“I truly believe that if we keep telling the Christmas story, singing the Christmas songs, and living the Christmas spirit, we can bring joy and happiness and peace to this world.”Norman
Vincent Peale
Welcome to Issue 152 of Iceni Magazine!
You've guessed it... this month's focus is on Christmas. However you feel about the festive season, it's tricky to escape it, so we prefer to embrace it! If you need to slow down and enjoy the moments a bit more, we share top tips for a mindful Christmas on Pages 28 and 29. Desperate to switch off the WiFi for some enforced family fun? Head over to Page 30 for some ideas. Need to take the heat out of the festive season? Susan Leigh offers some sage advice (Pages 22 & 23).
Elsewhere, Pages 12 and 13 bring garden jobs that you should consider for December. Although the frost may have arrived, that doesn't mean you can get away with neglecting your outside space! Finally, from Page 36, you can find Wellbeing Walks and Community Events to suit everyone's needs. This time of year can be tricky for a whole range of reasons, so be kind to yourself.
Until Issue 153 and 2026, we wish you all a very merry time with lots of lovely food, family and friendship.
Charlie, Iceni Home And Garden, Nova Silver, Susan Leigh, Tim Barnes-Clay, Trevor Langley, Vicki Jeffery.
The last few years have seen a significant shift in the way that people approach work and how they prioritise its importance in their lives.
Working from home, introducing flexible hours to suit their requirements, spending quality time with family, friends, hobbies and interests has meant that for many, a more balanced way of life has become their preferred way of living.
Lockdown prompted many people to rethink what was important in their lives. Did they still want to travel to an office and spend hours away from home? This was when many discovered the importance of family, friends and how much they treasured time for hobbies, interests and personal self-care.
A summer 2024 survey revealed that approximately 6% of full-time workers in the UK are already working a 4-day week, suggesting that up to 1.5 million employees could now be benefiting from this new approach to work. According to a survey by Survation, 58% of the
public say taking a 3-day weekend will be “the normal way of working” by 2030 - with only 22% believing it won’t.
Nearly a third of US CEO’s polled in 2024 by accounting firm KPMG revealed that they’re exploring alternative work schedules such as a 4 or 4 1/2 day workweek. Spain’s Prime Minister, Pedro Sanchez, sees 4-day working as a way of increasing productivity and creating a better work-life balance.
Two hundred companies in the UK have permanently adopted a 4-day working week with no loss of pay for staff. According to the most recent 4 Day Week Foundation update, the companies involved collectively employ more than 5,000 people, with non-profits, marketing, and technology firms among the best represented.
Joe Ryle, Campaign Director of the 4 Day Week Foundation, said the nine-to-five, fiveday work week was “no longer fit for purpose. With noticably more free time, a 4-day week gives people the freedom to live happier, more
fulfilling lives”. London-based companies make up 59 of the 200 participating firms, followed by 27 in South East England, 25 in Scotland, 24 in South West England and 15 in North West England. A significant number of companies are in sectors including Creative Arts & Design (18), Engineering & Manufacturing (12), Recruitment & HR (12), Entertainment (9), Accountancy, Banking & Finance (8). Property Development, Trades & Construction (6) have also recently been accredited by the foundation.
South Cambridgeshire District Council has been the first local authority in the UK to run trials, with over 600 staff working a 4-day week. “As hundreds of British companies and one local council have already shown, a 4-day week with no loss of pay can be a win-win for both workers and employers,” Mr Ryle said. The 4 Day Week Foundation has plans to run at least three new 4-day week pilots throughout 2025.
However, there are concerns that such a cultural shift could cause controversy, with the change to working practices could negatively impacting businesses and hitting economic growth. There is a concern that a reduction in flexibility and an increase in costs could impact on small and medium sized companies. Kevin Hollindrake, the Tory shadow business secretary, expressed the view in late 2024, that large-scale moves to a 4-day week would make doing business more expensive in the UK.
Not all sectors can easily transition to the 4-day model, leading to some concerns. Under current laws, workers have the right to request flexible working, but employers aren’t legally obliged to
agree. Government ministers have previously insisted they have “no plans” to force businesses to accept a 4-day working week.
A study by Spark Market Research has found that younger workers are the most likely to resist traditional working patterns. About 78% of UK 18-34-year-olds believe a 4-day working week will become widespread in five years, while 65% said they don’t want to see a return to fulltime office working.
Lynsey Carolan, Managing Director of Spark Market Research, said: “Our survey clearly shows a desire for change in traditional working patterns. 18-34’s, the core workforce of the next 50 years, are making their feelings known that they don’t intend to go back to old fashioned working patterns when other options are now available. “This group also say that mental health and improving their overall wellbeing are their top priorities, so a 4-day week is a really meaningful benefit and a key enabler enhancing their overall quality of life.”
