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It’s a bird … It’s a plane … It’s the everyday heroes on the front line of the COVID-19 crisis! Members of the facilities team dressed as superheroes as they washed windows and rappelled down the side of the building to brighten the day of patients, families and staff.

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On behalf of the veterans nonprofit, retired U.S. Marine Corps Lt. Col. Ted Herman presented a check to the A.T. Still University-Missouri School of Dentistry and Oral Health to support its Missouri Smile Forward Veteran Fund. The funds will help take care of one of the most vulnerable groups during the pandemic.

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Families of three residents at the community were able to visit with their loved ones in the facility’s courtyard. They shared signs, flowers and balloons while maintaining a safe, 6-foot distance.

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I WANT TO START WITH A SIMPLE QUESTION. HOW ARE YOU? Take a moment to really think about it. Just answer in your mind; it will keep your response honest.

Whatever you came up with, I’m sure someone else reading this can relate. It’s how I find solace. Not one of us is alone in our battle. We are connected through scheduling difficulties, homeschooling problems, work frustrations, loud households, boredom, loneliness, pain and even loss. But there is plenty more, of course, that we can’t find relatable. Because while it’s easy for us to remark that ‘we’re all in this together,’ I appreciate what Lady Gaga pointed out on Jimmy Fallon’s show one night: We might be fighting the same virus, but we all are fighting it very differently. Not everyone has the same luxuries as most of us.

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That gives us an opportunity, a chance to show empathy and support those who need it. All of us at Town&Style are trying to do our part. My inbox is quite different these days. For one, it’s opened at my dining room table instead of an office away from my three children, two dogs and working husband.

Second, the restaurants, small businesses, boutiques, cultural institutions, nonprofits and entrepreneurs who used to email me with event dates and story pitches are asking for coverage

in a different way. They want to survive, and in order to do that, First day they need supporters in the most dire way. Because without of online learning ! locals who aid in their efforts to remain open, they won’t make it. I am desperate to get the word out for all of them. Since this started, my editorial team has been writing content for our website to share the stories of our community. We’ve created various guides under a COVID-19 tab on our home page that list updates and notices for different industries. We are maintaining a strong social presence to keep our readers informed and engaged. We want to survive, too.

We’ll only all make it through if we each do our part. Chris Kerber, the focus of our inaugural Off the Cuff with Claiborne column, noted that this is the perfect opportunity to teach our kids how being responsible impacts others. This time, our responsibility will determine the future landscape of our community.

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THE COVID-19 CRISIS MAY HAVE PLACED FUNDRAISING EVENTS in a holding pattern

this spring, but it also has brought out the creative side of Central Institute for the Deaf (CID) employees, according to executive director Robin Feder. When social distancing measures made an in-person gathering impossible, staff members put their heads together and converted the school’s annual CID Out Loud! gala into six days of online activities.

The event, originally planned for May 9 at The Ritz-Carlton, now will run May 4 through 9.

There will be an ongoing virtual auction with exciting prizes, a paddle raise and a raffle, along with other activities. “It’s been a challenging task putting this together, but everyone has contributed ideas and risen to the occasion,” Feder notes. “Our generous sponsors have stuck by us, and we’re planning several ways our virtual guests can support us from home.”

Feder says auction items include a St. Louis Blues party suite, a stay at a Destin vacation home, Cardinals green-seat tickets, an Idaho fly-fishing getaway, exciting golf packages, wine tastings and a family portrait session with Strauss Peyton Photography. The paddle raise will directly support scholarships for students.

What sets CID apart from other schools for the deaf is its focus on teaching children how to interact and express themselves, Feder says. The approach attracts students from all over the country.

While other schools often concentrate on sign language, CID teaches verbal communication with the goal of reintegrating students into their neighborhood schools. Most attend CID programs for four or five years. And no child is ever turned away because of a family’s financial circumstances.

Feder adds that CID graduates grow up knowing how to serve others because of the caring support they have received. “Right now, we have a former student who is doing an internship with us while earning his Ph.D. in audiology,” she says. “It’s so satisfying to see our alumni go on to productive careers and apply what they have learned here. They have the tools to be successful in all kinds of fields.”

Each year, fundraising efforts make it possible for the school to offer critical help to more hearing-impaired children, including those who would not be able to receive services otherwise.

“Our dedicated staff currently serves about 200 families a year,” Feder says. “Normally, we offer programs on our campus as well as parent coaching visits at home, but we are providing classes and programs remotely right now.”

CID’s youngest students under the age of 3 are served through the school’s Joanne Parrish Knight Family Center. “It’s crucial for them to receive services at that age because their brains are starting to get into learning mode,” Feder says. “When you are teaching kids the skills to communicate for the rest of their lives, every minute and every effort counts.” & APRIL 29, 2020

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fight to find a treatment for COVID-19, and SLU School of Medicine alum Dr. Stephen Peiper (‘77) and his wife, Zi-Xuan Wang, Ph.D., donated to the cause. Their gift of $750,000 to the SLU Center for Vaccine Development will help fund research to develop immunizations against the new coronavirus and other illnesses and will establish the Stephen C. Peiper and Zi-Xuan Wang Institute for Vaccine Science and Policy. Rex and Dr. Jeanne Sinquefield also have donated more than $765,000 for COVID-19 specific research at SLU.

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St. Louisan Karlie Kloss is once again giving back to her hometown through Beyond Meat’s Feed A Million+ pledge. The company wants to distribute more than 1 million plant-based Beyond Burgers to frontline workers and organizations in need nationwide. Kloss sent deliveries to St. Louis Area Foodbank and The Food Bank for Central & Northeast Missouri.

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Julie Peters officially took charge after serving as the interim leader and plans to build on the rich 135-year history of the organization and expand its mission.

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ONCE UPON A TIME, one of my best friends, Raschelle Burton, deserted me. You might remember her; we used to write a column together for Town&Style called Backtalk. She claims she had to move to Boston for a job, something about supporting her two daughters. So now we spend a lot of time talking, often on FaceTime. I thought it might be fun to relive the old days and share some of our thoughts with you.

Me: What percentage of people on Zoom work calls do you think are actually in pajama pants?

RB: Well, I don’t really think about my colleagues from the waist down, and I’m not going to start now.

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what is happening above the waist.

In the beginning, people groomed themselves and wore nice tops; now, people just come as they are: bed head, unshaven and bushy eyebrows.

And we’re all gray (who knew?!). But to be honest, I appreciate this au naturel approach. It saves a ton of time and money. I hope it outlives the virus … well, except for the gray hair part.

I’m never going gray. I’m brown until I’m down.

Me: I still go to the grocery store once a week to pick up fresh vegetables and meat. What is the polite way to tell someone to back the f*ck up when they start crowding you as you pick out peppers?

RB: My first inclination would be to cough on them, but did you know

that law enforcement officials are now charging people who do that with felonies or acts of terror? And rightly so. I heard about a woman who made her mask out of material emblazoned with tiny penises that just looks like a cute pattern from afar. But when someone gets close enough to react to it, she tells them, “If you can see what they are, you’re way too close.” I think this is brilliant; we should all use our face masks as billboards. Don’t want to walk around with a bunch of penises on your mouth? Opt for a print that states: If you can read this, you’re too close.

Me: I was totally stunned when I realized toilet paper was going to be the commodity people hoarded.

I have a niece who predicted this back in February and now has enough rolls

for the entire Fitzgerald family for three days.

