A true story from the Refuah B’Halacha Center hotline
It was a typical weekday morning at the center for special children. The cheerful noise of children arriving, teachers greeting, and the familiar rumble of the yellow school buses filled the air. Rivky, one of the dedicated moros who worked there, she stood by the entrance as the bus doors opened and helped the children come tumbling out — some with smiles, some half-asleep, and a few already in mid-conversation with their favorite teacher.
Every morning, Rivky would greet the bus driver with a smile. The driver, a friendly non-Jewish woman named Susan, was always in good spirits, and very dedicated to the children on her bus. “Good morning, Miss Rivky!” she would say, with her trademark grin that could brighten even a rainy day. She is truly a special person who cares about the special mission of the center.
But one morning, Rivky noticed something was different. Susan didn’t smile. Her usual cheerful “Good morning!” was replaced with a quiet nod. Her eyes looked tired, her shoulders drooped. Something was clearly weighing on her. Rivky wanted to say something but hesitated. After all, it wasn’t really her place. But as the days passed, she couldn’t ignore it. Susan seemed more and more withdrawn. Finally, one morning, after the last child had stepped off the bus, Rivky gently asked, “Is every-
thing okay? You seem so sad recently.”
Susan sighed. “Not really,” she said softly. “My husband… Jack, he’s very sick. The doctors don’t know what to do. I’m really worried I can’t image what would be.”
Sussan began tearing. “He is such a good man, he does so many kind acts for anyone he knows.”
Rivky expressed sympathy. Susan continued, “You’re such a kind person, Miss Rivky. I know that you pray all the time is it possible that you could maybe… pray for him?”
That caught Rivky off guard. She nodded reflexively. “Of course,” she said — but as she walked inside, she suddenly stopped in her tracks. Wait. Can I even daven for a nonJew?
That question bothered her all morning. On one hand, how could she refuse such a sincere request from a woman who had always shown her kindness? But on the other hand — was there a halachic
problem with davening for a nonJew, especially one who might be involved in avodah zarah?
By lunch break, Rivky decided she needed a real answer. She called the Refuah B’Halacha Center hotline. If they can answer refuah shilos for yidden maybe they could answer a refuah shilah for a goy.
“Hello Refuah B’Halacha, how can I help you?” Asked the rov on call.
Rivky began briefly describing the situation, the rov listened patiently and then began explaining the background.
“You’re asking an excellent question,” he began. “It’s something that actually comes up quite often, especially for teachers, nurses, and anyone who works with the public.”
He opened with the Shulchan Aruch Yoreh De’ah 158:1, which states that one may not heal an oved avodah zarah — a person who actively serves idols — unless
there’s a concern of eivah (hostility), meaning it could cause danger or enmity if we refuse.
The source is based on the principle that we are not obligated — and in certain cases not permitted — to extend medical assistance to one who serves avodah zarah, since they are considered to have removed themselves from basic belief in Hashem.
However, the rov continued, “This doesn’t mean that every nonJew today falls into that category.”
He explained that the Rambam himself was a physician who treated many non-Jews — mostly Muslims, who were clearly not considered ovdei avodah zarah. The Rambam saw his medical work as a form of chesed and kiddush Hashem.
“So, we see,” said the rov, “that the halacha in Shulchan Aruch was referring to those who were literally idol worshippers — bowing to statues or believing in multiple deities. But a moral, upright nonJew who believes in one Creator, or even someone who just lives decently and respectfully, is not included in that prohibition.”
The rov then cited a fascinating teshuvah from the Sefer Beis Sharim (Yoreh De’ah 229), who discusses this question at length. The Beis Sharim rules that the halacha of ‘ain marp’in ovdei avodah zarah’ — one may not heal an idol worshipper — does not apply to the non-Jews of our time, who are generally not true idolaters.
He bases his reasoning on the Kesef Mishneh on the Rambam (Hilchos Avodah Zarah 10:1), who explains that the Rambam’s words refer specifically to idol-worship-
pers — but when it comes to a ger toshav or a non-idolater, the prohibition doesn’t apply.
“Therefore,” explained the rov, “when a decent non-Jew asks you to pray for someone who’s ill, there is no halachic problem in doing so. On the contrary — it’s a fine thing. We can certainly daven that Hashem should help her husband, that he should be healed, and that she should recognize the kindness of the Jewish people, it can even be an opportunity for kiddush Hashem.”
Rivky felt relieved. She thanked the rov and hung up — but she couldn’t help thinking about what she had just learned.
How easily one could have assumed that halacha would say “no” — yet the Torah’s approach is so balanced, so thoughtful. It recognizes distinctions: between those who oppose Hashem and those who simply aren’t part of our nation but live with kindness and decency.
That evening, Rivky took out her siddur. Before starting Mincha, she whispered quietly, “Hashem, please send refuah to Susan’s husband, Jack — for Your sake, that Your world should see Your mercy and goodness.”
A few days later, when the bus arrived, Susan was back to her usual cheerful self.
