STAFFORD Living
Pop the Prosecco: CELEBRATING
COMMUNITY WITH TORTICA ANDERSON
Cover Photo by Karen Presecan Photography
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DEAR STAFFORD NEIGHBORS,
Happy New Year and welcome to the January 2025 issue of Stafford Living! As we step into a fresh year, we’re filled with gratitude for the residents, businesses, and charities that make our publication so vibrant. Your support throughout 2024 helped us share inspiring stories, promote local businesses, and strengthen our sense of community.
In this issue, we are honored to feature Tortica Anderson. Inspired by her own mother, Tortica has done everything in her power to give back to the Stafford community over the last two decades-- all while running her event planning business and raising two incredible children. We hope you’ll be inspired by her story to give back in your own way in 2025!
We also spotlight the heartwarming friendship of Jessica Story and Rebecca Church and the charity they’ve started. Their positive mindset and commitment to finding joy in the face of Jessi’s fight against ALS remind us all of the power of resilience and the human spirit.
There’s a focus on self-improvement for the new year, too, with tips for helping your pets shed extra pounds and advice on achieving personal growth in 2025.
Here’s to a fantastic year ahead, Stafford! And, as always, if there’s a story out there we need to tell, or a local hero we should spotlight, please don’t hesitate to reach out and connect us. We are always looking for feedback and suggestions for making this publication as helpful, engaging, and positive as possible!
Happy reading-- and all the best to you and yours in 2025!
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ARBOR TECH: A CUT ABOVE IN TREE CARE
By Mallory Hardgrove
Founded and led by Patrick Wade, Arbor Tech has earned a reputation for exceptional tree care services. With over two decades of experience in the industry, Wade’s journey began in 1998 when, at just 16 years old, he realized his passion for working outdoors.
“I’ve always loved the outdoors and have always been drawn to nature,” said Wade. This love was the driving force behind establishing Arbor Tech. Based on Wade’s philosophy of treating every job as if it were for his own mother, Arbor Tech consistently delivers top-notch results, focusing on safety and customer satisfaction.
Patrick Wade’s approach to tree care is rooted in his deep understanding of the craft and his commitment to excellence. He believes that people should call on experts for tree care because improperly handled jobs can lead to significant safety hazards and unnecessary expenses.
“If you call my company, you’re going to get a quality job done right,” Wade said, underscoring the importance of skilled work that protects both properties and the health of trees.
Wade’s love for family equally matches his passion for his work. A selfproclaimed family man, he is married with two boys and spends his spare time coaching youth sports and working with his show dogs. His commitment to his family extends to his business, where he fosters a close-knit team of professionals who share his values and work ethic.
One of Arbor Tech’s clients, who lives in a large community with hundreds of homes and nearly 1,000 trees, left a glowing review that exemplifies the company’s outstanding service: “Exceptionally good service is rare, and these guys aced every aspect,” the client wrote, expressing delight with Arbor Tech’s professionalism, efficiency, and safety measures.
The job, which involved handling trees over 100 feet tall and managing the complexities of power lines, active streets, and densely packed properties, was completed “with precision and care. “ The client noted how Arbor Tech’s crew, equipped with brand new trucks and hightech equipment, “worked hard from the first morning with enthusiasm and a clear awareness of their surroundings.”
Arbor Tech’s employees are enthusiastic because Wade is deeply involved in every project and has earned the respect of his team through his leadership by example.
“The owner himself was getting down and dirty,” the client continued, praising the teamwork, motivation, and expertise displayed by every member of the Arbor Tech crew. “By the end of the first day, the team was ahead of schedule, and the job was completed more than a day early, with no incidents.”
For anyone in need of expert tree care, Arbor Tech is the go-to choice. With a record of exceptional service, a commitment to safety, and an unmatched dedication to customer satisfaction, Patrick Wade and his team continue to raise the bar in the tree care industry.
Tortica Anderson: Tortica Anderson: A LEGACY OF CARE, COMMUNITY, AND CELEBRATION
By Mallory Hardgrove, Photos by Karen Presecan Photography and Courtesy of Tortica Anderson
For over two decades, Tortica Anderson has epitomized what it means to be a good neighbor, giving back to the Stafford community and blending her entrepreneurial expertise with a passion for service. Tortica balances her roles as a mother, business owner, and community outreach advocate, profoundly impacting those around her. Her story is a prime example of resilience, creativity, and a commitment to improving the world around her—one event, meal, or simple act of kindness at a time.
Family Matters
Family is at the heart of everything Tortica does. She moved to Stafford in 2002, drawn by the promise of a suburban lifestyle and opportunities for her business, and has since raised her children there.
