Town & Style 3.11.20

TOWN TALK+ major players

PHOTO ALBUM + spring for a cause

MARCH 11, 2020 | FRONT

SATURDAY, JUNE 6

THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS

STYLE

Thursday, April 23 rd—6:30 p.m.

Palladium Saint Louis Superheroes for Kids is a cosmic cocktail party of epic proportions. Enjoy spectacular food, drinks and entertainment all in support of the St. Louis Arc’s programs for children with developmental disabilities.

EVENT CHAIRS

HONORARY CHAIRS

John & Mimi Londoff Bhavik Patel Richard & Kathie Winter

Mary & David Steward II

SUPERHERO FOR KIDS AWARD Melinda Monroe, CEO, Nurses for Newborns

For tickets or info, visit SLARC.ORG or call (314) 817-2240

IN THE TABLE OF

by stephanie wallace

CONTENTS

RAPHY

OG EIDICH PHOT

next issue march 25

T KR PHOTO: PRAT

march 11, 2020

T&S

saint louis ballet

Associate editor Julie Johnson attended a performance of the ballet’s production Could This Be Love? Artistic director Gen Horiuchi performed on stage during the second act.

operation food searchÂ

8

The nonprofit recently celebrated its 40-year partnership with Dierbergs Markets. The grocery chain has donated more than $50 million in products to the hunger relief organization.  Â

10

PICTURED: DIERBERGS MARKETS’ VICE PRESIDENT AND SECRETARY LAURA DIERBERG PADOUSIS, CEO GREG DIERBERG, OFS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR KRISTEN WILD

23

TOWN TALK 〉〉 7 8 10

12

13 15

COVER STORY – Illumination Gala TALK OF THE TOWNS THE INSIDER PATTY UNLEASHED MAJOR PLAYERS SPECIAL FEATURE – Love for the Lou THE HONEST TRUTH – Diets & Cocktails COVER STORY – Mari de Villa STRICTLY BUSINESS

PHOTO ALBUM 〉〉

SPRING FOR A CAUSE 18 COVER STORY – June Jessee Memorial Foundation 20 SPECIAL FEATURE – With a Little Help from My Friends 21 SNAPPED! Independence Center Girls Inc. 22 VOYCE World Pediatric Project

STYLE 〉〉 23 CANDID – Lori Coulter of Summersalt STOREFRONT

4|

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

on the cover » TOWN TALK+ major players

PHOTO ALBUM + spring for a cause

STYLE

MARCH 11, 2020 | FRONT

delta dental of missouriÂ

In 2019, the dental insurance provider contributed more than $1.5 million to support education and community outreach. It donated to several local organizations, including Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis, Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri, St. Louis Children’s Hospital and St. Louis Community College. SATURDAY, JUNE 6

THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS

THE ILLUMINATION GALA BENEFITS CANCER RESEARCH AT THE ALVIN J. SITEMAN CANCER CENTER AT BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL AND WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY SCHOOL OF MEDICINE. THE EVENT IS JUNE 6 AT THE RITZ-CARLTON. PICTURED ON THE COVER: DR. TIMOTHY AND KIM EBERLEIN, EVENT CHAIRS PAT AND MARK BURKHART AND MICHAEL AND NOÉMI NEIDORFF. FOR SPONSORSHIP OR TICKET INFORMATION, CALL 314.286.0602, EMAIL FOUNDATIONFORBJH@BJC.ORG OR VISIT ILLUMINATIONGALA.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITALÂ

metropolitan amateur golf associationÂ

The organization presented McKnight Place resident Bob Shogren with the Meritorious Service Award, its highest honor. Shogren was recognized for the impact he’s had on golf in the region as a PGA of America and St. Louis District Golf Association official. Â

Local industry leader meets global powerhouse

L

uxury homes and their buyers are a unique subset of the real estate market, and no local firm has a better understanding of how to market and showcase those homes than Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate’s Luxury Division.

“Every home tells a story,” says Margo Begley, VP of marketing and creative. “Some luxury homes are historically significant or were designed by an important architect, and others have personal stories about events that took place there or how they were built. Alliance agents can’t wait to learn the stories of these wonderful homes and share them with the world.”

The key to accomplishing this is a new marketing program the real estate company launched several years ago for its Luxury Division. It studied what other luxury firms were doing not only in the local market, but also around the country, pulling together best practices to create the most compelling sales materials. The program has been highly successful. Alliance Real Estate has become the No. 1

“

ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE LUXURY SPECIALISTS

locally owned company for ‘number of luxury homes sold’ across St Louis City and County over the last five years. Luxury homes are considered those priced over $750,000.

Part of this success is attributed to Alliance Real Estate’s global approach. Luxury properties are disseminated around the world in an everchanging and growing list of sites designed to offer the greatest exposure while ensuring the greatest protection for clients. Some of these include mansionglobal.com; The Wall Street Journal US, Europe and Asia; juwai.com; Financial Times of London and more.

“People think home sales in St. Louis are more local than global, but that’s not true anymore,” Begley says.

“People come from all over the world to the St. Louis region, so it’s important that we have a global website that truly stands out. We have a site that helps buyers view homes in terms they can understand,

People think home sales in St. Louis are more local than global, but that’s not true anymore.

”

whether that’s through measurement conversion or language translation.”

When luxury homeowners choose representation, they are looking for that special balance of tools and services. Alliance Real Estate’s distinguished sales professionals skillfully combine their expert knowledge of local markets with their vast global connections, advanced technology and unparalleled marketing resources to deliver best-in-class results.

The brokers of Alliance Real Estate consistently represent some of the most sought-after homes in the St. Louis market, from stately Clayton residences and chic city lofts to pastoral Wildwood homes and Augusta vineyards.

When a global powerhouse like Berkshire Hathaway combines forces with a local industry leader, a special kind of magic occurs. Its best-inclass luxury agents act as close family advisers, resulting in 40-plus years of excellent service.

Alliance Real Estate maintains a dominating presence in the St. Louis Metro real estate market with a strong network of more than 425 agents across nine offices. It all allows for the very best in agent services and representation.

636 Trade Center Blvd. • 800.325.7700 • bhhsall.com/luxury-collection SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

from the

editor!

THE FACES BEHIND THE SCENE

HAIR BY MICHAEL BOWERS | PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY

›dreaWmherseptriioisnngysobpurortea?k vaca

president publisher LAUREN B. RECHAN KAREN KELLY

EDITORIAL

CREATIVE / PHOTOGRAPHY

editor in chief KARYN WILLIAMS

creative director JULIE M. STREILER

associate editor JULIA M. JOHNSON

staff writer STEPHANIE WALLACE

CONTRIBUTORS talk of the towns BILL BEGGS JR.

WE SURVIVED SUPER TUESDAY AND ARE NOW IN THE ABSOLUTE THICK of a presidential race.

While I could use this letter and every one until November to voice my political beliefs and attempt to instill logic into the minds of those I feel need it, I won’t. Town&Style is not here to be political. But I can ‘speak’ in generalities. No matter what side you’re on, the months leading up to an election of this magnitude can induce a sense of uncertainty to say the least. Because each candidate is vying for our support and explaining how they will fix our country’s problems (uh huh), we’re made so clearly aware of what those problems are. We’re racking up debt, racism and gender inequality are still rampant even though many try to dismiss it, our education system could use some severe tweaking, climate issues are not an extreme priority for all as they should be, lobbyists and the NRA are maintaining control of gun laws amidst countless shootings, and the list goes on. I often feel defeated.

And then I come to work. I get emails about students wanting to fight social injustice and make it a conversation among peers (pg. F14), beauty companies that understand the ramifications of plastic in landfills and the use of harmful chemicals and accept their responsibility to make sustainable products (pg. F18), and local restauranteurs that source area farmers and encourage more plant-based eating, both of which positively change the course of where the landscape and climate are headed (pg. F6).

Feeling uplifted yet? There are young adults supporting nonprofits that do good in this community and around the world through young friends groups (pg. 20) and local movements founded on positive messaging and supporting each other (pg. 12).

It’s enough to make me realize there are plenty of great minds and ideas among us. Experience and wisdom are key, but so are tenacity, resilience and a desire for real change, common traits especially among the younger population determined to alter the trajectory of where we’re headed.

My 11-year-old daughter wants to watch the debates and understand the political system. My 8-year-old son makes eye-opening connections to the homelessness he witnesses and salary inequities among African-Americans (so he was paying attention to the debate!). They are aware, eager to learn and ready to influence. Our job? To encourage it all.

“Skiing with friends in Vail or Aspen”

the velvet hammer JOAN BERKMAN

bridge with bland KENNETH BLAND

homework PAUL DOERNER

happy hour ANTHONY GEARY

“With my wife, secret Anne, at our ” beach on Kauai

MARCH 11, 2020

photographer BILL BARRETT

SALES sr. account exec WENDY JABLONOW

parent trap DR. TIM JORDAN

sr. account exec JANIE SUMNER

getting real with food ALAINA HINKLE

ADMINISTRATIVE office manager KATHY COWHEY

my messy mom life KATELYN MEYER

driven BOB PASTER

“London to go to the theate and museums” r

candid LAURA K. SAWYIER

beauty writer MARYLYN SIMPSON

fashion editor CHRISSIE WOJCIECHOWSKI

contact us ▶

TOWN & STYLE, LLC 300 HUNTER AVE., STE 102 ST. LOUIS, MO 63124 314.657.2100 | TOWNANDSTYLE.COM

distribution ▶

TELLUS@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM IF YOU HAVE A PRESS RELEASE

|

photographer SUZY GORMAN

sr. account exec JENNIFER BECKERLE

editorial comments ▶

TOWN&style

photographer TIM PARKER

patty unleashed PATTY HANNUM

DISTRIBUTION@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM

6|

photographer COLIN MILLER

society photographer RICK MILLER

PLEASE GO TO OUR WEBSITE AND LET US KNOW IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE REMOVED FROM OUR MAILING LIST OR EMAIL US AT

—Karyn Williams Editor in Chief

graphic designer CYDNEY MOORE

PLEASE SEND TO PRESSRELEASES@TOWNANDSTYLE. COM

advertising inquiries ▶ SALES@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM

ALL CONTENTS ARE COPYRIGHT 2020

BY TOWN & STYLE LLC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. REPRODUCTION OR USE IN WHOLE OR IN PART OF THE CONTENTS, WITHOUT THE PRIOR WRITTEN PERMISSION OF THE PUBLISHER, IS STRICTLY PROHIBITED. ALL REAL ESTATE ADVERTISED HEREIN IS SUBJECT TO THE FEDERAL FAIR HOUSING ACT, WHICH MAKES IT ILLEGAL TO ADVERTISE “ANY PREFERENCE, LIMITATION OR DISCRIMINATION BECAUSE OF RACE, COLOR, RELIGION, SEX, HANDICAP, FAMILIAL STATUS, OR NATIONAL ORIGIN, OR INTENTION TO MAKE ANY SUCH PREFERENCE,

LIMITATION OR DISCRIMINATION.” WE WILL NOT KNOWINGLY ACCEPT ANY ADVERTISING FOR REAL ESTATE WHICH IS IN VIOLATION OF THE LAW. ALL PERSONS ARE HEREBY INFORMED THAT ALL DWELLINGS ADVERTISED ARE AVAILABLE ON AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY BASIS.

FOLLOW TOWN&STYLE ONLINE

TOWN TALK

COVER STORY

SUPPORTING INNOVATION ILLUMINATION GALA by stephanie wallace

DR. TIMOTHY EBERLEIN, DIRECTOR OF SITEMAN CANCER CENTER

PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL

IN 2020 ALONE, an estimated 1.8 million Americans will receive a new cancer diagnosis, according to the American Cancer Society. For those who get the heartbreaking news, it often means the beginning of a long and difficult journey. Through groundbreaking research and treatment, the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center at Barnes-Jewish Hospital and Washington University School of Medicine ensures it is a road no one has to travel alone. The center is a leader in cancer treatment, research, prevention, education and community outreach, providing care to more than 75,000 patients annually.

Siteman was founded in 1999, and for two decades, it has been at the forefront of innovation in the fight against cancer. Director Dr. Timothy Eberlein says the most memorable part of his 20-year tenure has been the dedication of his colleagues. “Whether they’re physicians, researchers, nurses or other staff, everyone is committed to helping patients and creating new paradigms for treatment,” he notes. “This is not a job, it’s a passion, and I feel privileged to be part of this organization.”

Among the many breakthroughs developed at the center are innovative technologies that can only be found at Siteman. One example is an injectable fluorescent dye that stains cancerous cells and makes it easier for doctors to determine where tumors are located. “Our surgeons wear special goggles, and in combination with the dye, they can tell where the edge of the cancer is and check if a satellite (a group of cancerous cells separate from the primary tumor) has formed,” Eberlein explains.

Other innovations pioneered at Siteman include immunotherapies, such as CAR T-cell therapy. The treatment uses a patient’s own T cells to stimulate the immune system to identify and destroy cancer

BILL AND AMY KOMAN CREATED THE CANCER FRONTIER FUND TO SUPPORT SITEMAN.

cells. Researchers also have had success treating the recurrence of leukemia in children with an immunotherapy that uses NK cells. “Personalization is a very exciting area in cancer treatment,” Eberlein says. “We also have developed personalized vaccines based on individuals’ unique cancers. We sequence the mutation in the tumor and develop a treatment that stimulates the immune system to eradicate it.” The vaccines are used with breast cancer and have moved on to trials for other forms of the disease, such as brain, lung and pancreatic cancers.

These personalized treatments could lead to major improvements in patient outcomes. Since they are designed to specifically target tumors, they cause less harm to noncancerous tissue. “They kill cancer but are less toxic to the rest of the body,” Eberlein explains, adding that another major area of study is reducing the physical toll existing therapies can take. “We want treatments to be more effective while minimizing harm to patients.”

Many cancer survivors deal with serious, lasting side effects that majorly impact their health and quality of life. These include nerve damage called peripheral neuropathy and cardiovascular issues like cardiomyopathy, which makes it difficult for the heart to pump blood to the body and can lead to heart failure.

“We now are focusing our expertise on identifying

ways to reduce these kinds of side effects,” Eberlein says. “We want patients to have normal lives after they are treated.”

To continue doing its important work, he says Siteman cannot rely on government grants alone.

He notes that outside funds are vital to the research process. To support researchers at the center, Bill and Amy Koman created the Cancer Frontier Fund for The Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital. “New ideas and research often are not easy to fund through grants,” Eberlein explains. “The Cancer Frontier Fund is the mechanism by which we invest and develop new technology and treatments. It’s essential to keep Siteman on the cutting edge of cancer care.”

One of the major fundraising events that benefits Siteman Cancer Center is The Foundation for BarnesJewish Hospital’s Illumination Gala. Since 2007, the event has raised nearly $30 million to support research funds, including the Cancer Frontier Fund. This year, the gala will be held June 6 at The Ritz-Carlton, and the evening will feature a special appearance by the Grammy Award-winning country trio The Gatlin Brothers. “The community’s generosity through Illumination is the engine that drives our innovation and new technologies,” Eberlein says. “It allows us to keep improving how we care for cancer patients and to provide more hope.” &

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 7

k l a t OF THE TOWNS by bill beggs jr.

The Metro

University City

I first saw the completely bumper-stickered Honda sedan four years ago. Dozens of stickers covered almost every square inch of painted surface; all read ‘Bernie 2016.’ This was that February when Bernie Sanders beat Hillary Clinton in the New Hampshire Democratic primary. Bernie, 74 at the time, had just about a snowball’s chance in hell for the Democratic nomination, and none of us has to be reminded of what happened that November. This round, he’s 78, a heart attack survivor and—as of March 4—not the juggernaut he’d been just the week before, when it was still, “Joe who?” Meanwhile, reportedly, the cyber-sneaky Russians have been ‘enhancing’ Bernie’s chances to be the nominee. Could he survive a match-up against Trump, on whose behalf the Russkis hacked then, and reportedly are again?

Anyhow, about this car. I happened upon the ‘Bernie 2016’-stickered Honda again the other day (didn’t have my camera with me that time, either). The stickers were really, really faded. Not one was for 2020. I hailed the driver, who wasn’t the millennial I expected. She was Medicare age, like me.

And she obviously didn’t want to talk to One. More.

Person. about her Damn.

Bumper Stickers. She seemed crabby, like Bernie always does. Mute the TV next time you see him. Imagine him shaking his fist and yelling, “You kids, get off my lawn!”

8|

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

Chesterfield

Midtown

Like the old Armory on the south side of Interstate 64/U.S. 40, the factory had been just another abandoned building of a certain age. But both complexes are being redeveloped on either side of the lower, eastbound section of the double-decker highway, which threads the eye of a concrete needle there. The $210 million-andchange rehab of a graffiti-adorned former industrial site into City Foundry STL, which hugs the north side of the highway, is slated to open sometime this spring as an entertainment/restaurant/office complex. Notably, the project at 3700 Forest Park Ave. recently received a $40 million infusion from a Florida investor, raising the ante for fabulousness even higher. But this was after it already was evolving into something terrific: Alamo Drafthouse includes a 10-screen movie theater concept.

The Food Hall—not a ‘food court,’ mind you (too mall-ish)—will feature foodiesuitable dining options, as many are concept eateries from metro chefs. Meanwhile, Punch Bowl Social House will offer ‘adult’ punch flavors, with or without alcohol, and a diner-style scratch kitchen—along with bowling, karaoke, ping-pong, foosball and virtual-reality gaming. (If you don’t need booze to bowl, maybe you do for karaoke, whether you’re trying to sing or being forced to listen.) Great Rivers Greenway is ensuring the burgeoning Midtown district will become, as promised, an honest-togoodness community—rendering the highway moot—with trails linking offices to residences to entertainment … to Cortex, to SLU, to Grand Center … and to the moon, Alice! OK, Alice, not the moon, although some parcels required environmental remediation to make them suitable for 21st-century human occupation.

