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SPOOKY SPOTS AND EVENTS SPOOKY SPOTS AND EVENTS 4
to Enjoy this October
BY BEN MILLER
As the air gets crisp and your Netflix feed starts to fill with horror flick recommendations, it can only mean one thing — Halloween is just around the corner! And Monmouth County offers some frightfully fun events this year to get your ghost. Here are four of our favorites:
Freehold Spooktacular
Downtown Freehold, (various dates throughout October)
The Freehold Spooktacular in downtown Freehold Borough is a free, month-long Halloween celebration packed with festive thrills. Starting October 3 with a double-feature movie night under the stars, the Spooktacular offers multiple scary events each week such as a Haunted Hayride (Oct 19), the Monster Mash JackO-Lantern Contest (Oct 25), and the Costume Parade (Oct 26). With local businesses often joining the fun with spooky window displays, themed treats, and giveaways, the Freehold Spooktacular is a must-stop for all ghouls, goblins, and witches this October!
To learn more, visit www.freeholdspooktacular.com.
Asbury Park Zombie Walk
Asbury Park, Saturday, October 4
The annual Asbury Park Zombie Walk, marks its 17th year in 2025. The event will return on Saturday, October 4, to transform the Asbury Park Boardwalk into a sea of the undead. This all-day, free, family-friendly event has become one of the Garden State’s most beloved Halloween traditions.
For the entire schedule of this one-of-kind rain or shine parade, check out their website at www.asburyparkzombiewalk.com.
Witches’ Paddle For a Cause & Pumpkin Patch Day
Spring Lake, Saturday, October 11
Over 200 witches take to the lake in downtown Spring Lake to paddle for a cause. To be a participating witch, a $35 registration fee is required with a portion of the proceeds donated to a local Monmouth County organization. The spooky paddle is followed by a pumpkin decorating event on Third and Morris Avenues and both events are organized by the Greater Spring Lake Chamber of Commerce.
To learn more, visit: www.springlakechamber.org
Bewitched, Keyport
Saturday, October 25
Prepare for a day of spellbinding fun up in the Bayshore! From 11 a.m. to 6 p.m., downtown Keyport transforms into a magical and potion-rich festival for those of all ages to eat, drink, shop. The festival includes a witch parade, games, and ghostly bay cruises departing every hour into the Raritan Bay.
For more info, go to VisitKeyport.org
Asbury Park Zombie Walk
Renovation Without Hesitation
When it comes to installing frameless shower enclosures, quality products and skilled technicians make all the difference
Purchasing a frameless shower enclosure is often the most expensive part of a bathroom renovation. For that reason, it is important to understand the differences among the many products on the market today. Tom Basile of Precision Shower Doors, an industry veteran with more than 40 years’ experience, offers advice and great tips to help you be an educated consumer.
Q) It seems everyone is selling frameless shower enclosures. Are they basically all the same?
A) Great question. The simple answer is no, frameless shower enclosures are not all the same. In fact, there is a great disparity between products.
Education is the key to getting value for your money. A frameless enclosure consists of glass and hardware, but quality can vary greatly. Hiring someone with the right experience and expertise in the measurement, manufacture, and installation is just as important as finding the right product.
Glass Durability
Clarvista® glass is patented specifically for shower enclosures. It is nonporous and will not stain. Clarvista® is permanent. Less expensive glazing quality glass is porous, and once stained, it is permanently discolored and will always look dirty.
Caution! After-market coatings are mostly temporary and often sold with exorbitant markups. If you purchase the correct glass, you will have no need for costly add-ons.
Glass Clarity Fact: “Clear glass” is green, and depending on its origin, it can be very green. Starphire® ultra-clear glass by Vitro Glass is the industry’s clearest choice. Unlike conventional clear glass, which gets darker and greener as it be-
comes thicker, the clarity of Starphire® glass actually intensifies with greater thickness. Because of its unparalleled clarity, Starphire® glass also offers exceptional color fidelity.
Glass Thickness
1/2” glass is the preferred thickness for structural stability. 3/8” glass is often used to compensate for low-capacity hinges, and is inferior. All factors being equal, the cost difference between the two is negligible, so 1/2” is recommended.
Hinges + Hardware
While most shower door hinges look similar, the true measure of a quality hinge is in its weight capacity and function. Soft closing hydraulic hinges with capacity
of 250 pounds are the best in the industry, allowing for the widest doors (up to 40”). The soft close feature prevents damage to the enclosure caused by slamming with low quality spring-loaded hinges.
Expertise
Even the best materials will not compensate for poor craftsmanship. From accurate measurement to precise manufacture to final installation, each step is crucial to ensure your shower remodel will live up to your expectations for years to come. It’s important to use a reputable, reliable company. Remember, after-sale service can and will be needed throughout the life of the product. A professional will stand behind the product and make themselves available for maintenance in a timely manner. When possible, visit the vendor’s showroom and test the displays. Ask questions. Demand answers. Make sure all necessary costs are included in the quote — glass, hardware, installation, and removal of your existing shower door. Leave nothing to chance.
We hope these tips will help you make the most educated decision when purchasing your shower door. Be diligent about making an apples-to apples comparison, because false comparisons are useless. In the end, satisfaction is the only metric of the true cost and value of the product. Be more suspicious of a cheap price, as no one sells something for less than it is worth.
Basile welcomes all those seeking a quality frameless shower enclosure to call, email or visit Precision for the facts. The team at Precision will answer your questions free of obligation, review and critique any competitors’ quotes and offer a free comparative quote. Whether you decide on a Precision manufactured product or not, you can do so with all the facts.
Home Field Advantage
Our picks for the best spots in Monmouth County to watch NFL football
In Monmouth County, where the shorelines meet smalltown charm, football Sundays are more than a pastime — they’re a weekly ritual. Whether you’re a die-hard Jets fan, bleeding Big Blue, or just in it for the wings and the banter, Monmouth County has a sports bar or pub ready to welcome you in with cold beer, flat-screens, and fan camaraderie. Here are our picks of the best places to spend a Sunday screaming at the television.
Jack’s Goal Line Stand – Long Branch
Just blocks from the beach, Jack’s Goal Line Stand is practically a football institution. It’s not just the name that draws in the Sunday crowd — it’s the energy. With over 50 TVs, you’ll never miss a single down. The bar stretches across three rooms and includes an outside cantina for those warm weather games, where you can watch your team with the sea breeze at your back.
Regulars swear by the wings — crispy and coated in sauces like chipotle honey and classic buffalo. Jack’s also has a rotating beer list that keeps things fresh every week. On Sundays, it’s packed with jerseys from across the NFL, but somehow, it always feels like home turf.
MJ’s Restaurant Bar & Grill – Multiple Locations (Tinton Falls, Neptune, Middletown)
MJ’s is a Monmouth County staple, with several locations that all serve as prime football-watching destinations. What makes MJ’s special is its consistency — great service, hearty food, and enough screens to track your fantasy team in real-time.
Tinton Falls’ location is especially lively, with a crowd that feels like family. Their signature pizzas and “Big Ass Pretzel” are gameday must-haves, and they often run drink specials. If you’re into college football on Saturdays too, MJ’s keeps the party going all weekend long.
The Chubby Pickle – Highlands
If you’re looking for a more offbeat, eclectic spot with surprisingly strong football cred, The Chubby Pickle in Highlands is your place. Tucked away near Sandy Hook, on Sundays in the fall this bar transforms from a local music venue into one
of the coolest places to watch a game.
It has that dive-bar-meets-gastropub vibe — local craft beers on tap, excellent burgers, and a smoked pulled pork sandwich that might be worth a trip alone. Sundays here attract a loyal crowd, especially Giants fans, and they show every game. Plus, with live music after the late game, you’ll be tempted to stay all night.
