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The talents of Tulsa women transform our community

Susan Eddings-Perez: Interior Designer Turned Successful Artist Triathlete Jessica Jones Meyers Takes Tulsa to New Level Let Us Eat Cake! (And Pie, And Macarons) at Antoinette Baking Company

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Editor’s Letter

What is a woman of substance?

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hat old saying, “behind every great man is a great woman” no longer seems so relevant in our world today because so many women have the opportunity to lead, to stand out front, to make a difference without doing so only as the wind beneath someone else’s wings. Not to undervalue the contributions we make in that role, but to celebrate that we are progressing.

Since the first time I heard the term “a woman of substance” as a young woman, I decided that was what I wanted to be. To me it meant being a woman of depth, quality, integrity, who had something meaningful to contribute even in small ways, and one who offers encouragement to those around her. I’ve been fortunate to be raised by a woman of great substance herself who modeled for me strength and resilience, never allowing challenges or trials to keep her from living life, giving to others and maintaining her joy.

Many of the women involved in creating this magazine for you are amazing, unique, gifted women. Home and Fashion Editor Natalie Nirk pours her heart into everything she’s involved with and cares deeply. Publisher Kathy Slemp is a kind and gentle soul of great integrity. Writer Ali Barnes is passionate about life, health, writing, and Shakespeare (you’ll have to ask her about that). Photographer Courtney Wooden is so generous and talented.

But beyond my own personal definition and experience, a group dedicated to nurturing “strong women and strong girls” in our society (SWSG.org) created their own definition of substance: “a woman of power, a woman of positive influence and a woman of meaning. To be branded a woman of substance is one of the greatest compliments one can give a woman that wants to be an influential female.” They ascribe four qualities to develop in order to be a “woman of substance:”

• Embrace your individuality and be happy the way you are

• Use your voice

• Find your dream in life and pursue it

• Live up to your morals and values- always remain aware of them.

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There are so many women of substance in town who sew meaningful things into the fabric of this community. We hope you enjoy reading about a few of them in this issue about the Women of Tulsa. In their own unique ways, they each demonstrate the qualities of women of substance, and their stories are inspiring.

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Successful interior designer-turned-artist, Susan Eddings-Perez

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Parting Thoughts

16 Baking Beautiful (and Yummy) Things

Meet the two local women behind Antoinette Baking Company’s

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Local professional triathlete Jessica Jones Meyers’s passion for the

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6th Annual Top of the Town Gala

Patrons and guests enjoyed amazing views, excellent food and wine samplings from various Tulsa restaurants and wineries while touring some of Tulsa’s most magnificent downtown buildings. Proceeds benefited Child Care Resource Center of Tulsa. CCRTulsa.org.

Guests enjoying the delicious freshly made food Tulsa Lifestyle's Natalie Nirk and husband, The event's VIP balcony of the Mid-Continent Tower on samplings at Deco Deli inside the Atlas Building. Kris Nirk, at the Midcontinent Tower the 36th Floor

Guests of the event admiring the John Robinson and Jake Robinson, owners of Deco Deli, and Jake’s wife, Emily Robinson, take a moment Musicians "Travis and Tia" of band Signal My Way performed breathtaking interior details of the 320 inside the historically beautiful 320 S. Boston Building.

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The views enjoyed by guests on the 40th floor of the Bank of Oklahoma Tower

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It’s especially beneficial for use on pre-verbal children or those with disabilities, who may not be able to stand, cover one eye to read eye charts or follow physical commands like looking left and right.

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RESTAURANT WEEK RETURNS Tulsa’s Restaurant Week returns to treat Tulsans to nine days of dining the week of September 6-14, and again benefits the Community Food Bank of Eastern Oklahoma. Held in various locations throughout the city, this event is a food lover’s paradise as 40+ eateries unify to offer prix-fixe options not on their usual menu. The restaurants offer a three-course, fixed menu for a lunch price of $12.95 or a dinner price of $25, $35 or $35 for two. This is a fun way for Tulsa to enjoy a local restaurant while supporting the Food for Kids program at the food bank. Approximately one in four children are food insecure, and every dollar raised during restaurant week makes a difference.

GO ‘OVER THE EDGE’ FOR TULSA AREA UNITED WAY The opportunity to rappel over the edge of a 20-story building awaits those who raise at least $1,000 for the Tulsa Area United Way this fall.

