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Renovation Without Hesitation
When it comes to installing frameless shower enclosures, quality products and skilled technicians make all the difference
Purchasing a frameless shower enclosure is often the most expensive part of a bathroom renovation. For that reason, it is important to understand the differences among the many products on the market today. Tom Basile of Precision Shower Doors, an industry veteran with more than 40 years’ experience, offers advice and great tips to help you be an educated consumer.
Q) It seems everyone is selling frameless shower enclosures. Are they basically all the same?
A) Great question. The simple answer is no, frameless shower enclosures are not all the same. In fact, there is a great disparity between products.
Education is the key to getting value for your money. A frameless enclosure consists of glass and hardware, but quality can vary greatly. Hiring someone with the right experience and expertise in the measurement, manufacture, and installation is just as important as finding the right product.
Glass Durability
Clarvista® glass is patented specifically for shower enclosures. It is nonporous and will not stain. Clarvista® is permanent. Less expensive glazing quality glass is porous, and once stained, it is permanently discolored and will always look dirty.
Caution! After-market coatings are mostly temporary and often sold with exorbitant markups. If you purchase the correct glass, you will have no need for costly add-ons.
Glass Clarity Fact: “Clear glass” is green, and depending on its origin, it can be very green. Starphire® ultra-clear glass by Vitro Glass is the industry’s clearest choice. Unlike conventional clear glass, which gets darker and greener as it be-
comes thicker, the clarity of Starphire® glass actually intensifies with greater thickness. Because of its unparalleled clarity, Starphire® glass also offers exceptional color fidelity.
Glass Thickness
1/2” glass is the preferred thickness for structural stability. 3/8” glass is often used to compensate for low-capacity hinges, and is inferior. All factors being equal, the cost difference between the two is negligible, so 1/2” is recommended.
Hinges + Hardware
While most shower door hinges look similar, the true measure of a quality hinge is in its weight capacity and function. Soft closing hydraulic hinges with capacity
of 250 pounds are the best in the industry, allowing for the widest doors (up to 40”). The soft close feature prevents damage to the enclosure caused by slamming with low quality spring-loaded hinges.
Expertise
Even the best materials will not compensate for poor craftsmanship. From accurate measurement to precise manufacture to final installation, each step is crucial to ensure your shower remodel will live up to your expectations for years to come. It’s important to use a reputable, reliable company. Remember, after-sale service can and will be needed throughout the life of the product. A professional will stand behind the product and make themselves available for maintenance in a timely manner. When possible, visit the vendor’s showroom and test the displays. Ask questions. Demand answers. Make sure all necessary costs are included in the quote — glass, hardware, installation, and removal of your existing shower door. Leave nothing to chance.
We hope these tips will help you make the most educated decision when purchasing your shower door. Be diligent about making an apples-to apples comparison, because false comparisons are useless. In the end, satisfaction is the only metric of the true cost and value of the product. Be more suspicious of a cheap price, as no one sells something for less than it is worth.
Basile welcomes all those seeking a quality frameless shower enclosure to call, email or visit Precision for the facts. The team at Precision will answer your questions free of obligation, review and critique any competitors’ quotes and offer a free comparative quote. Whether you decide on a Precision manufactured product or not, you can do so with all the facts.
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SPOOKY SPOTS AND EVENTS SPOOKY SPOTS AND EVENTS 4
to Enjoy this October
BY BEN MILLER
As the air gets crisp and your Netflix feed starts to fill with horror flick recommendations, it can only mean one thing — Halloween is just around the corner! And Monmouth County offers some frightfully fun events this year to get your ghost. Here are four of our favorites:
Freehold Spooktacular
Downtown Freehold, (various dates throughout October)
The Freehold Spooktacular in downtown Freehold Borough is a free, month-long Halloween celebration packed with festive thrills. Starting October 3 with a double-feature movie night under the stars, the Spooktacular offers multiple scary events each week such as a Haunted Hayride (Oct 19), the Monster Mash JackO-Lantern Contest (Oct 25), and the Costume Parade (Oct 26). With local businesses often joining the fun with spooky window displays, themed treats, and giveaways, the Freehold Spooktacular is a must-stop for all ghouls, goblins, and witches this October!
To learn more, visit www.freeholdspooktacular.com.
Asbury Park Zombie Walk
Asbury Park, Saturday, October 4
The annual Asbury Park Zombie Walk, marks its 17th year in 2025. The event will return on Saturday, October 4, to transform the Asbury Park Boardwalk into a sea of the undead. This all-day, free, family-friendly event has become one of the Garden State’s most beloved Halloween traditions.
For the entire schedule of this one-of-kind rain or shine parade, check out their website at www.asburyparkzombiewalk.com.
Witches’ Paddle For a Cause & Pumpkin Patch Day
Spring Lake, Saturday, October 11
Over 200 witches take to the lake in downtown Spring Lake to paddle for a cause. To be a participating witch, a $35 registration fee is required with a portion of the proceeds donated to a local Monmouth County organization. The spooky paddle is followed by a pumpkin decorating event on Third and Morris Avenues and both events are organized by the Greater Spring Lake Chamber of Commerce.
To learn more, visit: www.springlakechamber.org
Bewitched, Keyport
Saturday, October 25
Prepare for a day of spellbinding fun up in the Bayshore! From 11 a.m. to 6 p.m., downtown Keyport transforms into a magical and potion-rich festival for those of all ages to eat, drink, shop. The festival includes a witch parade, games, and ghostly bay cruises departing every hour into the Raritan Bay.
For more info, go to VisitKeyport.org
Asbury Park Zombie Walk
Home Field Advantage
Our picks for the best spots in Monmouth County to watch NFL football
In Monmouth County, where the shorelines meet smalltown charm, football Sundays are more than a pastime — they’re a weekly ritual. Whether you’re a die-hard Jets fan, bleeding Big Blue, or just in it for the wings and the banter, Monmouth County has a sports bar or pub ready to welcome you in with cold beer, flat-screens, and fan camaraderie. Here are our picks of the best places to spend a Sunday screaming at the television.
Jack’s Goal Line Stand – Long Branch
Just blocks from the beach, Jack’s Goal Line Stand is practically a football institution. It’s not just the name that draws in the Sunday crowd — it’s the energy. With over 50 TVs, you’ll never miss a single down. The bar stretches across three rooms and includes an outside cantina for those warm weather games, where you can watch your team with the sea breeze at your back.
Regulars swear by the wings — crispy and coated in sauces like chipotle honey and classic buffalo. Jack’s also has a rotating beer list that keeps things fresh every week. On Sundays, it’s packed with jerseys from across the NFL, but somehow, it always feels like home turf.
MJ’s Restaurant Bar & Grill – Multiple Locations (Tinton Falls, Neptune, Middletown)
MJ’s is a Monmouth County staple, with several locations that all serve as prime football-watching destinations. What makes MJ’s special is its consistency — great service, hearty food, and enough screens to track your fantasy team in real-time.
Tinton Falls’ location is especially lively, with a crowd that feels like family. Their signature pizzas and “Big Ass Pretzel” are gameday must-haves, and they often run drink specials. If you’re into college football on Saturdays too, MJ’s keeps the party going all weekend long.
The Chubby Pickle – Highlands
If you’re looking for a more offbeat, eclectic spot with surprisingly strong football cred, The Chubby Pickle in Highlands is your place. Tucked away near Sandy Hook, on Sundays in the fall this bar transforms from a local music venue into one
of the coolest places to watch a game.
It has that dive-bar-meets-gastropub vibe — local craft beers on tap, excellent burgers, and a smoked pulled pork sandwich that might be worth a trip alone. Sundays here attract a loyal crowd, especially Giants fans, and they show every game. Plus, with live music after the late game, you’ll be tempted to stay all night.
Bar Anticipation (Bar A) – Lake Como/Belmar
Bar A is famous for its summer nightlife, but come football season, it transforms into a gridiron paradise. The outdoor Beer Garden turns into the “Pigskin Pavilion,” with big screens under the tent, tons of seating, and tailgate-style food stations.
If you want a party atmosphere — like, college tailgate meets sports bar — Bar A delivers. The crowd skews younger, with plenty of local college students and recent grads, but the energy is infectious. If your team wins, you might just find yourself dancing to a DJ by 8 p.m.
Asbury Ale House – Asbury Park
Asbury Ale House is modern, sleek, and full of high-energy gameday vibes. Right on Cookman Avenue, it’s a hotspot for both locals and visitors, especially those who appreciate craft beer and a polished atmosphere. Massive projection screens dominate the main area, and there’s no bad seat in the house.
The menu is a step above typical bar food — think short rib grilled cheese, truffle fries, and craft cocktails if beer isn’t your thing.