Bar Anticipation (Bar A) – Lake Como/Belmar
Bar A is famous for its summer nightlife, but come football season, it transforms into a gridiron paradise. The outdoor Beer Garden turns into the “Pigskin Pavilion,” with big screens under the tent, tons of seating, and tailgate-style food stations.
If you want a party atmosphere — like, college tailgate meets sports bar — Bar A delivers. The crowd skews younger, with plenty of local college students and recent grads, but the energy is infectious. If your team wins, you might just find yourself dancing to a DJ by 8 p.m.
Asbury Ale House – Asbury Park
Asbury Ale House is modern, sleek, and full of high-energy gameday vibes. Right on Cookman Avenue, it’s a hotspot for both locals and visitors, especially those who appreciate craft beer and a polished atmosphere. Massive projection screens dominate the main area, and there’s no bad seat in the house.
The menu is a step above typical bar food — think short rib grilled cheese, truffle fries, and craft cocktails if beer isn’t your thing.
The Court Jester – Freehold, Aberdeen
With locations in both Aberdeen and downtown Freehold, The Court Jester is a family-friendly but football-serious bar and grill. It’s been a favorite for years, especially for Sunday crowds who want good food, a wide beer selection, and an easygoing atmosphere.
The Jester has a strong selection of domestic and craft brews, hearty burgers, and TVs in every direction, and they offer game-day platters that are perfect for sharing. It’s a great choice if you’re watching with a group that includes kids or non-fanatics — there’s something for everyone here.
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The Clear Vision of Tom Basile:
Precision Mirror and Glass
PHOTOS BY TOM ZAPCIC
In the bustling world of construction and design, where deadlines are tight and expectations are high, there are few constants. Materials, styles, and technologies shift quickly, but one thing remains steady: the demand for quality. For over four decades, that demand has been met in New Jersey by Tom Basile, the driving force behind Precision Mirror and Glass in Eatontown.
Basile’s name has become synonymous with meticulous craftsmanship and trust. To clients—ranging from homeowners remodeling a bathroom to developers outfitting entire commercial complexes—he is more than a contractor. He is a partner who listens, guides, and delivers.
From Modest Beginnings to Industry Recognition
Tom Basile did not inherit a glass empire; he built Precision Mirror and Glass from the ground up with a simple belief: every project, no matter its size, deserves care and accuracy. What began as a local service for glass repair and replacement gradually evolved into a full-scale operation.
“People started coming back, not just because we fixed a crack or installed a mirror,” Basile recalls, “but because they
trusted us to do it right, every single time.” That reputation, word-of-mouth fueled, allowed his company to expand its offerings to include frameless shower doors, custom mirrors, architectural glass installations, and large-scale commercial projects.
Precision as a Philosophy
The word “precision” in the company’s name is more than branding; it’s the essence of how Basile approaches his work. In an industry where an eighth of an inch can mean the difference between a seamless installation and a costly redo, precision is everything.
His team of skilled technicians follows a process that emphasizes exact measurements, expert fabrication, and flawless installation. “Glass is unforgiving,” Basile often says. “If you rush or cut corners, it shows. Our clients don’t hire us for shortcuts—they hire us for perfection.”
Serving Both Homes and Businesses
While Precision Mirror and Glass has earned a loyal residential following, its footprint in the commercial sector has also grown steadily. Basile’s crew has worked on retail storefronts,
gym mirrors, office partitions, and restaurant interiors, often under demanding timelines.
Commercial work requires not just technical skill but also coordination with architects, contractors, and local building officials. Basile has mastered this balancing act, ensuring that projects are completed on schedule without compromising safety or style. His ability to navigate these complexities has made him a go-to choice for businesses across New Jersey.
Adapting to Trends and Technology
Glass today is not what it was 20 years ago. Innovations such as energy-efficient glazing, tempered safety glass, and decorative etched finishes have transformed the field. Basile has made it a priority to keep Precision Mirror and Glass at the cutting edge.
He also recognizes the shift in consumer taste: clients now view glass as more than a functional necessity—it’s a statement. “A frameless shower door isn’t just about keeping water in the stall,” Basile explains. “It’s about creating a spa-like retreat. A glass office wall isn’t just a divider—it’s about openness, collaboration, and modern design.”
By embracing these evolving expectations, Basile has ensured that his company remains relevant in a highly competitive market.
Built on Relationships
What truly sets Tom Basile apart is his focus on relationships. Clients frequently describe him as accessible, honest, and detail-oriented. He doesn’t disappear once the contract is signed; he stays involved, ensuring that communication remains clear and concerns are addressed promptly.
That approach has led to long-term partnerships. Contractors return to him project after project because they know what to expect: accuracy, reliability, and professionalism. Homeowners recommend him to neighbors because, in their words, “Tom treats your project as if it were his own home.”
Community and Integrity
Basile is also deeply tied to the Monmouth County community. Precision Mirror and Glass is not just a workplace
but a neighborhood business that employs local talent and serves local families. Basile has earned respect not only for what he builds but for how he conducts his business—always with integrity and fairness.
A Clear Legacy
Ask Tom Basile what he’s most proud of, and he doesn’t cite awards or big-name contracts. Instead, he points to his company’s consistency. “It’s the satisfaction of seeing a customer smile
when we finish,” he says. “That’s what keeps me going.”
For those who know him, that sums up his leadership. Tom Basile is not in the business of cutting glass—he is in the business of earning trust. And in an industry where precision defines everything, that trust is perhaps his finest achievement.
As Precision Mirror and Glass continues to thrive, one thing is certain: its reputation for excellence will remain as clear and enduring as the glass it installs.
FIRST RESPONDERS
Q & A
Name: Skyler Post
Title: EMT Shrewsbury
First Aid
Place of Employment: Shrewsbury
Town of Residency: Shrewsbury
Q: What initially made you want to be a first responder?
A: I was disenchanted by my biotech job because I felt a disconnect between what I did and my ability to help others. I hoped volunteering would give me the gratification I was seeking – and it did.
Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work?
A: Taking away some of the patient’s fear during their time of need, being their advocate while they’re in my care, and seeing the trust that I’ve earned from them in that brief moment.
Q: What is the hardest aspect of the job?
A: Some calls are heavier than others. As important as it is to have compassion, you also need to be able to separate yourself from your emotions, both during and after the call, when warranted.
Q: Do any aspects of the job ever scare you?
A: It should probably be that minor misses can be critical failures. But the truth is I’m more afraid of burnout. The worst failure is an EMT who doesn’t want to be there. That’s the route of incompetence.
Q: What was your most memorable experience on the job so far?
A: Transporting a homeless person. There are many stereotypes, but this person was very kind. Maintaining a patient’s dignity and not anchoring yourself to biases is not a gift, it’s a human right. I got a chance to reflect on that early on.
Teacher Feature
Name:
Cara Nelius
Title:
Media Specialist
Place of Employment: Freehold School District
Town of Residency: Freehold
Q: What do you love about teaching, and what keeps you coming back each day?
A: The kids! Being a Media Specialist means I get to develop relationships with our students starting in kindergarten all the way to 5th grade. I love being part of their day, helping them grow, reading to them, watching them make discoveries, and just witnessing them blossom into amazing little humans.
Q: What is the most challenging thing about working with children?
A: The worry that comes with knowing we, as educators, need to provide these students with way more than just an ABC 123 education. We need to acknowledge and help our students navigate all the emotions and life experiences that are thrown at them. Some of the emotional and life events are just so heavy for our kids to carry.
Q: What was your own school experience like as a kid? Did you enjoy school?
