A weekly glimpse into the Israel you won’t read about in the news
By Sivan Rahav Meir
How to Make Sense of the News
None of us is going to miss Bashar Assad who escaped from Syria the other day, but what exactly is going on here?
Without a Jewish perspective on recent events, it’s easy to think that the world has gone mad— that everything has become chaotic, out-of-control and scary. But it’s important to understand the story as it really is. We are witnessing a process with a clear direction and purpose. History is unfolding before our eyes: The Jewish people are returning to their ancestral land after 2,000 years of exile, and it’s not a simple process. We must teach the world to distinguish between good and evil, pure and impure. Whoever participates in this mission will be blessed, but those who interfere will be relegated to the trash heap of history.
Am Yisrael is small but eternal; our enemies are great in number but transient. We have now witnessed another historic day: After 52 years of tyrannical rule, the Assad regime crumbled overnight, and Israeli forces crossed into Syria.
Do we remember the president of Iran who was killed in a plane crash? The explosive pager attack targeting Hezbollah terrorists? The elimination of Hezbollah chief Hassan Nasrallah? Hamas leader Yihye Sinwar’s elimination in Gaza? And what about the countless clandestine operations we will never hear about?
Events are still in progress and we don’t really know what will happen next. How amusing (or sad) it is to reflect today on political analyses written only days ago by respected pundits.
In the face of such upheaval, it is important, first of all, to rejoice over the downfall of yet another despot. We must continue to hope for a good outcome, to pray and to strengthen ourselves with Torah study. We must acknowledge the efforts and courage of those who brought about these changes (especially those working behind the scenes), and to recognize the complexity of the situation. Finally, it is essential that we remain humble and hold on to our faith.
We should also bear in mind that we are in the month of Kislev—the month of Chanukah. This is the holiday that highlights the importance of preserving our identity; it is the holiday of victories and salvations, miracles
and wonders, not only “in those days” but also “in this time.” While fighting the Greeks, the Maccabees didn’t know that their victory would be celebrated with a new holiday. Fifty years from now, how will we look back on the days we are going through now?
The events of Simchat Torah 5784 were more shocking than we could have ever imagined. May we soon be surprised by all the good, beyond our wildest dreams, that will come our way!
Three Stories about a Great Man
The 7th of Kislev marked 73 years since the passing of Rabbi Yaakov Moshe Charlap, one of the foremost students of Rabbi Kook, the rabbi of the Sha’arei Chesed neighborhood in Jerusalem and head of the Merkaz HaRav Yeshiva. Here are three stories about this great figure, collected by his greatgrandson, Yair Charlap.
1. During Havdalah when saying, “…Who distinguishes between the holy and the mundane, between light and darkness,” Rabbi Charlap would emphasize the word “holy” in a loud and strong voice, and the word “mundane” in a weaker voice, and so on, “light” strongly, and then “darkness” softly, with his hand making a clear gesture of separation, as if he were truly separating light from darkness. One could see his sorrow at the departure of the holiness of Shabbat. (As told by former President Zalman Shazar, who was close to him.)
2. At an event marking 100 years
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since the establishment of the Sha’arei Chesed neighborhood, Rabbi Shmuel Auerbach shared his childhood memories of Rabbi Charlap, saying, “More than seventy years after hearing him pray, the slow and deliberate way he said ‘Shema Yisrael’ still echoes in my ears.”
3. During the rabbi’s final days, construction work was being done right underneath his window. The family wanted to remove the source of the noise but Rabbi Charlap stopped them, saying: “Until now, I was privileged to go out and see Jerusalem being built. Now I can no longer go outside, but when I hear the noise of the machines, I know that Jerusalem is being built. Do not take that privilege away from me.”
Word of the Year: Brain Rot
The Oxford Press recently announced its Word of the Year: brain rot. While the meaning may seem self-explanatory, Oxford defines it as “the supposed deterioration of a person’s mental or intellectual state, especially viewed as the result of overconsumption of material (now, particularly online content) considered to be trivial or unchallenging.”
This term immediately brought to mind the appellation of the Jewish people as the “People of the Book.” For millennia, our nation has been devoted to learning, with our connection to Torah serving as the foundation of our resilience through every challenge. This commitment to study and action not only shaped
our moral character but also sanctified us as a people. As we read in Devarim: “Observe them [the laws] faithfully, for that will be proof of your wisdom and discernment to other peoples, who on hearing of all these laws will say, Surely, that great nation is a wise and discerning people.”
As “a wise and discerning people,” we recognize the antidote to the threat of brain rot: cultivating a world filled with deeper study, intentional focus, and meaningful connections—to Hashem and to one another.
Taking Our Time
In this week’s Torah portion, Vayishlach, we read, “Now, let my master go ahead before his servant, and I will move at my own slow pace, according to the pace of the work that is ahead of me and according to the pace of the children, until I come to my master, to Seir.” (Bereishit 33:14)
We are slower. The world runs on ahead, going from one innovation to the next, from one ideology to its successor. The pulse of the Jewish people beats slower and deeper. Many commentators adopt this view as they try to penetrate the secret of the Jewish people as expressed in this verse. Yaakov tells Eisav to run ahead, and that he will go at a slower space, citing his work and his children as the two reasons for his more deliberate gait.