There’s also the impact that this change to working practices has on domestic households. Trials have noted that men begin to take on greater levels of responsibility at home and participate more in parenting duties.
There are some businesses, like hospitality, healthcare and retail, whose customers’ and clients’ requirements are for 24-hour availability, but flexible shift patterns and increased online support may well offer solutions to these issues as our approach to work-life balance gradually evolves. Could a 4-day week be for you?
Article By Susan Leigh
Susan Leigh, South Manchester counsellor, hypnotherapist, relationship counsellor, writer & media contributor offers help with relationship issues, stress management, assertiveness and confidence. She works with individual clients, couples and provides corporate workshops and support. For more articles, information or to make contact please visit: https://www.lifestyletherapy.net
DINE AT COMPAMIGOS
The city of Derby is visited by countless people who come to experience what Derby is all about.
The Cathedral, history and shopping opportunities are amongst the attractions that people come to Derby for - with many returning again, to ‘explore’ further. Worldclass entertainments give the chance to enjoy shows, plus arts, sports and more. If venturing out, from the city of Derby, then interests may extend to country houses and estates, caverns, plus towns and quaint villages being some other attractions and popular places to enjoy. Eateries and restaurants offer a wide range of cuisines, to satisfy all tastes and dietary requirements.
I located award-winning and recommended Compamigos World Tapas Restaurant in Derby. Situated at Mercia Marina, with shops and businesses, plus scenic waterfront sights adding to the pleasures, Compamigos (opened 2024) gained a lot of interest from the outset. I found an exciting abundance of flavours, from global origins, coming to the fore, throughout the dishes. Sharing dishes are a ‘speciality’ at Compamigos, for breakfasts, daytime and evening dining, be it with family, friends or a romantic dining occasion.
To commence, the Chicken Croquettes appealed, as nibbles - just right to ‘settle in’. From the main part of the menu I chose
Seared Seabass (roasted vegetables, spiced tomato sauce, olive oil), with sides of Garlic & Rosemary Fries, plus Caesar Salad. These dishes all had complementing flavours, with succulence and tenderness hugely evident.
‘Compliments to Chef’ were very much deserved and sent. Head Chef Ben, plus Chef Luke and the team have vast amounts of experience and knowledge. Meats, fish, vegetarian and vegan choices and options offer very good ranges. A dessert of Millionaires Chocolate Pot made the dining experience further enjoyable.
Quality drinks offer beverages for all. Parties/ occasions are easily accommodated. Gift vouchers are available - perhaps a surprise for someone special? Tribute nights, tasting events
and other times offer opportunities to enjoy world-based foods, with exotic, handcrafted cocktails - all details are on their very informative website. Thank you to Charlotte for her genuine greeting. Also, thank you Francesca for the cuisine advice and exemplary service throughout. Highly recommended.
The Citroën C5 Aircross has been relaunched, providing a significant makeover for an SUV crossover that had been on the market for eight years.
Alongside the new second-generation model, an all-electric variant, the e-C5 Aircross, has been introduced. This marks the first Citroën built on Stellantis’ STLA Medium platform, which is also shared with models like Peugeot’s e-3008 and e-5008.
The Standard Range e-C5 Aircross can accelerate from 0-62mph in 8.9 seconds, while the Extended Range version I’m testing achieves this in a marginally quicker 8.8 seconds. However, both are slower than the C5 Aircross PHEV, which reaches 62mph in just 8.3 seconds.
Still, the e-C5 Aircross feels robust, delivering a brisk burst of speed off the line that’s suitable for overtaking on motorways, with the roughness typically associated with the standard C5 Aircross engines pleasantly absent here.
Citroëns are designed more for comfort than thrills, and this is evident in the e-C5 Aircross, which exhibits limited agility. While the steering lacks feedback, it’s precise, making manoeuvres much easier. The French car is comfortable and ultra-soft, making city driving a pleasure, although it can jiggle about on uneven surfaces at higher speeds.
Inside, Citroën has made substantial improvements compared with the outgoing model. My flagship Max test car features attractive black and grey upholstery, with a stylish two-tier dashboard design. The upper part is black, while the lower section is clad in light grey suede fabric, extending to the doors and the lid of the central cubby.
The infotainment screen, designed in a unique portrait orientation, leans against the fabric and is striking. It seamlessly connects to a raised centre console that includes a tray, various buttons, and a cupholder. Citroën refers to it as the ‘Waterfall’ screen, as its cascading appearance resembles flowing water.
Image Credit: Citroën
The steering wheel has a stylish design with a flat top and bottom and only two spokes. The infotainment system impresses with modern graphics and a sharp 13.0-inch touchscreen. Additionally, a separate 10.0-inch digital instrument display behind the wheel features graphics that are easy to read.
If you’re seeking a comfy electric car that remains budget-friendly, the e-C5 Aircross is compelling. It offers attractive looks, an improved interior, good infotainment, and satisfactory performance.
