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missouri historical society

The nonprofit will take stewardship of an extraordinary private collection of Josephine Baker memorabilia, including costumes, original theater artifacts, historic posters, photographs and more, thanks to a generous charitable bequest from local philanthropist Mary Strauss.

saint louis zoo

Four Mexican spider monkeys now call the Saint Louis Zoo home. The monkeys were rescued as infants from smugglers near the U.S. southern border in 2024.

sophie’s artist lounge

The lounge is launching a new exhibit celebrating the roots and impact of hip-hop culture in St. Louis. Curated by Kris Blackmon in collaboration with the Kranzberg Arts Foundation, To STL With Love will be on display until early 2026.

jefferson national parks association

Local Artist Jillian Kaye has been selected as the winner of the Gateway Arch National Park Research Center

Mural Competition.

The winning design weaves together stories of westward expansion, Indigenous peoples, Dred and Harriet Scott and the Arch’s original designer, Eero Saarinen.

SAWYIER

FOR A BRIGHTER FUTURE

GIRLS INC. OF ST. LOUIS

THE WORLD IS IN A CONSTANT STATE of innovation and flux, and those changes come with new demands on the future leaders of tomorrow. Whether it’s navigating new technologies or facing evolving complexities, young people will have to tackle a whole new frontier. Girls Inc. of St. Louis is dedicated to offering support for young women to thrive and succeed in school, the workplace and beyond. For more than four decades, the nonprofit has been dedicated to equipping young people aged 5 to 24 with the tools needed to reach their potential through educational, recreational and cultural programs.

“Our mission is to support girls by providing education and cultural programs in a safe environment that allows them to rise to their potential and aspirations,” CEO and president Cheryl Jones notes. “We want to inspire the next generation to be strong, smart and bold.” Girls Inc. begins working with young women in early childhood and continues to offer support with mentorship and scholarships through college. The local chapter serves more than 9,000 girls annually. Its services include after-school and summer STEM-based programming as well as offerings in subjects like wellness, media literacy, leadership, performing arts and athletics and outreach initiatives designed to help girls navigate gender, social and economic barriers.

One of the nonprofit’s major initiatives is Project Accelerate. The program is dedicated to creating future leaders who are capable of navigating emerging workforce gaps in critical areas, including technology and A.I. “Project Accelerate works with young women as they transition from high school into college and the workplace,” Jones explains. “We’re currently seeing big changes in workspaces, and there are even more expected in the next 10 years. We want to change young people’s educational and career trajectory by providing scholarships, mentorship, coaching and social and emotional support to pave new career pathways.”

To make its programming possible, Girls Inc. relies on the support of the community. Its largest annual fundraiser is the Strong, Smart & Bold Luncheon. As well as raising critical support for the nonprofit’s mission, the event offers an important opportunity to spotlight the success of its participants. “Every year, the luncheon is like a family reunion,” Jones says. “People can’t wait to come back and see what we’re doing and how the girls they’ve met have grown and succeeded. It’s an important opportunity for the community to see our impact and meet some of the best and brightest young people in St. Louis.”

This year’s Strong, Smart & Bold Luncheon is Nov. 7 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis. The event is themed around changemakers, and Girls Inc. will be honoring six people for their impact in the community. “We’ve selected six individuals that we believe have invested in and improved St. Louis while inspiring us all to be strong, smart and bold,” Jones notes. “Our goal is to spark inspiration and show young people that they can be changemakers in the future. Girls Inc. helps the next generation solve problems, see sustainable solutions and find new ways to look at neighborhoods, schools and businesses so we can thrive as a community.” &

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The Saint Louis Chess Club is reopening this October after a 30,000-square-foot expansion that meant taking over the leases of three adjacent storefronts at the intersection of Euclid and Maryland avenues in 2019. Some say the transformation will have created the most advanced chess venue in the world. Here’s what’s coming:

New Features: A chess-themed restaurant, expanded classrooms, upgraded broadcast studios and a world-class tournament hall

Grand Reopening Events: October kicks off with Clutch Chess: The Legends, a 12-game Chess960 showdown between Garry Kasparov and Viswanathan Anand—a historic rematch 30 years after their 1995 World Championship duel (Also known as Fischer Random Chess, in Chess960 the pieces on the back rank, excluding pawns, are shuffled into one of 960 possible configurations.)

Championships: The U.S. & U.S. Women’s Championships run Oct. 12–25, followed by the Clutch Chess: Champions Showdown featuring Magnus Carlsen, Hikaru Nakamura, Fabiano Caruana and Gukesh Dommaraju

Hall of Fame Inductions: Chess giants the likes of Irina Krush, Bruce Pandolfini, Pia Cramling, and Jan Timman will be honored during the festivities

The club’s location, 4657 Maryland Ave. in the CWE, remains the same, but the vision of the StL as the epicenter of global chess is bigger than ever.

OF THE TOWNS talk

the metro

You know what time it is? No, no, no; it’s not nearly early enough to hang or inflate the Halloween decorations—please wait until mid-October. On Aug. 26, Starbucks returned fresh pumpkin spice coffee and related products to its stores. That includes cozy favorites such as …

▪ Pumpkin Cream Cold Brew

▪ Iced Pumpkin Cream Chai

▪ Pecan Crunch Oatmilk Latte

▪ And a new twist: Pecan Oatmilk Cortado

If you’re more of a home brewer, Starbucks has already stocked grocery shelves with pumpkin spice coffee grounds, K-pods and creamers—available now through December. If the 17 Starbucks within a one-mile radius of us (Just kidding. Really!) are any indication, there are already pumpkin spice muffins in stores that offer pastries. If just hearing the term ‘pumpkin spice’ makes your nostrils go all a-flutter, you’re covered. Candles are everywhere year-round. Need a cardboard pumpkin-spice air freshener to hang from your rearview mirror? Check Quik Trip or Mobil On-The-Run. Need a plug-in? Target or Walmart. And if that doesn’t ease your jones for the unmistakable fall ‘flava,’ most every brewer makes a pumpkin-spice beer. Hefty manufactures trash bags with the “refreshing” scent of cinnamon and pumpkin spice. Reportedly, they sold out in 90 minutes last year. If you really need to “enjoy the go,” the aroma is in TP tubes. And if your cat is even more finicky than the average feline, somebody’s blending it in scoopable kitty litter. Beyond all that, there’s probably a treatment center in California or Florida that will give you 28 days or so to get over it.

