St George, UT May 2023

Let us celebrate WOMEN!

Our mothers, grandmothers and daughters are some of the most influential women in our lives. Indeed, they make life richer and more beautiful. In addition to our biological relationships, we also have mother figures in our lives who have made an indelible impact on us. It is the family members, teachers, friends and neighbors doing remarkable things in our communities who truly are extraordinary and unparalleled.

I have a lengthy list of women who fit in this category—too numerous to mention, but I do want to pay tribute to the publisher of this magazine, whom I have been fortunate to know for more than two decades. I have seen how compassionate she is toward those in need, how she volunteers her time and talents to lift others without any thought of recognition. Her silent service blesses many. For example, not long ago, in the last few days of my husband’s life, she and her husband were at his bedside helping me care for him, helping me do things I could not do alone. Another example: She has served as an advocate for the arts in our community. She actively lobbied for the Recreation Arts and Parks tax in Washington County, and because of her tireless dedication in canvassing various municipalities, many arts organizations and our entire county population have been the beneficiaries. These are only two examples of her largely unseen efforts to make this world a better place. I believe her spirit of volunteerism and her arts advocacy were inspired by her own mother, who dedicated numerous hours promoting uplifting causes in the Salt Lake City area.

I hope you will reflect on the women who have impacted you and your family—and take a few minutes to send a thank you note, a text, make a phone call or get your family or friends on a video call with the women in your lives who deserve recognition. It only takes a minute to brighten someone’s day and remind them how much you love and value them.

We at St. George City Lifestyle express gratitude for your allowing us into your homes. May this month be a time of gratitude for the bounteous beauty of our various neighborhoods as we celebrate the wonderful women who elevate our lives.

JJ ABERNATHY, EDITOR @STGEORGECITYLIFESTYLE

May 2023

PUBLISHER

Paula Christie | paula.christie@citylifestyle.com

EDITOR

JJ Abernathy | jj.abernathy@citylifestyle.com

EDITORIAL COORDINATOR

Holly Infante | holly.infante@citylifestyle.com

ACCOUNT MANAGER

Terry Dennis | terry.dennis@citylifestyle.com

SOCIAL MEDIA COORDINATOR

Holly Infante | holly.infante@citylifestyle.com

STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER

Asher J. Swan | asherswanphoto@gmail.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Janice Brooks, Julie Ann Cordero, Marianne Hamilton, Cheryl McCollum, Kami Egan Savage, Victoria Topham

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

JJ Abernathy, Lacey Alexander, Heart Take the Wheel, Christa Hinton, Mykal Photography, Sheryl Snow, Asher Swan, Victoria Topham

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF SALES OFFICER Matthew Perry

CHIEF FINANCIAL OFFICER DeLand Shore

DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL MEDIA Mindy Hargesheimer

ART DIRECTOR Sara Minor

OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Janeane Thompson

WEB APPLICATIONS Michael O’Connell

AD DESIGNER Whitney Lockhart

LAYOUT DESIGNER Emily Lisenbee

A Flare for Design

Courage and the Power

28 Love and Healing through the Power of Song

Local singer-songwriter Amy McAllister has built a thriving music career to spread hope and love

36 Meet Lisa Rivas

Defying stereotypes in a traditionally male-dominated profession

Photography: Asher J. Swan

Marianne Sax, principal interior designer at Style by Design, LLC in St. George, showcases a home in The Ledges. With her passion for the design industry, Marianne has more than three decades of experience.

city scene

Where

1: Susan Allman, Kim Ward and Rhonda Vasquez at 2023 CAIRN Women's Conference in Cedar City 2: Nickole and Tom Backman after "An Intimate Evening with David Foster and Katharine McPhee" 3: WIN awards: El Gunter, Woman to Watch; Jon Pike, WIN Champion; Dannielle Larkin, Woman of the Year 4: Kent McDonald, Southwest Symphony cellist, with patrons, Lori Beard and Kaye Russell, at Beethoven concert 5: Lowry Snow, Sheryl Snow, Danelle Jensen and Curtis Jensen at the 2023 Sutherland Institute Gala in Salt Lake City

6: Christa and Michael Hinton at the recent Sutherland Institute Gala 7: Collin Gines at Tilted Kiln Studio for the dedication of the Glen B. Blakley Gallery

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business monthly

A round-up of exciting news from local businesses.

Who's up for Open Studio and Classes This Summer?