The Court Jester – Freehold, Aberdeen
With locations in both Aberdeen and downtown Freehold, The Court Jester is a family-friendly but football-serious bar and grill. It’s been a favorite for years, especially for Sunday crowds who want good food, a wide beer selection, and an easygoing atmosphere.
The Jester has a strong selection of domestic and craft brews, hearty burgers, and TVs in every direction, and they offer game-day platters that are perfect for sharing. It’s a great choice if you’re watching with a group that includes kids or non-fanatics — there’s something for everyone here.
A Year of Growth for Inspo Dental
Colts Neck Resident and Red Bank Business
Owner Talks Dentistry
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Dr. Dorothy Lee knew from a young age exactly what she would grow up to be: a dentist. Growing up in Staten Island for most of her young life, it was there where she was exposed to dentistry. At age 15, she began working for a general dentist, in a shadowing and assisting capacity, and she fell in love with dentistry. It was from this experience that she was able to start a long and transformative career in dentistry, bringing her skills from Staten Island to Red Bank, where her practice, Inspo Dental, resides.
“My first inspiration was my godmother, who was my mom’s best friend since childhood,” Lee elaborates. “She was the one person in my life who was a college grad and had a career; I really looked up to her. She was a hygienist, and she encouraged me to go all the way and be a dentist. From age 15, that was the track.”
At age 18, after her initial shadowing job, Lee worked in another office, learning many procedures and honing her skills and passion for dentistry. “I went to dental school at the Rutgers School of Medicine,” Lee continues. “From there, I did my four years of residency.” She began working at Old Bridge Dental, commuting from Staten Island the entire time. It was when this practice decided to sell to a corporation that Lee knew what the next step was: opening her own practice. “That was always my goal, but with four children, I thought, ‘When’s the time?’” In 2019, Dr. Lee and her family moved from Staten Island to Colts Neck in order
to raise their four children, ages eight, six, and five-year-old twins. “Staten Island was just very crowded. I already had one child and was pregnant with my second. We thought New Jersey was a better fit. There’s more land and a better school system. We love it here.”
A Crucial Year
Lee purchased a dental practice in January of 2024, and it was from that action that Inspo Dental was born. She attributes the year as being one of change and trying new things. They did floor to ceiling renovations, bringing a personal and elevated aesthetic to the practice to fight against a sterile, typical dentist
office feel. “I hate when it’s impersonal,” Lee says. “Here, it doesn’t give ‘dentist office’ when you walk in. It’s more like a spa. A lot of patients are dental-phobic, and they don’t want to come into that. We make it comfortable.” 2024, according to Lee, was a year of ups and downs. She’s grateful for the great team that worked with her, helmed by her husband, Michael. The team allowed the practice to stay open so they could continue to care for patients, though change – new ownership in Lee and the new renovations – took some getting used to. “With growth, change has to occur,” Lee says. “I implemented processes and systems that I felt would be a better experience for patients and for the team.”
Inspo Dental keeps everything in-house, from fillings and crowns to implants and surgeries to aesthetics like botox and fillers. “Professionally, you’re always learning. I like to learn new things.” Lee just completed a cutting-edge veneer course in Arizona to advance her skills and knowledge while maintaining her conservative dental approach, which aims to conserve enamel while maintaining a beautiful result.
“Learning about new techniques that come out and make it better for the patient within this field. It makes things less painful and more convenient, more aesthetically pleasing.”
Giving Back To Monmouth County
With the community welcoming Dr. Lee with open arms, she too wanted to give back – especially to those that work to keep us safe every single day. Inspo Dental last year began hosting its annual First Responder Appreciation and Veter-
ans Day of Dentistry, which will take place every November. Inspo Dental treated many first responders, and they had nothing but praise for their time there.
“I came to Inspo Dental on First Responders Day, carrying years of anxiety about dental visits, but Dr. Lee and the entire team made me feel completely at ease,” says first responder Dania.
“They created an atmosphere of trust, comfort, and genuine care that I didn’t think was possible in a dental office. I felt seen, safe, and valued – not just as a patient, but as a person. I can honestly say I wouldn’t trust anyone else with my dental care now. Thank you for making a nervous patient feel comfortable and respected.”
“From the moment I walked in, the office’s beautiful, calming atmosphere and warm, welcoming staff set it apart. For the first time in my life, I felt comfortable in a dental chair – without pain or anxiety,” says Sonia, a volunteer EMT. “Every step of my visit was explained clearly, and the kindness of the team made me feel at ease. Dr. Lee was fantastic! She was knowledgeable, gentle, and reassuring, which helped me overcome a lifelong fear of the dentist. Inspo Dental’s commitment to appreciating first responders is inspiring, and I highly recommend them to anyone seeking compassionate, top-tier dental care.”
“From the moment I walked into Inspo for my first cleaning, I knew I found my new dental office,” says patient Vincent. “From reception, to the hygienist, to the amazing Dr. Lee herself, I was treated kindly and with respect. The beautifully renovated office and friendly staff are just a few of the reasons why I won’t be going anywhere else. Smiles are infectious at Inspo Dental.”
Hands-On Experience
For anyone looking to break into the field of dentistry, Lee recommends getting firsthand exposure. “I myself wanted to be an orthodontist. My first year of dental school, I took Ortho 101, and thought, ‘This is not for me.’”
Lee is especially interested in inspiring and aiding the new generation of dentists. “I’m totally open to having them come in, shadowing me, and seeing how our day-to-day is and what we do here.” There might be things that some might not realize they need to be familiar with, like the sight of blood or other invasive procedures.
Lee says one of the most important points after getting your feet wet in the field is preparing yourself for an arduous four years of dental school. “In my second year of dental school, I thought about quitting. It was very stressful, but I thought, ‘I have to see this through.’ The third year of school, I got to see patients, and it ignited something in me. You’re devoted to dental school – but the end result is so worth it.”
Lee has to shout out her biggest supporter: her husband, Michael. “We started dating right before I left for dental school. I really feel like it was destiny; it set me up to have someone through those hard four years.” Once Lee got her own practice, her husband aided in the design and business aspect, as he’s a business owner himself. “Without him, I don’t think I’d be able to do this. He’s an amazing support system.”
Personally and professionally, Lee looks forward to growth, from hiring more team members, having an associate coming in more days, and traveling for her daughter’s cheer team.
“Each year, we’re growing – from a business, cultural and personal aspect.”
To learn more about Inspo Dental, visit inspodental.com or visit their Instagram page @inspodental
FIRST RESPONDERS
Q & A
Name: Vito Massa
Title: Emergency Medical Responder
Place of Employment:
Bradley Beach
First Aid Squad
Town of Residency:
Bradley Beach
Q: What initially made you want to be a first responder?
A: I once witnessed two people getting electrocuted and had no idea how to help them. I felt so helpless. I then realized I should get trained to be able to react to medical emergencies. My son was a member of the First Aid Squad, so I joined.
Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work?
A: Being able to help people in their time of need is most rewarding. Getting a “thank you” or a smile from a patient is all you need to make you feel like you make a difference.
Q: What is the hardest aspect of the job?
A: Balancing my personal and family life with the demands of being a member of the First Aid Squad can sometimes be difficult. Also getting up in the middle of the night to make a call when you really want to stay in bed and sleep.
Q: Do any aspects of the job ever scare you?
A: Every time I go on a call, it is scary. I never know exactly what I will find and what will be expected of me. On the way to the call, my mind is thinking about what will be demanded of me and how I can prepare for the medical emergency I will soon be expected to address.
Q: What was your most memorable experience on the job so far?
A: For the years 2023 and 2024, I was recognized as the First Responder of the Year. I received this award for being the top call maker for those years. It is truly rewarding to be recognized by your peers for your contribution to the Squad.
Teacher Feature
Name: Cara Nelius
Title: Media Specialist
Place of Employment: Freehold School District
Town of Residency: Freehold
Q: What do you love about teaching, and what keeps you coming back each day?
A: The kids! Being a Media Specialist means I get to develop relationships with our students starting in kindergarten all the way to 5th grade. I love being part of their day, helping them grow, reading to them, watching them make discoveries, and just witnessing them blossom into amazing little humans.
Q: What is the most challenging thing about working with children?
A: The worry that comes with knowing we, as educators, need to provide these students with way more than just an ABC 123 education. We need to acknowledge and help our students navigate all the emotions and life experiences that are thrown at them. Some of the emotional and life events are just so heavy for our kids to carry.
Q: What was your own school experience like as a kid? Did you enjoy school?
A: I am so lucky that I can say I have been part of the Freehold community my whole life. I went through the Freehold Township Schools, attended Freehold High School, met my husband here, and now am so fortunate to raise my children here in Freehold as well. My love of books and reading started in the Freehold Township Schools, and now I am so thankful that I get to give that back to our students every time they step into our library.
