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of both physical and sexual abuse. After leaving the prosecutor’s office, she did a great deal of civil litigation and trial work.

“All of that has led me to where I am, which is helping people through difficult times but with the capacity of trial experience,” she says. “I try to be the voice of reality for clients and a touchstone for them as we figure it out together.”

While Lee is willing to go to trial and has tried a lot of cases, she believes it is typically not in her clients’ best interest to do so. A settlement reached by the parties that addresses the concerns of both parties is almost always a better outcome.

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in high-conflict custody and high-asset property division cases, as well as family matters involving mental health issues and addiction, and emotional, verbal and physical abuse.

While she gets to know her clients well, and feels for them, Lee keeps her own emotions in check to focus on helping them in the long term. “I am very straightforward in that I tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear,” she says. “People are emotional when they are first going through a divorce and they can’t see what their life will look like in a year or two. It’s part of my job to help them see that and prepare for it.”

Lee advises people to consult with several attorneys until they feel like they have found one they trust and are comfortable with, particularly when children are involved.

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As parents that’s what we want to do, protect our children,” she says. “We need to look at it from the court’s perspective and the client’s perspective and try to advise them appropriately.”

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BY THE TIME YOU READ THIS, OUR ELECTIONS WILL BE IN THE PAST. Or at least, Election Day will be behind us. The pandemic and coinciding election of city, state

and federal leaders has given us all a crash course in understanding just how important our elected officials, on all levels, can be. I must admit that although I always voted, I didn’t fully understand how truly impactful these choices could be until 2020. Naively, I suppose I always thought we generally acted in concert as Americans when a crisis befell us, stamping out whatever enemy was at our heels. But some uniquely different approaches to the pandemic have taught me that we can’t always expect to agree with our elected leaders’ choices, especially as it relates to our health and safety. Like I said, naive, right?

It has been gratifying to see that so many others have had this same epiphany, especially those aged 18 to 29. I think it’s important for this group (which includes my children, nieces and nephews) to learn these lessons early and not simply leave it to their parents and grandparents to vote and thereby decide their fate. Their once complacent attitudes have of late turned into roars of strongly held beliefs. Good for them! This year, more than any other in my lifetime or theirs, has brought with it a multitude of significant political debates to digest and ultimately decide upon. I believe it’s a great outcome that many more of us now realize that our elected leaders, even at the hyper-local level, truly can make a direct difference in our lives.

We are so fortunate as Americans to be able to voice our beliefs with our votes. Throughout October, T&S ran several pieces explaining how to navigate both old and new methods to cast your ballot in St. Louis. I know it was more complicated this year, but I sincerely hope that each of you found your way to vote yesterday and took great satisfaction in knowing that you expressed your unique opinion.

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by stephanie wallace AN ART INSTALLMENT CALLED PERSPECTIVES hangs in the newly designed library at Rossman School. The piece is a fitting encapsulation for 2020, says head of school Elizabeth Zurlinden. “The pandemic has given us all a nice dose of perspective when it comes to what is important,” she says. “For Rossman, caring for the hearts and minds of children is our first priority.” The private elementary school in Creve Coeur helps students in junior kindergarten through grade six succeed through challenging academics and a nurturing environment.

For Zurlinden, one of the most impactful things about the pandemic has been watching how Rossman’s students, especially the graduating class of 2020, have responded to adversity. In the spring, sixth-graders found their final year at the school disrupted. They had to transition to distance learning, missing out on spending time with their classmates and special graduation events like class trips. “There was such potential for sadness, but the students exhibited an amazing mix of grace and grit,” she says. “Collectively, the class was able to subdue their disappointment and find joy and ways to be grateful. I was really proud of them.”

At the start of the crisis, the class of 2020 organized a food drive to provide groceries for first responders working at a nearby hospital. “They broadened their perspectives and thought beyond themselves,” Zurlinden notes. “They took on the challenge to rally together and finish strong. Instead of looking back with regret, they made the best of it and moved forward.” That type of resilience is something that Rossman works to instill in all its students. The school fosters a supportive environment where kids can take on challenges without the fear of failure. “Our students are given plenty of opportunities to try,” she says. “I love that they don’t give up and are energized by the challenge.”

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The unthinkable circumstances of COVID-19 have highlighted Rossman’s strengths. “Given this season of change, we’ve reflected on what is true and unchangeable,” Zurlinden explains. “We remain committed to cultivating habits of academic study, character and leadership.” The school is dedicated to the formation of the whole child, focusing just as much on socioemotional growth and strong character as rigorous academics. The core values of honesty, kindness, respect and responsibility are woven into each school day with intent. “Over the course of eight years, our students spend more than a thousand days with us, and we see each one as an opportunity to challenge, support and love them,” she notes.

Rossman has been able to resume on-campus classes with new safety measures.

The school rearranged spaces to better accommodate social distancing, added custom guards to each desk, and requires students to wear masks throughout the day and eat lunch in their classrooms rather than the dining room. Despite these changes, Zurlinden says everyone is excited to be able to learn together in-person. “The best compliment I receive is when kids tell me that school doesn’t feel that different,” she notes. “Sometimes, all I focus on is just how much has changed, but the most important thing is that our students still feel encouraged, challenged and respected.

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Used to be Taubman Prestige Outlets was just one of two—count ’em, two—outlet malls in the Chesterfield Valley floodplain of the Missouri River. And since there was already a so-called 500-year flood in 1993, that means present and future investors don’t have to worry about another such natural disaster until the year 2493, right? We thought that global warming was supposed to be real slow, kind of gradual. That is, of course, if it’s even a thing, since certain politicians have tried to persuade us it isn’t. Maybe we’ll all be long dead when the next flood inundates us. Meanwhile, however, natural disasters come in all forms: We’ve been promised a cataclysmic earthquake to beat any that ever happens along the San Andreas Fault in California. Then, of course, you may have heard that there’s this nasty virus going around. All that said, construction continues apace on The Factory, one of the major features of The District, into which the former

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Can you imagine visiting the Sistine Chapel in Vatican City, looking up in awe at the creative miracle of Michelangelo’s 16th-century ceiling frescoes, but without even leaving the metro?

That is, without the benefit of some crazy advanced AI technology, interdimensional space-time manipulation, or even quaint, old-fashioned time travel? Well, you will have to travel in time a little bit, into the future, but at the speed limit. Not too far, though— an exhibit of full-size replicas of the High Renaissance masterpieces begins Friday (Nov. 6) at America’s Center in downtown St. Louis. And you won’t have to crane your neck to see them dozens of feet overhead. The group of 34 reproductions will be displayed on the convention center’s second floor, and visitors will be able to walk right up close after a short escalator or elevator ride.

How, um, conventional. Explore St. Louis, operator of the convention center, is making lemonade from lemons here: The facility was able to accommodate the exhibit only due to trade-show cancellations from the pandemic.

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outlet mall is being transformed. Now, whoever thought it was a good idea to build two outlet malls within four miles of one another is a question that’s been asked thousands of times already, so we’re loath to ask it again here.

Developers say demographics indicate the metro needs another concert venue outside of I-270. No argument there, although existing concert halls, The Pageant and Delmar Hall in particular, are having a hell of a time selling enough tickets to keep the doors open as well as remain in compliance with social-distancing protocols. The Factory will comprise 52,000 square feet of event space, with a capacity of 3,000—in a perfect world, of course, which ours is anything but. The Factory is slated to open in 2021. Sometime. Many of us also hope that Busch Stadium and Enterprise Center will allow people in, too. Sometime soon. I mean, is it too much to ask the gods to smile on us by Opening Day?

Next time you want to buy a book, don’t automatically click on Amazon.com.

C’mon—they’re already getting enough of our precious pandemic pennies.

If you’re fond of local enterprises and can’t or won’t shop in person, click responsibly. Think of the local bookstores that depend on us to survive for the long term, such as Left Bank Books at 399 N. Euclid Ave. in the CWE. It’s among a number of local indie bookstores that joined the American Booksellers Association’s ‘Boxed Out’ campaign against Amazon last month.

Nationwide, shops posted harsh messaging against the online retail giant in their storefronts and on social media, starting only days after Amazon’s oncea-year savings event, Prime Day. They warned, “Don’t let bookstores become a work of fiction” and “If you want Amazon to be the world’s only retailer, keep shopping there.” It was only a few weeks ago that Left Bank reopened to book lovers by appointment. Recently, it pleaded for customers and even donations from bibliophiles.

Meanwhile, Amazon’s profits continue to soar, and not only from books, its original product line when first it reared its ugly head in July 1995. In July, the online juggernaut doubled its net profits. The timing of the ‘Boxed Out’ campaign aligns with the lead-up to the holiday shopping season, typically the most profitable and important quarter for retailers. (An aside: Even if your beloved has asked for a Kindle for Christmas, resist the pleadings!) Times are tough for print media all over. Periodicals are suffering, too. The Riverfront Times laid off staff and ceased publication in March as advertisers abandoned the free weekly because of the pandemic. As if to add another nail to a coffin, Ray Hartmann, former publisher of the RFT and St. Louis Magazine, declared bankruptcy last week. For anyone who’s loved or loathed his role as a “Donnybrook” panelist on KETC, Channel 9, the metro’s public TV station, you can bet he’ll have a few things to share at 7 p.m. tomorrow (Thursday, Nov. 5).