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Andrew Morton, internationally bestselling biographer and author of The Queen and Diana, will make a presentation and lecture Oct. 25 about his latest volume, Winston and the Windsors, a compelling story of the hot-and-cold relationship between the House of Windsor and Winston Churchill. Morton appears at 7 p.m. for the discussion at Clark Family Branch of our county library, 1640 S. Lindbergh Blvd., directly across from Plaza Frontenac. Few figures in British history have been so deeply and consequentially involved with the royal family as Churchill. In Winston and the Windsors, Morton, world-renowned biographer and authority on celebrity, presents his joint biography of Churchill and the House of Windsor, the royal family in the World War II era. “Churchill was unique in his role: helping to shape not only a reign, but an entire royal dynasty,” Morton has said. Morton argues that Churchill’s influence extended far beyond politics—he was both a confidant and a challenger to the monarchy, and his dynamic with the Windsors was pivotal to the evolution of the British Crown in the 20th century. Tickets can be purchased through Eventbrite. Seating will be offered on a first-come, first-served basis.

What happened June 3, 1906, in the Mill Creek Valley neighborhood of St. ILouis? Josephine Baker, née Freda Josephine McDonald, was born on June 3, 1906, in the Mill Creek Valley neighborhood of St. Louis. Before being demolished in the late 1950s during a wave of ‘urban renewal,’ the thriving Black neighborhood was between 20th Street and SLU, encompassed 54 city blocks and was home to around 20,000 people.

His illustrious career in the theatre began when he was still in primary school in Indianapolis: Tom Ridgely, producing artistic director of our St. Louis Shakespeare Festival,, played an important role in his grade-school production of You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown. Originally cast as Pig Pen, apparently he had enough of that elusive ‘It’ factor to merit his switch to the show’s only anthropomorphic star, Snoopy the beagle. These days it’s mostly all Shakespeare, all the time. Ridgely has the freedom and has felt encouraged to put a new spin on these 500-year-old classics as well as produce new works. During one of the hottest summers the metro has experienced in forever, his troupe put on a work inspired by the metro’s most beloved free institution—Romeo & Zooliet nobody dies, even though the mutually antagonistic Montague and Capulet families are represented by herbivores and carnivores. Juliet is a lovable grizzly bear and Romeo, a prairie dog. Their puppet costumes were created by none other than the artisans responsible for the elaborate larger than life-sized creations in stage productions of The Lion King. Speaking of Hamlet which Disney’s animated feature was mostly adapted: Not long before opening night of a production of Hamlet in Shakespeare Glen at Forest Park, the actor in one of the key roles, Laertes, tore his Achilles tendon. Serendipity stepped in to rescue the savvy director—one of his stars, the actress playing Ophelia, knew that another actor had just finished up a run in Indiana as Laertes and was soon to return home to NYC. Ridgely convinced the man that his services were needed, and he changed his ticket. “Oh, the things a director has to go through,” Ridgely says, with a mock sigh. Making lemonade out of lemons is always part of the assignment. Gallons of it, if you use the May 16 tornado as a backdrop. It messed things up in the Glen, such that the scaffolding company and other vendors had to return for necessary fixes. But TourCo, one of Ridgely’s subsidiary companies, has been stepping out primarily with its spin on the beloved comedy A Midsummer Night’s Dream for one-night Shakespeare in the Streets appearances in metro communities from Kirkwood to East St. Louis, Illinois. “This is a way for them to get their stories heard,” he says. The company of six actors adapts the script to make it relevant to the specific place they perform, whether O’Fallon Park or Clayton, through Sept. 14. For a better look at what else is behind a very expansive curtain encompassing the Fest’s 25 years, visit stlshakes.org. &

light the night

Eckert’s Farm is introducing a new nighttime experience for guests this fall. Opening Sept. 13, Jack’s Lighted Trail will immerse visitors in glowing displays of pumpkin

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It’s time once again to support local businesses and help local kids! Purchase a Glennon Card at select participating retailers or at glennoncard.org to receive a 20% discount at more than 340 retailers and restaurants from Oct. 17 through 26. The best part? One hundred percent of card sales go toward supporting the patients and families at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. Look for exclusive coverage of the Glennon Card in upcoming T&S issues: Sept. 17 and Oct. 1 & 15.

I THINK

MOST MARRIED

couples have discussed their “hall pass,” especially those who have been married for 42 years like me. Not familiar with the term? A hall pass is one-time permission from your spouse to break your vows of fidelity with a specific person. Sounds slimy? Or maybe too good to be true? Well, I have a hall pass—two actually— and I’ve never even been in the same city as either of my intended victims. You see hall passes are usually never used. It is just something to tell yourself that you actually have a shot with someone unattainable.

When Carey, my husband, and I first discussed this oh so many years ago, my hall passes were Lester Holt from NBC and George

The Gateway Arch is turning 60! This October, to celebrate the anniversary of the icon’s completion, the Gateway Arch National Park is inviting local companies to submit Arch-inspired logos for a new exhibit of how businesses have incorporated the Arch into their branding over the last six decades. Participants must complete a short online form and upload a high-resolution version of their logo by Sept. 12. Visit gatewayarch.com for more information.

Stephanopoulos from ABC. Carey first picked Doris Day. He did not quite understand how this whole thing worked. Once he did, he went with Heidi Klum. All three are pretty unattainable, but that is the point. You get to pretend, but there is no chance this would ever really happen.

Now, I know at the age of 65 I should be thinking about my grandkids, what medications are covered by Medicare and making sure I do not slip, fall and break a hip—not some unattainable goal of using my hall pass, but then I happened upon the Netflix series Sullivan’s Crossing. It features Scott Patterson who portrayed Luke on Gilmore Girls. I started watching

and was quickly struck by the sheer beauty of Chad Micheal Murray. Sure, I had seen him on One Tree Hill, but he was just a kid. Now, he is a full-grown adult.