A: I am so lucky that I can say I have been part of the Freehold community my whole life. I went through the Freehold Township Schools, attended Freehold High School, met my husband here, and now am so fortunate to raise my children here in Freehold as well. My love of books and reading started in the Freehold Township Schools, and now I am so thankful that I get to give that back to our students every time they step into our library.
Q: If you could add one new subject that every kid would have to take in school, what would it be and why?
A: Since we already teach social and emotional skills, our students would benefit from adding lessons in practical life skills such as shoe tying, caring for pets, making change, bike riding, and more.
Q: What is the most important thing that your students have taught you?
A: Our students teach me new things every day. Yes, they love to share facts that they think I do not know, such as koalas smell like eucalyptus, but they teach me the most when they do not even realize it. As adults, we forget the joy in these little occurrences like looking at the interesting rock. Our kids remind me every day to be open-minded, try new things, and take suggestions openly.
The Legal Aid Society of Monmouth County lends a hand to those in need
BY EMMA SYLVIA / PHOTOS BY VICTORIA MCDOUGAL
As Americans, the right to see justice served comes with the territory. Unfortunately, some don’t have the financial means to pay out of pocket for representation in a court of law. That’s where the Legal Aid Society of Monmouth County steps in, a group which aims to provide representation to the most disenfranchised of the county.
A different walk of life
Victoria Paone Rosa, a resident of Rumson, practices law in Red Bank. Growing up, she was largely influenced by her father, who has been practicing family law for over 40 years. When she attended law school, she found that family law was the best fit for her, as well. Rosa has been the president of the Legal Aid Society of Monmouth County for the past two years. Previously a trustee and then vice president, Rosa has been with the organization for a total of 8 years.
The Legal Aid Society is a nonprofit organization that offers pro bono legal representation to the indigent and disabled residents of Monmouth County, who do not have the financial means to access it otherwise.
An annual effort
Every year, the Legal Aid Society hosts their largest annual charity fundraiser event, this year being held at Bar Anticipation in Lake Como. The event has been held for over ten years. This year’s event was held on Friday, September 19. The event featured both silent and traditional auctions, a 50/50, an iPad raffle, and a variety of food and drink for all to enjoy, while offering members of the community a chance to connect and celebrate the organization’s mission.
Rosa says she particularly enjoys bringing people from different perspectives to unite for a common goal. Not only do
attorneys get to network with each other, but court reporters, mediators and other advertisers get a chance to make a difference for the disenfranchised of the community.
“It’s a nice way to get [people from] different walks of life together,” she says.
Each year, the fundraiser is attended by nearly 100 people, with sponsors banding together to raise a goal of $15,000 - $20,000 to contribute to the society’s funding.
“It’s my hope that we can continue to raise money to ensure that there are enough resources to allow the members of the community to receive legal representation if they need it,” Rosa says.
The society helps many Monmouth County residents each year and is looking to increase their outreach in the years to come. An individual needs to qualify for the nonprofit’s help, as they assist those that meet the federal definition of being under the poverty level.
Since Rosa came onto the team, the society has never been in the position where they couldn’t help people – and a big part of that success is due to their outreach.
“We’re hoping that people see this event, hear about our mission, and connect us with people that need us,” Rosa says.
Finding the time
Much of the time, those that dedicate their work to others aren’t seeking recognition for their community efforts. Rosa and the rest of the Legal Aid Society aim to make sure that their superstar attorneys offering pro bono services have the spotlight aimed at them.
“I think it’s important to note that our attorneys assigned to pro bono cases aren’t working for profit, they’re working to help the community,” Rosa points out. “The fact that people would dedicate that much time to helping people is very note-
worthy. We’re not just celebrating the society itself – the attorneys of Monmouth should receive recognition. No one really has the time, between the grind of the work itself, families and all the other organizations we’re a part of. It’s nearly impossible, but people find the time. That’s what we can and aim to shed a light on.”
The Legal Aid Society is an accessible nonprofit, open all year round (aside from major holidays), doing what is necessary to connect with whoever needs them. Even for those that don’t meet the group’s guidelines, they’re willing to connect them with other programs; for example, a low bono as opposed to a pro bono program.
“We’re here to help — no matter what,” Rosa proclaims.
To learn more about the Legal Aid Society of Monmouth County, visit MonmouthLegalAid.com, or visit them at 2405 NJ Rt 66 in Ocean Township.
A History of Battery Lewis, Highlands, NJ
BY WILLIAM GARDELL, MA
Battery Lewis looms over Highlands, NJ as a constant reminder of the Second World War. We tend to think of World War II as having taken place far off in Europe or in the sweltering jungles of the South Pacific islands, but there were many different theaters of operations, including the American Theater where millions of US servicemen and women served.
Battery Lewis was named after Col. Isaac Newton Lewis, the Army officer and inventor of the Lewis Gun, a machine gun that was used by the US military before and during WW2. The heavy costal artillery battery began operating in May of 1943, defending the New York Harbor area from potential enemy seaborne attacks. The federal government purchased 224 acres in the Highlands area between 1942 and 1944. It was a part of the Navesink Military Reservation which was created to build up the military defenses in the New York area. The US Army had a presence in the area since numerous forts housing costal defense batteries were built to protect the New York Harbor and the surrounding areas after the War of 1812. After the British Navy bombarded Baltimore from the sea and landed troops which ultimately sacked Washington DC, the Army received a wake-up call. Simply being an ocean away from Europe was not enough of a defense against foreign aggression. Later during the First World War, a German submarine, or U-Boat, shelled Fort Hancock, the Army base at Sandy Hook in 1917. News of this attack was largely swept under the rug in order to not frighten the public at the time.
In the late 1930s, with war once again on the horizon, the US Army was determined not to be caught off guard and began construction of 20 modern, long-range, heavy costal artillery
batteries that could defeat even the largest battleships of the day. Battery Lewis would house two 16-inch guns. Meaning that each gun could lob an explosive, armor piercing artillery shell that had a diameter of 16 inches and weighed 2,100 pounds, an impressive 26 miles. These guns had originally been intended for use on battleships. Each gun barrel was 60 feet in length and weighed a staggering 150 tons. Both guns were housed in a massive concrete bunker, meant to withstand enemy naval bombardment and air attacks that still stands to this day.
The guns were never fired in anger during the war, but they were manned faithfully, primarily by National Guard troops. The German Navy relied almost exclusively on submarines in the North Atlantic and never tried attacking New York or New Jersey with surface ships directly. In some ways Battery Lewis became obsolete just as it was being built. Modern militaries, including enemy navies, were relying more and more on air power as the war progressed, and by the end of the war long-range, guided missiles were developed for combat use. The battery was decommissioned soon after the war and the original guns were removed in 1948. The rapid development of nuclear weapons had made the concept of shelling an enemy city with heavy guns practically obsolete overnight. In order to preserve a tangible link to New Jersey’s local WW2 history, a surplus 16-inch naval gun from the Battleship USS NEW JERSEY was installed at Battery Lewis in order to show what one of the original guns would have looked like in 2014. The fact that the gun had come from the USS NEW JERSEY was only fitting. Today the site of Battery Lewis is maintained as a part of the Monmouth County Parks System within Hartshorne Woods Park and is open to the public.
Trinity Hall Unveils New and Refreshed Spaces on Campus
PHOTOS BY TAMARA GILLON PHOTOGRAPHY
Trinity Hall, an independent all-girls college preparatory school in Tinton Falls, proudly celebrated the unveiling of its new and refreshed spaces on campus. On August 23, 2025, more than 400 members of the Trinity Hall community, including students, families, alumnae, faculty, trustees, local officials, architects, and construction partners, gathered for “Unveiling Excellence,” a blessing and celebration marking the completion of the school’s latest construction project. The event offered the community the first opportunity to tour the new academic wing, expanded Commons and renovated spaces.