Q: If you could add one new subject that every kid would have to take in school, what would it be and why?
A: Since we already teach social and emotional skills, our students would benefit from adding lessons in practical life skills such as shoe tying, caring for pets, making change, bike riding, and more.
Q: What is the most important thing that your students have taught you?
A: Our students teach me new things every day. Yes, they love to share facts that they think I do not know, such as koalas smell like eucalyptus, but they teach me the most when they do not even realize it. As adults, we forget the joy in these little occurrences like looking at the interesting rock. Our kids remind me every day to be open-minded, try new things, and take suggestions openly.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month
It’s October and that means pumpkins, falling leaves and Halloween.
But what’s with all the pink ribbons? They are a reminder that October is also Breast Cancer Awareness month. It is meant to recognize and honor those who have had breast cancer and to remind everyone of the crucial importance of having routine screening. One in eight women will develop breast cancer, but today’s advanced screening technologies allow medical professionals to diagnose and treat cancer patients sooner with more optimistic outcomes. As a matter of fact, early detection and breakthrough treatments, like targeted therapy are the reason that survival rates have significantly increased in the last decade.
Once diagnosed, a patient will have a team of physicians and surgeons working together on the patient’s behalf. These doctors and their staff will be there to guide the patient through the process of navigating your cancer journey. A radiologist will do initial testing and any biopsies. Pathologists will look at cells to determine staging and cancer type. A breast surgeon will evaluate and perform any necessary surgery from a lumpectomy to a partial or full mastectomy. An oncologist might be called in to discuss the latest treatment options such as radiation, chemotherapy, hormone therapy, immunotherapy and targeted therapy. And finally, a “plastic” or reconstructive surgeon will meet with the patient to discuss the many types of reconstructive surgery and what is right for them.
Many people are not aware that they have the option of breast reconstruction. Meeting with a reconstructive surgeon and choosing from the many reconstructive options can give the patient a feeling of taking back some control in what might seem like a powerless situation. By law, private health insurance plans are required to cover every type of reconstruction. It is important for each patient to choose an experienced, board-certified surgeon who they feel comfortable talking with and who can answer their questions thoughtfully and thoroughly. The surgeon should explain all options and help each patient decide what is best for them. Patients should also ask to see before and after photos of actual patients. Reconstructive choices will depend on the patient’s specific situation, but in general they are:
• An aesthetic flat closure for women who choose to go flat but would like a smooth and symmetrical chest appearance.
• A direct-to-Implant reconstruction which is done at the same time as a mastectomy.
• Delayed Implant reconstruction which can be done weeks, months or even years after mastectomy or lumpectomy.
• Natural tissue reconstruction such as DIEP surgery using the skin and fat of the lower abdomen while sparing the muscle. The surgeon should be very experienced in this and will help determine if the specific patient is a candidate.
• Nipple Reconstruction to recreate nipples and areola after mastectomy.
• Oncoplastic Breast Reduction is a type of breast reconstruction that
combines a traditional lumpectomy with a standard breast reduction.
Secondary breast reconstruction or revisional breast reconstruction, also covered by insurance, is for those who wish to correct or improve the results from a previous reconstruction. It can address issues such as asymmetry, implant complications, or changes in breast shape and can be done years after initial reconstructive surgery.
Dr. Rahul Vemula is a board-certified reconstructive surgeon who employs the latest techniques & technologies available in both aesthetic and reconstructive plastic surgery. His calm and thoughtful demeanor will help patients feel less overwhelmed and more in control after a cancer diagnosis. Please call or text 848-371-0329 or email info@doctorvnj.com
Dreaming Big
Jersey Shore Dream Center to Host Gala Fundraiser
BY BILL CLARK
The Jersey Shore Dream Center, a local nonprofit dedicated to providing food, clothing and other necessities to those in need, will host its annual Night of Dreams charity gala at 6 p.m. Friday, October 17 at Jumping Brook Country Club in Neptune. The event helps fund the critical work the organization does and will feature dinner, drinks, dancing, a gift auction, cash bar and a celebration of the past 13 years of service the organization has provided to the local communities.
Although the Dream Center receives support from volunteers and donations, other aspects of their daily goals require a substantial monetary base to pull from.
Gary Bickham, who has worked with Dream Center for the last decade, said that money raised from the Gala will go towards their food truck, diaper pantry and other operational measures. The Dream Center has become so successful in its pursuit that the building it occupies no longer provides the space needed.
Its current building, a former EMT center for Neptune Township, is in the furthest reaches of the western portion of the township. Though the greatest need for the Dream Cen-
ter’s services lies closer to Asbury Park, prices escalate the further east any business moves.
Bickham said that Farmingdale and other points further down Route 33 would have been easier to afford and work into the budget, but that’s not where the strongest need is.
Just another Saturday
On the day we met, Bickham was at his standard Saturday morning post, coordinating the volunteers on the final weekend of August. Volunteers were gathering boxes of chicken, bread, eggs, and milk and loading them into the Dream Center’s refrigerated van. The $100,000 van was purchased from money raised from previous galas and has proved vital to expanding what they were able to offer to the community.
Boxes were also filled with socks and other daily household items like cleaning agents and wipes. Downstairs, the Dream Center operates a baby pantry that includes clothing, strollers and other essentials for parents. The biggest need, Bickham said, is diapers. WIC, the public health program that supports Women, Infants and Children in need, does not cover diapers, nor can people purchase them with funds provided by the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program. Retailers
are also averse to donating these items, Bickham said, because they don’t spoil. Unused stock of diapers can sit in storage until the need grows.
Bickham says this gap is difficult to bridge for some lower income families, and that’s where the Dream Center steps in, distributing 20,000 diapers monthly.
Within 30 minutes, the volunteers had all the goods stored in the truck and were ready to convoy down to Springwood Avenue on the west side of Asbury Park. This mission is part of their AdoptA-Block program, which began in the summer of 2024. This service does not just meet the basics, it provides “dignity and hope” they say.
When we arrived, several members of the community were lined up waiting
for the Dream Center. Bickham and the other volunteers lifted the back door of the truck, lined up folding tables, laid out all the donations and provided a needed service to the community.
Bickham stood and marveled at how far the program had come, citing how when they had first facilitated this service that they had to work around police raids and other illicit activities that were taking place in plain view.
Bickham welcomed the community members that came down and a volunteer offered a quick prayer before everyone took what they needed. Donations that day came from individuals as well as local businesses. Bickham lauded Wegmans and Pepsi for providing from their stocks and said that some of the largest
continuous sponsors will be receiving special recognition at October’s Gala.
The Jersey Shore Running Club and Atlantic Diagnostic Laboratories have played an integral role in the Dream Center’s operations. But Bickham notes that the Gala and the Dream Center are always looking for sponsors, big and small. These benefactors will help continue the Dream Center’s mission to distribute 20 tons of food each month to those in need as they continue to bring about a positive impact.
For more information on the Jersey Shore Dream Center or to purchase tickets for the Night of Dreams gala, go to JerseyShoreDreamCenter.org.
A History of Battery Lewis, Highlands, NJ
BY WILLIAM GARDELL, MA
Battery Lewis looms over Highlands, NJ as a constant reminder of the Second World War. We tend to think of World War II as having taken place far off in Europe or in the sweltering jungles of the South Pacific islands, but there were many different theaters of operations, including the American Theater where millions of US servicemen and women served.
Battery Lewis was named after Col. Isaac Newton Lewis, the Army officer and inventor of the Lewis Gun, a machine gun that was used by the US military before and during WW2. The heavy costal artillery battery began operating in May of 1943, defending the New York Harbor area from potential enemy seaborne attacks. The federal government purchased 224 acres in the Highlands area between 1942 and 1944. It was a part of the Navesink Military Reservation which was created to build up the military defenses in the New York area. The US Army had a presence in the area since numerous forts housing costal defense batteries were built to protect the New York Harbor and the surrounding areas after the War of 1812. After the British Navy bombarded Baltimore from the sea and landed troops which ultimately sacked Washington DC, the Army received a wake-up call. Simply being an ocean away from Europe was not enough of a defense against foreign aggression. Later during the First World War, a German submarine, or U-Boat, shelled Fort Hancock, the Army base at Sandy Hook in 1917. News of this attack was largely swept under the rug in order to not frighten the public at the time.
In the late 1930s, with war once again on the horizon, the US Army was determined not to be caught off guard and began construction of 20 modern, long-range, heavy costal artillery
batteries that could defeat even the largest battleships of the day. Battery Lewis would house two 16-inch guns. Meaning that each gun could lob an explosive, armor piercing artillery shell that had a diameter of 16 inches and weighed 2,100 pounds, an impressive 26 miles. These guns had originally been intended for use on battleships. Each gun barrel was 60 feet in length and weighed a staggering 150 tons. Both guns were housed in a massive concrete bunker, meant to withstand enemy naval bombardment and air attacks that still stands to this day.