I did deep dive on Chad. He is apparently married to a woman who looks like a model. They have three kids they adore, and when Chad goes on location, so do they. Sounds rather tight knit, but you cannot stop an old broad from dreaming.

In Sullivan’s Crossing, he plays the somewhat mysterious Cal. Oh look, there he is chopping wood with his shirt off, saving a child from drowning and flipping his golden locks. He had me at the flip. The current season is filming now in Nova Scotia. That’s not too far from St. Louis, right?

Blues & Brews is returning to Anheuser-Busch Brewery on Sept. 19. The outdoor street party will feature appearances by St. Louis Blues players and alumni, food trucks and live music headlined by The Band Perry. To purchase tickets and see the full event timeline, visit stlouisblues.com.

The next thing I knew Chad was featured in The New York Times, not Teen Beat or Midlife Dreams. My crush was getting too much attention. Why was the world trying to make it harder for me? Now, every woman between the ages of 40 and 80 was going to rethink their hall pass! Sure, if I ever met Chad, it would certainly go badly. I am a woman of many words until it comes to, well, anyone that looks like him. This is not really about Chad but more the fun of remembering that even though I could be his mom, there is still desire even when I am retired. Mock if you must. But take a minute and think about your midlife crush. I know they will bring a smile to your face. Peace my Peeps. &

Niche Food Group is celebrating its 20th anniversary! To mark the milestone, it will host a celebration at Expat BBQ at City Foundry STL on Sept. 25 at 7:30 p.m. The event will feature live music, a menu of throwback dishes, guest chefs and more. Tickets are available at nichefoodgroup.com.

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PARENT TRAP

DEFINE SUCCESS

I RECENTLY INTERVIEWED author Kate Berski on my podcast Raising Daughters about her new book, 30-Phobia:WhyYour20sSuckandHowtoGetUnstuck. She found through extensive surveys that many 20-somethings experience “milestone anxiety” as they approach their 30th birthday. They had a vision for their 20s being the best years of their life, and for many, it falls short of their expectations. I’ve found the same thing counseling young adults, and I think there are several reasons for this phenomenon.

In past generations, it was easier for young people to figure out their path because they had far fewer choices, especially for women. You were expected to become a nurse, teacher, secretary or a mother. Today girls have grown up hearing the mantra that they can be anything they want and the possibilities are endless. They also have been heavily influenced by so many external expectations and opinions and become way too outwardly directed. Heavy use of technology and social media contributes to these pressures, resulting in 20-somethings experiencing feelings of “compare and despair.” Constant busyness and distractions have created a generation that has lost touch with themselves and their inner life, leading to an inability to access their inner voice and intuition to guide their decisions.

I also believe that our culture has been directing all children onto the same path to success, attaining A’s in school, attending a top tier college and getting a good job that makes a lot of money. Our 20-somethings have been chasing this idea of success and obediently following the expected path without ever questioning if it fits for them. They’ve never questioned their conditioning or taken some quiet time to define success on their own terms. Following this one-size-fits-all script does not lead to fulfillment for most young adults. Following a life of “shoulds” and unrealistic expectations creates the quarter life crisis that many 20-somethings are struggling with today.

So what’s the solution for young adults? First, accept that any period of growth and change in our lives is accompanied by normal feelings of uncertainty and anxiety. It’s not a sign of a disorder; it’s a sign that you are undergoing an important life transition and you need to express these emotions in healthy ways. Otherwise, what is unexpressed becomes unmanageable. They can take regular quiet time to reflect, soul-search and access their intuition to make decisions from this inner place versus from external pressures. It is imperative that each person define success on their own terms for their reasons by asking the question, “What does success look like to me?”

I counsel 20-somethings that there is no deadline on dreams and no stopwatch for success. There is no such thing as being ahead or behind, because we are all running our own race on our own unique path with its own timeline. I also encourage them to interview every adult they bump into and ask them about their path to further cement the idea that most people zig-zag their way to their calling as opposed to following a linear path from A-to-Z. I suggest they read biographies and watch documentaries of people who live interesting lives to reinforce this notion of allowing your life to unfold in its own way and in its own time.

You can start teaching children to enjoy quiet, reflective time in grade school and to ask them all along the way why they are interested in their activities. I want them to be aware of what motivates them to play soccer, go for A’s and attend college so they learn to do things for their reasons. Having autonomy to pursue their interests will lead them to do the same once they reach their 20s. Young adults also need opportunities to discuss what they are experiencing with their peers so that they know they are normal and not crazy—and not alone. We need to do a much better job of preparing our kids to become adults.

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Congrats to senior Alana Chandler and junior Kaviya Senthilkuma. They both earned accolades for their research presentations at the School of Medicine Summer Scholars program hosted by the Saint Louis University Office of Ignatian Mission in Medicine. The program provided students with the opportunity to meet with health care professionals, tour the campus, complete a community service project and more. Chandler and her group earned second place for their project on psychotherapy and pharmacology treatment for depression management, and Senthilkumar’s group won third place for their project on A.I. versus human physicians in diagnosis.

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Students received an exciting visit from Joseph Harris, an alum of the school and current sophomore and student athlete at Princeton University. A first-generation college student, Harris is using his experience to inspire kids in St. Louis. “I don’t think I would be at Princeton if it weren’t for SLLIS because of all the opportunities I received there,” Harris said. “It wasn’t always easy, but having to do difficult coursework and the rigorous task of learning another language molded my skills and leadership abilities both in the classroom and on the football field.”

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Congratulations to Celina Zhou! The senior has been named a Coolidge Senator, a prestigious national honor awarded to only 100 students across the U.S. each year. Zhou is the first student from Ladue Horton Watkins to receive the distinction and only the fourth student from Missouri. She will receive a full-ride, four-year undergraduate scholarship.

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Junior Logan Whitley represented the school in the National Youth Leadership Forum: Medicine & Health Care at Emory University. Whitley was selected from a competitive pool of students nationwide. She spent a week living and learning on campus, engaging in workshops led by professionals and earning college credit for her work.

