Musical ‘Salute’ to Honor Veterans with Free Concert Performance Page 7
Behind the Scenes: A Day at the Arts Festival Page 8
Ponca City Astronomy Club Page 15
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Big Dreams for Children: Under My Wing Academy Page 16
Helping for the Holidays Page 23
Visions of Challenge & Beauty Page 28
NOC Receives New Donated Wrestling Mats Page 35
The Silent Threat Page 38
You’re Not Too Small to Be Hacked, You’re Just Too Small to Make the News Page 43
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Many people, primarily song writers, talk a lot about either ending relationships, or starting new ones. I would even venture to say that our society is slightly obsessed with those two topics. Go to Instagram and you will be inundated with posts about how people freed themselves from the bonds of a toxic relationship or how they found their soul mate or a new best friend in a serendipitous way. You know what people don’t write about much? Mending relationships. And I think it deserves being discussed.
All relationships go through hard times, ups and downs. And you can’t always immediately fix issues. Sometimes it takes years to overcome hurt feelings. But you know what? Time does heal old wounds. It should also be said that not all relationships can be mended, some hurts cut too deep to ever be forgotten. And that’s okay! It’s okay to let people go. People come and go in our lives for different reasons. Whether family, friend or long lost love - some heartbreaks are better left in the past.
But mending a broken relationship is a beautiful thing. Even if it’s been years - or even decades since you’ve spoken, don’t lose hope. And there’s no time better to try and mend relationships than during the holidays. Thanksgiving especially is a time to remember all the relationships we have to be grateful for.
It’s important to remember that mended relationships may not be the same as they once were. People change, they learn and they grow. If you are able to rekindle an old relationship, it may feel more like starting something brand new, and that’s okay too.
One of my favorite Disney movies is, “Lilo & Stitch” which features a little only-one-of-its-kind alien who befriends a little girl named Lilo. Lilo lives with her adult sister because her parents died. Both Lilo and Stitch feel very alone in the world, and they both are searching for their place in life. The little girl and the alien find each other, and become like family, and Stitch, the once chaos-obsessed alien lifeform, finally understands that he’s not doomed to be alone forever. He learns that relationships and family are good to be a part of, that he’s worthy of love. He learns that it’s okay if your family isn’t huge. It’s okay if it’s not exactly what you imagined it to be. It’s okay, even if it’s been broken in the past.
Stitch says, “This is my family. I found it, all on my own. It’s little, and broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good.”
So hug your family and friends tight this Thanksgiving. Be grateful for those who choose to be in your life. And don’t lose hope that those relationships you have lost may yet be mended someday in the future.
editor@poncacitymonthly.com
Musical ‘Salute’ to Honor Veterans with Free Concert Performance
Story by Carey Head / Staff Writer
An acoustical feast is in store for lovers of our military veterans, live music and free seating. The Ponca City High School Alumni Hall of Fame Committee will host a soul-stirring music event, “Salute to the Red, White and Blue,” featuring the combined sounds of the Po-Hi Band, Chorale and Orchestra. The free concert will take place at 2 p.m., Sunday, Nov. 10.
The music department’s 220 students will perform on the Ponca City Schools Concert Hall platform – a setting designed to be so acoustically rich that microphones are not needed nor used. Joining them will be the 145th Army Band, known as “The Governor’s Own.” Together, 260 vocalists and musicians will combine talents to present a patriotic concert honoring America’s Armed Forces veterans.
Among the selections planned for the hourlong event will be “United States Armed Forces Medley,” recognizing veterans of each branch of military service, including Coast Guard,
The Ponca City Schools Concert Hall will be the site of a concert, “Salute to the Red, White and Blue,” presented by the Ponca City High School Alumni Hall of Fame Committee. It will take place at 2 p.m., Sunday, Nov. 10. Admission is free. Donations to the Hall of Fame’s Endowment Fund are welcome and will help provide scholarships for Wildcat graduates. (Photo courtesy Winterrowd-Talley Architects)
Space Force, Air Force, Army, Navy and Marine Corps. Also planned are “Requiem for a Soldier,” the theme from “Band of Brothers,” “America the Beautiful” and “National Emblem Song,” and more.
Architect Richard Winterrowd, WinterrowdTalley Architects, describes the facility as a true concert hall. From the floor to the ceiling 50 feet above, all coverings are designed to direct sound back to the platform where the musicians stand.
Even the balcony placement and banks of curtains installed throughout the concert hall help “tune the room.” Winterrowd explains the curtains can be drawn in staggered positions to cover the hard walls and soften the overall performance sound. Draw the curtains into huge wall pockets and the hard walls are exposed, creating an energized, livelier reverberation. The result is performers and audience hear the exact same thing.
The Concert Hall is designed to provide magnificent acoustics without the use of microphones or amplifiers. Some 260 instrumentalists and vocalists will unite on the platform to offer the free concert, “Salute to the Red, White and Blue.” Performing will be the Po-Hi Band, Chorale and Orchestra students, along with the 145th Army Band, also called “Governor’s Own.” (Photo courtesy Winterrowd-Talley Architects)
“The conductor doesn’t have to compensate – all sections can hear each other,” he adds.
“I’m really proud that the school did not compromise the sound. The building is sole sourced just for live music performance. It’s the first concert hall for K-12 in Oklahoma.”
Admission to “Salute to the Red, White and Blue” is free. Donations to Ponca City Alumni Hall of Fame are welcome and will be used to fund Wildcat scholarships.
The Concert Hall Lobby doors will open at 1 p.m. Auditorium doors will open at 1:30 p.m. with the concert to begin at 2 p.m. Ponca City Schools Concert Hall is located at Fifth and Overbrook.
Behind the Scenes:
A Day at the Arts Festival
Story and Photos by Chelsea McConnell / Staff Writer
In Ponca City, the final weekend in September was one for the books. The weather was doing its best to finally usher in some fall vibes and citizens were out at community events in droves. Cann Memorial Gardens was the perfect setting for the 50th Annual Arts Festival. Located on the corner of 14th Street and Grand Avenue, the Gardens showcased the talent of Parks & Recreations’ incredibly hardworking Horticulture Department. Terrie Conner, Brandy LaBossiere and the rest of the Horticulture crew work diligently year-round to keep the green spaces in our community in top shape, with Cann Gardens being a true gem in the crown of their efforts.
The Gardens also make the perfect backdrop for displaying unique and breathtaking works of art. Festival attendees found all manner of art in categories including oil, acrylic,
watercolor, photography, pastel, pencil, printmaking, sculpture, pottery, woodworking, ceramics, jewelry and textiles. Entry into our local show is juried, meaning every piece at the festival is high quality.
Napoli’s has served authentic, homemade Italian cuisine in Ponca City since 2009. The menu includes appetizers, pasta dishes, pizzas, salads and desserts. There are many varieties of each on the extensive menu with a nice selection of meats, including seafood, vegetables and sauces. Specials are available weekly.
Napoli’s also offers catering for your special occasions. Jimmy Krivaqa, his wife Ganimete, manager Neshia and the rest of the staff invite you to stop by soon for lunch or dinner.
Cann Gardens Christmas Open House, Craft and Bake Sale, on Sunday, November 24, 1 p.m. till 4 p.m. at 14th and Grand Avenue in the lovely Cann Garden Home. Open to the community with complimentary Hot Apple Cider, coffee and homemade cookies prepared by the Four O’ Clock and Iris Garden Clubs.
Garden Council Officers will be hosting this year’s Open House. President Patty Gilliland says “Get a head start on Christmas - Shop early while enjoying Cann’s lovely old Victorian home, decked out in Christmas finery as decorated each year by Garden Council members. There will be lots of items to select from this year including treasures from Christmas Past, ornaments, homemade baked goods, special treats, sweets and the popular Jalapeno Pepper Jelly and Cranberry Pepper Jelly.”
Avoid Phishing Scams with Three Simple Tips
Phishing scams are online messages designed to look like they’re from a trusted source. We may open what we thought was a safe email, attachment or mage only to find ourselves exposed to malware or a scammer looking for our personal data.
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If anyone has Christmas treasures you would like to share, we welcome all. And, garden club members will provide goodies and treasures to share. Please bring your donations on Saturday, November 23 to the Cann Garden Home from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., or other times to Sherry Muchmore’s home. You can also leave on the west porch, 2 Hillcrest Drive.
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Phishing scams are online messages designed to look like they’re from a trusted source. We may open what we thought was a safe email, attachment or image only to find ourselves exposed to malware or a scammer looking for our personal data. The good news is we can take precautions to protect our important data. Learn to recognize the signs and report phishing to protect devices and data.
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If the message is designed to resemble an organization you trust, report the message by alerting the organization using their contact information found on their webpage.
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The unsubscribe button could also carry a link used for phishing. Just delete.
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The festival lasted for two days, starting on Friday evening and ending Saturday afternoon at 4 p.m. Artists from all over the United States attended our esteemed festival, the longest running event of its kind in the state of Oklahoma.
Spearheading this effort was the City Arts program, led by Executive Director Terron Liles and Assistant Director Kestrel Tinklenberg. Liles and Tinklenberg were backed by a lovely group of Board members and volunteers. Co-Chairs for this year’s event were City Arts President Chelsi Hendrickson and volunteers Liz Leaming and Rachel Stewart. These three were ever present during the event, putting in all the literal steps to make sure everything was running smoothly. The City Arts crew excelled at showing hospitality to both the artists and attendees.
