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A Night of Hope & Dreams SAT., NOV. 17 ï‚« ATRIUM AT EDW ARD JONES

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2018 Lifetime Achievement Award Recipient Joel Bernstein

2018 Hall of Fame Inductees Willard S. Boyle

Walter Iooss Jr.

John Loengard by Scott Kelby

Susan Meiselas

John Sexton

2018 Hall of Fame Induction and Award Ceremony INTERNATIONAL PHOTOGRAPHY HALL OF FAME AND MUSEUM Friday, October 26th, 2018 Saint Louis, Missouri The International Photography Hall of Fame and Museum (IPHF) recently announced its 2018 class of Photography Hall of Fame inductees and Lifetime Achievement Award recipient and will honor them at its 2018 Hall of Fame Induction and Award Ceremony on Friday, October 26th at .ZACK in the Grand Center Arts District. The IPHF annually awards and inducts notable photographers or photography industry visionaries for their artistry, innovation, and significant contributions to the art and science of photography.

The International Photography Hall of Fame and Museum is a non-profit organization with the purpose of celebrating the achievements of the inventors, pioneers, and pivotal artists throughout the history of photography. The IPHF has preserved the art of photography and its contribution to modern civilization since 1965 and is the proud home to over 2,000 historical cameras and 30,000 images.

Sponsorship and Ticket Information at iphf.org or call 314-535-1999

2018 Lifetime Achievement Award

2018 Class of Hall of Fame Inductees

2018 Event Co-chairs: Jim and Stacy Cooper

by Robert George

Joel Bernstein Joel Bernstein is an acclaimed photographer whose four decades of work chronicles the inner lives and public moments of some of the most important singer-songwriters, performers and musicians of our time. They include: Joni Mitchell, Neil Young, Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, David Crosby, Stephen Stills, Graham Nash, Prince, Jackson Browne, Laura Nyro, Tom Petty and many others.

“As a photographer, Joel shoots like a fellow musician.

Bernstein blends in, using all the resources of his understanding of the songs, the instruments, the subject, and the people.

There is soul and movement, and most of all, music in every one of Joel’s images. This is what it looked like and this is what it felt like. These are truthful angels.”

-Cameron Crowe, director of Almost Famous and Jerry Maguire

Willard S. Boyle

Susan Meiselas

Willard Sterling Boyle was a Canadian physicist and Nobel Prize winner who pioneered in the field of laser technology and was the co-inventor of the charge-coupled device.

Susan Meiselas is a documentary photographer wellknown for her documentation of human rights issues in Latin America.

Walter Iooss Jr.

John Sexton

Walter Iooss Jr. is an American photographer best known for his award-winning images of sports’ greatest athletes, including Michael Jordan, Kelly Slater, Tiger Woods, Scottie Pippen, and Muhammad Ali.

John Sexton is an American fine art photographer who specializes in luminous, hand-crafted traditional silver gelatin black-and-white photographs of the natural environment.

John Loengard John Loengard is an American photographer, joined the staff of Life magazine in 1961, and from 1973 to 1987 he served as the magazine’s photograph editor.

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next issue october 3

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Although it’s already open, the new 2.2-mile trail will have a rescheduled ribbon-cutting ceremony from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Oct. 5. The greenway runs from McKelvey Woods to Creve Coeur Park.

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highland elementary school

More than 200 volunteers turned out to help build a new playground at the school in North St. Louis County.

Boys & Girls Clubs of St. Louis spearheaded the six-hour event with help from Pacific Life Foundation, Edward Jones, KaBOOM! and the Riverview Gardens School District.

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The organization held its 2018 Ageless Remarkable Saint Louisans reception to honor individuals 75 and older who are notable philanthropists, volunteers and leaders. Pictured: Diane and Paul Gallant (honoree) with gala co-chair Laura McBride

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TOWN TALK 〉〉 4 IN THE KNOW 7 COVER STORY – Assistance League of St. Louis 8 TOWN TALK 10 THE INSIDER 11 ASSETS & ANSWERS 17 PARENT TRAP – Overbearing Sports Parents 18 SPECIAL FEATURE – Creative Leadership

PHOTO ALBUM 〉〉 20 SNAPPED! UCP Heartland 21 All Among Us 22 Endangered Wolf Center 23 Semper Fi Society of St. Louis

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COMPLETELY RUN BY VOLUNTEERS, ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS PUTS CARING AND COMMITMENT INTO ACTION THROUGH COMMUNITY-BASED, PHILANTHROPIC PROGRAMS. ITS IMAGINE! GALA IS NOV. 17 IN THE EDWARD JONES ATRIUM. PICTURED ON THE COVER: PRESIDENT-ELECT JANE HARBRON, PRESIDENT ROXIE RANDOLPH, EVENT CHAIR CONNIE CURRAN, EVENT VICE CHAIR KAREN PENNINGTON. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 636.227.6200 OR VISIT ALSTL.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY

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The organization’s Shamrock Club brought together volunteers from the St. Louis Blues, including president and CEO Chris Zimmerman, to serve lunch to clients and guests.

FROM THE EDITOR’S DESK Laughter is essential. Or at least that’s how I feel. I’m jealous of my kids who can laugh from the depths of their little bodies at the silliest of things. You sometimes lose that sense of innocent entertainment as you get older. Maturity plays a role— a necessary part of growing up for sure—but practicality doesn’t always have to prevail. I was invited to a show at the Playhouse @ Westport Plaza last week that actually combined logic and comedy, and while I wasn’t laughing at silly sounds like my kids sometimes do, I was laughing hard.

Robert Dubac presented his one-man show, The Book of Moron, which focused on truth and the illusion of truth (what many people accept as fact). He was calling society out on its glaring issues: accepting beliefs and ‘facts’ just because they are presented in a compelling way. He touched on all of the big topics—religion, politics, sex and race among them—and while his bit was humorous, it also was thought-provoking.

He encouraged everyone to think for themselves, to think outside the box, all while getting the audience to laugh at our own discrepancies.

It had been quite a while since I had attended a more intimate theater performance, but it was a nice change of pace. St. Louis offers such a variety of shows, from large-scale performances to smaller ones. I have heard good things about The Rep’s production of Evita, reviewed in this issue’s Front&Center. The fact that our local talent is strong enough to tackle a popular, bigname production—and do it well—is impressive. You can check out our monthly Mark Your Calendar column in the flip section for an entire page of upcoming events, shows and art exhibits that will expand your mind, some that might even cause you to question things … both necessary for growth and that notion of maturity I mentioned above.

If nothing else, you’ll get a brief escape from reality. For a couple of hours last week, I forgot about my never-ending to-do list, what still needs to be done before our baby’s arrival, and our packed calendar of school and social activities. I just let loose and laughed, and it felt great.

—Karyn Williams Editor in Chief

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ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS by stephanie wallace

STUDENTS WITHOUT SCHOOL CLOTHES, women without personal products, children

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with limited access to books and literacy programs—there are countless unmet needs in our community. Roxie Randolph wants to ensure that St. Louisans know the issues and, more importantly, how they can help. As president of Assistance League of St. Louis, she leads the local chapter of a national organization that supports children and adults through philanthropic programs. One of the largest of the 120 chapters nationwide, it is dedicated to serving the unique needs and challenges of our region.

The nonprofit is completely run by volunteers. Known as ‘members,’ there are just under 500 individuals who identify areas of need and develop and implement programs to address them.

Randolph says it is the members who make the organization’s success possible. “For more than 30 years, they’ve dedicated their time and service to helping the underserved,” she notes.

The Assistance League’s list of services is extensive. Last year alone, it introduced two new programs to help area children: Books from Friends, which delivers new and gently used books, and Beyond the Bell, which gives non-uniform clothes ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS PRESIDENT ROXIE RANDOLPH to kids and young adults. Other programs include providing teddy bears and activity packets to children and adults in hospitals, assembling gift bags of personal items for women in shelters, and outfitting elementary students with footwear. “Our programs are set up to empower people, not enable them,” Randolph explains. “We want to provide opportunity rather than create dependence.”

New this year, the nonprofit is testing an expanded delivery model that will bring more of its resources directly into St. Louis public schools through in-school closets. They will be stocked with additional school uniforms, non-uniform clothing and footwear. Randolph says there also will be activity packets and stuffed toys to help students who need a way to settle down and destress. She is hopeful that this new integrated format will be a success and continue to grow. “After this year, we will assess where we’re succeeding and what still needs to done,” she notes. “We’re looking forward to implementing these closets in more schools and adding other services.”

To make its programs possible, Assistance League of St. Louis hosts an annual Imagine! gala, one of its largest fundraisers. “It raises funds that are crucial to meet the needs of the community,” Randolph says. “The event allows us to recognize our calling and fund services that benefit those in need.” At the event Nov. 17 in the Edward Jones atrium, Randolph says guests can look forward to an evening of mystique and glamour. Rene Knott of KSDK will serve as emcee and auctioneer, and festivities also include dinner and entertainment. Randolph notes the gala’s theme, ‘A Night of Hope and Dreams,’ is a special reflection of the nonprofit’s mission. “We want to focus on our continued effort to provide hope so that dreams can be realized,” she says. & SEPTEMBER 19, 2018 | townandstyle.com

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Living in Tents, shot in the StL, is a vivid documentary of the homeless experience. It is not easy to watch. Paul Crane’s compelling footage follows five homeless men and women as they struggle to survive in harsh conditions, as well as the volunteers whose lives change as they become deeply involved.