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Senior Christian Ermilio received the Naval Reserve Officer Training Corps (NROTC) National Scholarship. The $200,000 scholarship will allow Ermilio to attend one of 170 Navy partner schools across the country. As one of 2,500 students selected nationwide, he earned the scholarship through his strong academic performance, ACT score, volunteer service, a physical fitness test and interviews with Navy officers.

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PARENTS

Back to School R e a d s

Back-to-school time comes with a lot of emotions—excitement, fear and maybe even a little disappointment. It can be a lot for a young student to deal with. These books explore a variety of different themes, from imagination to overcoming nerves to accepting others. They’re stories that can help ensure you start the school year off a great foot.

WE DON'T EAT OUR CLASSMATES by Ryan T. Higgins

Penelope Rex can’t wait to meet her new classmates on her first day of school. But will she be able to make human friends when they’re so delicious? See what happens when Penelope learns she may not be at the top of the food chain after all in this hilarious story. We Don’t Eat Our Classmates offers a humorous and fresh take on back-to-school jitters.

MY TEACHER IS A MONSTER!

by Peter Brown

Bobby is not a fan of his treacher—in fact, she may be the worst teacher ever! She yells and doesn’t let him have fun in class or at recess. Bobby’s teacher is a monster. One weekend, he finds her at his favorite spot in the park, and over the course of a day, the pair learn there is more to each other than just grouchy teacher and misbehaving student. This charming tale shows kids that teachers are people too.

THE NAME JAR by Yangsook Choi

Having just moved from Korea, Unhei is anxious about fitting in. Being the new kid at school is hard enough, but what happens when nobody can pronounce her name? She decides to choose an American name from a jar. But can she be herself as a Suzy, Laura or Amanda? This bestseller highlights the importance of finding the courage to be yourself and celebrate your background.

MISS NELSON IS MISSING!

In this classic children’s book, a misbehaving class learns to appreciate their sweet teacher. Miss Nelson’s class always acts up, especially when she is absent from school. But after a week dealing with the strict substantiate, Ms. Swamp, the kids are desperate to get Miss Nelson back. This hilarious tale teaches kids the importance of not being inconsiderate or unappreciative.

WHAT IF …

How can you express yourself? Do you need to draw, sculpt or build? This story about the power of imagination and self-expression follows a little girl who turns the world into her canvas. It shows that you don’t need fancy art supplies or endless material to be creative. Written and illustrated by two real-life best friends, the book is a celebration of art, imagination and the human spirit.

Saturday Sneak Peek (activities for the whole family)

Saturday, September 27, 9:30 AM - 11:30 AM

Get to Know New City (group tour during the school day)

Tuesday, October 21, 9:00 AM - 10:30 AM

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Saturday, November 8, starting at 10:00 AM LEARN

A Conversation with GEN HORIUCHI

For decades, Gen Horiuchi has been an integral part of some of the most-watched dance productions in the world. The Tokyo native created the opening ceremony choreography at the 1998 Nagano Winter Olympics, and before that, he played the role of Mr. Mistoffelees in the Broadway, London and Tokyo productions of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Cats. For more than two decades, he has served as the executive and artistic director of the Saint Louis Ballet. With his 25th anniversary season beginning in October, Horiuchi spoke with T&S about how the ballet has grown under his leadership and how he hopes to continue inspiring a love of dance in the region moving forward.

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE CELEBRATING YOUR 25TH SEASON WITH THE SAINT LOUIS BALLET?

It went by very quickly. Looking back, I started with only seven company dancers. I didn’t even have a training program with senior students—there were maybe 40 students in the ballet school to support the company. After we really started growing, the ballet had to pause due to the pandemic. Now, we’re back on track. It’s been a bit of a roller coaster over the last 25 seasons.

WHAT WERE SOME OF THE CHALLENGES YOU FACED GROWING THE COMPANY?

There was no precedent for a professional ballet company in the region. I really had to build everything from scratch. The St. Louis community was supportive, but I had to establish that we were offering professional productions with professional dancers. I don’t know how many times I heard something like, “I’m looking forward to watching your recital.” My first 15 years at Saint Louis Ballet were spent trying to establish who we are.

YOU’VE BROUGHT THE WORK OF AMAZING CHOREOGRAPHERS TO ST. LOUIS DURING YOUR TENURE.

I danced with the New York City Ballet for years. One of the greatest things about New York is the richness of people coming into the city. I got to know so many amazing artists. I wanted to bring that to St. Louis. The Saint Louis Ballet has presented the works of Susan Stroman who has choreographed so many amazing musicals, Jerome Robbins who choreographed West Side Story and Justin Peck who just won the Tony Award for his work in Buena Vista Social Club. It’s great to bring their work here and introduce it to audiences. It’s been very well received by the community.

WHAT WAS THE IMPACT OF COVID-19?

It forced the Saint Louis Ballet to pause. With nothing else to do, I got the opportunity to work on a long-term strategic plan. One of the first things I wanted to do was integrate live music into the performances. We never really had a music organization accompany us. I formed partnerships with the Springfield Symphony Orchestra and the Chamber Music Society of St. Louis, and we’ve had the opportunity to perform with them as well as a jazz band. Now that it’s happening, I’m really proud of the accomplishment.

HOW DO YOU CONTINUE TO EVOLVE THE SAINT LOUIS BALLET?

I’ve established a new professional training program. It’s for students between the ages of 18 and 24 who have graduated from high school and want to pursue a career in dance. It’s like a dance program at a university but with a much lower tuition. Students will have the opportunity to train and perform with professional dancers. Right now, we have 33 trainees enrolled in the program. It's a way to enrich the dance community, not just in St. Louis but around the country as well.

WHAT CAN PEOPLE LOOK FORWARD TO FROM YOUR 25TH ANNIVERSARY SEASON?

We’re presenting four productions. In October, Take 5… More or Less will include works by Susan Stroman and the founder of the New York City Ballet, George Balanchine. The Nutcracker will return for 17 performances during the holiday season. My original ballet St. Louis Blues will be presented in February alongside works by Christopher Wheeldon and Peter Martins. The season will conclude in April with Cinderella, performed alongside the Springfield Symphony Orchestra. We’re very excited to bring new works alongside audience favorites for this anniversary season. FOR MORE INFORMATION,

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NONPROFIT NEWS

GIRLS INC. OF ST. LOUIS

Cheryl Jones, president and CEO, was one of 50 executives selected worldwide for the Harvard Kennedy School Executive Education Program focused in the area of leadership and strategy.