The festival kicked off with dinner and drinks for City Arts’ VIPs on Friday afternoon at 4 p.m. City Arts provided dinner catered by local favorite Enrique’s Mexican Restaurant, along with margaritas. The menu from Enrique’s boasted their signature chips, queso and guacamole, along with chimichangas, fried tacos, jalapeno poppers, sopapillas, churros and more. As usual, it was all delectable. The event opened to the public at 5 p.m., and hundreds of locals began to stream through the grounds.
Saturday got going at 9 a.m. with a brunch for festival goers who purchased tickets to this fun bonus event. Brunch was graciously prepared and provided by Isela Aguilar, Nancy Tyndall and Larry Bittman. The brunch menu consisted of mini-glazed and cinnamonsugar donuts, breakfast tacos, breakfast casserole and bottomless mimosas. Brunch was hosted behind the Cann House and offered a view of event happenings. After filling up on a gourmet breakfast, brunchers were encouraged to refill their mimosas and peruse the art.
Entertainment was provided throughout the entire festival by local and area performers. Performers set up in the gazebo in the middle of the Garden grounds. Chairs were placed around the gazebo so attendees could take a rest from shopping and enjoy the music. The music was a treat for artists
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Volunteers Maci Heppel and Audra MacKinnon
in earshot as well. Entertainment included performances by Tim Durham, Patchouli Orchestra, Sophia Young and Cassy Kendrick.
The Kids’ Area was the happening spot for all the littles on Saturday with inflatables, face painting, a craft station and a Ponca City-themed coloring book created by Kestrel Tinklenberg. The coloring book was made to commemorate the 50th Arts Festival and to celebrate the visual arts in Ponca City. Over 2,000 were produced and have been distributed to students in our community, as well as to kids at Arts Fest.
Food Vendors included Chik-Fil-A, Happy Camper Sodas, Arctic Fox Cones, To-Go-Box Asian Truck and A Fuego Pizzeria. A cash bar was also provided this year for anyone who wanted to sip and stroll. The festival hosted over 50 artists for its 50th year. The Member’s Booth was brought back this year. It’s a booth where members of City Arts who don’t want to set up
an entire booth of their own can showcase some of their pieces for sale. The booth showcased art from a handful of locals, including some who haven’t shown in this festival before.
Fifteen hundred dollars in cash prizes were awarded to winners in various categories. Best in Show was won by Mary Lou Christie. Christie creates one-of-a-kind jewelry using traditional silversmithing techniques. Christie learned to silversmith at the Ponca City Art Center in 2012. She is from Tahlequah, Oklahoma.
1st place in 2D was won by Lily Taylor. Taylor is a dancer, actress and artist from Beijing, China, now living in Shawnee, Kansas. Taylor paints on rice paper, silk and satin. Her signature pieces combine Chinese and Western styles of art with traditional subject matters. She often paints subjects that represent goodness in Chinese culture. Jim Clements won 2nd Place. Clements paints scenes from the American West using oil paints. His goal with each piece he creates is to honor the spirit
of the West. He has won numerous awards for his art, has many well-known collectors and has pieces featured in museums. 3rd Place in 2D was won by Tom Smith of Legacy and Lunacy. Smith is a watercolor artist. He paints scenes from his daily life and his world travels, each breathtaking in their own ways.
1st Place in 3D was won by Joshua Cook of Metalmorphosis. Cook creates sculptures of animals and insects from recycled materials. Once his unique sculptures are built, he handpaints each one. 2nd Place in 3D was won by Fire Glass Designs. Jennifer Francis, owner of Fire Glass, makes the most beautiful fused glass bowls and other items. 3rd Place was won by Ponca City’s own Carl Peterson. Peterson is an incredibly talented sculptor, creating intricate and beautiful wood pieces. The Florence Riesen Novice Award was given to Emily Elmore of JAMWORKS, a new-to-the-scene artist working in wood turning to create unique cutting boards, bowls and other items.
Art enhances the human experience. The Ponca City Arts Festival brought together an eclectic group of artists with a wide variety of pieces that allowed attendees to immerse themselves in beauty. The Cann Gardens created the perfect backdrop for the festival. City Arts staff, Board and volunteers put countless hours of effort into hosting this event and making it one of the best of the season! I can’t wait to see what the next 50 years holds for Arts Fest!
Volunteers Rachel Stewart and Liz Leaming
Ponca City Astronomy Club
We are the Ponca City Astronomy Club. Our mission is to “Share the Universe With Our Community.”
We are a group of astronomy enthusiasts who are willing to share our love of what is out there in the vast unknown, by allowing those who are interested, to look through our telescopes. We are by far not professionals, just ordinary geeks!
Through the warmer months we usually have two “events” a month during the weekend of the 1st quarter moon. On a Friday, we will set up at the Ponca City RecPlex around 7 p.m. and stay until the last person leaves (usually around 9:30 p.m.) On a Saturday, we will set up at the Ponca City Campgrounds again around 7 p.m. and stay until no one else shows up. We try to post the times and dates on Facebook
on most of the local community pages.
We do have a FB page (PONCA CITY ASTRONOMY) where we have several astro photographers who contribute photos that they have taken. There will be posts about what might be seen during the month and other posts with information on where to find objects both with the unaided eye and with magnifying equipment. (Telescopes, binoculars, etc.)
The FB page is semipublic. We do try to screen everyone that asks to join to ensure that there are no scammers or threats to anyone on the page.
Please check us out and come see what is up.
-Bob Zehr
Hello, Ponca City,
Big Dreams for Children: Under My Wing Academy
“Teaching is the greatest act of optimism.” ~ Colleen Wilcox, Professor
Story by Marlys Cervantes | Staff Writer
After years of doing childcare at home, Kristan Lawson felt there was a much larger need in the community that must be filled to truly care for the needs of area children. When looking at this area, there are about 1500 children under 5 and only 600 childcare spots available. On any given day you can find parents on social media expressing the need to find someone to care for their young children while they work.
Lawson remembers coming from basically nothing while growing up in Tonkawa. Well, nothing that is, except the most important thing of all: her “memaw” who believed in her and reminded her that “hard isn’t impossible.” She has always remembered that and always kept going even in the toughest of circumstances. Lately, those tough circumstances seem to be just the times when her friends and family pitch in to make sure due dates are met and projects are completed, such as her recent opening of Under My Wing Academy on July 1 after working long days for needed renovations.
When Lawson knew she wanted to open a larger facility, she reached out for assistance in all areas to ensure she had the knowledge and resources required to make it happen. She gives thanks to many, such as Kat Long with Ponca City Development Authority, Ben Evans with Pioneer Technology Center for a business plan and Alisha and her team at Equity Bank, along with many friends and family members who were part of the renovations and planning once she acquired the right space for now. While she was initially hoping for a larger space, what she acquired at Marland’s Place has proven to be perfect as her first (yes, there’s more planned for the future) childcare facility. Lawson says, “I have never felt so unapologetically supported in my life.” It’s a feeling she hopes to pass on to those around her.
Kristen Lawson
Under My Wing Academy Owner
Starting off smaller than she had originally planned has made it easier for Lawson to embrace every family served at Under My Wing more quickly. To benefit both the students and staff, she plans to keep low teacher to student ratios. When asked what else may help her academy stand apart from others, she mentions, “I think paying staff well over minimum wage is one thing that helps set us apart. We also have spots that we reserve for foster care children to help Marland’s Place next door.”
Lawson discusses the importance of each staff member and their well-being, saying, “Each staff member here is valued and valuable. I try to pour into them and their mental health and well-being as much as I possibly can.” Bringing her seriousness
about that point to light, Lawson swaps services with a counselor in the same building area for mental health support for her staff free of charge, and they can have their sessions during their work time without losing pay. While she challenges them to be at their best on the job, she is serious about their well-being and determined to do all she can to see that their needs are met. This is not your traditional business model. Lawson also hopes to eventually provide the staff with profit-sharing as they help maintain the high standards she sets and keep the high quality and star ratings.
Lawson trusts her staff, especially discussing her Assistant Director Denise Tyson and how she’s grown and meets any challenge given and stating that her hopes are to eventually have a center Tyson will direct on her own. It is easy to see Lawson’s enthusiasm as contagious when talking to her Assistant Director Tyson, who says, “I love the relationships we get to build with the parents … and get to walk the journey with them as we see their kids grow and flourish and hit all of those amazing milestones.” She also mentions the “hugs are good for the soul.”
In maintaining the quality of the Center, they strive to keep family involved. Lawson says, “Not enough places embrace the whole family.” Under My Wing held a Color Fun Run to raise funds for outdoor playground shade equipment. They raised some of the money needed, and 50-60 family members and children participated. All of the kids stuck it out to walk the entire two miles and had fun, and the community was involved. Equity Bank staff members and Lawson’s husband Jason grilled hamburgers, Jiffy Trip and Parents as Teachers provided water and HTeaO helped her understand how to fundraise with them. Marland’s Place allowed the use of the entire outdoor area
for the event, and the day was a success. As usual, Larson had communal participation to achieve the goal.
Fall events include a Book Fair, with a Family Back to School night being held within the time of the Fair, and a Pumpkin Patch and Fall Festival. There will also be a Thanksgiving Feast and Equity Bank will partner with them for a staff appreciation event. Lawson appreciates all the community and these businesses do to continue the success and passion they all have for children.
