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WHAT DOES THE GATESWORTH MEAN TO YOU?

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It’s such a welcoming place, and I’ve been able to meet so many wonderful people. For anyone who is hesitant about moving, don’t be. When my grandson stopped by, he thought it was great. Coming from a 20-something, that speaks volumes. — JUDITH SCISSORS “ ”

Exceptional People. Exceptional Living.

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The Gatesworth is an independent senior living community conveniently located north of Highway 40 just off I-170

Discover Senior Living Your Way

The Gatesworth provides the perfect canvas to enjoy life your way. Living in an exquisitely appointed apartment surrounded by beautiful, lush grounds, you’ll feel inspired to pursue new interests, expand your knowledge, build friendships and embrace your independence.

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IN THE

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The 262-unit luxury apartment development in University City recently marked the completion of construction with an official grand opening celebration.

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The club presented each kindergarten student in the Kirkwood School District with a book as part of its Early Reader Program. This year, 364 students recieved books.

saint louis fashion fund

The nonprofit welcomed internationally renowned designer Lela Rose for a trunk event showcasing her Summer, Fall, Ranch and Pearl collections. A portion of her trunk show benefitted the Fashion Fund and International Peace Initiatives.

PICTURED: CARESSA DAVIS, BECKY DOMYAN, LELA ROSE, SUSAN SHERMAN AND JOAN BERKMAN

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The nonprofit received $4,000 from Blues for Kids. The money helped provide fitness equipment for the Caritas Youth Resident Center, a behavioral health program that provides youth with access to therapy, health care, education and recreation opportunities, and trauma-informed care.

MUSIC UNITES ALL

ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

POWELL HALL HAS BEEN A GEM IN ST. LOUIS’ CROWN FOR ALMOST

100 years. Originally built as a vaudeville and movie theater in 1925, the building became the home of the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra (SLSO) in 1968. Ever since, as one of the nation’s most acoustically renowned concert halls, it has been the setting for countless world-class performances by the orchestra, allowing the community to experience the joy and power of music. Last year, the SLSO launched the public phase of its fundraising campaign to support the expansion and renovation of Powell Hall. The culmination will be the opening of the new Jack C. Taylor Music Center this fall.

“Powell Hall is a historical landmark and one of the great architectural destinations in the St. Louis region,” SLSO president and CEO Marie-Hélène Bernard says. “Very few symphonies own their concert halls, so the fact that we do makes it a wonderful asset for the community. There is so much history and pride in the building.” Designed by Snøhetta, the Jack C. Taylor Music Center will include Powell Hall as well as a 64,000-square foot expansion. The building previously had a limited backstage and dressing rooms, and it also lacked spaces for music education and practice, including room for the youth orchestra, the symphony’s chorus and the IN UNISON Chorus to meet.

As well as helping the SLSO better serve its artists, the Jack C. Taylor Music Center expansion will improve the audience experience. Along with making Powell Hall more ADA-accessible and increasing space for amenities like restrooms and concessions, the project also will add an outdoor plaza with green space for patrons to enjoy. “Powell

Hall was designed as a movie theater, so it’s enclosed from the outside world,” Bernard notes. “Our vision is to better reflect the way our audiences engage with music. That means opening things up and bringing in the beauty of the community and the natural world. The plaza provides a place for people to gather before a show and linger after to reflect on and share about the experience.”

The restoration began in 2023, and the revitalized Powell Hall is planned to open to the public in September, just in time for its 100th anniversary. Bernard notes that the SLSO has prepared a special season to welcome it and the community home after two seasons spent performing at venues around St. Louis. “We have a wonderful program centered around the concept of home and how that theme relates to the universal language of music,” she says. Subscriptions for the upcoming seasons are on sale now, and single tickets for concerts will be available this summer.

The SLSO would be unable to undertake projects like the Jack C. Taylor Music Center without the assistance of the community. The Music for All campaign allows the public to contribute to the initiative and champion for Powell Hall to remain a civic asset for generations to come. Bernard is moved by the support the campaign has received. “Community support is vital to making what the SLSO does possible,” she notes. “The orchestra was founded in the 1880s, and we’ve provided access to music for generations of St. Louisans. We’re excited to welcome everyone back to rediscover the great music and one-of-a-kind experiences of the SLSO.” &

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Eckert’s Farm is turning up the volume with its new Summer Jams concert series. Held at the Cider Shed on Fridays through Labor Day, the series will feature a mix of ticketed headliner shows and free concerts. Check out the full schedule at eckerts.com. … For its centennial celebration, Shaw Nature Reserve is bringing back its Wildflower Concert Series. On June 27, July 25 and Aug. 22, you can catch a free concert at 6 p.m. at the Bascom House. For more information, visit shawnature.org.

new leadership

Logan University has inaugurated Dr. H. Garrett Thompson, D.C., PhD, as its eighth president. With a strong background in academic leadership and health care education, Thompson looks forward to guiding the university into its next era of excellence in chiropractic and health sciences.

PATTY

MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH

Awareness Month So, even though it’s almost June, I think it is important to take an inventory of how you’re feeling—inside and out. At your regular physical, the doctor has tools like a blood pressure cup or stethoscope, but often your brain goes unchecked. And no, I am not suggesting a C.T. scan, just a few minutes of chatter with your doctor about yourself will do.

I have never tried to fool my readers—I am just a little bit crazy. I have anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Neither of these things will kill me, but at times, they can be overwhelming which is why I see both a psychiatrist and therapist

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on a regular basis. Whenever I call their office, I have gotten in the habit of thinking of Batman picking up the Bat Phone—although I am no Adam West.

I’ve had OCD my entire life. I can remember my mom telling me to “quit thinking” about things, but I could not. It just made it worse. For the first 40 years of my life, having OCD was a positive thing. I managed to get married, have a full-time job and birth two kids without any of the balls dropping because of the way my mind processes things. I was never late for an appointment, always read and perfected my assignments and was often the first parent to turn in all the forms you get at the beginning of the school year.

