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“Campaigning,
Caring, RememberingYesterday, Today, Tomorrow”
Presidents Ponderings
I always look forward eagerly to our AGM weekend as it provides a welcome opportunity to meet old friends and make some new ones in a really convivial atmosphere. This year was no exception as we gathered in a charming hotel in Stratford-upon-Avon. As always, I thought of those members who, for a variety of reasons, would be unable to attend the AGM in person even though some were able to join remotely courtesy of the wonders of modern technology. What was different this year was the depth of feeling engendered by the problems with the roll out of the ex gratia payment, more formally known as the Recognition Payment Scheme.
Let me go back a little to set the scene. The Vice Presidents and I were shocked and angered by the new obstacle put in the way of some widows who thought they were eligible for the Recognition Payment. This was always a second best for us but eight years of campaigning for the restitution of the war widows’ pension had been singularly unsuccessful and in my view always would be, so as President and Vice Presidents we thought the Association should accept the offer of a one-off payment. We understood of course that for many in the Association it would be a bitter pill to swallow and the Trustees would no doubt be blamed whatever decision they took. Even when the principle of the one-off payment had been settled it still took a long time to iron out the problems that arose with its instalment. We thought we were - at last - home and dry but not a bit of it. It became clear that widows who received an attributable pension from their husband’s service, often a very modest one, would be ineligible. Baroness Crawley was successful in getting the chance to ask an oral question in the House of Lords about the general issues. We all piled in behind her and the unfortunate Defence Spokesman standing in for the Minister got a very rough ride indeed. Lady Crawley then challenged him to hear the widows’ views at our AGM at that point about a fortnight away. To do him justice Lord Harlech – Jasset - agreed without hesitation.
Soon after that the Minister covering defence, the Earl of Minto, suggested a meeting with Lady Crawley and me. It was planned for a day that Lady Crawley was away for a hospital appointment and we all know it is unwise to try and change it. I was, I hope, able to discuss all the issues with the Minister and again he was in listening mode as a newly appointed minister.
Jasset Harlech arrived on the Saturday morning in a well-tailored suit complete with a Guards tie as he is a keen and active Reservist. Lord Harlech said very honestly that he was not in a position to make any commitments but would listen and he heard a number of truly moving stories from widows. I know that they really touched him – as they did me. Over the years I had heard from widows talking to me privately one to one but to hear them explain in public their histories and feelings made it the most emotional AGM I have ever attended. I also admired the restraint and dignity they
showed even though they must have felt both angry, hurt and let down.
I came away from the AGM more determined than ever to fight to ensure all widows who lost their war widows’ pension on remarriage or cohabitation receive the Recognition Payment. I want to make it crystal clear that I do not believe for a moment the claim by another Defence Minister, Dr Murrison, that the Trustees discussing the terms of the payment knew that those with an attributable pension would be excluded. What is more it was NEVER mentioned to me as a member of the House of Lords that this would be the case. I think it was telling that the MOD officials refused to allow the Trustees to see the claim form in advance of it being made public. They also refused the offer of Chris Dziuba, now Chairman of our Association to help with drawing up an application form as sensitively as possible, given that it did require some very personal and painful details. She herself had her war widow’s pension withdrawn so she really knows what it feels like.
To add insult to injury it flies in the face of the Armed Services Military Covenant which recognises the unique place servicemen and their families occupy and is committed to ensure that their needs are met. So, the fight is not over, not by a long way!
Janet Chaplain’s
Address
At the time of writing, we’re just approaching the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings; a time for solemn remembrance and heartfelt gratitude. To help me gain a sense of the challenge faced by the Allies that day, I turned once again, to watch the opening scenes of Saving Private Ryan; it’s such a powerful film. This pivotal moment in history saw immense bravery and sacrifice that changed the course of the Second World War.
While the number of War Widows’ Association members who lost husbands in that conflict has now diminished, the legacy of those who did, continues to resonate deeply within our hearts. D-Day was marked by extraordinary courage, as our armed forces faced overwhelming odds to secure a future of peace and freedom. Their valour and dedication are a timeless testament to the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity. As we remember these men and women, we are reminded of the enduring values of duty, honour, and love for one’s country.
For the widows of those who served in subsequent conflicts, this anniversary is a poignant reminder of the cost of war and the enduring impact on families left behind. The War Widows Association, along with the Single Service Associations, exemplify resilience and solidarity, carrying forward the memory of our loved ones with grace and dignity. You find strength in each other, sharing your stories and supporting one another through the journey of loss.
In the spirit of remembrance for D-Day 80, let us reflect on the words of John 15:13, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” For Christians, this scripture captures the profound sacrifice made by those who fought on the beaches in June 1944 and serves as a guiding light, as we navigate our own
paths of grief and remembrance. May we continue to honour the memory of the fallen and reaffirm our commitment to supporting one another. Together, we ensure that the legacy of our loved ones is never forgotten, and their sacrifices continue to inspire future generations.
In faith and remembrance, Padre Ian
Chair’s Corner
When this edition of Courage lands on your doormats I will have been Chairman for just over three months. It’s been both a busy and enjoyable time. I have been out and about and honestly think I have spent more away than I have at home.
When this edition of Courage lands on your doormats I will have been Chairman for just over three months. It’s been both a busy and enjoyable time. I have been out and about and honestly think I have spent more time away than I have at home.
It is with an enormous amount of pride that I am pleased to say His Majesty King Charles III has confirmed he will retain his Patronage of the War Widows Association of Great Britain. This indeed is an honour and I am sure you will all join me in thanking His Majesty for his continued support.
It is with an enormous amount of pride that I am pleased to say His Majesty King Charles III has confirmed he will retain his Patronage of the War Association of Great Britain. This indeed is an honour and I am sure you join me in thanking His Majesty for his continued support.
Thank you for all the congratulatory messages I received when I became Chairman. After all the lovely cards and very touching letters and emails do all that I can to live up to your expectations. I am fortunate to have so much from our previous chairmen whose valuable work set the highest standards of dedication and care. Their commitment was extraordinary know I have much to aspire to.
Thank you for all the congratulatory messages I received when I became Chairman. After all the lovely cards and very touching letters and emails, I will do all that I can to live up to your expectations. I am fortunate to have learned so much from our previous chairmen whose valuable work set the highest standards of dedication and care. Their commitment was extraordinary and I know I have much to aspire to.
On a lighter note, perhaps the strangest and funniest thing that I received a small red bag containing some very random items! Even though I pondered
On a lighter note, perhaps the strangest and funniest thing that I received was a small red bag containing some very random items! Even though I pondered over it for ages, I struggled to find an obvious connection between these trinkets, or anything that might link them together. What did they all mean?
Fortunately, they came with a list of instructions. Read on and I am sure, like me, you will laugh out loud.
Chairman’s Survival Kit
COFFEE – To Make Sure you are Alert in the Mornings
BUTTON –For When You May Need To Button Your Lip
CRAYON – To Make Each Day Bright and Colourful
JELLY BABY– When you Feel Like Biting Someone’s Head Off
JIGSAW – To Help Everyone Fit Together As A Team
ELASTIC BAND – For When You’re Stretched to Your Limit
PLAYING CARD – To Help You Deal With any Situation
MARBLE -Just in Case you Lose Yours
PAPERCLIP – To Help You Hold it all Together
COLA BOTTLE – For When you Could do With a Drink
SALT – When You Need to Take Things With a Pinch of Salt
TEA BAG – Remember to Relax After a Hard Day’s Work
MINT – You Are Worth a Mint to Your Workplace
It was lovely to see so many of you at the AGM in Stratford-upon-Avon. What a lovely town Stratford is and the weather was perfect for a stroll around on the Sunday. I visited the Shakespeare distillery on the Sunday, and managed to fit in a gin tasting.