314.385.8088 girlsincstl.org

MOSAICS FINE ART FESTIVAL

Mosaics Fine Art Festival’s 30th annual event features quality artwork by more than 100 juried artists. Highlights include live music plus hands-on art experiences for children. Join us Sept. 12 to 14 in Historic St. Charles.

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ST. LOUIS ARC

Join us for an epic celebration of the St. Louis Arc’s 75th anniversary as a leader in services for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities on Nov. 1 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis.

1177 N. Warson Road

314.569.2211 slarc.org

STAGES ST. LOUIS

Experience the inspiring story and timeless hits of Carole King in Beautiful: The Carole King Musical, presented by STAGES St. Louis, Sept. 19 to Oct. 19 at the Kirkwood Performing Arts Center.

210 E. Monroe Ave. 314.821.2407

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SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN'S HOSPITAL

Be part of the Glennon Gallop VIP Experience on Sept. 20—an unforgettable day of polo, food and wine benefiting the Danis Pediatric Center at Cardinal Glennon Children's Hospital.

August Busch Polo Club

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TOWN AND COUNTRY SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

The Town and Country Symphony Orchestra presents a free classical music concert celebrating Women in Music on Sept. 14 at The Principia's Ridgway Auditorium. 13201 Clayton Road 314.330.3457

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Funds raised through Illumination directly benefit the physician scientists and patients at Siteman Cancer Center, helping to play a crucial role in the fight against cancer. Guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner and entertainment from celebrity guests Andy Cohen and Justin Willman.

guests: Lead ambassadors Elizabeth Mannen Berges and Jim Berges, vice president and executive director of The Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital David Bruns

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RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS

CELEBRATING 75!

IN 1950, TWO ST. LOUIS MOTHERS were told to put their developmentally disabled children into institutions. They refused, certain that there had to be a better solution. They believed their children had the right to education and places to play, regardless of their disability. The women traveled to Minneapolis, the birthplace of The Arc, a revolutionary nonprofit dedicated to advocating for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families. Inspired, the moms decided to create a local chapter of the organization. They anticipated around 15 people would show up for their first meeting—150 did. That was the beginning of St. Louis Arc.

Today, St. Louis Arc serves more than 4,500 people in the St. Louis region. For 75 years, the nonprofit has been dedicated to empowering people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families to lead better lives by providing a lifetime of high-quality services, family support and advocacy. It offers a wide array of services and programs rooted in its foundational beliefs of respect, collaboration and empowerment. “St. Louis Arc began by advocating for families to receive better access to care and opportunities,” president and CEO Mark A. Keeley says. “Now, our services help build a more inclusive community, helping empower people to live independently.”

early childhood and continues to assist them through adulthood in areas like education advocacy, employment and residential and day support. “We also offer family support because disability doesn’t just impact the individual but the entire family,” Keeley notes. Family programs include support groups, in-home services, activities and more. The nonprofit also offers social and recreational programs, including art, book clubs, volunteering and sports. The Arc United program provides the opportunity for people with

and without disabilities to come together to play in competitive leagues for basketball, soccer, pickleball and more.

important areas of support are its transition services. The goal of these programs is to help young adults aged 16 to 30 transition from high school into post-secondary education, careers and living independently. “Many of the people we support have had an individualized education plan since age 3, but after high school, that plan is gone,” Keeley says. “We help them understand their opportunities and determine what their next steps should be to achieve the future they envision.”

The nonprofit offers coaching and group classes to help individuals work toward their goals. These

innovative new component of its transition services. To help people prepare to live independently for the first time, St. Louis Arc is creating an apartment building that will teach skills like paying bills, budgeting, managing transportation and more. It’s the first of its kind in the state of Missouri. “The program will be an immersive learning experience, which will teach participants everything they need to know about apartment living,” Keeley explains. “It’s a new and innovative approach,

To celebrate its 75th anniversary, St. Louis Arc is hosting a special gala on Nov. 1 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis. The evening will be emceed by local comedian and musician Tim Convy, and it will highlight three families that have served as pillars of support for the nonprofit: the Engelhardt Family, Neidorff Family and Steward Family. “For decades, these three families have been incredible supporters,” Keeley says. “The gala is an opportunity for the community to celebrate our history and growth, which has ensured people can live their best lives and look toward a brighter future. For the last 75 years, St. Louis Arc has made a positive impact in the region, and we’re planning to continue to do so going forward.”

Having reached such a major milestone, Keeley is excited to see how St. Louis Arc will continue to grow. “As St. Louis Arc reflects on its past, we’re also looking forward to our future,” he notes. “We want to continue to be innovative leaders in providing quality care and resources as we continue to meet the changing needs of the community. We’re not the same organization I joined 36 years ago, and we’ll continue to evolve to ensure we can deliver the highest quality of service.” &

ST. LOUIS ARC PROVIDES LEISURE AND RECREATION SERVICES TO APPROXIMATELY 1,000 PEOPLE ANNUALLY.
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FOCUS ON: BLOOD CANCER AWARENESS

BLOOD CANCER AWARENESS

September is Blood Cancer Awareness Month. The disease impacts more than 1.6 million people in the U.S., including both adults and children. We’re shining a spotlight on the causes, symptoms and common types of blood cancer.

WHAT IS BLOOD CANCER?

This group of diseases impacts the way the body produces blood cells and how those cells function. Most blood cancers start in the bone marrow, which is responsible for creating stem cells that mature into red and white blood cells as well as platelets. When cancer disrupts the production of blood cells, the cancer cells overwhelm normal cells, leaving them unable to function normally.

IS THERE A KNOWN CAUSE?

Blood cancer happens due to changes in the body’s DNA, which cause it to create abnormal blood cells. The cause of this mutation is not known, although there are risk factors associated with it. These include:

Age - The risk increases as you get older.