The Midrash explains that “work” alludes to the break we take on Shabbat and festivals. Yaakov explains that his lifestyle has a different pace. When the world seems to be progressing, earning
money and building, Yaakov and his descendants choose to pause and take a spiritual break, even if they risk financial loss and even if the Eisav of that particular generation considers them to be old-fashioned.
The second reason for Yaakov’s slow rate of progress is his children. The family is one of his core principles. It takes time to dress an infant in the morning, to ask a child what he wants for lunch, and to help him do his homework. It’s not a simple question of popping something into the microwave. Parents need to move at a slower pace. Yaakov tells Eisav and the culture he represents, “You think that I am lagging behind, but in reality I will not be left behind; I will survive long after you.”
Translated by Yehoshua Siskin, Janine Muller Sherr
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Run for Amudim 2025: Running for their lives. Changing their story.
Courtesy of Amudim
On February 2nd 2025, as the sun rises over Miami, more than 25,000 runners from every corner of the world will take on the annual Miami Marathon. For some, it’s a personal goal; for others, it’s a chance to push their limits. For a special group running with Amudim, it’s a race that symbolizes hope, resilience, and the chance to rewrite lives.
This year’s #Run4Amudim campaign, themed “Run for Their Lives: Change Their Story,” speaks directly to the urgency felt by those Amudim supports. For individuals grappling with addiction, abuse, and mental health challenges, life itself can feel like an endless marathon—a race against obstacles that seem insurmountable. Amudim exists to change that narrative, stepping in as a lifeline, empowering people to envision and achieve futures they once believed were out of reach.
Running to Rewrite Lives
The Run4Amudim runners bring powerful stories and a shared commitment to the track this year, uniting to raise both awareness and funds. Each runner laces up not just for the physical challenge, but to stand with those facing emotional and psychological battles. “When you run for Amudim,” says CEO Rabbi Zvi Gluck, “you’re not just joining a race. You’re becoming part of a team that’s rewriting lives.”
Take Dini, who runs in honor of her sister Malky, who lost her battle with addiction. Through Amudim’s platform, Dini has transformed her grief into action, creating a legacy that helps others avoid a similar fate. She’s found a way to turn tragedy into purpose, and in her words, “Every step I take is a step toward giving others the chance that Malky never had.”
A Team for Every Story, A Race for Every Cause
Amudim’s campaign this year is joined by unique teams, each with a powerful purpose and a story to share. These teams are more than groups of runners; they are communities dedicated to raising awareness, breaking stigmas, and providing support. Together, they illustrate that no one should ever have to face hardship alone.
For Team Run to Remember, every step taken is dedicated to loved ones lost too soon. “We are a group united by love, loss, and the enduring strength of memories,” shares a team member. Running with purpose, this team turns grief into resilience, honoring the lives of those they’ve lost and carrying forward their spirit. Their journey isn’t about finishing a race; it’s about keeping those memories alive, drawing strength from shared stories, laughter, and cherished moments. They run not only to remember but to inspire others to embrace and honor life’s precious connections.
Team Hope embodies optimism and resilience, aiming to show others that they are never alone. “Our mission at
Team Hope is to spread our butterfly wings wide enough to show our brothers and sisters that they are never alone,” explains a team leader. Running with the metaphor of the butterfly, this team is committed to providing hope and support for those in dark times, reminding them that peace and healing are possible. Through each mile, Team Hope members challenge their physical and mental limits while empowering others to embrace their struggles and find strength in community.
Led by Yanky and Shulem Lemmer, Team Lemmer is running with a powerful purpose: to break the cycles of trauma and abuse that impact so many in the community. “Amudim is an incredible organization that helps people rebuild and thrive during their toughest times,” Yanky shares. For Team Lemmer, running with Amudim is about making noise, raising funds, and ensuring no one has to face their struggles alone. “This event is about coming together, having fun, and making a real difference,” says Yanky. Team Lemmer invites others to join or support them in this mission, to create a stronger community and help Amudim continue its vital work.
Led by mental health advocate
Alyssa Goldwater, Team Worth It is on a mission to break down stigmas surrounding mental
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health, eating disorders, and neurodivergence. “Amudim and I have the same mission,” Alyssa shares, “ensuring that people do not have to suffer alone.” Alyssa, who openly shares her own recovery journey, runs to create a world where mental health challenges aren’t a source of shame. “I recover loudly so others don’t have to suffer in silence,” she says. Team Worth It reminds everyone that mental health is a part of life, and with support, everyone has the potential to live fully.
The all-women Team Missfit joins Amudim’s mission with a drive to empower women in all aspects of life. As a community grounded in fitness and selfempowerment, they recognize that mental and physical strength go hand in hand.
