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THE PANDEMIC HAS TOUCHED PRETTY MUCH EVERY PERSON on earth in one way or another. My friend in London is affected;

my friend in Manhattan, trapped in his sixth-floor apartment for months, has escaped to rural upstate New York; my friends and family in St. Louis have been affected in numerous ways; I lost a dear colleague and friend to the virus, who was followed three weeks later by his wife. As a historian, I think this time will be a turning point like World War II or 9/11; everything will be marked as before or after (or during).

Fortunately, I’ve been able to continue doing test drives, visiting car dealerships wearing a mask and social distancing. At my other job as an estate planning and probate lawyer, I’ve held meetings by phone rather than in person and at first went to the office just once a week to print out documents and mail them to clients.

In June, when things started opening up a bit, I started having people to my office to sign their documents, which have taken on new importance during a potentially deadly pandemic that can also cause prolonged incapacity. We all wear masks and sit at opposite ends of the conference table. I’ve also executed documents in a client’s back yard and on a card table outside my building. I get great satisfaction from people telling me they feel better having their affairs in order, so in these crazy times, we do whatever necessary to provide a vital service to our clients. I’m now at the office four days a week, but keep my office door closed. I miss the office camaraderie. Unfortunately, the divorce lawyer in my office has also been very busy.

The other thing I’ve noticed in my probate practice is that more people are dying during the pandemic, not necessarily from COVID, but I think the stress and isolation are taking a toll on older people.

Obituaries in the newspaper seem to be up noticeably from pre-pandemic times. It’s sad and scary. Please wear your masks!

Please social distance! Please be careful! If we all work together and have consideration for one another, we can get through this.

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VOLUNTEER POWER ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS by stephanie wallace PRESIDENT DAWN THOMAS

FOR MORE THAN 30 YEARS, the Assistance League of St. Louis has been serving

the unique needs of our community. The nonprofit is operated entirely by volunteers and is one of the largest chapters of the 120 that comprise the national Assistance League organization. “St. Louis is a city where volunteerism and philanthropy are at the forefront, and I feel like our work is a great example of that,” president Dawn Thomas says.

The organization’s mission is possible thanks to the dedication of its almost 500 local volunteers. Known as members, they collectively donated more than 65,000 hours of their personal time in 2019. When COVID-19 hit this spring, the Assistance League knew its services would be more important than ever. To ensure the safety of both its members and the population it serves, the nonprofit had to get creative.

“One thing that makes us unique is how hands-on we usually are,” Thomas notes. “It was difficult not to be in the community interacting with people, but we found ways to work around that.”

Partnering with the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis, the Assistance League was able to provide more than 4,000 books to young readers at a food distribution event. The nonprofit also pivoted its school uniform programs to meet health and safety guidelines. Each year, the uniform initiative provides clothing like pants, shirts, socks, underwear and fleeces. Instead of bringing students to its headquarters for fittings, it delivered forms to schools with instructions for how parents can measure their children. “School may look different this year, but wherever they’re learning, kids will always need clothes,” Thomas says. Schools also received vouchers to distribute to families for new athletic shoes.

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To make its important services possible, the Assistance League operates an upscale resale shop in Creve Coeur called Fantastic Finds. The store is open year round and offers a curated selection of gently used clothing, home goods, books and furniture.

“The shop is beautiful and completely run by volunteers,” Thomas says.

The nonprofit’s other largest fundraiser is its annual Imagine! gala. Due to the pandemic, the gala will be held virtually Nov. 7. Thomas says the event will include an exciting program, and KSDK anchor Rene Knott will even lead a ring-the-bell initiative where people can donate directly to the organization. The evening is themed “A Gift of Love,” a fitting concept considering the unprecedented circumstances of 2020. “We feel the theme is a special reflection of the challenges of this unusual year,” Thomas explains. “We need kindness toward all people more than ever right now, and the Assistance League has been serving the needs of St. Louis, which is an act of love.” &

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At 154 feet tall, ‘The White Tower’—the water tower at North Grand at 20th Street—is a landmark in north city. In fact, it celebrates its 150th anniversary next year. But it hadn’t had much love in decades, and by Labor Day weekend was all mottled brick and peeling white, with a rusty crown. Erected in 1871 and on the National Register of Historic Places, it’s the tallest Corinthian column in the world. Of course, you remember from school the three types of column capitals: Ionic, Doric and Corinthian. (Smart-aleck seventh-grade boys called them ‘Ironic,’ ‘Dork’ and ‘That Corn Thing.’) Actually, the three elaborately ornamented towers still standing in the city were standpipes, which regulated water pressure back in the day. So, they’d have contained scarcely enough water to hose off and cool down that sweaty dude who just mowed your lawn, depending on how big he is. Our most visible tower is adjacent to Compton Hill Reservoir, at I-44 and Grand. At 197 feet tall, this 1898 architectural jewel is also the one easiest to get to, gawk at and geek out around—a 36-acre city park features plenty of green space; a fountain, pond and lily pads; trails, a heck of a climb up to the former reservoir, and an even steeper climb up the spiral staircase inside the tower, when open. Whenever there isn’t a pandemic, the tower has been open one evening on every warmish month, as well as on the full moon. Anyhow, ‘The White Tower,’ which had become much the worse for wear, was repainted for the first time in 40 years on Sept. 12. It’s a glorious sight, but as it stands in the middle of the boulevard, inaccessible—best admired on a drive up to and around it. The rehab was part of the city’s ‘one neighborhood at a time’ beautification approach, Operation Clean Sweep, and the College Hill neighborhood got some much-needed attention from a cadre of volunteers from the neighborhood, churches and area schools, notably Cardinal Ritter and John Burroughs prep schools. Fred Weber Inc. donated labor and materials—including more than 450 gallons of white paint. Over- and undergrowth was removed; several vacant buildings were razed. The third tower? Tallest of the three, it’s a red brick minaret just blocks from ‘The White Tower.’ It’s 200 feet tall, more or less, depending on who you ask. In any event, we should admire them all for as long as we can …

St. Louis is home to three of the last seven such towers remaining in the United States.

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Check … and, mate! Repeat. Again, and again. Chess: The game where the opponents may still sweat profusely, not from physical exertion but severe brain strain. The ancient battle of wits and ‘strategery’ will be on full display next month when the U.S. Chess Championships are to be hosted by our own Saint Louis Chess Club in the CWE … online, as the times demand. Five national tournaments, all to be played in rapid format, will be held Oct. 9 through 29: the U.S. Championship, U.S. Women’s Championship, U.S. Junior Championship, U.S. Girls’ Junior Championship and U.S. Senior Championship. In addition to awarding the five 2020 national titles, the championships also will award a total of $330,900 in prize money. Winners of the U.S. Junior and U.S. Girls’ Junior championships each also will be awarded a $6,000 scholarship. Daily rounds will be streamed at 1 p.m. Central and available to watch at uschesschamps.com as well as on the Saint Louis Chess Club’s YouTube and twitch.tv channels. ( The U.S. Senior Championship was introduced just last year and is open to qualifying chess players —rated by the U.S. Chess Federation—age 50 and older.)

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Some may get spooked at Grant’s Farm by the Clydesdales, just because they’re so darn big.

But that scare isn’t intentional. The popular attraction at 10501 Gravois Road, near Affton, is excited to do it on purpose, however, as it’s going all Halloweeny for the month of October.

This year, it’s welcoming boys and ghouls (sorry; we just couldn’t stop ourselves) for a drive-through opportunity, something that’s never been offered since the attraction opened in 1954. Upon entry, each vehicle with children aboard will receive a bag of candy from the gift shop. There also will be an opportunity to take photos from your vehicle before starting the journey. As guests check in at the parking lot, they’ll be guided through the property to explore the Tiergarten, and they’ll be transported to a medieval castle. They’ll encounter spiders, witches, bats and a few of the farm’s popular and not-so-scary animals, including goats, llamas, cattle and horses. From there, guests will drive through the Deer Park to see the mystical world that lies beyond the shrieking trees. (OMG! Trees that shriek? That was the scariest part of the news release.

Around here, cicadas are to blame for most of that infernal racket overhead.) Visitors will wind through more than eight haunted themes such as Sleepy Hollow, a haunted archeological dig, a spooky campground, a graveyard and an Area 51-inspired alien scene. Guests can upgrade their experience by purchasing family packages that include beverages, snacks and festive goodies for the kids. Reservations are required, and spots are limited.

1) HARVEY ELLIS DESIGNED THE COMPTON HILL WATER TOWER. WHAT OTHER SIGNIFICANT ARCHITECTURE IN THE CITY DID ELLIS DESIGN? 2) WHERE IS THE MOST FAMOUS WATER TOWER, PERHAPS, IN THE GREAT MIDWEST?

LAST ISSUE’S Q&A How many 19th-century water towers remain throughout the Lou? There are three 19th-century water towers in St. Louis. (What? Tell you more? Well, we already did. You couldn’t have missed it. But if you did, that doesn’t make you a bad person.)

For a bit of water-tower history, see this issue’s North St. Louis item.