The guns were never fired in anger during the war, but they were manned faithfully, primarily by National Guard troops. The German Navy relied almost exclusively on submarines in the North Atlantic and never tried attacking New York or New Jersey with surface ships directly. In some ways Battery Lewis became obsolete just as it was being built. Modern militaries, including enemy navies, were relying more and more on air power as the war progressed, and by the end of the war long-range, guided missiles were developed for combat use. The battery was decommissioned soon after the war and the original guns were removed in 1948. The rapid development of nuclear weapons had made the concept of shelling an enemy city with heavy guns practically obsolete overnight. In order to preserve a tangible link to New Jersey’s local WW2 history, a surplus 16-inch naval gun from the Battleship USS NEW JERSEY was installed at Battery Lewis in order to show what one of the original guns would have looked like in 2014. The fact that the gun had come from the USS NEW JERSEY was only fitting. Today the site of Battery Lewis is maintained as a part of the Monmouth County Parks System within Hartshorne Woods Park and is open to the public.
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Trinity Hall Unveils New and Refreshed Spaces on Campus
PHOTOS BY TAMARA GILLON PHOTOGRAPHY
Trinity Hall, an independent all-girls college preparatory school in Tinton Falls, proudly celebrated the unveiling of its new and refreshed spaces on campus. On August 23, 2025, more than 400 members of the Trinity Hall community, including students, families, alumnae, faculty, trustees, local officials, architects, and construction partners, gathered for “Unveiling Excellence,” a blessing and celebration marking the completion of the school’s latest construction project. The event offered the community the first opportunity to tour the new academic wing, expanded Commons and renovated spaces.
Since its establishment on the former Fort Monmouth military base, Trinity Hall’s campus has continually evolved. In 2015, Trinity Hall relocated to Tinton Falls, transforming a former child development center ahead of the 2016-2017 school year. In 2018, the school expanded with a two-story addition featuring classrooms, administrative offices, a chapel and a front lobby. This most recent project, which broke ground in July 2024, provides an additional 17,000 square feet to the campus footprint to support the school’s programs and community needs for the 2025-2026 school year and beyond, a vision made possible through the leadership of the construction committee, chaired by Trinity Hall co-founder and board member Mairead Clifford
and board member Torrey Plank.
“The completion of this project represents a significant milestone in Trinity Hall’s history,” said Trinity Hall Head of School Theresa Kiernan. “The addition of these new and refreshed spaces will continue to elevate our academic offerings and student programming and strengthen our commitment to providing an environment that nurtures leadership, innovation, and excellence for every girl. We look forward to the many ways these spaces will support our mission and serve our community for years to come.”
A highlight of the construction project is the addition and renovation of Trinity Hall’s state-ofthe-art STEM labs. The project includes renovated physics and engineering labs and a new fabrication lab, all equipped with cutting-edge technology to support hands-on learning and innovation. Trinity Hall’s four-year engineering curriculum, physics-first science model, and extensive AP STEM courses ensure every student benefits from these new spaces. By design, the labs are collaborative spaces intended to inspire curiosity, foster critical thinking and encourage creativity, preparing students to embrace challenges and become problem-solvers.
The new academic wing also houses Trinity Hall’s new arts conservatory. This addition includes
a visual arts studio, a dedicated music classroom and a sprawling performing arts space designed to cultivate student creativity. With courses in fine arts, graphic design, performing arts, music, and dance, students have opportunities to explore new subjects and refine their skills. Last year, Trinity Hall’s Queen’s Court Company won six Basie Awards from the Count Basie Center for the Arts for excellence in performance and backstage work. The conservatory will build upon that success, providing inspiring spaces where students can showcase their talents and pursue their artistic passions.
The expansion also addresses one of Trinity Hall’s greatest needs: a larger community gathering area. The Commons, the school’s main gathering space, has more than doubled in size during the construction project, offering expanded space for the school to host events and programming for Trinity Hall and the broader community. The area also now includes dedicated areas for studying and collaboration that will be utilized by students and faculty.
Another feature of the construction project is a comprehensive counseling suite dedicated to student support and wellness. Housing both school and college counselors, the suite provides individual offices, a conference room, and a wealth of resources to guide students through their academic, social, emotional, and college journeys. The college counseling team at Trinity Hall provides individualized support to each
student, from the beginning to the end of the college process. The counseling suite will provide students with an area to support their overall wellbeing and to reach their full potential at Trinity Hall.
The construction project also included renovations of the existing campus footprint. In addition to the renovations of its STEM labs and the existing Commons, updates include a new faculty lounge, student study spaces, and more spaces for collaboration throughout the new and existing building. These features foster connection, elevate the academic experiences of each student, and help attract and re-
tain the best educators who seek a premium, high-level career experience.
Victoria Gmelich, co-founder and board development chair, spoke at the event, and reflected on the growth of the school and the continued dedication to mission. “What we as founders started out with in 2013 was a very strong mission to educate and empower girls in the Catholic tradition in a rigorous academic, STEM-focused education. What we found is that there is something that cannot be explained in what our students and our community exemplify when they are here at school,” she said. “I think the answer is that when girls are by themselves, in an environment where they feel safe, encouraged, protected and have a sense of community, they thrive.”
Trinity Hall students and faculty returned to campus this September to begin the 2025-2026 school year in the new and refreshed spaces. The completion of the construction project marks not only the next chapter in the school’s history, but also a continued commitment to educating and empowering girls to reach their full potential.
For more information, please visit www.trinityhallnj.org or call 732-291-1297.
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OCTOBER EVENTS CALENDAR
EVERY DAY IN OCTOBER
Halloween Fun at Pantano
Visit Pantano Outdoor Supply for Fall Activities throughout October 161 Rt. 34, Holmdel
For more information, visit pantanooutdoorsupply.com
EVERY TUESDAY
(OCTOBER 7, 14, 21, 28)
Music Bingo Tuesdays
Enjoy free-to-play Bingo at Beach Haus Brewery, featuring DJ Kat Lyons Beach Haus Brewery, 801 Main St., Belmar 7pm
For more information, visit beachhausbeer.com
WEDNESDAYS (OCTOBER 1, 8, 15)
Downtown Freehold Concert Series
Finish up fall with live music in Freehold Hall of Records, 1 E Main St, Freehold 7:30pm - 9:30pm
For more information, visit downtownfreehold.com
EVERY FRIDAY
(OCTOBER 3, 10, 17, 24, 31)
Fall Friday Outdoor Movie Night Series
Head down to Red Bank every Friday for movie night Coffee Corral, 177 Drs James Parker Blvd, Red Bank 6:30pm - 8:30pm For more information, visit coffeecorral.net
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 3
Infinity Gala
Join the Tigger Stavola Foundation for an evening at Southfork Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury, 1 Obre Pl, Shrewsbury
For more information, call 732.865.1559
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4
Bell Works Farmers Market
Stop by Bell Works for their Saturday Farmers and Makers once-a-month market Bell Works, 101 Crawfords Corner Rd, Holmdel For more information, visit bellworksfresh.com
Farm to Fork
Enjoy a night of locally sourced cuisine, craft cocktails, music, a silent auction, and more
The Barn at Laird, 164 Laird Rd, Colts Neck
6:30pm - 10:30pm
For more information, visit simpletix. com/e/farm-to-fork-2025-tickets-228056
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 5
3rd Annual Oktoberfest
Visit Downtown Freehold for its annual Oktoberfest, featuring vendors, food, games and more 12pm - 7pm
W Main St, Freehold
For more information, visit downtownfreehold.com
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 11
Archive and History Day
Head to Brookdale for the annual Archive and History Day
For more information, visit monmouthcountyclerk.gov
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 15
Succulent Pumpkin Workshop
Learn to make your new fall-themed decor with Pantano 161 Rt. 34, Holmdel
6:30pm
For more information, visit pantanooutdoorsupply.com
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 16
Lunch Break’s Annual Fall Gala Celebrate hope and harmony with Lunch Break’s Annual Gala
Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury, 1 Obre Place, Shrewsbury
6:30pm - 10pm
For more information, visit francesfoundation.net
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 18TH
Heartstrings Presents: Free Fall Festival
Join the Heartstrings nonprofit for a free fall festival of live music, family-friendly games and activities, vendors and more
Colts Neck Firehouse Grounds, 123 County Rd 537, Colts Neck
12:30pm - 6pm
Rain date: October 19th
For more information, visit heartstringsmusicnj.com
The Lunar Lights Gala
Join the Frances Foundation for their 21st Annual Gala, featuring a huge 50/50 cash raffle
Ocean Place Resort, 1 Ocean Blvd, Long Branch
For more information, visit francesfoundation.net
Little Silver Environmental Day
Head down to Little Silver for on-site paper shredding, electronics shredding, a composter sale, native plate gardening and much more Woman’s Club, 111 Church St, Little Silver 9am - 12pm
For more information, email Bonnie Akey at bonw@aol.com
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19
Red Bank CROP Hunger Walk
Join volunteers on this 5-mile walk to r aise funds and collect food for local pantries and 14 local CROP partners Red Bank Regional High School, 101 Ridge Rd, Little Silver 1pm
For more information, visit crophungerwalk.org/redbanknj
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26
JSRC’s Deal Trick or Trot
Enjoy a Halloween-themed night benefitting Deal Fire Co. No. 2 and Shore Saves Animal Rescue with this 4-mile race 125 Ocean Ave, Deal 9:30am - 1pm
For more information, visit dealtrickortrot.com
100 Yard Food Drive Challenge
Dermer Dreams hosts its food drive challenge to fight hunger in Central New Jersey
Rumson-Fair Haven High School, 74 Ridge Rd, Rumson
For more information, visit dermerdreams.org
BIZBEAT
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
A quick roundup of what’s new and happening at local businesses in Monmouth County.
