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Wasabi Sushi Bar gave diners a chance to support local, underserved youth by donating 20 percent of profits from one day at all seven of its locations to United 4 Kids, a nonprofit that provides after-school care, healthy meals, social-emotional support and more.

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Lumière Place is betting on technology to improve the lives of local students. It donated 10 laptops to Communities First STL to create a computer lab for the North City LAB (Learn, Apply, Build) afterschool and summer programs.

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The Catalyst Innovation Lab was unveiled on Nov. 13. The 1,900-square-foot space inside the A&E’s Centene Center for the Arts is a place for learning and collaborating about how arts and cultural innovation can meet the changing needs of our community.

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IN THE KNOW COVER STORY – Wells Fargo Advisors TALK OF THE TOWNS THE INSIDER

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Bank of America awarded its Neighborhood Builder Award to Mathews-Dickey Boys’ and Girls’ Club for its work to ensure youth are engaged in activities that promote a healthy lifestyle. The nonprofit will receive leadership development training and a $200,000 grant as part of the award.

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annual fundraiser on Friday, October 20th at the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac. Proceeds benefit the MU Thompson Center for Autism & Neurodevelopmental Disorders. Honorary cochairs, former St. Louis Blues player Scott Mellanby and his wife, Sue, shared their inspirational journey as parents of an autistic son. St. Louis native Dr. Stephen Kanne, the Center’s Executive Director, spoke about the substantial progress at the Center and its newly expanded facility and capabilities.

He introduced Erik Miller, a 21 year old who spoke about his SCOTT AND SUE MELLANBY DR. STEPHEN KANNE & ERIK MILLER care and training received from the Thompson Center, who has recently found full-time employment. Celebrities in attendance included St. Louis Blues Alumni Blake Dunlop, Al MacInnis, Jamal Mayers, Chris Pronger, Bruce Affleck, Lubos Bartecko, Neil Komadoski, Bobby Plager and Dwight Schofield.

ABOUT THE THOMPSON CENTER The Thompson Center for Autism and Neurodevelopmental Disorders at the University of Missouri is a national leader in confronting the challenges of autism spectrum disorder & other developmental conditions through its collaborative research, training and service programs. The Center’s mission is to strengthen children and families affected by autism spectrum disorders through raising awareness and support for interventions, education and research.

NATIONAL EXCELLENCE Recognized as 1 of 13 leading autism centers in the U.S. and Canada for clinical services, the Thompson Center can provide a diagnosis of autism in just one day.

Multidisciplinary visits mean families can see all their specialists in one visit, including pediatricians, psychologists, speech/language pathologists, occupational therapists, behavior analysts and social workers. Nearly 3,500 families were seen last year with a total of more than 12,000 visits.

TRANSLATIONAL SCIENCE Thompson Center researchers are shaping the future of autism diagnosis and treatment through more than 20 active research projects, ranging from genetic and biological markers to new treatments for core symptoms.

THOUGHT LEADERSHIP Each year, the Thompson Center hosts world-renowned autism specialists and researchers to offer educators, health professionals, and behavior therapists the chance to engage with the most current research and best practices at its annual Autism Conference.

REGIONAL EXPERTISE The Thompson Center is a research and clinical partner with many other autism centers across the country, including The Mercy Kids Autism Center in St. Louis, which strengthens the care provided to children and families in St. Louis, across the state of Missouri and beyond.

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FROM THE EDITOR’S DESK

I HAVE A RULE: NO CHRISTMAS (OR ANY DECEMBER HOLIDAY) UNTIL AFTER THANKSGIVING. I DON’T WANT TO HEAR THE MUSIC, look at light displays or decorate until it’s

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time. I understand picking up gifts when you see them, even if that’s late October. It’s better to plan ahead than cram all of your shopping into the week before—although the frenzied rush is actually kind of exciting.

Now this rule doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy winter festivities a little early. A couple of weeks ago, my family and I went downtown to check out Winterfest at the Arch, now in its second year. We skated last year when there was a synthetic rink next to the Arch grounds construction, but now it’s real ice in Kiener Plaza with amazing views of our city’s iconic landmark. I remember thinking it’s like our community’s version of Rockefeller Center, just a little more intimate!

And now, since Thanksgiving was fully enjoyed, I’m ready for it all.

My husband can bring in the tubs of holiday decorations from the garage and start his beloved project—that yes, he thinks about months before—of illuminating our house.

Lucky for me, I have a head start on gift ideas from shopping for the T&S Holiday Folio, featured in this issue. We ran all over town to numerous area shops to bring you our top picks and, as you’ll see, it was hard for us to choose! Our local retailers deserve some praise, during the holidays and every day. There is something special about going to a store in the neighborhood where you live or work, perusing unique items and talking to the owner. It’s an experience, and one we want to highlight. You might have noticed our Love Local feature last issue that spotlights the shops of St. Louis. We’re publishing more this week and next. You’ll discover unique histories and passionate employees who are thrilled to be part of our community.

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CORPORATE NEIGHBORS CAN BE HUGE SUPPORTERS OF THEIR COMMUNITIES, funding

local services, helping nonprofits through donations and grants, and even volunteering their time and labor to important causes. Wells Fargo Advisors is one such company in St. Louis. Across the nation, Wells Fargo has made $281 million in charitable donations to date, and locally, it’s making just as big of an impact. This year alone, it is investing $5 million to make St. Louis a better place to live and work.

According to head of community affairs Vanessa Cooksey, Wells Fargo carefully considers its philanthropic initiatives. “We are very strategic,” she says. “Our goal is to help communities overcome barriers to financial success.” She explains that in 2016, the company started gathering data and talking to community leaders to determine the most pressing concerns in the St. Louis area. Four major areas of need were identified: diversity and inclusion, economic empowerment, environmental sustainability, and elder financial protection.

To address these concerns, Wells Fargo has formed several important community partnerships.

The Wells Fargo Finance Education Center at Harris-Stowe State University provides tools to develop skills for the financial services industry, and internship opportunities, to students of the historically black university. The company also is working with the Regional Arts Commission to expose area middle school students to art programs and facilitated dialogues about diversity and inclusion through a four-year, $1 million grant. Partnering with Gateway Greening, the company provided a $100,000 grant to create and expand 25 community and school gardens. Wells Fargo also collaborates with the United Way to help underserved youth explore career options, and works with several organizations to help seniors protect their finances. This is all in addition to the support the company gives local cultural institutions like the Saint Louis Zoo, Missouri Botanical Garden and St. Louis Symphony. “Investing in the things we share as a community is important,” Cooksey says. “It helps build a culture of inclusion and makes St. Louis stronger.”

Wells Fargo also supports its employees’ engagement with causes they are passionate about.

“Volunteerism is a part of our company’s DNA,” Cooksey says. “Our managers and leaders are supportive of team members’ volunteer work because it develops leadership and other skills.”

Courtney Hemmer, who oversees employee volunteerism and giving, says Wells Fargo has a volunteer chapter of 1,800 team members. One of its major initiatives is coordinating six collection drives on the Wells Fargo campus. Items collected include canned foods, school supplies, items for animal shelters and veterans, toys, and business clothing for college students. In addition to the drives, local employee volunteer initiatives raised $3.8 million and committed 25,000 volunteer hours in 2016.

Another major partnership employees have embraced is with Habitat for Humanity Saint Louis.

For the first time, team members are working to complete an entire house in south St. Louis.

Cooksey finds the collaboration a perfect fit. The community served by Habitat for Humanity— underserved families, veterans and seniors—is also who Wells Fargo targets through its own philanthropic initiatives, she says. “Working with Habitat for Humanity is a double win,” she says.

“It provides housing for people in need and gives our team members the chance to make a very tangible difference.”

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TOWN AND COUNTRY 〉〉 It’s time to pull out the calendar—on that awesome computer those millennials occasionally use as a telephone—and look a week past Thanksgiving to the holiday concert by The St. Louis Children’s Choirs at Powell Hall. It’s at 1 p.m., Thursday, Dec. 2. (That’s maybe a month after the first seasonal music started playing at malls and other retailers, but who shops retail anymore?) There is more than usual to celebrate with the choirs this year, as it’s their 40th anniversary.

With a focus on including all young people who love to sing, regardless of where they live or attend school, the choirs feature 460 talented young singers (ages 6 to 18) from more than 200 schools and 85 ZIP codes in Missouri and Illinois. These young artists bring their musical talents and love of classical, sacred, contemporary and world music to the concert stage for everyone to enjoy. Program scholarships are provided on a needs-based, sliding scale.

FRONTENAC 〉〉 Since last spring, some of Frontenac’s finest have been taking corners on two wheels in this fair city, as well as in Huntleigh and Crystal Lake Park. We must note at the outset that the cops aren’t flouting the laws they’re sworn to obey, traveling at high rates of speed or screeching from here to there. They’re on Trek bicycles, three of them—that’s six wheels total. Frontenac’s community policing program has been pedaling along since another jurisdiction kindly donated the bicycles, and cops and residents are giving it two thumbs up so far. Bicycle-mounted officers can be proactive in engaging with the public, wherever they may be, from parking lots to block parties. They’re more approachable than the typical cop in a squad car. Kids are not as intimidated and are more likely to absorb bike safety messages from a fellow cyclist. Maybe now there’s hope, at least within Frontenac city limits, that the occasional gaggle of ‘serious’ cyclists who think nothing of hogging one whole lane of Clayton Road from the city to West County will learn how to behave. (Of course, everyone puts on a brain bucket—you know, a helmet—before

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going on a ride of any distance. Right? That even goes for you hat-to-the-back numbskulls who think it’s safe to ride on the sidewalk.) Frontenac’s bicycle patrol officers are required to complete a 40-hour course sanctioned by the International Police Mountain Bike Association (IPMBA) … which, btw, has begun registration for its annual convention next June 4 through 9, right here in the StL!

LADUE 〉〉 The towering evergreen looks like it could have been plucked from a mountainside in the Pacific Northwest’s coastal range, the Cascades, and transplanted in Ladue.

But it’s an impostor. A little too symmetrical, it’s situated right behind Ladue’s new fire station that opened this year at Price and Clayton roads (right across from what was the late, lamented Busch’s Grove and is now PALM Health). It’s a cell tower, hiding in plain sight, decorated with faux-liage.

Actually on the Village Lutheran Church property, its ‘needles’ camouflage all sorts of the sticky-outty antennae and other space-age gadgetry required to transmit cellular signals. The tubular metal ‘trunk’ is painted to resemble the real thing, many different shades of taupe, ochre … well, brown … to impersonate bark.

You have to really look at it before realizing it’s out of the ordinary, but mimicking any deciduous species such as the mighty oak or average sycamore would be impractical. Plus, even indigenous evergreens have limbs of varying sizes that branch out every which way.

That would make the tower ungainly in appearance, naturally kind of random—well, unscientific, unless one were to employ the type of science favored by the EPA or select school districts throughout Kansas.

We’re talking physics and engineering here, not botany. The city requested an aesthetic approach, and we think the result is attractive, as camouflaged cell towers go. If not worthy, at the very least, of a snicker. Maybe even an LOL or VBG. At least it’s not another ‘left’ coast variety, say, a palm tree from L.A. or a saguaro from Arizona.

U. CITY〉〉 The Centennial Greenway is a beautiful thing, for most of the way. But getting from here to there at Delmar and McKnight has been daunting since the section between Olive Boulevard in U. City and Shaw Park in Clayton was completed. For those of you frustrated by the three (!) crossings you have to make at the intersections, Great Rivers Greenway is going to make significant changes to reduce the hassle and, most importantly, improve safety for anyone walking, running, rollerblading, cycling or using a wheelchair.

As it stands today, the northbound I-170 exit ramp at Delmar Boulevard is immediately to one side of the Greenway, and an exit/entrance to Schnucks is almost as close on the other side. Southbound Greenway users must cross the northbound entrance ramp to the interstate. It can be nerve-wracking for drivers, too. Over the summer, Great Rivers heard from nearly 100 metro residents about what could be done to improve the intersection. Among the most requested intersection elements are striped crossings, refuge medians and protected intersections. Without any impact to vehicle traffic, the proposed changes include: » Additional traffic signals and painted crosswalks » Making the turn lanes narrower so walkers and cyclists have a shorter distance to cross » Median ‘refuges’ so that people in the crosswalk may cross only one direction of traffic at a time and can stop in between » A larger plaza so users are more visible and can slow down or stop to cross safely » Incorporating features to make it fully ADA accessible » New signage to alert motorists and help walkers and cyclists navigate With the proposed changes, Greenway visitors will have to cross traffic only twice—on streets, never having to cross an interstate ramp. Coming from the south on the Greenway, users will: » Cross Delmar Boulevard on a painted crosswalk, with a traffic signal for walkers and cyclists and a spot to stop halfway across if needed » Walk on the sidewalk or bike in the bike lane (buffered from traffic by a curb) north along McKnight Road » Cross McKnight Road at another traffic signal, on another painted crosswalk, with a spot to stop halfway if needed.

Metro residents have through Nov. 22 to make additional suggestions online. Officials anticipate the project will be completed late next year. &

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THE[IN]SIDER A glimpse at what’s going on around St. Louis and beyond.

by julia m. johnson

PHOTO: TIM PARKER

California philanthropists DEBRA AND GEORGE CROUCH ▶ have left their mark on Washington University’s new biomedical research center on McKinley Avenue.

The building has been named the Debra and George W. Couch III Biomedical Research Building after the couple, who recently pledged $10 million to Wash. U. for an endowment in the field of personalized medicine, treatment based on the patient’s unique genetic makeup.

I HAVE MY OWN RULES ABOUT NEIGHBORS,

▲ A couple of companies with tight ties to St. Louis have shown up on Harvard Business Review’s list of the world’s 100 top-performing CEOs. Bravo! Monsanto’s HUGH GRANT (pictured) ranked No. 26, and CARLOS BRITO of Anheuser-Busch InBev came in at No. 13. The top spot went to Pablo Isla of Spanish clothing retailer Inditex.

The ranking is based on factors like shareholder return and market capitalization.

k c e h c it ◀ Kudos to the ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY, which

garnered the Missouri Library Association’s Community Partnership Award for 2017. The library was recognized for its education and food donation projects with Operation Food Search, a nonprofit that helps fight hunger. Pictured are Kristen Sorth of St. Louis County Library and Sunny Schaefer of Operation Food Search.

Award-winning artist and St. Louis native Nate McClain passed away in 1997 at the age of 24, but his memory lives on in a new book, Painting the Town: The Art of Nate McClain. He was known for large-scale murals like Ozzie Smith Retires and Ultimate Sports. The book commemorates the 20th anniversary of his passing.

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〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Pack up for a day trip (or spend the weekend!) in historic Ste. Genevieve for its Holiday Christmas Festival Dec. 1 through 3. The family-friendly weekend features a Christmas parade, photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus, music, food, shopping and more.

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Break out your flapper attire for the PALM Health Roaring Twenties Charity Gala Dec. 8!

The event begins at 7 p.m. at PALM and benefits the Anthropedia Foundation, a nonprofit supporting mental health initiatives.

The Delmar Loop neighborhood celebrates holiday diversity with a Dec. 12 Hanukkah menorah lighting and a Dec. 30 Kwanzaa celebration featuring music, dancing, art and more. Details are available at visittheloop.com.

and they don't include the cliché, 'Good fences make good neighbors.' Mine are 'Wave but don’t speak, smile but don’t stop walking, acknowledge but don’t engage.' In other words, seem friendly but not too friendly. My rules have worked well for me.

No tears have been shed when people moved out of the neighborhood. Sure, it's sometimes odd when I meet someone who lives down the street and they know my husband and two dogs but have no idea who I am. I try to explain my thought process to them, but they seem somewhat offended. But if I don't follow my rules, I get hurt.

The first home we owned was in a perfect Brentwood neighborhood with a mix of young families and older couples. The houses were so close, you could see into the ones next to you. Our two next-door neighbors were right out of central casting: a good-looking single guy, John, and a newly married couple, Anne and Chris. We were all friends. Often when I pulled into the driveway after work, Chris and my husband were waiting for me on the front steps drinking a beer. Many Sunday nights we had dinner together, and even though we had a small child, it reminded me of Friends (although I think this was before it was on the air!). And then we broke up. Carey and I moved to Webster Groves because we needed a bigger house for our expanding family. Off we went with promises that we would forever keep in touch. And we did, until life got in the way.

We had lovely neighbors in Webster Groves, but no Sunday night dinners or beers on the porch. Our next move was to Clayton, and we were back to seeing into our neighbors' homes. This cemented my ‘don’t speak, just smile’ rule. Sure, casual chitchat in a shared driveway was fine, but there was no sitting around drinking beers together. As people moved in and out, there were no reasons for hugs or lengthy goodbyes. No emotion, which is just the way I like it. Well, except for now.

I have not exchanged more than five sentences with the couple next door. Sure, I give them a wave and a smile. I really don’t even talk to their three kids, but it's because of them and their dog that I am sad to see them go. They have two sons who remind me of my own. Whether they are on rollerblades or a scooter, they go careening down the driveway, and it always makes me laugh. They scream at each other, play ball, do all the stuff that my son used to do but doesn't anymore because, well, he's 28. The oldest daughter periodically comes out to give them a look. You know, THE look, as if she wishes she could make them disappear. Oh, and did I tell you their dog is the size of a small bear? Damn it, I like them and I don’t even know them. So now it will be even more awkward when I cry as the moving truck pulls away.

When the new neighbors move in, I will go back to my polite nod and wave. I am determined not to be sucked in again.

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SHINE BOUTIQUE Shine’s owner Tamara Netsch always has loved accessories. “It’s so important to wear things that make you feel good,” she says. “Accessories are an easy way to do that.” At Shine, which opened in May 2016, Netsch sells “a little bit of everything.” That means clothing, bags, scarves, jewelry, candles and bath products. “I try to find unusual, interesting products you might not find anywhere else,” she says, citing in particular the Hide luxury leather earrings she carries.

Netsch says she likes to emphasize socially responsible shopping and support small, local companies. Hide, which is based in Imperial, Missouri, makes jewelry from recycled leather scraps. She also has give-back programs that donate a

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percentage of sales of certain items to charity. Netsch describes Shine’s clothing

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as fun, versatile and fashion-forward. “They are pieces you can dress up or down,” she says. She also provides a monogramming service.

THE FUR BOUTIQUE After years managing a fur salon, Ann Hurth had built a reputation for customer service, style and quality. When she left her position, her clients followed. They called to ask for advice on caring for their pieces and for help finding the latest styles. Hurth recognized a need in the community and decided to fill it, opening The Fur Boutique with former colleague Georgene Frazier. “We carry only topCelebrate the holidays at the farm. Tour Allen’s home for holiday décor inspiration; then enjoy a garden-to-table lunch featuring recipes from his cookbook, Seasonal Recipes from the Garden.

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quality merchandise,” Hurth says. “Our customers know us for that.” The boutique carries both the latest trends and classic looks, but it provides its customers more than just luxury furs. It works as a full-service furrier, offering cleaning and repair as well. Hurth is grateful for the loyalty St. Louis has shown her and The Fur Boutique. “Our customers really put us in business,” she says. “It’s been four years, and we’re going strong because of them.”

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CHRISTOPHER'S

OWNER MARK COULTER

Considering its size and the scope of its merchandise, it’s quite possible you could do all of your shopping at this gift emporium. Make a beeline to this Kirkwood mainstay (in business across from the Farmers’ Market for more than 20 years) for unique home decor, apparel, body and beauty products, stationery and books. At Christmas, it twinkles with trees and is perfumed by piney candles and spiced potpourri; in the summer, it’s full of great entertaining ideas. All year round, whatever the occasion, Christopher’s is a one-stop shop.

“We are the place for that hard-to-find, one-of-a-kind gift,” says owner Mark Coulter. Indeed, the store boasts of having ‘a little bit of everything for the home, for the body, for the memories.’ And the only problem here is being spoiled in terms of choice. Coulter says an added feature this year is the open-air European Christmas market behind the store where shoppers can find holiday trappings to suit all tastes.

DREAM PLAY RECREATION

OWNERS TIM AND TRACI ALBERS

Husband and wife team Tim and Traci Albers opened Dream Play Recreation in April 1991 with a small indoor showroom. For 26 years, it has expanded in both size and range of residential play equipment offered. In 2010, it changed its name from Rainbow Recreation to reflect its evolution and diversification. Tim Albers explains that the Chesterfield showroom features displays of 19 play systems, nine basketball goals and three trampolines from brands including Rainbow Play Systems, Goalsetter, Goalrilla and Springfree Trampoline, touted as the world’s safest trampoline. At the showroom, families can climb and explore rock walls, slides and playsets on display, as well as practice free throws and dunks on the pro-size basketball hoop. “The shopping experience is truly like no other,” Albers says. “We are proud to be a part of this community, and the quality of what we offer is a reflection of that.”

TIMEKEEPERS

Specializing in watch, clock and jewelry repair, as well as engraving and custom jewelry design, this family business came to St. Louis from eastern Europe nearly 40 years ago. With two locations in the area—on Meramec Avenue in Clayton and on Olive Boulevard—it is the place to go for unique and vintage jewelry. “We purchase from all over the world,” says owner Ella Pernik, adding that the store carries pieces from the 1800s to present day. The business also specializes in new and vintage music boxes, wristwatches and accessories.

“We have four generations of expertise in buying, selling, appraising and repairing fine jewelry, timepieces and other collectibles,” Pernik says. All buyers at Timekeepers are graduates of the Gemological Institute of America.

CIVIL ALCHEMY

Kelley Barr, founder and former partner of K. Hall Studio, wanted to create a shop to explore new ideas and old hobbies. The result is Civil Alchemy in Webster Groves, a kind of modern-day general store. Barr developed the concept with her son, Ian VanDam. VanDam refers to the store as “the world’s smallest department store,” carrying everything from apparel and jewelry to fresh flowers and locally made chocolates. He explains that the only overarching themes are quality and thoughtfulness. “It makes for a great intersection of people with all sorts of interests,” he says. This year, Civil Alchemy is introducing its own gin brand, Civil Alchemy Truly Floral Blue No. 5, distilled in Defiance, Missouri. The store hosts tastings and trunk shows, and it will soon offer classes in areas like crafting, foraging and flower pressing. “We believe that as we grow, the community will continue to stand by us,” VanDam says. “St. Louis is very loyal to local businesses.”

ELLEARD HEFFERN

PRESIDENT KIT HEFFERN WITH HIS SON WEBSTER

Opened in 1913, Elleard Heffern is St. Louis’ oldest independent fine jeweler.

Originally located downtown, the store moved to Clayton in the 1970s. Its mission to provide high-quality, distinctive jewelry continues into its fourth generation, according to Kit Heffern, president and grandson of the company’s founder. “First-time visitors often remark on how different our jewelry is from what they see everywhere else. That’s because we always are seeking emerging international designers who offer limited, specialized production,” he says.

An example is the Gismondi 1754 line. The Italian collection has been worn by celebrities like Jane Fonda, and Elleard Heffern is the only independent jewelry store in the U.S. to feature it. The company also is known for restoring and remodeling outdated jewelry, according to Heffern. “St. Louis has a rich history in the arts, architecture, fashion and culture,” he notes. “It’s our pleasure to serve a community that appreciates beauty and craftsmanship.”

J.A. WHITNEY

J.A. Whitney opened in Ladue in 1994 before moving to Town & Country in 2007. Jennifer Geschke and her mother, Lois, purchased the store in 2011. They’ve worked to keep the products innovative while staying true to the shop’s 23-year history. It specializes in unique, personalized gifts and offers complimentary gift wrapping. According to Jennifer Geschke, one of the store’s top sellers continues to be hand-painted piggy banks, which it has offered since its founding. “We’re always looking for fresh, up-and-coming products,” she says. “But we also want to keep traditions alive.” She says working with her mom is a big benefit. Not only do they have fun working together, they also are able to provide different insights into how customers will respond to products. Appealing to different generations is part of what has made J.A. Whitney a mainstay. “We have such a loyal following,” Geschke says. “We want to be an active member of the community and give back because St. Louis has done so much for us.”

OWNERS JENNIFER AND LOIS GESCHKE

LAURIE'S SHOES

Opened in 1951, the original Laurie’s Shoes on Manchester Road was built as bomb shelter during the Korean War. As well as housing shoes, it was a safe place for the community if the need arose. Thankfully, its secondary use was not a necessity, but the family-owned business has continued to grow over four generations. Laurie’s carries a huge array of footwear, more than 50,000 pairs, according to owner Mark Waldman. It offers brands from around the world, including Italy and France. It also has pedorthists on staff to make sure its footwear is stylish and comfortable. “Our goal is complete customer satisfaction, no matter the specific need,” Waldman says. He notes that St. Louis is like a wonderful secret, offering the best benefits without much recognition.

“We have a client base that espouses the Midwestern philosophy of honesty, hard work and appreciation,” he says. “We are committed to this town!”

SASHA NICHOLAS

Sasha Nicholas porcelain dinnerware was once only sold through mail order and at select stores across the United States, but in April of this year, it opened its first retail boutique on Clayton Road. “We have filled a hole left by Byron Cade and now represent other brands as well as our own,” says owner Cindy Nouri.

In fact, Nouri carries more than 60 other brands, including Waterford Crystal, Herend, Royal Copenhagen, Le Creuset and, come the new year, Mauviel copper cookware. She says some Sasha Nicholas items, like the gold, monogrammed porcelain bowls, are limited edition and unique to the 1,000-square-foot Clayton Road store. “We aren’t selling them anywhere else in the country,” she says.

In addition to wedding registry items, Nouri says she stocks a large selection of what she calls hostess gifts, like embroidered cocktail napkins, lifestyle and interior design books, and jewelry.

B. DAVIS DESIGN

In 2011, Barb Davis decided to open B. Davis Design as an extension of her years of design experience. The shop offers a unique mix of curated home decor, reflecting Davis’ personal vision. “I don’t shop trends; I just sell what I love and am passionate about,” she explains. She regularly goes on buying trips to bring in one-of-kind buys, including antiques. B. Davis is a Mackenzie Childs dealer, offers custom ribbons, and has a custom wreath and floral department. The store’s greatest appeal, however, is its customer service. “We make you feel like you’re in our home,” Davis says. “We are personally invested in helping everyone pick the perfect gift or item.” The personal attention keeps customers coming back and referring friends. “St. Louis is a very loyal community, and everyone loves to shop local,” she says. “They’re loyal Cardinals fans and loyal B. Davis fans!”

SIGN OF THE ARROW

What could be better than shopping that impacts the community in beneficial ways? That’s what a visit to Sign of the Arrow guarantees since all proceeds from every purchase go to good causes. The beloved nonprofit needlepoint store, established in 1966 by nine women of the St. Louis Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi, is staffed by more than 80 volunteers. Since its inception, it has donated more than $3.6 million dollars to 187 different charities.

Originally, Sign of the Arrow’s merchandise consisted of cards and paper products, baked goods, consignment needlepoint and crafts, but 50 years (and a couple of moves) later, it has expanded and now is known for an extensive selection of designer needlepoint, furniture, fibers, tableware, holiday decorations, sorority gifts, baby gifts, picture frames, stationery, trunk shows and classes. “We have such a unique selection,” says general manager Julie Filean. “There’s something for mom, dad, kid and home, and all your shopping gives back!” &

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live, classical music as I would have liked (although 10 years of being a Suzuki mom certainly counts). So when the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra hosted a media event recently offering a morning behind-the-scenes look at Powell Hall during an open rehearsal, my reaction was a resounding, “Yippee!” Would we get to see the musicians onstage in jeans? (Yes.) Could we eat our bagels and cream cheese during the concert? (No.) How about audience toe-tapping and humming during the performance? (Not so much—get a grip; it’s still the symphony!)

The rehearsal was for a film concert, a program in which the orchestra plays the score live while a movie shows on a gigantic screen. Realistically, I was more likely to white-knuckle my armrest during Jurassic Park than whistle to John Williams’ music.

The occasion being celebrated with this event (and many others to come) is the 50-year anniversary of the symphony’s permanent home, Powell Hall. While our renowned SLSO is in its 138th season, it wasn’t until January 1968 that it proudly performed in its forever home. The symphony had purchased the former St. Louis Theatre, a vaudeville and movie house, two years earlier and renovated it into the elegant concert hall we enjoy today.

No matter what I’ve seen and heard there or where I’ve sat, the experience has been, well, dignified. Powell Hall, built in 1925, just may be the last bastion of civilization where cell phones, snacks and plastic wine glasses simply are not permitted. Its ivory and gold walls and regal red seats—spaced for comfort, not maximum ticket sales—encourage audiences to behave. Viewing a movie while the musicians played the score was a thrilling experience—there’s nothing quite like having the tympani boom as raptors come toward you on a 40foot screen.

This is only the beginning of an exciting celebration for our SLSO. On Jan. 20, it hosts an open house and tour of Powell Hall, free to the public. There will be children’s activities, a live rehearsal of the Youth Orchestra and a lecture by Missouri History Museum historian Andrew Wanko. At night, there will be a screening (without live music) of The Sound of Music, the last movie shown at St. Louis Theatre before it became Powell Hall. And on Jan. 16, the Powell Hall at 50 exhibit opens at the Central Library, 1301 Olive St. A free chamber music concert March 6 at the library concludes the festivities. But, of course, St. Louisans should feel free to keep celebrating on their own.

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Revealing the Faces of Hope A masquerade to benefit The Haven of Grace

Saturday, February 24, 2018

THE HAVEN OF GRACE IS DEDICATED TO HELPING YOUNG MOTHERS HAVE HEALTHY BABIES AND SUCCESSFUL FUTURES. ITS ‘REVEALING THE FACES OF HOPE’ GALA WILL BE HELD FEB. 24 AT LEWIS RICE. PICTURED ON THE COVER: ATTORNEY JOHN HESSEL OF LEWIS RICE; RESIDENT ALICIA TOWNLEY AND DAUGHTER MAKENZIE PORTER; GALA CO-CHAIRS LAURA HESSEL OF MONETA GROUP AND TOM WALL OF MITCHELL WALL. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.621.6507 OR VISIT HAVENOFGRACESTL.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY ALLIE BRONSKY | COVER PHOTO BY TIM PARKER PHOTOGRAPHY

HOPE [GIVING THE HAVEN OF GRACE by julia m. johnson

PARENTING IS A CHALLENGE EVEN IN THE BEST OF CIRCUMSTANCES, but it

can be especially trying when you’re a young, single mother with no roof over your head. The Haven of Grace is an Old North St. Louis nonprofit offering shelter and other critical services to pregnant, homeless young women age 18 and up so they can have healthy babies and enjoy promising futures. The organization has been helping women build better lives for three decades now, so it has a great deal to celebrate.

The Haven of Grace relies mostly on private donations to support its operations, and events are an important part of its fundraising program. This year, the organization is spicing things up with a new masquerade gala, Revealing the Faces of Hope, at an unconventional venue—the conference center at the Lewis Rice law firm, which is donating use of the space. “The center is a beautiful area on the 25th floor of the building,” says Moneta Group financial adviser Laura Hessel, who co-chairs the event with Tom Wall. “Its main room has a lovely half-moon window overlooking downtown and the Gateway Arch, perfect for gala photo opportunities. It will be a wonderful evening of mingling, food, champagne and cocktails.”

Hessel says the 30th anniversary event Feb. 24 will offer some traditional features like a live auction with several high-end items. But rather than packing a lot of other activities and presentations into the evening, The Haven of Grace wants it to be remembered simply as “a really fun party” with lots of opportunities for socializing and learning about the organization. “It’s a masquerade, so we hope to see some elaborate masks,” Hessel notes. “Another new feature we’re including is a set of posters featuring residents, staff members and board members. Guests download an

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app on their phones and hold them up to the posters, which then ‘come to life’ on the screen and tell each person’s story. It’s a very creative idea, and we think people will have a lot of fun with it.” LustreLights will provide music, and weather permitting, a photographer will capture memorable rooftop shots of guests with the Arch in the background.

Proceeds from the gala provide young mothers with shelter, prenatal care, assistance with GED studies, help getting into college or landing a job, and other important services, Hessel says. They also learn skills like budgeting, balancing a checkbook and cooking nutritious meals. “We’re not a large organization, but we really make a difference for the families we serve,” she notes. “These women are at a tough point in their lives and have nowhere else to go, so we help them learn how to help themselves. They create a supportive community for each other, and are as committed to positive change in their lives as we are.”

The organization’s maternity shelter houses 10 mothers, and there are seven transitional apartments. “After women leave here, we stay in contact with them for up to 10 years,” Hessel explains. “We’re one of few organizations that do that.

Recently, a former resident helped cater an event for us. She used our services years ago, and now she has her own business and is giving back.”

Hessel says she loves being involved with The Haven of Grace because it strengthens families and creates a community of lasting support. “We may not be changing the world en masse, but when we can improve life for one individual, it means the world to her,” she says.

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〈〈 WEST END GRILL & PUB 〉〉 354 n. boyle ave. | 314.531.4607

[ the dish ] pan-seared arctic char

with couscous, roasted beets, dill sour cream and fresh horseradish

[ amuse bouche ] the scene

Cozy neighborhood pub with theater ambience

the chef Josh Roland

the prices

$4.95-$10.95 starters, $9.25-$11.95 sandwiches, $11.95-$22.95 entrees

the favorites

Fire-Roasted Tomato Bisque, Fried Cauliflower, Mussels, Steak Frites, Grilled Mahi Mahi, Spiced Apple Bread Pudding

THIS NEIGHBORHOOD SPOT IS A COMFORTABLE HANGOUT WITH EPICUREAN FOOD. Artsy and

a little quirky (there is a door connecting it to The Gaslight Theater, where St. Louis Actors’ Studio performs), this place has a bar room and a quieter dining room, both dimly lit to create a nightclublike ambience.

A new chef, Josh Roland, started in August to kick up the gourmet factor. Roland has a long list of credits, including stints at Balaban’s, Salt, Gordon Ramsey’s Claridge’s in London and Daniel Boulud’s Daniel in New York. He offers a menu of exciting flavors and generous servings.

Our starter of Fried Cauliflower ($7.75) was lightly dusted with flour and pan-seared to a very light crispness. Drizzled with truffle oil and well-salted, the preparation brought out the flavor of the vegetable—and it was at least a half-head of cauliflower, great for sharing. Although Missouri black walnuts were listed on the menu as part of the dish, ours appeared to be the less pungent brown variety.

Fire-Roasted Tomato Bisque ($4.25) was similarly teeming with flavor. Creamy (from a vegan cashew cream) and with a touch of heat, it was thick and delicious. Don’t miss the Mussels ($11.95), a Pan-Asian preparation with spice and coconut milk; it’s not the usual creamy version, but rich, brown and very flavorful. The Gaslight Salad ($6.95) showed a talent for presentation. Leaves of bibb and raddichio lettuce were piled into a tower, with sweet potato ‘hay’ and creamy blue cheese dressing on top. A few haricots vert stuck out from the bottom.

Entrees here come with a nice compilation of veggies, making the meal complete, not to mention a good deal. A plate of Steak Frites ($21.95) had hanger steak medallions fanned on top of wilted greens and two delicious sauces, one lightly flavored with blue cheese, another rich and sweet with red wine. The frites (fries) were crisp and crunchy—superior!

There are off-menu specials, like the Grilled Mahi with Honey-Glazed Vegetables ($19.95). Again, it was a great plateful of food, with a generous, tasty fish fillet over wonderful roasted root vegetables like radish, turnip and carrot in a mildly sweet honey sauce—subtle and very nicely done.

Chicken Under the Brick ($18.95) had a half-chicken sitting atop delicious cornbread stuffing. A rich gravy called Jack Daniels Pan Sauce smothered the meat, with a generous bed of haricots vert nearby. Tasty on all counts, although the chicken skin should have been crispier.

For dessert, we tasted Peach Cobbler and Spiced Apple Bread Pudding (each $7.95), both of which had the same subtle touch as the savory foods. In the former, fresh peaches were cooked, with a homestyle dough topping that served as the ‘crust.’ The bread pudding, thick and doughy, was made with fresh apples and cinnamon and sweetened by two scoops of cinnamon Serendipity ice cream. It wasn’t very sweet, but still satisfying with its bread and butter. Delicious all around!

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[ food • ŏ • lō • gy ] hanger steak

A small section of meat from the lower belly considered the most flavorful cut, also known as ‘butcher’s steak’ because butchers were said to take it home for themselves.

mahi mahi

A mild-flavored fish from tropical and sub-tropical waters. Much of it comes from Hawaii, which claims its fishermen use only line-caught methods rather than baits.

blue cheese

Often underrated, this product always has a penicillium-induced mold, but flavors and intensity vary widely. It is not, as some think, an American version of Roquefort, but can come from all over the world.

[ aftertaste ] » We love coming here. The ambience is warm and comfortable, and the food is delicious!

— HOWARD S. OF CLAYTON

» This spot is a neighborhood favorite that serves great food for

decent prices. And we like seeing all of the familiar faces, from the staffers to our neighbors.

— ANNE R., CWE

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LEISURE

[THE BUZZ] THE HAVEN OF GRACE

nonprofit buzz

Join RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE CHARITIES OF ST. LOUIS Dec. 3 for a special private shopping event featuring cocktails and giveaways at Lululemon at Plaza Frontenac. An anonymous supporter will donate 20 percent of event sales to the nonprofit (rmhcstl.com) … Give to THE HAVEN OF GRACE this holiday season! Qualified donations of $100 or more are eligible for a 50 percent Missouri Maternity Home Tax Credit (havenofgracestl.org) …

ST. LOUIS SINUS CENTER

THOMPSON CENTER

presents a St. Louis Favorite

Christmas Candlelight Concert

featuring Handel’s Messiah

RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE

WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY

TheBachSociety

MOSBY

health buzz

THE ST. LOUIS SINUS CENTER, located at The

Village at Schneithorst’s, offers world-class, cuttingedge sinus and allergy care, including balloon sinus dilation. Owner and founder Dr. James D. Gould is regarded as one of the nation’s foremost BSD experts (stlsinuscenter.com) … Now is the time for change!

WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY gastroenterologists offer safe, nonsurgical alternatives for those struggling with weight loss. Find out if you are a candidate, and sign up for a free information session (barnesjewishwestcounty.org/nonsurgical-weight-loss) … This fall, the MU THOMPSON CENTER FOR AUTISM AND NEURODEVELOPMENTAL DISORDERS opened its new Research and Training Facility, doubling the center’s space and allowing for greatly increased levels of life-changing research and training programs (thompsoncenter.missouri.edu) ...

AMERICAN BANK

Tuesday, December 19, 2017 7:30 pm at Powell Hall

business buzz

MOSBY BUILDING ARTS is excited to welcome digital marketing strategist Abigail Peche to its team (314.909.1800) … AMERICAN BANK OF MISSOURI is a full-service, FDIC-insured community bank

established in 1880, with services including mortgage, commercial, consumer and SBA loans; checking and savings with mobile banking; and related products (americanbankofmissouri.com) …

LaCHEF

Hailed as one of the “Top 20 Live Christmas Events in North America” by BBC Music Magazine, this concert has it all – familiar carols, a candlelight processional and even audience participation! The Bach Society will be joined onstage by The St. Louis Children’s Choirs and guest soloists: tenor Scott Kennebeck, mezzo-soprano Martha J. Hart and soprano Sari Gruber.

food buzz

LaCHEF CATERING specializes in full-service, offpremise catering featuring the latest in food trends and specialty gourmet cuisine. Check out the new and improved LaChef website today (lachef.com) …

culture buzz

A 300-percent increase in education programs prompted the BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS to hire a new director of education and community engagement. Monica Orban, a music educator and pianist, recently joined the team (bachsociety.org) …

BACH SOCIETY

COMPTON HEIGHTS

www.powellhall.com 314-534-1700

holiday buzz

Visit TED DREWES for one of St. Louis’ finest selections of balsam, Fraser and pine trees—and enjoy frozen custard while you’re there! (teddrewes.com) … The 60-piece COMPTON HEIGHTS CONCERT BAND’s 19th annual Holiday Pops Spectacular will brighten the Skip Viragh Center at Chaminade. Showtimes at 2 and 7:30 p.m. Dec. 23 will feature Hugh Smith, Gina Galati, Robert Ellison and the East Central College Choir (chband.org) …

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[ MARK YOUR CALENDAR ] by stephanie wallace

〈〈 december 〉〉 through 12/10

through 1/1/18

12/1-12/3

The Tony-winning revival of Rodgers and Hammerstein’s classic is coming to St. Louis! Enjoy this tale of the unconventional and tempestuous relationship between the King of Siam and Anna Leonowens, a British schoolteacher brought to Siam to teach his many wives and children.

Cascading clouds of beautiful, handblown glass ornaments have taken over the windows of Craft Alliance. Check out this Loop holiday tradition, and view ornaments from local artisans like Sam Stang, Theo Keller, Mariel Hunter and more!

UMSL Theatre presents a bold collection of poetry and prose from Kevin Coval that explores the collision of race, art and appropriation.

the king and I

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $39-$105 Various showtimes | fabulousfox.com 314.534.1111

glass ornament display

Craft Alliance in the Delmar Loop | Free 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Mon.-Sat., 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sun. craftalliance.org

on the street where i live

Webster Arts opens its new 2,000-square-foot gallery with On the Street Where I Live, a multimedia exhibit that explores the themes of community and shelter. Local printmaker Amanda Verbeck selected the pieces on display.

Webster Arts Center | Free 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Mon.-Fri., 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Sat. webster-arts.org

through 12/31

u.s. bank wild lights

Festive fun awaits at the Saint Louis Zoo with a wild, arctic wonderland featuring more than half a million twinkling lights.

Festivities include costumed characters, carolers and animal stories by theatrical interpreters.

Saint Louis Zoo | $7-$10 | 5:30-8:30 p.m. stlzoo.org

12/2

great gift hunt and holiday celebration

The Delmar Loop | Free | All day visittheloop.com

through 3/4/18

yvonne osei: tailored landscapes

As part of the 2017 Kranzberg Exhibition Series, Laumeier Sculpture Park presents the work of Yvonne Osei. Using video and photo documentation, the artist creates an environment that explores the cultural and physical landscapes of the park through textiles.

Adam Aronson Fine Arts Center | Free 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | laumeiersculpturepark.org

12/2

paws ‘n’ claus

Support the Humane Society of Missouri and get a free photo of your furry friend with Santa.

Taubman Prestige Outlets | Free 10 a.m.-4 p.m. taubmanprestigeoutlets.com

12/2

holiday shopping soiree

The Spa and Salon at the Four Seasons invites shoppers to get their holiday shopping done in one place. Enjoy complimentary mimosas while you peruse new arrivals from brands including Kendra Scott, Silver & Sage, La Costa Jewelry, UGG and more.

Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis | Free 11 a.m-3 p.m. | fourseasons.com/stlouis

12/2

kithara duo

As part of the Great Artist Guitar series, the Saint Louis Classical Guitar Society presents classical guitarists Olga Amelkin-Vera and Fernand Vera.

The Ethical Society | $24-$28 | 8 p.m. guitarstlouis.net | 314.567.5566

12/3

through 1/1/18

winterfest at the arch

Enjoy free ice skating and a variety of events, including a St. Louis Blues watch party Dec. 2, a winter market and more.

Kiener Plaza | Free; skate rental $7-$12 Dates and times vary | archwinterfest.com

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spotlight talk: hannah klemm

Hannah Klemm, assistant curator of modern and contemporary art at the Saint Louis Art Museum, leads a discussion of Corinne Wasmuht’s large-scale painting Llanganuco Falls (2008).

Kranzberg Arts Center | Free 7:30 p.m. Fri. & Sat., 2:30 p.m. Sun. kranzbergartscenter.org

Shop The Loop for a chance to win a prize up to $1,000 in value — but that’s not all!

The celebration includes complimentary family photos with The Loop Trolley, pet pictures at the Moonrise Hotel and a tree lighting at 5 p.m.

through 12/23

12/11

l-vis lives!

an evening with leslie odom jr.

Award-winning actor and vocalist Leslie Odom Jr. is coming to St. Louis. The Hamilton star will join the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra for a one-night-only performance.

Powell Hall | $40-$200 | 7 p.m. | slso.org 314.534.1700

Kemper Art Museum | Free | 5 p.m. kemperartmuseum.wustl.edu

12/6

12/11 & 12

Hanukkah storytelling, a singing presentation, and STEAM crafts and games are part of the Hanukkah Celebration at Schnucks Ladue Crossing shopping center. The event is emceed by Rabbi Yaakov Green, headmaster of HF Epstein Hebrew Academy.

The Chamber Music Society of St. Louis invites you to enjoy a feast for the ears with music from a variety of countries and an appetizing menu that is sure to send you home satisfied.

hanukkah celebration

Barnes & Nobles Booksellers-Ladue Free | 6-7 p.m. | 314.205.0800

12/7

book talk with scott angus and emily sopensky

Snake Medicine chronicles Scott Angus’ tour of the sacred sites of America. Through interviews with Emily Sopensky, the professor of photography, art theory and visual arts shares his experience photographing each site.

International Photography Hall of Fame and Museum | Free | 6:30 p.m. | iphf.org 314.535.1999

12/9

harlem globetrotters

At the original Harlem Globetrotter’s action-packed 2017 World Tour, witness thrilling basketball wizardry and family entertainment, including autographs, photos and high-fives with the Globetrotters after the game.

Scottrade Center | $24.50-$140.50 2 & 7 p.m. | scottradecenter.com

musical tapas-open table

Sheldon Ballroom | $38 | 7:30 chambermusicstl.org

12/14-12/31 souvenir

Max & Louie Productions presents this depiction of the life of Florence Foster Jenkins, starring Debby Lennon as Jenkins and Paul Cereghino as her devoted accompanist, Cosme McMoon.

The Marcelle | $20-$45 | Various times maxandlouie.com

12/15-12/17, 12/20-12/23 the nutcracker

The St. Louis Ballet brings Tchaikovsky’s holiday classic to life with 11 dazzling performances. This treat for the whole family follows the fantastic dreams of a little girl on Christmas Eve. Touhill Performing Arts Center Ticket prices vary | Performances at 7:30 & 2:30 p.m. | stlouisballet.org

12/21-12/23

music of john williams

E.T., Superman, Star Wars— over his six-decade career, John Williams has composed some of the most beloved and recognizable film scores in cinematic history. The St. Louis Symphony celebrates the holiday season with these iconic works.

Characters from Star Wars will be available for photos.

Powell Hall | $32-$70 | 7 p.m. Thur. & Fri., 2:30 p.m. Sat. | slso.org | 314.534.1700

BY KARYN WILLIAMS, LAUREN RECHAN AND COLLEEN MAHONEY P HOTOS BY SUZ Y G O R M A N

THE HOLIDAYS HAVE ARRIVED, and while it's important to remember the 'peace, love and joy' part of the season, you certainly can't forget the gifts! No matter if it's something that's $25 or $250, it's the thought that counts. We visited local shops to find unique items at various price points. Now it's up to you to tackle that list. Happy shopping!

STOCKING STUFFERS Olivina Men Restorative Hand Rescue, $13 from Ginger & Mary Ann Boutique; Pre de Provence Dry Skin Hand Cream, $7.50 from Christopher’s; Macaroon Boxes, $9.99 each from Geranium at West County Center; Cocktail-Inspired Bath Bon Bons, $24 from Paperdolls; Rifle Paper Co. Herb Garden iPhone 6/7 Case, $38 from Geranium at West County Center; Floral Kisslock Cellphone Wallet, $38.50 from Geranium at West County Center; Three Chocolate Bar Gift Pack, $10 from Lolli and Pops at West County Center; Tortoise Initial Charm, $28 from J.A. Whitney; World’s Softest Cozy Collection Socks, $10 from Christopher’s; Key Necklaces with Imprinted Phrases, $49 and $55 from Paperdolls; Trois Petits Cochons Guest Soaps, $24 from Sasha Nicholas; Michel Design Works Peacock Shea Butter Soap, $10 from Christopher’s; Whimsical Notepad, $15 from Service Bureau; Plus-Plus Puzzle Pieces, $7.99 from Happy Up; Peepers Readers, $22 from Shine Boutique; I Could Chew on This and Other Poems by Dogs, $12.95 from Christopher’s

$50 & UNDER Harper’s Bazaar framed print, $49.99 from The Refind Room; My Paris Kitchen Cookbook by David Lebovitz, $35 from Sasha Nicholas; Aviate STL hat, $35 from Paperdolls; Apres Shower Wrap, $42.50 from Shine Boutique; Playable Art Ball, $31.99 from Happy Up; Pink Champagne Glasses, $39/set of six from The Refind Room; Time Machine Kids Sweatshirt, $45 from Mister Guy Women’s; Leather Bracelets with Phrases, $22 each from Christopher’s; Rope Knot, $23 from Rusted Chandelier; Soft Side Beer Caddy, $36 from Service Bureau; Barr-Co. Fine Hand Made Bath Salts in Fir & Grapefruit, $32 from K. Hall Studio; Nest Holiday Diffuser, $44 from Soft Surroundings; Acorn and Silver Cracker Dish, $40 from Service Bureau; Needlepoint Keychain, starting at $46 from Sign of the Arrow; U.S. Apothecary Orange Flower Water Bubble Bath, $32 from K. Hall Studio; Wise Saying Tray, $20 from Savvy Surrounding Style; Deanna Faux Fur Eye Mask, $18.95 from Soft Surroundings; Not Vodka Stainless Steel Bottle (sales benefit the Thirst Project and Code: Red charities), $38 from Ginger & Mary Ann Boutique

$100 & UNDER Throw Blanket, $68 from Whimsy Rose; Moda Luxe Vegas Calf Pattern Clutch, $68 from Paperdolls; City/State Glasses, $14 each from Sign of the Arrow; BOGS Waterproof Kids Boots, $78.99 from Laurie’s Shoes; Dopp Kit, $88 from Shine Boutique; Lace bralettes, $26.60 and $30.80 from Wacoal Outlet; BB Dakota Faker Finge Bell Sleeve Sweater, $94.50 from Paperdolls; Blanc Marble Domino Set, $94 from Savvy Surrounding Style; Silver Mug with Deer Antler Handle, $98 from B. Davis Design; Marble Cheese Plate, $95 from Christopher’s; Lesi Lerch Tortoise Earrings, $78 from Service Bureau; Mudpie Holiday Cookie Jar Set, $49 from J.A. Whitney; Lafco New York Candle in White Snowdrop, $60 from PALM Health; Ozobot Evo Robot, $99.99 from Happy Up; Acorn Fleece Slippers, $50 from Mister Guy Women’s; Men’s Driving Gloves, $98 from Mister Guy Men’s; Colonel Littleton Wallet, $30, and Pocketknife, $45 from Sasha Nicholas

$200 & UNDER Wigens Hat, $150 from Savile Row; St. Louis Pillow, $120 from Marketplace at the Abbey; Dion Holiday Ties, $115 each from Savile Row; Linda Richards Suede and Silver Fox Mittens, $190 from The Fur Boutique; Sasha Nicholas Champagne/Wine Bucket (can be personalized), $195 from Sasha Nicholas; Horn Handle Bar Set, $120 from Savvy Surrounding Style; Fillerina Dermo-Cosmetic Replenishing Gel for At-Home Use, $175 from Soft Surroundings; Turquoise Necklace, $198 from Shine Boutique; Book set, $188 from Marketplace at the Abbey; Julie Vos Gold Earrings, $125 from Sasha Nicholas; Sorel Waterproof Boots, $170 from Laurie’s Shoes; Smathers & Branson Needlepoint Belt, $165 from Mister Guy Men’s; Green bookends, $70 each, Covered books, $14 each from Rusted Chandelier; Quartz flower, $100 from Rusted Chandelier; Vento Bergamo Silver Tray & Dip Bowl, $145 from Sign of the Arrow; Sno Top Rex Rabbit Fringy Scarf, $195 from The Fur Boutique; Classic Series Singing Machine Karaoke System, $99.99 from Happy Up

OVER $200 Michael Aram Pitcher, $298 from Service Bureau; Tateossian London Blue Alutex Cufflinks, $225 from Savile Row; Primo Cubetto Playset, $225.99 from Happy Up; Hobo Purse, $328 from Shine Boutique; 3-in-1 Ageless Enhancer by Osmotics Cosmeceuticals, $298 from Soft Surroundings; Moyna Monogram Clutch, $175 from Mister Guy Women’s; Limited Production Ino Schaller Papier-Mâché Santa, $239 from B. Davis Design; Brackish Guinea Fowl Feathers Bow Tie, $200 from Service Bureau; Sandy Mink Throw, $399 from Savvy Surrounding Style; Peter Millar Sunglasses, $248 from Mister Guy Men’s; Monogram Dinnerware (shown: Sasha Weave salad plate), starts at $324/six from Sasha Nicholas; Canoe Kodiak East-West Look Bag, $328 from J.A. Whitney

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1 1 | GENOVESE JEWELERS A 14kt. white gold, polished band holds 12 marquise diamonds and round pavé diamonds at 1.31tw.

1260 Olive Blvd. | 314.878.6203 | genovesejewelers.com

2 | CHRISTOPHER’S Enzo’s petite satchel evokes simplicity and creativity—and with its convenient exterior zippered pocket, you won’t have to dig around for your phone and keys.

127 E. Argonne Drive | 314.909.0202 | christophersgifts.com

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The Aquamarine Candle is from the newest line of fragranced home items, The King Collection by K. Hall Studio. The line is a collaboration with St. Louis native Meghan King Edmonds of The Real Housewives of Orange County.

8416 Manchester Road | 314.963.3293 1701 S. Lindbergh Blvd. | 314.991.6988 | khallstudio.com

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LaChef Catering 7169 Manchester Rd. LaChef Catering

La Chef LaChef

St.7169 Louis, MO 63143Rd. Manchester 314.647.5350 St. Louis, MO 63143 314.647.5350

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Try LaChef’s Signature Recipe Try LaChef’s Signature Recipe Pineapple Rosemary Pineapple Rosemary Champagne Punch Champagne Punch Ingredients Ingredients

47 oz. Pineapple Juice

47 1/8oz. lb.Pineapple RosemaryJuice (Fresh) 1/8Limeade lb. Rosemary (Fresh) (12 oz.)

1 Can Concentrate Can Lemonade Limeade Concentrate (12(12 oz.)oz.)

11 Can Concentrate 1 Can Lemonade Concentrate (12 1 Bottle Champagne oz.)

1 Bottle 1 LiterChampagne Ginger Ale 1 Liter Ginger Ale

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Let steep for 4-5 hours at turn off heat. Let steep for 4-5 hours at roomtemperature. temperature.On Onday dayyou you are serving, strain room are serving, strain rosemaryand andadd addlimeade limeade and lemonade rosemary and lemonade concentrates.

Just before serving, add champagne concentrates. Just before serving, add champagne andginger gingerale. ale.Garnish Garnishwith with rosemary and and rosemary and cranberries.

Add a splash of cranberry juice cranberries. Add a splash of cranberry juice forfor a a touchofofcolor! color!Enjoy!

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BY ELIZABETH MAYER Keepsakes are beautifully rendered in classic black and white and conveniently drawn from photographs taken in the studio or provided by clients.

314.962.4953 | portraitsbyelizabethmayer.com

5 | THE FUR BOUTIQUE A fur-trimmed cashmere cape is the go-to outerwear this holiday season. Available in a rainbow of colors.

9820 Clayton Road | 314.401.0317

6 | MARKETPLACE AT THE ABBEY Let Marketplace at the Abbey deck your halls this season, from custom floral arrangements in delightful ornament vases to wreaths and garland for your doors and mantels.

10090 Manchester Road | 314.965.1400 marketplaceattheabbey.com

7 | WILSON LIGHTING Find these handcrafted Byers’ Choice collectible figurines at your local Wilson Lighting showroom, and share in a classic holiday tradition.

909 S. Brentwood Blvd. | 314.222.6300 | wilsonlighting.com

Cr o ss Ev ery t h i ng O ff You r List at Th e Ab b e y on De c e mb e r 2 Bring your family to The Abbey on Sat., Dec. 2 to make merry memories. Kids will meet Santa (Christmas card picture: ), sip hot ) while you chocolate, and then join our singing and storytelling reindeer, Buddy, for hours of yuletide fun (Children occupied: discover unique Abbey finds for everyone on your list (Buy gifts: ). Plus, a portion of the day’s profits will go to benefit the National )!

Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (Give back this season:

Get it all done, have fun, and SAVE 20% STOREWIDE this Saturday at The Abbey!

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The Fur Boutique, llc St Louis’ Finest Furrier

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Step Into The Holidays With Style See St. Louis’ Finest Fashion In Luxurious Outerwear.

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The Fur Boutique 9820 Clayton Rd. 63124 (next to DeerCreek Coffee)

THURS. FRI. SAT. 10-5

Or By Appointment 314-401-0317

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12 | PAPERDOLLS BOUTIQUE

Mephisto men’s walking shoes from France are made with the finest leathers and feature latex or rubber soles.

A faux leopard fur coat is gently fitted and made with a super-soft, luxe material. It makes the perfect holiday gift.

9916 Manchester Road | 314.961.1642 lauriesshoes.com

Ballwin | Kirkwood | Des Peres | University City paperdolls.boutique

9 | TAUBMAN PRESTIGE OUTLETS

13 | SASHA NICHOLAS

A UNOde50 brown leather bracelet with peaceful, gold-plated dove charm is handmade in Spain.

The Sasha Nicholas petite bowl with couture wreath is our customers' top choice for a hostess gift, bridesmaid gift or simply a 'thinking of you' gift. Use it for meals or to hold your everyday essentials; $32.

17057 N. Outer 40 Road | 636.536.3014 taubmanprestigeoutlets.com

Happy Holidays

from our family to yours!

Come view our selection of unique and vintage timepieces and jewelry

10 | WACOAL AMERICA Get it before it’s gone! From Nov. 27 through Dec. 3, take an additional 25 percent off your outlet-priced purchase, including all sale and clearance merchandise. Some exclusions apply.

Wacoal Outlet Store only.

9752 Clayton Road | 314.997.5854 sashanicholas.com

14 | MISTER GUY WOMEN’S STORE

17057 N. Outer 40 Road, Ste. 145 855.216.5446

Indulge your holidays with a visit to the Tom and Linda Platt Trunk Show, which features custom dresses, gowns and separates. It also includes the latest outerwear and accessories from The Fur Boutique—perfect for gifts!

11 | TIMEKEEPERS

9817 Clayton Road | 314.991.5262 misterguywomens.com

A stainless steel Tiffany & Co. wristwatch has a diamond bezel and chronograph.

17 N. Meramec Ave | 314.721.4548 9495 Olive Blvd., Ste. C | 314.991.0994 timekeepersclayton.com timekeepersstl.com

15 | B. DAVIS DESIGN Each papier-mâché Santa is one of a kind, this one featuring a beautiful coat with fur trim beading. Start collecting today, or give to someone special.

10502 Manchester Road | 314.822.2221 bdaviscompany.com

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a modern general store new in webster groves

gifts • apparel • specialty spirits • jewelry fresh flowers • housewares • provisions

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Gone are the days when you hit the treadmill (one

of about 50 assembled in row after row) for 30 minutes in a huge gym with no personality other than those on the TV screens above you. The current fitness trend is all about the boutique experience: small spaces, personal relationships with the trainer and hardcore workouts. St. Louis offers countless options, so it might seem overwhelming to figure out which one is right for you. Let me help.

I took my 57-year-old body, with its achy knees and bad shoulder, on a tour of friend-recommended studios, trying to stick to those that are owned and operated by St. Louisans. Following is brief recap of each class.

Remember: if I can do it, anyone can.

CLAYTON COMMUNITY CENTER

CLASS: TRX INSTRUCTOR: RENEE KANEFIELD claytonmo.gov

My abs! I thought I had toned abs, but apparently not. I was reminded about this class days later when I coughed. TRX is a suspension training system that provides an overall workout using your own body weight. The straps are a little confusing, but Renee had lots of patience and made sure I wasn’t left hanging (literally). Best deal around in terms of price for a 60-minute class; plus, the center offers childcare.

PILATES & CUSTOM FITNESS

CLASS: PILATES EQUIPMENT INSTRUCTOR/OWNER: HEATHER EPPERLY LOCATION: DES PERES pilatesandcustomfitness.com

I’ve taken Pilates for years, and this 60-minute class was fast-paced and fun but made me sweat, something I really don’t like! We spent time working on the Pilates tower and managed to hit every major muscle group, particularly our bum.

This is the workout that pro baseball players swear by, so it was fun to have some guys in the mix. The location is a little hidden but worth finding, and the studio is beautiful. Its Facebook page keeps you up to date on pricing specials and events.

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INSTRUCTOR/OWNER: STEVE BAUM LOCATION: BRENTWOOD irontribefitness.com I didn’t want to go because the name scared me.

I expected it to be primal with a large number of steroid-enhanced people. I was so wrong. This 45-minute workout is efficient and consists of a warm-up, five sets of three key moves, and a stretch. There were three trainers in my class to correct positions and make suggestions for those of us with weak shoulders and knees. It could become an addiction, but the good kind. Plus, the people are really welcoming. Don’t worry about your fitness level; you can work at your own pace.

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I have always been a bit unbalanced, both my mind and body. Here is a workout that tries very hard to actually connect the two. This workout stretches and moves your body in ways you weren’t sure it could move. Could I actually become graceful and lithe? Besides one-on-one sessions, classes are offered in Gyrokinesis and Gyrotonics. It’s a different kind of workout, but I sure felt good when I finished.

CENTRAL STUDIO

CLASS: THAI MASSAGE INSTRUCTOR/OWNER: MARY ELLEN BRYAN LOCATION: CENTRAL WEST END centralstudiostl.com While the studio offers just about any adult dance, Pilates or fitness class, by the time I got there, I was tired from all my workouts, so Mary Ellen suggested a Thai massage. This type of massage focuses on acupressure, stretching and compression and helps relieve pain and muscle tension. It was just what I needed. Central Studio is one of the few places that offers this service in St. Louis. The studio is beautiful and peaceful.

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CLASS: CORE F.I.T. INSTRUCTOR: SARAH WOODS LOCATION: FRONTENAC nutriformance.com I am not a morning person, but I got up and was ready to tackle this class at 6 a.m. Yikes! The good news: my workout for the day was over by 7 a.m.

The bad news: it was a tough class for someone who thinks their core is in good shape! F.I.T. stands for Functional Integrated Training, which are small group classes focused on burning fat and building strength. This class took place on the Pilates reformer. Sarah did a great job with her directions, and the time went quickly. I was sorry the next day, but in a good way.

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CLASS: SWEET PEACE SATURDAY INSTRUCTOR/OWNER: LIZ ROODMAN LOCATION: KIRKWOOD sweetpeaceyoga.com Here is my problem with yoga: You aren’t supposed to talk during class. Well, Liz, an old friend, assured me that my occasional remarks would be welcome. Unfortunately for me, I was so focused on what I was doing, I couldn’t talk. I never thought of yoga as a workout, but my thighs beg to differ. Great studio in an old, beautiful house in the Kirkwood business district.

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CLASS: CORE 3 SURF INSTRUCTOR: CARA EPLIN LOCATION: BRENTWOOD core3fitness.com I don’t have the best balance, and this certainly proved it! The 45-minute class takes place on top of a Surfset land-based surf board. Cara led us through a cardio phase and then a great core workout. My lack of coordination made it extremely challenging, but the class flew by and I would go back again just to try and prove I can be a surfer girl! Classes are small, and the instructor offered modifications for my recently repaired shoulder.

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INFLAMMATORY BOWEL DISEASE (IBD) CAN APPEAR AT ALMOST ANY AGE,

but for patients, the transition from childhood to adulthood is especially critical in terms of education and compliance, say Washington University physicians. They are working to ensure all IBD patients have the resources they need to feel their best and function normally throughout life.

IBD encompasses two conditions, Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis (UC).

Both cause chronic inflammation of the digestive tract, but there is a key difference between them: Crohn’s can affect any portion of the tract, while UC is limited to the inner lining of the large intestine.

While they are two distinct issues, the symptoms of Crohn’s and UC can overlap.

Both can cause abdominal pain, constipation, diarrhea, rectal bleeding, fever, fatigue, weight loss and other problems. Crohn’s also can cause mouth and tongue sores, as well as anal ulcers and infections. It’s important to see a doctor for a correct diagnosis and personalized treatment plan, says Dr. Matthew Ciorba, chief of the IBD program at Washington University School of Medicine. “We have outstanding resources and expert pathologists, radiologists and surgeons who provide a high level of care in both our child and adult IBD programs,” he says. “We work to ensure the two programs interact closely for a seamless transition from pediatric to adult care.”

Pediatric gastroenterologist Dr. Chip Samson says getting young people to adhere to an IBD treatment plan can be a challenge, so the Washington University team works closely with parents, psychiatric providers and social workers to help kids stay on track with medications and treatments. “At about age 16, we start having one-on-one conversations with them about assuming more responsibility for their

health,” Samson says. “With some medicines, for example, they may not notice a big difference if they skip them for a day, so they may assume they don’t really need them. We take an individual approach, making sure each young patient understands how important these medications are.” DR. MATTHEW CIORBA Gastroenterologist Dr. Cynthia Cherfane notes that challenges like moving away from home or starting college or a career can have a significant impact on young IBD patients. Stress and anxiety can lead to poor compliance with medicines and doctor visits, so they may need extra care and follow-up during this time. She says the team is establishing a new program to help young patients move smoothly into an adult care plan based on a timeline tailored to their needs. The program includes close communication between pediatric and adult IBD physicians; extra appointment time; advice from IBD nurses; psychiatric services; smartphone apps to help with compliance; and other resources.

Once patients transition into the adult IBD program, they can expect care that’s equally thorough and compassionate, says gastroenterologist Dr. George Christophi.

“Genetics play a role in IBD,” he notes. “If your parents have it, your risk of getting it is greater. And we’re seeing an increase in incidence; about one in 250 people have IBD in the U.S. That’s significantly higher than 20 years ago. At Washington University, we take time to educate each IBD patient and establish a rapport to achieve the longterm goal of a high-quality life with limited impact from the disease.”

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to backfire if not properly maintained. Some other helpful advice: Know what can cause discomfort, understand things change as you get older and don’t let the temptations of the holidays completely throw you off course!

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HELPFUL TIPS TO AVOID UNCOMFORTABLE GASTROINTESTINAL ISSUES AS YOU AGE: EAT fruits, vegetables and lean meat.

CHEW WELL before swallowing since your stomach empties slower.

DE-STRESS. Anxiety can cause digestive malfunction.

SLEEP WELL to restore your body, which affects gut health.

TAKE AS LITTLE MEDICATION as possible. Many medications, particularly those prescribed for pain, can interfere with gut function and slow the digestion and emptying of food.

AVOID inflammatory foods, fried foods and sugar, which can irritate the gut lining.

HANDLING THE HOLIDAYS Overindulgence is not usually viewed positively, especially when it comes to food. But who among us has not surveyed a bountiful holiday feast and given in to temptation?

“It seems like food is everywhere,” says Jennifer McDaniel, a dietitian and owner of McDaniel Nutrition Therapy in Clayton. “We’re invited to countless social events, people bring their leftovers to the office and kids bring home goodies from school. Food is in our face all the time, and proximity has power.”

HAVE A GAME PLAN To avoid erasing months of good behavior with a few days of holiday binging, McDaniel suggests strategy. “Willpower only goes so far,” she says. “Be very choosy, and try to change the environment to minimize exposure.”

She says to approach each social event with an individual plan. If you know the party will have great food, go with the understanding that you will enjoy it, she advises. If the party is likely to offer generic options, eat before you go.

In either case, McDaniel suggests eating a small snack beforehand. “A handful

of almonds or an apple will make sure you don’t have food on your mind as soon as you get there,” she says. “Then, you can peruse all of your options before you start filling your plate. You will eat less if you have a game plan.”

After enjoying sensible selections and portions, escape! “Turn your back to the table,” she says. ‘If you are not looking at the food, you will eat less and focus more on the reason you are there, which is the people.”

And McDaniel warns that alcohol only will increase the risk of overeating. In addition to extra calories, she says, “Alcohol lowers our inhibitions, which might lead us to eat more. I tell my clients to space it out; have a glass of club soda in between a glass of wine or two.”

THE MENU The holiday table overflows with high-calorie traps, but seasonal feasts also feature excellent choices. “Choose vegetable sides and lean protein, which will make you feel full,” McDaniel says. “Cocktail shrimp also are a good lean option light in calories, and fresh fruit can satisfy your sweet tooth.” Go ahead and eat dessert if you want, but truly enjoy it, McDaniel says. “Don’t socialize while you eat it,” she advises. “Sit down and enjoy each bite, and try not to partake at every party.”

A NATURAL REACTION Passing gas has been a source of embarrassment and humor throughout recorded history and likely long before. Flatulence, as defined by the National Health Service of the United Kingdom, “is passing gas from the digestive system out of the back passage.” Despite contrary protests, everybody does it. England’s National Health Service (NHS) hosts a detailed website on the

subject and explains the average is about five to 15 times a day. The causes range from swallowed air and fizzy beverages to the gaseous byproducts of food digestion, often occurring when food is digested incompletely.

A normal person creates one to three pints of gas daily. Our holiday traditions only add to that. “We eat richer foods this time of year,” says Dr. Charlene

FLATULENCE: CAUSES AND TREATMENTS Medical literature identifies the simplest cause as swallowed air, but it's also caused by: Carbonated beverages, particularly beer Chewing gum Inhaling while smoking

Sucking on hard candy Loose dentures Not chewing food thoroughly

THE FOLLOWING HEALTH PROBLEMS CAN INCREASE THE INCIDENCE OF FLATULENCE: Indigestion Constipation Irritable bowel syndrome Celiac disease Lactose intolerance

Gastroenteritis Giardiasis Malabsorption syndromes Small intestinal bacterial overgrowth (SIBO) Diverticulosis or diverticulitis

TO AVOID FLATULENCE, CONSUME FOODS THAT ARE EASY TO DIGEST:

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TREATMENTS FOR EXCESSIVE GAS: Drink plenty of water

Use probiotics to promote fuller digestion

Increase fiber consumption

Take an alpha-galactosidase enzyme, available at pharmacies, to help the digestion of carbohydrates

Exercise to stimulate the digestive system and bowels

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FOODS RICH IN GAS-PRODUCING TENDENCIES Some foods contain carbohydrates, complex sugars (raffinose or fructose) or fibers that cannot be fully digested in the intestine. When these reach the colon, they are broken down by bacteria that produce gas.

BEANS BROCCOLI CABBAGE CAULIFLOWER ARTICHOKES RAISINS LENTILS WHEAT OAT BRAN ONIONS PRUNES APPLES PEACHES PEARS APRICOTS CORN PEAS BRUSSELS SPROUTS Digestion of some foods, including cabbage and onions, produces sulphurous gases that add unpleasant aroma to the resulting breeze.

“Honestly, the gut ages very well,” says Prather.

“The digestive system does slow down a bit with age, but most of what we see with digestive difficulties in elders relates to medications they are taking or other medical conditions.”

Seth Gerlach, a board-certified chiropractic internist at Core Health in Richmond Heights says that as we get older, we lose the ability to produce stomach acid, one of the first steps in breaking down and absorbing food. “Our ability to digest food starts slowing, whether that’s due to our stomach acid or enzyme production,” he says.

Gerlach says many people over 60 have issues that have added up over the years, too. “People don’t realize you can experience gut problems without having gut

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Prather, a gastroenterologist and professor at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. “Two of the biggest stimulants for gut problems are higher calories and higher fat.” Prather recommends you consult your physician if symptoms seem unusual or painful, but otherwise, avoiding certain foods will help.

symptoms. With an inflamed or leaky gut, bacterial imbalances or parasite infections, the symptoms would be fatigue, migraines or other problems.”

When general blahs plague seniors, he says fixing any digestive issues is an easy place to start. “We need the nutrients in our food to rebuild tissues, cells, hormones and brain chemicals,” he explains. “If we are not digesting our food, nutrition is not helping us.”

Stress is an overlooked contributor to tummy aches and belly gurgles, Gerlach says. “When we are stressed, our body frantically tries to repair us. It will automatically take amino acids from our gut lining to put out stress fires elsewhere. Stress also can decrease our immune response in the gut.” He says to start by looking at what

causes you anxiety. “Most people don’t realize how stressed they are, and it can build up over days, months and even years,” he notes. “Take time throughout the day to pause and reflect. Also, sleeping well gives us restorative power for the entire body, which has a huge effect on our hormones, gut and immune system.”

Poor food choices can stress the gut, too, Gerlach says. “Stay away from sugar, which is very damaging,” he notes. “Inflammatory foods, fried foods and even some grains can irritate the gut lining and use up more of our enzymes. Probiotics are easy to implement to modulate inflammation in the gut and ensure there is a good balance of bacteria.”

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caring for poinsettias Poinsettias are among the most popular holiday houseplants, and it’s easy to see why. The traditional red and green varieties can’t be beat when it comes to decorating for Christmas. But there is an exciting array of new colors—like pink, white, orange and purple—that offer even more ways to deck your halls. I like to use the creamy white varieties in an arrangement with green apples, boughs of evergreens and votive candles.

Poinsettias are relatively care-free if you follow a few simple guidelines to keep them happy:

» Buy only plants with tightly clustered, small, central flowers and crisp, bright foliage.

» Protect plants from temperatures lower than 50 degrees as you transport them home.

» Water thoroughly when the surface of the soil is dry

to the touch. Pour off any excess so the plants never sit in water.

» Fertilize the plants within several days of purchase.

I like to use an easy, all-purpose liquid fertilizer.

» To prolong poinsettias’ color, keep the plants in

rooms where the temperature is around 60 degrees at night and 72 degrees during the daytime.

» Place the plants away from drafts and sources of heat such as vents, fireplaces or direct sunlight.

» Poinsettias prefer high humidity. To increase

humidity around the plant, place it in a shallow dish of gravel and add water.

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We love our Kirkwood neighborhood and the updated interior of our home. As our family grows, though, we fantasize about adding a second story to our otherwise rather uninteresting house. How can this be done without overwhelming the house and neighborhood? We imagine adding two bedrooms, a bathroom and a playroom. We are drawn to charming, traditional, unpretentious styles that fit the Kirkwood vibe. Can you come up with a house we could love?

Sincerely, —STARTER HOME TO FOREVER HOME

DEAR STARTER HOME TO FOREVER HOME,

This type of late ’50s ranch was built by the thousands throughout St. Louis, and occasionally you see them enlarged with a clumsy, box-like second story. While that sort of straightforward approach can be very economical, I doubt it will result in a charming ‘house you could love.’

Instead, I would treat the second floor like a story and a half with a lower roofline and several dormer windows.

This will help it fit the neighborhood and cast lots of delightful shadows across the façade. A projecting gable with a transom double window would be the location of the playroom, giving the composition a necessary dominant element.

Dozens of other smaller details such as a new garage door, porch with copper roof, chimney and Juliet balcony layer the façade with elements that impart a ’20s feel. New Hardie board siding in both clapboard and cedar shake gives a truly quality impression.

You also will note that the current, somewhat wild landscaping has been tamed only a little because it lends a cottage feel to the property.

This approach could prove expensive, but it shows that something handsome can be created from the humblest starting point.

That was a fun one,

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