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22 boys & girls clubs of greater st. louis

Staff, board members, volunteers and supporters were celebrated for their commitment to the nonprofit at its annual recognition event. Pictured from left: Precious Johnson, Cardin Dean Rackley, Mark Collins III, Jennifer Waters-Jones, Kahalia Adams, BGCSTL president Flint Fowler, Ph.D.

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The nonprofit opened a new respite house for people with disabilities in Webster Groves. The only program of its kind in St. Louis, Oak Tree Respite allows emergency and planned visits for up to eight guests and provides temporary alternative care, allowing full-time caregivers to take much-needed breaks.

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THE MAGIC HOUSE ENGAGES CHILDREN THROUGH UNIQUE, HANDS-ON LEARNING EXPERIENCES. THE MUSEUM’S FUNDRAISER, THE MAGIC BALL: FOREVER YOUNG, IS OCT. 11 AT STIFEL THEATRE. PICTURED ON THE COVER: SALLY SCHOENECKER, ALLISON SCHILLING, LINDA HUNTER, BARBIE FREUND, BETH FITZGERALD, JAMIE DOCKMAN. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.822.8900 OR VISIT MAGICHOUSE.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY

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Steve Woolf’s tenure as The Rep’s artistic director may have come to an end, but his legacy will continue thanks to a fundraising campaign that raised $1 million. The money will support programming at Emerson Studio Theatre, and the season will be renamed the Steve Woolf Studio Series.

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Lion’s Choice donated a former restaurant building to the nonprofit, which builds self-reliance, socal equality and civil rights throughout the region. Urban League will use the site to build a food service training center.

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FROM THE associate EDITOR Female athletes in this country give us tons of reasons to cheer about their achievements. This year, we have watched the U.S. Women’s National Soccer Team triumph at the World Cup and seen viral videos of gymnast Katelyn Ohashi stunning crowds with her acrobatic routines. And we’ve marveled at 15-year-old tennis prodigy Coco Gauff, the youngest player to make it to Wimbledon in the modern age.

This week, we shine a spotlight on women in golf, another sport that requires dedication and focus. The local chapter of the LPGA Amateur Golf Association helps women succeed and thrive on the course, offering opportunities to network, practice and build skill sets. Membership is open to women of all backgrounds, and there are clinics to help players boost their knowledge of the game. The organization also raises money to support affordable golf programs for kids and adults in the area.

The LPGA Amateur Golf Association has been helping women golfers achieve success for 20 years. That’s a milestone worth celebrating! If you are interested in knowing more about the local organization, check out our feature story in this issue.

And if you’re looking for fun golf-related events to attend around town this summer, take a look at our Save the Date page. It features charity tournaments led by the St. Louis Italian Open, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation and World Pediatric Project. What could be better than swinging a club for a worthwhile cause?

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Advanced Nursing Services Owner Maggie Holtman and her grandchildren.

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greater when the party is for a local institution dedicated to educating and entertaining children.

This year on Oct. 16, The Magic House, St. Louis Children’s Museum, will turn 40. Located in Kirkwood, the museum is committed to engaging children through thought-provoking, imaginative exhibits and play experiences in an interactive environment.

President Beth Fitzgerald has been part of the organization since its inception. “It’s been exciting to see how The Magic House has grown and evolved,” she says.

Many people who worked with the museum at its start are still involved, including co-founder Barbie Freund and the first board president, Sally Schoenecker.

“Quite a few people have been here for three decades or more, and despite changes, our mission remains the same,” Fitzgerald says.

“We strive to provide hands-on educational experiences so kids have the opportunity to learn and play together.”

Renovations are currently under way as part of the multiyear campaign, Reimagining Our Future. “One of our goals is to really improve our facility,” Fitzgerald says. “We’ve done a lot of general updates, including new carpeting, wall coverings and furniture. You’d never guess the museum is 40 years old. It looks brand new.” Bigger changes include connecting the north and south wings for better circulation and easier access and adding new exhibits, including the World Traveler Gallery and Emerson THE NEW EMERSON STEAM CENTER ALLOWS KIDS TO EXPERIMENT AND LEARN. STEAM Center. Fitzgerald adds that the museum also has updated its exterior spaces. “It’s important to have opportunities for outdoor play, and we want to encourage children and their families to go outside,” she says.

Another facet of the Reimagining Our Future campaign is community outreach. The museum’s Access for All initiatives make it possible for children from underserved areas to visit and explore.

Free programming and field trips are available for Title 1 schools or those where 50 percent or more of the student population receives free or reduced lunch. Big Brothers Big Sisters participants also receive complimentary memberships, as do all foster families in the state of Missouri.

Fitzgerald says the organization’s key outreach programs include satellite locations. “We want to get The Magic House into communities that will benefit most from our unique educational experiences,” she explains. In the past, temporary locations offered summer programming in the Ritenour and Jennings school districts, but the museum recently launched its first permanent satellite, The Magic House @ MADE on Delmar Boulevard in the city of St. Louis. Created in partnership with the Cortex Innovation Community and MADE STL, the location serves as a maker space for kids to create anything from a clay sculpture to a working robot. “Learning how to build something from start to finish helps kids become good problem solvers,” Fitzgerald notes.

To raise money to support its numerous initiatives, the museum’s friend organization will host its largest annual fundraiser, The Magic Ball, Oct. 11 at Stifel Theatre. The theme, Forever Young, commemorates The Magic House’s milestone anniversary. Magician Michael Carbonaro will perform, and presentations will highlight the museum’s past and future. “The focus is only partially on celebrating The Magic House’s history,” Fitzgerald notes. “For the past 40 years, we’ve been on the cutting edge of children’s education. We will continue to grow and evolve to meet the needs of children and families of all generations.” &

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Lower-income seniors’ dreams of a pleasant and affordable place to live out their retirement years have come to fruition. The ribbon has been cut at Covenant Place, opening the second section of a planned threephase, $84 million project on the grounds of The J in Creve Coeur. The Cahn Family Building, at four stories and 111,697 square feet, features 102 affordable onebedroom apartments. Notable is the Mirowitz Center with HJ’s Café—a 19,000-square-foot community center serving the needs of Covenant Place residents and older adults throughout the county. By design, Mirowitz brings healthcare providers and community resources together in a single location. The new complex features a bank, access to the county library bookmobile, and other amenities including: • Washington University Geriatric Primary Care Physicians • RPI Therapy Services • Center for Hearing and Speech programs • Aging Ahead programs and services • Social spaces and meeting places for classes, programs and events Whenever space is available, low-income residents are welcome, with rent based on income. About 88 percent of Covenant I residents and 99 percent of Covenant II residents have annual incomes of less than $30,000.

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Two of the most familiar sculptures in the metro are about as different as ice and fire: A bas-relief image on an expansive, vertical brick surface and an undulating steel form on a pedestal. But the same man—the late Saunders ‘Sandy’ Schultz—created them both, among dozens of other abstract pieces throughout the StL. Schultz was not merely prolific; he was indefatigable, and kind of a daredevil. For decades, westbound motorists on Hwy. 40 and Forest Park Boulevard have passed a striking image on the 27-story Council Tower senior apartments, erected in 1969. FiniteInfinite, the bas-relief work, is celebrating its 50th anniversary this year. It’s a series of swooping curves that evoke the Gateway Arch two miles to the east.

Well, Schultz went even bigger than the Arch—his imagination encompassed another iconic artwork, God’s hand reaching out to touch Adam (from Michelangelo’s ceiling in the Sistine Chapel). To create the architectural sculpture, Schultz started

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some 230 feet in the air, descending on a platform anchored to the roof. He created drawings for the men working with hammer and chisel to carve his curvilinear vision. By 2007, the piece had deteriorated and bricks were falling away, but the building was restored inside and out in 2012. Technology made the design easier to recreate, and Schultz no doubt was grateful to participate with his feet on terra firma this time. He was 90 years old and passed away five years later.

A few miles to the west, Continuum is Schultz’s nearly two-ton stainless steel piece on a waterburbling marble pedestal.

It graces the entrance to Caleres headquarters at 8300 Maryland Ave. in Clayton. This was the artist’s last original work, completed when he was 88. (Miss the huge, whimsical, aluminum ladies’ shoe fashioned from dozens of life-size silver pumps that formerly occupied the spot? Fret not. It’s been relocated farther west in front of the complex.) Sponsored by St. Louis Mercantile Library at UMSL, a free exhibit, Saunders Schultz: Visionary Abstractions, runs through Jan. 1 in Meier Hall at One University Boulevard. Schultz’s oeuvre will astonish you; visit saundersschultz.com to see how many other pieces you may not realize you’ve already seen.

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The hits just keep on coming in the ongoing federal investigation of Steve Stenger, former county exec and now felonious former politician, and his collaborators.