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LAST ISSUE’S Q&A Where was Johnny Cash’s “A Boy Named Sue” recorded, and who wrote the lyrics?

“A Boy Named Sue” was recorded live at San Quentin Prison.

Humorist and cartoonist Shel Silverstein wrote the lyrics: After Sue and his father got in a fight, they spilled out of the saloon into “the mud and the blood and the beer.”

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Ladue You may call her a Renaissance woman, and not only in Berlin. Back home since 2017, she’s enjoyed the open because her wardrobe could lead you to believe she just mic at Venice Café. After you finish this, trip along to her left a Renaissance Faire. “People ask, ‘What festival did you funky, fresh quarantine presentations under the ‘Journey is just come from?’,” she quips, and Lara Csengody of Ladue is a Verb’ umbrella on YouTube. (Speaking of umbrellas, and I quite the quipper. Comedy is part of her stock in trade, just digress, which is unavoidable spending time on the phone one of the ways she wields words wonderfully. A freelance with an intellect whose thought process is anything but writer and multimedia specialist for corporate clients, much linear … when she first answered her phone, she sounded a bit under the weather. It was a chilly, of her oeuvre is necessarily somewhat rainy evening. “I’m under the weather, serious. But that’s not what you’ll see and for real,” she observes, “but I have an hear when you get sucked into YouTube umbrella.”) Her backyard includes Deer or glued to Instagram to sample her Creek and all manner of wildlife, from priceless pre-pandemic patter: Csengody FROM THE chipmunks and Rocky, a domesticated has performed stand-up and improv with INSIDE OUT IS squirrel, to trash pandas … raccoons.

Second City and other clubs in and around Somewhere in or near the creek, on or not Chicago, where she graduated cum laude WHERE THE on a rock, is where she delivers any number in 2003 from Columbia College with a B.A. of other bits, some NSFW: from her cheeky in fiction writing. In the early aughts she MAGIC HAPPENS ...

‘Creek Comedy’ and ‘Psychedelic Pearls’ also waitressed at Zanies in the Windy City, to sparkler readings of Jack Kerouac—a then scooted to L.A., where she honed her sparkler illuminates her delivery, natch. craft for seven years on the Left Coast. In 2012, “I popped my own bubble,” she says. She backpacked Fireside chats are in the mix, too. Oftentimes she squats Europe: climbing her family tree in Croatia, traipsing from near the fire pit. “The fire is the original microphone,” she Copenhagen to Bratislava to Budapest, teaching English and notes. It’s been a bit humbling, with no audience except doing her funny business as an expat, even failing to bomb Josh, her main man since they met on a train three years

ago, behind the camera. “From the inside out is where the magic happens,” Csengody says. “You gotta bring that shine out.” And often she’s not so much a comedian as a performance artist, which is where she really shines through gestures, body language and expressions. Her patois evokes Kerouac’s beat poetry. She’d have been comfortable on the road with him. She can give you a walking tour of anywhere, so long as you don’t have a destination in mind. She chuckles.

“Do I look like someone you should ask for directions?” Visit lgccomedy.com or hit up @laracsengody on Instagram. Your skull will be scrambled. And you’ll love it.

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Why You Should Send a Settlement Offer

Settling a divorce or family law matter is something most parties desire. Trials are expensive. Not only are they expensive, but in a trial the result rests in the hands of one family court judge. Most reasonable parties do not want to put their case in the hands of one judge.

To settle a divorce or family law matter, it usually takes one party to take the first step towards settlement. In other words, somebody has to extend the olive branch first and broach the topic of settlement.

Settlement negotiations often begin with one party sending an offer through their attorney to the opposing counsel.

While initial settlement offers do not always result in a settlement, it can open the door to more negotiations.

Many ask if it matters who sends the initial settlement offer. If one party issues the first settlement offer, some worry that offer shows weakness. In some cases, where the positions are far apart, some fear sending a settlement offer is futile.

However, sending a settlement offer does not ordinarily signal weakness. In-

stead, it shows that a party is willing to be reasonable to reach a constructive resolution to the case. It can indicate that they are ready to swallow their pride to reach a resolution.

Most judges, before they hear a trial in a divorce or family law matter, also want to know if the parties have attempted settlement. When parties have not even made an attempt, some judges may have concerns.

Settlement negotiations are technically inadmissible at trial. It is possible, however, that a judge could hold it against a party if they did not attempt meaningful settlement negotiations. Judges often know about the settlement efforts from pretrial or settlement conferences in a case.

Instead of worrying about whether it looks weak to issue a settlement offer, parties should instead focus more on appearing reasonable to the court. Being reasonable often results in obtaining a positive result if the case ends up in trial.

Further, a settlement offer can ultimately lead to a settlement. When there is a settlement, parties save money on attorneys’ fees. The parties can also put to rest the emotional anguish and stress of being in the midst of a divorce or family law matter.

However, it is vital to have enough in-

formation about the finances or the particulars of the case. These details can be gathered through formal or informal discovery to make an informed settlement offer.

To make an informed settlement, parties often need the tax returns and statements regarding all marital property and debt. When valuations are needed, the parties can hire experts to value marital property such as real estate, stock options, and business interests. With children involved, the parties may need school and medical records.

Once this takes place, most parties should think about sending a settlement offer. Sending the initial settlement offer may not work, but it can begin the conversation. It also signals a willingness to negotiate and be reasonable.

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The Kitchen Bowl Gang is a fun story about friendship that features illustrations by Peach’s mother, artist Mary Rae Reese.

a big birthday

▶ On Nov. 27, the Contemporary Art Museum is partnering with local queer art organization Qu’art for the Black Friday Marketplace and Ball. A selection of items created by queer Black artists will be for sale at the museum and online, and the virtual ball will include entertainment and a panel discussion.

The Gateway Arch has turned 55!

To mark the anniversary, the public is invited to submit their best personal photos of the landmark for inclusion in a commemorative collage.

The deadline for submission is Nov. 30.

To learn more and upload photos, visit gatewayarch.com/submitphotos.

The Boys & Girls Club of Greater St. Louis has merged with the organization’s branch in Bethalto, Illinois.

The combined organization will serve more than 8,800 kids and teens annually.

Something new is coming to Forest Park!

Construction for the new Anne O’C. Albrecht Nature Playscape has entered its final phase.

The 17-acre experiential green space is expected to open next spring. It will allow visitors to explore and learn in nine distinct activity areas.

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HOW’S YOUR LIFE GOING?

Good? Well, mine sucks. I feel bad complaining, but it seems like it has been two steps forward eight steps back for me.

My niece and I decided we needed to get away. We planned a trip to Park City, Utah. Next thing I knew, my husband, daughter, my other niece, her boyfriend, my brother and his wife were coming, too. Arrangements were made, menus agreed upon, games that I could win were purchased and off we went.

Except we didn’t. The morning we were to leave, one of us got sick with a fever. Not wanting to be a super-spreader, we didn’t go to Park City. The pictures my family sent

were beautiful. There were wide open spaces, s’mores around the fire, hikes on trails … but I wasn’t there. Though if I was, I wouldn’t have been able to hike because I screwed up my heel, and my hip is all wonky. And here is where I stop complaining for one reason. I had a dream about my dad.

My dad was one of a kind. He inherited a roofing company that was heavily in debt when his dad died. At the time, he and my mom had a few kids. It would have been easy for him to walk away from the company that carried his last name, but he didn’t.

He paid off the debts, raised six kids, sent all of us to private high schools, helped us get through college and never once complained about what a

pain in the ass we were.

When I was little, I would go with him on Saturdays while he wrote estimates on roofs. I would wait in the car and play with his street guide or ruler. We would have lunch at whatever tavern was nearby, the Hi-Pointe, Krueger’s or Cousin Hugo’s.

We always sat at the bar so we could talk to the bartender. My dad thought they had interesting stories. Today, someone would probably call Child Protective Services on him, but I always had fun and felt special sitting there with my dad. He was proud of all his kids. We were smart, getting good educations and were going to make a difference in the world. He knew that before any of us did.

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So when I read in the paper that Cousin Hugo’s was closing after 80 years in business, I was sad.

I thought about my dad, as well as my brothers and sister and our sibling lunches we had there. That night, I had a nice dream about my dad. We were at Cousin Hugo’s having a beer and talking, nothing more than that.

I woke up and realized what a brat I was. Yes, I missed a trip to Park City. Yes, I am limping around, and I hate getting older, but so what?

My dad would be disappointed in my complaints, and there is nothing worse than disappointing my dad. So I take it back. Everything is great, and I hope it is with you, too.

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over achievement, but their actions often don’t match their values. When I ask parents to describe the kind of people they hope their children are by age 30, they typically list qualities like kind, caring, happy, balanced and living their passion. In 30 years, I have never had parents say getting straight A’s, being a youth basketball champion or attending an elite college.