For the runners of #Run4Amudim, this journey goes beyond the physical challenge. It’s about bringing healing to others, as well as to themselves. As the marathon runner and mental health advocate Beatie Deutsch, another team leader, explains, “Running and mental health are so clearly connected. The mental benefits that come with a good run are unbelievable, and running has helped me on my own path.” For Beatie and countless others, running with Amudim isn’t just a race; it’s a movement for resilience, hope, and healing.
From Couch Potatoes to Marathoners: Running for Impact, Not Just Miles
Run4Amudim is a call to everyone, whether you’re a marathoner or just someone who wants to make a difference. This campaign isn’t just about personal fitness; it’s about personal commitment. “Whether you’re a self-proclaimed couch potato or a seasoned runner, every step you take is part of something bigger,” Gluck emphasizes. “We welcome everyone who wants to help create a world where everyone, regardless of their challenges, can get to the finish line.”
For Amudim’s team, the journey leading up to race day is transformative. Group chats buzz with messages of encouragement, stories of struggles overcome, and a shared goal: to be the lifeline for those in crisis. As runners train and fundraise together, they’re reminded that this isn’t just a race, but a movement that touches lives far beyond Miami.
A Finish Line for All
On February 2, 2025 these runners will cross the finish line as champions of resilience, perseverance, and compassion. They run not just to finish a marathon but to make a real, lasting impact on the lives of others. They run to create a world where everyone, no matter their challenges, can find strength, support, and healing.
Join us this year for #Run4Amudim, and be part of a community dedicated to running for the lives and changing the stories of those who need it. When we run together, we’re unstoppable.
The Run begins with an incredible and transformative Shabbos experience, hosted at the Hilton Aventura in Florida. Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz will be joining for the Shabbos, as well as Beatie Deutsch and Shulem Lemmer. Exceptional cuisine provided by Executive Caterers and Dunwell Pizza.
Register by December 31st to join the run and the shabbos! Run4Amudim.com
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Get Ready for an Unforgettable Chanukah Celebration for the Whole Family!
Mark your calendars for a Chanukah celebration like never before! Torah Academy of Boca Raton invites the entire community to its tenth annual Chanukah concert on Wednesday, January 1, 2025, at 2 PM. This year’s spectacular event will take place at the Pompano Beach Amphitheater, just minutes from Boca Raton and a short drive from North Miami Beach and Hollywood.
Headlining the event are two of the biggest stars in Jewish music—Benny Friedman and Moshe Tischler—bringing their extraordinary talents to light up the stage. Adding to the excitement is a breathtaking performance by the Bindlestiff Circus, blending awe-inspiring acts with Chanukah joy under the Big Top.
With seating for over 2,500 guests in a fully covered amphitheater, the venue ensures comfort for all attendees. Whether you’re joining us for the music, the circus, or the festive atmosphere,
this “festival of festivals” promises to be a day to remember for families, friends, and community members alike.
Tickets are on sale now, and they’re expected to sell quickly—don’t miss this chance to celebrate Chanukah with Torah Academy and the wider South Florida Jewish community.
Torah Academy of Boca Raton’s dean, Rabbi Reuven Feinberg, expressed his excitement about the upcoming event: “Our Chanukah concert is always a highlight of the year, uniting the community through
music & celebration. We’re thrilled to bring together such incredible talent for this meaningful event.”
Torah Academy of Boca Raton is a Yeshiva with preschool, elementary, and separate boys’ and girls’ middle school divisions, serving approximately 840 students this year.
For more information, visit www.torahacademybr.org or call 561-465-2200.
Sharsheret, the international notfor-profit organization dedicated to addressing the needs of women and families of all Jewish backgrounds living with or at an increased genetic risk for breast cancer and ovarian cancer, will host its 11th annual Southeast Social on December 15th at the Design Center of the Americas in Dania Beach Florida. This year, Sharsheret will be recognizing Dr. Gary Rosenbaum as the Maimonides Award Recipient, and esteemed 2024 Community Champions Jamie Gurvitch and Stacey Lieberman. The event will feature Jewish activist and influencer Lizzy Savetsky as the featured speaker.
and immediate reconstruction and a prophylactic complete hysterectomy. Since then, Stacey joined Sharsheret’s Southeast Advisory Committee and Sharsheret’s Peer Support Network. Stacey speaks on behalf of Sharsheret, shares her personal experience being a BRCA 1 carrier, and encourages families’ to engage in life-saving conversations and to pursue genetic testing.
ship as well as those that have been touched by breast cancer and ovarian cancer, while also highlighting and sharing the remarkable accomplishments achieved by Sharsheret, ” said Sharsheret’s Southeast Regional Director, Michelle Mavorah. For more information call 866.474.2774 or visit https://sharsheret.org/southeast/
Maimonides Award recipient Dr. Gary Rosenbaum, Chief of Plastic Surgery at Mount Sinai Medical Center, is a double board-certified plastic and general surgeon specializing in reconstructive breast surgery and plastic surgery in the greater South Florida area. Dr. Gary Rosenbaum is a new member of Sharsheret’s Southeast Advisory Committee.