Things are starting to sizzle as new Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers opens in Holmdel
Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers, a fast-casual restaurant concept, opened Tuesday, Sept. 2, in Holmdel. The new opening marks a first location for Freddy’s in Monmouth County. Freddy’s is known for its cooked-to-order steakburgers made with lean 100% ground beef, all-beef hot dogs, crispy shoestring fries and frozen custard treats made with freshly churned chocolate or vanilla frozen custard.
“We’ve been making plans for Monmouth County for some time and are excited to officially announce our first stop in the market,” said Peter Labib, franchise owner. “Holmdel is a vibrant city, and we believe Freddy’s dedication to serving high-quality, cooked-to-order menu items and providing genuine hospitality will resonate with guests.”
Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers is located at 2136 Route 35 South, Unit 200 in Holmdel. Go to www.Freddys.com
East Coast Movement Performance Institute now offers small group team training
East Coast Movement Performance Institute specializes in biomechanical analysis, and they are excited to announce that they are now providing small group team training. Their licensed physical therapists have advanced training in biomechanical and kinesthetic therapy with over two decades of clinical experience. East Coast MPI utilizes advanced technology to assess athletes’ sports-related movements. Unlike traditional facilities relying on visual observation, they use a scientific assessment and continuous re-assessment throughout training programs, enabling data-driven adjustments to ensure measurable progress. Their small group programs (4-5 teammates) combine injury prevention with elite performance training. At East Coast Movement Performance, injury prevention IS performance training — optimal movement
mechanics that prevent injuries are the same mechanics that maximize athletic potential.
East Coast Movement Performance Institute is located at 301 Bingham Ave., Ocean Township. Go to www.EastCoastMPI.com
Vigor Dispensary
Discover Monmouth County’s newest adult-use dispensary, Vigor Dispensary, your local destination for curated cannabis and an elevated buying experience. As a pharmacist-led, family-owned business, they are dedicated to supporting your best self with hand-selected products and personalized service. Their mission is to uplift the community by building real connections, treating neighbors as friends, and providing a welcoming environment for wellness, relief, or recreation. As your trusted community dispensary, they are here to help you nourish a positive relationship with cannabis. Visit them today and experience the difference for yourself.
Vigor Dispensary is located at 1082 NJ-34, in Matawan. Go to www.VigorDispensary.com
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Frank’s Market & Refillery
Gives Asbury Park an Eco-friendly Way to Stock Up on the Basics
BY REBECCA KING / PHOTOS BY JOE LYPOWY
The old planet-saving adage “reduce, reuse, recycle” has been drilled into our collective consciousness for years. But, for many, the emphasis has always been on “recycle,” with the former two calls to action forgotten.
For those looking to increase their “reducing” and “reusing,” a visit to Frank’s Market & Refillery wouldn’t go amiss. The Asbury Park shop specializes in eco-friendly items and offers bulk refill stations, where you can replenish your supply of everything from dish soap to body wash in bottles you’ve emptied, effectively reusing old containers and reducing the amount of plastic you buy.
The Inspiration
“I must have had a really good Earth Day in school or something,” Frank Giardino, owner of Frank’s Market & Refillery, joked. Taking care of the planet, he said, has always been a priority for him.
But the initial spark to open his own refillery happened years ago when he was living alone. Giardino was shocked to see how often his trash can and recycling bin filled up.
“I was all by myself,” he said. “It didn’t make sense to have that much waste.”
So, he started saving jars from condiments. He found a butcher shop with bulk spices customers could use to refill their old jars, prompting Giardino to wonder, “Why isn’t everything available like this?”
He started using reusable paper towels and eschewing plastic products for more sustainable items made of wood or stainless steel.
“I couldn’t understand why refilleries weren’t more widespread,” he said. “I was obsessed with the concept.”
When Giardino was laid off from his 9-to-5 tech job, he decided to take the leap into opening his own store. Franks Market & Refillery will celebrate its second anniversary in December.
The Refillery
Over the past two years, Frank’s Market & Refillery has gradually expanded its available stock based on customer requests.
Giardino said he initially started off with the basics: huge tubs of shampoo, conditioner, and laundry detergent. He did some digging to find out what other refilleries were stocking and reached out to wholesale sights to expand his options.
Customers surprised him by requesting unique spices like za’atar, and Giardino was happy to oblige by stocking a relative pantry of spices. Now, folks can stop in to fill their containers and bottles with everything from brown rice to popcorn to pea protein powder to rosemary mint shampoo to dishwasher rinse aid to liquid and powder laundry detergent and so much more.
Finding bulk items was the easy part. More challenging was figuring out which products were truly eco-friendly.
“If I’m creating a safe space where you can shop without worrying if something is good for the planet or not, I have to do the research,” said Giardino. “A lot of companies say they’re sustainable, but they’re actually not. There’s a lot of green-washing out there.”
Giardino took note of which items were sent to the store wrapped in too much plastic and researched products to ensure the ingredients were truly sustainable.
“Sometimes things that were supposed to be replacements for plastic items would come shipped in plastic bags. That says to me that company isn’t actually focused on reducing waste,” said Giardino. “In those cases, I’d have to find a different source for those items.”
Beyond the refill items, Frank’s also offers eco-friendly products that aim to reduce waste.
Customers will find the store’s shelves stocked with reusable wool dryer balls, bamboo hairbrushes, toothpaste tablets, natural incense sticks, metal razors, beard oil, natural deodorant, face creams, lip tints and a whole host of sustainable personal care and home items.
The Community
Frank’s Market & Refillery’s location, on Cookman Avenue in Asbury Park, is a central part of the store’s success, said Giardino.
He initially landed in Asbury Park simply because the Jersey City storefronts he was looking at were too expensive. And after participating in the Asbury Fresh farmers market on Sundays, he realized how ripe the area was for a store like his.
5 Ways to be More Eco-friendly
Reach for stainless steel, glass, or wood items over plastic
Use reusable paper towels
Mend and repair the items you already have
Compost
Giardino always asks himself while shopping, “What does the lifetime of this item look like?”
Stopping to consider where the item you’re about to buy will end up when you eventually toss it is a big (and simple) step in living a more sustainable life.
For example, a plastic hairbrush will wind up in a landfill and sit there for hundreds of years, said Giardino. But a natural bamboo hairbrush will more quickly compost and return to reusable material.
When faced with a bamboo or a plastic hairbrush at the store, opt for the bamboo.
“Everyone in this country is obsessed with disposable paper towels,” Giardino said. “Making the switch to reusable paper towels is a no-brainer.” These thin cloth wipes come wrapped around a roll, so they look and function just like disposable paper towels—except you can throw them in the wash and reuse them again and again.
“You save money doing this, too,” said Giardino. “Paper towels get more expensive every year. These you only have to buy once.”
Giardino remembers his childhood, when his parents would reuse everything in the house. Every old paper turned into scraps for notes. When clothes ripped or items broke, they were mended. This type of frugality, said Giardino, is a lost art. Instead of tossing something at the first sign of wear, consider taking the time and effort to fix it. The less you throw away and the less you buy, the more you decrease your carbon footprint.
According to the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, food waste makes up about 24% of material sent to landfills. By composting your discarded food, you’ll be doing your part to reduce the amount of waste that winds up in landfills. Plus, Giardino points out, you’ll be saving money.
“You’ll buy less plastic trash bags,” he said. “A lot of people are also concerned about their garbage bins filling up and potentially needing to buy another one from the township. Composting is a way to make sure that doesn’t happen.”
