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webster groves police department

Police officers in Webster Groves emphasized the ‘serve’ aspect of ‘protect and serve’—literally!

They took orders and waited tables at Highway 61 Roadhouse and Kitchen to support Special Olympics Missouri and the more than 15,000 athletes who participate.

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Many people had reason to be thankful at the 31st annual Dinner for Those in Need, which served around 530 guests this year. Five hundred pounds of turkey was carved to accompany Thanksgiving classics like mashed potatoes and pumpkin pie. The event ensures every person who attends receives a comforting holiday meal.

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Ditto Family Resale, a consignment shop in Glendale, donated $2,000 to North Glendale Elementary.

The store plans to support educational needs in the community through such donations, and North Glendale is the first recipient!

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The stars were out for Affinia Healthcare’s inaugural Starburst Gala. Two hundred and sixty guests attended the event, which was emceed by KSDK news anchor Kelly Jackson and supports Affinia’s mission of providing high-quality care and promoting healthy lifestyles.

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FROM THE EDITOR’S DESK

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THERE HAS BEEN AN UPROAR OF LATE, ONE THAT IS LONG PAST DUE. Women are

standing up for themselves, standing up against a power that has unfortunately controlled numerous industries. I don’t usually discuss the latest hard-hitting news in this letter, but the current crisis, growing daily it seems, is hard to dismiss.

Our fashion spread on menswear-inspired looks could not have come at a better time. Titled Embrace the Power, it promotes women to do just that. While a feminine look can be elegant no doubt, the latest trend encourages women to embrace their strengths (at work, in life) with equally fierce clothes. Add a few structured jackets, pinstripe pants or even full-blown suits to your closet! They can be just as becoming.

You could easily rock a pant suit instead of yet another cocktail dress to any of the season’s parties left to attend. Yes, we’re still in the thick of the holidays right now, and T&S continues to offer gift ideas and tips to make them extra memorable. Marylyn Simpson shares the best presents for all of the beauty lovers on your list in Gift Something Beautiful, and two local boutiques give advice on how to dress your table for the holidays. Some years I find myself recreating the same setting as the previous one, so it’s nice to have a few suggestions for a fresh, new look.

Your guests will appreciate the effort!

This issue also features one of my family’s beloved spots in Kirkwood: Summit Produce at the Kirkwood Farmers’ Market.

It’s where we buy our Christmas tree, pumpkins, fresh tomatoes and other seasonal produce—oh, and the bags (and bags!) of yogurt-covered pretzels during the holidays. I’ve lost count this year already. It truly does have a family atmosphere, with friendly staff who are happy to be there helping customers.

Owner Dan Mitchell tells us the history of the wonderfully local business in Apronomics. Definitely try the pretzels.

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A PERSONAL STRUGGLE WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES CAN SEEM LIKE A LONG, difficult

and uncertain journey. It’s a path more people are finding themselves on these days, says Kevin Drollinger, president and executive director of Provident Mental Health. The nonprofit has seen a significant uptick in calls to its Life Crisis Line, underscoring the importance of support and funding for its programs and services. “The hotline is on track to receive about 70,000 calls this year, many from people in crisis who are considering suicide,” Drollinger notes. “That’s more than double the number we received last year.”

Provident believes the increase is due largely to the turmoil of current events and social conflict.

“People in the community are stressed and reaching out for help,” Drollinger explains. “We get calls from all 50 states and other countries. Our hotline staff is well trained and equipped, so if someone calls from another state, they instantly can locate resources for the person in his or her area.”

In addition to mental health counseling and crisis intervention services, Provident offers after-school programs and community outreach activities that support good mental health. The organization also is working with the Clark-Fox Policy Institute at Washington University to advocate for additional training for social workers. “Last year we nearly got state legislation through that would increase the suicide prevention training social workers receive when first licensed and when renewing their licenses,” he says. “The bill didn’t pass, but we are hoping to refile it this month. Social workers are the ‘first responders’ of mental health care, so we think this effort is important.” Provident and the Clark-Fox Policy Institute also are working to increase access to care for those who have been incarcerated so they can reintegrate into the community.

Since critical mental health services require continuous funding, Provident throws an annual Spirit of Provident gala to involve the community in supporting its work. It will be held Feb. 10 at The Four Seasons Hotel downtown and will honor Spirit of Provident awardees Maxine Clark and Bob Fox, entrepreneurs and funders of the Policy Institute. Clark is expected to share moving remarks on her personal connection to Provident’s work. “It will be a wonderful evening with dinner and music,” Drollinger says. “We will recognize those who have contributed their time, talent and treasure, but it won’t just be a succession of speeches. We strike a balance between getting our message across and letting guests relax and celebrate.” Attendees will hear from keynote speaker and author Pete Earley, known for his writing on the state of mental health care in the U.S. He also will be part of a Feb. 9 panel discussion Provident and the Clark-Fox Policy Institute are hosting on access to care.

Drollinger says the organization is on the cutting edge of crisis intervention, so those who support its efforts truly can feel they are making a difference for clients. “The American Institute of Suicidology has called our program a model for the rest of the nation,” he notes. “We often are asked to present on crisis intervention at national conferences, and we have great success rates.

The same goes for our after-school and counseling programs. We are proud of our 158-year history of service, and we work hard to send a powerful and hopeful message about mental health.”

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The week before Thanksgiving, a five-alarm warehouse fire in the south St. Louis neighborhood destroyed hundreds of toys and blankets meant for patients at Shriners Hospital for Children—but it didn’t dash the hopes of kids looking forward to the hospital’s annual Christmas party, held last Sunday (Dec. 10). The community rallied with various toy drives, and there were more than enough presents for the 1,500 invited. But, as they say, need has no season. Another toy drive winds up this Saturday (Dec. 16). Teddy bears and coloring books are wonderful, but donations will be accepted for kids up to 18 as well. At least one St. Louisan has established a page at gofundme.com, and financial contributions will be used to purchase items on the Shriners wish list, such as: » Toys and puzzles » Plush animals » St. Louis Cardinals or Blues hats and apparel » Games, including video games and card games » Gift cards (Amazon, iTunes, Gap, Old Navy, Red Robin, McDonald’s, etc.) » Makeup, nail polish, bath and body products, cologne or perfume gift sets » Arts and crafts supplies, crayons, colored pencils and markers If you’re more hands-on, you may drop off donations at the hospital, 4400 Clayton Ave. in St. Louis (63110 for any GPS’ers who get turned around in the CWE). If you would care to mail a check to that address, note ‘Patient Needs’ or ‘Toy Drive’ on the memo line. Toys are not part of the hospital budget— and, of course, patient needs are year-round. Plus, toys for these patients aren’t just for creative play; often, they’re needed for distraction therapy during difficult or painful procedures, or during recovery from surgery. Regardless of a family’s ability to pay, Shriners provides advanced care for children with orthopedic conditions, burns, spinal-cord injuries, and cleft lips and palates.

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For centuries, racial segregation was the law of the land. It was systemic; people of color were discriminated against, from the federal government level to the local neighborhood association. Water fountains and restrooms were labeled ‘White Only’ or ‘Colored Only.’ St. Louis is famous for protests

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that made lunch counters accessible to all, from downtown to Kirkwood. But for some people, it seems prejudice is in their DNA. It may well be argued that race relations have improved hardly at all, irrespective of the civil rights struggle and U.S. Supreme Court decisions. Segregation by Design, an exhibit at the Central Library through Jan. 8 and the result of a collaborative architecture seminar, explores this. Students from Washington U. and Harris-Stowe State University came together to explore policy and planning decisions that have led to urban segregation, examining how these decisions are inextricably tied to racial, cultural, physical and socioeconomic segregation. Student teams were tasked with exploring specific neighborhoods in the metro, analyzing and mapping historical, demographic and environmental data. Alternating between campuses, students learned from guest lectures, as well as from direct mentoring and coaching from professionals.

Teams consisted of a mix of students from the two schools working with two professional advisers: one from architecture or a related discipline and one from a humanities discipline, including history, policy and urban affairs. Student teams also visited their neighborhoods, talked with residents and officials, and made an in-depth urban analysis that explored each neighborhood’s challenges and opportunities. Each team then drafted a proposal to mitigate segregation faced by the community. Proposals ranged from new services such as vocational education to new residential and commercial development to policies to create new community land trusts. This process seems appropriate as a requirement for completing high school.

some might imagine … although beer and pizza are included in the ‘Just for the Gentlemen’ shopping excursion at Knox Gallery of Fine Art, 2214 S. Big Bend Blvd. in Richmond Heights. It’s tomorrow night (Dec. 14), from 6 to 9 p.m., and it’s free. Bring your list of gift recipients, and a gallery helper will bring out unique selections for your consideration.

If you choose not to buy anything, nobody gets hurt, your belly’s full, and there are still 10 shopping days left before you just throw your hands up and buy a big ol’ flat-screen TV.

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Many men would rather rip out their toenails with pliers than go shopping. They furtively browse jewelry stores, scared to death they’ll buy something too big … or too small. Others wander aimlessly through the mall a few weeks before Dec. 25, uninspired.