The Extended Range model offers the capability for long trips on a single charge, making it
best suited for regular, substantial journeys or for those who prefer fewer charging interruptions.
Fast Facts: Citroën e-C5 Aircross Extended Range - Max Trim
• Max speed: 106 mph
• 0-60 mph: 8.8 secs
• Electric Range: 422
• Powerplant: Single electric motor & 97kWh lithium-ion battery pack
• Power (PS): 230
• CO2: 0 g/km
• Price: c.£39,345+
By Tim Barnes-Clay. Follow
on Instagram: @tbarnesclay
Image Credit: Citroën
Image Credit: Citroën
Image Credit: Citroën
Image Credit: Citroën
Jobs To Do In The Garden For December
Keeping
Your Garden Thriving Through Winter.
December might bring shorter days and colder temperatures, but the British gardener knows there is still much to do outdoors. The garden at this time of year is quietly preparing for spring, and a little attention now can make all the difference come March. Here’s a comprehensive look at the key jobs to do in the garden for December, ensuring everything remains healthy and ready for the growing season ahead.
Protecting Plants from Frost and Cold
One of the top priorities this month is protecting tender plants from frost. Move pots of half-hardy plants, such as pelargoniums or fuchsias, into a greenhouse, porch, or indoors if possible. For those that must stay outside, wrap containers in bubble wrap or horticultural fleece to
insulate roots. Mulching the base of shrubs and perennials with organic matter helps insulate them against the cold and keeps roots frost-free.
Looking After the Lawn
While the lawn won’t require mowing as often, it still needs some care. Try to avoid walking on it when it’s covered in frost or very wet, as this can damage the grass. Remove any fallen leaves regularly to allow light to reach the grass and prevent disease. If you notice moss building up, plan to treat it in spring.
Pruning and Tidying
December is a good time to prune back many deciduous trees and shrubs while they’re dormant. Focus on removing dead, diseased, or crossing branches to improve shape and health. Wisteria, for example, benefits from a prune this month, cutting back summer side-
shoots to two or three buds. Avoid pruning spring-flowering shrubs now, as you’ll risk removing next year’s blooms.
Preparing for Spring Planting
Now is the perfect time to prepare beds for the coming year. Dig over vegetable plots, adding well-rotted manure or compost to enrich the soil. If you have heavy clay soil, leaving it roughdug over winter allows frost to break it down, resulting in a finer tilth for spring sowing. Clean and repair tools, and organise your seed packets to make planning easier as the new year approaches.
Caring for Wildlife
British gardens are a haven for wildlife, especially in winter when natural food is scarce. Keep bird feeders topped up with high-energy foods like suet, sunflower seeds, and nuts. Break ice on bird baths to provide fresh water. Avoid tidying up every corner of the garden; a pile of logs or leaves can offer vital shelter for hedgehogs and insects.
Greenhouse and Indoor Jobs
If you have a greenhouse, give it a thorough clean to let in more light and reduce
overwintering pests. Insulate with bubble wrap if needed, and check heaters are working. Water plants sparingly, as growth slows right down, but ensure good ventilation on milder days to prevent mould.
Planning and Reflecting
December is also a time for reflection and planning. Take notes on what worked well in the garden this year and what you’d like to change. Browse seed catalogues and plan your planting schemes for spring. Order seeds early to avoid disappointment, as many popular varieties sell out quickly.
Other Useful December Jobs
• Plant bare-root roses, trees, and shrubs while the ground isn’t frozen.
• Check tree ties and stakes, adjusting or replacing as needed.
• Harvest the last of the leeks, parsnips, and winter brassicas.
• Continue to force rhubarb under pots if you want an early crop.
• Store garden furniture or cover it to protect from the elements.
December in the British garden may be quieter, but it’s a crucial month for preparation and care. Tackling these jobs now means a healthier, more beautiful garden when spring arrives.
Embrace the crisp air, wrap up warm, and enjoy the satisfaction of nurturing your outdoor space through the winter months.
Christmas Makeup Looks 2025 - Affordable Party Glam
Christmas party makeup in 2025 isn’t about going crazy with shimmer and glitter, just because you can.
It’s all about creating a glam look that’s carefully put together. You want to achieve a balanced look that not only photographs well, but also in real life. Most people think that festive/party makeup has to be super glam but that isn’t true. Right now, it’s about creating contrast and you can still play about with glitter but just don’t go crazy.
Here’s how to achieve six festive looks under £20 each.
Apply foundation sparingly, blend with a sponge, apply concealer only where needed.
Lightly press powder on your T-zone for a natural, luminous finish.
2. Metallic Neutrals
Products: KIKO Water Eyeshadow, e.l.f. Liquid Glitter, Rimmel Wonder’Swipe Liner.
Apply KIKO eyeshadow across your eyelids and add subtle depth to your outer-corners with liner. Then finish the look by dabbing a small amount of glitter in the centre of your eyelids. This will keep your eyes looking festive without looking over the top.