Her son, Reynaldo, 33, exemplifies the values she instilled in her family. A North Stafford High School graduate, he earned a bachelor’s degree from UNC-Chapel Hill and a master’s degree from Troy University. Now a track and field coach at George Mason University, Reynaldo is dedicated to inspiring young athletes.
“He aspires to motivate and empower young athletes to make a difference in their lives and journeys,” Tortica says, beaming with joy. Reynaldo is recently engaged to his beautiful fiancée, Joeandra, and they have a destination wedding planned next year—of course, Tortica and her team will plan and manage the joyous occasion.
Her daughter, Serenity, 17, shares her mother’s community-minded spirit. A senior at Mountain View High School, Serenity is considering a career in nursing or child development, with plans to attend Germanna Community College. Beyond her academic aspirations, Serenity runs an inspiring nonprofit, Gift of Love, which she started at just seven years old.
“She’s been giving back to displaced and homeless families for a decade, feeding as many as 300 people at Christmas and throughout the year,” Tortica proudly shares.
A Legacy of Giving
The spirit of giving has been a cornerstone of Tortica’s life, originating with her mother, Iretha, whose generosity and compassion profoundly shaped her family. Tortica recalls how her mother always found ways to support those in need, even with limited resources.
“She taught me the importance of serving others and the joy it brings,” Tortica reflects. This legacy has not only guided Tortica’s journey but has also been passed down to Serenity, who carries on the tradition with her nonprofit work. Together, they embody a multigenerational commitment to making a difference in their community, continuing Iretha’s example of kindness and service.
A Life of Service & Giving Back
Tortica’s dedication to giving back is evident in her community initiatives. Whether it’s providing catering for events, helping families transition from shelters to homes, or supporting those in times of grief or celebration, she sees her business as a tool for making a difference.
One of her most impactful collaborations is the “12 Days of Giving” campaign during the holiday season. She assists in planning initiatives like Breakfast with Santa, the Adopt a Family Angel Tree, and Free Pictures with Santa, often partnering with other women-led businesses.
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“Through this campaign, we’ve helped families in need by providing food, clothing, toys, gently used coats, and essentials during the holiday season,” she says.
Her belief in collaboration drives her work with local entrepreneurs. “When women and businesses come together for a cause, the results can be extraordinary,” she says.
Building Her Business
Tortica is the founder and Director of Catering & Events of A Family Affair Event Management, LLC, an inclusive event planning, management, and catering firm. Over 23 years, her firm has built a reputation for curating memorable experiences in weddings, corporate, social, and destination events.
Her resilience shone during the COVID-19 pandemic, as she pivoted her business to support the community. “We served meals to local hospital employees and provided boxed meals to shelters and the homeless community,” she recalls.
A Place to Call Home
Until recently, Tortica was also a fulltime caregiver for her mother, Iretha, who lived with her family until her passing in July 2024. “My mother’s presence was a blessing in our home,” she reflects. Balancing caregiving with entrepreneurship was challenging, but her faith and determination guided her.
I love the support here and the beautiful neighborhoods and businesses that make this area special.
Living in Stafford for over two decades, Tortica has a deep appreciation for her community. “I love the support here and the beautiful neighborhoods and businesses that make this area special,” she says.
Her favorite local spots include parks and restaurants, where she spends time with loved ones. “I enjoy experiencing what the area has to offer,” she adds.
When not immersed in her business or community projects, Tortica loves to travel. Her work often takes her to remarkable destinations, including Santorini, Greece, where she recently planned an event for a Stafford couple. “Traveling inspires me, and I plan to do more in 2025,” she says.
Looking Ahead
As Tortica moves forward, her goals remain rooted in community, creativity, and connections. Her entrepreneurial journey continues to evolve, blending her passion for event planning with her commitment to service.
Serenity’s upcoming graduation and Reynaldo’s engagement bring her a sense of fulfillment, knowing she has instilled the values of hard work, compassion, and perseverance in her children.
“I’m proud of what I’ve built here, and I’m excited about what’s next,” she says. Whether planning a grand wedding or supporting a neighbor in need, Tortica Anderson’s legacy is one of unwavering care and celebration— and we can’t wait to see what she does in 2025!
