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Health care workers received a special tribute from a familiar face. St. Louis Blues national anthem singer Charles Glenn debuted his performance of Elton John’s “I’m Still Standing” to a small group of hospital employees. Blues mascot Louie brought extra cheer, and Panera Bread donated boxed lunches. PICTURED:

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the little bit foundation

The nonprofit, which is dedicated to eliminating barriers to education, recently hosted Summer Student Stock Up. The event focused on providing elementary students with essential learning tools like books, school supplies and at-home STEM projects along with food and hygiene items.

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COVER STORY – The Thompson Foundation for Autism TALK OF THE TOWNS THE INSIDER BACK TO SCHOOL MY MESSY MOM LIFE STUDENT STANDOUTS BEAUTY – Try This, Not That for Teenage Acne Solutions PARENT TRAP – Returning to School

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The homeless services nonprofit dedicated a room to Ann Rotermund, a behavioral health counselor and its longest-serving employee at 35 years. The space is where she conducts meditation classes for staff and clients, and it was recently freshened up with new paint and decor.

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FUNDRAISER PREVIEW 24 COVER STORY – Kenrick-Glennon Seminary 26 SNAPPED! Provident

SPECIAL FEATURE – Thinking Outside the Box: Fundraising & COVID-19

STYLE 〉〉 30 OFF THE CUFF – John Mozeliak 32 SPECIAL FEATURE – Looking Good Online

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THE 2020 HEROES AMONG US VIRTUAL GALA IS SCHEDULED FOR OCT. 1. IT RAISES CRITICAL FUNDING FOR SERVICES PROVIDED BY THE THOMPSON CENTER FOR AUTISM AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI-COLUMBIA. PICTURED ON THE COVER: SARA AND CHRIS THORBURN AND FAMILY. FOR MORE INFORMATION OR TO REGISTER FOR THE EVENT, CALL 314.550.2888 OR VISIT HEROESAMONGUSSTL.INFO. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE THORBURN FAMILY

The hunger relief nonprofit received a $75,000 grant from MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger, a national advocacy organization working to end food insecurity in locations with limited resources and challenging political and social dynamics.

St. Louis’ 5-Star Jeweler

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ith its 7,000-square-foot showroom, Michael Genovese Jewelers is one of the largest jewelers in the country and has been a family-owned, St. Louis business since 1981. Owner Joe Genovese started working in the business at age 13, taking over when his father Michael retired. Today, Joe continues the vision and mission of Michael Genovese to make every customer a friend through a passion for beautiful, handcrafted jewelry and focused service excellence.

A true custom jeweler, Genovese makes 70% of its stock in house, enabling them to control costs and pass those savings on to their customers. They also believe in supporting their employees and giving back to the community as often as possible.

“We have 32 employees that we take care of as family.

We try to support every local charity we can to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars per year. My father instilled that in me,” says Joe.

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The 17 store designers at Michael Genovese Jewelers know everything there is to know about engineering a piece of jewelry. “Every piece starts as an idea. Anything people ask for, we can make.

People may have sentimental stones they want to use that have come from family members, and we can incorporate those, too,” Joe says.

Designers create drawings based on either customer ideas or their own. Then, they design a wax model using the latest computer-aided design technology, which makes the process more accurate and efficient.

Once the customer approves the design, they create a wax model with a 3-D printer.

Once approved, the wax model is used to create a cast in which the designers inject the molten precious metal of their choice. The rough cast piece then goes through a finishing process and any stones are set in place. Completing each

Every piece starts as an idea. Anything people ask for, we can make.

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step in house allows for total quality control.

In addition to custom pieces made specifically for individual customers, Genovese designers also create most of the jewelry that fills the showroom’s cases, including the top-selling Novia designer line.

“Fifty percent are one-of-a-kind pieces that will never be made again,” says Joe. “The other 50%, we’ll make maybe once a year at most, so it’s a really unique collection you won’t see other people wearing.”

Genovese also offers the best selection of classic, best-selling items like diamond studs, diamond bracelets, diamond hoops and diamond pendants.

Customers will have an opportunity to get the best prices of the year at Genovese’s annual One Sale, taking place August 18 through 29 during which every item in the store will be on sale. With customer safety as a priority, all COVID-19 safety measures are in place in the store per CDC guidelines.

In addition to an unmatched selection and competitive pricing, Genovese Jewelers’ highly personal customer service makes all the difference.

“When people come visit our store, they see how easy we make the process, whether they are designing an engagement ring or buying a gift,” Joe says. “We offer them a drink—they can have a beer, wine or a mimosa. We sit down with them, and they have our full attention for however long they need us.”

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IF YOU’RE LIKE ME, YOU’RE PROBABLY TIRED OF HEARING THE PHRASE “THE NEW NORMAL.”

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At least for a moment, let’s push back against the very idea of normal—new and old. Everything happening right now is unprecedented (that’s pretty abnormal if you ask me), and from social issues to emergency responses, the past few months have shown us all of the ways the status quo wasn’t cutting it. But more importantly, we’ve seen how powerful it is when we work together to help each other through a crisis.

This issue, we spotlight how local nonprofits have faced the challenges of this pandemic head-on, continuing to offer services and finding new ways to engage with the community (p. 26). It’s inspiring to read how they have pushed forward with the continued support of so many people. While a philanthropic spirit may not be unusual for our community, I think it’s too remarkable to be considered merely normal. One of my favorite things about working at Town&Style is getting to share the best things about St. Louis, and there’s no doubt that the city truly shines when giving back.

Another thing I love about T&S: the people. The turbulence of these past few months has shone a spotlight on how hard our team works. Normal isn’t the word I would use, but adjectives like “amazing,” “dedicated” and “brilliant” come to mind. T&S isn’t just one voice, and that’s awesome. We want to share the unique perspectives that make us special, and where better to do it than right here? So each issue, you’ll get to hear from a different member of the T&S family, like our wonderful contributors or the creative minds behind the scenes. We can’t wait to introduce you to everyone!

So let’s stick together, St. Louis. It’s the best way through any challenge, and on the other side, we’ll be so much more than normal.

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CRITICAL SERVICE THOMPSON FOUNDATION FOR AUTISM

by julia m. johnson FOR A CHILD WITH AUTISM, educational and behavioral programs can’t be put

on hold during periods of crisis. In fact, stressful and challenging times highlight the importance of these services even more. Kids with autism rely on continuity and structure, so consistent care is vital, says Emma Keicher, Applied Behavior Intervention Services clinical operations manager at the Thompson Center for Autism at the University of Missouri-Columbia. The center offers comprehensive programs including individual therapy, group sessions and support for parents and families.

Keicher says tailored assistance is vital because every child on the autism spectrum has a unique set of needs. Many have trouble learning new skills without continuous support and one-on-one therapy, and others have severe issues that can lead to aggression, self-injury and destructive behaviors. Complications like these can snowball into further problems, so early intervention is important, she notes.

To ensure that the center’s clients receive the help they need, the Thompson Foundation for Autism is hosting its Heroes Among Us fundraising gala virtually this year. Staff and a group of dedicated volunteers in St. Louis are working to produce an entertaining, informative event that will take place online the evening of Oct. 1.

Registration starts at 6:45 p.m., and the program kicks off at 7 p.m. with an auction, fun virtual experiences, special guests and more. For more information, visit the event’s website (heroesamongusstl.info).

“This year, during the most challenging time I can remember, demand for the center’s services has increased dramatically,” says Myles Hinkel, the foundation’s executive director. “Last year’s gala raised more than $300,000, and we are hoping to exceed that in 2020.” KMOX anchor Debbie Monterrey will emcee, and former St. Louis Blues player Reed Low will serve as auctioneer. The event co-chairs are Tanya Lieber, Tim Ney, John Qualy and Tom Zychinski, and Blues alumnus Chris Thorburn and his wife, Sara, are honorary co-chairs.

DR. LORRAINE BECERRA WITH A PATIENT AT THE THOMPSON CENTER FOR AUTISM

According to Keicher, one of the event’s key fundraising goals is a critical expansion of the center’s services. “We need to increase our capacity to offer Applied Behavior Analysis therapy, an evidence-based treatment program,” she notes. “Right now, there is more than a yearlong wait list for these services. We plan to renovate and add space at our center so we can help more kids and families. There is a high level of need in Missouri but not enough providers, so we also are expanding our board-certified behavior analyst master’s degree program.”

