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Love me some November, and this month brings both joy and a touch of sadness as our dear friends and nextdoor neighbors embark on a grand adventure down under. For the next two years, Australia will be their new home. We'll miss them dearly, but what an incredible opportunity for their family, especially with two adventurous boys aged 5 and 8. We wish them all the best in this exciting journey!

We are absolutely delighted to have the honor of hosting Thanksgiving this year, uniting many of our family members under one roof for this cherished occasion. Thanksgiving holds a special place in our hearts, especially for my mom and stepdad, as there's nothing they treasure more than being surrounded by their children and grandchildren. Their excitement knows no bounds, and I consider myself truly fortunate that they are here living close by at Lake Norman.

While we enjoyed our time visiting the beach, having them close and being able to see them regularly is a blessing we don’t take for granted. As we gear up for the holiday season, we want to extend our warmest wishes to all of you for a Thanksgiving filled with joy and lasting memories!

Another remarkable group, Love Our Veterans, is featured on page 40. If you have some free time and a passion for all things thrifting, they're looking for volunteers, especially on Tuesdays and Fridays. You can find them in Denver, in the same shopping center as Untouchables, where you can indulge in amazing pizza and then enjoy some thrifting. Be sure to mention that LKN Magazine sent you!

For those with children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews, don't miss Keith O'Neil's new 4-month series on Healthy Self-Esteem. This amazing series has something to teach us all, so make sure to dive into the insights and wisdom shared.

Last but not least, our annual Gift Guide graces this issue, offering a plethora of fantastic holiday gift ideas. We hope it makes your holiday shopping a breeze.

Happy gifting!

Continuing in the spirit of community and collaboration, we're excited to feature Summit Place of Mooresville this month. They've been a long-time partner with LKN Magazine, known for their sweet residents and amazing staff. We're proud to showcase their contributions to our local community.

If you're not familiar with Amy's Closet, be sure to check out page 34 to learn more about this valued non-profit in our area, with locations in Denver and Lincolnton. Their mission to 'Shop to STOP Domestic Violence' is something we can all get behind. Every small effort Wishing you the very best, can make a significant impact.

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F E AT U R E S 12 Caffeine Lovers Celebrate on November 23rd, For "National Espresso Day!" 14 Dana's Fine Jewelry: The Personal Touch of Dana's Fine Jewelry 18 Mi Amiche: Dining with The Bonarrigos and Their Family of Friends 20 Networking for Success 22 Create a Little Magic 26 World Kindness Day 28 C O V E R S T O R Y Summit Place of Mooresville: A Cozy Community of Friends 32 Catching Up On Your Zzzzz's: The Power of a Good Night's Sleep 34 Amy's Closet: Shop to Stop Domestic Violence 38 Sweet Grass Boutique: Welcome to the Joy of the Season 42 The Garden Room: Inspired Décor for Your Outdoor Space 46 Maintaining Healthy Habits Throughout the Holidays 50 Celebrate National Stress Awareness Day 54 Empowering Small Businesses: The Impact of Black Friday 56 Love Our Veterans, Inc.: Loving Veterans and Their Families 60 Bethel Presbyterian Church: Invitation to an Old-Fashioned Christmas Bazaar

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64 Holiday Gift Guide 74 The U.S. Daylight Savings Time Debate: Balancing the Clock 82 Small Business Saturday: 5 Ways to Show Your Support

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IN EVERY ISSUE 08 The Publisher Perspective 16 A Bow Of Gallantry: Volume X 36 LF Wellness Consulting: Season of Supplements 40 24/Seven Marriage: Gratitude is an Antidote 44 Simple Schooling at Home: Simple Schooling Road Trip!

48 Marzano Capital Group: Nurturing Generational Wealth 52 Healthy Self-Esteem: The Bullying Solution 58 Savor Local: Grace Nutrition, Inspiring Life-Long Wellness

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62 919 Backyard BBQ: Chicken Tortilla Soup 68 Celebrations!

70 One Man’s Perspective: Memory 1952 72 Joyful Journey: Carvers Creek State Park 76 Calendar of Events

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C A F F E I N E LOV E R S C E L E B R AT E O N N OV E M B E R 2 3 R D , F O R

“NATI O N A L E S P R E SS O DAY! ”

by E L I SA WA L L AC E CO P P E D E Right in the thick of the holiday season, falls a day which will help all fuel their way through shopping, cooking, and decorating. November 23rd is National Espresso Day! While the origin of when this holiday began is not widely known, what is known is that caffeine enthusiasts look forward to celebrating this day every year.

What anatomically makes up espresso? Contrary to popular opinion, espresso is not derived from a specific bean, or roast level. Any coffee bean can yield itself to become an espresso. According to NationalEspressoDay.com, “what makes espresso, espresso, is its brewing method, which is made by forcing pressurized hot water through finely ground coffee to create a concentrated coffee topped with a delicate foam, called a crema.” Three layers make up an espresso. First, the frothy cream, which is usually golden brown in color, and made up of concentrated oils and sugars. Next, is the body, which is usually caramelized amber in color.

Finally, is the “heart,” or the bottom layer of this drink. It usually has a deep brown tone and is bitter in taste.

Espresso originally made its debut in Italy in the early 20th century. Luigi Bezzera, the owner of a manufacturing plant wanted to speed up the process of making coffee. According to NationalEspressoDay.com, Bezzera discovered that “adding steam pressure to the process produced a stronger, more robust cup of coffee.” As a result, espresso was born!

The beverage is touted for its ability to wake everyone up. Especially since one ounce typically has 65 milligrams of caffeine, in contrast to the 12-16 milligrams of caffeine one ounce of plain coffee has. However, we do not typically drink one ounce of coffee. An eight-ounce coffee drink does have a high amount of caffeine as well—96-29 mg of caffeine—is not as concentrated as espresso is.

While this delicious drink is often enjoyed in coffee beverages, this is not the only way to enjoy espresso. Curious to discover diverse ways we all can celebrate espresso?

Read on for three delectable recipes to enjoy this pick-me-up brew.

E S P R E S S O T R E AT # 1

C H O C O L AT E C H I P E S P R E S S O COOKIES This tasty recipe, courtesy of CoffeeAffection.com, takes 21 minutes total to bake. You will need: 3/4 cups unsalted butter, 1 cup brown sugar, 1/3 cup white sugar, 1 egg, 1 egg yolk, 2 teaspoons vanilla extract, 1/2 teaspoon salt, 1 3/4 cup all-purpose flour, 1/2 teaspoon baking soda, 4 ounces dark chocolate chips and finally, 1/4 cup espresso powder. First, brown the unsalted butter over mediumlow heat in a small saucepan. Next, combine the browned butter, brown sugar, and white sugar in a large bowl and mix them together. Add the egg, egg yolk, and vanilla extract to the bowl and stir. In a different bowl, mix the flour, baking soda, espresso powder, vanilla extract, and salt. Combine both bowls and add the chocolate chips.

Be careful not to overmix the combination; otherwise, the cookies will come out too dense. Refrigerate the cookie dough until it is cold—it is best to let it cool overnight. Once ready, preheat the oven to 350° F. On oiled parchment paper, place dough balls along the sheet spaced at 2-inch intervals. Finally, bake for 11 minutes. Enjoy!

E S P R E S S O T R E AT # 2

ESPRESSO MARTINI A beloved alcohol beverage by many, this drink is not difficult to make on your own. For this recipe, from Liquor. com, you will need: 2 ounces vodka, 1/2-ounce coffee liqueur (usually Kahlúa), 1 ounce espresso, freshly brewed, 1/2-ounce simple syrup, and coffee beans for garnish.

First, add vodka, coffee liqueur, espresso and simple syrup to a shaker filled with ice and shake until well-chilled. Next, strain into a chilled cocktail glass. Finally, garnish with three coffee beans of your choice. Cheers!

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C E L E B R AT E T H E S E A S O N W I T H A G I N G E R B R E A D L AT T E !

With it being, “the most wonderful time of year,” why not choose November 23rd to enjoy a seasonal latte! For this recipe, from the blog, “Chocolate Covered Katie,” you will need: 1/4 tsp cinnamon, 1/8 tsp ground ginger, 2 tsp molasses, 1 tsp pure vanilla extract, 3 tbsp espresso, 1 cup milk of choice, sweetener of choice, to taste. You will need to first mix everything together in a small pot or in a mug. Then, heat until desired temperature is reached. However, if you want a foamy latte: Mix spices into coffee. In a big measuring cup, heat or microwave the milk until foamy. Then pour the milk into the coffee mixture. Delicious!

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THE PERSONAL TOUCH of DANA’S FINE JEWELRY

by MARTIE EMORY

The gift of jewelry is incredibly personal, and for over 27 years, Dana’s Fine Jewelry, in historic downtown Newton, has been entrusted with marking the most cherished family occasions. For owner Dana Ramseur, jewelry has been a lifelong passion.

"I grew up watching my grandparents work at their store, Gregory Jewelers, and I knew this was what I wanted to do," she explains.

Although her grandparents sold their store while Dana was in high school, her journey led her through business classes, a stint in Virginia selling wholesale to jewelry stores, and managing a jewelry company upon her return to Charlotte. The very building that once housed her grandparents' store became available for sale. In 1996, a hopeful Dana took the leap to launch her own dream.

"I was 24 years old, and scared to death," she recalls. "But I had to try — and I'm glad I did. We adore this community and relish the opportunity to meet new people!"

Over the years, these people, who started as clients and have now become friends, have forged close relationships with the Dana's Fine Jewelry team. The team, which includes Dana's mother, Kay Carter, along with Brenda Bogert, Trena Pender, Sherry Kinder, Kathy Bollinger, and Carole Isenhour, celebrates life's milestones right alongside their clients.

"We specialize in selling heirlooms that can be passed down for generations," Dana says. "I might have pierced a little girl's ears, and then, 20 years later, sold her a diamond wedding ring."

Their reputation is built on making clients feel at home, offering expert knowledge, integrity, fair pricing, and a globally sourced selection of jewelry styles, from classic to cutting edge. The team has a creative approach, and Dana especially enjoys turning a client's sparkling "idea" into reality. In fact, Dana’s Fine Jewelry was recently recognized as one of

the Top Ten Jewelry Stores in North Carolina by Best Things North Carolina (bestthingsnc.com).

Delivering exquisite diamonds is a significant part of their business and a joyful experience when they become part of someone's new beginning.

"I always tell newly engaged couples that if they don't purchase from me, they should definitely buy from an independently owned store. They will get a better price, better quality, and better service by shopping locally.

Everyone has different tastes and budgets, but we pride ourselves on finding the perfect stone. I always say I would rather sell you a beautiful, smaller diamond that has fire and quality than one that does not. We know it's not easy for the guys, but we're here to listen!"

Dana's is also renowned for custom engraving, including fingerprints and paw prints. They can even transform a voice recording, such as a child's first cry or first words, into a QR code that can be engraved on jewelry or a picture frame.

Mark your calendar for November 14th to attend their VIP Ladies Night Fundraiser for the Corner Table, part of Dana’s commitment to giving back to the community. You can also shop with them during Newton's Christmas Crawl on November 10th and 11th, Black Friday on November 24th, Small Business Saturday on November 25th, and Light up the Town on Friday, December 1st.

Consider Dana’s Fine Jewelry your trusted family friend for high-quality diamonds, emeralds, rubies, sapphires, tanzanite, pearls, aquamarine, and other semi-precious gemstones. You'll find a stunning collection of gold and silver jewelry, as well as fine watches, offering an elegant range of gift choices. Dana’s Fine Jewelry is located at 108 North Main Avenue in Newton, NC. You can reach them at 828-466-1999 or visit them online at danasfinejewelryinc.com. Store hours are Monday through Friday, 10:00 a.m. - 5:30 p.m., and Saturday, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.

"All I can say is wow! I proposed to my girlfriend this weekend, and she loves the ring. Dana's made this huge milestone in our life so easy. My first visit took just over 12 minutes, and I was asked instantly what I had in mind and my price range. Not even a week later, they had a band, the diamond, and diamonds for the band, all within my price range. The overall meeting for that day took 15 minutes, and a week later, the ring was ready. I spent less than an hour there over three visits. Dana’s Fine Jewelry saves you unnecessary stress!" — B L A K E A .

"I was looking for an engagement ring but had no knowledge of styles or pricing. I was in a rush and needed to purchase within a few days, but that was no problem, as Trena and Dana jumped on board and had a selection to choose from within a day or two. Every question was answered — they are the nicest and most sincere business you'll ever deal with!" — J A S O N S .

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A BOW OF GALLANTRY b y T Y L E R A . H A M P TO N It’s (almost) the most wonderful time of the Complement it with a velvet loafer in the year, and that means it’s time to prepare yourself for holiday parties and functions.

Don’t let it be just another office Christmas party… go all out and have fun with it. If there is any particular time to dress up for a party, the holiday season is the occasion.

It’s a time of celebration, so why not reflect that in your attire? There’s no shame in being the best-dressed at the party, so here we’re making a list and checking it twice to make sure you’re ready to jingle bell rock all night long!

Most holiday parties are relatively formal, so black-tie is more than appropriate, but as we said before, make it festive! Whether that means pairing a tartan pant with your tuxedo or dinner jacket, or a Christmascolored velvet dinner jacket with your tuxedo trouser, have some fun with it and wear it unabashedly. You want your look to be memorable, different, and tasteful. What fun is it looking like everyone else?

The formalwear considerations don’t stop with the jacket and pant. One of the most important pieces will be the bow tie. It should be complementarily festive as well, and always a self-tie. Pre-tied bowties are the bane of sartorial existence and the ultimate display of naivety. If the event is less formal, still opt for neckwear. While a tuxedo or dinner jacket call specifically for bow ties, a festive, woven necktie really completes the look with a suit or sportcoat. Neckwear is in; embrace it! You may have forgotten how good you feel when completely dressed.

Formal footwear is one of the most often overlooked and underrated part of the outfit.

Don’t slack on your shoes, though! Patent leather oxfords are the traditional tuxedo shoe, but for this festive season, add some excitement. Wearing a velvet dinner jacket?

same shade. Suede, whether in a traditional black or a dark burgundy or green, creates a great contrasting texture while remaining formal enough for the occasion.

A few final tips pertaining to formalwear: 1. Ditch the Apple Watch for the night. Not only is it impolite to check the time, but a smartwatch is entirely out of place in a formal outfit.

2. Your jacket should remain on until you’re ready to take off your pants (meaning at home… let’s not make a scene at the company party!).

