marinated leg of lamb—they should also be done on the have your butcher do barbecue, wrapped in tin foil for around one hour on this for you (most good medium heat. Offer some sour cream (with a little grain butchers will do any mustard mixed in) on the side. You could add some cherry meat preparation). tomatoes on the vine, also cooked on the barbecue in 3. Massage the marinade tin-foil bags with rosemary, garlic, sea salt, into the meat and a little cracked black pepper and a good visit al_irecipes.co.uir store in the fridge for drizzle of olive oil. These usually cook tor 24 hours priorto use. quickly—in about five minutes.

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shares one of his favourite recipes ROASTED POLLOCK WITH CHORIZO, CHICKPEAS AND (4 people) 200g spinach 150g chorizo sausage 1 small onion, skin removed and finely chopped 2 cloves garlic, finely

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burn it. For best results, invest in a barbecue with a hood to ensure all-over cooking of the leg.

S. When you're satisfied it's cooked (approximately 20 minutes for medium), remove it from the barbecue and set aside

to rest for ten minutes.

This will allow the meat to relax and stay juicy.

6. Using a sharp knife, carve the leg straight across in long strips and serve.

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water to help it keep its vibrant green colour.

3. Chop the chorizo sausage into pieces about the size of a 5p piece and fry in a hot pan until the meat begins to release its fat and the edges begin to turn a little brown. Lower the heat and add the onions to the pan.

Cook gently for ten minutes, taking care not to burn the onions, then add the garlic, lemon zest and chickpeas.

Cook for a further five minutes, then add the spinach and a squeeze of lemon juice.

4. Remove from the heat and keep warm until the fish is ready. Or you could cook this in advance, omittingthe spinach and lemon juice, and reheat it when you're ready, again adding the spinach at the last moment.

5. Rub the pollock on both sides with a little of the cooking oil and season with salt and pepper. Place in a roasting tray skin-side down and dot with butter. Roast for 8-10 minutes or until just cooked throughout.

Halfway through cooking, spoon the melted butter over the fillets and return to the oven.

containing eggs or cream.

Daiquiri: 2 shots (25ml) of light rum (I like Havana Club), half a shot of lime juice, a teaspoon of sugar, a dash of Maraschino liqueur.

Blend with plenty of ice until 6. Serve the pollock on slushy and serve. a pile of the chorizo, Martini: One shot of gin 2 0 chickpeas and spinach and one shot of vermouth. with a little lemon juice Pour into a glass and add drizzled over the top. three green olives.

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on summer as a chance to experiment with cocktails...

A couple of ground rules: El Fill a glass with ice to cool the drink. Plenty of ice also means the ice doesn't melt, which would dilute the cocktail.

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with some nice plants or ornaments here and there. But if it's to be saved then you must cut more often—but not too close—and water really frequently. Apply a highnitrogen feed at the same time to stimulate growth and turn it greener. If there are bare or thin patches then make many small holes with a garden fork and rake in grass seed—an inexpensive brand will do fine.

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bags on the patio are all developing brown, corky patches on their bottoms, but those in the vegetable plot, which were bought from the same shop, are OK. Could it be my watering? I use a hosepipe on the plot, but water the patio ones from a rain butt. ,1\t The brown patches are almost certainly "blossom-end rot". This is becoming a more common physiological problem with tomatoes and you're partly right—it can be aggravated by watering.

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Bob Flowerdew answers your gardening questions

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But more frequent watering is usually the best cure. By the way, the unaffected parts of the fruit are still edible. >> Bob Flowerdew is an organic gardener and a regular on BBC Radio 4's Gardeners' Question Time.

JOBS FOR AUGUST CHILL OUT The height of summer can be a relaxing time in the garden. Little can be sown or planted, the grass pauses from its growth and even the weeding lets up a bit.

But don't forget the watering! This is often a dry month, so as well as all those plants in pots, baskets and containers, remember those in the ground that were planted during the last year. Perennials may be given a bit of feed in their water or top-dressed, but don't give too much or you might make their growth soft and lush, and less resistant to winter's cold.