“Over the Edge” – an event designed to generate community-wide attention, excitement and financial support for the local United Way campaign – will be held on October 9-10 at One Warren Place, 61st St. and Yale Ave. Registration for Over the Edge is open but a limited number of positions are available. Register at TAUW.org. All participants will receive training prior to being fitted with state-of-the-art rappelling equipment.

The public is invited to watch those rappelling at the event, which will include live music, food trucks and other activities.

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Wine Tasting Benefits Prevent Blindness Oklahoma Prevent Blindness Oklahoma (PBO) and Decopolis presented a wine and cocktail tasting to benefit PBO. In addition to the delicious drinks, guests enjoyed live music, light hors d’oeuvres and shopping at Decopolis in the Art Deco District. Decopolis is an emporium in downtown Tulsa featuring books and deco to retro inspired gifts and toys in imaginatively themed departments located at 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa.

PBO wouldn’t be able to make the impact it does without the help of volunteers and the community. The nonprofit screened a record-breaking 344,540 children during the 2013-2014 school year. Of those, more than 41,000 kids were referred to eye care professionals for follow-up screenings. PBO will screen its 3 millionth child this year.

PBO uses a variety of screening processes, but the newest is the

Spotlight on San Miguel: Dancing with the Tulsa Stars Mark your calendars for this Hollywood-style evening of cocktails, dining, entertainment and dance competition for votes to raise money for San Miguel Middle School in Tulsa, November 1 at Cox Business Center. The dancer who brings in the most votes is the champion.

Dancers for this year will include John Gabernino, founder and CEO of Topeca Coffee; Rose Washington, Executive Director of the Tulsa Economic Development Corporation; Frank Cooper, educator at Charles Page High School;Katia Anaya, former Miss Oklahoma Latina and human resources director for Pancho Anaya Bakeries; Richard Cranford, founder and CEO of QuarterShare LLC; Marlow Perkins Sipes, co-owner of Lolly Garden children’s apparel.

Instructors are from three local studios: Ballroom Revolution, Allstar Ballroom Dance Company and Ballroom Blitz. Honorary Chairs are Michael & Dorothy Tramontana, and Event Chairs are Dennis & Teresa Caruso. Presenting sponsors include: The George Kaiser Family Foundation, The Dill Foundation, Alan Staab and Sharon Voskhul, and Gene Robinson.

Proceeds benefit San Miguel, a middle school for children at risk for falling through the cracks of the traditional education system.

Through near year-round school, longer class days and focus on meeting and exceeding grade level, San Miguel students prepare for high school and beyond.

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Make the Most of the Season 5 Tips to Transition Your Home for Fall Article Natalie Nirk

Our Home & Fashion Editor, interior designer Natalie Nirk, shares some fast-track tips to get your home in top form before the cooler months arrive.

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s summer comes to a close and the signs of fall appear, many of us start pondering ways to refresh the interior of our homes in anticipation of entertaining and spending more time indoors. Even the most impressively decorated home can use updates or embellishments every so often.

Simplifying never goes out of style – it creates homes that make us feel healthier and happier, and increases both our efficiency as well as our ability to relax. Here are some tips to help you get a head start on some things around the house that are quick and cost-effective to implement: 1. Keep the clutter at bay and pare down extra contents. Do this especially in the most used rooms such as your kitchen and main living room. As a mother of three I often struggle with this issue myself, but just dedicating even 15 minutes a day to de-clutter and go through the daily influx of stuff can make a big difference. If you loved the “too much is never enough” phase of previous years that many of us so boldly embraced, it’s an opportune time to reassess and scale back all those extra accessories that can start to make a space feel crowded. It’s easy 10

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to let things pile up; pay close attention now to your surfaces and the contents on them, including display shelves. Make a habit of regularly getting rid of unnecessary items.

It’s such a liberating feeling once the idea of paring down is fully embraced.

2. Clean your windows. This applies especially to those that you enjoy gazing through most. Carve out a little chunk of time to wash away grime and get a fresh, clean picture of the soon-to-be changing outdoor color. Or, hire a professional to do all the windows, if not just the hard-to-reach ones. It will give you a boost and help brighten the mood throughout. I love to let in as much natural light through my windows as possible.

3. Change the lighting. One of the simplest ways to make a big impact when updating a room is with lighting. I love being able to “kill two birds with one stone” by getting better light AND a beautiful accent piece with a new ceiling fixture or lamp. Some new lamps with a modern or transitional edge to them can blend wonderfully with traditional or old world décor and create more interest. If you don’t love the main

light fixture in your favorite room, why not consider a new one that brightens your day in more ways than one? Choosing sleeker styles with clean lines for lamps and/or light fixtures is the way to go when replacing any of your existing ones that may look too ornate or heavy.