3. Aside from white-tie, vests do not belong with tuxedos or dinner jackets. This model jacket is a one-button closure, creating a longer and deeper V shape in the front, making you look taller and slimmer. This is why every man looks great in a tuxedo.

A vest would completely negate the deeper V shape; therefore, a vest would be out of place.

4. These may not be items you have in your wardrobe, but consider investing in one killer outfit for these occasions. It will pay off in the long run to have a go-to combination, and unlike ladies who can’t or won’t wear the same gown twice, men can keep their outfits in the rotation for seasons to come.

Remember, how you dress can play a great role in how you feel - forget the “ugly Christmas sweater” and get really dressed.

You may just rediscover a long-forgotten sense of self-confidence and joy, and after all, there’s never a bad time to be the bestdressed man in the room. Let’s suit up and deck some halls!

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MI AMICHE

Dining with The Bonarrigos and their Family of Friends

If you’ve dined at Mi Amiche in Mooresville even once, you already know how meaningful that signature logo is! This truly authentic Italian restaurant—whose name literally means “our friends”—is owned by Nick and Kim Bonarrigo, who will both tell you the best table is a crowded table!

Both were born and raised in upstate New York, and perhaps by fate, Nick and Kim’s first date was dinner at an old Italian restaurant in East Utica, owned by a family friend.

Both Nick and Kim adore the hospitality they’ve found among their Mooresville neighbors, and the family-like relationships they have formed with loyal customers.

There’s no shortage of literally “everything you could want” at Mi Amiche, and the restaurant seats 80 guests inside, including a full-service bar with 10 stools and high-tops for sampling from their inviting cocktail menu. You can also dine and relax on the 1000-square-foot patio— which seats 60 guests, with a most recently added awning and enclosure for your next private party. To accompany your event, the entire Mi Amiche menu is offered for catering— including business lunches and school events— or any size private party, from dinner for 10 to a large family wedding!

The word is also out that Nick will personally The Bonarrigos are passionate about sharing deliver catering orders upon request—just one lovable element of their outstanding customer amazing Italian food with their Mooresville service. For Nick, it’s just icing on the cake to see community and beyond, and when they made the move to the Lake Norman area in 2019 (with their rescue pup, Tessa in tow!), they found the perfect space to open a bistro that focused on breakfast and lunch. Mi Amiche officially opened in May of 2021, and by September, thanks to friends and neighbors nudging, the restaurant began offering a dinner menu. While breakfast/brunch is still on the menu Sundays from 9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m., the main attraction six days a week may be their repertoire of incredible Italian dishes, burgers, paninis and freshly prepared salads, made from scratch, and always with high-end, local ingredients.

“We pride ourselves on creating the most authentic Italian sauces, from house-made Marinara, Alfredo, Rosa, Blush, Piccata, Luciano, Scampi, Marsala, and Pesto, to Lobster Bisque and my favorite, Utica Chicken Riggies,” says Nick. He will also be the first to tell you his mother was a strong influence on his goal of wanting others to enjoy food as much as he does!

customers in person, thoroughly enjoying his restaurant’s homemade goodness with family and friends!

You’ll come to Mi Amiche for the rave reviews of exceptional cuisine, definitely for the family ambiance, and for the positive energy that can make dining any day of the week a truly memorable experience!

Nick’s personal philosophy reflects that life itself is the greatest gift of all, and that doing what you love—when it can also make a difference in other’s lives—is essential. The Mi Amiche team also partners with Watchmen of the Streets Homeless Outreach to provide much-needed hot meals to our neighbors who live on the streets.

Blending food, friends, and giving back to the community that supports them creates a full plate of blessings for Nick and Kim—who welcome you to join them soon!

Experience Italian cuisine like no other at Mi Amiche, located at 350 Morrison Plantation Parkway in Mooresville, 980-435-5175. Visit them online at miamiche.com, and follow @mi.amiche on Instagram and Facebook. Restaurant hours are Tuesday through Thursday 11:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m., Friday & Saturday 11:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m., and Sunday 9:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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“There wasn’t anything we didn’t like about this restaurant! I had the seafood blush (calamari, shrimp and scallops) and my wife had the chicken Parmesan. The portions were large and the food was so delicious!

Julie was our server and her passion to make our experience awesome put MI Amiche high on our list of places to go! ”— S T E V E L .

“What an amazing experience! A chef’s kiss to this establishment!

The best Italian food I have had, and try their lobster biscuit pasta!

A solid 10/10 and I would recommend this place to all my friends and family! Owner is an amazing person—he even came by and greeted us!” — J O R G E H .

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NETWORKING FOR SUCCESS

by LESLIE SPEAS

BUSINESS NETWORKING IS THE PROCESS OF MEETING OTHERS TO EXCHANGE INFORMATION, MAKE NEW PROFESSIONAL CONTACTS, AND DEVELOP HELPFUL RELATIONSHIPS. Networking is a word that strikes fear in the hearts of some – especially introverts. I have always done some networking here and there. However, I recently launched my own business, InfluenceHR Consulting, and networking efforts have kicked into high gear. I thought I would do a little research to educate myself and others about how to network most successfully.

H E R E A R E 7 T I P S TO N E T WO R K F O R S U CC E S S : 1. DETERMINE WHICH EVENTS OR GROUPS WOULD B E M O S T A D V A N TA G E O U S F O R Y O U T O V I S I T. You have a limited amount of time and energy so try to be strategic about where you network. Think about whom you’d like to meet and where they may congregate. Then, identify events or groups that would be most helpful for you to visit.

2 . H AV E A GOA L I N M I N D. Next time you're going to an event, ask yourself: “Whom do I want to meet, and why?” Maybe set a goal for the number of leads you’d like to collect – or people that you’d like to meet.

3 . H A V E A N E L E V AT O R P I T C H .

You’ve probably been told time and time again about the importance of having a polished elevator pitch. This is essentially a concise explanation of your skills and work experience - what you do and why it matters.

When the small talk is over, it's easy for the conversation to dry up.

You can avoid this by making them the topic of conversation and showing genuine interest in the other person. As a result, you will likely find talking points you can expand on.

Jot down some notes after each meaningful conversation. This will provide you with the information you need to follow up.

6. PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING. When we're networking, we're often so focused on what we are sharing that we don’t take the time to really listen to the other person. Practicing active listening is critical to networking effectively.

This includes using your body language – eye contact, open posture, nodding, using small non-verbal cues to show attention – and paraphrasing occasionally to show understanding.

5 . M A N A G E T H E C O N V E R S AT I O N .

Most people start with, “What do you do?” This can be kind of boring so I’m sharing 4 F’s of networking to consider.

7. F O L L O W U P E V E R Y T I M E .

If you want to make a lasting impression, take the time to follow up with the people you meet. So how do you follow up effectively?

First, send an email or LinkedIn message within 24 hours of meeting someone. This shows that you're interested in keeping in touch.

Secondly, invite the person you met to coffee or lunch to further connect. After that, you can stay in touch through email, social media, and/or future meetings.

• From: Where are you from?

• Family: Tell me about your family?

• Funds: What do you do for work?

• Fun: What do you do for fun?

Hopefully, incorporating these tips will help to ease your anxiety about networking. We should approach networking conversations as we would other interactions, making human, authentic connections with others.

4. BRING BUSINESS CARDS. There’s nothing worse than needing to scribble your contact information on a cocktail napkin, so come prepared with plenty of business cards.

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CREATE A LITTLE MAGIC

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

AS A MILITARY PARATROOPER, MY DAD WAS PAID A LITTLE EXTRA. AND DAD BEING EUROPEAN AND OF GOOD TASTE - USED THAT “EXTRA” MONEY TO SEND HIS BELOVED FIANCÉ, OUR MOM, A NUMBER OF LOVELY THINGS.

Never “the fancy type,” there is a photo of my mom posing in a sumptuous Japanese kimono, perched and smiling on our mid-century sofa. Dad also sent an “Albion, Made in Japan” tea set which today creates a little magic in a place of honor on my kitchen counter. There’s just one problem - somewhere along the way, through the moves, the illnesses, and the losses of my childhood, the creamer was either lost or irreparably broken.

I don’t need a creamer. It’s unnecessary when I can pour from that carton of Half ‘n Half just fine – no concern about breaking anything there! But I long to find that missing piece, forever scouring the Replacements site, ebay, Etsy, junk shops, thrift shops, and antique malls.

To date, that “unnecessary” piece has eluded me in a way that my father’s sensibilities have not. He had that innate ability to create magic from the stuff of ordinary life, and I often wonder if I possess enough of that same type of magic, as I tend to get weighed down in the practical, holding the whimsical at arm’s length. Some call it living joyfully, or expressing self-care or self-love.

I tend to agree.

If your practical nature leaves you bogged down in a steady stream of mundanity – “being very ordinary and therefore not interesting” – ask yourself:

glass, and a brunch-like breakfast. By bringing magic to our morning meal, we set the tone for the day ahead.

Don’t wait for “someday.” Book ahead with the people you care about. Case in point, I am spending this afternoon out shopping with a friend, followed by a leisurely, conversation-rich meal. We planned this many weeks ago, because “we should get together” rarely works.

Do something new or different every month. If you tend to put your experiences on repeat, please give this one some serious thought. It could be something like reading an author for the first time, visiting a different park, or trying out a new recipe – just for starters. When you get the hang of it, be bolder: book a getaway to a new place or start to learn a language or an instrument.

Give your next book club meeting a theme or ask your girlfriends to bring a favorite poem to share the next time you get together. The idea is to use your imagination to infuse the ordinary with something different. Once you’ve set the tone, you will find that others are inspired by your example and will offer future ideas. I had a neighbor who loved hosting Happy Hour.

On one occasion, she offered a champagne tasting instead. More magic!

• “Where’s the creamer in my life?” What can I give myself permission to have, or to have more of?”

• “What can I do today that will make these 24 hours brighter, more joyful?”

And every day, you can:

Consider some of the following for inspiration:

Spray just a touch of your favorite scent on your bedding before your head hits the pillow.

Remember the “Why” behind everything you do.

Whether it’s opening the door for a stranger, doing your morning stretches, or leaving a wee surprise for a neighbor, remember that your actions are a reflection of who you have chosen to be – and that’s a beautiful thing.

Elevate the ordinary. In our home, Sunday morning is all about a scented candle, background music, juice in a wine

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Do something nice for yourself when you complete a difficult or boring task.

Dress for yourself, regardless of what anyone else thinks.

Be grateful.

I am grateful for the awareness that I have the power to create magic from the stuff of ordinary life – which is why my search for the elusive creamer continues, unabated.

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by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON

“WORLD KINDNESS DAY IS AN INTERNATIONAL HOLIDAY FIRST INTRODUCED IN 1998

BY THE WORLD KINDNESS MOVEMENT. THE HOLIDAY IS DEVOTED TO PROMOTING KINDNESS THROUGHOUT THE WORLD, UNDERSTANDING THE POSITIVE POTENTIAL OF LARGE AND SMALL ACTS OF KINDNESS, AND UNIFYING TOGETHER AS HUMAN BEINGS.” “Kindness is contagious.” One of our local healthcare providers has embraced this statement, repeating it in their clinic signage, their customer service support line and other media. I don’t know about you, but I like it. A lot. First of all, it is scientifically true. Kindness spreads between and among us.

Second, what better way to counter rudeness or hate? With World Kindness Day on November 13th, we are reminded of the part we each play in the larger scheme of things. Take a couple of minutes to consider how you can personally cultivate the kindness contagion.

Start inside and work outwards: SELF

F A M I LY A N D F R I E N D S

Let go of that negative self-talk. There is no kindness there! Be rigorous about monitoring it, and using self-talk such as “I am doing the best I can right now” to send kindness inward.

Be mindful and put your love into action. Sometimes, the people we care about the most get the worst of us. You know what I mean.

Be conscious of how your words, manner, or lack of attention may be sending an unintended, less-than-kind message. Say “I’m sorry, Sweetie. I wasn’t listening.” Or, “I know that matters to you, I get it.”

Simple, thoughtful, kind words go a long way to reinforcing our love and commitment.

Do something just for you, every single day. A dried branch from my nearly-asleep garden graces my windowsill – that’s something I did “for me.” Maybe it’s 10 minutes of inspirational reading or stretching in the morning. Maybe it’s buying that overpriced body lotion that you love so much. You decide.

Remember that the person responsible for your well-being and happiness is you. Go through your day with that truth as your guide.

Live, be, and make your decisions accordingly.

Extend one random act of kindness every single day. When you do, you will begin to experience what a powerful force you can be: • Let that lady go ahead of you in line • Smile with understanding at the frazzled young dad trying to quiet his child • Hold the door open • Extend genuine and generous compliments to cashiers, receptionists, anyone who plays a role in serving and servicing you.

Be there emotionally. Everyone has bad days and goes through rough patches from time to time. More than money, gifts, or distractions, it’s love, compassion, and encouragement that matter most.

Surprise a friend. Leave a plant or something homemade on a friend’s doorstep or send a small “just because” gift to a long distance friend.

And for your children? Be a “do as I do” parent, a role model of kindness.

COMMUNITY Respect shared space. Pick up stray pieces of trash when you see them. Take up one parking space, no more. Put the shopping cart back where it belongs. It’s the little things, right?

Surprise a neighbor. Take in a neighbor’s trash barrels or offer to run an errand. Leave a magazine or something in their mailbox because, why not? And on that note, make a contribution to those “bring something, take something” boxes people place on their front lawns. I always feel so good when I do!

Buy local, please! Our small businesses need our encouragement, our referrals, and our dollars. Not to mention the camaraderie and friendship we develop when we become regulars. Not everything has to be bought online or at a big box store.

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NESTLED IN WHAT FEELS LIKE THEIR OWN COZY COMMUNITY, THE 60 LUCKY RESIDENTS WHO NOW CALL SUMMIT PLACE OF MOORESVILLE “HOME” KNOW WHAT REALLY MATTERS MOST IN EVERYDAY LIFE. HOME SWEET HOME

The simple answer, according to Executive Director, Emily Paxton, is “everything matters”!

“Whether it’s as simple as more raisins in a resident’s cereal, knowing they like three packs of sugar in their coffee, or a picnic right there in their room because they can’t get outside, it’s the little things that make big differences,” Emily says.

It’s always a labor of love to make that extra effort, and the Summit Place staff exudes compassion and care in every situation — knowing their assigned tasks are much more than a job! And they are also inspired by the residents they serve every single day.

“We have teachers, nurses, doctors, professors, and many Veterans who we serve,” says Emily.

“We learn from all of our residents each day.”