In January 2010, Crane discovered a tent city along the Mississippi. Curious what daily life was like for the people living there, he decided to spend a few weeks volunteering and getting to know the group.

Eventually allowed to shoot video of his experience, he soon realized if he wanted to capture the reality of their collective and individual existence, he’d need to live there full time … so he moved in. Living in Tents is essential, especially for anyone with pat answers to such a complex issue. Yes, despite our uneasiness, we can ignore the panhandlers on interstate ramps.

Certainly, some are grifters. But what of those we may never see—the truly desperate, among them veterans, the physically disabled, the mentally ill?

Visit tentcityfilm.com.

would end single-stream curbside recycling this fall because it’s just too expensive. That’s calmed down, for now. But it’s given me cause to wonder about my attitude toward the stuff we get rid of.

I mean, somebody comes and just takes it away.

Not my problem. Well, the prices China will pay per ton for our nation’s waste paper have dropped precipitously, which may have caused a ripple effect in recycling all the way to the Great Midwest.

Used to be ‘not our problem,’ but all of a sudden, every municipality is scrambling to find cheaper alternatives. So, I took another look at what we can, and can’t, recycle. Pizza boxes are fine, except for the gooey, foodie part. (Maybe we should eat that.) Some stuff that just seemed to be common sense isn’t. Shredded paper? Trash. Really. (Maybe it’s good for the fireplace this winter.) Empty aerosol cans? Recycle. Really. Empty prescription bottles?

Recycle … they’re No. 5 plastic, and Nos. 1-7 are OK. Paper milk cartons are OK, but wax paper isn’t. But isn’t that waxy stuff on the carton, well, wax? Geez— why can’t we just let people on the other side of the globe keep worrying about this? Meanwhile, visiting recyclingsimplified.com helped me. A lot.

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Single-stream recycling always seemed to me like it was never gonna work. I mean, the truck comes to pick up all of the stuff that we shouldn’t throw in the trash, especially aluminum. Well, paper and cardboard are important, too, and what about glass?

And it’s all mixed together? Who decides what goes where—robots? Nope, ‘recyclers’… people wearing gloves with enough protection for juggling broken glass. When I lived in Glendale, it used to be that you had to separate your recycling into different bins. I was never sure about paper, especially corrugated cardboard like pizza boxes. I mean, melted cheese plus a pepperoni slice, maybe? So we always trashed those. Upon relocating to U. City, I entered the world of single stream. One and done. Well, if it’s not time to panic yet, seems there’s at least cause for worry.

We’ve had rumblings in the metro that Kirkwood, which operates its own sanitation department,

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‘En plein air’ stirs up images of springtime in Paris, beret-topped painters at easels along La Rive Gauche, rendering a sun-drenched scene with the Eiffel Tower in the background. Numbskulls might see The Three Stooges dragging out the kitchen table and a bowl of fruit, knocking each other over, Mssr.

Moe trying to poke Mssr. Larry in the eye with his brush while Mssr. Curly pulls Moe’s smock over his head. OK. Try to unsee that … most of us won’t be in France, silly. Yes, we are imagining life outside, but more like the still life of Monet’s Water Lilies.

Visualize the historic homes, parks and lush gardens of U. City, with action limited to the mysterious, creative movements of brush first touching paint, then canvas or paper. U City in Bloom hosts its third annual Plein Air Art Festival this Sunday (Sept. 23) in the area bounded by Delmar, Hanley, Olive, and Pennsylvania near U. City High School (7401 Balson Ave.). Following 8 a.m. registration at the high school, artists who love to paint out-ofdoors—‘en plein air’—will create artworks in real time. Anyone interested in the process is invited to watch the artists at work. By 3 p.m., they will take their completed paintings to the Heman Park Community Center, 975 Pennsylvania Ave., for judging. A reception for the artists, with food and drink from several select U. City restaurants, and a chance to purchase works will begin at the center at 5 p.m. Also on display will be six vividly painted benches to be placed later in the fall at bus stops on Olive Boulevard. Tickets for the reception are $20 and may be purchased at ucityinbloom.org or at the door.

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Is chamber music inflexible? Must the musicians perform slavishly every note as written, so Ravel et al. don’t roll over in their graves? Drop the mic!

Retakes, revisions and remixes are the order of the evening at The Sheldon next Tuesday (Sept. 25) during Adapt, the season opener for Chamber Project St. Louis. Enjoy the chamber music of Piazzolla, Ravel, Sibelius and Bunch featuring flute, violin, viola, cello and harp. Players finesse the music of Sibelius’ early years; Ravel is ‘remixed’ with harp, creating an altogether new sound; and works by contemporary composer Kenji Bunch transcend cultural barriers, taking inspiration from such diverse influences as Americana. Performance begins at 7:30 p.m. Visit chamberprojectstl.org/season11.

TT TRIVIA | BEFORE THE QUICK DEMISE OF PERJAX, WHAT WERE SOME OF THE OTHER RESTAURANTS THAT HAVE CRASHED AND BURNED AT JACKSON AND PERSHING AVENUES IN U. CITY? LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | THE NOTORIOUS CORAL COURT MOTEL WAS LOCATED AT 7755 WATSON ROAD IN THE VILLAGE OF MARLBOROUGH UNTIL ITS DEMOLITION IN 1995. OAK KNOLL SUBDIVISION SOON REPLACED IT. THE MOTEL’S STONE ENTRYWAY AND SOME STONE FENCE PILLARS REMAIN.

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◀ ERIN AND JEFF GERHARDT

U. CITY 〉〉 JEFF

GERHARDT was a frustrated architect. ERIN GERHARDT, M.D., was up

to her elbows in the stressful life of the ER. So, why not go way outside your comfort zones to open a bicycle shop that serves barista-style coffee at the corner of Jackson and Pershing avenues, ‘where restaurants go to die?’ PerJax, the last eatery that attempted to conquer 7401 Jackson Ave., lasted less than two months. It was in the building right next to the Gerhardt family home on Pershing, so the Gerhardts went all in. They aren’t your typical U. City couple. Nor is Cursed Bikes & Coffee your typical retail establishment. (Although I’d wager you’ve never seen the word ‘typical’ in the same sentence as ‘U. City.’) Jeff worked five years as a mechanic at Big Shark Bicycle Co. Friends and neighbors had suggested he do his own thing, and “the final straw was when some random person mentioned it,” he says. But he warned Erin that, if they got rolling, she’d hardly ever see him. As Jeff says, “The only way to ensure quality is

to put in the hours.” His doctor/wife gave him the goahead. After all, he wasn’t enjoying architecture—his sedentary existence was “killing me slowly,” he says.

Erin’s diagnosis? Long hours sitting and drawing wasn’t good for him, mentally or physically. He was 50 pounds overweight and plagued by carpal tunnel syndrome.

In May, Cursed Bikes & Coffee celebrated its first anniversary. Today, Jeff and Erin are both darn good baristas (Jeff’s cappuccino is proof), having learned from some of the best in the business, Kaldi’s alumni.

“Kaldi’s has really raised the bar,” Jeff says. Having burned through some no-shows and a thief, Jeff now has a team he’s proud of and can count on, including Haley and Bryanna who have been there since the get-go. First Crack roasts most of the green beans the Gerhardts procure from wholesalers. Meanwhile,

Erin has settled into an 8-to-5 gig at a Concentra urgent care location in the city. At first wolfing down a few bites of lunch and returning ASAP, she’s almost gotten used to taking a full hour. When not at school, the kids—Mia, 15, Miles, 10, and Eleanor, 7—often pop in from next door. Mia already is adept at the espresso machine. Jeff is almost back to his fighting weight and spends most of his time in the back of the shop tightening this or replacing that. Two of the lightweight steel frames he designed and built are displayed in windows facing the patio his shop shares with Taco Buddha … where he eats regularly.

And he must ride, at least once a week: Starting on Father’s Day, a leisurely ride has rolled out from the shop every Sunday morning at 8 a.m. “It’s the only time I know I’ll get out!” he says. (LimeBike—cursed?

Nope. Jeff firmly believes that the more people who get up and at ’em on two wheels, the merrier.) Visit the shop on Facebook. &

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Well-known fashion designer and entrepreneur ▶

NICOLE MILLER is set to stop in the Lou Oct. 11! She

will SPEAK AT RISE COLLABORATIVE WORKSPACE IN LADUE. Famous for her women’s collections and bridal fashions, the style icon will share her business and creative insights with area women.

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EVERYONE DIES . That’s a fact. I don’t particularly

like it much, especially when I lose two people I admire in one week. What is the proper way to mourn the passing of those you wish you knew but didn’t? I’m not sure the answer, but I was more off balance than usual the week John McCain and Aretha Franklin died.

I truly wish I knew what happens to us once we pass. My version of heaven is based on conversations with my dad when I was little girl. (I had an unhealthy preoccupation with death as a child. As the youngest, I was always a little peeved that I would get the least amount of time with my parents.) Were there newspapers? Yes, there were newspapers. What about bologna? Yes, there was bologna. Would we all be together? Yes, as long as you were good, St. Peter would let you into the pearly gates of heaven. I guess I pictured heaven as a really nice resort with St. Peter as the concierge. I realize now that my dad was just telling me what I needed to hear as a child, but for whatever reason, that view of heaven has stuck with me even at the age of 58. Periodically, I get ‘winks’ from my parents, whether it is a cell phone call from ‘mom,’ or I find myself drawn into a discussion with an elderly man who is wearing a striped shirt and plaid pants just like my dad did. I like to think it is their way of telling me that heaven not only has newspapers and bologna, but also corned beef and cable.