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4. Mix up your style. If you have traditional or old world style furniture, toss in some new down-filled throw pillows with colorful modern or transitional fabrics and break it up a bit. Forgo all the extra fluffy trim and focus more on the fabrics, offsetting darks with lights, and solids with bold patterns. Incorporate a new rug with a modern pattern, or add a bright new mirror or piece of art to a large wall. It’s all about contrasting to make things stand out more and add that “pop” of interest!

5. Update wall décor. Replacing heavy, ornate frames with simpler clean lines can give a new look and feel to a room.

Consider a wall grouping of framed pictures or prints on a large wall, arranged in rows or a grid pattern with matching mats and frames. These days I like to lean more towards the thinner side for the frame thickness so the walls will look less overcrowded or overwhelmed, giving the room a lighter overall feeling.

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Susan Eddings-Perez is herself an amazing creation making her own, distinctive mark in the world of art and interior design while enjoying life to the fullest with family.

Article Natalie Nirk Photography Courtney Wooden of Defining Image Photography

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usan Eddings-Perez’s rising stature in the design industry is a bit of a Cinderella story, minus the fairy godmother. Her hard work, talent and exceptional attitude have led to a happily ever after, but only a few years ago things looked very different for this now-successful interior designer and artist.

After a tough divorce, the newly single mother was struggling to make ends meet while keeping a happy face for her kids. She remained in their modest 1919 Sperry, Okla., home with great bones because she could afford it, and to spare uprooting her children from school in their father’s hometown. The special old house was once the town doctor’s residence and office. To make ends meet, Susan took painting jobs, whether big or small, from murals to basic room painting. Clients valued her hard-working, trustworthy persona and meticulousness, and work opportunities flourished, helping keep them afloat.

Before having children, she had studied interior design at the University of Minnesota after obtaining a degree in business.

With a natural artistic flair and eye for design, she merged those skills with business acumen and easily fit into the interior design world. Once her children were in school fulltime, she started her first business doing murals and faux-finishing. It wasn’t long before clients were requesting advice on decorating and design for their entire house. Thus began Susan D. Eddings Designs.

As a multitasking and extremely hands-on mom, creating art in her make-shift living room or dining room studio became a way for her to relax in her spare time between shuttling kids to activities.

Being a single mom with two teenagers motivated her to do more.

“I discovered the real importance of life... it is not the material things, but it is family and the ability to provide,” she says.

As she poured her talents into the business, clients responded.

When clients asked to keep finish sample boards to hang as art, Susan realized she could transition further into being an artist.

In 2011 Susan married Pablo Perez, her biggest fan and supporter. Together they’ve improved their charming home with a mixture of special-meaning pieces, like the dining room’s pine cupboard made by her great-grandfather.

“For me, family always comes first,” says Susan.

“They have been the greatest blessing to me and I would not be where I am today without the help and love of my wonderful family.

I met Susan in 2010 through Tulsa’s Designer Showcase, which she’s been involved with as a designer since 2006. Her genuine kindness and strong work ethic struck me immediately. In the hustle and bustle, she always made time for a friendly chat and was sincerely helpful. Each year her sleek, monochromatic design style grabs attention, as do her artwork and unique finds, and she is accomplishing this by just being herself.

“The closest formal training I’ve had is a high-school art class,” she says. “I was always the kid chosen to do the art portion in all grade school group projects.”

“I love that it still smells like my grandmother’s basement when I open it,” she shares. “Most pieces are from flea markets, consignment shops or garage sales that I can fix up and cost only $5-$50. My motto is that if it isn’t moving I can paint or gold-leaf it.” Susan loves to accent her signature clean, modern style with pieces with history – or “life-scars” as she calls them. She’s become known for distinctive gold leaf with mixed medium artwork.

With Pablo now at her side and her kids nearly grown, Susan enjoys her family’s support in all her artistic endeavors at home and in business. Daughter Sarah is now a 19-year-old sophomore at Oklahoma State University, and son Ryan is a 17-yearold high school senior.

“Sarah loves bargain hunting and working out in the studio, pulling gold leaf and watching Dateline with me,” Susan shares. “I love having her as my second eye and best friend. Ryan and Pablo build all my art boards and put finish frames on my pieces.” continued >

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In the art world many artists say “there are no mistakes” because one thing leads you to the next. A little garage door “accident” (Sarah accidentally “bumped” it with her car) led this creative family to convert the garage into Susan’s studio.