As part of that small community vibe, residents agree they feel like family, and love to spend time together. Activities are diverse, plentiful, and fun — including yoga, arts and crafts, painting, floral design, tie-dye projects, socials, dress-up days, lunch outings, shopping, and bingo. Anything that interests residents and inspires them to keep active can be worked into the programs at any time: Examples include Happy Hour, gardening, corn hole, miniature golf, virtual tours of nearby destinations — the list continues to grow! (Ask around and you’ll likely discover that Elvis came to visit residents in October — a real treat!)

All of that is in addition to what makes the biggest difference to their families: truly unsurpassed personal care, luxury-style accommodations, amenities such as cable, Internet, laundry, meals and snacks — and the daily encouragement to maintain an intentional purpose in their lives. No matter their condition or required level of care — Assisted Living or Memory Care — residents are treated like family, and always with a goal of improving their overall wellness. Residents can also receive assistance with grooming, bathing, dressing, and undressing, as well as medication management, daily wellness checks, daily housekeeping, meals prepared by the Executive Chef, and both a main dining room and a private dining room.

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INDIVIDUALIZED CARE The Summit Place Signature Memory Care Neighborhood provides a comfortable, home-style setting, while offering all the necessary modifications for seniors diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia.

Time might be spent actively reminiscing with staff or visiting family members, and new residents are encouraged to bring along important memorabilia or a few beloved furnishings from their previous home, to nurture a familiar feel in their new surroundings.

you walk in the door, the smiles on everyone’s faces — it just feels like home. I am so honored to serve this amazing community. When you walk in the door as a stranger you walk out as a friend. It’s where everything truly matters.” — Emily Paxton, Executive Director The holiday season is always a festive time, and residents always look forward to the annual Holiday Family Meal in November, and annual Holiday parties — complete with Santa — during the month of December.

Open since 2000, Summit Place is the oldest assisted living community in Mooresville, and is managed by Phoenix Senior Living.

Assisted Living residents enjoy apartment-style suites, individually tailored activities, and purposeful interaction to encourage getting to know others with different backgrounds and hobbies. Seniors are encouraged to live, love, and continue learning during this new chapter of their lives — and their thoughts on living here show their heartfelt contentment.

“Summit Place is home. With the staff and my friends here, there is no other place I want to be.” — P E G G Y R .

“I especially love all the activities I can do with my friends. Summit Place truly feels like home!” — J A C K I E P. “Being at Summit Place of Mooresville makes me feel like I have come home. I love it here!” — F R A N K D .

“The staff at Summit Place makes me feel loved.” — J A N I C E M .

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Summit Place of Mooresville is located at 128 Brawley School Road, Mooresville, NC, 704-799-2712, or online at phoenixsrliving.com, where you can read more about amenities and floor plans, and schedule a tour for yourself or a family member.

“Summit Place of Mooresville’s residents, families, and staff are the reason why people come in and don’t want to leave.”

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CATCHING UP ON YOUR Zzzzz’s:

THE POWER of A GOOD NIGHT’S SLEEP b y M E G A N TAY L O R

In today’s world, the majority of adults are usually somewhat tired during the day. We run from sunup to sundown with work, errands, and other various activities. Then, when it is finally time to go to sleep, we toss and turn with our minds still working. We think about what has occurred that day, what needs to be done tomorrow, and our worries and stressors. Add in potential health issues and we are prevented from sleeping our best, leaving us groggy and in a fog the next day.

It is recommended for adults to get seven to eight hours of sleep per night. However, the number of hours isn’t the only factor to getting a quality night’s rest. Maintaining a regular schedule is key to receiving the greatest benefits. When achieved, getting enough sleep can help a person get sick less often, maintain a healthy weight, and lower their risk for health problems, such as diabetes and heart disease. Other benefits include reduced stress, increased energy, improved mood, and the ability to think clearer and better.

The good news is getting a quality night’s rest isn’t too far away with a few new habits and routine changes. While a person can’t control all the aspects that disrupt sleep, there are things we can do, including these tips below.

• As mentioned above, sticking to a sleep schedule and being consistent is very important. Look at your evening’s events and determine a bedtime that works for you and allows you to get the needed amount of sleep. Set an alarm each night and stick to it if at all possible, including the weekends. Then, wake up at the same time each day. This consistency helps with regulating your body’s sleep-wake cycle. It is recommended that if you aren’t asleep within 20 minutes, leave your bedroom, read a book, or do something relaxing. Return to your bed when you are tired.

• Create a peaceful and calming atmosphere in your bedroom. In order to achieve the best snooze, keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet.

Fans and sound machines are great resources. I know I sleep the best when I have a fan on, no matter the temperature inside and outside of the house.

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• Turn off electronic devices at least 30 minutes before hitting the hay.

Staying on your cell phone, while trying to fall asleep, keeps your mind engaged and stimulated. The blue light from your screen can also mimic daylight and disrupt your internal body clock, throwing off your circadian rhythm. The best thing to do is put your phone down before sleeping.

• Limit your daytime naps to no more than one hour and try to avoid napping in the afternoon and evenings. Only when you are extremely tired are you still likely to fall asleep at night even with a nap. Other times, naps can interfere with your nighttime sleep.

• Think about your daytime habits. First, look at your physical activity.

Do you move around a majority of the time or are you sedentary? Do you exercise? If so, how much? By getting more physical activity, you are utilizing your energy and helping yourself be tired at bedtime.

Don’t forget to spend time outdoors, too. In addition, take a look at what you eat and drink, especially right before going to sleep. Avoid going to bed hungry or consuming heavy foods and large meals in the late evenings. Pay attention to any caffeine or alcohol later in the day, as well. These ingredients can have lasting effects that can impact a person’s sleep.

• Reduce your stress by writing down your worries, concerns, and tasks before going to sleep. Then, organize, create, and prioritize your to-do list for the next day. Place this list somewhere you won’t see it during the night. Meditation is another resourceful way to ease your anxiety.

• Contact your healthcare provider if you still aren’t getting quality sleep after altering your habits. There may be underlying causes that you are overlooking that need medical attention.

The power of a good night’s sleep is something that is hard to achieve, but can’t be overlooked. By getting impactful seven to eight hours a night, you will wake up like a new person, feeling refreshed and ready for anything the next day.

by MARTIE EMORY

With a goal of making Amy’s House — a shelter for victims of domestic violence opened in 1995 — a more self-sufficient entity, non-profit boutique Amy’s Closet was created and first opened in Denver, NC, in 2013.

Once a successful business model was in place, the group expanded with a location in Lincolnton in 2016. The Denver shop doubled in size in 2022, and both bustling boutiques — through the sales of donated women’s clothing, accessories, and housewares — have been successful enough in their own right to keep Amy’s House open 24/7, year-round, as a safe haven for families displaced by violence. The shelter provides the perfect transition domestic violence survivors need to recover, heal, empower themselves, and make life-changing plans for the future.

This devoted Amy’s Closet team has grown from four or five people, to about 100 volunteers — mostly women — who generously give anywhere from four hours a month of their time, to some who volunteer a few hours nearly every day. The store also provides clothing and household linens to domestic violence survivors, at no charge, to help them begin new lives.

Business Manager Skip Steele, appointed by the Lincoln County Coalition Against Domestic Violence Board, is

undoubtedly the group’s biggest cheerleader, and an advocate for the donors, volunteers, and loyal customers who keep Amy’s Closet growing.

“My volunteer job is to serve our volunteer team,” explains Skip. “I report to them on how they’re doing, make sure they don’t run out of 13-gallon trash bags, haul off the trash, and pay the bills. They do all the work.”

Before the success of Amy’s Closet, the shelter had been able to operate only six to eight months out of the year, due to the varying distribution of grant money, based on a calendar year.

Once supporters realized the smart solution was for LCCADV, already a 501(c)(3), to have its own self-funding money stream, one board member was inspired to launch the idea of the boutique. A total group effort in every sense of the word — where much was learned through persistence! — Amy’s Closet is the “face” and the outreach arm for LCCADV. Operated solely by volunteers, every dollar raised goes to support the private work of Amy’s House.

When year-round operations for the shelter landed in a stable position, the board allocated most of the income from Amy’s Closet towards building a new, larger, state-of-the-art shelter

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”

— MARGARET MEAD

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AMY’S CLOSET & AMY’S HOUSE

for local victims. With a new facility, the team looks forward to widening the scope of services they can offer. The mission of Amy’s House will always remain providing an alternative to life in a violent situation, and to offer educational resources that allow survivors to make healthier choices for themselves and their families.

On average, Amy’s House serves about 100 people each year, and roughly 70% of those are minor children. The staff provides safe shelter and recovery exclusively to individuals or families displaced from their homes by violence, including all essentials for daily living, and expertise for helping them safely rebuild their lives. Amy’s House also provides connections to other agencies who facilitate medical care, counseling, transportation, job assistance, legal advocacy, and ultimately, sustainable and safe housing.

As with any non-profit, the success of Amy’s Closet depends heavily on volunteers, who work at the boutiques as cashiers, cleaning crew, and the all-important task of sorting donated items, to prepare them for resale.

Skip shares that many volunteers also “introduce” both Amy’s Closet and Amy’s House to their communities, churches, and clubs, broadening the group’s outreach and growing their network of supporters. (Look for a flower garden soon at the new shelter — the handiwork of a volunteer “Master Gardener” and her team of helpers!)

Besides the gift of your time, women’s clothing donations are accepted whenever the shops are open: Tuesday through Friday 10:00 a.m. 4:30 p.m., and Saturday 10:00 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. Amy’s Closet refers furniture donations to their partners at Furnish a Future with Helping Hands at Denver United Methodist Church, men’s goods to Hesed House, and children’s goods to Christian Ministries, Crisis Pregnancy, or Asbury Resource Center (ARC). Cash donations are always welcome at checkout, or you can donate by check or credit card at both shops, or by mail to P.O. Box 476, Lincolnton, NC 28092. There’s also a QR code that links to the group’s PayPal account.

There’s no better time or reason to declutter your own closet — for an amazing reason! Amy’s Closet is located at 1584B NC Highway 16 Business in Denver, 704-483-5515, and at 202 S. Cedar St in Lincolnton, 704-240-3688. Learn more at Lincolncounty-CADV.org.

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SEASON of SUPPLEMENTS

by LINDSEY FISHER

THE SUPPLEMENT QUESTIONS. I GET THEM QUITE FREQUENTLY. THE US SUPPLEMENT MARKET IS RECORDED TO GENERATE AN ASTOUNDING 40+ BILLION PER YEAR. WHILE YOU CAN MOST DEFINITELY GO WAY OVERBOARD WITH SUPPLEMENTATION; IT IS IMPORTANT THAT WE SUPPLEMENT AS AN “INSURANCE POLICY,” AND CERTAINLY AS WE AGE. At the root of our health, our nutrition protocol should come from high quality, nutrient dense foods. However, even with a healthy, balanced diet we don’t always get the proper amounts of vitamins and minerals for optimal health. At the same time, the absorption rate of those vitamins and minerals can range from numerous contributing factors. This is especially notable with the increasing number of Americans with autoimmune or GI disease; obstructing the absorption of essential nutrients, vitamins and minerals caused by microbiome imbalances.

Each year 62 million Americans are diagnosed with a digestive disorder. The incidence and prevalence of most digestive diseases increase with age. Other exceptions include hemorrhoids, inflammatory bowel disease, and chronic liver disease, which occur more commonly among young and middle-aged adults.* My vitamin cabinet has grown over the years; recognizing high quality supplements that are worth the investment.

I always recommend taking the time to ask the questions and assess your diet and supplements. Are you taking supplements at all? Are they the right ones for you? Do you have any health issues that could potentially stem from lack of vitamins or essential minerals? Do you have any contributing symptoms that could be from vitamin deficiency?

While I never diagnose or prescribe, I am extremely in tune with what the body needs, with what my clients needs are, and with holistic solutions that can drastically improve overall health. So, I do the research. If I find something that I know can potentially help someone else, I will share it. My personal daily supplement regimen is as follows. This does not necessarily mean it is the right one for you, but it is something to consider.

• Vitamin D (most Americans are deficient and this plays a huge role in immune support)

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• Iron (every other day- also because I donate blood on a pretty regular basis) • CoQ10 • Magnesium (necessary for proper muscle/nerve function and quality sleep) • Turmeric (anti-inflammatory to combat our toxic food and environment) • Wild Alaskan Fish Oil • Raw Vitamin B Complex • Collagen (beneficial for joint and skin health, especially as we age) Additionally, we all need to be preventative (not reactive) when it comes to health, especially as we head into cold and flu season. This starts with getting enough sleep and staying hydrated. Always. This also may mean adding some supplements to your daily regimen. During this time of year, my cabinet is stocked right next to my toothbrush so that I do not forget anything if I start to feel even a twinge of sickness. It includes: • Immune Boosting Ayurvedic Tea • IO Plus • Colloidal Silver • Local Raw Honey (and some extra lemon) • Additional CBD regimen • Elderberry Syrup (local) • Probiotic Wishing you all the ultimate and most proactive plan for health always. If you have any questions or are interested in learning more, you can follow Lindsey on social media @LindseyFisherNC * GI Alliance

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by M A R T I E E M O R Y, photography by C A R R I E A L L E N The name Sweet Grass itself evokes a peaceful ambiance, and no time of the year beckons for a calming escape more than the hectic holidays!

Happily, this relaxing retail destination is also the finest shopping spot you could land on, and owners Rich and Michelle Harris enjoy providing the ultimate shopping experience at their shop in Mooresville all throughout the year. The holiday months simply mean greeting new and current customers with a little extra magic, beginning with the shop’s Holiday Open House on Friday, November 9th, from 4:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

“We will be featuring our wonderful regular vendors, some local favorites, and a couple of new vendors we’re very excited about!” shares Michelle.

Shoppers will enjoy delicious fare from the popular food truck Tacos on the Road, and a free open bar with festive craft cocktails from Side Bar Trailer Co. As always, there will be special giveaways—with between 40 and 50 wonderful prizes available to win!

“With a purchase, shoppers can fill out a raffle ticket for our giveaways. We will draw winners a couple of days after the event, so you don’t have to be present to win—just make a purchase!”

Michelle explains.

Candles, home décor, serve ware, gourmet foods and teas, jewelry, novelty towels, pet accessories, creative stocking stuffers, goodies for your favorite pickleball player, and plenty of unique holiday décor for your home.

Then, more holiday magic arrives every Sunday in the month of December—with weekly visits from Santa!

Another gift perk—especially for significant others!—is the shop’s customer list of favorite things. The Sweet Grass team knows the wishlist of regular customers—and they are happy to share. H I N T : The shop inventory is always changing, so if you see the perfect gift for someone on your list—buy it, don’t wait!