Stenger had pleaded not guilty at the outset, as had

John G. Rallo, the one-time high-flying exec who was awarded lucrative contracts in return for substantial donations to Stenger’s campaign. Now a Salt Lake City resident, Rallo changed his tune, pleading guilty to federal fraud charges. That means, including the disgraced county executive, Rallo is the fourth co-conspirator to fall hard. He could spend around two years in prison. Also in very hot water for their roles in the elaborate criminal scheme are Sheila Sweeney, former CEO of the St. Louis Economic Development Partnership, and Bill Miller, who was Stenger’s chief of staff. Sentencings are scheduled on different dates this fall. Prison time is possible for any and all of those convicted, as well as steep financial penalties and restitution. Gives one cause to wonder whether Dr. Sam Page, Stenger’s successor, has complained that you just can’t get good help anymore.

Of course, you recall Better Together, the concerted effort to merge St. Louis city and county. We were among many who may have called it harebrained, or something even less complimentary. After Stenger— the plan’s so-called (and would-be) ‘metro mayor’— and his cronies shot themselves in their own feet, the merger plans landed with a thud and may not get off the mat for another century.

TALK OF THE TOWNS TRIVIA | WHAT’S THE FAMILY ATTRACTION AT LAMP & LANTERN VILLAGE THAT MANY CONSIDER TO BE WEST COUNTY’S ANSWER TO THE MAGIC HOUSE IN KIRKWOOD? LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | BUZZ ALDRIN FOLLOWED NEIL ARMSTRONG ONTO THE LUNAR SURFACE ON JULY 20, 1969.

MICHAEL COLLINS PILOTED COLUMBIA, THE COMMAND MODULE, IN LUNAR ORBIT UNTIL THE OTHER TWO ASTRONAUTS RETURNED IN THE LUNAR MODULE WITH 47 LBS. OF ROCKS AND SOIL. THEY’D SPENT 21 HOURS AND 30 MINUTES ON THE MOON. AFTER EIGHT DAYS IN SPACE (THE MISSION BLASTED OFF FROM CAPE KENNEDY ON JULY 16), THEY SPLASHED DOWN IN THE PACIFIC ON JULY 24, 1969 …

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Mary Tuttle-Gallow was a force of nature. Her sense of taste and unbridled energy inspired customers and employees alike. Mary Tuttle’s, the floral and gift boutique she established in 1984 at Lamp & Lantern Village, is celebrating its 35th anniversary. It’s now located at 17021 Baxter Road in Chesterfield Valley, and you can see the towering Top Golf complex right across the way on Highway 40. Life in the Valley used to be more bucolic and less crowded than it is now, recalls Angela Carter, Mary’s daughter, who runs the day-to-day with her stepdad, Howard Gallow. “Years ago, it was pretty much just The Smokehouse and Annie Gunn’s in this area,” she recalls, a hint of disbelief on her face. Outlet malls, the ‘world’s longest strip center,’ office buildings and restaurants have sprung up like weeds. But fine flowers have been Mary Tuttle’s core business since Angela’s mom got wooed away from Dierbergs’ floral department, in part by a client who believed she had something special to offer on her own and decided to invest in her success. “For a while, she thought about keeping both stores open,”

says Angela. Lamp & Lantern Village experienced a resurgence in the past few years, but it was on the decline in the mid-1980s. Amelia’s, a companion linen business to Mary Tuttle’s, operated two doors down; today it’s a ‘store within a store’ that, even to the most manly of men, smells absolutely heavenly. Many males seem to wind up in a trance there; they can’t help but stay a while because there’s myriad finery for mom, wives or girlfriends and fun stuff for kids. You’ll also find fine furniture, dishware, glassware, and some of the funniest greeting cards ever.

Angela, of course, started working in the shop as a teen and began making deliveries as soon as she could drive.

A former associate notes that Angela’s approach to longtime clients and walk-ins alike is almost eerie: She knows everyone’s name, their kids’ and spouses’ names, and their birthdays. It seems like she has a database in her head. This may be a result of having worked 10 years as an HR exec for one of the region’s biggest banks, but more likely, Mary’s same attention to detail is in her DNA. Even when deathly ill, Mary was a near-constant presence at the store; she fully intended to get right back to it once she left the hospital, but she passed away in

February 2017. Howard, married to Mary for more than 30 years, called her “a real go-getter.” He even tried to retire from highway construction … for a while. “Now I’m back at it,” he says, grinning and shaking his head.

“She was the hardest-working woman I ever met in my life, and I had women working for me in construction.”

Mary’s partner in crime was Michael Horwedel, who still handles the display work. “They were like brother and sister,” says Angela. Did Mary always share his vision?

Well, kind of. “Even if she liked something, she probably didn’t like everything about it,” her daughter notes. Mary was a dreamer, literally and figuratively. At the end of one day, she was imagining the next. If creatively stuck, she would say, “Let me dream on it.” Angela smiles: “It would always be a great idea.” Visit marytuttlesflowers.com to learn more. &

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INAUGURAL SHOW-ME DOWNTOWN EVENT AT STIFEL THEATRE, highlighting new developments and initiatives in the heart of the city. Guests were treated to performances by Little Dylan and Kennedy Holmes (pictured, with St. Louis Blues mascot Louie), and speakers presented about upcoming planning efforts.

Blues icemen and the team’s recently retired anthem singer, Charles Glenn, made appearances as well.

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You might assume I have a desk and computer there, but I don’t. I am writing this on my laptop at home while drinking coffee and eating a muffin. Anyway, I had a half-hour to kill and needed a place to eat my lunch.

I stopped by The Woman’s Exchange and picked up a sliced chicken sandwich and chocolate chip cookie.

I know everyone raves about their salads, but really, their chicken sandwiches are the way to go. I ate the cookie for an appetizer as I drove to the office (answering the question I always ask my doctor, “Why can’t I lose weight?”). The T&S editorial department shares one office, so I plopped myself down and started eating and chatting. They are a nice, fun group and never seem to criticize, but they mentioned that lately, my columns had been a bit dark. I seemed to talk about death quite a bit. Hmmm. Then I said that I wanted to get a new picture taken for my column because my hair is longer now, and someone who I won’t name, but who always writes the editor’s letter, said my hair looked cute short.

I left the office wondering if I was a Never Happy.

If any of you watched Arrested Development, you may remember one of the characters, Tobias, was afraid of being naked, so he was part of a group called the Never Nudes. I wondered if there was a cult called Never Happy, and I should join it. And well, my hair, I’ve mentioned before that it’s false advertising. From behind, my long hair makes me look younger, but sadly, when I turn around, the person often is surprised to see my almost 60-year-old face. Was it time for me to get a sensible bob again?

As I left to go to my physical therapy session, I had a lot to think about. But first, I should explain why I’m going to physical therapy. A few weeks ago, my husband and I were in Chicago to help my daughter move into her apartment. We met friends for dinner at a restaurant about a mile away. Because of Chicago parking, it’s usually easier to walk. As we got near the restaurant, my husband pointed to a guy on a hoverboard who was texting and said, “That’s an accident waiting to happen.” And with that, I tripped on the sidewalk and fell. It was not a graceful fall; mine never are. People stopped to help. I am past the point of embarrassment and was just happy that blood was not seeping through my white jeans. I wobbled to dinner, returned to St. Louis the next day and got an X-ray of my knee. My doctor sent me to physical therapy for treatment of my knee and shoulder and to learn how to walk correctly. Apparently, I walk like a caterpillar.

Once you get to a certain age, your doctor doesn’t think you can bounce back from your tumbles like you used to. It is a little humbling but also a lot funny.

So, I still had to figure out if I was a Never Happy and decided that no, I’m just a little cranky and snarky and really, isn’t that why you read this column? Oh, and about my hair, it is still long and someday, I will become sensible and cut it. I am not sure when, but it won’t be anytime soon. My next column will be about flowers and butterflies, I promise. NOT.

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▲ In other BLUES news, the team nabbed a BEST COMEBACK TROPHY AT THE 2019 ESPY AWARDS IN LOS ANGELES in recognition of its legendary Stanley Cup victory. The franchise was dead last in the NHL at the beginning of the year, then embarked on a historic run before claiming its first championship in June. Players on hand to receive the award included Ryan O’Reilly, Colton Parayko and St. Louis native Pat Maroon. They rubbed elbows with fellow sports stars like Simone Biles and the World Cup champion U.S. Women’s National Soccer Team.

◀ MUTUAL OF OMAHA’S WILD KINGDOM HOST STEPHANIE ARNE STOPPED BY THE STL TO PRESENT A TALK, “Women in Exploration,” sponsored by the Saint Louis Zoo, Academy of Science and Explorers Club St. Louis Chapter. Arne is a frequent speaker on global conservation and sustainability issues. (Local note: Late St. Louisan Marlin Perkins hosted Wild Kingdom from 1963 until his retirement in 1985.)

k c e h c it ▲ Leaf through Dr. Martin Gordon’s new book, Plants R Cures, for ideas on staying healthy with the help of ‘green’ remedies like herbs, teas and more.