Since its establishment on the former Fort Monmouth military base, Trinity Hall’s campus has continually evolved. In 2015, Trinity Hall relocated to Tinton Falls, transforming a former child development center ahead of the 2016-2017 school year. In 2018, the school expanded with a two-story addition featuring classrooms, administrative offices, a chapel and a front lobby. This most recent project, which broke ground in July 2024, provides an additional 17,000 square feet to the campus footprint to support the school’s programs and community needs for the 2025-2026 school year and beyond, a vision made possible through the leadership of the construction committee, chaired by Trinity Hall co-founder and board member Mairead Clifford
and board member Torrey Plank.
“The completion of this project represents a significant milestone in Trinity Hall’s history,” said Trinity Hall Head of School Theresa Kiernan. “The addition of these new and refreshed spaces will continue to elevate our academic offerings and student programming and strengthen our commitment to providing an environment that nurtures leadership, innovation, and excellence for every girl. We look forward to the many ways these spaces will support our mission and serve our community for years to come.”
A highlight of the construction project is the addition and renovation of Trinity Hall’s state-ofthe-art STEM labs. The project includes renovated physics and engineering labs and a new fabrication lab, all equipped with cutting-edge technology to support hands-on learning and innovation. Trinity Hall’s four-year engineering curriculum, physics-first science model, and extensive AP STEM courses ensure every student benefits from these new spaces. By design, the labs are collaborative spaces intended to inspire curiosity, foster critical thinking and encourage creativity, preparing students to embrace challenges and become problem-solvers.
The new academic wing also houses Trinity Hall’s new arts conservatory. This addition includes
a visual arts studio, a dedicated music classroom and a sprawling performing arts space designed to cultivate student creativity. With courses in fine arts, graphic design, performing arts, music, and dance, students have opportunities to explore new subjects and refine their skills. Last year, Trinity Hall’s Queen’s Court Company won six Basie Awards from the Count Basie Center for the Arts for excellence in performance and backstage work. The conservatory will build upon that success, providing inspiring spaces where students can showcase their talents and pursue their artistic passions.
The expansion also addresses one of Trinity Hall’s greatest needs: a larger community gathering area. The Commons, the school’s main gathering space, has more than doubled in size during the construction project, offering expanded space for the school to host events and programming for Trinity Hall and the broader community. The area also now includes dedicated areas for studying and collaboration that will be utilized by students and faculty.
Another feature of the construction project is a comprehensive counseling suite dedicated to student support and wellness. Housing both school and college counselors, the suite provides individual offices, a conference room, and a wealth of resources to guide students through their academic, social, emotional, and college journeys. The college counseling team at Trinity Hall provides individualized support to each
student, from the beginning to the end of the college process. The counseling suite will provide students with an area to support their overall wellbeing and to reach their full potential at Trinity Hall.
The construction project also included renovations of the existing campus footprint. In addition to the renovations of its STEM labs and the existing Commons, updates include a new faculty lounge, student study spaces, and more spaces for collaboration throughout the new and existing building. These features foster connection, elevate the academic experiences of each student, and help attract and re-
tain the best educators who seek a premium, high-level career experience.
Victoria Gmelich, co-founder and board development chair, spoke at the event, and reflected on the growth of the school and the continued dedication to mission. “What we as founders started out with in 2013 was a very strong mission to educate and empower girls in the Catholic tradition in a rigorous academic, STEM-focused education. What we found is that there is something that cannot be explained in what our students and our community exemplify when they are here at school,” she said. “I think the answer is that when girls are by themselves, in an environment where they feel safe, encouraged, protected and have a sense of community, they thrive.”
Trinity Hall students and faculty returned to campus this September to begin the 2025-2026 school year in the new and refreshed spaces. The completion of the construction project marks not only the next chapter in the school’s history, but also a continued commitment to educating and empowering girls to reach their full potential.
For more information, please visit www.trinityhallnj.org or call 732-291-1297.
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EVERY DAY IN OCTOBER
Halloween Fun at Pantano
Visit Pantano Outdoor Supply for Fall Activities throughout October 161 Rt. 34, Holmdel
For more information, visit pantanooutdoorsupply.com
EVERY TUESDAY
(OCTOBER 7, 14, 21, 28)
Music Bingo Tuesdays
Enjoy free-to-play Bingo at Beach Haus Brewery, featuring DJ Kat Lyons Beach Haus Brewery, 801 Main St., Belmar 7pm
For more information, visit beachhausbeer.com
WEDNESDAYS (OCTOBER 1, 8, 15)
Downtown Freehold Concert Series
Finish up fall with live music in Freehold Hall of Records, 1 E Main St, Freehold 7:30pm - 9:30pm
For more information, visit downtownfreehold.com
EVERY FRIDAY
(OCTOBER 3, 10, 17, 24, 31)
Fall Friday Outdoor Movie Night Series
Head down to Red Bank every Friday for movie night Coffee Corral, 177 Drs James Parker Blvd, Red Bank 6:30pm - 8:30pm For more information, visit coffeecorral.net
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 3
Infinity Gala
Join the Tigger Stavola Foundation for an evening at Southfork Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury, 1 Obre Pl, Shrewsbury
For more information, call 732.865.1559
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4
Bell Works Farmers Market
Stop by Bell Works for their Saturday Farmers and Makers once-a-month market Bell Works, 101 Crawfords Corner Rd, Holmdel For more information, visit bellworksfresh.com
Farm to Fork
Enjoy a night of locally sourced cuisine, craft cocktails, music, a silent auction, and more
The Barn at Laird, 164 Laird Rd, Colts Neck
6:30pm - 10:30pm
For more information, visit simpletix. com/e/farm-to-fork-2025-tickets-228056
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 5
3rd Annual Oktoberfest
Visit Downtown Freehold for its annual Oktoberfest, featuring vendors, food, games and more 12pm - 7pm
W Main St, Freehold
For more information, visit downtownfreehold.com
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 11
Archive and History Day
Head to Brookdale for the annual Archive and History Day
For more information, visit monmouthcountyclerk.gov
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 15
Succulent Pumpkin Workshop
Learn to make your new fall-themed decor with Pantano 161 Rt. 34, Holmdel
6:30pm
For more information, visit pantanooutdoorsupply.com
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 16
Lunch Break’s Annual Fall Gala Celebrate hope and harmony with Lunch Break’s Annual Gala
Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury, 1 Obre Place, Shrewsbury
6:30pm - 10pm
For more information, visit francesfoundation.net
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 18TH
Heartstrings Presents: Free Fall Festival
Join the Heartstrings nonprofit for a free fall festival of live music, family-friendly games and activities, vendors and more
Colts Neck Firehouse Grounds, 123 County Rd 537, Colts Neck
12:30pm - 6pm
Rain date: October 19th
For more information, visit heartstringsmusicnj.com
The Lunar Lights Gala
Join the Frances Foundation for their 21st Annual Gala, featuring a huge 50/50 cash raffle
Ocean Place Resort, 1 Ocean Blvd, Long Branch
For more information, visit francesfoundation.net
Little Silver Environmental Day
Head down to Little Silver for on-site paper shredding, electronics shredding, a composter sale, native plate gardening and much more Woman’s Club, 111 Church St, Little Silver 9am - 12pm
For more information, email Bonnie Akey at bonw@aol.com
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19
Red Bank CROP Hunger Walk
Join volunteers on this 5-mile walk to r aise funds and collect food for local pantries and 14 local CROP partners Red Bank Regional High School, 101 Ridge Rd, Little Silver 1pm
For more information, visit crophungerwalk.org/redbanknj
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26
JSRC’s Deal Trick or Trot
Enjoy a Halloween-themed night benefitting Deal Fire Co. No. 2 and Shore Saves Animal Rescue with this 4-mile race 125 Ocean Ave, Deal 9:30am - 1pm
For more information, visit dealtrickortrot.com
100 Yard Food Drive Challenge
Dermer Dreams hosts its food drive challenge to fight hunger in Central New Jersey
Rumson-Fair Haven High School, 74 Ridge Rd, Rumson
For more information, visit dermerdreams.org
BIZBEAT
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
A quick roundup of what’s new and happening at local businesses in Monmouth County.