3. Garnet, Moss & Ink Palette
Products: ColourPop Super Shock Shadow, Barry M Waterproof Pencil, KIKO Intense Pencil.
Apply deep garnet on your eyelids, smudge Barry M liner upwards at the outer corners and finish with a green or berry pencil along
the lower lash-line. Ensure your eyes are the primary focus by applying neutral colours to your lips.
4. Lifted Liner
Products: Maybelline Hyper Precise Liner, Collection Felt Tip Liner.
Draw a thin line along your lashes, lift gently at the outer corners for a subtle upward flick, then blend lower edge slightly. Finish with lashings of mascara.
5. Satin Red Lips
Products: Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick, Rimmel Lip Liner.
Firstly, exfoliate your lips, then line and apply the lipstick. Next, blot and reapply to create a soft look with a beautiful dimensional finish that won’t crack.
6. Micro-Holiday Accents
Products: Barry M Holographic Topper, Revolution Glitter Balm, e.l.f. Metallic Shadow. Add sparkle to the inner corners of your eyes, the centre of your eyelids and apply a light dusting on your cheekbones. Fix gems with lash glue or tacky primer and set with spray.
Tip: Focus on one main feature per look, either, skin, eyes, or lips. Applying this rule will ensure glamour meets luxe, even when you’re using budget-friendly products.
Hi, I am Charlie, a former make-up artist originally based in Norwich. I have always been passionate about art and channelling it through creative makeup. I trained at Norwich City College in Fashion and SFX makeup. My work has been published both nationally and internationally.
Want to see more? Check out my Instagram - @ThePoutyLip
Nova Silver
December Birthstone And Christmas Gifts
Turquoise is the vibrant blue-green gemstone and is the traditional birthstone for December.
Revered since ancient times, it symbolises protection, wisdom, and good fortune. Its soothing color reflects the calm of winter skies and the promise of new beginnings. Cultures from Egypt to Native America have cherished turquoise as a sacred stone, believed to bring harmony and strength to its wearer. Today, it remains a timeless choice for those born in December, representing serenity, friendship, and enduring love.
Wearing or gifting a wishbone pendant, ring, or earrings symbolises the belief in good fortune, new beginnings, and the strength to pursue one’s dreams. It’s often given to loved ones as a token of encouragement or to mark life’s milestones, such as graduations, new jobs, or fresh starts. Traditionally, breaking a real wishbone during a festive meal was believed to grant a wish to the person who held the larger piece, a custom dating back to ancient Rome. In jewellery, the wishbone carries this same spirit of optimism and positivity.
Doves in jewellery symbolise peace, love, and purity. Often linked to faith and devotion, they represent harmony and new beginnings. In romantic pieces, doves express eternal partnership, while in spiritual contexts, they convey hope, innocence, and the divine presence of the soul.
Giving silver as a Christmas gift carries heartfelt symbolism. It expresses sincerity, appreciation,
and enduring love. A reminder that even in the darkest winter months, light and warmth will endure. Whether it’s a delicate bracelet, pendant, or classic ring, sterling silver captures the spirit of giving with grace and love. Its lasting beauty and affordability make it an ideal expression of thoughtfulness, ensuring that every piece becomes not just an accessory, but a cherished keepsake filled with meaning.
Best Of Norfolk - Through The Lens Of Our Readers
Thanks to the wonderful photographs shared by our followers on Facebook, have a look at these November images of our stunning region.
Vicki Jeffery - Lest We Forget
Helen Chapman - Stokesby
To be in with a chance of having your own photographs featured in the future, look out for our regular Facebook posts where you can add your images. Alternatively, send an email with your image and caption to: submissions@icenimagazine.co.uk
Helen Chapman - Martham
Helen Chapman - Cromer
Helen Chapman - Stratton St Michael
Helen Chapman - Martham
Focus On:
Take The Heat Out Of Christmas
How uncomfortably warm might our homes become, both physically and emotionally, over the Christmas festivities!
There’s often an increase in day-to-day activity, which in turn generates additional warmth. We may experience a deluge of extra people, an excess of catering, continuous heating, lamps and seasonal lighting, which all aim to make the place warm, cosy and inviting. But all this festive hustle and bustle can be quite tough to contend with if you’re used to quietly going about your life, spending your days how you please, perhaps with the occasional inclusion of family, friends and your pets.
Christmas is a time to connect with our nearest and dearest, ideally sharing lots of love, laughter and warmth, but this can become quite stressful, overwhelming and even claustrophobic at times, especially if we only see extended family intermittently throughout the year. So, let’s look at a few ways to manage this year’s festivities in a positive way, to suit all.