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CALENDAR
of events
Upcoming Events January - February
Thurs., Jan. 9
Learn to Sculpt the Expressive Hand
@Corgi Clay Art Center
Time: 6- 9pm (each Thurs. for 8 weeks)
15 Tech Pkwy.
Stafford, VA 22556
Tickets: corgiclayartcenter.com/class-list
Sat., Jan. 11
Winter Market
@Dorothy Hart Community Center
Time: 9am- 1pm 408 Canal St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Sat., Jan. 11
Stand Up Comedy Show
@StageDoor
Time: 8pm
810 Caroline St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Tickets: $15
Sat., Jan. 11
Fused Glass Techniques- Beginners
@Corgi Clay Art Center
Time: 1- 4pm 15 Tech Pkwy.
Stafford, VA 22556
Tickets: corgiclayartcenter.com/class-list
Fri., Jan. 17- Sat. Jan. 18
The Good, The Bad, and The Improv @StageDoor
Time: 8pm
810 Caroline St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Tickets: $15
Sat., Jan. 18
Art Extravaganza 2025
@Rowser Building
Time: 9am-12:30pm; 12:30- 3pm 1739 Richmond Hwy. Stafford, VA 22554
Sat., Jan. 18
Mulled Wine Festival
@Eden Try Winery
Time: 12- 6pm
6818 River Rd.
Fredericksburg, VA 22407
Fri., Jan. 24
Rocky Guttman
@6 Bears & A Goat Brewing Company
Time: 7- 9:30pm 1140 International Pkwy. Fredericksburg, VA 22406
Sun., Jan. 26
Free Guided Woodland Hike
@Gari Melchers Home and Studio
Time: 2- 3:30pm
224 Washington St. Falmouth, VA 22405
Wed., Jan. 29
Pastels 101- Beginners
@Corgi Clay Art Center
Time: 10am- 1pm (each Wed. for 6 weeks)
15 Tech Pkwy. Stafford, VA 22556
Tickets: corgiclayartcenter.com/class-list
Sat., Feb. 1
Give Kids A Smile Day
@Lloyd F. Moss Free Clinic
Time: 9am- 4pm 1301 Sam Perry Blvd. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Sat., Feb. 1
Winter Market
@Dorothy Hart Community Center
Time: 9am- 1pm 408 Canal St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Multiple Day Events
Every Tuesday
Music Bingo
@Barley Naked Brewing Co.
Time: 6- 8pm 15 Tech Pkwy. Stafford, VA 22556
Every Wednesday
Trivia with Trapper
@6 Bears & A Goat Brewing Company
Time: 7pm
1140 International Pkwy. Fredericksburg, VA 22406
Every Wednesday
Adventure Jeopardy
@Adventure Brewing at Eagle Village Time: 7:30- 9pm 1113 Emancipation Hwy. Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Every Friday
Free Music Friday
@Red Dragon Brewery
Time: 6:30pm 1419 Princess Anne Street Fredericksburg, VA 22401
Every Saturday in January
Book Signing with Mora Soan
@MCX- Quantico
Time: 11am- 4pm 3500 Russell Rd. Quantico, VA 22134
At the time this magazine went to print, all event times and locations were accurate, but please check event websites for the most current information. Some events may have been postponed or canceled.
Fighting ALS with Joy ALS with Joy
THE MISSION OF THE FIGHT ALS FOR JESS FOUNDATION
By Mallory Hardgrove, Photos By Kristin Musselman, Lucky Lane Photography & Courtesy of Rebecca Church
Diagnosed with ALS in 2020, Jessica “Jessi” Story chose a path of resilience and hope. With her best friend and advocate, Rebecca Church, Jessi launched the Fight ALS for Jess Foundation, a nonprofit that supports families affected by this devastating disease.
“Accessibility is a human right,” Jessi says. “Families impacted by ALS deserve to be supported, educated, and uplifted. Our foundation is about ensuring no one feels alone in this fight.”
Jessi’s ALS diagnosis marked the start of a mission to spread awareness and help others navigate the disease’s challenges. Rebecca recalls the resolve they shared: “When Jessi received her diagnosis, it was devastating, but we decided together that this would not define her. She said, ‘I’m going to live my life. I’m going to choose joy every single day.’ And she meant it.”
ALS, a neurodegenerative disease, gradually takes away the ability to move, speak, and even breathe. Despite the average life expectancy of two to four years, Jessi has surpassed this grim prognosis, choosing joy as her guiding principle.
“Joy is not a circumstance; it’s a decision,” Jessi explains. “Yes, ALS is real, and it’s tough, but I have so much to live for. I’m lucky to have incredible friends, caregivers, and a community that loves me unconditionally. I’m lucky to know Jesus as my Savior.”
March 2025 will mark the fifth anniversary of Jessi’s diagnosis, a milestone of both reflection and gratitude. “I always celebrate the day for the simple fact that I am still living,” Jessi shares. “It’s hard, and the emotions are overwhelming at times. BUT GOD. He is good, and I’ll keep thanking Him for His goodness.”