However, when I turned 40, it was like a switch flipped. My mind never rested, and it usually wandered to a medical malady I read about. I read all the health articles in The New York Times and watched medical dramas extra carefully. All it would take was blemish on my hand. Was it a zit? Well, it didn’t pop. What else could it be? The train had left the station. I would self-diagnose and then ask poor Carey. His soothing words would last about 24 hours. Repetitive and intrusive thoughts are unsettling, but medication helps. Sadly, about 18 months ago, I started having anxiety and panic attacks. I suspect the loss of two brothers within six months kicked it off (yes, I am still blaming others

Registration for Unite with Us Day is open. Organized by United Way of Greater St. Louis, the initiative brings together thousands of volunteers for one day of service to help the St. Louis community thrive. The event is June 21, and you can sign up to participate in a project at stlvolunteer.org/unite.

Have you always wanted to be in a band? Well, get ready for your first gig. HandleBar in The Grove is hosting BandUp 2025. Form a band, sign up, learn three songs and perform for a live audience on June 1. This event is for new musical acts only. To participate, email your band details to bandupstl@gmail.com.

for my problems—dead or alive.) Cracking this nut has been much harder. I tried meds, but they gave me vertigo, caused my words to slur, led to weight gain and gave me dry mouth. Unfortunately, when my anxiety is extremely high, the best thing for me to do is reschedule any activities or plans. More and more, I stay in my bubble, which is not a long-term solution. I am trying new meds and exposure therapy now. “Just do it” is my mantra. If you see me around town talking to myself, I am not being crazy. I am being brave. So, at this year’s physical, talk to your doctors about both physical and mental issues. Your brain and nervous system will thank you. Funny Patty returns in the next issue. &

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STUDENT STANDOUTS

GRAY BAKER OF LADUE HORTON WATKINS HIGH SCHOOL

GRAY BAKER’S CREATIVE SPARK burns bright. From sculpture and painting to playwriting and performance art, the Ladue Horton Watkins senior’s artistic pursuits are vast and varied. This spring, Baker’s painting “I’m Only Good at Taking Selfies When Someone is Haunting Me?” took home top prize at the St. Louis Artists’ Guild’s Young Artists’ Showcase.

Where did your interest in art come from?

I’ve always been interested in capturing people. That’s the first thing that interested me about art, and it has continued in a lot of my work. My parents made a point of taking me to the art museum and giving me art books. That exposure and the validation of art’s value put me on the path to pursue it as a kid and into my teens.

Do you have a favorite medium to work with?

I work across a lot of mediums and disciplines. I love painting, and I also enjoy incorporating writing and sculpture into my work. I also do video and performance-based art. I like having options. The medium influences the way the message is received, and I’m very intentional when picking how I want something to be shared.

What was the inspiration for “I’m Only Good at Taking Selfies When Someone is Haunting Me?”

It started with looking at my art portfolio for college applications. I realized I didn’t have a self portrait, so I decided to make one. At the same time, I was thinking about how we perform with our faces. I feel like my selfies only turn out good with there’s an external force making me feel like I have to look good. That’s where the inspiration for the piece came from.

How did it feel to place first in the showcase?

I was very surprised. I had work the day the winner was announced, so I didn’t find out until I saw it on Instagram. Later on, I went with my family to see the exhibit. It was very validating. This was the first time I won an award in a local show. It felt very special knowing that someone saw the value of my work.

What are your plans for the fall?

I’ll be attending The Cooper Union in New York to study fine art. I’m really looking forward to branching out. I’m also excited because I don’t have to declare a specific medium to study, and the curriculum encourages students to explore a wide variety of techniques. That was a big factor in my decision to go to The Cooper Union.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

Theater is a really big part of my life. Right now, I’m directing a play for my school that I wrote. That’s another nice thing about going to New York—I’ll still get to engage with my passion for theater as well. &

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SOCIAL AWKWARDNESS

NINETEEN-YEAR-OLD NATALIA COMPLAINED to me about how hard it was to find good friends at college: “Walking across campus, everyone has their nose in their cell phone. It’s the same thing in class and at the rec center. Even at parties, people just seem socially awkward. I’ve made a few friends, but they’re not close friends I can really trust. It’s just been harder than I thought it would be.” I’ve heard this lament from dozens of college students, and it’s a sad testament to our current culture.

Metaphorically speaking, kids, teens and adults have evolved from being social scuba divers to jet skiers. In the past, scuba divers were able to connect with others more deeply, getting below the surface to more vulnerability, empathy and depth of conversation. The advent of smartphones and social media has resulted in shallower conversations, like jet skiers skimming along the surface of the water. We’ve lost depth and closeness, resulting in rising levels of loneliness across the age spectrum. Social media and the internet have also been shown to shorten our attention spans.

Digital conversations lack some crucial elements for the development of empathy and closeness. You lose eye contact, tone of voice, body language, nonverbal cues and emotional reaction. You don’t see the impact of what you say. We rarely have people’s full attention because of all the multitasking and scrolling that occurs throughout the conversation. This results in a lack of depth of conversation and complexity of feelings— companionship with convenience and partial attention. None of this is conducive for closeness.

Studies have shown that the mere presence of mobile phones during conversations inhibited the development of interpersonal closeness and trust, reducing the extent to which individuals felt empathy and understanding from their partners. And the effects were most pronounced if individuals were discussing a personally meaningful topic. Research conducted by Atsushi Senju showed

that the parts of the brain that allow us to process other’s emotions and intentions are activated by eye contact. It makes us more socially aware and lets us make sense of our relationships and social orientation. The foundation for emotional stability and social fluency are developed when kids make eye contact and interact with active, engaged faces in-person, not on screens. The incessant digital dance never allows pauses to let our thoughts blossom. Kids need respites for the mind, not constant distraction. It has resulted in an inability to know how to be alone without being lonely. When alone, thoughts and feelings are oriented inward; it is a slower and quieter experience, creating space for reflection, contemplation, soul-searching and accessing your intuition. The path to depth and fulfillment begins with distance and gaps from technologies. Kids have lost the opportunity to be unreachable and have become preoccupied with what’s going on out there instead within themselves. They look too much to others, becoming dependent on external validation.