RB: Remember when toilet paper was so plentiful we used it to vandalize trees? I have no idea how it became THE item to hoard—you can’t eat it, it doesn’t give you a buzz, and let’s be honest, it isn’t even the best way to keep your bum clean. Here are the things I’ve hoarded: Fireball whiskey (yes, it burns my throat, but it’s delicious), face masks (not the ones to keep you safe, the hydrating kind because I need good skin now that I’m makeup free) and socks (because I don’t need shoes anymore, and it’s still cold in Boston).

While you all keep chasing after the elusive TP, I’ll be over here shrinking my pores and staying warm on the inside and out.

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Like many businesses, I’ve had to close my office due to the COVID-19 crisis. Most of my employees are working from home, and many are caring for young children as well as elderly parents while dealing with the anxiety of how this pandemic will shape their futures. Any advice on how to reduce their anxiety and boost morale during this unprecedented time?

This crisis has not only challenged the workplace, but it also has created havoc with the stock market and the health of individuals throughout the world.

Companies have been forced to reframe the way they do business at lightning speed to keep their doors open or, unfortunately, they have shuttered. No one knows how long this pandemic will last and the uncertainty of whether one’s job or, more importantly, their health or family’s health will weather this storm has created a sense of panic. As such, it’s crucial that leaders like yourself remain calm to help your team navigate these treacherous waters. Here are a few suggestions to reduce anxiety and boost morale: Be intentional about communications. Communicate weekly to update employees about the situation and invite them to engage in the discussion. To prevent the spread of misinformation through rumors and gossip, only share from credible sources like the CDC and WHO. Follow up with necessary emails to ensure clarity and that your team feels management has the situation under control as much as it can.

Use video calls for meetings. Virtual ‘face-to-face’ communications can provide a healthy dose of muchneeded socialization. For onsite employees, mitigate concerns by adding more hand sanitizers, disinfectants and Clorox wipes, and supplying face masks.

During weekly meetings, let your team know how much you value their work and thank them for their dedication to the job, especially under such extraordinary conditions.

Continue to educate them about their health care coverage, employee assistance program and the ongoing importance of healthy self-care and staying safe. Host virtual awareness sessions to educate employees on how to reduce anxiety and boost their immune systems with healthy eating.

If an employee is experiencing an illness or a hardship, discuss ways your team can help. Perhaps everyone would be willing to pitch in and get healthy to-go meals from local restaurants/grocers, care packages or thoughtful greeting cards delivered to their colleague to alleviate their situation.

Life still needs to be celebrated. Don’t forget to acknowledge employee birthdays and service anniversaries. Set up a portal for employees to leave messages for one another to congratulate and wish one another well. Finally, before concluding your weekly conference call, ask everyone to share what they’ll be doing to keep their spirits up the rest of the week.

Leaders, more than ever, need to exhibit empathy, understanding and flexibility. These are extraordinary times, and your workers need to feel they can count on you and your leadership. Stay calm, and carry on.

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k l a t OF THE TOWNS by bill beggs jr.

ST. LOUIS IS KNOWN FOR ITS GENEROUS SPIRIT, AND FEW DOUBT THE METRO WILL RETURN TO THE VIBRANT, ACTIVE PLACE IT WAS BEFORE THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC STRUCK. THIS IS THE FIRST IN A SERIES OF RESPONSES FROM THE LOU’S BEST AND BRIGHTEST TO THE QUESTION: WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNED DURING THIS TIME, AND WHAT ARE YOUR HOPES FOR ST. LOUIS IN THE MONTHS AHEAD?

Jim Kavanaugh

Robert Chapman

CEO, World Wide Technology:

“As painful and devastating as this global crisis has been, it also has been amazing to see the spirit, grit, determination, heart, caring and selflessness displayed by people here in St. Louis and around the world. Difficult times reveal character, but they also reveal how truly selfless people can be.

A huge thanks goes out to all the frontline workers—and a very special thanks to all the health care workers! You are the true heroes in fighting this global crisis. Thank you for all you do—and please be safe!”

Gregory R. Smith

chairman and CEO, Barry-Wehmiller:

Todd Schnuck

chairman & CEO, Schnuck Markets:

“Rather than teach me something new, the pandemic has cemented for me something I’ve always known— Schnucks employees come together as one team during the most challenging times so that we can continue nourishing the lives of our customers and communities.

Although these are uncertain and unprecedented times, I’ve never been more proud to be a Schnucks teammate than I am today, and I thank all 14,000 teammates for working as hard now as ever to put our customers first.

St. Louis and our entire region will rebound—just as we do every time we’re faced with a crisis. Until then, please remember to wash your hands often, avoid touching your face—and know that Schnucks will serve you just as we have for 80-plus years.

chairman, Husch Blackwell:

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“I have learned a lot during this. Using Zoom for virtual meetings has been a challenge, but I think I have figured it out … hopefully. Also, I have realized I have way too many shoes, and I need to adhere to a strict spring cleaning schedule! In all seriousness, I am confident we will get through this and come out a much stronger region.

However, that means all of us need to adhere to the ‘stay at home’ order and continue to keep ourselves—and each other—safe and healthy.”

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Andrew Jorgensen

general director, Opera Theatre of Saint Louis:

“The best news coming out of this pandemic is that our regional elected and civic leadership is capable of acting appropriately in their approach to problems. Kudos to Dr. Alex Garza and those leaders who have come together to allow him to direct our response to this pandemic. My hope is that this sort of cooperation allows us to attack other regional issues with the same spirit of collaboration.

My other observation is that the problem with working from home is that you are always at work!”

president Enterprise Holdings Foundation:

“This has been an unprecedented shock to the global economic system. Despite a period of peace and prosperity and record employment numbers, studies show an extremely high level of anxiety. Many companies, unfortunately, view people as a function. And, most workers would fire their bosses.

The way you are treated? You take that home. I worry about the people in our company who have been unintentionally devastated. This pandemic has had immediate consequences, but it also will have secondary consequences and present sustained challenges. Employers must be more in touch with their humanity. Our 12,000 people around the world feel safe; they’re not dying for a paycheck. We treat them like your kids, or my kids. No one will be furloughed. Our product is our people. I’m not concerned about our machines; I’m thinking about the people who build and operate our machines.”

Joe Edwards

civic leader and U. City entrepreneur:

“I’m reporting from Blueberry Hill, where we’ve been ‘washing our hands since 1972.’

I’ve been impressed by how many St. Louisans have been following the expert medical recommendations. That will enable our many colorful neighborhoods to re-open sooner.

It will be exciting watching people enjoy the Delmar Loop’s unique restaurant, shopping, arts and entertainment choices again. Right now, there’s plenty of free parking!”

“The crisis has reminded us how deeply St. Louisans care for the organizations that make ours a great community—we’ve experienced it firsthand, as our patrons and audiences have rallied to our side since we were forced to cancel our festival season. Now is the time for everyone to continue doing their part to flatten the curve and defeat this terrible virus, but also, as we emerge from this crisis, I hope we’ll continue to see our community come together to support and sustain the independent restaurants, small businesses, museums, and performing arts and cultural institutions that all make St. Louis so special. We are proud to play a role in enriching the fabric of this community, and we look forward to re-opening our doors just as soon as we can safely do so.”

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A family court judge might also conclude that a party using these applications has something to hide. Otherwise, why use applications like this?

This may mean that the party ends up getting an adverse result as it relates to important components of a divorce or family law matter.