Gordon, a 98-year-old gastroenterologist, discusses which plants promote good health and which should be avoided.

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〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉 Jammin’ at the Zoo returns to the Saint Louis Zoo July 24, featuring live music, wine and beer tastings, specialty drinks and more.

Food truck fare will be available for purchase.

Join the St. Louis Press Club for When Journalists Listen: The Story of a Word Warrior, a presentation by author and activist Sylvester Brown Jr. The event is July 26 at the downtown Missouri Athletic Club.

Enjoy immersive video games, mural painting, T-shirt silkscreening and more at the Street Art Pop-Up Party July 26 at Craft Alliance Center of Art + Design. Craft Alliance members can receive complimentary collectible pins by artist Zach Lechtenberg.

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For St. Louis to grow, we need the right talent. The RBC Young Professionals Network provides development and networking opportunities for more than 4,200 professionals of color, most with multiple degrees, who live and work in St. Louis. And there are many jobs where you don’t need a college degree but you do need some training—that’s why the RBC is rebranding skilled careers and has developed a web portal called STL Works so people can find out more about them.

Investing in our neighborhoods …

We’re working on neighborhood revitalization in North County. It’s exciting to see people feeling optimistic about their neighborhoods as we help them take down vacant homes and make the streets safer. We’re also making sure those neighborhoods have the services they need, such as health care and access to jobs and education.

Anyone can do it …

Civic engagement can occur at all levels, from the individual who spends time organizing church events to the larger-scale projects the RBC tackles.

This is important work—our country is at its best when the private and public sectors work together. The public sector has an important role but ultimately can’t do everything, so it’s necessary for individual citizens to step in and help. We’re lucky that St. Louis has a strong history of volunteerism.

Land of opportunity …

St. Louis is known as the Gateway to the West, but maybe it’s time for us to be known as the Gateway to Opportunity. We should be a place where all people have access to good education, a safe community and a rewarding job. In order to do that, we must be a more connected community and more cohesive in how we think about things. My hope is that we will address some of our complicated issues and figure out how to work together, both the city and the county and beyond.

A reason for hope …

St. Louis is becoming a more diverse and global city, which is important.

I’m hopeful when I look downtown and see investments by individual businesses as well as private investments in landmarks like Soldiers Memorial and Bob O’Loughlin’s work at Union Station. Exciting things are happening here.

Above and beyond …

I’m involved in a number of nonprofit boards. Some directly relate to my work with the RBC, such as my roles on the Airport Commission and Police Foundation, which the RBC helped start. The foundation has raised millions of dollars for much-needed technology and equipment for officers in our community. I also serve on the United Way board and executive committee, which raised $14 million last year for 150 nonprofits in St. Louis.

AS LEADER OF THE REGIONAL BUSINESS COUNCIL, Kathy Osborn has a

mission to make St. Louis a better place for everyone who lives here. The RBC brings together local business leaders to accomplish public policy, talent and workforce development, education reform, and diversity, inclusion and quality of life initiatives.

Since Kathy took the helm in 1999, the organization has grown to include 100 business leaders representing approximately 125,000 employees in the region. Many of the projects it takes on are difficult and arduous but necessary for St. Louis’ future, such as its recent success helping Saint Louis Public Schools regain elected control after 12 years of governance by a state-appointed board.

Early impression …

When I was in high school, a teacher referred me to the Mark Twain Summer Institute. This doesn’t exist anymore, but it was meant for gifted students—which I was not. I was shocked she recommended me, but it ended up being life-changing. As part of the program, I studied utopian literature, which opened my mind and perspective on things.

Weekend bliss …

Anytime I’m not working, I like to spend time with my two grandchildren.

They’re bilingual—their mom is from Guatemala—and I’m so fortunate that they live in St. Louis. My favorite spot is Forest Park. It’s a true treasure, and I love taking my grandkids there. I’m on the emeritus board of Forest Park Forever and was a board member for many years.

No place like home …

The people make St. Louis a great place to live. Right now, it’s far more diverse and eclectic than it’s ever been, and I find that exciting. While it has its challenges, it is an accessible city and I’ve always found it a good place to live. It’s the right size for individuals to truly make a difference.

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NO ONE’S BODY IS IMMUNE TO THE EFFECTS OF AGE AND EXPOSURE,

but we don’t have to feel powerless against these forces. Wrinkles, skin laxity, excess body fat and other issues abound as we get older, but so do effective treatments, says Jackie Carr, RN. She owns Pur-One Medispa in Des Peres, which offers a variety of treatments to help adults retain a fresh, youthful appearance.

Carr says advanced training and forward thinking are at the heart of her commitment to clients. She earned her RN degree in 1992 and worked as an intensive care medical/surgical nurse before becoming a board-certified nurse practitioner and licensed esthetician. “As a nurse practitioner, I’m qualified to assess patients, diagnose problems, prescribe treatment and evaluate results,” she says. “As an esthetician, I have 750 hours of training in the science of beauty, treatment with facials and topical products, and agents that address skin issues such as acne.”

She also attends training programs offered by pharmaceutical companies like Allergan and Galderma and continually learns about emerging uses for existing methods. “These sessions reinforce current approaches to treatment and provide new ones,” she explains. “I also take part in continuing education for the maintenance of my nurse practitioner certification.” The result is an evolving knowledge base that ensures safe, effective treatment options for patients, she notes.

Carr offers products and services that target a variety of issues. They include Botox Cosmetic, Dysport and Xeomin to smooth lines and wrinkles and dermal fillers like Sculptra, Radiesse, Juvéderm and Restylane to rejuvenate aging, sagging skin. “We don’t just see loss of elasticity and collagen in the skin as we age,” she notes. “We experience bone and fat atrophy as well, which can cause volume loss.”

The practice also offers Coolsculpting, a noninvasive system that uses cold temperatures to reduce stubborn fat pockets in areas like the chin, stomach, thighs and back. Chemical peels, microdermabrasion, hydrafacials, dermaplaning, platelet-

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rich plasma and microneedling can help skin look younger, and Latisse treatments restore eyelash fullness. Carr says she also has begun offering the DefenAge skin care line, which stimulates tissues’ natural age-fighting properties and restores a youthful look.

To get a clear picture of each patient’s needs, Carr offers a free initial consultation and acts as an educator and collaborator in navigating treatment options.

“I encourage first-time clients to bring in a list of their skin care products,” she notes.

“I like to know if they are using sunscreen daily, and I find out which treatments have worked well for them in the past.” Her practice also participates in manufacturers’ loyalty programs to save clients money.

Carr explains that when it comes to providing care, she emphasizes quality over quantity. “I value my patients and develop relationships EN TE RP RI SI NG WO ME N that last,” she says. “I learn about individuals’ needs and focus on the right treatment protocols while staying in line with their budgets.

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“EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY , I’m either feeling like I need to be getting more done, or I’m feeling like I need to be spending more time with my children.”— from the Instagram feed of @cmon.mama This sums up the struggle I’ve had since becoming a mom and continuing my entrepreneurial journey.

The lingering feeling that we should always be doing something else is such a distraction. We lose focus and momentum; our strokes of genius fizzle out. I was told recently, “Whatever you are doing, just do that.” It’s so simple, but so profound.

I’ve tried to adopt the philosophy. Lately, when I am playing with my kids, I turn my phone off or leave it in the other room. What is the point of hanging out with them if I am only worried about getting things done? Being in a frantic mindset leaves us all stressed and doesn’t allow for any special moments. I know this because I have tried unsuccessfully. And when I’m working, I don’t worry about my kids being bored. It’s their time to read, play in the basement, or yes, just take a break and watch Netflix. I let them know I’m always available if it’s an emergency, but that I am working and need quiet. They get better at this routine every day, and their imaginations are being forced to expand. I’ve also been studying how to use my working time more wisely. Here are a few tips:

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▶ Plan your days. Yes, you need a good planner to check things off.

▶ Prioritize your plans. Not every task is going to get done. Choosing my top three that I have to finish kicks my butt and saves my life.

▶ Set deadlines. I work well with a deadline, and

my brain spurs into action the closer I get to it.

Set your deadline ahead of schedule if you have a tendency to procrastinate.

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Take mental space. The Harvard Business Review suggests we take 2 to 5 minutes of complete quiet to clear our head before diving into a task. Apparently, Bill Gates gives himself weeks of thinking time between projects, and we all know how that’s working for him! This helps with mental overload.

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Turn off your phone. Our brains are hardwired for adrenaline rushes and mini ‘wins.’

It feels deceptively productive to check our phones for a new email, text or social media like to make us feel like we are accomplishing something. Sitting down to do the hard tasks can feel impossible without the shots of dopamine we get from checking our phones every 5 minutes. A lot of professionals suggest turning notifications off and waiting to check emails until the end of the day to keep our minds focused.

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▶ Do one thing at a time. As women, we try to do 30

things at once so we can ‘have it all,’ but we actually get less done. Complete a task, check it off your list and then start something else.