“Good morning, Miss Rivky!” she said with a grin. “My husband’s a little better. Thank you for your prayers. It means a lot. I know you are truly part of a very special people.”
Rivky smiled back and thanked her. “Baruch Hashem,” she murmured to herself.
She thought to herself — some-
times, a small act of sensitivity, guided by halacha, can make a real kiddush Hashem in the eyes of the world. Rivky now has a new look at things she is part of a nation that is the light amongst all other nations. It’s not just a song or a slogan; she has power to bring Hashems light everywhere she is.
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need food, walks, or vet visits, and he became a millionaire in six months. The guy who caught Mark McGwire’s 70th Home Run ball sold it for three million dollars, and there are people who rent goats for eco-friendly weed control and make $600,000 a year!
I may buy a ticket once in a while, but it’s more of a lark, or to say, “I want to donate a building to a Yeshiva,” and imagine all the good things you’d do with it. But there is something very valuable in buying lottery tickets - the winning attitude.
You see, the people who buy tickets each week, and think that the next buy is going to be their
big windfall, they have a winning attitude. They aren’t getting down or depressed. They are maintaining the optimism and the dream of winning. Now, while it is sad that they feel they’re in a terrible existence they need to break free of, they imagine that their salvation is right around the corner, and all their troubles will be over. And THAT is something worth holding onto.
The ability to remember that Hashem wants to shower us with goodness and blessing, regardless of whether we truly deserve it or not, is akin to winning the lottery. Knowing we’re in good hands with Hashem takes away our worry and troubles, and lets
us live with a clear mind and heart. If we run into a difficulty, we know that we can turn to Him for help. It’s like a limitless checking account, but better, because it works for things money can’t buy, like health and relationships. If success is the ability to go from failure to failure without the loss of enthusiasm, then being aware of this winning mindset and putting it into practice is just the ticket we need.
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HaRav Moshe Hauer, zt”l was a brilliant soft spoken Torah leader, orator, scholar, talmud chacham and a Jewish communal giant. His modest demeanor and quiet presence added to his character as a humble, modest and thoughtful spiritual personality who was always in search for achdut and communal shalom bayit. He possessed an indelible capacity to ensure that any public policy or decision derived from his wisdom was endowed with tremendous kiddush hashem, Torah principles and uncompromising Jewish values.
Reb Moshe was indeed a quintessential Jewish communal role model who will be sorely missed by all who had the privilege know him. His untimely departure from our midst is painful. It shocked and rattled our world, community and klal yisrael, and, created an inconceivable loss of monumental and epic proportion that will impact many generations for years to come.
Many years ago, when we lived in Baltimore, I and my family had the tremendous good fortune to live in a house directly across the street from Rav Moshe, his wife Mindy and their beautiful children.
I can vividly recall the amazing Shabbat lunches our families shared and enjoyed together. His inspiring divrei torah relating to the weekly parsha and his divrei chizuk at the Shabbat table were spell-binding and memorable. It was such a special treat to absorb his words, thoughts and perspectives.
His soft-spoken style, character and demeanor motivated all of us sitting at the table to yearn and crave for more. But, as time flew by, and as he subtly glanced at his watch, he reminded himself that he was running late and needed to prepare for his pre-mincha shiur in his shul.
Oh how I truly miss those days. My relationship with Rav Hauer at that time in Baltimore was a very special and privileged one. Little did I truly know, appreciate or realize (at that time) that I was in the presence of a leader who would bring such greatness, pride, kiddush HaShem and tremendous stature to the community and to all who experienced his greatness.
I can vividly recall the inspiring conversations I would have with him about the evolving challenges facing our chinuch community, whether they be local in Baltimore or in communities throughout
North America.
We often talked about the day school and yeshiva affordability crisis and the paucity of senior Jewish educational leadership and teachers, and their daunting impact on the quality of our day schools and yeshivot. He cared. He worried; and, he cared with a passion.
Always willing but reluctant to assume senior volunteer leadership roles for select local yeshivot, His modesty was so evident in all of his actions. He made it a point to always do his “homework” (as he would refer to it) and engage in hishtadlut with a fine tooth comb prior to participating in any conversation or participate in a meeting with the vaad hachinuch or leadership of any local yeshiva.
He never took center stage and always avoided public recognition. In fact, he was satisfied just taking a back seat and knowing that policy decisions were being offered b’dat torah in accordance with torah values and standards. This level of modesty was truly admired and respected by all.
As the Rav of a merged shul (Bnai Jacob-Shaarei Zion), he made it a point to accept communal responsibilities which expanded his reach way beyond the four walls of his shul. They included serving on the Boards of THE ASSOCIATED Jewish Community Federation of Baltimore, the Jewish Family Services agency, and select local Jewish communal in-
stitutions and yeshivot.
His wisdom, counsel and perspectives were sought after by senior lay and professional leaders world-wide. And, his suggestions, recommendations and ideas were respected and honored by all.
These volunteer leadership responsibilities which he undertook with a bright beautiful smile and demeanor were in addition to his unswerving impact on members of his shul and their families; and in addition to his brilliant and erudite shiurim, divrei chzuk and torah lectures.