Michelle and Rich consider this chance to make wonderful family memories their gift back to customers, as a thank-you for such amazing support all year long. Photos with Santa is a free event—first come, first served—and you don’t have to travel far from home. Just bring your family (including fur babies!), your camera, and a generous helping of holiday cheer!

Loyal shoppers at Sweet Grass also know the shop’s stylish gift wrap in their signature gift bag can be a lifesaver—they will have you on your way in minutes, with the perfect gift wrapped and ready to go under your tree!

The possibilities at Sweet Grass are endless:

Mark your calendar for their November 9th Open House, and rally your kids to choose a Sunday date to meet Santa. Sweet Grass is located at 146 Mooresville Commons Way in Mooresville, NC. Reach them in the shop at 704-663-5878, by text at 704-450-6313, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @sweetgrasshome for news on events and unique new products. Store hours are Monday – Friday 10:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m., Saturday 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., and Sunday 11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

“Our shop inventory is always changing, so if you see the perfect gift for someone on your list—buy it, don’t wait!

MICHELLE HARRIS, CO-OWNER, SWEET GRASS BOUTIQUE

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GRATITUDE IS AN ANTIDOTE b y J AV I E R & S H A N N A N L A B R A D O R

“SLOW DOWN, BE PRESENT!” MY WIFE WOULD SAY, IN A LOVING YET SOMEWHAT WORRIED TONE, “YOU ARE GOING TO BURN OUT AND DRIVE ME CRAZY.” She was not wrong. I have always been in a hurry, never taking the time to truly live in the moments that, if missed, slip past us, never to be experienced again. The first step of your child, the constant requests to be pushed on the swing or to play with them - side note, one day, they won’t ask you anymore, so get up and push that swing!

I needed to slow down, be present, and learn to live from a place of rest - not strive for it. I was about to enter a season where I would be forced to rest and put into practice something that deeply aligns with my faith: gratitude.

In the season of life I found myself in, with the pace at which I was running, I had forgotten that gratitude is the antidote to busyness. I needed to return to having a heart of gratitude.

Embracing gratitude and thankfulness not only puts the brakes on your out-of-control pace but also acts as the vibrant thread that weaves through, enhancing the beauty of our relationships and marriage in ways we might not always realize. Gratitude was the traffic signal that slowed me down, allowing me to savor the beauty of the season I was in and the journey I had been invited into. It has transformed who I am and deepened my relationship with my wife, and it can do the same for you.

As we step into early fall, there comes a moment when we pause between the chaos of summer and the hustle and bustle of the holidays. We take a breath, pause, and give thanks, expressing our gratitude for where we have been, where we are, and what may lie ahead. Breathe.

I invite you to examine where you are and ask yourself, “Where am I not being present? Am

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I living with a grateful heart? Am I expressing thankfulness and gratitude, especially in my marriage?” As you enter a season of thankfulness, remember: Build a Foundation of Gratitude Begin and end each day with gratitude. Be thankful in all circumstances, a principle that profoundly resonates in marriage. When we wake up every morning next to the person we love, gratitude should be the first emotion we embrace, not “Dear Lord, their breath!”

In our lives and marriages, it’s not just about appreciating grand gestures but also finding joy in the everyday moments. Shift from complaining about what may not be going well or working to being grateful that you get to spend your life with the person you chose, regardless of the challenges you may face.

Embrace a Grateful Perspective Being thankful in marriage is not about ignoring the challenges but viewing them through a lens of gratitude. Every trial becomes an opportunity for growth, a chance to strengthen the bond that unites us. In the face of disagreements, we can be grateful for the opportunity to better understand each other and learn the art of compromise and forgiveness. Being grateful will change how you communicate, pursue, and see your spouse.

Put Gratitude into Action Expressing gratitude in our marriage isn’t just a passive act. It’s about small, daily, intentional actions that convey your thankfulness. Leave a note, send a sweet or affectionate text, and tell them how much you appreciate their love for you and your family.

Create a Gratitude Ripple Being thankful in our lives and marriage doesn’t just impact my spouse and me. It creates a ripple effect, touching the lives of those around us. Our children, family, and friends witness the power of gratitude and learn from our example.

Gratitude is contagious and spreads to all those connected to us.

My friends, I pray that as you pause for a moment this fall, you look around you and realize how blessed you are. Breathe. Have gratitude and express thankfulness. I believe you will experience, as I have, a peace that surpasses all understanding and the beauty of being present in the moment, grateful for your spouse, children, family, and friends.

And when life gets busy and challenging, remind yourself with these words to bring you back to a place of gratitude: “Where am I? I’m right here.

What time is it? Right now. What do I have? This moment.”

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I N S P I R E D D É CO R F O R YO U R OUTDOOR SPACE We all know the lake inspires us in so many ways — from relaxing and rejuvenating, to entertaining friends and family with our favorite sunset views.

For Erin and Mike Clark and their four sons (now ages 25, 23, 21, and 19), moving to Lake Norman from Boston 19 years ago meant incredibly better weather, and a daily lifestyle that centered around the water. Life was good — but there was so much more to come!

“I was on a girls’ trip in Santa Barbara two years ago, and happened upon a beautiful store that sold outdoor furniture, pottery, and garden décor,” explains Erin. “It was so pretty, and being there made me want to just sit and soak up the energy.”

Although she’s loved her work as a mental health therapist for the past 15 years, she and Mike, an enterprise software sales rep, were looking for a new, more creative challenge. After sharing her memory of that inviting outdoor furniture store, the two began researching from a business standpoint, and discovered outdoor furniture is the fastest growing segment of the furniture industry. With an avid love of outdoor living and nearly year-round outdoor activities showing no signs of slowing down, they knew they’d found a natural fit.

The Garden Room — located in a two-story historic building — opened in downtown Mooresville on June 4, 2023. It’s a

totally family run business, so a visit means you’ll definitely meet Erin or Mike!

“We felt it was a niche we could fill, and that people prefer to touch and sit on the outdoor furniture they invest in for their home,” says Erin. Following Covid, there was a dramatic surge in focusing on our homes, and especially the spaces we enjoy outdoors. For anyone fortunate enough to live on the water, taking advantage of the natural beauty of the lake for dining and relaxing, was simply a given. Even smaller homes or apartments can benefit from “dressing up” whatever outdoor area you have!

“We feel incredibly fortunate to be in the heart of downtown!” adds Erin. “After securing our store front, we realized how lucky we are to be part of the revitalization and growth that is happening in downtown Mooresville. There is such a sense of community and support among business owners.”

With high tin ceilings, large bright windows, and original wood floors, the space is perfect to showcase inventory that includes unique outdoor furnishings, and a variety of plants, garden décor, and outdoor-themed items. If you’re not necessarily looking for an all-new setting, you’ll still find something fun to add to your existing outdoor décor. The store also carries shade products, fountains, bird baths, candles, lanterns, pillows, and wreaths, all under one roof. Of course, with glorious cooler weather upon us, The Garden Room also offers gas fire tables!

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“Fall is the perfect time of year for gathering around a fire and chatting with family and friends,” says Erin. “There’s no smoke or smell, and getting them started is as simple as the click of a button!”

If you’re new to outdoor living, Erin and Mike can guide you in selecting high-quality products that look attractive, but that are also durable and lowmaintenance. Current favorite options among customers include powder coated aluminum furniture which is rust-proof, lightweight, and comes in a variety of styles from traditional to contemporary. All-weather wicker is also made of a high-density material that’s stronger, faderesistant and rot-resistant.

“Cast stone and all-weather rope is a hot new trend, and we can’t forget the classic teak outdoor furniture that’s been a favorite for centuries,” adds Erin. “As for what sets us apart, Mike and I believe the quality, value, and selection of the furniture we offer distinguishes us from other retailers in the community. From one-on-one consultations and in-home visits, to white glove delivery, we pride ourselves on a high level of service!”

Visiting The Garden Room is sure to inspire you to create or enhance your own outdoor oasis, and savor the beautiful surroundings of Lake Norman. The store is located at 162 N. Main Street in Mooresville, NC, 704-213-9279.

Hours are Tuesday through Saturday 10:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., and Sunday and Monday by appointment. They will be offering extended store hours as the holidays approach. Email erin@thegardenroomlkn.com to schedule an appointment, take a look at their current product galleries at thegardenroomlkn.com, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @thegardenroomlkn.

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SIMPLE SCHOOLING ROAD TRIP!

by LAURA CZERWINSKI The summer isn’t the only time for family vacations and trips! With the holidays approaching, there are many families who will be gearing up to hit the road to visit loved ones and maybe hit some other hotspots along the way!

One of the benefits of schooling at home is that you don’t have to be tied into specific dates when you want to travel. This can help with avoiding traffic, crowds and maybe even getting a better value for hotel stays.

While some families can look at this as a way to take a total break from schooling, there is an opportunity to work in some learning as a part of your journey. Here are a few ideas to get you started! (Side note: these strategies can also work for any family taking a trip - not just those who school at home.)

activities to understand what they will need. Pants or shorts? Or both? How many nights will they be staying away? Are bathing suits in order? They should also include a list of other things like chargers, books, extra blankets, postcards they can fill out to send to friends about their trip, etc.

• ●While a parent is, of course, ultimately responsible for making sure vehicles are ready to go, it’s really also a great life- lesson to share with your kids. There’s no need to wait for them to start a driver’s education course to learn the importance of checking over your car to make sure everything is in order before a road trip. Lead by example and go over a checklist of things that should be checked over for safety like tire pressure, oil and overall health of your vehicle. It might be fun to task your young learners on getting the car clean and getting their own ‘space’ in the car ready for a safe, comfy ride! On this note, it’s never a bad idea to review with kids how to react in the (hopefully unlikely) event of an accident.

• ●When you return home, have kids help unpack the car. They can sort clothes to get ready for laundry, bring in leftover snacks and put whatever they took along for fun back in its rightful place.

This step might also include cleaning up the car from any crumbs, papers, spills etc.

• Have your kids locate your destination on a map. Yes, I know it is likely that your family will be using an app on your phone or in your car for navigation, but this is a golden opportunity for kids to explore a map to get a great understanding of where they are going vs. where they live. Older students can make a list of driving directions. Ask them to include suggestions on which areas might be good to stop for a break for a meal or if you are going to pass any specific places of interest.

• Do you anticipate tolls on the trip? It’s true that many toll booths are cashless these days, but you can still encourage your kids to round up some change and organize it by denomination so that they are ready to assist if you suddenly need quick cash!

You can also ask them to keep track of what each cashless toll is so you know what to expect when your EZ Pass (or other) bill comes in the mail. Offer a fun prize for whoever comes closest to the actual amount.

• ●When you are settled, ask each child to write about their experiences. What was their favorite part? Would they want to visit again? Were there any new landscapes they saw along the way? (Mountains, lakes etc.) An alternative idea would be to have them make a collage of pictures that they cut from magazines or draw themselves that reflects these sentiments.

Having everyone in the car for hours on end may certainly make those traveling days seem long, but in a few very short years, they just may be some of your favorite memories! Involving your kids in the process can make it even more memorable for them!

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• ●Encourage your kids to make a schedule for the trip to help with time management. When are you leaving? Do you expect to encounter traffic or other delays? What time will you stop for lunch or dinner? What are the planned activities for each day?

This is also a great opportunity to help them learn about shifting things around in case things don’t go as planned when you are on your way.

• ●Have your kids make a list of things they need to pack. They can use the schedule they created in step three of all the planned *Note: ALWAYS refer to the NC laws and guidelines as shared and updated at ncadmin.nc.gov/public/home-school-information.

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MAINTAINING HEALTHY HABITS THROUGHOUT the HOLIDAYS b y K AT I E M A X E Y, R D , I B C L C

AS WE EMBARK ON THE MONTH OF NOVEMBER, THE HOLIDAY TRADITIONS AND PARTIES ARE GOING TO BEGIN. THE NEXT TWO MONTHS WILL BE FULL OF SWEET TREATS, LARGE MEALS, POTLUCKS, TRADITIONAL DISHES THAT WE GET ONCE A YEAR, CHAOTIC SCHEDULES AND BOUNCING FROM ONE PARTY TO THE NEXT. NOT TO MENTION THE NUMBER OF FOOD RELATED GIFTS THAT WE WILL RECEIVE! You may already be dreading the holiday weight gain you’ve experienced in the past. Or you may be feeling anxious about how to keep the healthy habits you’ve worked hard to achieve. If you’re looking to stay on track with your health over the next two months, here are some tips to help you maintain that commitment you’ve made.

Think of the 80/20 rule: Keep 80% of your eating on track like you have been doing the rest of the year while also allowing yourself to partake in holiday traditions! If you go into the next two months thinking you can avoid all the sweets and foods that you will be surrounded with, you will more than likely fail and then be upset with yourself. Allow yourself some grace (that’s where the 20% comes in), while also keeping some of your healthy foundations in place.

Plan ahead: If you know you have a large meal ahead of you, plan meals around it to make sure you are focusing on nutrient-rich foods at other times of the day. If you’re going to a carbohydrate-rich meal, aim for your other meals and snacks the rest of the day to be full of protein and vegetables. If it’s a potluck, be the one that brings the vegetable to have variety at the meal. Plan to succeed!

Avoid skipping meals: One of the most common mistakes I see around the holidays is skipping meals to make up for calories you know you will be consuming later. The challenge with skipping meals is that you go into the holiday party too hungry! This may cause you to binge, eat more than you realized you would and then feel guilty later. Continue eating on a regular schedule, even with a party on the calendar, to help you control intense hunger and make balanced choices.

Pay attention to your beverages: Our beverages can really add up in calories, especially sugar. If you want

to stay on track throughout the holidays, pay attention to the beverages you are drinking! Limiting alcohol, sodas, juices, and drinks with high sugar will help you balance out the additional food you are consuming at gatherings. Aim to drink more water than normal.

Maintain your exercise routine: If you’ve been consistently exercising, keep it up! Time will be more limited with parties, celebrations and shopping trips so schedule your exercise just like you would work or a party. At the beginning of each week, look at your schedule and plug in times to exercise so you will not skip it. Your mental health will also thank you!

Be mindful: When it comes to our health, being mindful is a tool all of us can use to help us stay on track. Be present in the moment. There may be a food display in front of you that looks and smells amazing but check in with your body. Take a minute to notice your hunger level and continue checking in throughout the meal. As you eat mindfully and regularly check in with how your body feels, you will notice when your body begins to feel satisfied, and the food no longer appeals to you as it first did. You then have a choice to slow down or stop eating. Let your hunger and body guide you!

