B uilding a S trong F oundation for L ong L asting I ntimacy:
T AMARA D RISKELL, L M H C
Advice for Engaged and Newlywed Couples
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INTIMACY C AN BE THOUGHT OF A S “IN TO ME SEE.”
ongratulations on embarking on this beautiful journey we call marriage! The early days of any relationship are often filled with excitement, love, and optimism. However, like any partnership, a long lasting marriage that feels truly fulfilling requires a strong foundation. Here are your wants and needs to others, and be some tips from my many years as a willing to take responsibility for counselor and coach specializing in maintaining your own health and relational intimacy. happiness. M AINTAIN I NDEPENDENCE Your partner ideally is an amazing Intimacy starts with a powerful “I” not a cheerleader and safe space for you to we, and I cannot overemphasize this! Not continue becoming your most actualized only do you need to know yourself well, self, but they should never be the only or you also need to be able to communicate even primary source of your self-esteem.
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That’s on YOU. This is great news because if your enjoyment of life depends on anyone else, you’re at the mercy of their ability, and desire to be not only your partner but also your life coach, parent, fantasy, best friend, lover, or even rescuer at ALL times. What happens if they have a bad day?