Start by saying what you need. Whether you’re in a relationship or receiving festive invites from family and friends, saying something as simple as you want some quiet, alone time or a free evening or afternoon on your own or with your immediate family can be a positive way to introduce a conversation about how you’d like to spend your Christmas. And speaking up in a calm, polite way allows others to understand your point of view without becoming hurt, confused or offended.
If you’ve houseguests, think of ways to keep them amused whilst providing time away from the house. This allows you an opportunity to cool off, tidy up and have a quiet interlude. Confirm the timings of church services, carol events, local concerts and markets, all attractive reasons for them to leave the house and minimise the hot-house experience for all.
If your guests are staying for several days delegate various tasks and suggest one becomes ‘events coordinator’. They can take responsibility for games, the music playlist and
amusements. But be sure to reward them with effusive praise!
Board games and charades are a traditional, fun and potentially noisy way to entertain guests indoors, especially if outdoors entertainment is not deemed feasible. Inviting someone to oversee these games could free you a little metime to drift away and amuse yourself for a while. Also, inviting local friends to join for an afternoon or evening can introduce new energy into the group and mix it up a little.
Suggest houseguests go sightsee local places of interest or take a walk in the nearby countryside, visit a local park and enjoy the opportunity to breathe fresh air, see deer, birdwatch and kick through the leaves. Offer a variety of interests that appeal to different people and let them select from a range of activities, so diluting the intensity at home and introducing new topics of conversation.
A competitive game of football or rounders can help guests burn off surplus energy outdoors. All the better if it’s followed by tasty, homemade food, which could be prepared in advance; warming soups with crusty bread, a casserole or stew, a tasty pie with all the trimmings. ‘Normal’ food is often enthusiastically received as a delicious alternative to rich Christmas fare.
Don’t forget to accommodate yourself too. Arrange a little quiet time to spend with your partner or family. If you’re on your own, organise
your favourite treats, snacks and meals. Plan your film and TV viewing, the books you’ve been meaning to read, the long-distance calls you wish to catch up on, any shows or concerts you’d like to attend. Then you can ensure that you use your time well.
And sometimes touching base with your work or business can help you feel grounded again. If you’re running a business, work could be a major commitment, so even if there’s no immediate emergency, there could still be duties that would benefit from your attention and offer a valid reason to get away for an hour or so.
Connecting with work and maybe spending a couple of hours away from home, dealing with an important task or two, offers the opportunity to excuse yourself and take a break away from the melee. And often you’ll find that you return with a calmer, more relaxed mindset, ready to continue enjoying your Christmas.
Some people find that the week between Christmas and New Year is a useful time to return to work. It’s quieter, often with few interruptions, and gives an opportunity to clear outstanding tasks. Touching base with ‘normal’ for that week can mean that the New Year festivities are eagerly anticipated.
A little planning and good communications can ensure that you reduce the heat and are able to enjoy a positive and happy time over the Christmas festivities.
Article By Susan Leigh
Susan Leigh, South Manchester counsellor, hypnotherapist, relationship counsellor, writer & media contributor offers help with relationship issues, stress management, assertiveness and confidence. She works with individual clients, couples and provides corporate workshops and support. For more articles, information or to make contact please visit: https://www.lifestyletherapy.net
Creating Lasting Christmas Traditions With Kids
Christmas and childhood are linked by a special kind of magic - the kind made of sparkly lights, whispered secrets, warm kitchens, and rituals that return year after year.
For parents and caregivers, creating Christmas traditions with kids isn’t just about crafting picture-perfect moments. It’s about building memories that form the emotional landmarks of childhood. These are the moments kids will carry with them into adulthood, long after the toys have been forgotten and the wrapping paper is gone.
Traditions don’t need to be elaborate to be meaningful. In fact, the simplest ones often become the most cherished because they are easy to repeat and uniquely yours. What matters isn’t how impressive the tradition looks from
the outside, but how it feels on the inside - fun, warm, predictable in the best way, and full of connection.
One of the easiest and most joyful traditions to start is an annual decorating ritual. Children love participating in preparing the home for Christmas, whether it’s hanging ornaments, placing a wreath on the door, or arranging little figurines on a shelf. To make the moment feel even more special, try giving each child a new ornament every year. Choose something that reflects their current interests - dinosaurs, ballet shoes, soccer balls, or fairy-tale characters. As they grow, the tree becomes a visual timeline of their childhood, and decorating becomes a walk-through memory lane.
Baking together is another tradition that blends creativity, sensory fun, and togetherness. Whether you swear by a family recipe or prefer
the shortcut of pre-made dough, kids love measuring, mixing, and decorating. Let them choose a special “Christmas cookie of the year,” or create a signature recipe that becomes your family staple. It’s not about the perfectly frosted result; it’s about flour on the counter, sticky fingers, and the stories shared while waiting for the timer to ding.
For families who want to weave gratitude and giving into their holiday season, consider traditions that focus on kindness. Kids naturally love helping when given the chance. Choose a charity together, donate gently used toys, prepare small gift bags for neighbours, or make handmade cards for teachers and community workers. These acts of kindness ground the holiday in generosity and teach children the joy of giving - a value that lasts far beyond December.