Things are starting to sizzle as new Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers opens in Holmdel
Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers, a fast-casual restaurant concept, opened Tuesday, Sept. 2, in Holmdel. The new opening marks a first location for Freddy’s in Monmouth County. Freddy’s is known for its cooked-to-order steakburgers made with lean 100% ground beef, all-beef hot dogs, crispy shoestring fries and frozen custard treats made with freshly churned chocolate or vanilla frozen custard.
“We’ve been making plans for Monmouth County for some time and are excited to officially announce our first stop in the market,” said Peter Labib, franchise owner. “Holmdel is a vibrant city, and we believe Freddy’s dedication to serving high-quality, cooked-to-order menu items and providing genuine hospitality will resonate with guests.”
Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers is located at 2136 Route 35 South, Unit 200 in Holmdel. Go to www.Freddys.com
East Coast Movement Performance Institute now offers small group team training
East Coast Movement Performance Institute specializes in biomechanical analysis, and they are excited to announce that they are now providing small group team training. Their licensed physical therapists have advanced training in biomechanical and kinesthetic therapy with over two decades of clinical experience. East Coast MPI utilizes advanced technology to assess athletes’ sports-related movements. Unlike traditional facilities relying on visual observation, they use a scientific assessment and continuous re-assessment throughout training programs, enabling data-driven adjustments to ensure measurable progress. Their small group programs (4-5 teammates) combine injury prevention with elite performance training. At East Coast Movement Performance, injury prevention IS performance training — optimal movement
mechanics that prevent injuries are the same mechanics that maximize athletic potential.
East Coast Movement Performance Institute is located at 301 Bingham Ave., Ocean Township. Go to www.EastCoastMPI.com
Vigor Dispensary
Discover Monmouth County’s newest adult-use dispensary, Vigor Dispensary, your local destination for curated cannabis and an elevated buying experience. As a pharmacist-led, family-owned business, they are dedicated to supporting your best self with hand-selected products and personalized service. Their mission is to uplift the community by building real connections, treating neighbors as friends, and providing a welcoming environment for wellness, relief, or recreation. As your trusted community dispensary, they are here to help you nourish a positive relationship with cannabis. Visit them today and experience the difference for yourself.
Vigor Dispensary is located at 1082 NJ-34, in Matawan. Go to www.VigorDispensary.com
Turning Point to Host Fundraiser Benefiting LADACIN Network
The award-winning Turning Point Restaurants, known for their warm atmosphere, friendly service, and uniquely inspired menu, is hosting a weekend fundraiser on October 4th and October 5th to benefit LADACIN Network. The “Eat, Drink and Be Caring…Serving the Mission of LADACIN Network” event has raised $305,870 to support LADACIN Network’s educational, therapeutic, social, residential and support services since the event began in 2007. The Turning Point locations in Long Branch, Little Silver, Holmdel, Manalapan, Brick, Sea Girt, Ocean Township, Old Bridge and two locations in Toms River will be participating in the fundraiser.
The success of this fundraiser is thanks to the dedication of owners Kirk and Pam Ruoff and their team. With a strong track record of philanthropy and support for meaningful caus-
es, they help raise awareness and generate support for LADACIN by actively promoting the fundraiser to their restaurant guests. In return for a donation of $25 or more to LADACIN, Turning Point offers gift cards to guests for 2 free entrees, valued at $40, on a future visit.
LADACIN Network is a non-profit Agency that provides a continuum of care for infants, children, and adults with complex physical and developmental disabilities or delays. The Agency has been serving the community for over 75 years and now serves over 3,500 families in 15 locations throughout Monmouth and Ocean Counties. For more information, please visit www.LADACIN.org
For more information on Eat, Drink and Be Caring, call Tricia LeBaron, Coordinator of Development and Community Relations at 732-493-5900, option 8.
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Zone 1 (Colts Neck/Holmdel Area):
Dearborn Market (Holmdel)
Pantano Home (Holmdel)
Colts Neck Pharmacy
Prima Pizza (Colts Neck)
Zone 2 (Rumson/Fair Haven Area):
Atlantic Eye
Family Tavola
Shrewsbury Volkswagen
Shoprite (Shrewsbury)
Foodtown (Red Bank)
Gianni’s (Red Bank)
Fair Haven Diner
Zone 3 (Jersey Shore Area):
Asbury Park Town Hall
Foodtown (Sea Girt)
Shoprite (Belmar)
Shoprite (Neptune)
Pier Village (Long Branch)
Zone 4 (Ocean Township Area):
All Seasons Diner (Eatontown)
Atlantic Eye
Blue Swan (Ocean)
Gianni’s (Ocean)
Ocean Township Library
Zone 5 (Middletown Area):
Atlantic Bagel Co.
First Cup
Foodtown (Atlantic Highlands)
Foodtown (Port Monmouth)
Shoprite (Middletown)
Zone 6 (Freehold Area):
Shoprite Freehold
Cafe 360
Bagel Nook NJ Leaf
Dinner Show
Every Monday (October 6, 13, 20, 27)
What: Quizzoholics Trivia Where: Deal Lake Bar + Co, Loch Arbour When: 7:30pm - 9:30pm deallakebarco.com
Every Monday (October 6, 13, 20, 27)
What: Live Jazz Music
Where: Triumph Restaurant & Brewery, Red Bank When: 6 pm – 8pm TriumphBrewing.com
Every Tuesday (October 7, 14, 21, 28)
What: Live Irish Music Where: St. Stephen’s Green Publick House, Spring Lake When: 6 pm SSGPub.com
Every Wednesday (October 1, 8, 15, 22, 29)
What: Trivia Night Where: Chubby Pickle, Highlands When: 7pm thechubbypicklenj.com
Every Thursday (October 2, 9, 16, 23, 30)
What: Music Bingo Night Where: Woody’s, Farmingdale When: 6pm woodysroadside.com
Our picks for some fun nights out at local bars and restaurants this month
What: The Englishtown Project Where: Wonder Bar, Asbury Park When: 7pm wonderbarasburypark.com
Sunday, October 19
What: Jake Millertrim
Where: Wonder Bar, Asbury Park When: 7pm wonderbarasburypark.com
SAFE SCREEN TIME for Kids and Families
BY MAIA FRANCO
Screens are now woven into every aspect of childhood— whether it’s Chromebooks in schools, TVs in the living room, or smartphones in kids’ hands. Parents across the shore face the same challenge: how do we balance the benefits of technology with the risks of overuse?
It is important to children’s long-term health and development—physical, emotional, and academic—are equally shaped by our everyday choices. And screen time is one of the most pressing.
The Academic Angle
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) emphasizes that not all screen time is equal. “Passive” use, like endless scrolling or background TV, is linked to attention problems and sleep disruption. In contrast, active, educational, and coviewed media can support learning (AAP, 2016).
Recent studies underscore this distinction:
• A 2023 article in JAMA Pediatrics found that excessive recreational screen use in school-aged children correlated with higher anxiety and lower physical activity.
