September 12, 2024

Five Life Saving Tips to Adventurous Downsizing

by R. L. “Pete” Peterson

Gregg Stanton stood in the living room of his former house, his body racked with sobs, tears blurring his vision. He’d planned to sell his house and move into a senior living community, before Johnanna died. But after her funeral, he’d been so depressed, so hurt, so angry, that the simplest of chores – mowing the yard, clipping shrubs, grocery shopping tired him out and the projects Johnanna reminded him to do went undone.

An only child of a first generation family, he and Johnanna were

childless; his only family member, Johnanna’s uncle, lived in Pennsylvania and was in poor health. The people Gregg had worked with at Plastic Molding were retired; his Social Security and retirement checks were on automatic deposit, so there was no reason to go to the bank. It was a hassle to get up early, so Gregg quit his bowling team, dropped out Kiwanis, his only outing a two or three times a week drive to the Country Inn for a late breakfast and early dinner. Most of his time was spent indoors thinking of days gone by. He’d trim the roses tomorrow. Get his high blood pres-

sure prescription refilled tomorrow, call his insurance agent tomorrow. One night wondering for what he never knew, he stumbled and fell. Luckily, his bare legs were spotted by his neighbor. She called 911.

This simple act of kindness set in motion an onslaught of government and non-government agencies, who “acting in his best interests” turned Gregg’s life upside down. Within weeks the court ruled that he was incompetent, unable to act on his own behalf. The organizations and people he owed money to – the I.R.S., his Home Owner’s Association, the

city of Escondido, the State of California, pressed their demands to be paid immediately. To settle these claims, Gregg was forced to sell his house and close out his savings. His resources depleted, he moved into the cheapest assisted living facility he could find, where he knew no one, and no one knew him. Three years later, he died.

Gregg was one of approximately 237,000 seniors a year forced by circumstances to downsize - the one word seniors fear more than cancer. We agree Gregg’s experience is extreme; experts say there

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are five simple steps which once implemented, will prevent the ravages of downsizing from ravaging you - five simple actions that can turn a painful experience into a pleasant adventure.

We’ve Got This Covered

A chant I heard frequently is, “We’ve got downsizing covered. We’ll age in place.” Great. You’re ahead of the game. Research conducted by American Association of Retired People shows this is a popular course of action most American seniors opt for. Geriatric specialists say some 64 percent of the population aged 55 and over will face downsizing issues over the next ten years. That’s over 17 million men and women. Odds are, you’re one of them. Authorities are adamant that saying you’re going to age in place is not enough - you must implement that decision.

Jacquelynn Russell, an Aging Specialist for Oklahoma’s Department of Social Welfare says, “The one thing most people overlook about aging is the longer you live, the older you get. Sounds silly, right, but as we age, we have less energy and patience to perform certain chores. The time to implement desired lifestyle changes is now, when you can control the results.”

Lifesaving Tip Number One Face reality. Do it now.

Most of us knew we’d get old, we

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never knew it would happen so soon. Only yesterday our hair was black, our eyes bright. Today, our hands shake, our hair (what we have left) is white and we forget to turn off the coffee pot. If you have decided to age in place, there are steps you must take to make your decision a realty. Have you installed grab bars over the bath tub? In the shower? Near your bathroom stool? Have you anchored throw rugs so they don’t slip? (Slip and fall is the number one cause of serious senior citizen injuries, from broken hips to sprained ankles.) Have you posted important phone numbers near your land line (if you still use one), or in your phone? We’re talking Fire and Police Department phone numbers as well as who a neighbor or health care authority should call in case you have a health emergency, a fire or other crisis.

It’s also important to list the name, address, and phone number of your doctor or doctors, your dentist, your insurance agent, as well as the medications you and other family members are on. For those days when you don’t want cook, the name and phone number of your favorite restaurant is a good idea. The best time to compile these lists is when they’re not needed. Like now.

Lifesaving Tip Number Two Know What You Want

Experts say the stress of downsizing may contribute to long term depression, loneliness, a propen-

The elephant turned to Joe, and with a rather curious look on its face, stared at him for several tense moments. Joe stood frozen, thinking of nothing else but being trampled.

Eventually the elephant trumpeted loudly, turned, and walked away. Joe never forgot that elephant or the events of that day.

sity for illness, overeating and increased drug and alcohol use. It doesn’t have to be that way - wise planning can make this transition to a different life style fun and exciting. Remember, downsizing is a major decision with many factors in play. One, is the emotional aspect of leaving a family home, especially if kids were raised there. Being unwilling to face these feelings causes many empty nesters to put off making a decision to move to a smaller property even when they know this would be a wise choice.

A major stumble stone to moving in my case was books, books, books. ( My Bride of Many Summers and I recently transitioned from a 2 story, 4 bedroom, 3 bath, 3 car garage on a golf course in Escondido, to a single story, 2 bed room, 2 bath, one car garage one hundred year old Spanish Revival on a quiet street in Long Beach.) Why, you ask? It wasn’t insanity, it was the grand kids!