Since then my time has been taken up finding my feet and getting to know the people and places that come as part of the Chairman’s role. Only last weekend I was at the National Memorial Arboretum for ‘A Time to Reflect’. It was a beautiful warm and sunny day, but there had been a lot of rain in the previous 48 hours. To say the Remembrance Glade was soggy is an understatement! There have also been several trips to London, not just for meetings, although there were many of those too, including the RAF Commemorative Service in St Clement Danes Church, the Anzac Day Parades in Whitehall, a small charities’ seminar, the Union Jack Club’s AGM, and of course the Royal Hospital Chelsea Founders’ Day.
I expect many of you will be joining in the commemorations in June as we mark 80 years since D- Day. If you are attending any services, please remember to take photographs if you can and send them into Courage.
And finally, on the home front, the greenhouse has been scrubbed and cleaned within an inch of its life, and the tomatoes and cucumbers have been planted. Let’s hope that we all have a good summer so that our gardens will flourish.
Stay safe everyone and I look forward to meeting up with many of you in the next few months. Chris
Secretary’s Snippets
It’s been a busy time again since I last wrote, sometimes online but sometimes in person and often in Edinburgh, either in the Castle or the Scottish Parliament! As I write, next up is the Scottish American Memorial Service in Princes Street Gardens on 27th May, then a DDay commemoration event in the Castle, hosted by Commonwealth War Graves Commission on 29th May. The Annual Service of Commemoration in the War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle takes place on 5th June. I’m also honoured to have been invited to Scotland’s Salute – A Tribute to DDay 80th Anniversary in the Usher Hall on 6th June. I think I may have to move to Edinburgh!
Our committee meetings have continued online and in person, and all the agreed minutes are on our website in the members area for you to read, as well as other stuff that goes on in the Association. If you haven’t already joined, please think about it. Forums have been busy, mainly on Campaign 300, but we’re hoping that the new Book Club and others will take off too.
My two adopted elderly cats are both really settled now. I began to think that Toby (12) was never going to stop hiding but now he’s really come out of his shell and even taking his heart medication like a trooper! Jasmine (17) has just been diagnosed as hyperthyroid and arthritis so she’s on 2 lots of medication, which she is taking like a star so far. Old age doesn’t come by itself, even for pussy cats!
I hope this finds you all well, looking forward to summer and enjoying whatever you have planned!
Sue
Treasurer’s Jewels
First let me thank you for electing me Treasurer at the AGM. After almost a year of being co-opted I now really feel part of the family.
The accounts that were presented at the AGM have now been signed (with a minor technical tweak) and will shortly be available on the Charity Commission website.
I very much dislike people who arrive new in post and feel the need to make some sort of dramatic change just to prove that they have arrived. So I have sat and watched so far. Now that I have a year of experience with the War Widows Association, I have identified a few things (nothing dramatic!) to improve the way we operate and support you. Hopefully the changes, which mostly revolve around budgeting and were agreed at the last committee meeting, will be invisible to the vast majority of you. I am also keen to see the Association develop a 5-year plan to build on our and align to our three pillars of Campaigning, Caring and Remembering. But rest assured, I am not advocating changes to our key events of Founders Day, Remembrance Weekend, and the AGM, or to core things like subsidised regional events.
One new departure was our attendance at the Duxford Summer Airshow last weekend (1/2 June). We had conversations with many hundreds of people, handed out lots of
pencils, “bugs”, and cookbooks. Spoke with several people who have relatives of friends who would be eligible to join us, and over a hundred people who have taken away publicity which they have promised to put up on village, shop, pub, gym, school or GP surgery notice boards. In the light of the weekend and some of the feedback we received we are considering reworking some of our publicity material and returning to Duxford for the Battle of Britain weekend airshow on 14/15 September.
I look forward to seeing many of you at Founders Day.
Vice Chair WWA Statistics
Richard
Well it’s happened and I finally, officially, hold the title ‘Vice Chair’– and I have a badge to prove it! But it is only mine on loan – and I shall hand it on in due course. In my role as Vice Chair I have taken on the mantle of ‘Pensions’ Tzar’, albeit on a small scale and in the last edition of Courage I tried to explain the complexity of the military pensions’ schemes; various, multiple, often contradictory and frequently confusing. In this edition I want to ask you to look over the horizon – as the trustees try to plan the future of the Association. There is good reason for us to do this – as trustees it is our duty to plan and think – and consider how will we operate with dwindling
numbers? How will we find committee members? What is our budget to spend/save our money in the years ahead? Indeed, the ultimate question is how long will there be War Widows?
If we look back at the recent operations in Afghanistan and Iraq the UK Armed Forces lost approximately 600 personnel in related deaths. By comparison in WW2 the UK saw approximately 1,0001 deaths on the beaches at Gold and Sword in one day – 6 June 1944, DDay; the 80th anniversary of which approaches as I write.
The effect of this – in simple terms – is that the demographic curve for War Widows and our potential members is skewed heavily towards older ladies. The numbers that follow show how this gives us 2 huge challenges.
The MOD statistics for March 20232 report approx. 10,500 ladies in receipt of a War Widows Pension; interestingly, there were only 49 men receiving the War Widowers’ Pension. Of these ladies 58% are aged over 80 and none are under 40. This is the effect of the introduction in 2005 of the Armed Forces Compensation Scheme – which since its introduction has received just over 1,0003 applications – but made only 400 awards. (If you read my last article you will know that the AFCS has a much higher burden of proof for showing that death is a consequence of service – especially for illnesses.)
An awful comparison is that in April 1915 the War was creating 15,400 widows a month, and by 1919 there were 930,000.
Even in 1997 there were still 57,000 war widows – and although the rate in which the numbers have declined has eased, in the last 2 years we have lost approx. 900 ladies per year. The simple maths for this is that if this continued into the years ahead, we’d all be gone within 11 or 12 years; and I intend to be around longer than that!
So let’s look at the numbers again - from a different perspective. If we say:
• that our youngest war widows are aged 40-50 years or so,
• and the stats say there are currently 1,317 aged under 65,
• and they survive on average for 40 years, by 2064 there will be almost no war widows left.
• And if the rate of AFCS awards is the same as in the last almost 20 years,
• there would be another 800 awards making a total of 1200 AFCS widows.
• There may be as few as 2,500 widows/spouses/civil partners receiving attributable benefits.
So what are the challenges that these numbers present? Firstly that a ‘recruiting’ drive has a very limited pool of potential members. Of the ladies who are aged over 80, most are unlikely to take on an active role in the Association. So if we are looking for members who may be able to become trustees and take on the work of the Association, the challenge is that younger widows will probably have young children and jobs. Which leaves the ladies in the middle age group, they may have multigenerational responsibilities to grandchildren and elderly parents. There will be few to join and even even fewer to take on the work of running the Association.
Looking again at that figure of 25,00, our membership is between 1/5 and 1/10 of the total War Widows population – so how do we continue with declining membership? How do we make an Association work with only 125-250 members, scattered across the country? But most importantly, how do we continue to fight for those left behind?
I don’t have the answers – but these questions create the huge challenges for the trustees, as I said at the start, and they illustrate that we have big decisions to make, which may not always be popular, but may be necessary. But let me give you a final thought - there could be a War Widow (or 2!) still alive in 2100!