Where and how he found the time, drive, passion and energy to accomplish these amazing responsibilities while responding to the personal needs of families and individuals in the community (including his own) were beyond amazing.
Although we both davened at different shuls, I vividly recall the privileged opportunities I had to often walk him part of the way to his shul just prior to mincha Shabbat afternoon.
We discussed the weekly parsha, challenges facing our kehilla, and about his uncompromised passion and yearning for achdut. These brief exchanges had an indelible impact on my growth and development as a young Jewish educational leader in Baltimore. Little did I know or appreciate that his impact on my leadership and thinking would be so far reaching and impactful.
Reb Moshe, we will miss you tremendously. The pain of your profound loss is only beginning to be felt and experienced in our community and throughout the world.
In 2022, my family and I moved from Baltimore to Miami so that I could assume the Executive Vice Presidency of the Central Agency for Jewish Education in Miami. It was a significant professional move and transition for me and for my family.
Two years prior to that move (in 2020) Rav Hauer left his postilion in Baltimore in order to serve as Executive Vice President of the Orthodox Union in New York. He retained his rabbinic post as Rabbi Emeritus of his shul as he continued to provide leadership to the OU and to the Kehilla in Baltimore.
Over the years, I maintained con-
with Rav Hauer. We saw each other very often at smachot, and caught up with each other at conferences and at leadership meetings. But the relationship never really compared to our earlier days in Baltimore when I was blessed and had the good fortune to conveniently meet with him, walk with him and learn from him.
In retrospect, as I think back to those most memorable days with Rabbi Hauer in Baltimore, I and my colleagues always knew deep in our hearts that he was destned to leadership greatness as his influence expanded exponentially as new young dynamic and cherished
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As I conclude writing this “Personal Reflection” I vividly recall one of my final meetings with Reb Moshe in his shul office. In fact, I vividly recall that moment since I decided at the last minute to attend a maariv minyan in his shul in order recite Kaddish on my father’s zt”l Yahrzeit .
I recall arriving to shul a few minutes early. He noticed by presence and invited me to join him in his study for what he referred to as a schmooze. These schmoozen wer e priceless.
During the course of our brief conversation (schmooze) I recall asking him…..Reb Moshe, where do you get the time, energy, strength and stamina to maintain
your amazing schedule and to respond with full heart and mind to the wide variety of challenges you encounter on a daily basis?”
He sat back in his chair, looked at me, took off his glasses, and with his bright brilliant smile answered (to paraphrase) “Reb Chaim, I wish I knew, but in all honesty it is a precious gift from HaShem and one which I cherish and honor twenty-four seven”. Always cherish the time Hashem gives you on this earth, never take it for granted, never squander it, and always view it as one of the most precious gifts from HaShem that one can possibly receive and enjoy on this earth, Friends, this was indeed Reb Moshe Hauer.
His response to my question was so emblematic of his values,
beliefs, principles and greatness; and it represents a true reflection of his passion, his bitachon and his emenua in HaShem as well as his unswerving and unwavering commitment to Klal Yisrael.
Yehi zichro baruch – may his memory be a blessing for his family and for all of Klal Yisrael.
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For Reservists Recently Stationed in Gaza, Ben Gurion University’s JLIC Mission Was Therapeutic
Like many of his peers fresh out of the IDF, Gershon D. of Beersheva set off for Asia soon after completing his reserve duty in August. Since first enlisting in March 2018, he has served as a paratrooper and later as a communications officer — a role he continued while serving as a reservist with the Golani Brigade in Gaza from May to August 2025.
But instead of heading for a tropical Asian beach resort, Gershon — now a second-year Economics and Accounting student at Ben Gurion University (BGU) — embarked on a very different journey: volunteering in some of India’s poorest areas. He was one of 12 members of BGU’s JLIC — many of whom had recently served in Gaza — who took part in a weeklong relief mission to Mumbai, organized by the Fred and Rose Distenfeld Orthodox Union Relief Missions in partnership with Gabriel Project Mumbai (GPM).
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Mission participants organized engaging team building activities for the children of Mokhada Villages in Maharashtra, India
Mission participants entertained children at GPM’s Mokhada Community Healthcare Center following their medical checkups.
by Israeli Jacob Sztokman, GPM serves Mumbai’s underserved urban neighborhoods and Maharashtra’s historically marginalized rural tribal villages, including the Mokhada Villages, home to about 150,000 people, primarily from the indigenous Adivasi tribes.
“In supporting communities around the world, the message from the Orthodox community is profound,” says Sztokman. “It is showing that it cares, that it wants to connect with others, and that it’s ready to help in any way it can. As the division of the Orthodox Union creating deep and lasting change in so many communities, the Fred and Rose Distenfeld OU Relief Missions truly embodies that message.”
Fred and Rose Distenfeld OU Relief Missions Founding Director Rabbi Ethan Katz notes that the mission was particularly therapeutic for IDF soldiers who recently served in Gaza.
