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I can’t believe it’s already been two years since I began this journey with LKN Magazine! We’re thrilled to be planning a special night to celebrate this milestone, and we’d love for you to join us at the Cain Center for the Arts on Tuesday, October 22nd for an unforgettable evening. We can’t wait to gather with friends, family, advertising partners, and readers to honor the incredible Lake Norman community. Make sure to subscribe to our newsletter at lkn-magazine.com for more details on how to register!

Although LKN Magazine officially launched two years ago, its story started long before—in 2020—when I handed the reins of our family of magazines over to my daughter. The timing was perfect: she was 30, I was 60, and after 15 years of working together, she had more than earned her place as leader. Since then, she’s taken our publications to heights I never imagined. I couldn’t be prouder of her, especially for launching the Women’s Conference in 2021, which has blossomed into a major success. The fourth annual Women on the Move Conference will take place on March 20, 2025, at the beautiful Legacy Stables and Events. Be sure to follow @forsythmags on Instagram to stay in the loop!

In 2022, she added to her achievements by launching the Forsyth Magazines’ podcast, and once again, she blew me away! Ranking in the top 3% of podcasts worldwide, she’s an absolute natural behind the mic—

captivating, insightful, and authentic, she has a way of drawing people in and making every conversation memorable.

As for me, it only took a few weeks after passing the torch to realize that publishing and connecting people is in my blood—I wasn’t quite ready to step away! With our home in Lake Norman, I wanted to make a meaningful impact in the community my husband and I have grown to love. Now, two years into LKN Magazine, I couldn’t be happier and am excited for what’s ahead. Meanwhile, my first “baby,” Forsyth Woman, will celebrate its 20th anniversary next year, and I can’t wait to see how my daughter marks that milestone. It’s sure to be spectacular!

This issue is particularly special because of the couple featured on our cover. They’ve been advertising partners with Forsyth Woman for over 12 years, and our connection goes even further back—Cheri’s grandparents and my parents were best friends! Our families have grown up together, and I’m beyond thrilled to share their story. Don’t miss it on page 28!

We’re so grateful you’re here, reading a magazine that truly is a labor of love every single month. I feel incredibly blessed to do what I love every day.

Happy Fall, y’all!

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16 Fisher Fest 2024: A Weekend of Mountain Biking, Fun, and Frights!

20 How Obedience to God Led to Becoming an Author: Meet Halle Birmingham

28 COVER STORY Accent Prone: A Journey of Growth, Community, and Signature Style!

32 Cannabis Cultivators: Cultivate Your Feel

36 Small Strategies Hold Big Promise

38 From the Fast Lane to the Crown: Jacklyn Drake's Journey to Miss for America 2024

44 A Dream Project: Joyce O'Neal's Miniature Treasures

48 The Bundle of Joy Fund: A Local Resource for Those Battling Infertility

50 Incomparable

52 The Red Barn Marketplace: Community Spirit and Holiday Magic!

54 This is Me, Now

56 What Really Helps: A Guide to Thoughtful Food Pantry Donations

58 The Caregiver's Journey: What to Anticipate

62 Carolyn Bass: A True Servant's Heart

66 Fall into Art with Mooresville Arts

74 The Give Back Boutique: Sharing, Shopping, and Loving

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IN EVERY ISSUE

08 The Publisher Perspective

22 919 Backyard BBQ: Blackened Mahi Mahi Tacos

24 Be Well Table: Apple Mimosa Drink

26 Marzano Capital Group: Trust Me, It Works! 34 Art Speak: Marlise Newman

40 Mother Nurture: Investing in Knowledge that Lasts a Lifetime

42 Trackside Talks: Rollin' on the Royal

60 Ask Dr. Keith

64 Savor Local: The Untouchables

70 One Man’s Perspective: Greece

72 Joyful Journey: Hiking Adventures Near Lake Norman

76 Calendar of Events

82 Celebrations: 111th Annual Hickory American Legion Fair!

HOW OBEDIENCE TO GOD LED TO BECOMING AN AUTHOR: MEET HALLE BIRMINGHAM

by CLAIR CROW

On a recent sunny Sunday afternoon, I had the opportunity to sit down at a coffee shop with local author and friend Halle Birmingham to hear about her journey to authorship. She arrived at our meeting spot with a gift in hand, her second self-published book, Prayers in the Waiting. I cannot put into words what a privilege it was to sit down and have a conversation with her, swapping stories of defeat and stories of hope. I am confident you will enjoy getting to know her as much as I have.

Halle is a true Mooresville native gem, born and raised here. She left Mooresville only to attend college at Appalachian State University in Boone, NC where she obtained her degree in elementary education. She has worked in education for nine years, currently serving our community as a first grade teacher.

Something Halle didn’t have on her BINGO card was becoming an author, but she has now written and self-published two books. The first book God prompted Halle to write is called The Classroom Gospel, a book about learning to have childlike faith through the lives and lessons of first grade students. She admitted she wrestled with God when He put it on her heart to write The Classroom Gospel because she “didn’t feel qualified” for more reasons than one. She had just started “really” reading the Bible for the first time, so she asked, “Why would God choose me?” Though she wrestled, she eventually chose to lean in to His calling and, after much proofreading and time, she self-published and released the book in 2021. She quickly knew without a doubt that God’s hand was all over it because of the way the book touched so many lives of educators and non-educators alike, helping to build their faith and relationship in the Lord. Halle continuously gives all glory to God.

When God called Halle to write a second book, she had no idea what it would be about at first, but she was eager to be obedient right away, trusting Him fully. So began Prayers in the Waiting. I wondered what was different about this book than the first one, and Halle immediately responded with, “That is my heart. Prayers in the Waiting shows the ugliest parts of my heart because it’s my journal entries of times I’ve been in the trenches.” That’s when Halle shared with me about the infertility journey she and her husband have been facing, which her journal entries in the book reflect. Several times as Halle was sharing her story with me, she would smile and say, “Go God!” and “But God!” She’s not out of the valley of waiting, yet she has God’s peace all over her. I left that day feeling inspired by her ability to be raw in our conversation about the trenches she’s in, all while radiating joy, hope and empathy.

As soon as I got home, I was eager to curl up and begin reading Prayers in the Waiting with a highlighter in hand. It took me three days to finish. I couldn’t put it down! Halle shows up in the most beautifully vulnerable way sharing evidence of the Lord’s goodness to His people through His Word. She described the writing process as “effortless” which is why she is confident it was “all God.” She closes each chapter with a prayer

over the reader, and more than one of those prayers left me in tears. The book is chock full of wisdom, encouragement and hope. It is a book for anyone in any kind of waiting (which is all of us).

Halle’s heart reflects Jesus. She is no doubt living out the calling God has placed on her life, and I am an official Halle Birmingham fan (okay…I already was).

Friend, if I can encourage you to do anything this month, it is to go to Fred and June’s Books in Mooresville RIGHT NOW and pick up one (or both!) of Halle Birmingham’s

BLACKENED MAHI MAHI TACOS WITH MANGO-PINEAPPLE SALSA

by TANNER JOHNSON

This month, I wanted to share a very popular recipe with a different protein than our typical beef, chicken and pork – mahi mahi! I’ve always loved this fish cooked blackened on the blackstone or cast iron and served with a sweet and spicy mango pineapple salsa. It is great on a taco, is healthy and will definitely be a crowd pleaser!

INGREDIENTS:

• Desired amount of mahi (1.5-2 lbs can easily feed four people)

• Blackening seasoning

• Taco shells (flour or corn, I prefer flour for these)

• Olive oil

Mango Pineapple Salsa Ingredients:

• 1 fresh pineapple

• 2 ripe mangos

• 1 red bell pepper

• 1 jalapeno (de-seeded)

• ½ cup cilantro

• Half (or whole) red onion

• Juice of 2 limes

• Salt (to taste)

INSTRUCTIONS:

1. Slice mahi (if whole) into filets or desired size. I usually get the mid section of the fish and cut into smaller tender shapes to cook quickly.

2. Season mahi with blackening seasoning.

3. Let the seasoning sit in for a bit while you prep the salsa.

4. Chop all fruits, veggies and cilantro.

5. Combine in a large bowl, then add salt and lime juice.

6. Stir it up and store in the fridge.

7. Preheat the skillet or griddle to medium-high heat.

8. Add olive oil.

9. Place mahi down skin side up and let cook for 3-4 minutes.

10. (Optional) While the fish is cooking, I like to char the tortillas over the gas stove directly or on the griddle.

11. Flip over and cook for an additional 2-4 minutes. It should be nice and charred from the seasoning and flake off easily with a spoon – internal temp I look for is 137-140°.

12. Take the fish off and slice it up or pull it off with a fork – assemble tacos with the mango pineapple salsa and whatever other taco toppings you like!

13. I like to add some more chopped cilantro, avocado and some cholula hot sauce.

14. Enjoy!

APPLE MIMOSA DRINK

by KATHARINE ROSENTHAL, RDN

This Apple Cider Mimosa is a crisp and festive twist on the classic mimosa, blending sparkling champagne with sweet apple cider and a hint of cinnamon. It’s the perfect drink for fall celebrations and cozy brunches.