Sex - Men are more likely to develop blood cancer.

Smoking - Research shows that smoking, as well as exposure to second-hand smoke, are associated with an increased risk.

Previous cancer treatment - Chemotherapy and radiation therapy may increase the risk of developing blood cancer.

Family history - Some forms of the disease are known to run in families.

Other medical conditions - Certain autoimmune disease and genetic disorders are associated with greater risk.

IS THERE ANYTHING YOU CAN DO TO REDUCE YOUR RISK?

With the cause of blood cancers being essentially unknown, it is impossible to completely avoid the disease. Even looking at factors associated with increased risk, certain ones, such as age, sex and family history, are unavoidable.

WHAT SYMPTOMS ARE ASSOCIATED WITH BLOOD CANCER?

Symptoms can vary across different types of blood cancer, but some common signs include:

• Fatigue

• Shortness of breath

• Swollen lymph nodes

• Frequent infections

• Bone pain

• Joint pain

• Persistent fever

• Unexplained weight loss

• Unusual bruising or bleeding

HOW IS BLOOD CANCER DIAGNOSED?

Your health care provider may make a diagnosis based on a few different tests. Blood tests can be used to check for a high or low blood cell count. A blood chemistry test checks for proteins that can be signs of cancer. A bone marrow biopsy can be done to check for changes in DNA that drive cancer growth as well to analyze if you have abnormal blood cells. Imaging, such as CT scans, MRIs and PET scans, can also be used to detect the disease.

TYPES OF BLOOD CANCER

Leukemia

The most common form of blood cancer, it starts in the bone marrow. Most cases of leukaemia originate in developing white cells, but a small number start in red cells or platelets. Leukaemia is the most common form of childhood cancer.

Lymphoma

The term refers to cancers that develop in the lymphatic system—a circulatory system responsible for draining fluid that has passed out of the blood and into other tissues. Developing white blood cells mutate and multiply without any proper order, forming tumors. These tumors can cause swelling on parts of the body like the lymph nodes. The most common subtypes of lymphoma are Hodgkin and non-Hodgkin.

Myeloma

Myeloma typically arises in the bone marrow and impacts certain white blood cells. Tumors

often form on different bones in the body. Myeloma cells stimulate other bone marrow cells to remove calcium from the bone, resulting in it becoming weaker and more brittle.

Myelodysplastic Syndromes (MDS)

These types of blood cancer impact the production of normal blood cells in bone marrow. With MDS, blood cells often do not grow properly and die prematurely. This leads to a low number of circulating blood cells, causing people with the disease to be fatigued, more susceptible to infections and more prone to bleeding and bruising easily.

Myeloproliferative Neoplasms (MPN)

This group of blood cancers cause the bone marrow to produce too many white blood cells, red blood cells or platelets. There are four main types of chronic MPNs, essential thrombocythaemia (ET), polycythaemia vera (PV), primary myelofibrosis (MF) and chronic myeloid leukaemia (CML).

BLOOD CANCER BY THE NUMBERS

Every 3 minutes, a person in the U.S. is diagnosed with leukemia, lymphoma or myeloma.

Around every 9 minutes, someone in the U.S. dies from blood cancer, accounting for approximately 157 people each day.

Leukemia, lymphoma and myeloma caused the deaths of an estimated 57,260 people in the U.S. last year.

In 2024, blood cancers accounted for more than 9% of new cancer diagnoses.

An estimated combined total of more than 187,740 people were diagnosed with leukemia, lymphoma or myeloma in 2024.

SOURCE:

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FALL INTO BEAUTY

FALL IS DEFINED BY A KALEIDOSCOPE OF COLOR AND BEAUTY—YOU CAN SEE THAT IN THE WIDE VARIETY OF MAKEUP STYLES TRENDING FOR THE SEASON. WE’RE SHARING SOME INSPIRATION SO YOU CAN FIND WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU THIS SEASON.

1. ON-THE-GLOW BLUSH TINTED MOISTURE STICK pixi

Looking flustered is on trend. That’s what the popular boyfriend blush style is all about. To achieve the look, add color lower on the cheek for a more natural flush. This blush stick is made with ginseng, aloe vera and a mix of fruit extracts, so it also hydrates and conditions the skin. The shade CheekTone is pH reactive, so it will give you the perfect pink for your skin tone.

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Fall usually means browns, but this year, expect to see more colors carrying from summer into cooler weather. This eyeshadow duo offers a big shimmer payout thanks to its light-catching pigments. The shade I’m With Her offers a mix of pink and rose gold, perfect for adding some sparkle this autumn.

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3. HYDRATING MILKY TONER byoma

Fresh glowy skin is in—the goal is to not look too matte or too dewy. One of the key products to achieve the look is a milky toner. It provides a layer of moisture that works well with foundation or concealer. This option is formulated with polyglutamic acid and cica to hydrate and soothe the skin while also protecting skin barrier function.

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4. SMUDGE POT WATERPROOF GEL EYELINER

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This fall go for grunge. To achieve the aesthetic, eyeliner is key. This versatile gel formula can work as both liner or shadow, delivering a high intensity black. Use it to create razor sharp lines, or smudge it for a more sultry look.

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5. NAIL LACQUER

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Dark brown is the perfect shade for a fall mani. It’s deep and warm enough to stand out while remaining subtle. This brand is focused on the perfect neutral polishes that are cruelty free, vegan and 21-free, meaning its formula lacks many of the harmful ingredients found in some other nail polishes. The shade Chocolate Cosmos is the perfect smooth and silky cocoa brown.

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6. POWERMATTE LONG-LASTING LIPSTICK

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Red may not be revolutionary for fall, but you can put a twist on timeless by going vampy with a darker maroon or garnet hue. This lipstick, in the shade Mogador, lets you tap into another trend: matte lips. The formula offers buildable color with a wear-time of up to 10 hours.

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T&S HOME

16 Holiday Lane, Town and Country

FROM THE HOMEOWNER »

Looking at 16 Holiday Lane, you might believe you’ve escaped to a mountain retreat in Colorado. In reality, the home is tucked away in Town and Country—just a short drive from schools, shopping districts and highways. From the chef’s kitchen to the saltwater pool to the impressive gym, there are amazing amenities at every turn. Current homeowners Yevgeny Fundler and Nika Leoni, who also serves as co-listing agent, are excited for another family to get to call the property home.