▶ Let people help. I always used to say I was fine when people offered to take my kids. Now, if someone offers, I almost yell yes in return. I try to make my kid-free hours my most productive.

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Have accountability. This is something I have struggled with. If it doesn’t have to get done, sometimes it doesn’t. Having a friend or mentor keep me accountable is super helpful.

In the end, a happy mom is better than a perfect mom, and for those of us who need to work to make money, or need to create to stay mentally alive, there are things we can do to ensure productivity and balance in our lives. With or without a job, loving your kids unconditionally already makes you a superhero in my book!

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olf is a sport of many preconceived notions, and perhaps the biggest is that it’s a man’s game.

Well, St. Louis is home to plenty of women who prove that particular stereotype wrong. Since its inception in 1999, the local chapter of the LPGA Amateur Golf Association, a volunteer-led nonprofit, has helped women hit the links and make impactful connections.

Board member Lori Woodward says she had difficulty finding other women to golf with before joining the organization, previously known as the Executive Women’s Golf Association before aligning with the Ladies Professional Golf Association in 2018. “Golf is not traditionally a women’s sport, but the organization really helps you connect with other female golfers,” she says.

“We have 141 members, and whoever is interested can play with us two times before committing.”

She adds that while golf may seem intimidating, membership is open to women of all backgrounds.

Along with weekly playing opportunities in

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Missouri and Illinois, the nonprofit hosts beginner clinics to help golfers of varying skill levels engage with the game.

The group also regularly hosts social gettogethers and networking events, including outings during the winter when heading to the golf course isn’t an option. “Many of our members are very driven and competitive; they often are leaders in their fields,” Woodward notes. “It’s empowering to connect on both social and business levels. Plus, it’s just fun to meet people who have similar interests.”

The organization hosts a Wine, Women and Wedges event annually in March to introduce people to its purpose. “Golf pros provide instruction, and our members share information about what we do,” Woodward explains. The nonprofit also hosts a Spring Kickoff event, an annual luncheon that includes a silent auction and nine holes of golf.

Proceeds from the Spring Kickoff benefit The First Tee of Greater St. Louis, a nonprofit that

provides affordable golf programming for children and young adults. “It’s a great cause that gives kids the opportunity to learn the spirit of golf as well as important values,” Woodward says. “We strongly believe in providing opportunities to build confidence and life skills through the game.”

Woodward says the association provides a unique community to help women thrive.

“There’s nothing quite like the organization,” she notes. “There’s a lot more to it than just golf. It improves women’s lives by providing social connection, athletic competition and business networking.”

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MISSED MANNERS ▶ A bunch of people at my office were planning an after-hours event just for fun. In the group text, one of our more senior colleagues called out a younger colleague for using ‘your’ instead of ‘you’re.’ She’s proud of the fact she did this because she says, “This generation needs to know how important proper grammar is.” The colleague who was corrected is livid. Do I let it go? It was supposed to be a fun event, but this has put a damper on it.

Beth: There are several problems here. First of all, casual conversations among friends should never be held to the same standard as client communications. Second, your senior colleague’s delivery was inconsiderate. Just as grammar is important in a professional environment, so is delivering feedback in a respectful way—ideally in private. Third, when giving feedback, our objective should be to serve the person to whom we are speaking, not to boost our own egos. And finally, we all have been victims of errant ‘auto-corrects,’ so your senior colleague could have considered giving her junior colleague the benefit of the doubt.

Jill: I agree with Beth on this. The senior colleague missed the mark

on her tone of voice (or tone of text, as it were) on this one—although I must admit this is a pet peeve of mine. I can relate to this meme: The devil whispered in my ear, “Your not strong enough to withstand this storm.” I whispered back, “You’re.”

▶ What’s the proper thing to do when I have a lunch appointment that no-shows and I’m sitting in the middle of a busy restaurant with a drink? Should I order food since I’ve been occupying the space my server could have filled with a paying customer? Or just leave because I’m not hungry? And if I don’t have cash to put on the table and walk out discreetly, I shouldn’t just leave without paying with a credit card, right? Totally awkward.

Jill: If you’re not hungry, ordering food just for the server’s sake feels

like people pleasing to me. And, of course you’re right—leaving without paying is stealing. A simple explanation will do. “My lunch appointment didn’t show. I’ll just need to pay for my drink.” Then, maybe leave a few extra bucks for the tip when you sign the credit card bill.

Beth: I agree with Jill. Nothing beats honest communication. Also,

you might want to spend some time considering whether you are too fearful about looking bad. Whenever you are worried about feeling awkward, you have less mental capacity to consider other possibilities, such as asking whether you could use your credit card just for the tip.

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by julia m. johnson | photos: photography by anne ST. LOUIS NATIVES HAYLEY FOX AND BRENT CHOD FIRST MET when they were kids, and fate brought them together again years later. “We were in the same carpool in middle school but never spoke,” Hayley says. “We didn’t reconnect until both of us were living in Chicago as adults.”

One weekend, she went to a party with friends and was surprised to find Brent there. “We had a lot of fun talking that night, and it turned out we were both going to a friend’s wedding in Atlanta a week later,” she recalls. “After not seeing each other for such a long time, we thought it was pretty amazing to end up together two weekends in a row.”

Brent asked Hayley out when they returned home. Their first date was supposed to be at an elegant rooftop club downtown, but bad weather got in the way. “We ended up at a dive bar across the street and had a great time catching up,” Hayley says. “The evening was very laid-back, just like we are.” Last year, the two got engaged on a Hilton Head beach as the sun was setting, and they celebrated with dinner overlooking the water.

They returned to Hilton Head for their wedding weekend, which Hayley describes as “amazing in every way.” The couple welcomed guests for a rehearsal dinner at a local plantation and said their ‘I dos’ at an outdoor ceremony. “It was hot, but the weather was perfect otherwise,” the bride recalls.

“There wasn’t a cloud in the sky the whole weekend.” They wrote their own vows, and Hayley says she couldn’t help but get emotional when Brent read his.

An indoor dinner reception followed, and the space was decorated with white flowers and greenery.

“My idea was for everything to look heavenly, and it did,” Hayley says. “We even had flowers hanging from the chandeliers.” Her attendants chose their own dresses in shades of blush, and the groomsmen wore blue and white. “Our flower girl had the most adorable gown,” she adds. “She looked like a miniature bride.” Hayley says the country music band that performed at the reception was a highlight of the evening.

The newlyweds live in Denver, where Hayley is studying traditional Chinese medicine and Brent works in commercial real estate. She attended Parkway West High School and the University of Missouri, and he went to Parkway Central and the University of Indiana. They are planning a late honeymoon for 2020. &

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Girls on the Run St. Louis has added members and elected officers to its board of directors. Meet the dynamic people who will lead Girls on the Run into its 18th year! Elected officers include: chair Steffani Lautenschlager, chief development officer at City Academy (top left); vice chair Bob Harrison, president and chairman of the board at The Daniel and Henry Company; secretary Hannah Nelson, senior counsel at BJC HealthCare; treasurer Jill Coates, corporate controller at Apex Oil Company Inc.; immediate past chair David Pokorny, senior director of marketing at Fox Sports Midwest.

New board members include: Amy Fulton, senior director-internal audit at Express Scripts (top middle); Tina Jackson, manager of Assurance and Accounting Advisory Services at Deloitte & Touche LLP (top right); Allison Krepel, associate at Polsinelli PC (bottom left); Mike LaMartina, chief revenue officer of Ballpark Village St. Louis (bottom middle); and Calencia Mitchell, manager, Portfolio Management at the Center for Clinical Excellence-BJC HealthCare (bottom right).

Girls on the Run is a nonprofit program that empowers girls in third through eighth grade for a lifetime of healthy living. The innovative curriculum combines training for a 5k with interactive lessons that include self-esteem enhancing activities and uplifting workouts aimed to develop the whole girl—physically, mentally, emotionally and socially. Girls on the Run St. Louis was founded in 2002 and serves more than 6,000 girls annually across 23 counties in eastern Missouri and western Illinois.

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CASSADY CALDWELL WITH RESCUED DOG

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At 8:19 a.m., someone from the St. Louis Fire Department calls Stray Rescue saying, “We found a dog. She’s covered in blood, and she needs help. Her owner is here, but he walked away.

He said he’s not going to help her.” The no-kill Stray Rescue of St. Louis shelter is full; there is not one open space left. “Go get that baby. She needs us,” responds executive director Cassady Caldwell. “We’ll find a way to make it work.”

Caldwell is originally from Spartanburg, South Carolina, and always has been an animal lover. She and her partner moved to St. Louis in 1999 and became involved with Stray Rescue, supporting the organization both personally and through Caldwell’s business. She quickly grew to love the team and its mission.