You’ve worked so hard this year to create habits to improve your health! Keep them going throughout the next couple of months. Plan ahead, avoid skipping meals, pay attention to your beverages, maintain your exercise routine and be mindful and present throughout this season. But also, enjoy the season! Remember that it’s okay to eat foods you wouldn’t normally eat and that’s where the 80/20 rule helps to keep us balanced.

Allow yourself some grace and savor the moments this season, and the flavors!

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NURTURING GENERATIONAL WEALTH: PASSING ON More THAN MONEY b y ST E V E N GA L LO, C F P ® , F I N A N C I A L A DV I S O R In the realm of affluent families, securing a financial legacy is a common objective. It’s not merely about transferring wealth; it’s about imparting values, an endeavor that comes with its own set of complexities. Drawing from my experience as a financial advisor, let’s explore this vital issue.

One concern commonly voiced by affluent parents and grandparents is ensuring that their wealth doesn’t erode the values they hold dear. There’s a delicate balance between presenting opportunities and sowing entitlement. Those who successfully navigate this balance invest time in educating their heirs about financial matters—money management, investments, and the responsibilities that accompany wealth. Engaging them in family financial decisions and nurturing financial literacy can be an invaluable gift.

Unfortunately, money remains a taboo subject in many families. The absence of open dialogue about wealth, financial values, and intentions can lead to misunderstandings and disputes. Starting early and having transparent conversations within the family regarding wealth, values, and expectations is crucial. Encourage questions and active participation in these financial discussions.

Generational wealth brings about intricate tax and legal considerations. Without proper planning, a significant portion of your assets could find its way to the government instead of your intended heirs. An adept team of advisors can devise a comprehensive plan that minimizes tax implications and ensures the assets are distributed in alignment with your wishes. Regular reviews and updates to this plan as circumstances evolve are equally important. Given the complexity of generational wealth planning, seeking guidance from financial advisors and legal professionals specialized in this domain is prudent. They can design and implement a strategy tailored to your unique circumstances.

Generational wealth planning encompasses more than monetary assets—it’s about preserving your values, securing your family’s financial future, and leaving a meaningful legacy. By navigating the complexities and adopting these strategies, you can create a lasting impact that transcends your lifetime. Your generational wealth plan can serve as a pillar of strength and unity for your family, empowering them to flourish for generations to come.

“Generational wealth planning encompasses more than monetary assets—it’s about preserving your values, securing your family’s financial future, and leaving a meaningful legacy”

The information provided here is for general information only and should not be considered an individualized recommendation or personalized investment advice. The investment strategies mentioned here may not be suitable for everyone. Each investor needs to review an investment strategy for his or her own particular situation before making any investment decision.

All investing involves risk including loss of principal. No strategy assures success or protects against loss.

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C E L E B R AT E N AT I O N A L S T R E S S AWA R E N E S S D AY

by JEAN MARIE JOHNSON Okay, who knew that November 1, 2023, would be a day to celebrate stress awareness? I know – the very idea of pairing the words “celebrate” and “stress” in a sentence is unnerving. But as we all know, avoidance is rarely the key to success.

So, this year, instead of trying to ignore stress, I’ve decided to stand up to that familiar and rarely welcome companion. Here’s why: We all need to get a handle on stress.

We experience stress when we feel under pressure, overwhelmed or unable to cope. The stress response includes physical components like an elevated heart rate and blood pressure, thoughts and personal beliefs about the stressful event, and emotions, including fear and anger.

While small amounts of stress can motivate us to move toward our goals (did someone say “article deadline?”), heavy doses, or stress that is chronic, can negatively impact our mood, physical and mental well-being and our relationships. An evergrowing body of research also suggests that stress can lead to conditions such as hypertension, heart diseases, and decreased immunity that contribute to premature death. Not to mention what it does to the quality of our daily life! While we can’t completely eliminate the sources of stress from our lives, here’s the good news: We can learn to put ourselves in charge.

We each experience stress in our own way, so it’s important to understand which of these psychological or emotional signs of stress show up for you: • Depression or anxiety • Anger, irritability, or restlessness • Feeling overwhelmed, unmotivated, or unfocused • Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much • Racing thoughts or constant worry • Problems with memory or concentration • Making bad decisions I know mine. Which applies to you? Identifying your symptoms is the first step in putting yourself in charge of your stress. Next, think about what causes your stress. Your particular life challenges are often the source. These may include relationship issues, financial problems, concerns about family, job pressure or dissatisfaction, and medical conditions – just to name a few. I know that my challenges now differ considerably from what they were at other periods in my life. This is

also important to recognize because those you care about may have sources of stress that are quite unlike your own. Once you’ve homed in on your major sources of stress: Take a fresh look at specific actions you can take to lighten your stress load.

You have of course heard this before, but doing something, or doing something different is how we take charge so that the stress we experience doesn’t get the best of us. Case in point: a current source of stress for me is the health of a dear friend who lives over 750 miles away. Fretting and stressing isn’t helping me; calling her twice a week and sending a thoughtful “care package” every few weeks does. Another friend is reeling from the unexpected passing of her husband.

One way that she is handling the grief and the accompanying stress is by channeling her feelings into her writing and painting. Ultimately, the question is how can we get a handle on stress for the long haul? Here’s how: Make stress management key to how you live your life.

This is critical. You can’t afford to allow stress management to be an afterthought. A quick “how to reduce stress in your life” google search reveals 491,000,000 results. No surprise there!

Even a brief perusal suggests these key longterm actions: • Eat a healthy diet. Take a fresh look and make some positive changes.

• Exercise regularly. Start by setting small, achievable goals.

• Nix tobacco and nicotine products.

• Incorporate simple relaxation techniques.

• Set realistic goals in everything you do.

• Reduce your triggers. Ask for help, set priorities, pace yourself and reserve time for self-care.

• Say “no.” The sooner you learn to be discerning about your commitments, the better.

• Safeguard your self-esteem. Create an inner standard; not something imposed from the outside.

• Stay connected to others. Having a support system on the journey is priceless.

• Find and create opportunities for lightheartedness and laughter.

And about that deadline? I didn’t stress. I took it in bite-sized chunks and got it done!

National Stress Awareness Day encourages us to take a deep breath and embrace peace. The day is celebrated midweek on Wednesday (usually the most exhausting, stressful day) to remind us that stress management is fundamental to optimum performance.

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THE BULLYING SOLUTION: H E A LT H Y S E L F - E S T E E M

by KEITH O’NEILL Today, everyone is obsessed with bullies. Wherever you turn, someone is talking about bullying, and rightly so. According to the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, two hundred and eighty-two thousand students are physically attacked in secondary schools each month, a child is bullied every seven minutes on a playground, an adult intervenes only four percent of the time, and peers only eleven percent. Eighty-five percent of bullying on playgrounds goes ignored. In order to stop this burgeoning social dilemma, we must first understand the mechanisms that create such disturbing behavior.

Why do bullies bully? Feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, lack of confidence, and I could mention numerous other traits, but basically, it’s low selfesteem. Bullies have little or no self-esteem and they prey on the kids who also exhibit low self-esteem.

Poor self-esteem is not just the cause of bullying, it is the cause of being bullied, as well. Aye, there’s the rub. Most parents I talk with believe that bullies are the sole cause of bullying and that is not the case.

This is why looking to authority figures for the cure isn’t working and parents are growing increasingly frustrated, anxious and angry.

Therefore, we need to rethink the concept that bullying, in and of itself, is the problem, because the core issue behind bullying isn’t bullying, it is the lack of self-esteem in our culture. While the hue and cry is to stop the bullies, the solution to stopping bullying must also involve the children who allow themselves to be bullied. The deeper issue behind bullying is the deterioration of a sense of self-worth, in our youth. That is the problem, it has become all pervasive and no one can do anything about it except us, the parents, caregivers and teachers.

Poor self-esteem in children has reached epidemic proportions and some saw it coming. The results of a study published in Aggressive Behavior, in July 2001 indicated that “high self-esteem protects children and adolescents from involvement in bullying. Thus, it is recommended that top priority be given by parents and teachers to preventing and reducing feelings of poor self-worth among children and adolescents.”

That was true then, and it is true today. When a child has good self-esteem, the bullies can’t get to them mentally, they won’t allow it.

The need for a child in today’s society to develop high self-esteem early on in life, has become self-evident.

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Of course, the importance of helping children develop healthy self esteem when they are very young has always been important. Today, it is critical. Helping children develop healthy self-esteem is an important job and is the greatest gift a parent can give, because it will truly last a lifetime.

I cannot emphasize this enough, because bullying isn’t the only distressing result of sending children, who don’t love themselves, into hostile, aggressive arenas, nor is it the most pernicious. According to the American Psychological Society, “Low selfesteem during adolescence predicts poor health, criminal behavior, and limited economic prospects during adulthood.”

Children with poor self-esteem are more likely to become depressed. One of the saddest statistics that I have ever come across was issued by the Centers for Disease control - suicide is the third leading cause of death, behind accidents and homicide, of people aged fifteen to twenty-four. Even more disturbing, is the fact that suicide is the fourth leading cause of death in children between the ages of ten and fourteen.

It’s an indisputable fact that how children will feel about themselves, for the rest of their lives, depends on how their parents interact with them, when they are very young. Between birth and kindergarten, a child’s mind is like a sponge, it absorbs everything. During this critical period of development, a child’s mind is also very literal, it believes everything it hears. Before children reach the age of five, the majority of their selfimage has been formed. It is during this developmental phase that their core, inner feelings about themselves are developed. These ingrained feelings will manifest themselves externally as adults, in the choices they will make, throughout their lives. Adult therapy, in essence, is the reprogramming of the insecure child inside us.

Helping children develop healthy self-esteem cannot begin too early and it must be done by the parents, in the home environment.

Punishing bullies won’t stop bullying, and will not quell their desire for attention, which undesirable behavior gets them a lot of attention. Raising your own children’s self-esteem will minimize the effects bullying can have on their young minds. When children have high self-esteem, then bullying, jealousy and prejudice is minimized and prepares them for the trials and tribulation that life brings to everyone.

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EMPOWERING SMALL BUSINESSES:

THE IMPACT OF BLACK FRIDAY

by QUINN BARKER Black Friday, the day following Thanksgiving, has long been synonymous with blockbuster deals and bustling retail stores. While large retailers often take the spotlight during this annual shopping extravaganza, small businesses also stand to gain significant benefits. LKN Magazine explores the advantages of Black Friday for small businesses and emphasizes their importance during this critical shopping event.

Innovation and Diversity Small businesses often bring innovation and diversity to the market. On Black Friday, they have the chance to showcase their unique products, handmade crafts, and locally sourced goods. This diversity adds richness to the overall shopping experience and allows customers to discover new and interesting items.

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Community Development Small businesses are deeply connected to the communities they serve.

Their success on Black Friday has a ripple effect, positively influencing the overall health and development of the community. By thriving during this key shopping event, small businesses can contribute to community programs, sponsor local events, and support charitable initiatives.

Black Friday, which typically marks the beginning of the holiday shopping season, is an opportunity for small businesses to boost sales and increase visibility. Although retail giants often dominate the headlines, small businesses play a vital role in this consumer-driven event. They bring a sense of community, personalized service, and unique offerings that often set them apart from larger corporations.

Increased Foot Traffic and Sales Black Friday is a day when consumers actively seek out deals and discounts. Small businesses can attract a surge of customers by offering competitive deals, promotions, and special discounts. This increased foot traffic often leads to higher sales, allowing small businesses to end the year on a strong financial note.

Community Engagement and Brand Loyalty Small businesses are deeply ingrained within their communities. Black Friday provides an opportunity for these businesses to strengthen their bonds with local customers. Through exclusive promotions and personalized service, small businesses can enhance brand loyalty and establish long-term relationships with their clientele.

Visibility and Exposure Black Friday generates a massive amount of media coverage and advertising. Small businesses can capitalize on this by strategically promoting their sales and events, increasing their visibility to a broader audience. This exposure can have lasting effects beyond Black Friday, bringing in new customers and creating a buzz around the business.

Diverse Product Offerings and Unique Shopping Experience Small businesses often offer distinctive and curated product selections that cater to various tastes and preferences. Shoppers looking for unique, one-of-a-kind gifts are drawn to the diverse offerings of small businesses. The personalized shopping experience that small businesses provide can make Black Friday shopping more enjoyable and memorable for customers.

Stimulating Local Economies When consumers choose to support small businesses on Black Friday, they contribute directly to their local economies. A significant portion of the money spent at small businesses stays within the community, helping to create jobs, support families, and sustain the local infrastructure.

I M P O R TA N C E O F S M A L L B U S I N E S S E S O N B L A C K F R I D AY Job Creation and Economic Growth Small businesses are vital engines of job creation and economic growth.

By actively participating in Black Friday and capitalizing on the influx of customers, small businesses can bolster their revenue and potentially hire additional staff to meet the heightened demand.

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Black Friday is an opportune moment for small businesses to shine.

By offering attractive deals, fostering community engagement, and providing unique shopping experiences, small businesses can capitalize on this high-traffic shopping day. Supporting small businesses on Black Friday is not only an excellent way to find distinctive gifts, but also a means to contribute to local economies and foster a sense of community and inclusivity.

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LOVING VETERANS & THEIR FAMILIES

by MARTIE EMORY

As president and co-founder of Love Our Veterans, Inc. (L.O.V. for short), Kevin Popko, is always excited to report that the 501(c) (3) he started with a mission of hope and encouragement for local Veterans in need, recently celebrated their one-year anniversary of operations. After a grand opening in July of 2022, they also exceeded their goals for year one!

You’ll find everything from home décor, holiday décor, kitchen accessories, appliances (large and small) and furniture, to sports equipment, tools, TVs and electronics, shoes, and men’s and women’s clothing. People are pleasantly surprised when they first come in, not knowing how spacious the store is! The thrift store is located in Denver/Maiden on the Lincoln/ Catawba county line.

Kevin also shares that support from the LKN community has been incredible.

“Within our first year of operating we have helped, in some form or fashion, 21 Veterans. Our goal was 12. We have exceeded all expectations because of the community support, which includes our humble staff of volunteers who give the most important commodity in life — their time!”

The mission operates L.O.V. Thrift Store to generate funding to help local veterans in need. Kevin (a former U.S. Marine Corps Sniper and a Veteran with a passion for service) and his wife and co-founder, Gini, live on Lake Norman with their children, Kevin’s mother, and their dogs, having relocated here from the D.C. area in 2005.