TTia triv ☛

Got pot? No? Confused, huh? Remember, recreational marijuana is only sold on the right side of the river. Illinois, that is. So stock up on Doritos and Hostess Ho-Hos for the drive. (But remember: You still need to worry about an impaired-driving stop, even though there’s no breathalyzer for THC. Plus, your lousy driving could hurt someone.) OK. It still will be a while before medical marijuana is sold here.

‘Commencement inspections’ must be completed at the 70-plus dispensaries set to open in the three Congressional districts in and around the StL. All of that said, check out this headline at merryjane.com: Missouri Has 35,000 Registered Medical Marijuana Patients and Zero Dispensaries. Read: Prepare for a hot mess when dispensaries open, sometime this summer.

WHICH OF THESE FIVE OUTLETS— BROOKS BROTHERS, J.CREW, PACSUN, FAMOUS FOOTWEAR AND GAP—THAT OPENED IN 2013 IN THE FORMER TAUBMAN PRESTIGE OUTLETS ARE STILL THERE?

Someone with the authority to do such a thing might have to suggest changing the name of Chesterfield, incorporated in 1988, to Staenbergville, Staenbergtown or Staenbergburg, considering how much of this fair city is being remade

by The Staenberg Group (TSG). The real estate development company— TSG Properties, with offices in St. Louis and Denver and properties coast-tocoast—specializes in retail design, development and management. In the rapidly developing municipality of Staenbergburg—OK, Chesterfield— redesign and redevelopment are key to the TSG portfolio. Let’s start in the Valley: In the summer of 2013, two outlet malls opened, one just a few weeks after the other. Many thought it would be survival of the fittest. Despite predictions, both chugged along; each even started out with its own Brooks Brothers, J.Crew, PacSun, Famous Footwear and Gap outlets.

But neither had a Topgolf location until TSG purchased the easternmost mall, Taubman Prestige Outlets, last April.

It’s now The District, featuring the highflying Topgolf driving range/sports bar/ party center complex at the east end.

It’s quite an imposing presence with netting seemingly high enough to keep stray balls from striking planes on their approach to or departure from Spirit of St. Louis Airport. The District will feature The Music Factory, a 3,000-seat indoor concert venue that will top capacity of The Pageant by almost 1,000 seats, slated to open in spring 2021. (A rep for Ted Nugent had no comment … JK. The first concert is yet to be announced.) Main Street, an indoor entertainment complex to feature bowling, billiards and karaoke, will be The Music Factory’s co-anchor tenant on the westernmost end of The District.

‘Eat. Play. Shop.’ is the tagline we’ve seen featured online. Then there’s stuff ‘up the hill:’ TSG’s recent acquisition, finally, of Chesterfield Mall, which the developer envisions as a multiuse complex, including residential units. But, wait! There’s more!

Watch this space.

LAST ISSUE’S Q&A How long does it take to paint the entire Golden Gate Bridge across San Francisco Bay? There’s an urban legend that the Golden Gate Bridge is always being repainted: They start on one side, and by the time they’ve reached the other, the first side needs a new coat of paint. Indeed, the high salt content of the air in San Francisco Bay is very corrosive. More than 30 painters are required for continuous touch-ups.

TOWN TALK

Covid-19, the new coronavirus, is not the worst to overall well-being no matter the age. health crisis America faces today. Although Lauren Munsch Dal Farra, M.D., an not grabbing headlines lately, another crisis is enthusiastic proponent of the integrative three-fold, at least: rapidly increasing rates of model, is CEO of PALM Health in Ladue. A mental illness, substance abuse and suicide. cardiologist by specialty, Dal Farra was a Alarmingly, many sufferers are young—teens prime leader in forming the Anthropedia and college kids. The pressures to succeed Foundation with neurologist Dr. Sita Kedia are more overwhelming than ever: Studies by and Kevin Cloninger, Ph.D., in 2004. the Center for Collegiate Mental Health found Unfortunately, she says, too many that 40% of college students surveyed feel people still believe a pill should depressed and have difficulty functioning, cure most ills. Of course not. “We can’t solve a mental and 61% experience health crisis solely with overwhelming anxiety. pharmaceuticals,” Dal The pandemic here?

Farra emphasizes. “It’s Substance abuse.

WE CAN’T SOLVE A essential to promote Students seeking help MENTAL HEALTH well-being. For instance, are increasingly likely CRISIS SOLELY WITH meditation furthers to have attempted self-awareness, a suicide or engaged in PHARMACEUTICALS. deeper sense of self harm. Yet existing meaning and purpose.” approaches to this In fact, her path as ever-growing crisis are not meeting the need, in large part a healer turned toward cardiology for its because they fail to use a systemic approach integrated approach: mind, body and soul. to prevention and treatment. Quite simply, “It’s the intersection of a person’s genetics, too many people wait for something to go lifestyle, personal choices, stress and wrong before addressing a problem, whether inflammation, psyche, and pure biology,” it’s crippling anxiety or a bad back, and then says Dal Farra, 41, who completed her undergraduate work at the University of hope someone can fix it. Doctors say too few adopt a whole-person, preventive approach Colorado-Boulder. She earned her medical

degree at SLU, with a residency at Wash.

U. School of Medicine and fellowship at Mount Sinai Medical Center in NYC. Management is also in her skill set. PALM opened in 2016 in the former Busch’s Grove at Price and Clayton roads. “PALM and Anthropedia go hand in hand; PALM is inspired by Anthropedia’s scientific research,” says Dal Farra, who last month celebrated the grand opening of the Anthropedia Center for Well-Being on the edge of the SLU campus: 8,600 square feet in a historic building at 3693 Forest Park Ave. With any service, the center will provide complimentary meditation for SLU undergrads, who also receive a 50% discount on services (fees range from $5 to $30). All students in the metro will receive a 25% discount. Anthropedia and the university actively fundraise to subsidize costs; the center donates 20% of profits to the foundation. Diet, exercise and stress reduction are key elements of Anthropedia’s integrative approach to alleviating a systemic crisis. Coaches for a student’s well-being are an important personto-person element of the center’s mission.

“We need to get to the root causes,” Dal Farra says. “My role is to keep that global vision, to build the platform and operationalize it.”

PHOTO: BILL BARRRETT

ladue

Paid Advertisement

Stock Options Often Overlooked in Divorce Settlements In any divorce, all marital property and debt have to be divided. In an equitable division state, marital property and debt are to be divided in a just manner when considering all the statutory factors.

Stock options are often overlooked by many parties when dividing marital property and debt.

Some parties might forget to include them on their financial statements inoccently. In other cases, a party might, unfortunately, fail to disclose them in hopes that the other party does not discover it.

In a divorce, it is vital that both parties act in an above-board manner. One way to do this is to inform the other party of all marital property and debt that exists.

This means that parties going through a divorce should check with their employer, if they do not know, about whether they have any stock options. Often, the best place to inquire is through the human resource and/or benefits department.

It also might mean the party who suspects that their spouse might have stock options ensures that the lawyer inquires about this in the discovery process or otherwise. In an uncontested divorce where parties desire to settle the parties need to be able to trust that their spouse will voluntarily disclose if stock options exist.

If stock options do exist, there are a few different ways in which these stock options can often be dealt with in a divorce. First, if possible, these stock options can be divided as the date of divorce in an equitable manner.

But in some cases, dividing the stock options as of the date of the divorce is not possible. This may be because the options are not vested yet. Some employer terms may also not allow stock options to go to a non-employee.

In these cases, there are really two options. One, the stock options may end up being divided later into the future once they vest. That said, the spouse who has the stock options might argue that since the option interest has not vested, they

have not acquired them yet and, thus, they should be off the table.

Or, two, sometimes the stock options can be offset by other marital property. But to do this, the parties will need to have the value of the stock options properly valuated. Otherwise, a fair offset cannot be reached.

Valuating stock options can be somewhat complex. However, with the help of a financial expert, a value can almost always be determined. A valuation typically takes place with the help of a forensic accountant Stange Law Firm, PC limits their practice to family law matters including divorce, child custody, child support, paternity, guardianship, adoption, mediation, collaborative law and other domestic relation matters.

Stange Law Firm, PC gives clients 24/7 access to their case through a secured online case tracker found on the website. They also give their clients their cell phone numbers. Call for a consultation today at 855-805-0595.

St. Louis County Office 120 South Central Avenue Suite 450 Clayton, MO 63105

West County Office

16024 Manchester Road Suite 103 Ellisville, MO 63011

855-805-0595

www.stangelawfirm.com Here to Help You Rebuild Your Life™

The choice of a lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely upon advertisements. Kirk Stange is responsible for the content. Principal place of business 120 South Central Ave, Suite 450, Clayton, MO 63105. Neither the Supreme Court of Missouri/ Illinois nor The Missouri/Illinois Bar reviews or approves certifying organizations or specialist designations. Court rules do not permit us to advertise that we specialize in a particular field or area of law.

The areas of law mentioned in this article are our areas of interest and generally are the types of cases which we are involved. It is not intended to suggest specialization in any areas of law which are mentioned The information you obtain in this advertisement is not, nor is it intended to be, legal advice. You should consult an attorney for advice regarding your individual situation. We invite you to contact us and welcome your calls, letters and electronic mail.

Contacting us does not create an attorney-client relationship. Past results afford no guarantee of future results and every case is different and must be judged on its merits.

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 9

Our local culinary rockstars

Dan McLaughlin of Fox Sports Midwest now will share his Cardinals knowledge on 101 ESPN. He will give daily reports on our Redbirds, share exclusive interviews and host a one-hour show dedicated to all things

THE INSIDER O

once again have been recognized for their talent in the kitchen.

St. Louis has eight James Beard semifinalists in our midst: iNDO (Best New Restaurant); Nick Bognar of iNDO (Rising Star Chef of the Year); Jesse Mendica of Olive + Oak, Loryn Nalic of Balkan Treat Box, Michael Gallina of Vicia, Lona Luo of Lona’s Lil Eats (Best Chef: Midwest); Nathaniel Reid of Nathaniel Reid Bakery (Outstanding Baker); and Mai Lee (Outstanding Restaurant).

WHAT GOES WITH BASEBALL?

Beer! Not only do we have one of the most loved teams in the sport, we also can claim one of the best brewpubs in the nation! USA Today has nominated Schlafly Beer as one of the 10 Best Brewpubs in America for Schlafly Tap Room. Only 20 were chosen across the country, and it’s the only one in Missouri. Vote once a day at 10best.com/awards/travel/best-brewpub through March 17 to secure its spot on the list!

St. Louis baseball. Here’s to Kirkwood High School grad Joanna Serenko

a great season!

If you equate summer months in St. Louis with Parties in the Park—the oldest after-work happy hour in the area—there are a couple of changes to note for the networking/meet up/find a date gatherings: a new location (St. Louis County Memorial Park) and new hours (4:30-8:30 p.m.).

Mark your calendar for the second Wednesday of the month May through September. Cheers!

(last year’s winner of the St. Louis Teen Talent Competition at The Fox) has her eyes set on winning an even bigger contest this year. She got the support of all four judges on The Voice, and chose Nick Jonas as her coach. I’m sure she’ll reach out to Kennedy Holmes, another local talent who was on the popular singing show, for advice!

☘

PATTY

Don’t forget



Sing for Siteman is this Saturday, March 14, at John Burroughs.

Enjoy a variety of music from talented singers.

Reception: 6 p.m., Performance: 7 p.m., Meet the Artists: 8 p.m.

by patty hannum

HAPPY ST. PATRICK’S DAY!

I know I’m a little early, but for most St. Louisans, this is the weekend they will head downtown for the 51st annual St. Patrick’s Day Parade to celebrate.

On this day, everyone is Irish, which, to some, means that they wear anything and everything green, drink until they can’t stand up, and sing “Danny Boy.” Well, they don’t really sing the song because the only words they know are, “Oh Danny boy!” You will not find me at a parade or a party; my very Irish family did not celebrate St. Patrick’s Day. Oh, maybe my mom made corned beef and cabbage, but that was just part of the regular rotation of meals like fried chicken or beef stew. My dad always said the day was for amateurs.

He believed, “If you’re lucky enough

10 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

to be Irish, you’re lucky enough.” So, for you non-Irish, I would like to help dispel some of the falsehoods you may hold about us.

Why do the Irish drink so much alcohol? Well, that is a myth. Did you know Ireland is not even in the top 10 countries with the most alcohol consumption per capita? In first place is Moldova! I know nothing about Moldova, but I do know a little something about Ireland. A visit there isn’t complete unless you go to the Jameson Distillery Bow St. where you realize Jack and Johnnie simply aren’t even close. But every pub in every little town has such a wide selection of locally brewed beer that it’s hard not to believe everyone is in the brewery business. And the pubs in

Ireland are different. Anywhere else, I naturally give off a vibe of, “Danger, Will Robinson! If you approach this woman, she will do you great harm.”

But in Ireland, I routinely was grabbed from my barstool and made to dance with complete strangers, and I enjoyed it! I think their love of life is mistaken for drunkenness.

Why do so many Irish people have red hair? Actually, they don’t.

Only about 10% of the population in Ireland has red hair. That’s in comparison to 1% across the globe, so sure, if you visit Ireland, it would appear redheads are everywhere.

Now, let’s clear up a few myths about redheads. First, if they stare at you too long, they will not suck out your soul. Second, redheads do not have

fiery tempers unless their first name is Patricia. Second, don’t ever call a child red, carrot head or ginger. They already know they stand out.

Is St. Patrick just a thin Santa Claus?

They sure look alike in books, but they are two different people. St. Patrick is credited with bringing Catholicism to Ireland. He spent several years as a slave and six years in contemplation before joining the priesthood. Some say he drove the snakes from Ireland, but the truth is, with Ireland’s climate, there aren’t any snakes. And as far as Santa, well, I will discuss his life in a column this December.

&

TOWN TALK

MAJOR PLAYERS SPECIAL SECTION

Celebrating our 60th anniversary

Serving the FamilieS oF St. louiS Si| nce 196| 011 MARCH 11, 2020 townandstyle.com

♥

Lr VE fothe LOU

THE HONEST TRUTH

by julia m. johnson

EXPERT COACHING ADVICE FROM...

jill farmer & beth chesterton

DIETS AND COCKTAILS

▶ My teenage daughter has gained some weight over the past year. What is the best way for me to encourage her to go on a sensible diet to lose weight and get healthy?

jill: Every expert I consulted said that encouraging your teen to diet is a very bad idea. Diets often provoke disordered eating, exercise addiction and full-blown eating disorders in teens and young adults. Eating disorders are among the most deadly mental health issues. By telling your daughter to lose weight, you’re sending a direct message that she’s not good enough.

Even teens who are medically overweight often are in a restriction/binging pattern that is not solved by dieting. If that is your daughter’s situation, she needs a therapist to understand her relationship with food. If you can’t accept your daughter for who she is, it’s time for you to head to a therapist for some support, too. beth: Young women are bombarded with images of unattainable

physical ‘perfection.’ As a result, they are on red alert about their own (perceived) shortcomings. Parents who want to hint at dieting by suggesting ‘healthier choices’ are playing with fire. Teenage girls already are scanning for evidence that they are not good enough, and well-intentioned comments can cause harm.

If you really feel the need to talk to your daughter about a diet, then run, don’t walk, to a professional who can help you tease out your issues with weight and perfection before you pass them on to her. Not sure if you fit the bill? Google Lizzo. If her comfort with her own curves scares the hell out of you, then there is ample opportunity for you to grow in this area.

▶ When my college-aged son was staying with my parents in Florida, I received a call that my dad and his wife insisted he join them at a cocktail party for the third night in a row. My son did not want to go, and my dad is furious. I feel caught in the middle. beth: Wow, what I would give to have one more night with my grandparents. Like it or not, when we are house guests, we generally follow along with our host’s plans.

Hopefully, your son can find a way to make the most of his time with your parents and their friends. jill: I don’t think it’s your job to mediate. If your son is old enough for cocktail parties, he’s old enough to work this out (even if it’s a little messy). Should he adhere to the grandparents’ social schedule? Should grandpa be more flexible with his guest’s wishes? Unless there was actual wrongdoing on either side (lying, putting someone in danger, etc.), this issue is theirs to hash out.

&

JILL FARMER IS A MASTER CERTIFIED LIFE COACH, AUTHOR AND TIME MANAGEMENT AFICIONADO. BETH CHESTERTON IS A MASTER CERTIFIED EXECUTIVE COACH AND AN EXPERT IN ORGANIZATIONAL DEVELOPMENT. IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION THAT NEEDS AN HONEST ANSWER, EMAIL ADVICE@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM.

12 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

The digits ‘314’ mean more than just a numeric value to people in St. Louis. Yes, they signify one of our area codes, but more importantly, they mark a lively local movement that promotes area businesses and boosts economic growth. March 14 is officially known as 3.14 Day. It’s a chance for St. Louisans to celebrate everything that makes the metro grand, from people and startups to products and services.

This year, the date also marks the first anniversary of the STLMade movement. The two campaigns have the same mission: to raise awareness of everything positive happening in the city. Lee Broughton, a former Enterprise Holdings exec and founder of brand-buildling firm bbc, is leading the charge. “STLMade is about highlighting all of the people and ideas that make this region such a good place to start up, stand out and stay,” he notes. “St. Louis is experiencing a renaissance, and the movement is working to tell that story.”

Broughton says the effort is driven by the realization that “as we work to attract new talent and businesses to St. Louis, we are far more effective when we speak with one voice. Part of that work is highlighting all that our region offers, including innovation districts, startups, arts organizations, culture and people who are working to drive our region forward.”

The week leading up to 3.14 Day will offer opportunities to celebrate local successes, including a March 12 presentation at Cortex titled “Made for Momentum: What’s Next for Our Regional Narrative.” On March 14, related LEE BROUGHTON events include St. Patrick’s Day runs in downtown St. Louis and Cottleville and the 5K Pup Run in Forest Park, plus 3.14 Day promotions and giveaways offered by companies across the area. Many businesses and restaurants will offer food and other items for $3.14, and St. Louisans are invited to post about their experiences using the #STLMade and #314Day hashtags.