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Kirkwood Black Daisy Shop: The business name could mislead goth aficionados who crave something occupied while she also creates special doomy and vintage to complement their black eye shadow. Well, there’s nothing sinister here. products from epoxy resin: Alphabet Christine Kleckner’s shop in the Etsy portfolio of merchants does feature a preponderance and numeral sets, for starters. They’re of black, but it’s a bit of heirloom-quality whimsy: Silhouettes akin to the traditional ones a godsend for parents homeschooling parents or grandparents had done of us when we were wee ones. “We had some done when their kids, whether out of choice or we were little,” Kleckner recalls. Your recollection also may be of a simple side view, cut out of necessity. And a number of Kleckner’s black paper and applied to white card stock. Maybe it’s framed and hanging on the bedroom letters and numbers have found their wall. If that’s what comes to mind, you need to raise the visual bar: Kleckner’s work is more way to places like Kirkwood Early Childhood Center, like Silhouettes 2.0. Melding her creativity with computer wizardry, she can which her son Teddy, fashion silhouettes of anyone from toddlers to teens, pets and groups— 4, loves. Teddy’s with a loving emphasis on newlyweds. Just said “I do”? Then, she will! And mom is getting she takes great care to reimagine an image where necessary—softening, ready for Halloween, downplaying or eliminating elements that could detract from an ideal SILHOUETTES regardless of how it outline of the happy couple. (A vintage photo that includes an elaborate veil happens this year. may be particularly challenging. It’s ideal to have several images from which NEVER GO OUT Kleckner is making skeleton playsets from white resin. Scary they’re Kleckner may choose.) “Silhouettes never go out of style,” she says. And OF STYLE ... not—they’re as endearing as characters from a vintage Disney cartoon, they’re passed down. Indeed. Someone in the family will get the one of my and may mix with letters, numbers and other objects in a teacher’s sensory wife done when she was 6, and maybe not after all that long, either. We’ve bin or on a light table. And she’s making Christmas ornaments from resin, been on Medicare awhile. While silhouettes may be much of the stock in too: Gingerbread men and snowmen. That is, when she’s not lettering, trade of the Black Daisy Shop, this Kirkwood mom stays plenty busy numbering or creating resin bookmarks adorned with the reader’s name. otherwise in her special workspace watched over by the imposing photo of a Texas longhorn. But no, she didn’t go to college in Austin or anywhere else in the Lone Meanwhile, there’s ‘two silhouettes on the shade’ … or something like that. This is, after all, a Star State. “Ha, no! I went to Mizzou,” she exclaims. “The longhorn is just my buddy who keeps family magazine. Visit etsy.com/shop/blackdaisyshop. me company while I’m working.” For the time being, her daughter Josie, 11 months, keeps her

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Her Ladue shop, which sells olives, olive oils, wine and other specialty products, has been offering fresh produce as well. “People started telling me that they were cooking at home more, and if I would just start carrying vegetables, it would save them a trip to PHOTO COURTESY OF AN OLIVE OVATION the grocery store,” Prey says. “I found a wholesale produce distributor, placed an order for a relatively small amount and sold out in one day. I started with items like spring salad greens, tomatoes and cucumbers, all of which proved popular.”

To mix things up a bit, she also has stocked unusual products like golden beets, celery root, Chinese broccoli, watermelon radishes and pattypan squash. So far, everything has sold well, including local items like heirloom tomatoes and peppers from a Chesterfield farm. Prey says pasta also has increased in popularity because of its shelf life, so she is carrying more of it. “Some people are buying 6 to 8 pounds at a time,” she says. “They want to make fewer trips out, and that means choosing foods that won’t spoil.”

Customers can place an order online, then pick up their items on Fridays or have them shipped. There’s room for a few socially distanced individuals inside the store, or they can wait curbside. “My staff and I have kept very busy, packaging orders and sending them out,” Prey says. “The produce program really has carried us through.”

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David Choi, chef and owner of the Korean-Mexican fast casual restaurant group, responded to the pandemic by offering grocery items and meal kits for those cooking at home. Customers can choose from items like tortillas, eggs and dairy products for pickup or delivery, and three meal kits are available: Gogi Bowl, Burrito Meal and Taco Meal, each serving up to four. Meats like chicken and beef are marinated in Seoul Taco’s sauces, and other Asian specialty items are on offer as well.

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Choi says the grocery items proved popular this past spring, and the meal kits also were well received.

“They were an easy way to diversify our menu offerings while simplifying ordering for customers,” he notes. “It’s important to be creative and face the realities of COVID-19 by finding new ways to pivot sustainably. Carryout and delivery will remain a focus for us in the years to come.”

He adds that he and his team are continuously reevaluating and adapting to the pandemic situation. “This isn’t a short-term thing; it’s a defining moment for a lot of small business owners,” he says. “They might have to take a hit and reinvest in their employees, but it will pay dividends. I’ve been in the restaurant industry for 10 years, and I think that is a success in itself.”

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Local, women-owned businesses Joya, Golden Gems and 2Lu have launched the She Votes campaign.

The initiative provides resources and information about the voting process throughout the St. Louis area to empower women to be heard at the polls. The founders also have designed a capsule collection of She Votes merchandise, including T-shirts, hats, jewelry, pennants and bumper stickers.

chiteck Music lovers will want to tune into Classic 107.3 Thursday evenings and Tuesday afternoons. The station is broadcasting previously recorded Chamber Music Society of St. Louis concerts through Oct. 6

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is providing a place for students to study while their parents work. While the staff won’t be teaching students, they will be available to offer computer assistance. The program also provides daily lunches and ice time to the students.

Congrats to Tamara Keefe, owner of Clementine’s Naughty and Nice Creamery! She’s been accepted into the James Beard Foundation Women’s Entrepreneurial Leadership Program. It provides courses in entrepreneurship and leadership to 20 women from across the country.

SOMETHING’S ON THE WAY AT THE SAINT LOUIS ZOO! Utamu, an 18-year-old chimpanzee in the zoo’s Jungle of the Apes, is due to give birth this fall.

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it, too? COVID camaraderie is gone. People seem cranky. There seem to be lots of angry people running around. Or maybe I am the only angry person causing the terror. So, in this week’s column I am going to share happy stories and try to get that frown to turn upside down. (I know I am really close to the line of “sweetie, life can’t be that bad, smile!”

But please don’t stop reading yet or try to slap me if you see me in person.)

I’ve purposely avoided talking about my grandson because I don’t want to make people jealous. He is so smart and beautiful at 11 months old that I can’t imagine what he will be like when he is 1. Robbie started day care, and the nice caregivers share pictures throughout the day of what little Robbie is doing. Most are just cute kid stuff, but two stopped me cold. In the first, Robbie is sitting in a highchair

finger painting, but the look on his face is one of utter disgust. Now, Robbie has been giving me the side-eye since he was 3 months old. He prefers his Hampa over me, but I pretend I don’t notice. This picture, though, is an exact replica of the face I make when I am annoyed. His face says he does not want to finger paint, he wants to play with real tools, maybe some live electricity. In the second picture, it looks like a little girl in front of him has something he wants. When I look closer at Robbie’s hand … why, that’s an unnatural way to hold your finger unless you are flipping someone off. OMG, what have I done to my poor sweet Robbie! Fitzy (me) is going to need to go back to Grandma Camp!

My husband Carey hurt his back (that’s not the heart-warming part). One of our dogs, Stella, wants to kill me because she loves Carey so much. Carey has been unable to walk her regularly, so our sweet ▶ Contact Patty at phannum@townandstyle.com. ◀

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neighbor girls have been stepping in. Their mom won’t let them take any money for this kindness.

But why can’t I walk the dog? I am perfectly capable of doing it, but remember, this dog wants me dead.

When did I start talking to the neighbors? When they got chickens! Yes, they have chickens that Robbie likes to go over and pet. I am scared of all animals except dogs, but these chickens are downright adorable. I hope their mom will let us start slipping them some cash, or I know I will want to make some grand gesture and buy them a pony.

And on a sadder note, actor, writer and director Chadwick Boseman died. He was far too young but oh so very wise when he said “You have to cherish things in a different way when you know the clock is ticking, you are under pressure.”

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Congratulations are in order for Heather Essig of Visitation’s upper school science faculty. She was named Missouri’s 2020 Outstanding Biology Teacher by the National Association of Biology Teachers. The award is based on ability, experience, community cooperation and student-teacher relationships. Essig leads college-credit courses in biology, anatomy, physiology and genetics.

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It was a clean sweep for the school’s fourth-, fifth- and sixth-grade teams at the 2020 National Geography Challenge.

In the competition, scores of the top 10 students are combined to determine team scores. Rossman students Aniket Bhogaraju, John DeLuca and Avi Patel tied for first place in the fourth-grade category; Connor Blake scored highest in the fifth-grade category; and Shil Penilla was tops in the sixth-grade category. The competition is sponsored by the National Council for Geographic Education and tests general knowledge of geography, map skills, charts, graphs and reading comprehension.

Senior Sri Jaladi recently pulled off a perfect score, 36, on the ACT college admissions and placement exam—an accomplishment achieved by only two-tenths of 1% of students. He is still deciding on a college but hopes to study economics and political science and eventually enter politics. Jaladi also plays varsity tennis and is active in the school’s cybersecurity and advocacy clubs.

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Senior DemBari Taneh took home top honors at the 10th Annual St. Louis Teen Talent Competition. He performed a self-choreographed hip-hop routine called ‘Got It Good’ and took home an $8,000 scholarship sponsored by Ameren Corporate Charitable Trust. Contestants’ performances were filmed separately at The Fabulous Fox Theatre, and the awards event was broadcast on Nine Network.

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Students kicked off the school year with a special socially distanced service project. Eighty-five incoming freshmen and faculty members spent a day cleaning the grounds and gravesites at the historically African-American Father Dickson Cemetery in Crestwood. They also learned about the property’s past and its historical significance from president Ernest Jordan.

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Jim Wipke has been named a Superintendent to Watch by the National School Public Relations Association. Each year, the organization recognizes up to 25 professionals from across the country for their dynamic leadership and innovative communication efforts. Wipke is in his second year as head of the school district.