Also much appreciated are the folks who deliver the items, and the shoppers who buy these items. There’s also enthusiastic support from local and corporate businesses, and L.O.V. has also partnered with several other nonprofits with similar goals.

After being laid off from his career as a sales manager after Covid and supply chain issues, Kevin volunteered at ELCM (East Lincoln Christian Ministries) and loved the work. That’s when his wife and mother stepped in, saying “You love what you do at ELCM — maybe you should start your own charity for Vets!”

“Hearing that from the two most important women in my life inspired me to say- GAME ON!” Fast forward a few months and Love Our Veterans was born. “Gini and I are cofounders and run the store together with help from many,” says Kevin. “We accept almost anything which is why we’ve been very successful. We shy away from kids and baby toys/clothes, blinds, beds (frames, mattresses, headboards) ceiling fans and treadmills. The store has 6,000-square-feet of items donated to help Veterans.”

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“We’re not a national group like Wounded Warriors,” he says. “I’m focused on Lincoln, Catawba, and Iredell counties, as well as some in Mecklenburg. Veterans who need assistance should come by the store to fill out an application.

“People in the community will bring donations to the store, and we’re going to clean them up, fix what needs fixing, test it, and then put it out on the showroom floor to resell to the public at a great price. One hundred percent of all profits from our sales will go directly to Lake Norman area Veterans.”

L.O.V. Thrift Store is located at 6012-A Hwy. 16 in Denver, NC, next to Untouchables and Dollar General. Visit soon, follow them on Facebook for updates, or for more information and volunteer opportunities, call 704-966-0174. Thrift store hours are Tuesday through Friday 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., and Saturday 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Volunteers are especially needed on Tuesdays and Fridays!

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GRACE NUTRITION

INSPIRING LIFE-LONG WELLNESS Stop by Grace Nutrition in Mooresville, and you’ll likely see owner Amanda Rock’s young daughter enjoying a healthy shake of her own. She’s been the adorable mascot of her mom’s dream business since it opened in June 2020.

It all began following Amanda’s own health journey to lose over 60 pounds, which inspired her to launch her health and wellness coaching business 10 years ago.

“I wanted to help others feel their best and offer them guidance on how to do it,” shares Amanda, whose social work background blends well with a love for helping people.

more specials coming out for the holiday season including our popular Jack Frost Mega Tea and Olaf shake!”

You’ll also be tempted by their energy teas — where Mermaid Water (a pineapple, blue blast flavor) and Captain America (a tart mix, with blue blast, rainbow candy, and pomegranate) are top choices! And, with the fall weather, the Autumn Lemonade, Cran-Margarita, and Peach Pear Sangria are popular. At Grace you’ll also find meal replacement protein shakes with 21 essential vitamins and minerals, plus a minimum 24 grams of protein, as well as post-workout shakes and a variety of vitality shots.

As a mom, Amanda also loves offering kids’ protein shakes!

“I found that weight loss and being healthy is a mental struggle for many people. My background gave me an “They think they’re drinking a milkshake, but they are getting edge to be able to support them on their healthy journey.” 21 essential vitamins and minerals, and 18 grams of plantpowered protein.”

Amanda opened Grace Nutrition with a goal of providing a positive space for people to come enjoy a quick, healthy Besides a delicious shake or favorite tea, customers visit Grace option for breakfast, lunch, or after a workout.

Nutrition for wellness coaching, weight loss inspiration, and the chance to make a new friend or two.

“I want them to have positive conversations with exceptional customer service — and smiles!” says “It’s our priority to make sure everyone feels welcome!” adds Amanda. “Building a business to help people, and have Amanda. “We want to greet everyone as they walk in the door, my kids be part of that, has meant everything to me. Our and hear about their day. We’ve gotten to know a lot of customers hours allow me time to take my older daughter to school very well, we know their orders, and all about their families. I think and pick her up in the afternoon. She’s the reason I that’s something special about Grace!” started my business in the first place — to spend more time with her.”

If you’re dashing in for a quick lunch (try online ordering through their app!), bringing your kids by for healthy hydration before a Amanda grew up in a small town in Vermont, and when big game, seeking a vitality shot to boost your immune system, or she and her oldest daughter moved to Mooresville, just an extra dash of energy for the afternoon, you’ll leave on an she wanted a way to connect to people in her new upbeat note to finish the day! community. Now, she has two girls plus two stepdaughters — all volleyball players in Mooresville who fuel their active lifestyles with Grace Nutrition!

“I wanted to be able to show my girls, and other women, that you can be a present mom, and also be successful in the business world, if that’s what you want!”

The philosophy of Grace Nutrition is simple: Every person must find what works best for their body.

Instead of cutting out certain food groups entirely, Amanda teaches that fueling our bodies with what makes us feel good and energizes us, is the key.

“My goal for myself and my customers is life-long wellness,” she adds. “Carbs, fats, protein — it’s all an important part of your daily diet. I also believe it’s important to have someone in your corner helping and guiding you — and that’s what we offer at Grace!”

Grace Nutrition is also big on flavor! Brownie Batter and Peanut Butter Oreo have been my favorite protein shakes since the shop opened, with Pineapple Mango and Orange Creamsicle taking center stage during the warmer summer months.

Grace Nutrition is located at 2785 Charlotte Highway in Mooresville, NC, 802-345-9229. Open Monday through Friday 8:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m., and Saturday 8:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m., they deliver to offices, schools, and neighborhoods with “Right now we have our fall menu in full swing, offering a minimum purchase. Grace Nutrition serves your favorite Pumpkin Cheesecake, Apple Pie, Caramel Apple, shakes and teas using Herbalife Nutrition — follow them on and Banana Nut Bread,” says Amanda. “We will have Instagram @gracenutrition704 to learn more.

by MARTIE EMORY

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Invitation to an

O l d -Fa s h i o n e d Christmas Bazaar

by NANETTE BENNETT As a child, I eagerly anticipated our annual visits to the Christmas bazaars at the local churches with my mother. Those cherished memories were soon passed down to my own children, who excitedly planned how they would spend their allowances. It was a time for us to select special gifts for dear friends, explore the handcrafted treasures of local artisans, choose delicious baked goods to savor at home, share a BBQ chicken lunch with friends and neighbors, and bask in the heartwarming aroma of cinnamon, all while being serenaded by the sweet sounds of holiday music. What made it even more special was the knowledge that the proceeds from these events always went to support a deserving charity.

On December 9th, we invite you, your family, and friends to join us at Bethel Presbyterian Church of Cornelius for an old-fashioned Christmas Bazaar. This is an opportunity to relive the joys of Christmases past while supporting the Children’s Hope Alliance, formerly known as Barium Springs Orphanage. Christmas, after all, is a season of giving, a time to celebrate Jesus, who was the greatest gift to the world.

For over a century, Bethel Presbyterian Church has been a steadfast supporter of The Children’s Hope Alliance, even during the challenging days of the Great Depression. Now, we aim to expand our support with the help of our community. We extend an open invitation for you to bring your family and immerse yourselves in the festive atmosphere of our bazaar, savor a delicious lunch, and explore a variety of delightful shopping opportunities.

Among the treasures waiting to be discovered are an array of baked goods, exquisite crafts, fine woodworking, charming pottery, cozy quilts, hand-sewn kitchen crafts, unique personalized gifts, captivating stained glass, beautiful steppingstone art, handmade cards, exquisite jewelry, captivating paintings, and so much more. For lunch, we are delighted to announce that Port-a-Pit Chicken of Statesville will be providing mouthwatering meals for those with pre-sold tickets.

E V E N T D E TA I L S D AT E : Saturday, December 9th T I M E : 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM P O R T - A - P I T L U N C H H O U R S : 11:30 AM – 2:00 PM A D D R E S S : 19920 Bethel Church Road, Cornelius, NC E N T R A N C E : Located in the back parking lot across from the graveyard To secure your tickets, please reach out to the church website at Bethelpc.online, call (704) 892-0546, or contact any of our church members. Extra chicken meals will be available on a first-come, first-served basis, so be sure to get yours while they last.

If you are interested in becoming a vendor, please contact Margie Persons at ke4ywo@aol.com.

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CHICKEN TORTILLA SOUP: PERFECT FOR A CHILLY NOVEMBER DAY! b y TA N N E R J O H N S O N Now that November has rolled around, the temperatures are dropping more and more, and there’s not much better than warm stews and soups for this time of year.

I’ll give you guys a break from all of the turkey recipes for something a lot more flavorful in my opinion! This soup is really easy to make, very versatile in what toppings you can add to it and what you can serve it with. It is now on our regular rotation for soup season.

INGREDIENTS: (FOR SERVING 4 P E O P L E O R 2 W/ L E F TO V E R S ) • 2 Chicken Breasts (boneless) • 1 can crushed tomatoes • 1 box (32oz) Chicken Broth • 1 can Black Beans (drained and rinsed) • 1 can of corn (drained and rinsed) • 1 small can of hatch green chiles • 1 red (or any color) bell pepper (diced) • 1 tbsp Olive Oil • 1 (or ½) chopped white onion • 2 tbsp minced garlic • 1 (de-seeded & diced) jalapeno • ½ Cup chopped cilantro • Juice of 1 lime • 1 packet of taco seasoning of your choice (I use Fire & Smoke Society taco seasoning) • Salt to taste INSTRUCTIONS: • Heat dutch oven or a large pot over medium/high heat • Add Onion, Garlic, all of the peppers/ chiles. Cook and stir often until softened and onion is translucent

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• Add chicken breasts, corn, beans, tomatoes, taco seasoning, salt, half of the cilantro, & chicken broth • Bring to a light boil, then simmer for about 25-30 minutes • Take chicken out, shred up with two forks, or utensil of choice. Add chicken back into the pot and let it cook for another 5 minutes at medium heat • Serve soup in a bowl with your favorite toppings! You can’t go wrong with some fresh avocado slices, jalapenos, some shredded cheddar cheese and then the other half of the cilantro for garnish. Tortilla strips or tortilla chips are a good option for some crunch too.

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SHOP LOCAL GIFT GUIDE Within the heart of Lake Norman, our local retailers have fully embraced the essence of this exceptional community. They've not just adapted but innovated, transforming small-scale shopping into an extraordinary experience. If you seek holiday shopping that effortlessly combines the thrill of discovery with the satisfaction of supporting your neighbors, Lake Norman's local gems hold the key.

Explore the Exceptional: The true beauty of shopping local here lies in the opportunity to discover a wide array of unique and handpicked products and services. These local businesses have painstakingly curated their offerings, injecting a personal touch into everything they do. When you step into their stores, you're not merely another face in the crowd; you're a cherished member of the community.

Investing in Community: Shopping local in Lake Norman goes beyond transactions; it's an investment in our community, your community. When you patronize these local establishments, you're backing your neighbors. Over time, they become friends, and in a world where corporate giants reign, your choice to shop local echoes resoundingly.

Community-First Philosophy: Local businesses are deeply rooted in our community.

They sponsor local events, champion youth sports, and actively engage in neighborhood initiatives. Your choice to shop local ensures that these philanthropic efforts continue, benefiting the entirety of Lake Norman.

Personalized Experiences: There's an undeniable magic in the personal touch of local businesses. The shop owner who knows your name, the warm greetings from shopkeepers, and salespeople offering tailored recommendations – these experiences aren't available online. In Lake Norman, these moments aren't just part of the shopping experience; they're an integral part of daily life.

Your Impact, Our Legacy: Every purchase you make in Lake Norman can make a profound difference. When you shop local, you contribute to the unique character of our community. Your support helps maintain the spirit of Lake Norman, ensuring it remains a place where small businesses thrive, and neighbors evolve into cherished friends.

So, as you prepare for your holiday shopping or any other retail needs, remember the influence your choices can have on the Lake Norman community. Choose to shop small, shop local, and support your community. Lake Norman isn't just a location; it's a thriving community, and by shopping local, you play an essential role in its ongoing success and enduring allure.

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HOME DECOR GIFTS & PERZONALIZED ITEMS SW E E TG R AS S B O U T I Q U E

PETITE POP NECKLACES

JUELERYE | ARTISAN GALLERY & GIFTS Radiate Everyday Elegance. Discover the allure of our Petite Pop Necklaces at Juelerye | Artisan Gallery & Gifts. These dainty, luminous adornments are designed to brighten your day and enchant your nights. Imagine wearing a delicate, natural sparkle that's akin to an ethereal dusting of stardust on a moonlit evening. Available in an array of enchanting gemstones, these necklaces are the epitome of everyday elegance. Step into our gallery, and you'll embark on a journey of curiosity that leads to absolute delight. Located at 112 S. Main St. Mooresville, Juelerye | Artisan Gallery & Gifts boasts an exquisite selection of fine jewelry from various skilled artisans, ensuring that you'll find the perfect piece for any occasion. Let us help you illuminate your world with our Petite Pop Necklaces and an extraordinary collection of jewelry. Experience the magic of artisan craftsmanship and find the perfect gift that will truly "Make Spirits Bright" this season. Explore our offerings at juelerye.com today.

Discover the Joy of Hand-Crafted Gifts at Sweet Grass Boutique! The holidays are all about the magic of giving, and Sweet Grass has you covered with an array of hand-crafted gifts in various shapes and sizes for every occasion. Whether you're searching for the perfect holiday hostess gift or a unique find for the men in your life, our store offers an incredible selection at various price points.

We take pride in showcasing locally owned businesses and vendors, spreading festive cheer, and creating lasting holiday memories with cherished gifts. Happy Holidays from the Sweet Grass team! Find us at 146 Mooresville Commons Way, Suite H in Mooresville, NC, or call 704.663.5878. #HandCraftedGifts #HolidayMagic #SweetGrassBoutique

WINTER W H I M S E Y W R E AT H S THE GARDEN ROOM

Embrace the Holidays with Winter Whimsy Wreaths from The Garden Room! Nothing says 'Welcome' like a natural arrangement of festive foliage adorning your front door. Our Winter Whimsy Wreath, a fragrant ensemble of freshly harvested cedars, playful cypress, and vibrant magnolia leaves, creates a warm and inviting atmosphere. Featuring Gerbera flowers, cardinal red aveena, and natural pinecones, these wreaths extend a heartfelt greeting to all who visit. Available in various sizes, the 24" wreath is priced at $175. Visit The Garden Room at 162 N. Main Street, Mooresville, and explore our range of other Holiday Wreath styles. Spread holiday cheer with nature's elegance! #HolidayDecor #TheGardenRoom

LEATHER FIELD COAT HAMPTON'S

Experience ultimate luxury with the Leather Field Coat by Suprema, meticulously crafted in Italy from the finest leather. This masterpiece boasts a subtle insulation for comfort, a cozy flannel lining, and a shearling collar, elevating the art of outerwear. In an exclusive olive hue, custommade for Hampton's at 138 N Main St, Mooresville, NC 28115, this coat is a timeless fashion statement. It exudes an air of sophistication that's destined to be cherished for generations. A perfect fusion of style and substance, this jacket promises to keep you warm and fashionable, making it a superb gift choice for those who appreciate enduring elegance. Hamptonsmen.com #LuxuryFashion #TimelessStyle #HamptonsFashion #LeatherCoat

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JUELERYE | ARTISAN GALLERY & GIFTS Celebrate the Holidays with Artistry.

