I write this at the end of September, a month I always think of as a golden one with a lot of sunshine and the start of the glowing colours of autumn. This year we seem to have continued a tradition of rain and yet more rain!
However, one golden day in September has stood out in mind though not for the weather. I attended our Founders’ Day Service in the Guards Chapel not far from Buckingham Palace and I believe it was the best yet. The service was devised and led by our Chaplain, The Reverend Wing Commander Ian Brown. It was wonderfully sensitive in its approach while his sermon had us riveted as he was both touching and humorous. Ian had drawn together references to the Wizard of Oz and the Biblical story of Ruth. He had arranged for me to read what is in fact a favourite passage of mine from the Book of Ruth telling the story of a young widow. As he pointed out in his sermon this young woman showed great courage when, faced with the unexpected loss of her husband, she chose to follow her mother-in-law whom she clearly loved to a new country a new God, and all the di culties of adjustment.
Ian also chose a favourite hymn of mine - “Make me a channel of your peace”. In a world so riven by wars and conflicts the words seemed especially appropriate.
Another splendid feature of the service was the dedication of two new standards for the War Widows’ Association and here a small group of young cadets - all teenage girlsacquitted themselves with professional skill and proved to be delightful guests when we all went over to the O cers’ Mess a erwards for a delicious tea and lots of conversation.
I am sure that those war widows who were not able to come would have found it a really worthwhile visit but I do appreciate that for many the e ort required to undertake the journey and to pay the costs involved make it prohibitive. I should love to see it recorded so that it could be watched live or watched later but I understand that that can be an expensive business too.
For me another event in September meant the end of an era. I gave up my flat on the Kennington estate just south of the River Thames, having been a tenant of the Duchy of Cornwall for more years than I care to remember. I recall on one occasion as an MP meeting our Patron , then Prince of Wales, in Devonport Dockyard and telling him I was one of his tenants. He gave me a broad grin and said “I hope you pay your rent on time”!
I still need accommodation in London for my work as a member of the House of Lords but I have been fortunate enough to nd comfortable lodgings in the Union Jack Club with which I was already very familiar as our Association uses it for meals and meetings as well as for overnight accommodation. It is beautifully run as one might expect from a place so closely associated with our armed services and I am sure many of you will know it too.
Now of course is that time of year when preparations are in hand for Remembrance Weekend – how quickly the time comes round. I hope to meet as many members of our Association as possible at the various events. My participation was limited last year because I was still recovering from a recent operation to replace a faulty aortic valve, mercifully with the aid of amazing modern micro surgery called a TAVI. I know that many of you have various health problems and I always think especially when at major events of those who cannot make the journeys required for health or indeed other reasons. I always think of our Association as a family supporting one another and long may that continue.
Janet
Chaplain’s Address
Dear friends,
As winter begins to wrap its chilly embrace around us, I am reminded of the words from Christina Rossetti’s timeless Christmas carol, “In the Bleak Mid-Winter.” This, my favourite carol, with its hauntingly beautiful melody and evocative lyrics, speaks deeply to my soul, particularly the line, “Yet what I can I give Him, give my heart.” As we enter the seasons of Remembrance and Christmas, these words o er profound insight into the nature of true love and true faith.
The winter months can be particularly challenging for those who have lost loved ones. The festive season, with its emphasis on family gatherings and joyous celebrations, o en magni es the absence of those who have gone before us. It is in this context of profound vulnerability and deep emotional pain that the message of giving our hearts becomes even more signi cant.
True love, the kind that is enduring and sacri cial, requires an extraordinary level of vulnerability. It asks us to open our hearts completely, to embrace the risk of pain and loss, and to love without reservation. This kind of love is known only too well to many readers of this publication. You have given your hearts, not only to your spouses who served bravely but also to your families, your communities, and each other.
Christians believe that in the same way, true faith demands that we approach God with a heart that is open and vulnerable. It is an invitation to trust in his goodness and grace, even when we do not understand his ways. Just as you have given your hearts in love, God calls us to give our hearts to him in faith. This act of giving is not about grand gestures or material o erings but about the simple, profound gi of our trust and devotion.
“In the Bleak Mid-Winter” serves as a poignant reminder that even in the darkest, coldest times, there is still a light that shines. Christians are reminded at this time of year that this light is the hope we nd in Christ. As we navigate the complexities of grief and loss, we can nd solace in the knowledge that God is with us. He understands our pain and shares in our su ering. His love is a constant, unchanging presence that o ers comfort and peace.
The Christmas story is ultimately one of hope. It tells of a God who loved us so much that he chose to enter our world in the most vulnerable way possible—as a helpless baby. This act of divine vulnerability speaks volumes about the nature of God’s love for us. It is a love that is willing to enter into our su ering, to walk alongside us in our pain, and to o er us the hope of redemption and new life.
Chairman’s Corner
So, if you nd yourself singing, ‘In the Bleak Mid-Winter’ during the coming festive season, I encourage you to reflect on the line, “Yet, what I can I give Him, give my heart”. Let this carol remind you that our hearts are the most precious gi we can o er and may those words encourage each of us to continue to open our hearts, despite the vulnerability required, that we might continue show love to those around us.
A ectionately yours,
It is mid-October as I write this although you will probably read it around Christmas. By then (hopefully) your tree will be decorated, your presents will be wrapped, and you’ll be able to find your turkey which will, no doubt, be buried somewhere in your fridge.
Chair’s
Corner
Christmas brings with it a mix of emotions - War Widows especially do not need to be reminded of that. Our thoughts go out to all who have experienced loss, especially those who have only recently been bereaved. If you know anyone who will be alone at this time, or is facing their first Christmas without a loved one, I hope you can share a little time with them. An invitation to chat, a mince pie, a cuppa; it takes so little time and it can make an enormous difference. And perhaps it will make a difference to you too.
It is mid-October as I write this although you will probably read it around Christmas. By then (hopefully) your tree will be decorated, your presents will be wrapped, and you’ll be able to nd your turkey which will, no doubt, be buried somewhere in your fridge.
For myself, I have good reason to be excited about Christmas this year; my first grandchild is due on the 4th of December which will certainly make for a different Christmas. My Christmas gift list this year will doubtless include new items, like cuddly toys, baby grows and nappies!
Christmas brings with it a mix of emotions - War Widows especially do not need to be reminded of that. Our thoughts go out to all who have experienced loss, especially those who have only recently been bereaved. If you know anyone who will be alone at this time, or is facing their rst Christmas without a loved one, I hope you can share a little time with them. An invitation to chat, a mince pie, a cuppa; it takes so little time and it can make an enormous di erence. And perhaps it will make a di erence to you too.
But there is still a lot to do before then and my schedule remains full. So far, I have spent much time in London, representing the Association at formal services, arranging our own annual events, and meeting government ministers and their staff. It is a privilege to be invited to these events, while business meetings invariably keep me on my toes; they can be challenging, rewarding, and often, frustrating. And to add further challenge, it seemed that too often my train journeys home risked becoming mystery trips thanks to flooded rail lines, diversions, late notice cancellations, and trains ‘being in the wrong place.’
For myself, I have good reason to be excited about Christmas this year; my rst grandchild is due on the 4th of December which will certainly make for a di erent Christmas. My Christmas gi list this year will doubtless include new items, like cuddly toys, baby grows and nappies!
But there is still a lot to do before then and my schedule remains full. So far, I have spent much time in London, representing the Association at formal services, arranging our own annual events, and meeting government ministers and their sta . It is a privilege to be invited to these events, while business meetings invariably keep me on my toes; they can be challenging, rewarding, and o en, frustrating. And to add further challenge, it seemed that too o en my train journeys home risked becoming mystery trips thanks to flooded rail lines, diversions, late notice cancellations, and trains ‘being in the wrong place.’ So that was how much of my summer was spent. Little wonder that I felt no guilt about
So that was how much of my summer was spent. Little wonder that I felt no guilt about ‘jumping ship’ for 10 days on a cruise holiday from Venice, along the Croatian Coast, and up to Amalfi and Sorrento. It was, of course, delightful, although the extreme heat saw me opt for fewer shore expeditions and more frequent retreats to the ship’s swimming pool with a cool glass of wine!
And a sunshine holiday proved to be especially welcome this summer as my home county of Shropshire experienced some torrential rainfall. The old town centre of Shrewsbury was frequently flooded, as were many of the county’s roads and rail lines. And yes, I know that summer rains are good for the garden, but for modest gardeners like myself, it meant long
Padre Ian
‘jumping ship’ for 10 days on a cruise holiday from Venice, along the Croatian Coast, and up to Amal and Sorrento. It was, of course, delightful, although the extreme heat saw me opt for fewer shore expeditions and more frequent retreats to the ship’s swimming pool with a cool glass of wine!
And a sunshine holiday proved to be especially welcome this summer as my home county of Shropshire experienced some torrential rainfall. The old town centre of Shrewsbury was frequently flooded, as were many of the county’s roads and rail lines. And yes, I know that summer rains are good for the garden, but for modest gardeners like myself, it meant long delays waiting for the grass to dry out and more frequent lawn mowing sessions. But no doubt my woes will sound familiar to my fellow gardeners up and down the country. Oh, the joys of the British summer!
Thankfully, the wet weather didn’t spoil our Association’s events too much. This year’s Founders Day Service was a notable success with lovely weather and a strong turnout. Next year we will welcome a new Chaplain in the Guard’s Chapel to succeed Padre Deiniol Morgan who has been promoted Colonel and is relocating to York. Padre Morgan’s support for the War Widows’ Association has been outstanding, and we extend to him our sincere thanks for serving us so well on Founders Days. We send him our warmest congratulations on his well-deserved promotion and wish him every success for the future.
With a new government in o ce, I was keen to meet with Alistair Carns, the new Minister for Veterans and People, and I did so in September. I was hoping that the Labour government might overturn the previous government’s refusal to award Ex-Gratia Payments to 49 of our widows who had been refused it. Similarly, I also hoped to see a more enlightened approach towards reinstating War Widows’ Pensions to those who forfeited theirs on remarriage or cohabitation. Needless to say, Mr Carns was most gracious and genuinely supportive of our Association. Although he was sympathetic to our campaigns, he was not hopeful of a positive outcome. And so the ght must continue.