The youngest War Widow might be from:
A veteran who was injured aged 20 in 2005 (pre 6 April), who dies of his injuries aged 60 in 2045, having married a much younger woman - say she is aged 45 when he dies. If she lives to age 100 the WWP will continue until 2100!
And you make think that this may seem rather far-fetched – until you discover that the last Civil War (1861-1865) Pension was paid by the US government in 2020! Irene Triplett’s father was aged 83 when she was born in 1930, and he died when she was 8. As she was severely disabled she continued to receive a pension until she died in 2020!
John has diligently and professionally recorded Courage for us for some time now, voluntarily and at his own expense. Sadly, demand for this specialist service is now so low that it is no longer viable for John to continue. We understand, and are so grateful to him for his service and his commitment to the Association over many years.
Thank you, John, – you have been a wonderful supporter.
The Committee of Trustees
Debbie
Annual General Meeting 2024
Stratford upon Avon was the place was the place chosen for this year’s beautiful market town with over 800 years of history. It is, as I am know, the birthplace of William Shakespeare.
Stratford-upon-Avon was the place chosen for this year’s AGM. A beautiful market town with over 800 years of history. It is, as I am sure you all know, the birthplace of William Shakespeare.
We all arrived on Friday in time for dinner, and although some people had to leave on the Sunday morning, others stayed to enjoy the town at its best.
a leisurely stroll around the market, some took a trip down the while others visited the local farm and at least two members gin tasting in the local distillery.
Some took a leisurely stroll around the Sunday market, some took a trip down the river, while others visited the local butterfly farm and at least two members attended a gin tasting in the local distillery.
We all arrived on Friday in time for dinner, and although some people had to leave on the Sunday morning, others stayed to enjoy the town at its best.
We all Friday dinner, some people leave on morning, stayed town at
Some took a leisurely stroll around the Sunday market, some took a trip down the river, while others visited the local butterfly farm and at least two members attended a gin tasting in the local distillery.
The day was made extra special by the lovely early spring weather.
Annual General Meeting 2024 cont...
We were joined by David Domoney, our Ambassador, for lunch on Saturday, and he very graciously gave gardening tips to some of our members.
On Saturday morning we were fortunate to be joined by Lord Harlech, a member of the House of Lords. He listened intently to some of our members as they shared their stories, and promised to help in whatever way he could with our Campaign to get the Widows’ Recognition Payment for those who lost their War Widows’ pensions on remarriage or cohabitation.
Saturday evening saw us joined by the Lord Mayor of Stratford-upon-Avon, Councillor Kate Rolfe, and her consort.
As we always do, we chatted endlessly to each other and caught up with old friends, at the same time as making new acquaintances.
We Ambassador, very of our
On Saturday morning we were fortunate member of the House of Lords. He listened they shared their stories, and promised to our Campaign to get the Widows’ Recognition War Widows’ pensions on remarriage or
It was truly delightful to see so many first timers at this AGM, all mixing and chatting in a lively and friendly manner. All in all, a wonderful and most memorable occasion. I look forward to what the future holds for us all.
Saturday evening saw us joined by the Lord Mayor of Stratford upon Avon, Councillor Kate Rolfe, and her consort.
As we always do, we chatted endlessly to each other and caught up with old friends, at the same time as making new
Chris Dziuba
It was a Saturday night in March and Strictly came to Stratford Upon Avon
It was a Saturday night in March and Strictly came to Stratford-upon-Avon
It was a Saturday night in March and Strictly came to Stratford Upon Avon
We all had the best time dancing the night away to Brooklyn, a superb band who played all the songs we know and love.
night away to Brooklyn, a superb band and love
We all had the best time dancing the night away who played all the songs we know and love
We all had the best time dancing the night away to Brooklyn, a superb band who played all the songs we know and love
We all had the best time dancing the night away to Brooklyn, a superb band who played all the songs we know and love
Strictly came to Stratford-upon-Avon cont...
There was no glitter ball and no dance off, and no-one was sent home.
There was no glitter ball and no dance off, and no-one was sent
These two ladies obviously didn’t understand the rules. Tiller dancing not allowed!
There was no glitter ball and no dance off, and no-one was sent home.
These two ladies obviously didn’t understand the rules. Tiller girls and dancing not allowed! There was no glitter ball and no dance off, and no
These two ladies obviously didn’t understand the rules. Tiller girls and dancing not allowed!
These two ladies obviously didn’t understand the rules. Tiller girls and pole dancing not allowed!
Chris Dziuba
From Ros Dillon-Lee, Dorset
News of members - Freda Gadd
One of our members Freda Gadd celebrated her 105th birthday with family in March, she has lived in Weymouth all her life she met her husband Charlie there while he was stationed there with the Royal Engineers. After 4 years of marriage he was posted to France for D-Day. During the campaign he was wounded twice the second time very seriously and was in hospital for 2 years. For the rest of his life he walked with a stick or used a wheel chair, he died in 1959. Freda has one daughter and still lives independently. Freda has attended many of our lunches and enjoys meeting up with the Weymouth group.
One of our members Freda Gadd celebrated her 105th birthday with family in March, she has lived in Weymouth all her life she met her husband Charlie there while he was stationed there with the Royal Engineers. After 4 years of marriage he was posted to France for D-Day. During the campaign he was wounded twice the second time very seriously and was in hospital for 2 years. For the rest of his life he walked with a stick or used a wheel chair, he died in 1959. Freda has one daughter and still lives independently. Freda has attended many of our lunches and enjoys meeting up with the Weymouth group.
Freda and Charlie on their wedding day
Freda and Charlie on their wedding day
Ros Dillon-Lee, Dorset
News of members -
Isabella MacArthur Bell 1911 - 2008
Isabella MacArthur Bell 1911 - 2008
Imagine the surprise when a parcel addressed to the War Widows Association was opened to reveal an MBE. It came with a note saying “My Grandmother was awarded an MBE in 2000 for Services to the War Widows, and it was my father’s wish that after he died it should go to the Association”.
Imagine the surprise when a parcel addressed to the War Widows Association was opened to reveal an MBE. It came with a note saying “My Grandmother was awarded an MBE in 2000 for Services to the War Widows, and it father’s wish that after he died it should go to the Association”.
This was one to be investigated! I contacted Irene Shiels who I am sure many of you will remember. She was the Association Chairman from 1993 to 1996 and had very fond memories of Isabella. She managed to find some old news letters from the War Widows Association, showing just the kind of enthusiastic and caring person she was. Although I didn’t know this lady as I read the snippets of news and adventures I got the feeling that she was really special. Isobel’s grand-daughter described her Grandmother as a feisty wee Scot who was always active, slightly naughty and as well as War Widows was involved in amateur dramatics and light opera well into her eighties.
Isobel’s husband Lieutenant Alexander Bell died in 1944, aged 33 years and is buried in Bayeux Cemetery. He was in charge of a 3 ton lorry full of men going out on detachment to an anti-tank unit. The lorry caught fire and Lieutenant Bell and a few others tried unsuccessfully to put the fire out. He and another soldier were killed when the lorry exploded.
This was one to be investigated! I contacted Shiels who I am sure many of you will remember. She was the Association Chairman from 1993 and had very fond memories of Isabella. managed to find some old news letters from Widows Association, showing just the enthusiastic and caring person she was. Although didn’t know this lady as I read the snippets and adventures and got the feeling that she was special. Isobel’s grand-daughter described Grandmother as a feisty wee Scot who was active, slightly naughty and as well as War was involved in amateur dramatics and light well into her eighties.