Unfortunately for some, inspiration strikes at The Home Depot when buying an inflatable Santa or Frosty, and the big dope picks out a leaf blower for her that she’ll make him use. All too many, finally frantic, show up at Walgreens at the very last minute Dec. 24. (Well, they do have cosmetics and candy there.) Dudes, don’t do this to yourselves—or your loved ones, especially! First, pliers and toenails are a non-starter. By now, you already should have made the acquaintance of sales associates in any number of fine boutiques and familiarized yourself with both ends of Plaza Frontenac, along with some of the fine shops on your meander in one direction or the other.

Regardless of how long you and your significant other have been together, you should know, at least, that bedroom slippers won’t cut it. Many a personal shopper or savvy sister would steer you away from such a bad idea. Speaking of personal shoppers, why not enjoy a night out with the guys before it gets too late in the month? Not the kind of men’s night

Is there a more obnoxious way to wish the world ‘Happy Holidays!’ or ‘Season’s Greetings!’ than by wearing an ugly Christmas sweater? There, we said it—and now, twice: Christmas. And we’ll say it a third time, probably even more. We won’t say ‘Merry Christmas,’ however, even though the president himself insists that it’s OK. Sad. Anyhow, what’s as likely to evoke nausea (we mean holiday spirit) than a pub crawl while wearing the absolute ugliest Christmas sweater you can find? (Ho, ho, ewww … folks at Goodwill, watch out; here come the precrawlers!) You and your festive friends may embark upon the ‘World’s Largest Ugly Christmas Sweater Pub Crawl’ in The Delmar Loop and Clayton this Saturday (Dec. 16) from 8 p.m. to midnight. While altering your mood, you may also lift your spirits with the realization that 20 percent of your ticket price will benefit one of five local charities, your choice.

But you’ll also score a Santa hat, souvenir T-shirt, photo booths with Santa, drink specials—and, most responsibly, a designated driver. Yesss! The price for crawling is not dirty knees and elbows. It’s $25, which includes a shuttle pass to participating pubs and bars.

Now, since The Delmar Loop is the capital of our ‘Neighborhood to the World,’ ‘yule’ probably not be

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surprised that other traditions are just as important as that Christmas thing we keep bringing up. Last night (Dec. 12) was the sixth annual menorah lighting, which kicked off the eight crazy nights of Hanukkah with hot latkes, chocolate gelt and Chasidic dancing to a Washington U. klezmer band. On Dec. 30, students from Bertha Knox Gilkey Pamoja Prep Academy will help the community celebrate Kwanzaa with live music, dancing and art exhibits. In between Hanukkah and Kwanzaa, some of us mark Festivus Dec. 23, and Dec. 25 is … wait, it was right on the tip of my tongue.

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Jeepers! Will we, or will we not, zip at Hidden Valley one day? Well, after all of the fake snow they manage to make this season goes away, the ski area has threatened that it might just go away, too—for

good. Hold everything! Maybe not.

As our beloved philosopher on The Hill, Yogi Berra, once put it: ‘It ain’t over ’til it’s over.’ On Nov. 24, Peak Resorts withdrew its proposal to build a zip-line operation on the hillside after Wildwood planning and zoning officials curtailed the hours and months it could operate; recommended the attraction be moved 75 feet farther away from neighborhoods; and then kicked Peak’s petition to its Parks and Recreation Committee for further consideration. Peak had insisted it would need the zip-line operation to ensure profitability in warmer months, or it might sell the property to housing developers. Bummer. Then, on Nov. 27, the company rescinded its withdrawal letter.

Cool. So, is this all just saber rattling—that is, banging

a bunch of aluminum ski poles together to make a big enough racket to drown out residents loudly expressing their NIMBY (‘Not In My Back Yard’) concerns? We’ll have to wait for the other ski boot to drop. In any event, it would be the end of an era.

Hidden Valley, the metro’s only ski area, has been in operation since 1982, a very big year here: A recordsetting blizzard in the winter, a World Series victory in the fall.

[TT TRIVIA] WHERE WAS SHRINERS HOSPITAL FOR CHILDREN-ST. LOUIS LOCATED BEFORE MOVING INTO ITS BRAND-NEW FACILITY IN THE CWE? (HINT: THERE WAS MORE THAN ONE LOCATION.) LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | FESTIVUS—‘THE FESTIVAL FOR THE REST OF US’—DREW NATIONAL ATTENTION THANKS TO SEINFELD WRITER DANNY O’KEEFE. BECAUSE GEORGE COSTANZA’S FATHER, FRANK (JERRY STILLER), WANTED ‘TO GET A LEG UP ON CHRISTMAS,’ THE HOLIDAY IS CELEBRATED DEC. 23. AN ALUMINUM FESTIVUS POLE—WHICH REQUIRES NO DECORATION—IS SET UP. PREPARE TO AIR YOUR GRIEVANCES AND DEMONSTRATE FEATS OF STRENGTH, LIKE WRESTLING ... TRADITION STATES FESTIVUS IS NOT OVER UNTIL THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD IS PINNED.

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IF YOU WERE NOT A FAN OF THE TV SERIES

Parks and Recreation (2009-2015), what is wrong with you? Sorry, sometimes I just type my unfiltered words. P&R starred Amy Poehler. No greater compliment can be paid to me than when someone says, “You remind me of Amy Poehler, especially when you make that face.” One of the best gifts P&R gave us was ‘Treat Yo’ Self’ Day, which was introduced by Tom Haverford and Donna Meagle in Season 4. It encourages you to ‘treat yo’ self’ to “clothes, fragrances, mimosas, fine leather goods and puppy parties.” Usually this day is recognized Oct. 13, but it somehow got past me this year. So I decided that during the crazy holiday season, I would declare ‘Treat Yo’ Self’ Week. How do I wield such power? Because I kind of look like Amy Poehler and I write this column.

My daughter talked me into the first activity: floating. Sure, I wanted to be confined to a pod that looked straight out of The Jetsons filled with water and Epsom salts for 90 minutes by myself, floating with only my mind to occupy me. If you follow my column, you know I have a mind that races and is best spent doing instead of being. But I decided to try it for just a few minutes. There are two locations of FLOAT STL (floatingstl.com), and as we walked in the door, I could smell the candles burning and hear the hushed voices: two signs I should run for the exit, but I didn’t.

Instead, after receiving my instructions, I disrobed and entered my pod, where I floated. Did I spend time in mediation? Not quite. I actually pretended I was part of the Olympic synchronized swim team and created a little routine. Ridiculous I know, but so much fun. When the 90 minutes were over, I was sad to leave and relaxed. I mean, maybe I did meditate or fall asleep and I simply don’t remember.

Next stop was Jennifer Farrar-Farmer (lockwoodchiropractic.com) for a massage—but not just any massage, a pillossage! Unlike floating, I stayed fully clothed for this experience. Jennifer used warm pillows filled with flax seeds and lavender to give me an all-over massage that can only be described as blissful. My shoulder stopped aching, my head stopped hurting and by the end, I wanted my very own flax seed pillow. Although I knew even if I had one, I wouldn’t be able to put the right pressure on the right places to make the aches and pains go away. Jennifer was the key to pillossage working.

And finally, did you know it is possible to spend $130 on fine chocolates? Well, I did just that in one visit to Bissinger’s during ‘Treat Yo’ Self’ Week!

First, some truffles for my husband and then, well, everything else for me!

I know, you are far too busy to make this ‘Treat Yo’ Self’ Week. But really, your family is not going to notice the one last-minute gift they didn’t get.

(Unless you are a guy who believes your wife when she says, “Don’t get me anything this year. I have everything I want.” It’s a trap; don’t fall for it.) Come on, just treat yo’ self!

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A glimpse at what’s going on around St. Louis and beyond.

by julia m. johnson

Kids are getting a leg up on good nutrition ▶ thanks to OPERATION FOOD SEARCH, which launched a program to provide area

students with after-school ‘super snacks’ like fruit, vegetables, proteins and

dairy. Inaugural locations are Lift for Life Academy and Innovative Concepts Academy, and the program will expand to include some local library branches.

▲ This year’s PEDAL THE CAUSE cycling fundraiser posted record-breaking results—$4,002,639, to be exact, the largest dollar amount raised by a single St. Louis event directly funding cancer research. More than 4,500 people participated in the September ride. Proceeds support research at Siteman Cancer Center and Siteman Kids at St. Louis Children’s Hospital. ◀ Congrats to ROOSEVELT HIGH SCHOOL senior Michaelmonique Mayo, named 2018 Youth of

the Year by Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis.

She’s being recognized for her contributions to the nonprofit and to her school, community and family. Mayo won a Honda Accord from Frank Leta Automotive Group and a $5,000 college scholarship.

She plans to study photojournalism.

▲ HABITAT FOR HUMANITY Saint Louis is getting what it normally gives—a new home of its own!

The nonprofit • cars • trucks

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3830 S. Grand Blvd., a former Schnucks store that will be renovated.

A donation from the grocery chain is helping make the project possible.

The site will include a ReStore, which sells repurposed home and building materials.

〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Explore the history of a former St. Louis retail icon at a book signing by Edna Campos Gravenhorst, author of Famous Barr: St. Louis Shopping at Its Finest. She’ll be at the downtown YMCA Dec. 14.