Whether you’ve seen the T-shirts around town, read social media posts or are just hearing about the movement for the first time, organizers are encouraging everyone to participate by buying, eating, drinking and sharing what St. Louis has to offer.

Liz Swyers, marketing manager at 4 Hands Brewery, says her company enjoys collaborating with STLMade and its partners and looks forward to improving awareness of the metro area.

“Anytime there is an opportunity to connect with a movement for the good of St. Louis, we want to be part of it,” she says. “Our City Wide pale ale and pilsner beers, brewed to support local nonprofits, are perfect for the campaign because they are all about connecting neighborhoods and residents. We are looking forward to welcoming people to the brewery!” On Saturday, City Wide beers will be sold for $3.14.

“Everything about the STLMade effort and 3.14 Day is a win-win, and it’s smart business sense for all of us to work together to support the region,” Swyers says. “I think the most important thing about 3.14 Day is that it reminds us to celebrate St. Louis every day.” &

*

Learn more about the STLMade movement, 3.14 Day events and participating businesses at thestl.com.

PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

TOWN TALK

I T E M# 3 6 0 0 1 6

FRITZ, MARY KAY, FRED AND JOE WIESEHAN

TAKE A FRESH ANGLE.

COVER STORY

HAPPY 60TH

At Wilson, you'll find hundreds of mirrors in new shapes, sizes and styles. Brighten your space today!

MARI DE VILLA

SINCE1975

ON MARCH 8, 1960, JOE AND GEORGANA LINNEMAN were preparing to open their

26-room senior living facility, Mari de Villa. The first guest was set to arrive the next morning, but there was a major snowstorm. A plow offered to clear the drive for $12, but Joe didn’t have the cash on hand. The next day, he walked through the snow to meet the ambulance on Clayton Road and carried the new resident to the front doors himself. This year, Mari de Villa is celebrating its 60th anniversary, and while it has grown exponentially from those humble beginnings, that personal dedication to providing guests the best care endures.

Located on a 23-acre campus in Town and Country, the community offers a continuum of care, from extremely independent and active to 24-hour nursing assistance, including memory care. Its skilled nursing team provides attention to all residents, and the full therapy department offers physical, occupational, speech and rehabilitation services. Mari de Villa also offers a wide range of activities to keep seniors active and engaged, such as live music, book clubs, wellness classes, indoor water aerobics and weekly excursions to restaurants, museums and local performances.

“We have beautiful grounds and walking paths for our guests and their families to enjoy,” president Fred Wiesehan adds.

Throughout this year, residents can look forward to special celebrations to mark the community’s anniversary, and Mari de Villa also sponsors and hosts events for the Town and Country community, including holiday parades and an annual Christmas tree lighting held the Saturday after Thanksgiving. “Our events are attended by hundreds of people,” Wiesehan says.

“We’re lucky to have the support of such a wonderful community.”

Even with six decades of experience, Mari de Villa has not finished expanding. Later this year, construction will begin on East Lake, a new addition offering private assisted living apartments.

Guests will get to enjoy amenities like housekeeping and several dining options, including room service. “We’re very excited to continue to grow,” Wiesehan says. “But even with new buildings, our main focus remains the same. The bottom line always will be providing care to the guests who call the community home.”

Mari de Villa truly is a family business. Wiesehan and his wife, Mary Kay, have been with the senior living community for 36 years. They still are involved in the day-to-day operations, and their sons, Fritz and Joe, work alongside them as administrators. “We are very hands-on and family-oriented,” Wiesehan says. “We are not part of a national chain or group of senior living communities.”

The fact that Mari de Villa is a single location allows Wiesehan, his family and staff to devote their full attention to the property and its residents. “We aren’t dividing ourselves between any other locations,” he explains. “We are focused on providing the best level of care here.” Like Wiesehan and his family, many administrators and staff members have been part of the community for decades.

“The people who work here truly love Mari de Villa and our guests,” he says.

“It creates a welcoming, family atmosphere for everyone.” & MA JO R PL AY ER SPEC IAL SECT ION

COVER DESIGN BY CYDNEY MOORE | COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF MARI DE VILLA

S. BRENTWOOD BLVD.

by stephanie wallace

LOCATED IN TOWN AND COUNTRY ON A MORE THAN 20-ACRE CAMPUS, MARI DE VILLA HAS BEEN SERVING THE SENIORS OF ST. LOUIS FOR 60 YEARS. IT OFFERS A CONTINUUM OF CARE, STARTING WITH INDEPENDENT LIVING AND EVOLVING AS CLIENTS’ NEEDS CHANGE. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 636.227.5347 OR VISIT MARIDEVILLA.COM.

WILSONLIGHTING.COM

CLAYTON ROAD

N

909 S. Brentwood Blvd.

314-222-6300 | wilsonlighting.com M/W/F 9-6 • T/Th 9-7 • Sat 10-5 Enter through CVS off Clayton Rd.

L I G H T I N G

Proven Protecting Family Wealth for Decades

Mike Stanton, CFP® Managing Director and Wealth Management Advisor

Highly Disciplined Value Driven Investment Process Wealth Management Firm Let us share our PROVEN experience with you.

S

Alpine Private Capital Celebrating 60th anniversoaurr y Serving the Fa

milieS oF

St. louiS Since

1960

8000 Maryland Ave., Ste. 700 | St. Louis, MO 63105 314.932.1010 | www.apc-invest.com

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 13

LEADERS IN THE STL WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS FOR THE NEW DECADE?

JUNE JESSEE MEMORIAL FOUNDATION

MARI DE VILLA SENIOR LIVING

PARC PROVENCE

ALPINE PRIVATE CAPITAL

We want to continue to help families that have children with devastating, medically complex, neurological conditions find support and relief. Ultimately, we want to create a respite facility.

Mari de Villa is celebrating 60 years of business, but we are not standing still.

In 2020, we will break ground on our newest addition called East Lake, an upscale assisted living community overlooking the lake.

We are committed to leading the way in memory care. Over the next decade, we will continue to invest in dementia care, certified staff, and providing person-centered and abilities-focused activity programs.

The new decade will see Alpine continuing to upgrade our IT systems to further our mission of protecting client capital and providing premier wealth management services.

PICTURED: CO-FOUNDER AND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR GENNY JESSEE

PICTURED: ADMINISTRATORS JOSEPH WIESEHAN AND FRED (FRITZ) WIESEHAN III

PICTURED: ADMINISTRATOR KATHY ARAGON, R.N., LNHA

INFO@JUNEJESSEE.ORG JUNEJESSEE.ORG

13900 CLAYTON ROAD 636.227.5347 MARIDEVILLA.COM

8000 MARYLAND AVE., STE. 700 314.932.1010 APC-INVEST.COM

605 COEUR DE VILLE DRIVE 314.542.2500 PARCPROVENCE.COM

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

This could be your House!

This could be your Dog! (What a good boy!)

ThIs could be your Plant!

This could be your Pool!

This could be your Private Banker who will help you get a discounted mortgage rate.

Commercial Lending Wealth Management Business Banking Mortgage 14 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

PICTURED: PRESIDENT BRETT RUFKAHR

Greg Noe Sr. Vice President First Bank Wealth Management (314) 995-8751 Greg.Noe@fbol.com FirstBankWealth.com

Together, First Bank Mortgage AND First Bank Wealth Management will work with you to help you achieve your goals...whatever size they may be.

Ask about the discounted mortgage rate when you invest with First Bank Wealth Management.

firstbanks.com

TOWN TALK Join Dr. Tim Jordan & staff for a

STRICTLY BUSINESS

GIRLS ONLY

MIDDLE SCHOOL RETREAT SIGN UP FOR OUR SPRING RETREAT

@CampWeloki.com Now!

APRIL 3-5, 2020 Camp Woodland Hills St. Clair, MO

by julia m. johnson

636-530-1883 Amanda Clark recently joined the Missouri Historical Society as community tours manager. The newly created position will help link visitors to the St. Louis region’s rich history through tour experiences.

Clark is the former owner and operator of tour company Renegade STL.

LEADERSHIP

ONLY 5 SPOTS LEFT– DON’T MISS OUT!

* FRIENDSHIPS * SELF DISCOVERY AND...A WHOLE LOT OF FUN!

PHOTO: J.J. LANE

Amy Shaw is the first female president and CEO to lead The Nine Network in the TV station’s 65-year history. She joined the staff in 2003 and served as interim president and CEO following the passing of Jack Galmiche last year. Shaw was promoted to the lead post from her previous role as senior vice president and chief content officer.

The American Parkinson Disease Association Greater St. Louis Chapter has welcomed a new executive director, Catherine Krane. A St. Louis native, she previously was executive director of the St. Louis Psychoanalytic Institute.

Ann Abad has been promoted to president of the new Barnes-Jewish West County Hospital. Most recently, she served as vice president of operations for Barnes-Jewish St. Peters and Progress West hospitals.

The Financial Planning Association of Greater St. Louis has elected Alan Robbins president.

Robbins is a financial adviser with Northwestern Mutual St. Louis.

Michael O’Meara has been named Midwest regional director for the financial advisory firm Raymond James & Associates. He leads the firm’s management teams in Missouri, Illinois, Nebraska, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Idaho and Wyoming.

The Donald Danforth Plant Science Center added two new board members, Kiersten Stead of venture capital fund DCVC Bio and Jim Johnson III of Johnson Bender Asset Management. The nonprofit works to improve the human condition through plant science research.

David Ulrich will take the helm of the Kirkwood School District this summer as superintendent.

He succeeds Michele Condon, who is retiring. Ulrich comes to the post from the Moffat County RE-1 School District in Craig, Colorado, where he has been superintendent for the past four years.

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 15

PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

Cheers! to the chairs

recycled art sale

a celebration of childhood

Co-chairs Phyllis Langsdorf and Peggy Remis

Co-chairs: Jeff & Angie Schaefer, and Tina Orth

Why is this nonprofit important to you?

Why is this nonprofit important to you?

meet the chairs

NCJW has been creating change and impacting lives since 1895.

Always forward-thinking and innovative, its programs provide lifechanging opportunities for women, children and families in the St. Louis metropolitan area. Reaching throughout the community with a positive impact, programs like Back to School! Store, Kids Community Closet and Healing Hearts Bank connect others to the mission of NCJW. Volunteering to sustain these initiatives makes those involved feel like they are doing something positive for our community.

What will this event accomplish for the organization?

Proceeds from The Recycled Art Sale support the programs of NCJW St. Louis to improve the lives of women, children and families in our community.

about the organization

MISSION STATEMENT: NCJW St. Louis is inspired by Jewish values to advance social and economic justice for all women, children and families.

meet the chairs

All three of us have experienced the consequences of divorce and have witnessed the negative impact it has on children. We support KITM because its peer counseling model demonstrates the positive ways families can move forward and helps kids understand that not every family looks the same. KITM meets kids where they are, helps them process their emotions, and reminds them how to be kids—even during moments of chaos that arise during family transitions.

What will this event accomplish for the organization?

Proceeds from the event will help provide counseling services for local children and families transitioning to a new way of life before, during and after separation and divorce for the sake of creating healthier futures for all involved. KITM turns no family away due to an inability to pay.

about the organization

MISSION STATEMENT: Kids In The Middle empowers children, parents and families during and after divorce through counseling, education and support.

Event Details DATE: Preview Night 4 to 7 p.m. April 1($18 donation

Event Details

Recycled Art Sale: 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. April 2 LOCATION: 295 N. Lindbergh Blvd.

CONTACT INFO: jduneman@ncjwstl.org

DATE: 6 p.m., March 28 LOCATION: Ameristar Casino Resort & Spa CONTACT INFO: 314.909.9922 kidsinthemiddle.org/events

in advance or at the door)

295 N. Lindbergh Blvd. • 314.993.5181 • ncjwstl.org

2650 S. Hanley Rd., Ste. 150 314.909.9922 • kidsinthemiddle.org

SPRING FOR A CAUSE SPECIAL SECTION

4TH ANNUAL LEGACY LUNCHEON WED., APRIL 29 | 11 AM– 1 PM HILTON ST. LOUIS FRONTENAC

SPONSORED BY

April 3-5

COVER STORY

FAMILIES FIRST JUNE JESSEE MEMORIAL FOUNDATION by julia m. johnson JUNE JESSEE’S FAMILY COULDN’T HAVE BEEN MORE THRILLED when she came into the world in April 2012. Her parents, Genny and Matt, looked forward to watching her grow, learn and develop. But things quickly took a serious turn; doctors discovered that June couldn’t hear, and she began having relentless seizures, kidney and intestinal problems and other neurological issues.

The couple took her to one specialist after another, but the cause of her illnesses remained unclear. “She had developmental difficulties as well,” Genny says. “It was a rough time for our family, but we were devoted to giving her a life of love, and we undertook her care ourselves. We met other people going through similar experiences, and we learned along the way that there wasn’t a lot of outside help for children with complex neurological issues.”

That discovery set the wheels turning in Genny’s mind. “Each time we investigated programs and services, it felt like we were the first ones ever to go through it,” she explains. “I wondered, why are we reinventing the wheel trying to find resources?

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a single organization to offer a complete list of available services, explain the process of applying for them and help families handle their mounting bills? Having a sick child can take a toll on anyone, regardless of their income or situation.

Often, doctors say a treatment is medically necessary, but the insurance company doesn’t agree, and the expenses add up.”

About 300,000 children in the U.S. have medically complex neurological illnesses like June’s. She passed away in 2016 at age 3, and her parents decided the best way to honor her was to help other children with similar issues. In her obituary, the couple announced they were forming the June Jessee Memorial Foundation to provide resources for families.

Genny is executive director of the organization, which helps parents clear the personal and practical hurdles of caring for a sick child. They can get help AMY, RICHARD AND MARLIE SEXAUER WITH GENNY AND MATT JESSEE paying bills, navigating care, accessing free mental health services and more. Genny says the foundation has grown steadily, and she loves being able to help people so they can focus on their kids. The organization works closely with patients at St. Louis Children’s Hospital, but its services are open to other families as well.

Each year, the foundation holds a Legacy Luncheon to raise funds for its important work. The event is on June’s birthday, April 29, at the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac Hotel. It supports programs like Moms’ Night Out, dinners and classes for parents, caregiver stress management and more.

Genny says the lunch is a meaningful, uplifting experience, and guests thoroughly enjoy its auction, raffles and inspirational speakers. KSDK anchor Anne Allred will serve as emcee, and a wide variety of special auction items will include wine dinners and jewelry.

Genny describes her family’s time with June as “frightening, painful, raw, beautiful, precious and short” and says they wouldn’t trade a moment of their life with her. “She inspired us, and we want to do the same for others,” her mother says. “If we had to go through it all again, we would choose June every time.” & SP RI NG FO PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

The most popular classical ballet of all time.

Sponsored by

T I C K E T S 314.516.4949 | touhill.org Plus! Swan Lake: A Shorter Tale April 3 at 11am info/tickets: touhill.org

R A CA US E

SPEC IAL SECT ION

THE JUNE JESSEE MEMORIAL FOUNDATION HELPS FAMILIES OF CHILDREN WITH COMPLEX NEUROLOGICAL ISSUES ACCESS THE CARE AND SERVICES THEY NEED. ITS ANNUAL LEGACY LUNCHEON IS 11 A.M. APRIL 29 AT THE HILTON ST. LOUIS FRONTENAC HOTEL. PICTURED ON THE COVER: ST. LOUIS CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL THERAPIST KATHERINE ARAVAMUDAN, DR. K. LIU LIN THIO, GENNY AND MATT JESSEE. FOR INFORMATION ABOUT THE EVENT, VISIT JUNEJESSEE.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER | COVER PHOTO BY BILL BARRETT

4TH ANNUAL

18 |

TOWN&style

|

LEGACY LUNCH

WED., APRIL 29 HILTON ST. LOUIS| 11 AM– 1 PM FRONTENAC

MARCH 11, 2020

EON SPONSORED

BY

15th Annual

AUTHORS BRUNCH

Amazing Women Discovered S AT U R D AY, A P R I L 2 5 T H

The Atrium at Edward Jones

PHOTO: M. BENJAMIN

Featuring author

Presented by

Assistance League of St. Louis

F O R T ICK E T S : 6 3 6 . 2 2 7 . 6 2 0 0 o r ALS TL.OR G

FUNDRAISING

with a little help from my

EVENTS

by stephanie wallace KIDS IN THE MIDDLE

Celebration of Childhood » AMarch 28 | Ameristar Casino Resort & Spa 314.909.9922 | kidsinthemiddle.org

THE RESALE SHOP, A CHARITABLE PROJECT OF NCJWSTL Art Sale » Recycled April 1 | The Resale Shop, VIP Preview Night

It’s no secret that St. Louis is home to a wonderful philanthropic community.

And thanks to young friends groups, professionals in their 20s, 30s and early 40s can easily get involved in giving back. These are three of many that offer opportunities for young adults to make an impact.

April 2 | The Resale Shop, open to the public 314.993.5181 | ncjwstl.org

ST. LOUIS PUBLIC RADIO Toast Taste » Talk April 3 | Four Seasons Hotel

314.516.5968 | stlpublicradio.org

MAKE-A-WISH® MISSOURI & KANSAS Walk for Wishes presented » byCentene Emerson and Spectrum April 11 | Forest Park 314.205.9474 | walkforwishesstl.com

BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS

Gala » Festival April 17 | The Saint Louis Woman’s Club 314.652.BACH | bachsociety.org

ST. LOUIS ARC

for Kids » Superheroes April 23 | Palladium St. Louis 314.817.2240 | slarc.org

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

»

Authors Brunch with Melanie Benjamin April 25 | The Atrium at Edward Jones 636.227.6200 | alstl.org

COVENANT HOUSE MISSOURI

Musial 100th Birthday Hall of Fame Gala » Stan April 25 | Hilton St. Louis Frontenac 314.533.2241 | covenanthousemo.org

JUNE JESSEE MEMORIAL FOUNDATION

Annual Legacy Luncheon: Celebrating Community » 4th April 29 | Hilton St. Louis Frontenac info@junejessee.org | junejessee.org

THE FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL Gala for the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center » Illumination June 6 | The Ritz-Carlton 314.286.0600 | foundationbarnesjewish.org

jewish federation of st. louis When Becca Near learned about the Jewish Federation of St. Louis’ young adult group, YPD, she instantly fell in love with the program. “It’s all about engagement and teaching our generation to be leaders,” says Near, who is now young adult coordinator for the nonprofit.