Ultimately, anybody going through a divorce or family law matter should speak to a lawyer about their specific situation. However, parties should also probably steer clear from these encrypted applications. While the privacy components may be appealing, and may conceal the exact nature of the communications, the appearance of having something to hide is likely not worth the risk.

Nonetheless, encrypted applications are likely to become an increasing trend in divorce and family law litigation. The popularity, and ease of downloading these applications, is likely to make it an increasing trend.

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WHILE YEAR-END ACTIVITIES FOR STUDENTS across the country have been put to a halt, that’s not preventing senior Giuseppe Di Cera from forging ahead with his future plans. In fact, he says seeing people come together in a crisis has strengthened his determination to build a career in law and politics.

Before the outbreak, Di Cera was named a delegate to the highly competitive United States Senate Youth Program, which grants scholarships and brings two students from each state to Washington, D.C., for hands-on learning about federal lawmaking. He also was named chair of Ladue Mayor Nancy Spewak’s Youth Council, which exposes students to the workings of local government. Di Cera says he was looking forward to both experiences, but he is making the best of the situation.

What is your family background?

I was born in St. Louis, but my family originally is from Sicily. My parents moved here from Italy in 1990.

and last summer, I worked on a project at Washington University to raise awareness of crimes against humanity. I also am involved with UNICEF and the Special Olympics.

How have you served your school and community so far?

I’m involved in our student leadership program, which brings young people together to fix problems. I helped develop a new class scheduling system that keeps students more organized and allows teachers to plan better.

I’m also vice president of our National Honor Society chapter, and I work with a program that mentors freshmen. I helped create a website that lists job opportunities for students,

What attracts you most about politics and public service?

I’m a people person. I love being around others, hearing about their experiences and helping them whenever I can; that’s really the essence of who I am. I also like to create rigorous challenges for myself, and I’m looking forward to the opportunities that politics will bring.

How are you staying busy at home?

I’ve spent a lot of time outdoors with my soccer

ball! For me, it’s more than a game; it’s a passion.

I’m always thinking about it. I stay in shape by practicing and doing drills. When this crisis is over, the first thing I plan to do is call my friends, get together and kick a ball around.

What are your future plans?

I’m going to the University of Chicago in the fall. I plan to play soccer and study business, economics and public policy. I think the work I’ve done so far will create a lot of opportunities for me to get exposure to the political world. I want to work on campaigns, go to law school and eventually run for office.

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At the beginning of March, most families were looking forward to graduations, vacations and other enjoyable spring activities.

But as the new coronavirus crisis unfolded and the economy began to take a hit, many plans and budgets were put on hold— especially for those experiencing pay cuts and job losses.

As difficult as the situation has been, it actually can provide some useful perspective, says Guy Hockerman, CPA, CFP, senior vice president and financial planning manager for Commerce Trust Co. He explains that it’s a good time to do a couple of things: Study past downturns to get an idea of what to expect, and re-examine financial priorities according to your current needs.

“We counsel clients to remain calm, think positively and take care of the most important things first, like making sure their families are OK,” Hockerman says. “Then, we can look at how the market downturn is affecting their investments and balances. This situation is like being on a boat in choppy water; it may be hard to focus on where you are going right now, but it will get easier eventually.”

Hockerman says he gets clients’ reactions to the market downturn and asks whether their investments have performed as they expected. “We revisit the planning we’ve done in the past and talk about any life changes like layoffs or salary cuts,” he notes. “Then, we answer the client’s questions and make adjustments where possible. For example, maybe you were budgeting for home improvements, summer travel or a semester overseas for your college student. These are things you probably can postpone now.”

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Joe Williams, CFA, director of investment strategy for Commerce Trust, says the current market situation is known as an ‘equity waterfall decline,’ or a sharp drop in equity prices due to a particular cause or event. He offers some interesting notes about the phenomenon, which hint at what the second quarter of 2020 might look like: ▶ There have been 13 waterfall declines, starting with the Wall Street crashes of 1929. All were triggered by economic events; this is the first caused by a virus. ▶ Investors usually react similarly each time there is a crisis.

The initial phase tends to be chaotic, with a decline of about 30% in equity prices as investors panic. A low is reached, then a sharp ‘relief rally’ follows for a couple of days. ▶ The rally fades and volume decreases, and the market usually revisits the low over the next couple of months.

Hockerman adds that once you have taken stock of family issues, it’s important to schedule an appointment with your adviser.

“He or she can meet by phone or videoconference to talk about changing priorities and strategies that make sense in this climate,” he says. “It’s also an ideal time for parents to talk with older kids about the ups and downs of investing, and why it’s important to spend and save wisely. This can be a wonderful opportunity to pull together, reinforce good financial habits and build family unity.” &

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Cella says he is proud to be part of the effort because heart disease deeply impacted his own family, and he wants to encourage others to practice healthy habits. “This is the 13th year Edward Jones has supported the event,” he notes.

“There will be hundreds of walkers from our company, which has raised more than $500,000 since 2007. EVENT CHAIR KEN CELLA I feel tremendous gratitude for the association’s work, and I know our community will continue to make a difference, even in trying times. Heart disease is preventable, and everybody knows someone affected by it.”

He adds that although the fundraiser is virtual this year, it’s expected to unite the community more than ever. “My family and I plan to take our dogs around the loop in our neighborhood and share pictures,” he says. “The Heart Walk is a perfect way to encourage well-being by creating healthier families and stronger communities. It really does the heart good, in more than MI SS IO N PO SS IB LE one way.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION

THE AMERICAN HEART ASSOCIATION’S METRO ST. LOUIS HEART WALK WILL BE HELD VIRTUALLY MAY 16. PARTICIPANTS WILL WALK ON THEIR OWN WHERE THEY CHOOSE AND WILL RAISE MONEY USING THE HEART WALK SMARTPHONE APP. PICTURED ON THE COVER: FORMER ST. LOUIS BLUES DEFENSEMAN AND HONORARY HEART WALK CO-CHAIR CHRIS PRONGER WITH EVENT CHAIR KEN CELLA OF EDWARD JONES. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT METROSTLOUISHEARTWALK.ORG.

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USO of Missouri helps our Active Duty, Guard, and Reserve members remain strong in good times and in tough ones. Our professional staff and selfless volunteers are committed to keeping our warriors connected to family, home and country during their service to our nation.

The St. Louis Airport and the Ft. Leonard Wood facilities have been forced to temporarily close due to protective measures regarding the COVID-19 pandemic. However, our staff continues to fulfill the charity’s mission. Part of that continued service includes care packages, online family reading engagements, and other virtual programming.

HELP US ENSURE THIS NEEDED HELP CONTINUES THROUGH THE COMING MONTHS. The USO of Missouri is an independent chapter of USO Inc. All donations stay right here in Missouri and four counties in Illinois.

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Heart Walk, participants show love for patients, families and themselves by raising money and promoting a healthy lifestyle. It’s an opportunity to make positive choices for yourself while doing good for others, says event chair Ken Cella of Edward Jones.

This year’s walk will look a bit different because of social distancing, but its purpose and meaning remain the same, according to Cella. Instead of gathering as a group, participants will walk in their own neighborhoods on May 16 and share their experiences online to inspire others. The goal is to raise $1.47 million for the local AHA chapter’s fight against heart disease and stroke.