Jamie Gurvitch was connected to Sharsheret in 2009 when she was diagnosed with breast cancer and a Sharsheret social worker supported Jamie and her family throughout diagnosis, and treatment. Since that time, Jamie has been a committed, active Sharsheret volunteer ready to help and provide Sharsheret resources to others. She is a founding member of the Southeast Community Advisory Committee and a Peer Supporter in Sharsheret’s Link program.
Stacey Lieberman learned she carried the BRCA 1 genetic mutation in February 2023 and underwent a prophylactic double mastectomy
Lizzy Savetsky is the Featured Speaker and is a leading Jewish influencer and pro-Israel activist. Lizzy started her online journey over a decade ago as a fashion blogger, and gradually, Lizzy began to share more about her family life, Jewish faith and traditions, and educational content. Her sister-in-law, Miriam Savetsky, ran in the NYC Marathon for Team Sharsheret, as she is both a survivor and advocate for breast cancer awareness. Lizzy and her family were there to cheer her on! Sharsheret was and continues to be a critical resource for Miriam and Lizzy is so honored to support them and bring awareness to the organization’s important work. Lizzy has spoken publicly about her struggles with alcoholism and her challenges with infertility and pregnancy loss. Lizzy was a dedicated voice for Israel long before October 7, but in the past few months she has used her platforms to support Israel, interview families of hostages and survivors of the massacre, support Jewish college students, and educate her followers about the increase in antisemitism around the world.
“At Sharsheret, we are proud to celebrate the impact of our work in the local Southeast community. This exciting community-building event is an opportunity to recognize leader-
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While our expertise is in young women and Jewish families as related to breast cancer and ovarian cancer, Sharsheret programs serve all women and men.
As a premier organization for psychosocial support, Sharsheret is a member of the Federal Advisory Committee on Breast Cancer in Young Women, works closely with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and participates in psychosocial research studies and evaluations with major cancer centers, including Georgetown University Lombardi Comprehensive Cancer Center. Sharsheret is accredited by the Better Business Bureau and has earned a 4-star rating from Charity Navigator for nine consecutive years.
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Operation Inspiration: Dead Man Talking
In Mexico, there is a holiday called “The Day of the Dead.” It has pagan origins, stretching back hundreds of years, but one non-ritual practice is to tell stories of deceased relatives or loved ones. From my understanding, it is based on a broader concept that people “die twice.” A person dies once when they stop breathing, and they die a second time when they are no longer remembered by anyone still living. Essentially, they no longer have a place in this world.
The practice of telling stories is to keep them alive in our memories, and grant them longer “life” in this world, at least in terms of being remembered. This is an interesting idea to contemplate, but for Torah Jews like us, this is nothing new.
For example, we have a tradition that when someone repeats the Torah words of a person who has passed on, the dead person’s “lips move in the grave.” I don’t think it’s literal. I think what it means is that if we repeat the words of someone who has died, you’re giving life to part of him, in that it’s as if his lips are speaking the words you repeat. Certainly, his Neshama benefits from whatever he has taught to others which they now repeat, even though he cannot speak those words now.
As long as you’ve left an impact on people who remain alive, you can get the effect of doing mitzvos in this world, even if you’re no longer a part of it. So, even though Rashi passed away a thousand years ago, he is still alive and well in Shomayim, racking up mitzvos and merits for the Torah of his which continues to echo in the land of the living.
When a person fails to leave a legacy of people who remember him or her, and doesn’t have any
By Rabbi Jonathan Gewirtz
who quotes them, or were inspired to live differently because of them, then that person is truly, “dead,” insofar that they cannot earn any more merits. Those can only be earned in Olam HaZeh, this land of the living where there are challenges and temptations. Once someone moves to the World of Truth and everything is revealed clearly to them, they cannot get the reward for doing Hashem’s will because it is so obvious that it needs to be heeded.
However, if they live in such a way that they teach others to overcome the Yetzer Hara and choose correctly, then they can benefit from the good things they’ve set in motion during their lifetimes even if it continues indefinitely. There may be a huge chasm between their physical demise and the spiritual ending which is postponed by the seeds planted and nurtured during one’s life.
What is even better about Torah belief than the Mexican custom, is that you don’t have to be related, or even know the person who will carry on your legacy. If you write a book that is remembered even generations later, you’re still alive. If you raise a family or inspire students who continue in the ways of Hashem, you can be hundreds
of years removed from them, but Hashem will consider you part of the living nation of Klal Yisrael, because you continue to participate and contribute to the growth that exists in the world.
But what if you can’t write; if you aren’t a scholar; or if you don’t have a family? Should you lose out because of the circumstances of your life? No, of course not.
What is amazing to consider is that we have no idea how our words or actions may affect someone else. If you are praying with focus and intent, and someone else notices the look on your face and chooses to daven better, even a single time, you have set into motion a series of wonderful events. If you are considerate or honest and someone else is inspired to be better, even if you didn’t intend to set an example, you are credited with the good that results.
Sometimes, the things we say to people in passing will be remembered long after we’ve forgotten them. They can make an impact greater than we could imagine or envision and those words could very well have staying power.