So, I wonder what happened when John McCain and Aretha Franklin both showed up at the gates of heaven? I would think at first, St. Peter would be a little mad and wonder who in the world thought it was a good idea that both of these people got called up to the majors at the same time. But if you believe in God, well, let’s just say you can’t really complain to the boss, or there might be a lot of thunder and lightning.

I hope he thanked Aretha for the fact that everyone can spell the word respect. Unfortunately, not everyone treats people with it, but at least we know how to write it correctly. I also hope he thanked her for her music.

It brought people together because no matter what wedding you attend, if an Aretha Franklin song comes on, everyone gets up to dance, even those of us who shouldn’t. I also hope he would congratulate her on the ability to keep singing even when tear gas was being fired at her when she was fighting for civil rights.

John McCain was a war hero and a statesman. I am certain St. Peter would thank him for always speaking his mind, sticking to his principles, encouraging bipartisanship, raising a wonderful family and forcing liberal Democrats like me to cry just a little when he died.

Then I hope St. Peter told them both to hop in Aretha’s pink Cadillac and drive on through those pearly gates where they met my mom and dad and all of the other people we know and love who are waiting for us in heaven.

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▲ Ever wonder what it would be like to rappel down the side of a tall building? You can find out first-hand this fall, with the Arch and Mississippi River as a picturesque backdrop. Participants in the SPECIAL OLYMPICS’ annual OVER THE EDGE ST. LOUIS FUNDRAISER Sept. 29 will get a panoramic view of downtown as they descend the 17-story Hyatt Regency Hotel. Last year, the event raised nearly $82,000. Register at somo.org/edge.

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◀ ST. PETER’S EPISCOPAL CHURCH in Ladue is set to welcome a special guest in commemoration of its 150th anniversary! BISHOP MICHAEL CURRY, who spoke at the royal wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, will attend a celebratory parish dinner and will preach at worship services Oct. 14. A Chicago native, Curry is the 27th presiding bishop and primate of the Episcopal Church.

▲ Have a budding violin aficionado in the family? Joanne Keefe and Kevin Mitchell have released Jazz Songs for the Student Violinist, published by Sher Music Co. Keefe is an instructor and ensemble director at Community Music School of Webster University, and Mitchell is a musician, author and CMS parent.

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〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Experience great eats at Q in The Lou, a barbecue festival featuring food, beer, live music, VIP experiences and more. Held Sept. 21 through 23 at Kiener Plaza, the event is a fun opportunity to watch area pitmasters do their thing.

Head to Soulard Market Park for the Greater St. Louis Hispanic Festival Sept. 21 through 23. The free event features traditional dancers, music, vendors, a kids’ corner, games, crafts and other activities representing a variety of Latin and South American cultures.

Get your brew on in the Lou at Urban Chestnut’s Oktoberfest celebration, Biergarten to Big Top, held Sept. 28 through 30 along Washington Avenue. The event features German beer, food, music, circus performances and more. Proceeds support community arts organizations.

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WHAT SHOULD YOU TEACH YOUR KIDS ABOUT FINANCE? by stephanie wallace

The list of what to teach your children about finances is probably infinite, but the following provide wonderful starting points:

pay for those ‘wants.’ Even if you can afford them, make a conscious decision to let your children experience disappointment or some hard work—society will thank you!

Be a Good Role Model. Children are observant. If budgeting, saving, investing and giving are important to you, they’re more likely to be important to them. My 5-year-old recently said, “It’s OK if we run out of money because we always can use credit cards.” Funny but scary. I used this as an opportunity to explain that we only use a credit card if we have money to pay the bill.

He also is now well-versed in the concept of points!

Emphasize Starting Early. High school is the perfect time to introduce your children to your financial adviser. Let your adviser explain compounding interest, the cost of waiting and the importance of budgeting. It’s also good for your children to see that you take your finances seriously enough to enlist the services of a professional.

Be Honest. Parents want to provide ‘the best.’ They also feel pressure to do so.

It’s OK to tell your children you can’t do something because it’s too expensive (even if they briefly don't like you or it feels embarrassing). Talk to them about priorities. Explain the difference between wants and needs. If they are old enough, encourage them to look for small jobs to

—jennifer belmont jennings WEALTH ADVISOR, HIGHTOWER ST. LOUIS WEALTH ADVISORS

Regardless of your children’s ages, the first step is communicating what money means to you. From there, focus on familiarizing your children with the concepts of earning, spending, saving, investing and giving.

As early as age 2, you can begin teaching the basics of how money works through pretend play like ‘store.’ During the preschool years, introduce the concepts of opportunity cost and delayed gratification by focusing on smart spending and distinguishing wants from needs.

Around first grade, introduce an allowance and open a savings account.

Tie the allowance to completion of certain tasks or academic achievements to establish effective goal setting. As children age, build on the idea of saving by tracking spending, discussing the time value of money and illustrating the power of compounding.

When your children are teenagers, refine their understanding of needs vs. wants (I need jeans, I want designer ones.), set a

budget for your child, practice comparison shopping, and consider using birthdays as an opportunity to make donations and discuss the importance of giving.

Teaching your children about money management doesn’t happen overnight.

It’s the example you set by what you say and do each day. We encourage children to participate in conversations about financial planning and tax and investment advice, and we regularly produce video and literary content to educate families and offer ideas on how to discuss financial concepts with children of all ages.

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VICE PRESIDENT AND WEALTH MANAGEMENT ADVISOR, CENTRAL TRUST COMPANY

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Get ready for fall entertaining at the Kim Seybert trunk show at Sallie Home. Tabletop pieces explore everything from the maharajahs to the Roaring Twenties; in-store specials Sept. 20 through 30 (salliehome.com) …

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...at what your child will discover.

HEADS OF SCHOOL

Open House Oct. 10 | rossmanschool.org

each day brings

BOB COOKE

Community School An educator for 34 years and head of Community School for the past four, Bob Cooke believes in fully utilizing the safe, 18-acre campus for daily educational and recreational activities. He understands that experiential, hands-on activities for young students result in greater academic success and a lifelong love of learning.

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Open House • Saturday, Nov. 3 • 8:30am Exceptional education for children age 3 to grade 6 400 DeMun Ave. • Clayton, MO • 314.725.4999 • register at wilsonschool.com

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DAN HILDEBRAND Forsyth School

Dan Hildebrand assumed the role of Forsyth’s head of school July 1 after serving as interim head at Visitation Academy. He holds his B.A. and M.A. from the University of Chicago and has more than 30 years of experience as an educator, coach and administrator.

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JOE WAGNER Harper School

Joe Wagner is the founder of Harper School, a preschool and lower elementary school in Frontenac. Harper offers a strong foundation in traditional academic subjects balanced with 21st-century skills like coding and robotics. Previously, Wagner co-founded Stratford School, the largest private preschool and kindergarten through eighth grade school in Silicon Valley.

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ANDY ABBOTT

John Burroughs School

LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE October 18 8:30 - 10:30 a.m.

Toddlers-Grade 5 RSVP: 314.625.9103

MIDDLE AND UPPER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE November 4 Noon - 4 p.m.

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Andy Abbott remains committed to the school’s founding principles: a strong liberal arts and STEM education that encourages a life of service and concern for the environment.

Recognized for his leadership regarding issues of diversity, Abbott promotes an atmosphere of understanding, trust, respect and accomplishment.

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INDEPENDENT • COEDUCATIONAL • GRADES 7-12

Open House MIKE HAVENER, PH.D. Kirkwood High School

Mike Havener holds a B.S. in secondary business education from the University of Missouri-Columbia, an M.Ed. in educational administration from the University of Missouri-St. Louis and an Ed.S. in educational administration from Webster University of Missouri-St. Louis. He promotes Kirkwood High School's rich tradition of excellence in academics and extracurricular activities.

Saturday, October 20 Pre-register at jburroughs.org/openhouse or at 9 am on the day of the event.

Presentation begins at 9:30 am

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LISA LYLE

MICDS (Mary Institute and Saint Louis Country Day School)

John Burroughs School 755 South Price Road, 63124 • 314.993.4040

Head of school Lisa Lyle is celebrating her final year with the school community. We look forward to welcoming a new leader to continue our mission. MICDS students are challenged to become their best selves, explore their passions and engage in innovative learning.

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ELIZABETH ZURLINDEN Rossman School

Elizabeth Zurlinden begins her tenure as head of Rossman this year. Holding an MAT in elementary education, Elizabeth is devoted to advancing Rossman’s mission—to provide a strong, wellbalanced education in a nurturing school community committed to excellence—and balancing the school’s strong traditions with continuous innovation in its educational program.

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GERALYN M. DOLAN The St. Austin School

Geralyn Dolan has served as head of school since St. Austin’s founding. She is committed to a rigorous academic program, preparing students to excel in secondary schools of the highest caliber. In collaboration with families, students are formed with Christian virtues and the practices of the Catholic faith.

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THAD FALKNER

The Wilson School Appointed to lead The Wilson School in 2006, Thad Falkner is an experienced school administrator. He believes that Wilson’s motto, ‘Make your mark a good one,’ influences the school’s culture and motivates students to do their best for themselves as well as others.