Chris Dziuba
Isabel’s account of the tree planting as printed in the War Widows newsletter
Chester City Council is in the process of planting a Wood of Reconciliation and, I chose an English Oak, which I pray will grow and bloom for ever in memory of my husband Lieutenant Alexander bell. This took place on a very cold day, which I understand is the best time to plant trees. Members of my family attended, also Irene Bloor and Ruth Crossman and the Sherriff of Chester. I may say that Robert stole the show and loved helping to dig the hole for the tree. After the planting Irene read an impressive passage and ended with a short prayer. In all a beautiful service. Then off to the Court Hotel for lunch beginning with hot soup which was most welcome. A sincere thank you to all who supported me on the day. I was in a state of great pride and sadness too.
Isobel’s husband Lieutenant Alexander Bell died in 1944, aged 33 years buried in Bayeux Cemetery. He was in charge of a 3 ton lorry full of men out on detachment to an anti-tank unit. The lorry caught fire and Lieutenant and a few others tried unsuccessfully to put the fire out. He and another were killed when the lorry exploded.
This is an old photograph of Isabel planting with help from grandson Robert.
This is an old photograph of Isabel planting a tree with help from great grandson Robert.
It is believed that the silver spade used during he planting was once used by the Queen.
buried in Bayeux Cemetery. He was in charge of a 3 ton lorry full out on detachment to an anti-tank unit. The lorry caught fire and and a few others tried unsuccessfully to put the fire out. He and were killed when the lorry exploded.
This is an of Isabel with help grandson Robert It is believed spade used planting was he Queen.
Isabella MacArthur Bell, a tribute by Irene Shiels (Bloor) MBE
Warm, friendly and enthusiastic with the kind of smile that would brighten the darkest day, Isobel as she was known to the War Widows Association was a delightful lady. The widow of Lieutenant Alexander Bell, and mother to Eleanor and Alex, life was difficult for Isobel, as it was for many War Widowsof her generation. Although not a Founder member of the War Widows Association Isobel was an early recruit. She served as Regional Organiser for Chester, Wirral and North wales for some 20 years. She even included Liverpool City for a short time. Isobel was one of those Regional Organisers who believed in making sure “her ladies” were recognised and remembered. Long before it became an expectation Isobel was arranging regular meetings, coffee mornings, lunches and even boat trips on the River Dee. All funded by monies raised through her contacts with Civic Authorities, local associations and businesses. She was an enthusiastic member of an amateur dramatic society and used her eloquence and undoubted presence to persuade these organisations that they should help. She encouraged all her members to participate in events and especially welcomed the younger members. I especially remember Jane, Janet and Kirsty, three Army widows whose husbands had been killed as a direct consequence of the “troubles in Northern Ireland. Isobel took them firmly under her wing and involved them in local and National activities, so ensuring their sacrifices were equally remembered. Isobel was awarded the MBE in 2000 for Services to the War Widows in Cheshire. A recognition most justly deserved. She died in 2008. Isobel was loved by everyone who knew her and I am proud to remember her as a friend. - 19 -
In Memory...
Mrs Wilhemina Ahern - County Cork
Mrs Barbara Arnold - Kent Central
Mrs Bernice Bartlett - Kent Central
Mrs Jean Blackwell - South Wiltshire
Mrs Renee Blezard - Cornwall
Mrs Helen Bray - Leicestershire
Mrs M Brown - Glasgow/SW Scotland
Mrs Hilda Brown - Surrey
Mr Ronald Cowle - Wirral
Mrs Dorothy Cummins - South Wiltshire
Mrs June Doughty - Bristol & Bath
Mrs Grace Dowell - Edinburgh/SE Scotland
Mrs Sarah Evans - Overseas
Mrs Mary Fox - Isle of Man
Mrs Pearl Gloine - Plymouth
Mrs Joan Green - Plymouth
Mrs Jill Harper - Birmingham
Mrs Pauline Harris - Suffolk
Mrs Kathleen Harvey - Isle of Wight
Mrs Patricia Hawes - West Yorkshire
Mrs Angela Holland - SE Wales
Mrs A Hughes - Glasgow/SW Scotland
Mrs Joyce Keable - Gloucestershire
Mr Bruce Kelly - Dundee/Central Scotland
Mr Patrick Kilgallen - Staffordshire
Mrs Joan Lewis - North Wiltshire
Mrs Valerie Lucas - North Wiltshire
Mrs Beryl Madden - North Wiltshire
Mrs M M Malone - Bristol & Bath
Mrs Doreen Mansley - Hampshire
Mrs Sylvia Anne Marron - Mansfield
Mrs Marjorie Marsden - Shropshire
Mrs Mary Mawhood - Bristol & Bath
Mrs Elsie Miles - North Wiltshire
Mrs Ena Mitchell - Oxfordshire
Mrs Beryl Murray - Nottinghamshire
Mrs Elsie Oakshett - Surrey
Mrs Elizabeth Orr - Aberdeen/NE Scotland
Mrs Lilian Peet - Northamptonshire
Mrs Patricia Salmon - Cornwall
Mrs Edna Seeley - Norfolk
Mrs Veronica Simpson - North Kent
Mrs Betty Windrum - Northern Ireland
Dr Digby Withers - Hertfordshire
Mrs Mary Yardley - North Kent
Memories from David Mitchell
Lord ‘Frank’ Field’s recent death brings back memories of his quiet support of the War Widows, both in the House of Commons and the House of Lords, during his long Political career. Described by Irene Sheils, past National Chair and Members Vice President, as someone with an involved Social Obligation Lord Field often spoke when the debates concerned War Pensions etc. He attended our November Lunches and sometimes, when possible, just came and stood at the back of our Saturday Muster. A good friend, well remembered! It is believed that one of his Grandmothers was a First World War Widow.
Another sad passing is that of Ian Medhurst from Scunthorpe. Ian acted as my (David Mitchell’s) “Scrutineer” for many years when I was your Returning Officer, a job he carried out with great diligence and responsibility. We often had thousands of votes to validate and then count, sometimes meaning two trips for Ian to my home in Lincoln, but Ian’s cheerful and enthusiastic spirit kept us going. As befits an ex-RAF man, nothing escaped Ian’s attention. It was long and often arduous work but we always kept a sense of humour. I will miss him.
The War Widows’ Association extends condolences to family and friends of all those members who have sadly passed away.
proper book club meeting. No doubt this meeting will be as enjoyable for one, am looking forward to it. The bonus will be as time goes on, more books but also made new friends.
War Widows Book Club from Reading Force
Reading Force is a charity specifically for those with military connections, children, and encourages communication between family and friends. more, you can find them at www.readingforce.org.uk
Margaret Hind, RO Assistant
Enjoy reading and meeting new people, especially if you have something in common with them?
Earlier this year the War Widows Association had the opportunity to start their own online book club with the generous support of Reading Force.
After the initial email offering members of the association the opportunity to join, there were so many replies we had enough to create a second book club which will be starting in the Autumn. There are still a few spaces in the group so look out for the next email offering places.
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Once we’d registered as a group Reading Force gave us a selection of titles to choose from including ‘Where the Crawdads Sing’ by Delia Owen, ‘Capital’ by John Lanchester, and ‘Grown Ups’ by Marian Keyes.
We decided on a date and time to meet, chose a book and then waited for the postman to deliver the goods which in this case was Skios by Michael Frayn. As a group, we are scattered throughout the country from Elgin to Emsworth, with a corresponding age range, but we have two things in common, we are all war widows and we all enjoy reading.