“This trip highlighted the essence of the Jewish People: our concern for Tikun Olam and helping others,” he says. “As Jews, we plant, we grow, we contribute. We went to teach and build toward a better tomorrow.”
Rabbi Idan Rakovsky, co-director of BGU JLIC, adds, “The past two years have been extremely challenging for our chayalim. They have served in Gaza and Lebanon under complex circumstances. In India, they devoted a full week to giving, building connections with everyone they met, and demonstrating that we are all created b’tzelem elokim, in Hashem’s image.”
The BGU JLIC team focused on projects designed to create systematic, lasting change, one
Mission participants helped farmers working in agriculture.
of GPM’s core objectives. They worked with women’s manufacturing collectives and helped farmers develop sustainable, organic farming methods. Participants also visited GPM’s safe drinking water facility, the Mokhada Community Healthcare Center clinic, and the Mokhada Rural Hospital, where they saw an oxygen tank for babies donated by GPM, IsraAID, and other humanitarian organizations.
“For mission participants, it was eye-opening to see how a few thousand dollars can be applied to life-altering solutions,” says Rabbi Katz. “Hopefully they will be inspired to pay it forward in their own communities in small ways.”
JLIC’s Executive Director Rabbi Josh Ross underscores the broader impact of the mission: “It creates a generation of Jewish leaders who understand that our responsibilities are universal and that our capacity to make a difference extends to the furthest corners of the earth. This is Jewish education in its most profound form: learning through doing,
growing through giving.”
In addition to large-scale projects, the volunteers focused on educational engagement. With guidance from local staff, they designed and led STEM and art activities for students in grades one through four at the Joshua Greenberger Learning Center, as well as at a nearby public government boarding school.
“Different mission groups volunteer every few months,” says Sztokman. “Among their contributions, they run informal educational programs that emphasize fun, creativity, and out-of-the-box thinking, introducing the children to new learning experiences and the wider world. One group from the U.S. even taught the children about air travel — many thought they had traveled by rickshaw. The kids were fascinated to learn they had flown across an ocean.”
Sztokman notes that informal education is critical, because many of the children later transfer to schools where students have been exposed to different teaching methods.
“Our primary goal is to show the children that they matter — that people have come from around the world to be with them and to teach them,” he says. “Over the years, they become confident in their learning and believe that they can succeed in life.”
Gershon reflects, “Feeling the children’s energy, finding ways to connect without relying on language, and witnessing their genuine joy in everyday experiences was incredible.”
Yet, his most profound experience came during a visit to a villager’s home.
“What touched me most was when we visited a woman and saw firsthand how she lives,” he says. “It hit me that we weren’t at a museum or a show — people truly
live like this, with nothing. And yet they are happy because they choose to be. Five years from now, when I complete my degree, my wife and I will probably have children. Even if we face what we perceive as challenges, they will all be relative. That woman will still live there with her husband and two daughters, and they will still be happy. That’s the lesson I’m taking with me: to choose peace and contentment over endless pursuit.”
Mission participants entertained children at GPM’s Mokhada Community Healthcare Center following their medical checkups. Beersheva young professional Kiara G. also joined the mission.
A yoga instructor who works with schoolchildren and at the local Absorption Center for new immi-
grants, Kiara previously served as a combat fitness trainer for the Israeli Air Force’s Talpiot unit, designing and leading advanced physical training programs for both combat and non-combat soldiers from 2020 to 2022.
Among her most memorable experiences were meeting children at their schools and spending time with families in their homes.
“I realized that even though we look different on the outside, we share many similarities — like the ways parents communicate with their children and how classmates interact in school,” she says. “At the end of the day, whether Jewish or Indian, American or Israeli, we are all bound by our tzelem enosh, our humanity.”
From Zero to 600K: How One Young Creator Turned Outrage into Advocacy—and Laughter
When October 7th shattered the world’s sense of safety, 24-year-old Yechiel Jacobs was just another young man scrolling through his phone — until he couldn’t stay silent any longer.
“I didn’t even have a real social-media presence,” he recalls. “I had about 862 followers. I wasn’t a content creator, definitely not an activist. But after October 7th, I started seeing these videos — anti-Israel, pro-Palestine — and not just critical, but cruel. There was no pause for empathy, no moment of silence. People were saying, ‘You deserved this.’ I’d never seen antisemitism so blatant in my lifetime.”
That moment changed everything. Frustrated, heartbroken, and unable to ignore what he was seeing, Yechiel decided to fight back — not with anger, but with humor. “I’ve always been a funny guy,” he says, smiling. “So I thought, let’s use that. I took one of those viral anti-Israel videos, pointed out the lies, and made it funny.”
He hit “post.”
A few weeks later, the video had half a million views.
“I was shocked,” he laughs. “It was literally the first video I’d ever made. Then I made another one, and another. Every video got bigger than the last. Before I knew it, I had hundreds of millions of views and over 600,000 followers across all platforms.”
The Power of Comedy in the Face of Hate
how I find the most extreme content — the things regular users would never even see — and then respond to them with facts and comedy.”