“It definitely has been a learning process taking this event from in-person to virtual, but it’s been fun to improvise as a team,” says Megan Hoffman, vice president of development for the chapter. “We’ve learned a lot about our community and our volunteers. St. Louis is resilient, and we are excited to come together across the metro to walk, even if ‘together’ doesn’t mean side by side. Anyone can take part by lacing up their shoes, getting outdoors and walking with heart.”

Hoffman says participants can register for the event at metrostlouisheartwalk.org and download the Heart Walk smartphone app from any app store. “After that, you can send messages to friends and family, asking them to donate and join you virtually on the walk,” she says. “You also can share your photos, videos and fundraising efforts via social media. Walkers even can deposit donation checks through the app, just like mobile banking.”

On the day of the event, the association will offer special activities through its social media channels. “We have a few surprises up our sleeves that will be fun for the whole family,” Hoffman says. “People can follow along @AHASTL on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter and post photos using #HeartWalkSTL. We will share stories of why participants are walking and highlight how our partner companies are coming together to celebrate the community’s health.”

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St. Patrick Center clients are counting your support. Join us online Saturday, May 30, 2020 for virtual Irish Open! We’ll have some fun and raise resources for people in our community with the greatest need.

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Your donation of any size to the Jewish Federation of St. Louis’ Community Response Fund will help meet the immediate needs of seniors, the medically vulnerable, the unemployed, and so many others impacted by the COVID-19 outbreak.

Thanks to Michael and Carol Staenberg’s generous $100,000 matching grant, the fund is off to an excellent start. But we know the needs in our community are enormous and rising every day.

CAN YOU HELP TODAY? We face an unprecedented challenge. Throughout our history, we have faced challenges and prevailed through our united strengths, our beliefs, and our traditions. With you, we know Federation will always be Here for Good.

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We are offering an online platform for classes and events.

Our website features weekly updates of local learning and engagement opportunities, as well as a curated list of national and international Jewish learning opportunities.

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You can support the St. Louis Public Library for Give STL Day now through May 7 at givestlday.org/slpl. Thanks to you, we can provide free online digital resources to the St. Louis community.

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We give kids the best chance for recovery. We wish you good health and are asking for your support May 7 for Give STL Day! Donate at givestlday.org/rankenjordan.

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Donate to the SSM Health Urgent Response Fund, which is raising money to provide essential needs and relief services to health care workers on the front lines of COVID-19 in St. Louis.

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With COVID-19 restrictions, school visits from our therapy dogs were subsequently cancelled. We switched to virtual reading sessions, so children of military families at Fort Leonard Wood can continue to practice reading to attentive dogs like Bandit!

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Our thoughts are with you, our entire Muny family. We hope you stay safe, encourage you to stay in, and invite you to stay connected and entertained through our social media channels. More than ever, we want to “meet you at The Muny!”

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The 2020 Metro St. Louis Heart Walk has become a virtual event!

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It’s a way to spend time together while doing the work that makes our household function. We take walks, build forts and play make-believe.

It’s extraordinarily loud in our house in the evenings. The benefit of having three older children (ages 8, 5 and 3) is that they entertain themselves well and have similar interests. Our infant is by far the most chill in the home. Yinka and I talk about how it’s actually been a blessing to have a large family right now. It’s busy for sure, but it’s been good to have each other. We think of those who might be struggling with loneliness and anxiety.

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How are you lifting your spirits in the new normal? After the kids are in bed and my work is finished, I steal alone time to watch something on TV. Right now, it’s Little Fires Everywhere. Often, the escape is accompanied by a glass of wine, chocolate-covered almonds or sweet kettle corn popcorn. I wish I could do more house parties or Zoom calls, but my schedule is pretty packed with a fully integrated work and home life. I’m pretty guilty of being present where I am present.

Because I’m so present at home, I feel absent with friends.

How are you staying connected with your loved ones? Yinka and I meal prepped together recently, and that gave me immense joy!

We also work out together. My siblings and I have a group chat, and I belong to a women’s group. We held our last meeting on FaceTime, and it still lasted 3 hours! What was interesting to manage was the battery dying or moving to different parts of the house for either a better signal or better privacy.

What is your ultimate stay-at-home garment? I don’t own a lot of loungewear or workout wear, and I want clothes that are easy for nursing. I’m wearing jeans and a T-shirt a lot. Every week, I pick at least one day to dress up and wear perfume, style my hair, and put on mascara and lipgloss. I love those days. I love the concept of easy and elevated dressing. I have a feeling that my handbag line, korédé, will embark on that kind of offering post-pandemic world.

How are you reinventing Mother’s Day this year? I’m looking forward to creating an experience with the children mostly. My son wants to set up our tent and camp in the backyard, which would be a good place to brunch and build memories. I will miss my mother. She was to travel here from Nigeria, but COVID-19 has forced a ban on all travel there. We’ll spend it together apart, as they say.

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Mother’s Day is especially significant this year. So many moms have taken on extra roles—teachers, caregivers, stay-at-home parents—all while ensuring their families feel safe, loved and protected. And despite all of the memes circulating to say the contrary, they wouldn’t have it any other way. Here are ideas of how to honor them without leaving your house.

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 Brunch in Bed: Where else are you going to have it? Make your surprise even more meaningful with homemade decorations, a musical parade for food drop-off and flowers picked from the garden (colorful weeds work just as well!). If you don’t want to make it yourself, get delivery or curbside pickup from a local restaurant! They all need our support.  Spa Day: Since you can’t send mom to a spa, bring the spa to her! Set up a nail salon for manis/pedis, give her a massage on the couch (warm towels and essential oils are encouraged), create a steam shower in her bathroom, and offer her quiet time for meditation, yoga or a well-deserved nap.  Time Outdoors: While getting outside at a local favorite like the Botanical Garden or Castlewood isn’t an option, you still can throw a blanket in the backyard for a picnic and take a walk around the neighborhood. To up your game, create a scavenger hunt. Write notes along your route that she has to find telling her how much you love and appreciate her.

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A few to consider:  Fine Portraiture in Charcoal by Elizabeth Mayer: Order a gift card to have a truly memorable gift made, or submit your own photograph now.  Sign of the Arrow: The needlepoint shop is temporarily closed for walk-ins, but it’s offering shipping and curbside service. Call to order or get help on a project!  K. Hall Studio: Most women would be fine with anything from this beloved brand. Order online and pick up curbside at its corporate office at 715 Hanley Industrial Court. Bonus: 100% of profits from sales of the Limited Edition K. Hall Studio 5 oz. candles will support Feeding America’s COVID-19 Response Fund.  Genovese Jewelers: Mother’s Day and jewelry go hand in hand.

Schedule a personalized video shopping experience, and get free shipping with any jewelry purchase.  Laurie’s Shoes: What mom doesn’t love shoes?

Call for service, curbside or delivery.  The Service Bureau: The cute shop on Clayton Road always has perfect gifts for mom. Order online and pick up or have it shipped (free on orders of $150 and above).  Sallie Home: Find something special for her bed, table or tabletop!

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I SPENT SOME TIME seeking out the best non-tech activities and books for kids of all ages. Most of them are under $20, and they all encourage learning. Even better, quite a few are from local shops!

All websites for shopping are listed here, and I also linked them on my blog at kyleandkate.com. With all of us at home more than we’re used to, they are a great attempt to get your kids in front of something other than a screen.