Time: 5 minutes

Servings: 1

Ingredients:

• 3 T granulated sugar

• 1 T ground cinnamon

• 1/4 cup apple cider

• 2 T orange juice

• 1/2 cup champagne

• Cinnamon stick and apple slice garnish

Instructions:

1. On a plate, combine sugar and cinnamon. Wet the rims of the glasses, then dip them into the mixture.

2. Add apple cider and orange juice to the glass. Pour in champagne until full.

3. Garnish with a cinnamon stick and apple slices. Enjoy!

For more recipes and nutrition tips, head over to the Be Well Table blog.

TRUST ME, IT WORKS!

by JON MARZANO, AIF ® , MANAGING PRINCIPAL

In my professional opinion, one of the most impactful things you can do to take back a little time every day for yourself is to turn off or limit the notifications on your phone. This may not sound like financial advice, but it is. The more clearly you think and the calmer you are as an individual, the better decisions you can make for yourself, including those related to your finances. Personally, I have mine turned off most of the time, and it’s been the best decision I’ve made all year. I know there are some readers who will have issues with this; what about your kids, what if they need you? Some will say, “I want to know what’s going on in the news,” or “I need my Twitter.” Then there are those “on sale” notifications for items that you have been wanting. What if you miss that sale? Of the three scenarios listed, the only one that really matters is that your family has access to you. You probably don’t need whatever is on sale and catching up on news is better suited for the evening, when reporting will be the most accurate. The 24 hours new cycle is what destroyed real news, the headlines can wait.

What some people do not realize is that your brain has been trained to dump a

little dopamine every time you get that “ding” or that “bzzz” “bzzz” on silent mode. Dopamine is a drug, it is naturally occurring in our bodies but the dopamine production in our bodies of today is far vaster and unnaturally occurring. It is a real thing and it is causing some major problems for people who cannot get a grasp on it. Lack of sleep, attention deficit disorders, impulse control, aggression, and addiction issues can all stem from excess and unnecessary dopamine dumps. Every one of the apps on your phone that you get notifications from is competing with your natural self, for your attention.

Your phone is not your friend, it is a device that allows ways for you to simplify your life. Calling and texting is easy. Having an easily accessible calendar can certainly help keep you on task. Good maps or directions apps are total life savers and even though I can still read an Atlas, I no longer need one. Life can be made easier with the technology that we have available to us. Understanding how that technology is affecting our bodies is paramount to keeping yourself in harmony, staying healthy, and remaining able to make well thought out, informed decisions.

“Understanding how that technology is affecting our bodies is paramount to keeping yourself in harmony, staying healthy, and remaining able to make well thought out, informed decisions.”

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A JOURNEY of GROWTH, COMMUNITY & SIGNATURE STYLE

by MARTIE EMORY, photography by BAY O’BRIEN PHOTOGRAPHY

A CHERISHED RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN LKN MAGAZINE PUBLISHER KEELA JOHNSON AND ACCENT PRONE OWNERS CHERI AND JUSTIN LINGAFELT, HAS BROUGHT A SECOND LOCATION OF THEIR POPULAR STORE TO THE LAKE AREA!

That bond with LKN Magazine’s sister publications at Forsyth Magazines has been a strong one since Accent Prone first opened in Kernersville, NC in 2012 – and in true “Keela” spirit, she nudged Cheri and Justin to consider a second location in Huntersville when she realized the perfect space was available.

Since opening the new location and introducing Lake Norman residents to their signature refined style, Cheri and Justin have never been more grateful for friends who pointed them in the right direction and a new community that also embraces shopping local. They’ve already felt the same small business camaraderie they’ve known in Kernersville, and that same endearing small town feel.

“Our team has had fun exploring other local shops and restaurants, and we’re super excited about opportunities for growth in this new and larger market in the Lake Norman/Charlotte area,” Cheri shares.

And, then there’s the dream location – a beautiful old school building with original hardwood floors and incredible light.

“It was an absolutely crazy time in mine and Justin’s personal life,” explains Cheri. “Between moving to a new home, expecting our second son and still devoting passion to our flagship location in Kernersville, opening a second store location was definitely not on our radar at the time. But, we checked out the space in Huntersville and absolutely fell in love with it!”

A hectic life is nothing new for Cheri and Justin, who balance their role as entrepreneurs with their finest projects yet – oldest son, Brooks, who is seven and already fond of moving furniture, and newest son, Beckett, who turned eight months old in August!

Their Kernersville location draws loyal shoppers from Winston-Salem, Greensboro and High Point. What they launched primarily as an accessories business of affectionately labeled “SUV-able” purchases that would literally fit in your car or SUV, has become a

full-fledged furniture store, with eclectic accents that back up their personal philosophy – taking the time to put beautiful items you love into your home really elevates your life.

Both Cheri and Justin grew up around the High Point Furniture Market, garnering design and retail expertise from their parents. Building their own business was always a dream, and neither could imagine doing anything else!

Now, establishing a new customer base in Huntersville has already been an exciting adventure. Embracing life here that’s a little more laid-back lake time, Accent Prone has the most interesting accessories and furniture pieces to live comfortably, stylishly and true to what you love. Cheri defines the team’s own strong love for creating.

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“Whether we’re creating a display in our store, generating mood boards for design clients or offering creative solutions, a love for creating is at the heart of what we feel is a unique, fun and inspiring retail experience. We’ve enjoyed brainstorming fun ways to bring the immersive environment that our Triad customers love to the LKN area. Having opportunities to think outside the box is fun for all of us!”

There’s a belief at Accent Prone that one’s home environment directly affects one’s daily life, and Cheri and Justin love helping customers think creatively about their spaces while staying true to their own personal tastes.

“We love to encourage thinking outside the box and pushing boundaries with clients’ home design, whether it is their main house or a second home at the lake,” adds Justin.

If there’s a corner of your home that’s needing some love, snap a photo of the space and bring it by the store to share with the team!

“We pride ourselves on not only having cool items at a great value, but our staff is what really separates us from other stores, as well,” says Justin. “They are excited and ready to help customers with home projects, whether it be sourcing

the perfect furniture piece or helping with décor selections.”

And, you’ll certainly find an array of décor options! Cheri and Justin travel to markets several times a year to source unique, high-quality furniture and accessories that are different from what you’ll find in big box stores. From lighting, vases and pillows, to interesting coffee table books and photo frames, there’s a special “something” for your home – or the absolute perfect gift. Plus, they’re always happy to do a bit of staging for you right there in the store, too, with table vignettes in place to try out a centerpiece or a pair of candlesticks, and even a fireplace setting to help you envision your mantel at home. Best of all, there’s honest, heartfelt advice!

“If you’re on a budget, focus on one room,” shares Cheri. “Even if it takes several years, take your time and make it what you love!”

Equally excited to offer an update for your entire house, or simply style a few bookshelves, the AP team offers paid, in-home interior design services that include expert space planning, e-design and in-home design services for customers tackling larger scale projects. But, they love providing free design assistance to customers right in the store just as much. In short, they LOVE to decorate and are always excited to make your vision a reality!

Accent Prone also offers custom upholstery through their retail partner, Rowe Furniture. Nearly all of the sofas, sectionals and accent chairs you’ll see here are crafted with care by Rowe’s talented artisans in Virginia, featuring Cheri and Justin’s handpicked fabric selections. While any Rowe item in the store can be purchased off the floor as shown, they do offer customization to shoppers, as well. If you’re on the hunt for a sofa that meets specific performance needs or just want a really cool accent chair, any frame by Rowe Furniture can be customized with more than 900 fabric options that are available to

Regan, one of Accent Prone’s store associates, graduated from Georgia Southern University with a degree in interior design.

browse at Accent Prone. Cheri and Justin also work with a private manufacturer in Hickory, NC to bring custom leather sofas and sectional options to the store.

The entire AP team is eager to see what the holiday season will bring for the new Huntersville location. Their calendar features many events during the holiday shopping season, so connect with them on social media, so you won’t miss any special promotions!

Longtime Kernersville clients highly anticipate the Accent Prone store flip for Christmas each year, as the team sets aside one Sunday in October to create a mesmerizing holiday wonderland.

“We pack our shop full with all things sparkly,” shares Cheri. “If you’re a resident of the LKN area looking for a fun day trip this holiday season, be sure to check out the Christmas magic we create in our Kernersville store, too!”

Visit Accent Prone at 15435 NC-73 in Huntersville, NC, 980.987.9394. Hours are Tuesday through Saturday 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Shop for home accessories or trendy apparel and jewelry – or request a design consultation – at accentprone.com, and follow @accentprone on Instagram for updates and inspiration!

ART SPEAK: UNVEILING LAKE NORMAN’S CREATIVE VOICES

by LAURA CZERWINSKI

This month’s featured artist is Marlise Newman.

How would you describe your work?

My style is the result of a lifetime of exploration into my craft. I started with a representational style in watercolor to representational with a twist, now in oils. It’s a juxtaposition of abstracted images together with natural subject matter. I love the response from others who can see and experience what I create intuitively. “…I am most in love with your pieces which feature the birds, fish and the beautifully broken backgrounds. I love the mix of realistic looking creatures with stylized fancifulness. So dreamy,” said Shanny Brooke, Higher Art-Michigan. I want to avoid being predictable. There’s a saying “It’s not WHAT you paint, but HOW.” It’s more about the “how” for me.