His unique blend of satire and sincerity transformed his feed into a battlefield of ideas — and a safe space for truth wrapped in laughter. But that visibility also made him a target.
“Whenever I see anti-Israel comments on my posts, I actually get excited,” he admits. “That means the video broke out of the bubble. It reached people who would never have seen it otherwise. The algorithm sees those arguments and says, ‘People are engaging with this — let’s show it to more of them.’ That’s how we reach beyond our own community.”
It’s a counterintuitive formula — engagement through opposition — but it works. His videos regularly rack up millions of views, spreading awareness of Jewish identity, Israeli reality, and factual clarity to audiences far beyond the Jewish world.
Still, for all the statistics, what drives him isn’t fame or numbers. “I started this because I was genuinely upset,” he says simply. “I saw lies and hate being spread about people who were suffering. I felt like if I didn’t speak up, who would?”
From Real Estate to Real Reach
In an era when social-media algorithms trap users inside echo chambers, Yechiel found a way to break through the walls — with laughter.
“Social media feeds you what you want to hear,” he explains. “So most people on one side only see their own side. But humor breaks through that. Everyone likes to laugh. When something’s funny, it finds its way to people who wouldn’t otherwise listen.”
To stay ahead, Yechiel even gamed the algorithm against itself. “My feed actually thinks I’m pro-Palestinian,” he jokes. “I started liking and watching those videos on purpose so I could see what narratives they were spreading. It’s
Before his unexpected rise as one of Israel’s most viral digital defenders, Yechiel was a full-time entrepreneur. He ran a car-rental business, invested in real estate, and dabbled in other ventures — the kind of quiet hustle that defines many young professionals chasing stability in uncertain times.
“I’ve always been a hustler,” he says. “But now, this is my full-time job. I do comedy shows around the world, I create content full-time, and I’ve sold out venues with more than 1,200 people in one night. It’s surreal.”
At first, he admits, the idea of monetizing his content felt uncomfortable. “It felt weird,” he confides. “October 7th was so heavy. People were grieving. I didn’t want to make it seem like I was profiting from pain. But then I realized — I’m doing something good. I’m educating. I’m inspiring. I’m giving people laughter and pride in who they are. There’s no reason I shouldn’t make a living doing that.”
And that’s exactly what he did. What began as one viral post is now a full-time career: stand-up shows, online collaborations, and a growing fan base that
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spans continents. “It’s crazy,” he says. “I’ve met people in Europe, South America, and all over the U.S. who come to my shows and tell me, ‘Your videos helped me talk to my non-Jewish friends about Israel,’ or, ‘You made me proud to wear my Magen David again.’ That means everything to me.”
Yechiel’s comedy style blends sharp wit with sincerity — one moment poking fun at online absurdities, the next moment reminding his audience of the human cost behind the headlines. “I use humor as the hook,” he says, “but the message is always serious underneath.
I want people to laugh, but also to think.”
A Voice of a New Generation
Jacobs represents a new generation of Jewish advocates — tech-savvy, emotionally intelligent, and unafraid to meet misinformation head-on. Unlike traditional spokespeople or public-relations efforts, his approach feels organic, spontaneous, and deeply personal.
“I don’t read from a script. I’m not part of an organization,” he says. “I speak from the heart. I
American Friends Of Elem Honors
Yechiel
Jacobs, Jan Ruben
In Boca Raton
BOCA RATON, FL – American Friends of ELEM honored Yechiel Jacobs and Jan Ruben at its annual Florida Luncheon on Sunday in Boca Raton, recognizing their dedication to protecting and empowering atrisk youth in Israel. The heartfelt event brought together community members, philanthropists, and mental health advocates to raise critical support for ELEM’s trauma and outreach services following the October 7th attacks.
The program featured a stirring performance by internationally acclaimed violinist and vocalist Biana Pinchuk, who dedicated her music to Roei Shalev, a survivor of the Nova Music Festival who tragically took his own life after enduring trauma from the October 7th massacre.
Dr. Jerry Cammarata, author of “The Fun Book of Fatherhood” and “The Future of the American Family: An Unprecedented Crisis,”” served as the event’s master of ceremonies. Guests also heard from Shahar Lev Roth, manager of A Real Home, ELEM’s flagship program for young women recovering from sexual violence. Roth, a trauma-informed care expert, spoke about the alarming rise in need among Israeli youth and the healing made possible through American support.
Yechiel Jacobs, whose comedic and pro-Israel videos have captivated millions across social media platforms, was recognized for using his voice to champion truth and resilience. What began as online advocacy has now grown into a global movement, with Jacobs performing live comedy in cities across North America, Latin America, Australia, and Israel, always carrying a message of unity, strength, and Jewish pride.
“What began as online advocacy has grown into something so much bigger. It has turned into live shows, community gatherings, and moments like this, where we come together not just to laugh or be inspired, but to stand for something greater than ourselves. That spirit is exactly what ELEM represents. Over the past year, I’ve learned how they’ve stepped up for young people all across Israel. No camera. No spotlight. Just real care, real action, and real impact,” Yechiel Jacobs said.