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He is committed to fostering the intellectual, emotional and creative growth of young children and encouraging their development as leaders of the next generation.

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Nikki Doughty CITY ACADEMY

With more than 15 years of experience, Nikki Doughty is committed to education equity. In addition to her role at City Academy, she serves in leadership roles for Hawthorn Leadership School for Girls and Independent Schools Association of the Central States, among others. Nikki holds master’s degrees from Webster University and Washington University, where she received the Distinguished Alumni Award in 2017.

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Dan Hildebrand holds a bachelor’s degree in history and a master’s degree in teaching from the University of Chicago, where he was a collegiate All-American, winner of the Amos Alonzo Stagg Medal and recipient of the Barnard Prize in American History. He has more than 30 years of experience as an educator, coach and administrator.

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Andy Abbott, now in his 20th year at JBS and 12th as head of school, is committed to Burroughs’ founding principles: a strong liberal arts and STEM education that encourages a life of service and concern for the environment.

Recognized for his leadership surrounding issues of diversity, equality and inclusivity, Abbott promotes an atmosphere of understanding, trust, respect and accomplishment.

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As a 1979 LOGOS graduate and educator for more than 30 years, Kathy Fenger, Ph.D., creates an accepting and compassionate school culture that supports students’ educational, social and emotional needs. Through her leadership, LOGOS offers academic and therapeutic services to help adolescents fulfill their dreams for a successful future.

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Michael F. Baber

VILLA DUCHESNE AND OAK HILL SCHOOL Michael F. Baber has been a leader in Sacred Heart network schools for more than 20 years. Joining Villa Duchesne and Oak Hill in 2016, he led the implementation of our innovative Family Individualized Tuition to expand access to Sacred Heart education in St. Louis. His work to advance the mission has grown enrollment and fundraising to enrich our student experience.

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▶ ST. LOUIS COUNTY PUBLIC LIBRARY: At the newly launched tutor.com, anyone with a valid library card can access tutoring, homework help and test prep assistance. Live tutors are available for consultation from 10 a.m to 10 p.m. every day, and students can upload assignments for feedback 24/7.

▶ SAINT LOUIS ZOO: If you have an animal lover in the family, the zoo’s website is the perfect place for a study break. Stlzootube offers videos about different species, zoo life, conservation, and, yes, baby animals. They range in length from about a minute to around an hour, making it a great option for all ages.

▶ VARSITY TUTORS: Along with one-on-one tutoring and small group classes, the company has free options including large group online courses in a variety of subjects and the Learning Lab, which offers adaptive assessments, personalized learning plans and practice tools. ▶ KIRKWOOD PUBLIC LIBRARY: In addition to free ebooks, videos and read-alongs related to children’s literature, the library offers learning resources for elementary, middle and high school students.

▶ PBS KIDS: You can count on PBS to deliver fun, engaging content that’s also educational. Your kiddo can take a break with games and videos featuring some of their favorite books and shows like Clifford the Big Red Dog , Arthur and Pinkalicious . ▶ WIDE OPEN SCHOOL: This site was designed to support distance learning with enriching activities across a variety of subjects for students in preschool through grade 12. Kids can take a virtual field trip, learn about cultures around the world, solve math puzzles and more. It also includes suggestions for screen breaks and offline activities. &

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PARENT TRAP WHY DOGS ARE A KID’S BEST FRIEND by dr. tim jordan IN THIS TIME FILLED WITH UNCERTAINTY, fear and disconnection, one ray of hope for many kids is their dog. Dogs wear many hats: friend, confidant, a listening ear and protector.

And they bring hope and a sense of constancy as well.

There have been very few points in my life when I didn’t own a dog. I know from experience that during these turbulent times, pets can make all the difference in the world for kids.

I vividly remember my childhood dog Clancy being there for me. When things weren’t great in my house, I’d get on my bike and ride to some nearby woods and walk the trails with him at my side. If none of my friends were outside to play with, I’d play with him. I was devastated when my family gave him up when I went off to college because my sisters couldn’t take care of him.

There are far too many kids and teens who feel like there is no one there for them. They may have distracted or absent parents or friends they don’t trust with their secrets. Kids can sense when their parents are stressed out by worries about COVID, finances and the future. They may feel they can’t share

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their own worries and hurts because their parents already have more than enough on their plates. Fortunately, many of them do have a pet they can confide in.

Kids often turn to their dogs to share their hurts, frustrations and fears because dogs listen, don’t judge and love them unconditionally. Look how calm and happy the two campers look in the photo with Buddy, my current dog. A loving pet like Buddy can give kids hope that they can be seen, heard, understood and loved.

I am so grateful that Buddy can sit on the couch with girls in my counseling practice, and in circles with girls at my weekend retreats, summer camps and in schools. He is beloved by all who meet him. He is for sure a beacon of love and hope for so many. & TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. CHECK OUT HIS NEW ONLINE COURSE, PARENTING GIRLS: THE CHALLENGES GIRLS FACE TODAY WITH THEIR FEELINGS AND FRIENDS AND WHAT THEY NEED, AT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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by julia m. johnson WHEN TIMES ARE UNCERTAIN , residents at The Gatesworth retirement

community can rest assured that their practical and personal needs will be cared for at every turn. And there is always plenty of fun afoot to help them stay active and engaged, according to Donna Meyer, assistant director of resident programs.

One of the staff’s main goals is to keep seniors personally connected while staying socially distant, Meyer explains. “Planning safe activities during the pandemic has been challenging, but we have approached it with creativity and adaptability,” she says. “We encourage residents to take advantage of the community’s incredible outdoor spaces and walking paths, and there are plenty of carefully planned social gatherings to enjoy.”

The fitness center helps residents stay physically active, and there are endless opportunities for socially distanced classes, discussion groups, book clubs, sing-alongs and Bible study sessions. Meyer says her team also focuses on helping seniors take advantage of technology to preserve their connections with family and friends. Even something as simple as ice cream treats shared with a neighbor can keep spirits buoyed, she notes. New movie channels have been added for residents, and there are plenty of opportunities to enjoy chef Brian Hardy’s renowned cuisine.

Live entertainment is always on the agenda at The Gatesworth, with a variety of performers gracing its courtyards and pavilion each Wednesday and Saturday evening when weather permits. This past summer, residents enjoyed performances from acts like the Kevin Mitchell 4 band, keyboardist Daniel Smith, violinist Ross Christopher, the Red and Black Brass Band, and Elsie Parker & the Poor People of Paris.

RESIDENTS AT AN OUTDOOR CONCERT BY THE KEVIN MITCHELL 4

Meyer adds that each apartment features a patio or balcony so residents can enjoy the outdoor music and camaraderie as much as they like. Resident Jerry Calcaterra says he has felt especially fortunate to live on the ground floor near the community’s landscaped walkways and lovely fountain courtyard. “We get to see people strolling by and can go to our patio door to catch up while distancing, of course,” he notes.

Resident Ken Alexander says Gatesworth staff members have been standouts during a difficult situation. “I admire how creative they have been at keeping our activities going and our spirits up,” he says. “We have a current events program via Zoom that is wonderful. Employee parades have been great fun, and life-sized cutouts of famous people add enjoyment. Someone secretly moves them around to different places, and there is an unexpected element of humor each time you turn a corner and find one. Governor Andrew Cuomo has been a frequent visitor.”

According to Meyer, The Gatesworth has struck a fine SE NIO R LIV ING balance between observing safety precautions and maintaining a positive atmosphere during challenging times. “We are all about community here,” she notes. “Our team has been working hard to protect residents and come up with safe, creative ways for them to have fun.” & SPECIA L SECTIO N

THE GATESWORTH RETIREMENT COMMUNITY AT ONE MCKNIGHT PLACE OFFERS EXCEPTIONAL AMENITIES, SERVICES AND PROGRAMS TO HELP RESIDENTS ENJOY LIFE. PICTURED ON THE COVER: RESIDENT BETTE MILLER ENJOYS MUSIC BY THE KEVIN MITCHELL 4. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.993.0111 OR VISIT THEGATESWORTH.COM. COVER PROVIDED BY THE GATESWORTH | COVER PHOTO BY GREGG GOLDMAN PHOTOGRAPHY

WE ARE THE GATESWORTH FAMILY. We are grateful for our residents and their words of wisdom, and we celebrate their resilience and positive outlook.

While life looks a little different right now, the spirit of our community is thriving, and our commitment to exceptional and personalized service remains steadfast.

We invite you to learn what life at The Gatesworth is all about.

Now welcoming new residents.

We’d love to get to know you. Call or visit us online.

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We love walking the many paths throughout the courtyards looking for a new brood of ducklings.”

— Celia & Salvatore, Residents

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by stephanie wallace Social distancing can make the rest of the world feel a little, well, distant. This is especially true for those most vulnerable to COVID-19.

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get creative with video calls Let’s face it, a Zoom or FaceTime call isn’t always the most engaging activity—especially if you’re a kid.

Next time you video chat with the grandkids, mix things up with a fun activity that you both can enjoy.

• Read a story. Thanks to ebooks, a vast library of stories and novels suitable for all ages is right at your fingertips. Help little ones hone their literacy skills by alternating reading to one another. If you grandkids are older, pick a novel to read offline and then discuss it together.

• Do a craft. If you have a creative hobby, share it with your grandkids. Whether it’s knitting or painting, provide a demonstration and teach them to do it themselves. If you’re not artistically inclined, look online for simple craft tutorials that you can work through together.