They painted the entire space white, built supplies shelving along an entire wall and cleverly disguised them with

“I discovered the real importance of life... it is not the material things, but it is family and the ability to provide.” four barn-style paneled doors. They inexpensively added two Craigslist skylights to renovate the ceiling, now exposing rafters. On beautiful days like when I interviewed her, Susan can open the front and side doors – repurposed hotel French doors – overlooking their lovely backyard. Dogs Lucy and Teddy are Susan’s constant furry companions.

True to her appreciation for meaningful things, she placed inspirational items throughout the studio: a framed note from her then 8-year-old daughter, a string of clay pots from her son to hold her brushes, and an animated “dancing daisy” flower pot gift from Pablo. She recently contracted West Nile Virus and spent several months recovering, much of it in her studio.

“This is when I realized my love for creating art equaled my love for design,” she says.

Susan is a breath of fresh air to be around with her positivity, fearlessness and boundless energy. It’s always a pleasure to catch up on happenings with her family and work.

“For me, family always comes first,” says Susan. “They have been the greatest blessing to me and I would not be where I am today without the help and love of my wonderful family. I am blessed that even though life has led me many different directions, I have ultimately found what brings me joy.”

Natalie Nirk is the Home & Fashion Editor of Tulsa Lifestyle and also a registered interior designer with the Oklahoma Board of Architects. NatalieNirkInteriors.com 14

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Award-Winning Art Around Town Susan’s original artwork has hung in the BOK Center, Tulsa Designer Showcase and several art galleries in Tulsa. Her art was displayed in five designers’ spaces in this year’s Showcase. Her original art can be viewed exclusively at Exhibit by Abersons in Brookside, and she is preparing new pieces for her first solo exhibit there in January 2015.

She hosts a once-a-month decorating segment on KOTV Channel 6’s noon newscast, and will soon begin work on a Downtown Tulsa development called Urban8, a group of 3-story, loft-style homes in the East Village.

View her work at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center this month.

•2010 Named HGTV’s Top Designer of Children’s Bedrooms •2011 People’s Choice Award - Tulsa Designer Showcase •2014 Top Sales - Tulsa Designer Showcase SusanEddings.com

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“Mum” is Not the Only Word Five Ideas for Creating Fall Color IN THE GARDEN Article Woodrow D. Weasel

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rom football games to front doors, mums (Chrysanthemums) are a well-known, popular fall flower, but they are not the only option for autumn color. Here are five great suggestions for keeping color in your garden even after summer fades.

1. Asters This daisy-like perennial can paint your garden beautiful shades of blue and purple, colors not available among mum varieties. Asters also bloom red, white and pink. This plant flowers in spring, summer and fall, and attracts butterflies and bees. They make terrific cut flowers for fall arrangements.

Asters enjoy slightly acidic soil that is well drained, and not heavy clay.

They can be planted any time during the growing season. Asters will grow back and bloom again in spring if you keep them healthy this fall.

2. Marigold For little pops of vibrant golds, copper and brass, these annuals are worth the one-time purchase for the beauty they add to your autumn array. They are easy to grow and take care of. Versatile and tough, marigolds are great in the garden, containers and as cut flowers. These cheery little guys bloom brightly all summer long and on into fall, but can be planted just for fall.

Marigold will grow just about anywhere because they are not sensitive, but if you can provide full sun, well-drained and sandy or loam soil, they’ll be happiest.

3. Goldenrod Many of the fall flower options offer round orbs of color, so to add some variety, consider goldenrod. Its vertical clusters of golden flowers add striking strokes of bright yellow to your landscape.

Goldenrod was once considered a weed, so beware that it can be an aggressive grower. If this is a concern, look for varieties that are

known to be less aggressive. It will grow almost anywhere, and is often seen in rock, wildflower and herb gardens.

4. Autumn Joy Sedum Just as summer begins to lose its luster, sedum begins to shine.

They remain light green most of summer, but just when your garden needs color the most, sedum transforms to light pink to burgundy, bringing joy as it is aptly named. The tiny flowers are clustered together creating mini bouquets right in your garden.

Sedum is an adaptable, dependable plant that is also easy to grow. Optimal conditions for sedum include fertile, moist soil in full sun, but it will grow in other conditions as well.

5. Montauk Daisies This little flower is loaded with cheerful personality. Its bright white petals and yellow button center brighten any garden or table. It actually opens up in the morning and closes at night. Its leaves are equally attractive with their dark green color and shiny texture.