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St. Louis City Block is one of the cutest toys I have ever seen for babies. It's a collaboration between Honeycomb, a sustainable shop and play space on Tower Grove Avenue, and Globe Totters. Each block, handmade of certified organic cotton and non-toxic inks, takes tots to a different city around the globe. $28 at ihearthoneycomb.com I love the Playable Art Cube/Ball/ Angle for little learners because it's a puzzle, toy and art activity all in one. My infant loves the colors, but your toddler also will enjoy it. You can manipulate it a million different ways for creative play and try to configure it into the shapes listed on the box. Cube: $24, Ball: $35, Angle: $40 at ihearthoneycomb.com

AGE 2 TO 4

I love this coloring book that effortlessly integrates patterns and counting lessons for the tiniest of learners. $5.99 on Amazon

AGE 6 TO 8

This awesome activity book allows your little learners to journal what a day in their lives is like while also learning about other cultures. It's the perfect way to broaden their horizons of the world from home. $13 at citysprouts.com and ihearthoneycomb.com This set from City Sprouts in Clayton teaches your kids about building an electric circuit using clay! It's at the top of my list for my daughter, who just turned 7. $22 at citysprouts.com

AGE 8+

I cannot get enough of this book I found on Crate and Barrel’s website. A new title from Nina Chakrabarti, it's a child's nature scrapbook. I believe your younger kids will love it, too, and it could be a fun family activity. It encourages kids to get outside and learn about nature through their exploration. $18.99 at crateandbarrel.com

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Hello friends, I can’t tell you how good it feels to sit down and write to all of you.

While the last 30 (seems like 300) days have been an unprecedented time in our lives, they have caused me to literally evaluate every aspect of my life and embrace every emotion in the process. When was the last time we really stopped to enjoy a long walk outside and notice everything around us, have extended phone conversations vs. text strings, or read a book or watch TV without guilt? When have you ever been so thankful for paper towels, toilet paper and trips to do any routine errands? The list could go on and on.

While I don’t get it right every day, I truly am trying to use this time to reset and control the things I can (which are few right now) and rely on my faith to carry the rest of the burden. Like so many around the world, I am not able to be with my mom who is in extended care with dementia. I am grieving in real time and holding tight to the memories of happier days with her. What I do know going forward is that I won’t put off coffees, dinners or invitations in the future because I am too busy or think there is always tomorrow. I am thankful on so many levels that I have had this chance to stop, be quiet and reconnect with so many amazing people who make up my tribe. I am so very lucky to be surrounded by the love of family and friends that never wavers. We are pushing, pulling and holding each other up on those days when it just seems to be too much. It also has been so freeing to openly communicate without makeup, pretty hair or clean teeth in our makeshift home studios. Reminder: You are amazing and beautiful! Continue to embrace the natural and authentic you.

My wish for all of you is that you and yours stay healthy and find joy in the chaos. A friend shared this Winston Churchill quote a few days into our stay-at-home orders, and I posted it in my home office (aka on my kitchen cabinet): “Never let a good crisis go to waste.”

Here’s to brighter days ahead, and until the next issue, please keep sharing the good with us at kkelly@townandstyle.com because together we are stronger.

Stay well.

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OFF THE CUFF WITH CLAIBORNE – Chris Kerber of the St. Louis Blues

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MAINTAINING ITS MISSION URBAN LEAGUE OF METROPOLITAN ST. LOUIS by stephanie wallace AT A TIME LIKE THIS, the incredible work being done by local nonprofits doesn’t stop. In fact, it seems to carry on with even greater strength, bringing positivity to the community when it needs it most. One such organization continuing its mission is the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis, which creates opportunities for success for the disadvantaged in the region. Along with providing support, the nonprofit also recognizes the individuals who make its work possible and tirelessly give back to those in need. The annual Salute to Women in Leadership gala honors the contributions of women who embody the organization’s values.

The gala was created by Urban League president and CEO Michael McMillan.

This year, it tentatively is set for June 27. If it has to be rescheduled due to COVID-19, all tickets will be honored for the new date. “The event focuses on women who have excelled, who are role models, who have broken through the glass ceiling and are using their personal and professional platforms to be an advocate for others,” McMillan explains. “We want to honor women who use their positions to improve the plights of those in the community who need assistance, and women who focus on helping the next generation be even better than the one before.” Honorees of the Lifetime Achievement Award have included women who have made an impact both locally and nationally in areas like business, the arts and civic leadership.

The Salute to Women in Leadership gala is the nonprofit’s second largest annual fundraiser. “It’s a wonderful evening for people to come together and celebrate the honorees, each other and the support they are giving the Urban League,” McMillan says. “We assist thousands of people in the region, and funds from the gala help provide resources to improve their quality of life.”

Even though the new coronavirus may end up impacting the Urban League’s event

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schedule, it has done nothing to slow down the support it offers the community.

Although, while the nonprofit remains busy, McMillan notes that the current crisis has shifted its plans for 2020. “Our main goals have changed from what they were on Jan. 1,” he says. “We’re in a global crisis, and our first priority is the survival of our clients.” To help disadvantaged people in the region find stability in these uncertain times, the organization is dedicating its efforts to helping with housing, assisting with utility payments, distributing food and personal care items, and supporting the recently unemployed.

Urban League has been helping its clients meet their basic needs for more than 100 years. Many of its services have been in place for decades, and they are being adapted for the current health crisis. Along with working toward people’s immediate concerns, the organization is looking ahead to how it can address the situation further down the road. “We’ve always had a huge emphasis on employment,” McMillan says. “While it remains to be seen how this will unfold economically, we’re focusing on pivoting people who may be unable to return to their previous careers toward companies and industries that are hiring now.”

The nonprofit needs support more than ever to ensure it can continue its work.

Along with financial donations, it can use nonperishable foods and basic toiletries for adults and children. “We welcome any contributions that can help us provide for those who are most in need,” McMillan says. &

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OFF the cuff w/claiborne chris kerber

A nearly two-decade career as the radio play-by-play broadcaster and VP of broadcasting and content development for our Stanley Cup champions, Chris Kerber is quite simply known to most as ‘ the voice of the Blues.’ Instead of getting to strictly talk hockey, family and interests, our current global climate forced a different conversation for this column’s inaugural inter view.

It ’s enlightening nonetheless and will make us all want to get back to cheering, Let ’s Go Blues!

WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING TO PA SS THE TIME? The station (101 ESPN) has hockey content on the air four nights a week on top of the normal segments.

We’re replaying great games from last year, as well as the playoff games with fresh, one-hour pregame shows. And then I’m tr ying to take advantage of family time that I wouldn’ t normally have right now.

HOW ARE YOU STAYING POSITIVE? I was taught at a young age by my mom to adjust how you have to, and don’ t worr y about what you can’ t control. So that ’s what I’m doing. We all have the oppor tunit y to teach our kids how being responsible impacts the lives of others and how we all have to do our par t .

YOUR HOME OFFICE IS A LIT TLE DIFFERENT NOW. I can adjust my schedule as needed to help out . My wife is a teacher, so when our schedules collide, we turn the dining room or bedroom into an office and teach the kids to be self-sufficient!

WHAT DID YOU THINK WHEN THE SE A SON ENDED SO ABRUP TLY ?

I wasn’ t surprised because it was the only way to go. We just have to accept that however this season concludes—let ’s hope with games and playoffs—it ’s going to be different .

LE T ’S MOVE ON TO THE FUN STUFF. YOU RE AD A BOOK ON SOCIAL MEDIA E VERY NIGHT ?