What have you enjoyed about the neighborhood?

The location is amazing—you’re close to everything. I love that we had easy access to all major roads and connections. The neighborhood is in the Ladue School District, which was great for our kids. The neighborhood is very friendly and quiet. You can always see someone out with their dogs, walking or jogging, but the property is still very private.

How is the home for a family?

It’s perfect for a multi-generational family. There are two primary suites. The first is on the main level, which my husband and I used. Our oldest son took the second one upstairs. It gave him his own space to entertain friends. They had room to play board games, watch TV and play music. On the lower level, there’s a guest room that would make a perfect in-law suite. It’s like

an apartment with its own kitchen, laundry and entrance.

Tell me about the outdoor spaces. It’s my sanctuary. We completely redid the yard, deck and pool. There’s a great outdoor kitchen and a beautiful fire bowl and conversation area. When you’re out there, you don’t feel like you’re in the city at all. It’s been my own little piece of heaven.

What are some standout features of the home?

The most outstanding feature is its architecture. There are giant two-story windows, a beautiful cedarwood ceiling— overall, it gives the feeling of being in a ski lodge. It’s just beautiful and striking. The home really feels like a retreat. We have friends who come to stay with us every year for their vacation. They say it’s better than a resort!

Did you entertain often?

We’ve hosted a number of amazing parties. The home is super convenient for entertaining. The kitchen has enough room for people to gather for cocktails and hors d’oeuvres. After dinner, you can invite guests out to the deck and patio. People can go sit by the pool or the fire bowl. &

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beyond the frame PASSING DOWN A LEGACY

As we approach the St. Louis Art Fair—one of the most celebrated art events in the region—many of us are inspired not just to collect new pieces, but to reflect on the stories behind the art we already own. Art collecting is a personal journey, but it’s also a family legacy in the making.

Whether you’re adding a new sculpture to your home or revisiting a beloved painting from years past, the pieces we live with hold more than decorative value. They’re memory keepers. They tell our story. And passing them down, with intention, can be one of the most meaningful gifts we leave behind.

The process of handing down a collection requires intention. The first step? Share the stories. Invite your children or loved ones to engage. Let them hear what you love about a piece, how you found it, why you bought it. Art isn’t just about aesthetics— it’s about memory, meaning and connection.

Consider documenting your collection. Even a simple handwritten or digital record—with photos, artist names, provenance, and personal notes—can be a priceless resource for your heirs.

Talk openly about who might want what. While not everyone will share your tastes, they may connect with certain pieces that evoke a shared experience or memory. Let them choose thoughtfully and without pressure. Gifting art can also happen during your lifetime—it’s a beautiful way to witness the joy it brings others.

If your collection includes significant or high-value pieces, consult an art advisor, estate planner or appraiser to ensure everything is handled properly and insured.

Passing down your collection isn’t about control—it’s about continuity. It’s about placing your story into new hands and allowing the art you loved to continue its journey.

The St. Louis Art Fair is the perfect moment to start the conversation—walk the booths with your children, share what moves you and let them see art through your eyes. It might just plant the seed for the next generation of collectors in your family.

Tips for Buying

If you’re attending an art fair, here are a few tips to make the most of your experience and invest in pieces that resonate with you and your family.

▪ Trust your instincts. Buy what moves you, not what you think you should buy.

▪ Talk to the artist. Ask about their process, inspiration and story behind the work.

▪ Measure first. Know your space—bring dimensions and photos of the room if you’re buying for a specific area.

▪ Bring your budget. Whether it’s $100 or $10,000, setting a budget ahead of time helps guide your decisions.

▪ Document your finds.Take photos and notes of pieces you love. Circle back if needed—you don’t have to buy everything at once.

▪ Get a receipt and details. Ensure you receive paperwork with artist info, medium, size and price.

▪ Consider shipping. Larger works can often be shipped—don’t let logistics limit your choices.

▪ Think about legacy. Imagine the story this piece might carry when passed down in your family.

READY FOR

While it still may be summer, fall will be here before you know it. That means crisp air, beautiful foliage and a cozy atmosphere. Refresh your outdoor spaces to enjoy the season while taking advantage of the weather to get a head start on winter prep.

refresh planters

Don’t pack away your planters at the end of summer. There are a wide variety of late-blooming flowers and plants that can bring a little brightness to autumn. Incorporate mums, marigolds, ornamental cabbages and more in pots around your patio or deck.

care for your grill

With summer wrapping up, you’ll likely be grilling outdoors less. Make sure you check and clean your grill before covering it—this will help make sure it doesn’t rust. Make note of anything that may need to be replaced or anything you may need to do before you use it again next summer. If you have a propane grill, check the levels and double check that it’s off.

deep clean

Before you stow away any summer umbrellas, toys or decor, clean them. You may also want to clean your garage or storage shed before it’s full—it'll be easier and more comfortable to do so before it gets too cold. Take time to check and clean your outdoor furniture as well. Look for rusting, rotting, peeling or cracking before you put anything away. If you have a pool, make sure the appropriate steps are taken to winterize it.

prep your garden

Check your garden beds to see if anything is dead or dying, so you can remove it. This will prevent disease from spreading and give your plants more room to thrive. Trim back plants to give them the opportunity to rejuvenate for next year. You can also add fresh nutrients to the soil to help your garden stay healthy. You’ll want to start garden maintenance around six weeks before the first frost is expected.

add heat sources

Make your outdoor spaces more usable during cooler nights by introducing new heat sources. Patio heating options include freestanding, tabletop and wall-mounted heaters. A firepit is also a great choice, adding ambience, a place to gather and, of course, much needed warmth.

bring out seasonal decor

Update your exterior decor for the season just as you would your interior decor. Swap out bright seat cushions with more muted colors. Add cozy blankets and throws—they can add some style while being functional as the weather gets cooler. You also can introduce pumpkins and gourds to add a festive touch to porches or patios.

add lighting

The days will be getting shorter, so outdoor lighting will be even more important in autumn. Make sure any paths or other high traffic areas are well lit to avoid accidents. String lights, lanterns and pathway lighting all offer the perfect blend of function and style.

check your hardscaping

The harsher weather of winter can damage your patios, decks, walkways and retaining walls. Make sure you check structural elements for any signs of wear or damage while the weather is still fair. This can help prevent more serious damage down the line when freeze-cycles can exacerbate any existing issues.