“It’s such a great community,” said Giardino. “They really do care about small businesses and want the money they spend to stay in the community. I also think people in Jersey Shore towns are more eco-conscious because they’re by the beach, and nature is a big part of their life.”
Another refillery previously operated in the area, as well, so a customer base was already there and eager to begin refilling again. For now, Giardino is focused on expanding the inventory and growing in the space he’s in. Frank’s also offers online shipping, so folks can get started living a more sustainable lifestyle even if they aren’t local.
“I have a community here that cares about refilling,” he said. “I would just tell anyone curious about being more sustainable to come down and see what we’re all about.”
Frank’s Market & Refillery is located at 658 Cookman Ave., Asbury Park. Go to franksmarketrefillery.com for more info.
Bonus: You’ll save money!
It’s not just the planet you’re saving by living a more sustainable lifestyle.
Don’t fret about mismatched containers or aesthetically pleasing cabinets
As a general rule, the bottle you already have is the best bottle. While it’s true that buying glass, wood, and metal items over plastic is an eco-friendly practice, not buying anything new is even better.
Getting a shiny new set of glass bottles to begin your refill journey is appealing, but consider reusing the perfectly good plastic bottles you already have. Giardino’s practice of reusing old condiment containers and yogurt tubs might not make your pantry the most Instagramable place in your home, but it will help the planet (and your wallet). 1 2 3 4 5
“If you make these changes, you’re going to benefit from them,” said Giardino. Though high quality and sustainable items may be more expensive at the outset, they offer long-term savings.
Reusable paper towels mean less trips to Walmart to stock up. Mending your jeans means one less trip to the mall to buy a new pair.
“If you invest a little bit more in the beginning, your items will last longer,” said Giardino. “Then, that reduces the amount of times you have to re-buy them.”
Zone 1 (Colts Neck/Holmdel Area):
Dearborn Market (Holmdel)
Pantano Home (Holmdel)
Colts Neck Pharmacy
Prima Pizza (Colts Neck)
Zone 2 (Rumson/Fair Haven Area):
Atlantic Eye
Family Tavola
Shrewsbury Volkswagen
Shoprite (Shrewsbury)
Foodtown (Red Bank)
Gianni’s (Red Bank)
Fair Haven Diner
Zone 3 (Jersey Shore Area):
Asbury Park Town Hall
Foodtown (Sea Girt)
Shoprite (Belmar)
Shoprite (Neptune)
Pier Village (Long Branch)
Zone 4 (Ocean Township Area):
All Seasons Diner (Eatontown)
Atlantic Eye
Blue Swan (Ocean)
Gianni’s (Ocean)
Ocean Township Library
Zone 5 (Middletown Area):
Atlantic Bagel Co.
First Cup
Foodtown (Atlantic Highlands)
Foodtown (Port Monmouth)
Shoprite (Middletown)
Zone 6 (Freehold Area):
Shoprite Freehold
Cafe 360
Bagel Nook NJ Leaf
Dinner Show
Every Monday (October 6, 13, 20, 27)
What: Quizzoholics Trivia Where: Deal Lake Bar + Co, Loch Arbour When: 7:30pm - 9:30pm deallakebarco.com
Every Monday (October 6, 13, 20, 27)
What: Live Jazz Music
Where: Triumph Restaurant & Brewery, Red Bank When: 6 pm – 8pm TriumphBrewing.com
Every Tuesday (October 7, 14, 21, 28)
What: Live Irish Music Where: St. Stephen’s Green Publick House, Spring Lake When: 6 pm SSGPub.com
Every Wednesday (October 1, 8, 15, 22, 29)
What: Trivia Night Where: Chubby Pickle, Highlands When: 7pm thechubbypicklenj.com
Every Thursday (October 2, 9, 16, 23, 30)
What: Music Bingo Night Where: Woody’s, Farmingdale When: 6pm woodysroadside.com
Our picks for some fun nights out at local bars and restaurants this month
What: The Englishtown Project Where: Wonder Bar, Asbury Park When: 7pm wonderbarasburypark.com
Sunday, October 19
What: Jake Millertrim
Where: Wonder Bar, Asbury Park When: 7pm wonderbarasburypark.com
SAFE SCREEN TIME for Kids and Families
BY MAIA FRANCO
Screens are now woven into every aspect of childhood— whether it’s Chromebooks in schools, TVs in the living room, or smartphones in kids’ hands. Parents across the shore face the same challenge: how do we balance the benefits of technology with the risks of overuse?
It is important to children’s long-term health and development—physical, emotional, and academic—are equally shaped by our everyday choices. And screen time is one of the most pressing.
The Academic Angle
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) emphasizes that not all screen time is equal. “Passive” use, like endless scrolling or background TV, is linked to attention problems and sleep disruption. In contrast, active, educational, and coviewed media can support learning (AAP, 2016).
Recent studies underscore this distinction:
• A 2023 article in JAMA Pediatrics found that excessive recreational screen use in school-aged children correlated with higher anxiety and lower physical activity.
• A longitudinal study in Pediatrics (Twenge & Campbell, 2018) revealed that teens who spent more than three hours daily on screens reported lower psychological well-being than peers with limited use.
• Conversely, when teachers and parents integrate interactive educational platforms, children demonstrate gains in literacy, numeracy, and problem-solving skills (Neumann, 2020, Early Childhood Education Journal).
Local Resources for Monmouth County Parents
Parents don’t have to figure this out alone—local organizations offer guidance, workshops, and even alternatives to screen-heavy activities:
• Monmouth County Library System: Offers story times, STEM clubs, and book clubs to encourage reading and so -
cial interaction without screens.
• Hackensack Meridian Health – K. Hovnanian Children’s Hospital (Neptune): Pediatricians and child development specialists provide guidance on screen time, sleep, and emotional wellness as part of routine visits.
• Monmouth County Park System: With over 30 parks and nature centers, it’s a great screen-free outlet for families—programs like “Nature on the Move” and seasonal outdoor activities keep kids engaged in real-world exploration. monmouthcountyparks.com
Practical Tips
• Set clear routines: Keep screens out of bedrooms at night and use “downtime” settings on devices during homework.
• Choose high-quality content: PBS Kids, National Geographic Kids, and Common Sense Media-approved apps support learning.
• Engage together: Co-viewing helps children make sense of content and strengthens family bonds.
• Trade screens for local fun: A fall walk at Thompson Park (Lincroft) or the annual Harvest Home Festival in Holmdel gives kids real-world experiences screens can’t replicate.
• Use a Family Media Plan: The AAP’s online tool lets families set age-appropriate screen guidelines that fit into everyday life.
Balancing Technology and Childhood
Monmouth County families are uniquely positioned to balance digital life with access to world-class pediatric care, strong schools, and vibrant outdoor spaces. By blending the best of technology with real-world experiences, parents can foster kids’ growth, curiosity, and resilience. With thoughtful boundaries, children can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally in our ever-connected world.
Celebrating National Orthodontics Month Holmdel Resident Talks Local Practice
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Fear of public speaking, fear of flying, fear of spiders – they’re all the standard of a stereotypical phobias that haunt the daily man (you can mark this writer down as “fearful of roller coasters”). Dr. Sezer Olcay is well aware of a particular phobia: Dentophobia, or fear of dentists. It was this stigma that inspired her to pursue dentistry school and open her own orthodontics practice in Ocean Township and Holmdel. Celebrating National Orthodontics Month this October, Olcay spoke about her journey from across the pond to Monmouth County.
Connecting the Dots
Growing up in Germany, Olcay originally didn’t have aspirations for dentistry. Instead, she aimed to be a jeweler.
“My mom took me to where they processed diamonds and cut them,” Olcay recalls, “and it wasn’t as glamorous as I thought.” Something in particular that stood out to the young Olcay was the fact that the process was almost entirely male-dominated. After shadowing with her general dentist while she was in high school, Olcay found a parallel (and a quiet glamourousness) in dentistry as opposed to jewelry.
“It gave me the combination of hands-on things, was scientific, and allowed me to interact with people,” Olcay says. “It connected all the dots.”
After high school, Olcay immigrated to the United States to pursue education. During the time when the Berlin Wall fell, Olcay found New York City to be the nexus of metropolitan living and a great place to receive an education. “You could find your niche and your people.”
Olcay relays that, whenever she would tell her peers that she was in school for dentistry, they would reply with the customary, “I hate going to the dentist.” She jokes, “It didn’t take that route with orthodontics. No one says, ‘I hate my orthodontist.’”
Olcay says one of her favorite parts about her position is growing alongside her patients. “You can see the change in their lives. I had one kid who wouldn’t open her mouth and would scream – years later, she’s an accomplished CPA and still talks about her braces. It’s amazing how kids evolve and grow up.”