MakeSpace is planning the summer schedule and would love your input! There’s a migration that empties the area from June through early September. What’s left for the hardy desert dwellers? A cool, uncrowded studio, a chill vibe, and a hot palette of classes, workshops and camaraderie? What will draw you into community and coax your creative spirit during this toasty time frame? Send us your thoughts about what you’d love to see offered. Contact: hello@makespacekayenta.com

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Former Rep. Lowry Snow Receives George A. Sutherland Award

Sutherland Institute recently honored Lowry Snow for his dutiful civil service, his advocacy for policies to support families and education throughout the state, and his unwavering dedication to the state of Utah. Lowry has worked tirelessly throughout his career promoting and bolstering the foundational principles of our nation and strengthening our local communities. Governor of Utah, Spencer Cox, and Sutherland Institute President and CEO, Rick Larsen, presented the award.

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Photography Courtesy of Sutherland Institute

Southern Utah's Philanthropic Women

How four women-led nonprofits are building connection and delivering promise

ARTICLE BY JULIE ANN CORDERO | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

SOUTHERN UTAH LADIES SOCIETY

The Southern Utah Ladies Society, established in 2020, believes it is important to stay in touch and to have fun, and in turn promote a healthy, happy life and a vibrant community. The group focuses on fundraising and service projects in the southern Utah region. Vice president, Debbie Heger, discusses more of what they are about.

WHAT IS YOUR MISSION?

The Southern Utah Ladies Society is a nonprofit organization of volunteers dedicated to giving back to our communities. We raise money for various needs, providing enrichment for our communities. Through our work together we form enduring relationships.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF YOUR ORGANIZATION?

We have raised money for the Washington County School District Foundation, P.A.W.S., Hope Reins Healing, Neighborhood Connection,

Girls On The Run, Blue Butterfly House, Memory Matters, B.A.C.A., RSQ Animal Rescue, One More Chance C.A.T.S. and the NICU at Intermountain Hospital AngelEye Camera System.

HOW WOULD SOMEONE GO ABOUT JOINING YOUR ORGANIZATION?

Visit our website, SouthernUtahLadiesSociety.com , and go to the About Us section for a membership application.

ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOU WOULD WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW?

We host enjoyable and affordable fundraising events targeted primarily at underfunded organizations that add critical value to our community. In 2022 we raised more than $47,000 for organizations in our community. In addition, we have donated hundreds of items and volunteer hours to worthy, local causes. We invite our members to volunteer monthly as a group with different organizations in our community.

“We host affordable fundraising events...for underfunded organizations that add critical value...”

—Debbie Heger, Southern Utah Ladies Society VP

Southern Utah Ladies Society

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF SOUTHERN UTAH

The Assistance League of Southern Utah is completely run by its nearly 100 volunteers, allowing it to focus its funds towards programs that it feels are most beneficial to adults and children in need in the community. Vice President of Membership, Kay Miner, answers a few questions about their organization.

WHAT IS YOUR MISSION STATEMENT?

We are an all-volunteer organization focused on ameliorating the suffering of our community’s most vulnerable children. Our mission is to transform the lives of children and adults through our volunteer community programs. Our vision is that if essential needs are met in our community, families will flourish.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF YOUR ORGANIZATION?

We are part of a national organization, and our chapter was formed in 2008. To date, ALSU has provided more than 14,000 homeless and oppressed youth with books, dental supplies and a basic school wardrobe. Working in collaboration with our local retail community, we are able to provide the most for the least cost. This year alone we purchased new shoes and clothing for 914 children. We are currently in our literacy phase of the program and will be donating books as well as reading with elementary-age children.

HOW WOULD SOMEONE GO ABOUT JOINING YOUR ORGANIZATION?

For more detailed information or to join our organization go to our website alofsu.org .

“Our vision is that if essential needs are met in our community, families will flourish.”

—Kay Miner, Legacy of Literacy, VP, Fund Development

Assistance League of Southern Utah

AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF UNIVERSITY WOMEN

The American Association of University Women started its Utah branch in 1982, and has worked to further the cause of equality. Part of one of the oldest nationally organized women’s groups in the country, the AAUW provides advocacy and education programs to help with gender equality. Locally there are over 100 members and the largest branch in the state. Pat Dalpiaz, one of four executive committee members, answers a few questions.

WHAT IS YOUR MISSION?

Advancing gender equity through research, education and advocacy for women. We are affiliated with AAUW National, which has over 130,000 members.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF

YOUR ORGANIZATION?

Provided Educational Programs for students in Utah through scholarships, the E-Smart program and the National Conference for

College Women Student Leaders program. We have raised funding over an eight-year period of over $220,000 of scholarship money for 220 students in Utah who were financially challenged to attend college. Smaller fundraisers combined with Our Gala, “A Night of Inspiration,” has always been a fundraising success for our organization and the community. The E-Smart program is for 8th graders and includes a 4-day overnight stay on the UTU campus to encourage younger women to overcome their fears of STEM subjects. The NCCWSL program is for students who exhibit leadership skills on campus and want to further their talents by going to Washington, D.C. and learning how to impact their school and community. We are also working on mentoring our scholarship winners through a program called “Mentor in a Minute,” which matches the students face-to-face with each of our members.

