Kirkland, WA June 2024

ENTERTAINMENT

KIRKLAND YACHT CLUB

LOCAL SERVICES

JOURNEY FROM THE OUTSIDE IN

FOOD + BEVERAGE

CHEERS TO DAD!

The Men's Issue

This month we turn our attention to the men – celebrating not only the fathers in our life, but a variety of influential local men from all walks of life. We included a variety of industries - from nonprofit, to mental health, to members only clubs - and asked some local leaders to share their expertise and wisdom. If you think we missed some important male leaders in this issue, please let us know, and nominate who we should feature for next year’s Men’s issue.  We’d love to hear from you!

And with Father’s Day in just a few weeks, we included a classic cocktail recipe to celebrate with and a fun gift guide courtesy of Tommy Bahama (see page 26 for full article).

We hope you enjoy this month’s issue. Happy June, and Happy Father’s Day!

June 2024

PUBLISHER

Caitlin Agnew | caitlin.agnew@citylifestyle.com

EDITORIAL COORDINATOR

Taylor Robinson | taylor.robinson@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Taylor Robinson, Julia Bonnheim, Shannon Ressler

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Life N Light, Jennifer H. LaFreniere, Luke Johnson

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson

AD DESIGNER Evan Deuvall

LAYOUT DESIGNER Andi Foster

PHOTOS BY KARA MERCER

BRIAN AND NICOLE HOPPER

city scene

WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN

1: Friends who work together builders, Stacy & Danica Eakman, and luxury real estate broker, Max Rombakh. 2: Luxury Realtor, Max Rombakh and builder, Dan Gillison share a laugh at the open house. 3: Bustling open house on a beautiful sunny day in Kirkland! 4: Walla Walla Clothing Co. customers and Miracle House Guild members raised over $1,750 for the Uncompensated Care Fund. 5: Owner Teresa Ellison and Marketing Manager Julie McQuary celebrate two years in Kirkland. 6: Spring arrivals from designers like Paige, Brochu Walker, Vince, and more were featured during the celebration. 7: Sips & snacks to fuel the party and fundraiser for Seattle Children’s Hospital.

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business monthly

Groovy Beatles Tribute Band “Good Day Sunshine” at Kirkland Urban!

All you need is love – and summertime fun with classic Beatles tunes! Get ready to twist and shout as "Good Day Sunshine" pays homage to the Fab Four’s legendary last performance with the Come Together Rooftop Celebration from Kirkland Urban’s second-level deck. On Saturday, June 15th from 12 to 2 pm, gather the whole family for an afternoon of toe-tapping Beatles hits, plus a photo booth and groovy giveaways!

The Kirkland Wednesday Market is Back

The Kirkland Wednesday Market is officially back for summer every Wednesday from 3 to 7 pm along the gorgeous Marina Park waterfront. Bring family and friends to sample local and artisanal goods and specialties from crisp apples, to sweet berries, delectable baked goods and more. A variety of 40-60 local vendors will have offerings to delight the senses. Shop small and support local now through September! For market details visit https://kirklanddowntown.org .

Photography by Kirkland Downtown Association

Chef John E. Thompson

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Still Spa Summer Celebration

Join us for a Summer Celebration at Still Spa at the Woodmark Hotel! Enjoy the serenity of Still Spa on the shores of lake Washington while you receive one of our express treatment offerings, food, drinks, skincare advice and discounts on retail. Complete your pampering by adding a Botox appointment or visit our permanent jewelry booth. Grab a friend and get your tickets for a much needed relaxation!

Men in Therapy

LOCAL EXPERTS DISCUSS HOW AND WHY

MEN ENGAGE (OR DON’T ENGAGE) IN THE THERAPEUTIC PROCESS.

ARTICLE BY JULIA BONNHEIM

Self Space is a group mental health practice, offering psychotherapy services to adults, adolescents and couples.   Self Space believes therapy is first and foremost a relationship with an open, non-judgmental professional with whom you can safely share your whole self with and experience real and significant change. This article emerged from a conversation between Marcus Berley and Dan Suffoletta, two mental health counselors at Self Space, in which they share insights into an often-overlooked aspect of counseling: how and why men engage (or don’t engage) in the therapeutic process.