Nevertheless, I shall continue to press the MOD for the restoration of War Widow Status to those whose pensions were forfeited. I see this as an unfair and divisive rule which denies parity of entitlement to all War Widows in such matters as HM Forces rail cards and Oyster cards.
Finally, I recently attended the ‘Soldiering On’ awards in London where I joined Chairs of the Single Service Associations. I was accompanied by my ‘plus one’ who was Sue Raw, our Secretary. We enjoyed an amazing evening and met some of the Servicemen and women who were nominated for their outstanding achievements. ‘Inspiring’ and ‘humbling’ were understatements in every case, and I didn’t envy the judges. As I saw it, the nominees were all worthy winners and each deserved an award.
And on that inspiring note, it is time to close this ‘Chairman’s Corner’ by sending each and every one of you my sincere good wishes for a peaceful, safe and happy Christmas, and a prosperous and healthy New Year.
Chris
A Cat and Dog Tale
Some time a er my husband was killed at RNAS Culdrose, I received a request from my small son of 8, that “Daddy said that when he le the navy, we could have a dog” , so now was a good time to do so. A er much wavering on my behalf, as my son was a chorister at Boarding School, and so I would have to look a er it, and that a lot of dogs made me sneeze etc etc, without mentioning that I was actually afraid of dogs!!! Fatally, an advertisement appeared in our local newspaper, and I was neatly manoeuvred into going to look at it---”It’s a dachshund, Mummy, and he’s only small ...so he won’t need much care”. Swearing that we would just look at it, the rst sight of what looked a rather downtrodden puppy, with suspiciously large feet, which later belonged to a very big longhaired dachsie, Mummy was defeated, and Snu came home, and stayed for 14 years as the most wonderful friend to all of us, and indeed of
Not long a er that our number 1 cat died, and daughter begged for a replacement, and a er consulting with our vets, we were recommended to talk to a farmer at Manaccan about a kitten; I was rather reluctant as farm cats can be inbred, but these, I was assured, were top class cats. O we went to Tregonwell to interview Mr Dennis Williams, and his sweet wife, who assured
me that their cats were “free range” and fed themselves by jumping into a sack of cat biscuits. One had fortunately had kittens in the stump of a dead tree, right beside “the milk stand” upon which were formerly le churns for collection, but no longer. Up jumped my daughter, and put her hand into a hole in the trunk, which was full of warm fur! She li ed each one carefully, and we found three--subsequently another, tiny one, appeared.
We chose the pretty little all light gray one, but le her as she was too young to leave her mum. As Mr Williams was part of a long line of Champion Golden Guernsey cows, winning every year at the County show, the cats were not only full of good food, but with large amounts of rich milk. Thistle, as she was named, for her tiny sharp little claws, became a wonderful cat, always tiny, and as her owner said, had A levels, she was so clever! Snu , despite the bad reputation with tiny kittens, which dachsies have, was immediately under this minute paw, and to his horror was joined in his basket by Thistle, for evermore.
The Williams family had a daughter who was at school near Falmouth, so the girls knew each other, and the last time I saw Mrs Williams her daughter had married, but the present incumbents (or perhaps now retired? are our own trustee, Susan Williams, and I believe that the line of beautiful cows still exist.
One makes memories in the WWA, although my branch has faded, and north Wiltshire has adopted me, very kindly.
This isn’t the Last Word-- it is long enough to be a serial!
Pamela Maher
Formerly Bailey, and my daughter was born in the same village as the farm
the County Council Eddie Strengiel - a good friend
Lincolnshire Branch
Gibson and his wife; the Police and Crime Commissioner Marc Jones; Munton both with their children and Dave Lynch the Divisional Fire Chief.
Following a tradition started in the early 1980s by the late Maud Mitchell (then RO for the county) the Lincolnshire members have always held an a ernoon tea party following the famous Battle of Britain service in the glory of Lincoln Cathedral. Although war widow numbers, in common with the rest of the UK, have declined we still manage a healthy turnout, welcoming many service widows.
Each table was hosted by a war widow, Margaret, Pam Hardy, Pauline Jude HowcroB and Sue Pullen. Also present were Lord Peach’s cadets every year. This is always a very convivial event and shows the esteem
This year’s event was supported by a crowd of 42 guests with 18 dignatories welcomed by Margaret Lee, our Regional Organiser. Guests of Honour were the Deputy Lord Lieutenant Air Chief Marshall, the Lord Peach and Lady Peach; Hamish Falconer, Lincoln’s new MP; the High Sheri Mr Philip Dymoke;, the Mayor of Lincoln Cllr Alan Briggs and the Civic Party; the Chair of the County Council Eddie Strengiel - a good friend of the Association; the Chief Constable Mr Paul Gibson and his wife; the Police and Crime Commissioner Marc Jones; his Deputy Mrs Sarah Munton both with their children and Dave Lynch the Divisional Fire Chief.
David Mitchell
Associate Member since 1975
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Each table was hosted by a war widow, Margaret, Pam Hardy, Pauline Lambert, Glenda Spacey, Jude Howcro and Sue Pullen. Also present were Lord Peach’s cadets and supporters who come every year. This is always a very convivial event and shows the esteem in which we are held.
David Mitchell
Associate Member since 1975
Congratulations Debbie and Andy
Memories of a Land Girl
The war began when I was 15 years old and as we lived about 10 miles from Manchester, I remember well the Manchester Blitz. Sitting in our cellar and hearing the German planes flying overhead, anti-aircra guns going and the crunch of bombs exploding.
In 1942, when I was 18, I became a Land Girl, a er a course at an agricultural college in Sta ordshire, and was kitted out with my uniform in Chester. For most of my time in the Land Army I was stationed at Mickle Tra ord Manor where we had a pedigree jersey herd. We milked by hand at 6.30am and 4.30pm every day.
Each cow had a name and had their own personalities, and they knew their place in the shippen. They knew us and responded to us as individuals. Cows are always very curious and interested in things. I loved them, especially Sprite and Sparkle.
Each cow’s milk was weighed a er milking and a record kept of each cow’s yield. Also our cows were regularly checked for TB, which can be rife in dairy herds. So our milk was special as it was very rich in cream and also germ free.
We had at times to act as midwives to the cows although they usually managed on their own. I hated it when it was a bull calf as I knew it would go to the slaughterhouse a er a few weeks and they were such lovely little things. I have never eaten veal since then!
In the winter we kept the cows in the shippen, so we had to muck out and swill down before each milking. This meant we had a good midden for muck spreading in the elds – the best fertilizer there is. We also had to wash their udders and teats and our hands!
We worked outside in all weathers and in harvest time we worked until almost dark in order to get the corn in before the rain came. Incidentally I once fell o a loaded cart and broke my leg. This meant a few weeks in plaster at home but I was soon back working all strapped up! We grew wheat, oats, kale and mangols. Mangols are like swedes but dark red on the outside and we stored them in clamps for winter feed, when we chopped them up for the cows.
Our farm horse was called Prince and he was such a gentle giant. A Shire, he knew
exactly what to do and taught me how to turn the harrow at the end of the eld. I walked up and down behind the harrow and Prince feeling safe and con dent.
The other Land Girl Peg and I shared a flat in the Manor House and we remained friends until she died a few years ago.
On VE night we were allowed to go into Chester to join in the celebrations. It was amazing to see the lights on a er years of blackout. The square in front of the Cathedral was crowded with people singing and dancing and we got kissed and hugged by lots of lads in uniform. We were o ered free drinks and it was a wonderful evening. We couldn’t stay late as we had to be up early for milking the next morning and had to walk 2 miles back to the farm! We also thought of our loved ones, both friends and family, who were bombed or never came back from overseas service.
We were awarded a medal for our services in the Women’s Land Army (WLA) and I have to say I loved the life, even though the war was raging at the time. It was very hard physical work in all weathers, and we worked very long hours for very little pay but even so, I have very happy memories of my nearly 5 years in the WLA.
One day which was to have a great influence on my life I was going home on leave on the train from Chester to Manchester and I sat next to a soldier who was also going on leave, to Yorkshire. As a result of our conversation, we met up in Chester and two years later we were married!! That was in 1948 a er we were both demobbed. Such very happy memories.
Dorothy Medley, aged 100
Standing With Giants
A er nishing work and dealing with my Mother’s estate a er she died, I realised there was a void in my life, so I decided I would try some volunteering.
When I saw that The Poppies Wave was on tour at Fort Nelson Royal Armouries, local to me, I duly signed up with another Veteran friend, and we found other Veterans who had also signed up to help. Those few months in 2018 were very humbling and enjoyable and I roped in my husband Mike too!
A er that we went on to help people with trips out who would normally nd things like this di cult. A group of us from the previous volunteer opportunity helped too.
Then Covid happened and everything stopped, but the lovely people we had already met through volunteering kept in contact online, like so many people did, with quizzes, co ee chats etc. This camaraderie kept us going and when we were able, we all met for co ee again in person!
My husband and I helped at the local Vaccination Centre for a few months during Covid.
We then heard about Standing With Giants, an amazing project bringing life-size silhouettes of the Falklands heroes who died in the conflict to Portsmouth, Fort Nelson. You can see on the Standing with Giants website (www.standingwithgiants. co.uk) more details of how this incredible project started. It felt really special to us, especially with having links with the Military.
As that project evolved we found out that our volunteer group could get involved in actually helping prepare the silhouettes for their latest project. The People’s Tribute was around 1500 silhouettes being prepared for their journey to Normandy to commemorate DDay on the 80th Anniversary year.
Several of us travelled to Standing With Giants HQ in Oxfordshire to help paint and generally prepare the silhouettes in the workshop. We were one of many groups who helped out, and we really enjoyed meeting some of the team behind the project.
The organisers then invited us, as a group, to witness the departure of the silhouettes en route to Normandy from Fort Nelson in 4 large articulated trucks flanked by 150 Motorcyclists - what a sight this was and so moving, especially as we played a small part in putting them together.
The Silhouettes are currently on their way back from Normandy, arriving in Portsmouth on Saturday 14th September in Southsea, near the DDay Museum, to hopefully a large welcome, flanked again by 40 Motorcyclists, before their onward journey to Stowe National Trust Gardens in Buckinghamshire for display there.