Montauk Daisies flourish in highly acidic soil with full sun and need well-drained soil. They can be invasive, but who wouldn’t mind a whole yard full of these cheerful characters.

Timing planting right is more of an art this time of year. Pay attention to what the weather is doing to be aware of the best window to plant. You definitely want to do it before autumn hits, but not in the scorching August heat. A rainy period is a perfect chance to plant.

Nothing against the magnificent mum, it’s just nice to know that there are lots of other options for creating color in your garden this fall, as well!

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Antoinette Baking Company Young Entrepreneurs Build Popular Brookside Bakery Article Lara Friend | Photography Courtney Wooden of Defining Image Photography

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at Cake!” is boldly written on the storefront windows of the chic and adorable Antoinette Baking Company. In 2012 Molly Martin and Andrea Mohn created this thriving bakery that serves classic pastries and desserts in Midtown. As childhood friends and former coworkers, both women love baked goods. These self-trained bakers picked up techniques along the way throughout their careers.

“I always have loved the hectic feeling of working in a restaurant,” says Molly. “I couldn’t imagine working for anyone else now that I have my own bakery.” Initially the pair started catering out of their homes; business quickly took off and they found retail space in Brookside.

The bakery offers many desserts made in-house: cupcakes, brownies, lemon bars, cakes, pies, tarts and cookies. Their menu also includes several gluten-free selections, and they serve a popular local coffee product made by Hoot Owl in Broken Arrow. For every pound 16

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of coffee bought, Hoot Owl gives a pound of food to local food banks.

A variety of bread offerings from several local restaurants includes Tallgrass Prairie, Lone Wolf, Papa Ganouj and Euro Pranzo.

“Our day starts out at 4 a.m. every morning and we usually don’t leave the bakery until 5 p.m.,” says Molly. “I start my day by making the macarons, because they are very temperamental and I like to get these out of the way first. Andrea begins by making the bread because it has to be out by 10 a.m., and we have about three hours to get these items done before our breakfast rush begins at 7 a.m.”

“Macarons are our best seller and we have been making them for a long time,” Molly explains. “I did a project that took an entire year. It took 52 weeks and I made a new macaron every week, which is how I perfected the macaron.”

Macarons are different from a coconut macaroon. They are made using almond flour, incorporating meringue and are carefully assembled into cream-filled sandwich cookies. A various assortment is available for purchase. After our interview I happily tried a strawberry

macaron filled with strawberry buttercream, which delightfully melts in your mouth.

The bakery schedules many events throughout the year. Don’t miss their pie nights from 7-10 p.m. on Friday and Saturday nights. This event features six to seven different rotating pie varieties that can include the decadent Mile High for chocolate lovers, the butterscotch La Dee Da, or the Velvet Elvis banana cream with bacon, peanut butter and marshmallows. Classic varieties are also often available like apple, coconut cream and key lime with choices frequently changing. Purchase a generous slice for $5, or the whole pie for $30. The pies are absolutely delicious with perfect crusts, certainly making this a very popular weekly event that usually sells out before the night ends.

Antoinette’s team is available to cater occasions large and small. During the holidays they make countless pies for Thanksgiving and Christmas events, and many of Antoinette’s products can be found at the Cherry Street Farmer’s Market on Saturdays during the rest of the year.

“Our bakery is far busier than we could have ever imagined and we are quickly outgrowing our space,” explains Molly. “We are looking at expanding sometime in the next year to meet our demand.” She could not reveal where this location might be, but be on the lookout for a new Antoinette Bakery in the near future.

Antoinette Baking Company

3305 S. Peoria, Brookside Hours of Operation:

Monday through Friday 7 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Saturday 7 a.m. to 2 p.m Pie Nights: Friday and Saturday evenings 7 to 10 p.m.

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Your Neighbor

Jessica Jones Meyers This Amazing Triathlete Swims, Bikes and Runs for the Red, White & Blue Article Ali Barnes Photography Chris Barnes

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rofessional athletes are not the norm here in Tulsa.

Then again, Jessica Jones Meyers is not your everyday professional athlete, either. This Army veteran earns a living as a triathlete while raising her 7-year-old twins and spreading a national movement. Team Red, White & Blue combines Jones Meyers’ military experience of the past and her athletic prowess of the present to positively impact the nation’s (and Tulsa’s) future.