Jan Ruben was honored for her decades of service, compassion, and advocacy on behalf of youth in crisis. Her unwavering support for ELEM has helped ensure that thousands of young people in Israel receive the care, guidance, and love they need to thrive.
The luncheon also paid tribute to four beloved ELEM volunteers –Lior Hadad-Atias, Sigal Levy, Yasmin Beera, and Yonatan Richter –killed on October 7th, including those murdered at the Nova Music Festival and at Kibbutz Be’eri. Their memory was honored with a moment of silence and a renewed commitment to continue their work through ELEM’s mission.
“The Boca Raton community has shown time and again that it stands with Israel, not just in words, but through real, tangible support,” said
Liora Attias-Hadar, CEO of American Friends of ELEM. “By coming together for this luncheon, South Florida is sending a powerful message to Israeli teens in crisis: you are not alone, and we will be here for you, every step of the way.”
Proceeds from the luncheon directly support ELEM’s life-saving programs, including mobile outreach vans, 24/7 shelters, therapeutic programs for sexual violence survivors, and support for young mothers and homeless teens.
ABOUT AMERICAN FRIENDS OF ELEM:
American Friends of ELEM supports ELEM/ Youth in Distress in Israel, the country’s leading nonprofit for at-risk youth. Founded in 1983 by Jewish-American professionals, ELEM serves more than 13,000 young people each year from all sectors of Israeli society through street outreach, shelters, trauma support, and workforce programs.
American Friends of ELEM raises vital funds and awareness in the United States to help sustain and grow these life-saving services.
think that’s why people connect with it.”
It’s that authenticity that resonates. In an age where polished talking points often fall flat, Jacobs’ raw humor and vulnerability strike a chord — especially among younger audiences who crave honesty over perfection.
“People can tell when you’re genuine,” he says. “They can also tell when you’re faking it. The reason my videos took off is because I wasn’t trying to be an influencer. I was just trying to tell the truth — and do it in a way people would actually want to watch.”
His journey has also sparked a broader conversation about how Jews — especially young Jews — can reclaim digital spaces often dominated by misinformation.
“There’s room for everyone,” he insists. “You don’t have to make videos like me. You can share a post, comment, write, paint, sing — whatever your thing is. The point is to speak up. Silence doesn’t work anymore.”
The Road Ahead
Looking forward, Yechiel’s vision is clear: keep growing, keep laughing, and keep using humor to educate and unite. “Grow, grow, and grow,” he says. “More comedy, more shows, more ways to reach people. And I want to get into acting. I’m just getting started.”
And when asked if he has a message for the South Florida community, he grins. “Yeah — kosher food in Florida is way too expensive. Someone’s gotta fix that!”
Then, turning serious, he adds, “Really, though — just be happy. Love each other. Enjoy life. We’ve been through enough as a people to know that laughter is sacred. It’s how we survive.”
From frustration to fame, from outrage to laughter, Yechiel Jacobs’ journey is more than a viral success story — it’s a reminder that courage can be contagious, and that sometimes, the most powerful response to hate isn’t anger or despair, but humor, truth, and light.
Torah Academy of Boca Raton Marks 27 Years of Growth and Excellence
As Torah Academy of Boca Raton (TABR) enters its 27th year, the Yeshiva continues to thrive as a model of excellence in Torah education, community partnership, and student development. From its modest beginnings to its current status as a vibrant, multi-campus institution serving 900 children, TABR remains steadfast in its mission: to provide every talmid with an outstanding chinuch that nurtures both mind and heart.
At Torah Academy, each child is known, valued, and guided toward reaching their fullest potential. The Yeshiva’s hallmark is its deep commitment to fostering stellar middos alongside rigorous limudei kodesh and exceptional secular studies. TABR cultivates students who are not only bnei and bnos Torah, but also refined, confident, and capable individuals, prepared to make a Kiddush Hashem in every area of life. This holistic approach, anchored in Torah values and powered by a dedicated team of rabbeim, moros, and teachers, has earned Torah Academy its reputation as one of South Florida’s premier Torah institutions.
This year marks an exciting milestone in the Yeshiva’s ongoing expansion. For the first time in Torah Academy’s history, all boys in grades 1–8 are united on one campus, fostering a powerful sense of achdus and shared mission. The consolidation allows for smoother coordination among rebbeim and teachers, greater resource sharing, and a stronger, more unified school identity. To support this ex-
pansion, the Boys Campus has inaugurated several new classrooms and enhanced recreational areas, ensuring space and structure that align with the Yeshiva’s ever-growing vision.
At the same time, the North Campus has transitioned into a dedicated Girls Elementary Division, allowing the entire atmosphere to reflect the unique ruach and refinement of the program. The results are already visible, creating an environment filled with warmth, pride, and a deep connection to Torah.