MARCUS: I find that many men, are dragged through the doors of therapy rooms by their partners. I think this reveals a societal trend in which men’s engagement with mental health services often relies on their primary relationship. This makes it crucial for therapists to foster a space in which men can discover the intrinsic value of self-reflection and emotional work.

DAN: A lot of my research in the field has focused on exactly this topic, encapsulated in my capstone project titled, “Real Men Go to Therapy”. The project explores the effects of initial client motivation on therapeutic outcomes, and I found that a lot of men were saying, “My partner really encouraged me to do this and to be here,” underscoring the significant role partners play in men’s initial steps toward therapy.

I’ve found that even if you don’t start from a place of intrinsic or internal motivation, if the therapist or counselor is able to influence that, and allow the client to realize that there are intrinsic benefits to doing self-work, then that does lead to more positive outcomes.

PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF SELF SPACE

Self Space Counselor Dan Suffoletta

MARCUS: The key seems to lie in the counselor’s ability to guide their clients toward recognizing the personal gains of therapy, moving beyond societal expectations or relationship pressures.

Men may find themselves in therapy after significant life upheavals, particularly when relationships break down. It’s often not until things blow up that they’re  like, “You know what, it’s time I did this work.” Crises often catalyze the decision to seek help.

Hegemonic ideals of masculinity have long cast a shadow over men’s mental health. These societal norms emphasize strength, self-reliance, and an aversion to showing any sort of signs of weakness, and act as formidable barriers to men seeking help. Yet, these barriers are not impermeable. Therapy itself can become a groundbreaking arena where traditional notions of masculinity are challenged, and men can learn to embrace vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness.

DAN: I tend to take a strength-based approach. I will kind of celebrate the courage that they’ve already shown. From addressing the apprehension of being judged or deemed “the problem” in a relationship, to celebrating the courage it takes to embark on the therapeutic journey, the most impactful therapy is filled with empathy, validation, and empowerment. This can help men engage more fully in the therapeutic process and help create a space where men can feel acknowledged and supported in their journey towards healing.

Self Space Counselor Marcus Berley

“Therapy itself can become a groundbreaking arena where traditional notions of masculinity are challenged, and men can learn to embrace vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness.”

It’s An Eastlake Vibe

2308 FRANKLIN AVE E, UNIT B

SEATTLE, WA 98102

Walk to all the things, including your local, public beach spot, and enjoy incredible views of Lake Union on your private rooftop deck.

In 2018, builders Gamut360 envisioned this boutique cluster of central Eastlake townhomes with a view to bring an up-market, luxury twist to the traditional Seattle townhouse blueprint. In so doing, they designed a highly desirable floor plan that maximizes living spaces while never compromising on the details.

As you enter, hardwood floors lead you into a chef’s kitchen with ample quartz counters, sleek, modern cabinetry and high end appliances, such as a Viking stove top and ovens. Progress through to a sunlit living room and step out onto a fully enclosed, turfed patio area with room for storage.

MARILISA VERGOTTINI

Space has not been compromised in the sleeping quarters - upstairs you will find two large bedrooms with dedicated full bath, and a spacious, privately sumptuous, top floor primary suite.

The property has been artfully upgraded by the current owner to include bespoke California closets in the pantry and all three bedrooms, automatic blinds throughout the home, frameless shower doors, security cameras, rooftop built-in speakers and turfed exteriors. Custom wallpaper accents give this home an enviable design flair.

Walk up to an incredible rooftop terrace, soaking up views of Lake Union and the Olympics. Entertain at your leisure, with luxury details that include an outdoor wet bar, gas firepit, drinks fridge and bar cart.

3 BD | 1.75 BA | 1,525 SF $1,200,000

Journey From the Outside In

PHOTOGRAPHY

BY

JENNIFER H. LAFRENIERE, BLOCK-ARCHITECTS

Founded in 1993 by three women in the Eastside Interfaith community, PorchLight is a foundationally sound, resource-expansive, client-centered non-profit serving East King County. PorchLight (formerly known as Congregations for the Homeless) is the only full-service shelter for adult single men experiencing homelessness in our area.