Lawson understands that families need to have fun together, need to be together and need support systems. She hopes to provide resources to all families. However, she does try to think of all she can do right in her Center that will meet the needs. For
instance, when I toured the facility, one of the rooms that stood out was a room where a breastfeeding mother, or a father who just wanted to come and feed their baby, could come on their lunch break to spend time with their child. Under My Wing welcomes the visits by parents during the day if the parents can do so, which is especially important for infants or for neurodivergent children new to childcare who may need the extra supportive visit.
Under My Wing Academy is a 24 hour daycare center, with primary shifts being 4a-11p and 11p-7a. They do have some flexability with schedules. They have a current capacity of 47. Currently, their daytime rooms (ages 0-Kindergarten) are full with a waiting list, but there availability in the evening and overnight slots.
Lawson is looking to expand. Her heart is focused on a facility that has more room for neurodivergent children and their needs, so she says her goal is still to have a large facility to add to the one she has already opened. She wants those children to have a safe space with qualified educators. She also would like to offer more infant spots since so many parents who work struggle to find solid childcare during that important time in a child’s life.
Maybe most importantly, Lawson explains, “I want to change people’s views of childcare.” Willing to give all her optimistic energy to this, she is well on her way to doing just that as she makes the childcare worker feel important in their positions, as they should, in turn showing that those children are the most special treasures we have. “This isn’t my job,” Lawson says. “This is my legacy.”
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Helping for the Holidays
Supporting Nonprofits in Kay County This Holiday Season
Story by Chelsea McConnell / Staff Writer
The holiday season can be a trying time for many in our community. Kay County is home to a handful of nonprofits whose work involves creating a sense of home and/or safety for the clients and families they serve. This task can often be even more difficult during the holidays. While these programs need support from our community 24/7, they could especially use the extra love this time of year.
Survivor Resource Network’s mission is to “empower individuals, educate the community and advocate for justice to end domestic violence, sexual assault and child abuse. We are dedicated to providing comprehensive support services and ensuring that survivors have access to the resources they need to heal and rebuild their lives.”
SRN Executive Director Tara Tyler says the holidays can be “a particularly challenging time for many of our clients, as it often brings heightened emotional stress and financial strain.” Instead of a time of joy, this time of year can leave victims of abuse feeling isolated or even trigger painful memories for them. Because of this, the resources provided by SRN become even more important during the holiday season.
Volunteers during this time are needed for both labor at the shelter, as well as more administrative-type tasks. Whatever your special skills, Tyler can find a place for
you to help out. Volunteers can wrap gifts, organize donation drives, help with special events and fundraise and advocate for the program. Tyler adds, “During the holidays, our greatest needs are for gift cards, new clothing, hygiene products, toys for children and nonperishable food items. Monetary donations are also crucial as they help fund our emergency shelter and
Survivor Resource Network, Inc. partnered with Ponca Tribal Victim Services in October to create an awareness display at Kay County Courthouse.
counseling services. You can donate directly through our website or bring items to our office, where we accept donations yearround.”
Peachtree Landing’s mission is “to assist homeless individuals and families through temporary emergency shelter and strengthen their capacity to live independently.” Executive Director Terrie Hill says that PTL is there to take care of anyone that comes to stay with them. She adds, “That’s why we chose the name Peachtree Landing. A landing represents a safe place during a storm, and the blossoms of the peach tree represent hope and potential.”
Hill explains that things change constantly at the shelter since they don’t necessarily know from day to day who or how many will need housing. While this can make planning hard, PTL staff work hard to make all clients as comfortable as possible and to ensure they know they are safe and cared for.
While PTL cannot utilize volunteers at the shelter due to strict confidentiality guidelines, volunteers are always needed at their thrift store, My Favorite Things. My Favorite Things is located in downtown Ponca City. The store runs completely on donations and 100% of the proceeds from the store go back to Peachtree Landing. The store accepts donations via their back door, located in the alley behind their business. It’s painted bright turquoise, so you can’t miss it! Donating gently-used items is a wonderful
“That’s why we chose the name Peachtree Landing. A landing represents a safe place during a storm, and the blossoms of the peach tree represent hope and potential.”
way to support Peachtree now and all year around.
Monetary donations from individuals or businesses can make a huge impact on the clients served by Peachtree Landing. Donations can easily be made online via their website. Checks are welcomed as well. PTL can also use medicines like ibuprofen, acetaminophen and cold meds.
Marland’s Place’s mission is to bring children together with nurturing families. Their vision is to assure each child in their care will grow to be a responsible adult. Their belief is that a nurturing family can make a positive difference.
Four members of the Ponca City Senior Center (left) and Peachtree Landing ED Terri Hill (right) display donation of over 90 crocheted and knitted hats, head wraps, & mittens for shelter clients to use.
NEEDED DONATIONS:
Survivor Resource Network
• Gift Cards
• New Clothing
• Hygiene Products
• Toys for Children
• Nonperishable Food Items
• Monetary Donations Peachtree Landing
• Gently Used Items - Donate to My Favorite Things
• Ibuprofen
• Acetaminophen
• Cold Meds
• Monetary Donations
Marland’s Place
• New Pajamas
• Socks and Underwear in all sizes
• Stockings
• Stocking Stuffers
• Monetary Donations
Director of Development, Aprille Ostler shares that the holidays can be particularly hard on foster families as there are so many extra expenses that come with making the season extra special for kids. Ostler says support from the community during the holidays helps them “give these kids a holiday season full of joy, celebration and the chance to just be kids.”
Marland’s Place could always use extra volunteers around this season. They host a Christmas party for their foster families each year. They invite the community to set up games or activities for the children at this event and would welcome any fun that can be added. They also need helpers to wrap presents and donate baked goods for their party.
Ostler says any groups wanting to go the extra mile could host a toy drive. They want to ensure every child has something special to open for Christmas, so toy donations make a big difference. They could also use food or snack baskets for their foster families. Foster
parents carry an extra load, and anything done to help them feel more loved and seen by their community is welcome. Physical items can be dropped off at Marland’s Place, located at 1300 Summers Pl in Ponca City, and monetary donations can be made online or in person.
For many, the holidays are a time of thanksgiving and increased gratitude for the abundance in our lives. If you are fortunate enough to live in abundance, consider generously donating your time, talent or treasure to one of these deserving nonprofits this holiday season.
For more information on any of these incredible nonprofits, contact them directly. Survivor Resource Network’s phone number is (580) 762-2873. Their website is www.survivorresourcenetwork.org. Peachtree Landing’s phone number is (580) 762-3208. Their website is www.peachtreelandingpc.com. Marland’s Place’s phone number is (580) 762-4156. Their website is www. marlandsplace.com.
there are dozens and dozens of non-profits in Kay county that need help. we want to encourage you this holiday season to remember your local non-profits this giving season, so that they may continue their missionS.
Story by Marlys Cervantes | Staff Writer
AVisions of Challenge & Beauty :
It’s All in a Day’s Work
“Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working.“
~ Pablo Picasso
great deal goes into the beautiful and awesome photographs we see as the outcome of her work. Years of experience and knowledge, and an eye for how to capture just that picture that will draw you into the moment. Lauren Payne has worked in many areas of photography beginning with her father’s challenging national fishing business, where she worked after graduating from Oklahoma State University. At the business, she performed all types of marketing and other tasks, but photography was the real passion.
She says while many of her photography projects may take a day, those fishing competitions would be week-long endeavors that then took her into the night editing the right shot and writing articles for the next day’s newspaper. She fondly remembers shooting tournaments in almost every state and almost every lake where they occurred. Her nightly search for the perfect photo made her the right photographer for the job, while everyone else celebrated the day’s catch.
Working on these fishing expeditions put her as one of the only females in the male-driven industry, and she was known as “the girl who’d eat all the sandwiches” since she was on the boat early getting her equipment prepared to go, always hungry and ready to eat their lunch well before noon. When Payne took her first
“Wedding photographers don’t get to call in sick.”
photographs, she was hooked, but she knew she wanted to improve her skills. So, while she still worked full time with her family’s business, she took online photography classes with Nikon and other places, worked internships and simply lived and breathed photography with all the time she could. As her skills increased, so did the beauty in the elements that enhance her photographs. She continues to challenge herself in her skills and growth and is a member of the Professional Photographers of America.
Although she’s known as a sports photographer (as a single mother of three athletic children, she’s busy on that front), and a woman who also loves to take on the role as a business photographer on many occasions, she says, “Weddings are really my niche.” She loves the challenge of this and says the commitment to a wedding doesn’t allow you to be distracted – not even by illness: “Wedding photographers don’t get to call in sick.” She remembers shooting sick in Oklahoma City on a day when the videographer from Tulsa also showed up to shoot when he was ill, and once shooting at 8 1/2 months pregnant in the heat of July. These are some of her favorite shoots because they remind her to be humble and
keep in mind the joy of others that she brings with her job. The day is the most important in a bride’s life, and you cannot disappoint her.
Photography is a passion for Payne, and she states, “God put me here.” When she shoots a wedding, she knows she will feel the love there and her photographs can “breathe life into that and let God come through.” She enjoys getting to help the wedding party see what is truly important in that special day.
When asked about some of her other favorite wedding sessions, she mentions ones on the beach in Florida, with fun and the water, but also a wonderful Vietnamese wedding in Oklahoma City where she was able to embrace the culture of others. What she appreciated most was some of the elements of that culture’s traditions among people that she brought back and mentioned to other wedding celebrants who were able
to bring them into their own receptions as they greeted guests after the ceremonies. Spreading ways to show kindness and love is something Payne celebrates as part of her passion in her profession.