• A longitudinal study in Pediatrics (Twenge & Campbell, 2018) revealed that teens who spent more than three hours daily on screens reported lower psychological well-being than peers with limited use.
• Conversely, when teachers and parents integrate interactive educational platforms, children demonstrate gains in literacy, numeracy, and problem-solving skills (Neumann, 2020, Early Childhood Education Journal).
Local Resources for Monmouth County Parents
Parents don’t have to figure this out alone—local organizations offer guidance, workshops, and even alternatives to screen-heavy activities:
• Monmouth County Library System: Offers story times, STEM clubs, and book clubs to encourage reading and so -
cial interaction without screens.
• Hackensack Meridian Health – K. Hovnanian Children’s Hospital (Neptune): Pediatricians and child development specialists provide guidance on screen time, sleep, and emotional wellness as part of routine visits.
• Monmouth County Park System: With over 30 parks and nature centers, it’s a great screen-free outlet for families—programs like “Nature on the Move” and seasonal outdoor activities keep kids engaged in real-world exploration. monmouthcountyparks.com
Practical Tips
• Set clear routines: Keep screens out of bedrooms at night and use “downtime” settings on devices during homework.
• Choose high-quality content: PBS Kids, National Geographic Kids, and Common Sense Media-approved apps support learning.
• Engage together: Co-viewing helps children make sense of content and strengthens family bonds.
• Trade screens for local fun: A fall walk at Thompson Park (Lincroft) or the annual Harvest Home Festival in Holmdel gives kids real-world experiences screens can’t replicate.
• Use a Family Media Plan: The AAP’s online tool lets families set age-appropriate screen guidelines that fit into everyday life.
Balancing Technology and Childhood
Monmouth County families are uniquely positioned to balance digital life with access to world-class pediatric care, strong schools, and vibrant outdoor spaces. By blending the best of technology with real-world experiences, parents can foster kids’ growth, curiosity, and resilience. With thoughtful boundaries, children can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally in our ever-connected world.
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Four-legged Fun!
Barktastic places to hang out with your pets this month and beyond
Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery, Farmingdale — Located off Colts Neck Road in Farmingdale, Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery is a great spot to join a cool autumn afternoon with your four-legged best friend. Leashed and well-behaved dogs are welcomed within their outdoor premises and inside the Tasting Room when making a purchase. Known for their exceptional crafted brews and spacious property, Tall Oaks Farm & Brewery is a must-visit for beer enthusiasts and nature lovers alike. talloaksbrew.com
Deal Lake Bar + Co, Loch Arbour — If you and your K-9 companion are looking for a place to wind down with lake views, Deal Lake Bar + Co is the place. Nestled in between the north end of Asbury Park and Allenhurst on Main Street, Deal Lake Bar + Co offers an American style menu and a full outdoor bar with unbeatable views of the Deal Lake. Dogs are welcomed at the outdoor eating area near the water’s edge, which is a perfect spot to relax with your pup. deallakebarco.com
Coffee Corral, Red Bank — This coffee shop on the west side of Red Bank serves up coffee that is freshly roasted in-house. Coffee Corral is known for hosting dog-friendly events and with plenty of seating outside it provides great way to start an autumn Day with a coffee and Fido! coffeecorral.net
Sandy Hook Gateway National Recreation Area, Sandy Hook — With the summertime restrictions behind us, Sandy Hook Gateway National Recreation Area is now open to pets until March 2026. The Sandy Hook is a beautiful destination in the fall. Crisp ocean breezes and vibrant foliage on the hook create a perfect setting to walk, hike, and relax. Please be sure to check all the rules and regulations on the National Parks Service website. nps.gov/gate/index.htm
THINK PINK: BREAST CANCER
AWARENESS MONTH in Our Community
BY MAIA FRANCO
Breast Cancer Awareness Month, observed every October, aims to raise awareness, promote screenings, support research, and honor those affected by the disease. It’s also a time to spotlight groups often overlooked—like men with breast cancer (recognized during Men’s Breast Cancer Awareness Week, October 17–23) and those facing metastatic breast cancer (Awareness day: October 13).
Trusted Local Screening Clinics
• The Jacqueline M. Wilentz Breast Center at Monmouth Medical Center: this center offers comprehensive services including mammograms, high-resolution breast ultrasound, ultrasound-guided and stereotactic biopsies, bone density testing (DEXA), genetic counseling, clinical trials, and patient navigation support.
• NJCEED Program (Cancer Education & Early Detection): offers free to low-cost screenings for uninsured or underinsured residents, including breast exams and mammograms for those aged 40+.
• NJCEED / ScreenNJ Statewide Support: Supports Monmouth County through the broader NJCEED initiative by offering patient navigators who assist in scheduling screenings—regardless of insurance or income—throughout New Jersey.
• ImageCare: A local imaging center offering 3D mammograms in Middletown, ideal for those seeking advanced screening technology.
• Memorial Sloan Kettering Monmouth: comprehensive breast care—including mammography, ultrasound, MRI, image-guided biopsies, genetic counseling, clinical trials, oncology services, and supportive therapies like lymphedema management and nutrition counseling
When Should You Start Screening & How Often?
• As of April 2024, the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) now recommends that individuals with average risk begin biennial (every two years) mammograms starting at age 40, continuing through age 74.
• In addition, professional groups like the American Cancer Society (ACS) suggest:
Option to begin annual screening between ages 40–44
Annual mammograms from 45–54
Biennial or annual screening from 55 onwards, depending on individual health
• The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) recommends beginning routine screening at age 40, scheduling it every one to two years based on shared decision-making with your provider
How to Participate & Amplify Impact
• Support and donate: Fund local nonprofits like Mary’s Place by the Sea, ACS, or Susan G. Komen, or make purchases that give back (like Komen’s Six Flags discount).
• Spread awareness: Share upcoming local events and resources across community groups, social media, workplaces, and schools.
• Check in on loved ones: October is emotional for many. A simple message can mean the world.
Event Spotlight
Let’s honor Breast Cancer Awareness Month 2025 not just with pink, but with decisive, caring action that echoes long beyond October.
October 4
Just Us Girls 5K • Manasquan
October 5
Komen MORE THAN PINK Walk • Jackson area
October1 8
Mary’s Place Walk-a-thon & 5K • Ocean Grove
October 19
Making Strides Against Breast Cancer • Point Pleasant
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Colts Neck Locals Form Nonprofit for Autistic Children and Adults
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Every child deserves a place where they fit in. For neurotypical children, for the most part, this is the norm. However, for neurodivergent children – and even adults – finding that same sense of community is often more difficult. A trio of Colts Neck residents took notice of this and formed Autism Harmony, a nonprofit with a mission to provide a safe and supportive environment for autistic children and adults through social groups and recreational activities to foster a sense of community and understanding.
A Dreamy Beginning
Autism Harmony came to fruition from the source of many points of progress — a mother’s love. Joanna Passalacqua has an 11-year-old non-verbal autistic daughter. Because of this, she became very involved with her daughter’s school, joining her PTO.
“I joined because children with autism and neurodivergent children are always being excluded in some way, shape or form,” Passalacqua elaborates. “I always felt that I had to be on the PTO to make sure they weren’t excluded from the second-grade carnival or school trip.
I made sure that [neurodivergent] children were always allowed to be included.”
Like many moments of great inspiration, the rest came to Passalacqua in a dream. She dreamt she was even more involved in helping her daughter and her peers. This dream was the spark that set things in motion for Autism Harmony. Passalacqua opted to stop working full-time and begin doing research on how to officially establish her nonprofit.