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DAVE SCHALL, PH.D.

Saturday at 9:30am

Twin Oaks Christian School Dave Schall has worked in both private and public education for more than 20 years as a teacher, coach and administrator.

While his educational roots are in physical education and health, Dave earned a doctorate in instructional leadership to be more equipped to influence others through the platform of Christian schooling.

MICDS is one of the nation’s leading independent schools, specializing in educating students JK-12.

Join us at our Open House to learn about the unique classes, extracurriculars, athletics and more that will prepare your child for a life of discovery.

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David Colón began his tenure as head of school in July. He recently served as headmaster at Wakefield School in Virginia. He received an M.A. from Harvard University, a Fulbright Scholarship to the University of Salamanca in Spain, and a B.A. from American University. David enthusiastically embraces Visitation’s Catholic Salesian tradition.

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JOHN DELAUTRE Whitfield School

John Delautre earned a master’s degree in history at Vanderbilt University and an M.Div. at Princeton Theological Seminary. A more than 30-year veteran of independent schools, he believes that the best preparation for college and life must include a dynamic commitment to the ethical growth of students.

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PARENT TRAP OVERBEARING SPORTS PARENTS by dr. tim jordan KIDS OFTEN SHARE WITH ME stories of overbearing

parents who take the fun out of sports. I also recently read an article with tips for parents watching their kids play, and both have inspired me to write my own thoughts on the topic.

Watching one of my sons play high school hockey was excruciating because I felt his coach wasn’t using the right lineup. He kept putting in knuckleheads who were talented but had no interest in being good teammates or representing their school with honor. I wanted to say something to the coach, but luckily, caution prevailed. Years later, my son thanked me for allowing him to handle his dearth of ice time by himself because it gave him confidence.

I cringe each time I hear parents badmouthing their daughters’ coaches because I know it puts the girls in a tough predicament when they are facing said coaches. Even if they agree with their parents, they are expected to follow the coach’s rules and instructions. And if their parents vent their frustrations at the coach from the sidelines, it often causes embarrassment for the players. When I was coaching, I’ll never forget the look of humiliation on the face of one of my hockey players when his drunk dad tried to crawl over the glass to yell at me because he thought his son deserved more ice time. Prior to high school, most youth coaches are volunteers who are doing it out of the goodness of their hearts and for their love of the sport. If parents think they can do better, I encourage them to sign up next season and see how easy it is to mold a group of 8-year-olds into a well-oiled machine.

Our family, kids included, decided to only allow each child one sport a season. We wanted to have some family time not dictated by a sports schedule. My son who played hockey was upset with us one year when we wouldn’t allow him to play spring hockey since he already was playing baseball. But we kept to our commitment, and he realized that playing a different sport each season kept him from getting burned out. It’s also important to note that having a job results in worthwhile rewards for teenagers from interfacing with the public and earning their own money. Too many parents discourage jobs because they want their kids to focus on activities, even in college.

Yes, athletic teams also teach important life lessons, so don’t ruin it by being ‘one of those parents’ who is disrespectful and critical to coaches, opposing parents and players, teammates, or worse yet, their own child. Your children want you in the stands for encouragement and as a way to show you care, so stay on track. &

Children learn by exploring. That’s true for the physical world and the world of ideas.

Community School provides the perfect place for that early exploration in a young child’s life.

Open House: Nov. 3 at 9:00 a.m. & Nov. 13 at 9:15 a.m. CommunitySchool.com

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n our digital age, it can be easy to forget the joy of receiving a card or letter in the mail.

The weight of the envelope, the anticipation of opening it, the texture of the paper—it’s an experience an email could never replicate. The power of paper is something Jennifer Brodsky understands. After receiving a master’s degree in school guidance counseling, she decided to follow her creative passion and start Jennifer Ann Designs, a custom, luxury stationery company. Now, the St. Louis native is combining her business know-how with her background in education to help others realize their entrepreneurial potential.

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n MICDS graduate, Brodsky says she has been interested in art her entire life. “I’ve always enjoyed being creative and thinking outside the box,” she recalls. “I took classes at Craft Alliance growing up and was one class shy of an art minor in college.” Custom stationery has long been one of her outlets for expression. She finds inspiration in designing unique invitations. “I love knowing that it’s not just a piece of paper; it’s the introduction to the entire event,” she says. “The possibilities are endless, and it’s so much fun.”

After providing her creative input free of charge for years, Brodsky realized she could turn her passion into a career. As she launched Jennifer Ann Designs, her mind already was thinking about community outreach opportunities with the business. “From the beginning, I developed the philanthropic component because it was important to incorporate my love for teaching and counseling into whatever I was doing,” she says. “As I gained confidence in my business

skills, I wanted to be a role model for other girls and show them they can turn their interests into a career.”

Brodsky developed an enrichment program, Be Amazing! Be You!, to educate young women about entrepreneurship and empower them to build a business of their own someday. “The goal is to provide tangible resources they can apply in real life to meet their goals,” Brodsky explains. The program is being used at Hawthorn Leadership School for Girls, and Brodsky also has partnered with Junior League of St. Louis and Connections to Success to reach more people.

She developed the curriculum herself and says she enjoys coming up with workshop and activity ideas in her free time.

One of the program’s first workshops is on the importance of thank-you notes. “They’re an

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important part of business, and we often take for granted the skills it takes to properly compose one,” Brodsky says. Over the course of the lesson, students learn how beneficial writing a thank you is in the job market, and they practice writing and correctly addressing an envelope.

At the end, Brodsky gives everyone a thankyou note from her. “I think it’s important for these young women to personally experience receiving one and the feeling of validation that comes with it,” she says.

Brodsky is excited to expand Be Amazing!

Be You! Since its inception, she has funded the program herself, but she’s throwing her first fundraiser Dec. 6 at The Vault Luxury Resale in Brentwood. Guests can shop, and a portion of the store’s proceeds will benefit Be Amazing! Be You! The event will include live music, appetizers, drinks and a raffle. “I’m grateful for the opportunity to develop the program more than I could on my own,” Brodsky says.

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KHS

An information night for all 7th and 8th grade parents and students in the KHS attendance area.

October 4, 2018

6-6:30pm • KHS Information in the Denver Miller Gym KHS principals, department heads, athletic directors and coaches will answer questions about course and activity selection.

6:30-7pm • David Holley Assembly Hall Presentation by KHS Principal Dr. Mike Havener Join us for an evening of valuable information for you and your future KHS student.

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RUNWAY

Where did the summer go? Don’t get too sullen packing away your sundresses and swimsuits; there is plenty to be excited about with cooler temps. Although fall has not officially arrived, it has on the runway! Here are my favorites from an extensive list of trends. As always, a past decade is making a comeback: this time, it’s the ’80s.

Review your wardrobe to find out what you need (and what you just have to have). Happy shopping!

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The pantsuit aka the power suit doesn’t have to make you yawn. This fall, styles get even more spiced up with slits, patterns and embellishments; you’ll be sure to get your point of view across in any meeting.

2 STATEMENT DRESS

This print will make any head turn.

A fashionable dress is the perfect look for any season and an ideal choice for day or evening.

3 RUFFLES

Ruffles are everywhere! Paired with a sheer fabric, a dress becomes instantly romantic.

4 RED PHILOSOPHY

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5 OVERSIZED COAT

A puffy, printed coat is the perfect topper. Not your favorite silhouette?

Other options include a belted, doublebreasted or quilted style to keep you fashionably warm.

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Red of various shades is the power color of fall, day or night. Make it pop with anything in your closet.

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6 CABLE SWEATER/

FLORAL PRINT/ FULLER SKIRT

Combine these three trends for a fresh fall look. Top off a printed bottom with a bold, solid color (other than black if you can help it).

7 BELTED BAG

MICHAEL KORS

There’s always a new twist on the handbag of the season. It’s all in the details: belted and buckled in a crossbody style for a hands-free option.

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Everyone is mad for plaid, either in rich colors or the traditional muted tones of taupe and black. Wear it as a piece of your ensemble, or just as an accessory.

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DOROTHY TOWN by dorothy weiner

TABLE OF

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF WHEN YOU HEAR THE

words ‘public library’? Maybe musty shelves of books or the elderly coming in for large-print novels? But library fans know the local library is the best-kept secret out there—not that it wants to be a secret. It’s just that people nowadays aren’t particularly taken with printed word on paper—and are taken with the instant gratification of e-commerce. Need your next novel for book club? Amazon can have it at your door tomorrow (or you can get it on your tablet in seconds).

Want access to newly released movies or the hottest TV series?

That’s how satellite and cable services make their fortunes.

But your local library has all of that, too, and for free. Plus, it has lots more: genealogy workshops, writers’ support groups, authors’ speakers series, and book and movie meetings. And that’s just for adults—teens and kids get their own programs.

Founding father Benjamin Franklin started the first lending library in 1731 in Boston. It was a great concept then, as it is now. The idea is to make learning, research and discovery accessible to everyone. Last week, the St. Louis County Library brought in renowned author Stephen Fried, who spoke about his new book, Rush: Revolution, Madness, and Benjamin Rush, the Visionary Doctor Who Became a Founding Father. While you’d think this esoteric topic might not draw the crowd upcoming speaker Ellie Kemper will (Oct. 13), it was a packed room: around 250, by my count.

I randomly chose this speaker, but I’m glad I did.