Payne has a work-hard, play-hard attitude which has served her well. She knows how to take care of her business to keep it moving forward, but she has also figured out how to juggle her time to be with her three children as the mom they need. Payne says, “When I think of my deadlines, I remember, the only thing I’ve ever wanted to do is be a mom. In this job, I get to have the time to be able to be a mom. I can say, ‘You guys are on fall break, I’m on fall break.’” Being a
photographer and having this level of flexibility in her schedule is exactly what this active mom-of-three needs. She says whenever she’s unsure of the path she should take, she asks, “God, why am I here?” What she always remembers is, it is never just about her. It is never just about us. There is always more we must consider. Whether that is family, others around us in our community, we must consider all as we are led.
For Payne, she loves that her work has grown where she can include others. She loves the idea of “Moms helping moms.” Now, her photography business has been able to hire others both in photographing team sports and when selling wedding packages with second shooters. Payne wants more people involved and hopes
to grow in that direction and continue to employ others.
Payne does fun projects as well. For instance, she teamed up with Andy Hicks to create the popular firemen’s calendar fundraising project for Northern Oklahoma Humane Society. She enjoys having fun, helping others and being creative.
Personally, just for her, she hopes to also expand her writing in ways that can also help others, exploring some of the life she’s lived and experiences she has gone through in ways that may let others know they are not alone. Her photography has helped give her a voice, albeit a visual one, that opens a beautiful door for her. Payne says, “I know where I’m at is where I’m supposed to be.”
You can find Lauren Renee Photography’s website at Laurenreneephotography.com to check out some of her beautiful wedding photography work and to find further contact information. You can also find her under Lauren Renee Photography on Facebook.
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NOC Receives New Donated Wrestling Mats
Story by Scott Cloud | Northern Oklahoma College, Director of Public Information
Northern Oklahoma College opened the 2024-25 inaugural wrestling season with the Red and Black Scrimmage set on Oct. 24.
As NOC men and women wrestlers prepare for the upcoming season, they will practice on two new mats donated by First National Bank of Oklahoma.
NOC President Diana Watkins thanked the bank for their support. “With their contributions of time and financial support, First National Bank has been instrumental in the return of men’s wrestling and the establishment of women’s wrestling at NOC,” Watkins said. “Having grown up in a wrestling community myself, I’m excited to offer an opportunity to students in our service area to compete at the college level in a sport they love while continuing their education. This simply would not have been possible without generous donor support.”
FNB Executive Chairman Pat Rooney added, “First National is excited and enthused to be part of returning the legacy wrestling program to Northern Oklahoma College. Wrestling is ingrained in our state’s culture and having a successful program allows our students to be a part of that.”
The men’s program has been re-established after a 30-year absence while the women’s program is new for NOC.
“We couldn’t have done this without the support of FNB,” said men’s wrestling coach Bryan Kenney. “Helping to support a start-up program is a huge investment of resources, time and vision for everyone involved. Thank you is not enough for
everything that FNB has done for our wrestling program.”
The re-establishment of the men’s program and establishment of the women’s program has been in the works for a number of years with the NOC Foundation starting a fundraising campaign in the summer of 2023.
The regular season for NOC wrestling begins Nov. 2 at the Friends (Kansas) Open in Wichita. The first home dual is Nov. 16 against Carl Albert State College.
For more information about Northern Oklahoma College, please call (580) 628-6208 or visit the NOC website at www.noc.edu.
First National Bank of Oklahoma donated two new mats for the NOC wrestling programs. Bank officers and NOC administration are pictured with members of the men’s and women’s wrestling programs. (photo by Shiloh Martin/ Northern Oklahoma College)
Note from the Editor: Here at Ponca City Monthly magazine, we love to share heartwarming stories about local events, people and businesses. And though we don’t usually cover heavy topics, some stories are too important to not address. The dangers of drugs in general is not a new topic, but the dangers posed by fentynal is exponentially growing across the United States and and if one article could save even one life, it is a topic worth covering. The best way for parents to protect their children and grandchildren is through awarness and education. Please, talk to your kids about the dangers of fentanyl. Even one pill of fentanyl can be deadly.
For more educational resources, you can visit Dea.gov/onepill.
The Silent Threat: Protecting Your Loved Ones from the Dangers of Fentanyl
“The most dangerous drug that we are seeing in Kay County is fentanyl. It is relatively cheap and is both highly addictive and deadly. One pill could be enough to kill a person. We are seeing more and more teenager deaths in Kay County because of fentanyl use. Parents cannot be sure that their child is not being offered this pill. Drug dealers are giving these pills away with the hope of causing these children to become addicted. Talk to your children. Make sure they know the risks and that death is a real possibility if they use this deadly drug. -Brian Hermanson, Kay County District Attorney
This article including photos was compiled through information gathered on the website Dea.gov/onepill.
As we observe Substance Abuse Awareness this November, it's more important than ever to shine a spotlight on one of the most dangerous substances threatening communities across the nation: fentanyl. This potent synthetic opioid, which is 50 to 100 times stronger than morphine, has become a silent and deadly epidemic all across the nation and world, with tragic consequences for families who never thought they would be affected.
Fentanyl is increasingly found in counterfeit prescription pills, making it a serious risk for anyone who buys medications outside of a pharmacy. The Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) has launched the "One Pill Can Kill" campaign to combat this rising danger, emphasizing that just one counterfeit pill containing fentanyl can be lethal. The message is clear: never assume that a pill you didn’t get from a licensed pharmacy is safe.
What is Fentanyl?
Fentanyl is a synthetic opioid used medically to treat severe pain, typically in advanced cancer patients. However, when produced illegally and sold on the black market, fentanyl has become a leading cause of drug overdose deaths. The smallest amount, even as tiny as a few grains of salt, can result in overdose
and death. Its potency, combined with the ease with which it can be added to other drugs, makes fentanyl particularly dangerous.
Counterfeit pills laced with fentanyl are designed to look like common medications such as Oxycodone, Percocet, or Xanax. These fake pills are
often sold through social media or illegal online markets, posing a grave danger to young people and adults alike. Users may believe they are taking something relatively safe, unaware that just one pill can be deadly.
Keeping Your Loved Ones Safe
Education and awareness are the most powerful tools in the fight against fentanyl. Families need to have open conversations about the risks of counterfeit medications and substance use. Here's how you can protect yourself and your loved ones:
Never take prescription pills that weren’t prescribed to you. Even if they look identical to medication you’ve taken before, the only way to ensure a pill is safe is to get it from a pharmacy.
Talk to your children and teens. Young people are especially vulnerable to misinformation about drugs. Make sure they understand that one pill, taken just one time, can be fatal.
Learn the signs of fentanyl overdose. Symptoms include
difficulty breathing, dizziness, confusion, and unconsciousness.
If you suspect someone is experiencing an overdose, call 911 immediately and administer naloxone (Narcan) if available.
Where to Get Help
If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, there are resources available to provide support. The Oklahoma Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse Services (ODMHSAS) offers a range of treatment and prevention programs. Additionally, the DEA’s One Pill Can Kill campaign provides valuable information on the risks of counterfeit pills. For more information, visit the DEA’s website at www.dea.gov/onepill or contact the National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).
In a world where just one pill can be the difference between life and death, awareness and prevention are critical. By staying informed and sharing this knowledge with others, you can help protect your loved ones from the dangers of fentanyl and other illicit drugs.
CORAL:
BY KAYLA MAXWELL
Coral comes in many hues however, the most sought out for jewelry are pink, orange, black and my personal favorite, red. These colors are typically found in the Mediterranean Sea, Hawaii, Cape Verde Islands, Portugal, Japan and Taiwan. The earliest documentation found on coral was written 77 AD, Pliny the Elder wrote in depth about coral in one of the earliest encyclopedias. He claims that the Gauls used coral as ornamentation on their swords, shields, and helmets. According to Greek mythology, to have originated as the spurts of blood gushing forth after Medusa’s head had been up severed by Perseus. Coral has been found in ancient Egyptian tombs, prehistoric European burial sites and can be found in jewelry from Tibet in as early as the 17th century.
The power of coral followed into medicinal purposes, reduced to powder or by burning and ingesting, it was said to help with ailments such as bladder infections, fever, ulcers, and scarring.
Europeans were the first to trade Blood Coral with Native Americans. With its intense red color, it rapidly became an important trade item between the two cultures, nearly 600 years ago. Most indigenous peoples of America consider coral a sign of wealth and status, when you look at early multi-strand coral necklaces, it becomes evident that the wearer added strands of coral as their wealth or social standing grew. Often in Native American jewelry, you’ll see the combination of turquoise with coral in silver jewelry. Symbolizing the union of earth and water and the red associated with birth bound by the purity of white silver. Today,
coral is more sought after than ever. Being illegal to harvest due to the slow death of the coral reefs and great damage from Tsunami’s a little more than a decade ago, if you find newly made coral jewelry it’s likely to have come from the stash of an artist who knows the importance of hoarding good supplies when to create for a special project. As we all love a vintage piece, most coral jewelry pieces are cherished heirlooms handed down from generations.
The pieces in these photos were created by artists, Roie Jacque, Robert Shawkey, Alex Sanchez, V. Blackgoat, Joleen Bird, Charles Bird and L.M.