Justine Buzzetta — a friend of Passalacqua’s — was also involved in the school system, and was the one responsible for “roping in” Passalacqua to the PTO. Buzzetta was flattered when her friend approached her in regard to Autism Harmony, saying she was ecstatic to further the goal of “making everyone realize that we’re all the same” despite superficial differences.
Pat Miller recently moved to Colts Neck from North Jersey. In Miller’s former home of West Orange, her 24-year-old son (who is autistic) received a phenomenal education thanks to some fabulous programs that were available in the area.
“He swims with the Special Olympics, and plays
basketball with our church,” Miller says. “When I moved here, I tried to find these opportunities in the community. We were told that his needs were too severe.” After Miller reconnected with an old friend (Buzzetta’s husband), Buzzetta and Passalacqua approached her about their new nonprofit.
“I said, ‘I’m all in,’” Miller says. “Although our children are nonverbal, they can still have friends. Even if they don’t have the verbal language, they want to have friends. Building that in this community is our top priority.”
Raising Awareness
After establishing Autism Harmony in January of this year, the group went full speed ahead with their goals of bringing community to the neurodivergent population of Monmouth County (and beyond). Passalacqua put together her first event (as Buzzetta acknowledges, “pretty much on her own”) in June. It featured vendors, bounce houses, a DJ, vendors, raffles, a petting zoo, face paint, a classic car show and of course, plenty of food.
After spending much of the year getting established, the group has developed a greater sense of awareness of the specific needs of those they are seeking to help. “We speak to the parents and ask, ‘What do we need in town? What would you like to accomplish?’ There’s been an overwhelming response,” Passalacqua says.
This awareness is more crucial than ever before. Miller says that when her son was diagnosed with autism in 2000, 1 out of 50 adults were similarly diagnosed. Today, it’s 1 out of 31. “There’s a real community crisis going on,” Miller says. “When you turn 21, they call it ‘falling off a cliff,’ and it’s harder for adults with autism to find those social opportunities.”
Passalacqua adds, “It’s all about awareness. We’re in 2025 – we have to start waking up and doing a better job. If I can start that and do a better job for
the typical and atypical, then I need to invest my time.”
The Future of Autism Harmony
At The Addison Park in Keyport on Thursday, October 30, Autism Harmony will host its First Annual Halloween Bash for adults only, offering attendees a chance to win prizes via 50/50s, and a raffle, while celebrating the holiday with a full dinner and open bar.
The group’s longterm goals include establishing a physical location for everyone to belong. While they are aware that the entire ordeal will be a huge undertaking, they’re hopeful and excited by the idea of creating a space where everyone can be greeted with the sense of community that they may have been missing.
The space will be sensitive to different sensory needs, have safe play areas, and allow neurodivergent children and adults to learn their own value, all the while providing hardworking parents the chance for a date night. It will also feature therapy, social groups and nights out, as well as educational components, like how to cook meals, take care of animals and pursue careers (something which is especially important, as 80% of adults with autism are either unemployed or underemployed.)
“This is the ultimate goal,” Miller says. “It will take us some time, but we’re going to get there.”
To learn more about Autism Harmony, visit AutismHarmony.org
Saturday, 10/4 • Face Painting, Pony Rides & Petting Zoo
Sunday, 10/5 • Face Painting
Saturday, 10/11 • Pony Rides & Petting Zoo
Sunday, 10/12 • Pony Rides & Petting Zoo
Monday, 10/13 • Pumpkin Decorating
Saturday, 10/18 • Pony Rides & Petting Zoo
Sunday, 10/19 • Touch A Truck
Saturday, 10/25 • Halloween Crafts
Sunday, 10/26 • Pumpkin Carving
Free Activities
Pumpkin Patch
Hay Bale Maze
Fall Obstacle Course
Hay Bale Pyramid
Corn Pit with Diggers
Dress the Scarecrow
Corn Maze & Tunnel
Fall Mud Kitchen
Rope Bubbles
Harvest Photo Ops and More!
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Celebrating National Orthodontics Month Holmdel Resident Talks Local Practice
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Fear of public speaking, fear of flying, fear of spiders – they’re all the standard of a stereotypical phobias that haunt the daily man (you can mark this writer down as “fearful of roller coasters”). Dr. Sezer Olcay is well aware of a particular phobia: Dentophobia, or fear of dentists. It was this stigma that inspired her to pursue dentistry school and open her own orthodontics practice in Ocean Township and Holmdel. Celebrating National Orthodontics Month this October, Olcay spoke about her journey from across the pond to Monmouth County.
Connecting the Dots
Growing up in Germany, Olcay originally didn’t have aspirations for dentistry. Instead, she aimed to be a jeweler.
“My mom took me to where they processed diamonds and cut them,” Olcay recalls, “and it wasn’t as glamorous as I thought.” Something in particular that stood out to the young Olcay was the fact that the process was almost entirely male-dominated. After shadowing with her general dentist while she was in high school, Olcay found a parallel (and a quiet glamourousness) in dentistry as opposed to jewelry.
“It gave me the combination of hands-on things, was scientific, and allowed me to interact with people,” Olcay says. “It connected all the dots.”
After high school, Olcay immigrated to the United States to pursue education. During the time when the Berlin Wall fell, Olcay found New York City to be the nexus of metropolitan living and a great place to receive an education. “You could find your niche and your people.”
Olcay relays that, whenever she would tell her peers that she was in school for dentistry, they would reply with the customary, “I hate going to the dentist.” She jokes, “It didn’t take that route with orthodontics. No one says, ‘I hate my orthodontist.’”
Olcay says one of her favorite parts about her position is growing alongside her patients. “You can see the change in their lives. I had one kid who wouldn’t open her mouth and would scream – years later, she’s an accomplished CPA and still talks about her braces. It’s amazing how kids evolve and grow up.”
The Perfect Environment
After moving from the city to Hackensack and eventually settling in Holmdel 20 years ago, Olcay took over an existing practice in Ocean Township before opening one in her hometown. Now, she’s an active member of the community, particularly trying to engage with the school district (as her three children all go through the Holmdel district).
A day-to-day for Olcay is entirely hands on. “I do everything myself,” she says. “As a practice owner, you’re always somewhat involved in the managerial side of things, but in terms of dentistry, I do everything myself.” Grateful, Olcay is perfectly content with her practices right now.
She says that as a smaller business, she can truly be accommodating to her clients, providing flexibility and comfort that a large group cannot provide. “I pride myself with being on schedule,” Olcay says. “There’s hardly any wait time or appointment times.” This flexibility also allows for patients that need a serene environment the most – particularly, special needs patients – to have the atmosphere they need to enjoy their stay.
“I like to see special needs patients in the morning when it’s quieter for greater service to them. We work together. If the parent or child is more comfortable in a quiet environment, I want to see them at the best time. We accommodate everyone’s needs.”
Falling into Place
With a different workload day-today, Olcay describes her most valuable
time being spent when everything clicks with her patients. For example, she had one patient that was so sensitive that they couldn’t get anything done. After time, she adapted and is now able to wear retainers. With one patient, there were such drastic surgical treatments to undergo, Olcay wasn’t sure how they would respond. “But they were so good, and everything fell into place.”
After being turned away from one career path due to not seeing herself represented, Olcay describes orthodontics as being very female accommodating. “The female touch and approach has a great advantage,” she says.
“We try to treat everyone like they’re our own family,” Olcay says. “We try to be understanding of financial or special needs.” Happy with her place in Monmouth today, Olcay is happy to exemplify the best of orthodontics, exemplifying its celebration for the month of October.