I was thinking of all of the families and kids out there who are Blues fans, and I came up with the idea.

Local authors have reached out to me, and parents send in pictures of them reading along with their kids. It ’s fun.

WHAT ARE YOU RE ADING NOW, AND WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BOOK TO RE AD TO YOUR KIDS? Caddyshack : The Making of a Hollywood Cinderella Stor y and Failure is Not an Option, the stor y of Gene Kranz , a NAS A flight director for many years. Kids’ book : I get a kick out of the Froggy series.

WORKING ON ANY HOUSE PROJECTS? We’re refinishing the basement , and I organized my closet . I threw out half of it because I’m not sure I should be seen wearing the clothes anymore. I’m not sure they were in style when I bought them. I’m a slam-dunk par ticipant for Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.

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ISN’ T YOUR WIFE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU LOOKING PRESENTABLE? Yes! When I travel, I pick out suits and shirts, and my wife makes sure I have ties that match. I always need help with ties. I have a hard time coordinating patterns, stripes and colors.

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WHAT ’S YOUR GO-TO DRINK ?

Any glass of whiskey, including bourbon and Scotch. Or, put a fully-loaded Budweiser in my hand, and I’m a happy man.

WHAT DO YOU MISS RIGHT NOW? I miss being able to gather with friends. It ’s one of the most impor tant things in life. I don’ t miss the hectic schedules for the kids’ activities or the hustle and bustle of ever yone around me.

WE WAITED MORE THAN 50 YE ARS FOR THE CUP. HOW E XCITED ARE YOU TO GE T BACK TO DEFENDING IT ?

I don’ t know that there is a team more favored to come out of the West on top than the Blues. I think the team had a ver y good chance to repeat , and I hope they get that chance. And I hope they get the chance with these players. &

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Self Care In a Time of Self Isolation

Ever since COVΙD-19 upended the globe, self care has never been

more important. Finding solace in even the simplest daily tasks can make a big impact on our overall mental health. There are plenty of ways to continue to take care of yourself while on lockdown. Here are five wellness rituals to incorporate into your daily routine (or lack thereof) that will make self isolation feel a little more manageable.

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aromatherapy

Around my fifth day on lockdown, I accidentally discovered the benefits of aromatherapy. I dropped rosemary oil into my humidifier after a particularly stressful day of WFH and rubbed the residual oil on my temples. It made a drastic, sudden difference in my mood and lingering headache. While we may not be able to stop and smell the roses right now, a little aromatherapy can provide a temporary escape.

stretching

Maintaining a certain level of physical activity is important— pandemic or not. But you don’t have to participate in the latest Tik Tok challenge or dedicate yourself to Ironman training. Stretching is a simple way to boost endorphins, prevent cramps and soreness, and break up your couch time! If you’re lucky enough to be at home with someone, have them join.

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Remember that serum you’ve been meaning to order?

Or that beauty routine you promised yourself you would start on Jan. 1? There’s no time like the present to pay a little extra attention to your skin. For those who wear makeup daily, take a break and focus on skin care. It will not only lead to a better complexion, but it also will help maintain a sense of normalcy when life feels like anything but.

reorganize your beauty products

Maybe your beauty cabinet is a mess, or maybe there are products you’ve been meaning to toss. Use this at-home time to get around to these chores. So many influencers have completely reorganized their beauty cabinets to Marie Kondo-like perfection. You don’t have to make yours look like The Container Store, but getting organized is a great way to lighten your load, both mental and material.

breathing exercises

Taking the necessary steps to strengthen your immune system has never been more important. A good night’s rest, staying hydrated, and self-isolating are givens, but there are other immuneboosting exercises that can help. The Wim Hof Method is a regimen that includes breathing exercises meant to increase blood flow, improve sleep and reduce stress.

His breathing technique is simple. Find the instructions online, or download the Wim Hof app.

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by julia m. johnson

MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH, a time to reflect on why mental and emotional balance is so important for our overall well-being. It’s also our third month in social isolation, which has led to business closures, job losses and financial hardships that have put extreme pressure on individuals and families.

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Stay Positive, Stay Healthy Major life disruptions like these only underscore the importance of self-care, according to Gary Morse, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist with the mental health nonprofit Places for People. He stresses that at any age, it’s important to come up with proactive ways of coping instead of just hoping for the best.

“This outbreak is unprecedented in most people’s lifetimes,” he notes. “Each person has different mental health triggers to deal with, whether it’s illness, family problems or financial strain, so the key is to identify yours and learn appropriate coping skills. Many of us are so used to running quickly through life that suddenly having to stay at home can take a toll as well. We can’t singlehandedly stop the pandemic, and the uncertainty of that may seem daunting, but there are ways to create solutions and gain some sense of control.”

Follow the rules. The more consistently we wear masks and practice careful handwashing and social distancing, the more we reduce our vulnerability (and that of others).

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Limit exposure to media. Having the TV on all day can lead to unnecessary worry, confusion and stress. Kids and adults both need breaks from information overload, including the Internet and social media.

Find other ways to connect. We are social creatures, so isolation can be tough, especially for those who are extroverts by nature. But there also are plenty of electronic ways to ‘meet up,’ like scheduling a video call with friends or playing online games together.

Take a deep breath. Meditation and mindfulness exercises can help you focus on proper breathing and relaxation. Even a quick break with 10 deep, conscious breaths can help ease anxiety.

Rest up and eat right. Nutritious, natural foods and seven to eight hours of sleep each night add up to better all-around health.

Practice compassion and gratitude. Call to check on neighbors, run errands for the elderly, and thank those who are working on the front lines. Doing good for others is always good for your own mental health.

Create moments of joy. Focus on small ‘wins’ each day, like special moments with your kids or blessings that make you feel grateful.

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“It’s normal to feel fear in an unknown situation like this, but the difference lies in whether we allow it to overtake us,” Morse adds. “Psychiatrist and author Viktor Frankl wrote that any freedom can be taken away except the freedom to choose your own attitude. Our ancestors lived through many hardships like war, famine and oppression, but they came out stronger because they knew the power of a positive outlook. In many ways, it’s in our DNA to be survivors.” &

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THIS IMPRESSIVE PENTHOUSE OCCUPIES THE ENTIRE 25TH AND 26TH FLOORS OF PARK EAST TOWER AND HAS MORE THAN 3,000 SQUARE FEET OF PRIVATE ROOFTOP TERRACES.”

— WAYNE NORWOOD AND BEN PATTON

4909 LACLEDE AVE., NO. 2501, CWE by stephanie wallace LISTING PRICE | AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST LISTING AGENTS | WAYNE NORWOOD & BEN PATTON AGENCY | JANET McAFEE REAL ESTATE PHONE | 314.629.3931

from the homeowners » Luxury living in St. Louis comes in all shapes and sizes, but to find the perfect option, sometimes all you have to do is look up. This two-story penthouse offers unparalleled views and stunning features like a chef’s kitchen and elevator. We talked to the current owner to find out about life at the top.

What have you enjoyed about living in the CWE? The most enjoyable thing for me is the ability to step outside my door and walk to almost anything. Some of St. Louis’ best restaurants are within a 5- to 10-minute walk, along with grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores and services—not to mention the incredible Forest Park, where I like to walk every morning.

The views are incredible.

There are no others like them in the city. Whenever I entertain or have company over, I am told the views are the best in St. Louis because they are 360 degrees with no obstructions.

Do you have a favorite room?

I like them all for different reasons.