Turns out Dr. Rush, the youngest signatory (age 30) of the Declaration of Independence, socialized with John Adams, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin et. al. His journals and correspondence give us a different perspective on them and current events of the time. Rush, a protege of Franklin, is considered the father of American psychiatry and published the first American textbook on mental illness. He was a leading abolitionist who wrote about the psychological pain of prejudice and medical adviser to the Lewis and Clark expedition. A Philadelphian who lived across the street from Alexander Hamilton (they didn’t get along), he ran the University of Pennsylvania medical school. As a Presbyterian in a Quaker state, he was a staunch advocate for the separation of church and state. His son Richard worked for four presidents and traveled to England for the funding that started the Smithsonian.

It’s amazing how much I learned in just one hour at the library. It makes me recall the response of a fellow book club member when she asked if I’d picked up that month’s book yet. I told her it was on hold for me at the library, to which she replied, “Oh, the library—why didn’t I think of that?”

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CUSTOM CARE SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson IF YOU’RE A WOMAN WITH UTERINE FIBROIDS, there’s a good chance you have grappled

with abdominal pain and pressure, abnormal bleeding, digestive issues, discomfort during sex or other related problems. Fibroids are benign growths of varying size inside or attached to the uterine wall, and symptoms can differ. It’s not clear what causes them, but they are a common problem, and SLUCare physicians offer important solutions for women who struggle with the condition.

SLUCare understands that each woman’s body, needs and preferences are different, so it provides a number of options for fighting fibroids, says gynecologist Dr. Brigid Holloran-Schwartz.

Depending on the patient’s needs, treatment plans may include medication, removal of individual growths, uterine fibroid embolization (UFE), endometrial ablation or hysterectomy. Treatment is based on factors like the size and number of growths, where they are located, symptoms, the patient’s age and health, and whether she plans to become pregnant.

“Fibroids can be the size of a pea and cause heavy bleeding, or they can be larger and not cause symptoms,” Holloran-Schwartz says. “Each patient’s situation is unique, so we create personalized treatment plans. Many women believe that heavy blood flow is just a part of life because their mothers or grandmothers had it, and they go through many tampons or pads each day or wake up to heavy bleeding. We want them to know there are solutions to these problems. They shouldn’t be afraid to wear white.”

Holloran-Schwartz says women come to SLUCare because their lives have been interrupted by troubling fibroid symptoms. Patients are encouraged to consult with a physician and find out which treatment options are best for them. Some women benefit from UFE, a minimally invasive procedure that involves passing a tiny catheter through an incision in the wrist. Then, small particles are injected to block vessels that feed the fibroids so they shrink from lack of blood supply.

This way, the uterus is preserved and continues to function normally, says SLUCare interventional radiologist Dr. Keith Pereira, whose department often partners with SLUCare gynecologists to provide fibroid treatment. UFE is an important option because many women aren’t done having children or don’t want a hysterectomy, he notes. “There is no hospital stay, any pain is well controlled, and patients can return to regular activity shortly afterward,” he says. “In four to six weeks, they normally see a significant decrease in their symptoms.”

SLUCare physicians are in tune with patients’ busy lifestyles and design treatment plans that allow them to return to job and family obligations as soon as possible. For example, a patient might have UFE done on a Thursday, rest over the weekend and return to most normal activities by Monday, Pereira says.

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must try

by jonathan carli | photo by bill barrett

THAI SOUP ▶ $4 Try both

THE BAO first impression »

This new Clayton spot is dedicated to its namesake, the bao (pronounced bow, like the front of a ship), a Chinese steamed bun.

I love the concept, and the decor is really cool, with a sleek bar vibe and gilded mirrors—not at all what you’d expect from a place serving basically Asian street food.

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Wash It Down:

The lounge atmosphere lends itself to sipping with your sandwiches, and there are plenty of inventive cocktails to choose from (plus a handful of beers and wines by the glass).

The Love Having Written ($ 7) blended sweet and fermented flavors in a gin concoction with dandelion liqueur and fermented apricot soda.

of them—they are delicious.

The chicken and rice version is salty and savory with plenty of cilantro and slivered chicken. The tofu soup has a sweet, coconut milk broth and pungent lime undertones, with mushrooms and tofu to give it substance. At this price for a good-sized bowl, they are totally amazing.

TAIWANESE DUMPLINGS ▶ $8 They arrive in a circle underneath a thin, crisp pancake. The delicate dough pockets are filled with ground chicken and veggies and release an array of flavors when dipped into their soy and vinegar sauce.

LAAB WINGS ▶ $8 Unlike

any chicken wings I’ve tasted.

Meaty and spicy from flavors like lemongrass, thai chili and kaffir lime leaves, they had a light crust of rice powder that made the texture pleasingly crisp. In flavor, they were exotic, with a bite.

CHAR SIU BAO ▶ $10

Combines yummy sweet flavors with red-barbecue pork. Chef Nisa York has added American sandwich flavors to all of her creations, like mayo and fried onions on this one. It also has the traditional raw ingredients— cucumber, scallion and cilantro— that cut the richness of the bun and meat.

KAKUNI BAO ▶ $10 Piled

with roasted pork belly, cilantro and pickled greens, the flavor is amazingly rich (there are chunks of fat in there). The pickled veggies help lighten it and add a wonderful vinegar note, as does a sweet, peanut sauce.

SOFT SHELL CRAB BAO ▶

$14 Too tempting to pass up! The panko-breaded delicacy sits on a soft bao spread with masago (Japanese mayo mixed with lime and Sriracha). And even though the breading is a little thick (and super crunchy) for the delicate legs, soft-shell crab is always a treat.

ICE CREAM BAO ▶ $7 I chose the green tea flavor; it's pan-fried to taste just like a doughnut, a really good one!

overall »

I really liked The BAO. It has a great vibe, casual but still upscale enough to make you feel like you’re out somewhere nice for the evening. And the prices are totally reasonable, with most sandwiches in the $10 to $14 range. Even with a drink or two (or an appetizer), you get a fun night out for about $30. And in Clayton, that’s a real deal.

Fried Chicken: panko chicken, cabbage, kizaki, bao sauce

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LEISURE

QUICK BITES by lindsay jones

Lemon Gem Kitchen Goods in The Grove is expected to close by the end of this month after almost two years in business. The store at 4180 Manchester Ave. sells cooking supplies, equipment and artisanal goods. Snax Gastrobar at 3500 Watson Road closed its doors recently.

Owners Stanley and Arlene Browne (who also own Robust in Webster Groves) cited a lack of business.

THE PIE HAS ARRIVED

— mitch frost: pizza sser extraordto inarei

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MITCH FROST and JOSEPH FAUL just opened a New York-style, late-night pizza joint called Pie Guy Pizza at 4189 Manchester Ave. The new dining spot is connected to Gezellig Tap House & Bottleshop and offers seating in both areas. Besides pizza by the slice (or just go for the whole thing!), the menu features salads and specialty items like pizza nachos and cheesy breadsticks.

A HAPPY MARRIAGE

FINALLY HERE After much anticipation, chef Gerard Craft’s

Cinder House has opened on the eighth floor of the Four Seasons Hotel. The restaurant space underwent a complete renovation and now features an outdoor bar area as well. The owner of Niche Food Group is basing his latest venture on wood-fired foods with a South American flair as a nod to his beloved childhood nanny, Dia. Tasty menu items for breakfast, lunch and dinner include a kimchi farro bowl, grilled chicken croquettes with Catupiry cheese and aji Amarillo sauce, and Dia’s cheese bread. Yum!

The St. Louis Repertory Theatre has a new dining partner in the wings. Café at The Rep is now home to Llywelyn’s Catering—aka Llywelyn’s Pub—joining nine other Llywelyn’s locations in St. Louis and Kansas City. The new venue will offer entrees, salads and sandwiches before shows. Reservations can be made at cafeattherep.llywelynscatering.com.

REASONS TO CELEBRATE

A couple of St. Louis venues are celebrating anniversaries! Hacienda Mexican Restaurant at 9748 Manchester Road just turned 50, and in honor of the milestone, it will host a 50-Year Fiesta Oct. 6 starting at 11 a.m., with all-day food and drink specials and live music. Meanwhile, Katie’s Pizza & Pasta Osteria in Town & Country just marked its first year in business.

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EVITA THE REP ▶ THROUGH SEPT. 30

MICHELLE ARAVENA PLAYS THE TITLE ROLE OF EVA PERÓN.

WHEN A POLITICAL FIGURE RISES FROM OBSCURITY and gains worldwide

attention, it’s often unclear what the real priorities are—the people’s interests or the leader’s. Such was the case with Eva Perón, wife of Argentinian president Juan Perón who took office in 1946 and swept Eva along on a tide of popularity. The Rep’s production of Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Evita, directed by Rob Ruggiero, highlights the contradictions of the deeply polarizing Eva, who stood up for women and the poor but also took full advantage of her fame.

Despite her humble beginnings, Eva speaks as if she’s a queen and the citizens are her subjects; supporters even glorify her as ‘Santa Evita.’ Her husband calls her “a diamond in their dull gray lives” and “the one who has kept us where we are.” Still, the production effectively balances Eva’s pride with glimpses of fragility and insecurity. She struggles to maintain a strong and beautiful facade for the people as her health fails and her world starts to crumble.