So my message is, if you’re feeling a bit lost, think about some volunteering, it can be so rewarding and you may meet lots of new friends in the process!
Many thanks for reading.
Tracey Penfold-Green
Founders’ Day
Founders’ Day
The Military Chapel, (the Guards’ Chapel) never ceases to take my breath away. It is a beautiful space, and has a dignity and a calm about it, perfectly suited to our Founders’ Day Service.
The Military Chapel, the Guards’ Chapel never ceases to take my breath away. It is a beautiful space, and has a dignity and a calm about it, perfectly suited to our Founders’ ay Service.
We were there on the 6th of September this year. Later than usual, but the date was chosen to make it more comfortable. Last year it was so hot and London was overflowing with tourists. This year was comfortably warm and fortunately the rain held o . Founders’ Day
The Military Chapel, the Guards’ Chapel never ceases to take my breath away. It is beautiful space, and has a dignity and a calm about it, perfectly suited to our Founders’ ay Service.
We were there on the 6th of September this year. ater than usual, but the date was chosen to make it more comfortable. ast year it was so hot and ondon was overflowing with tourists. This year was comfortably warm and fortunately the rain held off.
We were there on the 6th of September this year. ater than usual, but the date was chosen to make it more comfortable. ast year it was so hot and ondon was overflowing with tourists. This year was comfortably warm and
The Service was used to dedicate our two new standards. It was a lovely ceremony and the CCF cadets from Tunbridge Wells Girls Grammar School put on a fabulous display as they paraded the standards to our Padre. Both standards were tied with red ribbon. The rule is that they remain furled until after the dedication.
The Service was used to dedicate our two new standards. It was a lovely ceremony and the CCF cadets from Tunbridge Wells Girls Grammar School put on a fabulous display as they paraded the standards to our Padre. Both standards were tied with red ribbon. The rule is that they remain furled until a er the dedication.
on a fabulous display as they paraded the standards to our Padre. Both standards were tied with red ribbon. The rule is that they remain furled until after the dedication.
The Service was used to dedicate our two new standards. It was a lovely ceremony and the CCF cadets from Tunbridge Wells Girls Grammar School put on a fabulous display as they paraded the standards to our Padre. Both standards were tied with red ribbon. The rule is that they remain furled until after the dedication.
Reverend Ian Brown’s sermon is certainly worth a mention. He based it on the story of the Wizard of Oz. He was so engaging, singing songs from the story and encouraging us to join in. Bravo Ian!
Reverend Ian Brown’s sermon is certainly worth a mention. He based it on the story of the Wizard of Oz. He was so engaging, singing songs from the story and encouraging us to join in. Bravo Ian!
Reverend Ian Brown’s sermon is certainly worth a mention. He based it on the story of the Wizard of Oz. He was so engaging, singing songs from the story and encouraging us to join in. Bravo Ian!
Reverend Ian Brown’s sermon is certainly worth a mention. He based it on the story of the Wizard of Oz. He was so engaging, singing songs from the story and encouraging us to join in. Bravo Ian!
Reverend Ian Brown’s sermon is certainly worth a mention. He based it on the story of the Wizard of Oz. He was so engaging, singing songs from the story and encouraging us to join in. Bravo Ian!
Attendance was up this year, with no fewer than 56 members enjoying a splendid tea in the Officers’ Mess of Wellington Barracks after the Service.
Attendance was up this year, with no fewer than 56 members enjoying a splendid tea in the Officers’ Mess of Wellington Barracks after the Service.
Attendance was up this year, with no fewer than 56 members enjoying a splendid tea in the O cers’ Mess of Wellington Barracks a er the Service.
with no fewer than 56 members enjoying a splendid tea in the Officers’ Mess of Wellington Barracks after the Service. standards were tied with red ribbon. The rule is that they remain furled until after the dedication.
Attendance was up this year, with no fewer than 56 members enjoying a splendid tea in the Officers’ Mess of Wellington Barracks after the Service.
AGM 2025
Our 2025 AGM will be held at The Mercure Wessex Winchester Hotel between 11th and 13th April.
Winchester and overlooking the Cathedral you will be centrally located and mere the Cathedral and its beautiful gardens.
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Set in the heart of Winchester and overlooking the Cathedral you will be centrally located and mere steps away from the Cathedral and its beautiful gardens.
Winchester has one of the nest medieval cathedrals in Europe and is the resting place of Saxon royalty, Bishops and Jane Austen.
to the many attractions of this historic city. The steam railway, plenty to see and do.
The hotel is close to the many attractions of this historic city. The steam railway, Marwell Zoo and the New Forest o er plenty to see and do.
Capital of England, Winchester boasts a plethora of café s, bars and restaurants. Each find a traditional street market, walking distance from the Hotel. opportunities.
As the former Capital of England, Winchester boasts a plethora of café’s, bars and restaurants.
Each Saturday you will nd a traditional street market, walking distance from the Hotel. There are also plenty of shopping opportunities.
Set in the heart of Winchester and overlooking the Cathedral you will be centrally located steps away from the Cathedral and its beautiful gardens.
The Great Hall is one mile away and o ers admission from £8. Here you can see King Arthurs Round Table and exhibition.
Wolvesey Castle, one of the greatest medieval buildings in England and the former palace of the Bishop of Winchester in the late 12th Century, is half mile away which can be accessed via a beautiful river walk.
Winchester City Mill with its ancient watermill, café, island garden and wildlife spot are free to enter.
2 AGM will be held at The Mercure Wessex Winchester Hotel between 11th
Winchester train station is one mile away. There are plenty of taxis outside the station.
As the former Capital of England, Winchester boasts a plethora of café s, bars and Saturday you will find a traditional street market, walking distance from the Hotel. Thereare plenty of shopping opportunities.
The preferred airport for Mercure Wessex Winchester Hotel is Southampton (SOU) 11.9 mile.
Sandy Dawson
Winchester hasone of the finest medieval cathedrals in Europeand is theresting place royalty, Bishops and ane Austen.
The hotel is close to the many attractions of this historic city. The steam railway, Marwell ew orest offer plenty to see and do.
As the former Capital of England, Winchester boasts a plethora of café s, bars and restaurants. Saturday you will find a traditional street market, walking distance from the Hotel. Thereare plenty of shopping opportunities.
is one mile away and offers admission from £8. Here you can see King Arthurs Round exhibition.
Castle, one of the greatest medieval buildings in England and the former palace of the Winchester in the late 12th Century, is half mile away which can be accessed via a beautiful
A Grand Day Out
Despite my initial reluctance I have encouraged, cajoled and nally convinced to write an article for courage sharing my experience of visiting Windsor Castle to collect the OBE I was fortunate to receive in the New Year’s Honours List, so at the risk of boring you all here it is.
A er a very pleasant dinner with Chris and our Sons James and Christopher; and a good nights sleep at our hotel in Maidenhead the 17th of April dawned bright and clear and fortunately despite the prevailing weather forecast, dry. Feeling like the condemned man I ate a hearty breakfast before donning my Morning Dress and heading with my family to Windsor Castle driving a very nice brand new Range Rover (a courtesy car as my own was in the dealers feeling very poorly, and where it remained for seven weeks but that’s another story)
A er an uneventful journey towards Windsor we arrived at the start of the Long Walk, the drive way to the castle last famously seen during the Late Queen’s funeral with her Stud Groom Terry Pendry and her favourite Highland Pony Emma standing guard as her courtage passed. As we made our way sedately up the walk we were forced to avoid dog walkers, parents and pushchairs but nonetheless what a privilege to be allowed to drive to The King’s front door.
On arrival at the gates the car, contents, occupants and invitations were thoroughly checked by the Royal Protection O cers before the gates swung open and the hydraulic bollards were lowered and we were allowed inside the castle grounds and parked infront of the entrance to the famous quadrangle where national events such as Trooping The Colour and the Knighting of Captain Tom Moore took place during the Covid Lock Down. A clockwise saunter around the quad, receiving congratulations from all members of the Royal Household Sta we passed, (they must get really fed up with saying congratulation sir or mam on investiture days) took us to the main entrance and a further check of invitations before being ushered upstairs to the state rooms.
A er a detailed brie ng on the morning’s sequence of events and having a hook attached to one’s lapel (Somewhere for the attending member of the Royal Family to hang the award) there was an hour or so to explore and admire the waiting room, in our case the Waterloo Chamber, and admire the ornate decor and
numerous portraits of previous monarchs and holders of high o ce in the realm, literally over a thousand years of history in one room, quite overwhelming. Having then been assembled into the order of march to receive our awards the newly appointed O cers of The Most Honourable Order of The British Empire were escorted through the Kings Reception Room and Kings Presence Room to await our moment of presentation by The Princess Royal in the Grand Reception Room.
With my family present in the chamber to witness the event I was welcomed by the Princess with the words “Good morning David it’s jolly nice to see you in my place for a change.” The presentation of the award was brief, but not brief enough for the Lord Chamberlain as the Princess and I had clearly spoken for too long, (well I had to mention the War Widows as well as the Arboretum), and she was reminded to move things along. Her parting words were that we were clearly not paying attention which led to a very smiley departing handshake between the Princess and I.
Immediately a er the presentation we were ushered in to St Georges Hall and subject to a barrage of flash photography similar to that at a graduation ceremony for which a small fortune was charged for the digital images, therea er it was back to the Quad and a few quick snaps with our phones then on to lunch at the Ivy restaurant across the road from the castle, and then home to return the borrowed car.
A day to be remembered, but one that would not have been possible without the support of so many friends and colleagues both at work and at the National Memorial Arboretum and the Royal British Legion. The title OBE is o en referred to as “Others Buggers E ort” and not unkindly so as it is in my opinion a team e ort to achieve and should be regarded as a team award.
In short, a once in a lifetime experience but de nitely a Grand Day Out.
David Whimpenny
Lady Haig’s Poppy Factory, Scotland
At the end of August, our Secretary Sue Raw and I needed to attend a meeting in Edinburgh at the Poppy Factory and were invited to a factory tour beforehand. Our guide, Davie, was very knowledgeable and we thoroughly enjoyed our time there.