This year also brings dynamic new leadership. Rabbi Yosef Bondi now serves as the Head of the Boys Division, supporting the Yeshiva’s
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I’m full of palm trees, cruise ships, and heat, Where people dance salsa and love to eat! What city am I?
continued growth and ensuring excellence across the division.
Mrs. Miriam Friedman joins Torah Academy as well, as the Menaheles of the Girls Elementary School, bringing passion, insight, and experience to uplift every student and staff member.
As Torah Academy celebrates 27 years of unwavering dedication to Torah and chinuch, one message rings clear: every child matters, and the future of Klal Yisrael is being built, one precious neshama at a time.
Torah Academy of Boca Raton is a Yeshiva with preschool, elementary, and separate boys’ and girls’ middle school divisions, serving approximately 900 students this year. For more information, visit www.torahacademybr.org or call 561-465-2200.
I’m an island with beaches that glow at night, Colorful buildings and bright neon light. Where am I?
I have a famous Broadwalk by the sea, Skaters, bikers, and ice cream for me!
What’s my name?
My streets look like Spain long ago, Coral stone houses and fountains that flow. Which city am I?
Boats and canals are all around, Waterways flow right through the town. What city is this?
My name means “mouth of the rat” in Spanish (funny but true!), I have fancy shops and beaches too!
Where am I?
You can walk on Clematis Street, Or see a concert with a beat! Which sunny city am I?
People cheer for horses that race, And cafés fill the place with taste!
Can you guess my name?
I’m home to a giant mall you’ll adore, With shops and treats on every floor!
What city am I?
A: Miami
A: Hollywood
A: Coral Gables A: Hialeah
Aventura
Miami Beach
Fort Lauderdale
West Palm Beach
Boca Raton
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FACTS ABOUT IGUANAS DID YOU KNOW THAT...
1. Tree Lovers: Most iguanas are arboreal, meaning they spend most of their lives high up in trees.
2. Sunbathers: Iguanas are cold-blooded, so they love to bask in the sun to stay warm.
3. Excellent Swimmers: They can hold their breath underwater for up to 30 minutes!
4. Tail Whip Defense: When threatened, iguanas can use their strong tails like a whip to scare off predators.
5. Third Eye: Iguanas have a “parietal eye” on top of their head that senses light and movement—like a built-in motion detector.
6. Vegetarian Diet: They mostly eat
THE BUNNY REACH THE FLOWERS
leaves, flowers, and fruit—making them true herbivores.
7. Tail Regeneration: If their tail breaks off to escape danger, it can grow back!
8. Color Changing: Young iguanas are bright green, but they often turn duller or darker as they age.
9. Long Lives: With good care, iguanas can live up to 20 years or more.
10. Big Reptiles: Some iguanas can grow over 6 feet long from nose to tail— half of that length is just their tail! `
Jamie Geller’s Challah Recipe
By Jamie Geller
Ingredients
• 2 ounces ¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons active dry yeast (57 grams) + 3 tablespoons sugar (40 grams)
• 6 cups warm water divided (1,440 grams)
• 4 tablespoons kosher salt 72 grams
• 1 6-pound bag high-gluten flour (2.7 kg)
• 2 cups sugar 400 grams
• 4 egg yolks
• 1 ¼ cup canola oil divided (260 grams)
• 2 whole eggs lightly beaten
• ½ cup sesame seeds
• ½ cup poppy seeds
Preparation
1. In a medium bowl, dissolve yeast and 3 tablespoons of sugar in 2 cups of warm water, cover loosely with a towel and set aside.
2. Place salt in a huge plastic bowl.
3. Add flour to bowl.
4. Add sugar and egg yolks.
5. Yeast should now have bubbled/foamed and doubled in size, if yeast has not bubbled or does not seem active repeat the process again.
6. Make a well in the middle of the flour mixture and slowly pour yeast and sugar water mixture into the well. Then add the remaining 4 cups of warm water into the well. Make sure the water is not too hot. It should be no warmer than you would use for a baby’s bath.
7. Start kneading ingredients together and add a ½ cup of oil.
8. For the next 10 minutes, knead, adding another ½ cup of oil slowly during that time as needed to create a workable dough. Dough shouldn’t be too sticky and also should not be dry. It should become one cohesive mass.
9. Loosely cover dough with a large kitchen towel and place in a warm spot in your kitchen for 15 minutes.
10. After 15 minutes, lightly oil your hand and knead
again for another 5 minutes adding a touch more oil to the dough if necessary. The dough should now be easier to work with and will become smooth and satiny.
11. Rub a little oil over the top and around the dough. Cover bowl with a kitchen towel. Place covered bowl in a medium plastic garbage bag and place open ends of the bag loosely underneath the bowl, trapping in air.
12. Place in a warm spot and let rise for 1 hour or until doubled in size.
13. Punch dough down and knead (lightly oil your hands if necessary), flipping it and releasing any air bubbles. Cover again, using the towel and the bag, and let rise 1 more hour.