Which other artists most inspired you?

I would have to say Vincent Van Gogh. There is a quote of his that states: “If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.” Those words gave me the confidence and inspiration to forge ahead in my creative pursuit. Years later, I was able to visit his home in Arles, France as well as the asylum where he lived. His whole short life story is incredible to me.

Where do you find your best sources for inspiration?

“What lies beneath” is what inspires me now. As I’m painting, I like to leave a little of the blueprint showing through…a little of the process revealed. It creates mystery and makes the viewer curious enough to stay a few minutes more. When I feel

stuck or in need of inspiration, I’ll go to a favorite home furnishing store or peruse a design magazine. I’m always inspired by the use of color, fabric patterns and all that goes into designing a beautiful room. And, of course, nature, oceans, mountains, trees and flowers.

What is the greatest compliment you’ve received about your work?

Well, it’s a tie! A few years ago, my gallery director called me to say that a certain painting had sold. She told me that as she watched the person walk by my piece, she saw her stop and stumble backward! That person said “I don’t need another painting, but I’ve got to have this one!” Another time, a collector came into my studio to pick up her painting and, when saw it, she clasped her heart and sighed and stared with quiet happiness. I want people to feel a connection to their soul. I am always amazed and humbled when this happens.

What are you working on now that you are excited about?

I’ve discovered a new book that has inspired me to look deeper into color relationships, so my next paintings will hopefully reflect that. Also, I’m working with a new nonprofit organization called ArtShare Charlotte, where artists donate a commissioned piece of original art to people who live in homes built by Habitat for Humanity. The purpose being to build bridges in our communities through creativity. I’ve recently met with my first family and am thrilled to be part of this outreach.

What is one piece of creative advice you wish you had learned sooner? It’s good to learn all the classic techniques and foundations, but it’s also good to fearlessly set them aside. Deconstructing is part of the process. Imperfect is perfect. A little imperfection invites us to relax and relate.

To learn more about Marlise and see additional examples of her work, visit her website at marlisenewmanfineart. com. Her most up-to-date works are on Instagram @marlisenewmanart. Her work is also in Art & Light Gallery in Greenville, SC, Shain Gallery in Charlotte, NC, and Guest Artist at Gallery Orange in New Orleans, LA. Marlise’s limited retrospective landscapes are shown at Juelerye in Mooresville, NC, and her working studio is at 500 S. Main Street in Mooresville.

SMALL STRATEGIES HOLD BIG PROMISE

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

One New Year’s Day, while still living in Connecticut, I experienced a pre-dawn Eureka! moment. I was walking my first mini poodle, Miss Noelle, down the hill, up the crest toward the village green, past the church, the library, the corner store and up the road near the volunteer firehouse...

That’s when I did an about face, retraced my steps and walked into the corner store to extend a warm “Happy New Year!” to the few residents already sharing a hot morning coffee.

That first day of a brand new year course correction got me thinking about those priceless and fleeting “small moments” that matter every day of the year.

Four Small Strategies With Big Promise

Unlike small thinking with its self-limiting resignation, thinking small is about the graceful embrace of what is present. It’s a form of attention that reminds us to:

Do The Next Right Thing

Your plate is full. There are too many demands on your precious time. You can put a halt to that tailspin by reminding yourself that you can’t do everything at once, but you will get things done. Doing so is a strength, not a weakness, girlfriend! Then, take a deep breath and ask yourself “What is the right and best thing that I can do in this moment?”

Build A Right Thing String

Henrik Edberg, author of The Positivity Blog, encourages us to focus more on “what matters” than on what needs to be done. Now, that’s something to ponder! He suggests: “Do something that you deep down think is the right thing.” That right thing could be for others, or it could be for you. Edberg adds, “Continue the string during your day as best you can. After you have added a right thing to your string – no matter how small it is – make sure to take a few seconds to pause and to appreciate the good thing you did. This boosts the positive mood within and ups the motivation to add another thing to your string.” We tend to think in terms of grand gestures or generous acts of self-sacrifice. Henrik emphasizes moment to moment mindfulness about small things that matter.

Create Something Small, Every Day

When you think about it, we are all starving artists. There’s some part of you – a talent, interest or craft – that is alive in your soul but receiving scant attention. You know what it is. There are so many “good” reasons to bypass that hum in your being. There’s no time; it’s a waste of time or a bad use of time. And, there’s the “I’m not worth it” rap: Who do I think I am? Most of us have a goto response we can glom onto. Writer Austin Kleon says the key is to do something small, every day: “Figure out what your little daily chunk of work is, and every day, no matter what, make sure it gets done. People often ask me, “How do you find the time for the work?” And, I answer, “I look for it. You find time in the same place you find spare change – in the nooks and crannies. You find it in the cracks between the big stuff – your commute, your lunch break or the few hours after your kids go to bed. You might have to miss an episode of your favorite TV show, you might have to miss an hour of sleep, but you can find the time to work if you look for it.” Kleon reminds us that “Building a body of work (or a life) is all about the slow accumulation of a day’s worth of effort over time.” It’s the “something small, every day” that counts.

Make Progress With Simplicity

You and I know that many of the things in our lives have built-in obsolescence – the closets, garage, pantry, attic, basement, contacts list and desktop. We have our reasons for holding onto things, and the task of tackling them is daunting. But, greater freedom lies on the other side! The key, once more, is to simplify by thinking small, manageable, one task or area at a time.

Instead of making the practice of “thinking small” a New Year’s resolution, start in this moment by doing the next right thing. Build your string. Create something. Chip away at what no longer serves you.

FROM THE FAST LANE TO THE CROWN: JACKLYN DRAKE’S JOURNEY TO MISS FOR AMERICA 2024

Jacklyn Drake had always lived life in the fast lane, both on and off the track. Originally from Maypearl, Texas, and now a resident of Mooresville, NC, she grew up with the hum of engines and the thrill of competition, carving out a name for herself as a race car driver, sports reporter, and live race host. But on August 26th, 2024, under the bright lights of the Elvis Presley International Theater at the Westgate Resort Spa & Casino in Las Vegas, Jacklyn found herself on a different kind of stage—one that would bring her a new kind of victory.

That night, she stood tall, not behind the wheel of a roaring car, but in an elegant evening gown, her nerves steeled for the final moments of the Miss for America pageant. The anticipation was electric as she awaited the announcement, her heart racing in a way that no finish line could ever match. And then, it happened—her name was called. Jacklyn Drake, Miss North Carolina for America, had just been crowned the 2024 Miss for America, a title that would solidify her place in the storied legacy of the pageant.

This wasn’t just a win for Jacklyn; it was a moment of immense pride for her state, her family, and the friends who had cheered her on every step of the way. As she looked out into the audience, she saw the beaming faces of her loved ones, her directors Wendy and Fred Galle from Sherrills Ford, NC, and the former Miss for America titleholders who had come

before her. They welcomed her into an elite circle of women who had proven that grace, intelligence, and determination were as powerful on the pageant stage as they were in everyday life.

But this victory was more than just a crown on her head. For Jacklyn, it was a platform—a chance to make a difference. “To bring home the Miss for America title to the great state of North Carolina has been one of the greatest moments in my life,” she shared, her voice filled with emotion. “This past week, I’ve gained sister queens from all over the country and felt a profound sense of peace, trusting in whatever God had in store for me as I stepped onto that Elvis Presley Las Vegas stage.”

Jacklyn’s journey was far from over. With the title came the responsibility and the opportunity to spread the word about causes close to her heart. As Miss for America, she planned to continue her work with Victoria’s Voice Foundation and expand her efforts to host book drives across the Carolinas and throughout the nation, ensuring that children in underfunded communities had the resources they needed to thrive.

As the 2024 Miss for America, Jacklyn Drake had conquered a new frontier—one that celebrated not just her beauty, but her passion, her dedication, and her drive to make the world a better place. And just as she had on the race track, she crossed this finish line with grace, determination, and a heart full of purpose.

TRACKSIDE TALKS: ROLLIN’ ON THE ROVAL

by CLAIR CROW

It’s October and that means fall weather, warm tones, pumpkin patches, hayrides, apple cider and NASCAR’s Bank of America ROVAL 400 at Charlotte Motor Speedway (CMS) of course! The ROVAL is the last race in the playoff Round of 12, so you can bet there will be drama and hard racin’ as the drivers give it everything they’ve got to secure a top 8 spot. Jonathan Coleman, Senior Director of Public Relations for CMS answered questions about what fans can look forward to for race weekend this year.

What race day events can fans look forward to, aside from the race itself?

Race weekend really kicks off on Friday, Oct. 11 with our Fan Fest. The day includes our STEAM Expo (3,000+ kids taking part in hands-on activities related to Science, Tech, Engineering, Arts and Math) in the fan zone from 9a-1p. From there, we’ll ramp up to Joe Gibbs Racing Fan Fest, with JGR driver appearance and autograph sessions, and the fan-favorite hauler parade.