Our son gets kudus for our decision as well. I was recovering from unexpected surgery when Matt visited. “What are your end of life plans,” he asked. “I don’t mean financial. I know they’re in place. I’m talking about what happens when you can’t climb the steps to your office? When you can’t bend over to pick up golf balls on your daily walk?”

He was rubbing salt in tender wounds. “You have the time, money, and health now to attend writ-

its trunk around one of Joe’s legs and slammed him against the railing killing him instantly.

Probably wasn’t the same elephant.

This is for everyone who sends me those heart-warming BS stories. •••

ers conferences, grow heirloom tomatoes and travel, but what happens when you can’t sweep the eucalyptus leaves from the back patio or drive yourself to the doctor?”

I couldn’t answer. He continued. “Here’s an idea. We’ll remodel our casita. You and Mom can move in there when you’re ready. You’ll be close to our boys, and we can take you to the doctor and see that you take your meds.” God bless you, boy!

Over the next six months Nancy and I spoke to remodeling experts, investigated Tiny Home builders (one of the largest is headquartered in Long Beach), toured Open Houses when neighborhood homes came on the market and did our homework. None of the homes we toured met our criteria without major renovations; a Tiny Home wouldn’t meet Nancy’s desire for a kitchen big enough to bake her fabulous sour dough bread. She also wanted a room where she could read, sew and relax. I needed space for my writing and dirt for my tomatoes. We both wanted our new digs to be within walking distance of our grandkids, and near to a shopping center and coffee shop if possible. Additionally, it had to make sense financially. These were tall orders. After several false starts we were ready to say bad idea.

That’s when our daughter-inlaw, (DIL in social media argot),

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uid soap. Now I don’t know what to use to clean it up.

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Someday, I hope to befriend a friendly panhandler and learn the secrets of handling pans firsthand.

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This week, a compendium of wit, wisdom and neat stuff you can tell at parties. Enjoy!

In 1972, Joe Miller was on holiday in Kenya after graduating from Tulsa Junior College

On a hike through the bush, he came across a young bull elephant standing with one leg raised in the air. The elephant seemed distressed, so Joe approached it very carefully. He got down on one knee, inspected the elephants foot, and found a large piece of wood deeply embedded in it. As carefully and as gently as he could, Joe worked the wood out with his knife, after which the elephant gingerly put down its foot.

Thirty years later, Joe was walking through the Tulsa Zoo with his family. As they approached the elephant enclosure, one of the creatures turned and walked over to near where Joe and his family were standing. The large bull elephant stared at Joe, lifted its front foot off the ground, then put it down The elephant did that several times then trumpeted loudly, all the while staring at the man.

Remembering the encounter in 1972, Joe could not help wondering if this was the same elephant... Joe summoned up his courage, climbed over the railing, and made his way into the enclosure. He walked right up to the elephant and stared back in wonder. The elephant trumpeted again, wrapped

I had an unfortunate traffic accident this morning. I rear-ended a car. The driver jumped out. He was a dwarf! He ran up to me and said, “I’M NOT HAPPY!” “Well which one are you,” I said.

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My attorney wants $10,000 for a retainer. I had no idea his teeth were that bad.

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Sure, condemn the snake oil salesmen. You’ll be sorry the day you’re stuck with a squeaky snake. •••

I just spilled an entire bottle of liq-

I may be schizophrenic but at least I have each other.

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New Sympathetic Alarm Clock Just Lets You Sleep.

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THE JEWISH SHIDUCH (ARRANGED MARRIAGE)

A good Hassidic family is most concerned that their 30-year-old son is unmarried. So, they call a marriage broker and ask him to find their son a good wife.

The broker comes over to their

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stepped up. On her Sunday morning jog she noticed a realtor installing a For Sale sign, that described a “move in ready” house. Corinne emailed this info to Nancy, and a hundred and twelve miracles - by actual count - later as often happens when things are meant to be, we now live in Long Beach, happy as butterflies in a field of daffodils.

Anyone who has ever made a move knows certain conditions must be met, particularly when downsizing. Often these considerations may seem overwhelming. Money is always an issue, and finding the right property can be time consuming and exhausting.

Lifesaving Tip Number Three Defeat Procrastination

To jolt yourself into action, I suggest you start by listing what you want in your new home – one bedroom, two bedroom and what amenities? How many months, weeks, days or hours are you willing to devote to finding what you want? What furniture, what dishes, what clothes will you throw out? It may sound silly, but when you write down what you want and the price you’re willing to pay to get it, you somehow make the impossible possible. To keep financial considerations and fears from snuffing out a good idea, arrange for a CPA or financial authority to analyze tax ramifications, and help you through the legal and procedural maze. Looking such challenges in the eye lessens the fear. Once past these headaches, emotional hang ups, and short-term costs, the other side of downsizing often looks great.

We put our new monthly budget into the computer, and surprise of surprises, our monthly expenses would be less; and there’d be no two hour drive to see our grandsons; no hassles arranging overnight stays. Our increased quality of life isn’t just about seeing our grand babies more regularly, we’re also making new friends and seeing new sights. Downsizing gave us a chance to declutter our life - jettison things we’d been holding on to simply because we had a closet to store them in.