The Perfect Environment
After moving from the city to Hackensack and eventually settling in Holmdel 20 years ago, Olcay took over an existing practice in Ocean Township before opening one in her hometown. Now, she’s an active member of the community, particularly trying to engage with the school district (as her three children all go through the Holmdel district).
A day-to-day for Olcay is entirely hands on. “I do everything myself,” she says. “As a practice owner, you’re always somewhat involved in the managerial side of things, but in terms of dentistry, I do everything myself.” Grateful, Olcay is perfectly content with her practices right now.
She says that as a smaller business, she can truly be accommodating to her clients, providing flexibility and comfort that a large group cannot provide. “I pride myself with being on schedule,” Olcay says. “There’s hardly any wait time or appointment times.” This flexibility also allows for patients that need a serene environment the most – particularly, special needs patients – to have the atmosphere they need to enjoy their stay.
“I like to see special needs patients in the morning when it’s quieter for greater service to them. We work together. If the parent or child is more comfortable in a quiet environment, I want to see them at the best time. We accommodate everyone’s needs.”
Falling into Place
With a different workload day-today, Olcay describes her most valuable
time being spent when everything clicks with her patients. For example, she had one patient that was so sensitive that they couldn’t get anything done. After time, she adapted and is now able to wear retainers. With one patient, there were such drastic surgical treatments to undergo, Olcay wasn’t sure how they would respond. “But they were so good, and everything fell into place.”
After being turned away from one career path due to not seeing herself represented, Olcay describes orthodontics as being very female accommodating. “The female touch and approach has a great advantage,” she says.
“We try to treat everyone like they’re our own family,” Olcay says. “We try to be understanding of financial or special needs.” Happy with her place in Monmouth today, Olcay is happy to exemplify the best of orthodontics, exemplifying its celebration for the month of October.
To learn more about Holmdel Orthodontics and Ocean Orthodontics, visit Holmdelortho.com and OceanBracesNJ.com , or visit them at 723 North Beers Street, Suite 2A, Holmdel, and 804 West Park Ave, Bldg A, Ocean Township
BILLABONG of Lake Como
DUANE and GREGG ALLMAN of Asbury Park
KELLY and PAPRIKA of Belmar
SCOTTIE of Long Branch
TASHA of Bradley Beach
KOTA of Bradley Beach
REGIS of Asbury Park
Four-legged Fun!
Barktastic places to hang out with your pets this month and beyond
Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery, Farmingdale — Located off Colts Neck Road in Farmingdale, Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery is a great spot to join a cool autumn afternoon with your four-legged best friend. Leashed and well-behaved dogs are welcomed within their outdoor premises and inside the Tasting Room when making a purchase. Known for their exceptional crafted brews and spacious property, Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery is a must-visit for beer enthusiasts and nature lovers alike. talloaksbrew.com
Deal Lake Bar + Co, Loch Arbour — If you and your K-9 companion are looking for a place to wind down with lake views, Deal Lake Bar + Co is the place. Nestled in between the north end of Asbury Park and Allenhurst on Main Street, Deal Lake Bar + Co offers an American style menu and a full outdoor bar with unbeatable views of the Deal Lake. Dogs are welcomed at the outdoor eating area near the water’s edge, which is a perfect spot to relax with your pup. deallakebarco.com
Coffee Corral, Red Bank — This coffee shop on the west side of Red Bank serves up coffee that is freshly roasted in-house. Coffee Corral is known for hosting dog-friendly events and with plenty of seating outside it provides great way to start an autumn Day with a coffee and Fido! coffeecorral.net
Sandy Hook Gateway National Recreation Area, Sandy Hook — With the summertime restrictions behind us, Sandy Hook Gateway National Recreation Area is now open to pets until March 2026. The Sandy Hook is a beautiful destination in the fall. Crisp ocean breezes and vibrant foliage on the hook create a perfect setting to walk, hike, and relax. Please be sure to check all the rules and regulations on the National Parks Service website. nps.gov/gate/index.htm
The Therapist Talking About EVERYONE’S
A Conversation with Dr. Dana Spada, Founder of LEAF Psychotherapy
Tucked into the tranquil corners of Monmouth County, New Jersey, is a psychotherapy practice that’s quietly redefining what it means to heal. With serene, beautifully designed spaces and an approach that blends clinical expertise with soulful connection, LEAF Psychotherapy is as much a sanctuary as it is a service.
We sat down with the passionate and magnetic founder of LEAF Psychotherapy, Dr. Dana Spada, to talk about the heart behind her work, what makes therapy effective, and why clients walk away from her practice feeling seen, refreshed, and laughing more than they expected.
Q: What is LEAF Psychotherapy?
Dr. Dana Spada: LEAF Psychotherapy is a holistic, boutique private therapy practice. We’re 100% tailored to the individual, meaning there’s nothing cookie-cutter about what we do. We operate as a concierge practice—our services are highly personalized and grounded in deep, clinical care. We have four beautiful locations in Colts Neck, Little Silver, Sea Girt and Hazlet and we offer both in-person and virtual sessions. That said, we always encourage in-person whenever possible—our offices are incredibly calming and Zen. We work with children, teens, adults, couples, and families across a wide range of therapy modalities, including individual and marriage counseling.
Q: What makes the practice stand out?
DS: What truly sets us apart is the individualized nature of our care. Because we are out-of-network and do not accept insurance, we aren’t boxed into rigid frameworks or billing-driven sessions. This gives us the freedom to be creative, flexible, and deeply attuned to each client’s unique needs.
Although we do not accept insurance, we offer a generous sliding scale and are flexible with pricing to help make therapy inclusive and accessible. We have an extremely talented, tight-knit clinical team
with a wide range of methodologies, so our clients receive care that feels curated just for them. From the very first phone call—which is always answered by an owner—we take our time to understand what a client is going through and pair them with the best-fit therapist. That initial care makes all the difference.
Q: What makes therapy effective in your eyes?
DS: The relationship between the therapist and the client is everything. It’s the core vehicle for healing and growth. When a client feels truly seen, heard, and safe—something transformative happens. Trust is what allows people to open up.
I always say you should absolutely love your therapist. If you don’t feel that way, it’s probably not the right fit. Yes, insight matters—but the real magic happens when someone feels emotionally safe enough to actually feel through their experiences, not just think about them. Life is hard. We all need support
to process, make sense of things, and move through pain in a way that leads to real healing.
Q: How do you see people grow in therapy?
DS: The growth I witness is honestly beyond words. Every client I work with experiences some level of profound transformation—whether it’s learning to prioritize themselves, cultivating inner peace, or understanding the deeper unconscious patterns that shape their behavior.
Some come in just looking to feel a little better and end up completely changing their lives. I always tell new clients, “There is no way you will not grow through this process.” It’s magical. Truly.
Q: Who should come to therapy?
DS: Anyone and everyone. Therapy isn’t about being “sick” or broken. It’s about deepening your understanding of yourself and improving your life. Anyone who wants to evolve, who wants
to experience more peace, clarity, or fulfillment—therapy is for them. And once you’ve experienced a great therapist-client relationship, most people can’t imagine their life without it.
Q: What’s your favorite kind of therapy to do?
DS: Marriage and couples therapy. It’s also the hardest! Couples often come in with a lot of conflict, and they’re wondering whose side the therapist will take. It creates a really charged dynamic. But that’s what makes it so powerful.
I usually see couples together for the first session, then break them into individual sessions. Sometimes, we don’t even return to joint sessions because the individual work is so impactful that it shifts the relationship entirely. It’s incredibly rewarding, and always full of surprises.
Q: What’s your style as a therapist?
DS: I’d describe my style as direct, grounded, and real. Clients often say it feels like talking to a best friend—one
who’s going to tell you the truth and help you actually change your life. I say hard things in a way that’s compassionate and receivable, and we don’t waste time. People come in because they want to grow, and I meet them with that same urgency.
I also laugh a lot with my clients. Sessions are dynamic. We might cry, we might belly-laugh—it’s all part of the healing process. I’m very down-to-earth, and I think my own openness gives clients permission to be open, too.
Q: Do you love being a therapist?
DS: I absolutely love it. It’s my calling. I have the most incredible clients and the most meaningful relationships. I’m endlessly grateful that this is my work.
I grew up with a lot of psychology books in my house, and I’ve always been fascinated by human behavior. I also had my own struggles and did my own deep therapeutic work—which I believe every good therapist must do. That inner work makes all the difference. I know I’m doing exactly what I’m meant to be doing, and I feel lucky every day.
Getting to the heart of the matter
After spending time with Dr. Dana Spada, it’s easy to understand why clients speak about her with such reverence—and often, relief. She radiates a kind of electric presence: high-energy, deeply compassionate, and tuned in. Her passion for the work is palpable, and so is her ability to connect, cut through the noise, and get right to the emotional heart of things.