Thus, we are seeing the rise of kids, teens and young adults who feel socially awkward. They’ve become more comfortable connecting as water skiers, zipping along the surface of relationships. Young people today lack depth of connection, are experiencing rising levels of loneliness and are disconnected from themselves. Even adults haven’t yet figured out a healthy balance with usage of our devices. There is a huge need to stop multitasking. Forbid the presence of any devices while engaging socially, learn to cultivate alone time and don’t allow kids to start with cell phones and social media too early. They need to have earned the right through mature, responsible behavior in other areas.

Despite many benefits, internet connections are not the ties that bind but rather ties that preoccupy. Shakespeare said it well: “We are consumed with that which we are nourished.”

HealthFlash

HOPE FOR HEAD AND NECK CANCER

Washington University School of Medicine led a phase 3 clinical trial to test the effectiveness of immunotherapy in treating head and neck cancer. The trial centered on the drug pembrolizumab, which has already been approved for the treatment of melanoma. The team found that patients who received the drug saw greater tumor shrinkage and survived cancer-free on average almost two years longer than those who did not. “The survival benefit we’ve seen in adding pembrolizumab to standard-of-care therapy for patients with locally advanced head and neck cancer is clinically meaningful and groundbreaking,” says co-senior author Dr. Douglas R. Adkins, a professor of medicine and director of the Section of Head and Neck and Thyroid Medical Oncology.

STOPPING WEST NILE VIRUS

Saint Louis University’s Center for Vaccine Development is launching a clinical trial to study the safety and immune response elicited by a new investigational vaccine for West Nile virus. Currently, there is no approved vaccine or treatment for the virus, which is primarily transmitted to people through a mosquito bite. While most people do not have a reaction to the virus, around 1 in 150 develops severe illness with neuroinvasive disease. “The disease can cause brain disease, paralysis or sometimes death in people who are aged or have weak immune systems, so we need to develop a safe protective vaccine as a tool in our arsenal against the virus,” says principal investigator Dr. Sarah George, professor of infectious diseases, allergy and immunology.

NATIONAL RECOGNITION

Shriners Children’s St. Louis orthopedic surgeon Dr. J. Eric Gordon received the prestigious Humanitarian Award from the Pediatric Orthopedic Society of North America. Gordon, who is also a professor of orthopedic surgery at Washington University School of Medicine, works with children throughout the Eastern Caribbean and beyond. Working with World Pediatrics and traveling to the region several times a year, he has evaluated more than 1,500 children and performed more than 170 surgeries there. “Dr. Gordon first said ‘yes’ to us 20 years ago, and he has never stopped,” says Kate Corbett, World Pediatrics program director. “From treating our first patient with a rare orthopedic condition to leading surgical missions across the Caribbean, he has given his time, heart and expertise without hesitation.”

NEW LIFE, NEW HOPE.

Mercy hospitals across the Midwest are implementing a new program that offers moms a way to help others after they give birth. The initiative allows them to donate their birth tissue for research. “Our patients expressed interest in helping others by donating tissues, such as the placenta, when they are no longer needed,” says Dr. Margaret Marcrander, Mercy St. Louis chief of staff and practicing OB/GYN. “By offering the option to donate, we enable our patients to have successful birth plans while helping future patients.” Donating newborn tissue is done at no cost for patients and can potentially benefit up to 100 people. It also cuts down on medical waste as placenta is typically discarded following birth.

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FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE SENIOR SERVICES

Our beautifully-landscaped campuses are the perfect setting for enjoying spring! Whether you play bocce ball, join our gardening clubs or stroll our walking paths, there are many ways to enjoy the outdoors. Plus, you don’t have to live here to participate. As a Friendship Village member, you can enjoy our outdoor activities while living at home.

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THE GATESWORTH

Maintaining beautiful grounds is important to The Gatesworth’s staff because we want to create our own botanical gardens for residents. Four distinct courtyards feature a unique landscape design to offer something different around every corner.

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The physical and mental benefits of exercise are undeniable, and it’s important to keep as active as possible at each life stage, but older adults should be especially careful about deciding on a fitness regimen. Safety is paramount, especially since your balance, strength and stamina may not be whatthey once were. Here are some practical tips to keep exercise manageable as you age.

Workouts don’t need to be long or arduous. Short, moderate-intensity sessions can be very beneficial; the key is to stay consistent with them. Working out in three 10-minute intervals during the day can be just as helpful as exercising for 30 minutes straight.

Exercise from home. Try some quick bouts of activity like stretching or walking briskly around the block to break up the monotony of days spent at home. Even regular pastimes like yard work can double as workouts.

Budget doesn’t have to be an issue.

There are lots of invigorating indoor workouts that don’t require the purchase of heavy equipment. Hand dumbbells, resistance bands and other simple supplies can make exercising at home easy and economical. You even can use items like full water bottles and canned goods in place of weights, and a large, thick bath towel on carpet can serve as an exercise mat.

5 EXERCISES TO AVOID

OVERHEAD PRESS: This shoulder exercise involves lifting a weight straight over your head. It places stress across your shoulders and rotator cuffs—a common site of injury for adults over the age of 50.

LEG PRESS: The machines for this exercise require users to lean back in a way that puts the lumbar spinal disc at risk of injury. Damage could have long-term effects on mobility.

SPRINTING: Walking and jogging are great options for older adults. However, sprinting has an increased risk of injury. Go with what feels comfortable, even if that is a slower, steadier pace.

PLYOMETRIC EXERCISES: This type of exercise involves short, intense bursts of activity that target fast-twitch muscle fibers. It also is referred to as “jump training,” and common exercises include box jumps or depth jumps. This type of workout is hard on the joints, especially the knees, back or hips, and balance issues can increase the risk of injury.

CRUNCHES/SIT-UPS: While these exercises do engage your core, they are not the most effective way to do so. Plus, they place strain on neck and back muscles, which could potentially lead to injury.