Find these one-of-a-kind pieces only in downtown Ponca City at Sharps Indian Store and Pawn, 118 South Second Street.
You’re Not Too Small to Be Hacked, You’re Just Too Small to Make the
News
Story by Braden Lampe | Contributing Writer, ABT Solutions - Abtok.com
In today’s world, cybersecurity is no longer optional. It doesn’t matter if you’re a small-town business or a large corporation, cyber-CRIMINALS do NOT discriminate. One of the most common myths I hear from business owners is, “Why would a hacker try to hack us? We’re too small.” The reality is this: you’re not too small to be hacked – you’re too small to make the news. And for many, that thought process can cost you EVERYTHING.
Did you know that 60% of businesses go out of business within six months of a cyberattack? That statistic isn’t just a number, it’s a reality check. If you don’t have the right protection in place, you’re gambling with the future of your business, and that’s a fact.
I attended a cybersecurity conference a few months back, and one of the lessons they taught us stuck with me. To drive home the importance of vigilance, they set up a QR code during the event that had the conference brochure on it. Innocent enough, I thought. People scanned it, thinking they were going to get more conference details or download a resource, which they did, and it was, in fact the conference brochure. In reality, in the background, that QR code was a tool used to gather data from attendees’ phones. It was a powerful demonstration of how easily hackers can trick us into handing over our information without even realizing it.
That’s why I’m so passionate about helping businesses stay protected. Hackers don’t just target big companies with deep pockets. Small and medium businesses are often seen as easy targets
because they think they don’t need high-end security. But trust me, the cost of not being prepared is far greater than the price of the protection necessary.
One of the most effective ways to safeguard your business is through a penetration test (or pen test). It’s like hiring a professional to break into your system to see where your weaknesses are, before a real hacker gets the chance. Some companies spend upward of $30,000 for a comprehensive pen test, but we believe in helping businesses, especially those that might not have that kind of budget, get started on the right foot. That’s why we’re offering a Level 1 pen test free. It’s our way of getting our foot in the door and showing you just how important it is to know your vulnerabilities before they’re exploited.
At the end of the day, my goal isn’t to scare anyone. My goal is helping businesses stay ahead of the constantly evolving threats we face today and ensuring they don’t become part of the 60% that never recover after a cyber-attack.
Having the Conversation:
Story by Stephanie Krenn | Contributing Writer
I am not naturally a person of compassion and mercy; it is something I have to practice. Administration is my natural gift. I am the person you want in the room when all the choices are laid out and people are left staring at each other in silence, unsure how to move forward. I will make the choice; I will form an action plan; and I will execute that plan even if I have to do it alone. Progress halts when decisions cannot be made, and there is no time to waste. That was my well-known personality trait when cancer joined the party. When the Stage III diagnosis burst onto the scene, I suddenly understood what “no time to waste” actually meant. I found myself with a calendar full of appointments and numerous decisions to make on snapshots of information and limited time. This would typically be my comfort zone, and I thought I was ready and willing to do whatever it took to survive. My first Cancer 101 crash course happened with my oncology surgeon, Dr. “S,” less than a week after the call. She took an extended amount of time explaining cancer in general, how it had happened so fast with me, even drew pictures of normal cells versus what mine were doing. Dr. S, if you’re reading this, I still have that drawing. We discussed options and choices to make, and I was managing OK. She then rolled her doctor chair right in front of me, looked me in the eyes and told me she was sorry this was happening to me. I remember glancing at my aunt nearby and then bursting into tears. I was not prepared for the gentleness and patience she showed as I processed my emotions for the first time, and it would not be the last of that kind of experience. Next on the books was my oncologist, Dr. T (you’ll meet him in another article.) We weighed the options, recommendations, probable side effects, and possible outcomes, and decided neoadjuvant chemotherapy was the course of treatment. That meant I would have chemotherapy first, with a goal of shrinking the large tumor and stopping the spread of cancer. Before chemotherapy could begin, Dr. S placed a port in my chest for administering the drugs so as not to ruin my veins. When I woke up from that surgery, the bandages covering my scars had been cut into shapes of hearts and butterflies. She was, and is, incredibly kind and appreciates the magnitude of her patient’s situation. That is when I began to understand this would require my decisiveness and compassion of others to
navigate what was ahead. My favorite definition of compassion is from Webster’s 1828 dictionary describing it as “a suffering with another; painful sympathy … compassion is a mixed passion, compounded of love and sorrow.” I saw that love mixed with sorrow in my surgeon’s face, with my oncologist and with many others in my corner. That season I experienced the deepest encounters with the love of God. A couple of months into chemotherapy, when my energy was fading and chores were piling up, I was home alone and wig-less, when my doorbell rang. I did not have it in me to walk from the couch to the other side of the house to get my hair on, so I opened the door with my bald head shining to face the unannounced visitors. To my surprise, my porch was filled with a swarm of women from my church. They each had a basket of their own cleaning supplies, plus a tote full of food for my family. I was shocked. I think I even tried to shut the door on them out of embarrassment or a sense of shame, but they would have none of it. Against my protests, they took turns working through each room from ceiling fans to baseboards. I did enjoy the company, and we all had a good laugh when they found a half-eaten chocolate bar, along with other candy contraband, hidden in my son’s room. Though I could see in their faces how my pain hurt them, they were doing what they could to live out a mixed passion, compounded of love and sorrow. In contrast to my gift of administration, some people are gifted with compassion. They are beautiful individuals who gravitate toward others during suffering and willingly sit with them in those situations to offer comfort and hope. Our world is better for them. I had never experienced that level of intentional effort before, and it deepened my faith. My lengthy experience with treatment is filled with steady reminders of how to love people even when it is hard. Even when they do not ask for it. Even when they do not know they need that love. Early on, I decided I would learn from my journey. I would let it teach me how to soften the edges of my own personality and come alongside others in their struggles. Precious people joined in my suffering to help bear the weight of my lowest moments. When everything felt like it was falling apart, I witnessed many examples of genuine compassion, and it changed me. I am still the person to make decisions and execute plans, but I continue learning how to live out my gift from a softer spirit. As the holidays approach this year, I challenge you to look beyond your comfort zone and realize we are all fighting something. We will not get it right in every moment. I know I fall short often, but make a decision to practice compassion, and act on it.
CHAMBER BUZZ
SHOP PONCA 1st
Story by Shelley Arrott, Ponca City Chamber of Commerce CEO | Contributing Writer
Happy November, Ponca City! The first days of the month mark the beginning of the Chamber’s annual Santa Buck Giveaway Sales Promotion. Every holiday season, excitement fills the air as shoppers eagerly gather their tickets for a chance to win big! What began as an initiative to boost the local economy has grown into a beloved holiday tradition, becoming an iconic part of Ponca City’s festive spirit and making December even more special. To celebrate the kickoff of the Santa Buck Giveaway, I’ve taken a deep dive into the history of this cherished tradition, speaking with many longtime Ponca Citians to learn more about its roots and evolution.
My research revealed that the Santa Buck Giveaway first originated through the Ponca City Main Street Program, with David Keathly leading the effort. After learning this, I reached out to Keathly directly! While the exact year of the promotion – originally known as the Community-Wide Holiday Giveaway – is unclear, most agree it began in the late 1980s or early 1990s. Keathly was inspired by a similar promotion in another community and thought it would be a great way to boost local sales. The tradition began with an exciting grand prize: a 1965 Mustang, purchased at cost from Carter Buller, the owner of Spray’s Jewelry, who was renowned for refurbishing classic cars. Shoppers earned one ticket for every $10 spent at downtown-only merchants, and on the day of the drawing, the Mustang was proudly displayed between 4th & 5th and Grand in front of City Hall.
One of the key requirements for the first drawings was that winners had to be present to claim their prize. As a result, shoppers packed the parking spaces and lots along Grand Avenue, eagerly tuning in to local radio stations to hear if their number was called. Keathly recalled that the Ponca City Police Department estimated as many as 2,000 cars and 4,000 people crowded the downtown area, all hoping for a chance to win. While no one remembers who won the first Poinsettia Red 1965 Mustang, the iconic car remained the grand prize for the next two years. In the second year, the Mustang was Spruce Green, and the third year, it was a Snow-White Mustang!
The Chamber is believed to have taken over the event after the three Mustangs were given away, though the exact year remains uncertain. The shift was made to involve the
entire business community, not just downtown merchants. A committee, called “Give Ponca the Business” or “Give Ponca the Bucks,” was formed to organize the event, and the prizes evolved into Santa Bucks, which could be spent at participating businesses, ensuring local sales benefited the merchants. The ticket drawings took place from a hopper set up in the Chamber parking lot, while participants listened from home or in their cars over the radio. Winners had five minutes to call the Chamber office to verify their ticket number and 15 minutes to bring their winning ticket to the office to claim their prize. The Community-Wide Holiday Giveaway’s slogan became “Shop Ponca First.”
In 1996, Mayor Homer Nicholson recalls that the event was moved to Sullins Stadium. That same year, he purchased his first brand-new vehicle, a Ford F150 pick-up, and was asked to transport the ticket hopper on his trailer. With his new truck, he pulled the hopper to the stadium, where ticketholding patrons filled the stands that evening, clutching their tickets in whatever bags they
had brought. Chamber Board Members spun the hopper, drawing tickets for Santa Bucks prizes, and announced the winning numbers over a microphone from the field. At that time, winners had to be present to claim their prizes, so the crowd eagerly sifted through their tickets, hoping for a lucky win!