HOW WOULD SOMEONE GO ABOUT JOINING YOUR ORGANIZATION?

Go to our website AAUWstg.org and follow the prompts.

“Smaller fundraisers, combined with our gala...have always been a success.”

—Pat Dalpiaz, AAUW executive committee member

American Association of University Women Board

THIS IS Wonder

Timbercreek Overlook Trail | Kolob Canyons Zion National Park

WOMEN’S INFLUENCE NETWORK

The Women’s Influence Network focuses on “powering change with heart” at home, in organizations and in communities, thus creating WINfluencers. Essentially, by taking action to cultivate and amplify women’s influence makes someone a WINfluencer. Shirlayne Quayle, Co-founder and Board Chair for WIN answered a few questions regarding the organization.

WHAT IS YOUR MISSION?

Connect agents of positive change to cultivate and amplify women’s influence and shape a vibrant community.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF YOUR ORGANIZATION?

We have hosted the annual Ignite Your Influence, southern Utah’s premier women’s conference since 2017. Other accomplishments include: pivotal support through mentoring, and networking for several local women-owned startup businesses, monthly WINfluencer Circle events to share personal and professional development, and networking, for women in southern Utah, connect

with statewide efforts to move the needle for girls and women as a partner with the Utah Women and Leadership Project and the new Bolder Way Forward initiative (Dr. Susan Madsen), act as a hub for women to connect to each other and resources that help them cultivate and amplify their individual and collective influence.

HOW WOULD SOMEONE GO ABOUT JOINING YOUR ORGANIZATION?

Attend an event, sign up for our newsletter at womensinfluencenetwork.org , and follow us on Facebook and Instagram at @womens_influence_network.

ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOU WOULD WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW?

We envision a world equally influenced and powered by women, and embrace Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s definition of power: the ability to affect change, with purpose. Guided by our core principles of love, connection, growth, and abundance, we value authenticity above ego, collaboration above competition, connection above agenda, courage above comfort, compassion above criticism, “power of,” above “power over.”

“We envision a world equally influenced and powered by women.”

—Shirlayne Quayle, WIN Co-founder

Women's Influence Network Board

Festival Of The Americas

May 19-21 2023

Friday and Saturday: 10AM - 5PM Sunday: 10AM - 3PM

FREE two-day festival highlighting native cultural groups in the region. Visitors will engage with and experience tribal cultural heritage through artist booths, native demonstrations and performances.

Opening Ceremony: Friday, May 19th

7:30 PM Tickets: $10

The Opening Ceremony of the Festival of the Americas will introduce the community to the breadth and depth of the Native American culture.

D’DAT Concert: Saturday, May 20th

7:30 PM Tickets: $30

D’DAT Trio Jazz band has been described as “Poetic, Complex, Forward Thinking, and Outside the Box.”

Visit KayentaArts.com to purchase tickets or call (435) 674-2787

A Flare for Design

ARTICLE BY MARIANNE HAMILTON

CREATING STYLISH INTERIORS THAT DON'T HAVE TO COST A FORTUNE

A passion for the interior design industry has led Marianne Sax to work with the most interesting clientele—and through more than three decades—she still finds her greatest rewards in making their homes a reflection of themselves.

An accomplished designer, Marianne has created unique interiors in a wide array of aesthetics, and she has been privileged to meet with clients from all over the western United States. Outside of St. George—for clients with primary residences in St. George—Marianne has completed projects in Las Vegas, Nevada; Eden and Salt Lake City, Utah; and Sarasota, Florida. She has practiced interior design in St. George since 2016 and now considers this place home. She launched Style by Design, LLC., in July 2018—a bustling practice with a “by appointment only” showroom.

“My clients love coming in here,” says Marianne. “This is where I create the many projects I have been hired to work on.”

Marianne’s projects have three common threads: creating budgets, creating the process and creating impeccable communication. These are implemented into each project no matter the size.

“My clients build trust in me rather quickly,” she continues. “I remain transparent, respectful, and always listen carefully throughout the project. Keeping a notebook for each project is essential. Within each client notebook are the client selections by room, specs for each selection, meeting notes and copies of emails.”

When a client walks into the Style by Design showroom, they feel the energy of unique accessories and art that are priced to suit any budget. Marianne offers a full

PHOTOGRAPHY BY ASHER SWAN; MYKAL PHOTOGRAPHY

resource library of fabrics, furniture catalogs, wallpaper and bedding. Additional showroom areas are tailored to “new construction” clients and “remodeling clients,” with a wide variety of tile, cabinet finishes, plumbing, decorative lighting catalogs and more.