Ask yourself: Where does most of my energy go in my parenting? What does our family focus on? Do we focus on grades and making the best club teams? Often, the message kids receive from their parents contradicts their end in mind.

A majority of youth say parents and teachers are more concerned with achievement than kindness. These same kids report that they and their peers value personal success over empathy. Despite parents’ intentions, their everyday words and actions drown out messages about compassion.

Empathic concern and perspective-taking has been declining over the past 30 years. One cause may be increased levels of stress and unhappiness. Stress tends to cause people to turn inward and focus more on themselves than others. A study in the 1970s demonstrated that seminary students who were told to rush across campus to deliver a sermon on the Good Samaritan were less likely to stop to help a person in need compared to students who were told to take their time. I worry that our busy and stressful lives prevent us from being aware of the needs of others and acting with compassion.

Developing empathy is important because empathetic people are generally happier, healthier and more effective at their jobs.

They are more eager to collaborate, effectively negotiate, have stronger interpersonal connections, demonstrate compassion and offer support. In a recent study of nearly 900 middle school students, researchers found that participants with higher levels of empathy were more willing to stand up to a bully on behalf of someone outside their peer group. This is a critical finding because we know from research that the most effective antibullying programs are ones that focus on bystanders.

Consider what messages you are imparting to your children.

Focus more on the journey than the destination, and don’t overvalue grades and test scores. At parent-teacher conferences, be more interested in what kind of citizen and friend your child is. Use everyday examples in movies, TV shows, books and their personal lives to help kids see things from someone else’s point of view. Have your kids take the perspective of people in leadership roles to raise their level of empathy and allow them to see themselves as a leader. Teach your children to respect people of all types despite perceived differences. Acknowledge them whenever they show kindness and compassion, in big ways and small. & TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. CHECK OUT HIS NEW ONLINE COURSE, PARENTING GIRLS: THE CHALLENGES GIRLS FACE TODAY WITH THEIR FEELINGS AND FRIENDS AND WHAT THEY NEED, AT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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MIKAYLAH “MIKKI” NORFOLK OF THE WILSON SCHOOL 〉〉 FIFTH-GRADER MIKAYLAH “MIKKI” NORFOLK knows a thing or two about perseverance. Before coming to The Wilson School, she was the victim of terrible bullying. While the experience had a tremendous impact, she didn’t let it define her. In fact, it motivated her to help other kids dealing with similar issues. She founded We Rise Up 4 Kids, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources and professional help to children and youth impacted by bullying and other trauma.

What has helped you along your journey with bullying and trauma?

My friends and family definitely have helped a lot, along with just doing what makes me happy. I also went to therapy and learned about coping mechanisms.

to show them that while the trauma may not also is a challenge. You want to be right next to people and give them a hug or high five, but go away, they can still have fun. you can’t.

What were some of the challenges of What is your favorite subject in school? distance learning this spring?

There were a lot of different aspects that Definitely language arts. I enjoy reading and were hard. Sometimes, it can be difficult to writing. I love books and how I can really get What advice would you give kids who are do school work when you aren’t in school. If into a story.

I’m not in a structured place, I’m tempted to dealing with similar circumstances?

I know it’s hard right now, but you’ve got to take a little time to chill out, but that short What do you enjoy doing in your free time? keep going. This won’t last forever, and it’s break can turn into not such a little while. I like to hang out with my friends, which right It’s also hard not seeing your friends. I had now means Zoom calls. I have a cat named going to get better. just become a student at Wilson, so it was Alice, and I also really like to play with her.

What does We Rise Up 4 Kids do to help kids difficult to establish relationships because we I love community service and helping other who are being bullied or have experienced were distance learning. I didn’t have a way to people. That’s one of the reasons I wanted to start We Rise Up 4 Kids. connect with other students. other trauma?

We help provide payment for therapy and work with therapists on how to help. We have How has it been being back on campus? different games and activities for kids to play It’s very different. Wearing a mask all the time to help keep their minds off of things. We want is hard, but I know it’s helpful. Social distancing

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Forsyth School installed 13 open-air tents to serve as outdoor classrooms for students in grades one through six under a hybrid learning model for the first eight weeks of school. Forsyth transitioned to full-time, indoor, on-campus learning for all grades on Oct. 19 and will continue to use these tents as additional outdoor learning and recreation spaces.

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The year 2020 will go into the books as a difficult one for St. Louisans of all ages, perhaps more so for young people with special learning needs. Area teachers who work with these students say the children have faced challenges and developed coping skills to make the best of an uncertain situation.

T&S asked two educators how they are teaming up with kids to move forward this year.

JENNY MENKE • Miriam School “We have been back on campus since August,” says Menke, a middle school teacher at the Webster Groves school for kids with unique learning needs. “It has taken some

extra planning to create classroom arrangements, routines and procedures that adhere to COVID-19 guidelines, but the kids are doing well and remembering the rules because they want to be part of the solution. Overall, they are doing a great job protecting themselves and others.”

Menke says some of the year’s biggest challenges have arisen from the fact that many Miriam students learn best when they can collaborate with others in person. Before they returned to campus, there was a period of online/video learning, and some kids found it difficult to focus on screens for hours at a time. “Many students also feel more confident alongside a close friend, so it was hard for them to be apart,” she notes.

Miriam’s safety precautions have included sanitizing common areas and minimizing movement around the school. “Each student stays in one assigned seat for social distancing reasons—and in case we have to do contact tracing,” she explains. “That can be tough for kids who feel calmer and more comfortable in a friend group.” Face masks have presented some difficulties as well. “Students count on being able to recognize people and read facial expressions and cues, so masks can be tricky for them,” Menke says. “We have tried different solutions like masks with clear panels and plexiglass barriers around podiums.”

Menke adds that Miriam students have plenty of tools to handle added stress and frustration. “We have a sensory room where they can go for a breather, and there are classroom observation booths with microphones so they can have quiet time while still taking part in lessons,” she notes. “During breaks, they can go outside to swing, ride a scooter or do other activities. We have lots of ways to help students stay focused, and they know the faculty and staff are working hard to keep them safe. They take it as seriously as we do.”

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The private Catholic school for students with learning challenges has been in session on campus at The Goddard School in Chesterfield since the beginning of the school year, says Walczyk, a teacher and administrator.

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She says learning at home earlier in the year presented obstacles for some students, and they are glad to be back on school grounds.

“I had difficulty adjusting, so I know it was tough for our kids,” she notes.

“Many of our students are on the autism spectrum, so consistency and structure are important for them.”

She says the school has responded to social distancing concerns with more opportunities for kids to spend time outdoors. “When the temperature is 40 degrees or above, we go outside twice a day,” she notes. “We also have been taking more field trips to places like the St. Louis Aquarium that accommodate kids with sensory challenges. It’s helpful for students to get out and have fun experiences.”

The campus offers plenty of other constructive outlets as well. There are classroom swings for kids who need a few minutes of relaxation and fun tools like water balloons and outdoor games to help students release stress. “They also can take advantage of guided meditation,” Walczyk says. “They learn how to relax their minds and muscles, from the top of the head to the toes. We have a big seating area with couches, blankets, beanbag chairs and pillows where they can get comfortable and enjoy some peace and quiet.” Surfaces are cleaned regularly, and kids have embraced the importance of masks, handwashing and hand sanitizer, she adds.

Walczyk says each morning starts with prayer and special intentions, and kids then can go to the gym to walk around, stretch their legs and wake up their minds. “Some bring in their scooters to work off extra energy,” she notes. And if students want to check in with their friends in other classrooms, they can hop on a fun video call during breaks.

“Even with this year’s challenges, we have been able to adapt and stay true to our mission,” Walczyk says. “We are about individualized learning, helping kids transition to the path God has planned for them, and assisting them in meeting their personal goals.”

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Maybe it would be any other year, but with all we have had to deal with in 2020, I will take all the Christmas magic I can get. Bring it on.

This year, chances are you won’t be packing yourself onto the Polar Express with tons of screaming kids, and you may not be lingering in the Santa line at the mall. But that’s OK because there are so many beautiful new traditions we can make that are totally safe. I have a few ideas:

▶ A Front Porch St. Nicholas Day

Exchange: Many families around town celebrate St. Nicholas Day on Dec. 6. We never have, but I think it’s a beautiful celebration of selfless gift-giving. My kids and I decided to start a new tradition and celebrate the day in our own special way this year. I am asking a few of our friends to leave their kids’ boots on the front porch on Dec. 6. That day, my #crumblycrew and I plan to make secret front-porch deliveries of special cards and treats to let our friends know we love them. I believe this ET CR LIL’ SE THE CUTESTVERY CREW is the year to teach my kids the LI DE SANTA joy of giving, and I know making special secret deliveries will do just the trick. Of course, they will come home to little surprises in their own shoes. To read more about St. Nicholas and kind “Nicholas Deeds” you can do with your kids, head to stnicholascenter.org.

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Rent a Limo for a Magical Christmas Ride: Sure, you can take a quick drive through the Winter Wonderland at Tilles Park to see the gorgeous lights and head home. But what if that was just your first stop, and instead you rented a limo, got hot chocolate, and dressed up for the occasion in Christmas jammies? You could continue the limo ride all around town to the best Christmas light spots, such as Candy Cane Lane or The Teddy Bear house in Crestwood.

To focus on the real reason for the season, my family is taking our trip to see baby Jesus, the beautiful nativity scene and over a million lights at The National Shrine of Our Lady of The Snows’ Way of Lights. For information, visit snows.org

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in Operation Christmas Child through my church. Packing up a special box with some of my favorite toys for a little girl my age was one of the coolest things. It drove home the true meaning of Christmas. This year, you can order all the supplies for your kids to participate in the Samaritan’s Purse initiative to send extra-special packed Christmas boxes to kids in need. The boxes packed are shipped “outside the United States to children affected by war, poverty, natural disaster, famine, and disease; and to children living on Native American reservations in the U.S.” You can order supplies and find out more at samaritanspurse.org.

So here we are, at the end of a really intense year with an opportunity to make it extraordinarily special by focusing on others. I hope this gave you a few ideas for new traditions to make with your family.

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The acronym WISER stands for Women in Science, Entrepreneurship & Research. Dena Ladd, Missouri Cures Education Foundation president, says the idea came from her experience working with researchers across the state. “I discovered there was a need for women to find proper professional support and opportunities to network,” she explains.

“I reached out to colleagues en at universities about creating aL add an event.” In addition to St. Louis, WISER conferences are held in St. Joe, Springfield, Kansas City and Columbia. The first Cape Girardeau event was planned for 2020, but the pandemic put it on hold.

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very year, scientific breakthroughs are made throughout the Show Me State, and it’s the mission of the Missouri Cures Education Foundation to shine a spotlight on them. The nonprofit works to promote and protect medical advances and stimulate the state’s economy. It also hosts annual WISER events, which highlight the achievements of women in science, technology and business.

“The purpose of WISER is to highlight women in Missouri working in science and business,” Ladd says. “We bring professionals together to speak about their own challenges and opportunities and offer each other guidance.” This year’s St. Louis event is Nov. 10 through 12. Dubbed WISER Week, it will feature three virtual lunch hour seminars. Offered free via Zoom, the sessions focus on professional development, including mentorship, marketing and communication, and negotiation skills. “Even though we’ve had to transition online, the panels will still be very interactive,” she notes.

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“It’s a great way for women to share how they are dealing with the pandemic and offer advice to others who are juggling a lot right now.”

Ladd says Missouri Cures Education Foundation was a little uncertain about organizing virtual events, but online WISER panels held in Columbia and Kansas City earlier this year have proven the formula is a successful one. “The unexpected benefit of going virtual is that we can reach more people,” she notes. “For the Columbia event, we had 100 participants tune in and only half were from the city. The rest were from around the state and even outside of Missouri. It supports our mission of connecting professional women to one another.”

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To help further connect people and share news about local innovations, WISER also has cultivated an extensive social media presence. Ladd says it’s been especially important this year when in-person networking hasn’t been possible. The organization’s website features a monthly WISER Woman to spotlight some of the important work being done in Missouri, and a recently launched, bi-monthly podcast called WISER Conversations features Ladd discussing cutting-edge medical and scientific research with female experts in their field. “Our goal is to share the important work and research being done by women in Missouri,” she says. “Hopefully next year, we’ll be able to be together in-person again.”

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GET TO KNOW tyle by julia m. johnson

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1. my fashion path While at the Savannah College of Art and Design, I got an internship working with Ralph Lauren children’s wear. Three years later, I was offered a mentorship with Zac Posen, which led me to meet André Leon Talley, who recommended me to train under Alber Elbaz at Lanvin. I developed my current skill set through my Parisian training with Lanvin and John Galliano.

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2. how I came to the StL I moved my brand from New York City to St. Louis in 2017 to join the Fashion Fund class. After completing the program in 2018, I decided to grow my business here. It’s been an invaluable experience, opening up opportunities and expanding my creativity and business skills.

3. why I like doing business here I am pleased to build roots in St. Louis, where I have found clients, mentors, advisers and brand ambassadors who champion my company. The community has been warm and inviting, and the low overhead has allowed me to achieve business goals at an accelerated rate.

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4. how I spend my free time You’ll often find me biking or walking in Forest Park, popping in to the zoo or visiting the Saint Louis Art Museum for inspiration.

5. where I shop and dine I love going to Bowood for succulents and dried flowers, estate sales for home treasures and Lusso for gifts. For local dining, it’s Brasserie, Bar Les Freres and Olive + Oak. 6. my ladue location Garment production takes place in New York City, but AUDRA Atelier is the headquarters for the brand’s business and design operations and its retail showroom, which is open on weekdays by appointment. Clients can shop, preview collections and bespoke designs, and hold intimate gatherings.

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7. my design process I draw inspiration from my late father’s tailoring and infuse my creations with my own feminine voice. Each season, a collection begins with ideas from an emotional journey that I or my family have experienced, and that informs the cuts, fabrics and silhouettes of the new products.

STEP INTO A LUXURY RETAIL STORE in cities like Pittsburgh, New Orleans or Dallas, and you may come across the creative endeavors of Audra Danielle Noyes, owner and creative director of the AUDRA women’s fashion brand. She also sells online and at her new AUDRA Atelier in Ladue, offering casual components, dresses and outerwear that draw many cues from the crisp tailoring of men’s apparel. The designer says her work reflects “a tension between structure and fluidity, masculinity and femininity.”

Noyes was part of the inaugural class at the Saint Louis Fashion Fund incubator three years ago, and her work has since been featured in a variety of publications.

“I was raised and guided by strong women, and I want my work to inspire the same self-worth in others,” she says.

8. favorite local products and vendors I go to Glow Candle Co. for subtle scents, Alice Blue Collective for bouquets, Lyudmila Expert Tailoring for personal and company alterations, and Cheree Berry Paper for pretty notecards.

9. I love traveling to … Paris! Je t’aime. It will always be my second home. Whenever I have a large chunk of time, I go there to see dear friends and enjoy all my favorite places.

10. how I spend a free weekend I love exploring because it provides instant relaxation and inspiration. Since travel has not been possible lately, I find myself enjoying the outdoors wherever I can—driving to a state park or biking in an area of Forest Park that I haven’t seen yet. I finish off the day cooking at home with my boyfriend.

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Founder Natalie Van Hee is inspired by the power of smell, a sense so strong that it can take you back in time, transporting you to a feeling or place from the past.

Van Hee has created a fragrance line that’s divine, yet relatable. Made with American-grown, eco-friendly soy wax and lead-free cotton wicks, Glow’s candles are free of dyes and nontoxic, so you can feel good burning them for hours.

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My personal style … Day-to-day, you will find me in my cropped sweatshirts and my favorite leggings.

I also wear a lot of black combined with a good pair of sunglasses—the black section takes up 80% of my closet. When I do get dressed up, my go-to is a high-waisted, wide-leg pant or a good blazer.

The best pieces of fashion in my closet … are my Alice and Olivia wide-leg pants and a leopard SAM puffer that I wear entirely too much in the winter.

I am making my mark by … paying it forward. I try to leverage my channels and resources to shine a light on other cool entrepreneurial business owners and small shops that I admire, just like people did for me.

A professional/personal challenge that keeps me up at night … is ensuring that I am being thoughtful about the right things for my business to be around long term. At the end of the day, a sustainable business is one that has a strong core. You have to be able to take the occasional hit and get back up or have enough invested in order to have your biggest year ever. It’s a delicate balance.

In moments of self-doubt I build myself back up … by looking at where we started or reflecting on what we were doing at this time one year ago. Sometimes, it feels like a hamster wheel, but this helps to put things into perspective. It is crazy the difference one year can make.

My version of personal care … is traveling. It doesn’t happen quite as often as it used to now that we have small children, but I think it is so very important. Putting yourself around new people, new perspectives, new smells and new scenery can really help you recharge and give you a fresh outlook on everything.

Words of wisdom that resonate with me … are “focus on one thing.” Be the best you can be at that one thing and do it really well.

I stay true to my passions by … seeing others achieving success. This reminds me that I started small, and even though I am still small, I have come a long way.

I am most proud of … my branding. I agonized over it. It’s the first interaction customers have with the brand. I wanted it to be classic, subtle but noticeable, and have a luxury feel to it—exactly what I want to convey when someone smells each candle.

The one message I would like to share with all … Don’t sweat the small stuff. Always stay focused on the larger goal. Where I want to be in 10 years is constantly on my mind.

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1.SHED MOOSE ANTLER BANGLE from Adam Foster Bespoke collection, 18kt yellow gold, $14,800/per from Adam Foster Fine Jewelry 2. CORAL PENDANT from David Webb, $42,000 from HK Fine Estate Jewels 3. HONEYCOMB BRACELET, 18kt white gold with 22.5tcw diamonds, $32,000 from HK Fine Estate Jewels 4. CUFF from Adam Foster Plume collection, 18kt yellow gold with 2.4tcw round white diamond accents, $26,800

from Adam Foster Fine Jewelry 5. NECKLACE, 14kt gold with 17tcw single-cut diamonds, $5,800 from HK Fine Estate Jewels 6. “ALADINO” RING from Vhernier, 18kt rose gold with rock crystal and lapis, $7,425 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers 7. LASER FINISH TUBE HOOPS, 14kt yellow gold from Genovese Jewelers 8. Y-SHAPED LINK BRACELET, 18kt yellow

gold with clasp set with 0.45ct cabochon blue sapphire, $25,600 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers 9. FRENCH EMERALD RING, 18kt yellow gold and silver with 6ct cabochon emerald surrounded by emeralds, sapphires and diamonds, $8,000 from HK Fine Estate Jewels 10. SMALL HYDRANGEA AND PEARL DROP EARRINGS from John Iversen, 18kt yellow gold and 8.5mm Akoya pearls, $4,250 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers

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7. JADE EARRINGS from Vhernier, 18kt pink gold with nephrite jade and colorless topaz, $2,550 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers estate collection 8. AMETHYST CUFF BRACELET from Etho Maria, 18kt rose gold with 53.29tcw amethysts, $22,425 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers 9. GOLD BRACELET from the Vendorafa Dune Collection, 18kt yellow gold set with 9 diamonds (0.09tcw), $7,050 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers

10. HAMMERED EARRINGS from the Vendorafa Dune Collection, 18kt yellow gold with 12 diamonds (0.06tcw), $2,275 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers 11. CARNELIAN RING from Gurhan, 24kt yellow gold with 22.75ct oval cabochon carnelian and sterling silver shank, $800 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers 12. CUT CIRCLE DROP EARRINGS, polished 14kt yellow gold and diamonds from Genovese Jewelers

13. RUBELLITE DROP EARRINGS from Adam Foster Constellation collection, 18kt white gold with 20ct cushion rubellites and 2.9ct round white diamonds, $89,800 from Adam Foster Fine Jewelry 14. ROLO NECKLACE, 8mm 14kt yellow gold from Genovese Jewelers 15. MELEE DIAMOND RING from Atelier Zobel, 18kt yellow gold and sterling silver with 36 melee diamonds (0.36tcw), $4,125 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers

16. GOLD VICTORIAN EARRINGS from Kentshire, $1,800 from HK Fine Estate Jewels 17. “HEIGHTS” EARRINGS from Michael Bondanza, platinum with 0.84ct diamonds and hand-engraved finish, $8,975 from Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers

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Bedrock Tree Farm’s “tree in a jar” natural soy candle with freshly harvested fir needles and a wooden wick makes a great pre-holiday gift!

Available in natural, green and burgundy.

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Give the best this holiday season with a gift from Dickison Jewelry.

Serving St. Louis jewelry customers for 29 years, Rod Dickison provides engagement and wedding rings, custom jewelry design and repair services, in addition to selling fine jewelry and watches.

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Stay fit on our backyard game courts, which provide a multiuse space for almost every sport imaginable, such as basketball, hockey, tennis, pickleball, volleyball and more.

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ASADORIAN RUG

Aberdeen Heights offers Kirkwood seniors independent living, assisted living, memory care and long-term care, including a unique health care benefit that ensures financial peace of mind with predictable monthly rates.

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ABSOLUTE COLLEGE CONSULTING

The college search can be overwhelming. Owner Cindy Zelinsky guides students and families through the process from search to decision.

The initial consultation is free.

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ASADORIAN RUG COMPANY

Asadorian Rug Company is a fourth-generation, family-owned business specializing in authentic Oriental, Persian, Indian and Pakistani area rug sales, restoration, repair, cleaning and appraisal.

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Trusted for more than 30 years, we offer appraisal and auction services for fine jewelry, fine art, furniture and decorative art property. We also provide local clients with seasoned expertise in the global art market.

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THE GATESWORTH

Live entertainment, such as jazz musician Tim Cunningham, has been a part of life at The Gatesworth since its beginning. Now you can enjoy the performances virtually by visiting thegatesworth.com.

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STANGE LAW FIRM

Stange Law Firm, PC is a divorce and family law firm headquartered in Clayton, Missouri with 21 offices across the Midwest in Missouri, Illinois, Kansas and Oklahoma.

NOTE: THE CHOICE OF A LAWYER IS AN IMPORTANT DECISION AND SHOULD NOT BE BASED SOLELY ON ADVERTISEMENTS.

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BEAUTY – Winter Wonders for Your Face HEALTH – Focus on SAD BEAUTY – CBD: From Chaos to Calm

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BREAST CARE: TREATING THE WHOLE PATIENT

THE SLUCARE BREAST HEALTH PROGRAM OFFERS A COMPLETE CYCLE OF CARE FOR PATIENTS, INCLUDING CONSULTATION, DIAGNOSIS, TREATMENT AND FOLLOW-UP CARE. PICTURED ON THE COVER: SLUCARE BREAST SURGEON DR. KATIE FARRELL. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.977.6131 OR VISIT SLUCARE.EDU/BREAST-SURGERY. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP

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HEALTH & BEAUTY

TREATING A PATIENT WHO IS FACING BREAST SURGERY involves much

more than going to appointments and scheduling a procedure. It takes a team of professionals from a variety of disciplines to address the person’s physical and emotional needs, says Dr. Katie Farrell, a SLUCare breast surgeon at the new SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital.

Farrell says SLUCare providers believe in the interconnectedness of body and mind and the power of collaboration to help patients heal. When a woman needs care for a breast condition such as cancer, professionals in diagnostic imaging, surgery, genetic counseling, hematology/oncology, plastic surgery and social work band together for her benefit. Farrell says providers are in constant communication and attend regular “breast tumor board” meetings to discuss the best possible care.

“My colleagues and I rely on each other,” she notes. “We talk about different diagnoses, and team members are encouraged to bring their own perspectives to the table. We might discuss a genetic mutation responsible for a certain type of breast cancer or examine a case where radiation can’t be used because of underlying health issues. I tell patients that we collaborate in this way to get the best possible expertise on board, and they are grateful for that.”

Farrell says the team approach puts patients at ease because it helps to alleviate fears and clear up confusion. “There are a number of different types of breast cancer, and understanding them can be complex,” she notes. “We can have the patient meet with a genetic counselor before surgery to perform testing and talk about gene mutations and risks for other types of cancer. The patient also can meet with her surgeon up front, and clinical and imaging nurses can answer questions and serve as advocates.”

Because the psychological implications of breast surgery can be just as significant as the physical ones, social workers also are available with resources and support,

DR. KATIE FARRELL CONSULTS WITH A PATIENT.

Farrell says. “Everyone on the SLUCare team truly understands the emotional toll that can come with a breast cancer diagnosis,” she explains. “We often encourage patients to bring a trusted family member or friend to their visits for moral support and clarity. Understanding a cancer diagnosis can get complicated pretty quickly, and we believe two sets of ears are often better than one.”

Farrell adds that the SLUCare provider team believes in positive communication with the patient’s best interests at heart. “When one of my patients needs to see an additional SLUCare doctor, she can rest assured that I will speak with that person on her behalf,” she says. “This really helps patients feel comfortable. With each individual, we ensure that the process of diagnosis, treatment and follow-up care is understood because we believe no one should go home with unanswered questions. We are here to ensure all aspects of patient care are addressed for the best possible outcomes.” &

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Salesforce, a customer relationship “Our guiding principal is our mission statement,” management platform used by many says Mark Gellman. “Using a cohesive and innovative Fortune 500 companies. “All of our business team approach, we’re passionately driven to enrich planning is focused on innovation and lives, support communities, and create meaningful thinking outside the box as to how we can experiences and positive relationships for life.” serve our clients better,” Mark notes.

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By creating meaningful experiences, The Gellman Team members develop positive relationships with their clients that extend well beyond the sale. “We don’t just wrap it up, and you never hear from us again,” Mark says. “We follow up. We do client appreciation events.

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With temperatures cooling off and people spending more hours indoors, it’s an ideal time to schedule cosmetic treatments to achieve a more youthful look. Area medical spas offer a variety of ways to hit the refresh button on different areas of your face. Professionals say it makes sense to have these treatments done while in-person social commitments are still on hold.

And if you do need to go out, your face mask can help hide what’s healing.

LIPS, CHIN & JAW

Aeron Sheffield, RN, BSN, of Ethos Aveda Salon & Medspa says filler injections to enhance the lips, chin and jawline are popular at this time of year. “Holiday parties may be different this year, but people still want to look their best, and now is a good time to talk about using fillers to achieve it,” he says.

Sheffield says Restylane Kysse is a popular choice to enhance the lips. “It provides volume, hydration and a natural look,” he notes. Juvéderm Voluma works well for other parts of the face including the chin. “If you don’t have a prominent chin but you want that look, this filler may be a good choice,” he says.

He adds that because each client has unique skin and anatomical characteristics, it’s important to design a personalized plan for filler treatments. “We evaluate each person carefully and don’t recommend one-size-fits-all solutions,” he says.

For example, some people may need more touch-up visits than others. “Everyone has different areas of the face that are naturally more hollow or plump,” Sheffield says. “A person who has smaller lips might need a couple of additional treatments, then a reevaluation in a month or two. You don’t want to end up with a look that is not aesthetically pleasing.”

Sheffield says careful consultation with a professional provider is an important first step for those who are considering fillers. “We want to understand what clients are looking for ahead of time so we can achieve the desired result, notes.

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Carol Anderson, RN, CANS, owner of Nouveau, a Boutique Medspa, says rosacea is a fairly common skin condition that is easy to treat at this time of year, when many people are staying inside anyway. “BroadBand Light (BBL) is a laser therapy that uses specific wavelengths of color to improve skin’s texture and color,” she notes. “It can reduce the redness and rash that rosacea patients experience on their cheeks and noses.”

A number of things can cause rosacea to flare up, so the condition needs to be managed regularly, according to Anderson. “BBL isn’t a cure, but it improves the skin significantly and produces anti-aging effects as well,” she says. “The light wakes up the skin cells and makes them function more youthfully.”

Anderson says BBL is a good option for rosacea because it only targets the skin cells that need treatment, not the surrounding area. “After your initial visit, you generally return every three to six months for follow-up therapy,” she says. “Treating the nose and cheek area usually takes about 15 minutes in the office, and we provide a numbing agent to make it comfortable.”

After a treatment, the client usually experiences a sensation like a light sunburn for a couple of hours.

“At-home care usually includes a phyto corrective gel to reduce redness and warmth, and we advise the client to moisturize often,” Anderson notes. “We get a lot of positive feedback about BBL. People tell us they appreciate the combination of noticeable results and very little downtime.”

EYEBROWS

Microblading is a semipermanent tattoo procedure that can help people with thin or uneven brows achieve a fuller, more pleasing look, according to Courtney Christine Carr of Christine Brows. Clients first schedule a consultation with Carr so she can examine the eyebrow area, create an enhancement plan and answer any questions that arise.

The technique uses a special blade with fine needles arranged in a straight line. It is dipped into a pigment that is applied to the skin, penetrating the top three layers to create the look of new eyebrow hairs. Each client’s initial procedure consists of two sessions: First, the brows are mapped and color matched, and a set of foundation strokes is applied to the skin. Six to eight weeks later, the client returns for a touch-up visit to fill in any spaces and create a fuller look. After that, the procedure should be repeated every 6 to 12 months because of hair growth and skin cell turnover, Carr says.

She also educates each client about important pretreatment precautions like avoiding alcohol, caffeine and anti-inflammatory drugs for a period of time.

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From festive activities to family traditions, the winter months are often merry and bright. For many, however, the season’s shorter, darker days bring their own challenges. Around 2% of the population suffers from seasonal affective disorder (SAD), and another 10% copes with milder forms of seasonal depression.

With the pandemic already weighing heavy on people’s minds, it’s more important than ever to think about mental health.

SAD is a form of depression that occurs at the same time every year.

Although it can happen during any season, it is most typically associated with the winter months, according to Amy Konsewicz, SSM Health manager of outpatient behavioral health. “Days are shorter, and people spend more time inside,” she explains. “The reduced sunlight can disrupt people’s circadian rhythms and cause a drop in serotonin, triggering depression.”

With the stress of COVID-19 and the isolation of social distancing, SAD’s impact may be compounded this year, since people are already experiencing a feeling of hopelessness. If you or a loved one already suffers from depression, there may be a higher risk for severe mood disorder symptoms, Konsewicz notes. “It’s important to check in with friends and family during the winter months, especially during this time of increased social isolation,” she says. “Even if we can’t be in the same spaces, we’re all navigating the uncertainty of this pandemic together, and there are resources available to help people get through the season.”

common symptoms of SAD • Fatigue • Social withdrawal • Anxiety or feeling hopeless • Disinterest in activities you once enjoyed • Inability to concentrate

• Insomnia • Oversleeping • Irritability • Dietary problems such as eating too much or too little

Konsewicz says that being proactive now can make a difference later in winter. She recommends starting a self-care routine. “It can be as simple as exercising, eating healthy and putting aside time for an activity you enjoy,” she says. “If you get into the habit now, you’ll have that in your arsenal when you need it.” She adds that starting medication before SAD symptoms worsen also can be beneficial.

treatment options for SAD include: • light therapy: The use of special light boxes can mimic the effect of sunlight. “They help increase vitamin D levels and affect the brain chemicals that are linked to mood,” Konsewicz explains.

• medication: Antidepressants can be used to treat SAD, including selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which work by increasing serotonin levels in the brain.

• cognitive behavioral therapy: Talking with a professional can help you manage stress, learn healthy coping mechanisms, and identify and change unhealthy thoughts and behaviors.

• mind-body techniques: Relaxation exercises like meditation, yoga, and art or music therapy may be useful to help cope with SAD. &

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Hidden Valley Road: Inside the Mind of an American Family

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The Guest List: A Novel

by Lucy Foley Over a two-day period, a group of people come together on a beautiful little Irish island to celebrate the marriage of Will and Jules. Unbeknownst to anyone, each of them has a secret that slowly unravels during the weekend. Some secrets you will see right away.

Others will cause you to screech, “no way!” Am I any smarter as a result of reading this book?

No, but I sure did enjoy it.

Sorry I Missed You: A Novel

by Suzy Krause Three very different people live in a triplex. None of them are particularly friendly with each other until they receive a note saying, “sorry I missed you.” No one knows who left the note, but each of them hopes it was someone very near and dear to them who has disappeared from their life.

The three characters come together to try to figure out the author's identity.

This is a happy, funny read that will make you smile—perfect during this time of COVID.

Stay Sexy and Don’t Get Murdered

by Karen Kilgariff & Georgia Hardstark I am not sure how this book ended up in my stack to read, but I suspect it had to be the title. As you know, I am a true crime fanatic, so I am always interested in murder. And who doesn’t want to be sexy? What I didn’t expect was this great story about two women with very different lives who found each other at a party and now are the very successful creators of the My Favorite Murder podcast.

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BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

We’ve always found ways to brighten and warm up the darkest, coldest days of the year with festive traditions. With the uncertainty of the pandemic, those special moments of joy and community will mean more this year than ever before. T&S has a behind-the-scenes look at how two local holiday events are keeping the season merry and bright while ensuring St. Louisans stay healthy and safe.

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The Missouri Botanical Garden begins planning Garden Glow in February, following six weeks dismantling the previous year’s holiday light displays.

Jay Blair, the garden’s head of events, says spring is spent coming up with new ideas and determining what items need refurbishment, and summer is focused on preparing everything for installation, which starts in September. Setting up approximately 1,125,000 lights typically takes 800 hours over 10 weeks. “Garden Glow is a yearlong process that never really ends,” he notes.

Garden Glow usually has at least two new installations each year, and ones from previous events often are moved or rearranged, making for a new experience every winter. This year due to the pandemic, things will function a little differently, but Blair says guests can still look forward to enjoying the holiday tradition safely. “In the spring, our planning process was thrown off, and at times, we weren’t even sure we’d get to have the event,” he notes. To make the beloved experience possible, the botanical garden adjusted its installation process to allow for social distancing.

A major part of the planning process is determining what installations to keep and which to replace. “There are traditional favorites that people look forward to every year, but we still want to keep the event fresh,” Blair notes. He explains that various factors go into determining which exhibits to retire. The garden checks social media to see what photos are being shared and talks with guests about their favorite elements. Maintenance also plays a role. “It’s better to add a new installation if continued refurbishment is going to cost more,” he says.

With visitor safety a priority, the event’s high-touch and interactive areas were rethought. Capacity also had to be reduced, but the event will be open for more nights to offset the change. While some installations won’t be possible, Blair says there are new elements for guests to look forward to, including a new snowflake entryway and the return of the projection show.

“The biggest changes we’ve made are to ensure that we can keep people safe,” he notes. “But you can still see your favorites this holiday season.”

winter wonderland in tilles park St. Louisans always have had choices for how to experience Winter Wonderland in Tilles Park, and this year, those options are more important than ever. While the walking portion of the event has been limited, carriage and vehicle tours allow visitors to safely enjoy the festive tradition. “It’s the ideal year to go through in your vehicle,” says Maggie Martin, recreation events coordinator for St. Louis County Parks. “It’s a great socially distanced way to enjoy the lights and holiday season.”

Martin estimates that the expansive exhibit features close to 2 million lights in more than 80 displays. “No one’s really tried counting,” she jokes. Planning for Winter Wonderland begins in January, and a map of the year’s scenes is completed by the end of the month.

Installation usually begins the first week of October, and the event is ready for the public the week before Thanksgiving. This year to keep workers safe, set-up began after Labor Day. “Instead of working as a whole team, we’ve divided into smaller pods,” Martin explains.

“It allows us to social distance and limits potential exposure.”

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Each year, the event offers a unique experience. While some favorite displays return annually, Martin says elements often are moved and reimagined. “We have a lake made out of lights every year, but we always try to do something different with the installation,” she notes. “One year we had ice skaters on it, and another featured fish jumping from it. We also try to incorporate big things that are happening in the city. In the past, we’ve had sports displays for the Blues and Cardinals.” Nature also plays a part in determining which installations stay. She recalls that high winds have taken certain pieces out of commission in the past.

Guests can look forward to a lot of new installations for 2020.

Last year, St. Louis County Parks acquired several pieces that have yet to make their debut. “There will be dozens of new displays incorporated in this year’s Winter Wonderland,” Martin says. “We’re excited to share a spectacular holiday experience with people.”

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l a GETTING re WITH FOOD by alaina hinkle

One of my favorite dinner hacks is a grazing board. What is a “grazing board,” and how is it different from a cheese board? The answer is simple: Unlike a cheese board, which focuses on cheese, a grazing board includes meat, dip and snack options. It’s equally ideal for an easy dinner or a small holiday get-together.

Although grazing boards can be tweaked for any time of year, I am going to show you how to rock a seasonal one for autumn!

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THE eight es ELEMENTS TO A FALL GRAZING BOARD INCLUDE: 1. Theme Pick a theme for your grazing board. This is a Thanksgiving board, so I made sure to add seasonal fruits and veggies.

Use your theme to help you pick the items on your board.

2. An appetizer dip (Pictured: HGHF dill pickle dip )

This is a great opportunity to cater to any food allergies your guests may have. For example, if you have guests who are dairy free, add a dairy-free dip.

3. 2-3 cheeses (Pictured: smoked gouda and cheddar chive)

Always pick one cheese that you are positive will be liked by everyone, like a mild cheddar. Then have fun with the two other cheeses. A spicy gouda or smoked garlic herb are two of my favorites.

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4. 2-3 varieties of crackers (Pictured: sourdough flatbread crackers and bruschetta crackers)

Amazing cheeses deserve to be enjoyed with amazing crackers. Golden round crackers are always a hit, as are sourdough flatbread crackers.

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5. Seasonal fruits and vegetables Using fruits and vegetables as vehicles to get the dip in your mouth is the way to go! Fall favorites include broccoli, apples, pears, endive and carrots.

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6. A finger food option One of my favorite finger foods for grazing boards is goat cheese spread on bruschetta crackers topped with pomegranate seeds.

7. At least 2 meat options Summer sausage, prosciutto or salami are typical meat options on cheese plates. To keep things seasonal, however, I like to use ham.

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8. Condiments When you have tangy cheese on the board, fruit jams and honeys are the way to go. On this board, I included honey to be drizzled over the pomegranate goat cheese bites.

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QUICK BITES by stephanie wallace

〈〈STL PERKS A classic St. Louis brand is back in business at Laclede’s Landing. Old Judge Coffee was founded in 1858.

At its height, the company churned out more than 3 million pounds of coffee a year, before falling out of production in the 1990s.

As part of his revitalization of Laclede’s Landing, David Messner has brought the brand back (along with its iconic mascot, the Wide Awake Owl).

You can find Old Judge coffee, tea and hot chocolate at oldjudgecoffee.com.

HOT STUFF

The team behind Tai Ke in University City is cooking up something new. It plans to open a second restaurant called Tai Ke Shabu Shabu at 9626 Olive Blvd., a space previously occupied by LuLu Asian Kitchen. Shabu shabu refers to a popular type of Japanese hot pot, and diners will be given ingredients and soup to heat on small countertop stoves. The restaurant also will feature dishes from the original Tai Ke’s Taiwanese menu.

NEW DIGS

Kingside Diner in the Central West End will open in a new location early next year. The restaurant will take over the former Gamlin Whiskey House at 236 N. Euclid Ave. The move was partially necessitated by the expansion of the St. Louis Chess Club, and the new spot will offer more space.

The location will include a patio and an After Dark concept similar to its counterpart in Clayton.

FEEDING GOOD

Chef Katie Collier of Katie’s Pizza and Pasta Osteria now has a creation on the kids menu at Lion’s Choice, the Turkey Dipper. Earlier this year, she won over a panel of kid judges at a competition with the turkey and Provel cheese flatbread served with marinara sauce for dipping. A portion of each sale of the sandwich will go to Operation Food Search. The Turkey Dipper will be available through the end of November.

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After opening as a pop-up this summer, Pastaria Deli & Wine now is a full restaurant at the former Sardella location (7734 Forsyth Blvd.). The spot offers sandwiches, wine, and provisions like take-and-bake pizzas, lasagnas and pasta. … If you’re looking for a sweet treat, head to Old Town Florissant.

Made. by Lia is serving up baked goodies at 610 Rue St. Francois. … University City has a new Mexican spot from the owners of Frida’s. Diego’s is open at 622 North and South Road, the former home of Momo’s Greek Tavern. … The curtain has closed on The Monocle at 4510 Manchester Road. The speakeasy and entertainment venue opened in The Grove in 2015.

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HOSTING AT HOME:

A Cozy Thanksgiving

BY JULIA M. JOHNSON

St. Louisans are likely to scale back on their holiday festivities this year, but that doesn’t mean the season has to be dreary. If you are on the hunt for bright ideas to host a few family members or friends at Thanksgiving, T&S has you covered. Chances are, you’ll save some cash—and you might even find that you prefer a more intimate celebration!

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Limit the menu to a few favorite items. Instead of stressing over a big, fancy spread, stick with a delicious main dish, a couple of sides and two desserts.

(You’re also likely to cut down on food waste from uneaten leftovers.)

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Experience global cuisines.

Who says Thanksgiving has to mean turkey or ham? Create a tasting menu of Indian, Thai or French dishes and take your guests on a holiday flavor excursion.

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Plan some outdoor fun.

Again, if weather permits, set up social distance-friendly games in the yard, like ring toss, cornhole or horseshoes.

If you live near woods, arrange a fun nature walk or outdoor scavenger hunt.

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Have friends pop in for a potluck. Ask guests to bring their favorite turkey-day dishes, prepared with proper sanitary measures in mind.

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Dine al fresco. If weather permits, decorate your deck or patio with hardy mums, pumpkins, gourds and other seasonal touches that make for a festive outdoor meal.

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Try a warm beverage recipe.

Mulled wine, cider, hot chocolate and specialty herbal teas are great Thanksgiving choices, especially when you are sitting around a crackling fire on the deck or patio.

Let someone else do the cooking. Many area restaurants and catering outlets offer delicious, complete Thanksgiving dinners for pickup or delivery. Leave your pots and pans in the cupboard and show local businesses some much-needed love this holiday season.

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Throw a memorable Thanksgiving brunch.

This idea works well for families that include essential workers on late shifts or kids who have early bedtimes.

Try festive foods like French toast, colorful fruits and vegetables, made-to-order omelets, and sweet breads or rolls.

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Fire up the grill. Turkey, squash, sweet potatoes, corn and other Thanksgiving favorites can be browned on the barbie. Cook them in individual foil packets so guests don’t have to share serving dishes or utensils.

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Raise a glass of thankfulness. Set aside time during the meal to go around the table and talk about what makes you feel grateful. This year’s challenges might make it an even more meaningful exercise than usual.

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private, screened porch that is a perfect spot to wake up with a cup of coffee or unwind at the end of the day with a glass of wine. The porch is like your own outdoor living room—a relaxing oasis.

What are some of the home’s conveniences?

There is a large gym room with its own bathroom, refrigerator and cubbyholes for equipment and supplies.

The house also features an elevator, and the driveway is heated for safety in wintertime. There is also a new path What is most appealing about that cuts through from the the location?

My favorite thing about this property neighborhood to Babler Park, so is that it backs up to Babler State Park, residents can hike, bike and explore so the views are wonderful. It’s close to close to home. You can walk from the restaurants, Spirit of St. Louis Airport front door to the park in 10 minutes. and other amenities, but it still feels like What is the master suite like? you are a part of nature when you are It is located on the first floor and here. The neighborhood has generous features a fireplace, coffee bar and

Is it an inviting home for guests?

This house allows you to entertain beautifully, inside and outside. There are two bedroom suites on the lower level, perfect for a live-in nanny, in-laws or overnight guests. There is plenty of room for them to be comfortable and enjoy some privacy away from the rest of the house.

Does it have environmentally responsible features?

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Does the property complement its surroundings well?

Yes, it was designed to create a deep sense of connection to nature. The façade and front yard have a storybook feel with cobblestones and other lovely stonework. The idea was for the indoor spaces and woodwork to reflect the natural features of the forest and hillside. And the rear of the home is almost entirely windows, so you really feel at one with the outdoors.

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DEAR HOMEWORK,

As you can see from my photo, the landscaping at the front of my home is terribly overgrown. Although I’d miss my lilacs, we would like to tear everything out and plant something fresh, preferably something that doesn’t require a lot of maintenance. We do like to plant bulbs, so we have flowers in the spring and annuals and perennials for the summer.

Thanks, —LOST IN THE JUNGLE

DEAR LOST IN THE JUNGLE,

Your house is less overgrown than some I’ve seen. At least you can see most of the facade. As you will notice from my sketch, I have kept a good part of the bush to the left as a useful frame to the presentation.

In addition, I have used evergreen hedges as a background for the flowers that you desire to plant.

To the right of the composition, I suggest installing a trellis above the new garage door to bring some landscape interest to this portion of the composition. A low hedge and a row of dogwood trees frame this side and shield the view to the neighboring house.

Supporting architectural details such as larger coach lamps, shutter hinges and tie backs, and enhanced moldings add additional interest. The overall impact is now more charming and complete.

Just keep those new hedges trimmed.

Thanks for asking, —HOMEWORK

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French bifold doors deliver swathes of natural light into the lavish living areas and invite the property’s gorgeous grounds into the home.

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They say the healthiest meals are colorful, so shouldn’t your kitchenware be the same way?

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Moody, Marvelous Black Make a style statement with these no-fuss black accessories by leaning them behind your range or stacking them to build on the drama. These pieces help create that impact you’ve been looking for.

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Simply White These boards and vases are the no-nonsense kitchen essentials we can’t get enough of. The best part? Your food will pop against the ultra clean backdrop of a white charcuterie or tapas board.

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Pretty in Pink Feminine, playful and oh-so-sweet, pink will have you craving sweets every time you walk into your kitchen.

We won’t tell if you sneak a cookie before dinner.

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Rich Merlot If you love decorating for the holidays, this hue will bring a festive spirit without the seasonal iconography that would relegate it to being used only one or two months each year.

Soft Sage Sage is the new neutral. This soft, calming hue is perfect for savory bites or fresh salads. Our recommendation?

Grab a friend and take your sage serveware outside for a dreamy picnic.

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Denim & French Blue This energetic blue is perfect for adding a pop of color. It goes perfectly with chinoiserie, those blue and white beauties that bring class and history to any room.

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THE COLORFUL KITCHEN

Stately Navy For moodier blues, we’ve never met a shade of navy we didn’t love. It looks amazing with chinoiserie, but it really shines all on its own.

Display on your countertop for maximum impact.

Beautifully Natural Wood Maybe it’s time to go au naturel.

Oak and pine warm up the space and tie a sense of home into all the new features.

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9633 LADUE ROAD Ladue $2,675,000 Keith R. Manzer 314.609.3155 Named “Face of Luxury Real Estate”

by St. Louis Magazine - 2015, 2016, & 2018

The historical home is perfectly poised on nearly 2 acres in the heart of Ladue.

Built-in 1936 & thoughtfully expanded in the last decade; this classic center hall features period custom millwork & one-of-a-kind milled doors. A stunning curved staircase gracefully ascends all three floors. The Classic black & white marble foyer leads to paneled library with fireplace & built-ins, gracious formal living room, and dining room The palatial, updated kitchen includes 2 islands, triple waterfall granite, built-in Miele espresso machine, Wolf range, 48” Subzero fridge, ice maker, + an induction cooktop, hearth room, and 2 pantries.

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2 Sheraton Drive Ladue | $1,100,000 Ann Wroth 314.440.0212 Fabulous opportunity to rehab a cottage home build in 1939 and owned by one family, or build your dream home on this private 1.95-acre lot in the heart of Ladue located off Price Road. The property features beautiful mature trees and plantings, is quiet and serene with rolling green space, offering a phenomenal setting for new construction.

10135 Fieldcrest Lane Ladue | $1,195,000 Ann Wroth 314.440.0212

Exclusive Opportunity to own a custom built new home located on a private lane with only fourteen homes in the heart of Ladue.

Approximately ½ acre lot, 3,311 sq/foot spacious story and a half home with four bedrooms, 3 ½ baths, exquisite first-floor master suite w/2 walk-in closets, side entry three car garage, maintenance free exterior “James Hardie” cement board siding, stone wrap around home, deep (8’10”) basement pour, whole home landscaping and upscale finishes.

Still time to make interior selections. Optional finished lower level.

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314-721-4755 | gladysmanion.com 341 CONWAY HILL ROAD Town & Country $1,799,000 Holly Bry 314.276.7727

Offering 8,715 total sqft, including the fabulous finished lower level, situated on one professionally landscaped acre with pool, waterfall, fire pit, and located in desirable Pointe Conway gated community in Town & Country - this beautiful home is a must-see! Boasting neutral decor and offering all the spaces desired for today’s lifestyle: open kitchen/breakfast/hearth/sunroom, main level master bedroom suite, main level laundry, second floor with 3 additional bedrooms and 2 full baths, finished lower level with recreation room, hot tub room, billiard room, home theatre, exercise room, 3 car garage, and more!

25 Fieldstone Trail Ladue | $1,499,000 Margie Kubik 314.954.2513 This spectacular 3bedroom, 7-bathroom home in the award-winning Ladue school district is located on an idyllic quiet cul-de-sac with over 6400 sqft of total living space. The two-story great room, large dining room, and a chef’s kitchen with Dacor appliances make the perfect setting for entertaining. A master suite with his and her baths and two walk-in closets provide privacy for relaxing. Additionally, the home includes a convenient elevator, an abundance of storage, a state-of-the-art security system, and a 3+ car garage.

13 Westwood Country Club Westwood | $2,395,000 Holly Bry 314.276.7727 Vacation in your own home at this private 1.63 acre retreat offering outstanding golf course views and enjoy the spectacular renovation featuring: wire scraped bamboo floors, great room with vaulted ceiling, dramatic decorative limestone wall for fireplace, floor to ceiling windows, main level master suite with spa-like master bath and indoor pool, spiral staircase to loft office, finished lower level with 2 additional bedroom suites, elevator to all floors, 2 decks, outdoor kitchen, and hot tub.

PICTURE THIS… PERFECT AT-HOME BARS by lauren rechan

NEVER HAS HAVING A BEAUTIFUL SPOT TO ENJOY A DRINK IN YOUR OWN HOME BEEN MORE IMPORTANT!

While we all spend so much time at home, it is nice to have a place to sit down and gather with family or enjoy a quiet drink alone. Here is some inspiration to help you craft that perfect cocktail nook.

What is more lovely than a Parisian bar?

Take inspiration from one and you can’t go wrong.

These French brass bistro shelves are making their way into home bars and kitchens.

Bar carts are the ultimate little luxury.

Wheel it around to wherever the mood strikes you to cocktail!

I love how this design seamlessly integrates two wine refrigerators and wine storage into beauitful cabinetry.

This home bar has all the elements required for functionality combined with elegance.

An unused closet can be beautifully retrofit into a bar in just about any room.

A backsplash can go a long way in creating the feel of your bar. Have fun with it!

I am absolutely in love with these brass cabinets for a bar area. Combined with mood lighting, they will glow.

The pandemic has taught us to create a life outdoors for entertaining. This is the ultimate backyard bar and cooking setting.

Combine an old armoire or hutch with crystal glasses and decanters for a sophisticated bar.

As in any room in your house, don’t forget about beautiful lighting in your bar, and don’t forget to add dimmers! *ALL IMAGES ABOVE FROM PINTEREST.COM

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This bar cabinet blends perfectly into the rustic surroundings. Take an existing bookshelf and upgrade to a “wow” with a sink and doors.

Find a beautiful cabinet or étagère to house your home bar in a room you love to cozy up in and fill it accordingly.

52 HILLVALE DRIVE, CLAYTON | Offffeered at $1,045,000 | 3,325 SF fifinnished living space

Steeped in the charms of bygone days, the sturdy bones of this circa 1929 residence once echoed with the searing serenades of the original owner, an opera singer. This quaint and charming 4-bedroom residence in Clayton’s established Claverach Park subdivision blends traditional architectural details with an open-plan contemporary design. Ideally positioned in an enviable tree-lined neighborhood, you’re minutes from shopping, dining, schools/universities and Forest Park. Act now to secure this this character-filled home and begin to layer your family’s own precious history.

7310 FORSYTH BLVD #201, UNIVERSITY CITY

213 N. BEMISTON AVENUE, CLAYTON

Gorgeous terrace, stylish kitchen, 2 spacious ensuite bedrooms + 2.5 baths, all wrapped in a lowmaintenance living package! Located just minutes from Clayton’s vibrant business district and an easy stroll to nearby cafes, shops, Forest Park & Washington University, this immaculate condo won’t last long!

Sophisticated townhouse in Old Town Clayton w/ elevator & first floor master suite. Recently renovated with formal & informal living spaces featuring the finest finishes. Open kitchen & family room overlooks expansive backyard with outdoor living space.

Off ffeered at $649,000 | 2086 SF fi fin nished living space

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Off ffeered at $850,000 | 4375 SF fi fin nished living space

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Offering low maintenance Ladue living, this charming home is hard to ignore. At 11 years young, it’s as majestic as neighboring properties, without issues inherent in older homes. Simply move in and enjoy!

Elevate your lifestyle & your spirits with this luxurious 2BR/2.5BA condo on the 10th floor of the iconic Plaza in Clayton. Two sunny balconies invite relaxation. A sleek European-style kitchen boasts a large island, gas cooktop, Sub-Zero refrigerator & Miele appliances.

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Keith R. Manzer 314.609.3155 Named “Face of Luxury Real Estate”

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COMING SOON! 2 Deacon Drive, Huntleigh 5 Beds | 7 Baths | 4.9 Acres

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