The Fight ALS for Jess Foundation also focuses on raising awareness about ALS’s growing prevalence. “Every 90 minutes, someone is diagnosed with ALS, and every 90 minutes, someone loses their battle,” Rebecca explains. “These numbers are staggering and are only expected to rise.”
In late 2024, the foundation hosted its first community event: the Inaugural FXBG Walk to Fight ALS for Jess. The walk drew
supporters together to celebrate Jessi’s strength and raise funds for the cause. “Jessi is one of the strongest women I know,” Rebecca says. This walk and these people mean everything. Showing up for others in their battles truly matters.”
An official website is currently in the works, but for now, people can follow their Facebook and Instagram pages for more information and ways to support their organization.
Through the foundation, Jessi and Rebecca are turning hardship into hope, ensuring no family faces ALS alone. “Together, we can make a difference,” Jessi says. “We can bring hope, love, and light to those who need it most.”
Jessi and Rebecca’s personal journey is shared in our sister publication Neighbors of Chancellorsville this month as well and you can follow along on their Facebook page (Fight ALS for Jess Foundation) and Instagram page (@fightals4jessfoundation). Additionally, the organization will periodically have merchandise for sale at https://www.bonfire.com/store/ fight-als-for-jess-foundation/, with proceeds going to the foundation.
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LOOKING BACK
By Tayler Tanks
The New Year brings a new beginning, an opportunity for reflection, rejuvenation, and fresh starts. As the calendar changes, we are encouraged to embrace the possibilities that lie ahead and let go of the past. A time when we may let go of old habits, break free from patterns that no longer work for us, and develop an exciting and motivating vision for the future, the New Year symbolizes a universal moment of shared hope.
There is something fundamentally motivating about being on the cusp of a new chapter, prepared to set off on a path of self-discovery and personal development, regardless of whether we approach the year with optimism or trepidation. In Stafford, like many places, we’ve seen businesses open and close, new faces join our community, and others take the next step in their journey. Some changes have brought challenges, while others have left us better for it. Yet, through it all, we stand united, a stronger and more resilient community with each passing day.
We have seen trends come and go throughout the year, some of which are temporary while others have been ingrained in our daily lives.
Stafford has continued to change and adapt, whether it be through new technology, neighborhood gatherings, or cultural changes. While some things have come and gone, others have made lasting impressions. Our capacity to unite, whether to celebrate, offer mutual support, or figure out how to proceed in the face of uncertainty, is what never changes. Expressing gratitude for everything that has taken place while we consider these developments is vital. As a group, we have learned to adapt, develop, and endure as a result of the experiences, both positive and negative, and have gained important insights.
We in Stafford are similarly filled with anticipation and thankfulness for the future. As we reflect on our accomplishments, we are equally enthusiastic about what is yet to come. There are countless chances for personal and collective development in the New Year. We appreciate the progress we have made and anticipate that our community, schools, and relationships will continue to grow. As a community, we are prepared to welcome the new and recognize the community’s value. Concentrating on personal achievements is simple, but as the year approaches, it’s necessary to acknowledge our interdependence.
Our neighborhood’s businesses, schools, and neighbors all contribute to its vibrancy and prosperity. As we commemorate all of Stafford County Public School’s achievements and the students who are moving forward in their academic careers, we are reminded that progress is not solely about individual achievements but also about how we all work together to create a more resilient and encouraging community. So, as we step into 2025, let’s take a moment to be thankful for all that has happened over the past year.
From the successes at Mountain View to the countless small victories that have shaped Stafford, we have much to celebrate. But more importantly, let’s look forward with hope and excitement for what’s to come. Many more memories are to be made, challenges to face, and victories to celebrate. Together, as a community, we will continue to grow, evolve, and support one another through all the twists and turns of life. Here’s to a new year full of promise, gratitude, and the unwavering belief that we are capable of achieving even greater things together.
Our Memory Care community is crafted to provide support and encouragement to those with Alzheimer’s and dementia, enabling them to live with dignity and purpose. By valuing each individual’s distinctive qualities and maintaining a flexible approach, we are dedicated to involving our residents in diverse activities that stimulate conversation and uplift their mood. We create moments that matter, so they can Live Happy.
Tayler Tanks is a senior at Mountain View High School. She serves on the Student Council as president. She is a member of the Interact club, the Black Student Union, FCCLA, and FCA. With being in multiple clubs and activities, Tayler is an extremely active member of the Stafford community.