“Homelessness is a complex social issue in this country. The reasons why someone finds themselves experiencing homelessness are often equally complex. At PorchLight’s

Eastgate Shelter a hundred men sleep under our roof on any given night. Each one has a unique story, a unique set of circumstances, and a unique vision of what is next for him. Conversely, we as a staff and an organization have a single focus: Provide each man with support and services to travel his path to stable housing,” says Troy Christensen, PorchLight Executive Director.

PorchLight staff is made up of nearly 50 individuals, and one in five staff members are former clients.   Hiring former clients makes for deeper connections with the

Entry to PorchLight's new facility.

Mural Art: Untitled by Guido Van Helten

Porchlight provides a path from homelessness to stable living

men who come in for help, thereby getting them into necessary programs sooner with a higher rate of success.

In June of 2023, PorchLight moved into their new 20,000-square-foot facility in Bellevue that houses a 24/7 Emergency Men’s Shelter (EMS) and Day Center - which includes 100 shelter beds, a dining area, services for behavioral health, housing navigation, substance-use counseling, and case management. The EMS and Day Center are safe and supportive for men experiencing homelessness to sleep, eat, take showers, do laundry, and connect to life-transforming relationships and services that lead to stable employment, better health, and stable housing.

For more than three decades, PorchLIght has been dedicated to supporting men experiencing homelessness in East King County as they journey from the outside in.

How Can The Community Help?

DONATE:

• Financial Gifts – Amounts of any kind have impact. Consider a one-time or recurring gift.

• Clothing – new and gently used men’s clothing is accepted with scheduled drop off.

• Meals – Lunch and dinner meals for 100 accepted with a scheduled drop off.

VOLUNTEER:

• Sign up for our Volunteer Orientation offered the 3rd Wednesday of every month.

TOURS AND PRESENTATIONS:

• Schedule a tour of our new building for your small group of 8-10.

• Request a presentation at your business or community group.

Find details on how to connect with PorchLight at porchlightcares.org

Dining Area in PorchLights new Day Center

Meet the founders of Kirkland Yacht Club; a vibrant community of creators, innovators and thought leaders.

Kirkland Yacht Club

ARTICLE BY TAYLOR ROBINSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY LIFE N LIGHT

Owners and Co-founders, Michael Baiocchi (left) and Nique Davis (right)

TELL US ABOUT KIRKLAND YACHT CLUB.

Kirkland Yacht Club is a prestigious venue that proudly collaborates with leading brands to shape the future of culture through innovative events, experiences and content. Our members are influential thought leaders, artists and community builders who actively contribute to creative disciplines and appreciate high-quality offerings.

WHAT WAS THE VISION BEHIND STARTING KIRKLAND YACHT CLUB?

Our vision is to be more than just a venue; we aspire to be the epicenter of creativity, innovation and cultural advancement. We are committed to curating unparalleled experiences that transcend boundaries and inspire greatness. Our collaboration with leading brands is aimed to pioneer new trends, push the boundaries of imagination and set the

standard for excellence in events, experiences and content creation. Our members, influential thought leaders, visionary artists and passionate community builders, are the driving force behind our vision. Together we form a dynamic community fostering collaboration and celebrating diversity. Every event at Kirkland Yacht Club, whether it be a cutting-edge art exhibit or exclusive soirée, is meticulously curated to offer our members a glimpse into the forefront of creativity and sophistication. As we continue our journey, we are committed to excellence, integrity and inclusivity, believing in the power of passionate individuals to inspire positive change and redefine cultural experiences.

WHAT DOES AN EXCLUSIVE MEMBERSHIP ENTAIL?

We offer a range of custom membership types, each designed to fulfill the requirements of different individuals and groups, that unlock endless possibilities for collaboration, networking and inspiration in our stunning location. Our resident, salon and off-site membership each include member access to all digital platforms, cultural programming, open workspaces, priority dining reservations and VIP access and pricing to partner locations and events, Private Yacht Charters and more.

HOW CAN THE COMMUNITY LEARN MORE?

Visit us at https://kirklandyachtclub.co/

Owner and Co-founder, Nique Davis

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Just in time for Father’s Day

TOMMY BAHAMA HAS THE PERFECT GIFT TO COMPLEMENT DAD’S LIFESTYLE.