That same year, the event’s growth called for an upgrade, transforming the original rudimentary chicken-wire-covered wooden hopper into a massive wheel hopper encased in Plexiglas. The new design was necessary to accommodate
the over one million tickets collected for the giveaway! The wheel, originally used to hold electrical wire, was generously donated, and Homer Nicholson – who was not yet mayor –contributed the Plexiglas and his time to help cover the wheel. He was assisted by his future wife, Barbara Rozell. Mitchco built the sturdy tripod to support the enormous wheel hopper, and the rest is history.
With over a million tickets inside, the hopper was incredibly heavy, and it took several men to turn it. A fun bit of trivia: after each year's Santa Buck Giveaway, Rozell would crawl through a small trap door to clear out the tickets. She even found a photo of her and Homer working on the hopper. Recently, Homer and I visited Hangar Number 6 at the Ponca City Municipal Airport, where the iconic hopper is still stored today, and I had the chance to photograph him with it!
Rich Cantillon was named as the Chamber President/CEO in 2004 and oversaw his first holiday giveaway event with the name changing to Santa Buck Giveaway. The event was held at Sullins Stadium, with Keni Ray serving as Chamber Chair. That year, the weather was brutal – sleet, snow and strong winds – but the stands were still packed with hopeful ticket holders, bundled up and braving the cold to claim their winnings! With tickets blowing everywhere and freezing conditions, it was decided that the Santa Buck Giveaway would no longer be held at Sullins Stadium. Additionally, the hopper had become too large to turn or transport, so tickets
were stored at the Chamber Office, and local radio stations KPNC, KLOR, KLVV and WBBZ broadcast the drawing live as the winning numbers were called.
Today, the Santa Buck Giveaway is hosted at the Chamber Office, with KPNC, KLOR and WBBZ broadcasting live from the office. The prizes remain Santa Bucks, with $10,000 given away – one $5,000 prize, three $1,000 prizes and four $500 prizes. To add to the excitement, Chamber Secret Santas surprise shoppers at participating businesses by covering $50 of their purchase in Santa Bucks.
This beloved tradition, now more than 30 years old, has grown from a simple holiday sales promotion into a community-wide celebration. Families and friends even host Santa Buck Giveaway Watch Parties as part of their holiday traditions. With thousands of dollars in prizes up for grabs, the event attracts both locals and
visitors, all while supporting local businesses and spreading holiday cheer. It’s a fantastic opportunity for businesses to give back to loyal customers and community members eager to join in the fun.
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The Ponca City Area Chamber of Commerce’s Santa Buck Giveaway begins Saturday, Nov. 2. To participate, simply shop locally at any participating merchant for your chance to win big! There’s no cost to shoppers – all you need to do is shop local and support our community. Participating merchants range from car dealers to retailers to service providers, giving you plenty of chances to earn tickets and win a bundle of Santa Bucks to help with your holiday needs!
Good luck, local shoppers! Be sure to tune in on Thursday, Dec. 19, at 7 p.m. to KPNC, KLOR or WBBZ. Have your tickets ready and let the excitement build from the comfort of your home. With every number called, we hope luck is on your side!
Thankfulness isn’t just for Thanksgiving
Story by Kelli Northcutt, Community Health Foundation Executive Director | Contributing Writer
Every year about this time, it is easy to find someone sharing what they are thankful for on social media or at a family gathering. These declarations usually include topics like family, friends, good health and a roof overhead. Research has found that this idea of thankfulness shouldn’t be something that we just practice in the month of November, but all year, and it’s actually really good for our health.
According to UCLA Health, researchers in multiple fields have found that the practice of gratitude, or a strong feeling of appreciation to someone or something, is associated with many positive effects on both mental and physical health. Gratitude can improve sleep, mood and immunity and can decrease depression, anxiety, chronic pain and disease. People with a grateful mindset report more satisfaction with their lives, quality and fulfilling social relationships, more self-esteem along with less depression and anxiety.
Neuroscientists think our brains actually focus on negative things in our environments and lives to help us avoid these negative things in the future. If we’re feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, irritated or frustrated, our brains tend to recall these feelings or events that caused them and we can put much of our focus on these negative things and less focus on the positive and uplifting parts of our lives.
Gratitude comes more naturally to some people. It might be genetics or environment that play a role. For most people, though, gratitude is something that is practiced and worked toward, because as mentioned earlier, our brains naturally tend to focus on the negative.
The American Heart Association recommends five ways to get started practicing gratitude. You can either take a few minutes to write these things down at the end of the day or spend a few minutes at dinner each night sharing them.
1. Health – what did your body do for you today? Each day our lungs take about 20,000 breaths and our heart beats 100,000 times. Our legs take us to work or school and our hands clap at our kids’ activities. Each and every day there is something our bodies do for us for which we can be grateful.
2. Food – what did you eat that nourished your body today? Maybe you had a salad at lunch filled with veggies grown by area farmers, maybe you tried a new recipe or maybe you indulged in a sweet treat. If you eat three meals a day, that’s about 1000 meals you eat every year.
3. Activity – what did you enjoy doing today? It’s possible you went for a walk, had a conversation with a friend, laughed at a video online, played with your dog or took five minutes to be quiet and still. Every day has at least one activity that brings joy.
4. Relationships – who did you connect with today? Maybe today
your spouse listened about your hard day, your child gave you a hug, you scheduled a meet-up with friends or a stranger smiled at you at the grocery store. Our lives are filled with connection, and there is always someone for which we can be thankful.
5. Time – what did you do with your time today? Many of us tend to be short on time, but the way we spend our time is a choice. It’s possible you woke up early to have five extra minutes of quiet, spent a few minutes reading a new book, worked on a hobby or spent quality time with someone you love. Each day has 24 hours and even with many of those hours full of “required” tasks, we can be thankful for each of the hours in a day.
You can even practice gratitude on your device. There are lots of apps that have to do with gratitude. Find one that works for you and your lifestyle. Popular apps include: Gratitude, Appreciation Jar (for couples), Gratitude Forest, Three Lines Gratitude Journal and the Happiness Bar Gratitude Journal.
However you decide to practice, gratitude in your life, remember it’s a practice but one that’s good for your health not just in November, but all year too!
Taco Stop
It’s hard to imagine Ponca City without Taco Stop. Trying to describe Taco Stop to someone who has never experienced it is a conundrum because it’s not traditional Mexican food. It isn’t American food. It’s not Tex-Mex. It’s like this secret fourth thing that is simply Taco Stop.
Opened as a Taco Grande in 1967, this humble, little restaurant was purchased by Randy and Marsha Trant in 1983. In 1988, the Taco Grande franchise was dissolved, and the restaurant was renamed Taco Stop. Fast forward to today, this beloved local spot is owned by Cory and Angie Neufeld, who bought the restaurant in 2019.
The burrito smothered with chili and cheese is a must. This hearty dish is reminiscent of a smothered Chile Colorado burrito, with some Oklahoma flare. Super cheesy and massive, the chili that blankets the burrito is like a rich Mexican stew of ground beef, spices, tomato and beans. This burrito is brimming with so
much filling that the flour tortilla is exhausted trying to contain the contents. This is a go-to dish.
The casadias at Taco Stop are superior to their tacos, and their tacos are good. Unlike a quesadilla, the casadia is like a tostada. A crispy, corn tortilla topped with sauce, cheese and the delicious ground beef mixture used in most of Taco Stop’s dishes. They are the perfect combination of crunchy and soft textures meeting in one bite. Also like a tostada, casadias are not the easiest thing to eat. Imagine eating a tortilla chip with a fork. It’s not easy, but it is 100% worth it.
The taco salad is loaded with shredded lettuce, the incredible ground beef, mountains of shredded cheese and dressing. However, skip the dressing and ask for the homemade sauce instead. The dressing has a bit of sweetness to it that is very popular, but the sauce has some tang and spice and everything nice.
For a local restaurant to have remained, and thrived, for almost 60 years through countless changes must mean that it has something special. Taco Stop is the epitome of a hidden-in-plain-sight, hole-in-thewall restaurant, that people always remember after visiting. From the staff to the food to the service to the owners to the location, everything about Taco Stop is special. Support small, support local and enjoy. Happy Eating!!
Taco Stop is located at 406 W. Grand, Ponca City. Phone 580.762.5096
Hours: Monday through Friday –11:00 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday.
Check out Taco Stop on Facebook at @tacostopllc and follow their page.
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The mild sauce is awesome, but if a bit of heat is your thing, ask for the spicy or extra spicy.
Salsa … I live the salsa life. The food, not the dance. I’m a horrible dancer. Chips and salsa are my all-time, number one, favorite food to eat. Hands down, no contest. There is no such thing as “bad” salsa. Is there salsa that is top tier and salsa that, well, isn’t? Sure. I will still eat enough low-level salsa to feed a family of six in one sitting. I am bordering on obsession and I’m totally OK with it. With so many variations, it might be the ultimate food. Want something chunky? Pico de gallo. Don’t like tomatoes? Salsa verde. Want something sweet? Mango salsa it is. Salsa is meant for everyone. Find a local restaurant and buy salsa to go and have it available all the time. Stop buying the bestselling brand of salsa (ahem … Pace) at the grocery store. Seriously, stop. I know I said there was no bad salsa, but that is not up to scratch, guys. You deserve better.
The taco burgers are meaty, messy and perfect. Frito chili pie is available every day –every single day.