“One of the ways Stray Rescue is unique is that we proactively save the animals other organizations turn away or euthanize,” Caldwell explains. “They have been let down—abused, neglected and abandoned. It’s our responsibility to help these animals who bravely survive the worst of mankind and other cruelty on the unforgiving city streets. The first step in their rehabilitation is medical care, which is vital to their survival, and we always go above and beyond to provide the care they need.”

Caldwell joined Stray Rescue as the volunteer coordinator in 2014. With her customer service and business skills, she quickly was promoted to adoption manager, and then operations manager before accepting her current role. She brings nearly a decade of experience in business management to the nonprofit as the former owner of Luvy Duvy’s, a beloved St. Louis grill. She’s also an active member of the Humane Society in St. Thomas, and served as a board member of the Bi-State Pet Food Pantry.

“Stray Rescue has grown quickly and faced many challenges over the years,” Caldwell notes. “Whenever called on for help, the St. Louis community has rallied around us and helped pull us back up from our darkest times. I moved to St. Louis 20 years ago and am proud to call it home. There is so much good we’re doing for our city.

We believe that all animals deserve a second chance for a loving home, regardless of their past. When we look in their eyes, we love them immediately, because we know that might be the first time they’ve ever been loved in their life. It is my honor and privilege to make St. Louis a kinder place for animals.”

The dog that was rescued that day by the fire department had either been hit by a car and left for dead or was beaten with a hard object. She had a broken leg, fractured shoulder, and a shattered jaw. Although in obvious pain and gushing blood from her mouth, she wagged her tail and pushed her head against caretakers at Stray Rescue for comfort. She deserved a chance at a life of love.

They all do. While she had to have her leg and shoulder amputated, and endure two specialty surgeries on her jaw, she made a full recovery and is the sweetest girl in the world.

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The opera presents Puccini’s Italian blockbuster, La bohème, July 26 and 27, Aug. 2 and 3.

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CARING FOR WOMEN SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson VETERINARIAN DR. CYNTHIA GREBEL WAS WEEDING HER GARDEN ONE DAY when she felt discomfort in one of her armpits. She noticed a lump in the area, so she scheduled a mammogram and was sent for a biopsy that confirmed intraductal carcinoma, a common form of breast cancer.

Although she had a thorough understanding of cancer processes, the news still hit hard. “I’m 34, below the age when doctors normally recommend yearly mammograms, so I’m fortunate to have found it when I did,” Grebel says. SLUCare breast surgeon Dr. Theresa Schwartz performed a bilateral mastectomy at SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital, and Grebel underwent chemotherapy, radiation and physical therapy as well. She plans to have reconstruction surgery later this year.

Grebel says the care provided by Schwartz and the SLUCare team was highly individualized from the start. Once the diagnosis was confirmed, Schwartz met with the patient and her husband to talk through all of their questions and concerns. “She lives and breathes this kind of personal care,” Grebel says. “She is truly passionate about it. She recognized there would be anxiety in my situation and went far above normal expectations.” Schwartz also worked closely with her on a timeline to resume normal activities. “She understood my personality and knew I’d be happiest going back to work as soon as it was safe,” Grebel notes. “Getting back on my feet and occupying my mind was important to my recovery.”

Schwartz says the first step in combating breast cancer is for the patient to pay attention to any changes in the breasts and surrounding tissue. Lumps, discomfort, unexpected differences in the skin or nipple, and abnormal discharge are some of the signs to look for, she notes. It’s important to consult a doctor to discuss symptoms and dispel misconceptions. “Women often worry that any problem with a breast automatically means cancer, but it very often doesn’t,” Schwartz says. “And if it is cancer, today’s care is highly advanced and personalized. We have so much tumor biology information and high-tech diagnostic imaging that it’s easy to know for sure which treatment plan a woman needs.”

Patients also can access cancer counseling services to help them navigate the journey, she adds.

According to SLUCare breast surgeon Dr. Kaitlin Farrell, women benefit greatly from the fact that breast cancer therapy is much more customizable than it used to be. “It’s a very personal decision; there are a number of cancer types, so different methods are needed to address them,” she notes. The right combination and timing of treatments depend on factors like age, life stage, whether the patient has been pregnant or plans to be, and other preferences. “Some women carry gene mutations that put them at increased risk of recurrence, and they may elect to have both breasts removed,” Farrell says. “Others want to take a more conservative approach. In any case, as soon as a diagnosis is reached, we have a long conversation about treatment options, and the patient is very involved in these decisions.”

Grebel recently finished her course of radiation and says she feels optimistic about the future.

“You can try to prepare mentally for this experience, but it’s difficult,” she notes. “What makes it easier is health professionals who see you as a person, not just a patient. I spoke with other doctors about treatment, but after meeting with the SLUCare team, I knew they would be my choice.” &

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The exhibition features paintings, drawings and prints by the American artist and lead singer of The Avett Brothers.

Learn how to use wood and found objects to make beautiful, wearable art.

Join artist Luisa Otero Prada for an evening of painting, wine and refreshments inspired by Alfred Ramos Martinez’s famous artwork.

scott avett: bridging the creative divide

image transfers on wood jewelry

Schnarr’s Hardware | 5:30 p.m. $20 | 314.961.4522 | schnarrs.com

William Shearburn Gallery Free admission | shearburngallery.com

through 12/22

Laumeier Sculpture Park Free admission | laumeier.org

Missouri History Museum | 6 p.m. $25-$30 | mohistory.org

8/23

carlos zamora: cART

The St. Louis-based illustrator and graphic designer has retrofitted Laumeier Sculpture Park golf carts, transforming them into kinetic sculptures.

a flores mexicanas painting party

mud+merlot: nature-inspired coasters

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american conversations

Art Saint Louis presents a multimedia exhibition featuring works by more than 50 area artists. An opening reception will be held Aug. 3.

Art Saint Louis Gallery Free admission | artstlouis.org

Learn how to make your own drink coasters using clay slab construction.

Registration is required.

8/11

brandi carlile in concert

The Grammy Award-winning artist and her band take the stage with favorites from albums like The Firewatcher’s Daughter and By the Way, I Forgive You.

Laumeier Sculpture Park | 6:30 p.m. $54 | laumeiersculpturepark.org

8/25

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | 7:30 p.m. $45-$88 | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

african children’s choir: just as i am tour

Live music, art, games, food, kids’ activities and more come together at this fun, multicultural festival.

Traditional spirituals, gospel favorites and children’s songs are featured at a concert supporting education and relief efforts in Africa.

World’s Fair Pavilion, Forest Park | All day Free admission | stlworldsfare.com

Glendale Lutheran Church | 6:30 p.m.

Donations accepted africanchildrenschoir.com

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8/17

8/28-9/15

Four concerts at local venues celebrate the history and importance of different musical genres.

A variety of world music styles are explored, including guitar, percussion and vocals.

Insight Theatre Company presents an adaptation of the award-winning film about the young playwright and his muse.

8/6

make your brand magnetic

This event teaches key branding and marketing strategies for businesses. Presenter is author and keynote speaker Lethia Owens.

St. Louis Regional Chamber | 7:30 a.m. $30 | 314.231.5555 | stlregionalchamber.com

8/12

gary clark jr. in concert

The native Texan makes a stop in St. Louis to share his unique mix of musical styles.

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | 8 p.m. $35-$99.50 | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

8/16-18

st. louis world’s fare

8/12, 19, 26

silver screen series

The film series presents positive, creative themes about aging. The Intern; Hello, My Name Is Doris; and Lost in America are featured.

AMC Classic Creve Coeur 12 | 1 p.m.

Free | maturityanditsmuse.org

8/1-8/11

assisted living: the musical

8/13

Follow the exploits of residents at Pelican Roost, a senior living community where 70-something is the new 20-something.

knez jakovac quartet

The Gaslight Jazz Series concert includes guest vocalist Janet Evra.

Gaslight Theater | 7:30 p.m. $15 | ticketmaster.com

Playhouse @ Westport Plaza | 2 & 7:30 p.m. $55 | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

8/1-8/31

flock exhibition

Enjoy an art exhibit and events featuring artist-educator Rachel Simmons. A free artist talk will be held Aug. 1 and a free printing workshop on Aug. 2.

Central Print | Free 314.241.1346 | centralprint.org

a midsummer night’s drink Enjoy a vibrant summer rooftop party presented by the Arts & Education Council’s Young Friends of the Arts.

Centene Center for the Arts | 7 p.m. $25-$40 | keeparthappening.org

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Celebrate the past and future of the blues at a concert series featuring local and national artists, presented by the Gateway Arch Park Foundation and National Blues Museum.

Gateway Arch National Park | 6 p.m.

Free | archpark.org

todd mosby world fusion ensemble

First Congregational Church of Webster Groves | 7:30 p.m. $20 | eventbrite.com

8/22

shakespeare in love

The Grandel Theatre | 2 & 8 p.m. $20-$40 | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

8/30-10/27

jacques thibaud string trio

fidencio fifield-perez: little cuttings

560 Music Center | 7:30 p.m. $20 | vendini.com

Craft Alliance Center of Art + Design Free admission | craftalliance.org

Pianist Tin Lao joins the chamber music ensemble for a concert featuring Mozart, Brahms and Beethoven. A reception will be held at 6:30 p.m.