14. Lightly oil your hands, and punch down again. With a sharp knife divide dough into 4 equal parts.
15. Liberally spray 4 (9-inch) round baking pans with nonstick cooking spray and set aside.
16. Preheat oven to 375°F.
For Round Challah:
• With lightly oiled hands, place 1 piece of dough on a smooth work surface. Play with the dough a bit, squeezing out any air bubbles. Then roll the dough into a long, thick rope, adding oil as needed to keep it from being too sticky. Don’t use too much oil; a little sticky is fine.
• Place one end of the rope up against the edge of the prepared pan and coil it, ending in the middle. Set aside.
For Pull-Apart Challah:
• With lightly oiled hands, place 1 piece of dough on a smooth work surface. Play with the dough a bit, squeezing out any air bubbles. Separate into 8 equal parts. Roll each part into a round ball, adding oil as needed to keep it from being too sticky. Don’t use too much oil; a little sticky is fine.
• Place one ball in the middle of the prepared pan and surround with remaining balls. Don’t worry if they don’t touch. They will rise into each other while baking. Set aside.
17. Repeat either method with remaining dough so that you have 4 challahs.
18. Brush challahs with beaten egg and sprinkle with a combination of poppy and sesame seeds.
19. Bake at 375°F for 10 minutes and then lower your oven temperature to 350 F and bake for an additional 35 to 45 minutes, until challah tops are dark golden brown.
2. Allow to cool slightly before serving. Serve while still warm. Once the challah has been sliced, you can store the slices in sealable plastic bags for about 4 to 5 days.
Jamie Geller is the Chief Media and Marketing Officer at Aish. She is also a bestselling cookbook author, celebrity chef, television producer, and businesswoman. She’s the author of eight cookbooks and the founder of Kosher Media Network.
Thinking Outside the Box (Office)
By Shmuel Shayowitz
Every winter, Hollywood lights up with blockbuster films, and theaters prepare for their busiest season. It’s no secret that the months between Labor Day and New Years can be very lucrative, as they account for nearly 40% of the year’s box office revenue. Holiday seasons, kids out of school, and studios releasing their biggest titles all create a tidal wave of ticket sales. But here’s the twist: even in those peak months, tickets themselves aren’t where theaters make their real money! The real profits come from everything else… concessions, loyalty programs, premium seating, and advertising. The popcorn, soda, and candy are what keep theaters thriving, and it’s a reminder that success often comes from looking beyond the obvious. And that lesson isn’t limited to the movie industry - it applies broadly to how we think about our own finances and investments. During the pandemic, a friend of the family was faced with a huge predicament. He owned a vacant lot slated for development, but when COVID restrictions brought his project to a stop, it looked like everything came to a crashing standstill. Instead of letting the land sit idle, he chose to reimagine it. With traditional theaters closed and people craving safe, socially-distanced entertainment, he converted that lot into a drive-in movie theater. Practically overnight, what seemed like a di-
saster became a community entertainment hub and a financial success.
It’s another reminder that creative thinking can turn a challenge into an opportunity. And the same principle applies to all aspects of our everyday life. You may not own land waiting to be developed, but chances are you have hidden treasures all around you. Maybe it’s a garage or attic that could be rented as storage, or a basement that could be legally converted into a rental unit. Perhaps you can sublet desks in your office or share your receptionist with a neighboring business. Maybe it’s a side hustle built around your passion, such as tutoring, cooking, or running a small online business. What about deploying funds into investments that can yield more than just a safe, conservative return? Even if you don’t want the hassle of managing real estate, you can still explore passive real estate investing through partnerships. (Yes, that’s something I can help with.) There is no limit to how and where you can earn a few extra bucks if you are willing to put in a little time and effort.
The point is, just like the movie theater, your primary source of income may not be the only, or even the best, way to increase your net worth. It’s often the “concessions” of your financial life, the overlooked or underutilized areas, that can deliver big-
ger returns for us.
We tend to focus so much on the obvious: a salary, a home, or a traditional investment account. But most people are short-sighted, lazy, or simply very comfortable playing it safe. Your financial picture can be transformed by thinking creatively about the resources already at your disposal. In the end, the lesson is clear: the best opportunities aren’t always the most visible. Sometimes they’re hidden in plain sight, waiting for you to recognize their value or worth. Whether it’s repurposing a stalled project, leveraging unused space, or aligning with the right investment partners, your financial “blockbuster” may come from beyond just staring at the screen in front of you. To get more exclusive insights, join my whatsapp group at https://info. approvedfunding.com/shmuel. shayowitz
Shmuel Shayowitz (NMLS#19871) is a highly regarded Real Estate & Finance Executive, Writer, Speaker, Coach, and Advisor. He is President and Chief Lending Officer of Approved Funding, a privately held national mortgage banker and direct lender that has facilitated over $3 billion in mortgage funding. Shmuel has over twenty years of industry experience, holding numerous licenses and accreditations, including certified mortgage underwriter, licensed real estate agent, residential review appraiser, and accredited investor, to name a few. Shmuel has successfully navigated through many changing markets and business landscapes, making his market insights and experience well-coveted within the real estate industry. He can be reached via email at Shmuel@approvedfunding.com.
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