Another wonderful tradition involves storytelling. Reading a special Christmas book each night leading up to the holiday creates a calming ritual amid the seasonal excitement. You can wrap 24 books and let kids choose one each night, or revisit the same beloved stories year after year. Add hot chocolate, soft blankets, and fairy lights, and you have a nightly tradition that nourishes family closeness.
Traditions don’t need to be elaborate to be meaningful. In fact, the simplest ones often become the most cherished because they are easy to repeat and uniquely yours.
For outdoor-loving families, traditions can be built around nature. A winter walk, stargazing on the longest night of the year, or collecting pinecones for homemade decorations invites kids to experience the season beyond the bustle. These quiet rituals also help balance the sensory overload that often accompanies the holidays.
Finally, consider creating a tradition that marks the transition from Christmas Eve to Christmas morning. Many families enjoy opening one small gift on Christmas Eve - perhaps pyjamas, a book, or a game to enjoy together. Others write notes to Santa, sprinkle “reindeer food” on the lawn, or take a family photo by the tree. These rituals help anchor the anticipation and create a sense of wonder.
In the end, the best Christmas traditions are those that bring joy, connection, and a sense of belonging. Your family doesn’t need to follow anyone else’s blueprint.
The rituals you create - big or smallbecome the stories your children will tell for the rest of their lives. And that, more than anything, is the real magic of Christmas.
How To Celebrate Christmas When You’re
Far From Home
Christmas is often associated with familiar comforts - family gatherings, well-worn traditions, the scent of a favourite holiday meal drifting through a childhood kitchen.
But for many people, life’s opportunities and obligations lead them far from home during the festive season. Whether you’re working abroad, studying in a new city, travelling, or simply unable to reunite with loved ones, being away during Christmas can feel bittersweet. Yet distance doesn’t have to dim the magic of the holiday. With a little creativity and intention, celebrating Christmas far from home can become its own meaningful - and surprisingly joyful - experience.
The first step is acknowledging your feelings without judgment. It’s natural to miss the rhythms and rituals you grew up with. Rather than pushing those emotions aside, let them be part of your experience. Feeling nostalgic doesn’t mean your Christmas will be less fulfilling; it means the traditions you hold dear matter. And honouring that is the beginning of creating something new.
Once you’ve made space for those emotions, consider how you might recreate elements of “home” in your new environment. This doesn’t mean copying everything exactly - it means identifying what makes the holiday feel special to you. Is it a particular dish? A festive scent? A song that always played in the background? Small touches - a strand of lights, a favourite
ornament, or even a digital photo frame playing images of past Christmases - can offer comfort and continuity.
Food, in particular, is a powerful bridge between past and present. If you’re able, cook one or two classic dishes from home. Even if the ingredients aren’t identical, the act of preparing them can be grounding. If you’re not confident in the kitchen, search for local bakeries, restaurants, or international markets that offer flavours reminiscent of home. Sharing these foods with new friends can spark connection and serve as a cultural exchange that enriches everyone involved.
Speaking of connection, community becomes especially important when you’re celebrating Christmas away from family. Seek out people in similar situations - coworkers, classmates, neighbours, or fellow travellers. Many communities host international holiday gatherings, festive markets, or cultural events that welcome newcomers. Creating a “chosen family” for the day can ease loneliness and
create memories just as meaningful as those made with relatives.
Technology also offers a lifeline when physical distance feels heavy. Schedule virtual gatherings, gift unwrapping sessions, or even a long-distance Christmas dinner. You might coordinate a movie night where everyone hits play on the same holiday film or read a story to younger family members through a video call. Though digital connection isn’t the same as being together in person, it can reinforce the feeling that you’re still part of each other’s celebrations.
If you’re an adventurous soul, celebrating Christmas far from home can also be an invitation to explore new traditions. Many cultures have unique ways of marking the season, from special foods to music, parades, or rituals. Participating in local customs - seeing how another part of the world lights up this time of year - can broaden your understanding of the holiday and create once-in-a-lifetime memories. You may even discover a new tradition you’ll carry with you in future years.
Perhaps the most powerful opportunity of celebrating Christmas away from home is the chance to slow down and redefine the holiday on your own terms. Without the usual schedule of events, you have the freedom to craft a Christmas that matches your needs - whether that means a quiet day with a book, a movie marathon, a long walk, volunteering, or treating yourself to something indulgent.
Being far from home during Christmas can be emotional, but it can also be transformative. It encourages resilience, creativity, and gratitude for the connections - near and far - that shape our lives. And in the absence of familiar surroundings, you may discover that the true essence of Christmas travels with you: the warmth you create, the joy you share, and the memories you make wherever you are.