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t the end of ugust, our Secretary Sue Raw and I needed to attend a meeting Edinburgh at the Poppy actory and were invited to a factory tour beforehand. guide, avie, was very knowledgeable and we thoroughly enjoyed our time there.
Kate, Sue & Davie
Most of us know the history of the poppy as a symbol of both remembrance and hope for a peaceful future, and the
poem by Lt Col John McCrae ‘In Flanders Fields’ which influenced Lord Haig in 1921. The Earl Haig Fund he establised sourced silk poppies in England to raise funds for disabled ex-Servicemen. Few poppies made their way to Scotland and in 1926 Countess Haig suggested the establishment of a factory to make poppies speci cally for Scotland. It was her idea also to employ war disabled men to make the poppies, and interestingly hers is the special design of a botanically correct poppy with four petals and no leaf, her preference over the original Richmond poppy with which had two petals and a leaf, a di erence which remains today.
The rst premises were in the grounds of Whitefoord House on Edinburgh’s Royal Mile. From a very humble start, production soon expanded and by the 1930s the workforce of 117 were making the bulk of poppies that Scotland required. Over the decades since, many changes have taken place, not least rising to the challenges of WWII to producing gas mask holders, blackout blinds and other practical handicra s. By 1945 there were still 100 sta including a growing number of WWII casualties.
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Today the factory, now part of the Royal British Legion group of charities, employs around 30 disabled and vulnerable ex-service men and women and has found its home in Warriston Road, Edinburgh since 2021. Many schools visit the factory and there are Lady Haig’s Poppy Factory, Scotland
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some excellent materials on display there and on
some excellent materials on display there and also on their website.
Stock ready to roll
Stock
ready to roll
Stock ready to roll
Stock
ready to roll
The factory continues to be as productive as ever, still equipment including a machine form 1926 used to cut wreaths, making 40,000 wreaths and many other items. factory now has equipment installed to produced more the next few years in making that important transition
The factory continues to be as productive as ever, still using much of the original equipment including a machine from 1926 used to cut silk petals for the handmade wreaths, making 40,000 wreaths and many other items. Things are moving on, and the factory now has equipment installed to produced more sustainable poppies and over the next few years in making that important transition to plastic-free poppies.
The factory continues to be as equipment including a machine wreaths, making 40,000 wreaths factory now has equipment installed the next few years in making that
The factory continues to be as productive as ever, equipment including a machine form 1926 used to wreaths, making 40,000 wreaths and many other factory now has equipment installed to produced the next few years in making that important transition
Product examples
Product examples
Plastic free poppies
Plastic free poppies
Product examples
Plastic free poppies
Sue and I learnt a great deal and thoroughly enjoyed our tour. You can book a tour if you are in Edinburgh, or visit the online Poppyscotland shop through the website www. poppyscotland.org.uk
Sue and I learnt a great deal and thoroughly enjoyed our are in Edinburgh, or visit the online Poppyscotland shop www.poppyscotland.org.uk
Plastic free poppies
Sue and I learnt a great deal and are in Edinburgh, or visit the online www.poppyscotland.org.uk
Kate Thomas
Sue and I learnt a great deal and thoroughly enjoyed
Following the dedication of our new Standards in the Guards Chapel in London
September, we held a service in the Congregational Church, Dundee on Saturday September to lay up the old Scottish Standard, originally purchased by Dundee to welcome the new one.
Laying-Up Service for the Scottish Standard
Laying-Up Service for the Scottish Standard
Laying-Up Service for the Scottish Standard
Following the dedication of our new Standards in the Guards Chapel in London on th September, we held a service in the Congregational Church, Dundee on Saturday th September to lay up the old Scottish Standard, originally purchased by Dundee members, and to welcome the new one.
Rev Bob Wightman conducted a very moving service, whichwas opened with a Lord Provost of Dundee, Bill Campbell, who was accompanied by his lovely wifeYvonne, Lady Provost. Our Standard Bearer, AC Abi Barrie(Inverness Sea Cadets), played the service.
Laying-Up Service for the Scottish Standard
Following the dedication of our 2 new Standards in the Guards Chapel in London on 6th September, we held a service in the Congregational Church, Dundee on Saturday 14th September to lay up the old Scottish Standard, originally purchased by Dundee members, and to welcome the new one.
Following the dedication of our new Standards in the Guards Chapel in London on th September, we held a service in the Congregational Church, Dundee on Saturday th September to lay up the old Scottish Standard, originally purchased by Dundee members, and welcome the new one.
Rev Bob Wightman conducted a very moving service, whichwas opened with a tribute from the
Following the dedication of our new Standards in the Guards Chapel in London on September, we held a service in the Congregational Church, Dundee on Saturday September to lay up the old Scottish Standard, originally purchased by Dundee members, to welcome the new one.
Rev Bob Wightman conducted a very moving service, whichwas opened with a tribute from the Lord Provost of Dundee, Bill Campbell, who was accompanied by his lovely wifeYvonne, the Lady Provost. Our Standard Bearer, AC Abi Barrie(Inverness Sea Cadets), played a key role in the service.
Rev Bob Wightman conducted a very moving service, which was opened with a tribute from the Lord Provost of Dundee, Bill Campbell, who was accompanied by his lovely wife Yvonne, the Lady Provost. Our Standard Bearer, AC Abi Barrie (Inverness Sea Cadets), played a key role in the service.
Lord Provost of Dundee, Bill Campbell, who was accompanied by his lovely wifeYvonne, the Lady Provost. Our Standard Bearer, AC Abi Barrie(Inverness Sea Cadets), played a key role in the service.
Rev Bob Wightman conducted a very moving service, whichwas opened with a tribute Lord Provost of Dundee, Bill Campbell, who was accompanied by his lovely wifeYvonne, Lady Provost. Our Standard Bearer, AC Abi Barrie(Inverness Sea Cadets), played a key the service.
Mary Wightman and Lt Gen Sir Alistair Irwin KCB CBE (Honorary President of the Dundee Combined Ex-Services Association) read the lessons.
Mary Wightman and Lt Gen Sir Alistair Irwin KCB CBE (Honorary President of the Dundee Combined Ex-Services Association) read the lessons.
Mary Wightman and Lt Gen Sir Alistair Irwin KCB CBE (Honorary President of the Dundee Combined Ex-Services Association) read the lessons.
Mary Wightman and Lt Gen Sir Alistair Irwin KCB CBE (Honorary President of the Dundee
Combined Ex-Services Association) read the lessons.
I was proud to be able to talk a little bit about the history of the Association and
Mary Wightman and Lt Gen Sir Alistair Irwin KCB CBE (Honorary President of the Dundee Combined Ex-Services Association) read the lessons.
able to talk a little bit about the history of the Association and what we do now. congregation were surprised at how much goes on behind the scenesand that we
what we do now. Many in the congregation were surprised at how much goes on behind the scenes and that we are all volunteers!
We were delighted to have with us distinguished guests (L to R) Rear Admiral (Retd) Mark Beverstock, President of RBLS and Poppy Scotland; LT Gen Sir Alistair Irwin; David Boe, Chairman of RBLS; Bill Campbell, Lord Provost of Dundee; Susan Flinto , CEO and Keeper of the Rolls at the Scottish National War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle, and Yvonne Campbell, The Lady Provost.
Amongst the congregation were Gordon Michie, Head of Fundraising for Poppy Scotland; PO Barry Ross (CO) and his cadets from TS Duncan in Dundee; Patricia Keppie, formerly of Commonwealth War Graves; Sheila Elrick, Chair of the RBLS Women’s Section, as well as veterans and members from the Combined Ex-Services Association in Dundee – thank you so much to all of them for giving up their time to join us.
We were delighted to have with us distinguished guests (L to R) Rear Admiral (Retd) Beverstock, President of RBLS and Poppy Scotland; LT Gen Sir Alistair Irwin; David Chairman of RBLS; Bill Campbell, Lord Provost of Dundee; Susan Flintoff, CEO the Rolls at the Scottish National War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle, and Yvonne The Lady Provost.
have with us distinguished guests President of RBLS and Poppy Scotland; LT Gen Sir Alistair Irwin; Bill Campbell, Lord Provost of Dundee; Susan Flintoff, CEO an Scottish National War Memorial in Edinburgh Castle
AC Abi Barrie did us proud, as always, and presented the old Standard to Rev Bob, who then laid it to ‘Rest for Evermore in Glory’. She proudly paraded the new one with the other Associations
Standard Bearers – we are so grateful for their support and attendance.
Sincere thanks must also go to Sharon and David Barrie, who support Abi in all the events she attends for us. Abi is a credit to herself, her parents and the Sea Cadets.
Rev Bob ended the service with the Act of Remembrance for the Fallen, followed by the National Anthem.
A erwards, we enjoyed light refreshments in the Church Hall, provided with generous support from Dundee City Council. It was good to be able to chat with each other informally and relax over a sandwich and a cuppa! The sausage rolls flew o the plates!
Amongst the congregation were Gordon Michie, Head of Fundraising for Poppy Scotland Barry Ross (CO) and his cadets from TS Duncan in Dundee; Patricia Keppie, formerly Commonwealth War Graves; Sheila Elrick, Chair of the RBLS Women’s Section, veterans and members from the Combined Ex-Services Association in Dundee –much to all of them for giving up their time to join us.
My sincere thanks to all involved in helping me to organise the event, especially Rev Bob, Mary and the church o cers – you were absolute stars!
AC Abi Barrie did us proud, as always, and presented the old Standard to Rev Bob, laid it to ‘Rest for Evermorein Glory’. She proudly paraded the new one with the Associations Standard Bearers – we are so grateful for their support and attendance.
congregation were Gordon Michie, Head of Fundraising for Poppy Scotland; PO his cadets from TS Duncan in Dundee; Patricia Keppie, formerly of Graves; Sheila Elrick, Chair of the RBLS Women’s Section, as well as members from the Combined Ex-Services Association in Dundee – thankyou so for giving up their time to join us.
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who then
Sue Raw
proud, as always,
presented the old Standard to Rev Bob,
In Memory...