My bedroom is my favorite because it’s my place of solace. When I’m not sleeping, I enjoy the wine room and Did you make any changes or upgrades having a glass from one of my favorite bottles with family or friends. I also love to the property?

I added an all-glass, enclosed wine the dining room when all of the place cellar that holds bottles I’ve collected settings are filled by my seven kids and seven grandkids! over the years.

What do you enjoy about the building?

Overall, it’s a world-class facility.

The people are extremely friendly. The party room has everything you need to entertain. The pool area has multiple barbecue options and a very spacious deck, and it’s great for relaxing in the summer.

Final thoughts?

You feel as though you’re in New York City. The terrace space, ambiance, walking proximity to everything you need—all of these amenities are top notch for a fraction of the price. You can’t beat it, in my opinion.

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Offered at $1,589,000 | 5200 SF fi fin nished living space

Wind your way through fragrant flowering trees into stately 7146 Wydown Blvd, a French eclectic four bedroom home resting on one of the largest lots of Clayton’s most coveted street. 5200 SF of light-filled living space that flows across 3 awe-inspiring levels. Enjoy a sun-soaked courtyard/deck year-round.

Set amid prestigious homes on this heavenly boulevard, you are close to parks, restaurants, shopping, schools, universities, hospitals and more.

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Offered at $950,000 | 3334 SF fi fin nished living space

$1,599,000 | 6011 SF fi fin nished living space

Elegant 4 bed, 3.5 bath home in lovely Hillcrest neighborhood just blocks from Clayton schools & Wash U. Leaded glass, hardwood floors, built-in bookcases, original artisan ceramic tile floor, media room, master suite with dual closets and third floor bedroom w/full bath.

Stunning 5 bed, 5.5 bath Traditional Country French home with main floor master suite, hearth room, bar & wine cellar. Three bedrooms upstairs with en suite baths. Fifth bedroom with full bath, fireplace, wet bar & sauna in lower level. Pool and outdoor fireplace in garden!

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Offered at $850,000 | 5636 SF fi fin nished living space

Offered at $749,000 | 3314 SF / 5000 SF fi fin nished living space

Exceptional 1.5 story home on one acre, level, cul-de-sac lot. Five bedrooms, three full & two half baths. Designed for entertaining with classic details throughout. Finished lower level. 9-foot ceilings. Three-car side-entry garage.

Your outdoor oasis awaits! Custom atrium ranch in a gated neighborhood boasts an enormous pool w/stamped concrete patio, pergolas, waterfall and lush landscaping. Top-of-the line appliances, wine cellar, the list goes on!

Sheryl Deskin Real Estate Team 636-534-8329

Tara Crater & Co 636-534-8227

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DEAR HOMEWORK,

Help me love my house again! Over the last few years, I have removed two dying shade trees and some overgrown bushes. I still want to remove the remaining clumps of tired yews but would like to retain the large white pine to the left of the garage. The concrete front porch needs hiding, and I need privacy there since I often leave the inner door open. I wonder whether I should change the color of the shutters to a light or dark green. What would you do to make my house look great?

Thanks for your advice, —LOOKING FOR LOVE

DEAR LOOKING FOR LOVE,

I’ve got lots of ideas. First, hide the porch slab with an evergreen hedge and then hang some flower boxes from the railings to give you additional privacy. Next, frame the corners of the façade with flowering trees and bring in some additional evergreen hedges capped off with a couple of clipped, round specimens.

Finally, an upright evergreen draws attention to the entry door.

Pale green shutters and a forest green front door give the façade a less formal look and blend nicely with the brick color as well as the landscape. All together, these changes transform the property’s somewhat forlorn feel and hopefully your feelings toward it as well.

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5 Bedrooms | 3 Full and 1 Half Baths BARBARA HARTMANN 636-394-2424

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GO GREEN HOME by stephanie wallace

Keeping your home clean doesn’t have to mean using chemical-filled products. Author, conservationist and T&S columnist P. Allen Smith has some natural solutions for life’s dirty problems.

WHITE VINEGAR: “There are so many things you can

do with vinegar when it comes to cleaning,” Smith says.

“And it evaporates quickly, so you don’t have to worry about your items smelling funky.” In a spray bottle, combine equal parts water and vinegar with essential oils for a safe, inexpensive, all-purpose cleaner.

TEA TREE OIL: The essential oil has antiseptic and

antiviral properties, and it can be used to deodorize your home and even fight mold growth. Smith recommends diluting it with water in a spray bottle.

VODKA: In place of chemical odor eliminators, Smith

We’re here to tell you there really are ways to make the most of being at home.

Now is the perfect time to focus on projects that haven’t made it beyond your wish list. In honor of Earth Day this month, take the opportunity to establish more eco-friendly routines for your family.

suggests combining equal parts water and vodka (isopropyl alcohol also can be used) in a spray bottle.

If you want a specific aroma, just add essential oils.

off the wall Sometimes, the hardest part of gardening is finding the space. Yards can be too small or shady, building raised beds is time consuming, and condos and apartments offer their own setbacks. Webster Groves resident Mark Woolbright owns Verdant Technologies, a locally-based maker of Varden, a vertical garden, or living wall. He says this type of garden is a great solution for limited space.

The indoor and outdoor systems can be mounted on a wall or fence, and the smallest option only needs 6 square feet to grow up to 36 plants. “It’s great for people who don’t have a lot of experience,” he notes. “You just have to introduce seeds or a live plug in the containers of soil.”

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Plants easily can be switched out with each season.

Woolbright says leafy greens and herbs thrive best in vertical gardens, but strawberries and small varieties of carrots and radishes also grow well. Larger vegetables like squash and bigger tomatoes, however, are not good options for the system. “It’s a great way to teach kids about where their food comes from,” he notes. “Plus, you know you’re getting clean produce because you grew it yourself. That’s a big deal.”

in the garden POLLINATOR-FRIENDLY: Bring bees, butterflies

and hummingbirds to your yard with Missouri-native perennials like butterfly milkweed, purple cornflower, aromatic aster and wild bergamot.

IMMUNE-BOOSTING: We’re all thinking about

our health a little more, so fill your veggie garden with nutrient-dense plants like collards, kale, onions and red bell peppers.

COMPOSTING: Food scraps and yard waste make up 28% of what we throw away. Keep it out of landfills while enriching your soil by composting, which only requires three basic ingredients:

1. Browns: dead leaves, branches and twigs 2. Greens: grass clippings, vegetable and fruit waste, and coffee grounds 3. Water: just combine brown and green materials in your compost pile or bin, and regularly mix and add water.

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Sheer Perfection! Built with the fin fi nest quality and architectural details, this home will have you at curb appeal. Impressive interior spaces showcase open light-fi fillled rooms on a grand scale with 10’ ceilings & 8’ solid core doors, impressive millwork including beautifully trimmed arched entries & elaborate ceiling treatments with cove lighting. The grand foyer fl flo ows seamlessly into the expansive great room which is open to the state-of-the-art chef’s kitchen.

Magnifi ficcent windows overlook the stunning outdoor oasis with a lounge area, sprawling backyard & large salt-water, pebble-tec pool & waterfall, off ffe ering an idyllic setting for the most discerning entertainer.

Paneled offi fficce/study off ffe ers 2 walls of builtins & a beautiful fi firreplace. The gracious main fl flo oor master suite features a cozy sitting room with built-in bookshelves and an ultra-luxurious master bath. Upstairs is large loft/sitting room, 3 spacious bedrooms & 2 full baths. Smart home Savant system & Lutron lighting system.