“I think it’s really important for young adults to know that there is a vibrant Jewish community in St. Louis, and there are so manys ways to get connected.”

As just one branch of the Jewish Federation, YPD works with the organization for social, educational and leadership development events. It recently held its first trivia night, and every Christmas Eve, it hosts LollapaJEWza. “We’ve been doing it for 10 years, and it’s an opportunity for young adults to get together and celebrate being Jewish,” Near explains.

The group also participates in community outreach, and through the Shabbat Shalom program, members visit different synagogues to experience services, share a meal and talk with the rabbis.

How to get involved: Contact Near at bnear@jfedstl.org, or visit jfedstl.org/community-engagement/ypd.

world pediatric project “We have an emerging leaders group for professionals in their 20s and 30s,” explains Linda Boyland, vice president of development. “Members help with fundraising and introduce young professionals to the organization.” The group also supports the nonprofit through volunteer efforts. Members help families visiting the U.S. for health care by transporting them to medical appointments, taking them on outings during downtime, and providing social and emotional support.

Along with volunteering at other World Pediatric Project fundraisers throughout the year, Boyland says the young professionals group has its own signature event: Rock ‘n’ Heal. “It’s in its sixth year, and it’s an all-inclusive party with live music and unique auctions,” Boyland says. “It raises awareness for our organization and helps support our mission to build health care capacity and heal critically ill children.”

How to get involved: Contact Boyland at lboyland@worldpediatricproject.org, or visit worldpediatricproject.org.

saint louis zoo As it is for many locals, the Saint Louis Zoo is one of Katie Lineberry’s favorite spots. By joining the Zoo Young Professional Advisory Board, she found the perfect way to engage with the local institution. “At its core, the zoo is about taking care of animals, and the board helps spread that mission,” says Lineberry, who is board president. “We have a dynamic, diverse group of professionals in their 20s and 30s. People associate the zoo with families and children, but we want to increase awareness among young adults.”

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

20 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

The group’s signature event is Jammin’ at the Zoo. “It’s a very fun wine and beer tasting we host a couple of times each summer,” Lineberry explains. This year, the board has added a fundraising goal to be able to provide scholarships for 60 campers at Camp Kangazoo.

Members also volunteer at annual events like Zootoberfest, Boo at the Zoo and Wild Lights.

Lineberry says one of the best opportunities has been serving on other committees. She is currently on the conservation council. “I’ve gotten to learn about how the zoo helps animal populations around the world,” she notes. “It’s really awesome to have that additional layer of involvement.”

How to get involved: For membership info or to apply to join the board, visit stlzoo.org/membership/zooyoungprofessionals.

PHOTO ALBUM

SNAPPED! KIMBERLY HALL, BARB WILKINSON

, MARK BETHEL

IAN WATKINS

NANCY STAUDT, CHRIS HAMPEL

INDEPENDENCE CENTER dancing with the st. louis stars

CHERYL JONES WITH GIR

LS INC. STUDENTS

by bill barrett

NIKKI AND MIKE MCALLISTER, ALLY NICHOLS

The annual dance competition at The Ritz-Carlton supports the nonprofit’s programs and services that allow area adults with serious and persistent mental illnesses to live and work independently and with dignity. This year’s champion was Wash. U. School of Law dean Nancy Staudt and her partner Alex Borodko. The 12th annual event raised more than $690,000. guests: Executive director Mark Bethel, board president Ian Watkins, honorary chairs Greg, Lisa and Ally Nichols, emcee Claire Kellet

GIRLS INC. OF ST. LOUIS strong, smart and bold luncheon by rick miller The 13th annual event at The Ritz-Carlton honored five outstanding individuals from the community who support the organization. Money raised will benefit girls attending the full-year extended learning programs. guests: President & CEO Cheryl Jones; board chair Dr. Nina Caldwell; honorees Catherine Gidlow, Ann Marr, Kathy Osborn, The Hon. Gloria Reno and Valerie Patton

PAUL AND LYNN ANN VOGEL, TRISH AND LEE HOLMES

BRITTNY ADAMS, DEANDRA SMITH

SHANNON LAINK, PETER NEIDORFF

DIANNE

HANNA PIERCE, JAMES CRAVEN, ANNA BAHN

AND PAU

TAMEKIA JUSZCYK, NANCY WILD

L SHAPIR

O

▶ TO SEE MORE OF THIS PARTY ONLINE OR TO PURCHASE PRINTS, VISIT TOWNANDSTYLE.COM. ◀

m

PATRICIA BOSMAN, KRETIA MCMILLAN, JAMES BROWN MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 21

SNAPPED! LYNN POTTS, NICHOLE HUFFMAN, CINDY WILSON

TIM AND DEBRA NIEMANN

STEVE AND BETH PELCH

WORLD PEDIATRIC PROJECT treasures in paradise by rick miller

LAUREE PETERSON -SAKAI, MARY LYNN FAUN DA DONOVAN

STACEY AND RYAN ENGE

VOYCE caregiver awards luncheon by bill barrett The annual event, which celebrated 25 years, honors exceptional caregivers who embody the voice of compassion. It was held at the Renaissance St. Louis Airport Hotel. guests: Co-chairs Nichole Huffman, Lynn Potts and Cindy Wilson; former executive director Mary Lynn Faunda Donovan; incoming executive director Marjorie Moore; board chair Lauree Peterson-Sakai

MICHELLE AND JOE BUCK

ED AND RACHELLE HOLT, AMY AND JASON WELLEN

The nonprofit’s signature Caribbean cocktail party helps raise funds for its mission: to give children the lifesaving surgical care they need and build health care capacity around the world. Funds from the gala make up nearly half of its annual St. Louis budget. guests: Board chair Rusty Keeley; event chairs Amy and Jason Wellen, Kim Cella, Joe and Michelle Buck, John and Virginia Howell, Chris and Lauren Pronger, Ed and Rachelle Holt, Gina and Graham Bundy, Beth and Steve Pelch

LAUREN AND CH

RIS PRONGER

CE, ANNETTE CAMPBELL

NANCY MCCLURE, KATHI PRI

NELVIN LAURENT, NATALIA ROSALES SUE CHAMPION, CARMEN FRONCZAK, NICOLE SUMMERS

22 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

JOHN MCCLEARY, RYAN KEELEY

▶ TO SEE MORE OF THIS PARTY ONLINE OR TO PURCHASE PRINTS, VISIT TOWNANDSTYLE.COM. ◀

m

STYLE

CANDID LO R I C O U LT E R by laura katherine sawyier LORI

COULTER

IS

STORE FRONT A PEEK INTO THE WINDOWS OF THE ST. LOUIS RETAIL WORLD

CO-FOUNDER

by julia m. johnson

and CEO/president of Summersalt, the disruptive swimwear and travelwear brand named on CNBC’s list of The World’s Most Promising Startups and featured in People, In Style, Elle, Forbes and more. Fresh off of closing a Series B funding round raising $17.3 million, Lori and co-founder Reshma Chattaram Chamberlin are dominating the direct-toconsumer fashion category. They’re combining technology and fashion to deliver products that fit an active lifestyle.

plush digs

puppy love

Lori, Reshma and the Summersalt team are trailblazing a lifestyle offering for women while changing the global conversation around women’s bodies. They are incredibly passionate about their mission and are “here to help women feel sexy on their own terms, exactly as they are.” I met Lori soon after I started working with the Summersalt team on a few styling projects (including the launch of their first product category outside of swim) and continue to root for them every day. We’re fortunate and excited that Lori and her team call St. Louis home.

My personal style is modern and classic, but with a twist.

The best piece of fashion armor in my closet is my Summersalt bodysuit! It’s great just with jeans or under a blazer for a meeting—versatile and comfortable!

Locally based pet supply company Treats Unleashed earned some major praise at the 2020 Global Pet Expo Excellence Awards in Orlando. The company was nationally recognized as the Best Overall Pet Retailer of 15 or more stores. The award goes to businesses that rank high in customer service, store design, sales, merchandising and community service.

I’m making my mark by changing the conversation around women’s bodies.

A professional/personal challenge that keeps me up at night is that only 3% of venture capital goes to women-owned businesses! Reshma and I are so grateful to be able to build Summersalt in St. Louis and are excited to pay it forward to other female entrepreneurs.

retail repurpose

In moments of self-doubt, I build myself back up by reflecting on all we’ve built at Summersalt and the amazing team I get to work with every single day!

A former Gander Outdoors store in Chesterfield is getting a new lease on life.

Allegiant Airlines recently bought the property on Outlet Boulevard and plans to transform it into a family entertainment complex called Allegiant Nonstop.

It will include laser tag, go-karts, escape rooms, climbing walls, an arcade and more.

My version of self-care is hanging out with my husband and my boys, the three loves of my life.

Words of wisdom that resonate with me are, a “no” today doesn’t necessarily mean a “no” tomorrow—keep your connections strong, and doors tend to open.

I stay true to my passions by prioritizing. It’s important for me to edit my life so I can focus on what’s important. Right now, I’m hyper-focused on Summersalt while making sure my family knows they come first.

I’m most proud of building Summersalt from the ground up! We’ve done so many incredible things in such a short time, and I can’t wait for what the future holds.

The one thing I would like to say to every woman in the world is, think big, and don’t sell yourself short!

And when you’re pitching to someone, make sure you are painting the biggest version of your idea in a way that makes it incredibly clear how you can achieve it together.

...

Lori’s Power Pieces

SARAH FLINT PERFECT ZIP BOOTIE 70

SUMMERSALT THE COZIEST CASHMERE CREW

SUMMERSALT THE CLOUD 9 BOYFRIEND SLEEP SHIRT

on paper Greeting card and stationery retailer Papyrus is departing the Galleria for good. The chain’s Tennesseebased owner, Schurman Retail Group, has filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection and is shuttering all 254 of its locations.

a new thread yoga for all

ANINE BING ‘MADELEINE’ BLAZER

Build-A-Bear Workshop has put the finishing touches on a new store in the Grand Central building at St. Louis Union Station. The location offers make-your-own stuffed animals, accessories, kids’ parties and more and will cater to foot traffic at the new St. Louis Aquarium and Ferris wheel complex.

Build-A-Bear also has moved its headquarters to the building. Founder Maxine Clark was on hand for a grand opening celebration.

Offbeat Yoga, which has offered mobile classes, meditation and massage services for people of all skill levels since 2015, recently put down roots in Chesterfield. Its new space is in the former home of Valley Yoga. Owner Kelley Bauer celebrated Offbeat’s first brick-and-mortar location with a grand opening party.

Women’s modern and vintage clothing, jewelry, accessories and skin care products are the focus at Descendant, recently opened by Julia and Brian Leenig on Big Bend Boulevard in Webster Groves. It previously operated as a pop-up shop out of the couple’s vintage furniture store, Future Ancestor, on Shenandoah Avenue. Brands available include ace&jig, Rita Row, Happy French Gang and more.

LAURA KATHERINE SAWYIER IS A WOMEN’S PERSONAL AND WARDROBE STYLIST AND FOUNDER OF THE SALON X LKS EVENT SERIES. SHE IS BASED IN ST. LOUIS AND NEW YORK CITY. TO FIND OUT MORE, VISIT LAURAKSAWYIER.COM. MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 23

The

IT List

WILSON LIGHTING

HOME

SPORT COURT ST. LOUIS

DREAM PLAY

SPORT COURT

For the family who likes to do it all, the fun is never-ending with a Sport Court backyard game court. From basketball and volleyball to golf and tennis, a new activity can be played every day.

636.451.0400 | SPORTCOURTSTLOUIS.COM

WILSON LIGHTING

The ceramic base of the Veronica table lamp features a soft, blue palette that offers a chic splash of color for a side table, nightstand or buffet.

909 S. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.222.6300 | WILSONLIGHTING.COM

BROADVIEW SCREEN COMPANY

Phantom Retractable Screens are ideal for any setting, disappearing out of sight until you need them. They work perfectly for single, double French or sliding doors.

12951 GRAVOIS ROAD, STE. 110 | 314.842.8888 | BROADVIEWSCREEN.COM

DREAM PLAY RECREATION

We have been building childhood memories for more than 28 years.

We offer the absolute finest in residential playground equipment.

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE

BROADVIEW

VISIT DREAMPLAYREC.COM AND LET THE ADVENTURE BEGIN! 17373 EDISON AVE. | 636.530.0055 | DREAMPLAYREC.COM

NOTEWORTHY

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

We work to transform the lives of children and adults in St. Louis through community programs.

30 HENRY AVE. | 636.227.6200 | ALSTL.ORG

STANGE LAW FIRM

We are a divorce and family law firm headquartered in Clayton with 21 locations across the Midwest in Missouri, Illinois, Kansas and Oklahoma.

NOTE: THE CHOICE OF A LAWYER IS AN IMPORTANT DECISION AND SHOULD NOT BE BASED SOLELY ON ADVERTISING.

STANGE LAW

120 S. CENTRAL AVE., STE. 450 | 855.805.0595 | STANGELAWFIRM.COM

FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE CHESTERFIELD

Faith-based Friendship Village provides a full spectrum of senior living services. Its exclusive Life Care program guarantees residents access to medical care when needed at a predictable cost for life.

FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE

15201 OLIVE BLVD. | 636.224.4020 | FRIENDSHIPVILLAGESTL.COM/CHESTERFIELD

EVENTS ST. LOUIS ARC

Join us April 23 for Superheroes for Kids, a cosmic cocktail party of epic proportions. The event benefits our programs for children with intellectual and developmental disabilities.

1177 N. WARSON ROAD | 314.569.2211 | SLARC.ORG

SLARC

COVENANT HOUSE

COVENANT HOUSE MISSOURI

The Stan Musial 100th Birthday Hall of Fame Gala is April 25 at the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac. For more information, visit our website.

2727 N. KINGSHIGHWAY BLVD. | 314.533.2241 | COVENANTHOUSEMO.ORG

THE FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL Support Siteman Cancer CenterJune 6 at the Illumination Gala.

Visit our website to learn more.

1001 HIGHLANDS PLAZA DRIVE WEST, STE. 140 | 314.286.0600 FOUNDATIONBARNESJEWISH.ORG

MAKE-A-WISH® MISSOURI & KANSAS

On April 11, the organization hosts the Centene Walk For Wishes presented

by Emerson and Spectrum, a community-wide fundraising effort and celebration to grant the wishes of local children facing critical illnesses.

13523 BARRETT PARKWAY DRIVE, STE. 241 | 314.205.9474 WALKFORWISHESSTL.COM

BARNES-JEWISH

24 |

TOWN&style

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

|

MARCH 11, 2020

MAKE-A-WISH

STYLE SAINT LOUIS BALLET

BACH SOCIETY

SAINT LOUIS BALLET

Magic, tragedy and romance intertwine when the talented dancers perform Swan Lake, the most popular classical ballet of all time, April 3-5, on the magnificent Touhill stage.

1 UNIVERSITY DRIVE ON THE CAMPUS OF UMSL TICKETS: 314.516.4949 | TOUHILL.ORG

ST. LOUIS PUBLIC RADIO

3651 OLIVE ST. | 314.516.5968 STLPUBLICRADIO.ORG/TALKTOAST

BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS

Experience the Bach Society Chorus and Orchestra at 3 p.m. March 22 as they perform St. John’s Passion, a dynamic masterwork that reaches the soul and is sure to evoke a deep sense of spirituality.

STUDENT NEWS

WHEN WHEN SPECIAL SOLUTIONS

Friday, April 3, 2020

WHERE

SPECIAL SOLUTIONS

Our upcoming summer programs include Communications Skills & Life Skills, which helps students understand, practice and improve conversation, body language and perspective.

It teaches attendees to approach tasks with maximum efficiency by identifying challenges and understanding their learning style.

9225 MANCHESTER ROAD, STE. 100 | 314.475.5035 SPECIALSOLUTIONS.COM

ENJOY St. Louis Public Radio’s Annual Gala, featuring a lively program including a gourmet dinner, compelling conversation, live entertainment, award presentations and more.

ST. LOUIS PUBLIC RADIO

Enjoy a gourmet dinner, compelling conversation with Marco Werman, host of The World, and a dessert reception with live music at Talk Toast Taste on April 3 at the Four Seasons Hotel.

3547 OLIVE STREET, STE. 120 | 314.652.BACH (2224) BACHSOCIETY.ORG

Talk Toast Taste

Four Seasons Hotel 6th Floor Ballroom

FOXPACF

NEXT STOP BROADWAY PRESENTED BY FOXPACF

A week-long performing arts program for ages 10-18 is taught by Broadway professionals, culminating with an opening night performance and cast party for family and friends. Register at metrotix.com or by calling 314.534.1111.

FEATURING

314.367.1573 | FOXPACF.ORG

MARCO WERMAN

ANNUNZIATA SCHOOL

We provide special education for students ages 5-15 with learning disabilities, ADHD, speech and language deficits, and high-functioning autism spectrum disorders through the Archdiocese of St. Louis Education and Faith Formation.

ANNUNZIATA

9333 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.997.7727 | ANZ-STL.ORG

Host of The World: a daily program with an emphasis on international news and global journalism.

WHITFIELD SCHOOL SUMMER CAMPS Move, engage, create and play at Whitfield this summer! Offering a day camp, STEM camp, language immersion camp and sports camps, Whitfield has something for everyone!