Mrs Sheila Bracey
Mrs Kathleen Burr
Mrs Margaret Calladene
Mrs Barbara Clark
Mrs Olive Cummins
Mrs Grace Day
Mr Bill Kerr
Mrs Sylvia Kershaw
Mrs Ellen McKinney
Mrs Doreen Moon
Mrs Eileen Morris
Mr Walter Tarry
Mrs Margaret Twynham
Mrs Mary Elizabeth Stannard
Mrs Beryl Mackinder
Mrs Elsie Miles
The War Widows’ Association extends condolences to family and friends of all those members who have sadly passed away.
Crantock WI
Crantock WI held a D-Day cream tea and sent a donation of £340 for the War Widows Association. A big thank you to Lynne Wilson, their Treasurer and all those who attended.
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during the pandemic, in which 37 members received iPads and training.
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during the pandemic, in which 37 members received iPads and training.
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during the pandemic, in which 37 members received iPads and training.
WAR WIDOWS CONNECTED - PROJECT UPDATE
This most recentVeterans’ Foundation grant has allowed us to providea further 9 iPads to members along with some training in how to use it and get online safely. Some members are being able to access the internet from their homes for the first time in their lives – this is amazing!
This most recentVeterans’ Foundation grant has allowed us to providea further 9 iPads to members along with some training in how to use it and get online safely. Some members are being able to access the internet from their homes for the first time in their lives – this is amazing!
This most recent Veterans’ Foundation grant has allowed us to provide a further 9 iPads to members along with some training in how to use it and get online safely. Some members are being able to access the internet from their homes for the rst time in their lives – this is amazing!
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during in which 37 members received iPads and training.
Training is still taking place on a regular basis for many of our participants – some only needed a couple of sessions whilst others are onto their 9th and 10th sessions. There is no limit to how much training you get – we just want members to be confident and comfortable using their devices and it’s wonderful to see more members embracing this technology and learning how to use it at their own pace in a supported environment.
Training is still taking place on a regular basis for many of our participants – some only needed a couple of sessions whilst others are onto their 9th and 10th sessions. There is no limit to how much training you get – we just want members to be confident and comfortable using their devices and it’s wonderful to see more members embracing this technology and learning how to use it at their own pace in a supported environment.
This project follows on from the success of the War Widows InTouch (WW.it) project we ran during the pandemic, in which 37 members received iPads and training.
This most recentVeterans’ Foundation grant has allowed us to providea further 9 iPads to members some training in how to use it and get online safely. Some members are being able to access the their homes for the first time in their lives – this is amazing!
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project and I am delighted to announce thatthey have agreed to continue to fund us to the end of September 2025, with our new War Widows Get Online project, to be able to continue this work, build our online members area and continue to and help even more of you lovely members.
This most recentVeterans’ Foundation grant has allowed us to providea further 9 iPads to members along with some training in how to use it and get online safely. Some members are being able to access the internet from their homes for the first time in their lives – this is amazing!
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project and I am delighted to announce thatthey have agreed to continue to fund us to the end of September 2025, with our new War Widows Get Online project, to be able to continue this work, build our online members area and continue to and help even more of you lovely members.
Training is still taking place on a regular basis for many of our participants – some only needed a couple of sessions whilst others are onto their 9th and 10th sessions. There is no limit to how much training you get – we just want members to be con dent and comfortable using their devices and it’s wonderful to see more members embracing this technology and learning how to use it at their own pace in a supported environment.
Training is still taking place on a regular basis for many of our participants – some only needed a couple whilst others are onto their 9th and 10th sessions. There is no limit to how much training you get members to be confident and comfortable using their devices and it’s wonderful to see more members this technology and learning how to use it at their own pace in a supported environment.
An application form for the next round of iPad distribution and training will be sent out to you in the next couple of weeks. You will also be able to access the form on our website.
An application form for the next round of iPad distribution and training will be sent out to you in the next couple of weeks. You will also be able to access the form on our website.
If you have any questions about this current project, would like to express interest in applying for our ‘War Widows Get Online’ projector would just like some IT/online safety training for yourself, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directlyfor a wee chat.
Training is still taking place on a regular basis for many of our participants – some only needed a couple of sessions whilst others are onto their 9th and 10th sessions. There is no limit to how much training you get – we just want members to be confident and comfortable using their devices and it’s wonderful to see more members embracing this technology and learning how to use it at their own pace in a supported environment.
If you have any questions about this current project, would like to express interest in applying for our ‘War Widows Get Online’ projector would just like some IT/online safety training for yourself, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directlyfor a wee chat.
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project and I am delighted to announce that they have agreed to continue to fund us to the end of September 2025, with our new War Widows Get Online project, to be able to continue this work, build our online members area and continue to and help even more of you lovely members.
Have a lovely festive season J
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project and to announce thatthey have agreed to continue to fund us to the end of September 2025, with Widows Get Online project, to be able to continue this work, build our online members area and continue help even more of you lovely members.
Have a lovely festive season J
On behalf of the WWA, I would like to thank the Veteran’s Foundation for funding this project and I am delighted to announce thatthey have agreed to continue to fund us to the end of September 2025, with our new War Widows Get Online project, to be able to continue this work, build our online members area and continue to and help even more of you lovely members.
An application form for the next round of iPad distribution and training will be sent out to you in the next couple of weeks. You will also be able to access the form on our website.
Helen Raw| Project Manager | 07775 592604
An application form for the next round of iPad distribution and training will be sent out to you in the next couple of weeks. You will also be able to access the form on our website.
An application form for the next round of iPad distribution and training will be sent out to you in the of weeks. You will also be able to access the form on our website.
Helen Raw| Project Manager | 07775 592604
If you have any questions about this current project, would like to express interest in applying for our ‘War Widows Get Online’ project or would just like some IT/online safety training for yourself, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directly for a wee chat.
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If you have any questions about this current project, would like to express interest in applying for our Get Online’ projector would just like some IT/online safety training for yourself, please do not hesitate touch with me directlyfor a wee chat.
If you have any questions about this current project, would like to express interest in applying for our ‘War Widows Get Online’ projector would just like some IT/online safety training for yourself, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directlyfor a wee chat.
Have a lovely festive season
Have a lovely festive season J
Have a lovely festive season J
Helen Raw| Project Manager | 07775 592604
Helen Raw| Project Manager | 07775 592604
WELCOME
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We would like to welcome our new members and hope you enjoy reading your magazine.
Should you have any questions about any of the events listed or would like to nd out more about the work of the Association please contact one of your Trustees, contact details on the inside front cover.
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Membership Cards
FULL members of the War Widows’ Association are a orded the privilege of Temporary Honorary Membership of the Union Jack Club (UJC), Sandell Street, London SE1 8UJ; this privilege enables Full members to access to the club’s facilities upon presentation of a War Widows’ Association Membership Card. To obtain a Membership Card Full members should send their full contact details, full name and address including postcode (BLOCK CAPITALS), telephone number, together with a copy of your awards noti cation to con rm your entitlement under the War Pension Scheme or Armed Forces Compensation Scheme, you should also include a Passport size photo and also enclose a stamped addressed envelope; please send to the Membership Secretary, War Widows’ Association, c/o 199 Borough High Street, London, SE1 1AA. It may take a number of weeks for your application to be processed as the Association is managed totally by volunteers and does not have any paid sta or permanent o ces.
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Some options to help with travelling around
The HM Forces Railcard Operated by the Royal British Legion
The HM Forces railcard available through the Royal British legion (this card is not currently accepted in Northern Ireland). To be eligible you must be in receipt of a Forces Family Pension from the Armed Forces Pension Scheme (AFPS) 1975 or AFPS 2005 AND a War Widows / War Widowers Pension OR An Armed Forces Compensation Scheme 2005 Survivors Guaranteed Income Payment (SGIP)
For more information visit the www.britishlegion.org.uk or telephone Edd Robinson, Grants manager on 0808 802 8080 or email centralgrantsteam@britishlegion.org.uk. or write to The Pensions O cer (Railcards)
The Royal British Legion, 199 Borough High Street, London SE1 1AA
War Widows Association Senior Railcard - operated by the War Widows’ Association A small number of war widow/ers may not be eligible to apply for the HM Forces War Widow/ers Railcard; if this is the case you may apply for a War Widows’ Association Senior Railcard. You must be over 60 years of age, a Full member of the War Widows’ Association and in receipt of a War Widow/ers Pension. The application form is available to download from our website www.warwidows.org.uk or by emailing the Secretary at secretary.warwidows.org.uk or by writing to:
The Secretary, The War Widows’ Association of GB c/o 199 Borough High Street, London SE1 1AA
Veterans Concessionary Travel Scheme (VCTS) Operated by Transport for London. War Widows/ers, AFCS War Widows and recognised partners of any age, in receipt of ongoing payments from the War Pension Scheme or the Armed Forces Compensation Scheme may apply for a VCTS Oyster Photo Card which entitles the bearer to free travel at any time in London on the bus, tube, Docklands Light Railway and London Overground Services. There are some concessions on travel on mainline rail services just outside the Greater London Zone. For more information and details on how to apply please visit http://www. tfl.gov.uk/fares-and-payments/adult-discounts-and-concessions/veteransoyster-photocard?intcmp=10819 or call 0343 222 1234
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function for lots of people travelling from free day to hand, and with Remembrance arrangements group of us decided we would pack our credit to Paris
I am sure you can all appreciate how stressful it can be organising a large function for lots of people travelling from all over the UK. With that in mind, a free day to hand, and with Remembrance arrangements all taken care of, a small group of us decided we would pack our credit cards and treatourselves to a trip to Paris on Eurostar.
you can all appreciate how stressful it can be organising a large lots of people travelling from all over the UK. With that in mind, a hand, and with Remembrance arrangements all taken care of,a small decided we would pack our credit cards and treatourselves to a trip to Paris on Eurostar.
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I am sure you can all appreciate how stressful it can be organising a large function for lots of people travelling from all over the UK. With that in mind, a free day to hand, and with Remembrance arrangements all taken care of, a small group of us decided we would pack our credit cards and treat ourselves to a trip to Paris on Eurostar.
It was a very early start as we had to be at St Pancras for 06.30hrs.
It wasa very early start as we had to be at St Pancras for 06.30hrs.