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FALLing Back: Daylight Savings Time & Tips for Improving Sleep Quality as Daylight Hours Decrease
Story by Shannon Somers / Contributing Writer
As we transition into fall and winter, we experience shorter days and longer nights. This seasonal change usually has quite an impact on our sleep patterns and overall well-being. With the arrival of cooler temperatures and a decrease in natural light, it’s crucial to focus on sleep hygiene to ensure you get the restful sleep you need. Here are some tips to help you improve your sleep quality during this time of year.
One of the most effective ways to improve sleep quality is by maintaining a regular sleep schedule. Go to bed and wake up close to the same time every day, even on weekends. This consistency reinforces your body’s natural sleep-wake cycle, making it easier to fall asleep and wake up feeling refreshed.
Establishing a calming pre-sleep routine can signal to your body that it’s time to wind down. Consider activities such as reading a book, practicing meditation, or taking a warm bath. Try to avoid stimulating activities and screens at least an hour before bed, as the blue light emitted by devices can interfere with melatonin production.
Your bedroom should be a sleep sanctuary. Keep the room dark, cool, and quiet. Consider blackout curtains to block out early morning light and use a white noise machine
or earplugs to mask disruptive sounds. Make sure your mattress and pillows are comfortable, and consider investing in quality bedding for added comfort.
As daylight hours decrease, it’s essential to maximize your exposure to natural light during the day. Spend time outdoors, especially in the morning, to help regulate your circadian rhythm. If you’re indoors, try to sit near windows or use light therapy lamps that mimic natural light.
The holidays can bring additional stress and anxiety, which may impact your sleep quality. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or journaling to help manage stress levels. If racing thoughts keep you awake, try writing down your worries before bed to clear your mind.
As the days grow shorter and colder, prioritizing sleep hygiene becomes increasingly important for your physical and mental well-being. By establishing healthy sleep habits and creating a conducive sleep environment, you can improve your sleep quality and wake up feeling refreshed and ready to tackle the day. Remember, quality sleep is not just a luxury; it’s essential for a healthy life.
On Tuesday, Nov. 5, 2024, America will vote between Former President Donald Trump and Madam Vice President Kamala Harris to be the new President of the United States of America.
Being in the midst of election season, and so much going on around the world, exposure to news, hot topics and the latest mass distractions are hard to circumvent. Election season can be triggering to many and several people you know will experience increased stress and anxiety as a result of the upcoming election and news surrounding it! Cruising through the current political season doesn’t have to add to your stress. There are many coping strategies one may practice to lessen their stress and anxiety regarding political news and election month. I have five effective strategies I would like to share:
1. Educate yourself
It is important to be informed and knowledgeable of what is going on, so completely avoiding the news is something that many won’t do! To negate the negative side effects of political news, it’s probably wise to be informed but balanced! You can be informed yet balanced by seeking out information on candidates and their policies rather than relying on news or media to provide that information to you. This way you can control how much or how little you consume. Learning about the issues and candidates in a way that feels manageable, without getting lost in the noise will be essential to your mental well-being.
2. Set Healthy Boundaries
Setting boundaries is always great! This can be done with almost any aspect of your life, including news consumption! In order to combat the negative effects of overexposure to the news, it could be safe to designate specific times to check the news or social media to avoid feeling overwhelmed, rather than keeping the news playing in the background, or constantly exposing yourself to it via social media and other outlets. When you decide to be intentional with setting this boundary, be sure to choose reliable sources from which you will receive your news. Stick to reputable news sources to minimize misinformation.
“Consider the Source” – Shelley Arrott.
3. Be Present
Be in the here and the now! Be present! Mindfulness is being intentionally aware of your present environments and paying attention to what is happening that very moment without judgment. When practicing mindfulness, someone would pay attention to what they are thinking about, identifying their emotions and observing their surroundings without reacting. Thoughts are not facts! By paying attention to our thoughts, we will begin to identify what is fact and what is fiction. When you identify a fake or unwanted thought, call it out!
Call it fake and affirm that it is not wanted or true, then think about things that are real, pleasant and true! Our thoughts influence our feelings, and our
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feelings influence our reactions to things or our behaviors! Even Apostle Paul, when locked in prison, waiting for his execution wrote, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.” Philippians 4:7-8.
4. Connect
We (humans) were not made to do life alone, so connect with others! Talk about your feelings and experiences, and experience life with someone or a group of people you like or love; your safe person or people! Share your concerns with friends or family. Sometimes just talking it out can alleviate anxiety. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging people and intentionally seek out positive conversations and exchanges. It can also be wise to unfollow or in some instances, unfriend negative pages or accounts that trigger your stress and anxiety. It’s OK to give yourself permission to limit negative interactions, even with family and
friends. This is appropriate boundary setting and self-care! And finally, participate in local events or volunteer opportunities to foster a sense of connection and purpose. There are many clubs, boards, churches and small groups in the area you can visit or join to fulfill this, plus Ponca City has something going on every day it seems. It is easy to engage in our wonderful community.
5. Self-Care
Finally, make self-care a priority! Self-care is incredibly important no matter what season of the year it is or if it is presidential election month! Setting a routine is beneficial in establishing stability, and maintaining that routine is beneficial in providing stability during times where we may feel unstable or when there is actual or perceived chaos. Participating in an activity you enjoy, whether it’s walking, dancing, exercising or strolling through your favorite store are all forms of self-care. All of these things can boost your mood and reduce stress. Self-care is more than strolling around your
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favorite store, setting a routine or pampering yourself. All the aforementioned strategies are forms of self-care that can be utilized during this election season and can be used year-round! By implementing these strategies, you can help manage the stress and anxiety that often accompany election season or any stressful season in life.
If you or someone you know needs mental health assistance of any kind, please feel free to reach out to your local community mental health agency. In addition, you can call or text 988 (the suicide and crisis lifeline) or call 911.
Take care of yourselves,
Relo Adams, Mr. Ponca City
A Time to Share Our Gratitude
As we welcome another Thanksgiving, we want to take this opportunity to thank our good friends and members here in the community for their support and trust in us.
We are proud to support Ponca City 501c3 organizations through charitable grants.
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I’Stew On That
by Rachel Stewart / Contributing Writer
m somewhere around the age of 30, about three or so years ago. Three to five years ago I was around the age of 30, plus a year or two. And this is easily my most favorite stage of life. Sure, did I used to lie to my mom (sorry, mom) about staying the night at a friend’s house, when really, I was partying in a random field with strangers? Maybe. Did I used to be able to go have a margarita whenever I wanted before I had kids? Yup. Did I used to stay up until the wee hours of the morning, only to be able to wake up early the next day for work and not feel like death? Yes! Did I used to have fun plans every single weekend, going to concerts, traveling out of town, not a care in the world? You bet! But now, I get texts from my sister asking if I want to see her catio (a cat patio), and let me tell you something, I really wanted to see that catio. It’s adorable, it has two stories and a little screened-in porch. And it’s purple, which was a neat
surprise. Now, I get to go rug shopping, which, fun fact, rugs are insanely, crazily expensive. And I don’t even know why, I’m not shopping for them in some handmade artisan rug shop, I’m literally just at Lowe’s. Now, I get to watch the birds from my front porch, and get really excited when we see a rare white-breasted nuthatch, which we identified via the app on our phone that we pay $2.99 a month for that helps us identify birds, either by photo or by sound. Now, I get to take leisurely evening strolls, and use another app on our phone that we pay $2.99 a month for that helps us identify plants and leaves and trees, and I’ll be gosh darned if we didn’t come across a prairiefire crabapple one time! Now, I get to conversate with my friends about what color to paint their kitchen island, inkwell black is too black, but black fox is too gray, but is tricorn black black enough? We don’t know, we haven’t decided, and we’ve been talking about it for months now. Tough, tough decisions. It’s a blessing to age, and I feel blessed to enjoy the simpler, less hungover joys of life these days!
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CONFRONTING THE PRESIDENTS: No Spin Assessments From Washington to Biden
By Bill O’Reilly & Martin Dugard
The team of Bill O’Reilly and Martin Dugard has co-authored 18 bestsellers, namely the Killing series. They take a new approach to their narrative history books with Confronting the Presidents. The authors are consistent in their thorough research of the subject matter. In this book, they share 45 insightful reviews of our presidents from George Washington to Joe Biden, chock-full of entertaining snippets and surprising detail.
I was pleasantly surprised to find that the authors’ claim of “No Spin Assessments” seemed to be true. O’Reilly and Dugard simply share the facts and allow the reader to draw their own conclusions regarding the effectiveness of each of these presidents.
I’d like to share just one of the vignettes I found wonderfully entertaining:
During the War of 1812, when the British were burning down Washington D.C., Dolley Madison insisted on saving the eight-foot portrait of George Washington, one of the
few national treasures of our young nation. After the portrait was saved, the socially proper First Lady had a banquet of food and wine set out in the president’s mansion for the advancing British officers. Only after that did she flee the White House, shortly before the British arrived.
Since the legacies of President Trump and President Biden are incomplete, the authors chose to write separate essays on both presidents, without consulting each other. I was impressed with this approach.
This book is an exceptional review of our country’s history, seen through the lens of the presidency. It was refreshing to discover that some of our presidents who are considered ineffective have surprisingly accomplished wonderful things for our nation. Additionally, some of our most beloved presidents had unbelievable skeletons stashed in their closets.