A Houston native, Jones Meyers ran track and cross country for West Point, where she was an NCAA qualifier in the 10K. Upon graduation in 2000, she received her commission as a second lieutenant as an engineer officer. Later as a captain at Fort Hood, Texas, her battalion deployed as the first unit in for Operation Iraqi Freedom 2. She arrived in Kuwait in January 2004, where as part of the advance team and staff officer of operations, she helped prepare and train the unit for the road march to Bagdad. IEDs, or roadside bombs were daily threats.

“At every meal I thought, ‘Well this might be the last time I get to eat ice cream,’ so I ate it morning, noon, and night. I gained about 20 pounds,” she laughs. The end of deployment brought hope, so she quickly got back into shape.

Jones Meyers returned to the U.S. in early 2005, and extended her commitment to participate in the Armed Forces Triathlon in June. She won. One week later, she finished 8th in the NBVC World Armed Forces Triathlon, which features many nations’ top pro athletes.

“Half my competition was in the Olympics a year prior, while I was in Iraq,” she illustrates. She then trained in the Army World Class Athlete Program and at the U.S. Olympic Training Center for about a year until she became pregnant. She and her then-husband took leave of the Army and moved to Tulsa.

After a difficult pregnancy and delivery, this new mom grasped for something familiar and dabbled back into triathlon just to do something for herself. She completed her first Ironman Triathlon when her children were in school full-time.

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“I enjoy being a triathlete much more with my kids than before – even though it’s more difficult recovery-wise,” she says. “Being completely involved with triathlon before kids wasn’t fulfilling for me. Triathlon is always going to be second to my family.”

Team Red, White & Blue

In 2010, Jones Meyers became a pro-ambassador for a blooming grassroots nonprofit organization called Team Red, White & Blue (or Team RWB). She was immediately on board with the mission, which is “to enrich the lives of America’s veterans by connecting them to their community through physical and social activity.”

“There’s such camaraderie in the military that leaves a void when a person is either redeploying or getting out of active duty, and is trying to re-assimilate into society,” explains Jones Meyers. Further, most of the 2.5 million Americans who have deployed since September 2001 have or will not return to their hometown upon completion of service, leaving them without a support system or community, essentials for recovery (TeamRBW.org). Jones Meyers relates with her own story.

“I went from Iraq to the Olympic Training Center in a short period of time,” she says. “I loved my teammates, but rightfully their priority was training, whereas I was used to thinking that I could get blown up anytime.” It’s difficult for veterans to relate to others, and vice versa. “It’s not like you want to sit around and talk about it, but on the other hand, there’s a special quality in people

Jones Meyers returned to the U.S. in early 2005, and extended her commitment to participate in the Armed Forces Triathlon in June. She won. One week later, she finished 8th in the NBVC World Armed Forces Triathlon, which features many nations’ top pro athletes. who have a shared experience so that you don’t have to talk about it.”

That understanding, connection and revitalization is what Team RWB is all about – bridging the gap to help veterans get on their feet again, literally.

Team RWB promotes athletic activity because studies have shown exercise to be the non-drug equivalent of drug therapies or psychotherapy for posttraumatic stress disorder, depression and anxiety.

Almost half of veterans state that they are more likely to exercise if they can do

it with a group or team, so for Jones Meyers and many others, exercise and community are a perfect fit for healing.

Not only is Jones Meyers involved at the national level, but as the local RWB Sports Coordinator, she helps Christy Liddell-Keiser with the growing Tulsa chapter. The Tulsa RWB currently meets every Sunday for a run on Riverside and trains for upcoming races together. More activities are coming in the future, and you’re invited! Not in marathon shape? Not part of the military? No problem! Every shape, size, and ability is welcomed, because the main goal is community: people meeting, enjoying, and encouraging each other. We all owe gratitude to America’s servicemen and women, so join Jones Meyers to thank them by connecting with them in activity, conversation and life.

Connect with Jessica Jones Meyers and the local Team RWB on Facebook or TeamRWB.org.

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Road Trip

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ouldn’t it be nice to get away from it all anytime you want, without having to travel half a world away?

I used to live on a fairly remote island in the Caribbean – one that took three planes, a 30-minute ferry ride and Jeep taxi bouncing along a remote road to reach. People traveled there from all over the world to experience this high-end resort and, no question, it was a place one could escape the noise, find peace, and a change of pace.

It was well worth the long, hard trip.

What if you could experience that island-like escape, only in a place much more easily within reach of home? One that truly feels as if it were custom built just for you, designed to give you or your family exactly what you want in a vacation. Stonewater Cove Resort and Spa. It is absolutely beautiful any time of year: for a great fall break or planning ahead for spring or summer.