Hinkel says the virtual gala is designed to take participants on a journey of hope along with autism patients and their families. “It will have the same look and feel as an in-person event, but it will be from the comfort of your couch,” he notes. “COVID-19 has changed everyone’s way of life, but what has not changed is our commitment to those who need services. Taking part in the virtual event is a fun and rewarding way to help us help them.” &

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The Metro

You may be a lucky postal customer in a ZIP code scientifically determined by an expensive direct-marketing agency to receive a newspaper addressed to “Current Resident” recently. But The Epoch Times loftily assumes much apart from the recipient’s actual name, akin to the political fliers that have continued to jam our recycling bin since the Aug. 4 primary. (We’d already voted by mail, using an absentee ballot we may not have been officially qualified to use. But that’s quite another story.) The paper also assumes that we’ll eat up this combination of headline, subhead, italicized what-all:

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A red-faced, football-coach hulk of a man without a face mask strode into Schnucks right behind me. I’d paused momentarily to look for a small cart, in lieu of one of those red baskets they no longer have out. (Men hate carts—we’ll overload a basket and, once in the checkout line, wish we’d used a cart.) Anyhow, football coach pulled out a large cart, became agitated, indicated the cart was for me, turned on his heel and left. Meanwhile, a store employee pointed me to a small cart he’d just wiped off. As I was inside picking out items that weren’t on my wife’s list, I spotted football coach again. He must have retrieved a store-mandated mask from his vehicle or received one. I was flabbergasted. He was wearing it, but below one of his chins. I read his mind: “Pandemic, schmandemic. Isn’t it a Democrat hoax? So, you think you can make me put a mask on? OK—but I’ll wear it my own damn way!” Full disclosure: I can’t read minds, but he gave me the creeps. Yeah, my mask fogs up my specs going in and out of the car, but I’m faintly proud to do something nice for everybody else. Fair question: Did football coach put on a seatbelt before he drove to the store? None of this is altruism, of course. It’s simply public safety. But football coach didn’t go to extremes, unlike the mask-free woman turned away last week from a South County pizzeria—she returned to use pepper spray on workers and was charged with assault. For goodness’ sake, why not make your mask make a statement? Bright-red masks could say “MAGA!” Love the StL? Wear one emblazoned with the city flag.

Green Bay Packers fan? Sorry. Go for it, anyway! I’ve seen “I Can’t Breathe!” covering the mouth and nose of a Black Lives Matter protester. I’ve ordered two new ones from Dianne Isbell, our favorite mask maker, late of St. Louis Fashion Fund. One reads: “Science Doesn’t Care What You Think!” The other, white lettering on black: “ERACISM.”

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“A Long Awaited” … the absence of a hyphen made this former copyeditor’s eyes bug out … “Gift to Americans” … that’s an OK headline, I guess. And then this subhead … “Who Cherish Freedom.”

I was sort of flattered, because I cherish freedom as much as the next American, especially freedom of the press. Full stop. This sneaky rag hasn’t been awaited for long, or at all. Falun Gong, a spiritual practice repressed in its home country, Communist China, is behind it.

The publication claims, without irony, to be “Covering the Trump Presidency With Fairness and Honesty.” And, “Inside you’ll find traditional, honest journalism without any spin, false narratives or hidden agendas. It’s real news…” Are there “alternative facts”? Hmm, maybe. But, wait! This very thinly veiled propaganda costs only $39 monthly (a discount from $59). No, thanks. I prefer my news, fake or otherwise, from our esteemed metro dailies, The Washington Post and The New York Times. None is nearly as pricey as The Epoch Times. In this economy, however, why pay anything? Anyone can watch TV news, 24-7, for free, whether it’s “Fair and Balanced,” or not.

What starts in the city, ends in the county, has at least three neighborhoods associated with it, and is lined with Black- and women-owned businesses along both sides? Why, the Delmar Loop, of course! It starts in the 5800 block of Delmar in St. Louis. Once westbound drivers cross Skinker, they find themselves in the world-famous U. City Loop. But that’s just geography, really. What’s important is that August is Black Business Month, and the Loop has more Black- and womenowned boutiques, hair salons, restaurants, services, etc., etc., etc., than you could shake a stick at. Typically, one might expect a sidewalk sale or discounted products and services to mark BBM. But “the new normal” seems to change daily.

Business, however, is brisk at The T, an enterprise like no other.

LJ Punch, M.D., a trauma surgeon, founded the healthcare collective of professionals and volunteers to help heal the trauma people suffer every day from bullets, COVID-19, opiates or homelessness. Find out more at the collective’s grand reopening on Saturday, Aug. 22, when the T’s products, services and training opportunities will be available to experience, learn about or purchase at 7874 Delmar Blvd.

Here’s a pitch you can afford: Reusable cloth masks, plain or with the T logo, are available for $3. Visit theTstl.com.

WHAT IS THE LARGEST GATHERING OF PEOPLE ALLOWABLE BY COUNTY MANDATE AS OF THIS WRITING (AUG. 4)? OK, HOW ABOUT BY THE EARLIEST DATE YOU MAY SEE THIS ISSUE IN PRINT (AUG. 12)?

LAST ISSUE’S Q&A Who are the cartoonists Herblock, Oliphant and Luckovich and for what publications do (or did) they draw?

Herbert Block (Herblock), memorably critical of McCarthyism and Richard M. Nixon, cartooned for The Washington Post from the 1940s until his death in 2001 at 91. He won three Pulitzer prizes. Pat Oliphant, 85, an Aussie, started his U.S. career at The Denver Post in 1964. He retired in 2015 but returned after Donald Trump’s inauguration to portray him as a Hitler Youth.

Mike Luckovich, 60, has been with The Atlanta Journal-Constitution since 1989 and has won two Pulitzers.

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Webster Groves On university campuses and in corporate boardrooms, in the public expected to back up his partner, no matter what. Carter, however, and private sector, diversity officers are a force to be reckoned often declined to co-sign the other officer’s reports. In 2002 he with. Many of these men and women may not bring quite as much resigned his police job that, while it paid well with full benefits, kept to the table as Terrell Carter, who holds not one, but two doctoral him up at night. His challenges are quite different in Greenville, a rural degrees and is vice president and chief diversity officer at Greenville town with a college enrolling more than 950 undergrads, where Carter University in Illinois, just shy of an hour’s drive from his south St. Louis has commuted for a year and a half. Has his presence been necessary? home. Meanwhile, Carter is pastor of Webster Groves Baptist Church. In 2016, players on the NCAA Division III football team wanted to Plus, as a former police officer in the City of St. Louis, he’s experienced “take a knee” during the National Anthem, à la former pro quarterback firsthand the realities of racial profiling and how harshly police treat Colin Kaepernick, to honor the Black Lives Matter movement.

Black people. Carter’s books directly target these inequities: Healing A compromise was worked out between board members with opposing views: Players could make the controversial Racial Divides addresses the problem at large; gesture if a local VFW color guard were also invited to Walking the Blue Line details the challenges he make an appearance. Then a group of patriotic bikers faced as a Black man with deep ethical convictions showed up, unannounced. “Navigating the process” in working with officers who routinely cut corners, such unique circumstances can be stressful, Carter lied and worse. His writings provoke unsettling says, but he’s relished his role so far. Now, back to thoughts and feelings. From Healing…: “We must IT WAS SUCH A those doctorates in theology and ministry earned try to understand why police shootings of Black STRUGGLE TO by this Renaissance man, who—by the way—has men, whether armed or unarmed, continue to created an art show titled 10 Commandments represent what Black people believe is most wrong HONOR MY FAITH. for Good Negroes, with an accompanying volume with the United States. We must try to understand detailing 42 of them. Carter laughs, which comes why images of Black people in criminal activity easily nowadays. He does, after all, have wife Melinda continue to be the ones primarily highlighted and daughter Victoria, 15, whom he credits in his and pushed through various media platforms.” books for “life more abundantly.” Not to mention son Another of Carter’s books is Police on a Pedestal: Responsible Policing in a Culture of Worship. “It is very hard to stay Malik, 23, who lives in Atlanta. “My wife and my daughter wanted me within the lines,” recalls Carter, who was called to the ministry when to stop learning and go do something, already!” For more information, still a teenager. “It was such a struggle to honor my faith.” A cop is visit terrellcarter.net.