Round up the family for DreamWorks Animation in Concert Dec. 29 and 30 at Powell Hall. The show celebrates favorite DreamWorks films like Shrek and Kung Fu Panda with live music by the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra.

Head to The Chase Park Plaza Hotel for a special Reveillon Dinner at The Preston. The traditional French holiday meal is served nightly through Dec. 31 and features a four-course, prix fixe meal with optional wine pairings.

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Q: LATELY, I’VE BEEN UNDER A LOT OF PRESSURE AT WORK AND

WITH THE UPCOMING HOLIDAYS, MY STRESS LEVEL IS JUST ABOUT ON OVERLOAD. ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO TAKE A MENTAL HEALTH BREAK WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY? - NEED SOME RELIEF SOONER RATHER THAN LATER

A: We all need to take a break—and whether it’s a vacation,

staycation or play-cation, it’s important to take some time off from the demands of our job to keep our stress levels in check.

And forget feeling guilty! When we take a break, we’re taking care of ourselves, so we will have the stamina to do our best at work.

According to mental health professionals, letting stress build up can be unhealthy and can snowball to the point where even positive events make us feel anxious. And, for you, with the added stress of the upcoming holidays, it sounds like a “mental health break” is not only in order but necessary to avoid becoming overwhelmed.

If you need a break (and your boss is on board), there are several different options, such as: a week or longer vacation, a couple of days at home, or even a few minutes during your work day to disrupt your stress level to help you get back into action. If you take a week’s vacation, be sure to prioritize rest and fun. Don’t over-schedule yourself with tourist activities or bring so much work home that when you return, you need a vacation from your vacation. Or, you might try a staycation at home, which is all about rest and relaxation and truly enjoying home sweet home. That means no household chores or dealing with regular responsibilities and, again, don’t let your work creep in. Turn off the phones, and ignore email. Let your office e-alerts do the work by letting your clients and colleagues know when you will return and that you will not have email access until then. Another option is a play-cation, which is similar to a staycation. You stay at home, but it’s all about fun as a way to recharge your batteries. You may want to take several days for a play-cation or just schedule fun into your day on a regular basis.

If none of these options are doable at the moment, learn how to take short breaks during your workday—maybe take a walk outside; if you bike to work, take a spin around the block; or take five minutes for a meditation session. These brief bursts of interruption may just boost your energy and freshen your perspective to get back in the game. Whatever you decide, make a decision to give yourself an early holiday gift and schedule a mental health break today!

The Velvet Hammer wishes you a joyous holiday season and a healthy, productive new year.

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“I recognized early in my medical training that doctors were not taking the time to get to the root cause of a patient’s illness, and patients would continue to come back with re-admission for the same diagnosis,” says Dr. Lauren Munsch Dal Farra, cardiologist, CEO and co-founder of PALM Health. “I knew that a shift in mindset was needed in both prevention and treatment. I wanted to put the focus on a mind, body, spirit approach that integrated the best of conventional medicine with lifestyle services and wellness resources to help people reach total well-being.”

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Nancy McClure, owner of CarePatrol of Greater Saint Louis, feels very honored to have been able to help several elders find a new home and help their loved ones navigate the confusing world of senior care during the two years she has been in business. CarePatrol’s innovative, caring and unprecedented approach to clients looking for long-term care has positioned the company as a pioneer in the senior industry.

To ensure quality, CarePatrol tries to visit each community before suggesting it. Every family receives information about a small, handpicked number of communities rather than just a random list. We accompany clients on tours to our recommended communities and review the care and violation history of each. CarePatrol exists to provide the safest care options for seniors across America.

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»t-cell immunotherapy

THE U.S. FOOD AND DRUG ADMINISTRATION approved a new, personalized cell therapy that supercharges the patient’s immune system to find and kill cancer cells. The therapy, axibabtagene ciloleucel (Yescarta), is supported by the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (LLS) and is the second therapy for a new method of treatment known as CAR (chimeric antigen receptor) T-cell immunotherapy. It uses genetic engineering to reprogram the patient's immune T-cells to target cancer cells. LLS has invested more than $40 million in research and development for CAR therapy. It supported the clinical trial leading to the approval of Yescarta through its Therapy Acceleration Program, which partners with biotechnology companies to accelerate the development of promising treatments. Yescarta is for patients with relapsed or refractory diffuse large B-cell lymphoma, the most common type of non-Hodgkin lymphoma. It offers a 60 percent, fiveyear overall survival rate, and 25,000 people in the U.S. are expected to be diagnosed with the condition in 2017. In the trial, 51 percent of patients treated had a complete response with no detectable cancer remaining.

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Fascioscapulohumeral muscular dystrophy (FSHD) is an inherited type of the condition that affects more than 800,000 people worldwide, and there is currently no cure. Scientists have learned that the DUX4 gene is responsible for FSHD. DR. FRANCIS M. SVERDRUP, a research fellow in the SAINT LOUIS UNIVERSITY department of biochemistry and molecular biology, has used this discovery to identify new drug targets to slow or halt the progression of the disease. Sverdrup and a research team identified two classes of drugs that turn off DUX4: BET inhibitors and beta agonists. The former already is being studied in clinical trials for cancer, and the latter is widely used to treat asthma and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. “It’s encouraging that our first two screens yielded molecules that turn off DUX4, and this provides hope that additional candidates can be identified in larger screens,” Sverdrup says. He is working with Ultragenyx Pharmaceuticals to optimize potential treatment specifically for FSHD. Sverdrup’s paper on the subject is published in the journal Skeletal Muscle.

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Stay Active Studies have shown that exercise adds years to your life, even if you don't start until you're older. It maintains your strength, helps you sleep, improves your mental health and can reduce chronic pain.

It is suggested that adults age 65 and older should have at least 30 minutes of moderate physical activity every day. Strength training at

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least twice a week and other vigorous activity at least once a week are recommended as well.

The definition of 'old' dramatically changes as you age. What you considered ancient as a child (anything near 60) becomes a desirable

TIPS:

phase of life—one that often includes lots of activities, new hobbies

JUST WALK. You don't have to follow the latest fitness craze. Walking— which you can do anywhere—is one of the best ways to stay fit.

and travel. The kids are most likely out of the house, retirement is on the horizon if not already in place, and the world is waiting to be explored. Below are guidelines to stay healthy, active and connected— and doing it all on a beach somewhere far away is perfectly acceptable.

FIND AN ACTIVITY YOU LIKE. You want to look forward to your workout; if you don't like running or walking, try tennis or swimming.

DON'T OVERDO IT. While it might be hard to admit, you're not able to handle what you could in your 20s. Increase time and intensity at a gradual pace.

EXERCISE WITH FRIENDS OR FAMILY. If you make an 'appointment' with someone, you're much more likely to stick with it. Plus, it's a great time to hang out while doing something beneficial! * INFORMATION SOURCED FROM LIVEWELL.COM AND HELPGUIDE.COM.

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Get a Hobby

Stay Connected

Eat Well

Now is the time to take that painting class you've

There are plenty of life events—friends moving

Decreased

always wanted to, or learn how to play chess.

to their retirement locales, kids moving out,

in taste and smell, and slower

Whatever you choose to do, keep your mind

illness and death—that can force your social

digestion

moving and stimulated.

life to change. It's easy to withdraw or 'just stay

relationship with food as you age.

in,' especially if it's only you in the house. But

But eating healthy is still super

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important and will help your body

PLAY WITH YOUR GRANDKIDS. Their little minds are full of fun ideas, and they probably can teach you a thing or two! They'll keep you young in more ways than one.

stay connected.

work as it should.

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VOLUNTEER. There are many organizations that can use all the help they can get. Your time and| effort will be valued and appreciated, you'll meet new people, and you'll help others in the process.

LOAD UP ON FIBER. Since your digestive system is working more slowly, fiber is extra important now.

Find it in whole grains, fruit and vegetables; you'll notice an increase in your energy.

REGULARLY KEEP IN TOUCH WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY. It doesn't have to be a long phone

MAKE IT LOOK NICE. We eat with our eyes first, so make meals that look appetizing. Getting older doesn't mean food has to be boring and bland; just flavor things differently.

LEARN SOMETHING NEW. Whether it's a foreign language, new game or an instrument, it's never too late.

ENJOY THE ARTS. Experience culture by visiting a museum, taking a docent-led tour, or attending a lecture or concert.

conversation every time, but just hearing someone's voice for a few minutes and catching up makes a difference.

MAKE PLANS. Try to see someone you know a few times a week, whether you run errands together or meet for lunch.

DATE. Yes, dating can be fun, and why not meet someone who has similar interests? Love knows no age!

metabolism, all

affect

changes your

DRINK WATER. Seniors are more susceptible to dehydration, so stay hydrated by drinking plenty of fluids, especially water.

EAT AND SOCIALIZE. It's always more fun to eat with a group than by yourself. Enjoy the time to socialize over food.

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Saint Louis Ballet’s The Nutcracker marks the start of the holiday season!

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Sponsor a Fur-Ever Friend this holiday season and you’ll help provide safe shelter, life-saving veterinary care, and much-needed TLC to homeless pets.

Sponsor Frisco and gift a plush replica, too.

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Give and Get in Return!