Mindful Christmas: Slow Down And Enjoy The Moment
Every year, Christmas seems to arrive with a familiar whirlwind - shopping lists, travel plans, last-minute work deadlines, social events, and the pressure to create “perfect” memories.
For many, the season becomes a marathon rather than a moment of joy. Yet the heart of Christmas has always been about connection: to ourselves, to others, and to simple pleasures. As the world grows louder and more demanding, choosing a mindful Christmas may be the most meaningful gift we can give ourselves.
Mindfulness is not about doing less; it’s about experiencing more. It invites us to be present, intentional, and aware of the small details we often rush past. Think of the scent of pine as you hang ornaments, the glow of lights reflecting off a window, or the quiet satisfaction of giving
a thoughtful gift. These moments are not additions to the holiday - they are the holiday.
One of the biggest barriers to a mindful Christmas is expectation. Whether it’s the pressure to host the perfect dinner or recreate childhood traditions, we often hold ourselves to rigid standards. Letting go of the idea of a flawless holiday allows space for something more genuine. Instead of obsessing over every detail, try focusing on what truly matters to you. Perhaps it’s spending time with loved ones, creating a cosy atmosphere, giving charitably, or simply taking a break from everyday responsibilities. When we let go of perfection, we make room for presence.
Slowing down physically often helps us slow down mentally. Start by creating small pauses in your day. Enjoy your morning coffee with the tree lights on. Step outside for a five-minute
walk in crisp winter air. Light a candle and take a slow breath. These moments may seem insignificant, but they help anchor us in a season that can otherwise sweep us away. Even the busiest holiday schedule has room for mindful pockets of calm.
Gift-giving is another area where mindfulness can transform the season. Rather than buying out of obligation or rushing through crowded stores, approach gifting with intention. Ask yourself: What does this person truly enjoy? How can I express love or gratitude through this gift? Sometimes the most meaningful presents are experiential or homemade - a letter, a photo, a recipe, a shared outing - things that foster connection rather than clutter. Mindful giving doesn’t just reduce stress; it brings back the joy of generosity.
Traditions, too, offer opportunities for deeper presence. Whether it’s baking cookies, reading holiday stories, decorating the house, or watching favourite movies, traditions become richer when we engage with them fully. Try turning off background noise and focusing on your senses. Notice the textures, scents, and sounds around you. Invite family members or
Gift-giving is another area where mindfulness can transform the season. Rather than buying out of obligation or rushing through crowded stores, approach gifting with intention.
friends to share stories of their own holiday memories. These rituals become more than tasks - they become threads that connect past and present.
Of course, not everyone experiences Christmas as a time of joy. For some, it brings loneliness, grief, or financial pressure. Mindfulness can help here as well, offering compassion rather than judgment. Acknowledging your feelings without trying to “fix” them can be grounding. It’s okay if your holiday looks different from others’. Give yourself permission to rest, create new traditions, or celebrate quietly. A mindful Christmas is about honouring your own needs, not meeting outside expectations.
As the holiday draws near, remember that presence is a practice, not a performance. You don’t need a retreat or a cleared calendar to embrace mindfulness - you only need the willingness to notice. The magic of Christmas is not hidden in grand gestures or perfect photos; it’s found in everyday details, fleeting moments, and connections that warm the season.
This year, let Christmas unfold slowly. Breathe it in. Savour the small things. Let the beauty of the moment be enough.
Screen-Free Christmas Activities For The Whole Family
In a world where screens are always within reach, the festive season offers a rare chance to unplug and reconnect - with each other, with tradition, and with the simple joys that don’t require a Wi-Fi signal.
Christmas, with its cosy atmosphere and builtin sense of wonder, is the perfect time to step away from devices and create meaningful, screen-free memories as a family. Whether you’re looking to slow down, spark creativity, or encourage togetherness, these unplugged activities can help everyone rediscover the magic of the season.
One of the easiest ways to encourage screenfree time is to create activities that naturally draw people in. Start with something tactile and hands-on, like crafting homemade decorations.
Whether it’s paper snowflakes, salt-dough ornaments, or garlands made of popcorn and cranberries, the process is just as joyful as the final results. Children love seeing their creations displayed around the house, and adults appreciate the nostalgia of simple crafts. Set up a “craft station” with ribbons, glue, markers, and natural elements like pinecones or dried oranges, and let everyone’s creativity unfold.
Another timeless activity is baking together. The kitchen becomes a hub of warmth and laughter as family members pitch in to measure, stir, decorate, and taste-test. Choose recipes that allow for participation at all agesgingerbread cookies, sugar cookies with sprinkles, or a classic Christmas cake. Not only does the house fill with delicious aromas, but the shared experience becomes a memory everyone savours long after the last bite.