GET FRUITY Keep up the harvesting and storing of vegetables and soft fruits. These will be joined this month by the early apples, which are often in glut and don't keep for more than a few days once picked. Turn surpluses into juice or purée and freeze or bottle these. Alternatively, peel, slice and dry apple rings by hanging them on a string in a dry place.

these cash-strapped READER'S' In times, it pays to use your imagination when edging your flower beds, says Katie Reidy from Thames Ditton, Surrey. "Bricks, rocks or cobblestones are more traditional, but recycled bottles buried neck-down look great in the evening light. I've also used seashells and even coloured pebbles. It's worth experimenting." >> Email usyour gardening tips and

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If you're seeing fewer birds in the sky, this means they're going into hiding for their

annual moult—replacing worn old feathers with new ones. But if they lose their feathers they can't fly

Wildlife Watc Look out for exploding aphids this month, warns Martin Hughes-Games

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you'd think differently. The dog whelk has a special boring organ that can drill a hole in its prey—helped by

shell-softening chemicals. It can take 24 hours to bore a hole, but once inside, the dog whelk injects enzymes that turn its prey into a nutritious soup. Imagine!

"What's that odd noise?" thinks the limpet.

"Oh well, probably nothing to worry about..." Wrong!

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properly—so what can they do? Ducks, geese and swans become completely flightless and have to hide away for up to four weeks.

Others, such as shelduck, have a "moult migration" where they fly to safe havens to moult.

Birds of prey such as the kestrel have a clever system: as the female starts to incubate her eggs, she also starts to moult. But finding food is hard with limited flight ability. The solution?

All the time she's incubating, the male brings her food.

Once the eggs hatch, her moult is finished and she's ready to fly again to search for food for her chicks.

APHID ATTACK! The relationship between aphids and ants is quite well known. The aphids provide sweet honeydew for the ants and the ants provide protection for the aphids. But some aphids aren't as helpless

as they seem. Cabbage aphids (the white fluffy ones) store noxious chemicals (mustard oils) in their bodies from the plants they eat. They also produce an "activating" enzyme. When a predator

attacks, ja crunch into the body, causing the chemicals to mix and explode. The aphid is, in effect, a walking mustard-oil bomb. The victim dies, but protects the rest of the colony.

My best holiday ever outside the huts we stayed in—ours had a thatched hot tub out the back.

The main dining area was a six-minute wander away. Every evening we strolled along the sandy path watching for lizards,

geckos and hermit crabs, enjoying the scents from the exotic flowers we passed.

My son Tim was in his second year at This picture was taken when we indulged Swansea University, studying for a degree in cocktails at the Sundowner Bar one in marine biology. He had indicated his evening. We were sitting at the end of a "need" of a dry suit for the diving course he jetty, watching the most incredible sun hoped would complement his studies. setting over an endless sea.

My son completed his diving While this was sensible, it en us p o qualification, and the final also made an expensive extra, of your favourite, deep-water dive provided an especially since I'd hoped for holiday, toII us brie what made it so" one final holiday before he left amazing "dance display" from special, and if w ' home. Then it hit me—the several manta rays, as well as a include it on this p solution to both our wishes: close encounter with a turtle. we'll pay you £75. a holiday in the Maldives, with a And me? Well, eight days address on p6. of lying on sun-kissed beaches diving course included!

We flew to Bandos, one of many shaded by palm trees—interspersed with snorkelling in what felt like my own tiny jewelled islands dotted around a group of atolls in the Maldives. We could walk briskly around its coastline in 15 minutes.

Deck-chairs were scattered along the shore,

personal tropical fish tank—was frankly no hardship. And spending such quality time with my son was just wonderful.

Hayes & Jarvis has a seven-night package to Bandos, including return flights from Heathrow and transfers, from £1,075 per person, with b&b (0871 664 0246, hayesandjarvis.com).

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among this year's acts. If you can't get there this month, easyJet begins operating daily flights to Sweden's second city from September 6 (from £27.99 one way, including taxes; easyjet.com).