To learn more about Holmdel Orthodontics and Ocean Orthodontics, visit Holmdelortho.com and OceanBracesNJ.com , or visit them at 723 North Beers Street, Suite 2A, Holmdel, and 804 West Park Ave, Bldg A, Ocean Township
Holmdel Township Officials Remember 9/11 Victims
On the 24th anniversary of the September 11th attacks, Holmdel’s Mayor Foster, Deputy Mayor LaMountain, Committeeman Luccarelli, and Committeeman Romano visited the monument in front of Holmdel Town Hall in order to remember the Holmdel citizens and family members who lost their lives.
Photo credit: Holmdel Township Facebook page
Jersey Freeze Opens Location in Colts Neck
On August 23, Monmouth County ice cream icon Jersey Freeze opened a new store in Colts Neck at The Orchards along State Route 34. This is the third location for Jersey Freeze, whose original ice cream shop opened in Freehold Township in 1952. A second store opened at Holmdel’s Bell Works in 2020. The specialty ice cream store is soft-serve and includes milkshakes, birthday cakes, and more. Jersey Freeze is a must-stop for those craving a sweet treat this October and beyond.
Photo and editorial credit: Jersey Freeze Colts Neck Facebook page
Colts Neck Police Stop for a Sip
On August 15, Colts Neck police officers made a special stop at a neighborhood lemonade stand run by a group of neighborhood children. The officers chatted with the kids, purchased lemonade, and posed for photos, creating a memorable experience. Their visit brought big smiles and showed the community’s spirit of support and connection. It was a small gesture that made a big impact, highlighting the importance of positive relationships between police and residents.
Photo and editorial credit: Colts Neck Township Police Department
Student Successes
James Madison University welcomes Emma Jordan , Mattea Medvin , and Landon Roth of Colts Neck to its class of 2029.
Kyle Welsh of Colts Neck has been named to Western New England University’s President’s List for the Spring 2025 Semester.
Catherine Schienvar of Holmdel was named to the University of Arkansas’s Spring 2025 Chancellor list.
Do you want to send us a student success tip? Please e-mail to info@communitymagazinenj.com
Holmdel School District Ranked Best in Monmouth County
According to an August report by Realtor.com, Holmdel Township School District was named the most popular school district in Monmouth County this moving season. The report analyzed views per prop erty from out-of-district buyers from May 2025 to July 2025. The results revealed that Holmdel Township School District was the most sought-after district because of a combination of its education quality, community lifestyle, and overall livability. Congratulations to Holmdel Township School District!
Photo and editorial credit: Holmdel Township Facebook page
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A Magic Carpet Ride on Route 9 Your home is your canvas at Carpets To Go in Howell
BY EMMA SYLVIA
Glenn Scher is not only a Monmouth County resident, he’s a business owner as well, with the floor covering business in his bloodline. Scher opened Carpets To Go in Howell on January 1, 2010, marking the new decade with the launch of his very own carpet outlet store. Now, more than 15 years later, what was once a small business has flourished into New Jersey’s largest in-stock carpet store.
“I grew up in the floor covering business,” Scher says. “My parents had 15 carpet stores.” At age 20, Scher started his own carpet fabrication business, peddling his services throughout Monmouth, Ocean and Middlesex counties. When Carpets To Go first began, it consisted of just Scher, his
wife and his mother. Now, though still family owned and operated, they’re 15 employees strong with four installation crews working each day.
“We have a large footprint in the Monmouth and Ocean County area. We’re a huge contributor to the community,” he says.
Carpets To Go specializes in area rugs, stair runners, and wall-to-wall carpet installations. They offer stock carpets from premiere manufacturers, like Stanton, Ashley-Stark, Missoni, Masland, Rosecore, Kane and Dreamweaver.
“I do what I love,” Scher says, enthusiastically. “I enjoy interacting with people; I like hearing their concerns. If you come to me with your vision, I’ll ex-
ecute your vision to the flooring world.”
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Renowned Colts Neck Artist Used
Homecoming Art Exhibition to Foster Deeper Connections
BY BEN MILLER / PHOTOS BY SANGITA PHADKE
It is often said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the same could be said about artwork. The hope of any art enthusiast is to look at a piece and feel an immediate spark – a connection to what your eyes are witnessing. For Colts Neck native and world-renowned realist artist Sangita Phadke, that is her goal with every piece of art she creates. “Everytime I create art, I want to connect with people – create that human connection,” Phadke says.
Phadke has spent the better part of the last 15 years displaying her artwork across the world, creating award winning pastel paintings while attempting to tell stories through her pieces. Her subjects sit in the dark illuminated by a strong spotlight, as if they are on stage. She focuses on pieces of fruit, a flower or a figure and arranges her compositions to create dramatic contrasts between the subject and the dark backgrounds.
Often, that sense of connection is completely left up to the connoisseur viewing her art. To take in the art alone and find meaning in it independently. However, in Phadke’s latest exhibition, “The Understory: Soft Pastel Paintings” (her first exhibition in Monmouth County since the early stages of her art career), she was able to an unique and intimate show that fostered more meaningful and deeper connections between painting and exhibitor.
“The Understory: Soft Pastel Paintings” ran this past summer at the Monmouth Museum in Middletown, right down the road from where Phadke calls home.
“The Monmouth Museum reached out to me about a year before the exhibition asking if I’d be interested in doing an exhibition at their venue,” Phadke explained, “and I excitedly accepted the opportunity to display my art amongst neighbors and my community.”
Unlike traditional exhibitions across the globe, Phadke had the creative freedom to share more about her works, and, because of its proximity, spend more time with collectors.
“Typically, when I display my art in other exhibitions the art curators write short descriptions about my pieces in my section and that is it. Which is fine, many of my collectors become collectors because they look at my art and find connection, but it doesn’t always allow me to share my full story,” Phadke notes.
Because she was the only artist featured in the exhibition at the Monmouth Museum, Phadke was more creative and open with how she presented her art.
“In total, I wrote about 15 personal stories to accompany several of my 80 pieces and shared my inspiration for them. Some of these stories I had never shared before – I was vulnerable in new ways,” she says.
Those stories allowed exhibitors to not only find connection in the piece itself, but also with the story behind it.
One of the personal stories Phadke shared was the inspiration behind a canvas she painted of a fig. Sometime last year, Phadke posted online a request to pick up some fresh flowers and fruits from residents across Central New Jersey to use as subjects for a painting. An older Monmouth County resident invited Phadke to her home to pick some figs from her fig tree. When Phadke arrived the woman shared that her father planted that fig tree in her backyard when she
and her husband bought their house over 40 years ago.
“Being able to share the story about where this fig I painted came from made for a bigger connection than traditionally experienced at my exhibitions.”
Additionally, having the exhibition so close to home allowed Phadke to spend many days at the exhibition spending time with enthusiasts and discussing what the art meant to them.
“When I travel for exhibitions, I only go to the opening reception and then leave to come home.”
This time Phadke didn’t have to travel anywhere to remain at the exhibition and hear how her art impacted the collectors.
“One of the days at the Monmouth Museum, one of my collectors purchased a painting of an orchid plant on display. She shared with me that her late husband had passed recently and on their first date many years ago, he bought her an orchid plant. Then on every Valentine’s Day afterwards he got her another orchid plant. This past February was her first Valentine’s Day without her husband and to her welcoming surprise, her son brought her an orchid plant that day. She told me that this painting made her feel her love of family and remember her husband so she bought the painting. That kind of deep connection is what I hope my art does every time I create something, and I wouldn’t have known that if I hadn’t been at my exhibition talking with collectors.”
Phadke has yet to decide when and what exhibitions she will do next, but she is certain it will be hard for the next one to create so much meaning and human connection – that is the power of a hometown show.