Your unforgettable summer is just beginning -- let Tommy Bahama be your guide for all things sunshine. Whether you’re teeing up for your next shot or heading to the beach, Tommy Bahama has versatile performance wear to keep you cool, bright color camp shirts and dresses, one-of-a-kind artistry, and versatile swimwear. Just in time for Father’s Day, Tommy Bahama has the perfect gift to complement Dad’s lifestyle. Tommy Bahama is Summer, so come along for the ride.

PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF TOMMY BAHAMA

Par for the course never looked this good. Lush Lines Polo ($118) On Par Short ($110) New Palm Desert Oasis Polo ($118) and Bahama Coast 5 - Pocket Pant ($128).

All items included are Tommy Bahama, unless otherwise stated.  Select items available at Tommy Bahama stores in Bellevue & University Village; all items available at tommybahama.com

1. Bahama Coast You Can Toucan short-sleeve shirt ($118); Boracay 8” Chino Short ($99.50); Lite straw Spencer Toyo Hat ($125)  2. Nylon Travel Tote ($139),Nylon Toiletry Bag ($65), Nylon Duffle Bag ($159) 3. Kayo Koi Artist Series Camp Shirt ($168); LItestraw Spencer Toyo Hat ($125) 4. On Him, Island-Zone Rashguard ($118), Baja Hazy Tides 9-Inch Boardshorts ($99.50). On her, Relaxed Long-Sleeve Rash Guard ($118) and Pearl Shirred Hipster Bikini Bottoms ($54.50) 5. Bali Beach T-Shirt ($54.50) Naples Pom Palms Swim Trunks ($89.50) 6. Malachite Print Deluxe Backpack Beach Chair ($89.50) 7. Tommy Bahama x Coastal Pickle Blue Palm Pickleball Paddle ($99.50) 8. Retreat Maxi Dress ($198) String of Palms Silk Camp Shirt ($158) The Boracay Flat Front Chino Pant ($138). 9. Gingham Wrap-Front One-Piece Swimsuit ($168)

MR. LUKE JOHNSON RETIRES FROM LAKEVIEW ELEMENTARY AFTER 46 YEARS OF TEACHING.

Celebrating the Retirement of a Beloved Teacher

ARTICLE BY SHANNON RESSLER | PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF LUKE JOHNSON

“The joy of learning and discovery is a wonderful thing at any age.”

Spend a couple of minutes with Mr. Luke Johnson and it’s clear he is on to something. A popular 3rd grade teacher at Lakeview Elementary, he can’t walk through the school without one of the children calling out to him or just going straight in for a hug. He greets students with gentleness and a chill, loving vibe. My daughter is one of his students this year, and she describes him as “classic.”  It’s a great descriptor –he handwrites the kids’ worksheets and includes their names in the math story problems. He wrote them poems on Valentine’s Day. His classroom is lined with the “Great Illustrated Classics,” exposing the kids to a literary world beyond Dog Man. His license plate proclaims “LEARN.” At the kids’ art fair last fall, he was there with Mrs. Johnson and their friends, dressed as if they were going to The Met. The kids know that they matter to Mr. Johnson.

Luke grew up in a small town in Wisconsin with his mother, brother, and two sisters – his father died in a sudden accident when Luke was just 3 years old. Life must have been sad and hard from that moment, but his mom showed great resilience and took hold of family matters. Luke had an influential 5th grade teacher, Mr. Byrns, who showed kindness and connection and sparked an interest in teaching. After a visit to the World’s Fair here in 1962, Luke thought Seattle seemed like a marvelous place to be. He attended PLU and has been here ever since.

This year will be his last year of teaching, wrapping up a 46 year career as an educator. He has walked to

and from school each day (carrying his grandfather’s metal lunch box) dedicating his life to teaching the children of Kirkland, Juanita and Redmond. As someone who has encountered Mr. Johnson several times and always left feeling a little brighter, I wanted to see if he had any thoughts he could share with the people of Kirkland on the occasion of his retirement.

He says, “A lot of young people want to change the world – like that song [by 70s British rockers Ten Years After] ‘I’d Love to Change the World, But I Don’t Know What To Do.’ I know how! Teach!” His face animates knowing that he has found an answer. “Technology has its place, but human connection and learning will always be needed.”

He advises parents to listen to their kids, to stay positive and avoid the trap of comparison. Honor your child’s individuality. Reinforce effort and celebrate successes.