EXERCISES TO TRY

Try something new. Over time, your body adapts to the physical demands you place on it. If you have been doing the same kind of exercise for a while, try mixing it up by using other muscle groups and increasing resistance levels. Experiment with new routines to give your body and mind a boost.

Know your limits. Exercising later in life should not be about pushing the envelope. Play it smart and safe, listen to your body, and stop for a rest when it tells you to. If you feel discomfort when working out, stop and talk to your doctor. Exercise shouldn’t be painful. It always makes sense to discuss a fitness regimen with your physician.

Get an exercise buddy. Working out can be even more stimulating when you have someone to support and motivate you.

CHAIR YOGA: A chair yoga routine can help with muscle strength, mobility, balance and flexibility all while putting less stress on muscles, joints and bones. As an added bonus, yoga has been shown to help with sleep quality and mental health as well.

CYCLING: Riding a bike regularly can improve cardiovascular health, increase muscle strength and enhance flexibility and balance. It is also a great activity to get outside and enjoy the fresh air—although a stationary bike also is an option.

PILATES: Developed around a century ago, Pilates uses a combination of around 50 repetitive exercises to spur muscle exertion. It has been shown to improve balance, develop core strength and increase flexibility in older adults.

AQUATICS: Swimming laps can be a great way to get a full-body workout that is easy on the muscles and joints. Water aerobics can help with strength, flexibility and balance, and the natural resistance of water eliminates the need for weights in strength training.

TAI CHI: This traditional form of Chinese martial arts combines mindfulness with flowing movements. It can help improve posture, promote joint health, alleviate arthritis symptoms and increase overall mobility. The mediative aspect of tai chi makes it a great way to boost mental health as well.

Where St. Louis Seniors Thrive Outdoors

Spring is here—and our beautifully landscaped communities are the perfect place to enjoy it. From bocce ball and gardening clubs to scenic walking paths, there are endless ways to get outside and stay active. And the best part?

As a Friendship Village member, you can enjoy all our outdoor activities while continuing to live at home.

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FOCUS ON

BOYS & GIRLS CLUBS OF GREATER ST. LOUIS

There’s still time to enroll your kids and teens in the region’s most affordable, safe and fun summer

Join us from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on June 7 and 8 for the 56th Annual Spring House & Garden Tour. At the amazing two-day event, Victorian-era homes open their doors and lush city gardens invite you to explore. 2023 Lafayette Ave. | 314.600.5308 lafayettesquare.org/community/lafayette-squareneighborhood-association/

Rimsky-Korsakov’s Capriccio

ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

The Jack C. Taylor Music Center, with a renovated Powell Hall at its heart, reopens in September 2025 for a celebratory 2025/26 season. Subscriptions on sale now.

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Odds are, you know of someone who is managing a serious and persistent mental illness. But did you know the first step toward meaningful healing is finding a safe place to belong? That’s where Independence Center comes in.

Our goal to destigmatize mental illness has led us to become one of the St. Louis area’s most comprehensive resources for assisting with care, education, employment, housing and more. One visit to our Clubhouse, and you’ll see just how we operate: By providing a very real sense of community, where every Member has a purpose, and where daily progress is made on the path to regaining the independence to live a healthy, quality life.

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Visit IndependenceCenter.org to hear the success stories from our members—and learn how you can support a great cause today.

WHITFIELD SCHOOL green & white gala

The evening celebrated the Whitfield faculty, staff and students. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, live and silent auctions, dinner, dancing and a casino night.

guests: Head of school Chris Cunningham, board of trustees chair Ron Fox, George A. Newton outstanding teacher of the year Rachel Gassner

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS author’s brunch

The Author’s Brunch celebrated its 20th anniversary. The event connects guests with authors in support of the Assistance League’s mission of helping children and families in crisis. The featured author was Lisa See. guests: President Sandy Thal, president elect Sandy Brody, event co-chairs Diane Huey and Leslie Levine

LEE AND CAITLIN RHODES
AMBER AND JARED ODOM
CRAIG AND SARA RINGE, MELISSA O’CONNOR
BRAD AND RACHEL GASSNER
RON FOX, CHRIS CUNNINGHAM
SUE SHEEHAN, PAT WARD, SANDY BRODY
JUDY ROSSON, KRISTA KNUFFMAN, PATRICIA WHEELER
SUE KROEGER, JILL GREULIC
VERLEANA MOORE, PENNY KING, GWEN YOUNG
MINDY HELLMICH, SANDY JOHNSON
SANDY THAL, LISA SEE
DIANE HUEY, LESLIE LEVINE

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The quarterly networking event raised funds to support the Alzheimer’s Association. Guests enjoyed food, drinks, casino-style games with prizes and a presentation from speaker Jeremy Koerber, community programs director for the Alzheimer’s Association.

guests: Executive director Tierra Lewis

Friday, June 20, 2025 7:15 – 11 p.m. Tickets on sale now; adults 21+ only

Party with a purpose and help the Zoo’s conservation e orts!

ZOOFARI is the Saint Louis Zoo's annual grazing gala, featuring appetizing bites from local restaurants, premium open bars, live music and interactive special activities. Proceeds bene t our work for endangered species, like giant tortoises. Join us at the Zoo for a night of memories that’ll make for better tomorrows.