Crockpot Chicken Noodle Soup
By Beth Dunphy
This is the time of year to cozy up by the fire with a warm mug of soup. For me, soup recipes need to be easy, and it doesn’t get much easier than chopping, dumping and letting the crockpot do the work for you! Feel free to add other vegetables to this one (I’ve added eggplant and even spaghetti squash—it’s delish!). We all know that homemade chicken noodle soup is good not only for the soul, but also our health. In our house, this is the time of year that we diffuse Thieves essential oil, take our vitamins, and get plenty of rest…all to support our immune systems. Hopefully, this delicious soup will do the same! Enjoy!
Ingredients
• 1½ lbs. boneless skinless chicken breasts
• 2 cups carrots, peeled and chopped
• 1 medium yellow onion, diced
• 3 stalks celery, chopped
• 3-4 cloves garlic, minced
• 3 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil
Directions
• 1/2 tsp. dried thyme
• 1 bay leaf
• 6 cups chicken broth (I use low-sodium)
• 1 cup water
• Salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
• 2 cups uncooked wide egg noodles (I use the No Yolk brand)
1. In a 6-quart crockpot, place whole chicken breasts on the bottom and top with carrots, onion, celery, garlic, olive oil, thyme and bay leaf.
2. Next, add the chicken broth and water. Season with salt and pepper to taste. I used 1/2 teaspoon salt and 1/4 teaspoon pepper. Cover and cook on low heat 6-7 hours.
3. Remove cooked chicken breasts and cut into bite-sized pieces. Place chicken back into the crockpot. Add the egg noodles. Cover and cook just until the noodles are tender (about 510 minutes).
Apple Cider Margarita
• 1.5 oz Blanco Tequila
• 1 oz Cointreau
• 3 oz Apple Cider
• 1 oz Lime Juice
• 1/2 oz Caramel
• Pinch of cinnamon
Add all ingredients into a cocktail shaker. Add ice and shake. Pour into a rimmed glass with caramel and crushed graham crackers. Cheers!
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THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN SHOPPING FOR SOLID HARDWOOD A FOREST OF FLOORS:
By Karie Owens, Photos Courtesy of NK Floors
Solid hardwood is the embodiment of nature. Forests are captured in a single plank and placed in your home. Drops of water, nutrients from the soil, rays of sunshine, and the essence of the environment seep through. The touch of the grain, the swirl of the knot, the rich hue of the hardwood, and its natural strength, longevity, and affordability over time entice homeowners to consider this natural substance in their homes.
Careful considerations to ponder when selecting a solid hardwood homescape:
1. Wood Species
Hardwood species vary in color, grain, texture, strength, and use. Each type reflects the myri ads of nature: deep red, bronze, ebony, and gold. Many wood species include Pine, Cherry, Black Walnut, Northern Red Oak, White Oak, Hard Maple, Timbergrass Bamboo, Hickory, Pecan, and Brazilian Cherry. Each species has a unique look, a specific hardness, and a cost range. The
Janka Hardness Scale arranges wood species according to their ability to withstand the force of a steel ball. The harder the wood is, the higher the ranking on the hardness scale. Pine is a soft species, Oak is harder, Maple and Hickory have a higher hardness rating, and Brazilian Cherry has a high hardness while remaining relatively affordable. Homeowners should consider not only the cosmetic look of the wood but also its durability for its use.
2. Plank Size
Hardwood floor planks can be categorized as narrow planks, 2 to 4 inches wide, standard
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heat and humidity. One way to combat this is to keep the moisture in the home stable between 35 and 55 percent humidity by running a dehumidifier during more hot and humid months and putting moisture in the air in the dry months by boiling a pot of water.
3. Stain and Finish
While hardwood flooring can be purchased pre-stained and finished, natural attributes of unfinished hardwood can be enriched with stains and protected with finishes. Stains enhance the graining by muting the darker grains or accentuating more subtle ones. Finishes include water-based polyurethane and oil-based polyurethane. Water-based is less toxic and will not amber over time. Both finishes range in sheen from extra-matt, matt, satin, semigloss, gloss, to high-gloss. Wire brush finish eliminates the softer grains and shows the hardest grains, hiding scratches and dents.
Solid hardwood is organic and adds to the strength and stability of the home. Over time, it offers the most affordability and life. It can be sanded and refinished multiple times. With natural hardwood, plant your feet in your own personal secret grove.
Increase Your Size in 2025
By Karie Owens
It’s January 2025, and like many of us, you are off to a great start with your New Year’s resolution. Most resolutions involve something we give up or lose, such as dropping pounds. However, would anyone be daring enough to increase your size this year? Sounds crazy, right? But it’s not what you are thinking. No need to panic. It involves something much more beneficial than making gains physically. Dare to make 2025 a year of increasing your size in personal growth. Build yourself this year so you can help build others. What can we improve or build this year that will make a lasting impact?