RSVP NOW

175 S. MASON ROAD | 314.434.5141 WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG/SUMMERCAMP

STLPUBLICRADIO.ORG/RSVPGALA WHITFIELD

Reservations requested by Wednesday, March 25, 2020

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| 25

LEISURE

IN FOCUS + kids’ corner

MARCH 11, 2020 | FLIP

TEAM APPROACH FOR TREATING LIMB SWELLING

HEALTH &BEAUTY

T&S HOME + t&s spring market

DielmannSothebysRealty.com | 314.725.0009 WarnerHallGroup.com 314.764.5238

“Who needs MORE stress? Certainly not you!

Whether you’ve bought and sold many homes over the years or if you are considering your very first home purchase, real estate can seem stressful.

With THE WARNER HALL GROUP, Dielmann Sotheby’s #1 team and the Central Corridor’s top producing agents, we make the process easy for you.

Call us today to find out how we can take the stress out of your next real estate decision!”

CURRENT LISTINGS

10 Black Creek Lane

938 Lay Road

6232 Rosebury Ave. #3W

LADUE

L ADUE

ST. LOUI S

30 Brighton Way #1N

8 Aberdeen Place

7518 Parkdale Ave. #102

C L AY TO N

ST. LO UIS

CLAYTON

7434 Kingsbury Blvd.

33 Hillvale Drive

14 Arundel Place

U N IV E RS IT Y C IT Y

C L AYTO N

ST. LOUI S

Delight in Culinary Creativity Taste the Remarkable Difference Experience the perfect order: the finest in food, service and atmosphere.

Award-winning Executive Chef Anthony Lyons creates exquisite signature dishes and timeless classics with a fresh approach—tailored just for you.

Artfully presented and served in a warm, elegant setting.

Move-in specials are now available.

Schedule a personal tour for a taste of our menu.

(314) 993-3333 Â&#x; McKnightPlace.com We are committed to equal housing opportunity that does not discriminate in housing and services because of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status or national origin.

DRESS FROM LUSSO | PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY

the flip side

TABLE OF

CONTENTS march 11, 2020

next issue march 25

F8

F15

KEEPING up KAREN WITH

With less than eight days to go until spring (but who’s counting?), I wrapped up some winter fun. The events I attended in February alone were so inspiring, I can’t wait for what’s on my calendar next season!

TOWN&STYLE CELEBRATED OUR 9TH ANNIVERSARY WITH CLIENTS, FRIENDS AND FAMILY. EDITOR KARYN WILLIAMS & ALAINA HINKLE

F5

COVER STORY – SLUCare Physician Group

LEISURE 〉〉 F6 F7

F8

THE ANNUAL MAYOR’S MARDI GRAS BALL AND PARADE, WHICH WAS A CELEBRATION OF OUR STANLEY CUP CHAMPS, DIDN’T DISAPPOINT. THE ENTHUSIASM AND LOVE FOR OUR BLUES IS STRONGER THAN EVER. PENNY WAGNER, BERNIE FEDERKO & ME

ON THE TABLE – Winslow’s Table QUICK BITES BRIDGE WITH BLAND GETTING REAL WITH FOOD

ME & MIKE LAMARTINA, CRO OF BALLPARK VILLAGE

KIDS’ CORNER F10 COVER STORY – Make-A-Wish Foundation F12 STUDENT STANDOUTS F14 SPECIAL FEATURE – Inspiring by Example F15 MY MESSY MOM LIFE

HEALTH & BEAUTY 〉〉 F18 BEAUTY – Eco-Friendly Beauty

HEALTH – Targeted Therapy: Taking Aim at Cancer

ME WITH RISE FOUNDER/CEO STACY TAUBMAN & JILL FARMER

F4 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

LEISURE

IN FOCUS + kids’ corner

HEALTH &BEAUTY

T&S HOME + t&s spring market

MARCH 11, 2020 | FLIP

IN FOCUS 〉〉 OPENING DAY IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER, AND WE’VE ALREADY SCORED A HOME RUN AT BALLPARK VILLAGE WITH THE OPENING OF LIVE!

BY LOEWS. NO BASEBALL/LUXURY DETAIL HAS BEEN MISSED IN THIS BEAUTIFUL HOTEL RIGHT ACROSS FROM BASEBALL HEAVEN.

AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST, IN THE MIDDLE OF PARTIES, PARADES AND RIBBON CUTTINGS, THE TEAM AT RISE COLLABORATIVE HONORED SOME AMAZING LOCAL WOMEN WHOSE STORIES OF PURSUING THEIR PASSIONS WERE TRULY ENCOURAGING.

on the cover »

T&S HOME 〉〉

T&S SPRING MARKET F20 COVER STORY – Lottmann Realty Group F24 SPECIAL FEATURE – Prep Work F28 HOMEWORK

TEAM APPROACH FOR TREATING LIMB SWELLING

SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP PROVIDES A TEAM APPROACH TO PATIENT CARE FOR PEOPLE WITH VENOUS AND LYMPHATIC DISEASE, INCLUDING LIMB SWELLING. DOCTORS SEE PATIENTS AT UNIVERSITY TOWER IN RICHMOND HEIGHTS. PICTURED ON THE COVER: VASCULAR SURGEON DR. ADAM RING, PLASTIC SURGEON DR. KYLE XU, VASCULAR SURGEON DR. MATTHEW SMEDS, ADVANCED PRACTICE NURSE KAREN GREGORY. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT SLU.EDU/LIMB-SWELLING. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP

PHOTO COURTESY OF SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP

WOMEN’S LEADERSHIP CIRCLE

Physician.

Advocate.

Activist.

Annual Luncheon

FEATURING KEYNOTE SPEAKER

DR. JAMILA PERRITT VASCULAR SURGEON DR. ADAM RING ASSISTS A PATIENT.

COVER STORY

FINDING ANSWERS

SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson A NUMBER OF HEALTH CONDITIONS can lead to swelling in your limbs, and some are more

serious than others, according to SLUCare vascular surgeon Dr. Matthew Smeds. It’s important to meet with an experienced physician who can look at the whole picture and offer options to treat underlying issues, he says.

“Limb swelling can be caused by vascular or lymphatic problems,” Smeds explains. “It can be the result of venous incompetency, which means the superficial or deep veins aren’t working efficiently, or it can be caused by blockages in the channels that circulate lymph in the body.”

Swelling happens when excess fluid becomes trapped in the body’s tissues, and it’s especially common in the legs. Conditions like obesity and heart disease also can play a role.

Cindy Matlock, a teacher from Sunset Hills, recently was diagnosed with venous insufficiency and varicose veins in her legs. Swelling, fatigue and pain were interfering with her daily activities, and she needed relief. “Everywhere I went, I had to look around for a chair,” she says. “Even while cooking dinner, I had to sit down between chopping food and standing at the stove. I dealt with the discomfort for years.” Matlock saw SLUCare advanced practice nurse Karen Gregory for endovenous laser vein treatments, and she says the results have been very satisfying. The outpatient procedure helped restore proper circulation and allowed her to return to normal activities. “I’m able to engage much more with my students now,” Matlock explains. “I can’t say enough good things about SLUCare staff. They are very knowledgeable and caring.”

To help patients like Matlock, SLUCare recently established a program to treat venous and lymphatic disease at University Tower in Richmond Heights. The physician group already offered comprehensive care for people with these issues, but now they can receive services in one location. Smeds says physicians, nurses and staff work as a team to help patients understand their health concerns and be partners in their own healing. He and his colleagues have special expertise in venous disease and lymphedema, and their collective knowledge translates into more effective, targeted care for patients.

A big part of SLUCare’s mission is to deliver both comfort and convenience, he adds. “We meet with patients to discuss family and medical history and offer tailored treatment to alleviate symptoms, prevent conditions from progressing and put their minds at ease,” he says. “We decide if compression or laser therapy is needed, or more in-depth treatment like surgery. Our multidisciplinary team means they don’t have to visit multiple offices for care.”

Smeds says he and his colleagues gain a great deal of satisfaction from helping patients thrive. “We can diagnose, provide relief and return people to a better quality of life—including those who have gone elsewhere without getting the results they need,” he says. “We are devoted to helping patients find the right answers, and we can do it in one location.” &

THURSDAY, APRIL 2, 2020 RITZ CARLTON ST. LOUIS HOTEL 100 CARONDELET PLAZA ST. LOUIS, MO 63105

REGISTRATION & RECEPTION: 11:15 – Noon LUNCH & PROGRAM: Noon – 1:30 pm Individual Tickets $150 PURCHASE TICKETS BY MARCH 25, 2020 http://bit.ly/2020WLCLuncheon For more information call Ania L. Colvin at 314.531.7526 x361 MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com | F5

from the staff

nosher must try

ON THE TABLE WINSLOW’S TABLE first impression It was hard not to have high expectations knowing Michael and Tara Gallina of Vicia are behind the reimagined Winslow’s Home.

But that’s what makes them so talented: The duo takes those expectations and runs with them to places you would never even think about. The space is casual, cozy and beautiful in the purest way—the perfect atmosphere to settle in and eat.

rooms pet Mush m ru T g in K t ith Whea Skewer w lad Berry Sa

wash it down

The Southside ($10) is the perfect sipping cocktail. None of the three ingredients—gin, lemon and mint—takes the lead, but instead they blend together for a slightly tart, easy drink.

And the Old Fashioned ($8) is one of the best in town.

Winter Bean Soup ▶ $6 This is everything a soup should be: hearty, warm and a broth so good, it could satisfy on its own.

The bowl was packed with beans, veggies, greens and herbs. The ingredients differed slightly from those listed on the menu, which means they really do work with the crops of local farmers.

Kohlrabi Tacos ▶ $12 Listed as a first course, the serving of four could be a meal on its own. I was pleasantly surprised by the ‘shell,’ which was a slice from a large turnip (the farmer didn’t have kohlrabi) that stood up to what’s inside. The crunch contrasted nicely with the filling of oyster mushrooms (or Maine diver scallops for $18), black beans, sour cream, pickled tomatoes and salsa verde.

King Trumpet Mushrooms and Chicken Thigh Skewers ▶ $8 each The large chunks of mushrooms had crispy edges here and there with a glaze that burst with flavor without overwhelming the main attraction. The skin on the juicy thighs is a must to keep on: crispy and light, it was like the perfect tortilla chip.

Shakshuka ▶ $12 Delightful! Clumps of creamy feta balanced the gorgeous tomato sauce; yes, gorgeous—in flavor and presentation. Plus, the perfect amount of heat envelops your mouth with every bite. The kitchen has the eggs down— cooked so that when cut, yellow rivers of yolk flowed among the bright red dish, all waiting to be sopped up by the heavenly plump, warm pita.

Grain Salad ▶ $12 Veggies and grains easily can beat any steak or fillet of fish out there—if made well. Here, the grains were al dente, the squash and sweet potatoes not so soft that they fell apart, and a subtle punch of vinegar complemented the smooth green goddess dressing. Pea shoots topped the salad for a fresh kick.

PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

overall One of the things I love most about this place is that it is ideal for families with young children, friends meeting for a night out or date night all at the same time. It’s relaxed but refined, and every dish was a ‘wow.’ It’s impressive that the unique ingredients were never offensive, even for those who tend to gravitate toward safe options. And any place that offers poached chicken, roasted carrots and polenta on the kids’ menu gets a gold star in my book.

F6 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

7213 Delmar Blvd.

314.725.7559

LEISURE

QUICK BITES by stephanie wallace

WITH

OPENS

&

CL

SALUD! 〉〉

Mission Taco Joint has partnered with local spirits brand One Life Spirits to create a new private label tequila. Mission Taco Joint Una Vida Blanco Tequila is available at all six of the restaurant’s locations.

The blend was specially created to pair well with the eatery’s signature cocktails, specifically the Mission Margarita—which accounts for 70% of beverages sold!

BRIDGE BL♠ND

OSES

Zenwich will open in the Central West End in April. The sandwich and ramen eatery comes from Blue Ocean Restaurant owner Chai Ploentham. … In more CWE food news, Mike Randolph is bringing a new Italian conceptto the former Scape location. Edera is set to open in May with Mick Fumo as executive chef. … Guerrilla Street Food has closed its flagship brick-and-mortar at 3559 Arsenal St. and the Maryland Heights location. …

Tani Sushi Bistro unexpectedly shut its doors at 7726 Forsyth Blvd. in Clayton. The popular spot originally opened in 2008 on Bemiston Avenue before moving to its recent location in 2014. Future plans for the restaurant are unclear.

TAKING THE HELM

French foodies have something to buzz about. Kevin Tierney is now executive chef at Vin de Set. He has previously stretched his culinary muscles in Chicago at the popular Marche and several acclaimed restaurants in Las Vegas. Local kitchens he’s worked in include St. Louis Country Club, Bistro 1130, Robust Wine Bar and Eleven Eleven Mississippi.

by kenneth bland

VINCE LOMBARDI, THE LEGENDARY COACH OF THE GREEN BAY PACKERS , was

said to have spent eight hours diagramming and analyzing one seemingly straightforward play.

This month’s hand also appears simple but demonstrates the complexity of our game. We don’t have eight hours to break down each hand, but we need to make our 7 minutes productive.

Vul: Both Dealer: South

THE BIDDING:

S

2♣

2 NT

Pass

W N E Pass 2♦ Pass Pass 3 NT Pass Pass

big games & scores JAN. 14

Jerry Kramer/Rod Beery 70.19% St. Louis Bridge Center

JAN. 15

OPENING LEAD: ♥ 3

North

♠ J 6 5 4

♥ J 4 2

♦987

♣K54 West East ♠ 10 7 3 2 ♠Q98 ♥ Q 8 7 3 ♥ K 10 6 ♦ Q 4 3 2 ♦ K 10 6 ♣ 8 ♣ J 9 7 3

South

♠AK

♥A95

♦AJ5

♣ A Q 10 6 2

Judy Putzel/Rich Haake 70.74% St. Louis Bridge Center

FEB. 3

Lonnie Aronson/Linda McHoney 72% Lee’s West County Bridge

FEB. 5

Jan Greenberg/Barbie Freund 70.83% St. Louis Bridge Center

FEB. 7

John Belfi/Mark Behling 71. 53% Jefferson County Bridge

Bidding Commentary:

WINNER, WINNER, CHICKEN DINNER

Fans of fried chicken, rejoice!

Mike Johnson, co-owner of Sugarfire Smoke House and Hi-Pointe Drive-In, is planning to open Chicken Out this spring in The Loop in the former home of Piccione Pastry, which closed last September. The menu will focus on chicken sandwiches, but vegetarians and vegans can look forward to a plant-based option being developed in-house. The new concept is expected to open in May, but menu items already have been tested at Hi-Pointe.

HOT DIGGITY DOG!

Steve Ewing closed the doors on his eponymous restaurant in Tower Grove East on Feb. 1, but thanks to a powerful community response and intervention from investor Danni Eickenhorst, Steve’s Hot Dogs is back in business. As for the menu, not much will change. Hot dog fans can look forward to enjoying old favorites and sampling a few new items.

&

1. A strong and forcing two-♣ bid, followed by two No Trump shows 22-24 HCP. Depending on how the

responder shows values, this is not forcing. A common treatment is to respond two ♦s with at least an Ace or a King. If this is your style, then two ♣s opener and two ♦s responder forces hand to game. If responder bids two ♦s and opener bids two No Trump, the opener’s hand is unlimited. The value of this bid is keeping the three level open for systemic bids, be it Stayman, Transfers or whatever.

2. With game values, when partner opens No Trump, forego Stayman with 4-3-3 distribution.

Lead Commentary: Most of the time, it’s safer to lead from a major rather than a minor with relatively equal length and strength. Minor suits often are concealed during the bidding, but major suits seldom are.

With this month’s hand, ♥s are stronger than ♠s, so lead a ♥.

Play Commentary 1: With a combined holding, your hand and Dummy’s Ace-Queen-9 or Ace-Jack-9 (this hand) play low from Dummy.

Defensive Commentary: When Dummy plays low at first trick, East plays the 10. When third hand has a higher and a lower honor than Dummy, play the lower one.

Play Commentary 2: Counting tricks, declarer has two ♠s, one ♥ and one ♦, so he needs five ♣ tricks to make the contract. The ♣ suit should be played to guard against a 4:1 split. This is done by playing a high honor from the long hand, then cross to the honor in the short hand. If second hand shows out, finesse the 10 coming back. Five tricks in ♣s, two ♠s, one ♥ and one ♦. Contract bid and made.

NOTE: This ‘seemingly simple’ hand has five protocols for bidding, play and defense. Think deep from both sides of the table.

TIP OF THE DAY

Do you have any hints to help my partner and me with opening leads?

The quickest and best advice I can give is to concentrate on the bidding and try to get a picture of the opponents’ hand through the auction before you lead.

DO YOU HAVE A GOOD BRIDGE TIP? EMAIL KENNETHMBLAND@YAHOO.COM MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| F7

GETTING real WITH FOOD

PHOTO: ELIZABETH WISEMAN

by alaina hinkle

When I was younger, spring break meant counting calories and eating less.

A swimsuit was just around the corner, after all! Looking back, I realize this was such an unhealthy relationship with food. Now, I know it’s not about eating less, it’s about what you eat. So as spring hits, I challenge you to focus on fueling your body with whole foods and real ingredients.

Here is a power bowl that will give you the right kind of energy.

GREEN GODDESS BOWL MAKES 6 BOWLS

> GODDESS DRESSING

if you sub in urt 1 C RAW CASHEWS dairy-free Greek yog ½ BUNCH OF FRESH CILANTRO JUICE OF 1 LIME ½ LARGE JALAPEÑO, SEEDED & CHOPPED INTO FOURS 1 LARGE GARLIC CLOVE 1 T HONEY 1 T SALT 1 C LIGHT OLIVE OIL

Directions: 1. Pour warm water over the cashews, making sure they are covered. Soak for 3 hours to create a creamy texture for the dressing.

2. Drain and place at the bottom of a food processor.

Add cilantro (all of the leaves, half the stems) and rest of ingredients. Process until smooth, 2-3 minutes.

Refrigerate for at least 30 minutes.