PICTURE THIS… STONE INSPIRATION

ON A RECENT VISIT TO TWO RIVERS STONE BOUTIQUE IN OLIVETTE, I was overcome by the natural beauty of its stone slabs from all over the globe. It struck me that stone is often relegated to only kitchens, baths and fireplace surrounds these days. I started thinking about the many ways I have seen this beautiful natural resource manifest in homes and collected some inspiration to share.

of us forget that

was commonly used as a building material. It is a great option for outdoor bars and kitchens.

If you just want a small dose of a natural element, try a marble or travertine side table

one in a soft gray marble.
When you find a beautiful slab of stone that you fall in love with, think of a way to use it that will maximize its impact as was done here.
Many
marble
Onyx, a gorgeous natural stone, looks ethereal when lit from behind and is a great choice for a bar area.
I especially like the way this shower is designed with a feature stone wall so it is not too heavy or dark.
I rarely see a natural stone outdoor dining table, but we should all be using it more!
Another serene way to use stone in the bath is to include a soaking tub made of stone like this one in travertine.
While we all have seen the “waterfall” effect on islands, this example uses stone slabs to create the entire island.
In this room, an incredible onyx slab serves as a piece of art and takes center stage.
find pre-used antique mantles of all sizes and styles. This is one of a kind given its unique stone and inlaid elements.
Even natural stone furniture is making a comeback. This marble console makes a gorgeous statement piece in any room in the house.
Another mantle option is to craft your own from a slab you love. This transitional style fits many homes.

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4 SUBSETS OF TRADITIONAL DESIGN

Traditional style isn't going anywhere, but it certainly isn't staying the same. What once felt like your grandmother's formal living room has evolved into something deeply personal and remarkably livable. The pleated fabrics, thoughtful wallpaper patterns and lived-in authenticity are now flourishing in countless interpretations. Today's traditional design speaks in multiple dialects, each offering its own interpretation of classic elegance while staying true to the foundational principles we've always loved: symmetry, balance and that unmistakable sense of home.

TIMELESS TRADITIONAL: THE GOLD STANDARD

When people think of traditional design, this is often what comes to mind—and for good reason. Timeless Traditional represents the purest expression of classic design principles, creating spaces that feel effortlessly refined and endlessly welcoming.

The magic lies in its restraint. Soft, cohesive palettes of creams, muted blues and gentle greens create a sense of calm that never feels forced. You'll find heirloom-quality pieces that could have been collected over generations, skirted sofas that invite long conversations and antiques that feel as relevant today as they did decades ago.

The layering here is masterful—pleated lampshades over polished wood finishes, the way delicate florals and refined textures work together to create depth without overwhelming the senses. Timeless Traditional design is about creating a foundation that will feel just as beautiful 20 years from now.

MODERN TRADITIONAL: WHERE HERITAGE MEETS INNOVATION

Perhaps the most intriguing evolution in traditional design is Modern Traditional, a sophisticated dance between timeless architectural principles and contemporary sensibilities. This approach takes everything we love about classic design and gives it a thoughtful edit, creating spaces that honor the past while embracing the present.

The key is in the details. Traditional silhouettes appear with cleaner lines and contemporary fabrics. Classic moldings remain but with simplified profiles that don't compete for attention. Color palettes shift from the deep, saturated hues of yesteryear to more neutral backgrounds that allow carefully selected traditional elements to truly shine.

Material choices showcase the beauty of period-specific woods but in simplified forms without heavy carving. Traditional patterns make appearances in updated scales and unexpected colorways. Room layouts honor classic architecture while opening sight lines for the way we actually live today.

This fusion resonates deeply with those who value heritage craftsmanship but desire spaces that feel current and uncluttered. It's traditional design for the modern soul.

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DESIGN: BHDM DESIGN | PHOTO: ADAM KANE MACCHIA
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TRADITIONAL CHIC: ELEVATED ELEGANCE

Traditional Chic takes the grace of classic design and infuses it with a lighter, more curated sensibility. It's rooted in all the hallmarks we expect—symmetry, balance, rich woods and refined textiles—but softens the overall effect with updated silhouettes and fresh finishes.

Picture antique-inspired furniture paired with clean-lined lighting or ornate molding set against soft, neutral walls. The color palette tends toward classics like ivory, taupe and soft blue, but with subtle pops of brass, marble or lacquer that keep everything feeling elevated rather than dated.

This sub-trend works beautifully for those who love the order and comfort of traditional interiors but want something that feels more tailored and airy. It's sophisticated without being stuffy, serene without being boring and endlessly livable.

TRADITIONAL PREPPY: PLAYFUL POLISH

If Traditional Chic is the sophisticated older sister, Traditional Preppy is the spirited younger one who isn't afraid to have a little fun. This substyle brings a playful, polished spin to classic design, rooted in the same symmetry and structure but willing to lean into bold color, crisp patterns and a delightful wink of coastal charm.

Think tailored upholstery in unexpected hues, lacquered finishes that catch the light and layers of stripes, checks and florals applied with confident intention. You'll often see bamboo accents, skirted furniture and framed botanical prints mixed with fresh takes on classic forms. Traditional Preppy doesn't shy away from color or pattern—it embraces punchy palettes and whimsical touches while staying grounded in traditional principles. This is perfect for those who love a space that feels tailored yet joyful, refined but full of personality. &

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PHOTO: WILLIAM JESS LAIRD
CHIC 1: DESIGN: CARLAY PAGE
PRETTY 2: DESIGN: ANNE ANDERSON PHOTO: EMILY FOLLOWILL
PREPPY 1: DESIGN: AMY STUDEBAKER PHOTO: NICK SARGENT

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