Find out more at goteborg.com.

to its name. Now the restaurant has two new additions: the Eating Rooms, in an airy extension; and a tasting menu with wine (from £75), which means you can sample chef Eric Snaith's seasonal dishes of the day.

The hotel's 27 en-suite rooms are the comfortable side of contemporary—far from twee, yet cosy—and start at £110 for b&b (01485 210221; titchwell manor.com).

SWEDES AND THE CITY Like much of Europe,

NORFOLK NOSH Foodie hotel Titchwel I Manor in Norfolk's Brancaster already has two AA rosettes

Gothenburg is gearing up for a festival-filled month.

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Books A N WILSON ON A GREAT BATCH OF NEW BOOKS— NOT ALL OF THEM FOR THE FAINT-HEARTED

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by Candia McWilliam (Jonathan Cape, £16.99) For sheer technical skill, Candia McWilliam (born

a sex maniac kidnaps a young woman and keeps her captive, hidden away in a soundproof shed or cellar? Well, that's the "room" of the title. The story is told, with unsurpassed panache, by the woman's

Animal Farm.

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by Ruth Rendell she couldn't open her eyelids. changed the way / I view the (Hutchinson, E18.99) The book is agut-wrenching world" ........... •I would read any novel by confession, written with elegance Ruth Rendell. She keeps up an and with disarming, sometimes amazingly high standard. shocking, candour. The result will make Her latest is set in a block of flats in you gasp—but my God it is brilliant. a boring North London suburb, but is a far from boring tale. The wide range of ROOM

by Emma Donoghue characters includes three young women (Picador, £12.99) sharing a flat, ayoung man having an unwise adulterous affair, a paedophile Here's a health and an elderly female alcoholic—and warning. Don't read all are superbly drawn. The plot is one this book if you want of those (like Hitchcock's Psycho) that a nice comfort-novel.

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five-year-old son Jack. You seethe whole nightmare through his eyes, and the details—his waist-length hair, the food he and his mother eat, the games they play 1955) is the best to keep sane, how he has to hide in the British writer of wardrobe when "Old Nick" comes in at her generation. Her early fiction had an nights—are all chillingly convincing. Room unrivalled attack and tone, but after that, will certainly be much garlanded, and it will there was silence.

Now her long and completely absorbing deserve every prize it gets.

Fantastic—but deeply, memoir explains why: alcoholism, Cover star deeply disturbing. two marriages, a rocky affair— /Martin Freeman's.% and then she went blind, with favourite book is

Stuart's adultery is discovered, with violent consequences) proves utterly gripping. The main story—concerning the mysterious "Tigerlily", a beautiful oriental girl living opposite—leads to even more painful mayhem. The real joy of the novel, though, lies in the details of observed life.

RD Book Club Each month, we invite you to read our

ANNE FRANK: THE BOOK, THE LIFE, THE AFTERLIFE

by Francine Prose (Atlantic, £16.99) Millions of us have read The Diary of Anne Frank, but this book made me think about it in quite new ways. It emphasises what an amazing, potentially great, writer the Amsterdam teenager who died in Auschwitz was. Francine Prose explores Frank's writerly emendations of a diary that she clearly intended not merely as a record of the Jewish plight in Nazi-occupied Holland, but as a work of literature. Yet, the very fact that the diary is so well written has been taken by the hateful Holocaust deniers as part of their "evidence" that it's a forgery.

This is an account of a remarkable young woman, of a remarkable piece of writing, of the horrifying historical situation which gave birth to it, and of the reaction of posterity to what remains one of the most extraordinary books ever written. As Prose puts it: "If one hallmark of a masterpiece is the burrlike tenacity with which it sticks in our memory, Anne Frank's journal claims that status." Highly recommended.

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recommended paperback and let us have your comments and marks out of ten. Our professional critic A N Wilson then reads the same book and we report on how your views compare with his.

AUGUST'S CHOICE When Colm Toibin's Brooklyn begins, Eilis Lacey is ayoung Irish woman living with her widowed mother in 195os Wexford.