So, if you want to live forever, the way to do it is to live the best life you can. Connect with others who may learn from you and teach others what they’ve learned. In this way, you may no longer be breathing, but the breaths you took in your lifetime will echo through eternity.
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YESHIVA OF MIAMI
Rabbi Shragi Leizerson, 11th grade Rebbe, recently hosted a BBQ for his talmidim. Here, Rabbi Dovid Wechsler, Rosh Mesivta/ head of School Surrounded by Some Very Happy YoM Talmidim
“Chapping” Some Special Chavrusa Time with Rabbi Goldenberg, Mashgiach
YoM Board Member Mr. Yosef Fishman Conducting his Real Estate Class. (one of several elective offerings this semester)
YESHIVAT TORAT YOSEF PRESCHOOL
Yeshivat Torat Yosef Preschool Students are eagerly getting ready for the Annual Chanukah Art Show with the loving guidance of their Morahs.
OHR HATORAH
KATZ YESHIVA HIGH SCHOOL
Ohr HaTorah’s Open House
Katz Yeshiva High School “Stormania” Color War
GAN CHABAD PRESCHOOL
Gan Chabad Preschool learning about the sheep that Yaakov bred. Credits: ChabadChayil.org/Preschool
The 4th and 5th graders at Yeshiva Toras Chaim Toras Emes started their electives with the choices of draw like a pro, power tools, experiencing brachos, cholent in halacha, krash kourse in kashrus and winning of the field.
Art from the Battlefield: A Glimpse into the 551 Brigade
The 551 Brigade is a distinguished reserve commando unit, known not only for its elite combat and casualty care skills but also for its unique human tapestry. Soldiers from diverse backgrounds and perspectives unite under one shared mission: to protect and serve.
In a previous article, we explored the world of the brigade’s rabbi. Today, I want to offer a different perspective—that of Uri, the deputy brigade commander. While his role encompasses logistics, coordinating between forces, and evacuating the wounded, Uri possesses a unique talent: his ability to capture moments from the battlefield in vivid sketches. Using a black marker, a blank wall, and a sharp sense of humor, Uri turns his observations into art that resonates deeply with those around him.
Here are some stories behind Uri’s illustrations:
Sketch 1 : Uri’s Battlefield Canvas: Armed with nothing but a black marker and the side of a house, Uri transforms his surroundings into a canvas, blending humor and talent to depict life in the field.
Sketch 2: “The Exodus from Beit Hanoun” In one sketch, Uri humorously compares the brigade’s operation to leave Beit Hanoun to the biblical Exodus from Egypt, capturing the chaotic yet purposeful retreat with wry detail.
Sketch 3: Battalion Nicknames
A playful drawing highlighting the unique names and nicknames of the brigade’s battalions, showcasing camaraderie and creativity.
Sketch 4: “The Delayed Retreat”
This piece reflects the night when the brigade prepared for a tactical withdrawal. Despite all battalions being ready, the retreat was postponed until the following day, an experience etched into the memories of those involved.
Sketch 5: “Ceasefire or Smoking Break?” During a moment of reprieve, Uri captures a scene of soldiers gathering near a refueling truck in the brigade’s migenan. The wordplay between “ceasefire” and “smoking break” adds a humorous touch to a tense situation.
Uri’s illustrations, along with photographs and stories, have been compiled into a “War Journal” documenting the brigade’s experiences. Each fallen soldier is honored with a personal illustration, ensuring their legacy lives on in the hearts of their comrades.
The vision is to complete this war journal and provide every bereaved family and brigade soldier with a copy. To bring this meaningful project to fruition, we hope to garner the support needed to honor the courage, resilience, and humanity of the 551 Brigade, ensuring these defining moments are immortalized for generations to come.
Gili Ely History & Heritage Officer, 551 Brigade
An Insider’s Look at the Syrian Border
By Yaakov Selavan
Israel will never be the same after October 7th.
October 7 exposed the necessity of a strong civil frontier. The Golan, Israel’s Northeastern frontier, was living under a constant threat of an October 7 scenario from Syria by Iranian-backed terrorist organizations led by Hezbollah. The war also emphasized the importance of active-defensive actions when facing a threat, accounting for the enemies abilities and not just its estimated intensions.
Tectonic Shifts
After 13 years of Civil War in Syria, in which the Assad-Iran-Russia axis seemed victorious, it took less than 13 days for the Assad regime to collapse.
However, despite the joy over the fall of such an evil and murderous dictator, we must remember that many of these Syrian rebels include radical groups directly linked to Al Qaeda and ISIS.
Which neighbor is worse, Hezbollah or Al Qaeda? Interesting choice we face in the Golan. At least in the short term, removing the immediate Hezbollah threat is a huge relief. Hezbollah’s readiness to strike the northern communities represented an imminent danger – and they almost attacked us in mass, remember. We were so close to a disaster the likes of which the State of Israel has ever known. We know we face other threats and only time will tell the extent of the danger.