• Cook something. Set up your phone, tablet or computer in the kitchen, and teach the kids how to make a simple recipe. Rice Krispie treats or no-bake cookies are great options for beginners, and you can up the difficulty depending on your grandchildren’s culinary skills—or you own!

• Play games. You can keep it simple with games like I spy, 20 questions or charades, or use websites and apps to play checkers, chess and board games virtually.

• Use Caribu. If you don’t have the resources to organize activities yourself, this video call app comes with a library of digital children's books, coloring activities and games, offering everything you need for a virtual playdate with the grandkids.

Having trouble finding the right time to connect? The Marco Polo app makes navigating busy schedules easier. Unlike most video apps, you don’t have to be live with the other person. Watch and respond when it works for you, or chat in real time.

e-learning opportunities There are tons of resources online to spark your intellectual and creative side—almost too many.

Sifting through thousands of podcasts and millions of YouTube videos to find what interests you can be a little daunting. Here are three sites that curate content, so you can get to learning quicker.

• Open Culture: This site brings together free, high-quality cultural and educational media, including online courses, lectures, movies, audio books and ebooks. It even has resources for learning more than 40 languages.

• Academic Earth: From MIT to UC Berkeley, you can find online courses from some of the world’s top universities on this site. Explore the world of academia for free, and check out curated playlists on topics like food and drink, the nature of evil and financial crises.

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INDEPENDENT LIVING “We’re committed to building the future of senior living,” said Friendship FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE HAS BUILT THE FUTURE OF SENIOR LIVING Village President and CEO Terry Walsh. “Our residents get access to the As today’s seniors have more options for retirement living than ever before, latest wellness programs and technology available one of the most important factors to consider when “We’re committed to building in our area.” looking for “the right fit” is future care.

Friendship Village is also fortunate to have medical The only providers of the Life Care program in the future of senior living” experts and a respected infection preventionist on St. Louis, the Friendship Village communities (with staff—working diligently to help keep residents and staff safe. locations in Chesterfield and Sunset Hills) guarantee residents’ access to all “We appreciate the staff’s efforts to make things fun, entertaining and levels of health care—all on one campus—at a predictable cost for life. engaging for us, even through COVID. We’re better In fact, even in the midst of COVID-19, over 150 off here,” said Bob Bram, Friendship Village Sunset new residents have moved in at both campuses.

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With a visit to either campus, seniors will quickly find that Friendship Village has been hard at work Schedule a private tour today by calling updating and adding new apartments, worship 636-224-4020 or visit FriendshipVillageSTL.com and activity spaces, and even building entirely to learn more. new wings for their leading-edge assisted living, memory care and skilled nursing programs.

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RESIDENT FAY WEBER AT HER SEWING MACHINE

St. Louis seniors have seen it all, in good times and bad, and they have much to offer in terms of wisdom and experience. They have lived through world conflicts, economic downturns, social upheaval and other tough challenges. Now, during the COVID-19 pandemic, some are putting their talents to work for the good of others.

A group of about 15 residents at the Friendship Village retirement community in Sunset Hills dusted off their sewing machines this summer to create 1,000 free cloth masks for residents, staff members and their families. Community life services director Bobbie Liverar says several women were at their machines for days sewing the colorful masks. “Some of the residents donated material and elastic, and our creative arts studio provided supplies as well,” she explains. “We had a small army of women at their machines— our own Rosie the Riveter team.”

Liverar says the women enjoyed the effort and felt energized to be making a contribution during a difficult time. “Our residents have been awesome about banding together during the pandemic,” she notes. “Helping others is very important to them.” She says some of the women spent several hours sewing each day, and one even brought out a beautiful antique Singer machine that hadn’t seen the light of day in a while. “Even though some of them had given up sewing years ago, they really felt motivated to use their skills again,” Liverar says.

Fay Weber, one of the mask makers, says the effort was personally rewarding. “I like it when someone says they need something done,” she notes. “It’s nice to feel wanted and needed.” Weber sewed about 100 of the masks and says each one took around 20 minutes to complete.

The community’s residents have been connecting and lifting spirits in other ways as well. Liverar says they have sent cards and letters to troops deployed overseas, and they recently partnered with a local 8th grade class to exchange correspondence about personal experiences.

“Residents also have been very aware of the emotional needs of their neighbors here at home,” she adds. “Many have made a point to reach out to others, especially those who are having a difficult time. They have been checking in on each other via phone and video, and it’s been inspiring to watch. I love that our seniors have become tech-savvy and mastered the Zoom call so they can brighten the lives of others.”

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There are many ways seniors can share their knowledge and talents via videoconference during a crisis like COVID-19. If your local school or nonprofit doesn’t yet have a program to partner with retirees, consider asking them to establish one. Here are some Zoom-friendly activities that work well in a socially distanced world.

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Each fall, proceeds from the Glennon Card fundraising program support a different initiative benefiting young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. Whether it’s through new diagnostic technology, surgical advancements or other innovations, the goal is to provide kids with the latest in compassionate care. This year, the program supports the outfitting of a Milk Lab to help babies get the greatest possible benefit from breast milk and formula.

BY J U L I A M . J O H N S O N

Clinical dietitian Rita Chrivia says staff members at the hospital’s Dana Brown Neonatal Intensive Care Unit are excited about the new lab because of its potential to help preterm infants. “Currently, most feedings are prepared by a nurse at the mother’s bedside,” she explains. “Because premature babies are born before they have a chance to develop fully, it’s especially important for them to receive proper nutrients.” The Milk Lab will be staffed by technicians who can analyze pumped breast milk and fortify it with nutrients when needed. Chrivia says the lab’s state-of-the-art technology will save nurses a great deal of time and effort so they can serve patients in other ways.

She adds that all babies have unique needs, and the Milk Lab will allow Glennon staff to optimize their nutrition in new ways. There will be special equipment like centrifuges to separate out the components of milk for infants who can’t tolerate high fat content.

“We also hope to add a management system that tracks each mother’s milk inventory and warns the staff if it is running low,” Chrivia says. “Feedings will be barcoded so nurses know when the milk is fortified and ready to use.”

She notes that in some respects, a mother’s breast milk is specially designed by her body for her baby.

“The milk contains antibodies appropriate for whatever she has been exposed to, and that protection is passed to her child,” she says. “It really is a living fluid.

Colostrum-rich milk from a mother who has just given birth is a deep yellow color because of the carotenoids it contains. We call it ‘liquid gold’ because it is so important for the infant’s early development and immunity.”

According to Chrivia, the Milk Lab will benefit other Glennon babies as well, not just premature ones. And in cases where mothers are unable to breastfeed, the lab will provide donor milk or formula. “Preterm infants seem to be getting smaller and sicker, but because of medical advancements, they also are surviving in many situations where they didn’t used to,” she says. “Feedings may have become more complicated, but it’s gratifying to know that we can help these babies more than ever before. Once our Glennon Card funding is in place, we can start construction of the Milk Lab, a very exciting development. One of our doctors referred to it as a ‘nutrition pharmacy’ for babies, and it really is.” &

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OFF the cuff w/claiborne dan mclaughlin

There aren’ t many St . Louisans who don’ t know Dan McLaughlin, and if they don’ t recognize him at first sight , they cer tainly will at first listen. He’s been the “ Voice of the Cardinals” for more than 20 years, connecting fans with the team whether they ’re playing downtown or across the countr y. The veteran broadcaster shares what the pandemic has taught him, his personal st yle and more.

THERE WA SN’ T BA SEBALL FOR A WHILE THIS YE AR. WHEN WA S THE L A ST TIME YOU HAD THAT MUCH FREE TIME? Oh man, not since I was 10 years old.

WHO HELPED YOU GE T THROUGH IT ? It was a tough time for ever yone. I relied on my wife to just get me through the day. I’m a guy who needs to be busy, and I like to work . She was the one person I could count on being available to talk .

WHAT LESSONS HAVE YOU TAKEN AWAY FROM THE PANDEMIC ? I’ ve appreciated being home and rediscovering what family time is all about . I travel for a living. Spending the summer with my kids is something I haven’ t had time to do for more than two decades. Even having dinner with my family is something I don’ t get to do often.

SPE AKING OF DINNER, DID YOU COOK , OR WERE YOU RELYING ON SOMEONE EL SE? I can’ t cook . My family definitely relied on someone else. They wouldn’ t want any par t of my cooking, and I don’ t blame them.

BEST ADVICE YOU’ VE EVER RECEIVED, AND WHAT WOULD YOU TELL AN A SPIRING BROADCA STER? Once when I was doing a radio game, Jack Buck tore up my notes, pointed at the field and said, “ You are the eyes, ears and presence for those who can’ t be here. Call what you see, kid.” Then he walked out of the booth and left me alone behind the mic. It was a great piece of advice. You need to remember not to get wrapped up in the notes. Just call what you see.

YOU TRAVEL A LOT. DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE CIT Y ? Chicago.

WHAT ’S A MUST FOR YOU WHEN TRAVELING? Finding a great restaurant .

BEST PL ACE TO E AT ON THE ROAD. Joe’s in Chicago.

IF YOU WEREN’ T BROADCA STING WITH THE CARDINAL S, WHAT WOULD YOU BE DOING? I would be a teacher. I don’ t know if I would be good at it , but I would love it . I also would probably coach baseball.

WE CAN SEE YOU DRESS WELL , AT LE A ST FROM THE WAIST UP. WHO’S YOUR FA SHION CONSULTANT ?

You’re talking to him. I tr y to watch how people dress and take mental notes. I don’ t know if my st yle is any good, but I tr y my best .

OKAY, IT ’S GAME SEVEN OF THE WORLD SERIES. WHERE DO YOU SHOP FOR AN OUTFIT ? On the road, there are specific places I like to go to. I have my favorites in New York , Pittsburgh and San Francisco.