Soft Skills
Soft skills are essential skills comprised of character and personality traits. They range from time management, empathetic listening, communication, decision-making, adaptability, critical thinking, teamwork, and creativity, to name a few. Evaluate which of your soft skills need improvement. Seek the feedback of family and friends or take a test to show areas of strengths and weaknesses. Read books and listen to podcasts on your topic of growth. Attend a workshop or seek mentorship. Being involved in team environments, receiving constructive criticism, getting out of your comfort zone, and incorporating self-reflection will scaffold soft skill growth. Developing and enhancing soft skills will improve your persona and make you a valuable employee, spouse, parent, grandparent, and friend.
Hard Skills
Hard skills are technical abilities and skill sets acquired through training, education, and
experience. Employers seek hard skill sets that are field-specific. Examples include plumbing, flooring, nursing, marketing, data analysis, and budgeting. You may grow in a hard skill that is relatable to your profession or learn a new hard skill to become eligible and attractive to another field. This is called cross-training and professional development.
You can learn a foreign language, start running in local races, begin playing a musical instrument, learn counseling techniques, or improve your photography skills. Reflect on an area you would like to develop or advance. Take classes, seek certification, hire a trainer or tutor, and learn something new. It will reap professional and personal dividends.
Spirituality
Spirituality is essential because it affects every aspect of our lives. It helps to answer the questions of who we are and what our purpose is. It allows us to grow in faith, compassion, joy, forgiveness, resilience, and hope. Spirituality gives us wisdom that transcends scholarship and fosters peace beyond understanding. Seek out a discipleship class or group from a faithbased organization with an equal interest in growth and community.
Outreach
What good is personal growth if it can not be implemented to help others? Outreach skills include building and maintaining relationships, noticing needs, and seeking ways to fill them. Initiate a way to use your talents and abilities— partner with others for a like-minded cause.
Our community is waiting for someone like you to invest in them. Become a tutor, mentor, or volunteer in a local nonprofit. Make sure to make a difference before this year goes by.
The New Year is here. This could be your year to increase who you are substantially and meaningfully. Seek ways to grow in soft and hard skills, spirituality, and outreach. You will never be the same, nor will the people around you.
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Get Healthy Together in the New Year!
By Dr. Katrina Spies, DVM, CHPV, CCRV, CVA, CVPP
As the New Year begins, it’s the perfect time to embrace healthier habits—for yourself and your furry companion. Obesity is a serious health concern for pets, linked to a shorter lifespan and numerous weight-related conditions, including osteoarthritis, diabetes, respiratory issues, high blood pressure, kidney and liver disease, skin infections, and even certain cancers. Overweight pets often have less energy, interact less with their families, and struggle with mobility.
The good news? Even small changes can make a big difference. Studies show that losing just 6% of body weight can significantly improve a pet’s mobility and quality of life. For a 30-pound dog, that’s less than two pounds! Here’s how to get started.
Step 1: Assess Your Pet’s Body Condition
Before setting weight-loss goals, evaluate your pet’s Body Condition Score (BCS)—a simple tool to determine whether your pet is underweight, at an ideal weight, or overweight.
The BCS uses a scale from 1 (extreme thinness) to 9 (severe obesity), with an ideal weight between 4 and 5 (see below).
Use your pet’s current BCS to estimate their ideal weight. A healthy weight loss for cats is no more than 1 pound per month, while for dogs, it’s about 3–5% of body weight per month.
Step 2: Calculate Daily Calorie Needs
Nutrition is the foundation of weight loss, accounting for about 80% of the process. Start by calculating your pet’s daily caloric needs: Resting Energy Requirement (RER) = 70 x (Ideal Body Weight in kg)^0.75* *This amount varies based on species, age, exercise, and disease factors.
For example, a dog with an ideal weight of 10 kg (22 lb) needs about 400 calories per day. Next, check your pet food label for calorie content (kcal per cup/can) and divide the total calories your pet needs by the kcal per serving to determine how much food they should eat daily (divided into two meals).
• Portion Control: Use a standard 8 oz measuring cup to avoid overfeeding.
• Treats: Limit treats to no more than 10% of daily calories and opt for low-calorie options like green beans or carrots.
Your veterinarian can help refine these calcula tions to suit your pet’s individual needs.