> SHRIMP SEASONING

¼ TSP CUMIN ¼ TSP TURMERIC ½ TSP CHILI POWDER ½ TSP SALT JUICE OF 1 LIME 1 LARGE GARLIC CLOVE, MINCED

> BOWL

1 ½ LBS. RAW SHRIMP, DEVEINED & SHELLED WITH TAIL ON 2 C UNCOOKED WHITE RICE (LEAVE OUT FOR GF) 2 HEADS ROMAINE LETTUCE 3 AVOCADOES 6 OZ. CHERRY TOMATOES 4 GREEN ONIONS 2 JALAPEÑOS, SEEDED & DICED 8 OZ. COTIJA CHEESE (LEAVE OUT FOR DF)

Directions: 1. Cook white rice by package instructions.

2. In a small bowl, whisk to combine the cumin, turmeric, chili powder and salt.

3. Dice romaine lettuce, avocado, cherry tomatoes, onion and jalapeños, and break apart the cotija cheese.

4. In medium skillet, add in 1 T olive oil and minced garlic.

Heat on medium, and simmer for 2 minutes. Shrimp do not take long to cook at all, so watch them. Place each one flat in the skillet, and squeeze half of the lime over them. Then sprinkle half of the seasoning on top; cook for 2 minutes.

Flip and repeat with lime and seasoning for another 1-2 minutes. When they are pink and no longer translucent, take off the stove.

5. To assemble, add rice and lettuce to bowl. Sprinkle on toppings, place shrimp on top and pour on dressing. (It will be thick, which is what you want.) Mix and enjoy!

* Placesepinaragretediebontswlsinso everyone

FOLLOW ALAINA’S BLOG AT HONESTGRUBHONESTFOODIE.COM AND FIND HER ON INSTAGRAM @HONESTFOODIE_BLOG AND FACEBOOK& PINTEREST AT HONEST GRUB, HONEST FOODIE.

F8 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

can choose what they wa

nt!

CARAMELIZED BANANA SPLIT

* Visit townandstyle.com for recipe!

KIDS’ CORNER SPECIAL SECTION

CENTENE

WALK FOR WISHES presented by EMERSON & SPECTRUM

SATURDAY, APRIL 11 | Forest Park

COVER STORY

PHOTO: MICHAEL SCHLUETER PHOTOGRAPHY

SMILE MAKER MAKE-A-WISH FOUNDATION by stephanie zeilenga HEIDI’S MOUTH DROPS OPEN when she first sees her basement. It has been transformed by the Make-A-Wish Foundation into a kid’s dream of a rec room and arts and crafts studio. The 10-year-old covers her heart with her hand and runs to a teal beanbag, pretending to faint into it with delight.

That scene portrays the big reveal in November 2019. “I was so happy when I saw it,” Heidi recalls. Since then, she has spent countless hours in her new basement playing with her siblings and cousins and making art—drawing pugs is her specialty.

Having her wish granted was a happy end to a long, hard year. Diagnosed in January 2019 with a benign brain tumor, Heidi endured four brain surgeries and six weeks of radiation. For the rest of her life, she’ll be on hormone replacement medication.

As for so many other children facing critical illnesses, Heidi’s wish represents an important step in her healing journey. According to Make-A-Wish, research shows that children who have wishes granted get an emotional and physical boost that can help them fight their illness and lead to better health outcomes.

Make-A-Wish Foundation is the largest wish-granting organization in the U.S. Since its founding in 1980, the organization has granted more than 300,000 wishes nationally. The Missouri and Kansas chapter is one of 60; it alone has made more than 8,800 wishes come true and currently works with more than 430 children ages 2 ½ to 18 each year. Although Make-A-Wish reaches an astounding number of children, there are always more wishes to be granted. The annual Centene Walk for Wishes, presented by Emerson and Spectrum, plays a significant role in helping the nonprofit maximize its impact.

This year’s Walk for Wishes takes place at 9 a.m. April 11 in the Upper Muny parking lot in Forest Park. The free event includes family-friendly fun such as bounce houses, carnival games and face painting. The St. Louis walk draws higher numbers than anywhere else in the country.

F10 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

WISH KID AJ AND HIS SIBLINGS AT THE ST. LOUIS WALK FOR WISHES

“The walk is the most important fundraising event for this vital organization,” says Michael Neidorff, chairman, president and CEO of Centene Corporation and the 2020 Walk for Wishes chair. “In 2019, thousands of supporters gathered in Forest Park for the walk and raised more than $970,000, which single-handedly granted more than 97 local wishes to kids when they needed them most.” This year, MakeA-Wish hopes the event earns $1 million, which will help make the dreams of 100 children like Heidi come true.

“Wish experiences are often an integral part of a child’s medical treatment plan and can offer untold amounts of comfort and inspiration in trying times,” Neidorff says. “When a wish is granted, a child replaces fear with confidence, sadness with joy and anxiety with hope. It is inspiring to find a philanthropic effort that your entire enterprise can rally behind, especially one that directly impacts one of our most vulnerable populations—children in need.”

Heidi’s grandfather says she’s smiling all of the time, in part thanks to the Make-A-Wish Foundation. “It was incredible seeing KI DS ’ CO RN ER Heidi surprised when she walked into the refinished basement for the first time. She’ll enjoy the space for years to come.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION

THE MAKE-A-WISH 2020 CENTENE WALK FOR WISHES IS 9 A.M. APRIL 11 IN THE UPPER MUNY PARKING LOT IN FOREST PARK. PICTURED ON THE COVER: WISH KID HEIDI AND EVENT CHAIR MICHAEL NEIDORFF. TO PRE-REGISTER OR CREATE A TEAM, VISIT WALKFORWISHESSTLCOM. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE MAKE-A-WISH MISSOURI & KANSAS CHAPTER, VISIT MOKAN.WISH.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY CYDNEY MOORE | COVER PHOTO BY SUZY GORMAN

CENTENE

WALK FOR WISHE presented by EMERSON & SPECTRUM

S

SATURDAY, APRIL

11 | Forest Park

When only the best will do...

Dream Play Recreation offers the absolute finest...

Play Systems

Trampolines

Basketball Hoops Unmatched Quality | Durability | Safety | Long-Term Value | Service

17373 Edison Ave. Chesterfield, MO 63005 • 636.530.0055

View current offers at DreamPlayRec.com Family owned and operated for over 28 years.

Visit our huge 12,000 square foot interactive indoor showroom today!

Test play 17 play systems, 9 basketball hoops and 4 trampolines.

STUDENT STANDOUTS by stephanie wallace

ABBIE MUELLER OF WHITFIELD SCHOOL 〉〉 ABBIE MUELLER KNOWS THE VALUE OF GIVING BACK. The Whitfield junior started her first service organization, Abbie’s Helping Hands, in 2014 and has continued to expand her outreach. This year, she won the Prudential Spirit of Community Award for her positive self-image mentoring program, Self-ValYOU. The award recognizes middle and high schoolers from each state who have performed outstanding service for others.

Why is positive self-image a cause that speaks to you?

Negative self-image is a health risk. It can lead to depression, eating disorders and lower performance in school. In middle school, one of my friends called herself fat in the locker room. Another friend quickly told her she was beautiful, but the situation really hit home for me. I’ve struggled with my own weight, and I realized I couldn’t just attain validation from other people. I first needed to feel good about myself.

How did you develop Self-ValYOU? I was working on switching my own negative outlook to positive thinking. My mom and I sat down and brainstormed how to help others do the same. We came up with the idea of using road signs because everyone recognizes them.

The Y-shaped fork in the road represents questioning ‘why’ you feel a certain way. The O is for an off-ramp to stop negative thinking, and

How did you feel when you were awarded The Prudential Spirit of Community Award?

I wouldn’t have been selected without the support of my school. My principal, Mrs. What has been the highlight of working Greathouse, wrote a letter of on the program?

The personal connections I’ve made. After one recommendation. Just being nominated presentation, a girl came up and told me she was a big deal, and I was stunned to learn had been dealing with bullies, but my program I had been selected as the high school helped her feel more confident. It’s very recipient for Missouri. I’m beyond honored to rewarding to know I’m positively impacting be representing the amazing, active group of leaders in our community. people’s lives. the U-turn is about reframing those thoughts into something positive. We chose the SelfValYOU name because it’s easy to remember, and it took off from there.

How would you like to see it grow in the future?

I would like it to have a national reach. This is an issue that is only going to grow because of social media. On a personal level, I’m very involved with Girls on the Run. I completed the program, and now, I’m a practice partner coach.

I would love to do more mentoring and develop an educational unit on positive self-image.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

I’m a theater kid at heart. I want to study it in college and pursue it as my career. Right now, I’m in two shows, my school’s production of Footloose and The Hunchback of Notre Dame at Stages St. Louis. I also participate in scholarship and leadership pageants. I’m the current Miss Gateway St. Louis Outstanding Teen.

AS PART OF ITS SPONSORSHIP, SPORT COURT HAS MADE A DONATION TO MARYGROVE ON BEHALF OF ABBIE.

&

BACKYARD COURTS BUILT TO LAST...CHAMPIONS START HERE!

SPONSORED BY:

Big recognition helps our smallest patients.

Nationally ranked for regional care.

At SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, our SLUCare physicians are proud to deliver compassionate, expert care to all of our pediatric patients.

We offer a nationally ranked pediatric specialty in Cardiology & Heart Surgery through the Larry & Dorothy Dallas Heart Center. In addition, we have the region’s top two pediatric heart surgeons on staff and are recognized as a Level I Pediatric Trauma Center.

Please visit us at cardinalglennon.com to learn how our love for kids just keeps on growing!

F12 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

©2019 SSM Health. All rights reserved. CGC-STL-16-213976 6/19

SUMMER CAMP IN YOUR OWN BACKYARD Be the hangout house and build memories.

This is about more than just getting off the couch. This is about building a place where your family can play, train, and bond.

For over 40 years, our certified CourtBuilders™ have built custom courts where kids can be kids, be with their friends, and still be close to home.

Champions start here™ sportcourtstlouis.com / 636.451.0400

by E xa mp l e by julia m. johnson

PHOTO COURTESY OF VISITATION ACADEMY

3RD GRADERS WATCH AS A LASER CUTTER BRINGS THEIR PROJECT TO LIFE

a life of discovery

MICDS—a college-prep, independent school— offers a dynamic learning environment for intellectually curious and ambitious students from Junior Kindergarten (age 4) through 12th grade.

At MICDS, your child will become their best self in a diverse and collaborative community and with a hands-on, rigorous curriculum right at their fingertips. Join us for a life of discovery!

101 NORTH WARSON ROAD, SAINT LOUIS, MO 63124 • MICDS.ORG

FOLLOW US ON

ally kalishman MICDS

Junior Ally Kalishman learned about compassion and inclusion when they were shown to her at an early age.

“I’ve had life-threatening allergies my whole life, so my parents had to find a school that would take good care of me,” she explains. “MICDS was the most welcoming and responsive one they visited, and becoming a student there really changed things for me. Teachers and staff paid close attention to my needs and made me feel safe, and that example of community really stuck with me.”

Now, Ally returns the favor by standing up for others.

She is the student co-head of community service at MICDS and helps lead the Best Buddies program, which fosters friendships between students and developmentally disabled kids in the community.

She also leads the school’s Peer to Peer program, which educates middle schoolers about responsible relationships and social media use. She volunteers with a program that donates Thanksgiving turkeys to a food bank, serves as production manager for a theater company that raises money for juvenile diabetes research, and does marketing and fundraising for a food allergy nonprofit.

« community news « fashion « health leisure « home « beauty « society news

we’ve got you covered!

314.657.2100 | townandstyle.com F14 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

One of her proudest accomplishments is creating a website that connects MICDS students with nonprofits and clubs that need volunteers. “So far, it’s working well,” Ally says. “It allows kids to track their service hours, and many have told me it has helped them become much more involved.” She plans to work as a Variety camp counselor this summer and hopes to decide on a college soon.

grace kalil VISITATION ACADEMY

Grace Kalil sees social justice and environmental awareness as much more than abstract ideas. She believes they should figure into people’s actions and decisions on a daily basis. The senior recently received the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Model of Justice Award for her efforts to keep subjects like these at the forefront.

“This year, 27 area schools participated in the Model of Justice Awards,” Grace says. “I was honored, happy and grateful to be included.”

The awards are presented by the Archdiocese of St. Louis to honor local students who set an example for positive change in their communities.

As president of Visitation’s Peace and Justice Club, Grace has helped organize speaker presentations, peaceful protests, workshops and other activities to educate about key issues. “We put together a climate change demonstration and encouraged people to develop new habits to help the planet,” Grace says.

“It included facts about responsible agriculture, the ozone layer and other important topics.” She also helped plan Living Faith with Action, a social justice conference at St. Louis University High School. The event featured student-led workshops on subjects like climate change, refugee crises, racial equality, criminal justice reform and voter suppression.

Grace says she first became interested in social justice issues as a seventh-grader. “The Michael Brown case in 2014 made me aware of what people in the community were dealing with, and I decided to use my voice to help,” she says. She hopes to major in political science and then head to law school. “I’d like to become a civil rights attorney,” she says. “I want everyone to know that doing good for others is good for you as well.” &

IN FOCUS PHOTO: @JOAN_FISHER

MY MESSY M M LIFE WITH KATELYN & THE #CRUMBLYCREW

I’VE BEEN THINKING A LOT ABOUT HOW TO raise confident kids since a parent-teacher conference I had a few months ago. My child was described as an excellent leader and friend, but someone who often is nervous to try new things in front of the class.

My heart sank. I knew that feeling too well and wondered if it was a predisposition to a personality type. Did I project my own weaknesses to cause it, or does it just happen as we become more self-aware? I started asking myself the hard questions. How can I make sure I’m raising my kids to be confident enough to try, and even more importantly, confident enough to fail? How can I make sure that when they are making a decision, they dig within themselves for the answer and don’t base it on what others around them think?

I found some ways we can proactively help our kids find deep confidence early on so they can flourish in later years.

▶

Celebrate the right thing, and don’t make a big deal of failure and success. First of all, we are not a ‘participation award’ family. We don’t teach our kids that all teams should get a trophy. In life, there always will be people winning and losing, and it’s important for kids to be able to handle that. At home, I’ve learned that it is vital to celebrate a child’s hard work and what they learned in the process more than the actual outcome. Giving them compliments for showing up to tryouts, raising their hand to participate, taking responsibility on an assignment and working hard to develop a skill makes a big difference in our kids’ confidence.

▶ Teach them to pep talk. I want to tell my kids every day how strong

and wonderful they are. But what I want more than that is for them to be able to tell themselves. And not in an egotistical way; just positive talk to get them through struggles. Doing affirmations may sound a little strange to some, but I am learning that they are a game-changer when it comes to building confidence in your kids. We started saying positive affirmations on our drive to school. Check out The Big Life Journal Growth Mindset Kit, available to print at biglifejournal.com. It has 25 affirmations for kids, and I can’t wait to start the worksheets!

▶

Help them develop deep roots. The idea of being deeply rooted keeps coming up in my mind. I grew up with strong connections to my family and my faith. I know they helped me tackle some big projects and deal with the rejection and disappointment that came with them.

Spending quality time as a family is not just for great memories; it’s a chance for us to remind our kids of core values and how much they are unconditionally loved. They can go out into the world and attempt challenges knowing there is always a safe place waiting for them.

&

—XO

Katelyn

KATELYN YOUNG IS A LOCAL MOM OF THREE (HER #CRUMBLYCREW) WHO SHARES REAL MOMENTS OF MOTHERHOOD AS IT RELATES TO FASHION, FOOD AND FUN! FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM AT @_KATELYNYOUNG_ OR FOLLOW HER BLOG AT THEBEJULEDLIFE.COM.

Individualized

ACT / SAT Prep

Coaching for Success and Confidence

Content Review Testing Strategies Practice Tests

314.475.5035

One-on-One

Over Ten Years in Business

Real Results

SpecialSolutions.com

LOOKING

FOR

S UMMER F U N ?

Whitfield offers many sun-sational opportunities for kids of all ages!

SPORTS CAMPS

MOVE, ENGAGE, CREATE, PLAY Day Camp for Students Entering K-7th Grade

LEARN FUNDAMENTAL SKILLS AND IMPROVE YOUR GAME Basketball • Dance • Girls Volleyball

Whitfield CAMP HANDS-ON LABS, FUN ACTIVITIES

CULTURAL IMMERSION

Engineering Challenges & Digital Investigation

Through Language, Music, Dance, Cooking, Sports, and Art!

SESSIONS AVAILABLE JUNE, JULY AUGUST

W W W .W HI TFI E L D SC H O O L . O R G /S U M M E R C A M P 175 S. Mason Rd. • St. Louis, MO 63141 • 314.434.5141 • www.whitfieldschool.org MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| F15

Annunziata S Annunziata School chool

Archdiocese of St. Louis Office of Education and Faith Formation FULL DAY SPECIAL EDUCATION FOR STUDENTS AGES 5-14 Specializing in: • Learning disabilities • ADHD • Speech and language deficits Enrollment applications accepted year-round

9333 Clayton Road | Ladue, MO 63124 | 314.997.7727 | cmartin@archstl.org

PRESCHOOL PROFILES ROSSMAN SCHOOL Elizabeth Zurlinden, HEAD OF SCHOOL

age 4 - grade 6 | St. Louis

Educating children ages 4 through grade six, Rossman nurtures what makes each student one-of-a-kind. Our play-based Junior Kindergarten lays an unparalleled foundation for learning through a rich curriculum emphasizing strong academics and character.

...at who your child will become.

12660 CONWAY ROAD 314.434.5877 ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG

Schedule a Tour | www.rossmanschool.org

THE COLLEGE SCHOOL Carl Pelofsky, HEAD OF SCHOOL Our Early Childhood Program is inspired by the Reggio Emilia approach. Children interact in small and large groups as they express themselves through music, construction, art, drama, cooking, science and math. Call or email to schedule a private tour.