Give a gift of $100 or more to Circle Of Concern and receive a Missouri Food Pantry Tax Credit up to $2,500 for single filers or $5,000 for joint filers!

Your generous donation provides low income families in West St. Louis County with: • Wholesome Foods • Financial Assistance • Summer Camp Opportunities • Career Mentorship • Scholarships Get back more than just the gratitude of your neighbors in need this holiday season!

The 60-piece band’s 19th annual Holiday Pops Spectacular will brighten the Skip Viragh Center at Chaminade. Showtimes at 2 and 7:30 p.m. Dec. 23 will feature Hugh Smith, Gina Galati, Robert Ellison and the East Central College Choir. chband.org

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As Christmas approaches, we ask that you remember the patients and families at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital by giving to our annual Tree of Hope.

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WISH LIST IN THIS SEASON OF GIVING, Town&Style has contacted local charities to ask what’s on their wish lists.

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families so they find safety, hope and success in life

6 p.m. Tuesday through Friday

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CONTACT: Shannon Richards, 314.291.6211

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SOUTHSIDE EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER MISSION: To nurture, educate and inspire children and ITEMS NEEDED: Diapers (any size), Pull-Ups (any size),

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Monday through Friday

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coffee is a universal beverage. To those who love its energy and warmth, it is undeniable that a quality cup can be nothing short of extraordinary.

There are many different species of coffee, but Arabica and Robusta are the most widely grown. Robusta, grown in lower altitudes, is what you find in most mass-produced coffee blends.

Arabica is used by specialty coffee producers; grown at higher elevations, it produces the best coffee beans for roasting. While Ethiopia is known as the birthplace of coffee, beans are grown in many warm climates around the world.

Coffee goes through a long process before making it to your cup.

First, ripe coffee cherries are harvested, an often labor-intensive process since many coffee trees are grown on steep hills. The best cherries are harvested by hand. There are two main processes used once they are harvested. The dry process lays ripe cherries in the sun before they rest for two months. Then, the beans are hulled to remove the outside layer of skin before being bagged. The washed process incorporates the use of water.

Once the coffee is purchased from a farmer, it’s roasted to produce its dominant flavor profile, from light to dark. The coffee is then ground to be brewed. To make your cup extra tasty, try one of the following coffee cocktails.

[ mexican carajillo ] A popular Mexican drink that is simple and delicious; a personal favorite of mine to drink after dinner 1 SHOT OF ESPRESSO 2 OZ. LICOR 43

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Fill rocks glass with ice. Pour Licor 43 in glass, and when ready to »drink, add a shot of espresso and stir.

[ irish coffee ] The perfect drink to warm you up this winter 4 OZ. FRESHLY BREWED COFFEE 1 T BROWN SUGAR 1.5 OZ. JAMESON (OR IRISH WHISKEY OF YOUR CHOOSING)

FRESH WHIPPED CREAM CINNAMON

Pour sugar into an Irish coffee glass, add coffee and stir. Pour in »whiskey, and stir. Top with fresh whipped cream and lightly garnish with cinnamon.

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celebrates the courage and strength of the children and families Great Circle serves and raises funds so all families can have easy access to mental and behavioral health care. WHO President and CEO Vince Hillyer, board chair Jack Gillis, co-chairs Paul and Amy Inman HIGHLIGHTS Dinner, auction, dancing, powerful testimonials from alumni and their families

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Jacque Phillips, RN, BSN, AccuCare President/ Founder; and Jane Olsen, RN, Dir. Nursing/Operations At AccuCare, caregivers show clients the same level of compassion they would show their own families. Jacque Phillips and Jane Olsen have firsthand experience as they both cared for their own parents in their homes the last several years of their lives. Treating their clients as they would care for their own family is the driving force that allows AccuCare Home Health Care of St Louis to provide exceptional care with dignity and respect. They give peace of mind to you and your family. They make themselves accessible to clients by phone or email 24/7.

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the lives of Cardinal Glennon kids, and proceeds benefit inpatient and outpatient cancer services in The Costas Center.

WHO Host Justin Willman, dinner chairs Jim and Rose Brennan, hospital president Steven Burghart, special guest Anne Allred HIGHLIGHTS Cocktails, dinner, Glennon Award recipient Allen Allred, special performance by comedian Tom Papa

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[PRESENT AT EVERY PRICE SHINE BOUTIQUE $ Cashmere-like scarf, $12; add a monogram for $8.50 $$ Colorful cluster bracelets to wear together or individually, $78 each $$$ Lauren clutch of calf hair and leather from Hobo in eggplant, $178 9811 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.942.3055 | SHINEBOUTIQUE.COM

WILSON LIGHTING $ A brass and glass decorative piece is perfect for holiday arrangements

or as a stand-alone accent piece, $72 $$ A surrealist Arabian horse statue in gold leaf finish, $220 $$$ A nature-inspired decorative bowl with an antique silver finish, $363 909 S. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.222.6300

K. HALL DESIGNS $ K. Hall Designs Milk Bath Bomb with a blended fragrance of coconut, vanilla and cream, $8 $$ Barr-Co. Soap Shop Warm Trio Lip Balm Gift Set includes honeysuckle, blood orange amber and lemon verbena balms, $28 $$$ Barr-Co. Reserve Scent Diffuser Kit with nicotiana, patchouli, cedar and oak oils, $54

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C o u n t d ow n t o C hr i stmas Whether you have yet to decorate or are checking the final hard-to-buy-for folks off your list, Marketplace at the Abbey has everything you need to make the countdown to Christmas less stressful. From exclusive artificial Christmas trees and unique ornaments, to charming hostess gifts and customizable keepsakes, let the Abbey be your one-stop-shop this season!

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IMMERSE $ Numbers from Atlas Homewares Modern Avalon Collection, $19.98 $$ The Transparency Series appliance pull by Nest Studio, $165 $$$ Brizo’s Litze Series ceiling-mount shower head in luxe gold, $828

GENOVESE JEWELERS $ 14kt. white gold hoops with pavé round diamonds at .44cttw, $1,325 $$ Stunning 14kt. two-tone ring with diamonds at .79tw., $3,050 $$$ 14kt. yellow gold bypass cuff bracelet with 1.49tw round pavé diamonds, $6,700 12460 OLIVE BLVD. | 314.878.6203 | GENOVESEJEWELERS.COM

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CRAFT ALLIANCE $ Charming, hand-blown glass ornaments by local and national artists,

$24 each $$ Earrings by Philippa Roberts are a perennial bouquet of semiprecious stones, $148 $$$ Handcrafted wooden jewelry chest with inlay by artist Mike Mikutowski, $339 6640 DELMAR BLVD. | 314.725.1177 EXT. 322 | CRAFTALLIANCE.ORG

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PAPERDOLLS BOUTIQUE $ Loni two-tone glass tassel earrings, available in five fabulous colors, $29.50 $$ Palmer crushed velvet shoulder bag, available in six colors, $52.50 $$$ Samantha wool poncho is one-size-fits-all, $118 KIRKWOOD | DES PERES | BALLWIN | U. CITY | PAPERDOLLS.BOUTIQUE

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ALBARRÉ $ Bar earrings with bezel set diamonds, available in white, yellow or rose gold, $325 $$ Pearls available in sizes from 5mm to 20mm in white, gold, pink, brown, black and chocolate. Call for pricing. $$$ 5-carat cushion-cut diamond ring set. Call for pricing.

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SPORT COURT ST. LOUIS $ Reindeer Games fun pack, $600 $$ Pro Slam basketball hoop, $2,400 $$$ Sport Court backyard game court, starting at $10,000

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Sending Warm Wishes, Happy Holidays The Fur Boutique SAVVY $ Agate bottle stopper with gold leaf edge, $18.75 $$ Polished nickel and gold serving tray, $52.50 $$$ Assorted set of eight porcelain reindeer plates, $170

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Sparkle & Shine This Holiday Season!

TIMEKEEPERS $ 14kt. white gold 9mm pearl stud earrings with

diamonds, $575 $$ Ladies’ 18kt. yellow gold and stainless steel Rolex Date with tapestry diamond dial, $4,500 $$$ An 18kt. yellow gold Cartier La Dona model, $17,000 17 N. MERAMEC AVE. | 9495 OLIVE BLVD., STE. C 314.721.4548 | 314.991.0994 TIMEKEEPERSCLAYTON.COM | TIMEKEEPERSSTL.COM

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PALM HEALTH $ Turkish-T short linen kimono, $85 $$ Revision Holiday ‘One of a Kind’ gift set, $185 $$$ Kashwere ‘You Matter’ pillow and throw, $224 9160 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.801.8898

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THE FUR BOUTIQUE $ Plaid cashmere cape with silver fox collar, $450 $$ Sheared fur jacket, $1,200

$$$ Red cashmere cape with matching fox trim, $2,200

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SAINT LOUIS BALLET B. DAVIS DESIGN $ Feed the birds in style with a seeded birdhouse in three different sizes, $29 $$ Handmade papier-mâché Santa with painted face and beautiful beading details, $159 $$$ Pewter pitcher with natural-shed antler handle, $449

GLENN BETZ JEWELERS $ A bright, bold, spirited design from our Mariana collection with a lifetime warranty, $225 $$ 14kt. yellow gold, hammered double leaf drop pendant with diamonds, $1,200 $$$ 18kt. white gold emerald and diamond or ruby and diamond pendants, emerald: $4,200, ruby: $2,695 11776 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.984.0040 | GLENNBETZJEWELERS.COM

SLB Dancers Audrey Honert and Gregory Tyndall; Photo by Pratt Kreidich

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Gen Horiuchi’s The Nutcracker has become a Saint Louis favorite with glorious dancing, dazzling costumes, and special effects.

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LAURIE’S SHOES $ Socks for infants, kids, women and men, $6 to $30 $$ New Balance 990s classic running shoes for women, men and children, $59.99 to $165 $$$ Goretex waterproof Keen footwear for women, men and children, $69.99 to $160 9916 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.961.1642 CHESTERFIELD MALL | 636.532.0017 BIRKENSTOCK & MORE | 314.434.4430 LAURIESSHOES.COM

MARKETPLACE AT THE ABBEY $ Rosy Rings candles and diffusers with natural scents, $12 to $69 $$ Custom quote books, $78 to $188 $$$ C.R. Laine custom furniture, $1,500 to $5,600 10090 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.965.1400 | MARKETPLACEATTHEABBEY.COM

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JUST BECAUSE WE GIRLS KNOW WHO REALLY RUNS THE WORLD doesn't mean we can't dress like our suited counterparts. Nods to menswear abound on the fashion scene, from a simple tuxedo stripe detail or hint of 'masculine' fabric to a full-blown suit. Find what inspires you, and don't be afraid to wear the pants.

P OW E R L U N C H Win any deal; this look is all business.

Derek Lam 10 Crosby pinstripe pants, $395, and double-breasted blazer, $495, Gucci ‘GG Marmont’ colorblock pump, $890; all from Neiman Marcus | D. Exterior silk blouse, $340, crystal drop hoop earrings, $70; both from Mister Guy Women’s Hat, $60 from Shine Boutique DECEMBER 13, 2017 | townandstyle.com

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VA R S I T Y T E A M No need to borrow your dad’s old college sweater. This updated version is much more flattering.

Diane Von Furstenberg knit flare maxi skirt, $348, Frame PJ blouse, $275; both from Neiman Marcus | Veronica Beard ‘Barrett’ sweater, $395, BaubleBar ‘Noel’ statement necklace, $58; both from Nordstrom at West County Center Rhinestone earrings, $15 from Shine Boutique | Shoes, model’s own

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CO U R AG E O U S CO LO R S Velvet is huge this season. Play it up with a tuxedo-striped pant and an equally playful faux fur.

Majestic Filatures turtleneck, $135 from Nordstrom at West County Center Alice + Olivia ‘Jerrie’ faux fur coat, $595, and ‘Paulette’ velvet tuxedo pant, $350; both from Saks Fifth Avenue | Sunglasses, $22.50 from Shine Boutique | Shoes, model’s own DECEMBER 13, 2017 | townandstyle.com

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W H AT E V E R S U I T S YO U Wearing a jacket with pants doesn’t have to be boring or conservative. This unique take on the look proves it can be super fun and feminine, too!

Rachel Zoe ‘Isla’ fringe jacket, $525, Milly flared pant, $395; both from Saks Fifth Avenue | Theory slit collar silk top, $235, Halogen ‘Audrey’ ankle strap sandals, $79.95; both from Nordstrom at West County Center Fringe earrings, $12 from Shine Boutique

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GO WITH THE FLOW It’s stressful planning a wedding. For the day-after brunch, think easy and comfortable so you can relax and enjoy being a ‘Mrs.’

Sachin & Babi ‘Rana’ dress, $795 from Neiman Marcus Prada velvet Mary Jane pump, $650, Cara pearlembellished headband, $29; both from Nordstrom at West County Center |Earrings, $10 from Shine Boutique

JAC K E T R E Q U I R E D Look refined in just the right pop of color.

Theory jumpsuit, $495, Veronica Beard ‘Keaton’ shawl lapel tux jacket, $650; both from Neiman Marcus | BaubleBar ‘Symphony’ crystal earrings, $48 from Nordstrom at West County Center | Double-strand necklace, $120, long necklace, $120; both from Mister Guy Women’s

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TA K E C H A R G E Show them who’s boss in a bold pattern and structured jacket.

SPECIAL THANKS TO:

Model: Melissa Bean for West Model & Talent Management Hair: Erica Moomey Style Coordination: Emily McGehee

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Boss Hugo Boss ‘Hadena’ dress, $575 from Nordstrom at West County Center | Theory double-breasted tuxedo blazer, $585, Joie ‘Saleema’ velvet boots, $348; both from Neiman Marcus | BaubleBar ‘Noel’ drop earrings, $38 from Nordstrom at West County Center | Tights, model’s own

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THE 50-YEAR-OLD SAINT LOUIS CLUB has undergone the final

phase of a major renovation. The private dining and meeting facility has been an oasis during my work career—the site of wonderfully decadent staff luncheons and a few memorable dinners—at the invitation of Helane Bernath, the director of marketing and membership. It was the place where we participated in the coveted Kitchen Buffet, a peek behind the scenes, snaking through the kitchen to see where the magic happens while piling our plates with goodies (careful to be on best behavior in front of all those temperamental French chefs).

I’ve always considered the Saint Louis Club an especially civil retreat, a place where manners, dress codes and impeccable service matter— so different from most places today, with omnipresent cell phone conversations and ‘fast casual’ service.

So when I heard the club was completely redoing (and repurposing) its 14th floor, well, I wasn’t sure what to expect. They say change is good, but it’s hard to improve on perfection: rich French food with a view— what could be better?

After a tour of the new and improved space, my fears have been assuaged. True, it’s now ‘tech-friendly,’ but that doesn’t mean public cell phone conversations. It does mean, however, that members and their guests can access the Internet in the breathtaking new lobby, with its geode-encrusted and lighted bar, and in the lounge, where windows face the Arch for grand views of the sunrise and residual colors from the sunset. There will be complimentary snacks in the lobby virtually all day long: danish and coffee in the a.m.; soup and sandwiches midday; and ‘bistro bites’ in the evening.

The previously formal space is now also ‘denim friendly,’ but only ‘business-appropriate denim,’ explains Kelly Standing, new director of innovation and communications. After studying trends in private clubs, one thing was clear: “We have to appeal to millennials,” she notes. There is even a student membership attractive to graduate students; after all, private clubs provide premium networking opportunities.

So rather than diminish what it does best, my favorite place to dine (as opposed to eat) has added amenities, not subtracted them, and who can argue with that? Its most compelling asset, to me, has remained inviolate: the food.

Chef Pierre Chambrin, former White House chef under the George H. W. Bush administration, will continue to serve up tournedos de boeuf with a side of Lyonnaise potatoes, and crème anglaise with dessert.

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CELEBRATING 60 YEARS INSTILLING A PASSION FOR GOD, LOVE OF TRUTH AND ZEAL TO SERVE

LOCATED IN CLAYTON, CENTRAL CHRISTIAN SCHOOL SERVES STUDENTS FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD TO SIXTH GRADE WITH ITS MISSION TO INSTILL A PASSION FOR GOD, A LOVE OF TRUTH AND A ZEAL TO SERVE. ITS APPLICATION DEADLINE IS FEB. 2, 2018. PICTURED ON THE COVER: CENTRAL GAZETTE CO-EDITOR LAUREN INAZU (CENTER) WITH TWO STAFF WRITERS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.727.4535 OR VISIT CENTRALSCHOOLSTL.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY ALLIE BRONSKY COVER PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY

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[MAKING F13 THE NEWS CENTRAL RECENTLY, JOURNALISM HAS SPENT AS MUCH TIME as the subject of the news

as it has covering it. Central Christian School understands media discernment is an important skill for students, understanding what’s true and what’s not, especially with the rise of digital media. The private, Christian elementary school in Clayton has a student-run newspaper, the Central Gazette, now in its second year of publication.

It’s a hands-on tool to teach collaboration, literacy skills and media practices.

The idea for a student paper was pitched last year by current fifth-grader Lauren Inazu, according to Christan Perona, Central’s director of communications and staff sponsor of Central Gazette. “Lauren had a very well thought-out plan that she could execute,” she says. Inazu’s motivation for founding the paper simply came from her desire to create an outlet for student voices in the community.

Inazu serves as co-editor of the paper along with classmate Gabby Hurd, who was selected this year as one of only 12 reporters in the nation for Time for Kids, a national magazine. Central Gazette meets after school and is open to interested fifth- and sixth-graders. Students designed the paper’s layout and are responsible for coming up with story ideas. A regular issue may include announcements, fashion news, short fiction stories, reviews, interviews with teachers, debate sections and devotionals. And students don’t have to worry about factual inaccuracy. Inazu makes

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sure every topic is thoroughly researched. “My philosophy is, ‘Get the facts before you create the drama,’” she says.

Perona says the paper is designed to foster collaboration and push the students creatively, building off skills taught in the classroom. “The newspaper staff is engaged with each other, talking, debating and defending their ideas while still being openminded,” she says. The staff also meets to discuss the successes and misfires in each issue, helping them learn how to take constructive criticism and grow. Dana Scheidt, director of curriculum and instruction, sees the Central Gazette as an extremely helpful learning tool that works with the school’s literacy program. “Students learn to communicate in a number of mediums and get real experience building interpersonal skills,” she says. “They learn that writing isn’t only about grammar and convention, but includes voice, strong ideas and intentional organization.” Perona adds that the paper helps students be critical thinkers and problem-solvers—important skills for many areas, including media discernment.

Last year, the paper was staffed by 13 of Inazu’s classmates, and the number of members increased by two this year. The 16 staff members now account for half of the fifth-grade class, according to Perona. Central is excited to see how the Gazette will impact and enrich the school community.

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〈〈 BAIDA 〉〉

3191 s. grand blvd. | 314.932.7950

[ the dish ] vegetable tajine

Vegetables stir-fried with harissa (hot pepper sauce)

[ amuse bouche ] the scene

Modest ethnic restaurant

the chef

Assia Meskine

the prices

$6-$13 starters, $15-$20 entrees

the favorites

The 7 Salads, Fish Tajine, Chicken Under Vermicelli, Mashwee, Orange Cake

NESTLED AMONG OTHER FAMILY RESTAURANTS OF VARIOUS ETHNICITIES on Grand Boulevard is

Baida, a small Moroccan spot owned by husband and wife Abderrahmane and Assia Meskine. It serves authentic Moroccan fare, including couscous, tajines and meat brochettes. The flavors are fragrant with cumin, coriander, cardamom, parsley, rosewater, golden raisins and almonds.

In atmosphere, it’s what you would expect of a modest ethnic spot on Grand: some exotic lights and wall decor, but otherwise very basic. Additionally, this cuisine can be repetitive in its flavors, but I don’t consider that a negative when the food is good.

The 7 Salads platter ($12) was outstanding, offering a series of sweet, pickled and spicy veggies and beans. There were two carrot salads, one raw and grated (sweet with pungent harissa flavors), the other cooked and cubed. A garbanzo salad was rich with olive oil and spices, and the lima bean salad had a touch of hot pepper. Hummus was on there, mild and spreadable. The flavors of cumin, harissa, olive oil and coriander wafted through most of the seven dishes, yet each was distinctive and delicious.

Our Zaaluk ($6) appetizer, the Moroccan version of baba ghanoush, was a mash of eggplant, but it had roasted peppers and tomatoes in the mix with the usual garlic. It was fine, with a little bite, and came with toasted bread rounds. The M’Lwee ($6) is the Moroccan version of spanakopita, a phyllo pocket that comes with meat or vegetable filling. We chose the latter, and the two sizable triangles were tasty, if a little on the oily side. They come with a vibrant harissa sauce made with peppers and Middle Eastern spices.

Where this place really shines is the entrees, slow-cooked meats yielding soft and tender dishes infused with exotic spices. Iconic to North Africa is tajine, stewed meat and vegetables served in a conical ceramic dish. The ingredients are effectively slow-simmered in the special ‘pot,’ which traps moisture as it is released from the food and recirculates it around the heated dish. Our Fish Tajine ($16) came as a fillet of fresh cod slathered with the characteristic reddish puree of herbs and spices, tomatoes and olive oil. Alongside the fish were chunks of carrot, potato and onion, flavored with cumin, coriander, garlic and tomato.

There are some brochette entrees (lamb and chicken) and a couple of similarly slow-cooked meals, Chicken Under Vermicelli ($15) and Mashwee (roasted lamb, $20). Both were excellent, exhibiting the characteristic flavors that dominate this cuisine. The chicken was a platter of thin noodles dotted with shredded dark meat and golden raisins, and topped with chopped almonds and bits of sugar. It was sweet and fragrant at the same time, and had the added bonus of cardamom, an ingredient typically found in desserts.

The Mashwee is served over a choice of vegetable couscous or saffron rice. The generous platter of tender lamb was delicious on all counts, including the couscous we opted for, which was piled with carrots, lima beans, onions and chickpeas.

For dessert we had Orange Cake ($8), a large wedge of citrus pound cake sitting in orange sauce. It was moist and flavorful, thanks to the large quantity of orange juice and rind used.

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[ food • ŏ • lō • gy ] tajine

A term for both the covered ceramic pottery used to cook meals over hot coals in North Africa, and the food inside it

harissa

A spice blend made with roasted red peppers, serrano and other peppers and mixed with garlic, coriander, caraway, saffron and olive oil to flavor North African cuisine

rosewater

A flavoring made by steeping rose petals in water that is added to food in some cultures, especially desserts

[ aftertaste ] » Love the menu of unusual flavors. It’s really nice to have access

to a Middle Eastern place with a little bit of a different spice profile—especially at such a reasonable price.

— ADAM H. OF CLAYTON

» Friends took us here, and we loved it! The food was good, plentiful and well-priced. And lamb dishes—hard to find elsewhere—abound.

—JORDAN S. OF MAPLEWOOD

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LEISURE

APRONOMICS

DAN MITCHELL OF SUMMIT PRODUCE

by stephanie wallace | photos by bill barrett IN 1978, CAROL MITCHELL OPENED A PRODUCE STAND in her hometown

of Gray Summit, Missouri. It was called Summit Produce, and its slogan was ‘Peak of Perfection.’ Over 29 years, the business has grown steadily, now operating out of the Kirkwood Farmers’ Market and recently opening a pop-up shop in Chesterfield. Carol retired in 2008, leaving the business to her son Dan Mitchell and daughter Kristine Clark. “I decided I was going to work at the stand when I was 18,” Dan Mitchell says. “My sister and I knew if the business was open, someone in the family would be running it.”

Mitchell recalls his mother driving him to work in the stand’s box truck after it first opened. He’d make her drop him off away from the school’s parking lot so his classmates wouldn’t see. Embarrassment, however, doesn’t feature in his other memories of visiting and working at the stand as a kid. “When I was 12, I used to ride my bike there,” he says. “I’d help out and talk to customers.

This business has been in my blood my whole life.” Mitchell’s most important teacher has been his mother, who taught him entrepreneurship and how to create lasting relationships with customers. “I couldn’t wait to get back to the stand after school to help her,” he says. “She always left customers with a warm, fuzzy feeling. That’s how you develop loyalty. People have to like more than just the product; they have to like the people they buy it from.”

When the company moved to its larger location in Kirkwood in 1984, it expanded beyond fruits and vegetables to include a pumpkin patch and Christmas trees. It was this change that led Mitchell to transition from his mother’s employee to her business partner in 1998. “It was very exciting and gratifying to take on a leadership position,” he says. With his title change,

Mitchell brought other changes to Summit Produce. It started selling plants, expanded its holiday offerings, and went from being open only on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays to seven days a week. “I don’t want Summit Produce to get stagnant; we’re always moving forward,” he says.

Even with all of the changes, it has remained a family business. Mitchell says he loves working with his family but admits it can be difficult when work gets in the way of fun activities. To make up for it, the staff throws Christmas parties and goes on summer float trips. Along with his sister, Mitchell also works with his nephews and says all employees become like family. “We’re very blessed,” he says. “There are a lot of people who go to work and don’t like their jobs. We enjoy the thrill of trying to do our best, and we care about what we do.

We’ve loved it since we were kids.”

Summit Produce’s logo is a cheerful, red tomato, and Mitchell estimates that particular produce accounts for 20 percent of overall sales. The next biggest seller? “Peaches, but their season is much shorter,” he says. Mitchell prefers the Christmas trees. In fact, the holidays are his favorite time of year at the Farmers’ Market. “I like the cool weather and the smell of the trees,” he says. “People are really happy. They’re always pretty happy in Kirkwood, but even more so at Christmastime.” Along with the fast pace of the market and the fresh baked goods, he enjoys that the season is a celebration of faith and good will toward others, things Summit Produce embraces year round. “My main objective is to help other people and be helped by others,” he explains. “It’s not just about the money.”

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o s t o DEEP nTHOUGHTS

MOVIE

by patty & janie

an entertaining guide to entertainment » APP » offerup. Ready. Set. Grab all of your unused stuff, your smartphone and go! the disaster artist »

This movie has to walk a very fine line. While ostensibly a biopic, it very easily could fall into the categories of farce or parody. The film is based on the book of the same name by Greg Sestero and Tom Bissell. Sestero was an actor and line producer for the cult film The Room. At the helm of The Room is Tommy Wiseau, a Polish immigrant who, despite his thick accent, insists he’s from New Orleans and refuses to reveal his age and where his money comes from (including the alleged $6 million it took to independently finance the film). With this source material, The Disaster Artist could have become an overlong SNL skit: big-name stars turning in intentionally bad performances for a few laughs.

Luckily, the film avoids this. Sure, there is a seemingly neverending supply of celebrity cameos, but the film is undeniably funny, from pitch-perfect recreations of scenes from The Room to James Franco’s very committed performance as Wiseau. The film is not content to just laugh at him and his disasterpiece; the central relationship between Wiseau and Sestero (played by Franco’s brother Dave) serves as an emotionally effective anchor.

Ultimately, The Disaster Artist presents a portrait of a man refusing to let the world make him a movie monster and, against all odds, casting himself as the hero. Pretty inspiring for the best worst movie ever.

SHOULD YOU SEE IT? Yes, it’s an entertaining look at a weird piece of film history. — S.W. VIEWED AT AMC CREVE COEUR 12

OfferUp is an incredibly easy app to sell (and buy) items locally. Take photos of your item, write a few words and list it. A key feature is that you can see how many people have viewed your item. If there are a lot of views but no offers, you know the price is too high. As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words—and a few bucks as well!

TV

» I have two completely different shows that you should watch this month.

rancher, farmer, fisherman, a documentary on Discovery Now, is a fascinating look at individuals who work on land and sea and their struggles with outside forces, whether it’s the government or other groups. I know it sounds less than thrilling, but it’s worth your time. If you have ever watched a Dateline or 48 Hours mystery, you must watch Netflix’s mindhunter, a fictionalized account of how the FBI profiled serial killers during the 1970s. A little scary but a lot interesting.

MUSIC » men amongst mountains. You’ve probably turned up the volume when

the song I Wish I Knew You by The Revivalists comes on. I love this breakout single so much, I downloaded the band’s album, Men Amongst Mountains. Guess what? There are five songs I like even better! This seven-piece band from New Orleans has been around for 10 years, but just now has a hit single. It’s obvious music is their passion, and they bring many different styles to their latest album, inspired by folk, soul and rock.

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[ DRIVEN ] ACURA TLX by robert w. paster

DESPITE THE PROLIFERATION OF SELF-DRIVING CAR TECHNOLOGY, there are still a few of us

who like to drive. Fortunately, Acura hasn’t forgotten us. It has a new offering aimed at those who want to have a little fun going from point A to B, but who still need a bit of practicality. The Acura TLX is a mid-sized sedan with sharp, modern looks. The A-Spec version, which I drove, offers V6 performance, good handling and driving excitement.

As long as you have the key fob in your pocket, you can merely approach the car, open the door and press the start engine button to be on your way—very convenient. In another break from convention, to shift into gear, you simply push a button on the center console between the seats.

(Chrysler, AMC and Edsel had push-button transmissions in the late ’50s and early ’60s, but the buttons weren’t located between the seats.) Each button is distinguished by a different shape, and there is a switch to engage reverse.

Once you hit ‘D,’ things get fun in a hurry, especially in the sporty A-Spec, which offers four drive modes: economy, normal, sport and sport+. It’s very responsive in sport and sport+ and includes all-wheel steering to aid high-speed cornering. Combined with tight, communicative steering, good road feel, stiff suspension and a powerful, normally aspirated V6 engine, it creates a fast, fun car that begs to be tossed around, while still offering a comfortable highway ride. The brakes are good, but you have to step on the pedal firmly. Surprisingly, for a front-wheel drive car with this much power, there’s almost no torque steer. All-wheel drive also is available. The A-Spec’s sporty nature is exemplified by a spoiler and a strut brace between the front shock towers to increase torsional stiffness, which helps keep it flat in curves.

Inside, the TLX offers the expected amenities of a modern luxury performance car, like sporty, well-bolstered heated and cooled front seats, dual zone automatic climate control, a power moonroof, LED headlights, navigation with real-time traffic, rain-sensing wipers, and a wireless phone charger. The TLX interface features two screens, one on top of the dash, the other at the top of the dash console. The lower touchscreen is for ventilation control display and doubles as a keyboard when navigation is displayed above—a handy feature. The upper screen handles the aforementioned navigation display, phone controls and vehicle settings via a rotary knob.

Navigation directions are conveniently displayed on a small screen between the two large round analogue gauges.

Room is plentiful, with generous head and leg room for backseat passengers. There’s a big, deep trunk with fold-down rear seats. Safety features are abundant, including blind spot and rear crosstraffic monitors, a rear-view camera with guidelines, parking sensors, collision mitigation braking, adaptive cruise control, forward collision warning, lane departure and road departure mitigation.

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AND BABY MAKES THREE

BY JULIA M. JOHNSON

Nothing is more special than adding a new member to the family. It's the most basic and natural human process we can imagine. Still, when it comes to the health of both parents and babies, there's a lot to consider—and a good deal that can be done to prevent problems.

Here, we look at some pressing concerns for the health of all three family members: mom, dad and their new little bundle of joy.

midwifery Many years ago, a pregnant woman would send for the local midwife after her labor

to assess pregnant women coming into the hospital. “We only employ certified nurse

began, but the process has changed quite a bit in modern times. Today in the U.S., a midwife

midwives with graduate educations,” she says. “Some of our midwives have Ph.D.s or nurse

is a highly educated nurse specialist who guides women through each stage of pregnancy,

practitioner degrees. They are very highly trained.”

including labor and hospital delivery.

Maureen Foster, CNM, MSN, a certified nurse midwife with SLUCare, says its practice

Dr. Becky Shelton, medical director for Mercy Birthing Center Midwifery Care, says using

also helps moms-to-be with various stages of pregnancy. “We have family planning services

a midwife is typically appropriate for younger, healthier women with low-risk pregnancies. “A

for women who are thinking about getting pregnant, and we can consult with them on

midwife can provide good surveillance of the pregnancy and make sure it's going smoothly,”

diet, exercise and lifestyle changes for a healthy pregnancy,” she says. “And if a patient is

she says. “If concerns or problems arise, we get an obstetrician involved right away.”

undecided about using a midwife, she is welcome to simply make an appointment and talk

What sets a midwife-assisted birth apart is that it's a 'low-intervention' experience, which appeals to many women, Shelton says. “Traditional labor and delivery may involve things like a caesarean section or inducing labor, but in midwifery, we try to let nature take its course as much as possible,” she notes.

with us. We can do her first obstetric visit, and if she chooses not to use a midwife, we have a number of other practitioners she can see.”

Foster says SLUCare's midwife program offers Pregnancy Centering, a group support system that brings together expectant mothers for prenatal care, counseling and peer

Trish Geldbach, R.N., vice president of women's services at Mercy, says the hospital's

encouragement. SLUCare also plans to open a midwife-staffed clinic for teenage mothers.

midwives can see patients for prenatal visits, answer their pregnancy questions and

“We see a wide range of patients from young, first-time moms to those who already have

oversee their deliveries at the birthing center. They also work in Mercy's triage area

families,” she says.

breastfeeding Mother Nature usually knows what's best,

breastfeeding extend to both baby and mother.

and that seems to hold true in the debate about

“Moms who breastfeed for six months to a year

breastfeeding vs. bottle feeding a new baby.

may have less risk of postpartum depression, type

“Breastfeeding simply offers the best nutrition for

2 diabetes, uterine hemorrhaging, cardiovascular

infants,” says Sue Muehling, R.N., BSN, a Missouri

disease, osteoporosis, and breast and ovarian

Baptist Medical Center lactation consultant. “It

cancers,” she says. “The hormones released during

also provides antibodies the baby's immune system

breastfeeding help keep the mother on a more

needs, and it's an important step in the emotional and

even keel. If she has a history of depression or

Postpartum depression

physical bonding of mom and infant.”

other mental health issues, we may encourage her

Type 2 diabetes

to breastfeed.”

Uterine hemorrhaging

With that said, the decision to breastfeed is a

Benefits of Breastfeeding Moms WHO BREASTFEED MAY HAVE A LOWER RISK OF:

highly personal one, and it may not be a fit for all new

Vogt says the benefits for baby include lower

mothers. Health care providers should work with

risk of ear and respiratory infections, asthma,

Osteoporosis

them to decide if it's the right choice, Muehling notes.

obesity, type 1 and 2 diabetes, childhood leukemia,

Breast and ovarian cancers

“The benefits of breastfeeding are many, and

diarrhea and SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome).

they're based on science, but it's just as important

Breastfeeding also provides a boost to the maternal

to support the mother's preference,” she explains.

bonding process. “In the beginning, you're likely to

“Feeding a baby is a dynamic process that changes

nurse more often if you're breastfeeding,” she notes.

day to day, and each mom has different expectations.

“That means greater closeness between you and

It's rare that a woman isn't able to breastfeed, but

the baby. You're picking her up more, and she is more

there may be situations in which she chooses not

stimulated because she feels and hears you more

to.” For example, she may have a health problem, or

often.” Breast milk also provides colostrum, which

Ear and respiratory infections

may plan to return to work soon after the birth. In any

is important in protecting the baby from infection,

Asthma

case, it's important for care providers to respect the

according to Vogt.

Obesity

Cardiovascular disease

Babies WHO BREASTFEED MAY HAVE A LOWER RISK OF:

mother's preference and not pressure a woman if

“I advise expectant mothers to take a prenatal

she chooses not to breastfeed. “It's not a 'pass or fail'

breastfeeding class,” she adds. “It's a good way to

Childhood leukemia

situation,” Muehling says. “There are other options.”

make informed choices about what's best for you and

Diarrhea

your newborn. Nourishing your baby is about much

SIDS

Terry Vogt, R.N., a lactation consultant at SSM Health St. Mary's Hospital, says the benefits of

Type 1 and 2 diabetes

more than a feeding method—it's a relationship.”