After a lovely initial meeting last month, just to chat and get to know each other, we were all keen to open our books. By the time you are reading this article we will have had our first proper book club meeting. No doubt this meeting will be as enjoyable as the previous and I, for one, am looking forward to it. The bonus will be as time goes on, not only will I have read more books but also made new friends.
Reading Force is a charity specifically for those with military connections, both adults and children, and encourages communication between family and friends. If you want to know more, you can find them at www.readingforce.org.uk
Margaret Hind, RO Assistant
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WELCOME
We would like to welcome our new members and hope you enjoy reading your magazine.
Should you have any questions about any of the events listed or would like to find out more about the work of the Association please contact one of your Trustees, contact details on the inside front cover.
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FULL members of the War Widows’ Association are afforded the privilege of Temporary Honorary Membership of the Union Jack Club (UJC), Sandell Street, London SE1 8UJ; this privilege enables Full members to access to the club’s facilities upon presentation of a War Widows’ Association Membership Card. To obtain a Membership Card Full members should send their full contact details, full name and address including postcode (BLOCK CAPITALS), telephone number, together with a copy of your awards notification to confirm your entitlement under the War Pension Scheme or Armed Forces Compensation Scheme, you should also include a Passport size photo and also enclose a stamped addressed envelope; please send to the Membership Secretary, War Widows’ Association, c/o 199 Borough High Street, London, SE1 1AA. It may take a number of weeks for your application to be processed as the Association is managed totally by volunteers and does not have any paid staff or permanent offices.
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Via email to: veterans-uk@mod.uk Website:- www.gov.uk/veterans-uk
Via Letter to: Ministry of Defence, Norcross, Thornton Cleveleys, Lancashire, FY5 3WP
Please include:- Full Name, Address, Postcode, Country (if overseas), daytime telephone number with dialling code the best time to contact you by telephone during the daytime, the time difference to GMT (if overseas). If your query relates to a pension issue include your National Insurance Number and reference number.
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NEW BADGES
We have new War Widows Association badges, and every member can receive one for the cost of postage and packing Contact merchandise@warwidows. org.uk for more information and instructions of how to pay the postage.
Changes of Details
It is important for members to make sure the information that the Association holds on you in its database is current and accurate; if your details are not up to date you could be missing out on important information. Therefore, if you change your address or wish to inform us of any other change to your membership please email database@warwidows.org.uk as soon as possible; or write to War Widows’ Association, PO Box 29265, DUNFERMLINE, KY12 2FH.
Please Note: You need to ensure that it is the War Widows’ Association that you have informed of any change to your details as other agencies are not permitted to pass on information to a third party due to Data Protection. REMEMBER - THE DEADLINE FOR COPY FOR THE NEXT COURAGE IS 1st October 2024
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Some options to help with travelling around
The HM Forces Railcard Operated by the Royal British Legion
The HM Forces railcard available through the Royal British legion (this card is not currently accepted in Northern Ireland). To be eligible you must be in receipt of a Forces Family Pension from the Armed Forces Pension Scheme (AFPS) 1975 or AFPS 2005 AND a War Widows / War Widowers Pension OR An Armed Forces Compensation Scheme 2005 Survivors Guaranteed Income Payment (SGIP)
For more information visit the www.britishlegion.org.uk or telephone Edd Robinson, Grants manager on 0808 802 8080 or email centralgrantsteam@britishlegion.org.uk. or write to The Pensions Officer (Railcards)
The Royal British Legion, 199 Borough High Street, London SE1 1AA
War Widows Association Senior Railcard - operated by the War Widows’ Association A small number of war widow/ers may not be eligible to apply for the HM Forces War Widow/ers Railcard; if this is the case you may apply for a War Widows’ Association Senior Railcard. You must be over 60 years of age, a Full member of the War Widows’ Association and in receipt of a War Widow/ers Pension. The application form is available to download from our website www.warwidows.org.uk or by emailing the Secretary at secretary.warwidows.org.uk or by writing to:
The Secretary, The War Widows’ Association of GB c/o 199 Borough High Street, London SE1 1AA
Veterans Concessionary Travel Scheme (VCTS) Operated by Transport for London. War Widows/ers, AFCS War Widows and recognised partners of any age, in receipt of ongoing payments from the War Pension Scheme or the Armed Forces Compensation Scheme may apply for a VCTS Oyster Photo Card which entitles the bearer to free travel at any time in London on the bus, tube, Docklands Light Railway and London Overground Services. There are some concessions on travel on mainline rail services just outside the Greater London Zone. For more information and details on how to apply please visit http://www. tfl.gov.uk/fares-and-payments/adult-discounts-and-concessions/veteransoyster-photocard?intcmp=10819 or call 0343 222 1234
This new project has been underway since the beginning of January and has been made possible by funding from the Veterans’ Foundation.
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during the pandemic, in which 37 members received iPads and training. The Veterans’ Foundation has given us a grant to run a smaller version of that project, along with continuing to build our online community and creating a more structured Regional Organiser Network.
War Widows Connected is another important project, and due to the impact the pandemic has had on many of our members it is even more important than ever that people have the access to, and skills to use, digital technologies to stay connected with friends and family.
The project was open to ALL members of the WWA and we had up to 10 iPads available this time.
Letters and application forms were sent out to all WWA members in January 2024 asking for participants to apply to the project. We had 9 members apply to take part in the project.
After many phone calls and email exchanges, members received their iPads on 30th April along with the first evaluation form.
Training has started and some members are getting ready to book in for their 3 rd session already. Some members have yet to have their first session due to ill health, and we wish them all the best for their recovery so we can help get them online and more connected once they are back to full strength.
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project.
If you have any questions about this project, would like to express interest in applying next year or would like some IT training for yourself, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directly for a wee chat
Have a lovely summer J
Helen Raw
Project
Manager,
War Widows Connected Project 07775 592 604 | warwidowsconnected@helenraw.com
associations and from Scotty’s Little Soldiers. We all made our and joined the service which was led by Reverend Nicola Frail.
A Time to Reflect
It was a beautiful spring day at the National Memorial Arboretum on 18th May. The previous week had seen a lot of rain, and this left the Remembrance Glade muddy and very slippery. Fortunately, we had all been forewarned and the majority of attendees wore suitable footwear. There was an impressive crowd of representatives from the War Widows Association, along with the three single service widows’ associations and from Scotty’s Little Soldiers. We all made our way to the Glade and
majority of attendees wore suitable footwear. There of representatives from the War Widows Association, service widows’ associations and from Scotty’s Little way to the Glade and joined the service which was
After the Service we were all invited to pick a flower and place it on the mirrored centre piece in the Remembrance Glade, or to take a flower and place it elsewhere in the Arboretum.
joined the service which was led by Reverend Nicola Frail.
After the Service we were all invited to pick a flower and place it on the mirrored centre piece in the Remembrance Glade, or to take a flower and place it elsewhere in the Arboretum.
Following the service there was time to explore the Arboretum and visit those memorials that had a special meaning to us. The Arboretum is an enormous woodland landscape of 150 acres. It houses over 400 memorials, both personal and organisational, and more than 25,00 trees. It is a deeply moving and very beautiful site. I placed my flower at the
After invited place piece Glade, place Arboretum.
for the roses to be in bloom, but the
memorial to Baroness Strange in the War Widows Association Rose Garden. It was too early for the roses to be in bloom, but the garden was tidy and looked cared for.