Reviewed by Lorrie Layton
CYBERSPIES (Swift & Hawk, Book 1)
by Logan Macx
Caleb Quinn attends the ARC Institute in London.
ARC stands for AI, Robotics and Cybertech, three of its core areas of study. Caleb’s mom is a senior CIA agent stationed at the American Embassy in London. As the book opens, Caleb arrives home to discover his mom has unexpected guests who sound quite threatening. Using technology he developed, Caleb eavesdrops on the conversation, only to hear his mom use their secret code word indicating he is to evacuate immediately and get to safety.
Caleb follows his mom’s instructions and returns to the ARC. He is unable to find Professor Clay, who he is supposed to contact. In the meantime, he discovers that his best friend, Zenobia Rafiq who boards at the ARC, is missing. Following clues she has left for him, Caleb manages to connect with her and the professor in secret tunnels under the British Museum.
It seems Zen’s family has been kidnapped, just like Caleb’s mom was abducted. Even more surprisingly, Professor Clay runs the rumored
Mobius Program. It’s supposed to be a special program for a handful of older students at the ARC, run in cooperation with the GCHQ – the UK’s intelligence, security and cyber agency. They have been observing Zen and Caleb for some time now and believe the two of them have what it takes to be invited to join the program. (Zen’s proficient in robotics, while Caleb excels in artificial intelligence.)
While trying to escape the bad guys, Caleb and Zen are separated from the professor. They have their individual skills and a data stick the professor had handed them just moments before, with “everything you’ll need.” If their families are going to be rescued, it looks like it’s up to them.
I truly enjoyed Caleb and Zen’s resourcefulness and friendship. This looks to be a great series.
Reviewed by Lorrie Layton
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The Sunny Side
by Liz Threlkeld / Contributing Writer
Welcome to “The Sunny Side” where we’ll chat about all things homesteading! My name is Liz Threlkeld and I have been homesteading with my family in small forms or large fashions for most of my life. From growing gardens to DIY projects, to cooking and preserving, to raising and processing our own meat animals, we’ve learned a thing or two along the way. I’m excited to get to share some of this life with you. Ready? Let’s grow!
Proactive Homesteading: A New Approach to Old Problems
Hi, Friends!
Well, it’s November already and the air is thick with news about our election, global affairs and whatever else may have transpired since I wrote this article. One of the things I love about homesteading is the simplicity it brings! Regardless of the external chaos, my plants, animals, sourdough and kefir grains still rely on my care. In exchange for my care, they give me sustenance and nourishment for my body and we repeat the cycle all over again. In essence, it’s the circle of life. This mutual dependence fosters a sense of responsibility that is straightforward.
I had a paradigm shift during my journey: the importance of a preparedness mindset. My responsibility extends beyond mere care; it requires an understanding of how to maintain a healthy environment for my living organisms. For example, in the past, when a chicken would get sick, I would ask myself what was wrong with the chicken and try to find a cure to “fix” it. While this approach might be necessary in the moment, I have discovered that, much like our own bodies, the chicken, in a healthy environment, is designed to be well. Being healthy is its natural state of being. Perhaps there was nothing “wrong” with the chicken. Perhaps what was wrong was the
environment in which it must live.
Now, when a chicken gets sick, I look at the overall picture. What led to that chicken's inability to naturally be well? Was there a contaminant in the water? Did I give it a heating lamp when I should have let it acclimate itself? Did the chicken have sufficient space to roost at night therefore getting good sleep? Did the chicken get enough exercise and exposure to the sun? Was the food source meeting its needs?
Approaching the problem from a “prevention” mindset instead of a “fix-it” mindset has been incredibly helpful in warding off a whole host of problems BEFORE they start! I no longer run around addressing emergencies or waiting for the next one to strike. Now, it’s a matter of being proactive and thinking ahead to avoid a pitfall down the road. Oftentimes, the reactionary approach simply leads to a downward spiral of repeating illness because the root issue is never truly addressed.
From our plants and animals, vehicles and homes, and even relationships with others and our own bodies, adopting a preparedness mindset is incredibly valuable. The level of attention dedicated to understanding something and
Approaching the problem from a “prevention” mindset instead of a “fix-it” mindset has been incredibly helpful in warding off a whole host of problems BEFORE they start!
maintaining it in its natural and healthy state often impacts the quality of performance of the recipient of that attention.
In this world filled with uncertainties, embracing a preparedness mindset in my homesteading journey, and life, has become essential for us. While we can’t control everything that causes us concern, focusing on what we can influence, and applying this preparedness principle, allows us to enhance the quality of our small corner of the world and the things and people within it. This approach brings simplicity back to our modern lives and helps us move forward with intention.
So, as we all navigate our complex world in the coming days, I encourage you to take a moment to reflect on what or who you can nurture. Every choice matters in this circle of life. Let’s choose wisely and grow together.
To a thriving future, Liz Threlkeld
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Fall From the Tree
I've always been a bookworm at heart. A nerd if you will. Growing up, I loved books that let you pick your ending. After finishing one, I’d flip back to try out different choices and see how the story changed. This month, I’m excited to feature a cocktail that gives you a similar thrill. Picture a fall drink that lets you choose your own adventure, not in terms of how your night wraps up (that’s entirely up to you), but through the different liquors you select, highlighting a unique flavor in every sip!
Get ready for sweater weather in a glass with Fall from the Tree, a cocktail created by bartender Jim Kearns during his time at The Happiest Hour in New York. You can customize this drink depending on the spirit you choose. Jim Kearns likes to use Laird’s Applejack, but bourbon or scotch works great too. I used Woodford Reserve to mellow out the apple flavor, and it turned out delicious!
At the Happiest Hour, they have a unique way of crafting
spirit. The Fall from the Tree cocktail also includes a cinnamon syrup that’s worth making at home. Not only does it add a rich, warm flavor to your drink, but it also makes your house smell amazing.
The other ingredients in this cocktail are pretty straightforward. If bitters aren’t part of your bar setup yet, you’re missing out! They add delightful herbal nuances to many cocktail recipes. For garnish, we’re using dehydrated apple slices. I recently visited Sunny Creek Farms inside City Central, where I found an amazing selection of dehydrated products, including locally made dehydrated caramel apples from RLC Farm. If you haven’t checked out their store yet, I highly recommend it!
Speaking of farms, I’m SO ready for pumpkin patches and apple orchards! October had us sweating through record heat, but November is finally teasing us with the promise of cooler days! Fall is officially here, which means we’re already cruising into the last stretch of the year. It’s my favorite season, and I can’t wait for cozy sweaters, holiday gatherings, and delicious Thanksgiving fixings I don’t have to cook myself. I can whip up a mean cocktail but let’s be real, my turkey is so dry it could
Recipe:
• 2 oz Laird’s Applejack (or bourbon or scotch)
• 1 oz Apple Juice (or apple cider)
• ½ oz Cinnamon Syrup
• ¼ oz Lemon Juice
• 1 dash of Aromatic Bitters
• Garnish with dehydrated apple slice
Cinnamon Syrup:
Start by making your cinnamon syrup in advance so it’s ready when you want to mix your fall cocktails. In a small saucepan, boil 1 cup of water and stir in 1 cup of sugar until dissolved. Reduce the heat, add 4 cinnamon sticks, cover, and simmer for about 5 minutes. Remove from heat and let it steep and cool for at least 1 hour. Strain into a container and refrigerate for up to 2 weeks.
Combine the applejack (or bourbon/ scotch), apple juice (or apple cider), cinnamon syrup, lemon juice, and bitters in a shaker with ice.
Shake until well chilled, then strain into a coupe glass.
Garnish with an apple slice.
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Agatha All Along
Marvel’s newest spinoff series, Agatha All Along, comes as a breath of fresh air after some more divisive recent Marvel releases like Moon Knight and She-Hulk. Agatha All Along brings something refreshingly new, with a story and main character that stand very much on their own merit.
Agatha All Along picks up after the events of WandaVision, where Agatha Harkness, the powerhungry witch, was first introduced. In this spinoff, we follow Agatha, played by Kathryn Hahn, as she embarks on a new journey that’s equal parts, mystery and magical adventure. Agatha, known for her dark wit and unpredictable nature, finds herself at the center of a coven of witches, all vying for their own desires. Given that Marvel has some of the most powerful sorcerer and witch characters as part of its canon, the plot of this show almost writes itself.
But what started as just a compelling character narrative, and an interesting plot turned into an unexpected homage to the greatest witch story of all time. Within the first 3 minutes of the first episode of Agatha All Along, I hear the phrase, “She’s really,
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most sincerely dead.” My inner Oz nerd let out a little scream of joy at the inside joke. Agatha All Along is FILLED - and I mean filled - with nods to the Wizard of Oz. In fact, the central premise of the series is that an unlikely group of misfits is brought together and choose to travel down a road (this series calls it the Witches’ Road) and if they survive, they will get the thing they want the most. I mean, come on! The group of witches has to overcome trials along the road (the humor of calling them trials is not lost on me), and each trial is meant to test the skills of the witches. All in all, this series is spooky and filled with quick-witted humor, and even though it’s not a classic murder mystery, it has a very mysterious “whodunit” feel. Is Agatha as bad of a witch as her reputation dictates? This show seeks to answer the same question Glinda asks Dorothy upon her arrival in Oz. “Are you a good witch, or a bad witch?”
Agatha All Along premiered on Disney+ on September 18 and wrapped up its weekly run with a double-episode season finale on October 30.