“I can’t emphasize enough how crucial it is to listen to and communicate with a client; I take a lot of notes in that first meeting, and I read body language and try to see what’s really important to each person,” Marianne continues. “It could be that we’ll end up reframing a favorite piece of art, or there’s a couch or a chair that someone loves and just can’t let go of. I’ll try to figure out the best way to incorporate those elements, while still ending up with a fresh, new look.”

The suppliers and fabricators in St. George are important to Style by Design. The relationships and loyalty that Marianne has with these businesses are keys to a successful project. Beyond the new builds where Marianne is specifying product, she has many clients with smaller projects that rely on a variety of tradespeople and suppliers.

The home furnishings industry has gone through cycles during the past few years, which has affected the cost and availability of furniture, textiles, area rugs and lighting.

“I have been committed to apprising my clients of delays and always give them the option to reselect to something available,” explains Marianne.

The manufacturers that work with Style by Design introduce new products each spring and fall. Marianne keeps her clients informed of the latest trends and predictions and advises on compatibility for our desert region.

With a career that has taken her around the globe and has exposed her to diverse cultures and aesthetics, Marianne can be counted on to craft an interior design scheme for homeowners that is anything but run-of-the-mill. Whether a client is considering a small “update” or a complete transformation of every room in an existing home or aims to create the look and feel of a brand-new dwelling from the ground up, Marianne encourages inquiries and conversations.

One of the biggest lessons Marianne did not learn in the classroom is that being an interior designer is not all about creating lovely rooms.

“I have walked through the mud, the rain and the snow on construction sites in freezing temperatures and mid-summer heat,” Marianne states. “I have handled heavy tile samples, fabric books, carpet and flooring from my showroom to my car and into clients’ homes. Beyond all of this, I am blessed to feel the positive energy between my clients and me each and every day.”

Marianne’s projects have three common threads: creating budgets, creating the process and creating impeccable communication.

the DETAILS

DETAIL ONE The style of this home is considered modern industrial aesthetic.

DETAIL TWO The balance of stone and concrete together with the warm furnishings create a sustainable environment.

DETAIL THREE The exterior stone and wood ceilings extend to the inside of the residence to produce an organic theme.

DETAIL FOUR The 11-foot ceiling heights create voluminous space in the interior of this residence.

DETAIL FIVE The outdoor space includes a fireplace and kitchen to enjoy outdoor dining coupled with a pool and a pickleball court.

Marianne’s Style by Design showroom is located at 1400 West and Snow Canyon Parkway.

The Ledges of St. George home features Contractor: RyanBilt Construction; Furnishings and Material Selections: Style by Design; Front Entry Door: StraightLine Enterprises

Contact Marianne Sax at 435.655.5200 or visit stylebydesignutah.com

Marianne Sax at work

Celebrate Mom!

ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY VICTORIA TOPHAM

avocado hollandaise

yields: 1½  cups

ingredients

• 2 very ripe, medium size avocados

• 2-3 teaspoons water

• ¼ teaspoon Dijon mustard

• Fresh lemon juice from one lemon

• Pinch of salt

• Generous pinch of cayenne pepper

• ½ cup high-quality olive oil

directions

Place avocado, water, mustard, lemon juice and cayenne in the blender container. Thoroughly combine ingredients until smooth. With the blender on high speed, slowly drizzle olive oil into avocado mixture. Blend until thick but still thin enough to pour. You may need to add a little extra water to get the desired consistency. Taste for salt. Serve over poached eggs, fish or steamed vegetables.

Serve heart-healthy avocado hollandaise at your Mother's Day brunch

This recipe is a quick and easy way to make a delicious but unique twist on the traditional hard-to-make hollandaise sauce. It swaps in healthy avocado for egg yolks and butter and keeps things easy by utilizing the method used when making a mayonnaise or vinaigrette. Best of all, it yields perfect, ethereal results every single time. It is wonderful served with fish or steamed asparagus, and I guarantee it will be the star of your Mother’s Day brunch table as a stand-in for traditional hollandaise sauce on your eggs Benedict.

Chef Victoria Topham of Petite Feast is known for creating unique and memorable dining experiences. Visit petitefeastutah.com

Strength, Courage and the Power of a Mentor

DESPITE BATTLING CANCER, ST. GEORGE MED SPA OWNER, CYNDI SCHUMACHER, CONTINUES TO BE A CHAMPION

ARTICLE BY KAMI EGAN SAVAGE PHOTOGRAPHY BY LACEY ALEXANDER

For Cyndi Schumacher, owner of St. George Med Spa, her life’s work is just as much about empowering her team of hard-working women as it is about running a successful business.