Over and over, clients describe their experiences with words like life-changing, clarifying, and healing. One shared, “Dana was different. In literally three sessions, she got to the heart of the matter,” while another wrote, “She makes you feel like you’re her only client… the discovery and freedom that takes place with her is priceless.”
A first-time therapy client reflected on how their work with Dr. Spada evolved into a journey of deeper self-awareness, saying, “With her guidance, I’ve been able to move toward the best version of myself.” And one summed it up simply: “Dr. Spada has been a godsend for my entire family.”
It’s clear that therapy with Dr. Spada is not only effective—it’s profound. Clients don’t just feel heard, they feel deeply understood. They don’t just show up for sessions, they leave transformed. And yes, they often leave laughing too.
Turning Point to Host Fundraiser Benefiting LADACIN Network
The award-winning Turning Point Restaurants, known for their warm atmosphere, friendly service, and uniquely inspired menu, is hosting a weekend fundraiser on October 4th and October 5th to benefit LADACIN Network. The “Eat, Drink and Be Caring…Serving the Mission of LADACIN Network” event has raised $305,870 to support LADACIN Network’s educational, therapeutic, social, residential and support services since the event began in 2007. The Turning Point locations in Long Branch, Little Silver, Holmdel, Manalapan, Brick, Sea Girt, Ocean Township, Old Bridge and two locations in Toms River will be participating in the fundraiser.
The success of this fundraiser is thanks to the dedication of owners Kirk and Pam Ruoff and their team. With a strong track record of philanthropy and support for meaningful caus-
es, they help raise awareness and generate support for LADACIN by actively promoting the fundraiser to their restaurant guests. In return for a donation of $25 or more to LADACIN, Turning Point offers gift cards to guests for 2 free entrees, valued at $40, on a future visit.
LADACIN Network is a non-profit Agency that provides a continuum of care for infants, children, and adults with complex physical and developmental disabilities or delays. The Agency has been serving the community for over 75 years and now serves over 3,500 families in 15 locations throughout Monmouth and Ocean Counties. For more information, please visit www.LADACIN.org
For more information on Eat, Drink and Be Caring, call Tricia LeBaron, Coordinator of Development and Community Relations at 732-493-5900, option 8.
Where We Deliver
Belmar’s Thomas K. Rospos Honored with Bridge Dedication for Decades of Service
BY MATT DOHERTY
Neighbors, friends, and family gathered recently to honor the late Thomas K. Rospos, a man remembered for his sharp mind, generous spirit, and lifelong commitment to his community. In a heartfelt ceremony, the Inlet Terrace Association officially dedicated its footbridge as the Thomas K. Rospos Bridge, recognizing decades of service and leadership that helped shape the neighborhood.
Rospos, an engineer by trade and neighbor by heart, was described by many as the steady presence who held the association together. Whether helping residents troubleshoot flooding in their basements, pointing them toward the right contractor, or simply offering a kind word on his bike rides around the inlet, he became the go-to problem solver for nearly every issue.
gas can after a WaveRunner stalled, while another recalled his rice pudding deliveries that became a family tradition. His generosity, attendees said, was limitless.
Speakers also highlighted Rospos’s lasting legacy as Belmar’s longtime engineer. Much of his work was in underground infrastructure not easily seen, but one visible and enduring example is the Belmar Marina. During Superstorm Sandy, it was the only marina in the area that didn’t lose a single boat—thanks to Rospos’s careful design and planning. His sister Mary recalled his determination from childhood to one day live on Inlet Terrace, a dream he worked hard to achieve. Residents also remembered his humor and community spirit, including a Halloween years ago when he dressed up as a bumblebee, bright yellow shoes and all, bringing laughter to neighbors young and old.
Stories shared during the dedication reflected both his technical expertise and his kindness. Residents recalled how he could explain culverts and infrastructure one moment and hand out $2 bills to children the next—earning smiles across generations. One neighbor fondly remembered Rospos arriving just in time with a
The dedication concluded with the unveiling of a plaque at the bridge, now permanently named in his honor. The words served as a lasting reminder of the man who not only engineered strong foundations beneath the town but also built lasting bonds between neighbors.
Bradley Beach Swears in New Patrolman
The Bradley Beach Police Department proudly welcomes its newest full-time officer, Patrolman Stephen Scott, who was officially sworn at the borough meeting in early September.
Patrolman Scott holds a bachelor’s degree from Kean University and is a recent graduate of the Ocean County Police Academy. Prior to joining the department, he served as a Class II Special Law Enforcement Officer with the Point Pleasant Beach Police Department before transferring to Bradley Beach in the same role.
Photo and editorial credit: Bradley Beach Police Department Facebook page
Monmouth Beach Hosts Fireman’s Fair
From September 4-7, Monmouth Beach Fire Company Fireman’s Fair was held at the Monmouth Beach Bathing Pavilion. The annual fair included traditional carnival rides, fire engine rides and games, food trucks, a beer and wine garden, live music, and fireworks. Despite some rain, the fair was enjoyed by hundreds of Monmouth Beach residents and the surrounding towns. Thank you to the Monmouth Beach Fire Company for organizing the fair and to all the other community partners and volunteers who made this another successful festival.
Asbury Park named “Best Small Beach Town in the U.S.”
The City of Asbury Park is thrilled to share that Travel + Leisure has named Asbury Park the “Best Small Beach Town in the United States for 2025”. The honor, announced in a feature by writer Jen Murphy published in August, celebrates the city’s vibrant mile-long beach, revitalized boardwalk, flourishing arts and music scenes, diverse culinary landscape, and welcoming, inclusive atmosphere.
Murphy’s article captures Asbury Park as a unique blend of small-town charm and urban creativity. From the legendary Stone Pony— where icons like Bruce Springsteen and Jon Bon Jovi graced the stage—to the vibrant street art, eclectic shops, and dynamic dining scene, Asbury Park stands out as a destination with something for everyone.
Photo and Editorial Credit: Monmouth Beach Fire Company Facebook Page
Photo and editorial credit: Monmouth County Tourism Facebook page
Long Branch Arts & Cultural Center Opens Springsteen Long Branch Exhibition
On August 19, the City of Long Branch held its opening reception for “Born to Run: Springsteen in Long Branch” a new exhibition at the Arts & Cultural Center at 577 Broadway Avenue. Dozens of visitors from around the world attended the opening reception and thousands are expected to visit throughout the exhibition’s showing, which will be open to public until November 15. No reservations are required, and admission is free. For updated visiting hours, visit www.longbranch.org
Photo and editorial credit: Long Branch Office of Mayor Facebook Page
Sea Bright DPW Sips Lemonade While Supporting a Cause
Goalkeeper Gerardo Rodas of Long Branch High School bought the team a whopping 12 saves in their recent game against Rumson-Fair Haven.
Sea Bright Borough’s hard-working Department of Public Works crew took a little break recently to support Surf’s Up Lemonade. Proceeds will go toward helping to send underprivileged children to surf camp! Lucky Dog Surf Co. has committed to match what is raised by lemonade sales.
Editorial and Photo credit: Borough of Sea Bright Facebook page
1st Lt. Stewart Arthur Melnick Remembered as Bradley Beach’s Fallen Hero
BY MATT DOHERTY AND WILLIAM DUFFY
First Lieutenant Stewart Arthur Melnick, U.S. Army, was just 22 years old when he gave his life during the Vietnam War. Serving with A Company, 2nd Battalion, 60th Infantry, 9th Infantry Division, he was leading his men in combat on September 3, 1968, when they came under heavy enemy fire in Long An Province, South Vietnam. In the midst of that firefight, Lt. Melnick was struck and fatally wounded by small arms fire, a loss that rippled through his unit and the Bradley Beach community he called home.
Melnick was born in Newark on August 14, 1946, and grew up in Bradley Beach with his family at 213 Fourth Avenue. A graduate of Asbury Park High School’s Class of 1964, he went on to attend Monmouth College for two years before entering the Army in 1966. After completing Officer Candidate School, he earned his commission as a Second Lieu-
tenant, prepared to lead during one of America’s most turbulent conflicts.
He arrived in Vietnam on January 17, 1968, and served fewer than eight months before his death in battle. For his courage and sacrifice, he was posthumously awarded a second Purple Heart and the Silver Star, the nation’s third-highest decoration for valor in combat. He now rests at Agudath Achim Cemetery in Neptune Township, survived by his mother and two brothers.
Lt. Melnick’s name is inscribed on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington, D.C., Panel 45W, Line 033, where it stands as a permanent reminder of his sacrifice. In Bradley Beach, he is honored with a granite marker placed beneath the World War II memorial at Veterans Memorial Field—a tribute originally located at the beachfront before being relocated after a severe storm in the early 1990s.