It was a very early start as we had to be at St Pancras for 06.30hrs.
The journey was remarkably smooth and took a little over two hours from the centre of London to the centre of Paris. Gare du Nord was much larger than I expected but we managed to navigate our way out.
The journey was remarkably smooth and took a little over two hours from the centre of London to the centre of Paris. Gare du Nord was much larger than I expected but we managed to navigate our way out.
The journey was remarkably smooth and took a little over two hours from the centre of London to the centreof Paris. Gare du Nord was much larger than I expected but we managed to navigate our way out.
We walked the streets for a short while, and only occasionally got lost. Thank goodness for Google maps!
Eventually we found a delightful restaurant called Les Escargots for lunch. It was a great day and a lovely meal with friends.
Wewalked the streets for a short while, and only occasionally got lost. Thank goodness for Google maps!
It wasa St Pancras
We walked the streets for a short while, and only occasionally got lost. Thank goodness for Google maps!
restaurant called Les Escargots for lunch. It was a great day and a lovely meal with
Eventually we found a delightful restaurant called Les Escargots for lunch. It was a great day and a lovely meal with friends.
How sad then that we have been criticised for taking this trip. A er all, we work hard for our respective Associations and all our members; surely we had earned the right to make the most of a well-deserved day o .
How sad then that we have been criticised for taking thistrip. After all, we workhard for our respective Associations and all our members; surely we had earned the right to make the most ofa well-deserved day off.
How sad then that we have been criticised for taking this trip. After all, we workhard for our respective Associations and all our members; surely we had earned the right to make the most of a well-deserved day off.
Chris
The journey took a of London Nord was we managed Wewalked streets short while, only occasionally got lost. goodness Google Eventually found delightful restaurant It was friends.
How sad criticised workhard and all earned well-deserved
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Chris
Christmas Quiz
1When do the 12 Days of Christmas start?
2Which country annually sends a Christmas tree to be erected in London’s Trafalgar Square?
3Which monarch delivered the rst Royal Christmas Day Message?
4Which ocean can Christmas Island be found in?
5What is your star sign if you are born on Christmas Day?
6How many ghosts appear in A Christmas Carol?
7When was Love Actually released?
8Which city is Die Hard set in?
9Where are the McCallisters going on vacation when they leave Kevin behind in Home Alone?
10In which country is it now traditional to eat a KFC for Christmas dinner?
11Who proposes to who in the 2008 Gavin And Stacey Christmas special?
12In which children’s classic is it ‘always winter but never Christmas’?
13What’s the name of the giant snow monster that guards Elsa’s palace in Frozen?
14 What does Harry receive from Dumbledore during his rst Christmas at Hogwarts?
15 How many of Rudolph’s fellow reindeers’ names start with ‘D’?
16What colour are mistletoe berries?
17In Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol,” what was Mr. Scrooge’s rst name?
18What was the name of the little boy in The Snowman?
19Who stole Christmas?
20How many points does a snowflake have?
21In what town was Jesus born?
22 In what year was the Christmas card invented? a) 1834 b) 1852 c) 1901
23Why is Boxing Day called Boxing Day?
24What date does the Twel h Night tradition state you should have your Christmas decorations down by?
25In the 12 Days of Christmas song, how many pipers are piping?
26When do Harrods typically open their Christmas department each year?
27In a traditional British pantomime, where is ‘it’?
28In the Arnold Schwarzenegger lm Jingle All The Way, what was the name of the highly sought-a er action gure?
29Which cartoon character beat Westlife to the UK Christmas number one spot in 2000?
30In which year was the rst Christmas card sent?
a) 1843 b) 1762 c) 1899 d) 1945
Answers on page 59
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Remembering Private James Fraser
More than 100 years a er Private James Fraser died in action, I stood in front of his grave at the Faubourg-d’Amiens Cemetry and laid a cross on behalf of his sweetheart, who was my grandmother.
My grandmother came to live with us when I was just two years old a er separating from my grandfather. Throughout my childhood she spoke with love of James who she always called Jimmy. Jimmy ran a wine import business in Manchester with his brother Sandy and this is where my grandmother worked.
When my grandmother died in the late 80s, I found a treasure trove of letters which Jimmy had written to her from the Western front. The letters along with photographs of my grandmother and Jimmy form part of a collection stored in the Imperial War Museum.
His rst letter is full of optimism as they set out from Dunfermline with the whole town turning out to wave them o . When they arrive in France the soldiers struggle to understand the ‘Frenchies’ and he jokes that he will be a great linguist by the time he returns. He describes them as being a happy lot and that they are ‘A1’ and that you would never believe that they are getting ready for ‘dirty work’. But they are very soon faced with thunder, lightning and torrential rain running like rivers through the camp. The mud was caked on them, and he witnessed many casualties. Weeks in the trenches are interspersed with brief periods in local barns. By the nal letter, the writing is almost illegible because of the cold and the frost. He is writing it whilst being constantly shelled by ‘Fritz’.
He is so grateful for the constant stream of letters and photographs from my grandmother. His brother, Sandy also enlists and so my grandmother is put in charge of the wine import business. Jimmy explains that he will have to write to her in an o cial capacity at the o ce to provide advice and she mustn’t laugh at the formal style of the letter when she receives it. Despite the horrendous conditions that he is enduring, Jimmy is full of concern that my grandmother is working too hard and always entreats her to ensure that she has the right people in place to help her.
He is looking forward to taking her to the ‘Palace’ in Manchester and working with her in the busy run up to Christmas the following year. That was not to be. On 16 March 1917, 7 months a er the rst letter, Jimmy was killed in action. He had listed his widowed mother, Margaret Fairgrieve as his dependent and the records show that she was paid a pension of seven shillings a week following his death. Margaret received his medals, the Victory Medal and the British WW1 War Medal. She also received a World War 1 Memorial Plaque which was made of bronze and which was commonly known by the troops as the ‘Dead Man’s Penny’.
The fact that my grandmother kept Jimmy’s letters and photographs for over seventy years demonstrates how much he meant to her. She hadn’t been able to visit his grave and because I had been so close to my grandmother I felt privileged to lay a cross with her name on his grave.
Dates for the diary 2025
War Widows Association AGM, Hotel Mercure, WinchesterFriday 11th, Saturday 12th and Sunday 13th April 2025
A Time to Reflect, National Memorial ArboretumSaturday 17th May 2025
“I am tall when I am young and short when I am old” What am I?
Answer of page 59
Jeanette
Poppy Appeal Launch by Jenny Green OBE
Continuing a tradition going back for over 25 years, the Association was once more involved in the Poppy Appeal launch by the Royal British Legion in Lincolnshire. The magni cent ceremony is held in a huge hanger at the famous East Kirkby Aviation Heritage Centre in the Lincolnshire fens. Originally an RAF wartime station then an American air base, the centre was opened by the Panton Brothers as a tribute to their older sibling who died whilst serving in Bomber Command, WWII. It houses a unique collection of RAF planes, vehicles, equipment and memorabilia attracting visitors from around the world and is, of course, home to the Lancaster bomber ‘Just Jane’.
The War Widows have always been given pride of place, indeed past national Chair, Gill Grigg MBE, hosted the launch some years ago. This time, however, was extra special as our Standard was carried so proudly and superbly by Flt Sgt Cadet Sydney Walker (a young lady) of the Horncastle ATC a er the other 34 Standards were paraded and a er a march-past of over 60 cadets (army, navy and air force). Sydney was given a huge ovation. This was our new National Standard dedicated at the recent Founders’ Day ceremony in the Guards Chapel of the Wellington Barracks). Jenny Green then gave an emotional, professional and ‘spot on’ speech and received a standing ovation from Association members led by RO Margaret Lee – well done Jenny!
A er the launch over 400 of us went out onto the runway (in warm and sunny weather) and held a photo session under the 100 wing span of ‘Just Jane’. A happy and most enjoyable gathering. Jenny, quite rightly, emphasised the long-time connections between the Association and RBL. Next stop for our national Standard will be our own unique and moving ceremony at the Centotaph.
David Mitchell - Lincolnshire Helper since 1977
The weather was kind to us for Remembrance weekend this year.It was chilly, but it remained dry for our events.
Remembrance 2024
The weather was kind to us for Remembrance weekend this year.It was chilly, but it remained dry for our events.
Si members attended the opening of the Field of Remembrance in the grounds of Westminster Abbey. We planted poppy sticks this year. Baroness Fookes stood in front of our plot to greet the uchess of Gloucester, who inspected all the plots this year. The uchess was standing in for the ueen who was suffering from a chestinfection.
The weather was kind to us for Remembrance weekend this year. It was chilly, but it remained dry for our events.
Si members attended the opening of the Field of Remembrance in the grounds of Westminster Abbey. We planted poppy sticks this year. Baroness Fookes stood in front of our plot to greet the uchess of Gloucester, who inspected all the plots this year. The uchess was standing in for the ueen who was suffering from a chestinfection.
Six members attended the opening of the Field of Remembrance in the grounds of Westminster Abbey. We planted 49 poppy sticks this year. Baroness Fookes stood in front of our plot to greet the Duchess of Gloucester, who inspected all the plots this year. The Duchess was standing in for the Queen who was su ering from a chest infection.
On Saturday November we met in 1 Whitehall for coffee before our own Service of Remembrance at the Cenotaph. It is a few years since we were last there as it has been closed for refurbishment. Obviously the building hasn t changed but it is now looking very smart and the facilities have been upgraded. Coffee was served upstairs in the library. It is a military library and has a significant section dedicated todeveloping our knowledge of conflict, war and military thinking. We were fortunate to be joined by the Right Honorable ohn Healey, Secretary of State for efence. MrHealey chatted tomany of our members before and after the parade.
On Saturday November we met in 1 Whitehall for coffee before our own Service of Remembrance at the Cenotaph. It is a few years since we were last there as it has been closed for refurbishment. Obviously the building hasn t changed but it is now looking very smart and the facilities have been upgraded.
Coffee was served upstairs in the library. It is a military library and has a significant section dedicated todeveloping our knowledge of conflict, war and military thinking. We were fortunate to be joined by the Right Honorable ohn Healey, Secretary of State for efence. MrHealey chatted tomany of our members before and after the parade.