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Does It Make Sense to Appeal?

Some divorce and family law matters do not settle. Instead, the case is tried in the family court. Putting the case in the hands of a family court judge can be a risky proposition.

Most parties would prefer to settle outside of court, but it is not always possible. All it can take is one issue of disagreement for many parties to decide that they have no choice but to go to trial.

After trial, the family court judge will issue a judgment. How this works can vary by jurisdiction and locality, but it can often take weeks or longer for a judge to render their judgment. It can take weeks because family court judges generally have to issue a written judgment that has findings of fact and conclusions of law.

Some parties are happy with the results of the trial. Other parties are unhappy. In some cases, it can be a mixed bag. A party might like certain parts of the judgment and not like others.

For parties who are unhappy with the results, the question for them is whether they should appeal the judgment. Appealing the ruling can prolong the litigation. It can result in more attorneys’ fees. But the

question beyond that is whether an appeal will work.

Laws vary by jurisdiction. Every case can also involve different intricacies. However, in a general sense, to succeed on an appeal, a party must generally show that the family court judge erred as a matter of law or that they abused their discretion.

These terms can be somewhat complicated for many to understand. But to show the judge erred as a matter of law, this generally requires a showing that the judge did not abide by the statutes, rules or existing case law. Sometimes, this does happen, but it is not always easy to show.

To show the judge abused their discretion is a bit more complicated. Within the confines of statutes, rule and existing case law, there is some grey area that family court judges can navigate based on the law. Take the standard in child custody cases that these matters are to be resolved based on the best interests of the child.

To determine what is in the best interests of the child, a family court judge has to weigh the evidence. The family court judge also can believe and disbelieve witnesses. Showing a judge abused their discretion is not easy, but sometimes a party can prove it.

To simplify how an appeal works, think instant replay in football. With instant replay, the question is whether or not

the referee got the call right based on the play itself and the rules the referee has to apply. An appeal works largely the same way.

Parties do not get to redo the trial on appeal. Instead, the appellate court is to review the transcript and legal file. In doing that, the issue is whether the trial court erred based on the evidence presented at trial.

For some parties, they might have a reasonable chance of succeeding on appeal. For others, it might be difficult.

Nonetheless, for parties who are considering an appeal, there are deadlines that have to be followed or else a party can waive the right to appeal. Thus, it is always critical to speak to a lawyer immediately.

Stange Law Firm, PC limits their practice to family law matters including divorce, child custody, child support, paternity, guardianship, adoption, mediation, collaborative law and other domestic relation matters.

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$ Former Express Scripts CEO George Paz and his wife, Melissa, donated $4 million to the University of Missouri–St. Louis.

and many more!

Jessie Trice-O’Bryant, a resident at Christian Extended Care & Rehabilitation, recently turned 106! To celebrate, her family organized a drive-by parade to share birthday wishes at a safe social distance.

According to officials, their gift is the largest single philanthropic

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PUPPY LOVE! First-time author Kip Fechner is helping ▶ Feeling blue? Throughout August, you can watch free

performances from local musicians every Friday as part of the Blues at the Arch concert series. The streams can be found on the Gateway Arch Park Foundation website and Facebook page.

PATTY by patty hannum

I AM HONEST WHEN IT COMES to my

mobility limitations. That’s a nice way to say I am incredibly clumsy and have been my whole life: In eighth grade, I ran straight into a wall while playing basketball, knocking myself unconscious. When I was 58, I tripped on a sidewalk and needed shoulder surgery. You need this background to judge my family fairly for the story I’m about to tell.

Once the quarantine lifted a bit, I could not wait to get out of the house. I called two old friends to see if they wanted to go for a walk.

We agreed to make this a weekly activity, and once a month, we’d do something one of us had always wanted to try. I came up with the idea of going on a trail ride—on horses in nature and stuff. I was really pushing my limits but felt good about my choice.

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Please Love Me Like I Love You teaches little ones how to be kind to their pet dogs. The picture book features watercolor illustrations

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I found a place and talked to a nice woman on the phone who I am quite certain had to bite her tongue answering my ridiculous questions.

“How old were the horses?” I wanted one about my age, 60. “Do they ever just gallop away with the rider holding on?” I pictured myself getting the one crazy horse who wanted to just run.

“What kind of people go on these rides?” I did not want to find out we would be with a bunch of championship barrel racers. After lots of assurance, I signed us all up.

I mentioned my plans to my family. So many questions and comments followed! Had I ever ridden a horse? Where was I riding? Could I ride a mule instead? What kind of protective gear would I have on? Did I know this was a bad idea?

Hadn’t I slipped down the last three steps with the laundry basket just that morning?

You get the drift. My family was undermining my idea to try something new and also pointing out that if something did go wrong, well, I HAD BEEN WARNED. I talked to my friends, who really didn’t seem to care one way or the other, so I canceled. I explained to the woman at the ranch why. She took pity on me and gave me my money back.

So by the time my family reads this, my friends and I will have had an enjoyable time axe throwing. No one could possibly get hurt doing that, right?

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AS A COMMUNITY, WE NEED EACH OTHER. It is my goal now more than ever to bring you relevant information for life with kids in this unprecedented time. As we head back to school, many children will be learning in a totally virtual environment. Being aware of what your kids are doing online and also what you are sharing about them protects them from sexual predators, cyberbullying and the mental pitfalls of unhealthy internet use.

Here are some tips to keep your kids and your family safe online:

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Check your privacy settings on all social apps. Most apps default to “on” for location services. Turn this off by going to the settings on your phone for every app used. Visit shareably.net/iphone-settings-to-turn-off for a great video on how to fully control your privacy settings. Snapchat and TikTok especially are worth paying attention to.

• If you have teenagers on Snapchat (which I wouldn’t

recommend for anyone), make sure they are set to Ghost Mode so their exact location is not visible on the friend map that is integrated in the app. Do a quick Google search of how to change the settings.

• TikTok

has created a breeding ground for sexual predators. Again, I would highly suggest avoiding this app in general. But if you or your kids do have it, make sure to change the privacy settings. You can find how to do this by doing a quick Google search.

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Find safe apps for your kids to have on their device.

The website ikeepsafe.org uses rigorous credentials to determine which apps are safe.

St. Louisan @christinefrisella shares some great tips for savvy moms to follow when sharing content that includes their kids:

Keep tech devices in common areas of the home. It’s not a good idea to send your kids off to their room with devices.

daycare, summer camp, etc.

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• Never share the name or location of your child’s school,

• If you are taking your kids to a certain location, post ▶ Keep a list of your children’s passwords so you can check after, not before you go or while you are at that location. for unhealthy conversations or browsing history.

• Never share your home address to the public. You might ▶ Teach your children that anything shared on the also consider leaving last names off of social accounts so a internet is shared forever. I have even had to teach myself this lately and have been rethinking my entire relationship with social media as a parent.

▶ Look into getting a good antivirus security program to

prevent hackers on your social devices. For some great tips and insight, visit kaspersky.com.

▶ Spend time on the Internet Crimes Against Children

website (icactaskforce.org) to educate yourself on exactly what’s happening and how you can prevent it in your home.

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JAHNAVI VISHNUBHOTLA OF LADUE HORTON WATKINS HIGH SCHOOL 〉〉 JAHNAVI VISHNUBHOTLA HAS A DEEP CONNECTION TO HER CULTURE and is committed to sharing traditional Indian art with the world. The Ladue Horton Watkins High School senior practices two forms of traditional Indian dance and also plays the sitar. For the latter, she was chosen as one of the finalists for the St. Louis Teen Talent Competition this year.

I wanted to do it as a tribute to my late teacher.

Not many people know about Indian classical music or even what a sitar is. Whenever I’m carrying mine, I get so many questions. Winning is secondary to getting to share the music I love and show the skills my teacher taught me.

What has been your favorite thing about the experience?

Performing on stage at the Fox is an amazing, surreal experience. During my first lesson with Ustad Imrat Khan, I sat down and played this wonky scale, and he looked at my dad and said he was going to get me ready for the stage.

Now, I’m on this big stage, and I feel more What made you decide to compete in the connected with my teacher than ever. It’s what Teen Talent Competition?

I competed last year and made it to the he always wanted for me, and I’m thankful for semi-finals. I wasn’t sure I would do it again the opportunity. because I was a junior, and that’s already a really stressful year. My mom convinced me to try.