Get tickets at stlzoo.org/zoofari

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DAVID AND KELLY MOTTL
NICOLE MYERS, JULIE HALL
MICHELLE HELSEL, DAWN THOMURE
KYLIE CLARK, LUKE BAUER, MACKENZIE MARCHAND
KRISTI WIGGINS, KARLA HARRIS
JEREMY KOERBER, TIERRA LEWIS

ANCESTORS THAT WE ARE THROUGH JUNE 28

THE GALLERY AT THE KRANZBERG

The work of Kranzberg Arts Foundation

Resident Artist Mee Jey, the exhibit features a series of multidisciplinary pieces that contemplate the changing meaning of ancestors, especially for individuals who are distanced from their ancestral land. kranzbergartsfoundation.org

THE ARTIST WHO CAPTURE EICHMANN THROUGH JUNE 1 | ST. LOUIS KAPLAN

FELDMAN HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

Artist Peter Malkin was also a Mossad agent who played a pivotal role in apprehending Nazi war criminal Adolf Eichmann. This exhibition features several silkscreen prints of Malkin’s original artwork, including pieces that were created during his three-week mission in Buenos Aires that resulted in Eichmann’s capture. stlholocaustmuseum.org

BEHIND THE BIG TOP: THE ARTISTRY OF CIRCUS FLORA THROUGH JULY 10

THE DARK ROOM GALLERY

Photographer Ryan Stanley offers a behind the scenes look at the rhythm and rigor of circus life through his intriguing and intimate photos of Circus Flora. thedarkroomstl.com

FREAK SHOW: MIXED MEDIA AND DRAWINGS BY WILLIAM H. THIELEN

JUNE 13 - JULY 19

ST. LOUIS ARTISTS GUILD

The work of artist William H. Thielen uses abstraction, color and unconventional materials to explore emotional intensity and the tension created by thrusting opposite extremes together. stlouisartistsguild.org

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FROM THE ANCIENT RUINS OF POMPEII TO VINTAGE FRENCH AUTOMOBILES TO NOVELTY CHESS SETS, THERE’S SO MUCH TO EXPLORE AROUND THE STL THIS SUMMER. WE’RE SPOTLIGHTING EXHIBITIONS THAT WILL INSPIRE AND INTRIGUE YOU—BE SURE TO CATCH THEM BEFORE THEY’RE GONE!

PAWS AND PAWNS:

EXPLORING ANIMALS

CHESS SETS THROUGH AUG. 31

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME

Explore a menagerie of animal-themed chess sets from around the world, demonstrating the enduring appeal of the animal kingdom to chess artists. Many of these are from the collection of the World Chess Hall of Fame, while others are on loan from artists, members of Chess Collectors International and local collectors. worldchesshof.org

POMPEII: THE EXHIBITION THROUGH SEPT. 15 | SAINT LOUIS SCIENCE CENTER

Travel back to 79 A.D. when Pompeii was an important commercial and military city with 150 authentic artifacts and engaging interactives. New for this year, the exhibit takes visitors through the different stages of the Mount Vesuvius eruption, and guests can also check out 3D holographic displays of competitions between various classes of gladiators. slsc.org

GATEWAY TO PRIDE THROUGH JULY 6

MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM

It’s not too late to check out the first-ever full-scale exhibit on St. Louis’ LGBTQIA+ history before it closes this summer. Gateway to Pride showcases meaningful artifacts, striking images and insightful oral histories collected through a community-driven initiative. mohistory.org

GROWING TOGETHER: FISHER-PRICE TOYS ACROSS GENERATIONS THROUGH AUG. 31

FIELD HOUSE MUSEUM

Celebrate the history and legacy of one of America’s most iconic toy makers. The exhibit features a collection of vintage Fisher-Price toys that explore how items can inspire generations of children. fieldhousemuseum.org

THROUGH JUNE 29 | THIRD DEGREE GLASS FACTORY

South Korean glass artist

LIKE WATER THROUGH AUG. 10 CONTEMPORARY ART MUSEUM ST. LOUIS

ROARING: ART FASHION & THE AUTOMOBILE IN FRANCE, 1918-1939 THROUGH JULY 27 | SAINT LOUIS ART MUSEUM

Hoseok Youn presents a playful take on traditional Venetian glass techniques. Youn uses the medium to create sculptures inspired by comic book and video game characters. thirddegreeglassfactory.com

LIVE ART MARKET

WEDNESDAYS THROUGH JUNE 25

CITY FOUNDRY

City Foundry transforms into an open-air gallery. Enjoy live music, dance, portrait sessions, street performers, muralists and surprise pop-ups from local artists. cityfoundrystl.com

Featuring work from an international collection of artists, the exhibit addresses the subject of water and fluidity in a variety of ways and across different mediums, such as sculpture, video, ceramics, drawing, textiles, collage and painting. camstl.org

SEEDS: CONTAINERS OF THE WORLD TO COME THROUGH JULY 28 | MILDRED LANE KEMPER ART MUSEUM

Step into the dazzling world of 1920s and ‘30s France! Explore 12 stunning vintage cars alongside more than 100 works of art, fashion and design that shaped a bold new era. slam.org

The exhibit creates dialogue about ecological concern through the work of 10 contemporary artists on plant-human-land relationships. The seed serves as the center of an investigation in fragility, preservation and the global climate crisis. kemperartmuseum.wustl.edu

VERONICA RYAN: UNRULY OBJECTS THROUGH JULY 27

PULITZER ARTS FOUNDATION

Explore four decades of artist Veronica Ryan’s groundbreaking work with more than 100 sculptures, textiles and more. pulitzerarts.org

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COVER STORY

STL STYLE

IT’S BEEN

ONE YEAR SINCE JAXEN

GREY opened its doors at Plaza Frontenac.

Founded in the Twin Cities area in Minnesota in 2019, the menswear company offers St. Louis a unique space for brands, customers and stylists to come together for a bespoke shopping experience. The success of the store’s approach to shopping and style is evident in the response it received from the community. “The reception has been incredibly warm—everyone in St. Louis has been quick to embrace us,” says co-owner and fashion director Adam Bevis. “We have a lot of people coming in the store because of word of mouth, which is the best compliment.”

Jaxen Grey was created to help connect customers with innovative clothing brands, and that mission remains true. The store now offers more than 100 brands from all over the world. These include well known options like Faherty and Theory as well as more exclusive offerings, such as Mizzen + Main, 7 Diamonds, Wax London, Marine Layer and Breezy Golf. It even carries The Normal Brand, a popular St. Louis-based clothing line. “Jaxen Grey’s selection is unparalleled,” Bevis says. “We have brands you can’t find anywhere else in the U.S. or in any other brick-and-mortar store period.”