The unique exhibit features paintings on envelopes that the artist received as immigration correspondence. A reception will be held Aug. 30.

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AN ENTERTAINING GUIDE TO ENTERTAINMENT

wild rose

Rags-to-riches rises to fame (both real and fictional) are not uncommon in cinema. Wild Rose’s premise is very familiar: A recently paroled single mother, Rose-Lynn Harlan (Jessie Buckley), struggles to make her dream of becoming a country singer reality. There’s a bit of novelty in the fact that Rose-Lynn is Scottish, walking the streets of Glasgow in cowboy boots and a fringed leather jacket, but from the start, it’s easy to imagine where the plot is heading.

Still, it never quite arrives where you’d expect. To its credit, the film sidesteps many of the narrative tropes of the genre. The focus is on Rose-Lynn’s relationships with two women who challenge and motivate her: her mother, Marion (Julie Christie), and new employer, Susannah (Sophie Okonedo). It’s a refreshing change since so many of these stories focus on turbulent romantic relationships and struggles with substance abuse.

Buckley, a classically trained Irish singer, gives Rose-Lynn a reckless vitality that is compelling even as the character makes questionable choices.

The film does have some pacing issues, most notably in the third act, that make the relatively trim runtime (101 minutes) feel longer than it is. There were a handful of times I expected the screen to cut to black and the credits to roll, but Wild Rose, like its protagonist, wasn’t ready to stop. Thanks to a fresh perspective and Buckley’s captivating energy, I was willing to watch a little longer.

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ladies who punch by Ramin Setoodeh. This book reads like a very long Vanity Fair

article: Nice and soapy with lots and lots of gossip. If you don’t watch The View or even know what that is, there is no reason to waste your time, but if you do and you want to get all of the behind-the-scenes details, you will love everything on these pages. The author takes you from the very beginning of the television talk show to present day, which means you get to hear all of the inside scoop on the hiring and firing of the various co-hosts, along with who likes or dislikes whom. Am I any smarter for having read this? No. But it sure did entertain me.

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turn up charlie. Netflix. This is what I consider migraine medicine. It is the perfect thing

to watch when your head hurts, you have a cold or you just aren’t feeling too well. It requires little brain power, and if you don’t finish the entire series, you won’t ever think about it again.

That said, Idris Elba plays Charlie, the friend of a well-known actor whose daughter is a brat and seems to chase every single nanny away. Since Charlie’s career is going nowhere, he becomes the nanny, or ‘manny.’ Piper Perabo plays the actor’s wife who has a thriving career as a DJ. The parents seem to forget they have a child until Charlie comes along. The brat is believably played by Frankie Hervey, and if you are a parent, you will have a very strong desire to give the little one a serious talking-to after the first episode.

SHOULD YOU SEE IT? Yes. It offers a unique take on a familiar formula.— S.W.

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ONE OF ST. LOUIS’ MOST INNOVATIVE CULTURAL

experiences, Union Avenue Opera, can be found in an unconventional place. The company offers traditional and contemporary productions each summer at Union Avenue Christian Church, a century-old Central West End landmark. In 2019, the opera is celebrating 25 years of entertaining audiences, mentoring new artists and attracting renowned talent (including soprano Christine Brewer, who recently appeared in Leonard Bernstein’s Candide). Founding artistic director Scott Schoonover says the unusual space and stirring voices blend perfectly for an intimate but powerful theatrical experience.

UPCOMING UAO SHOWS » La bohème ▶ July 26 & 27, Aug. 2 & 3 Giacomo Puccini’s classic tale of love and loss Glory Denied ▶ Aug. 16, 17, 23 & 24 Tom Cipullo’s inspiring story of wartime remembrance

How has the company evolved?

I started it after graduating from Illinois Wesleyan University and moving to St. Louis at age 22. I was looking for an opera conducting experience and began working with the Arts Group of Union Avenue Christian Church to form a company. The first show we put on was Henry Purcell’s Dido and Aeneas. Our initial budget was $5,000, and the first auditions drew 17 people. The cast and I helped create the set and costumes, and we staged six performances with about 50 attendees each. In 2007, we held a capital campaign with the church and raised $500,000 for building and stage improvements. Today, the opera is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit and has its own board of directors. We audition about 400 singers annually and had a wait list of 120 people this year.

How is it supported?

It’s a very grassroots company. There are many sponsors and individual donors who give mainly in smaller amounts. We also get grants from organizations like the Regional Arts Commission and Missouri Arts Council. We have to be subtle about private fundraising; basically, we quietly encourage people to give what they can, when they can. UAO doesn’t have a multimillion-dollar budget like other companies, but we have enough to do wonderful productions and pay performers well.

What opportunities does it provide?

We work with well-known artists, and we also hire talented young vocalists who need experience; that’s part of our mission. For example, we may get emerging singers who are doing well but only landing small parts. This company gives them opportunities for lead roles working with an orchestra and full chorus. They get to see how the process works, and because it’s a smaller company, they’re not taking as much of a risk as they might be somewhere else. We also work with students, offering undergraduate outreach programs, coaching, classes and recitals.

How are you celebrating the anniversary?

We will have a gala Oct. 10 at The Barnett on Washington Avenue with a cocktail hour, hors d’oeuvres, dinner and auction. UAO alumni Kenneth Overton, Elise Quagliata and Marsha Thompson will perform. We don’t put on this kind of event often, so it will be a big deal for the company!

What is it like staging opera in a church?

We transform the space and make it very intimate and special. Subtitles are projected in English so guests can follow along, and there are opportunities to meet the artists afterward.

The space offers great acoustics, and no audience member is far from the stage, so everyone gets to experience the show fully. The capital campaign allowed us to install an orchestra pit and enlarge the stage. Before, the orchestra had to sit in front of the stage, which wasn’t ideal; the music sometimes came across as too loud. Now, the singers and musicians can balance their sound more effectively. We still don’t have some traditional theater features like wings, but we are creative with what we have. The changes have allowed us to do much more on stage, and we continue to move forward artistically.

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HAPPY HOUR by anthony geary

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THERE IS NOTHING IN THE WORLD LIKE CHAMPAGNE.

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The unique chalk and limestone soils of the Champagne wine region along the 49th parallel in northern France, along with local winemaking techniques, work in harmony to create something so distinctive, many aficionados willingly pay handsome sums for the finest bottles. It’s fun to feel luxurious and ‘drink the stars’ on special occasions or a night on the town. Learning about Champagne, however, can be a challenge because of the diverse producers and styles. Though there are many things that go into Champagne’s character, this article will focus on grape varietals and sugar levels.

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The first thing to understand is that there are three main Champagne grapes: Pinot Noir, Chardonnay and Pinot Meunier.

Roughly speaking, Pinot Noir provides its structure, weight and power. Chardonnay gives Champagne its elegance and longevity, and Meunier lends fruitiness and youthful accessibility. Champagne houses use different amounts of these grapes in their blends, which makes all Champagnes very different. There are various styles as well; Blanc de Blanc is made entirely from Chardonnay, and Blanc De Noir is all Pinot Noir.

Champagne also is known for its sugar levels. Styles range from Brut Nature or savage, which has zero percent added sugar, to Doux, which contains 50 grams of sugar per liter. To make things even more confusing, Brut Champagne can range between zero to 12 grams per liter, so there is a lot of variation within this classification. Don’t be afraid to ask a few questions before buying.

So what should you pair with Champagne? Some say it goes with everything, and they are mostly correct. Fried and greasy foods especially play well with the drink. Since it has a high level of acidity, the wine cuts through the fat in food, making every bite as good as the first. For simple foods like French fries, there are lots of delicious options at accessible price points. Nicolas Feuillatte and Piper-Heidsieck are both great entry-level Champagnes that won’t empty your pocketbook.

Bubbles also pair well with breakfast.

Nonvintage Louis Roederer and Taittinger have some depth and are fun with a simple egg dish or classic St. Louis Slinger. Rosé Champagne is heavenly and sometimes a bit more complex.

Try nonvintage Billecart Salmon Brut Rosé or Ruinart with Imo’s pizza or toasted ravioli. Paul Bara Blanc de Noirs would be great with barbecue from Pappy’s Smokehouse.

Also, in general terms, the more expensive the food, the more expensive the champagne should be.

Save vintage Dom Pérignon, Bollinger Grande Année and Louis Roederer Cristal for your caviar. But for desserts like gooey butter cake or Ted Drewes, pair with a reasonable Demi-Sec (medium sweet) or Doux (super sweet) Champagne.

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The best way to understand champagne is to drink it! Experiment to find the perfect bottle for your favorite dishes.