Saturday, fans will enjoy a morning of fun in the fan zone (vendor displays, partner activations, souvenir rigs, kids activities and more) before heading inside for Xfinity Series practice, qualifying and racing and Cup Series practice and qualifying. New for 2024, the ROVAL will host the Historic Sportscar Racing league with two 30-minute races. We’ll cap the night with a huge camper party (music, giveaways, driver appearances and more).

Fans should show up early on race day Sunday for a bevy of driver appearances and special programming in the fan zone before heading into the speedway for a pre-race concert with Tim Dugger and a high-energy pre-race experience before the green flag.

What do you hope to accomplish with the new configuration this year?

The new configuration is designed to continue to challenge the best drivers in the world by creating more passing zones and more white-knuckled racing. The infield will see a higher-speed straightaway that leads to a heavy braking zone and a tight hairpin back out onto the high banks of the traditional over. The updated chicane on the frontstretch promises more heavy braking,

creating a high-risk/high-reward Turn 17 right before the start/finish line.

With a history of dramatic finishes and playoff drama, what are your expectations for what will take place?

In just six short years, the ROVAL has created some of the most memorable drama in recent NASCAR Playoffs history. From the inaugural finish in 2018 that saw leaders Martin Truex Jr and Jimmie Johnson tangle on the final turn and give the win to Ryan Blaney, to Chase Elliott’s miracle comeback after crashing into the Turn 1 wall to win in 2019 (and subsequently return to the famed turn for his celebratory burnout) and even last year’s improbable win by a driver outside the Playoffs in AJ Allmendinger, fans have come to expect the unexpected at the ROVAL. With a new configuration and the same pressure of being a second-round cutoff race in the Playoffs, our expectation is more of the same unforgettable entertainment for race fans.

With so many different viewing areas, what’s the best vantage point to catch all the action?

There’s not a bad seat in the house. Sitting outside of Turn 1 of the traditional oval provides great views of the technical infield sections, while sitting closer to oval Turn 4 puts fans in a prime spot for the action in the newly reconfigured frontstretch chicane –drivers’ last chance at a pass before the finish line. Bellied up to the fence in the infield gets fans about as close to the action as they can be without being on a pit crew, so there really is no bad view!

There are undoubtedly a mountain of tasks to complete leading up to race weekend. What are some of the

challenges you have to overcome to ensure it meets the expectations of fans, as well as the drivers and their teams?

The biggest challenge is always getting that facility ready to host fans from across the country and around the world. Maintaining a campus of more than 1,000 acres – and keeping it up to the standards of a worldclass facility like Charlotte Motor Speedway – is a Herculean task. It takes thousands of work hours of planning, painting, maintenance, setup and preparation to open the gates. Add that to the fact that we have to do much of the prep work while also planning and executing other events each fall (including the Cook Out Monster Truck Bash in August, the two-day Breakaway Music Festival and NHRA Carolina Nationals at zMAX Dragway in September and dozens of smaller events in between), and it’s no small task. Thankfully, we’ve got decades of experience in the events and entertainment business and a staff that’s tireless in its pursuit of creating remarkable events for our fans, so we’re always up to the task.

Can confirm, you won’t want to miss this one! Make it a date day or a family day — kids 12 and under get in for only $10 and there are multiple ticket packages to choose from. Find the best suited ones for you at https://www.charlottemotorspeedway. com/events/bank-of-america-roval-400/ tickets/. There are fun events happening the whole weekend, but if you can’t attend in person then plan on tuning in to the Xfinity Series race Saturday, October 12th at 4pm and the Cup Series race Sunday, October 13th at 2pm.

Full throttle, Clair

Expansion is Under Way

TIME TO CHOOSE YOUR SITE

Welcome to The Cottages, a unique pocket neighborhood where a vibrant sense of community thrives. In this charming community, the traditional notion of front doors takes a delightful twist. Instead of facing the street, the front doors of our cottages open to a serene and inviting green space, tucked away on the backside of each home. This intentional layout creates an atmosphere that not only encourages residents to explore on foot but also promotes a genuine sense of connection and belonging. It’s not just a place to live; it’s a place to connect, grow, and create lifelong memories.

A DREAM PROJECT JOYCE O’NEAL’S MINIATURE TREASURES

by MARTIE EMORY, photography by LISA CRATES PHOTOGRAPHY

Sherrills Ford has always been a sentimental spot for local pianist, Joyce O’Neal. Her mother was raised here and her parents’ frequent visits from their Pennsylvania home to the family homeplace in Sherrills Ford created fond childhood memories for Joyce and her siblings.

“We came down in the summers, and I remember when they paved roads in Sherrills Ford and when they bulldozed the trees to clear land for the lake,” shares Joyce. “I remember the iron bridge that crossed Mountain Creek below the family farm, and I played in that creek in the summers and picked blackberries along its banks. I remember when ‘Sherrills Ford’ still had its apostrophe.”

After graduating from Penn State, those affectionate memories prompted Joyce to pile everything she valued into her VW convertible and head back to North Carolina. She and her first husband, a Mississippi native, lived in Sherrills Ford for the next 20 years. Employment at Iredell Memorial Hospital and the Iredell County Clerk of Court’s office took her to Statesville for the next 20 years. After retirement, she and husband, Walter, returned to Sherrills Ford and now live a mere 500 yards from where her grandparents are buried.

While her education was in music history and piano, any history interests her. That lifelong penchant inspired a project that fascinates friends and fellow Sherrills Ford residents, especially those who admire antiques and the past they represent.

Each miniature in Joyce’s collection was either commissioned, bought in a

specialty shop or refashioned from other objects. The first item to be copied was the bed, and the idea of the “Rodney Rooms” originated from a family trip to Rodney, Mississippi in the 1970s. She never imagined that her dream project would be 50 years in the making!

Here’s a glimpse of her inspiration: The town of Rodney was first settled in 1826 at a ford on the Mississippi River. By 1860, it was a bustling riverboat port on the east bank of the river, with hotels, banks and even the first opera house in the state. But, nature’s wrath eventually made Rodney into the ghost town it is today, first with fire and then with the unexpected relocation of the meandering river channel miles to the west. When the railroad bypassed the town in 1874, its fate was sealed.

When Joyce visited with her family a century later, she was enamored with Rodney’s seemingly timeless dirt road with lush tree canopy above, and the vignettes she now displays reflect the essence of Rodney from about 1840 to 1870.

“While I’ve read about many miniature rooms online and viewed famous ones (like the Betty Thorne rooms) in museums, I’ve never encountered a miniaturization of the owner’s own furniture and/or possessions. I’m proud of my idea, my perfectionist streak and my persistence,” adds Joyce. “I look at the rooms while sitting at my piano and shake my head in wonder that they look exactly as I always hoped.”

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She began the model rooms with a commissioned copy of her first antique purchase, bought in 1972 – a circa 1840 maple “rope” bed with Empire styling and hand-turned posts.

“Like many girls, I had dollhouses and remembered my fascination with the tiny furniture,” shares Joyce. “While looking through an issue of Nutshell News, a magazine for miniaturists, I saw an advertisement for Mary Frances Cochran of Maryland, who made custom copies in 1:12 (one inch to one foot) scale. In late 1974, I commissioned a copy of my bed, and from then on, I was hooked.”

A backstory soon took shape as Joyce imagined the rooms to be glimpses into life in Rodney before the river moved west and the town declined.

“I envisioned a town resident in the little rooms, and his name was Uncle Tobias (no surname having ever been needed),” she adds. “So, my ‘Rodney Rooms’ took shape as if the man and the rooms existed there around 1869.”

You’ll see a trio of miniature photographs of the actual town, taken between 1935 and 1942 for the federal Farm Security Administration. On the left is a house that Joyce imagines to be “Uncle Tobias’s house.” Next is a picture of the actual dirt road into Rodney as it looked when her family drove down it. Also of interest are Joyce’s favorite items in the miniature music room, including the pump organ (which closely resembles her own), a blue willow tea set and music books holding legible, playable scores by the great 19th century composers.

While there are a few loose ends still to be miniaturized – the 1869 Harper’s Weekly with its article on Mississippi emigration, a $5 bill from the Bank of Rodney and a letter with a Rodney postmark – Joyce’s dream re-creation has brought much joy to those fortunate enough to experience its magic!

If you’d like to learn more about Joyce’s miniature collections, email her at joyceoneal417@gmail.com.

“I’ve never encountered a miniaturization of the owner’s own furniture and/or possessions. I’m proud of my idea, my perfectionist streak and my persistence.”

Local honey made from the abundant variety of flowering plants growing around Lake Norman.

“The taste of local honey is something you will never forget. It stays with you like a fond memory.”

George

McAllister, Owner, Bees of Lake Norman

INCOMPARABLE

Mbuji Mayi, 1984.

A young girl is outside playing near her uncle’s house. While exploring a pile of rejected earth near the MIBA Diamond Mine, she discovers a natural, rare diamond that weighed in at about 407 carats. It was to be measured as the fourth largest diamond ever found. The stone would be cut down later to 303.3 carats, be named the Golden Canary and declared the largest internally flawless diamond graded by the G.I.A. (Gemological Institute of America). Eventually, it landed in the hands of famed jeweler Mouwad and was set into a stunning piece that would be called L’Incomparable Diamond

Some may have heard of this stunning stone, though most have not. Even though the gem was stumbled upon more than 40 years ago, it is too young in its discovery to have the provenance as other famous historical stones. Hearing about the Hope or Cullinan diamonds tend to garner a more immediate recognition. To be further appreciated, this “new old” stone needed further exposure to the world.