Even beyond its one-of-a-kind selection, what sets Jaxen Grey apart from other retailers is the experience it offers. The store provides full styling services to ensure the shopping experience is both accessible and enjoyable for everyone who visits. “For a lot of guys, shopping is something they just don’t like to do, so we create a very low pressure and fun atmosphere,” Bevis notes. “Visiting Jaxen Grey is like hanging out with friends. That’s what keeps people coming back. Our stylists are very knowledgeable and work hard to ensure that you leave with something you’re going to love.”

IT’S A GREAT TIME TO SELL!

IT’S A GREAT TIME TO SELL!

We are welcoming Fine Art consignments for our Summer and Fall auction seasons. Schedule an appointment today to receive complimentary auction estimates.

We are welcoming Fine Art consignments for our Summer and Fall auction seasons. Schedule an appointment today to receive complimentary auction estimates.

Fritz Scholder (Luiseño, 1937-2005) Four Indian Riders , 1967 oil on canvas

Fritz Scholder (Luiseño, 1937-2005) Four Indian Riders , 1967 oil on canvas

SOLD FOR $476,750

SOLD FOR $476,750

Anna Shaver

Anna Shaver

314.833.0833

314.833.0833 stlouis@hindmanauctions.com HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

stlouis@hindmanauctions.com HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

With the wide selection of brands on offer, Jaxen Grey has something for everyone, no matter their personal style. This makes the store an excellent option for Father’s Day shopping—there is something to appeal to every kind of dad and even grandfathers. “The store is like a more curated department store,” Bevis says. “We have a little bit of everything, so there are very few people who come in and can’t find something they like.” The selection includes everything from athleisure items to more tailored clothing like upscale suits. Along with basics for every man’s closet, there are more fashionable options for those who want to stand out. The store also carries a wide range of sizes for customer convenience.

When it comes to Father’s Day gifts, Bevis’ suggestion is to keep it simple: “A golf polo is always a winner, and we’ve got a great selection.” There also are a few fashion trends that he is excited about. “We’re seeing a resurgence of people dressing up,” he notes. “Because of COVID, there was a shift toward athleisure and comfort, but we’ve moved away from that. People are looking for sport coats and other formal attire. There’s also been a greater focus on choosing clothes made from natural fibers. No matter what you’re looking for, Jaxen Grey has you covered, and we’ll deliver an experience you won’t forget.” &

PHOTO: COURTESY OF JAXEN GREY
JAXEN GREY OFERS A WIDER SELECTION OF CURATED MENSWEAR.

Protect Your SKIN

MAY IS SKIN CANCER AWARENESS MONTH.

As the most common type of cancer in the United States, it’s a vital concern throughout the year. But, as most types of the disease are related to sun exposure, it should be a top priority as we head into the summer months.

Two of the most common skin cancer types are basal cell carcinoma and squamous cell carcinoma. Another more aggressive type is melanoma, which carries greater risk of metastasizing to tissues in other areas of the body. Still, if untreated, any skin cancer can invade deeper tissues and spread to structures like the lymph nodes.

Skin cancer commonly occurs on parts of the body that are exposed to the sun. These include the scalp, face, lips and ears, as well as the arms, back of the hands, back and legs. People with fairer skin and lighter eyes are at higher risk of skin cancer. However, it can also impacts people with deeper skin tones. For people with Black or brown skin, the disease more often occurs in places that don’t typically get sun exposure, such as the palms of the hands, genitals or even under the fingernails or toenails.

CANCER BY THE NUMBERS

1 : 5 Americans will develop skin cancer in their lifetime.

THE SIGNS OF SKIN CANCER

Skin cancer often looks like a new growth or sore that won’t heal. Regularly check your skin for changes and consult your doctor or a dermatologist if you have any concerns.

the ABCDEs of checking for skin cancer

ASYMMETRY: One half of a mole does not match the other half.

BORDER: The edges are ragged, blurred or irregular.

COLOR: The color is not the same throughout, or it has shades of multiple colors.

DIAMETER: The diameter is larger than the eraser of a pencil.

ELEVATION: It becomes raised after being flat, or it changes over a short period of time.

OTHER TIPS

Avoid the sun during peak hours. Generally, this is between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m.

Wear protective clothing like shirts with long sleeves, pants, sunglasses and hats.

Be careful around water, snow and sand. They reflect sunlight and can increase the risk of sunburn.

Use a lip balm or lipstick that contains SPF protection because skin cancer also can form on your lips.

Don’t use tanning beds because they also give off ultraviolet light.

9,500 people in the U.S. are diagnosed with skin cancer every day.

1M+ Americans are living with melanoma.

other concerning symptoms

▪ Pink or brown lesions that may signal basal cell or squamous cell cancers, or ‘amelanotic’ pink lesions that may be melanoma

▪ Dark brown or black lesions that also may indicate melanoma

▪ Symptoms like itching or bleeding from a lesion

SUN PROTECTION

You can reduce your risk of skin cancer by limiting the amount of sun exposure you receive. Protect yourself by regularly applying a sunscreen of at least 30 SPF. According to the American Academy of Dermatology, most people only apply 25% to 50% of the recommended amount of sunscreen. You should use enough to cover any skin that isn’t clothed. For adults, that generally means one ounce, which is enough to fill a shot glass. Regardless of how high the SPF is, reapply sunscreen every two hours or more frequently if you’re swimming or sweating. If you use a cosmetic product that includes sun protection like a BB or CC cream, it needs to be regularly reapplied as well. UV rays can pass through clouds, so use sunscreen even on cloudy days.

212,200 new cases of melanoma will be diagnosed in 2025.

80% greater risk of developing melanoma after experiencing five or more blistering sunburns between ages 15 and 20.

DR. NAMIN is board certified in both Otolaryngology –Head & Neck Surgery and Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery. He is passionate about rhinoplasty, facial rejuvenation and cancer reconstruction. He finds joy in improving the confidence of individuals with cosmetic concerns and restoring a sense of normalcy to individuals after they have undergone cancer treatment. He is humbled by the trust his patients place in him. He practices at Mercy Hospital St. Louis with offices at the Pratt Cancer Center in Creve Coeur and at Clayton-Clarkson in Ballwin.