Do you plan to continue performing?

Absolutely. Being a performer has always been a part of my life; it’s like second nature to me.

Performing is a completely immersive and emotional experience, and it’s taught me a lot of important life skills. I love sharing my music, my dance and my culture with others, whether it’s at the Fox or my school auditorium. It’s always going to be a big part of who I am.

What are some of your other interests?

I’m a big language geek. I was born in India and moved here when I was young, so I grew up with Hindi and Telugu along with English, and I chose German as an elective at school. Making films and videos is another thing I love. Recently, I got second place in an international, German short film competition. Last year, I took music theory at school, and ever since, I’ve really enjoyed making melodies and small compositions.

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How did you start playing the sitar?

I’ve been dancing for as long as I can remember, and my parents thought I might like learning the sitar, too. It’s a beautiful instrument and very dear to my dad. We looked for teachers, and Ustad Imrat Khan came up as living in St. Louis. He’s a world-renowned musician who is featured in my parents’ textbooks, and Google says he’s just down the street!

My teacher has been a huge inspiration for me. Unfortunately, he passed away in 2018.

Now, I’m taking lessons with his son, Ustad Shafaat Khan.

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Academy of St. Louis is an independent, Catholic school offering pre-K through grade 12 for students with learning disabilities, developmental delays and autism spectrum disorders. We offer a 3:1 student-to-teacher ratio and provide individual academic, social skills and transition programming to prepare students for life after grade 12. Classes begin Aug. 26 at our Chesterfield location.

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Annunziata School is a full day, faith-based special education school for children with learning disabilities, ADHD, speech and language deficits, and high-functioning autism-spectrum disorders. We welcome students ages 5 through 15, and we offer services through the Archdiocese of St. Louis.

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COMMUNITY SCHOOL

Community School allows children’s gifts to flourish in an environment of active, experiential learning. Seasoned faculty engage students ages 3 through grade six with challenging curriculum that integrates academics, the arts, physical education and interpersonal skills, all on a beautiful 18-acre campus.

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In our authentic Association Montessori Internationale program, children from 16 months to grade eight learn in vibrant, mixed-age classrooms that honor each child’s individuality. Working with hands-on materials, Montessori learning follows the natural development of the child. At CMS, creativity, innovation and persistence are valued as much as concentration, motivation and independence. Call to schedule a tour.

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BEING A TEENAGER IS HARD, but throw in hormonal acne and that’s enough to make a person at any age fraught with frustration. While prescription medications are the sole solution for some teens with acne, there are other remedies for treating less severe but equally annoying breakouts. Here are a few everyday solutions for treating breakouts that require little more than a small dose of self-discipline.

Try This: SIMPLE SKIN CARE ROUTINE

Not This: PLETHORA OF PRODUCT

It’s easy to get carried away with the amount of skin care products that promise brighter, clearer skin. Remember, acne is caused by the overproduction of sebum, which means the more you wash your face, the more your body tries to replace the oil. Create a balance by sticking with a small amount of products that keep your skin clean and prevent future breakouts without overstimulating oil production.

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As a teenager dealing with hormonal acne, I was desperate to try anything that would give my blemished skin a release. Well—anything except giving up my love of sugar. High levels of sugar spike insulin, which is believed to increase sebum production. With more sebum production comes the risk of a breakout. While this is not true of everyone, studies are suggesting sugar intake does play a real role in acne. As for me, I finally learned my lesson.

Whenever I go light on the cakes and cookies, I find my complexion is suspiciously clear.

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Not This: PIMPLE POPPING

With YouTube channels and shows like Dr. Pimple Popper drawing in hundreds of thousands of viewers, it’s no secret we love to pop (or watch someone pop) a good pimple.

While it feels satisfying in the moment, popping pimples and blackheads at home is not recommended by skin care experts. If you have pimples worth popping, see a facialist who specializes in acneic skin. They are trained in the art of opening pores, getting dirt out and closing pores with as little aggravation to the dermis as possible. If facials aren’t an option, make an appointment with your dermatologist to explore other solutions.

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Not This: OTC

Green tea is packed with antioxidants that help fight bacteria and reduce inflammation.

There are plenty of acne-fighting products that include it as an ingredient, but you can just as easily get the full benefits by steeping green tea in boiling water for 3 to 4 minutes, letting it cool and then using a cotton ball to apply it to skin in a patting motion. Studies have shown this remedy works and is much more cost-effective than most OTC medications.

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OK, I get it. Teenage life is full of frustrations, angst and stress—especially in this day and age. Studies have shown CRH, a known stress-related hormone, contributes to breakouts.

While it’s impossible to completely eliminate stress from life, it is important to be mindful of stress triggers that impact your mental and physical health. Self-care isn’t selfish.

Knowing when to take time for yourself, reach out to loved ones or simply take a breath will do wonders for your overall well-being. Like everything in life, acne isn’t forever.

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PARENT TRAP RETURNING TO SCHOOL by dr. tim jordan AFTER SPENDING TWO WEEKS AT SUMMER CAMP

with kids in grade school, middle school and high school, I became convinced that somehow, someway, kids need to return to classrooms this fall. We required every camper and staff member to have a negative COVID-19 test so that once at camp, we could run around like the good old days without masks or distancing. The effect on the kids was amazing.

Campers had the chance to play, run around with their peers, and sit and talk over card games, campfires and star gazing. They connected over guitar sing-a-longs, karaoke, pool parties and our wild end-of-the-week dance party. In our daily learning circles, kids shared their fears and the adversities they had been facing. They learned they are not alone in their struggles, which made their connections even closer. After just a few days, kids looked relaxed and happy and felt carefree for the first time in months.

The back-to-school plans of most schools are still a moving target, creating uncertainty and angst for children and their parents. With the known scientific data as well as the academic and social-emotional needs

of children in mind, let me offer some thoughts to consider as the fall semester develops.

• Do whatever it takes to get kids safely back to in-person school. If professional athletes in the MLB, NHL and NBA can get daily COVID-19 tests, there is no reason why we shouldn’t have available testing and tracking for students.

Learn from the experiences of other countries who have successfully and unsuccessfully restarted school.

• Prioritize academics over athletics. Don’t push through football and other fall sports at the cost of infecting large numbers of students. If keeping kids out of sports makes it safer for all to stay in school, do it.

• Focus on what you do have control over. We are always in charge of our emotions and our reactions to people and events. Encourage your child to spend some quiet time each day expressing all of his or her feelings through journaling or artwork. The maxim that “what is unexpressed becomes unmanageable” fits very well in these trying times. The weather of the day doesn’t need to dictate the climate of the era.

• Increase connections. Research has shown that one of the most important factors in kids overcoming adversity is having close connections with others. This includes parents, relatives, teachers, siblings and friends. Carve out regular focused downtime together at home, and brainstorm ways your kids can safely spend time with friends. This could involve creating your own safe bubbles with other families like we did for our camps.

• Focus on gratitude and growth. When you put yourself into a state of gratitude, feelings of stress, anxiety and depression melt away. Look for the lessons, gifts and growth that are resulting from the pandemic. Those who have struggled are more likely to help others in need, be more inclusive and feel empathy for those in pain.

I’ll leave you with this relevant quote from Haruki Murakami: “And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive … But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” &

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN COUNSELING GIRLS AGES 6 THROUGH COLLEGE. HE RECENTLY LAUNCHED AN ONLINE VIDEO PARENTING COURSE, TAKING FLIGHT: EVERYDAY PARENTING WISDOM TO HELP GIRLS SOAR. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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MEN OF FAITH KENRICK-GLENNON SEMINARY

by stephanie wallace THE CHALLENGES OF THE PANDEMIC HAVE HIGHLIGHTED the important role spiritual leaders play in so many lives. Thanks to years of hard work and training, they have the wisdom and compassion necessary to advise and comfort during difficult times. With a rich heritage of philosophical, theological and pastoral service, Kenrick-Glennon Seminary has been helping form the religious leaders of the Catholic Church since as far back as the 19th century.

The seminary offers both graduate and undergraduate programs with a curriculum that focuses on the spiritual, intellectual, pastoral and human formation of its students. Like so many learning institutions, Kenrick-Glennon was forced to transition to distance learning in March. “Professors used recorded lectures, Zoom meetings and other tools to continue classes and formation exercises virtually,” says Kate Sauerburger, director of development. “Our program is so much more than the classroom. The priesthood is about being part of a community. We used technology to stay in touch as much as possible and livestreamed Mass from the chapel.” Seminarians continued to serve in parishes, finding new ways to minister to those in need.

This month, students will return to campus to resume in-person learning with new social distancing protocols. Sauerburger notes the challenges of the pandemic have helped them grow in their ministry. “Our mission is to prepare good, holy, healthy men for the priesthood. A large part of that is meeting people at all stages of their lives, whether it’s the joy of a birth or the grief of a funeral,” she says. “With COVID-19, we were all thrown into a new world. Our seminarians had to figure out how to be a positive pastoral presence while dealing with their own struggles.

It was a big challenge but also an unexpectedly powerful teaching point.” Even with these new obstacles, 33 men were ordained this spring to the priesthood and transitional diaconate.

Kenrick-Glennon’s programs are made possible through the generosity of donors and its annual Convivium Dinner Auction, the seminary’s sole annual fundraising

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event. Saurburger says the plan is to still hold the event in person Nov. 7 at the Chase Park Plaza Royal Sonesta St. Louis, but special measures are being taken to address health and safety concerns. “Convivium is essential to sustaining our mission, so we are taking a multi-pronged approach this year,” she explains. “We want to connect with as many people as possible, and that includes those who aren’t comfortable attending in person.”

The evening begins with Mass live-streamed from the Chapel of St. Joseph at Kenrick-Glennon. For guests attending virtually, the seminary is partnering with Butler’s Pantry to offer an at-home dinner option, which will include a meal, signature cocktail and other goodies. Virtual guests also will be able to participate in the auction through mobile bidding. “Supporters who cannot attend in person or virtually still can participate in our raffle,” Saurberger adds. “They just need to buy a ticket, and they’ll potentially win a big prize.”

With the COVID-19 situation evolving daily, she suggests FU ND RA IS ER PR EV IE W people stay updated through Kenrick-Glennon’s social media pages. “If anyone is interested in Convivium or seminary life in general, that’s a great place to get info,” she says. & SPEC IAL SECT ION

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Virtual Celebration of Gratitude and Motherhood Although we will not be gathering in person due to the pandemic, we hope you will join us in spirit the week of September 7- September 12 and tune in for videos honoring our donors, volunteers, Birthright moms and their babies.

We appreciate your support as the pandemic has caused added hardship for many of the women we serve. Sponsorship opportunities are available at BirthrightGala@eventbrite.com.

Birthright Counseling, St. Louis provides non-judgmental counseling and practical assistance to women from the beginning of pregnancy for as often and long as needed after their babies are born. In 2019 we provided counseling for 1192 women and celebrated the births of 608 babies.

Our services are free of charge and free of judgment.

Visit us at birthrightstl.org to learn more.

Birthright Counseling, St. Louis is delighted to present Mrs.Carole McClurken with the 2020 Monsignor Hartnett Award, which is awarded to those who exemplify an outstanding dedication to our mission of Love, Hope and Life. Carole has been a Birthright volunteer for 20 years and continues to inspire everyone with her energy and devotion to the women we serve.

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Challenging times often bring out the best in people.

This pandemic has been no exception, with St. Louisans rallying to support each other and the nonprofits that serve our city. But COVID-19 also has brought unique challenges to those organizations. We reached out to three local nonprofits to learn about the roadblocks the pandemic has presented and see how they got creative to fundraise.

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Held at The Ritz-Carlton, the event celebrated Provident’s 160 years of service and the 54th anniversary of its Life Crisis Services. This year, it joined with Mary Ryder Home to help individuals and families through counseling, suicide prevention and intervention, and community support programs. guests: Executive director Kevin Drollinger, board chair Jack Lay, Spirit of Provident Award recipient Larry Thomas, Jackie Kaiser, Volunteer Award recipient Dan Seibert

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Recently, COCA celebrated 1. the completion of its Create Our Future campaign, which raised $49 million to support the construction of the Ferring East Wing and to fund scholarships, support services and educational programming.

This year also was meant to mark the return of its signature fundraising event, COCACabana, to its own campus in April. When the pandemic struck in March, the event quickly had to be reorganized virtually. “Being creative is what we do every day, and we just ended up having to do it a little more,” says Virigina Howell, director of marketing and sales. 3.

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The event was themed COCAchella and was planned to feature live performances from local musicians. To replicate the experience virtually, COCA filmed and streamed the artists along with performances from its students. It also offered the option of a catered meal from Butler’s Pantry that was delivered to guests’ homes. “We had 1,700 people tune in,” Howell notes. “The support of our donors and sponsors really made the event possible. It was COCA creativity combined with the community.”

That creative approach to problem-solving has allowed COCA to continue bringing its services to St. Louis. In July, it held an online summer camp. In the fall, it plans to offer both on-site and virtual classes along with tours of the new facilities. “We want to ensure that this is a welcoming and inclusive space,” executive director Kelly Pollock says. “Somewhere we can tell the stories that need to be told, develop voices that need to be heard, connect people in more meaningful ways and make art that feeds our community’s spirit and soul.”

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The pandemic has made the American Heart Association’s (AHA) mission even more critical. “With COVID-19, there is a domino effect,” executive director Jennifer Jaeger says. “It has the potential to impact people’s health and wellbeing for years to come.” She notes that with heart attacks and strokes, people are

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now less likely to call 911 when experiencing symptoms because they’re afraid to go to the hospital. This makes recovery more difficult and increases patient deaths. “It’s more important than ever that we keep educating the public,” she adds.

In May, the nonprofit held its annual Metro St. Louis Heart Walk, but the event looked very different thanks to social distancing.

It was held virtually with people walking on their own and raising money using an app. Jaeger says one of the first challenges was figuring out how to engage workplaces. “Many businesses create teams for the event, but they were working remotely,” she explains. The AHA provided online learning resources about staying active while at home and taking care of mental health. It also created videos promoting the walk, and supporters stepped up with virtual fundraising on Facebook, Instagram and Zoom.

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“Social media engagement was 10 times more than for previous walks,” Jaeger says. “People kept participating even after the official day of the event passed.” She adds this year’s experience taught the AHA to be more innovative when it comes to planning. It also learned to expand events to be more inclusive through virtual tools. “When making a pivot like this, you can feel like you’re burdening your supporters,” she notes. “But I saw that overwhelmingly, people just want to help.”

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central institute for the deaf Like any other school, Central Institute for the Deaf (CID) made the transition to virtual classes this spring. Accommodating the unique needs of its students made the switch extra difficult. “For children who are deaf and hard of hearing, using Zoom and other software with a hearing aid or cochlear implant is a challenge,” executive director Robin Feder says. Another challenge was figuring out how to perform maintenance on cochlear implants and hearing aids from a distance. Its audiologists video chatted with parents initially and then started offering curbside services.

CID also had to make arrangements for its annual gala, CID Out Loud! Instead of creating a single virtual event, the school decided to offer five days of auctions and programming to promote its mission and services. “Each day, we sent out another video showcasing our students and their success,” Feder explains.

“We also had a special guest appearance from former Blues player Brett Hull, which many guests were thrilled about.” The event included an auction, wine pull, raffle and paddle raise.

Feder says the innovation CID was forced to do will benefit the school. From helping instruct parents over Zoom to planning an entirely virtual event, the pandemic has been a learning experience. Next 6. spring, she notes that the school hopes to apply some of those lessons in a hybrid event, offering both in-person and virtual components. “We’re very grateful for the support CID Out Loud! received this year,” Feder notes.

“The funds will help families access education regardless of their ability to pay tuition.”

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THOMPSON FOUNDATION FOR AUTISM

The Thompson Foundation is hosting its annual Heroes Among Us Gala virtually on Oct. 1. Honorary chairs are former St. Louis Blues player Chris Thorburn and wife, Sara, who are parents of a child with autism.

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Friends and benefactors of Kenrick-Glennon Seminary will celebrate the formation and education of future Catholic priests at the 28th Annual Convivium Mass & Dinner Auction on Nov. 7. Attendees can choose to participate at home with “party in place” packages in partnership with Butler’s Pantry.

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t is always A calm environmen video calls. best for important make sure Close the door, and our household other members of y iet and space while qu e m so ou y ow all session.” your meeting is in -Chrissie

If you are new to the world of videoconferencing for work, it can be daunting trying to decide how to look best for the camera. Whether you’re interviewing for a job, connecting with a company executive or hoping to impress a client, think carefully about the details so you’ll project confidence and professionalism.

Before your video meeting, it’s a good idea to hold a practice session. Open the camera on your laptop, and try out different clothing colors and hairstyles. Fabric hues may appear different than they do in ‘real life,’ so make note of the ones that best complement your hair and skin tone. Snap some pictures and save your top looks for future reference.

Clothes It’s easy to get a bit too casual when you are Skyping or Zooming from the comfort of your living room. Consider wearing the same kind of crisp, tailored clothing you would choose for an in-person business meeting. “Don’t forget to iron or steam whatever you put on,” says T&S fashion editor Chrissie Wojciechowski. “Video angles are not always flattering, so if you’re worried about a double chin, try something like a nice turtleneck.” Aeron Sheffield, medical spa director at Ethos Aveda Salon & Spa, says outfits in blue, black or gray look smart and professional, while small, busy patterns and checks or stripes should be avoided.

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Wojciechowski advises shampooing, drying and styling your hair carefully before a video appointment. Sheffield says Ethos stylists recommend hairdos that are softly curled or straight with a bend at the end, but not pushed behind the ears.

Makeup

It’s important to keep your face and skin looking soft and natural, Wojciechowski says. Don’t go for overly bright lipstick or eye shadow.

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Depending on your skin tone, try fresh, subtle shades in neutrals, corals or pinks.

“Less is definitely more when it comes to makeup,” Sheffield agrees.

“It can look very distorted on a video call. The natural approach is always safe, and it still gives you that put-together look.”

Jewelry

Try a few different combinations during your practice run.

Again, keep it simple—modest earrings and a subtle necklace usually work best.

Location and camera angle

Setting your laptop directly on your lap results in an upward angle that may highlight neck wrinkles and double chins. Try elevating your computer on a solid cushion or lap desk to achieve a more flattering view.

It’s also important to pick an attractive area of your home as a backdrop. Use a neutral wall background without shadows, and stay away from bedrooms or other areas that are too personal or casual.

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WE ARE THE GATESWORTH FAMILY. We are grateful for our residents and their words of wisdom, and we celebrate their resilience and positive outlook.

While life looks a little different right now, the spirit of our community is thriving, and our commitment to exceptional and personal attention remains steadfast.

Exceptional People. Exceptional Living.

We invite you to learn what retirement living at The Gatesworth is all about. We’d love to get to know you.

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COVER STORY – SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital

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GLENNON GALLOP, HELD VIRTUALLY SEPT. 19, SUPPORTS THE DANIS PEDIATRIC CENTER AT SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL. PICTURED ON THE COVER: ELIZABETH RHYNE, RN, CPNP, IBCLC, BRITTNEY BUFORD WITH DAUGHTER KHAMORA AND SON KING. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.577.5605 OR VISIT GLENNON.ORG/GALLOP. COVER COURTESY OF SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

COVER STORY

SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL by stephanie wallace WHEN BRITTNEY BUFORD WAS 7 YEARS OLD, she was diagnosed with diabetes. Her mother began taking her to The Danis Pediatric Center at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital, and Buford never forgot the care and support her family received. Now a mother herself, her three young children, 2-year-old King and 18-month-old twins Kherris and Khamora, also go to the center. “When I was a kid, the staff at Danis Pediatrics supported my mother when she didn’t know what to do,” she says. “Now, they’re helping me with whatever I need. It’s the difference between being treated like just a patient and being treated like family.”

Buford began working with pediatric nurse practitioner Elizabeth Rhyne, RN, CPNP, IBCLC, when her son King was a newborn. “At one check up, Brittney told me she was pregnant with twins,” Rhyne recalls. “I admire her so much. She has such strength and determination, and her kids are her world.” The girls were prematurely born at 27 weeks. Buford kept Rhyne up-to-date on their progress. Khamora was discharged first and does not seem to have ongoing medical conditions. Kherris faced several serious health issues, and Buford eventually had her care transferred to SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. “I had been a patient there until I was 18; I knew it’s where I wanted my baby to be,” Buford explains.

Challenges Kherris has dealt with include adrenal suppression, bronchopulmonary dysplasia, some developmental delay and a gastrostomy tube for enteral feedings. She also had to have heart surgery, a daunting prospect for her mother. “The doctors and staff did so much to comfort me, and her heart surgeon, Dr. Andrew Fiore, was absolutely wonderful,” Buford says. “With Cardinal Glennon and The Danis Pediatric Center, I don’t have to worry about anything. They build a bond and create trust with their patients.”

To help manage all of Kherris’ specialists, Buford is part of the Complex Medical Program, which coordinates appointments, helps with accessibility and facilitates communication between families and doctors. Rhyne says it’s a bonus of being associated with SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, and The Danis Pediatric Center has its

BRITTNEY BUFORD WITH HER CHILDREN KHAMORA, KHERRIS AND KING

PHOTO COURTESY OF SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

FAMILY CARE

own comprehensive array of services, including mental health, social support, foster care, behavioral health and parenting. “I’m amazed by all of the unique programs within our clinic that aren’t typically offered in an outpatient setting,” she notes. “A majority of our patients are on Medicaid, and they face a variety of challenges and high-risk social situations. It’s important that we are able to provide for them on a variety of levels, not just medical care.”

To support The Danis Pediatric Center, St. Louisians annually gather fieldside for Glennon Gallop, an exciting polo fundraiser. Due to the pandemic, this year’s event will be held virtually Sept. 19. Along with an online program and auction, the Patio Polo Package brings the party to your home with fine wine, bourbon and a polothemed game. “The SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Foundation always does a phenomenal job making every Glennon Gallop special, and this year will be no exception,” Rhyne says. “It will be a great way to spotlight the outstanding programs we have at the center, and the event will allow us to grow and continue supporting our families.” &

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FEEDING GOOD

Local nonprofit GiftAMeal has shown it pays to give back. In partnership with Operation Food Search, the organization feeds those in need. To participate, just download a free mobile app and share photos of meals enjoyed at partner restaurants. After working with Bloom Café for 17 months, 424 customers shared photos, helping provide more than 1,400 meals. The program also was beneficial to the restaurant.

GiftAMeal users spent 25% more per check, were 20% more likely to return and tipped 34% more.

A SIDE OF SUPER

Katie’s Pizza & Pasta Osteria has partnered with organic juice and bone broth company Beets & Bones to give St. Louis a healthy boost.

A custom superfood juice blend is free to all customers, including curbside pickup, to help improve their immune systems. The specially designed drink includes Tuscan kale, Italian parsley, pear, orange, ginger, lemon and a vegan probiotic.

ARTFUL EATS

Gerard Craft and Niche Food Group will be acting as culinary consultants for the Angad Arts Hotel’s dining and beverage programs. The hotel previously partnered with chef David Burke and his hospitality group ESquared, but the partnership dissolved earlier this year. Craft’s initial plans include helping navigate the COVID-19 crisis, reworking menus, and getting the Angad Rooftop Terrace and main restaurant Grand Tavern up and running.

IN HIGH SPIRITS 〉〉

Congrats to Still 630! The distillery won gold medals for its Two Step Gin and The Last Rye Whiskey from the American Distilling Institute Judging of Craft Spirits, the oldest and largest competition dedicated to craft spirits. Both liquors were developed exclusively for The Last Hotel. …

Fall’s coming early this year—at least at Schlafly Beer. The brewery has created Apple Pie Proper Cider, a spicy take on a traditional cider with the addition of cinnamon, nutmeg and ginger.

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While it may sound like an oxymoron, Vegan Deli & Butcher is open at 524 S. Main St. in St. Charles.

The restaurant offers sandwiches, coffee, pastries and more. … Located at 1435 Salisbury St., Freddie G’s Chicken & Waffle specializes in, you guessed it, chicken and waffles. Along with putting creative twists on the classic pairing, the menu includes pastas, salads and sandwiches. … Perennial on Lockwood is open in Webster Groves at 216 W. Lockwood Ave. The collab between Perennial Artisan Ales and Olive + Oak offers 15 beer taps, wine and cocktails, and bar food favorites.

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THERE IS NOTHING LIKE SITTING DOWN

and enjoying a nice cocktail after a hot summer’s day. While margaritas, mojitos and daiquiris are popular go-to drinks, the seasonal advantages of fresh ingredients provide wonderful options to expand your cocktail game. Here are a few tips and tricks you can use to beat the heat.

> Use herbs and flowers from the garden.

> Flavored ice cubes are a fun and easy way to

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Muddling basil into a drink provides a refreshing alternative to mint. Burning a little fresh thyme or rosemary over a cocktail and then using it as a garnish is a great way to achieve new olfactory sensations. You can infuse flowers like lavender and hibiscus into gin or vodka and create amazing concoctions. The possibilities are endless, so don’t be afraid to use your imagination!

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spice up cocktails. You can make cucumber cubes by blending up a cucumber with water, straining the pulp and then putting the juice into an ice tray. You can make any sort of flavored ice cube in the same way, just be sure to add some water or else the cubes will have too much sugar and melt too quickly. You can even make spicy ice cubes for your Bloody Mary by mixing hot sauce, water and a little black pepper and then freezing. The best thing about flavored ice cubes? They provide interesting colors and make your drinks look really cool.

> Make your own syrups. Simple syrup is easy to NOW ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS. Visit bjcmedicalgroup.org for more information on Jodie Rai, MD and what we are doing to keep you safe during your visit.

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make—just combine hot water and sugar. You also can make others out of agave, honey or even maple syrup in the same manner. Consider making fruit-flavored syrup by adding more sugar to a juice such as pineapple, orange or cranberry. This allows you to add the taste and sweetness of juice to a cocktail without adding volume to your drink. This technique is helpful when there are many different components to one cocktail.

The summer provides endless opportunities for cocktail experimentation. While the weather is nice and the produce is fresh, use some of these ideas to enhance your next happy hour while you are beating the heat. Cheers!

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Back to School During COVID-19 

by julia m. johnson

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Whether your kids are returning to a school campus or continuing to learn at home this fall, it’s safe to say that the upcoming term will be an unusual one. Just a year ago, parents and teachers couldn’t have foreseen how COVID-19 would alter the educational landscape. While some students have adjusted to the change, others may be feeling unnerved and in need of additional help. &

Taming the unknown

Hitting home

Uncertainty can take a toll on kids of all ages, from preschool to high school and beyond, says Molly Shaffer, a licensed professional counselor at mental health nonprofit Great Circle. “Whether students stay at home or go back to campus, the main issue parents should look for is anxiety caused by a change in their routine. Even a small amount can lead to bigger obstacles. Sleep disturbances, attention problems, combativeness, overreacting to small issues, mood swings, blowups between siblings and similar behaviors can be mistaken for depression or aggressive disorders, but sometimes, they are just caused by anxiety.”

Some children experience anxiety directly related to the illness itself, according to Craren. “They may have experienced symptoms, or they may have seen a relative or friend become sick or die from COVID-19,” she says. “That’s a tough situation, because it threatens their basic need to feel safe.

Parents should mitigate their own feelings to keep the home environment calm. Adults can regulate their emotions and do things to help themselves feel better, but kids’ thought processes are more black-and-white. If they pick up on their parents’ distress, they will internalize it quickly, and that can lead to anxiety.”

Licensed professional counselor Kristen Craren of Archway Therapy says kids’ feelings of instability are compounded when schools have to delay decisions about reopening. “Kids are left wondering if they will or won’t be at school, or if they will only be there part-time, and that can be disconcerting,” she notes. Personality differences feed into the confusion as well. “Introverted students may have been thriving in a stay-at-home environment, but extroverts likely are chomping at the bit to be on campus with their friends,” Craren says. “If kids do return to school, it’s important to give them some sense of control over the situation by explaining how face masks, handwashing and social distancing help prevent infection.”

Shaffer notes that honesty and a sense of balance are key. “Try to shield young children from TV and internet overload about the virus, but don’t attempt to hide the truth from them,” she says. “Get accurate information from medical and mental health professionals, and describe the situation in words that kids can understand. Find out what their questions are: Why do we have to stand six feet apart? What happens to the virus when you wash with soap? How does a face mask protect other people?”

Talk It Out RETURNING TO SCHOOL:

Shaffer also advises talking to kids about why change is a constant in our world. “Explain that some parts of the situation are out of our control, but there are things we can do to help,” Shaffer says. “Kids will be more likely to follow a guideline if they understand how it protects them.”

According to Craren, studies on children’s resilience during the pandemic are showing promising results. Parents are talking with their kids about positive coping practices, and the message seems to be getting through. To keep that trend going in the right direction, she advises consulting a mental health professional, especially if your child feels stressed or asks for help.

“Parents may not be aware that the mental health field includes different specialties to address specific concerns,” she says. “Look for a professional who specializes in family or child therapy. Interview the provider and ask about his or her background. Two or three good, constructive appointments may be just what your family requires; it also may be helpful for parents to attend sessions alone. Once kids are aware that their concerns about school are being heard and validated, it’s amazing how quickly the situation can improve.”

tips to keep in mind

LET KIDS KNOW IT’S NATURAL AND UNDERSTANDABLE TO FEEL ANXIOUS.  REASSURE THEM THAT SCHOOL STAFF IS TAKING MEASURES TO KEEP GERMS UNDER CONTROL.  HAVE YOUNG CHILDREN MAKE UP THEIR OWN 20-SECOND SONG TO SING WHILE WASHING THEIR HANDS.  LET THEM DECORATE A FACE MASK TO TAKE TO SCHOOL.  SHOW THEM HOW TO COUGH OR SNEEZE INTO AN ELBOW.  REMIND THEM TO TELL AN ADULT RIGHT AWAY IF THEY DON’T FEEL WELL. 

keeping the lines open

STAYING HOME THIS FALL:

 LET KIDS TAKE PART IN MAPPING OUT A DAILY SCHEDULE AND CHECKING OFF ACCOMPLISHMENTS.  ALLOW THEM TO HELP MAKE BREAKFAST OR LUNCH.  SCHEDULE 20-MINUTE BREAKS IN THEIR LEARNING, LIKE A QUICK VIDEO, ALPHABET SCAVENGER HUNT OR FUN OUTDOOR ACTIVITY.  ENCOURAGE THEM TO EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS BY KEEPING A JOURNAL, PAINTING, COLORING OR DOING CRAFTS.

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Whether due to allergies, cold, flu or even just changes in humidity, we all have had to deal with congestion and the discomfort that comes with it. COVID-19, however, has made even the smallest sniffle feel like a major problem. We reached out to Dr. Hamsa Subramanian, an allergist and immunologist with Signature Medical Group, to find out how the pandemic is affecting allergies and what you can do to stay healthy this fall.

Just as it has altered much of daily life, COVID-19 has impacted sinus health this spring and summer. Social distancing has led to a decrease in the common cold, and thanks to the prevalence of face masks, people are breathing in less pollen. “They’re seeing that it helps, and some have even started wearing masks while working in their yards,” Subramanian says. While face coverings may be helping with some outdoor allergens, the increase in people working remotely means that indoor ones like dust, pet dander and mold are more of an issue. “The increase in home improvement projects also contributes to the problem,” she notes.

Even without the added stress of a pandemic, Subramanian says fall always presents its own challenges. “Ragweed and mold allergens are very prevalent, it’s the start of flu season, and colds spread more when kids return to school,” she explains. “We don’t know what will happen this year with the new coronavirus, but we can tackle each piece of the pie individually. Medications can treat colds and allergies, and flu vaccinations help keep society healthy. Masks and social distancing cannot be stressed enough. They’re essential until we have a coronavirus vaccine.”

Subramanian also suggests preemptively addressing allergy problems you deal with annually. “Take an ounce of precaution to preempt your symptoms,” she explains. “If fall is a bad season for you, see your doctor now, start taking medication sooner rather than later and come up with a plan.” &

your symptoms Subramanian says many of ☛ know the symptoms of seasonal allergies can overlap with those of COVID-19. “You

won’t have a fever with allergies, so that’s a key difference,” she notes. “It’s important to think about your history. In other years, what symptoms have you had in the fall? Keep track of the pollen count, and take your allergy medication.”

ALLERGI E S C OVI D -19

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from the homeowners » Nathan and Natalie Swanson say this home has served as the perfect backdrop for their family’s early years. In need of additional space, they recently decided to move to another neighborhood, but Nathan says they will miss living in this lovely property. “We moved to the home from University City in 2016,” he notes. “We chose it mainly because it was close to my office, the schools are good, and we wanted a spacious backyard for our kids. We also love that the area is walkable, with parks, coffee shops and restaurants close by. It’s such a nice environment for a growing family.”

Where did you spend the most time in the house?

The kitchen was our family’s central gathering place. We have three young children, and we loved being able to cook dinner while they played nearby. We actually used the formal dining room as more of an informal one for our family meals, and we loved grilling on the patio. All of these spaces are well connected and have a comfortable flow.

Is it an inviting home for visitors?

This house makes it easy to welcome guests, and we held a lot of parties for family and friends.

It has the most functional and thoughtfully designed bar area I’ve ever seen. There are refrigerators and a wine cooler, and it’s close to

the kitchen, dining room and living commuting from this home is easy room, so it’s easy for guests to get a because the neighborhood is close to major highways. At the same drink and mingle. time, it’s not right on top of them, so highway noise and traffic are not a What about overnight guests?

My family often comes in from concern. The home also has tons of out of town, and this home is well set storage throughout, including the up for people to stay. There is plenty basement and garage. of space on the lower level, with high ceilings so you don’t feel hemmed What has the home meant to you?

We’ve had so many great family in. The comfortable guest quarters were among our main reasons for moments here. We brought our buying this house. The basement third child home to this house, bathroom has a steam shower with and it’s been the perfect place for a powerful rain head that our guests milestones like first words, first steps, birthdays, getting ready for always commented on. the first day of school and learning to ride bikes. We taught our children What else is practical about to do everything in the home, and the house?

I do a fair amount of driving it’s been a wonderful place to make around the state for work, and all kinds of memories.

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HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We recently purchased a ’20s-era brick, two-story home in a charming area of University City. We want to freshen up the exterior. Do you think adding shutters and real slate on the front porch (and not the main roof) would help the appearance? Would some different colors make sense? Finally, the landscaping and the stair rail are minimal at the moment. Perhaps you could suggest some upgrades.

Thanks so much, — U. CITY SLEEPER

DEAR U. CITY SLEEPER,

The battered (slightly angled) walls, large wood brackets and diamond paned windows are all classic components of the Arts and Crafts movement. This style is intended to impart a welcoming, casual charm that would be underscored with the addition of new wood shutters. New slate at the front porch could provide a jumping-off point for choosing new colors and won’t compete with the barely visible asphalt of the main roof. That said, a slate mix of green, blue-gray and maroon could be echoed with new trim, shutter and front door colors.

The landscape needs to be more “complete” with more continuous plantings. A bold base line of flowers would amp up the charm. Final details like the new slate-green handrail, window box and slate-blue urns pull the whole look together.

Hope that helps, —HOMEWORK

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LIVING THROUGH A PANDEMIC has made us all think about the design and utility of our homes more

than ever. We’re all walking through our houses and yards thinking about the projects we wish we had completed or items we could have purchased pre-COVID to make our lives more comfortable. Why wait?

Here are some of my thoughts on what you can still do to make life at home a little more COVID-friendly.

If you’re working remotely, updating your home office probably tops your list of home improvement goals. This layout accommodates two workers in one space in a stylish manner.

The RV is back! This home-on-wheels is perfect for vacations or to host guests in your driveway.

Home courts are not just for basketball anymore. In addition to hoops, this one from Sport Court allows you to play pickleball, shuffleboard and many other games.

A friend told me the best thing she has done during COVID was set up her desk in front of a window. Brilliant!

A swim spa can function as workout equipment, small pool or hot tub and can be camouflaged to look like part of the landscape.

I have always been intrigued by these modular structures you purchase pre-fab and install in your yard. Use as a quick escape from the family or as a conference center.

If you have an unused garage stall, consider a glass garage door, adding a mini split-wall unit and converting the space to a workout room.

If you have a pool, consider adding a pool house that can double as a guest house, kids lounge or office space.

Look to see if there is an easy way to add a vaulted ceiling to your existing deck to create a new outdoor room.

If you’ve got kids at home, there has never been a better time to install a playset. This one from Dream Play combines climbing, swinging and sliding in one.

I don’t know about you, but a second dishwasher during COVID has been a godsend. Consider adding a drawer unit to a bar area for overflow.

A wine fridge is a simple addition that can offer much-needed pleasure during COVID. Never has that nightly glass meant more!

Game tables are making a big comeback as a fun, family-centered activity. This one from Wayfair converts to three games: air hockey, pool and table tennis.

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These days, your home is likely the place where you work , play and exercise.

If spending more time within your own four walls has you thinking about improvements to be made, you’re not alone. Here is sage advice for turning forgotten spaces into useful places where you and your family can create, be productive and get fit—all under your own roof.

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There is probably at least one room in your house that isn’t getting much use, so why not give it a new identity? Tiffany Hively, sales and design manager at California Closets, says it’s easy to turn neglected space into a lovely new office, craft station or play area by installing custom storage and worktop systems.

Hively says the company is introducing new products designed especially for home use, including adjustable desks that allow you to stand or sit at your computer.

“They are motorized, raise and lower at the touch of a button, and help keep your arms at a comfortable 90-degree angle,” she notes. “Everyone’s height and body shape are different, and workstations should be designed accordingly. Ergonomics research shows that a customizable desk is better for your neck and back.”

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that hide cords and charging stations,” Hively says. “Keeping things out of sight contributes to an efficient, well-ordered home work environment.”

There also are options for the younger set.

“We can transform your guest bedroom into a playroom, craft area or study nook for kids,” Hively says. If you don’t want to give up the guest space altogether, the company can install an innovative hide-a-bed system with storage cabinets and shelves. “Many homeowners also are opting for cute children’s window seats with bookshelves on either side,” she adds. “Our products and systems come in a variety of colors and finishes, and we also offer countertops that are antimicrobial, self-healing and scratch- and fingerprint-resistant.”

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If you are adding a new home gym, you’ll need to think about practical considerations like flooring that is easy to maintain and equipment that meets your personal needs.

Alex Verseman, vice president at Missouri Floor Co., says the flooring material you choose depends on your budget and the types of workouts you will be doing.

“Many people are creating these rooms in unused basement areas that are private and out of the way,” he explains. “The flooring options that work best in these situations are traditional rubber material in rolls or tiles, and Robbins Pulastic floors with a rubber base and poured polyurethane surface. Pulastic can be painted in any color or style you like.” He adds that both are environmentally friendly because they are made with recycled tires.

GET SET TO GET FIT. ONCE YOUR NEW FLOOR IS IN PLACE, IT’S TIME TO THINK ABOUT FITNESS EQUIPMENT DESIGNED FOR THE HOME. DICK’S SPORTING GOODS, A RETAILER WITH SEVERAL LOCATIONS IN THE METRO, LISTS THE FOLLOWING AMONG ITS TOP NEW PRODUCTS FOR PERSONAL WORKOUT ROOMS.

Verseman says your home gym floor should be shock-absorbent to minimize impact on the body, and it should be able to support equipment like treadmills, stationary cycles, elliptical machines and weights.

Polyurethane floors come with a higher price tag than simple rubber, but they also are more customizable.

If you engage in heavy activities like weightlifting, your gym floor can be designed to handle them, Verseman notes. “The key is to keep the floor as cushioned as possible but also strong and comfortable to walk on,” he says. “With Pulastic flooring, you can alter the thickness of the base layer and polyurethane surface depending on the level of impact you need it to withstand. Also, the polyurethane is easy to clean because it doesn’t absorb moisture.” &

BOWFLEX BXT116 TREADMILL A folding frame makes the system ideal for homes with limited space.

BOWFLEX MAX TRAINER M6 The vertical elliptical system saves space and works well in small homes.

SCHWINN 270 RECUMBENT EXERCISE BIKE The cycle supports up to four different user profiles, so the whole family can get fit.

TRX FIT SYSTEM The resistance training system includes door anchors that set up easily in any room.

FITNESS GEAR NEOPRENE DUMBBELLS Weights have comfortable grips and are available in 10 sizes for teen and adult use.

GOFIT KETTLEBELLS The weights feature vinyl-dipped bottoms to protect your floors.

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