Huntersville artist Laura Czerwinski had been seeking a new challenge in terms of her next art project and decided to put together an interpretation of Mouwad’s presentation of one of Earth’s greatest masterpieces. Presented in a glass shadowbox to mimic a jewel in a display case, this acrylic on canvas

features the use of Musou Black paint, one of the blackest blacks in the world. This allows the piece to appear as though the jewels are resting on black velvet.

“I hope to use this technique with future works featuring other lesser known, but still stunning, unearthed treasures. My plan is to create a collection of pieces in a variety of sizes.

This will allow others to easily inject some sparkling history in their own environments. Plus, showing interpretations of not-as-famous gems will hopefully serve as some great conversation starters.”

Throughout its various transformations of different cuts and settings, the diamond has made appearances at the Museum of Natural History in Washington, DC; American Museum of Natural History in NY; the Museum National d’Histoire Naturelle in Paris as well as an exhibition featured at both the Royal Ontario Museum and the Houston Museum of Science entitled The Nature of Diamonds. While the stone itself is now in a private collection, the painting is planned to be a part of Mooresville Art’s Artoberfest exhibition from October 1st-November 14th.

Artist Laura Czerwinski’s interpretation of Mouwad’s Guinness record-winning L’incomparable Diamond You can contact Laura by email at lcczerwinski@gmail.com for private commissions.

THIS IS ME, NOW

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

Everything changes over time. Even the nature of our prayers, I’ve noticed. Instead of seeking insight, solace and answers mostly for myself, I find that I am now more inclined to seek healing and peace for others – those I hold dear to my heart and countless unknown others who suffer in this hard world. It’s a shift that’s linked with a sense of personal clarity that catches me by surprise as it arises unbeckoned: Oh hi, I know you. Welcome back!

Sitting in our backyard one late summer evening, blessed by the familiar rustle of leaves and a cool unexpected breeze, that “knowing” paid a visit and I paid attention. Another birthday is around the corner as this year approaches an end, and that timely little visit helped me to focus on what feels right for me, right now:

MORE SKINCARE, LESS MAKEUP

In part, this is a choice based on my current lifestyle. I’m not traveling hither and yon, making presentations and facilitating learning. I’m “traveling” on a long neighborhood walk or out to the garden to pull weeds or to the CVS for a prescription refill. I don’t need the full-face effect! But there’s something else, too, and it’s about acceptance. There was a time when my younger self wouldn’t walk to the mailbox without that self-protective armor in place! No, this me, right now, looks at a face who has lived and has many, many stories to tell. Sure, I’d like to change this or that, but mostly, I accept what I see, a reflection of how I have inevitably aged and evolved. My focus now is to care for this face, to show it a whole lot of love.

MORE QUALITY, LESS MEDIOCRITY

Growing up as I did, I learned to be a scrounger, and a bargain was hard to resist. Even though I know better, I still fall into that trap now and then – the one labeled “more is better.” No, it never really was, and now my focus is on seeking out what I really want while letting go of all of the rest. I am the lighter for it!

MORE “LET IT BE,” LESS “I’LL LOSE IT”

I’ve always been more than a little happy about my almost flat tummy. Not vain, exactly, but proud, I guess. Now I understand that this paunchy thing is here for the long haul. While it will likely improve once I can get back to my regular workouts (I had surgery which put all of that discipline on hold), the ironing board tummy is a thing of the past: temporary, like most things.

MORE “LET IT GO,” LESS “STICK TO IT”

“Planful and disciplined” were often characteristics that made a regular appearance on my annual performance reviews. True, that way of being has served me very well, but it has also made me a prisoner of my own making. It’s time to lighten up. Once again, I can thank my surgery for interrupting my well-oiled and scheduled plans for helping me to realize that I won’t lose my mind if the house isn’t vacuumed every other day. Which is directly related to:

MORE LIVE THE MOMENT, LESS WORK THE PLAN

While recuperating from surgery, I was able to spend more time outside, read more books, write more letters and cards, chat more and longer with friends by phone and in real time with neighbors – in other words, to embrace the joy-inducing things instead of squeezing them in between the tedious tasks.

AND ALWAYS, MORE – EVEN MORE – GENEROSITY

I believe that I have always been generous in friendship, kindness and thoughtfulness, and have taken deep satisfaction in giving and in gifting. This has always mattered to me as greedy hands and stingy hearts make us smaller as humans. But for me, for now, when it comes to generosity, more is always better.

What about you? What does your “this is me, now” look like?

WHAT REALLY HELPS: A GUIDE TO THOUGHTFUL FOOD PANTRY DONATIONS

Donating to food pantries is a generous act that can make a profound difference in the lives of those in need. However, not all donations have the same impact. Well-meaning donors often give what they believe is useful, without fully understanding the challenges food pantry users face. By listening to the voices of those who rely on these services, we’ve gathered valuable insights to help you make your donations more meaningful and genuinely appreciated.

Beyond the Box:

Kraft Mac and Cheese might be a household staple, but for those depending on food pantries, it can be more of a burden than a blessing. The recipe calls for milk and butter—items that are not always accessible through food banks. Instead, consider donating boxed milk, which is a precious resource for families with children who need it for cereal, another common pantry item.

The Pasta Predicament:

Pasta and sauce are popular donations, but they often arrive without the essentials to prepare them. Pantry users receive plenty of these staples, but without cooking basics like oil, turning them into a meal can be difficult. A bottle of cooking oil can make all the difference, transforming these pantry items into a complete and satisfying dish.

Opening Up Possibilities:

Canned vegetables and soups are wonderful, but only if the recipient can open them. Consider including a can opener with your donation or opting for cans with easy-to-open pop tops. This small addition can have a big impact on someone’s ability to enjoy their food.

The Gift of Flavor:

Spices, salt, and pepper might seem like minor items, but for someone who rarely has access to them, they are a luxury. A little seasoning can elevate a meal and bring comfort to those who may be missing the familiar tastes of home.

A Warm Cup:

Tea bags and coffee are more than just warm beverages—they offer a comforting reminder that someone cares. These simple items can brighten a recipient’s day and provide a moment of peace in challenging times.

Baking Joy:

Sugar, flour, cake mix, and frosting are more than just ingredients; they represent the possibility of celebration. The ability to bake a cake for a child’s birthday, for example, is something that can bring immense joy and create lasting memories for a family.

Fresh and Healthy:

Fresh produce is often a rarity in food pantries, but when donated, it is received with great appreciation. For those with a green thumb, consider donating seeds for planting, which can offer a sustainable source of fresh food throughout the seasons.

Protein and Basics:

Fresh meat, eggs, butter, or margarine are highly valued in food pantries but often in short supply. Protein-rich items like tuna and crackers or Hamburger Helper paired with ground beef can provide hearty, nourishing meals that are both filling and satisfying.

Household Essentials: Donations don’t have to be limited to food. Household items like dish soap, detergent, and feminine hygiene products are often overlooked but are always in high demand. These essentials can be expensive and are highly valued by those who need them most.

The Comfort of Home:

Stove Top Stuffing is a beloved comfort food that’s always a hit, especially around the holidays. It’s easy to prepare and brings a taste of home to the table, offering warmth and familiarity during difficult times.

Next time you’re considering a donation, think about the day-to-day needs and challenges of those who rely on food pantries. By tailoring your contributions with these insights in mind, you’re not just giving food—you’re offering dignity, comfort, and care. Let’s make every donation count by putting ourselves in the shoes of those we’re helping.

THE CAREGIVER’S JOURNEY: WHAT TO ANTICIPATE

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

I will be blunt – taking on the role of caregiver will change you and your life in ways you’ve never imagined, so please cut yourself some necessary slack as you open the doors to this new chapter. The journey you embark on with your loved one is deeply personal and intertwined with the entire story of your relationship. It’s little wonder that you often feel like you are riding on a one-person emotional roller coaster – because you are. At the same time, your unique journey has several stages or phases that can be anticipated. By understanding that your experience is completely normal, you can better face the challenges ahead.

Many caregivers experience a version of this personal journey that includes:

ANTICIPATION AND CONFUSION

Caregiving begins when a loved one experiences a significant health “event” or is diagnosed with a serious, perhaps, chronic condition. One day things are “normal” with life’s usual ups and downs, and the next, just like that, your world as you know it is upended. You are inundated with information that is mostly foreign to you and is coming at you at rocket speed. You’re feeling out of control as healthcare professionals bombard you with calls and chart notices about appointments, test results and follow-up prompts. You may also be worried about advance planning that was never done. You have mixed emotions ranging from anxiety and fear to a sense of dutiful determination.

What to do for you:

Gather information, seek advice and, right from the start, begin to create a support network.

REALIZATION AND ADJUSTMENT

As reality sets in, you are now aware of the magnitude of what you’ve taken on.

You often feel anxious about navigating a role, a healthcare system and the specifics of your loved one’s needs. New responsibilities and routines are being set into place. Well, as much as they can be. If you are accustomed to feeling competent and in control, you are now out of your comfort zone. You are also keenly aware that the other relationships in your life are changing based on your new responsibilities.