“The more I invest in time and money in the team, the more the business completely thrives,” she says. “I think about what’s best for them— they’re incredible women.”

And it’s not only her business acumen and unwavering support that inspires the women who know her; Cyndi has also demonstrated unequaled strength during her 12-year battle with metastatic breast cancer. She says the normalcy of getting up and getting ready for work each day is where she draws strength.

“There are things out of my control, but I don’t let them define me,” she says.

Cyndi’s daughter, Bella Shipley, brand development director of St. George Med Spa, agrees: “The majority of the time, you would never know anything is wrong. She has taught me through this that your body is capable of so much and mindset is so important. You choose how you live your life.”

Cyndi Schumacher, owner of St. George Med Spa

She has taught me...that your body is capable of so much and mindset is so important. You choose how you live your life.”

When Cyndi purchased St. George Day Spa 10 years ago, the beleaguered entity seemed insolvent. But with her eye for business, Cyndi saw potential.

“It was an amazing provider, but it didn’t have any business support,” she says. After tightening financial loose ends and investing in training and expansion, Cyndi says the business “grew exponentially; we just hit it out of the park.”

When St. George Day Spa became St. George Med Spa four years ago, Cyndi says she wanted to encourage a healthier, more balanced lifestyle.

“The day spa was a grind. We had to require people to work weekends because Saturday was the busiest day,” she says. But her current business model is more aligned

with what she wants to provide for women. “I want them to make killer money in four days a week and have an amazing lifestyle,” she says.

Besides a dedication to mentoring women and helping them gain confidence and experience, Cyndi says she is passionate about encouraging them to be empowered and independent and earn their own money.

“I think it changes the conversation and the dynamic in all relationships. It levels the playing field. It’s so important.”

Despite recent setbacks to Cyndi’s health, she remains dedicated to her work preparing the next generation of businesswomen.

“All the med spa needs from me now is to mentor them with the vision from above so that the business is always growing and modern and innovating.”

Bella Shipley, Cyndi Schumacher and Talisha Hunt

ARTICLE BY KAMI EGAN SAVAGE PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF AMY MCALLISTER

Love and Healing Through the Power of Song

LOCAL SINGER-SONGWRITER AMY MCALLISTER HAS BUILT A THRIVING MUSIC CAREER TO SPREAD HOPE AND LOVE

When local singer-songwriter, Amy McAllister, heard her soul’s call to spread hope through song, she answered without hesitation.

“My brother Brad’s passing broke my heart and turned my world upside down,” she says, “but it was also the gift that made me remember my childhood dream of making music and was the inspiration behind the songs I wrote to bring healing to myself and others.”

And through this healing influence, Amy built an award-winning music career. Now, the former hairstylist and salon owner performs at venues around the world, including the Grand Ole Opry where she sang, “This Little Light of Mine,” in tribute to bluegrass artist, Dr. Ralph Stanley—which Amy says is one of the most spiritual experiences of her career, a night in which she felt the presence of “many angels in the wings.”

At the Celebrity Theater Stage in Dollywood, she performed her hit song, “My Angel,” in honor of her late brother, and went on to win the first-ever Josie Music Award for Inspirational Song of the Year.

With numerous accolades to her name, including nominations for this year’s World Entertainment Awards, Amy’s career is thriving and her influence expanding. But it’s her dedication to humanitarian causes that drives her.

Amy on the red carpet at the Grammys

With numerous accolades to her name, including nominations for this year’s World Entertainment Awards, Amy’s career is thriving and her influence expanding. But it’s her dedication to humanitarian causes that drives her.

“I will always follow my heart and forever use my voice to champion change for every cause to which I am called,” Amy says.

Her latest project—an album titled “I’m That Girl,” along with her musical collaboration, movement, and song, “Spread Hope, Send Love Around the World”— began as the theme song for a 2018 suicide awareness and prevention event at Red Cliffs Mall that has evolved into a modern-day version of Michael Jackson’s “We Are the World.”

“My platforms bring healing to people all over the world who are hurting…and who are having thoughts of ending their life and are in need of the encouragement to find their reason to stay,” she says.

Amy says she is in the final stages of launching her nonprofit, Building Reasons And Dreams, in Brad’s honor, and is working on a collaboration with various artists and musicians around the globe to “showcase unity through the power of music,” slated for release this summer.

She also recently launched I AM Jewelry, a business with the purpose of “giving back 100% of the proceeds to many philanthropic causes around the world.”

Together with her husband, they recently traveled to Egypt as well, where they discovered their most important humanitarian work to date.

“The world is in so much need of love and healing,” she says, “the love and healing we have to give.”