7825 BIG BEND BLVD. 314.962.9355 THECOLLEGESCHOOL.ORG

THE WILSON SCHOOL Thad Falkner, HEAD OF SCHOOL

Join our team!

We have an immediate opening for an experienced, full-time sales executive.

We offer a strong, educational foundation for ages 3 through grade six. Early childhood students enjoy a program that includes integrated, hands-on learning, a buddy program, and specialist classes in art, P.E., music, library and French.

400 DEMUN AVE. 314.725.4999 WILSONSCHOOL.COM

Send both resume & references to publisher Karen Kelly at kkelly@townandstyle.com

₌ EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYER F16 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

IN FOCUS

Play.

Learn.

Create.

• Age 3 - 8th Grade • June 1 - August 14 • Experienced staff and faculty • On Community’s beautiful 18-acre campus • Full and half-day camps available • Before & after care available • Register online!

www.communityschool.com/camp | 900 Lay Road | 314-991-0005

MARY INSTITUTE AND COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL (MICDS) Amy Scheer, HEAD OF LOWER SCHOOL Lower School students discover the joy of learning as they engage in an innovative, challenging education. Our whole-child approach nurtures and motivates them to achieve their potential through extensive academic and co-curricular opportunities.

101 N. WARSON ROAD | 314.995.7367 | MICDS.ORG

A NEW PERFORMING ARTS PROGRAM TAUGHT BY BROADWAY PROFESSIONALS!

COMMUNITY SCHOOL Bob Cooke, HEAD OF SCHOOL Students excel in a balanced, challenging and nurturing environment.

Expert faculty in early childhood and elementary education engage our confident and caring learners ages 3 through grade six with a differentiated curriculum that integrates academics and the arts.

900 LAY ROAD | 314.991.0005 | COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM

AUGUST 3-7, 2020

Young performers of all skill levels ages 10-18 are invited to this program consisting of classes and rehearsals culminating in a staged performance and cast party!

Register at Metrotix.com | 314.534.1111 VILLA DUCHESNE AND OAK HILL SCHOOL Michael F. Baber, HEAD OF SCHOOL We welcome boys and girls ages 3 through grade six to experience a Sacred Heart education! Our outstanding faculty nurtures the hearts of our students while challenging them to explore and understand the world. Schedule a visit to see our outdoor play and learning spaces.

PROGRAM SCHOLARSHIPS AVAILABLE!

Visit FOXPACF.ORG for complete details Program Scholarships Available!

801 S. SPOEDE ROAD| 314.432.2021 | VDOH.ORG

MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| F17

Eco-Friendly Beauty

Targeted Therapy

By Marylyn Simpson

Shopping ‘green’ doesn’t have to be reserved for the month of April, when we celebrate Earth Day. Respect Mother Earth year-round by choosing eco-friendly beauty brands. From sustainable packaging to recycling programs, here are a few paving the way for a future of natural beauty.

More than Pretty Packaging Certified organic skin care line Kahina Giving Beauty uses sustainable ingredients and recycled paper packaging. Its most popular product, Argan Oil, is fair trade certified, and all small batch products are produced by female Moroccan artisans.

AR G AN OI L , D ER MS TO R E .C O M, $1 5

Get With the (Recycle) Program Its recycling program has solidified Summer Fridays as the coolest eco-friendly brand on the market. Customers can send in their empty tubes from the popular Jet Leg Mask to be recycled and receive a mini Jet Lag Mask in return!

J E T L AG M A SK , SEPH O R A .C O M, $4 8

Simply Sustainable Lano Lips out of Australia focuses on using only what’s necessary to reduce waste across the board. The main ingredient in its skin care line is lanolin, a byproduct of sheep shearing, which is a process that sheep must undergo every year.

GEL CR E AM CL E ANSER , ULTA .C O M, $2 2

Very Vegan Kai checks almost every sustainable beauty box with its line of body butter, perfume, oils and deodorant (in recyclable packaging). The gorgeous gardenia-scented products are vegan, cruelty-free, microbead-free, and paraben-, gluten-, phosphate- and phthalate-free, so therefore … guilt-free!

BODY BU T T ER , NO R D S T R O M.C O M, $52

Bye, Bye Plastic Seed Phytonutrients is setting a new standard for sustainable face, hair and skin products. The brand’s packaging is made from paper and 100% post-consumer recycled plastic liner, resulting in 60% less plastic than a traditional bottle.

And did I mention they work with organic seed farmers and pay them upfront, no matter their yield?

DAI LY H AI R CL E ANSER , SEED PH Y TO NU T R IENT S .C O M, $ 24

Taking Aim at Cancer by julia m. johnson

A cancer diagnosis is a life-changing event that sends ripples through the lives of patients and their loved ones. Radiation oncologist Dr. Brian Baumann says Washington University researchers are working to lessen the burden by making cancer treatment easier on the patient. One of the university’s most promising fields of study is proton therapy, which can offer reduced side effects and a better quality of life.

Dr. Brian Baumann

Baumann, who is based at Siteman Cancer Center at Barnes-Jewish Hospital, was the lead author on a recent study suggesting that proton therapy is less likely to cause nausea, vomiting, diarrhea and dehydration than traditional X-ray radiation. This means that fewer patients become ill and end up back in the hospital after treatment. The study, a partnership between Washington University School of Medicine and the University of Pennsylvania, included 1,500 patients with cancers of the brain, head, neck, lung, digestive tract and female reproductive system. They were treated with combinations of chemotherapy and either X-ray radiation or proton therapy.

“In the X-ray radiation group, 27.6% of patients experienced a severe side effect in the 90 days following treatment, but in the proton therapy group, that figure was 11.5%,” Baumann says. “Patients in the proton therapy group had a two-thirds reduction in their relative risk of severe side effects in that time period.”

Proton therapy isn’t new, but it’s now being recognized as a promising alternative to deliver radiation treatment to a cancerous growth, Baumann explains. It uses a beam of protons to target diseased tissue and differs from traditional radiation because it doesn’t go beyond the tumor and into the surrounding tissue. “Because of proton therapy’s reduced toxicity, we likely will be able to increase doses beyond what we can give with traditional radiation, which should improve cure rates,” he says.

Another plus, Baumann says, is that people receiving proton therapy are able to do more of their normal daily Proton therapy (pictured at bottom) is more activities because they don’t feel as ill during treatment. targeted and may cause fewer side effects than traditional radiation, represented by the “We look at patients’ ‘performance status,’ a measure of blue area on the top image. their functional capabilities, and that seems to be affected less by proton therapy,” he says. “Many people can continue working while they’re in treatment, and that’s a big advantage.”

Baumann says proton therapy usually is delivered in a hospital setting. Siteman currently has one proton therapy system and plans to add another this summer. “At Washington University, we have been treating cancer with the current technology since 2013, so we have a lot of experience with it,” he says.

According to Baumann, more research on this topic is in the works. “Additional studies are looking at results, other possible applications, other disease sites and questions about cost-effectiveness,” he says. “It’s not clear yet if proton therapy could replace traditional radiation, but it’s very promising. It’s likely that the cost of the therapy will come down eventually, and if it continues to be supported by evidence, we should be able to treat more patients and gain a bigger data set to help us evaluate effectiveness. Proton therapy isn’t appropriate for everyone, but its potential for fewer side effects and better quality of life is something patients should consider.”

&

IMAGE: DR. BRIAN BAUMANN, MIKE WORFUL

T&S SPRING MARKET SPECIAL SECTION

Your Executive Home Awaits in Forest Hills Country Club Estates

COVER STORY

DREAM HOME LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP by stephanie wallace THE LOCAL LUXURY MARKET IS AS DIVERSE AS THE CITY ITSELF.

Whatever type of property you can dream up, chances are you’ll be able to find it in St. Louis. A historical home with loads of character? A penthouse in the heart of a walkable community? Something sleek and modern with the latest smart technology?

Check, check and check. High-end real estate is an ever-changing business, but it’s a challenge you don’t have to tackle alone. The Lottmann Realty Group of Re/Max Results Real Estate is dedicated to helping clients navigate the market.

With more than two decades of experience, Lottmann Realty Group is perfectly equipped to serve both buyers and sellers. “We’ve created a brand specifically for the St. Louis market,” founder Jeff Lottmann says. “Our agents live, work and play here.”

The group has access to the Re/Max Collection, an exclusive, worldwide program that provides advertising incentives, specialized training and unique marketing tools designed specifically for the luxury market. For a home to be included, it must be listed for at least double the average sale price of homes in its ZIP code.

One of the benefits of working with the Re/Max Collection is optimized advertising. The program syndicates its listings to 900 different websites. For homeowners looking to sell, this means their properties reach more possible prospects.

Lottmann Realty Group combines this wider reach with its own cutting-edge marketing strategies. “We use several techniques to create a total experience, including drone footage, aerial shots and 3-D technology,” Lottmann explains. “This isn’t just a slideshow of photos; it’s a motion picture walkthrough. The end result is very cinematic.”

To help meet the requests and desires of clients, Lottmann Realty Group keeps up with the latest trends. “People are no longer downsizing or upsizing; they are right-sizing,” Lottmann says. “Total square footages are becoming smaller, but buyers aren’t compromising on quality.” Technological advances are changing the luxury market. Lottmann notes that buyers want smart homes with whole-house networks and connected monitoring systems. Environmental concerns also are impacting

Looking for a force of nature? call

A SCREENED-IN PORCH OFFERS OUTDOOR LUXURY AT THE HOME ON HERWORTH DRIVE. PHOTO COURTESY OF LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP

how houses are constructed, with geothermal heating and cooling and solar power becoming more prevalent.

Another major trend is the luxury addition. “The price of new construction is rising,” Lottmann explains. “Instead of building from the ground up, you’re going to see many people opting to give existing properties significant face-lifts.” Lottmann Realty Group has strong relationships with builders, architects and designers, so it can help buyers create their dream homes whether they’re starting from scratch or modifying what’s already there. “From concept to completion, we can provide a truly turnkey experience,” he says.

Buying or selling a home can be a difficult process, and dealing with luxury properties only adds to the challenge. But Lottmann says the St. Louis market is an exciting place right now. “The entire region is being revitalized,” he notes. “We’re having our own renaissance, T& S SP RI NG MA RK ET and people are starting to look to St. Louis as a leader. The city is on the move!” & SPEC IAL SECT ION

LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP IS DEDICATED TO HELPING CLIENTS ACHIEVE THEIR GOALS AND SUCCESSFULLY NAVIGATE THE CHALLENGING PROCESS OF BUYING OR SELLING A HOME. PICTURED ON THE COVER: A HOME FOR SALE BY LOTTMANN AT 289 HERWORTH DRIVE IN CHESTERFIELD. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 636.812.4414 OR VISIT MYSTLREALTOR.COM.

Your Executive Hom in Forest Hills Coun e Awaits try Club Estates

COVER PROVIDED BY LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP

Phantom Executive Retractable Screens The natural screening solution for every space – out of sight until you need them!

“Katie is the nexus of the St. Louis area.

Everyone knows her and many are indebted to her for helping them well beyond their real estate needs.

She is trusted and admired for her skill and ability to connect people with true family homes and communities.”

—Satisfied Client

30 Years

janet mcafee inc.

9889 clayton rd.

314.997.4800

in Business

• Custom fit to your patio, veranda or porch • Great for picture windows and telescoping walls • Block out insects, excessive heat, and glare 12951 Gravois Road | Suite 110 | St. Louis 63127 | www.BroadviewScreen.com | 314 842 8888

Then..

Gladys’ grandaughter, Ruthie, on Polo Dr back in 1960

& Now!

Gladys Manion has been proud to be a part of the St. Louis community since 1936 and looks forward to continuing to serve you for years to come!

314.721.4755 | gladysmanion.com | @gladysmanion

THE LUXURY COLLECTION OF ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE

Frontenac | $2,195,000

6 Holiday Lane

St Albans | $1,900,000

685 Morel Court

5744 Calvey Creek Road Robertsville | $1,850,000

Richmond Heights | $1,775,000

211 North Bemiston Avenue

27 Washington Terrace

13028 Conway Estates Drive

1100 Sara Mathews Lane

Clayton | $1,575,000

8101 Stratford Drive

St Louis City | $950,000

1272 Lay Road

Town & Country | $899,999

Wildwood | $889,900

Clayton | $850,000

Richmond Heights | $849,900

1240 Lay Road

18459 Hencken Valley Estates Drive Wildwood | $840,000

Sunset Hills | $675,000

2791 Gravois

9914 Sappington Road

8025 Maryland Avenue #3C

2 Cedar Spring Court

St Clair | $665,000

St Louis Co | $659,000

12815 Edelen Lane

Clayton | $639,000

Lake St Louis | $580,000

THE CLASSIC COLLECTION OF ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE

12 Maryhill

17714 Drummer Lane

8034 Gannon Avenue

17986 Rosemar Lane

515 Tenby Terrace

7728 Shirley Drive #2E

Ladue | $725,000

University City | $499,000

Manchester | $369,000

225 Monarch Hill Drive

Wildwood | $615,000

Wildwood | $492,000

Clayton | $315,000

Wildwood | $579,000

18628 Windy Hollow Lane Wildwood | $570,000

16819 Westglen Farms Dr 16765 Chesterfield Bluffs Cir Wildwood | $435,000

2241 Arborview Drive

Maryland Heights | $294,900

Alliance Real Estate

17742 Drummer Lane Wildwood | $569,900

745 Ridgepointe Court

Chesterfield | $410,000

Lake St Louis | $390,576

2386 Baxton Way

1107 Twinbrook Drive

Chesterfield | $275,000

Visit www.stlopens.com to view weekend open houses

Rock Hill | $249,900

882 Cabernet Lane

St Albans | $525,000

4540 Lindell #202

St Louis City | $369,900

20 Arrowhead Estates

Chesterfield | $3,400/mo Lease

www.bhhsall.com 8077 Maryland Avenue | Clayton | 314-997-7600 17050 Baxter Road #200 | Chesterfield | 636-537-0300 Relocation | 636-733-5010

©2020 BHHS Affiliates, LLC. An independently owned and operated franchises of BHH Affiliates, LLC. Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices and the Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices symbol are registered service marks of HomeServices of America, Inc.® Equal Housing Opportunity

13028 Conway Estates Drive TOWN & COUNTRY | PRICE $899,999

Incredible

is the only way to describe the setting for this lovely ranch home. A winding stone walkway leads to the front entrance. Step inside to fifinnd a fabulous living room with vaulted wood ceiling and impressive flflooor to ceiling brick fifirreplace. Entertain family and friend in the formal dining room. The kitchen is light and bright and was recently updated with new sub-zero refrigerator, new counters and sink and has a gas stove with brass hood. Enjoy your morning coffffeee in the breakfast room with bay window which provides wonderful views of the yard. The master suite is a perfect retreat with gas fifirreplace and luxurious bath with whirlpool tub and separate shower. The main flflooor has 3 additional bedrooms and 2 full baths. Want to work from home? There is a large offi fficce off the kitchen which could also be used as a family room. A main flflooor laundry & powder room complete the fifirrst flflooor. The lower level offffeer loads of additional living space. There is a family room with wet bar and fifirreplace, a large rec room with dry bar, an exercise room and full bath. A peaceful backyard includes wonderful landscaping, a Pebble Tec pool and a pool house with kitchenette and half bath. It is like having your own private resort outside your back door. There is even a whole house gas generator.

All this and a convenient location close to shopping, restaurants and numerous schools.

Mark Ciapciak 314.740.5971 (cell) MarkCiapciak@bhhsall.com

MarkCiapciak.com

PREP WORK by julia m. johnson

is about to fling itself in our direction, and if you have a house going on the market, you should pay attention to more than just its curb appeal and interior finishes.

T&S asked local real estate agents to share some top hints for prepping a property.

It might seem like a small thing, but it’s important: Make sure all of the light bulbs in the house are the same color—soft white, bright white, etc. This will cast the home in a better light for client walk-throughs and interior photos. Colors and textures will appear richer and more consistent, and the whole house will look more pulled together.

1

Before a daytime showing, make sure all blinds are drawn up and window coverings like drapes and curtains are removed. This will let in more natural light and help potential buyers better visualize how they would use the space. Looking after the simple things will show them that you care about attention to detail.

2

Sabrina Robb Keller Williams Luxury International Real Estate

We advise sellers to write a ‘love letter’ about the home that can be posted online, downloaded and printed out with other literature about the property. The owners can talk about why they chose it, why they love the neighborhood and what the home has meant to them. They can include photos of their family enjoying it, or ‘before and after’ pictures from a recent renovation. The buyer usually wants to know why the owners are selling; the letter is a subtle way to explain that the move is due to a job or family commitment, not issues with the home.

Be smart about color. If you have pink and purple kids’ bedrooms or other spaces with unusual colors, paint them in attractive beiges or grays before photographing and listing the home. Before the Internet, you would create that all-important first impression during the open house or private showing, but now there’s a good chance buyers won’t even walk in the door if they don’t like what they see online. And you won’t get a second opportunity to impress them! So it’s important to make sure your photos show versatile neutrals on the walls.

If you’re putting a special property on the market, consider a ‘pre-premiere’ event to create buzz before the official opening.

Get neighbors, friends and family to invite others, and plan a relaxed but elegant evening to show the house at its best. A jazz pianist, champagne and cocktails can create a party atmosphere, and potential buyers and agents get to see how beautiful the home looks when illuminated at night.

Potential buyers also pay attention to what’s under their feet. Make sure the flooring looks consistent throughout the house before you begin showing it. When people walk into a home and see five different floor types with competing patterns, it’s visually disconcerting. Chances are, potential buyers also are thinking about how much the floors will cost to replace, and that may be discouraging.