What to do for you:

Focus on self-care and set realistic expectations which will allow you to hang in there.

EXHAUSTION AND FRUSTRATION

Deep in the quiet places of your being, you recognize that you feel conflicted about being a caregiver. You may also feel frustrated because you need the help and support of other family members, friends and, possibly, neighbors. With everything that is coming at you, you also realize that developing a sense of “partnership” with your loved one’s healthcare team is critical to supporting you in your caregiver role.

What to do for you:

Recognize the signs of burnout, prioritize self-care, set boundaries and practice stress management.

CONNECTION AND ADVOCACY

You feel very connected to your loved one’s journey. You realize that you’ve learned a lot about their specific needs, and you have taken the reins by advocating for them. Research suggests that, when this occurs, you begin to experience “caregiver gain” which means that you feel better about yourself in the caregiver role. I can personally attest that this reward is priceless! You may also find yourself

backing off in appropriate ways as your loved one improves.

What to do for you:

Continue to build open communication and trust with your loved one; be assertive when advocating for care – you will feel empowered!

Caring for others requires that you care for yourself. Do your best to: Eat Right Exercise Sleep Practice stress management

Connect with your tribe and others who can support you

TRANSITION AND ACCEPTANCE

Your loved one may improve to the point where you are no longer needed as their caregiver. Or, they may pass away. In either case, this change for them is also a significant change for you. Many caregivers experience a mix of feelings including relief, a sense of “lost purpose” or grief. Shift to a “future focus” and begin to plan ahead, beyond your caregiving chapter.

What to do for you:

Allow yourself to “feel what you feel.” Shift your focus to self-renewal and reach out to other caregivers who will understand the mix of feelings you are experiencing. Shift to a future focus as you revisit your sense of identity and begin to plan ahead for when your caregiving chapter ends.

Trust yourself. Lean into it, reach out to others and take care. I wish you my very best.

Dear Dr. Keith,

I’m a 31-year-old woman who’s been married for four years. My husband and I have a daughter that recently turned two. I’m writing to get help in navigating the relationship we have with my husband’s parents. I come from a large family; I’m one of five children. We’re all pretty close, enjoy each other’s company and are respectful of each other’s space; however, that’s not the case with my husband’s parents. He’s an only child, and they’re not respectful of our time and desire for privacy. We met and lived in Georgia and moved here when my husband’s company relocated; unfortunately, his parents followed us. From the time we got married, we’ve seen them almost every Sunday; however, since the baby’s been born, they drop in multiple times a week without permission or warning. My husband complains and is unhappy with what he views as their disrespect but won’t do anything about it. He allows his parents to do what they want because he doesn’t want to deal with the guilt and shame they make him feel. “You’d rather do that than spend time with your family” or “I guess we’re not that important” are examples of things they say to him when we try to make plans that don’t include them on a Sunday. I love my husband, but I’m starting to lose respect for him. I feel like we’re not a priority, and he’s going to allow them to dictate everything that happens in our lives. How do I get my husband to stand up to his parents without him becoming resentful? I feel trapped.

Julie S. Huntersville

ASK DR. KEITH

by KEITH O’NEILL, PH.D.,C.HT.

Hey Julie,

This isn’t an unusual situation, there are a lot of grandparents that follow their children so that they can build a relationship with their kids and grandkids. However, that’s usually a mutually agreed upon situation. The key to making that arrangement work is to set healthy boundaries and to enforce them. Unfortunately, your husband has allowed your in-laws to make him feel guilty or shameful if he tries to set boundaries, but that’s on him. We can only feel the way we allow others to make us feel. We should only feel guilt, shame or remorse if we do something with intent to do harm, deceive or hurt someone, and that’s not what either one of you is trying to do. It’s not only okay to set healthy boundaries and protect your privacy, it’s imperative that you and your husband, as a united front, enforce them or it’ll have a negative effect on your lives and marriage. Trying to make someone feel guilt or shame is a form of manipulation, which again, can only happen to us if we allow it. Trust and respect are the two most important ingredients for a healthy relationship. Let him know how you truly feel and that the situation as it stands is threatening your relationship. If he continues to complain about his parents and their lack of respect for your privacy, ask him “If you don’t like it, what are you going to do about it?” Healthy relationships are not about sacrifice, they’re about compromise, but more important is negotiation. Can you and your husband come up with a mutually agreed upon solution, or is he even capable of standing up to his parents? Be honest about your feelings and that his parents’ involvement in your lives as it stands is not acceptable. Decide what is acceptable for you in regards to them and communicate that to your husband. Come up with a mutually agreed upon solution so that he gets the time he needs with his parents, and you get the privacy you need to create harmony in your relationship. Be firm in enforcing the boundaries you both choose to implement, yet fair in the amount of time you allow for them to spend with you and the baby. As a parent, in regards to choices my grown children make, I realized a long time ago, I have no say. In regards to you and your husband’s choices, his parents have no say.

Keith O’Neill Ph.D., C.Ht is a Psychotherapist, Professional Speaker, Author, Clinical and Sports Hypnotherapist, Mental Performance/Self-Esteem Coach and survivor of a life threatening head injury. If you’re struggling emotionally, need a speaker or a mental performance coach, visit theself-esteemcoach.com for more information.

If you have questions for Dr. Keith, email them to keith@s-teamkids.com.

CAROLYN BASS: A TRUE SERVANT’S HEART

by MARTIE EMORY

Friends around the Lake Norman area know something beautiful is about to happen when they hear the names Nelson and Carolyn Bass.

As Owner of Blu Star Grill in Mooresville, Nelson is known for donating both time and nourishment to neighbors in need as his team regularly shares food with the amazing mission, Watchmen of the Streets. Nelson’s wife, Carolyn – always by his side in these endeavors – is a shining star in her own right and has equally dedicated herself to bettering the world for those around her.

While Carolyn and Nelson have lived full-time in Cornelius – and on the lake – since 1992, Charlotte was home during Carolyn’s early volunteer years. She was a devoted stay-at-home mother of two – a daughter, Leigh Easter, (now living in Georgia and mom to Carolyn’s two favorite humans, her granddaughters Ashleigh and Blakely) and a son, Nelson Bass III, a professor at Nova Southeastern University in Ft. Lauderdale, FL – yet she always found endless love to spread among her neighbors.

Carolyn’s heartfelt efforts have taken varied paths, but all with the same cheerful compassion. A major part of Carolyn’s life philosophy is helping the less fortunate, and those who know her best say she’s always ready to serve, wearing a genuine smile – while humbly being her loyal, authentic, charismatic and inspiring self!

As a bonus of her volunteer time, she also formed lifelong friendships with Helen Howard and Barbara Huckabee in the early 1980s, and both see a spark in Carolyn that inspires everyone around her. This beloved trio of friends knows a little something about dedication, and Helen and Barbara recognize the special goodness in Carolyn. Both agree she goes right to the people who have a need – doing everything with grace!

All three ladies were involved with the Charity League of Charlotte – one of the city’s most treasured traditions. For 54 years, the group was known for operating the Sunshine Day Nursery School, serving families where mothers worked outside the home, before closing in 2002 as private daycare and public school programs became more readily available. Carolyn was instrumental in providing clothing, food and toys for children in need – always going above and beyond expectation. She took the lead on fashion show fundraisers and neighborhood bazaars, and published the popular Charity League cookbook – Carolina Sunshine Then & Now – dubbed the official cookbook of Charlotte!

Another of Carolyn’s loves is the Speedway Children’s Charities, and Director Taylor Kirby shares she’s been a bedrock for the group’s Charlotte chapter since the late 1980s and early 1990s.

“Carolyn is our longest-serving trustee, and after 30-plus years, she is still one of the most dedicated people on our team,” says Taylor. “Her heart for the children in our community is second to none, and her passion for Speedway Children’s Charities is heartwarming. When we review 140-plus grant applications each year, Carolyn can speak to 90% of the organizations, as she has visited most of them throughout her tenure. She speaks with wisdom and empathy while understanding the actual needs of our community and our next generation.”

Founded in 1982 by O. Bruton Smith and Bonnie Smith after losing their infant son, Speedway Children’s Charities raises funds through annual events and has granted more than $17.6 million to local non-profit organizations in Charlotte, focusing on combating human trafficking and homelessness, food and clothing insecurities, and medical and educational needs.

“Carolyn is always the first to offer assistance, whether finding sponsors for events, reviewing grants, donating food for volunteers, serving at the golf events and gala, or simply providing encouragement. When someone asks what makes a great trustee, we merely say Carolyn Bass,” Taylor adds. “She’s an all-around genuine person, and we couldn’t be more honored to have her in our corner. We joke, saying she’s stuck with us for life because we don’t want to imagine our board without Carolyn Bass.”

A bit closer to home, Carolyn is one of the friendliest faces you’ll see around Bethel Presbyterian Church in Cornelius, and fellow member and friend, Arlis Galloway, feels honored to help paint the picture of Carolyn’s unmatched work ethic.

“Carolyn is one of the most capable church volunteers I’ve ever known,” Arlis shares. “When she takes on a task, not only is it done perfectly, but often, it’s done for life!”