For families who enjoy storytelling, consider creating a reading ritual. Gather by the fireplace or Christmas tree with cozy blankets and a stack of holiday books. Take turns reading aloudchildren can practice their skills, and adults can rediscover old favourites. If you want to make the tradition extra special, wrap a few books and let the kids pick one to unwrap each night leading up to Christmas. The element of surprise adds excitement, while the unplugged time encourages calm connection.
Outdoor activities provide another refreshing break from screens. Bundle up and take a winter walk to look at neighbourhood lights, collect natural materials for crafts, or simply enjoy the crisp air. If you’re lucky enough to have snow, build a snowman, create snow angels, or organize a friendly snowball toss. Even a simple backyard scavenger hunt - searching for pinecones, animal tracks, or hidden holiday-
themed clues - can spark adventure without any need for technology.
Board games and puzzles are evergreen favourites for screen-free evenings. Choose games that suit your family’s ages and interests, from classic card games to strategybased challenges. Working together on a large holiday-themed puzzle can become a days-long project that the whole family contributes to whenever they pass by the table. These activities encourage cooperation, conversation, and healthy competition - qualities that often get lost in digital distractions.
Another meaningful activity is creating a family tradition of giving. Put together a donation box, bake treats for neighbours, or write holiday cards for community workers, seniors, or those in need. Acts of kindness not only bring the family together but also capture the true spirit of the season. Many children find joy in knowing they’ve helped brighten someone else’s day, and these moments of generosity can become some of the most treasured memories of all.
Finally, consider ending the day with a screenfree reflection ritual. Sit together with warm drinks and invite everyone to share one highlight from the day, something they’re grateful for, or something they’re looking forward to during the season. This simple pause fosters emotional connection and teaches mindfulness during a time that can feel rushed and overwhelming.
In the end, screen-free Christmas activities aren’t just about turning off devices - they’re about turning toward each other.
By choosing to unplug, even for a few hours, families can rediscover the joy of presence, creativity, and shared experiences. And those moments, woven together across the season, become the memories that last long after the holidays fade.
The Essentials For A Great Christmas Dinner
Christmas dinner is one of the most cherished traditions in the UK, bringing families and friends together to celebrate the festive season.
Whether you’re hosting for the first time or looking to perfect your annual feast, understanding the essentials can help you create a memorable and delicious experience for everyone at the table.
1. Planning and Preparation
A successful Christmas dinner starts with careful planning. Begin by deciding on the number of guests and any dietary requirements. Create a menu that balances tradition with personal
touches. Classic dishes are always appreciated, but don’t be afraid to add a modern twist or include a family favourite.
Write a shopping list well in advance, and consider ordering your turkey or main centrepiece early to avoid disappointment. Preparing some dishes ahead of time, such as desserts or sauces, can ease the pressure on the big day.
2. The Centrepiece: Turkey and Alternatives
For many, roast turkey is the star of Christmas dinner. Choose a bird that’s the right size for your group, allowing for generous portions and leftovers. Brining the turkey overnight can help
keep it moist, and stuffing it with aromatics like onions, herbs, and citrus adds flavour. If turkey isn’t to everyone’s taste, there are plenty of alternatives. Roast beef, ham, or even a nut roast for vegetarians can make excellent centrepieces. The key is to select a main dish that feels special and suits your guests.
3. Essential Sides
No Christmas dinner is complete without a selection of classic sides. Roast potatoes, crispy on the outside and fluffy within, are a must. Parboil them before roasting in hot fat for the best results. Other essentials include honeyglazed parsnips, carrots, Brussels sprouts (perhaps with chestnuts or bacon), and pigs din blankets.
Stuffing, whether traditional sage and onion or something more adventurous, adds depth to the meal. Don’t forget the gravy - homemade from the turkey juices is ideal - and cranberry sauce for a touch of sweetness.
4. Starters and Nibbles
While not everyone serves a starter, offering something light can set the tone for the meal. Smoked salmon, prawn cocktail, or a warming soup are popular choices. Nibbles such as cheese straws, olives, or spiced nuts can keep guests happy while the main event is being prepared.
5. Festive Drinks
A great Christmas dinner is complemented by festive drinks. Mulled wine or cider is perfect for welcoming guests. At the table, offer a choice of wines, soft drinks, and perhaps a sparkling option for toasts. After dinner, port, sherry, or a warming liqueur can round off the meal.
6. The Christmas Pudding and Desserts
For dessert, Christmas pudding is the traditional favourite, often served with brandy butter or
custard. If pudding isn’t popular, mince pies, trifle, or a Yule log are excellent alternatives. Offering a selection ensures everyone finds something they enjoy.
7. Ambience and Table Setting
The atmosphere is just as important as the food. Set the table with festive decorations - crackers, candles, and a beautiful centrepiece add to the occasion. Play some gentle Christmas music in the background and ensure there’s plenty of laughter and conversation.
8. Finishing Touches
After the meal, offer coffee, tea, and perhaps a few chocolates or mints. Sharing stories, playing games, or watching a Christmas film together can make the day even more special.