1

2

1

2

Kristi Monschein Jeffrey Warner Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty

F24 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate

1126 Greyston onee Manor Par arkkway

1709 Milbor oroo Cou ourrt COMING SOON!

Chesterfield | $1,099,000

5 Bedrooms | 4 Full and 1 Half Baths KARA KASWELL 636-394-2424

Ladue | $699,000

3 Bedrooms | 2 Full and 1 Half Baths KELLY MESSMER 636-394-2424

612 West Washington Avenue

214 Meadow owbbroo ookk Cou ounntr tryy Club Drive UNDER CONTRACT!

Ballwin | $1,100,000

4 Bedrooms | 4 Full and 1 Half Baths THE KOENEMANN TEAM 636-394-2424

Kirkwood | $999,900

4 Bedrooms | 4 Full and 1 Half Baths THE DENNY TEAM 314-775-2050

338 Halcyon Drive

328 East Clinton Place

COMING SOON!

COMING SOON!

Kirkwood | $420,000

4 Bedrooms | 2 Full and 1 Half Baths ANN SIMON 314-775-2050

6 YEARS IN A ROW!

Glendale | $700,000

4 Bedrooms | 4 Full and 1 Half Baths ANN SIMON 314-775-2050

Trust in a company that supports their REALTORS® to allow them to provide the best service to you.

You’re in the hands of a SELECT Realtor®

TOWN & COUNTRY | 636.394.2424 JOINSELECTPROPERTIES.COM

DES PERES | 314.775.2050 BESTINSTL.COM

©2020 BHH AFFILIATES, LLC. AN INDEPENDENTLY OWNED AND OPERATED FRANCHISEE OF BHH AFFILIATES, LLC. BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES AND THE BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES SYMBOL ARE REGISTERED SERVICE MARKS OF HOMESERVICES OF AMERICA, INC.® EQUAL HOUSING OPPORTUNITY.

DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY

1 1 SOUTHMOOR SOUTHMOOR DRIVE DRIVE Offered Offered at $1,389,000 at $1,389,000 Clayton, Clayton, MO 63105 MO 63105 | Pool | Pool 1Southmoor.com 1Southmoor.com

10 10 RIVERMONT RIVERMONT DRIVE DRIVE Offered Offered at $699,000 at $699,000 Pool | 4Pool Acres | 4 Acres

2271 2271 TALON TALON COURT COURT New Price: New Price: $3,750,000 $3,750,000 St Albans, St Albans, MO 63073 MO 63073 | Pool | Pool 2271Talon.com 2271Talon.com

876 876 HODIAMONT HODIAMONT AVENUE AVENUE New Price: New Price: $590,000 $590,000 Two buildings: Two buildings: 3,500 3,500 sq. footsq. loft foot buildng loft buildng and a 3,500+ and a 3,500+ sq. footsq. studio foot studio space space

TED TED WIGHT WIGHT

GlobalGlobal Real Estate Real Estate Advisor Advisor c. 314.607.5555 c. 314.607.5555 | o. 314.725.0009 | o. 314.725.0009

76357635 WESTMORELAND WESTMORELAND AVENUE AVENUE Offered Offered at $2,240,000 at $2,240,000

25252525 OSSENFORT OSSENFORT ROAD ROAD New Price: New Price: $1,650,000 $1,650,000 Wildwood, Wildwood, MO 63038 MO 63038 | Pool || 16+ PoolAcres | 16+ Acres 2525Ossenfort.com 2525Ossenfort.com

31 WESTWOOD 31 WESTWOOD COUNTRY COUNTRY CLUBCLUB New Price: New Price: $949,000 $949,000 Westwood Westwood Country Country Club Club

31WestwoodCountryClub.com 31WestwoodCountryClub.com

12 12 WAKEFIELD WAKEFIELD DRIVE DRIVE Offered Offered at $755,000 at $755,000 Ladue,Ladue, MO 63124 MO 63124 12Wakefield.com 12Wakefield.com

984 984 CHARRETTE CHARRETTE LANELANE Offered Offered at $1,185,000 at $1,185,000 Washington, Washington, MO 63090 MO 63090 | 7+ Acres | 7+ Acres

TED WIGHT - GLOBAL REAL ESTATE ADIVISOR TED WIGHT - GLOBAL REAL ESTATE ADIVISOR

Clayton, Clayton, MO 63105 MO 63105 | New Construction | New Construction 7635Westmoreland.com 7635Westmoreland.com

HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

Since moving in a couple of years ago, we have focused on updating the interior of our home, as well as replacing the roof and windows. Now, we would like to redo the landscaping and driveway. What would you suggest to update the feel of the house while maintaining its classic style?

Thanks for your help, —UPDATING A CLASSIC

DEAR UPDATING A CLASSIC,

You raise an interesting question. Your home already is a handsome example of southern Colonial style, so how do we update it? My thought would be to make it even more ‘classical’ with changes to the architecture and landscape.

First, I would change the colors. Paint all of the white trim a warm, stone color and paint the brick a shade darker. Next, remove the shutters and install carved stone plaques between the windows. This makes the windows look much taller and more elegant. The monochromatic color scheme gives a calmer, more current feel, as does painting the windows, front door and ornaments black.

The landscape shows a drive court framed with a very formal evergreen hedge and a new center walkway to the street. The existing, rather wild trees have been replaced with a new row of maples. The symmetry and architectural nature of the plantings act as an extension of the style of the house. To me, there is now a bold simplicity to the overall presentation that makes us look at southern Colonial with fresh eyes.

Thanks for the interesting problem, —HOMEWORK

&

FOLLOW US ONLINE

HOMEWORK IS PENNED BY PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. IF YOU WOULD LIKE YOUR HOME CRITIQUED, CONTACT US AT HOMEWORK@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM.

SOLD FAST, CONTRACT PENDING!

48 CLAVERACH DRIVE, CLAYTON

9 LITTLE LANE, LADUE

25 OAK PARK DRIVE, CREVE COEUR

Offered at $695,000 | 2348 SF

Offered at $1,000,000 | 2750 SF w/fi fin nished lower level

Offered at $569,000 | 2366 SF

This enchanting 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath storybook cottage is nestled within the tree-lined streetscape of Claverach Drive, a short distance to schools, shops, restaurants and healthcare. Perfectly suited to its surroundings, this home features a romantic stucco façade, traditional pitched roof, large chimney, rustic wooden shutters and a detached 2-car garage. Your fairy tale beginning awaits!

This stunning open concept 5 bedroom, 3.5 bath home with palatial grounds will surprise and delight. Elegant and unpretentious, you’ll be drawn through the feng shui entrance into the sanctuary of this multi-level abode that unfolds origami-style. A breathtaking property in Ladue School District is close to all amenities. Homes of such grandeur in this enviable location are rare.

Enjoy easy, one-level living in this spacious, light-filled, mid-century modern 3 bedroom, 3.5 bath home. Generous one acre lot on quiet cul-de-sac in award-winning Ladue School District. Beautiful expansion features wall of windows overlooking extensive back yard. Kitchen open to family room, unfinished lower level offers opportunities for additional living space. Must see!

F28 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

314-677-6490 | sabrina@robbpartners.com | RobbPartners.com

COMING SOON

97 ABERDEEN PLACE, CLAYTON

17922 HOMESTEAD BLUFFS DR., WILDWOOD

Offered at $950,000 | 3334 SF fi fin nished living space

$799,000 | 5016 SF fi fin nished living space

Elegant 4 bed, 3.5 bath home in lovely Hillcrest neighborhood just blocks from Clayton schools & Wash U. Leaded glass, hardwood floors, built-in bookcases, original artisan ceramic tile floor, media room, master suite with dual closets and third floor bedroom w/full bath.

Custom built, five bedroom, 5.5 bath home on one acre lot.

Excellent floor plan with 9-ft ceilings, arched doorways, hardwood flooring and gourmet kitchen. Main floor master suite.

Finished walk-out lower level with wet bar.

Sabrina Robb Partners 314-677-6490

Sheryl Deskin Real Estate Team 636-534-8329

COMING SOON

3799 DYER ROAD, O’FALLON, MO

621 PALACE PLACE, ELLISVILLE

$948,900 | 5772 SF fi fin nished living space

Offered at $749,000 | 3314 SF/5000 SF fi fin nished living space

Exquisite newer custom-built equestrian estate takes your breath away!

Remodeled throughout including gourmet kitchen and bathrooms.

Efficiencies include geothermal heating & cooling. Master suite with veranda overlooks the heated saltwater pool, putting green, & 3.5 acre riding arena and barn.

Your outdoor oasis awaits! Custom atrium ranch in a gated neighborhood boasts an enormous pool w/stamped concrete patio, pergolas, waterfall and lush landscaping. Top-of-the line appliances, wine cellar, the list goes on!

The Krause Basler Network 636-549-1129

Tara Crater & Co 636-534-8227

ACTIVE UNDER CONTRACT

225 DOULTON PLACE, TOWN AND COUNTRY

2634 JOYCERIDGE DRIVE, CHESTERFIELD

$1,599,000 | 6011 SF fi fin nished living space

$748,000 | 4726 SF fi fin nished living space

Stunning 5 bed, 5.5 bath Traditional Country French home with main floor master suite, hearth room, bar & wine cellar. Three bedrooms upstairs with en suite baths. Fifth bedroom with full bath, fireplace, wet bar & sauna in lower level. Pool and outdoor fireplace in garden!

Nicola Moss 314-677-6120

Spectacular interiors, new kitchen & custom master bath are a few of the exquisite features in this gorgeous home. Superior lower level finishes with walk out to pool, open porch & putting clock.

Custom weight room, bonus room with closet, full bath and shower.

The Otto Group 636-534-8118

NEW PRICING!

7622 Walinca Terrace, Clayton | $999,000

525 Ticino Drive, Imperial | $4,250,000

202 North Brentwood Boulevard #1C Clayton | $1,125,000

18 Pine Valley Drive, Ladue | $4,350,000

7635 Westmoreland Avenue, Clayton | $2,240,000

NEW LISTING!

31 Brentmoor Park, Clayton | $5,650,000

StephanieOliverSTL.com | 314.322.6992

61 Conway Close Road, Ladue | $849,900

314.725.0009 | DielmannSothebys.com

2241 ALPINE RUN DRIVE

A SPECIAL INNSBROOK OASIS Over 6,800 square feet of living space overlooking the 236-acre Alpine Lake

...

Only 45 minutes from Saint Louis with over 7,500-acres and over 100 lakes

...

Innsbrook Resort

Weekly Events For All Ages | Tennis | Clubhouse | Stables | Nature Trails | Newly Upgraded 18-Hole Championship Golf Course | The Aspen Center – A Perfect Setting For Your Event Or Meeting!

Charrette Creek Commons — An Amenity Complex

Zero-Entry Pool | Lazy River | Playground | Pickelball Courts | Fitness Center | Outdoor Amphitheatre

$2,650,000

Wells | Simpson Global Real Estate Advisors d. 314.881.3838 | o. 314.725.0009 wells-simpson.com dielmannsothebys.com MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| F31

NEW ON THE MARKET

456 S. MCKNIGHT ROAD | $2,774,000 A custom-built Ladue estate features a stately French facade, open floor plan, soaring ceilings and an expansive living area. Outdoors, there is a pool, water feature and kitchen.

Heidi Long JANET MCAFEE REAL ESTATE 314.997.4800 | JANETMCAFEE.COM

8025 MARYLAND AVE., PENTHOUSE 15C $2,735,000 Perched on the 15th floor, the space offers remarkable views from every room! Experience true urban luxury with two terraces, three parking spaces and an oversized storage locker.

Suzie Wells & Aimee Simpson DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.881.3939 | 314.725.0009 WELLS-SIMPSON.COM | DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM

2120 S. WARSON ROAD | $1,999,000

12760 POST OAK ROAD | $2,900,000 The custom, Mayer-built property sits on 3 acres and has 4 bedrooms, 5 ½ baths and four fireplaces. Other features: a magnificent kitchen, main-floor master, large rec room, theater, fitness room, private outdoor pool and more.

Berkley Land | BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE 314.872.6716 | LANDLITWACK.COM

redefining

F32 |

TOWN&style

|

MARCH 11, 2020

From the moment you enter this glamorous home, you will be captivated by its open spaces and countless windows overlooking the 3.3-acre estate. It offers space to entertain, an expansive living room and a cozy den with fireplace.

Ted Wight | DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.607.5555 | 314.725.0009 TEDWIGHTREALESTATE.COM DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

R E A L E S TAT E

T&S HOME 10 BLACK CREEK LANE | $949,900 This inspired home could serve as the backdrop for a Ralph Lauren ad. Classic American style blends well with a modern, open floor plan.

The Warner Hall Group DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.764.5238 | 314.725.0009 WARNERHALLGROUP.COM DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM

16757 EAGLE BLUFF COURT | $1,625,000 An 8-bedroom, 6 1/2-bath home sits on a premier 1.5-acre lot on a cul-de-sac in the heart of Chesterfield. The main-floor master has a private balcony overlooking the private yard with saltwater pool.

289 HERWORTH DRIVE | $944,777 Pristine, picturesque and private best describe this open, bright and elegant 2-story, 5-bedroom executive home with finished lower level in Forest Hills Country Club Estates. The level lot backs to the 18th hole of the championship course.

Sheryl Deskin Real Estate Team | KELLER WILLIAMS LUXURY INTERNATIONAL 636.534.8329 | SHERYLDESKIN.COM

Jeff Lottmann LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP | RE/MAX RESULTS 636.812.4414 | MYSTLREALTOR.COM

663 CLIFDEN DRIVE | $709,500 The updated home sits off the 17th hole at Whitmoor Country Club. Relax in its private pool that has been entirely restored. There are hardwood floors throughout the main level, high ceilings, a gourmet kitchen and more!

13028 CONWAY ESTATES DRIVE | $899,999 The resort-like Town & Country home has 4 bedrooms, 4 ½ baths, and a finished walkout lower level with two family rooms, wet bar and an exercise room. The backyard includes a pool and pool house.

Nancy Gorgen BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES SELECT PROPERTIES 314.775.2050 | NANCYGORGEN.COM

Mark Ciapciak BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE 314.740.5971 | MARKCIAPCIAK.COM

WELL REFINED Living life exactly how and where you want to live it takes drive, vision and the support of a trusted advisor.

Someone who can make the right introductions, who knows the finest neighborhoods and can work it all, for you.

As a member of Luxury Portfolio International,® we are connected to a global network of the best in real estate, which allows us to deliver access, insights and sophisticated guidance to high-net-worth clients worldwide.

janet

mc afee R E A L E S TATE

Well Connected.

TM

JANETMCAFEE.COM

20 Fordyce Lane l Ladue l $1,875,000 janet mcafee inc.

9889 clayton road saint louis, missouri 63124 314.997.4800 MARCH 11, 2020 | townandstyle.com

| F33

445 QUAN AVE. | $695,000

7 BEACON HILL LANE | $574,400

The 6-bed, 3.5-bath home sits on a half acre only two blocks from awardwinning Tillman Elementary. Must-see features: master suite with balcony, great outdoor areas, three-car garage and lower level rec room. Showings start March 14.

A charming mid-century modern ranch exudes character in a great location!

Wood floors, vaulted and wood-beamed ceilings, and a living room with decorative fireplace are a few highlights.

Sabrina Robb Partners | KELLER WILLIAMS LUXURY SAINT LOUIS 314.677.6490 | SABRINAROBBPARTNERS.COM

Yue Ma Massage ACUPRESSURE

SWEDISH / DEEP TISSUE / SHIATSU

Anne Dunajcik | REDKEY REALTY LEADERS 314.965.5000 | 314.692.7200 | STLOUISHOME.COM

SPECIAL ADVERTISING FEATURE

Yue Ma has been practicing in STL for over 20 yrs.

Tree Service Professionals

“Our body is like a river; all is connected.”

TRIMMING • REDUCTION DEADWOODING • REMOVALS STUMP GRINDING

LOCALLY OWNED, BONDED & INSURED HOUSE CLEANING SERVICES

YEAR ROUND SERVICE

ARTHRITIS RELIEF • DETOXIFICATION • LYMPHNODE CLEANSE IMMUNE SYSTEM BOOST • CUPPING • FASCIA BLASTS TREAT HEADACHES/MIGRAINES/STROKES

636.375.2812

Winter Special: 1 hour for $60

You’ll be glad you called!

11628 OLD BALLAS RD. STE. 120 | 314.541.3502 YueMaMassageTherapy.com

REMODEL & REPAIR ESTATE BUYING

» FULLY INSURED «

Michael Baumann For a free estimate & property inspection!

Affordable • Detailed • Competent

2 FREE CLEANING VISITS!

Three cleaning packages to choose from to fit any budget

314.221.3472 | TwoLadiesCleaningLC.com

& WATCH REPAIR

Rotted Wood, Painting, Tile, Drywall, Floors, Electrical, Power Washing, Carpentry, & Plumbing

Buying gold, platinum, diamonds, colored stones, watches and unwanted jewelry since 1976.

Insured. Free Estimates.

40 Years Experience.

WE SPECIALIZE IN SLIP, TRIP & FALL PREVENTION.

In-house watch repair by a ROLEX trained watchmaker.Over 40 years of experience with all high grade watches.

WE INSTALL:

Don Phillips 314-973-8511

Complimentary estimates.

STANDARD TURNAROUND 10-14 DAYS 9711 Clayton Rd. | Ladue | 314.997.1707 | albarre.com

TURFKARE

SERVING ST. LOUIS SINCE 1984

We have an immediate opening for an experienced, full-time sales executive.

“Reliable Lawncare with Competitive Prices”

TurfKareLawn.com FREE ESTIMATES! CALL 314.822.4210

314-699-4686

Join our team!

LAWN SERVICE

Specializing in: Total Lawn Maintenance Seasonal Discounts • Group Discounts Common Grounds • Spring Cleanup Leaf Removal • Shrub Trimming • Mulch

Grab Bars/Handrails • Pathway Lighting Ramps • And So Much More!

St. Louis home care…with heart.

Companion care, personal care, specialized care and consumer-directed care in St. Louis City, St. Louis County and St. Charles County.

314-542-3121 | LegacyCareLLC.com

Send both resume & references to publisher Karen Kelly at kkelly@townandstyle.com

₌ EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYER