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OUR EYES WERE REALLY OPENED THESE PAST SEVERAL MONTHS AT HOW FRAGILE AND UNPREDICTABLE LIFE IS .

This has been a tragic time with the loss of many lives and the uncertainty of what tomorrow may bring. We have so many people to thank, and we have realized how many people, events and everyday activities we hold dear in our lives.

Our family’s eyes were opened to the pandemic’s severe impact while on spring break. There had been lots of buildup before we left, but never having lived through anything like this, we had no idea what lay ahead. We ended up cutting our trip short and proceeded home where we faced many uncertainties—things like school, work, jobs and health, just to name a few. Also a lot of firsts like rationing everyday household supplies, wearing a mask, keeping a safe distance from everyone, and the entire family working and learning daily under one roof. Everything that we could have delivered we did; unfortunately our Shipt shopper was never able to secure the prized pack of TP, but we survived.

After my first outing, I slowly began to feel more comfortable and began to branch out. I even drove four hours round trip to get my daughter a bike for her birthday. It was the time I had to myself on that trip when I began to try to find a silver lining in all of this.

I started to think about all the changes in this “new normal,” and a list of silver linings began to form. I never knew my kids could get along so well—well, most of the time—and become each other’s best friend. We started enjoying more family bike rides and walks with our dogs. We rediscovered the excitement and joy of movie and game nights. And I never would have thought my children would actually beg to go back to school! We have a garden, lots of friendship bracelets, great new recipes, an appreciation for our outdoor spaces, and the list goes on.

So, while I am ready for this to be over and know this has been a hard time for everyone, some more than others, this Thanksgiving season, I’m thankful for the chance to slow down and safely enjoy family time, and I hope to continue to find some good in all of this.

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by stephanie wallace INDEPENDENCE CENTER UNDERSTANDS THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNITY when navigating difficult circumstances. The nonprofit offers services and support to adults with severe and persistent mental illness using a clubhouse model. Each member is responsible for helping operate the organization’s main facility, handling a variety of tasks like preparing meals, giving tours and teaching classes. The model works to help people realize their capabilities, develop skills and find opportunities for social growth. When the pandemic hit this spring, Independence Center had to quickly pivot its operations to continue safely offering services and a supportive community for its members.

Business development manager Abigail Berger notes that isolation can be very difficult for people coping with mental illness, so finding opportunities for connection was one of Independence Center’s top priorities when social distancing became necessary. “Our programs are mostly in person, so we took a lot of steps to transition our services online,” she explains. “When a physical clubhouse wasn’t an option, we created a virtual one.” The nonprofit developed a password-protected portal on its website, private Facebook groups and regular Zoom meetings for members to join and use for socialization.

Making technology accessible was another hurdle the organization had to overcome. “We serve a population that often doesn’t have a phone, computer or internet access, so virtual services are not as convenient as simply walking into a building,” Berger says. “Fortunately, we were awarded a large technology grant that helped us pivot very quickly.” With the additional funding, Independence Center was able to provide devices to its members.

This summer, plans for physical reopening began, and the nonprofit is currently operating a hybrid model. Members who do not feel comfortable attending in-person meetings can continue using online services, and the organization’s psychiatrists and other health professionals are offering telehealth appointments and virtual counseling for individuals and groups. “We want to make sure everyone is safe and has access to

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what they need,” Berger says. “The silver lining is that the pandemic has forced us to innovate. We have added a line of virtual services we didn’t have previously. We can now connect with more people regardless of their ability to physically come to us.”

To make its services possible, the Independence Center hosts its annual Dancing with the St. Louis Stars fundraiser. Most years, local community leaders and professional dancers hit the stage to raise money for the nonprofit. This year’s event will be held virtually Jan. 23, 2021. It is themed Champion of Champions and will feature performances from previous years. “We had more than 20 people volunteer to participate again this year, and we are so grateful for the support,” Berger says.

“The top four fundraisers will have their performances and interviews featured in the program.” The event is free to watch, but to make the most of the evening, guests can purchase party packs that include cocktails, appetizers and other goodies.

The event is even more important this year because Independence Center is seeing a higher demand for its services. “The current environment has exacerbated preexisting mental health concerns,” Berger says. “Social isolation increases anxiety, and the problem is only going to grow moving into winter. We’ve gone through a lot of reorganization this year, but when it comes to addressing the pandemic’s impact, we’ve just gotten started.” &

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It had been a half-century since Grant’s Farm last opened to vehicles, and this fall it was for the first Halloween in a pandemic. Since virus fears and health recommendations pretty much put the kibosh on trick-or-treating, it was an experiment. The ghouls and goblins that popped up here and there scared many folks half to death, which was the point. Following the Halloween success, the South County attraction near Affton will swing open the gates for a holiday lights drive-through experience starting Nov. 27, the day after Thanksgiving. Unlike enjoying the annual Winter Wonderland at Tilles Park in Ladue, this one will cost you, like the Halloween drive-through did at the farm. (That said, the Halloween event sold out before it opened, so we recommend you act soon.) What could be prettier than festive decorations throughout the grounds and strung from period structures at this charming landmark, unless it’s the magical sight of a sleigh and eight tiny reindeer crowded onto your own roof? Well, we’d say the massive Clydesdales trump itty-bitty reindeer any day. Although inedible, the beautiful Tiergarten should look good enough to eat, all dressed up like a gingerbread house. A variety of the farm’s four-legged residents will be milling around there. Cars with kids, whether wide-eyed in wonder or not, will get complimentary candy canes. The experience runs through New Year’s Eve, with the farm closed Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

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WHICH OF THE FOLLOWING ITALIAN RESTAURANTS ARE NOT FOUND ON THE HILL? 1. Maggiano’s 2. Rigazzi’s 3. Amighetti’s 4. Cunetto’s 5. Tony’s 6. Farotto’s 7. Favazza’s 8. Pasta House 9. Ami’s

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Warning! This item may make you feel like you’re about to dry heave. Your dog or cat already eats the bugs they catch, but Nestle has produced and is now marketing Purina kibble with processed insect protein in it.

Really. You remember how former Trump spokeswoman Kellyanne Conway came up with “alternative facts,” a supposedly mediagenic term that somehow was better than “lies?”

Well, the Swiss food behemoth has produced pet chow based on “alternative proteins” to, according to a statement, make better use of the planet’s resources. It’s being sold in Europe, where insect protein is already an important ingredient in livestock feed. There are some chicken and fava beans mixed in with black soldier fly larvae. And everyone knows what fly larvae are, really: maggots. Eww?

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In the immortal NYC-accented words of one of The Three Stooges: “Da noive ... ” It seems that Mark and Patricia McCloskey— residents of an exclusive, gated CWE neighborhood, Portland Place—are filing another lawsuit. They’re lawyers, after all, but there are two related legal actions (one potential, one filed) over a world-famous photo of the couple on their lawn pointing an assault rifle (his) and waving a handgun (hers) as protesters walk in the private street and along the sidewalk. (No shots were fired.) The large, diverse group was filing past the palatial home on their way to demonstrate outside Mayor Lyda Krewson’s house nearby on Sunday, June 28. The protest was but one of innumerable Black Lives Matter protests and marches nationwide in response to police killings of unarmed Black people, starting with the suffocation of George Floyd in Minneapolis on Memorial Day. Who knows whether the McCloskeys are glad or annoyed to be stars of our town’s unusual BLM sidebar, but the saga has gotten more convoluted in the intervening months. Now to the legal kerfuffle(s). It seems the McCloskeys, who’d already capitalized on their notoriety by appearing at the Republican National Convention, recently had holiday greeting cards made featuring a photo from the CWE event. The photo in question was taken by a UPI lensman, and the wire service has considered a cease-and-desist order for use of the photo without permission. But the McCloskeys, not to be outdone, have filed a suit. They accuse UPI’s photographer of being on their property when he snapped the photo. There’s more, of course. Lawyers can produce reams of paper alleging this, asserting that, and claiming stuff like “defendant’s actions caused mental anguish and severe emotional distress.” And all this against a backdrop of the couple already facing city charges for unlawful use of a weapon and evidence tampering. It’s enough to make you dizzy and feel like you need to lie down. As we pointed out, the McCloskeys are nothing if not litigious. There’ve been property disputes over the years, one an ongoing, unresolved flap over a wedge of ground that’s either adjacent to theirs or maybe is theirs. And they destroyed beehives that belonged to the kids at Central Reform Congregation, just north of their lot, that may or may not have been over the McCloskey property line. A group of Portland Place neighbors has distanced itself from the couple’s actions, in writing. Y’know, with neighbors like these ...

LAST ISSUE’S Q&A How old was Ray Hartmann when he founded RFT, and when? Who was the alternative weekly’s co-founder, and which other local publication did that person have a hand in?

Ray Hartmann was a wee lad of 24 in 1977 when he co-founded Profile St. Louis, which morphed into the Riverfront Times, with Mark Vittert.

For his part, the now inexplicably media-averse Vittert went on to establish St. Louis Business Journal ... quite a different alternative ... along with similar publications in other cities.

‘NOTABLE NEIGHBORS’ CLARIFICATION: Of Hungarian lineage, Lara Csengody was startled to read in our Nov. 4 issue that she’d climbed her family tree “in Croatia.” Um, no.

Our reporter has no idea why that other country popped into his head. It was not in his notes, but Russians and Hungary were, as in the 1956 Hungarian Uprising, which the Russians crushed in less than three weeks.

Csengody’s grandfather then fled with her father to the States from Budapest and soon afterward established the former Ladue Landscaping firm.

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The Hill Most any big city claims a Little Italy. But many are “meh” compared to the 50 square blocks of higher ground in the StL known as The Hill. LynnMarie Alexander can tell you all about the city’s beloved Italian enclave. In fact, she already has. She’d been “nogginating” on telling her neighborhood’s story for about five years and put pen to paper in January, and Reedy Press just published the result, The Hill: St. Louis’s Italian American Neighborhood. It’s as beautiful and substantial as any coffee table book from a fine art museum, as well as a well-researched and well-written volume. But with a last name like Alexander? People get married, you know. But she’s no “Amerigani” (Italian American in name only). Alexander was born and raised here. She’s fourth-generation Italian American, living in her great-grandparents’ home, which has been in the Puricelli family since 1907. She walks half a block to her job as the director/archivist of The Hill Neighborhood Center. Suffice it to say, she didn’t need to venture very far to do much of her research. (OK, OK, we can hear your tummy rumbling, but you’ll have to wait a few sentences before we get to the dizzying array of cuisine choices on The Hill.) Clay is integral to local history. Clay mines operated in Cheltenham District, which neighbored Fairmount District—The Hill today. Italians, among an influx of European labor, began to settle on The Hill in the mid-19th century. Local fire brick could withstand a locomotive’s extreme temperatures; other varieties were cream-colored, almost white. “We’re geologically blessed,” says Alexander. Blessed, indeed.

Her family, neighbors and friends enjoy a community founded and influenced by their ancestors over four or even five generations.

Bocce ball? Of course. Curious? They play at Milo’s, out back; leagues take themselves seriously while having serious fun. Marconi Bocce Club hosts international tournaments once a year. Alas, many immigrant communities across our country withered as new generations abandoned family ties and lost a sense of ancestral history in favor of university educations, professional careers and suburbia. But family, spirituality and kinship are an anchor on The Hill, where loyalty to home and neighbors is honorable and enviable.

Today, young professionals are choosing to raise their children here, schooling them at St. Ambrose, the neighborhood Catholic parish.

In its breathtaking new piazza, with a fountain from Italy and the marble quarried there, one may be inspired to prayerful meditation while taking in a majestic church reminiscent of the cathedral of Milan. While your soul may enjoy the massage, your gustatorial whims also will be satisfied. Why, there must be an Olive Garden here! Dici sul serio? The Hill is home to 27 Italian restaurants and delis, all family owned. “Those of us who live here go to a specific restaurant for a specific dish,” Alexander says. The neighborhood’s residential architecture offers an array of traditional shotgun homes, former shops and taverns rehabbed into houses, and old businesses adjusting to a new life in the digital age. This is, as they say, a very walkable neighborhood. So, where did Yogi Berra and Joe Garagiola live across the street from each other? And who the heck is Toni Carroll? Guess you’ll need to find out for yourself.

Alexander has one more book signing event this year: Friday, Dec. 4 from 5–7 p.m. at Abigail’s Gift Boutique, 5611 Hampton Ave. (63109).

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The reading will be streamed Dec. 10 and 13, and the public can register for free or make a donation at metroplays.org/christmascarol.

▶ The Bayer YMCA celebrated its reopening after a $2.5 million renovation project, made possible through the support of Bayer. The new space includes an expanded Early Childhood Education Center and Teen Tech Center, an updated community kitchen and garden, additional health and wellness services, and a new family changing room.

Congrats to Ja’Niyah Banks-Ewing, who was named Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis’ Youth of the Year.

A member of the BGCSTL Herbert Hoover Club for more than 10 years, the Clyde C. Miller Career Academy senior received $9,000

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PATTY by patty hannum I FRACTURED MY LEFT FOOT AND AM IN A BOOT for at

least the next four weeks. You see, I was just about to hit the summit of Mount Elbert in Colorado and took a wrong step. I finished the summit, but getting back down was oh so painful.

That is a big fat lie! I wanted a story to tell you about how I hurt my foot because I have no idea. I thought it was bursitis and hobbled around for three weeks. When it didn’t get better, I finally got X-rays and thus the boot. One of the problems with being a hypochondriac is you don’t actually know when you are really hurt!

This boot prevents me from doing certain things I like to do, like walking with friends, skipping, getting up and down stairs and, well, I am clumsy with two working feet so you can imagine how graceful I am with one encased in an unattractive contraption. To keep busy, I’ve been online Christmas shopping, planning a redo of our home in Florida, reading and, of course, watching TV. I read about this Netflix series called Virgin River in Entertainment Weekly, so I decided to watch it. And over the course of two days, I laughed, I cried, and I realized that each episode was like a mini Hallmark movie.

Everyone should know by now how much I love those! I also developed a weird fangirl crush on the actor Martin Henderson.

I Googled him and found out he is 46, so it wasn’t too creepy that a 60-year-old would crush on him, but where did he come from and how did I miss him? Damn, all those years of working full time and taking care of kids made me miss a whole slew of great actors (OK, maybe not great ones but attractive ones). I thought about those magazines they had when I was a preteen, like Tiger Beat. Inside were posters of your favorite actors like Bobby Sherman or The Monkees. I wondered, do they have anything like that for people my age? I know People is supposed to cover all age groups, but they really don’t. I wanted a magazine of actors and musicians who are alive and all over the age of 45. No pictures of Timothée Chalamet, that Bieber guy or the Jonas Brothers.

Off I went to Barnes & Noble to look for a new entertainment magazine that had stories about my new crush Martin Henderson, Hugh Grant, Bruce Springsteen, Jeff Goldblum, George Clooney and Mark Harmon. I mean, Hugh Grant is 60! Still working, still adorable, hasn’t gone under the knife to distort his face.

Sadly, no magazine like this exists. Perhaps I am the only one that wants one. So, I came home after buying a stack of home remodeling magazines and found another series featuring my new crush Martin.

Now, I just have to wait until the second season of Virgin River drops. I also followed him on Instagram like a good fangirl would do in 2020. Let me know if anyone out there wants to start a new magazine. I would be happy to handle all the interviews. &

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Community School allows children to flourish in an environment of active, experiential learning.

Our seasoned faculty engage students age 3 through grade six with a challenging curriculum on a beautiful 18-acre campus.

A leading independent elementary school in the Wydown-Forsyth Historic District, we now serve children age 2 through grade six.

Our challenging, engaging curriculum fosters independence and prepares students to thrive in secondary school and beyond.

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JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL

PRINCIPIA SCHOOL

We provide a rich array of experiences and opportunities, like a recent seventh-grade adventure in which small groups paddled the Mississippi and camped on its shores—a 2020 variation on trips to our camp in the Ozarks.

We offer a student-centered curriculum for preschool through grade 12. Grounded in Christian Science values, we welcome students who value scholarship, are eager to grow in character, embrace opportunity, pursue excellence and better humanity.

▶ A Closer Look (Dec. 9 and Jan. 14, 2021) A virtual opportunity to learn more about our philosophy and curriculum from our faculty.

EXPERIENCE PRINCIPIA SCHOOL THINK FEARLESSLY. LIVE SELFLESSLY. LEARN PURPOSEFULLY.

Find out how Principia School prepares students to meet the demands of the future—and bless the world.

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We offer a nurturing community for students age 4 through grade six . Our curriculum emphasizes academics, character and leadership. ▶ Foundations for Learning: Confidence & Character - Virtual Open House Wednesday, Jan. 13, 2021, 9–10 a.m.

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PARENT TRAP THE BUSYNESS MYTH

by dr. tim jordan AS THE HOLIDAY SEASON APPROACHES , it’s the perfect time to set intentions about how you want it to look and feel. Have your family discuss these questions: How busy and hectic do you want these next two months to be? How do you want to prioritize your time? Most significantly, what’s really important? You do not want to look back on Jan. 1 and wonder where the time went.

And you don’t want to spend the next months flying by the seat of your pants and not enjoying the moments.

So, who’s in charge of whether your family is rushing and stressing this holiday season? You! The culture has conditioned us to accept that our lives should be busy, filled with work and activities and enrichment opportunities for kids. We’ve normalized traveling every weekend to out-of-town youth sports tournaments, taking our jobs home every night and giving up vacations to catch up on work. We have bought the narrative that more and faster is better.

Today, we blame a new culprit, our phones and social media, as if they were in charge of us.

Much of the busyness we complain about is partially to blame on the amount of time we frivolously waste scrolling and checking messages. Research shows we check our phones on average about 150 times a day.

Over a 10-year period, the average smartphone user burns through about 14,000 hours of screen time— that’s one and a half years. The recent documentary The Social Dilemma lays out how the companies that sell us phones, video games and social media platforms have purposefully made these devices addicting in order to hijack our attention. The result? Information overload, overstimulation, rising anxiety and a perceived lack of control over our lives.

It is imperative that we consciously decide to not buy into this busyness myth. Sit down as a family and make agreements about how you want to spend your time over the holiday season. Decide what your family values most and make that your guide whenever you have to make choices about how you spend your time.

Schedule in all of the activities you want to experience first before you jam up your schedule with less

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important endeavors. Make family agreements about times everyone puts their devices away so that you can all be fully present. This might include mealtimes, car rides, playing outside or vacations.

I teach girls at my retreats and camps to savor the moments. Whenever we are feeling happy, close or secure, we stop and really take in the experience instead of rushing off to the next thing. I then have the girls recall another time when they felt similarly and focus on that feeling again. This process only takes a moment, but it allows memories to be tethered better for future use. And you more fully enjoy the present moment.

Set intentions for your holidays now to prevent overscheduling and undue busyness. & TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. CHECK OUT HIS NEW ONLINE COURSE, PARENTING GIRLS: THE CHALLENGES GIRLS FACE TODAY WITH THEIR FEELINGS AND FRIENDS AND WHAT THEY NEED, AT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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Seventh-grade English language arts teacher Tiffany Lundy kept her students in stitches by wearing a different Halloween costume for virtual lessons each day in October. She said it was a fun way to interact with her classes and keep them engaged during online learning.

Student-designed and produced stained glass windows cap door frames throughout the Burroughs campus.

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The school, which serves students in prekindergarten through grade eight, was named to the Catholic Education Honor Roll by The Cardinal Newman Society. The award recognizes schools that demonstrate a strong interpretation of Catholic identity and high academic standards.

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Math educator Jennifer Gardner was selected as an Emerson 2020 Excellence in Teaching Award recipient. The program recognizes more than 100 local teachers each year. “Jennifer is a passionate leader for all students, and her ability to connect with young learners is evident each day,” says Ladue Schools superintendent Jim Wipke.

Gardner is in her 14th year with the district.

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Mike Rohlfing, the school’s director of marketing communications and a 2005 graduate, picked up a Mid-America Emmy Award nomination for his PSA, “Distracted Driving—It Can Wait.” The video was filmed last year during a car accident simulation staged for students by West County Safety House and local fire and police stations. Mid-America Emmy winners will be announced Nov. 21 during a virtual award presentation.

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Because their annual field trip was canceled due to COVID-19, kindergarten students instead were treated to a colorful Halloween pumpkin patch outing on the school’s front lawn, funded by a local donor. Faculty and staff scattered more than 45 pumpkins across the yard, and the children got to choose their favorites.

Students and staff went all out to make Halloween a hair-raising spectacle on the school’s campus. Upper school drama students staged scary drive-through performances, and attendees were treated to popcorn and glow sticks as they moved along Carpe Diem Drive. Lower school students enjoyed a fun Halloween parade and other spooky activities to celebrate the holiday.

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Fans of Independence Center’s Dancing with the St. Louis Stars can expect an exciting virtual event as nearly 30 past dancers resurrect their performances and compete for the coveted title of “Champion of Champions” on Jan. 23, 2021.

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Silver Linings

BY JULIA M. JOHNSON

The COVID-19 pandemic has presented serious obstacles for nonprofits of

all types and sizes, but what they have done to rise to the challenge defines the difference between struggle and success. T&S talked with two area organizations that are emerging from the situation with new procedures, positive changes and a generous measure of hope for the future.

Humane Society of Missouri (HSMO) President Kathy Warnick says one of the best things to happen to HSMO this year is an influx of new adopters as many people continue to work from home. “We moved to a curbside adoption model in March, and it has enabled us to find families for more than 3,300 animals during the pandemic,” she explains.

“Adopters can view a pet on our website, talk to an HSMO counselor, complete the screening process and pick up their new furry family member curbside at our center. The system has been working beautifully, and we are gratified that we have not had a significant number of returned pets PHOTO COURTESY OF during this time.”

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She says the process has gone smoothly because new owners have had more time to train, socialize and acclimate their new companions while at home.

“Our Longmeadow Rescue Ranch in Union also has seen success,” she says. “It has found homes for more than 160 large animals during this time, mostly horses, and a recent promotion placed a number of chickens, roosters, geese and ducks as well.” And though the organization had to cancel its regular camps, events and school programs for 2020, it found creative ways to replace them with prerecorded presentations, special teachers’ materials and a Mission Impawsible activity kit to educate kids about animal responsibility.

“Adoption is a win-win situation—it gives animals a second chance, and it brings unimaginable joy to individuals and families,” she says. “We are happy to be part of the solution during a difficult time.”

For more information, visit hsmo.org.

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Center of Creative Arts (COCA) Many nonprofits have had to put capital projects on hold this year, but COCA in U. City continued full steam with a $37 million, 52,000-square-foot building expansion that began in 2018. The addition officially opened in August, effectively doubling the footprint of the creative arts nonprofit’s existing facility. Socially distanced fall classes and programs began in September, and spaces have been adapted to follow COVID-19 guidelines, executive director Kelly Pollock says.

“It has been a different journey than we expected, but we were able to keep construction going during the pandemic, and we are adding new programming as the situation permits,” she explains. “In March when the full impact first was felt, we moved our 1,800 students to online learning, which is a real challenge for an arts organization that teaches hands-on, physical disciplines. Fortunately, everyone adapted well.”

Arts camps went virtual during the summer, and now, students can choose hybrid classes to attend in person or online in subjects like dance and visual arts. “One of the great benefits of this new space is that we can keep people spread out safely in the building,” Pollock says. “Our enrollment capacity is reduced for now, and we can’t hold performances in our new theater yet. But our speaker series has returned, we’ve opened a new visual arts installation called Common Ground, and we have been engaging artists from across the country to work with students.”

Pollock says COCA is looking forward to partnering with organizations like The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis and The Black Rep in 2021. “We often think of everything we have to be grateful for, especially the generosity of our community,” she notes. “We are confident that COCA will weather the storm, and we’ll be able to bring our new space fully to life soon.” For more information, visit cocastl.org.

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FIN-TASTIC GIFT IDEAS Swim into the season by adopting an animal for your friends and family holiday gift giving. Include a Junior Biologist Learning Kit, Commemorative Fish Plaque or Aquarium Foundation Membership for those on your nice list.

2020 turned out to be a year of pandemic worries. For St. Patrick Center clients, these fears are magnified — how to pay rent, find a job, buy groceries, care for children and more.

St. Patrick Center programs and services are in high demand.

This holiday season, help keep a family safe at home.

All gifts support the St. Louis Aquarium Foundation’s mission to provide STEM education programs and free Aquarium admission to under-resourced families.

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More presence, less presents. More conversation, less consumption. Less pomp, more purpose. 2020 has clarified what matters most: relationships, health, safety. This year, give a gift that brings health, healing, and hope to our region’s SSM Health caregivers, patients, and their families. Choose how you want to make a difference at givetossmhealth.org.

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Whether you’re a baseball fan or regular spor ts watcher, you’re probably familiar with Jim Edmonds. The former Cardinals center fielder and current FOX Spor ts Midwest broadcaster is no stranger to the limelight . Now, he’s chatting with T&S about his personal st yle, how he’s spending the pandemic and his new Frontenac home.

WHAT HAVE YOU LE ARNED ABOUT YOURSELF DURING THE PANDEMIC ?

That I’m retired and need to get back to it .

ARE YOU WORKING HARDER NOW IN RE TIREMENT THAN YOU WERE BEFORE? It ’s a different job. I am working hard. I know what it ’s like to be a stay-at-home dad. It ’s tough, probably the hardest job in the world.

YOU JUST BUILT A BE AUTIFUL HOME HERE . WHY ST. LOUIS OVER L . A ., FLORIDA , TE XA S OR SOME CARIBBE AN ISL AND? I hate L . A ., plus the taxes are too high. My kids are in school here in Missouri, and I enjoy working for the Cardinals and FOX . The only other place I would want to live is somewhere where there is nobody else. Probably on a boat because I just want to keep to myself.

WHAT DID YOU SAY “I GOT TA HAVE THIS ” ABOUT WHEN BUILDING THE HOUSE? You know what ’s funny ? I don’ t have any thing here for me. It ’s all for the kids. There’s no crazy theater, bar with a tap or man cave. There is nothing special about it for an adult , but there is a bowling alley, batting cage and basketball cour t . I built a tur f field off to the side for a putting green, but I haven’ t been out to use it . I don’ t really play golf anymore because of the kids. It ’ll probably be another thing they use that I don’ t .

HOW HAVE YOU BEEN SPENDING THE PANDEMIC ?

I go to the grocer y store a lot and cook at the house. I do a lot of bowling and hitting at the batting cage.

ARE YOU A BE T TER COOK THAN YOU USED TO BE? Oh yeah, way better, especially cooking for a family. I’ ve learned a lot being in a new relationship with someone who cooks more and spending time with my oldest daughter.

WHAT ’S THE ONE DISH THAT HA S JIM EDMONDS ’ FINGERPRINTS ALL OVER IT ?

Barbecuing is probably my specialt y. Making steaks, chicken or hamburgers gets me out of the kitchen and into the fresh air. I can have my beer and be left alone.

WHAT IS YOUR GO-TO APPAREL FOR SOCIAL AND FORMAL E VENTS? For a social event , probably any thing that I don’ t have to tuck in with jeans. I’m getting used to formal events. Working on T V has taught me how to dress it up a little bit . I would probably go with a nice white shir t and a spor t coat .

FAVORITE ATHLE TE YOU ENJOY WATCHING WHO IS NOT IN A CARDINAL S UNIFORM? Right now, Patrick Mahomes or Tom Brady for football. In the past , I would say Ken Griffey Jr. For a few years, I also enjoyed watching the Golden State Warriors.

YOU HAVE A NEW SIGNIFICANT OTHER. Kor tnie is an amazing woman. For the first time in a long time, I’m happy. She lets me be myself, and we get along really well. She’s from my neck of the woods back in California, so we kind of have the same t ype of personalit y. She’s great with the kids, and they love her.

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FRESH & RENEWED SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson THIS YEAR’S HOLIDAYS WILL BE FOCUSED LESS

on gatherings and more on personal celebrations, but that’s no reason not to look your best. SLUCare facial plastic surgeon Dr. Collin Chen says Botox injections and injectable fillers are simple, straightforward facial treatments that can help your skin recapture its youthful freshness in time for the winter holidays.

Chen and his colleague, Dr. Frank Simo, practice at SLUCare Otolaryngology and Facial Plastic Surgery– West County, which includes a comprehensive medical spa. “When a patient comes in for the first time, we have a thorough consultation, perform a facial analysis and discuss the person’s wishes and goals,” Chen says. “We talk about skin quality, facial structure, past treatments and other factors and then design a detailed plan. At this time of year, Botox injections and injectable fillers are among the most popular requests to correct lines and wrinkles and restore fullness.”

He says some patients choose one or the other, and some opt for both, depending on their individual needs.

“Many people already have particular goals in mind when they visit us for the first time, and others need additional guidance,” he says. “Either way, we spend a good deal of time creating an appropriate plan for the individual.”

Chen says many people mistakenly believe Botox and injectable fillers are similar types of treatments, but they actually have very different actions. Botox is a neuromodulator that paralyzes the muscles involved in facial expression, improving lines and wrinkles in areas like the forehead and around the eyes. Fillers, however, generally involve the injection of hyaluronic acid to add volume where it has been lost due to age and other factors.

“Botox is safe to use and has a good track record of success,” Chen says. “Each person’s body reacts

differently to it, but most people start seeing results in five to seven days and come back every six months or so for retreatment.” He says the incidence of side effects is very low, but some patients may see a small amount of bruising or swelling that resolves soon after. “Most Botox visits take about 15 minutes in the office,” he adds. “Many patients have the treatment done during a lunch hour visit.”

Chen says he encourages patients to keep in touch with him and offer feedback after their Botox visits. “Especially if it’s your first time being treated, we want to hear how your DR. COLLIN CHEN PERFORMS AN EVALUATION. results are developing,” he says.

“No one looks at your face more closely than you do, different rates depending on the brand and injection and you know it best, so you are likely to notice things site, but most patients return every nine to 12 months that others won’t.” If needed, the patient can return for for retreatment.”

Smile lines, the corners of the mouth and the chin additional treatments. “This also helps us personalize are areas where injectable fillers work well, Chen says. your treatment plan,” Chen says. “It’s better to stay “We often use them to restore a youthful appearance to in touch and keep results consistent than wait until a the cheeks,” he notes. “Gravity and age have an effect treatment has worn off and try to recreate the effect on facial tissues, but fillers can help correct the impact you wanted.” of time.”

He says these visits usually take a little longer For patients who want to correct deeper wrinkles than Botox sessions because some local anesthesia and volume loss, several injectable fillers are available, is needed.

“Fillers usually have lidocaine mixed in to including brands like Juvéderm and Restylane. Some provide a temporary numbing effect for the patient’s work well for the lips, and others can be used in the comfort,” he explains.

“When treating the cheeks, we cheeks and around the mouth. “Fillers can improve normally do one side first, then evaluate.

The effect is hollowing and depressions and give the appearance immediate, so patients can see right away how they will of higher cheekbones,” Chen says. “They fade at look. If they are happy with it, we treat the other side.

People like being able to walk out of the clinic with exactly what they were looking for, and satisfaction rates are high. It’s a very patient-driven process.”

According to Chen, we all develop wrinkles and volume loss to some degree as we age, but the pattern of changes is unique to each person. “That’s why it is so important to create an individual treatment plan,” he explains. “We invite feedback during the process because we want the results to meet the patient’s goals. We also establish what works best for your skin over time so we can continue to achieve the look you want in future visits. Whether you are attending family celebrations or participating in online gatherings this winter, it’s possible to always look your best, and it’s important that you are happy with your treatment results.” & SLUCARE OTOLARYNGOLOGY AND FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY– WEST COUNTY IS LOCATED AT 555 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD AND OFFERS A FULL SLATE OF FACIAL REJUVENATION AND MEDICAL SPA SERVICES. PICTURED ON THE SECTION COVER: LICENSED CLINICAL ESTHETICIAN PAIGE GARDNER; DRS. FRANK SIMO AND COLLIN CHEN, FACIAL PLASTIC AND RECONSTRUCTIVE SURGEONS; LICENSED CLINICAL ESTHETICIAN JULIE MOORE. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.977.5900 OR VISIT SLUCARE.EDU/COSMETIC.

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by stephanie wallace THE NEXT PHASE Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine have begun recruiting for phase 3 of their clinical trial for a COVID-19 vaccine. The university is investigating the Janssen Pharmaceutical Companies’ vaccine candidate JNJ-78436735, also known as Ad26.

COV2.S. This new phase will test the efficacy and safety of a single vaccine dose against a placebo in up to 500 adults. The trial will include people with and without conditions associated with an increased risk for severe cases of COVID-19.

ACCESS FOR ALL Saint Louis University School of Medicine is increasing access to free medical care for the St. Louis community. The Health Resource Center, which is run by medical students and faculty, received $25,000 in grants from the American Academy of Family Physicians. The money will help the clinic improve its facilities, increase patient access and purchase supplies, including air purification and personal protective equipment to allow services to continue safely during the pandemic.

MAKE A CHOICE Every time we make a decision, our brain cells play an important role in weighing the choices. Animal studies have shown that each option activates distinct neurons, and the more appealing the alternative, the faster they fire. Researchers at Washington University have found that the activity of these neurons encodes the value of options, determining the final choice. In a study, monkeys chose between different juice flavors. By changing the neurons’ activity, the researchers altered how appealing each option was to the animals, resulting in different choices. The findings could offer insight into harmful decision-making in conditions like depression, eating disorders, schizophrenia and addiction.

YOUNG MINDS There is no question that the pandemic has disrupted the lives of children across the country as schools have moved classes online and extracurricular activities have been canceled. Rachel Wamser-Nanney, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Missouri–St. Louis, has joined a study with researchers at the University of Kentucky and Boston Children’s Hospital to research the effect of the stress and trauma of the pandemic on young children and their parents. The study is being conducted in parallel with research in Australia and will focus on families with at least one child under the age of 5.

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ith cozy nights at home and days spent bundled up against the cold, winter is the perfect time to consider a cosmetic procedure. This spring, the pandemic caused most elective procedures to be postponed, but they have resumed, so a little downtime during these colder months could lead to a big “wow” when spring arrives. We talked with local experts about popular treatments this season.

“Winter has always been busy for surgery,” says Dr. Mike Nayak of Nayak Plastic Surgery.

“There are fewer social obligations, it is easier to get time off work, and clothing trends like higher necklines and scarves cover the face to hide swelling or bruising.”

According to SLUCare facial plastic surgeon Dr. Frank Simo, an unexpected side effect of the pandemic is that those seasonal benefits are compounded by social distancing and face masks, resulting in shorter downtimes.

“A mask hides most of the surgical changes instantly, so people can be out and about more quickly,” he says.

Like with most things this year, Nayak says surgical consultations have gone virtual—at least in part. “Photo evaluations are a great way to prescreen for a surgery, and we can determine if it’s the right fit for you,” he says, noting that virtual consultation doesn’t work for every procedure. Simo adds that in-person evaluation is an important step of the process.

“Meeting virtually can be done in the initial stages, but a surgeon really needs to be able to examine a patient and assess their skin,” he says.

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According to Simo, between January and April is the most popular time for face-lifts. He says that a common misconception about the surgery is that it impacts the entire face. In reality, it is often targeted to the bottom half. “The procedure addresses aging changes that cause the jawline, neck and cheeks to look droopy and saggy,” he explains. “The focus is on the lower face, not everything from forehead to neck.”

Nayak says that the way neck-lift surgery is handled has changed greatly over the last five years. Rather than focusing on removing fat and tightening skin, the procedure is centered on resculpting underlying muscle. “By focusing less on the superficial layers of skin and fat, you build a more meaningful foundation, and the result is more natural and untouched in appearance,” he explains. “It requires more skill from the surgeon, but the outcomes are dramatically better.”

Simo notes that a face-life won’t address skin damage, and it’s important for people to realize the main aim of the procedure is not to remove wrinkles. “Although it will help, it’s not going to fix everything,” he explains. “Some type of rejuvenation will be necessary as well.” The surgery can be combined with medspa treatments like chemical peels and microneedling to address fine lines. For heavier wrinkling, laser skin resurfacing may be necessary.

Simo says his face-lift patients do not require an overnight stay, and the next day, they return to his office to have their dressings removed and to receive instruction on basic wound care.

“The day after surgery, people can return to their regular hygiene routine,” he notes. “The next week, the stitches come out, and they can resume low-impact aerobic activity. There are no restrictions after two weeks.”

As with any facial surgery, there is initial bruising and swelling after a face-lift. Simo notes that in general, the most severe and noticeable impact subsides in two to three weeks, but more subtle swelling can take two to four months to dissipate. “I like to call the residual effect ‘happy swelling,’” he says. “Rather than distorting the face, it fills in fine lines. I often see patients return to my office after it has gone down because they’ve noticed the wrinkles are back.”

A neck-lift usually is not done in isolation.

Nayak notes that for patients over the age of 40, it often is combined with a face-lift to address issues in the jawline. “If you do a nice job on the neck, problems in adjacent areas are going to be more apparent,” he notes, adding that a neck-lift also won’t address skin concerns. “A fitting analogy is like tailoring clothes. You can cut and sew a proper suit, but if the fabric is stained or wrinkled, it may still need to be dry cleaned.”

While no two procedures are the same, on average an isolated neck-lift takes around three hours, according to Nayak. When combined with a lower face-lift, the total time is closer to four. Usually, he recommends patients take two to three weeks of downtime so that they feel presentable when returning to social and professional activities. However, the pandemic has changed that. “With remote working, patients can schedule surgery on Friday and be back to work on Monday,” he says. “There’s also no problem going out because people are wearing face masks.” &

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dietary fat could be helpful in the fight against cardiovascular disease, but Saint Louis University School of Medicine researchers have found that to be true in a study involving laboratory mice.

Kyle McCommis, Ph.D., research team lead and an assistant professor of biochemistry and molecular biology at the medical school, says recent studies have shown that a ketogenic diet can prevent or even reverse major heart failure in mice. The high-fat, high-protein, Researcher low-carbohydrate diet stimulates fatty Kyle McCommis acid oxidation, which may be responsible for correcting heart enlargement in the study mice, McCommis says. It’s not yet known if the diet would have the same effect in humans, but these results signal promise for the idea of a nutritional therapeutic intervention for heart failure.

“We have gone one step past the normal thinking that you want to decrease dietary fat because of the risk of coronary artery disease,” he says. “That’s still true, and it’s why you usually want to consume ‘healthy’ polyunsaturated fats like those found in fish and nuts to help prevent disease. But if you already have cardiovascular damage that has led to heart failure, that’s where this study comes in. It suggests that a diet higher in fat and lower in carbs actually could improve cardiac function.

A normal heart can process pretty much whatever you throw at it, but during heart failure, it has a reduced ability to metabolize most substrates. When you strongly stimulate fat metabolism through the ketogenic diet, the heart seems to reprogram itself to increase that metabolism.”

McCommis says mice were chosen for the study because they don’t develop coronary artery disease or atherosclerosis, but like in humans, heart failure prevents the organ from contracting properly and supplying body tissues with blood effectively. McCommis says it was interesting to see that just three weeks of the ketogenic diet caused the mouse hearts to basically return to normal size and function.

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MICHAEL FRANK OF CAFÉ LA VIE THE LOCAL CULINARY SCENE IS CONSTANTLY evolving, but there is

something extra exciting about a hometowner returning to make their mark on the StL. Michael Frank has done just that. As a chef, he’s worked in kitchens from Alaska to New Mexico, and now, he’s taken the helm as executive chef at Café La Vie, the restaurant inside the new Le Méridien hotel in Clayton.

Frank is originally from Webster Groves. “I lived in an amazing neighborhood with great friends,” he recalls. “I’m a huge baseball fan, and my father always took me to Cardinals games. I loved growing up in St. Louis.” He greatly enjoyed the outdoor offerings of the area, spending his summers camping, floating down rivers and exploring caves throughout the state. “Missouri is very underappreciated when it comes to its natural beauty,” he says.

It was Frank’s love of the great outdoors that led him to his culinary career.

While he wasn’t interested in cooking growing up, he took a summer job at Denali National Park and Preserve in Alaska as a prep cook. “I had worked as a dishwasher before and hated it, so I didn’t think I’d ever want to be in a kitchen,” he says. “When I got the position in Denali, I vowed to transfer departments as soon as possible. However, I worked under a wonderful chef, and something just clicked. I ended up cooking at the park three summers in a row.”

Frank’s career has taken him across the county. In Jackson Hole, Wyoming, he was part of the team that launched Roadhouse Pub & Eatery. “Opening a restaurant from the ground up was an eye-opening experience,” he says.

“I worked with the Fine Dining Restaurant Group and learned a lot about cooking really amazing food from scratch.” In Scottsdale, Arizona, he had another formative experience working at The Phoenician, a luxury resort.

While there, he gained insight into both the hospitality and culinary industries.

Frank also worked under the James Beard Award-winning chef Mark Kiffin at The Compound Restaurant in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

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“I learned so much traveling and working, but the hospitality industry is very demanding, especially during the holiday season,” Frank says. “Typically, you’re working, and it’s hard to get back home to see friends and family. I felt the draw to settle down back in St. Louis.” Since returning, he already has made his mark in local restaurants, spending time in the kitchens of Farmhaus and the former Grand Tavern at the Angad Arts Hotel. He’s been excited to see how St. Louis’ culinary scene has been growing and earning national recognition. “So many James Beard nominations are coming out of the city, and there’s a great culture here,” he notes. “It’s very diverse, and it gets more exciting each year.”

Café La Vie marks the first time Frank has taken on the role of executive chef. Preparing to open a restaurant during a pandemic has added to the challenge, but he has enjoyed every step of the process. “Honestly, it’s been the most exciting thing I’ve done in my life,” he says. “We had to open with a smaller team because of the pandemic, but everyone who works here is in it 110%. It’s been an amazing experience, and we’ve been working hard to make things safe but still memorable for guests.” To add some fun to social distancing, teddy bears occupy tables that can’t seat guests.

Frank’s culinary inspiration starts in a simple place. “I just think about food I would like to eat,” he says. “I also read a lot of cookbooks and research food trends. Whether creating a feature for dinner or designing the breakfast menu, I start with what I find exciting and what seasonal ingredients are available.”

The menu at Café La Vie is inspired by both European cuisine and local influences. Frank says he wanted to create dishes that were simple and sophisticated while reflecting the Missouri and Illinois farms that help supply the restaurant. “When planning, I started with classic French dishes like tartines, charcuterie boards and pâtés, then I tried to put my own spin on them,” he explains. “I wanted the menu to be elegant, delicious and approachable at the same time.” &

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by Abbie Greaves It is hard to believe this is Greaves’ debut book because it is so beautifully written and hard to put down. Frank and Maggie, a married couple, simply stop talking to each other until six months later when Maggie collapses in their kitchen and ends up in a coma. As Frank sits next to her in the hospital, the nurse suggests Frank talk to Maggie, and that’s how we learn their complicated yet loving story. This book was a joy to read.

Broken Faith: Inside One of America’s Most Dangerous Cults

by Mitch Weiss and Holbrook Mohr I went through a phase where I read books on nearly every religion and sect and was fascinated by their origins and traditions. This is no religion—this is a cult, and Jane Whaley is the leader with complete control. It is a sad and disturbing story as one family attempts to leave the cult and its practices, which include separating family members from each other and the cult’s bizarre ritual of blasting. The cult still exists in Spindale, North Carolina, and the leader continues to enrich herself and family at the expense of others. Not a fun read.

Little Secrets

by Jennifer Hillier A mother lets go of her son’s hand for one minute in the chaos of Christmas shopping, and the next thing you know, he is gone. No amount of searching by the police or FBI can find the child. He has vanished without a trace. His parents grow apart over the next year. The mother hires a pesky PI who starts to pull on threads of the story that don’t add up. The thriller will keep you reading until the very end, and you are likely to go back and reread the last few pages just to make sure you got it right.

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The St. Louis Shakespeare Festival, PaintedBlack STL and the Central West End Window Walk present an immersive outdoor experience. This 20-stop walking tour reimagines Charles Dickens’ classic tale through window installations and accompanying music and audio.

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This drive-through attraction features more than 1 million LED lights synchronized to traditional and contemporary Christmas music played through your own car stereo.

Artist Travis Sheridan asks guests to reflect upon members that the Black community has lost through an immersive, interactive exhibit.

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The Chamber Music Society of St. Louis celebrates Beethoven’s 250th birthday with a virtual performance.

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Learn about Missouri birds and create bird feeder ornaments to attract winter birds to your backyard. Afterward, warm up around a fire with hot cocoa and a winter story.

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Tyree says the COVID-19 pandemic has necessitated some changes to the community’s activity schedule, but employees have shown creativity and commitment in adapting to new protocols. “We haven’t been able to offer our usual group activities and classes because of the pandemic, but we have designed new ways for residents to have fun,” she says. “Long-term and dementia care are always hands-on situations, so social distancing can present challenges, but we are following guidelines to keep everyone safe.”

She says the community has been holding themed weeks centered around residents’ beach memories, military veterans’ experiences, presidential trivia and other subjects. As Thanksgiving approaches, they will enjoy food, crafts and other activities related to the holiday. Tyree says Parc Provence is ensuring safety by keeping residents of different wings, or “households,” separate from one another for now, but they can compensate by spending more time outdoors and pursuing various hobbies “We talk to our seniors often about what they were involved in earlier in life, and we do everything we can to help them retain those interests,” she says. “Residents who enjoy wine have their own special group, for example, and those who like

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She says keeping mentally and physically active is especially important for seniors because it helps them retain a sense of independence and control. “We want residents to maintain their personal strengths as long as possible,” she notes. “Even simple things like being able to dress and take care of themselves can help preserve their willpower and confidence.”

Tyree says she and her colleagues don’t just share knowledge with residents; they also learn a great deal from them every day. “I’m grateful to be able to listen, engage and bring them joy, especially during trying times when they don’t LIVING WITH ALZHEIM ER’S have as much contact with their families,” she says. “You can’t view a smile through a person’s face mask, but you definitely can see it in their eyes.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION

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Advancing Alzheimer’s Research

By Julia M. Johnson

It’s not hard to understand why most medical research Dr. Collins Lewis

projects would benefit from a robust, varied set of study subjects. But sometimes, the pool of participants doesn’t accurately reflect the ethnic diversity of society, says psychiatrist Dr. Collins Lewis, a professor emeritus at Washington University. He recently was recognized by the Global Alzheimer’s Platform Foundation for his efforts to encourage study participation among people of different racial backgrounds.

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Lewis, who serves on the African American Advisory Board of the Knight Alzheimer Disease Research Center at Washington University, is devoted to educating the public, and he participates in clinical trials himself as a way of advancing medical knowledge and urging others to do the same.

“Many African Americans are

scientists need a broad spectrum of people in clinical trials—not just African Americans, but Hispanic, Asian and Indigenous people as well.”

He points out that study diversity is also important because ethnic groups have genetic variances that cause them to respond to treatments differently. “The United States is made up of people with I want people to understand many different backgrounds, and that research today is not the some groups have way it used to be. a higher prevalence of illnesses like Alzheimer’s, heart disease and reluctant to join studies because of diabetes,” he says. “It definitely the history of racism in medicine contributes to study validity when and medical research,” he says. we can examine a more diverse “I want people to understand group of subjects.” that research today is not the way it

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Lewis adds that it’s important to work with local churches, nonprofits

and community organizations to educate the public about the importance of study participation.

“Often, people don’t trust physicians and health systems, or they are afraid of seeking help for their health,” he says. “It’s a matter of connecting with them in environments where they already feel comfortable.”

He also is involved with a local theatrical group called Slaying Dragons that is devoted to removing the stigma surrounding mental illness.

“We put on educational plays about subjects like Alzheimer’s, PTSD, depression, substance use and other topics,” he says. “Audiences can ask questions of experts from the Knight Center, and it gives people the emotional backdrop they need to understand what patients go through.”

Dr. B. Joy Snider, director of the Knight Center, says Washington

University research is expanding scientific understanding of Alzheimer’s in a number of important ways. “Studies like the Memory and Aging Project, in which Dr. Lewis participates, have taught us that we can use tests such as PET (positron emission tomography) scans and spinal fluid analysis to detect signs of Alzheimer’s in the brain five to 10 years ahead of memory loss or other thinking changes,” she says. “These tests can offer us an opportunity to prevent the disease from starting.”

According to Snider, another exciting new development is a blood test that can confirm a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s. The test was developed at Washington University by Dr. Randall Bateman, and Snider says research volunteers like Lewis helped make it possible.

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Alzheimer’s has a major impact on the entire family, and that includes the youngest members. It’s important to be open and honest when discussing the disease and its impacts with kids and teens.

✚ Be open and answer questions. Talking honestly is the best way to help children manage the changes that come with a loved one receiving an Alzheimer’s diagnosis.

Answer questions directly and use simple, age-appropriate language. Children may be curious about the disease, so help them learn by sharing information. ✚ Acknowledge their feelings. Children can have a variety of reactions to the news. They may be sad, frustrated, confused, embarrassed, curious or worried. If they live with a family member with dementia, they may feel jealousy due to the extra attention given to that person.

Let them know what they’re feeling is normal and valid. Set aside time for them to share their emotions and be prepared to offer comfort and ways to work through their feelings.

✚ Prepare them for changes. Alzheimer’s is a condition that worsens over time. Let children know that even if their loved one looks healthy on the outside, they are still sick on the inside.

Explain what changes can be expected and the impact it may have on your family. If you’ll be taking on a caretaking role, explain to your kids why you may have less time to spend with them. ✚ Make time to connect. Alzheimer’s doesn’t mean children can no longer connect with diagnosed loved ones. Still make sure you set aside time for them to talk or do a simple activity together. Even with social distancing, teens and kids can connect with older family members.

Over a video call, they can read together, listen to music or even try a simple craft.

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Researchers still are making new discoveries about the causes of Alzheimer’s. While some known factors, such as genetics, cannot be altered, studies have shown that lifestyle changes can improve people’s outcomes. Along with regular medical checkups and memory screenings, here are some adjustments that can help you reduce your risk.

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✚ Physical exercise: Increasing blood and oxygen flow in the brain with exercise may lower your risk of Alzheimer’s and other dementias. Plus, with known cardiovascular benefits, regular physical activity should already be an important part of your wellness plan. ✚ Intellectual exercise: Studies have shown that keeping mentally engaged may prevent cognitive decline. Challenge your brain with puzzles, or shake up your normal routine by trying something different, such as learning a new language, picking up a sport like golf or tennis, or taking a cooking class. ✚ Diet: Foods considered heart healthy are also brain healthy.

Fill your diet with fresh, colorful fruits and vegetables and whole grains. Reduce how much red meat, processed sugar and saturated fats you consume. Also limit smoking and alcohol consumption. ✚ Socializing: Along with boosting your mood, social interaction is important for brain health. Don’t let the pandemic stop you from engaging with friends and family. Host a game night over Zoom, schedule regular calls or find socially distanced ways to meet in person.

KNOW THE SIGNS

The Alzheimer’s Association lists 10 important warning signs for the disease and other dementias. If you notice any of these in yourself or a loved one, schedule an appointment with a physician.

✚ Memory loss that disrupts everyday life ✚ Challenges planning or problem-solving ✚ Difficulty completing familiar tasks ✚ Confusion with time or place ✚ Trouble understanding visual images and spatial relationships ✚ New problems with words in speaking or writing ✚ Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps ✚ Decreased or poor judgment ✚ Withdrawal from work or social activities ✚ Changes in mood and personality

SOURCES: ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION, ALZHEIMER’S FOUNDATION OF AMERICA, NATIONAL INSTITUTE ON AGING

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from the homeowners » When Dr. Saulat Mushtaq first saw 131 N. Spoede Road, she knew she had found something special. Situated on one acre, the Creve Coeur property was custom-built in 1993. “It’s a beautiful home constructed with love,” she says. “Before we purchased it, the original owner interviewed us. They wanted to make sure we could take care of the house.” Now, it’s her turn to find the home a new owner who will love it as much as her family has.

Tell me about the neighborhood.

It’s such a convenient location. You’re near all the highways, so it’s quick and easy to get downtown or out west to Chesterfield. You’re also close to great shops and restaurants on Olive Boulevard. The access to everything is amazing. The neighborhood has a small park, and you always see people out jogging or walking their dogs. It’s a very welcoming, friendly place.

is a great feature. My mother-in-law was I started a vegetable patch. Gardening living with us, and she could have her wasn’t for me, but the option is there if anyone is interested. The landscaping own suite and space. is attractive and low maintenance. The original owners planted perennials that Did you make any major changes to suit the house beautifully. the house?

The house is wonderfully built, so it’s almost maintenance free. We only How is the home for entertaining?

Entertaining was a breeze. The lower had to make cosmetic changes. When we bought it, the interior looked a little level opens out on the backyard, so the dated. I swapped out the brass fixtures, indoor and outdoor spaces flow together took down the wallpaper and put in new wonderfully. The kitchen is open, and appliances. We also planned to add a guests can move easily between spaces.

What attracted you to the property?

It was custom-built, so it’s not a media room in the basement. We didn’t For my daughter’s graduation party, we cookie-cutter house. It’s just beautiful finish the project, but the wiring is done had about 200 people in the backyard.

The driveway fits around 14 cars, and with the high ceilings and big windows if the new owners are interested. the synagogue across the street would into the backyard. The floor plan let us use their lot for extra parking. also is convenient. I could entertain What do you enjoy using the outdoor without worrying about my daughter space for?

The backyard is a nice, secluded space. in her bedroom. She could have her privacy without being disturbed. All the We could barbecue or enjoy bonfires in the bedrooms have their own en suite, which evening. There’s a lot of space. One year,

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Established more than 90 years ago and placed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2004, Pasadena Hills is a charming piece of St. Louis history. For Pete Jusich and Mike Knoll (and their dogs, Herman and Hubert), it was the perfect place to find a home with the character and intricate details only available in older properties. They brought a uniquely modern approach to their 1930s Tudor while still remaining true to the original design.

What attracted you to the home?

We love that Pasadena Hills is a historic neighborhood, and there are so many incredible homes. The architecture drew us to the area. We’d been house hunting for quite a while, but we weren’t finding anything that fit what we were looking for. This house was perfect from the minute we walked in. We wanted a unique, older property. We loved the plasterwork in the living and dining rooms and the iron work on the staircase.

Do you know anything about its history?

The home was built in 1932 and designed by architect Thomas P. Barnett, who also designed the Cathedral Basilica and the entrance to the neighborhood. We don’t know much about the first homeowners, but we have the original blueprints. It was a very special project. The stone was hand-selected, and the family crest was put into the plasterwork and stained glass windows. The house sits on four lots, so the property is almost a full acre. It’s very impressive, especially considering it was built in an era when the economy wasn’t doing great.

Did you make any renovations?

Nothing major. We restored the fountain in the solarium. There also were basic renovations like updating bathrooms and other cosmetic work, but we didn’t do any significant construction.

Do you have a favorite room?

The living room really makes a statement. We really love the foyer as well. It has the original iron sconces and chandelier and beautiful stonework and ironwork.

Did the age of the house impact how you approached the design?

We wanted to bring a more modern feel to the traditional Tudor style. We worked with local designer David Deatherage to find pieces that would fit the home but also were unique and quirky.

A lot of the design is midcentury modern, but some of the pieces, like in the dining room, are a little more traditional. We tried to mix the old and new together.

How do you approach decorating for the holidays?

We have collected Christopher Radko ornaments for many years, and the Radko tree is our holiday foundation. We don’t decorate it with anything but the ornaments and lights. It is very traditional and works as the focal point of the room. We try to pick pieces that mix with the midcentury modern design. We use a lot of gold, silver and brass along with colors that work with our furniture and accent pieces. The living room has some pieces done in a lacquered blue, so that’s a color we carried throughout the decorations in the garland.

Any favorite holiday pieces?

The Radko tree. We also have a vintage wreath of ornaments that we put over the bar in the living room. On one of the credenzas, we have a tree with Jonathan Adler ornaments, which is definitely another of our favorite decorations.

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Do you have a favorite holiday tradition?

Our first winter in the house, my family came and stayed with us. My sister, her husband and their children stayed overnight, and we had Christmas Eve with them. Then the rest of the family came over Christmas morning. That was a lot of fun. We also have an annual Christmas party that we’ve been doing for 10 years. It’s a big cookie bake with all of our friends.

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I would love to add a wide front porch to our South County colonial.

I would also like to start over with the landscaping because it has become a bit overgrown. What do you think needs to be done to bring this whole picture together?

Sincerely, —PAINT A BETTER PICTURE

DEAR PAINT A BETTER PICTURE,

Since your facade is asymmetrical, I would like to reuse the round window/gable element as part of the new front porch. This will reinforce the composition and make a bolder entry statement. Square columns seem more appropriate here than round ones, and the porch is close enough to the ground not to need railings.

I would keep the landscaping very simple by using hydrangeas to frame the corners of the porch and then using various low and taller grasses to infill.

To my eyes, this updated porch almost looks as though it was built like this. It looks like an enjoyable place to spend a quiet afternoon.

Hope you like the picture, —HOMEWORK

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