History comes to life
As we thought we finally found a bit of respite from the Hezbollah threat following a Lebanese cease-
Courtesy of the 7th Armored Brigade
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
fire, we face yet another potential threat from the east.
Every change holds risks and opportunities. Having learned the lessons of October 7, the IDF is proactively addressing threats rather than waiting to react.
Given the potential risks posed by radical Islamist forces now controlling parts of Syria, including its southern region, the IDF has launched a defensive operation, crossing the Syrian border and taking Mount Hermon’s highest peak for the first time since 1974. This was done to create a defensive barrier around the Golan.
As an IDF active commander in reserves, who was raised on the epic battles of the 1973 War between Israel and Syria, it is astonishing to see the same tank units that fought the Syrians in ‘73, sending me photos from the other side of the border 51 years later.
We are living in historic times. Meanwhile, the IDF is eliminating by air Syrian chemical weapons and long-range missiles, but there is still a real danger that what remains could fall into the wrong hands.
Spotlight on Israel’s most dynamic and unexpected border:
When Shiites fall, the Sunni rise – remember this rule. The happiest people in the Middle East right
now, outside of many Syrian citizens, are Erdoğan of Turkey and the Emir of Qatar. If they are happy, we must be alert and worried.
The Syrian Civil War isn’t over: the rebela include a variety of groups, spotlight on the Kurds vs. the Al-Qaeda-linked dominant groups.
The Golan Effect
A question I am constantly asked in the many international interviews I give, is how will the Golan leadership and community react, and are we afraid. Alongside the needed caution, I remind everyone that the Golan has been in war since October 7, including intensive battles days, rocket and killer-drone attacks, and unfortunately we have suffered deaths and casualties. However, we made a moral and strategic decision not to evacuate but rather stand our ground.
Our community rapid-defense squads just finished over 420 days of reserve service last Thursday and were sent home, only to be recalled to active-duty Saturday night because of the changing situation.
We here at the Regional Council are on high alert while maintaining school, work, and daily life. Over 90% of Golan students showed up to school this week, including my
own elementary school daughters. We are continuously focused on strengthening several aspects in our community:
• Physical Defense – building bomb shelters in public buildings and schools.
• Community Resilience – Our Resilience Center is working tirelessly to organize uplifting events and provide tailored assistance to our 33 communities.
• Economy - We’re revitalizing our economy and attracting new residents, to overcome a year of security challenges and deep damage to tourism, and to thrive even more.
• Unity - We’re strengthening ties with our Druze neighbors, embracing their opportunity to become a more integral part of Israeli society.
We are Israel’s first line of defense, and our mission is to fulfill the classic Jewish and Zionist actions demanded of the current situation: stand strong, plant, build, educate, and grow.
Yaakov Selavan is the Deputy Governor of the Golan Heights Regional Council and an IDF Major in reserves. He took part in the war both in Gaza and Lebanon. His unit, the 188th Armored Brigade is the only IDF unit protecting Israel simultaneously in Syria, Lebanon and Gaza.
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
Photo credit: Amit Segal
The Power of Prevention
BY Dr Sarah Rosanel, MD FACC
Prevention is the most powerful tool against any diseases. By adopting heart-healthy habits and monitoring risk factors, individuals can drastically reduce their chances of developing life-threatening conditions.
A heart-healthy diet begins with incorporating a variety of nutrientrich foods from ALL food groups.
Food provides essential vitamins, minerals, protein, and fiber.
Prioritizing nutritious options can help manage weight, cholesterol, and blood pressure, reducing the risk of heart disease.
Key recommendations include:
Focus on Whole Foods: Opt for fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins.
Limit Harmful Additives: Reduce intake of saturated fats, trans fats, sodium, and added sugars.
A diet rich in nutritious foods supports overall well-being and serves as a powerful tool against cardiovascular disease.
Portion Control and Daily Meal Planning
Heart-healthy eating extends beyond food selection to include portion control.
Use smaller plates, measure servings, and ensure a balance of vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains in every meal.
Preparing meals at home offers the advantage of controlling ingredients and using healthier cooking techniques such as baking, grilling, or steaming.
Prevention for All Ages
Heart disease can affect young adults as well as seniors. Waiting for symptoms to emerge is not the right approach; half of heart attacks are fatal before individuals reach the hospital. Early education on nutrition, physical activity, and stress management sets the foundation for lifelong heart health.
Diabetes and Cholesterol: Special Considerations
For individuals with diabetes, insulin resistance and high blood sugar levels pose additional risks. Similarly, elevated LDL cholesterol (bad cholesterol) and low HDL cholesterol (good cholesterol)
can contribute to arterial plaque buildup. Regular health screenings and appropriate dietary adjustments are critical for managing these risks.
“Waiting for heart disease to happen is not the right approach— prevention as early intervention is key to protecting your heart, regardless of age,” emphasizes Dr. Sarah Rosanel, MD, FACC.
Take control of your heart health today to ensure a stronger, healthier tomorrow.
Miami, Florida info@drrosanel.com
Dr Rosanel is a concierge Medical Doctor in Miami, FL where she resides with her husband and 3 kids: Ariel, Zev and Shirley. Concierge Medicine & Cardiology
photo credit: David Levi Photography
KID’S ZONE KID’S ZONE
DID YOU KNOW THAT...
FACTS ABOUT MONEY
• Money is older than you think! People have been using money for thousands of years. Long ago, they used things like shells, livestock, and even big rocks to trade for what they needed.
• Not all money is coins and bills. Some countries use special bank cards that let you buy things without cash. It’s like having a little magic wallet!
• Money can be different shapes and sizes. In some places, money is round like a coin, but in others, it’s long and rectangular like a bill. It can even be made of plastic!
• Money has special security features. Look closely at a bill, and you might see tiny threads or special ink that helps stop people from making fake money.
• You can learn about history with money! Many bills and coins have pictures of famous people or important events from the past.
• Money helps us buy things we want. Whether it’s a toy, a book, or even a trip to the zoo, money lets us get the things we enjoy.
• Saving money is like planting a seed. When you save a little bit at a time, your money grows, just like a plant grows from a seed.
• Sharing money can make others happy. Donating to charity or giving a gift to a friend is a great way to use money to help others.
• Money can buy experiences, too. Going to a movie, playing a game, or taking a class are all things you can pay for with money.
• Money is a tool, not a goal. It’s important to remember that money is a way to get things we need and want, but it’s not the most important thing in life.
HISTORY’S HEROES
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2. THE NUGGET
During his time living in Gerar, Yitzchak re-dug 3 wells that were dug in his father’s days and had been filled with earth by the Pelishtim. He had to toil as he dug, but with enough effort, he revealed the water already there from deep underground. A similar concept applies to the 3 Batei Mikdash. The Jewish people had to work hard to build the 1st and 2nd Batei Hamikdash, but as a result of their effort, Hashem’s presence was revealed there. As for the 3rd Bais Hamikdash, it already exists and is waiting for us on high. We just need to put in a little more work so that it can come down and be revealed.
4. FUN FACT
Yitzchak was born on the 1st day of Pesach and was the first Jewish boy to get a Bris Mila as a baby of 8 days old.
1. LIFE STORY SNIPPET
Yitzchak Avinu, the second of the Avos, is most known for the Akeida – being bound on the Mizbeach as a Korban to Hashem. Although he was not offered up as a Korban in actuality, he nevertheless retained the holy status of a Korban and therefore never left Eretz Yisrael, the Holy Land. He and Rivkah, his wife, remained childless for 20 years, but were finally blessed with twins – Yaakov and Eisav.
3. BRINGING IT DOWN
The same idea applies to you too. You have a Neshama, you have intrinsic goodness, which like the water deep underground, already exists. But sometimes the Yetzer Hara hides and covers this goodness. It’s your job to be a well-digger like Yitzchak and reveal the good Middos that you already have hiding within. For example, even if your instinct is to complain, you can dig within and find that piece of your Neshama that feels grateful for what you have.
5. QUESTION TO CONSIDER
Can you identify a positive Middah that you can work on, to reveal within yourself?
Begin by cutting the label off of the water bottle, then cut the water bottle ¼ of the way from the top, making sure to keep it as even as possible.
Poke a hole on each side of your 1oz cup.
On each side of the water bottle cut out a small insert about ½-inch-deep and ¼ of an inch in width.
Make a handle by tying a piece of string (about 5 inches in length) to each side of your cup. Make sure the knots are secure.
Slip the bobbin through the stick and secure it in the middle using two balls of clay. Place it into the inserts on the bottle. Roll up the bobbin using the two ends of the stick and fill your bottle with water about ⅓ of the way.
SCIENCE UNCOVERED
Using the scissors, cut a wooden craft stick to about 6 inches in length, and place it in the insert.
Cut another piece of ribbon, and attach it to the bobbin using a piece of tape.
And there you have it! Your very own miniature well!
The dowel works like a pulley or handle found in real wells, which helps lift water more easily. Turning the dowel, causes the ribbon to wrap or unwrap around the bobbin. The bucket is lowered into and lifted from the water, reducing the effort that would otherwise be needed to retrieve water.
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-Empty Water Bottle
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-Ribbon (about 1.5 feet long) -Bobbin
-Clay -Water -Scissors/Hole puncher -1 oz. Container
Butternut Squash Turmeric Soup
By Jamie Geller
This creamy, spiced soup makes a great first course, or main dish. Much like beets, fresh turmeric will stain your hands, cutting boards, and kitchen towels a sunny orange. Wearing gloves will keep the color off your hands.
You can substitute thawed frozen purée or store-bought cubed butternut squash for the halved squash, to save time.
Toasted Pumpkin Seeds are an easy-to-make, flavorful garnish that adds an earthy, nutty crunch to this soup.
Preparation
1. Preheat oven to 375°F. If using frozen squash purée, skip to step 4.
2. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Rub squash halves, carrots, onion, and garlic with evoo. If using cubed squash, lightly coat with evoo and toss together with carrots, onion, and garlic.