The musical was conceived as a rock opera, and the dialog is entirely sung, which makes some of it difficult to follow. But you have to admire the talent of actors who can memorize the music, lyrics and choreography of a challenging two-act play. Michelle Aravena is impressive in the title role, using her vocal talents and engaging presence to reincarnate the proud but vulnerable Eva. Pepe Nufrio is equally memorable as the young narrator Che, who winds his way through the story with humor and wit, calling out the ironies and conflicts in each scene. I thoroughly enjoyed Sean McLaughlin as the proud Juan, too—he has played

this role before as part of a national tour, and it shows. Gustavo Zajac’s choreography, Charlie Alterman’s music and Alejo Vietti’s costumes are truly captivating as well.

The show’s soaring second-act anthem, “Don’t Cry for Me, Argentina,” was thrilling to hear and brought back fond memories of a national production I saw years ago.

(The famous melody is woven cleverly into the music of act one, so the audience gets a tantalizing taste of it as soon as the story opens.) I loved the irony of Eva standing high above the crowd in a upcoming shows » sparkling white couture gown, singing “Don’t keep your distance,” when the Love Never Dies | Through Sept. 30 gulf between her and the people could A sequel to the smash hit, The Phantom of the not be more glaring.

Opera, at The Fabulous Fox Theatre The set is cleverly crafted and truly Oklahoma! | Through Oct. 7 conveys how Eva was viewed by her A Stages St. Louis production of the beloved supporters. You get a strong sense of musical at the Robert G. Reim Theatre her imposing personality from the huge propaganda image of her on the The Zombies of Penzance | Sept. 27-Oct. 20 backdrop, and a revolving section of New Line Theatre’s world premiere production the stage lends a dreamy quality to the at The Marcelle changing scenes. &

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HERMANN OKTOBERFEST

Art Saint Louis | Free 8 a.m.-4 p.m. Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Sat. 314.241.4810 | artstlouis.org

The all-male choir kicks off the St. Louis Cathedral Concert Series.

10/12 & 10/13

10/5

Soulard Farmers Market park $20 for Bier Hall admission soulard-oktoberfest.com

10/21

chanticleer

Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis $19-$42 | 8 p.m. | 314.533.7662 cathedralconcerts.org

SOULARD OKTOBERFEST

Arch grounds | Free 6:30-8 p.m. | gatewayarch.com

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Hermann, Mo. | Every weekend

Stargazing with telescopes and a ranger-led talk about what once stood on the Arch grounds: a French Colonial village, thriving riverfront port and warehouse district

Multimedia show featuring works by 34 regional artists

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Enjoy shopping specials, dining deals, live music and late-night bowling in The Loop. More than 20 businesses will extend their hours.

10/12-10/14

art in the park

Two-day juried exhibit presented by the Highland Arts Council Lindendale Park in Highland, Ill. | Free 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Sat., 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Sun. highlandartscouncil.org

The artist focuses on color and form in abstract painting.

Philip Slein Gallery | Free 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tues.-Sat. | 314.361.2617 philipsleingallery.com

The Grove | $5 donation encouraged 2-11 p.m. | thegrovestl.com

10/5-10/7

the illusionists

Magic tricks, stunts and other astonishing acts.

Downtown St. Louis | $15-$70 7 a.m. | gostlouis.org

disney’s the little mermaid

13th annual grove fest Food, crafts, fashion and art combine to create a wildly eclectic street festival.

The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra joins with other worldclass musicians to pay tribute to the rock legend.

Event includes a 1-mile Fun Run, 5K and 10K, plus a Trick or Treat Village for the kids.

10/18-10/21

10/6 andrea belag exhibit

4u: a symphonic celebration of prince

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $35-$125 | 7 p.m.

314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

The Loop | Free | 5 p.m. | visittheloop.com

through 10/13

10/14

the great go! st. louis halloween race

10/13

third annual south grand chalk walk

Sing, dance and swim with Ariel as Variety Theatre performs this beloved classic.

Blanche M. Touhill Performing Arts Center | $10-$18 | Times vary 314.720.7700 | varietystl.org

Artists of all ages and skill levels are invited to compete for up to $650 in cash prizes, plus other fun swag!

Ritz Park | Free | 10 a.m.-7 p.m.

314.772.5750 | southgrand.org

10/24 & 10/25

a bernstein thing

Darius de Haas, an original cast member of the musical Rent, celebrates the centennial of the birth of Leonard Bernstein.

Ferring Jazz Bistro | $35 and up | 7:30 p.m.

314.571.6000 | thecabaretproject.org

Fabulous Fox Theatre | Times vary $29 and up | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

10/13

10/26

10/6 & 10/7

This sixth annual event offers the best beers in St. Louis, plus wine, coffee, spirits and food.

The Pulitzer Prize-winning author will discuss his new book, Grant.

open studios STL

The Contemporary Art Museum connects the public with artists’ studios across the city.

Venues vary | Free | 10 a.m.-5 p.m. | camstl.org

10/12

celtic thunder

The internationally acclaimed group performs as part of its 10th anniversary tour.

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $46-$76 8 p.m. | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

brew in the lou festival

ron chernow

Maryville University Auditorium $25-$30 | 7 p.m. | 314.367.6731 left-bank.com/chernow

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by julia m. johnson IT’S A MILESTONE YEAR FOR THE GATESWORTH at One McKnight Place in

Ladue. The beautiful senior community has been providing residents with luxury living for 30 years now, and it’s continually evolving to serve their needs and preferences.

Geraldine Smith, mother of co-owner David Smith, has been enjoying life at The Gatesworth for two decades. She says what she loves best is that residents can feel free to be themselves and structure their time as they wish. “It’s wonderful that you can have your personal space here,” she notes. “There are plenty of activities if you’re feeling social, but if you’re not, that’s fine, too. I love to play bridge twice a week, and I go to almost all of the social events, but it’s also nice to be free when you want to.”

Smith says there is no such thing as a typical day at The Gatesworth. She attends Friday happy hours and enjoys daily diversions like live music. “There’s something going on every evening,” she notes. “I used to be an actress, so I love the entertainment.

I also enjoy getting off campus to attend Jewish services and visit family. I never thought I’d get to meet people from so many different backgrounds at this time in my life, but living here is really amazing.”

Vita von der Lancken says the community’s advantages are immediately apparent to new residents. She moved to The Gatesworth from Argentina several months ago and says she already is impressed by the high quality of life at her new home. “I’ve traveled quite a bit and stayed in many places, so I have a lot to compare it to, and it couldn’t be better, in my opinion,” she says. “It’s easy to make new friends, you can have anything you like in terms of dining, and I love the movies, music and lecture programs. You can do whatever activities make you happy, and it’s easy to find people who share your interests.”

CO-OWNER DAVID SMITH WITH RESIDENTS GERALDINE SMITH AND VITA VON DER LANCKEN

Von der Lancken says she visits The Gatesworth’s Spa One twice a week and enjoys water exercise programs at the pool. “There often is live jazz music, which I love,” she notes. “And I enjoy the diversity of residents; I recently made friends with a lady from Germany. It’s wonderful to learn about new people and meet them for tea or coffee.”

David Smith says residents have many opportunities to gain fulfillment by enriching other people’s lives. “Vita formed our first Spanish-speaking lunch table here, and she has developed a workout routine with a personal trainer,” he notes.

Smith says he and co-owners Charlie Deutsch and Bob Leonard are personally involved in making life enjoyable for residents. The owners’ offices are on-site, and they pride themselves on daily interaction with seniors and families. The Gatesworth has been named one of the top 10 senior living communities in the nation by Forbes magazine, and Smith says other providers often visit to learn from its success. There are a number of apartment configurations to choose from, and the many dining, social and entertainment options mean high levels of resident satisfaction. “Our executive director, Martha Kessel, has built a very strong, person-centered culture here,” Smith says.

Von der Lancken says ‘happy, content and grateful’ are the words she uses to describe her feelings about The Gatesworth. “If I were to speak to others who were considering living here, I would be very concise,” she says. “I’d simply tell them it’s the best decision they will ever make.” &

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“We believe you should never stop learning new things,” says director Katie Compton, who has overseen the institute for 11 years. “Not only do we give seniors a way to focus that learning, but coming to class also helps people organize their lives.”

Classes usually meet for two hours once a week; this fall, around 35 different courses will be offered. Compton says there’s something for everyone: current events, literature, economics, history and science. All classes are facilitated by volunteers and cost $150 per eight-week session.

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Located on the edge of University City near Olivette, Crown Center for Senior Living serves as a vibrant community hub, offering enriching art and other programs to residents and non-residents alike. “Our job as a senior community center is to make sure there is a safe, accessible place to go,” says planning director Megan Zimmerman. “We offer barrier-free opportunities for anyone 50 and above.” That means costs of classes are kept low (under $10 for supplies), and the space is agefriendly with bright lights and no stairs.

Currently, Crown Center is testing a new Artist in Residence program in partnership with COCA. Teaching artist Maria Ojascastro will work with Crown Center to plan, create and facilitate a range of visual art programs throughout the year.

“All evidence suggests that engagement in the arts has really positive health benefits for seniors, preventing depression and general decline,” Zimmerman says. “This new partnership will allow seniors with moderate incomes to discover new talents. It’s very exciting.”

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Because The Gatesworth retirement community knows well the importance of social interaction for seniors, its Friday evening Happy Hour has become a cherished ritual for residents. Each week the scenes in both the Lakeview Lounge and the West Wing Bar are just what you’d expect of any good watering hole—live music (keyboards and ‘cocktail’ piano, respectively), half-price drinks and a spread of tasty hors d’oeuvres. But these things come second to the conviviality between guests, says Kathy Davis, resident program director. “This is a very special social scene, with residents chatting and laughing with their Gatesworth friends and welcoming family members who wouldn’t miss this happy occasion,” she says.

Davis adds that numerous studies show that socialization—having a sense of belonging and acceptance—is important no matter your age. But it's even more so as we get older. “A recent research study by Harvard University showed that older adults who had active social lives were happier, healthier and more likely to live longer than those who did not,” she notes. “Loneliness can negatively impact an elderly person’s life, while socializing can enrich it. That’s the impetus of everything we try to achieve in programming for our residents.”

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CRITICAL CARE ST. LOUIS WOCN by julia m. johnson IF YOU WERE ILL OR INJURED WITH A WOUND THAT WOULDN’T HEAL, would

you know where to turn for advice, treatment and relief? Chronic wounds may not be the most talked-about health care topic, but they are a common occurrence according to St. Louis WOCN, the local affiliate of the Wound, Ostomy and Continence Nurses Society. These wounds seriously impact quality of life, and their ongoing care may not be covered by insurance.

Founded 50 years ago, the local chapter has specially trained nurses who volunteer their time with patients in any setting, including homes, hospitals, rehab clinics and nursing centers, says Katie James, BA, RN, CWCN, president of the St. Louis affiliate.

They care for people with bedsores, wounds due to injuries, skin ulcers, ostomies and other conditions, as well as those dealing with urinary or fecal incontinence. (An ostomy is an opening in the abdomen that allows waste to drain from the bladder or intestines.)

Besides providing compassionate bedside care, the nurses also offer education for patients, families and health providers, helping to speed the healing process and prevent complications. “Almost any person with a chronic illness can have chronic wounds,” says local president-elect Retta Sutterfield, RN, MSN, ACN-BS, CWOCN. “We assist patients in a variety of ways and serve as their advocates. We help improve their nutrition, keep the skin clean and dry, make sure they move regularly, monitor their mental health, and use preventive measures to avoid problems. We work closely with everyone from medical professionals to staff who maintain the beds.”

Patients often are in wheelchairs and may be dealing with conditions like heart failure, rheumatoid arthritis and lupus, she notes. Urinary incontinence and diabetic foot ulcers are common as well. People with ostomies and wounds often need help

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learning to care for themselves, and they can ask to be referred to WOCN for assistance.

Sutterfield says the St. Louis chapter’s largest event of the year is Woundstock, a oneday conference with accredited education for nurses in the field, and it hosts another educational conference called Ostomy Continence Together. The organization also provides scholarships for nurses seeking WOCN certification.

Becoming certified requires a bachelor’s degree, RN certification, rigorous didactic and clinical experience, testing and five-year recertification. The requirements are strict because the nurses provide such important, highly specialized care, James says.

“There is no physician specialty dealing with wound care, so we are the experts and educators on the subject,” she notes. “Every month, we meet to discuss best practices, challenging cases and how to best serve our patients.” The organization works closely with others like the United Ostomy Associations of America and the National Pressure Ulcer Advisory Panel to stay current on care practices and education.

About 90 WOCN nurses work in the St. Louis region, and they improve quality of life for wound, ostomy and continence patients every day. “There are 6.7 million people in the U.S. with nonhealing wounds and 450,000 with ostomies,” James says.

“Studies show that when patients work with a certified wound nurse, pressure injuries like bedsores occur about half as often. That’s how big of a difference we can make.” &

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The expression ‘gut feeling’ may be more literal than you think.

Afua Bromley, a licensed acupuncturist and alternative medicine practitioner at Acupuncture St. Louis & Wellness Center, says the connection between the digestive system and mental and emotional health is evident. “It was long speculated that the majority of neurotransmitters are in the brain, but they are actually in the digestive tract,” she explains. “Around 90 percent of the body’s serotonin is made in the gut.” Since serotonin is considered

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Knowing where your food comes from is becoming more prevalent on the dining scene and at home. With many restaurants promoting locally sourced cuisine, is this the future of food or just a trend? For Hayley Sohn, founder of Basically It Meals, focusing on local produce is something everyone should aim to do. “It’s a great way to ensure food is nutritionally dense,” she says. “When food has to be shipped long distances, it’s often picked before it’s ripe to ensure it doesn’t go rotten, but a local grower is going to wait until it’s ripe and at its best.” Amy Knoblock-Hahn, Ph.D., of Whole Food Is Medicine adds that while a food’s growing location may not directly affect your health, the environmental impact is worth considering. “If you buy strawberries in January, you know they didn’t come from a local farm,” she says. “Did they travel on a truck or an airplane? What impact did that transportation have on things like air quality? It’s important to know how far your food traveled to get to you.”

Locally sourcing food can give you a better understanding of how it’s grown as well. Knoblock-Hahn notes that the 'organic' label from the United States Department of Agriculture has several requirements that growers have to meet to be certified. The process is very costly, which is why these products have higher price

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a natural mood stabilizer, what people eat could have major positive or negative impacts on depression, anxiety and other mental health concerns.

In studies, eating plans like the Mediterranean and traditional Japanese diets have been shown to reduce the risk of depression by 25 to 35 percent. Bromley says the reasons for this are manifold.

“These diets include many fermented foods, which provide helpful bacteria that keep the gut microbiome balanced and help with neurotransmitters like serotonin,” she says. “They also feature nutrient-rich vegetables and fruits, fresh seafood and healthy oils that are great for brain function.” She adds that these diets don’t include a lot of processed foods or sugars, which is better for digestion and causes less inflammation in the gut.

As for what foods to avoid, Bromley notes that it’s more about moderation than permanently excising them from your diet. She recommends limiting the amount of processed foods and sugars especially, adding that processing even the healthiest ingredients can remove their benefits. “Sugar used minimally is OK, but heavy use with processed grains and not enough vegetables isn’t good for you,” she says. “It’s not just what you eat, but how often you eat it.”

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tags in stores, but smaller, local growers often meet the requirements without the label. “They may have skipped the time and monetary costs of certification, but you can meet with them and learn how they grow their food,” she says. “It’s a way to buy organic while supporting local farmers and paying less.” Good farming practices to look

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SOURCING LOCAL BUY SEASONALLY. Sohn says buying local doesn’t

It’s important to know how far your food traveled to get to you.

have to mean changing your shopping routine. She suggests looking for what’s in season at your grocery store because it’s more likely to be locally grown. Local chains like Schnucks and Dierbergs have added labels to let customers know which products are local.

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available to talk to you about their practices, so you can learn more about the produce you’re buying.

JOIN A CSA. Community Supported Agriculture

out for include using alternatives to pesticides to reduce bugs and mold, composting to ensure soil is nutrient-rich, and regularly rotating crops to prevent soil depletion, according to Sohn.

(CSA) delivers local, seasonal food directly to consumers. Memberships or subscriptions are purchased from local farms, and regular boxes of fresh produce are delivered or picked up throughout the growing season. Knoblock-Hahn suggests visiting localharvest.com to find CSA options in and around St. Louis.

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One in every 100 people in the U.S. has celiac disease, and researchers estimate that only 20 percent of people with the condition receive a diagnosis.

For those affected by the autoimmune disorder, gluten (a protein found in wheat, rye, barley and other grains) causes damage and inflammation in the small intestine. A strict, gluten-free diet is the only way to manage the condition, which means abstaining from gluten-containing grains or ingredients derived from them. To help consumers with celiac disease feel more confident in their food choices, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has created the following guidelines: Foods labeled gluten free cannot include any gluten-containing grain or ingredients derived from them if they were not processed to remove gluten.

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The gluten-free label is voluntary, not a requirement. Naturally gluten-free items like bottled water and fresh fruits, vegetables and seafood may not have it despite adhering to the guidelines. ○

The FDA’s gluten regulations do not apply to foods and products regulated by the U.S. Department of Agriculture and the Alcohol and Tobacco Tax and Trade Bureau. This includes meats, poultry, certain egg products and most alcoholic beverages. ○

Imported foods that are subject to FDA regulations must meet the same guidelines to receive the label. ○

While the final rule applies to packaged foods only, the FDA says restaurants claiming menu items are gluten free should be consistent with its definition.

THE FUTURE OF TREATMENT While the only management option currently for celiac disease is a gluten-free diet, exciting advancements in treatment are on the horizon. From reversing the autoimmune response to breaking down gluten, there are a variety of areas showing promising research.

NEXVAX2: ImmusanT is working on inducing immune tolerance to gluten through

a vaccine that programs T-cells to no longer trigger a pro-inflammatory response to gluten. If it is successful, people with the disease would be able to enjoy an unrestricted diet and improved health.

LARAZOTIDE ACETATE (INN-202): Innovate Biopharmaceuticals is developing

a drug to regulate tight junctions, which are disrupted when people with celiac disease consume gluten. Tight junctions seal the paracellular pathway and prevent leakage of transported solutes and water. When they are open or ‘leaky,’ it causes inflammation in the intestines. Ingested orally before meals, INN-202 may help keep tight junctions closed, therefore reducing the inflammatory response to gluten.

LATIGLUTENASE (IMGX003): This treatment is a mixture of two gluten-

specific enzymes that break the protein into small, harmless fragments. Developed by ImmunogenX, IMGX003 has been shown to improve symptoms and reduce damage to the intestines in clinical trials.

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from the homeowners » THERE’S A LOT OF HISTORY BEHIND this 95-year-old home, formerly owned by a member of the Schlafly family. The current owners, Russell and Ann Perry, say they bought it because they wanted to preserve it as an important architectural feature of the neighborhood.

After extensive renovations, the house is ready for its next chapter, Russell says. “We fell in love with this home and its past,” he notes. “We even have original pictures from when it was built; they are framed and hanging on the wall.”

What is the neighborhood like?

There are only 11 homes on the street, so it’s quiet and private. But it’s also very connected to things like schools and the country club, which are within walking distance.

Did you try to preserve the home’s original style?

Yes. We love that it features cedar shake siding, which you don’t see a lot of in this area. There are new windows, drywall, HVAC system, electrical and plumbing, and pretty much everything else about the interior is new, but we have kept the same exterior look. We wanted to stay with the character of the homes on this secluded lane.

Did you discover anything interesting during renovation?

There is an apartment over the garage with a kitchen and bath and a great

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What are some of your favorite features?

There’s a separate little building at the back of the property, which we also remodeled. It’s about 800 square feet What are some other key changes and has a small patio. It would be perfect you made? as an art studio, office or workout We vaulted all of the ceilings on the room. We also love the kitchenette and second floor to incorporate new dormer fireplace just off the pool area; it’s a windows and make the spaces open and great space for entertaining. And the airy. There’s a new swimming pool with lot this home sits on is beautiful. pool house, and we also redesigned the driveway and added a three-car garage What else do you want the next owner in a carriage-house style. We converted to know? one of the bedrooms to a loft, which With our renovations, we tried to would be great as a kid’s room. And we create the look and feel of a beautiful decided a formal dining room was no but practical vacation home. We love longer needed, so we incorporated that that you can use every inch of this space into the kitchen to open things house; everything was done with that up and added a marble island and idea in mind. fireplace. These days, parties always

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SIMPLY PUT, THE LOSS OF A HOME IS

A TRAGEDY. Along with beloved material

items, people lose a safe space where they created treasured memories. But for one couple, a devastating event became an exciting opportunity to begin a new chapter. After losing their home to a fire, they seized the opportunity to trade their suburban lifestyle for the hustle and bustle of city life. The two gave T&S a peek inside the Clayton condo that has become their perfect piece of urban living.

WE WANTED TO BE CLOSER TO ALL OF THE THINGS ST. LOUIS HAS TO OFFER—THE LIVELINESS AND THE PEOPLE.

Q | ARE YOU FROM ST. LOUIS? A | Not originally, but my husband and I lived in Chesterfield for 37 years before moving to Clayton in 2017.

Q | WHAT BROUGHT YOU TO CLAYTON? A | Our house in Chesterfield caught fire, and while it didn’t burn completely, it had to be demolished. Thankfully, we weren’t at home, but it was quite the shock to get the call. That was in March 2017; it happened on Ash Wednesday, of all days. The fire was a big impetus for the move, but we’d been thinking about buying a condo for a while. My husband and I travel a lot and have spent most of

our time in large cities, including living in Paris for a year, so we’re attracted to more urban environments. We wanted to be closer to all of the things St. Louis has to offer—the liveliness and the people. We were looking forward to something different.

Q | WHAT INITIALLY ATTRACTED YOU TO THE CONDO? A | We liked the size; it’s about 3,000 square feet. It’s also really open with a lot of windows, so there is plenty of nice, natural light. I especially think the wide entryway makes it feel spacious and welcoming. It also feels more like

a house than a condo, which is a big positive. It’s two stories, and we have a very large deck, so we can enjoy outdoor activities. We just liked so many things about it.

Q | THE PROPERTY IS A UNIQUE PRAIRIE STYLE. WAS THAT ONE OF THE DRAWS? A | Actually, it wasn’t because I have traditional taste. As a person who likes antiques and Colonials, the exterior wasn’t my favorite in the beginning. I liked the inside because it is more traditional, but I’ve grown to appreciate the outside.

Now, I think it’s quite handsome.

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Q | HAVE YOU DONE ANY RENOVATIONS? A | Yes. We didn’t move walls or anything too drastic, but quite a bit has been updated. Most of the kitchen has been retrofitted, along with two bathrooms.

There’s new flooring and carpeting throughout. We put in molding, and a lot of carpentry work was done.

We’re very, very happy with the results.

Q | I SEE YOU BROUGHT YOUR TRADITIONAL STYLE TO THE INTERIOR. A | That was our intention. We may not have been able to change the outside, but the inside could be what we made it. So it’s traditional while still being open, airy and light, which I love. It’s very uncluttered, with classic furnishings and paintings; that’s always been our style.

We lost a lot of things in the fire, but we were able to save some. With new items, we kept the style we like.

It’s a little antique while also being fresh.

Q | ANY STORIES BEHIND THE ANTIQUES? A | We have a grandfather clock that we brought back from Paris. We discovered it at a flea market during our first few months there and found a spot for it in our apartment. We had it sent over when we came back to the U.S. After the fire, it had to be restored. We really wanted to save it, and the people who worked on it did a wonderful job. We’re just delighted that it has a place in our new home.

Q | WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ROOM IN THE CONDO? A | I believe it’s the study off the living room. It’s very cozy, and we spend a lot of our time there. The walls are lined with books, which are one of my husband’s passions. We lost a lot of our book collection in the fire, but he’s replaced nearly all of it. We really enjoy the space.

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800 S. Hanley Road #8D • Clayton • $2,350,000 Amazing opportunity to own one of two amazing penthouse units in this sought-after Clayton building. The Residence is walkable to all the popular Clayton spots while offering a doorman, beautiful common spaces, guest suites, exercise room and pool. This expansive unit features views all the way to the arch from a large terrace off the main open concept living space. Multi-functional laundry room is steps from the top of the line kitchen with island and both have large commercial grade skylights. The master suite and office are at one end of the unit with three additional ensuite bedrooms, work out room and den on the other plus two powder rooms. Other features include stunning custom built-ins and moldings, 10ft+ ceilings, two storage units and five parking spaces. Spectacular home with incredible space, a must see.

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Wonderfully remodeled, perfectly-sized home with coveted open floor plan on the main level including a large, modern kitchen with center island, gracious living room, informal den/office, large dining room, fantastic mudroom/main floor laundry and lovely deck overlooking backyard. Oversized master suite upstairs, will wow you with two walk-in closets and luxury bath with two sinks, soaking tub, and walk-in shower. Plus, two more huge bedrooms and a remodeled full bath. The lower level has another full bath, recreation room, and access to the modern, oversized two-car garage.

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9757 Old Warson Road • Ladue

With a most exclusive address and location, this architect designed home built in the late 20th century blends old world sensibility with both modern and repurposed materials. Think, updated Cotswold cottage with elements of the iconic Mission style. Dramatic, one of a kind, details include custom hewn paneled doors, artistic windows, wood floors, craftsman staircase and millwork. Main floor master suite with large luxurious bath, private library, terrace and his and hers closets. Delightful second floor with four additional bedrooms offering dormer ceilings that will thrill family and guests.

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Fabulous fairytale-like home embodies beautiful charm and impeccable finish. Lovely living room features floor to ceiling windows, wonderful millwork and gleaming wood floors.

Spacious kitchen offers high-end appliances and built-in desk. Well-appointed dining room includes French doors leading to the deck and opens to large family room, one of two found on the main level. Upstairs you will find five generous bedrooms each with walk-in closets and direct access to one of the four baths plus the laundry room.

Magnificent master suite boasts two closets and delightful view of the wonderful yard. Finished lower level, 4-car garage, and several improvements make this a must see.

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DEAR HOMEWORK,

We are looking to rebuild the front patio of our 1931 home. Over 24 years, we have lovingly restored every other component of our house, but the entrance needs extensive repairs. We like how the semicircular shape adds interest to the sharpness of the facade, but we are open to ideas. We’re wondering if we should incorporate lighting into the pillars and change the landscaping. Can you help us give one last face-lift to this ol’ girl?

Sincerely, —COLONIAL CLASSIC

DEAR COLONIAL CLASSIC,

Your home has great bones—nice materials and details. I especially like the working shutters and their slight misalignment, which lets you know that they are real.

I understand what you mean about the shape adding interest while softening the overall severity. I wonder if a delicate, curved, columned porch with a metal, mushroom cap roof might be a more effective way of bringing that interest to the entire façade. A curved terrace helps, but this is much more memorable.

As far as the landscaping, you basically have it right already, but if I were to change things, I would lower the horizontal hedges quite a bit to make the house look taller and put upright evergreens just past the corners for vertical accents. The ivy that you have edging the walkway and terrace works fine, but Liriope grass is another option.

At any rate, thanks for taking such good care of the ol’ girl.

Hope this is useful, —HOMEWORK

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THE TREASURE ▶ A pair of antique saddle birthing chairs (one is pictured)

THE STORY ▶ I bought these saddle chairs for $10 at Selkirk in 1998. I was told that back in the day, they were birthing chairs.

I love them because they go perfectly in our wanna-be Ralph Lauren/Hermès family room.

WHAT THE PROFESSIONALS SAY ▶ Birthing chairs have

been around for more than 3,000 years. While these two do not come from ancient Egypt, they still hearken back to a time when a trip to the hospital might have been more than a new mom could undertake. Some industrious craftsman made them out of wood and a pair of saddles quite a long time ago.

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