GET YOUR GLOW

SPRING AND SUMMER ARE THE TIME TO SHINE. ENJOY THE BEAUTIFUL WEATHER AND GET YOUR GLOW ON WITH THESE PRODUCTS.

1. D-BRONZI ANTI-POLLUTION SUNSHINE DROPS

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Get a healthy glow without risking a sunburn. These drops are formulated to be added to your skin care, such as moisturizer, serum or oil. The result is a warm wash of bronze color. It also helps boost the skin’s elasticity and protect against pollution and other environmental stressors by replenishing essential lipids that support the skin-barrier function.

$39 FROM DRUNKELEPHANT.COM

2. CRÈME NAIL POLISH

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This boutique nail polish brand is vegan, cruelty-free and 10-free—meaning it doesn’t contain the harmful ingredients commonly found in nail polish. This formula offers coverage in two to three coats, depending on nail length. The shade The Floor is Guava is the perfect coral red to take you from spring into summer.

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3.COVERAGE FOUNDATION

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This medium coverage foundation is suitable for all skin types. Its star ingredient is fermented arnica, which helps reduce redness and even skin tone while protecting the skin from environmental stress. Plus, it’s available in 51 shades, so there’s an option for everyone..

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4. COOKIE POWDER HIGHLIGHTER benefit cosmetics

Add some warmth to your complexion. This superfine golden pearl highlight offers buildable shimmer and glow with a lightweight feel. It can be used on its own or worn over makeup.

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5. GLOSSYBOUNCE saie

This hybrid product offers you the nourishment of lip oil with the shine and color tint of a lip glass. The vegan formula includes caster seed oil to condition, jojoba seed oil to nourish and provide shine, carnauba wax to provide bounce without stickiness and shea butter to moisturize.

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LIVING

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MARKET MANIA

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2209 PARK AVE. LAFAYETTE SQUARE | $565,000

All of the history with a newer interior and amenities. Backing to Bath & Tennis Club, the four-bedroom home features a sky terrace and lovely courtyard. The Warner Hall Group | DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 8301 MARYLAND AVE.,

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KIRKWOOD | $775,000

This home has been meticulously upgraded with recent improvements designed for comfort, durability and modern living. The main level features additional living quarters and an open floor plan.

4554 LACLEDE AVE., NO. 308 CENTRAL WEST END | $375,000

This tastefully updated Wexford two-bed, two-bath condo is in the heart of the CWE! This is a third floor unit with 10-foot ceilings and skylights.

Krissy Hof | KELLY HOF TEAM | BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES ALLIANCE 8077 MARYLAND AVE. | 314.691.4140 | 314.997.7600 | KELLYHOFTEAM.COM

ADVERTISE

Catch My Thrift: Home Items to Buy Secondhand

New or secondhand? That’s a dilemma that we all face when considering purchasing items for our homes. In many cases, vintage items are more durable and better crafted. Whether you’re hitting estate sales, clicking around Facebook Marketplace or exploring local consignment shops, here are some items to keep an eye out for.

Art

Check resale and consignment shops for handmade art pieces. You’re likely to find pieces that are more unique and better quality than currently mass produced pieces, but at a fraction of the cost of what it would cost you to purchase from a gallery.

Rugs

Vintage rugs often feature intricate patterns, designs and colors, and they are made from durable materials like wool or silk. However, these pieces also come with years of dirt, wear and stain. You may need to have the rug professionally cleaned, rebacked or repaired.

Books

Books are great items to pick up secondhand. You can find unique coffee table table books to display and beautiful tomes for styling shelves. Going vintage gives the items more charm and individuality.

Mirrors

Older mirrors usually are made of better glass and metal than what you’ll find in stores now for similar prices. Plus, they often have ornate or gilded design making them a great decor piece, as well as a practical addition to your home.

Upholstered Furniture

These pieces often have well-crafted, solid-wood frames. Padding and upholstering can always be updated, and that way you can personalize the piece to your style. .

Wooden Furniture

Items from the mid-20th century are often made from solid hardwoods, such as oak, walnut and mahogany. Not only are they more durable, but they often feature unique details like dovetail joinery or hand carvings.

Ceramics

Many of today’s ceramics are mass produced and more cheaply made. Going with vintage means you’re getting a more durable item, and these pieces often include unique handmade details. Ceramics also aren’t likely to depreciate in value, so it’s a good investment. Just make sure you check for any chips or cracks that may impact the usability or longevity of the piece.

Lighting

Lighting is an easy way to add warmth and character to a room. Older lamps often have distinctive designs and were made from materials like copper, glass and brass. If you’re on the hunt for a deal, look for lamps with a damaged cord or shade that may be discounted. Those are easy fixes that you can do on your own or have done.

Kitchenware

Vintage glassware, cast iron skillets, utensils and ceramic dishware are all good finds. They are likely to last you a long time and also offer character and charm, making them great for display. Make sure to carefully inspect each piece, especially if you intend to use it for food. Not all vintage materials are up to the safety standards of today. For example, uranium glassware can emit low levels of radiation. Avoid it!

AND CONSIGNMENT STORES AROUND THE STL

• Cool Stuff Period 5707 Manchester Ave., coolstuffperiod.com

• Encore Consignment Shop Kirkwood: 0821 Manchester Road, Town and Country: 287 Lamp & Lantern Village, encorestl.net

• Fantastic Finds 12778 Olive Blvd., alstl.org/fantastic-finds-resale

• The Green Goose Resale & Consignment 1267 S. Laclede Station Road, greengoose.com

• The Green Shag Market 5733 Manchester Ave., thegreenshagmarket.com

• The Hill Antique Market 4923 Daggett Ave., hillantiques.com

• Max and Moo’s Thrift 11726 St. Charles Rock Road, Ste. J, maxandmoos.com

• St. Louis Antique Mall 9715 St. Charles Rock Road, antiquemallstlouis.com

• St. Louis Consignment Gallery 3217 Woodson Road, stlouiscg.com

• Treasure Aisles Antique Mall 2317 S Big Bend Blvd., maplewoodantiquemall.com

• The White Rabbit 9030 Manchester Road, thewhiterabbitstl.com

&more! HOOKED BOOKS

Ghostroots by Pemi

I didn’t know what to expect when I started Pemi Aguda’s collection of short stories. Each is a masterpiece—delightful, profound and a little strange. Aguda is from Lagos, Nigeria, and the country is a consistent character in all of her stories. It’s a wonderful read that I will surely reread.