3. Arrange vegetables, squash
Ingredients
• 3½ cups cubed butternut squash or frozen purée, or 1 large (1-pound) squash, halved lengthwise and seeded
• 5 to 6 cups vegetable broth, chicken broth, or water
• 1 cup coconut milk
• Garnish: chopped flat leaf parsley, toasted pumpkin seeds, toasted coconut, and extra virgin olive oil
cut-side down (if using halves), on lined baking sheet. Scatter thyme with vegetables. Roast at 375°F for 40 for 50 minutes, or until squash and carrots are very soft. Discard thyme.
4. Scrape butternut squash flesh, add roasted cubes, or thawed purée into a soup pot. Add roasted vegetables, ginger, cumin, coriander, curry, turmeric, broth or water, and coconut milk.
5. Purée mixture using an immersion blender, then simmer soup for 10 minutes. Season with salt and pepper. Ladle into serving bowls and garnish each with parsley, Toasted Pumpkin Seeds, toasted coconut, and a drizzle of evoo.
Jamie Geller is the Chief Media and Marketing Officer at Aish. She is also a bestselling cookbook author, celebrity chef, television producer, and businesswoman. She’s the author of eight cookbooks and the founder of Kosher Media Network.
I just had the opportunity to visit Israel and sit in on some of the classes at prospective seminaries that my daughter is considering for next year. In one of the seminaries, the class was “Character Refinement,” and the discussion on the day of our visit was about the nine enneagram personalities. I thought it was such a valuable lesson, teaching children about different personality types to help them understand themselves and others.
Understanding your personality type can be a game-changer in managing your finances effectively. Your unique traits influence how you approach spending, saving, and investing - to name a few. Here’s how different personality types interact with money and ways to optimize financial habits…
“The Spender” finds joy in instant gratification, often thriving on the excitement of shopping. However, this personality type is at risk of accumulating debt and lacking savings. To stay financially healthy, spenders should establish clear budget boundaries, perhaps using apps or tools to help track their expenditures. Automating savings - where a fixed portion of income is transferred to a savings account before being spent - can help build financial security. Practicing delayed gratification by pausing 24 hours before non-essential purchases can also curb impulsive spending.
“The Saver,” on the other hand, is cautious and prioritizes financial security, often to the point of discomfort with spending. While this prudence is commendable, it can lead to missed opportunities for enjoying life or growing wealth. Savers can benefit from strategic investments, such as diversified portfolios, that allow their money to work for them.
Allocating a small portion of their savings for leisure or hobbies can create a better balance between financial caution and enjoying life. Additionally, learning about safe investment options can help savers embrace some level of calculated risk for higher returns.
“The Investor” enjoys taking calculated risks and focusing on long-term wealth creation. While their forward-thinking nature is an asset, overconfidence can lead to risky decisions or neglect of short-term needs. Investors should prioritize diversifying their portfolios across industries and asset types to safeguard against market volatility. Balancing liquidity by maintaining an emergency fund is also crucial, ensuring they can handle unforeseen expenses without liquidating investments. Periodically reassessing their strategies is key to staying aligned with evolving financial goals.
“The Avoider” feels overwhelmed by finances and tends to procrastinate on money-related tasks. This avoidance can lead to financial disorganization, missed opportunities, or unaddressed debt. Simplifying financial systems is essential for avoiders; automating bill payments and savings reduces the need for active management. Breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps - like tracking one month’s expenses - can help build momentum and confidence. Additionally, seeking guidance from a financial planner can provide structure and accountability, making money management more manageable.
Finally, “The Giver” derives satisfaction from helping others, often placing the needs of friends, family, or charities above their own financial stability. While generosity is admirable, it can sometimes lead
to neglect of personal financial goals. Givers should set clear limits on their charitable contributions, allocating a fixed percentage of their income to ensure their needs are met first. Exploring other ways to give, such as volunteering time or expertise, can reduce the financial burden. Most importantly, givers should remember that maintaining their own economic well-being allows them to support others more effectively in the long run.
By identifying your personality type and its relationship with money, you can develop tailored strategies to overcome challenges and make the most of your strengths. Whether you’re a spender, saver, investor, avoider, or giver, adopting these personalized approaches will help you achieve financial stability and success. I will be doing a free webinar on this topic very soon; please reach out for more information. Would you rather have the power to relive one day of your life or skip one day of your life? Please let me know if you have a good “Would you rather” question, and we will highlight your submission.
Shmuel Shayowitz (NMLS#19871) is a respected Real Estate & Finance Executive, Writer, Speaker, Coach, and Advisor. As the President and Chief Lending Officer of Approved Funding, a leading national mortgage banker and direct lender, Shmuel has facilitated over $3 billion of mortgages over the past two decades. Shmuel’s expertise spans various licenses and certifications, including specialized mortgage underwriter, licensed real estate agent, and accredited coach. His market insights and experience are highly sought after in the real estate, finance, and coaching industries. In addition, Shmuel is a seasoned real estate investor and property manager, facilitating thousands of rentals nationwide. Shmuel can be reached at www. approvedfunding.com/shmuel.
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