Embrace the holiday spirit with the art of giving at Juelerye | Artisan Gallery & Gifts.

There's no better way to express your love and appreciation than through the beauty of handcrafted glass fused and kiln-fired Christmas trees. These exquisite creations not only add a touch of elegance to any home but also become cherished gifts that warm the hearts of your loved ones.

'Tis the season to go beyond the ordinary and choose something that's both meaningful and memorable. Discover these stunning glass masterpieces and more at Juelerye | Artisan Gallery & Gifts, nestled in the heart of Downtown Mooresville, at 112 S. Main Street. Make this holiday season unforgettable with our carefully curated treasures that are sure to make spirits bright.

Visit us at juelerye.com and experience the magic of artisanal gifting today.

A Taste of Local Sweetness. Indulge in the delectable goodness of local honey with Bees of Lake Norman Honey.

Our industrious bees tirelessly gather nectar from the thriving flora along the picturesque shores of Lake Norman, crafting a honey that's as pure and delightful as the region itself. This unique gift offers more than just a jar of honey; it delivers a slice of the local landscape.

Whether savored on its own or used to elevate your favorite drinks and dishes, our honey is a versatile delight. It's the perfect accompaniment to your morning tea, a sweet touch to your culinary creations, or a thoughtful addition to your next charcuterie board. Bees of Lake Norman Honey is available in convenient squeeze bottles and elegant one- and two-pound glass jars, making it a perfect fit for any occasion. Bring the essence of Lake Norman to your table by ordering your honey today at BeesOfLakeNorman.com.

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JULIE VOS JEWELRY COCO COUTURE

Elevate Your Holiday Style at CoCo Couture LKN. Immerse yourself in the enchantment of the season at our Cornelius boutique! If you're seeking to adorn yourself or that special lady in your life with the allure of Julie Vos jewelry, look no further. CoCo Couture offers an exquisite collection that seamlessly blends Southern charm with radiant elegance, infusing merriment and radiance into your festivities.

Discover the spirit of the holidays with a visit to our boutique, where you'll find a treasure trove of gift ideas to delight your loved ones.

Whether you're in search of the perfect present or a little indulgence for yourself, we have you covered. You can visit us at 19818 N. Cove Rd Suite B, Cornelius, NC. From our CoCo Couture family to yours, we wish you a season brimming with happiness and joy. Explore our dazzling collection at cococouture.com and let us add sparkle to your holidays. #HolidayElegance #CoCoCoutureLKN #JulieVosJewelry #SeasonsGreetings

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LKN PATIO & GAME ROOMS Elevate your holiday gatherings with LKN Patio! Gather around the exquisite 8-foot Kruger pool table by Presidential Billiards and make your home the ultimate holiday hotspot.

Priced at $2799, it's a gift that keeps on giving. Visit LKN Patio at 847 Brawley School Road, Mooresville, or call (704) 660.0527.

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Radiate Everyday Elegance. Discover the Discover the magic of the season at Bliss by the Lake Boutique! Experience 'Merry and Bright' in every thoughtful gift you choose for the special lady in your life. Wrap her in warmth with scarves, adorn her with stunning jewelry, and make her winter radiant with our charming accessories. Tis the Season to find the perfect outfit for your holiday soirées!

When you're uncertain, our gift certificates are sure to spread joy. We can't wait to welcome you! Happy Holidays from the Bliss by the Lake Boutique team. Join us at 126 Mooresville Way, Suite C, Mooresville, or explore our treasures at blissbythelakeboutique.com.

Step into exceptional style with the 601 Desert Boot by Jacket Required. Expertly designed by Tyler Hampton and crafted exclusively for Hampton's in Italy, these boots channel the timeless elegance of Steve McQueen's classic chukka boots. With its effortless slip-on design, the 601 Desert Boot offers a perfect blend of sophistication and comfort. Supple suedes, available in a plethora of colors, adorn your feet in style.

The memory gel footbed ensures every step is a cushioned delight. These boots are destined to become your new favorites.

Discover this fusion of classic and modern at Hampton's, located at 138 N Main St, Mooresville, NC 28115, and elevate your footwear game. Hamptonsmen.com #DesertBoots #ClassicStyle #HamptonsFashion #ItalianCraftsmanship

DESIGNER TEXTILES MODERN FABRICS

Elevate your home for the holidays with Modern Fabrics! Whether it's revamping your dining chairs, crafting tablecloths, drapes, or creating custom pillows, we have the fabrics you need to make your space shine.

Throughout November and December, enjoy 30-40% off everything (pillow inserts excluded). Don't forget to explore our gift certificates for the fabric enthusiast in your life. Visit our store at 15435 Highway 73 in Huntersville or call 704.740.9676. Discover more at modern-fabrics.com. #HolidayHomeDecor #FabricCrafting #ModernFabrics

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Transform your home into the ultimate holiday destination with LKN Patio! Unveil the joy of entertaining with our 5-piece Surfboard Bar set, priced at $2299 and backed by a lifetime warranty. Available in all colors, this is the perfect gift for the host or hostess in your life.

Visit LKN Patio at 847 Brawley School Road, Mooresville, or call (704) 660.0527. Explore more at lknpatio.com.

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C E L E B R AT I O N S

C O N G R AT U L AT I O N S ! Harper Lavoie, from Denver, NC has been newly crowned 2023 Wee Miss NC Southern Regal. Additionally, she proudly holds the Toddler Miss title for Little Miss/Teen Miss NC 2023. Harper has now achieved two of North Carolina’s most precious titles for her age! #HarperRoyalty #PageantChampion

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C H E E R S T O L O V E , L A U G H T E R , A N D F O R E V E R A F T E R ! Hagen and Steven Wilson tied the knot on September 30, 2023. They would like to wish a B I G thank you to their amazing vendors: Photos by Tela Holden, The Kinsleeshop Farm, Wildflowers Floral Design, Family Catering Service, Side Bar Trailer Company, White Bouncy House, Balloons By Kim, Oil Painting Artist Amy Queen, and DJ Ice Productions!

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ONE MAN’S PERSPECTIVE

ONE MAN’S PERSPECTIVE: MEMORY 1952

by CHARLIE SCHULER

CAN YOU REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED IN 1952? I’M SURE THAT SOME OF Y’ALL WERE NOT EVEN BORN. FOR ME, IT HAPPENED WHEN SOMEONE SAID, “THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.”

My mind went back in time. The Korean War was in full swing. The draft was very active and getting close to me. I graduated from high school early and was working as a file clerk. This was a necessity because my mother needed money to keep the house.

system. So, we all had to learn what they call “Kentucky windage”.

This is where you had to find your target and aim in front of it so when you pulled the trigger the bullet and the target would arrive together at the same place at the same time.

I loved airplanes and I had models everywhere. I even majored in Aeronautical Maintenance in high school. And I wanted to defend our country. When I turned 18, I told my mother I was going to join the United States Air Force, and I would set up an allotment so she would receive money each month.

Meanwhile, the bombardiers got their practice dropping bombs on practice targets. We flew flights over an area set aside for practice bombs to be dropped. They brought us by truck to an area in the Sierra Mountains and each of us was given a knife, a parachute, and a slice of beef. We were told we had nine days to get to a safe location.

Survive and make your way without getting caught by the aggressors.

The woods were full of them, and they were looking for us. We also had certain things that had to be done along the way, such as building a tent out of the parachute, making jerky, and clearing an area for a helicopter pickup. We all found it helpful to make a sleeping bag out of the nylon parachute. This was needed on those cold nights.

After seeing the recruitment officer, he had me report to a bus that took me to Sampson Air Force base in upstate New York where I was sworn in on April 26, 1952. Since I was only a high school graduate, I knew I didn’t have enough education to be a pilot, but I still wanted to fly.

I met Bob S. who became my best friend, and we went through basic training together. When we graduated, we were both sent to continue training at Lowry Air Force base in Denver, Colorado. Here we learned all about electric motors and general mechanics. Many hours were spent on the mechanics of gunnery systems. After nine months we were assigned to various functions where our schooling would continue. I was assigned to gunnery on B-29s located at Topeka Air Force Base in Topeka, Kansas. Our education continued going into the mechanics of the 50 caliber machine guns and the systems of the B-29.

This was very thorough with most of the instruction’s hands-on. This also included all kinds of shooting. For instance, air-to-air shooting at drones towed by aircraft, shooting at attacking fighters with a camera, shooting skeet on the ground, and even shooting the 45-caliber pistol which would be issued when flying over enemy territory.

I remember the instructors saying that the jet fighters were being used more often and they were flying faster than our electric sighting

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We killed one porcupine along the way. We boiled him for five hours and we ate him. Not too much when you divide it by ten men. I think I lost ten pounds on the trek. But when we made it to safety, they fed us the best steak dinner I ever had. Maybe I was just hungry.

We were what they called “Combat Ready” and looking for our next assignment. We were very well trained. At this point I say, “Thank God”. The war ended, I was never shot at, I was reassigned to Lincoln Air Force base as a Loadmaster and Boom Operator on KC-97s refueling B-47s at 30,000 feet. The training continued.

It is important to remember that the Korean War started on June 25, 1950, when North Korea advanced into South Korea and ended five years later on July 27, 1953. This is the 70th anniversary.

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Carvers Creek State Park

by ROBIN SHUPE KELLER “Nature is the source of all true knowledge.”

- LEONARDO DA VINCI Carvers Creek State Park, nestled in the heart of North Carolina, is a true haven for nature enthusiasts and history buffs alike. This sprawling 4,530-acre natural wonderland offers a glimpse into the region’s diverse ecosystem while preserving the historical legacy of the Rockefeller family. From serene lakes to lush forests, this park beckons visitors to embrace the beauty of the outdoors while delving into the fascinating past of its landscape.

Hiking and Trails Carvers Creek State Park offers a network of wellmaintained trails, providing ample opportunities for hiking and exploration. Whether you’re a novice hiker or an experienced trekker, the park offers trails of varying difficulty levels.

The Rockefeller Loop Trail is a popular choice, winding through the forested landscape, offering glimpses of the estate’s historical remnants and the shimmering McLauchlin Lake.

Once the private estate of the prominent Rockefeller family, this land has transformed into a public state park, preserving the legacy of one of America’s wealthiest families. The property was purchased by James Stillman Rockefeller in the early 20th century and served as a rural retreat. Over the years, the family developed the estate, creating a reservoir and a picturesque garden, known as the Formal Garden. After being donated to the state of North Carolina, it was designated as Carvers Creek State Park and opened to the public in 2013, allowing everyone to appreciate its natural and historical significance.

AT THE END OF THE DAY

“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.” – E . B .W H I T E As the day comes to a close at Carvers Creek State Park, visitors often find solace in the tranquility of the park. The setting sun casts a warm glow on the landscape, creating a serene ambiance.

Hikers make their way back from the trails, and families gather at the picnic areas to share stories and enjoy a peaceful evening. The symphony of nature’s sounds and the breathtaking views ensure a memorable end to the day.

The main access point for Carvers Creek State Park is the Long Valley Farm location at 2505 Long Valley Road in Spring Lake. This location of the park is filled with cypress trees, sandy paths, and the endangered red-cockaded woodpecker! At the Long Valley Farm access point, hikers will also find the park office, a welcome center, and restrooms.

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“A walk in nature walks the soul back home.”

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Formal Garden A key highlight of Carvers Creek State Park is the meticulously preserved Formal Garden, a beautiful showcase of horticultural artistry. Visitors can wander through this elegantly designed garden, adorned with fountains, terraces, and blooming flowers, offering a glimpse into the opulent lifestyle of the Rockefeller family.

Historical Structures The estate is home to historical structures like the Rockefeller House, where James and Mary Rockefeller once resided. This structure is a portal to the past, allowing visitors to step back in time and understand the lifestyle of the family during their ownership of the estate.

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The Long Valley Farm access is the formal park entrance, but we found that the Sandhills access, at 995 McCloskey Road, Fayetteville, actually has longer trails that are quite different from Long Valley Farm. Here, you’ll find yourself shrouded by longleaf pines and out of the sun. The trails are more narrow and wind through the forest giving an enchanted vibe. This portion of the park also allows for horseback riding. There are basic restrooms available at this access point.

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Fishing and Boating McLauchlin Lake, the centerpiece of the park, is a haven for fishing enthusiasts. Anglers can cast their lines to catch a variety of fish, creating a serene and meditative experience. Additionally, nonmotorized boating is allowed on the lake, making it an ideal spot for kayaking or canoeing.

Picnicking and Relaxation Numerous designated picnic areas are scattered throughout the park, providing the perfect setting for a relaxed outdoor meal with family and friends.

Visitors can also enjoy a peaceful day of reading, sketching, or simply soaking up the sun in the designated leisure areas.

Carvers Creek State Park stands as a testament to the delicate balance between preserving historical heritage and embracing the natural world. From the grandeur of the Formal Garden to the simplicity of a lakeside picnic, this park invites all to appreciate the beauty of North Carolina’s landscapes and the rich tapestry of its history. A visit to this unique state park promises a day of exploration, learning, and serenity in the embrace of nature’s wonders.

Carvers Creek State Park has two entrances; the Long Valley Farm Access is located at 2505 Long Valley Road, Spring Lake, NC 28390, and the Sandhills Access entrance is located at 995 McCloskey Road, Fayetteville, NC 28311. Hours of operation in November and December are 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. For more information email the park office at carvers.creek@ncparks.gov or call 910-436-4681.

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THE U.S. DAYLIGHT SAVING TIME DEBATE: BALANCING THE CLOCK

by QUINN BARKER Daylight Saving Time (DST) has been a topic of debate for many years. This practice involves adjusting clocks forward by one hour during the warmer months and reverting to standard time during the colder months. Proponents argue that DST saves energy and promotes outdoor activities, while opponents cite health and safety concerns. This article delves into the history, arguments, and implications of the Daylight Saving Time debate.