He has learned many things from his students. “The joy of learning and discovery is a wonderful thing at any age. I’ve also learned the future of this country is in good hands. These young people are bright, industrious, and eager to make the world a better place.”

Mr. Johnson doesn’t think the kids may always remember exactly what he taught them, but he hopes they will remember how he made them feel. What a wonderful impression he has made on the children of our city. Us adults too.

Think of Luke on the first day of school next year –he will be sitting at a café with Mrs. Johnson in Paris, kicking off retirement.

JUNE 2024

A SELECTION OF UPCOMING LOCAL EVENTS

Being anchored in a Christian community is the real strength at Cedar Park Christian Schools.

We believe the quality of education and environment prepare the next generation to find purpose and develop honest character. We are thankful for our educators, administrators, coaches, and partners who help students be changed by the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Serving Preschool through grade 12 in the Puget Sound region for over 40 years.

JUNE 1ST

NAMIWalks Washington

Marina Park | 8:00 AM

NAMIWalks participants like you don't just walk the walk. You are the walk. NAMIWalks is about people who think nothing of giving everythingtheir time, their stories, their heartfelt dedication to the cause: Mental Health for All. Join us on June 1st, to fuel mental health awareness, raise funds for NAMI's mission and let people know they are not alone.

JUNE 7TH

Juanita Friday Market

Juanita Beach Park | 3:00 PM

Located on the shores of beautiful Lake Washington, a visit to the weekly farmers market is a great way to kickoff your weekend! You can expect to find 35 vendors showcasing everything you need for a relaxing picnic at the beach or special dinner at home, including fresh cut flowers for the table. Join us every Friday from 3-7 pm!

JUNE 15TH

Eastside Honoring Juneteenth

Juanita Beach Park | 12:00 PM

Join us in celebrating the national holiday Juneteenth - Day of Freedom from 12 to 5 pm! The festival style event will feature Delbert Richardson and his Unspoken Truths American History Traveling Museum along with engaging speakers, performances, vendors, service providers, food trucks and more. For more details visit https://kirklandwa.gov

JUNE 16TH

Fenders on Front Street

Downtown Issaquah | 8:00 AM

The 17th Annual 'Fender's on Front Street Classic Car Show' is back for this upcoming Father’s Day 2024! Celebrate your dad or the father figure in your life, with a family out to Downtown Issaquah and spend a weekend viewing classic cars, dining out at local favorites and cruising Issaquah’s historically hip downtown. For event details visit https://fendersonfrontstreet.com

JUNE 16TH

Father's Day Baseball:

Seattle Mariners v. Texas Rangers

T-Mobile Park | 1:10 PM

Take dad out to the ball game! Bring your dad or father figure in your life, for a family outting to the Seattle Mariners v. Texas Rangers afternoon game at T-Mobile Park in Seattle. The first 10,000 dads (21+) in the stadium, will receive a Big Dumper Stadium Seat cushion presented by Muckleshoot Casino Resort. To purchase tickets visit  https://mlb.com/ mariners/tickets/promotions

JUNE 28TH

Champions of Change

All-Star Basketball Game

Climate Pledge Arena | 7:00 PM

Get ready to witness one of the most exciting basketball events of the year!

On June 28th, join us at the iconic Climate Pledge Arena for the second annual Champions of Change All-Star Basketball game. This event will be hosted by none other than Seattle Seahawks legends Cliff Avril, Doug Baldwin, and Michael Bennett, who are sure to bring their A-game both on and off the court.

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Cheers to Dad!

Dads come in many forms, from biological to step, godparents to foster parents, friends, and other family members.  This Father’s Day, mix up this simple yet timeless cocktail to toast the special dad in your life!

Classic Old Fashioned ingredients:

• 1 teaspoon sugar

• 3 dashes Angostura bitters

• 1 teaspoon water

• 2 ounces bourbon (or rye whiskey, if preferred)

• Garnish: orange twist

directions:

Step 1. Add the sugar and bitters into a mixing glass, then add the water, and stir until the sugar is nearly dissolved.

Step 2. Fill the mixing glass with ice, add the bourbon, and stir until well-chilled.

Step 3. Strain into a rocks glass over one large ice cube.

Step 4. Express the oil of an orange twist over the glass, then drop into the glass to garnish.

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