Eleanore of Avignon by Elizabeth De Lozier

I tend to stay away from historical fiction but am glad I made an exception for this book. It takes you back to 1347, when there are not a lot of options for women. Eleanore is a herbalist and midwife, thanks to training from her now deceased mother. The black plague arrives just as she starts training under a physician. You won’t put this down, and it certainly has me rethinking my jaded view of historical fiction.

The Pulse Netflix

Yes, I suggested medical drama last month, but besides the fast pace, the shows do not have that much in common. This drama features a great cast of doctors who are not shown as the savior of all mankind. The characters are believable and intense. Turn on closed captions or you might miss important pieces of dialog.

Life with John Mayer SiriusXM

After spending 12 weeks in the Florida Keys, I was tired of yacht rock. As we made the 22-hour drive home, we listened to songs compiled by singer John Mayer. His taste in music is varied and just what we needed—no repeats! From the soul music of the ’50s to hard rock of the ’80s to today’s hits, he kept us company all the way home. Hey, even people married 40 years run out of things to talk about.

OFF the cuff claiborne w/

With each Off the Cuff, we try to share some insight into notable people who have made their mark on St. Louis, but unfortunately, it’s impossible for us to include it all. So this issue we’ve decided to share some of the awesome answers that we couldn’t the first time around.

jim

montgomery

DID YOU STAY CONNECTED WITH ST. LOUIS

WHILE IN BOSTON?

I’m lucky to have a great family and in-laws that live in St. Louis but were willing to immediately become Bruins fans. However, once we were coming back to St. Louis, there were flags outside of everyone’s homes flying the Blues colors.

jordan renaud

WHAT WILL PEOPLE NOTICE WALKING INTO WORK & LEISURE?

Our service. We love and appreciate every guest who comes through our door. We understand that they made plans to come out. They’re picking out outfits, getting ready, setting up babysitters. That does not fall on deaf ears with us. We understand all that goes into being able to come out and have a good time.

carey davis

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES OF HIGH SCHOOL COACHING?

Now is an especially hard time for young people, not just student athletes, because of social media. Subconsciously, it makes them think that everyone else is succeeding and puts them in a place where they feel like losers. When talking to young people, I tell them that they are looking at highlights of people’s lives. Those 30-second reels are the best parts— you’re not seeing the failures. If I played a highlight reel of my career, I’d look like the best player in the world, but there were lowlights as well. It’s really hard for young people to grasp and understand that everybody fails at some point.

steve ewing

WHAT’S BEEN THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE?

What’s challenging is just running a restaurant. We made the decision to go from a cart to a brick-and-mortar. Learning the business took some time, and in restaurants, you keep learning because things are always changing. We had a lot of people coming in to check out what we had, but keeping up with the demand can be hard

jami dolby

TELL ME ONE THING PEOPLE TAKE FOR GRANTED ABOUT ST. LOUIS.

The people. We overuse the same people, but there are so many amazing young people. We do need more experienced individuals, but we need to rotate who we go to. The opportunities are endless with the people here.

MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

5/28-6/22

hamlet

To mark its 25th production in Shakespeare Glen, the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival presents the Bard’s greatest masterpiece. Directed by renowned Shakespeare expert Michael Sexton of New York, audiences can expect a bold modern take on the dark and complex family drama. Shakespeare Glen in Forest Park | Free-$20 8 p.m. | stlshakes.org

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6/5-6/22

urban legend

Circus Flora combines exceptional storytelling and world-class performances to bring to life the legends and lore of St. Louis in thrilling and unexpected ways. The Big Top | $10-$99 | Various showtimes 314.827.3830 | circusflora.org

6/7

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cars and guitars festivals

This free outdoor festival brings together classic cars, live music, local food and family fun in the heart of downtown Kirkwood. Downtown Kirkwood | Free | 4-11 p.m. kirkwoodmo.org

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cwe cocktail party

june

6/28

outlaw music festival

6/6-6/8

augusta wine & jazz festival

take me to the world: the songs of stephen sondheim Tony-winner Donna McKechnie honors the work of one of Broadway’s greatest composers, Stephen Sondheim. McKechnie was in the original production of Sondheim’s classic Company.

Jazz St. Louis | $70-$95 | 7:30 p.m. 314.571.6000 | jazzstl.org

Enjoy all of Augusta’s unique shops, eateries and wineries while catching amazing performances. The festival’s headliner is the Hot Club of Baltimore, and it also includes Brick City Quartet, Circle of Fifths, David Green, The Dhoruba Collective and more. Augusta, Missouri | Free-$75 | Various showtimes | theharmonie.org/jazzfest

heart

The legendary band hits the stage at The Fabulous Fox Theatre. The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $67-$197 7:30 p.m. | 314.534.1111 | fabulousfox.com

Enjoy live music and entertainment along with food and drinks available for purchase from some of your favorite CWE restaurants. Central West End | Free | 5-10 p.m. cwescene.com

6/16-6/22

bring it on: the musical

The musical is a high-flying journey through the tangled web of friendship, jealousy, betrayal and forgiveness. This bitingly relevant musical has a fresh story by a creative team that includes Tom Kitt, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Jeff Whitty and Amanda Green.

6/19

juneteenth concert

Experience a moving evening of spirituals, gospel music and inspirational songs with poetry by Maya Angelou, Amanda Gorman, James Baldwin and Langston Hughes, featuring the IN UNISON Young Artists. Manchester United Methodist Church | Free 7 p.m. | 314.534.1700 | slso.org

Celebrating its 10th anniversary, the festival, led by cultural and musical icon Willie Nelson, unites music legends with today’s superstars in celebration of the outlaw spirit and genre-defying music.

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6/28 & 6/29

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