H I S T O R Y O F D AY L I G H T S A V I N G T I M E Daylight Saving Time was first introduced during World War I as a way to conserve energy. The idea was to make better use of daylight during longer days, reducing the need for artificial lighting and ultimately saving resources. However, this practice wasn't uniformly adopted until the 1960s.

The Uniform Time Act of 1966 standardized DST across the country, but it allowed individual states to opt out. Since then, various states have alternated between observing DST and standard time, creating a patchwork system across the nation.

ARGUMENTS IN FAVOR OF DAYLIGHT SAVING TIME • Energy Conservation: Proponents argue that Daylight Saving Time helps in energy conservation by reducing the need for artificial lighting during the longer days of summer.

This leads to a decrease in electricity usage, contributing to energy savings and reducing the strain on the power grid.

• Promotes Outdoor Activities: DST encourages outdoor activities as people have an extra hour of daylight in the evening. This can boost tourism, retail sales, and recreational activities, benefiting the economy and overall well-being of the population.

• Reduced Traffic Accidents: Some studies suggest that DST can lead to a reduction in traffic accidents due to better visibility during the evening commute. This is particularly important for safety on the roads.

A R G U M E N T S A G A I N S T D AY L I G H T S AV I N G T I M E • Health Concerns: Critics argue that the bi-annual time change disrupts individuals' sleep patterns and can negatively impact health. The abrupt adjustment can cause sleep deprivation and affect mood, productivity, and overall well-being.

• Adverse Impact on Circadian Rhythms: The time change can disrupt circadian rhythms, leading to difficulties in adjusting to the new schedule. This disruption can be especially challenging for children, the elderly, and individuals with pre-existing health conditions.

• Economic Disruptions: The time change can also lead to economic disruptions, affecting businesses and the stock market due to confusion and a potential decrease in productivity during the transition period.

C U R R E N T S TAT E O F T H E D E B AT E In recent years, the debate over Daylight Saving Time has gained traction, with advocates and critics pushing for changes to the current system. Some states have taken steps to address the concerns by proposing legislation to either make DST permanent or abolish it altogether.

Several states, including Arizona and Hawaii, already do not observe DST and remain on standard time throughout the year. In contrast, other states have explored the possibility of making DST permanent, aiming to provide consistent daylight hours for the majority of the year.

The Daylight Saving Time debate remains a complex and multifaceted issue. The arguments for and against DST encompass various aspects, from energy conservation and economic benefits to health concerns and disruptions in daily life. Finding a balanced solution that addresses the interests and concerns of all stakeholders is essential to move forward and make informed decisions regarding this long standing practice.

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9:00 AM TO 1:00 PM

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Dates and details subject to change, please connect with event host for the most up-todate information.

165 N. Main Street Mooresville, NC 28115.

Every Thursday morning veterans get together and enjoy each other’s company and a free coffee.

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DAVIDSON FARMERS MARKET

8:00 AM TO 12:00 PM

442 South Main Street in Davidson.

The Davidson Farmers Market is a producer-only, yearround Market featuring more than 35 farmers and local producers from within a 100-mile radius. The market is a lively gathering place for meeting friends and for learning about food, agriculture and nutrition. Growers and producers are on hand to answer your questions, from “How was this grown?” to questions about how to prepare and preserve all types of foods. The market offers locally grown fruits and vegetables, meats and cheeses produced by sustainable or organic methods, when possible. Other agriculturally based products such as breads, eggs, honey, flowers and soaps are also offered. And prepared foods, pastas and ready-to-eat foods, too!

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WELCOME HOME VETERAN LIVING MILITARY MUSEUM AT RICHARD’S COFFEE SHOP:

9:00 AM TO 12:00 PM

MUSIC JAM 165 N. Main Street Mooresville, NC 28115.

On Saturdays we have a Music Jam session, where anyone is welcome to come in and either play or have a cup of coffee, or just enjoy the music!

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S H O E S / C LOT H I N G D O N AT I O N S N E E D E D 10130 Perimeter Parkway, Suite 200 in Charlotte.

Carolina’s 1st Choice Agency has partnered with soles4souls.org to collect used shoes/clothes. We collect monthly and can even pick up your items from your office/home or you can swing by our office at 10130 Perimeter Parkway, Suite 200 in Charlotte. Let’s empower people and pay it forward. For more info Contact Christian at 704.701.5972.

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10:00 AM TO 3:00 PM D A I LY

This Mooresville family farm has U-pick pumpkins by day and transforms into a haunted attraction called Scarrigan Farms by night. Apple cider donuts and apple cider slushies are available from the food truck SaturdaySunday. Reservations are required for $15 per person ($5 online deposit; $10 at the door). Price includes a pumpkin from the patch. Each trip to the pumpkin patch includes a hayride to the petting zoo and pumpkin field, per the farm.

2023/2024 AFTERSCHOOL AT EVEREST GYMNASTICS

3:00 PM TO 6:00 PM

Everest Gymnastics Training Center.

Everest Gymnastics is proud to offer your child a healthy, happy and safe environment to meet their afterschool needs. We offer a 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5-day program, along with an afternoon snack, juice/water each day, homework/reading time and supervised gym time. Relax as you pick up your child knowing that homework is complete and playtime enjoyed. You and your family can enjoy a stress-free evening! Programs are offered at both of our locations in Cornelius and Huntersville.

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YEAR-END BONANZA Modern Fabrics, 15435 NC-73 in Huntersville.

Enjoy discounts of 30-40% on everything, including fabric, leather, vinyl and so much more! This sale is perfect for small businesses and individuals looking for unbeatable prices on upholstery and pillow fabrics. Join us in celebrating the holiday season and stock up on all your favorite materials at amazing year-end sales prices. Don’t miss out on this limited time opportunity to save big!

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CHRISTMAS SHOP AT CONSIGN ON A DIME

10:00 AM

Consign on a Dime and Showplace 28, 19207 West Catawba Avenue in Cornelius.

With a surprise appearance from The Grinch, ginger cookies and apple cider.

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CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE 9T O: 0 0 A M Red Barn Marketplace, 1612 NC-16, Denver.

4:00 PM

Ninth annual Christmas open house. Mark your calendars for a day of everything you can imagine Christmas.

FA L L FA R M C H A R M M A R K E T AT B R O K E N A R R OW FA R M

10:00 AM TO 4:00 PM

2385 Old Island Ford Road in Claremont.

Vendors and food trucks. Come enjoy the fresh air, vintage handcrafts and yummy food. If you would like to learn more about becoming a vendor, please email Kristen at teaguekristen1894@gmail.com.

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SWEETGRASS ANNUAL HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE

4:30 PM TO 8:30 PM

SweetGrass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.

Celebrating 36 years of live theatre!

The area’s most anticipated holiday open house. We offer tons of giveaways from our vendors, Tacos on the Road food truck and Side Bar Cart offering specialty cocktails – all with your raffle ticket from any purchase.

PAINT & SIP AT MOORESVILLE ARTS

6:30 PM TO 8:30 PM

Mooresville Arts, 103 W. Center Ave., Mooresville.

Create fun-filled memories at an instructor-led painting event! This month, we will paint “Holiday Cardinal.” A perfect addition to your holiday decor. Includes wine and light refreshments, pre-selected design, art supplies and step-by-step instruction by Artist Brenda Kadlecik. Register at mooresvillearts.org/paint-and-sip-classes.

HARVEST & BLOOMS WORKSHOP

6:30 PM TO 8:30 PM

The Lenz Studio, 70 Union St. S., Concord.

Are you ready to wow your holiday guests with a beautiful charcuterie board and floral centerpiece? Well, we’ve got you covered! Join Stephanie Dobson from PersonalizeDesign Interiors and some of her most creative friends for what is guaranteed to be a fun and creative time. Great for GNO or a date night or for anyone who likes to eat and learn! All materials included. Free parking available in parking deck behind The Lenz Studio. Doors open at 6pm and class begins at 6:30pm. Light refreshments and beverages will also be served, feel free to bring your favorite drink of choice. Visit mustardseedcharcuterie. com and grab your ticket in the workshops tab.

PAINT LIKE BOB ROSS

Mooresville Arts, 103 W. Center Ave., Mooresville.

1:00 PM TO 4:00 PM

Bob Ross® Workshops, with certified Ross Instructor Chrissy Samson is for anyone wanting to paint beautiful Bob Ross Style Scenes utilizing Bob Ross Branded paints, brushes, pallet knives, etc. (provided) to have a fun and rewarding experience in about three hours. Bob’s mission was to make painting fun and rewarding for everyone, not just for the chosen few. At the end of the workshop, you’ll go home with a frame-ready painting that you never thought possible, created by your own heart and hands. Happy trees, mountains and clouds await!

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The Green Room Community Theatre is a funded affiliate of The United Arts Council of Catawba County and is located in historic downtown Newton, NC.

To benefit Lake Norman YMCA’s Preschool and Afterhours Programs. This event will be “Goodfellow’s Style.”

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The Green Room Community Theatre, 10 South Main Avenue in Newton.

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Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious fish-out-of-water comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity. After facing the reality that he is actually a human, Buddy sets out to win over his family and help New York remember the true meaning of Christmas. Filled with highenergy music and a heart-felt message, this show has become a modern-day holiday classic! thegreenroomtheatre.org

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Lake Forest Church, 8519 Gilead Road in Huntersville.

9:00 AM TO 3:00 PM

Absolute Hope Foundation invites you to our first ever Christmas Bazaar! Mark your calendar!

SMALL BUSINESS SATURDAY

Juelerye – Artisans Gallery & Gifts, 112 S Main Street, Mooresville.

Support small business Saturday, and enjoy a free gift with purchase as well as refreshments!

SECOND ANNUAL HOLIDAY SIP & SHOP

5:00 PM TO 8:00 PM

Westport Swim & Tennis Club.

Come enjoy an evening with friends in support of our local small businesses. Get in some holiday shopping, enjoy a beverage and some tasty treats with a friend.

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Juelerye – Artisans Gallery & Gifts, 112 S Main Street, Mooresville.

11:00 AM TO 6:00 PM

Savories, sounds and sips! Includes a raffle basket and special discount.

ANNUAL SANTA VISITS TO SWEETGRASS

12:00 PM TO 4:00 PM

SweetGrass, 146 Mooresville Commons Way.

This will be our 10th annual year offering Santa at SweetGrass at no charge. Just bring your camera, phone and jolly smiles. Fur babies always welcome. Bring the entire family, and get your Christmas card picture at SweetGrass. We also offer many gift choices if you need a special present for someone.

9:00 AM CHILDREN’S HOPE TO A L L I A N C E B E N E F I T AT 3 : 0 0 P M BETHEL PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH Bethel Presbyterian Church of Cornelius.

Bring your family for a morning of fun and Christmas Shopping. Our in-house potter Nannette Benette and woodworker Olen Persons will have their items for sale. As well as a craft bazaar, bake sale, and quilt sale. BBQ Chicken dinner (ticket sales being Nov. 1st) to secure tickets, call 704.892.0546 or visit the Bethel Presbyterian Church website. bethelpc.online

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S M A L L BU S I N E S S S AT U R DAY: 5 WAYS TO SHOW YOUR SUPPORT

by TA R Y N J E R E Z This is a great year to show up big for small businesses!

Continuing to survive the economic impact of the last few years of coming out of a global pandemic, Small Business Saturday gives a beautiful reminder that these businesses are still here serving their communities and are worthy of support.

This year, November 25th will be the 13th anniversary of American Express first founding Small Business Saturday, a day dedicated to supporting small businesses and communities across the country.

Let’s dive into five different ways you can show up to support small businesses this year and make a difference! #1 Support with Your Money by Spending In-store and Online Whether you are all set to put your walking shoes on to hit the streets or have that “add to cart” trigger finger ready, every dollar you spend with a small business this holiday season will make a larger impact than you might realize. Small Business Saturday is famous for business owners using their creativity to make the day feel extra special by implementing activities and offering promotions and giveaways instore and online.

If you’ll be shopping in-person, make a whole day of it! On November 25th, start your Saturday off with a trip to your favorite local coffeehouse, enjoy some great shopping, and order from a mom and pop restaurant for each meal! Deciding to stick to e-commerce? Check out some new websites you’ve been wanting to explore. Remember, many small businesses who hadn’t offered online shopping before made the switch during this pandemic! #2 Support with Your Voice by Showing Up on Social Media Did you know that word-of-mouth marketing is one of the best ways for a small business to grow? Social media helps take that word of mouth and spread it like wildfire to your friends and family. Take time to share the link to a favorite small business or repost the sale you saw their website hosting.

Don’t forget when you share photos of your purchases or shopping festivities to tag the small businesses you helped support so more people can learn about them. If you had a truly great experience, you can like their Facebook page or follow them on Instagram to make sure you see what else they have to offer throughout the year. It may seem silly to some, but social media makes a huge difference for small businesses, especially as a way of free marketing!

#3 Support with Your Heart by Choosing Diverse Businesses As the world continues to work through and recover from the pandemic, minority-owned businesses have been hit hard and disproportionately affected. Your spending power has the opportunity to increase sales, spread awareness, and give support to businesses that need and value it most. As you put together your shopping list compiling all your wants and needs for Small Business Saturday, take a little time to research the businesses in your community and online before you shop. American Express has even added resources to their ‘shop small’ webpage to provide resources for shoppers looking to support black-owned businesses this year! Make a conscious decision to show up and support minority and LGBTQ businesses that may not otherwise have been on your radar this year and find some awesome new favorite shops, restaurants, service providers, and more! #4 Support with Your Opinion by Providing Referrals and Reviews A positive review means the world to a small business and is their way of showing potential customers what it’s really like to work with them or purchase from them. When you share your opinion about an interaction with local and small brands, there are so many benefits that can turn a random person into a customer.

Reviews and referrals help point people to new businesses, build trust in them, and offer confidence in their purchasing decisions. You don’t have to wait until Small Business Saturday to leave a review for one of your favorite businesses! Take a few minutes today to proudly proclaim the great experience you had with them on their social media page, website, Google, or even Yelp if applicable. It will mean the world to them! #5 Support with Your Resources by Creating Partnerships Did you know that small businesses are owned and operated by moms and dads, teachers, kids, church members, and just about anyone else in your community that you can think of? (You did, of course, but it’s always a good reminder!) Get to know the people behind your favorite small business and learn what their needs are and how you may be able to help one another.

As Small Business Saturday approaches, think about the people in your life or those you are closely connected to that own a business. Are there ways you can partner with them that may be mutually beneficial? Maybe you can create a fundraiser or curate a collaboration between your own place of work and their business?

And remember that November 25, 2023 is S MA L L BUS I NE SS SAT U R DAY !

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