Learn more about Amy at info@amymcallistermusic.com or amymcallistermusic.com

Amy at a school in Egypt

Chad and Amy—sweethearts since high school days

A Mother's Love

ARTICLE BY JANICE BROOKS | PHOTOGRAPHY SUBMITTED

Mother’s Day is our reminder to celebrate birth and life. Why? Because we have a long and ancient history steeped in honoring mothers.

Only recently dubbed “Mother's Day,” the highly traditional practice of honoring motherhood is rooted in antiquity, and past rites typically had strong symbolic and spiritual overtones; societies tended to celebrate goddesses and symbols rather than actual mothers. In fact, the personal, human touch to Mother’s Day is a relatively new phenomenon. Let’s take a short, warpspeed literary journey into the historical significance of honoring mothers.

GODDESS ISIS—EARLY EGYPTIAN ROOTS

One of the earliest historical records of a society celebrating a mother deity may be found among the ancient Egyptians, who held an annual festival to honor the goddess Isis, who was commonly regarded as the mother of the pharaohs. Isis was a goddess in ancient Egyptian religious beliefs, whose worship spread throughout the Greco-Roman world. She was worshiped as the ideal mother and wife. She was the friend of slaves, sinners, artisans, and the downtrodden, as well as the listener to the prayers of the wealthy, maidens, aristocrats and rulers.

Julia Ward Howe National Portrait Gallery, Smithsonian Institution; transfer from the Smithsonian American Art Museum; gift of Maud Howe Elliott to the Smithsonian Institution, 1933

MOTHERING DAY IN EUROPE— FAMILY GATHERINGS WITH MOM

In the 1600s, a clerical decree in England broadened the celebration to include human mothers, earning the name Mothering Day, an especially compassionate holiday toward the working classes of England. During this Lenten Sunday, servants and trade workers were allowed to travel back to their towns of origin to visit their families. Mothering Day also provided a one-day reprieve from the fasting and penance of Lent so that families across England could enjoy a sumptuous family feast—with mother as the guest of honor.

HISTORY OF AMERICAN CELEBRATION

When the first English settlers came to America, they discontinued the tradition of Mothering Day. While the British holiday would live on, the American Mother’s Day would be invented—with an entirely new history—centuries later.

JULIA WARD HOWE'S MOTHER'S DAY PROCLAMATION OF 1870

The first North American Mother’s Day was conceptualized with Julia Ward Howe’s Mother’s Day Proclamation in 1870. Despite having penned “The Battle Hymn of the Republic” 12 years earlier, Howe had become so distraught by the death and carnage of the Civil War that she called on mothers to come together and protest what she saw as the futility of their sons killing the sons of other mothers. Howe called for an international Mother's Day celebrating peace and motherhood. In 1873, women’s groups in 18 North American

cities observed this new Mother’s holiday. For the next 30 years, Americans celebrated Mothers' Day for Peace on June 2. Howe initially funded many of these celebrations, but most of them died out once she stopped footing the bill.

In spite of the decided failure of her holiday, Howe had nevertheless planted the seed that would blossom into what we know as Mother’s Day today. A West Virginia women’s group led by Anna Reeves Jarvis began to celebrate an adaptation of Howe’s holiday. In order to reunite families and neighbors that had been divided between the Union and Confederate sides of the Civil War, the group held a Mother’s Friendship Day. Many middle-class women in the 19th century believed they bore a special responsibility as actual or potential mothers to care for the casualties of society and to turn America into a more civilized nation.

After Jarvis died, her daughter Anna M. Jarvis campaigned for the creation of an official Mother’s Day. In 1912, West Virginia became the first state to officially recognize Mother's Day, and in 1914, Woodrow Wilson signed it into national observance, declaring the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day. Anna Jarvis arranged for white carnations—her Mother’s favorite flower—to adorn the patrons and supporters as part of the celebration. Today, white carnations are used to honor deceased mothers, while pink or red carnations pay tribute to mothers who are still alive.

So, do your mother a favor and remember to stop and smell the flowers. As the great poet, Gerard de Nerval, penned, “Every flower is a soul blossoming in nature.”

Today, white carnations are used to honor deceased mothers, while pink or red carnations pay tribute to mothers who are still alive.

The Goddess Isis

Meet Lisa Rivas

DEFYING STEREOTYPES IN A TRADITIONALLY MALE-DOMINATED PROFESSION

ARTICLE BY CHERYL MCCOLLUM PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF TDS

TDS applauds women and their impact across all aspects of technology, including our own Field Service Technician, Lisa Rivas. Lisa joined TDS last August and is defying stereotypes by working in a job traditionally held by men.

HOW DID YOUR CAREER PATH LEAD YOU TO BECOME A FIELD SERVICE TECHNICIAN?

I previously worked in banking and manufacturing sales, which were office jobs. After being laid off for the third time, I realized I needed to learn a trade, and I knew technology was a field that was not going away. When I saw TDS was hiring a field service technician, I applied and got the interview. Having no experience with tools, I was worried I wouldn’t be hired. During the interview, however, I focused on my customer service skills. When the job offer came, I was thrilled.

HOW DID YOU INITIALLY FEEL ABOUT THE JOB?

I was overwhelmed with the technology, and I worried it would never make sense. But after a few weeks of job shadowing with another technician, it started to come together. Every TDS associate was so helpful, and the best part was that everyone wants each other to succeed— that’s hard to find in a job. lisa rivas

WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT THE JOB?

I really enjoy the customer interaction, especially when I am in their home fixing or installing internet, TV or phone service. It’s so nice talking to customers and teaching them what I am doing. My goal is to make sure they are comfortable with their new service before I leave. When I announce, “OK you have internet now,” they are so happy. I love that I can help make their day.

WHAT REACTIONS DO YOU GET FROM CUSTOMERS WHEN THEY OPEN THEIR DOORS?

Most people are shocked. They’re like, “What, you’re a woman and you’re a tech?” There are always lots of questions about how long I’ve been doing this. Many of the older women tell me they are so proud of me for paving the way for others. They’ll say, “You’re really breaking ground here. Way to go.”

HOW DID YOUR FAMILY REACT?

At first, they wondered why I was doing it. When I took a pole climbing class in Bend, Oregon, they thought I was so brave. They know I am happy with this job.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU HAVE FOR OTHER WOMEN WHO ARE CONSIDERING A CAREER IN TECHNOLOGY?

Just jump in and try. At first, I did not think I was capable. I went from sitting in an office to doing some pretty physical work. You’re doing squats all day and crawling into attics and small spaces in basements, but I was amazed at how fast I adjusted. I’m really in good shape now. I have lost 14 pounds, and this job is really a good workout.

WHAT HAVE BEEN THE FOUR BIGGEST SURPRISES?

1. How much I’ve learned about how internet, TV and phone service work.

2. How much more comfortable I feel about driving a big truck that was overwhelming at first.

3. Dealing with the little critters and spiders you find in the boxes and pedestals.

4. How fast my time with TDS has gone by and how pleased I am to watch it all come together.

WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO OUTSIDE OF WORK?

I have a 5-year-old son who likes to put together Lego sets and paint rocks. We enjoy being outside and exploring the parks around southern Utah.

Lisa is from southern California and lived in Cedar City before moving to St. George.

Many of the older women tell me they are so proud of me for paving the way for others.

events

A curated selection of the most intriguing upcoming events in our area.

Downtown Farmers Market

VERNON WORTHEN PARK, 300 S. 400 E., ST. GEORGE | 8:00 AM

The Farmers Market at Vernon Worthen Park is a free event held every Saturday from 8 a.m. to noon. The event is held every Saturday through the end of October. Organizer: MOFACO tel. 435.632.3721

Tuacahn Saturday Market

TUACAHN AMPHITHEATRE, 1100 TUACAHN DR., IVINS | 10:00 AM

The Tuacahn Saturday Market is one more way to experience the magic of Tuacahn. Come and enjoy our beautiful red rock canyon, featuring local artwork, treats and free entertainment. The Tuacahn Cafe is open for breakfast and lunch. A pancake breakfast with bacon and juice is served until noon (weather permitting). Visit tuacahn.org

So U Comedy

DIXIE CONVENTION CENTER, 1835 CONVENTION CENTER DR., ST. GEORGE | 7:00 PM

Enjoy a night full of laughs and fun with So U Comedy Theater. 7 p.m. family-friendly; 9 p.m. uncensored. Doors open 30 minutes before show times. Contact haha@soucomedy.com

The Spitfire Grill

HURRICANE FINE ARTS CENTER, 92 S. 100 W., HURRICANE | 7:00 PM

Based on the hit 1996 film, The Spitfire Grill is a heartwarming and inspirational musical tale of redemption, perseverance and family. Set in a small Wisconsin town, the show features a gorgeous, soulful score. Visit hurricanetheatrical.com

Ironman 70.3 St. George: North American Championship

ST. GEORGE | 6:30 AM

Intermountain Health IRONMAN 70.3 St. George is an iconic race where athletes from all over the world come to prove themselves against this legendary course. In a land sculpted by persistence and determination, athletes looking for an epic challenge will navigate a path through two state parks, basalt lava fields and a fragile desert reserve. Visit ironman.com/im703-st-george

Southern Utah Ladies Society Presents Trivia Night

ST. GEORGE | 6:30 AM

Join us for a trivia night to benefit Loving Angel Service Dogs, a Utah service dog agency placing dogs with veterans and adults with disabilities. Event starts at 5:30 p.m. Contact givebutter.com/trivianightlovingangel

Fleetwood Nicks—a Tribute to Fleetwood Mac

SAND HOLLOW RESORT, 5662 W. CLUBHOUSE DR., HURRICANE | 8:00 PM

Fleetwood Nicks, one of the nation's most recognized tribute shows, has been performing the timeless music of Fleetwood Mac and Stevie Nicks across the country for more than 15 years, bringing an incredible creation of Fleetwood Mac's signature sound to the stage with a powerful rock concert. Contact sandhollowresort.com/upcoming-events/

MAY 13TH-OCTOBER 19TH

Tuacahn presents “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory”

TUACAHN AMPHITHEATRE, 1100

TUACAHN DR., IVINS | 7:30 PM

Satisfy your sweet tooth with this modern musical remake of Roald Dahl’s classic children’s novel. “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” is a song-filled feast of “Pure Imagination” with a book by David Greig, music by Marc Shaiman and lyrics by Marc Shaiman and Scott Wittman. Visit tuacahn.org

MAY 19TH

Alan Jackson & Friends: Honky Tonk Heroes

Tribute Show

SAND HOLLOW RESORT, 5662 W. CLUBHOUSE DR., HURRICANE | 8:00 PM

This event is a tribute show to Alan Jackson, Brook & Dunn, Jimmy Buffett and Tracy Lawrence. Tribute concerts do not get better than live music in a breathtaking outdoor theater. Ticket cost: $25 - $35.  Contact sandhollowresort.com/ upcoming-events/

MAY 19TH, 20TH, 21ST Festival of the Americas

KAYENTA ART VILLAGE, 881

COYOTE GULCH CT., IVINS | 10:00 AM

This three-day festival will feature an array of cultural art forms and customs. Much of this year’s festival will focus on Native American art and culture and takes place in the outdoor setting of Kayenta Art Village and Center for the Arts at Kayenta. Tickets are $10 and available online. Contact: kayentaarts.com

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MAY 20TH - OCTOBER 21ST

Tuacahn Presents “Tarzan”

TUACAHN AMPHITHEATRE, 1100 TUACAHN DR., IVINS | 7:30 PM

Based on Disney’s epic animated musical adventure and Edgar Rice Burrough’s classic story of “Tarzan of the Apes,” “Tarzan features heart-pumping music by rock legend Phil Collins and a book by TONY Award-winning playwright, David Henry Hwang. High-flying excitement and Academy Award-winning musical hits like “You’ll Be in My Heart” make “Tarzan” an unforgettable experience. Visit tuacahn.org

MAY 20TH

1940s Hangar Dance--

Armed Forces Day

WESTERN SKY AVIATION

WARBIRD MUSEUM, 4196 S. AIRPORT PKWY, ST. GEORGE | 6:00 PM

Take a step back in time with the 1940s Hangar Dance. Come in your vintage dress (not required, but highly encouraged) as you dance the night away to 1940s Glenn Miller, Benny Goodman, Tommy Dorsey and more. Live music provided by the Rebel Jazz Band. For reservation contact 435.669.0655 or email westernwarbird@gmail.com

MAY 22ND-23RD

Lieto Voices! in Joyous Journeys

PINE VIEW HIGH SCHOOL

AUDITORIUM, 2850 E. 750 N., ST. GEORGE | 7:30 PM

MAY 23RD

Voyager James Webb Space Telescope Presented by Ron Smith

CENTER FOR THE ARTS AT KAYENTA, 881 COYOTE GULCH CT., IVINS | 6:30 PM

The James Webb Space Telescope is a space telescope designed primarily to conduct infrared astronomy. As the most powerful telescope ever launched into space, its greatly improved infrared resolution and sensitivity will allow it to view objects too old, distant or faint for the Hubble Space Telescope. Visit kayentaarts.com

MAY 27TH

The Mulligan Family Reunion

ART PROVIDES, 35 N. MAIN ST., #306, ST. GEORGE | 7:00 PM

Join The Mulligan Family Reunion and experience comedy like you rarely get to see it. The Mulligan Family Reunion will perform longform improv, using your suggestions as inspiration for comedic scenes, characters and plots. Tickets are $12. Contact artprovides.org/ products/the-mulligan-family-reunion

MAY 27TH

Sean Madden @ The Electric Theater

THE ELECTRIC THEATER, 68 E. TABERNACLE, ST. GEORGE | 7:30 PM

Laugh with the brightest stars in stand-up comedy at the Electric Theater in downtown, historic St. George. Sean Madden performs in New York, Miami and Los Angeles, and now St. George. Contact electriccomedynight@gmail.com

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