But then a visiting American priest gets her a job in his New York parish—and Eilis sets off for a new life in America. She is beginning to settle in at last when bad news from home calls her back to Ireland...

THE VERDICT Brooklyn takes place at a traumatic time in Irish history. Independence was supposed to have meant an end to large-scale emigration, but even by the 195os job opportunities remained scarce.

(Eilis's brothers have all gone to find work in England.) Yet, while there have been plenty of novels about people in the grip of great historical forces, this one is different from most in that Eilis doesn't ever really notice. Instead, she just gets on with things.

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other people's plans for her and then makes the best of them.

And it was precisely the book's quiet approach to its own material that divided the book club this month. Most of you felt Eilis's passivity was entirely convincing— especially for a woman of that place and time. (One reader even suggested that the novel made "a refreshing change from chick-lit, where unlike the rest of us, women always end up 'in control of their own lives'.") Even so, there was a solid minority who felt that the result was just a bit too quiet—ie, dull.

Perhaps surprisingly, this minority had a firm ally in A N Wilson, who thought that what many other critics have praised as Toibin's "understatement" was "a literary device that ran the risk of being very, very, very BORING". For this reason, he awarded Brooklyn a measly 5/1o.The average amongyou more patient readers was 8/10.

Although A N Wilson might not agree, our Critic of the Month is Mary Doyle from Lancashire, who wins £100 in book tokens for this warm appreciation.

"I found Brooklyn a joyto read. Though the plot and writing style are simple enough, the empathy I felt with the characters was intense, and I believed Eilis's reactions completely. I'm not sure if it should matter, but this seemed even more impressive because the author is a man.

"I also loved the two settings: smalltown Ireland and big-city America— which in Eilis's neighbourhood was unexpectedly similar to small-town Ireland. And, for all the lack of flashiness, I did badly want to find out what happened 150

in the end. When it came,the resolution was both unpredictable and satisfying.

I would highly recommend this quietly powerful book."

Coming up: SEPTEMBER Juliet, Naked by Nick Hornby (Penguin, £7.99) OCTOBER The Ghost by Robert Harris (Arrow, £7.99) NOVEMBER Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë We've had several requests to throw in the odd classic—so here is one: Charlotte Bronte's much-loved tale of love, death and mad women in attics.

If you've read the book before, did it seem different on rereading?

If you haven't, can you see why it's a classic?

Either way, does it still stand up in 2010?

Please send your comments and marks out of ten by September 15. (The deadline for The Ghost is August 15.)

Comments, thoughts and reviews of all kinds and all lengths are welcome. In return, we'll give £100 in book tokens to the Critic of the Month and publish their verdict—in edited form—here.

Happy reading!

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Books that changed y life Nicholas Shakespeare is a former

literary editor of The Daily Telegraph, and an award-winning novelist and biographer.

His latest novel Inheritance is out now.

KING ARTHUR AND HIS could barely finish filming because they KNIGHTS OF THE ROUND TABLE were laughing so much. Paul Pennyfeather

by Roger Lancelyn Green My father was a diplomat, so I spent my childhood abroad. One weekend in Malaya

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I was discovered curled up in my room with tears blurring my eyes. "It's Arthur," I snuffled when asked what was wrong, "He's died."

This was the first book that made me weep.

I found the tales intoxicating. When that mysterious hand flashes out of the water to clasp the thrown-away sword I felt, in some primitive way, that it was grabbing me too. I have looked for that kind of intensity in books ever since, but found it only in diminishing quantities.

DECLINE AND FALL

by Evelyn Waugh I was 13 when I read this book and it also made me cry—with laughter.

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LOVE IN THE TIME OF CHOLERA

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Shetland Pony Grand National at Windsor with schoolchildren on small horses. Wondered initially if one had attended Cabinet by mistake.

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"Alex Zane," I said.

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The following day, by chance, a friend and I walked into a bar on Sunset Boulevard and there was Burt. I said, "He knows me, does Burt."

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