The easy 3 1/2-hour drive northeast of Tulsa on mostly interstates and highways takes you away from the hustle and bustle of life. The last 12 miles of winding country road whisk you to the peaceful hidden paradise nestled along Table Rock Lake in the Ozarks, surrounded by the Mark Twain National Forest.

Before we go any further, set aside every stereotype evoked when you hear the word, “Ozarks.” Stonewater Cove redefines the Ozark experience. It’s the best of everything, artfully created in a retreat that honors nature and Midwest life, and celebrates it all.

It is pure wilderness, pure luxury and absolute perfection.

And it’s well worth the short drive.

A RESORT OF CONTRASTS

From the moment you pass through the hand-hewn wooden fence, it’s clear the place is something special.

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ness of the Ozark Mountains on peaceful Table Rock Lake. Jim and his wife, Ruth, were optometrists and business owners from Iowa who brought their kids up skiing, hiking and adventuring.

Like artists, they saw the beauty of this place and its potential, and their transformation helps visitors appreciate it in a new way.

Their children are all involved in the business, and son, James, helped build much of it and now runs it as general manager.

Stonewater Cove offers luxury in a rustic setting. A welcome contrast to this hustle-bustle world in which we live, the resort is surrounded by more than 400 acres of woods and overlooks an expanse of ever-smooth water. Here you’ll keep company with the birds, breeze and trickling streams flowing throughout the developed property. Not only is it a contrast to our lives, it is a place that offers families, couples or individuals a plethora of contrasting options, to create a custom designed vacation all your own.

ALL THINGS TO ALL PEOPLE: A WILDERNESS ADVENTURE OR PURE PAMPERING

The resort boasts only 25 guest studios and suites, with a maximum capacity of 100 guests. It occupies just 25 acres of the 400 acres owned by the Bonds, making it small enough to explore, yet big enough that you can go forever without seeing someone.

Twenty-five miles of trails allow you to experience nature all alone, without sharing the trail or bumping into others passing by as is often the case at popular national parks.

It’s the perfect place for a combination of people who want different things from their vacations. If you’re the outdoor type, you can enjoy a hike, a 4-wheel ride, zip lining, kayaking, fishing, swimming, boating and skiing. Or, if you prefer to be pampered, you can read a book for hours by the pool or enjoy a long massage at the Treehouse Spa. The phrase, “all things to all people,” takes on real meaning at this getaway. Everyone will be perfectly happy.

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Imagine walking the hand-laid stone path to your room, surrounded by the stereophonic sounds of stream water trickling through stones placed to perfection along your way. Ancient trees – black oak, hickory, maple and cypress – stand tall all around you, the sparkling water of Table Rock glistening and glimmering through the leaves as they dance in a gentle breeze. Imagine the blanket of peace that wraps itself around you as you walk up the steps to what feels like your own personal, rustic cottage in the woods, put the key in the lock with its swinging metal cover, and push open the heavy solid wood door with its iron-barred speakeasy, like a Hobbit door. Enter your one-of-a kind lakefront suite, custom designed by Ruth Bond with the care she gives her own homes. Marvel over every detail hand crafted by local artisans, the best of Ozark craftsmanship – chic not cheesy.

Dining from sun-up to sundown is an experience in itself, reminiscent of the best of Midwest home cooking or 5-star dining. The ever-changing menu is designed to meet your needs – from light to hearty breakfasts; lunch served

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GET AWAY FROM IT ALL

So, if you want to get away from it all, before you consider traveling half a world away, remember Stonewater Cove Resort and Spa, just a three and half hour drive from Tulsa. Even from a bird’s eye view it is a luxury resort that is so well integrated into nature, it is almost invisible. Nestled in the woods, overlooking the water.

This could be the place your family or you as a couple or individual make some of the best memories you’ll have to share forever.

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Lifestyle Calendar

September Thursdays

food and drinks, among numerous other attractions. Kids 12 and under are FREE. Friday 5-11 p.m. Saturday 9 a.m.-11 p.m. Sunday 9 a.m.-6:30 p.m. For more information, visit OKScotFest.com.