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#4 DEACON | HUNTLEIGH | $1,590,000 A Charles Eams original work of art with significant architectural detail, The Meyer Home, in sought-after Huntleigh, is nestled on 5 private, level acres. It stands like a fortress and was built with the utmost craftsmanship and care. This home is primed for a beautiful restoration to reflect the taste of its new owners or to serve as a blank canvas on one of the most desirable lots in St. Louis. The history, remarkable architecture, and layout of the home combined with this location and unique lot make it really something special.

Proud to be Locally Owned and Operated Since 1936

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835 JACKSON | UNIVERSITY CITY | $385,000

7948 PARK | RICHMOND HEIGHTS | $1,475,000

This exquisite home defines Hampton Park with its private park-like setting and stunning outdoor space. Both historic & traditional, custom millwork, hardwood floors & generous room sizes made for entertaining. An updated kitchen opens to the family rm with walls of windows offering picturesque views of the lush gardens, built-in pool surrounded by blue slate patio, outdoor pavilion & greenhouse. Finally, heated 5-car garage & whole house generator.

MARGIE KUBIK

314.954.2513

Storybook charm and numerous updates!!

The main floor begins with the light-filled living & dining rooms, both with gleaming hardwood floors and stained glass windows, a chef’s kitchen, open to the breakfast room, the family room, a master suite w/vaulted ceiling & finally the laundry and mud room with a multitude of closets. The 4 bedroom home is across from Mooney Park & a short distance to the Loop, Clayton,Wash U, BJC and CWE & Forest Park!

6355 PERSHING AVENUE | U CITY | $549,900

7117 FORSYTH BLVD | U CITY | $375,000

Residential building lot located just east of Clayton and west of Washington University. This beautiful tree-lined street is part of the desirable Forsyth Place neighborhood, an upscale community with charming traditional homes as well as many new homes built between here and the Clayton business district. The lot is level without impeding slopes.

With the necessary review & approvals from both St. Louis County and U City already secured, a ripe opportunity for an architect or custom developer.

LAURA DYER

314.737.0319

Updated home in Parkview, an urban oasis that encourages walking to Forest Park, Wash U or the “Loop”. Parkview is a picturesque neighborhood w/ a location you just can’t beat!. This home features: wood floors throughout, unique stained glass windows, large living room, dining room, updated kitchen which leads to the large sunroom addition, front/back staircases to the 2nd floor with laundry rm, master suite with private deck & stairs to the 3rd floor with the4th bedroom.

Proud to be Locally Owned and Operated Since 1936

314-721-4755 | gladysmanion.com

Highway P: A better whitetail sanctuary does not exist.

180+ inch deer. 8 shootings houses and 30 deer stands. CRP producing $45,000 annually. A must see for Missouri hunters

7444 WASHINGTON | U CITY | $939,000

Highway V: 440 acre farm abundant with trophy deer, turkey, and waterfowl.

Cash rents for $85,000.00 annually.

Perfect for 1031 income property.

FORD MANION

314.495.4757

Gorgeous, 3 year young 2 story brick and stone home. Over 4100 total living space with 5 beds and 4.5 baths. Great open floor plan, designed with today’s needs in mind. First floor offers huge kitchen with SS appliances, butlers pantry, wine fridge and large walk in pantry. Fabulous stone fireplace in Family room that opens on to lovely deck and freshly landscaped backyard.

ALYSSA SUNTRUP

314.359.3568

ASK THE AGENT WHAT PROJECTS CAN HOMEOWNERS DO NOW TO GET THEIR HOUSES PREPARED TO PUT ON THE MARKET?

Gladys Manion Real Estate LAURA DYER Declutter! Get rid of items you’re not using anymore; no one wants to see crammed closets. Depersonalize the house by removing any knick knacks or framed family photos from the bookshelves, and clean off your countertops. It’s all a great kickstart to packing!

The first thing you absolutely need to do is find an agent who will listen to what your goals and interests are with selling your home before anything else. A good agent will provide the proper guidance based on what’s important to you.

8227 MARYLAND AVE..

314.737.0319 LAURADYER@GLADYSMANION.COM

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Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate MARIA ELIAS

Keller Williams Luxury International SHERYL DESKIN

Curb appeal is everything. Clean and mulch the landscape beds, and make sure the trim is painted, windows are washed and screens are stored. The front door should be attractive and appealing; remove a screen door and finish with beautiful potted arrangements.

The spring market this year is a whole different ballgame. You only get one chance at a first impression, so your realtor needs to be well-versed in digital technologies that will show off your home in the best light.

Curb appeal, minor repairs and staging are always your best return on investment.

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Gladys Manion Real Estate MARGIE KUBIK

For curb appeal, add color to the outside by planting flowers and painting your front door a bold color to make your home stand out. Clean everything! Consult with an interior designer to arrange furniture and remove items to make the rooms feel open and less cluttered.

Take the time to select an agent who uses every tool to market your home. Now more than ever, videos and 3-D tours that allow buyers to navigate a home remotely are necessary to reach the widest possible audience.

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Coldwell Banker Premier Group MARK & NEIL GELLMAN The Gellman Team

Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty SAM HALL & J. WARNER The Warner Hall Group

First impressions are everything, and they start with the exterior: landscaping, touchups and repairs. Inside, de-clutter, stage furniture, do paint touch-ups, and remove heavy window coverings. Currently, we’re hosting virtual consultations on preparing your home for sale.

Under the current COVID-19 protocol, showings can be difficult to achieve. One of the best things a seller can do today is move out, freshen the paint colors and stage their home, making it as move-in ready as possible!

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Janet McAfee Real Estate WAYNE NORWOOD & BEN PATTON First and foremost, remember to keep the main objective top of mind. The goal is to sell the house. Take a surgical approach, and make changes and deletions that best serve the buyer’s needs. Make them want to buy your house, not someone else’s.

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$600,000 | Pr/SqFt: $180.51 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Janice Freeman 2710 Wynncrest Manor Drive $759,000 | Pr/SqFt: $164.11 Coldwell Banker Premier Group Real Estate Agents: The Gellman Team

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$639,788 | Pr/SqFt: $270.18 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agents: Linda and Kelly Boehmer

63021 700 Saint Paul Road

$675,000 | Pr/SqFt: $178.76 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Kathleen Lovett

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917 Thornberry Lane $656,000 | Pr/SqFt: $228.65 RedKey Realty Leaders Agent: Amy Wellman 884 Craig Forest Lane $680,000 | Pr/SqFt: $231.92 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Bridget Forbes

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$737,775 | Pr/SqFt: $234.66 MORE, Realtors Agent: Maria Kohrin 1328 Litzsinger Woods Lane $1,000,000 | Pr/SqFt: $206.31 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Marcy Byrne

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$462,500 | Pr/SqFt: $195.64 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Rachel Boxdorfer

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7618 Teasdale Ave. $636,000 | Pr/SqFt: $230.43 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Elizabeth Coulter

104 Arundel Place $666,000 | Pr/SqFt: $265.34 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Aurora Lane

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15 Topton Way, No. 2C $985,000 | Pr/SqFt: $439.34 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Terri Wolfner 631 E. Polo Drive $1,261,000 | Pr/SqFt: $296.08 Laura McCarthy Real Estate Agents: Alison Schneider and Allie Rossini

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