'older' dads Most of us are aware that a mother's age can influence the health of her baby. As she

Rhee says women over 35 tend to be considered 'aging mothers,' but the definition of an

gets older, the risk of certain conditions like Down syndrome increase. But did you know

'aging father' is a bit looser. “Some say it's age 40 and above for men, and others say 45,” she

that dad's age may have an effect as well? Dr. Dane Johnson, a Washington University

explains. “In any case, with an older father, there is evidence the baby may be at higher risk

Physicians urologic surgeon, says average paternal age in the U.S. has risen by more than

of physical and psychological conditions like autosomal dominant inherited diseases and

three years since 1972. “It was 27 then, and now it's almost 31,” he says. “People are definitely

schizophrenia. Cognitive neural development in the baby also may be affected. Findings

waiting until later in life to have children.”

aren't conclusive yet, but it's important to be informed.” Rhee says researchers also are studying a possible link between increased paternal age and autism spectrum disorders.

... higher paternal age may be associated with an increase in 'de novo' (new) mutations in the father's DNA ...

Johnson says higher paternal age may be associated with an increase in 'de novo' (new) mutations in the father's DNA, which can cause mutations to be passed to his offspring.

“Throughout a man's life, his sperm cells continue to divide and replicate, refilling the stem cell line and producing new sperm,” he says. “The DNA can become altered during that time, leading to new mutations.”

Johnson says studies also have shown that older men may experience decreased fertility. “As they cross the 40-year age threshold, they're less likely to get a woman

Much of the attention is placed on maternal age because a woman's eggs are formed

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pregnant within 12 months than men under 35,” he notes.

at the beginning of her life and stay with her throughout, says Dr. Julie Rhee, a fertility

Rhee says the risk of paternal age-related health conditions is still quite small, so

specialist at Vios Fertility Institute. “If a woman is 40 years old, so are her eggs,” Rhee

couples shouldn't decide against starting a family simply because dad is a bit older. “I

notes. “Men's sperm regenerate about every 75 days, so you might think there would be

have patients with husbands over 45, and their children are perfectly healthy,” she says.

less of an issue with the father's age. But there is evidence that decreased fertility rates

In any case, it's a good idea to meet with a fertility specialist to get a clear picture of your

and increased risk of certain conditions in the baby can be tied to it.”

unique situation.

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[PARENT TRAP

WELCOMING HOME A NEW BABY

by dr. tim jordan

SHAUNA, EIGHT MONTHS PREGNANT WITH HER SECOND CHILD, was in my office with her 7-year-old daughter, Lani. My comment to her brought on copious tears: “Wow, I guess Lani will have to share you with her new brother now.” Shauna had been wondering if she was going to be able to provide the time, energy and love both of her children deserved, and often felt like she might not be up to the task. She also worried that the baby would interfere with her close relationship with Lani. Many parents share Shauna’s fears when preparing for a second child. The following are suggestions about how to best get yourself and your family ready for the new addition.

Kids always mirror adults around them. So if you are full of angst when you are talking about the coming baby, your child will pick up on it and become more anxious. Stay matter-offact, and handle your emotions by talking it out with your spouse or other adults when the children are not around.

1. WATCH YOUR EMOTIONS:

Give kids permission to express any feelings they have about the baby, which may include happy and excited, but also jealous, angry, resentful or left out. Emotions that are not expressed will eventually leak out, often in unhealthy ways.

2. FEELINGS:

Develop rituals with your older child to regularly spend special, one-on-one time with him or her. Kids sometimes can feel dethroned by the arrival of a sibling, so teach them to let you know if they feel left out and to ask for special time.

3. ONE-ON-ONE TIME:

I remember my daughter pretending to nurse her doll as she watched my wife breastfeed our son. Most siblings like to be involved in caring for the new arrival, including helping with diapers, feedings, baths or rocking. It makes them feel valuable and part of the team.

4. INCLUSION:

Enlist family and friends to take the older child on outings so he or she feels special, connected and loved. Sometimes kids feel safer sharing their feelings with people who are not their parents.

5. OTHER ADULTS:

Use grandparents or relatives as babysitters to take a much-needed night off. Parents need opportunities to recharge their batteries and nourish their marriage.

6. DATE NIGHTS:

I know from experience how hard it can be to take time out for yourself, but you want to be as calm, nonreactive and present as you can. A tired, depleted parent is more likely to lose it or give in when it comes time to discipline.

7. NURTURE YOURSELF:

Allow for plenty of downtime for the whole family. That requires saying no to an excessive number of activities that result in overscheduled kids and families.

8. BALANCE:

Do your best to consciously make decisions that are in the best interests of your whole family, and provide lots of relaxed, fun opportunities to keep everyone feeling loved. Keep in mind these wise words of eminent pediatrician Dr. Spock: “Don’t worry so much, parents. You’re probably doing a better job of parenting than you think you are.” I concur!

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN COUNSELING GIRLS AGES 6 THROUGH COLLEGE. HE RECENTLY LAUNCHED AN ONLINE VIDEO PARENTING COURSE, TAKING FLIGHT: EVERYDAY PARENTING WISDOM TO HELP GIRLS SOAR. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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Something Beautiful

by marylyn simpson

Celebrate the holidays by giving the best beauty products of the season!

From fragrances fit for the most discerning of noses to eyeshadow palettes out of this world, here are some of the top gifts for every beauty guru on your ‘nice’ list.

Festive Fragrance Celebrity florist and perfumer Eric Buterbaugh made a splash with his luxury fragrance line EB Floral. He added spray fragrances just in time for the holidays. Available in six floral scents from freesia to dahlia, each crystal bottle mimics the design of the line’s existing fragrances.

Candles & Creams & Colognes, Oh My!

65ml bottles for $175 each, ebflorals.com

Colorful Christmas Rihanna proved herself a beauty mogul in 2017. Her Fenty Beauty line quickly became one of the most sought-after brands of the year, and it just introduced the Galaxy Eyeshadow Palette. The limited-edition palette features 14 star-dusted shades to make your eyes pop all season long.

From smoky, iridescent violet to gold glitter on mint, it’s studded with unique color and glitter combos that deliver a phenomenal 3-D effect. $59, sephora.com

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holiday

what are your favorite ways to decorate a dining table for the holidays?

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I love looks that are simple, classic and natural, ones that don’t intrude on the sightlines of your table. Buy 6-foot garlands of spruce, pine or other evergreens to go down the center of the table, then set a couple of hurricane lamps with candles among the greenery. Use lamps that are clear and won’t block your guests’ views of each other.

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This is also a great time to break out the family heirlooms you don’t get to use often. Try arranging tea lights or votive candles with greenery on a lovely, old silver platter or tray. (Always use unscented or lightly scented candles that won’t compete with the aromas of your meal.) Fill a silver compote or bowl with greenery, pine cones or unusual fruits like pomegranates. Or, place holiday candles in silver bowls to create ambience. These ideas result in nice, ‘low’ looks that won’t interfere with table conversation or the serving of food.

A sprinkling of unusual candles down the center also makes a simple but beautiful tablescape, and juxtaposing different sizes or types creates visual interest. The same goes for colors—putting silver and gold together may seem unusual, but they draw attention when combined, and also work well with red, green or blue. I always tell people to use their favorite family pieces and combine the old with the new for an interesting look that attracts the eye. It’s all about mixing items, not matching!

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I enjoy decorating holiday tables with interesting bowls and dishes I can reuse throughout the year. A holiday flower arrangement in a bowl with pine cones and berry stems is always beautiful.

‘Snowy’ flowers are popular this year; try frosting roses and hydrangeas with a soft flocking spray to make them look wintry. Add magnolia stems and boxwood sprigs as well to bring in natural elements from the outdoors!

At each place setting, create layers with festive, stacked holiday dishes and decorative charger plates. For fun party favor ideas, buy small holiday bird figurines and perch one at the edge of each salad plate, or put a small vase with a floral stem at each place.

If you have footed serving dishes, set them on top of leafy magnolia stems arranged on the table. And when you’re deciding on colors, follow the scheme of the natural tones in your dining room.

Make the holiday palette soft and neutral so you don’t have hues that look too bright against your decor.

–PATTI PORTER, CO-OWNER, RUSTED CHANDELIER

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I live in a cottage in historic downtown St. Charles, and I am considering putting an addition on the house. My first thought was to add to the back of the house, but I wonder if I can improve the home’s rather humble appearance if I add to the front. I’ve never dreamed this could be a great-looking house, but maybe you could work some magic.

Sincerely, LOOKING FOR A CHRISTMAS MIRACLE

DEAR LOOKING FOR A CHRISTMAS MIRACLE,

I always think there is room for improvement, and in this case, adding to the left side of the façade could have a really big impact. Even a small addition does away with the ‘shotgun’ feel and brings a new dose of dignity. A cute dormer window also helps make the house seem bigger.

Other impactful changes include adding details like shutters, brackets, flower boxes and a new front door. Painting it all a more adventurous color scheme also would add heaps of charm.

Finally, by removing the little parking area, you could create a more substantial-looking front yard.

Planting a low row of contiguous evergreens will draw the eye across the new composition, making the façade feel as wide as possible. I don’t know if this is a miracle, but it does look a lot better.

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