Step 3: Incorporate Regular Exercise
Exercise is the other 20% of the weight-loss equation and is vital for burning calories, build ing muscle, and improving overall health. Start by extending daily walks or play times by a few minutes at a time. Cats can benefit from climbing trees or playing with feather wands and laser pointers. Tailor activities to your pet’s age, breed, and energy level for the best results. Exercising together will not only support your pet’s weight loss but also strengthen the bond you share.
Thrive in 2025
By prioritizing diet and fitness, you can give your pet a longer, healthier life while enjoy ing the benefits of an active, shared lifestyle. Together, you’ll step into the New Year feeling better than ever.
Visit the weight loss resources at www.comfortpaws.com/resources for more information and links to tools for assessing body condition scores and a calorie calculator.
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Are You Considering Homeschooling in the New Year?
By Cherice Taylor
Cherice Taylor, M.A. in Education Administration and Center Director at Sylvan Learning, is an experienced educator and community leader involved in the Rotary Club of Stafford and a Charter member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Psi Psi Omega Chapter. With a strong commitment to service and community improvement, she is a poet, mother of four, and advocates the philosophy of “Service Above Self.”
The start of a new calendar year means something different for each of us. For some, it’s a chance to say goodbye to a challenging period and move forward. For others, it’s an opportunity for a fresh start—time to set new goals and embrace new experiences. Many students are heading into the second semester of school with renewed ambitions, determined to finish strong. Some families are eagerly counting down the days to graduation, while others are considering homeschooling their children.
Dictionary Definitions from Oxford Languages: home·school
/’hōm,skool/
verb: homeschool; 3rd person present: homeschools; gerund or present participle: homeschooling; past tense: homeschooled; past participle: homeschooled; verb: home-school; 3rd person present: home-schools; gerund or present participle: home-schooling; past tense: home-schooled; past participle: home-schooled educate (one’s child) at home instead of sending them to a school.
There are many reasons families choose to homeschool their children— from the consistency of a tailored curriculum for military families who move frequently to providing a learning environment outside of the traditional school setting. As a military spouse and mother of four boys, I’ve considered homeschooling my sons. At one point, we even set up a designated homework room, and the boys shared rooms to create a quiet space for studying. But can that be considered homeschooling? Some may argue that the early years, from birth to preschool or kindergarten, are already a time when families engage in homeschooling, even if their children attend daycare. Personally, I couldn’t see myself homeschooling my sons, though I did consider it once or twice when they were in primary school. I’ve seen many successful homeschooled students, and I’ve also encountered well-intentioned families who are struggling with the homeschooling experience.
Considerations
for Families Starting or Continuing Their Homeschool Journey:
If you are thinking about homeschooling, here are a few key questions to reflect on:
• What curriculum will you use?
• Does the curriculum meet your state’s educational standards?
• Is there a cost associated with the curriculum?
• Will you use an online curriculum or join a co-op program?
• Does your local school division offer resources to support homeschooling?
• Will you be the primary teacher, or will you seek external help?
• What will your daily schedule look like?
• Where will schooling take place in your home?
• If additional support or resources are needed, where can you access them?
• What criteria will you use to assess whether homeschooling is effective for your child?
• What timeline will you set to evaluate whether to continue homeschooling?
• How will you assess your child’s academic progress annually?
• Are there any colleges or universities that do not accept homeschooled students?
Resources for Families Considering Homeschooling:
For families already homeschooling or those who are considering it, I recommend the following resources:
• Stafford County Public Schools
• Fredericksburg City Public Schools
• Spotsylvania County Public Schools
• Virginia Department of Education
• Department of Defense Education Activity (DODEA) - Quantico
• The Organization of Virginia Homeschoolers: https://vahomeschoolers.org/guide
• Home Educators Association of Virginia: https://heav.org/
At the end of the day, homeschooling is another option for families. As parents, we want to do what is best for our children. It’s important to educate yourself about the journey so that it benefits your child in the long run and for some families, homeschooling is the way.
“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”
– Alexander Den Heijer
THE POWER OF SOUND: A LOOK INTO THE FREDERICKSBURG CONCERT BAND
By Julia Pesnell, Photo By Julia Pesnell
The Fredericksburg Concert Band is a non-profit organization that gives volunteer musicians the opportunity to practice and perform in a professional setting, all for the enjoyment of its members and those in the community. FCB was founded in 1999 by Kirby McClain to create the perfect community environment and outlet for musicians. The current president of FCB, Jennifer Kabza, says, “It was the first music organization to come around in the Fredericksburg area… there really was no outlet for local musicians to play traditional wind-band instruments.” She continues describing why FCB was founded, saying, “Yet there are a lot of people who have tremendous talent.”