Twenty-eight years ago, Carolyn started the Church Mouse program, which continues today, pairing the church’s college students with a secret volunteer who reaches out regularly with encouraging notes and goodies. Twenty-two years ago, she volunteered to be the publicity, registration and food coordinator for Bethel’s monthly lunch bunch, and she’s still at it! Carolyn has been President of the Deacons, on the Presbyterian Women’s Board and Circle Chair. In 2023, she was awarded the Presbyterian Women Life Membership –a lovely distinction for all her faithful work!

For more information on Carolyn’s favorite non-profits, visit charityleagueofcharlotte.org, speedwaychildrenscharities.org and watchmenofthestreets.com.

FALL INTO ART with MOORESVILLE ARTS

story

and photography by JESSICA

D e HART

Mooresville Arts Annual Artoberfest Judged Show and Competition is back! Now in its 42nd year, this exhibit is one of the most popular shows and events for our organization. An increasing number of artists register for this show each year; 65 local and regional artists participated in 2023! Artoberfest attracts artists of all skill levels to enter their work for display in the exhibit, and in addition, compete for awards. This year’s judge is Wendy Hickey, executive director and founder of ArtPop Street Gallery, and we are so honored to have her lend her time and expertise in selecting the award winners.

Ms. Hickey will also be giving a presentation on a behind-thescenes perspective of serving as a show judge and on the ArtPop program. This event is Sunday, October 20th from 2:00 p.m. –3:00 p.m.; there is no charge to attend these art lectures as they are our gift to the community.

The Artoberfest show is not to be missed – you will see the Lake Norman region’s most talented artists on display; artwork will include paintings, pottery, mixed media, glass work and more. Art is for sale with sales directly benefiting the artists and Mooresville Arts, a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization. We would like to thank our show sponsors: LKN Local, Brenda Vanhoy and Cheap Joe’s Art Stuff.

In tandem with the 2024 Artoberfest Show, we are initiating our annual giving campaign! October is National Arts & Humanities Month, and according to Wikipedia, it was initiated to encourage Americans to explore new facets of the arts and humanities in their lives and to begin a lifelong habit of participation in the arts and humanities. At Mooresville Arts, we aspire to enrich the quality of life in the Lake Norman region as the premier venue for exhibitions, education and appreciation of the visual arts.

If you haven’t been in our gallery before, come see us! We are a thriving arts organization currently serving more than 500 artists and more than 350 art students each year. In addition, more than 12,000 patrons visit our galleries and attend our events every year.

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2023 First Place Winner: Dan O'Neill, "A First Snow"

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FALL INTO ART with MOORESVILLE ARTS

The 42nd Artoberfest Show opens on Tuesday, October 1st and runs through Thursday, November 14, 2024. The artists’ reception is Friday, October 11th (6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.), is free to the public and everyone is welcome to join us. Meet the artists and see who will take top honors!

story and photography by JESSICA D e HART

Gallery hours for Mooresville Arts are Tuesday-Saturday 12:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. Mooresville Arts is located in the heart of downtown Mooresville in the historic Depot at 103 W. Center Avenue. For more information, please visit mooresvillearts.org.

Make sure you stop in and visit Mooresville Arts soon! Art Grows Here.

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Ms. Hickey will also be giving a presentation on a behind-thescenes perspective of serving as a show judge and on the ArtPop program. This event is Sunday, October 20th from 2:00 p.m. –

3:00 p.m.; there is no charge to attend these art lectures as they are our gift to the community.

2023 Third Place Winner: Dana Pape, "Tasting Notes"

2023 Second Place Winner: Tina Vincent, "Balanced Joy"

2023 First Place Winner: Dan O'Neill, "A First Snow"

ONE MAN’S PERSPECTIVE - GREECE

by CHARLIE SCHULER

A while back we were doing a lot of traveling. We had been to Israel twice and we wanted to follow the paths that Apostle Paul had taken. We had never been to the Mediterranean Sea, so you can imagine our glee when we found an advertisement for such a

As we prepared for this adventure, we were notified that the vessel we were assigned to had been changed. We found this strange, but understandable. We later found that the vessel on a previous cruise had gone too close to the mountain, hit a rock and the captain immediately put the vessel in reverse. This tore the forward part of the hull out and the vessel sank in 300’ of water. It was near a harbor so almost everyone was able to be rescued. There was one couple unaccounted for, but later showed up wet, alive and well. Their first stop had been a bar.

Our new ship was very nice, offering great accommodations. We cruised the Mediterranean for a few days, but quickly realized that it didn’t align with our preferences for sailing in our sailboat. The mountains were steep, and there were few sandy beaches—conditions that didn’t suit our needs. After a couple of days at sea, we transitioned to exploring by land, continuing our journey by bus.

Greece is loaded with history. We started with the Acropolis of Athens. This may be the most well-known of the landmarks. The Parthenon is the temple, and the Acropolis is the hill the Parthenon is on. We learned that they used to store ammunition in the area. It is quite high and on a mountain. We toured the area, and you could see the ruins clearly. It is amazing how well they were made to be able to keep standing for so many years. We also toured the almost complete destruction of the City of Philippi. This was named in 356 BC and abandoned in the

HIKING ADVENTURES NEAR LAKE NORMAN

by ROBIN SHUPE KELLER JOYFUL JOURNEY

“The thin layer in which life exists is both fragile and resilient; the earth does not need us, which is why we should care about it.”

- ERIC WALSH

Lake Norman, North Carolina is a popular destination for outdoor enthusiasts, offering a range of hiking opportunities that cater to all skill levels. The area around the lake, which spans more than 50 square miles, is home to several parks and nature preserves where hikers can enjoy scenic views, diverse wildlife and a variety of trail types. Although there are many parks and trails not listed, and I encourage you to research the area for more, there are some interesting hikes near Lake Norman.

LAKE NORMAN STATE PARK

Located on the northeastern shore of Lake Norman, this state park is one of the most popular destinations for hiking in the area. The park features more than 30 miles of trails that wind through dense forests, along the lake’s shoreline and across rolling terrain. One of the most notable trails is the Lake Shore Trail, a 6.2-mile loop that offers stunning views of Lake Norman and passes through a variety of habitats, including hardwood forests and wetlands. This trail is moderately difficult, making it accessible to most hikers while still providing a good workout.

LATTA NATURE PRESERVE

Situated on the southern shores of Mountain Island Lake, just south of Lake Norman, Latta Nature Preserve offers another excellent hiking experience. The preserve is home to more than 16 miles of trails that meander through woodlands and along the lakeshore. The Catawba Trail is a popular 1.3-mile trail that offers scenic views of Mountain Island Lake and opportunities to spot local wildlife, such as deer and a variety of bird species. For those looking for a longer hike, the Beechwood Trail and Forest Loop take hikers deeper into the preserve’s forested areas.

Be sure to also visit the Quest Nature Center within the Latta Nature Preserve. It is fun for all ages and features live, native animals, a 3,000-square-foot interactive exhibit hall including a 6,000-gallon aquarium and Raptor Center gift shop. The Carolina Raptor Center is nearby, but there is an admission price for the Raptor Trail.

JETTON PARK

Jetton Park, located on the eastern side of Lake Norman, is a beautiful 104-acre park that features a 1.5-mile loop trail. While this trail is shorter and less challenging than others in the area, it offers picturesque views of the lake and is perfect for a leisurely hike or a family outing. The trail is paved, making it accessible for all ages and fitness levels and it winds through wooded

areas and along the lake’s edge, providing plenty of opportunities for scenic views and relaxation.

COWANS FORD WILDLIFE REFUGE

Cowans Ford Wildlife Refuge, located on the northern tip of Mountain Island Lake, is a lesser-known gem for hikers. The refuge offers several unmarked trails that provide a more rugged and secluded hiking experience. These trails are ideal for those looking to explore off the beaten path and experience the natural beauty of the area. Hikers can expect to encounter a variety of wildlife, including waterfowl, deer and other native species as they make their way through the refuge’s diverse habitats.

Lake Norman is rich with hiking opportunities that cater to a variety of interests and skill levels. Whether you’re looking for a challenging hike with stunning lake views or a peaceful stroll through a nature preserve, the trails near Lake Norman have something to offer. These hikes not only provide a great way to experience the natural beauty of the region but also offer a chance to connect with the diverse ecosystems and wildlife that call the Lake Norman area home. I invite you to get out and enjoy nature during this wonderful fall season.

BOUTIQUE CRAWL

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We will start at Hawthorne OBGYN for a Pre-game Party from 9-10:30 am. Then it’s shop til you drop!

We will start at Hawthorne OBGYN for a Pre-game Party from 9-10:30 am. Then it’s shop til you drop! Only an hour from L Lake Norman, this is the perfect chance for a day trip to Winston-Salem!

LoveWell Boutique

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GLAMPING WILD GRAND PRIZE GIVEAWAY

Visit all participating stores for a chance to win our GRAND PRIZE! Choose from three incredible trips:

OPTION 1

A 3-day/2-night stay at a Lake Norman retreat.

This 6-bedroom, 6.5-bath lakefront rental sleeps 18 and features a private dock, wraparound porches, and stunning views.