Before lunch some members found time for a sit down and a rest on the War Widows’ bench
Before lunch some members found time for a sit down and a rest on the War Widows’ bench
Sadly, the memorial alongside the bench was worn and weather beaten. The red colouring of our logo had almost disappeared. One of the first things I did when I returned home was to contact the Arboretum to ask what the procedure was for restoring the memorial. At the time of writing, I await an answer.
Sadly, the memorial alongside the bench was worn and weather beaten. The red colouring of our logo had almost disappeared. One of the first things I did when I returned home was to contact the Arboretum to ask what the procedure was for restoring the memorial. At the time of writing, I await an answer.
garden was tidy and looked cared for. Before time War Sadly, bench The almost things to contact the procedure memorial. await
A most welcome buffet lunch was served in Aspects restaurant allowing us to catch with friends, old and new, before driving home.
A most welcome buffet lunch was served in Aspects restaurant allowing us to catch up with friends, old and new, before driving home.
Chris Dziuba
Dates for the diary 2024
Founder’s Day Guards Chapel, LondonFriday 6th September
Opening of Field of Remembrance, Westminster AbbeyThursday 7th November
War Widows Association Service of Remembrance, Cenotaph, LondonSaturday 9th November
Remembrance SundaySunday 10th November
2025
War Widows Association AGM, Hotel Mercure, WinchesterFriday 11th, Saturday 12th and Sunday 13th April 2025
Anzac Day
occasion when these colonial soldiers fought alongside each other. On 25th 1915, the Anzacs landed on the western side of the Gallipoli peninsula. Five Anzacs died that day, and the site was known thereafter as Anzac The campaign was the land-based element of a strategy intended to allow ships to pass through the Dardanelles and capture Constantinople, (now Istanbul).
On April 25th Trustees represented the War Widows Association at dawn parades in Glasgow, Edinburgh and London. Yes, that’s right, dawn parades. At 5am we stood alongside soldiers from the Australian and New Zealand Army Corps – ANZACS - to remember troops who died in the Gallipoli campaign, the first occasion when these colonial soldiers fought alongside each other. On 25th April 1915, the Anzacs landed on the western side of the Gallipoli peninsula. Five thousand Anzacs died that day, and the site was known thereafter as Anzac Cove. The campaign was the land-based element of a strategy intended to allow Allied ships to pass through the Dardanelles and capture Constantinople, (now known as Istanbul).
Kate Thomas attended a service at the Commonwealth War Graves in Glasgow
Kate Thomas attended a service at the Commonwealth War Graves in Glasgow Corps – ANZACS - to remember troops who died in the Gallipoli campaign, first occasion when these colonial soldiers fought alongside each other.
April 1915, the Anzacs landed on the western side of the Gallipoli peninsula. thousand Anzacs died that day, and the site was known thereafter Cove. The campaign was the land-based element of a strategy intended Allied ships to pass through the Dardanelles and capture Constantinople, known as Istanbul). Kate Thomas attended a service Commonwealth War Graves
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The Chairman attended the dawn service at the Wellington Arch at Hyde Park Corner in London,
The Chairman attended the dawn service at the Wellington Arch Hyde Park Corner in London
After the dawn service the Chairman attended a service in Westminster Abbey The service Hyde
After the dawn service the Chairman attended a service in Westminster Abbey,
After the dawn attended a service
After the dawn service the Chairman
attended a service in Westminster Abbey
Sue Raw attended a service at Comely Road cemetery and afterwards she attended a service at the Shrine at the National War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle.
Sue Raw attended a service at Comely Road cemetry and afterwards she attended a service at the Shrine at the National War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle.
Road attended National Castle.
Having laid Memorial opposite Wellington Arch, the Chairman
Having laid a wreath at the Australian War Arch, the Chairman returned the following day
Sue Raw
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Having laid a wreath at the Australian War Memorial opposite Wellington Arch, the Chairman returned the following day to find that someone had left a full tin of Anzac biscuits as a symbolic and poignant gesture.
It is thought that Anzac biscuits were sent by wives and women’s groups to soldiers abroad because the ingredients did not spoil easily and the biscuits kept well during naval transportation. The original Anzac biscuit was known as Anzac wafer or tile, and along with beef bully, was part of the rations given to soldiers during World War 1. They were included instead of bread because they had a much longer shelf-life. As you can imagine, fresh and nourishing food was scarce for soldiers during that time. The story goes that the women back in Australia wanted to do something about it and came up with a biscuit that they could send that would survive the long journey overseas without spoiling. Made from rolled oats, coconut, sugar, flour, butter, golden syrup, bicarbonate soda and boiling water, the traditional ANZAC biscuit was born.
Buttery and sweet with a slight zing from the bicarbonate soda, they are traditionally baked until they are crunchy jaw-breakers. According to the Australian War Memorial in Canberra, soldiers would grind them up to make porridge.
Chris Dziuba
to find that had left Anzac biscuits symbolic gesture. It is thought biscuits were wives and groups to soldiers abroad because the ingredients did not spoil easily biscuits kept well during naval transportation. The original Anzac known as Anzac wafer or tile, and along with beef bully, was part given to soldiers during World War 1. They were included instead because they had a much longer shelf-life. As you can imagine, fresh nourishing food was scarce for soldiers during that time. The story the women back in Australia wanted to do something about it and with a biscuit that they could send that would survive the long journey overseas without spoiling. Made from rolled oats, coconut, sugar,
Traditional ANZAC biscuits
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 12 minutes
Total Time: 22 minutes
Yield: approx 16
Ingredients
● 1 cup plain flour
● 1/2 cup sugar
● 1 cup rolled oats
● 1 cup desiccated coconut
● 125g butter
● 1/4 cup golden syrup
● 1/2 teaspoon bicarbonate of soda
● 1 tablespoon boiling water
Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 160C (fan-forced). Line baking trays with baking paper
2. Sift flour and sugar into a bowl. Add oats and coconut and mix together
3. In a small saucepan heat golden syrup and butter on a low heat, stirring until melted and smooth
4. Dissolve the bicarbonate of soda in boiling water, then add immediately to the butter/syrup mixture. Note that the mixture will foam (so fun to watch!)
5. Make a well in the dry ingredients and pour in the wet mixture. Stir well
6. Use an ice cream scoop or tablespoon measure to scoop up the mixture. Form balls with your hands and place on the tray. Flatten the balls gently and allow some room for spreading (as you can see in the photos, they can look very ‘rustic’!)
7. Bake for 10 – 12 minutes for a chewy biscuit or 15 – 20 for a crunchy biscuit (make sure you watch biscuits carefully if baking a crunchy biscuit to make sure they don’t burn)
8. Remove from the oven and transfer to a wire rack immediately to cool
Notes The biscuits will stay crisp for about 1 week in an airtight container. After that they will soften a bit, but are still good! If the biscuits go soft they can be crisped up in the oven-5 mins at 180o C - Enjpy.
Chris Dziuba
ROL Report & R O Reports
REGIONAL ORGANISER LIAISON RAMBLINGS
Contact details - Email: rol@warwidows.org.uk
The little band of ROs has increased by 1! Tara Cunningham has recently taken on the role in Northern Ireland, welcome Tara.
By the time you read this, we will have had our first regional get together via Zoom. I’ll report on how it went next time, but the initial aim was to allow the ladies to see who else lived in their area and have a chat with the volunteer who’d offered to possibly arrange a funded lunch. This will, hopefully, have avoided lots of toing and froing with possible dates, venue ideas etc. etc. and made the lunch accessible to as many as possible. All Zoom meetings will be hosted and moderated by either Margaret, myself, or both of us, so they will be safe spaces to meet.