Over the years, the organization has grown massively, now having the main concert band and several branched-off ensembles who all perform to enrich different aspects of the community. Kabza says, “We started off just performing a couple of concerts a year, maybe about two, and have grown to include summer concerts, outdoors at different venues, and also our traditional indoor concerts.” Kabza has been a band member since it was founded, so she has seen the organization’s expansion first-hand. Now, as president, she works alongside the other board members to strategically plan each concert, advertise, and manage finances.
As far as the ensembles, they have an elf platoon, the starting works of a jazz ensemble, a brass quartet, and a memories ensemble. The Memories Ensemble is notable mainly as it was formed in 2015 with the goal of spreading enjoyment to those in elderly care facilities who can’t easily get out to go to other events. Kabza says, “We formed a small group to bring performances to them.” She says that the ensemble plays many popular “oldies” music, movie themes, and patriotic and polka music that the lis-
teners would be familiar with. Currently, this ensemble has 18 members and works to perform at 15 different assisted living facilities.
In addition to their ensembles, the main band performs year-round. During the colder winter and spring months, the band holds traditional concert band performances indoors, but during the summer, they really branch out. They perform at several summer venues each year, including, but certainly not limited to, Belmont Art After Hours, the Stafford 4th of July Festival, and Hurkamp Park for the Music Under the Stars concert series.
However, FCB’s most important and impactful aspect may be the community it has built. Kabza says, “I honestly would have to say my favorite aspect is the joy that playing music brings to me, the people around me, and especially to the audiences that come hear us perform.” She continues, “It’s all about musically enriching the Fredericksburg region.”
Kabza concludes, “There have been other groups in the area that have formed and come and gone over the years, but we’re definitely the oldest and the most original to this Fredericksburg area.”
Calling All Aspiring Student Writers!
By Mallory Hardgrove
Are you passionate about writing and sharing stories from your high school? We’re seeking talented high student interns to craft engaging articles spotlighting high schools in our distribution areas. Unfortunately, all of our amazing student interns this year are seniors and will be graduating in 2025 so we need to find some others to fill their shoes. This is your chance to gain valuable writing experience, enhance your resume, and get paid for your creativity!
Whether you love highlighting sports, events, or unique student achievements, we want your voice to be heard. Express your interest by sending an email explaining why you’d like to write for Neighbors of Courthouse, your graduation year, and include a short writing sample. Send your email to doristewart@bestversionmedia.com for consideration.
Don’t miss this incredible opportunity to share your perspective at North Stafford or Colonial Forge High School while earning recognition in your community and some extra cash. Apply today!
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BeautifulNEW YEAR DOLL CRAFT
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Directions:
Materials (for one doll):
• 1 Wood face
• Different color felt
• 1 Cleaner pipe (white or yellow) for the wing
• Beige yarn for arms and legs
• Yellow, brown or black yarn for hair
• Craft beads (different colors)
• Decorative ribbon
• Glue gun
• Scissor
Step 1. Cut five beige yarns (4 inches); 2 for legs and 2 for arms. Save 1 beige yarn to attach to the head for hanging.
Step 2. Tied two knots at the end of each beige yarn for legs and arms.
Step 3. Added 1 color bead for each leg.
Step 4. Treat the extra beige yarn through the hole on wood face. Tip, use glue at the end of the yarn to help go through the hole.
Step 5. Cut the color felt into a rectangle (3 inches X 6inch) for the body.
Step 6. Fold a cone with your rectangle that you just cut. Glue the end to secure. Cut the extra to for an even edge (bottom of the dress.
Step 7. Run the string from the wood face into the top small opening of the cone.
Step 8. Glue the legs at the bottom of the dress and the arms on edge of each side of the cone.
Step 9. Cut as need about 10, the color yarn (2 inches) for the hair yellow/ black / brown.
Step 10. Glue the hair. Be creative with the hair.
This activity is brought to you by Mora Soan, author of the children’s book, Jacob in Japan! Jacob is a gnome who lives in New York. He owns a beautiful garden on the rooftop of a skyscraper. He is a picky eater and he only eats ordinary bland food. One windy night, Jacob falls into a magic flower pot. He wakes up in Japan. What will he do next? Will Jacob starve himself or will he find a way to enjoy and experience Japan? With an open mind, he may discover new and delicious foods that he never knew existed.
To purchase a book, visit your local Barnes and Noble and follow Jacob’s story on Instagram @jacob_the_gnome.
Step 11. Decorate the doll dress with craft beads and ribbons.
Step 12. Add wing with the pipe cleaner to make an angel. Have fun with it. Happy New Year!
Mora Soan, Author of the Series: Adventures of Jacob the Gnome