OPTION 2

A 5-day/4-night stay in a cozy Deep Gap cabin on Power Horn Mountain.

This 2-bedroom, 2-bath cabin sleeps 6 and offers a fireplace, wraparound deck, loft, and access to hiking trails and a game room.

OPTION 3

A 5-day/4-night stay at Glamping Wild in Ashe County.

Enjoy luxury camping in three geodomes, each with an ensuite bathroom, kitchenette, and private deck. Sleeps 6 total. Enjoy nature walks, fire pits, and more!

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NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 13 (WEDNESDAYS)

MILES AND SMILES WALKING CLUB

10am, Location TBD.

Huntersville’s Miles and Smiles Walking Club is back! Join us Wednesday mornings as we explore all of Lake Norman’s greenways and trail systems throughout the fall. Register yourself and all your friends at secure.rec1.com/NC/ Huntersville-nc-/catalog. Cost: $20-$30/person.

NOW THROUGH DECEMBER 2 (ONGOING)

INFLATED JOY COLLECTION

Born nine weeks premature, Marek Czerwinski spent seven weeks at Levine Children’s Hospital in Charlotte as a patient. As a way to give back, he chose to partner with a program called Inflatable Joy after developing a major love of inflatable decorations. He collects new, inflatable decorations (less than 4-5 feet tall) to donate to kids who will be in the hospital during the holidays.

Contact inflatedjoy@gmail.com with questions. Visit Inflated Joy on Facebook at facebook.com/InflatedJoy, and check out the gift list and registry at myregistry. com/giftlist/inflatedjoy. All donated items should be new, with tags or in the original packaging, and toys should be easy to clean and sanitize due to health regulations. At this time, cash, used, stuffed animal and homemade donations are not accepted. Deadline for donated items is December 2nd.

OCTOBER 1 A NIGHT FOR PAWS

6-10pm, Lake Norman Humane, 2106 Charlotte Highway in Mooresville.

Join us in our expansive pavilion for an enchanting evening of delicious dinner and cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, an incredible selection of live and silent auction items, live entertainment and perhaps best of all, the opportunity to support the lifesaving work of Lake Norman Humane. Attire: Dressy Casual. Live music provided by In By Nine.

Tickets available at lakenormanhumane.org under the “Events” tab. For sponsorship opportunities, please contact jenn@lakenormanhumane.org or dana@lakenormanhumane.org.

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OCTOBER 2

SWEET GRASS CANDLE MAKING CLASS WITH LOVE SQUARE ONE

6:30-8pm, Sweet Grass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.

Join us for a Candle Making Class with Love Square One, one of our talented local artisans! In this hands-on workshop, attendees will have the opportunity to create their own signature fall candle, using high-quality vegan coconut-soy wax and clean fragrance oils for only $45/person. Light snacks and wine will be served, making this not just a crafting session but a delightful social experience, as well.

OCTOBER 4

SYMPHONY UNDER THE STARS

7-9pm, Liberty Park.

This mesmerizing open-air concert promises a magical experience under the twinkling night sky, and best of all, no tickets are required! Maestro Eduardo Cedeño and the talented musicians of the Lake Norman Philharmonic will take the stage, delivering a captivating performance of both classical and contemporary masterpieces creating a perfect harmony with the natural beauty of Liberty Park. Bring your family & friends and prepare to be moved by the power of live orchestral music. Food trucks and beer vendors will be ready to serve at 6:30 p.m. We look forward to seeing you there!

OCTOBER 5

FORSYTH WOMAN BOUTIQUE CRAWL

Winston-Salem

Get ready for Forsyth Woman Magazine’s 2024 Boutique Crawl, presented by Hawthorne OBGYN! Join us on Saturday, October 5th for an adventure through several boutiques in and around Winston-Salem. This is your chance to indulge in a day of exclusive shopping, exciting giveaways, and support for our local community. And stay tuned for our April 2025 date for the LKN Magazine boutique crawl! Secure your spot today by registering at tinyurl.com/FWBC2024.

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OCTOBER 11

ARTISTS’ RECEPTION - ARTOBERFEST JUDGED SHOW & COMPETITION

6-8pm, Mooresville Arts, 103 W. Center Avenue in Mooresville (in the historic Mooresville train Depot).

Join us for our artists’ reception for our annual Artoberfest Judged Show & Competition! Many local and regional artists will have their work on display and for sale. This is one of our most popular exhibits and events of the year! Light refreshments will be served. Meet the artists and support the arts in Mooresville!

OCTOBER 11-12

DIAMOND SHOW

Dana’s Fine Jewelry, 108 North Main Avenue in Newton.

Are you considering upgrading your diamond to something larger, or perhaps searching for a new setting? If you’re unsure about what you want, we’ll have a wealth of ideas and a huge selection for you to explore. In addition to diamonds, discover our stunning collection of precious gemstones including sapphire, tanzanite, emerald and ruby. We offer not just rings, but also earrings, bracelets, necklaces and more featuring the latest fashion trends just in time for Christmas. Plus, we are buying diamonds, gold, pre- owned Rolex watches and name brand estate jewelry. danasfinejewelryinc.com

OCTOBER 17

SWEET GRASS STONEWALL KITCHEN FLAVOR FEST

4-7pm, Sweet Grass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.

Join us for a Stonewall Kitchen sampling event! Experience a delightful array of gourmet jams, sauces, dips and more from Stonewall Kitchen. Enjoy complimentary drinks, including wine, as you savor these delicious offerings. Indulge in the opportunity to uncover your next culinary obsession!

OCTOBER 17

HOME 2 COURT – SIP AND SHOP

5:30-7:30pm, Home 2 Court, 18059-4 W. Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.

Join us for an evening of fun, shopping and community. Preview new seasonal gifts, and discover what all this new store has to offer. Meet local author Kayla Rogue who will be signing copies of her delightful and inspiring new book, Always Squeezing Lemons. Additionally, Home 2 Court will donate 10% of all sales during the event to Lake Norman Humane, helping our local furry friends in need! Don’t miss out on this fantastic opportunity to sip, shop and enjoy a wonderful evening out for a great cause! We can’t wait to see you there!

OCTOBER 20

ART LECTURE SERIES: BEHIND THE SCENES: ARTOBERFEST + ARTPOP

2-3pm, Mooresville Arts, 103 W. Center Avenue in Mooresville (in the historic Mooresville train Depot).

October’s lecture is presented by Wendy Hickey, executive director of ArtPop Street Gallery and our judge for our annual Artoberfest Show. Meet Ms. Hickey and hear a behind-the-scenes view on her experience as the judge for one of our most popular shows of the year as well as an overview of the ArtPop Street Gallery program. The Art Lecture Series brings artists, curators, researchers and practitioners to Mooresville Arts to give insight into the rich range of perspectives, practices and professional pathways possible for the contemporary creative. Attendance is free; the art lecture series is our gift to the community. Join us!

OCTOBER 22

FALL FABULOUS SIP & SHOP

5-7:30pm, CoCo Couture.

Enjoy deep discounts on summer fashion, and shop new arrivals from your favorite designers, including Joseph Ribkoff and Frank Lyman. Bar CoCo will be in full swing with mocktails and cocktails for everyone. Bring a friend to receive a signature CoCo tote bag.

NOVEMBER

HUSTLE FOR THE HOMELESS

8:30-11:30am, Sally’s YMCA, 1601 Forney Creek Parkway in Denver.

2nd Annual 5K hosted by Soul to Soul Outreach to support the homeless in our community.

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NOVEMBER 2

FALL FARM CHARM MARKET AT BROKEN ARROW FARM

10am-3pm, 2385 Old Island Ford Road in Claremont.

We are so excited to host our Fall Farm Charm Market again this year and can’t wait to see all of you and our amazing vendors! We are looking for more vendors to add to the roster, so if interested, please send an email to teaguekristen1894@gmail.com.

NOVEMBER

48TH ANNUAL WORKING FINGERS CRAFT SHOW

10am-4pm, Charles Mack Citizen Center.

Come join for a fun-filled day of holiday shopping. Discover treasures for every taste and interest, from jewelry and home décor to clothing, baked goods, paintings, lotions and more! Don’t miss out on this free event – it’s the perfect opportunity to find one-of-a-kind gifts and enjoy the holiday spirit! Are you interested in applying to be a vendor? Download the vendor application at tinyurl.com/WFCS24.

NOVEMBER

8-9

DAVIE CRAFT ASSOCIATION 54TH ANNUAL CRAFT VILLAGE

10am-7pm (8th); 10am-4pm (9th), Davie Parks & Recreation, 151 Southwood Drive in Mocksville.

Food trucks available onsite during show hours. Live music and entertainment during the show. The DC Cruisers will be there on Saturday with classic cars. Admission: $1/person. A portion of the proceeds will benefit local charities. There will be 50+ local artisans showcasing jewelry, handbags, paintings, soaps, holiday items, home décor and more!

NOVEMBER 14

SWEETGRASS ANNUAL OPEN HOUSE

4-8pm, SweetGrass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.

The area’s most anticipated holiday open house. We offer tons of giveaways from our vendors, Tacos on the Road food truck and Side Bar Cart offering specialty cocktails – all with your raffle ticket from any purchase.

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