On Saturday 9th November we met in 61 Whitehall for co ee before our own Service of Remembrance at the Cenotaph. It is a few years since we were last there as it has been closed for refurbishment. Obviously the building hasn’t changed but it is now looking very smart and the facilities have been upgraded.
Co ee was served upstairs in the library. It is a military library and has a signi cant section dedicated to developing our knowledge of conflict, war and military thinking. We were fortunate to be joined by the Right Honorable John Healey, Secretary of State for Defence. Mr Healey chatted to many of our members before and a er the parade.
This year saw a large turnout of members, with over 170 on parade and 95 sitting down to lunch.
This year saw a large turnout of members, with down to lunch.
members, with over1 0 on parade and sitting Southern Highlanders Pipes and rums and the the Cadets from City of London and Tunbridge and helped keep the parade on track.
This year saw a large turnout of members, with over1 0 on parade and sitting down to lunch.
We are, as ever, grateful to the Southern Highlanders Pipes and Drums and the RAF Halton volunteer band, while the Cadets from City of London and Tunbridge Wells Schools were immaculate and helped keep the parade on track.
We are, as ever, grateful to the Southern Highlanders RAF Halton volunteer band, while the Cadets Wells Schools were immaculate and helped
We are, as ever, grateful to the Southern Highlanders Pipes and rums and the RAF Halton volunteer band, while the Cadets from City of London and Tunbridge Wells Schools were immaculate and helped keep the parade on track.
Association padre, Wing Commander Ian Brown. Association wreath at the Cenotaph and avid Isaiah.
The Service was taken by the Association padre, Wing Commander Ian Brown. Baroness Crawley laid the Association wreath at the Cenotaph and David Domoney read a piece from Isaiah.
The Service was taken by the Association padre, Baroness Crawley laid the Association wreath omoney read a piece from Isaiah.
The Service was taken by the Association padre, Wing Commander Ian Brown. Baroness Crawley laid the Association wreath at the Cenotaph and avid omoney read a piece from Isaiah.
This year saw a large turnout of members, down to lunch.
We are, as ever, grateful to the Southern RAF Halton volunteer band, while the Cadets Wells Schools were immaculate and helped
The Service was taken by the Association Baroness Crawley laid the Association omoney read a piece from Isaiah.
Remembrance 2024 cont...
On Saturday evening, seven War Widows who hadn’t attended the Royal British Legion Festival of Remembrance previously, occupied the War Widows loggia. The Festival is always a spectacular event and ends in the most moving of displays as one million tissue poppy petals fall gently from the ceiling.
On Saturday evening, sevenWar Widowswho hadn t attended the Royal British Legion Festival of Remembrance previously, occupied the War Widows loggia. The Festival is always a spectacular event and ends in the most moving of displays as one million tissue poppy petals fall gently from the ceiling.
Sunday morningand we were all up bright and early and gathered on Horse Guards Parade by 0 .1 hrs.
Our Association proudly led the first column into Whitehall and were the first to form up outside the MO offices.
Remembrance 2024 cont...
Sunday morning and we were all up bright and early and gathered on Horse Guards Parade by 09.15hrs.
Our Association proudly led the rst column into Whitehall and were the rst to form up outside the MOD o ces.
Unfortunately this meant that we were the last to leave Whitehall! It was a long time standing and waiting, but the crowd kept us going. There was a big screen close by so we could see the dignitaries laying their wreaths, and we even managed an impromptu sing-song when the band played Tipperary.
Sunday were earlyand Horse 0 .1
Our led Whitehall first the
Eventually we marched o , past the Cenotaph and towards Horse Guards Parade. Prince William took the salute and we were dismissed. All we wanted a er 3 hours on parade was a nice warm cup of tea!
Unfortunately this meant that we were the last to leave Whitehall! It was a long time standing and waiting, but the crowd kept us going. There was a big screen close by so we could see the dignitaries laying their wreaths, and we even managed an impromptu sing-song when the band played Tipperary.
Eventually we marched off, past the Cenotaph and towards Horse Guards Parade. Prince William took the salute and we were dismissed. All we wanted after 3 hours on parade was a nice warm cup of tea!
On Monday 11th November at 11.00 hrs I joined a group of RAF Widows at the Bomber Command Memorial, located in London’s Green Park. The Memorial was built in Portland Stone and is both modern and classical in design.
On Monday 11th November at 11.00 hrs I joined a group of RAF Widows at the Bomber Command Memorial, located in London's Green Park. The Memorial was built in Portland Stone and is both modern and classical in design .
Chris
Remembrance in Bawtry, South Yorkshire
Christina Claypole lays the cross in Bawtry, South Yorkshire
Remembrance in Taunton
Gillian Birbeck laying our wreath in Taunton.
Remembrance in Plymouth
The clouds cleared and the sun came out on Plymouth Hoe just as the City paid its tribute to those who gave their lives for their country. My niece Jennifer accompanied me in laying the War Widows Cross at the service at the Civilian Memorial.
Irene Wills
Remembrance at Larkhall Memorial
My son, Mark Thomas, laid the WWA wreath and the rest of my family accompanied him. The second photo was beforehand in our house with my Mum (the Landgirl).
Kate Thomas
Remembrance in Ayscoughfee Gardens
The memorial in Ayscoughfee Gardens in Spalding Lincolnshire.
I marched on Sunday from the town and laid the wreath, I’ve not been able to upload this to the facebook page. There are links to Ayscoughfee Gardens on facebook which have more pictures of the event.
Thank you for your help and I will be laying one next year.
Mrs Diana Walker
Remembrance at Newport Cenatoph
Remembrance in Dennistoun
A Remembrance event, organised by Callum Robson, took place at Dennistoun Memorial on 3rd November. A wreath was laid by Kate Thomas, one of our members, his stepmum and a QARANC veteran. At the event she met up with the Chair and Secretary of the QARANC Scottish Branch. We will remember them.
ROL Report & ROReports
REGIONAL ORGANISER LIAISON RAMBLINGS
Contact details - Email: rol@warwidows.org.uk
As you will see from the reports, four long standing ROs have decided to stand down. We will miss them, but thank you to Irene Wills, Gill Grigg, Ros Campbell and Diana Knight for all your service and time given to the members in your regions, enjoy your retirement.
We are now down to only 9 ROs throughout the whole UK! We are going to have to have a drastic rethink about how to organise the system so that all members bene t equally from their membership.
To comply with all the various GDPR regulations each RO has now been given a WWA email address which will refer to their region rather than any name. This also will mean that it can be passed on if the RO retires, or monitored by the ROL if the RO is unable to carry on their role for a while. The new addresses should all be included in this edition of Courage if you want to write to your RO but do keep an eye on your junk box if you’re expecting to hear from them, just in case.
Our rst attempt at a ZOOM meeting wasn’t very well attended so we’ve put them on hold while we sort out other means of communicating. One lady had tried to join in but couldn’t work out how to do so. However, a er a couple of sessions with admin assistant Helen she is now a pro so, if that is something that you think she could help with do get in touch with her.
I am here to support the ROs to support their members but as we have so few, I can also support members directly to arrange funded events, get in touch with each other etc. As always, my contact details are in the front of Courage.
Best wishes
Liz Carter
Contact details - Gill Grigg 01296 482393
Email: robedsbuckscambs@warwidows.org.uk
What a wet and cold start to Autumn I am sure it is going to be a long dark Winter. I had been hoping for an Indian Summer to cheer us all up before the clocks change.
Over the last few weeks I have been thinking about my position as the Regional Organiser for Bedfordshire, Buckinghamshire and Cambridgeshire and have nally reached the conclusion that I should retire.
For the past 12 months I have been unable to carry out my duties properly and have not been in a position to hold any meetings since Autumn 2023. Following my Hip replacement operation, I am driving again but only locally. As you are aware I cover a large area and have held meetings at di erent locations to o er contact and social interaction with as many members as possible.
This year I have failed to do that and feel that I am letting you all down. I have carried out this role since 2002 and suggest that it is time for someone younger to take over this position. It may be better if the Region was split into the 3 counties with an RO appointed to cover each area with a smaller number of members to contact and support.
I am hoping to organise a nal Funded Lunch in the South of Buckinghamshire and Bedford areas but think that the journey to Cambridge would be too far.
Over the years I have enjoyed wonderful friendship with so many of you and am sad to not be able to carry on but I feel the time is right for me to step down.
I therefore will be contacting the Chairman and o ering my resignation from 31 December 2024.
With good wishes to you all, sincerely Gill
CORNWALL __________________________________
Contact details - Susan Williams 0845 2412189
Email: rocornwall@warwidows.org.uk
Area 4
I hope everyone has enjoyed the summer that we were granted this year. Here in Cornwall we enjoyed very hit and miss day’s of good weather and here on the farm rstly we struggled to get our crops of potatoes and cabbages planted because it was so wet then we had to set up an irrigation system across the elds because we hit a very dry time and now at the beginning of October it is so wet again and although the
supermarkets have had the cabbages we cannot get the tractors into the elds to li the potatoes!! We are praying for another dry spell.
Early September Rosemary, Frances, Becky and myself visited the Alverton Manor Hotel for our Association funded event and as you can see from the photo we thoroughly enjoyed one another’s company as well as the delicious a ernoon tea. As some of you will be aware I had a hip replacement ve years ago, unfortunately it did not go well and I have been in pain ever since, now with more advanced technology and my X-Rays being sent to Australia it turns out that I require a di erent type of hip replacement and have to go through the operation again sometime next year. This new technology also showed up spondylosis in my spine and so by the time you read this I should have had injections in my back to try and give me some pain relief from that problem. On a more cheerful note I am looking forwards to seeing as many members as possible attend our Christmas funded lunch which will be held in Manning’s restaurant in Truro, I shall be in contact with more details shortly. I hope members visiting London and local remembrance services had a very pleasant time and enjoyed good weather. It is now time to start thinking about buying Christmas presents, sherry, mince pies and sending cards of good wishes to all, which I send to all my friends and hope you enjoy lovely times with your families.