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Dr. Brigid Holloran-Schwartz, a SLUCare OB/GYN and minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon, says annual exams with pap smears at recommended intervals are extremely effective at diagnosing precancerous changes of the cervix, significantly reducing risks for cervical cancer.

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Last year, Assistance League of St. Louis volunteers impacted the lives of more than 34,100 children and adults in the St. Louis area, empowering and providing opportunity to the most vulnerable in our community.

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Purses for Pooches is going virtual! Check out our inventory of high-end designer purses and other raffle items by visiting hsmo.org/purses where you can also purchase raffle tickets in advance. Then join us 7 p.m., Thursday, Oct. 1, on Facebook Live for our annual raffle drawing and Fund-A-Service Auction. All proceeds benefit the Humane Society of Missouri’s Animal Cruelty Fund.

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FROM THE RUNWAYFall

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Goodbye, summer. Hello, fall. Needless to say, we’ve been through an unusual time, dealing with the pandemic. What was shown on the runway may be challenging to wear now (i.e. ball gowns to gala events). My advice? Adapt the trends that make you feel good. Wear whatever puts a smile on your face and lifts your spirits! There’s no need for an excuse to dress up … even to go to the grocery store.

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Shopping for masks has taken on a whole new experience. We don’t have to settle for the traditional blue or white—now designers

RUNGOLEE

have added this new accessory to their collections. Casual or dressy, fun or whimsical, we have a lot of choices to express ourselves while staying safe. Here are examples of masks from two local designers, Anjali Kamra (Rungolee, rungolee.com) and Dianne Isbell (Hats by Dianne, hatsbydianne@gmail.com).

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1 THE SHACKET

Your friends and colleagues will be green with envy when you make an appearance on a Zoom call wearing this piece. The “shirt jacket” gives a polished look for business casual, especially when worn with denim.

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COLORFUL LEATHER

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The new “it” bag is soft and tote-like, so we can carry the usual contents, plus our masks, hand sanitizers and disinfectant wipes. Colorful leather makes an appearance in any form, especially in a coat or jacket.

3 BOLD JEWELRY

Jazz up your winter outfit with chunky necklaces, pearls, hoop earrings, link chains, charm bracelets and colored gems. Stack up bracelets and necklaces—the more, the merrier. Accessories add a sparkle and pizzazz to basic tops for your virtual appearances.

4 LACE

Another great top option for virtual meetings, crochet lace brings a new look for the blouse and pant. The fabric is soft and comfortable, a key ingredient for those who work from home.

Kathryn Coulson, MD RHEUMATOLOGIST

For more information, call: 314.492.4020 Dr. Kathryn Coulson provides general rheumatology services. She helps her patients manage chronic conditions like rheumatoid arthritis, psoriatic arthritis, lupus, and other diagnoses. Dr. Coulson always takes the time to make sure she

5 CAPES, FRINGE AND MARIGOLD

Fringe is happening everywhere, and it’s extra long and appropriate for any occasion. Capes and ponchos are warm and cozy, especially in the new fall color of marigold.

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Pop on this shearling jacket for comfort and color and to brighten your day. You’ll be warm all winter, even when running errands.

has a complete understanding of her patients’ concerns and clearly explains testing and possible treatment plans.

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Blouses command attention and make a big statement at the collar and sleeves. This combination is soft, ladylike and feminine.

You’ll definitely be noticed at your virtual event!

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The skirt suit works great together and as separate pieces. Pair a pleated skirt with a chunky sweater or the jacket with your favorite jeans for a more casual look.

NOW ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS. Visit bjcmedicalgroup.org for more information on Kathryn Coulson, MD, and what we are doing to keep you safe during your visit.

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Here are some questions you will want to ask your attorney: • How long have you been doing family law?

• Do you have experience with the particular issues in my case?

• What do you think I should do about mine/my spouse’s drinking/drug/mental health issues as far as documentation?

• What should I do to protect myself?

• How does an initial deposit (also referred to as a retainer) work- meaning will that cover all of the work and if not, how often will I have to replenish that?

• Do you think my case is a 50/50 custody case and if not, why not?

• What should I be looking out for?

• Do you think my case is a maintenance (also referred to as alimony case) and if not, why not?

• Are you familiar with the judges in my jurisdiction?

• Will I have to pay my spouse’s attorneys’ fees?

• Are you familiar with the other family law attorneys in my jurisdiction?

• Will they have to pay mine?

• What is your philosophy about going to trial or settling a case?

• Should I get a restraining order?

• Have you tried a lot of cases?

• What hours do you work and how are you available to me (email, phone, cell phone)?

• What if I have a question or an emergency that does not occur 8am to 5pm on a weekday?

• Will you be working on this matter yourself or will you be supervising an associate or other attorney?

• Can I move out of the house now?

• Is your initial meeting free of charge and if not, how much is it and for how long?

List out your concerns about the future and have your divorce attorney address them. In the end, you should have someone represent you that you are comfortable with and makes you feel confident in their ability to answer your questions.

• If I want a less expensive attorney to work on my matter and just have you supervise, is that an option?

• Do you have a paralegal and if so, how do you use that person?

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JOINT & BONE HEALTH F6 COVER STORY – SLUCare Physician Group F7 HEALTH – Spotlight on Suicide Prevention F8 Keep Moving

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F10 APRONOMICS – Meggie Mobley of Bijoux Handcrafted Chocolates F12 HAPPY HOUR

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FALL DESIGN GUIDE F14 FEATURED PROPERTY – 333 Dickson Street, Kirkwood F16 STYLE INSIDE F20 HOMEWORK F22 FROM THE BLOG OF … SCOUT & NIMBLE F28 SOLD!

ORTHOPEDIC SURGEON DR. RANDALL OTTO PRACTICES AT THE SLUCARE ORTHOPEDICS OFFICE AT SSM HEALTH ST. CLARE HOSPITAL IN FENTON. THE PRACTICE IS LOCATED IN THE ST. FRANCIS BUILDING AT 1011 BOWLES AVE., STE. 400. PROVIDES COMPREHENSIVE SERVICES FOR PATIENTS WITH SHOULDER AND ELBOW CONDITIONS. PICTURED ON THE COVER: DR. OTTO WORKS WITH A PATIENT. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.977.4440 OR VISIT SLUCARE.EDU/ORTHOPEDIC-SURGERY. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP

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COVER STORY

JOINT EFFORT SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson YOU PROBABLY DON’T THINK MUCH about your shoulder or elbow joints as you go about your day. But when they start to hurt, it quickly becomes obvious how important they are to your physical health and daily functioning. Dr. Randall Otto, a SLUCare orthopedic surgeon at SSM Health St. Clare Hospital, says there are a number of reasons a patient may need shoulder or elbow treatment, and his practice is equipped to provide a complete cycle of care.

“We can help patients of almost any age who have problems with these joints,” he explains. “They might be suffering from injuries, arthritis, wear and tear or other conditions.” Shoulder replacements, rotator cuff repairs and revisions of previous surgeries are among the most common procedures Otto performs. (The rotator cuff is a group of muscles and tendons that keep your upper arm bone seated in your shoulder socket.) Otto practices in the newly renovated SLUCare Orthopedics office at the St. Francis Building on the St. Clare campus. He says the facility is uniquely set up for state-of-the-art care.

One of the first questions he asks a shoulder or elbow patient is, “What is your biggest concern, pain or function?” Many people state that both are an issue, and many experience significant nighttime discomfort that interrupts their sleep. Sometimes, joint problems can be managed with a combination of medication, cortisone injections, exercise or physical therapy, but at other times surgery is needed to relieve symptoms.

Some joint conditions progress rapidly, and others take years to reach the point where treatment is necessary.

Otto says patients with serious shoulder pain often require surgery to replace diseased bone with artificial implants and repair damaged joint tissue. Depending on the person’s needs, surgeons can perform a couple of different types of shoulder replacements. “When

tissues have broken down and other types of therapy haven’t worked, we often can use metal or plastic implants to repair the joint,” he notes. “We also can perform arthroscopic surgery in cases of injury or other problems.”

Patient Jim H. says severe pain from advanced arthritis spurred him to schedule double shoulder replacement surgeries with Dr. Otto. The procedures were performed a few months apart so the patient would have one stronger shoulder to use while the other was healing.

Jim says the decision to undergo the procedures changed his life for the better, and the experience taught him the importance of working with a compassionate, DR. OTTO EXPLAINS A PROCEDURE. knowledgeable surgeon. “Before bulb or working on home projects. “I highly recommend my operations, the pain was so bad that I couldn’t lift Dr. Otto,” he says. “He is an asset to St. Louis.” either of my arms higher than shoulder level,” he says.

Otto says shoulder replacement surgery is very “I had tried conservative management, but that didn’t manageable for patients, but it does require commitment work well for me, so I consulted with Dr. Otto. I was and adherence to some important guidelines. Most impressed with his knowledge and personality as soon people can return home the day after the procedure, as I met him. I also liked the way he carefully explained and younger adults sometimes can go home the how he would perform my procedures, and the fact same day. that I could do post-surgery rehabilitation exercises at “First, recovering patients undergo a six-week period home. That was very convenient for me.” of rest so the bone and soft tissue can heal,” he notes.

Several months after his second surgery, Jim was “During that time, they need to avoid lifting most back to bowling, swimming and swinging a golf club objects and actively raising their arms. At six weeks and says he now feels like there is nothing he can’t do. out, they can do some light activities and stretching but He appreciates the ability to perform simple tasks that still need to stay away from lifting. By three months, weren’t possible before, like changing an overhead light the surgical site should be healed, and the patient can increase activity levels incrementally while rebuilding strength and range of motion. And at six months or more, the person can return to most vigorous activities.”

Otto adds that most patients don’t require formal physical therapy in recovery; he coaches them about what exercises to do and when.

He says the practice’s proven therapies bring a high level of patient satisfaction and peace of mind. “Normal function means different things to different people,” he explains. “For some, it means being able to do daily activities like dressing, cooking and bathing, and for others it means playing active sports. As a physician, you have to look at each patient individually, find out what limitations the condition is causing, perform diagnostics and design an individualized plan to return the person to a positive quality of life.” & ORTHOPEDIC SURGEON DR. RANDALL OTTO PRACTICES AT THE SLUCARE ORTHOPEDICS OFFICE AT SSM HEALTH ST. CLARE HOSPITAL IN FENTON. THE PRACTICE IS LOCATED IN THE ST. FRANCIS BUILDING AT 1011 BOWLES AVE., STE. 400.

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SUICIDE PREVENTION AWARENESS MONTH brings critical attention to an issue that is never easy to discuss. Families may notice signs that a relative is struggling with suicidal thoughts, but they may not know how to start a compassionate conversation about it. They also may be unsure where to go for assistance, either in the short or long term. This month serves as an important reminder that there is help for individuals considering suicide—and hope for those who love them.

CHILDREN AND TEENAGERS Norbi Forero, director of outpatient services at the Great Circle mental health nonprofit, says there are several key signs to look for in young people who may be contemplating suicide.

“It’s important to remember that anyone can be at risk, not just those who have a mental health diagnosis,” she notes. “Especially look out for kids who have experienced a recent loss or are dealing with bullying. If they are struggling, you’ll be able to help them best if you listen to what is going on without inserting your own thoughts or judgments. Show that you are there to support them and their individual needs.”

Forero advises families to stay alert for combinations of the following behaviors: • • • • • • • • • • • •

Comments about death or wanting to die Feelings of hopelessness or being without purpose Ideas of feeling trapped or experiencing unbearable pain Feeling like a burden to others Drug or alcohol use Agitation, anxiety, depression or reckless behavior Changes in sleep patterns, either too much or too little Self-isolation or rage toward others Drastic changes in appearance or mood Physical self-harm or body modifications that are out of character Sudden calmness that suggests the person may be preparing for suicide Giving away personal belongings or contacting loved ones to say goodbye

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Adults considering suicide can show many of the same signs as young people, but additional factors may complicate the situation. Seniors often experience heightened feelings of loneliness and fear, especially if they have lost a spouse or are living alone.

They also may be less likely to have family members nearby who can be on the lookout for signs of trouble. Additional risk factors for adults and seniors include: • • • •

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If you have a loved one of any age who is experiencing suicidal thoughts, it’s important to understand that reaching out for support is an act of courage, not a sign of weakness.

If the possibility of self-harm seems imminent, call for immediate assistance. Stay with the person until help arrives, remove any objects that could be used to injure, and listen without judgment. Anyone can play a role in preventing a suicide, and there are many caring organizations and professionals available to help.

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For immediate assistance, call 911 or the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800.273.TALK (8255). To access local services for children and teens, contact Great Circle at 844.424.3577 or visit greatcircle.org.

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Bone & Joint Health Whether you’re feeling stiff or hearing a few extra creaks when you stand up, it’s no secret that our bones and joints change as we get older. But that doesn’t make it any less important to stay active.

Even after joint replacement or other orthopedic procedures, exercise needs to remain an important part of your routine.

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other factors

Ryan Knuckles, DPT, clinic manager at CORA Physical Therapy in Ballwin, says weight-bearing exercise and resistance training are important to promoting bone and joint health. “They help with bone formation when you’re growing, and they protect your bones as you age,” he explains. “The stronger your body, the more stable your joints. Motion is lotion. It’s important to keep moving.”

He adds that developing a strong core also improves balance and coordination, which reduces the risk of injury.

While physical activity plays an important role in bone and joint health, Nelson notes that there are other lifestyle adjustments you can make to improve your outcomes.

As you age, it’s important to keep active, but Knuckles says your fitness routine should evolve with your changing needs. One common adjustment is limiting high-impact exercise, especially if you have arthritis. “You don’t typically see older individuals doing a lot of dynamic movement,” he notes. “Walking or the elliptical are great, but I wouldn’t necessarily recommend distance running.”

Smoking: Nicotine is known to cause weak bones, according to Nelson. Alcohol and majriuana can have similar impacts.

SSM Health orthopedic surgeon Dr. Gregory Nelson adds that individuals should use discomfort as a gauge for determining their limits. “It’s rare that physical activity will worsen the underlying pathology,” he explains.

“It’s important that people identify exercises they can do that don’t leave them in pain afterward. If you have arthritis but are already in good shape, you’ll most likely be fine running or playing basketball.”

Nelson says that 30 minutes of low-impact, aerobic activity four or five times a week is a good goal for people to maintain their bone and joint health. “Senile osteoporisis is the natural softening of bone as we age, but you can slow the process by performing regular weight-bearing exercises,” he notes. “The body is designed to move, but we’ve developed into a very sedentary society, and that creates issues. I tell my patients to use it or lose it.”

Vitamin D: It plays an important role in healthy bones because it helps your body absorb calcium. “Women need to be especially careful of a deficiency,” Nelson says.

“Having children and loss of estrogen in later years can accelerate bone density loss.”

Diet: SSM Health researchers found that putting patients on a high protein diet before surgery improved their outcomes and reduced the risk of complications. According to Nelson, this may be because many people are undernourished.

“Before surgery, people should be making lifestyle changes,” he notes. “These include limiting alcohol, increasing exercise and improving nutrition.”

after surgery Recovery from orthopedic surgery often begins before the procedure. Prehabilitation, or prehab, can improve your outcomes, according to Jodi Klott, DPT, clinical manager at CORA Physical Therapy in Creve Coeur. “It works to increase your range of motion prior to surgery, which can really help,” she says. “If you’re already focusing on moving, the likelihood of improved motion and a smoother recovery are increased.”

Nelson notes that a return to physical activity depends on the nature of the procedure. “In the vast majority of

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elective surgeries, meaning not trauma or a broken limb, the goal is to regain function and preserve the patient’s lifestyle,” he says. “Exercise is part and parcel of the recovery process and goals.” He adds that with joint replacement, the physical rehabilitation process can begin as early as the night of surgery. However, if repair is involved with the procedure, a period of immobilization may be required to protect the limb while it heals.

It’s important not to wait too long to start therapy, Klott says. Taking too much time could make regaining motion and flexibility more difficult due to scar tissue and other factors. “While the body does need to heal and go through its natural responses to having a procedure, physical therapy helps promote motion and decrease pain,” she explains. “It will drive an increase in both function and quality of life.”

According to Klott, physical activity also improves stability and balance, and it’s critical that patients continue exercising after they are done with formal rehabilitation.

“If you don’t stretch and stay active, even getting out of a chair can become hard,” Klott says. “We don’t recommend doing these things just to do them. They help with your daily life. Whether it’s walking the dog or playing with the grandkids, it’s important to be able to move your body.”

Nelson says he counsels patients not to think of orthopedic surgery as just a solution to stop pain. “It’s part of a process to transition to a healthier way of living,” he explains.

“You also need to think about your diet, weight and physical activity level. If you treat bone and joint surgery like a lifestyle intervention, not only will you likely see better outcomes, but it can help improve your overall health.”

low-impact exercises: WALKING

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APRONOMICS

MEGGIE MOBLEY OF BIJOUX HANDCRAFTED CHOCOLATES WITH THE FRENCH WORD FOR JEWEL IN THE NAME, you can expect the hand-painted treats at Bijoux Handcrafted Chocolates to be beautiful. But with flavors inspired by desserts like tiramisu and pumpkin pie and cocktails like Manhattans and Bellinis, there is much more than aesthetics on offer. “At the end of the day, I just go with what flavors sound good; there’s a lot of trial and error,” owner Meggie Mobley says. Originally a farmers market vendor, she opened her shop in Des Peres early this summer, and a global pandemic hasn’t slowed her down.

Mobley grew up in St. Charles, but she considers herself a true StL native.

“When I was a kid, I would only eat Imo’s pizza; I hated every other kind,” she jokes. “That’s pretty born-and-bred St. Louis.” While she always enjoyed cooking with her parents, it wasn’t until she was in high school that her interest in baking was sparked by her aunt. “She worked as a cake decorator and would bring over extra icing colors, so they wouldn’t go to waste,” she recalls. “She showed me how to pipe and make icing flowers. That’s how I got started.”

After graduating from Mizzou with a bachelor’s degree in hospitality, Mobley’s next step was The French Pastry School in Chicago. “It was a totally different experience than St. Louis,” she says. “I didn’t have a car, and I rode the L everyday. There’s a lot of great food here, but Chicago is just on a bigger scale.”

During the program, she worked with a variety of culinary institutions, ranging from mom-and-pop shops to high-end patisseries to industrial kitchens. She enjoyed the experience of a larger city but always knew she wanted to bring the lessons she learned back home.

Mobley’s original goal was to open her own bakery, but while studying in Chicago, she discovered that her true passion was chocolate. “For a lot of people, the appeal is probably in eating it, and that’s certainly part of it, but I also love the science behind it,” she notes. “It’s the perfect marriage of the

creative and the technical. If you’re just one or two degrees off, it can ruin everything, but I like having set rules. If a recipe works, I understand why it works and know it will work again.”

When Mobley returned to St. Louis, she found herself a little uncertain of her next steps. “A lot of the chocolate shops here are small and locally owned, which is awesome, but they don’t always have job opportunities,” she says.

She got a job with Rick Jordan Chocolatier in Chesterfield, but she knew she eventually needed to branch out on her own. She started working out of her home but had few options for where to sell her products. Her parents found the perfect solution: the Lake Saint Louis Farmers and Artists Market. “It’s close to where they live, so they could help on the weekends,” she says. “The answer just sort of fell in my lap.”

Last October, Mobley took an exciting step forward and rented a space for a brick-and-mortar shop. “I was hoping to be ready to open for Christmas, but I really didn’t know what I was doing when it came to getting things in order,” she says. Plus, she had another important milestone to prepare for in January: her wedding in Forest Park. The anticipated opening for Bijoux Handcrafted Chocolates was shifted to April, but COVID-19 threw another wrench in things. “We got back from our honeymoon in Germany March 3, and a week later its borders closed,” she recalls.

Mobley decided to push forward and was ready to open Bijoux’s doors in June. “It was nerve-wracking, but we had the space and were paying rent anyway,” she says, adding that the shop has been successful even with pandemic-related restrictions. “The reception has been better than I ever could have anticipated. This is my dream, and I’m looking forward to bringing some really classy chocolates to St. Louis.” &

toffee » 1 lb. butter | 18.5 oz. light brown sugar | 3 oz. honey | 16 oz. chocolate 1. Melt butter and honey on medium-low heat.

baking mat or parchment paper.

2. Add brown sugar. To prevent sugar from burning, stir so it is fully coated.

7. Melt 12 oz. chocolate with a double broiler or in the microwave in 30-second intervals at 30% power, stirring in between intervals.

3. Bring to medium-high heat and add candy thermometer.

4. Stir occasionally so the bottom doesn’t burn, bring to 300°F (hard crack).

5. Carefully pour toffee onto a silicone

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6. Let toffee cool completely.

8. Once chocolate has heated to 115 to 120°F, slowly add the remaining chocolate and stir vigorously until it cools down to 84 to 86°F.

8. Pour half the chocolate onto the toffee, spread with spatula, and let it dry.

9. Carefully flip toffee and spread remaining chocolate onto the other side. Sprinkle with sea salt and let set.

10. Store in an airtight container at room temperature for up to 6 months.

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Upgrade your favorite happy hour recipes, whether it’s grilled vegetables, red meat or seafood, with this no-cook, easy aji verde (green chili) sauce recipe from Cinder House. While used on a variety of dishes in the restaurant, this 10-minute recipe also is a quick (and an affordable) enhancement to a meal. “As home cooking can quickly feel routine with the same recipes, consider adding a new sauce to favorite staples,” says chef de cuisine Josh Adams. “The aji verde is versatile; with an herbaceous flavor, subtle acidity and creamy texture, it is the perfect summer cookout sauce. “ &

AJI VERDE SAUCE ½ C MAYO 2 C CILANTRO 2 MEDIUM JALAPENOS 2 SMALL CLOVES GARLIC ¹/3 C GRATED QUESO FRESCO 1 TBSP LIME JUICE ¼ TSP SALT 1 TBSP FISH SAUCE

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Directions: 1. Trim the stems from the cilantro and give the leaves a rough chop. Remove the seeds from the jalapeno. Add all ingredients except the queso fresco into a blender or food processor. Puree the sauce until it is a smooth consistency. Add the grated queso fresco and pulse a few times for added texture.

2. Remove from food processor and serve.

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through 10/18

st. louis renaissance festival Enjoy everything from jousting and juggling to pirates and turkey legs at the 22nd annual festival.

Increased health and safety measures are being taken to protect attendees.

Rotary Park Adults: $16.95-$19.95; children: $10.95-$12.95 10 a.m.-6 p.m. | stlrenfest.com

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Explore how the game of chess has fascinated American presidents for more than 200 years, and check out a variety of politically themed chess sets from the World Chess Hall of Fame’s permanent collection.

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bearing witness: an introduction to american documentary photography

Photojournalist John Kerans presents a lecture on basic visual storytelling techniques and four great 20th-century documentary photographers.

Virtual event $5-$10 | 6 p.m. | iphf.org | 314.535.1999

10/2

jazz st. louis’ 25th anniversary celebration

Celebrate jazz in our community, and enjoy performances from JazzU students, Regina Carter, The Bad Plus, Ann Hampton Callaway and more.

Virtual event Free | 6:30 p.m. | jazzstl.org | 314.571.6000

the balancing act: walking the pandemic tightrope

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czech dinner drive thru

The traditional Czech Festival has been reimagined for social distancing. Order online, set a pick-up time, and enjoy a dinner that includes pork, sauerkraut, dumplings, a vegetable medley and dessert.

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will you still love me when i’m sixty-four … and one more?

Celebrate 65 years of The Saint Louis Chamber Chorus with its reimagined season, featuring archival recordings and discussions with singers, experts and artistic director Philip Barnes.

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The Chamber Music Society of St. Louis presents a program of music by Spanish and Hispanic composers, including Isaac Albéniz, Manuel de Falla and Enrique Granados.

The Sheldon Concert Hall and Art Galleries TBD | 7:30 p.m. | chambermusicstl.org 314.941.6309

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American-Czech Educational Center | $13-$15 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. | acecstl.org | 314.752.8168

Third Baptist Church $30; $190 for season subscription | 3 p.m. chamberchorus.org | 636.458.4343

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van mcelwee: time fork

The project uses augmented and virtual reality technology through a free, interactive app.

Visitors can navigate the natural spaces of Laumeier Sculpture Park while simultaneously experiencing a digital world of the artist’s imagination.

Laumeier Sculpture Park Free | laumeier.org | 314.615.5278

Hit the streets of Maplewood for a socially distanced treasure hunt in search of treats from Green Dining Alliance restaurants with earthday365. Participants also will receive a goodies bag from St. Louis Earth Day Festival vendors.

Maplewood | $35 4 p.m. | earthday-365.org | 314.282.7533

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The musician is joined by Adam Doleac and Joey Hyde as part of the Platonic tour.

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How does the house strike a balance between traditional and contemporary?

It has beautifully updated rooms including a new kitchen, but it also has wonderful old bones. There are classic features like marble fireplaces but also modern ones like built-in closets and a spa shower in the master suite.

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Do you know anything about its history?

We were told it was owned by family members from the old Moon Motor Car Co., an automobile manufacturer that was based in St. Louis a century ago, but we haven’t confirmed that.

After raising a family in this lovely home, its empty-nester owners are ready to start a new chapter elsewhere in town. The 120-year-old, 6,000-square-foot property sits on more than an acre of land and is an ideal spot for indoor and outdoor relaxing and entertaining. It has undergone extensive updates in recent years, and the owner says the home is ready for its next phase with a new family to cherish it. “Our children have moved out, and it’s time for someone to fully enjoy all of the home’s beautiful rooms once again,” she notes.

What is most practical about the home?

I love the fact that everyone can have their privacy in this house because it’s so spacious and solidly built. My husband and I could have guests over at the same time our teenagers did, but we never heard any noise.

What will you remember most about it?

The first time my husband and I walked inside, we just had ‘that feeling;’ we knew it was going to be our house. We easily could imagine our family growing up happily in it. Our children’s friends also have fond feelings about it because it was like a second home to them.

So many other things are memorable as well, like stepping What are some of its most relaxing spaces? inside the front door and seeing the grand staircase. The We added a lovely pool, and there is a jacuzzi as well. My home has a lot of unique personality. family also spent a lot of time in the kitchen, which has a new gas fireplace that is cozy and toasty in winter. In warmer What is your best holiday memory in the home? weather, we would have dinner outside with friends, enjoy a At Thanksgiving and Christmas, we would have relatives wine tasting and take an evening swim. I always loved sitting over, get out our inherited silver and china, and spend all day in the little white sun porch off the living room, too. in the kitchen cooking and taste-testing before dinner.

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5121 WASHINGTON PLACE | $594,500 Fantastic value on fully renovated home on a semiprivate Central West End street just footsteps to Forest Park. Expansive foyer greets you with Carrara marble floor, classic center hall, and formal living room.

110 NORTH NEWSTEAD AVE. #304 CENTRAL WEST END | $1,095,000 Enjoy St. Louis’ spectacular autumn weather from your private rooftop terrace. 3200+ SF Penthouse in Prime CWE location just 1.5 blocks to Whole Foods. 3+ beds, 3.5 baths, private garage, 3-car parking and elevator.

Close to BJC Medical Complex.

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4969 PERSHING PLACE #3 CENTRAL WEST END | $998,250 Penthouse Condo on a private, gated street in the CWE just one block off Euclid with a Private elevator that opens into your home. Includes a spacious master, soaking tub, private deck, Subzero appliances, and a 2 car garage.

HIGHWAY P NEW CAMBRIA | $1,990,000 This scenic property consists of 710+/- acres of rolling hills, bottomland and marketable timber in Macon and Chariton County.

8070 WATKINS #2E CLAYTON | $249,000 Light and bright condo in Davis place featuring 2 beds, 1 bath and many exquisite details. The spacious and inviting living room has soaring coffered ceilings.

20462 HIGHWAY V LINNEUS | $2,100,000 440 acre farm and hunting property abundant with trophy deer, turkey and waterfowl. A 3 bed, 1 bath home with garage suitable for a hunting cabin is included “as is”.

12199 PIKE 270 LOUISIANA | $1,300,000 NEW PRICE This beautifully renovated 5000+ sqft.

Victorian-styled home rests on 57.2 acres of rolling pastures and woods.

4075 BLOW STREET ST. LOUIS | $205,000 This charming 3 bed, 2 bath home located in the hidden gem of Boulevard Heights is move in ready and just blocks from Carondelet Park!

9640 HOWERTON DR ST. LOUIS | $170,000 The charming 3 bed, 2 full bath, all brick ranch, is both spacious and affordable. It is nestled in a quiet subdivision and is within walking distance to Ohlendorf Park.

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4508 MCPHERSON AVE. #3 WEST CENTRAL WEST END | $190,000 The world is your oyster! Enjoy the Central West End lifestyle from the comforts of your move in ready top floor, 2 bed, 1 bath condo!

1709 HEMINGWAY #E WELDON SPRING | $159,900 This 2 bed, 1 bath in sought-after Chapter One has it all! Stylish kitchen, walk-in master closet and private balcony, and endless amenities.

1270 STRASSNER DR. #3108 BRENTWOOD | $158,000 Beautiful open floor plan condo located in the Hanley Station Development. Condo includes balcony overlooking courtyard/pool, 9 ft ceilings, 6 ft windows, and crown molding throughout.

Into Another World

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Behind one door you’ll find an Annie Oakley-inspired bunk room. Open another, and you’ll be transported to the middle of the cosmos. And did I mention the gold bathroom decked out with cherries? There’s a surprise around every corner and behind every door of Kristin Frieben Whittle’s Overland home. Transforming the property, built in 1924 as a switching station, was a labor of love, but it resulted in a space unlike any other. Oh, and keep an eye out for the bunnies.

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T&S | What initially attracted you to the property?

Kristin Frieben Whittle | I’d known since I was a teenager that I wanted to live in an industrial building that I could turn into a loft. I was probably inspired by a lot of ’80s movies. I got busy with my professional life, so it didn’t happen right away. I was driving around when I saw this building with the ‘for sale’ sign in front of it. The front has 10 gorgeous arch windows with a starburst pattern.

Those are what really caught my eye.

T&S | How was the process of converting it into a home?

KFW | It was tough. I had the building for 13 years before I was able to start. It was originally zoned commercially, and it took some time to get it rezoned for mixed-use.

For a while it seemed like anything that could go wrong did, but things started turning around. I began working with amazing artists and craftspeople and developed an incredible group of friends through the process. My home became a gathering place for everyone. Before COVID, we used to hold Friday night dinners here. It’s been a fantastic journey.

T&S | Where does your design inspiration come from?

KFW | It’s definitely eclectic. I’ve traveled around the world.

Everytime I go somewhere, I bring back a memento or a souvenir. They’ve been incorporated into each and every room. I just love mixing bold patterns and design. I loved the Cheshire Inn back when every room had a different theme.

I like when each new space is a surprise. When people first visit, they are expecting it to just be a loft. However, when they open a door, suddenly they’re transported to a log cabin or a Moroccan bath. Every door is a portal, and I never get tired of seeing the expressions on people’s faces.

T&S | Who are some of the local artists you worked with?

KFW | There were so many amazing people. Jorge Martinez, who was a big St. Louis mover and shaker, designed a neon mirror for me. Unfortunately, he passed away earlier this year. The solar system mosaic in one of the bathrooms was created by Kathy Rickermann, who started the only mosaic group in St. Louis. I knew I wanted something like Venice Cafe or City Museum. Standing in the middle of that room is incredible. It’s 360-degree views, and it includes all of the planets. It’s been a journey of love, and collaborating with and supporting local artists is very important to me.

T&S | What room was the most fun to develop the concept for?

KFW | They were all really fun. My family was a big inspiration. I have nieces and nephews, who I designed the log cabin bunk room for. My parents are getting older, so I also wanted a space for them if I need to take care of them in the future. I created a wing for them with a bedroom, bath and den. It’s very practical. They can have their own private space, but we still can come together in the common areas.

T&S | Do you have a favorite room?

KFW | I love entertaining and cooking, so the kitchen is a special place. It’s where people come together to cook, eat and spread love. It’s very functional, and I like to keep everything open, so everyone can feel at home. I want them to be comfortable grabbing things they need like silverware or a glass. Nothing of mine is off limits. It’s about community and sharing. The entire building is a part of me, my friends and the artists who worked on it. I love all of it.

T&S | Tell me about the bunnies.

KFW | This white one is Cinnabun, and the brown one is Baby Bun. I’m an animal lover, and I’ve had rabbits since I was a little kid. They’re litter-box trained like cats, so they have their hop of the place. People always get a kick out of them. I also have a long-haired chihuahua and a German shepherd. I like to say it’s my own little farm.

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DEAR HOMEWORK,

I am at a loss about how to go about updating the entry of my house. The ’70s-era, brick Southern Colonial could use a new front door, walkways and landscaping, but I’m not sure how to pull it all together.

What would you suggest?

Sincerely, —AT A LOSS IN TOWN AND COUNTRY

DEAR AT A LOSS IN TOWN AND COUNTRY,

Let’s start with the front door and its surrounding trim. I show a new windowed front door with aligned side lights. I suggest surrounding that with carefully crafted classical pilasters and a pediment. Paint all of this white, except for the simple black lanterns, and finish it off with two large simple urns. This gives the front door a timeless, rather than ’70s, feel, which is always a good thing.

After that, I would re-do the walkway in a patterned limestone or even concrete of a similar pattern. I would cover the front porch with a matching material. Finally, huge stone urns surrounded by a simple bed of ivy help frame the classical composition.

These changes bring a more authentic Southern Colonial feel to the presentation while at the same time imparting a perception of high quality.

Hope that helps, —HOMEWORK

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A change in routine as drastic as switching from going to school every day to being home 24/7 can be daunting for any child. Home is where they play and enjoy family time, so when home becomes the classroom, there will be a blurred line between playtime and school time. To make that line clearer, create a dedicated learning space. Whether that is a desk , a table in an infrequently used guest bedroom or a totally transformed cubby under the stairs, having a clear definition of where learning takes place can make a big impact on focus.

Over the last few months, we’ve all struggled with that #WorkFromHome life. Yes, our sofas and dining room tables felt more comfortable in the beginning, but with all the temptations of watching TV or getting up to get one more snack, we’ve seen the light. And the light is a proper desk. This is no different for

kids and teens, so if the end of the last school year felt rough, consider carving out a place to study ASAP! For those of us whose dining tables have become desks, it can feel like working hours and relaxing hours have melted together, especially when you are trying to serve dinner and there is a laptop in the way. When learning time is over, clear the table of all devices, papers, pens and pencils and replace them with decor or dinner plates. Even if you can’t move the table, making it over at the end of each day will give you a fabulous sense of transformation.

If carving out a space just for school work isn’t a possibility in your home, don’t stress! You can transform an existing space into a place of learning. Our favorite recommendation? Poufs.

They are the bean bag chair’s sophisticated cousin, and we are obsessed. If you have little kids at home who just don’t mesh well with chairs, poufs are the perfect solution. Set them around your coffee table and create a study station that is perfectly sized for little learners.

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353 Oak Stand Path $885,000 | Pr/SqFt: $199.64 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: KiKi Kerch

63038 742 Lakeshore Meadows Drive $475,000 | Pr/SqFt: $136.97 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Teresa Flemming

63105 21 Dartford Ave. $725,000 | Pr/SqFt: $230.82 RedKey Realty Leaders Agent: Michael Simon 451 Polo Drive $805,000 | Pr/SqFt: $259.51 RedKey Realty Leaders Agent: Sarah Bernard 619 S. Central Ave. $860,000 | Pr/SqFt: $340.59 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Beth Herbster 202 N. Brentwood Blvd., No. 1C $890,000 | Pr/SqFt: $359.60 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agent: Stephanie Oliver 1 Southmoor Drive $1,000,000 | Pr/SqFt: $220.07 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agent: Ted Wight

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531 S. Clay Ave. $1,339,000 | Pr/SqFt: $356.97 Live Local Realty Agent: Ginger Fawcett

32 Clermont Lane $1,880,000 | Pr/SqFt: $247.73 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agents: Dooley Rowe Schnoebelen

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63122 647 Warrenton Drive $713,000 | Pr/SqFt: $260.22 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agents: Linda and Kelly Boehmer 401 Symphony Hill Court $797,000 | Pr/SqFt: $228.30 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Bridget Forbes

63124 5 Buckhammon Place $586,000 | Pr/SqFt: $295.21 Gladys Manion Real Estate Agent: Ann Wroth 63 Graybridge Road $642,900 | Pr/SqFt: $172.04 Coldwell Banker Premier Group Real Estate Agents: The Gellman Team 40 Loren Woods Drive $945,000 | Pr/SqFt: $264.85 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Kathleen Lovett 4 Wendover Drive $1,800,000 | Pr/SqFt: $334.88 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Margie Medelberg

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63130 8141 Amherst Ave. $530,000 | Pr/SqFt: $213.88 RedKey Realty Leaders Agent: Anne Duffy Dunajcik 6807 Waterman Ave. $685,000 | Pr/SqFt: $211.29 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Matt Muren

2747 Turnberry Park Lane $1,125,000 | Pr/SqFt: $245.04 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Christine Thompson 19 Briarbrook Trail $1,160,000 | Pr/SqFt: $228.48 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Bridget Forbes 12950 Huntbridge Forest Drive $1,200,000 | Pr/SqFt: $317.54 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Wendy Hermann 12445 Balwyck Lane $1,625,000 | Pr/SqFt: $364.02 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Maria Elias

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