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SUMMER STAPLES

The sun, the heat, those pesky bugs … it all makes you want to feel as cool and light as possible. You want the same coverage as in winter months, but not the heavy makeup. You want the glow without the fake coloring.

And of course, you want every inch of your skin and lips to be protected and hydrated. Here are some products that can help you achieve it all.

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SMOOTH OPERATOR

It’s like a smoothie for your face! Enriched with blackcurrant seeds, which offer calcium and magnesium, this mask soothes all skin types. Leave on for 5 minutes and rinse to reveal softer, refreshed skin.

L’Occitane En Provence Soothing Mask

WATERPROOF WONDER

Perfect for the pool or beach, the waterproof, paraben-free foundation offers SPF 30 protection from UVA/UVB rays—all while building collagen and elastin. Safe for all skin types, this unique formula goes on sheer and can be layered to your liking.

Its aloe vera base soothes and protects, and the exclusive Ceravitae complex stimulates skin cell production.

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MASTER BALM

This little stick packs a punch.

You used to have to make a trip to Honolulu to purchase it (no complaints here), but Hawaiian Lip Calm is now available online.

Its mixture of passionfruit, papaya and guava leaves your lips soft and protected.

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SO FRESH, SO CLEAN

If I’m going to adopt a completely natural look for the beach or pool, I want my skin as fresh as possible.

These exfoliating scrubs are the perfect way to get your face primed for a summer glow. The organic and plantbased ingredients remove blackheads and dead skin while deep cleansing so you can go makeup-free and feel confident!

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SUMMER GLOW

You want color on your skin for the summer months, but we’ve all learned enough to know it’s best not to bake outside for hours.

Instead, use a product like this luminizer to make you sparkle and shine in the best way possible (no glitter!). Perfect for face and body.

O!Mega Glaze All-Over Foil Luminizer $49, Sephora

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SOFT & SUPPLE

When you’re at the beach or pool, a nude, glossy, hydrated lip is one of the best and easiest looks. Eos came out with summer-themed flavors like sweet grapefruit, beach coconut and eucalyptus to seal in moisture.

Available in sticks and spheres!

Eos Super Soft Shea Lip Balm $4.99, Target

Women’s Health: ASKED & ANSWERED

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

WHETHER IT’S TAKING CARE OF THE FAMILY OR TRYING TO FIND THE PERFECT WORK/LIFE BALANCE, WOMEN HAVE A LOT ON THEIR PLATES, AND THAT’S BEFORE HEALTH CARE EVEN ENTERS THE PICTURE. WITH THAT IN MIND, WE ASKED LOCAL EXPERTS FOR ADVICE ON SOME OF THE HEALTH QUESTIONS WOMEN FACE EVERY DAY. ? I’M 30, SO YOU WOULD THINK ACNE WOULD BE A PROBLEM OF THE PAST. BUT I STILL GET BUMPS EVERY NOW AND THEN, ESPECIALLY DURING MY MENSTRUAL CYCLE, AND I ALSO HAVE CLOGGED PORES (THEY LOOK LIKE LITTLE WHITE BUMPS ON MY CHIN).

IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO CLEAR MY SKIN?

Having acne as an adult is not uncommon, and women often have cyclical breakouts tied to menstruation. If your acne is primarily related to your cycle, it can be treated with oral contraceptives that contain estrogen and progesterone or hormone blockers such as spironolactone. Traditional acne medications like adapalene, which is now available over the counter as Differin, can help unclog pores, but they won’t address surges during your period.

If you want alternatives to medication, there are some simple steps you can take to help clear your skin. Avoid using skin care products that damage or abrade. Toners and other alcohol-based products use chemicals that strip the skin to make them seem more effective. But they also can cause breaks in the surface layers that allow bacteria in, so people tend to get more acne after using them. A gentle face wash is the best option.

There are often triggers for adult acne, and figuring out what affects your skin can be very useful in managing its condition. One of the most prevalent triggers is sunlight, so using a natural sunscreen can help reduce breakouts. Other common ones include red wine, spicy foods and environmental exposure.

It’s important to talk to a health care provider about skin problems. Acne impacts how you see yourself and has repercussions on other aspects of your life as well. It’s not just a question of beauty or vanity, so don’t be afraid to seek treatment.

—DR. WILLIAM McCOY Washington University dermatologist

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I’M THINKING OF GETTING A BREAST LIFT AND IMPLANTS, BUT I’M SCARED BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND. SHE HAD TO HAVE MULTIPLE SURGERIES BECAUSE HER IMPLANTS NEVER DROPPED DOWN PROPERLY. IS THAT COMMON, AND CAN YOU DO ANYTHING TO PREVENT IT DURING SURGERY? Implant malposition is an uncommon problem, affecting only 5% to 10% of patients. The reason placement issues occur varies from case to case.

If the problem is apparent immediately after the procedure, the implant likely was improperly placed, and it can be corrected with revision surgery.

Sometimes the issue manifests one or two years later. This is usually because of capsular contracture, an immune response that creates unusually hard and dense scar tissue, which can distort the shape of the breast or make the implant rise higher on the chest. Unfortunately, we don’t know much about its causes. It’s a difficult problem to predict and control, but it can be treated by changing the location of the implant or using a different kind of implant.

While implant malposition may seem daunting, it shouldn’t discourage you from seeking care.

Just because it happened to your friend doesn’t mean something similar will happen to you. The best thing is to talk to a plastic surgeon about your concerns and learn about the best options for your specific case.

—DR. SUMESH KASWAN SLUCare plastic surgeon

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I’M NEARING 40, AND AS I’VE GOTTEN OLDER, I’VE NOTICED MORE ‘FUZZ’ ON MY FACE. I’M TIRED OF TWEEZING, AND IT’S NOT REALLY WORKING ANYWAY. ALSO, I HAVE VEINS ON MY CHEEKS THAT ARE BECOMING MORE PROMINENT. WHY DID THEY SHOW UP? WHAT SOLUTIONS ARE AVAILABLE? Dermaplaning can treat vellus hairs on the face and help with skin rejuvenation.

It exfoliates, and as a result, newer skin is pushed to the surface more quickly.

Prominent veins on the face could be the result of a number of things. Harsh treatments may damage the skin, old sun damage may weaken blood vessels, rosacea can cause a flushing response, or various other skin disorders could be to blame. I would recommend consulting a dermatologist about the problem.

It is important to be aware that even if you treat the unsightly blood vessels, they may return, or new ones may appear. Discuss therapy options with your dermatologist and make sure you have a good understanding of the process and costs before proceeding.

—JACKIE CARR, RN Pur-One Medispa

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Age with Grace, Beauty, and Elegance The Nouveau Way Nouveau professionals define “Aging Gracefully” as commanding a presence of simple elegance… for your ever… and ever. The Question is how do we defy on a daily basis the elements, life changes in our bodies, and time.

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Let’s start with the issue of Healthy skin makes for Beautiful Skin! Skin is the “storyteller” and barometer for what is going on in your body. Healthy youthful skin is smooth, firm, radiant, and resilient. As we age these signs of youthfulness are compromised both intrinsically and extrinsically.

Good health and lifestyle practices such as the food we eat, the way we move, sleep patterns, attitude, and exposure to the elements all affect how we age.

We recommend daily skin care regimens―hit and miss habits will produce “hit and miss” beauty―along with a regular treatment schedule as well.

Let a Nouveau professional guide you into healthy, beautiful skin!

Strong Bodies are an important part of aging gracefully, and beautiful skin. Commit to a lifestyle of healthy eating, regular exercise, and positivity. You will sleep better, live more vibrantly, and revitalize every cell in your body. Cellular renewal activity is what healthy, youthful bodies are based on.

Be generous at heart! Live in relationship with others giving of your heart, your time, your energy, and your resources! Then be open to receive the gifts of abundance which will return to you exponentially!

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Create clarity of mind and vision! As we think, so shall we be. Create your vision of aging gracefully, place yourself in it, and live it! Ironmen & women athletes will tell you the ability to perform well in an event has more to do with mental fortitude than physical, and how one crosses the finish line conforms to the vision.

Last but not least, wear your style… really wear it! Style is the expression you give to all of the above qualities. Only you can wear your style with elegance… for your ever… and ever.

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I AM PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST CHILD AND NATURALLY AM A LITTLE NERVOUS ABOUT THE DELIVERY. ARE THERE ANY MAJOR RISKS WITH AN EPIDURAL, AND ANY BENEFITS TO NATURAL CHILDBIRTH? ALSO, MY FRIEND WAS TELLING ME HOSPITALS CAN PROVIDE REMEDIES THAT HELP EASE THE PAIN OF CONTRACTIONS. WHAT ARE THEY? AND ARE THERE ANY EXERCISES I CAN DO NOW TO HELP THE PROCESS GO AS SMOOTHLY AND QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE AND HELP ME AVOID POST-DELIVERY ISSUES? It is quite natural to be nervous about childbirth. The first thing I tell my patients is to create a dynamic birth plan. It is very difficult to predict what you will need physically and emotionally during labor, and straying from your initial plan shouldn’t be viewed as a failure.

The majority of women require anesthesia.

Given the intensity of labor, many seek an epidural, which results in a denser pain blockade. It is safe for both mom and baby.

Some women require anesthesia earlier in the process, while others wait. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists says that maternal request is sufficient medical indication for pain relief during labor. There are some alternatives to anesthesia that can be used alone or as a complement to traditional methods. These include massage, hypnosis and water immersion therapy.

Benefits of natural childbirth include quick return of ambulatory and bladder function. Bonding, skin-to-skin contact and breastfeeding can be achieved with either method of childbirth and should not affect a woman’s decision to obtain anesthesia. For those who desire natural childbirth, I strongly recommend preparation and planned methods of pain control. It often is helpful to take classes or work with a labor doula.

Staying active and fit throughout pregnancy can aid in a smooth labor and delivery experience. Many women continue to participate in their normal activities, modifying them as their bodies need. Perinatal yoga and walking are two of the most common exercises for pregnant women. Attention to core strength and stability will help during labor.

—DR. JULIANA VERTICCHIO Consultants in Women’s Healthcare

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ONE OF THE HOME’S BEST FEATURES IS ITS BEAUTIFUL WINE ROOM, THE KIND YOU WOULD SEE IN A HIGHEND NAPA WINERY.

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12932 SUNSET BLUFF COURT, SUNSET HILLS by julia m. johnson What do you like most about the area?

Living there was like a dream come true for me and my husband. When I was younger, I used to drive through the neighborhood to look at the houses, and I remember saying, “This must be where movie stars live.” My husband saw the home being built about 15 years ago and always had been interested in it. The fact that our dream of owning it came to fruition meant a lot! It’s where we built our life together.

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What is the wine room like?

It’s a beautiful, relaxing space. We loved opening it for guests to see, and we held dinners and dessert gatherings there.

Does the home work well for guests?

It’s perfect for parties and out-of-town visitors. It has a guesthouse, and there are extra bedrooms upstairs in the main house. My husband and I often held holiday celebrations and business gatherings in the home. The back patio is a great entertaining space, too.

Have you made any improvements?

We recently renovated the whole house. We installed new kitchen cabinets and countertops and redid the floors, What is it like outdoors? trim work, shutters and more.

The house has a wonderful pool and a fire pit that works well for grilling out. There is a lovely waterfall, too; What is most appealing about the home?

The flow of the rooms is especially nice. There is a ton we always enjoyed relaxing in the pool and listening to the of storage space, and every inch of the layout is put to very water. The yard backs up to the woods, and the entire space good use. It’s a large home, but it still feels comfortable is very soothing, peaceful and private. The landscaping and welcoming. I love the spacious kitchen; I’m a chef and features lots of blooming plants and trees that turn bright cookbook author, so I enjoyed using it to create the content in the fall, so there is always plenty of color. for my books. It has a large center island, lots of cabinet space and a huge walk-in pantry.

from the homeowners » Emily and Andrew Frisella had their eye on this home and its beautiful surroundings long before it went on the market in 2014. So when a ‘for sale’ sign appeared, they took the plunge. “We’ve always loved the location and had admired the house for a while,” Emily says. “The day it came up for sale, we made an offer.” The couple has since moved a little farther west to gain more land, but Emily says she and Andrew enjoyed every moment of living in the house.

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REFRESH & REDO

HOW CAN YOU REMODEL YOUR MUDROOM TO DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE THE SPACE? While modern mudrooms are a way to show off personal style, their purpose is still very much functional. They provide extra storage and keep your home looking neat and organized.

It’s a tidy haven that makes the early morning rush to work and school far less hectic.

When you’re taking on a renovation project, we recommend starting with a clean slate.

Then, consider how the space will be used.

What does it need? For starters, a practical and purposeful mudroom needs to include sturdy flooring that can withstand the steady onslaught of outside debris. Although it’s more functional than fun, it should maintain a certain aesthetic. To achieve a fresh, minimal look, consider installing built-in storage features and lower-level finishes to draw the eye away from clutter.

Add some artwork to the walls so the space transitions effortlessly and beautifully into the living room, kitchen or foyer. Add in a midcentury wooden shoe bench or vintage water basin to liven up the surrounding area. When your mudroom shares space with another room, you also can add clever cabinetry and baskets to corral shoes and discreetly hide items.

What’s most important is creating a space that suits your home and family. All it takes is some out-of-the-box thinking and purposeful planning.

An organized and decluttered mudroom can change your life! The time it takes to find everything in the morning could be spent having a conversation with someone you love or relaxing for a few minutes before a hectic workday. When you have a place for everything and everything is in its place, your life is simplified.

The best mudroom designs have your unique lifestyle in mind. If you have a busy family with children in sports, we recommend specific spaces for bags, jackets, and dirty shoes or gear.

You can organize school papers, backpacks and personal items by giving everyone a ‘locker’ or ‘mailbox.’ A well-designed mudroom with a bench to sit down and take off your shoes, a docking station for electronics and designated areas for keys, jackets, handbags and shoes

would be perfect for any size family.

The most important aspect of an organized and decluttered mudroom is to purge. It’s best to take everything out of cabinets, cubbies, baskets and drawers and off hooks at least twice a year to sort through your items. It’s a great way to determine what needs to be donated, packed in your off-season storage area or placed in another part of the home so your beautiful mudroom doesn’t become a dumping ground.

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DEAR HOMEWORK,

We recently purchased this house in foreclosure and plan to flip it after making renovations. I think it has so much potential behind the long-neglected, messy landscaping.

I would love your suggestions for beautifying the exterior. What do you think of a path from the front door to the street? There isn’t room for a circular drive. Thanks for any help!

I thoroughly enjoy your column—who doesn’t love a good before and after?

Sincerely, —FIT TO BE FLIPPED

DEAR FIT TO BE FLIPPED,

To bring out the essence of this home, I would concentrate on amplifying the formal and symmetrical aspects of its character. Of course, that will be easier if we remove all existing ‘landscaping.’

I would start with a wide, stone walkway from the street to the front door, bordered with clipped hedges and ornamental grasses. Finish it off with large urns overflowing with flowers. A new, low evergreen hedge at the colonnade also connects to new rows of Hornbeam trees that frame the central composition.

Next, replace the roof with new shingles that have more color and character. Finally, and perhaps most importantly, paint the existing orange-toned brick a more urbane shade of gray. I think this works well with the black shutters and white columns. It also makes the entire composition feel even more formal, giving the property a new confidence.

Hope that helps, —HOMEWORK

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BLOG OF… 8 EXPERT TIPS FOR A STUDY CORNER THAT INSPIRES PHOTOS COURTESY OF SCOUT & NIMBLE

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A NEW ACADEMIC YEAR IS FAST APPROACHING, and with it comes the need to create a space for intellectual stimulation and productivity. Even if you don’t have a room dedicated to work and study, you still can create a comfortable and inspiring nook where you can assist your kids with homework or do some work yourself. Here are our eight expert tips for creating a study corner that will help you do just that.

1. Get the basics right.

A comfortable chair and sufficient desk space are the only things you really need to make a study corner work for you. It doesn’t have to be big— depending on your exact needs, even a simple trestle table will do.

2. Aim for daylight.

Natural daylight is not only less strenuous on your eyes than artificial light, it is also great for your mood. Ensure that the desk is placed in such a way that you don’t get glare on your computer screen. Light from the side or directly behind the computer screen when the desk is placed against a window works best.

3. Add a layer of task lighting.

Even though natural light is first prize, you also have to ensure that there is sufficient task lighting for working outside daylight hours. A desk lamp can be a beautiful statement piece, so choose something that is both functional and aesthetic. Use a cool white to daylight bulb to shed optimum light on the work surface.

4. Don’t be afraid to personalize the space.

Just because it’s meant to be a productive space doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun with it! We are inspired by the things we love, so add a pinboard or gallery wall to your study corner. If it will be too distracting facing the desk, add it to an adjacent wall.

5. Add essential storage.

An organized desk area is said to improve productivity, and for that, ample storage is needed. A large unit with space for baskets, files, books and more is ideal.

6. Utilize all areas.

Don’t have the floor space to add freestanding or built-in shelving units?

Use the area above your desk and install floating shelves or cubbies. These are great for books, files or displaying artwork.

7. Green it up.

Plants uplift the spirit and help with air purification, which is just what you need when you’re working late at night. Add some greenery to your desk area with lush houseplants or fresh flowers. Match the pots to the rest of the decor in the room and add your personal touch in the process.

8. If you can’t hide it, flaunt it!

In many homes, the study is a small nook that forms part of the living room, kitchen or a bedroom. Integrate this small, practical space with the rest of your decor by matching the color scheme and adding complementary accessories. You even can match the upholstery to the rest of the furniture in the living room. This will enable you to use the desk chair for guests.

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