Very best wishes
DORSET
Contact details - Ros Dillon-Lee 01202 301929
Email: rodorset@warwidows.org.uk
Susan
Area 10
Well it’s time again for an update on our summer, what a disappointment that was just a few days of sun and so much rain which is still continuing. We have been very lucky on the south coast in that there has been no flooding here. In June we were able to
meet up for a sponsored lunch at Cote Bournemouth it’s very convenient as it’s in the centre of Bournemouth and is easily accessible by bus. We had a very pleasant meal and were able to catch up on all our news we will go to the same venue in October. I am not sure if I will attend the Remembrance Service In Bournemouthas it does involve quite a bit of standing which I still nd di cult.
I see that the AGM is in Winchester so I will be able to attend as it is a short train journey, if any members from Dorset would like to attend as well do let me know. I haven’t been to an AGM for quite some time so it will be good to meet up again.
Dear members this report should be read in conjunction with the report from Plymouth. Where you will see that I am now ‘retiring’ as regional organiser .It has been a privilege to see some the Devon ladies meeting together though it had not been as successful as I would have wished, with very few members able to come to the events organised.
If there is a member who would like to take over please do get in touch with the Regional Liaison O cer at rol@warwidows.org.uk.
We had our Summer Lunch at Beefeater at Discovery Quay in Dundee on Tuesday 11th June. As usual, a good turnout with some witty banter and great food. The a ernoon flew by, and we were all so engrossed in chat that we forgot to take any photos! We’ll try to remember at Christmas!
Monthly meetings take place on the second Tuesday of the month at 10.30 in the DCA (next door to the Queen’s Hotel) for Dundee members, but all are welcome if you’re in the area! Christmas lunch will be on the second Tuesday in December – 10th – and will be at the Beefeater at Discovery Quay at 12 noon. All are welcome – but please let me know for numbers!
Sue
Irene
EDINBURGH & SE SCOTLAND
Contact details - Jean Sime 07909 104798
Email: roedinburghsescotland@warwidows.org.uk
Hi Everyone,
The summer is over now and we are into autumn and then we will have the remembrance weekend and then Christmas doesn’t time fly.
I hope everyone is well there has been a lot of Covid around so make sure you have your vaccination to keep yourself safe.
Some of the ladies in the Fife area has been meeting up in Kinross and Dunfermline for co ee on the rst Tuesday of the month, I would like to start one up in Edinburgh for the ladies and gentlemen from the Edinburgh area on the third Tuesday in the month we would have it in the Mercury Hotel in Princes Street, if anyone would like to join us please let know by email or by phone it will be so nice to meet everyone and we have 2 new members so please join us we are a happy bunch.
There will be a funded Christmas lunch in December in both area’s so if you would like to attend the lunch please contact me as soon as you can so that I can book it as early as possible.
Take care
HAMPSHIRE
Contact details - Madlaine Dunn 07879 640253
Email: rohampshire@warwidows.org.uk
Hi everybody, I hope you are keeping well?
Area 16
I am still holding the monthly meeting in the mess of H.M.S. Nelson every second Tuesday of the month at 11.00 am, followed by lunch. You are most welcome to join me. If you do I need all your particulars, i.e. name, address, date of birth, and if you wish to use your car, your car reg. no. It’s needed as it’s a military establishment and we have to sign in.
I also hold lunches on the third Sunday of each month at the Queens Hotel Southsea at 12.30pm. Anybody who wishes to join us is more than welcome but I need to know at least four days beforehand as management need to know numbers.
I shall be holding a Xmas lunch for the association at the Queens Hotel Southsea on the 8th of December 2024 at 12.30pm. The Association will pay the rst £15.00. Once again I need to know at least four days before so as to know numbers for seating. There is a car park, but it depends how busy they are. Otherwise you can get a number 23
Jean
bus from the Hard,which stops right out side the hotel.
Ladies of the I.O.W. I hope you are keeping well. You know you are most welcome to join us in what ever I arrange, you just have to let me know. If you need help or just would like to talk, I am here.
Take care
Madlaine
MANCHESTER
Contact details - Margaret Crerar 0161 789 5334
Email: romanchester@warwidows.org.uk
Hello, from Manchester.
Area 30
First of all just to give you a quick update about myself, I have now returned to work! In other news we had a summer meet up in August in Manchester City Centre with myself and a few of the Manchester members. I’ve recently had to replace the ribbons on some family members’ medals, for anyone who is looking to do the same, I used a company recommended to me last year; the company is called Award Medals and I’ve added their contact information at the bottom of this update. For those of you attending London in November, myself, Mary and Susan will see you there.
Company Details - Award Medals https://www.awardmedals.com telephone number 01952 510053)
Margaret
NORTH WILTSHIRE
Contact details - Liz Carter 01249 890219
Email: ronorthwiltshire@warwidows.org.uk
Area 53
A faithful little band has continued to meet bi-monthly at Crowns café where we ‘put the world to rights’, share stories and news and have a good laugh. There is always room for more so, if you’ve been unsure, do come along, it’s very informal.
For our summer funded event, we went back to Dobbies Garden Centre near Cirencester for another delicious a ernoon tea. As always, there was too much to eat so we all le with a doggy bag for later. There was again much chatting going on, though it did have to stop whilst we were deafened by a huge rain shower beating on the restaurant roof, fortunately by the time we le it had stopped, though there were some rather large puddles in the carpark to negotiate.
If anybody else from a neighbouring region would like to join us, do contact me and I can give you details and directions
At the November co ee morning we will have decided on a date for our Christmas meal at the Pheasant in Chippenham so, if you don’t hear from me and would like to come along, please get in touch (note the new email address).
It seems a bit premature writing this in September but, I wish you all a peaceful Christmas and happy New Year.
Diary Dates
Co ee mornings; 8th Jan, 12th March, 14th May 10-12 noon. Crown’s café REME Museum SN15 4XX
Contact Liz Carter on 01249 890219 ronothwiltshire@warwidows.org.uk
PLYMOUTH
Contact details - Irene Wills 01752 509917
Email: roplymouth@warwidows.org.uk
Area 38
I have been RO for Plymouth since the birth of this new century. These years have been full of fun, discovery and just a few disappointments.
We had regular meetings in various halls and venues in the city centre, where ‘potluck’ lunches were the order of the day followed by inspiring speakers, quizzes or bingo. We ventured to try di erent restaurants and beauty spots further a eld, for lunches and a ernoon teas. We were invited by many Lord Mayors to tea at the mayoral residence on Plymouth Hoe. A group of once flew to London (in the days when you could fly direct from Plymouth) and spent the day with Baroness Fookes our President - and former MP of Plymouth - at the House of Lords.
A er much campaigning and networking and persuasion we are now an important part of the Serving Armed Forces and Veteran Community of Plymouth and take part
Liz Carter
of many the City of Plymouth ceremonial occasions including Remembrance events, Armed Forces Day and Lord Mayor Making.
I have been privileged to meet some super people, many of them members and their families and some of the great and good of our fair city.
Now it is time to call it a day and pass on the ‘baton’ to anyone out there who wants to take over as regional organiser for Plymouth and Devon. Thank you to all who supported me and the War Widows Association over the years and I hope to meet some of you at events or just enjoying our wonderful outdoor and scenic places we are so lucky to have around Plymouth.
OUR PATHS MAY CHANGE BUT THE MEMORIES WE SHARE WILL REMAIN IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER.
The days go by so quickly and I always have to have my memory jogged regarding my letter for Courage. I don’t know about all of my members but it doesn’t seem long since we were preparing for last years Remembrance and now here we are again.
I hope you all managed to have a holiday of some description I decided to go to Sorrento and so did about a million others, the weather was so hot I was quite happy to get back to our rather depressing summer. I think I’ll choose somewhere less popular next year, the Dogger Bank perhaps. As you may know I belong to a choir, I recommend it to everyone whether you can sing or not it’s so much fun and it’s good for you. This year we all went o to Brittany to take part in a local festival, while we did very well and the French people seemed to appreciate our e orts I was quite disappointed to nd the weather was as disappointing as ours.
Now I must tell you that this will be my last letter to you as I have decided a er 15 years to call it a day as your R O . I’ve enjoyed meeting you the faithful members who always supported me in my e orts to bring us all together twice a year. Is there anyone out there who would like to take up the post?
I shall especially miss our Christmas lunches which I know you all looked forward to. I’d like to wish you health and happiness and please try to join us at our next AGM it’s the best time to get together. Good luck. Diana §§§ §§§ §§§ §§§ §§§
Contact details - Gill Gibson 01782 611569 or 07954 696573 Email: Sta ordshire rosta ordshire@warwidows.org.uk
Autumn already! Where does the time go. Note my contact details have changed, listed above.
Other events have taken up my time this year, leaving no chance to meet up as a group. However, it is on my to do list to make the necessary arrangements and by the time this magazine ‘hits the doormat’, we should have had a meeting, or two!!
The 22nd of September 2024 marked the 30 year anniversary of the helicopter crash which killed my late husband Aircra Commander Les Berrisford and Pilot Andy Beck, near to the village of Welling in Southern Germany.
Going through the logistics of making the journey with our dog Miya, travelling and accommodation, we made the trip across.
Ed and I, alongside members of Andy’s family, Veterans of 652 Squadron Army Air Corps, serving members, the Mayor of Welling and several villagers gathered at the memorial, which has a plaque in English and another in German, on the hill a short walk from the village.
WO2 SSM Tom Ingleman read out a message from OC 652 SQN AAC Major Chris Wright who was attending Arnhem to mark the 80th Anniversary. Tributes were laid and a few minutes of silent reflection took place. A er which anyone present who wished to say a few words did so. We took our time before returning, a short walk down to the village hotel for a meal and to exchange stories.
Regards
Gill
Christmas Quiz Answers
1 Christmas Day
2Norway
3King George V
4Indian Ocean
5Capricorn
6 Four 72003
8Los Angeles
9 Paris
10Japan
11Dave proposes to Nessa
12CS Lewis’ The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe
13 Marshmallow
14 Cloak of Invisibility
15 Three - Dancer, Dasher, Donner
16White
17Ebenezer
18James
19The Grinch
20 Six
21Bethlehem
22a
23Because of all the money collected in church alms-boxes for the poor