Wine Tastings

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East Village District

Adult Child Charity Doubles Tennis Tournament II

Enjoy award-winning Tulsa Deco wines, tour the wine-making facilities and relax by the fireplace in the vineyard courtyard. The tasting room is open to the public from 5-8 p.m. 817 E. 3rd Street in Downtown Tulsa. TulsaWine.com

LaFortune Park Tennis Center

Fridays and Saturdays

Parents and children are encouraged to register, donate and enjoy an evening of tennis matches, with proceeds to benefit the nonprofit Food For The Poor. The registration deadline is September 15. Registration $25/team, 100 percent goes to Food For The Poor. 1 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. FoodForThePoor.org/Tennis

Live Music South Tulsa

Infuzion hosts live music and entertainment every Friday and Saturday with a piano bar Wednesday through Saturday. Infuzion features the best in live entertainment, with rock, country and jazz bands, DJs and acoustic music. 9999 South Mingo. For more details, visit InfuzionTulsa.com.

September 6-7 Rediscover Gilcrease Gilcrease Museum

Visit the museum for a weekend filled with unique activities and free entertainment as we celebrate the opening of the Helmerich Center for American Research and rediscover the treasure that is Gilcrease Museum. Free. Gilcrease.UTulsa.edu

September 9 Western Days 2014 Expo Square

Enjoy donning your Western attire to attend this fundraiser for Saint Simeon’s Foundation. Music, auctions, Western-style dinner, and lots more.

Saint Simeon’s provides an environment of dignity, individuality and independence for Tulsa’s senior community. WesternDaysEvent.com

September 18 Cocktail Class at The Vault Downtown

Looking to expand your craft cocktail knowledge? Join The Vault’s lead bartender to learn about the most popular spirits. $30 per person at 6:30 p.m. Includes four sample drinks and hors d’ourves. Limited seating. Reservations 918.948.6761. VaultTulsa.com

September 20 ScotFest River West Festival Park

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Through September 21 Monet and the Seine Philbrook Museum

If you haven’t seen this special exhibit that brings together works from throughout Monet’s career on loan from prestigious international collections such as the National Gallery of Art, Washington, DC, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York, and the Musée d’Orsay, Paris., be sure to visit before it ends this month. Tickets $6 in addition to regular admission. Philbrook.org

September 25-October 5 Tulsa State Fair Tulsa

“Eleven days of awesome” are planned for this favorite annual event for our city. Check out the fair website for all the details of attractions, competitions, ticketing and all you need to know to make the most of your experience this year. TulsaStateFair.com

September 27 Susan G. Komen Tulsa Race for the Cure ONEOK Field

Cancer Treatment Centers of America has been a proud supporter of Susan G. Komen for the Cure for nearly 20 years.

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Parting Thoughts

One Mom’s Take on those Fall Friday Night Lights Words Denise Snodell

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ow could a woman who still has no idea what a “first down” is find herself so captivated at Friday night football games?

It’s easy. In the past few years, my sports cluelessness has allowed me to keenly observe the hundreds of folks off the field.

There is juicy stuff there.

A high school football game is a microcosm of life. I think every person who attends this all-American event arrives with a little bucket of hope. Only, every hope is different.

If you start with the basics, the kids on each team and the entire crowd hope for a win. But then it gets more complicated.

Now in year three of attending high school games, I have meticulously catalogued the vibe, from serious to silly. If I were to guess what others quietly hope for on these magical Friday nights, based purely on this anecdotal, mustard-stained research, here’s how it would go:

Band mom: “I hope the crowd realizes these kids practice their tails off, too.”

Future valedictorian: “Must maintain the GPA. Must maintain the GPA.” Hair-flipping sophomore gal: “There he is about twelve bleachers up. I hope he notices me.”

Soccer Dad: “Why don’t my daughter’s games attract crowds like this? I hope it doesn’t bother her. First down! Yes!” Mother who stayed because freshman needs a ride home: “Ugh, front row the day before my hair appointment! I hope the folks behind me don’t notice the gray roots. It’s chilly here.

I wonder if my baby needs his jacket.”

Freshman who needs a ride from his mother: “If Mom brings my jacket to the student section again, I will die.”

Benchwarmer: “I hope they need me tonight.”

Team doctor: “I hope they don’t need me tonight.”

Forty-nine-year-old uncle of starting quarterback: “I hope they have college scouts here.”

Nine-year-old cousin of starting quarterback: “I hope they have Skittles here.”

Every high school senior on the field and at the stadium: “Last home/away game for me. I hope…”

I have no idea what today’s eighteenyear-old hopes for. My only wish is that every one of them at the game, or not at the game, knows he or she is first-string.

Whatever a teen clutches most — books, helmets, trumpets, beakers, words, calculators, paintbrushes — it’s up to us grownups to shine lights brighter than the Friday night kind on every single kid.

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