The online book club hosted by Margaret is up and running, they had their first Zoom meeting in April, which by all accounts, went well. There will, hopefully, be another one taking place in the autumn as there was so much interest that we have a waiting list!
I am here to support the ROs to support their members but as we have so few, and large areas of the country are not covered, I can also support members directly to arrange funded events etc. I’m still going to try to get out and about during the year to meet up with some of you so, do get in touch if you have a suggestion as to where I could visit. As always, my contact details are in the front of Courage.
Best wishes
Liz Carter
BEDFORDSHIRE, BUCKINGHAMSHIRE AND CAMBRIDGESHIRE
Contact details - Gill Grigg 01296 482393
Email grigg493@btinternet.com
I hope you are all well and enjoying life.
Area 1
Once again health issues have prevented me from holding any meetings yet in 2024. My left hip had been playing up for some time so it was decided that I would have a full replacement operation on 14 March six weeks ago on Thursday.
I saw the consultant yesterday and he was very pleased with my progress. It is still very painful but hopefully that will reduce with time. I am doing the exercises and walking further each day so hopefully I will be driving again very soon and able to arrange meetings. I do miss seeing you all.
I have just come back from my walk and have done 1200 steps and 16 lamp posts. (I count the lamp posts and hope to increase by one each day!)
I had two weeks of respite care in a care home when I came home from hospital and was very well looked after. The staff were all very helpful and caring. I had a lovely ensuite room with access to the garden and a wonderful view over the Chiltern Hills. There were sheep and horses in the field and numerous rabbits and birds to keep me amused. It is so good to be back in my own home
I was unable to attend the AGM in person or remotely. I am sure there will be full reports in this Edition of Courage. As always opinions I have heard have varied but not having attended I cannot comment. I understand that a lot of time was spent discussing the Position of the Widows applying for the lump sum payment.
Listening to the radio I understand that the King hopes to be fit to undertake duties very shortly which is really good news.
I am looking forward to some warmer weather and sunshine and am hoping the Council organises road repairs near me soon as it is increasingly difficult to avoid the potholes.
I must make an appointment for my next Covid jab having just received the Invitation to book from the NHS.
There is still a lot of the disease about as well as seasonal flu, so please do have your next booster jab.
Thank you for your messages and cards, I look forward to seeing you soon.
Best wishes
Gill
CORNWALL
Contact details - Susan Williams 0845 2412189
Email wwarocornwall@btinternet.com
Area 4
After a cold, windy and very long wet winter that seemed to go on forever, thank goodness I think we have turned a corner into warmer drier weather. By the time this Summer edition of Courage lands on your doorstep I hope you are sitting in the sunshine enjoying an ice cream. Our swallows are back on the farm once again, I think it’s marvellous how they navigate the world twice a year.
My visit to Stratford- upon- Avon for our AGM in March was very enjoyable. It was so lovely to see friends from all over the UK again, catching up on news from around our regions and sending best wishes back to members for various reasons not present. I would like to thank Moira and wish her a very happy retirement from her three years of chairmanship; I hope you have time to walk your two lovely dogs and spend time with friends and family once again, and I do hope to see you at future events. I wish both Chris and Debbie success in their new roles for the next three years.
Here in Cornwall it is time for the influx of visitors to descend upon us for the holiday season, I do hope it’s a good safe time for all. I am looking forward to sunny days on our boat and fingers crossed catching some fish for tea. I also look forward to meeting up with members for lunch and afternoon tea. Take care and enjoy the sunshine. Susan
The sun is shining it isn’t raining - is this Devon! Let’s hope now that summer has arrived that we have ‘proper’ summer weather and that you are able to get out and enjoy it, even if it’s just in the garden or maybe just to open windows and let the summer in.
I would love to see more of our Devon members but it is becoming very difficult to find a venue and time where we can meet. My last letter listed some events where War Widows have been invited, they were mostly in the Plymouth area but I am hoping that we will be invited to the Devon Festival of Remembrance again this year and if we are the I do hope that many of you will be there to enjoy the evening.
I would like to organise a Christmas lunch or tea but where to hold it? I thought it would have to be a large town with transport links so the obvious would be Exeter, Torquay, Barnstable or Newton Abbot. Any thoughts and would you come along? Do please give me a ring.
Best wishes to you all.
Irene
DORSET
Contact details - Ros Dillon-Lee 01202 301929
Area 10
Well here we are in spring at last what a wet depressing winter we have had, it is partly due to he weather that I have not yet organised any lunches but I promise I will get round to it soon. I will be in touch when I have arranged some summer outings. Do get in touch if you have any ideas about good lunch venues.
Have a good summer and stay well.
DUNDEE AND CENTRAL SCOTLAND
Contact details - Sue Raw 07500 060518 or sue_raw@yahoo.co.uk
Ros
Area 59
At the time of writing, we are looking forward to our summer lunch at the Beefeater at Discovery Quay in Dundee on Tuesday 11th June – always a good turnout, good food and great banter.
Monthly meetings take place on the second Tuesday of the month at 10.30 in the DCA (next door to the Queen’s Hotel) for Dundee members, but all are welcome if you’re in the area!
Sue Raw
Area 16
Contact details - Madlaine Dunn 07879 640253
Email madlainedunn@netscape.net
Hello everybody, I am sorry to say it is still cold when I am writing this, let’s hope by the time “Courage” comes out the weather will improve.
I attended the A.G.M. in Stratford-on-Avon in March and it was not warm then, but it was nice to see some of the familiar faces.
I am still holding my meetings in H.M.S. Nelson Wardroom on the second Tuesday of the month at 11.00am followed by lunch in the mess. If you would like to join us, you would be most welcome but please let me know as you need to be booked in. I also hold lunches on the third Sunday of each month at the “Ship Anson” at 12.30.p.m. Again if you would like to join us, I need to know four days before the date of the lunch. I am going to hold the summer lunch for the Association on the third Sunday in July at the Ship Anson, 13.30pm. The Association will pay the first £15.00 for the lunch, anybody who wishes to come please either email me or phone me at least four days before the date.
Ladies of the I.O.W I hope you are keeping well; you are more than welcome to join us in anything I arrange just let me know. If you need help or wish just to talk, I am here. Take care,
Madlaine
KENT CENTRAL
Contact details - Rosalind Campbell 01483 852056
Area 20
We had a very enjoyable lunch in April. I was wearing my WWA scarf and a young fellow came over and bought us all a glass of wine to thank us as he said he would not have had the life he had if it hadn’t been for our support for our husbands. Wasn’t that kind!
We hope to meet for our 2nd lunch of the year on 4 November at 12 O’clock in The Barn in Tunbridge Wells where we have been warmly welcomed for many years. Please let me know if you want to join us.
You can contact me directly by telephone on 01483 852056, or by email roscampbell07@ yahoo.co.uk. If you need to contact me via the PO address, please mark the envelope Private and Confidential.
With my kindest regards
MANCHESTER
Contact details - Margaret Crerar 0161 789 5334
Area 30
Firstly, let me start by apologising for missing the meet up with everyone in March at the AGM. As some of you no doubt have heard, I was poorly, but I am now on the slow road to recovery.
In January the Ladies from Manchester met up with the Lady Mayoress of Manchester, Councillor Yasmine Dar for afternoon tea (photo enclosed). The War Widows have since been invited to a service at Manchester Cathedral on Sunday 19th May.
I will be touch later this year about meeting up for lunch over the summer.
Margaret
Rosalind
NORTH WILTSHIRE
Contact details - Liz Carter 01249 890219 Email liz@carterhousehold.co.uk
After all the excesses of the autumn, it’s been a quiet start to the year with just the coffee mornings happening. There were good turnouts, with a vibrant buzz, for both the January and March meetings which were held in Crown’s café in the REME museum. Everyone who attended agreed that it was a good venue so, unless you hear otherwise, we will meet there each time for the foreseeable future. We will soon be making plans for the summer subsidised event, probably to take place in July or August so if you have any ideas or don’t hear anything, do get in touch.
Recently we’ve welcomed Madelaine and Pamela and soon hope to meet Mary from ‘out of area’ so if anybody else from a bordering region is thinking about joining us, do give us a try, the more, the merrier.
Sadly though, we have lost 2 members this year; Joan Lewis who, although housebound, was a proud member of the Association and Val Lucas who was a staunch supporter until she became ill. Also, recently I found out that Doreen Mansley, who had moved away but had loved to keep in contact with her old friends here, died last year. It was good to see 3 local members at the AGM in March and maybe I’ll have a chance to catch up with more at the other national events later in the year. In the meantime, take care.
Diary Dates Coffee mornings; 17th July, 11th Sept, 13th Nov 10-12 noon. Crown’s café REME Museum SN15 4XX. Contact Liz Carter on 01249 890219, liz@ carterhousehold.co.uk for more information and the venue.
Plymouth members enjoyed a lovely Afternoon Tea, the sun shone and we were able to commemorate the 80th Anniversary of D Day. Only seven members came along to the Tudor Rose Tea Rooms and Garden, a listed building on the Elizabethan cobbled New Street, one of the oldest streets on the Plymouth Barbican, a venue new to us but it did deliver. It was disappointing that we were such a small group but we made up for the lack of numbers with lots of chatter and laughs. We have now booked up for a seasonal lunch in December. Wishing you all happy warm and sunny summer. Take care
Irene Wills
SURREY & SUSSEX
Contact details - Rosalind Campbell 01483 852056
Area 47, 48 & 49
I trust you are well and looking forward to the summer after our very wet and windy Spring. I am off to the US soon. Usually I go for Christmas when there is lots of snow and we cannot get out, so I hope that this will be a warm and sunny visit! We meet twice in the year in the Guildford area, in Spring and Autumn. If you would like to come along please let me know.
You can contact me on: Telephone: 01483 852056, or by email at roscampbell07@ yahoo.co.uk. If you need to contact me via the PO Box address please mark the envelope Private and Confidential. Keep well and stay safe
Rosalind Campbell MBE
Royal Hospital Chelsea Founders’ Day
looking very glamorous
Royal Hospital Chelsea Founders’ Day
Royal Hospital Chelsea Founders’
Royal Hospital Chelsea Founders’ Day
Day
We were suited and booted and looking very glamorous as we left the RAF Club and headed for the Royal Hospital Chelsea. This year held an extra special significance for some of the In-Pensioners at the Royal Hospital. Their traditional Founders’ Day Service coincided with the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings in World War II. Of the 273 In-Pensioners in the Royal Hospital, 13 of them served in the Second World War.
We were suited and booted and looking very glamorous as we left the RAF Club and headed for the Royal Hospital Chelsea. This year held an extra special significance for some of the In-Pensioners at the Royal Hospital. Their traditional Founders’ Day Service coincided with the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings in World War II. Of the 273 In-Pensioners in the Royal Hospital, 13 of them served in the Second World War.
We were suited and booted and looking very glamorous as we left the RAF Club and headed for the Royal Hospital Chelsea. This year held an extra special significance for some of the In-Pensioners at the Royal Hospital. Their traditional Founders’ Day Service coincided with the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings in World War II. Of the 273 In-Pensioners in the Royal Hospital, 13 of them served in the Second World War.
RAF Club and headed Hospital Chelsea. This extra special significance the In-Pensioners Hospital. Their traditional Day Service coincided anniversary of the D-D World War II. Of the 273 in the Royal Hospital served in the Second World
We were suited and booted looking very glamorous as we left RAF Club and headed for the Royal Hospital Chelsea. This year held extra special significance for some the In-Pensioners at the Royal Hospital. Their traditional Founders’ Day Service coincided with the anniversary of the D-Day landings
There was more than enough time to pose for photographs with the In-Pensioners.
There was more than enough time to pose for photographs
There was more than enough time to pose for photographs with the InPensioners.
There was more than enough time to pose for photographs with the InPensioners.
World War II. Of the 273 In-Pensioners in the Royal Hospital, 13 of them served in the Second World War.
The sun shone on the parade as the Coldstream Guards Band played and the InPensioners formed up for inspection by the Reviewing Officer. This year it was Her Royal Highness The Princess Royal.
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The sun shone on the parade as the Coldstream Guards Band played and the In- Pensioners formed up for inspection by the Reviewing Officer. This year it was Her Royal Highness The Princess Royal.
The sun shone on the parade as the Coldstream Guards Band played and the In Pensioners formed up for inspection by the Reviewing Officer. This year it was Her Royal Highness The Princess Royal.
We had a good view of the parade from our tiered seats and although we didn’t
The sun shone on the parade as the Coldstream Guards Band played and the InPensioners formed up for inspection by the Reviewing Officer. This year it was Her Royal Highness The Princess Royal.
We had a good view of the parade from our tiered seats and although we didn’t hear what Her Royal Highness said to the In-Pensioners, their smiles in response somehow said it all!
We had a good view of the parade from our tiered seats and although we didn’t hear what Her Royal Highness said to the In-Pensioners, their smiles in response somehow said it all!
hear what Her Royal Highness said to the In-Pensioners, their smiles in response somehow said it all!
We had a good view of the parade from our tiered seats and although we didn’t hear what Her Royal Highness said to the In-Pensioners, their smiles in response somehow said it all!
After the parade, the War Widows were invited to a reception where we met and chatted to other guests.
After the parade, the War Widows were invited to a reception where we met and chatted to other guests.
After the parade, the War Widows were invited to a reception where we met and chatted to other guests.
After the parade, the War Widows were invited to a reception where we met and chatted to other guests.
A good time was had by all.
A good time was had by all.
A good time was had by all.
A good time was had by all.
A good time was had by all.
A good time was had by all.
Chris Dziuba
Are YOU ready to become a Trustee?
The War Widows’ Association is looking for new trustees to join the board. As a trustee you will become an important part in running this Association, which is so close to all of our hearts.
As a Trustee you will play an important role in the running of this Association, which is so close to our hearts.
Next year we are looking to recruit a Secretary and a Remembrance Trustee.
All our Trustees are volunteers who work for home. We meet regularly both virtually and face to face.
If you are interested in either role or would like more information please contact secretary@warwidows.org.uk
If you are ready to take up the challenge then please download an application form from our website and return to the Secretary by 30th November 2024.
The last word
Congratulations to Laura Robbins Chair of the RAF Widows' Association
It gives me great pleasure to inform you that Laura Robbins has been awarded an MBE in the King's Birthday Honours list in recognition of her tireless service and dedication to the Royal Air Force Widows' Association. This is a well-deserved honour for a friend and colleague who is also a very popular member of the War Widows' Association. Laura constantly strives to improve the service given to our fellow widows and is selfless in her dedication and generous with her time.
I am sure you will all join me in offering Laura our sincere congratulations.
Congratulatio Chair of the RAF
It gives me great pleasure to inform an MBE in the King’s Birthday Honours and dedication to the Royal Air Force
This is colleague the War strives widows generous I am sure sincere