Remember the book issue I mentioned earlier? My son asked “When was the last time you used this book? Read this one? Consulted that one?” I ended up donating hundreds of books to sober living facilities, Salvation Army and Goodwill. Those eight oversized note books that held heard copies of every article and short story I’d ever had published are in the Mira Mar land fill.

Rhonda and Lorenzo Gutierrez used the Defeat Procrastination mantra to their advantage as well. Rhonda says, “We had to cut our physical and financial footprint immediately, but my mother-inlaw’s furniture was in our basement along with twenty years of marriage detritus. We wrote down that we’d devote two days to solving this problem. Once it was in writing, the solution came instantly. Hello, Mr. Consignment Company!”

Other seniors spoke of benefits we’d not considered. Simplified home upkeep was one. Less home maintenance is particularly true when moving into a Tiny Home, a smaller house, or a condo. Another advantage we heard was, A fresh start in life. Downsizing is the perfect way to meet new friendsoften those doing as you are - so the rapport is immediate. This is a great way to add more living to your life, without the baggage of the past.

Want lower living costs? When Frederica and Ronald Jackson moved into an independent living unit, they immediately realized a reduction in food costs and more time to golf or travel. “Our monthly costs were cut in half,” Frederica says, “and. we have more time to do the things we want.”

Shelia Matthews, after her marriage ended, faced the eternal question, “What now?” She decided to move to a small Ohio town near where she’d been raised. “I can stand on the front porch and watch my daughter walk to school,” she says. An interior designer with a list of famous clients as long as her arm, Shelia says she can now pick and choose the projects she wants to take on. “We live in the present, doing as we want, rather than living lives dictated by others.”

Her new community opened doors to unexpected opportunities for Shelia. She volunteered at the local Chamber of Commerce, which led to teaching a class at the local college. Now. she’s contemplating a run for school board, something she could never have done in her previous life. “Downsizing gave my daughter and me exactly what we needed –the opportunity to start afresh in a beautiful space with an abundance of new options that made life easier and infinitely more enjoyable,” Shelia says.

“If you’re on the fence about downsizing, imagine what’s it’s like to wake up in a home which nurtures and supports the lifestyle you want for yourself. You have a

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seventeen Defendants indicted for Committing $1.7 million in COViD Tax Fraud

San Diego County District Attorney Summer Stephan today announced a grand jury indictment of 17 defendants who filed illegal tax returns claiming credits for COVID relief totaling more than $2.2 million. The case involves four separate San Diego-based criminal street gangs, including one rival gang, which participated in the tax fraud scheme for an ultimate loss to the IRS of $1,752,788.

Defendant Stephen Pittman, Jr., 31, recruited individuals and assisted them in filing their fraudulent tax claims and then took a large percentage of the refund. Between April 2022 and October 2022, multiple known, violent, gang members conspired with one another to commit this scam for personal profit, and to benefit their criminal street gangs. Pittman used some of the money to purchase diamond encrusted Cartier and Rolex watches, three diamond chains, and a diamond encrusted necklace of his gang moniker.

“This case demonstrates the lengths to which streets gangs will go to seek novel ways to fund their violent criminal enterprises and line their pockets, in this case successfully bilking the taxpayers out of nearly two million dollars,” said DA Stephan. “The dedicated investigators and prosecutors han-

Man About Town

Hooray! Football is back!

Now, a great many of those pesky “honey-do” lists will have to be postponed till, oh, say about mid January of 2025.

It is important that those of the feminine persuasion support this football season by keeping the chips and dips and adult beverages in constant supply. After all, foot-

dling this case followed the paper trail for months in order to allow us to file charges and hold these individuals responsible for this large-scale scam.”

The scam was simple. 2021 Tax Form 7202 included a line item intended for COVID Relief, entitled “Credits for Sick Leave and Family Leave for Certain Self-Employed Individuals.” The IRS system stated, “Don’t enter more than 60 days” in this field. However, the number was manipulated to increase the fraudulent tax refund. In each of the codefendants’ cases, more than 60 days were fraudulently inputted: ranging from 790 days to 15,678 days. As a result of the fraudulent entries, the returns garnered payments from the IRS ranging from $97,645 to $229,153 directly into their bank accounts.

The various defendants are charged with 81 felony counts including conspiracy to commit a crime, filing a fraudulent tax return, assisting in the filing of a fraudulent tax, receiving stolen property, and money laundering. Law enforcement arrested 14 of the defendants on Tuesday, two defendants were already in custody and one defendant remains at large. Arraignments for most of the defendants took place today in San Diego Su-

ball season only rolls around once a year.

While I enjoy professional football I much prefer the college sport. In particular, I follow the Nebraska Cornhuskers. We were once a mighty and powerful team . . . not so much the past 20 years. We dyed in the wool Husker fans keep hoping that this is the year that we at least make a respectable showing . . . it has not worked out too well.

I keep hoping that before I join The Great Perhaps that “my” Huskers will return to the glory years they once enjoyed. That, too, has been a long time coming . . . but hope springs eternal.

Nebraska looks like a much more balanced team this year. I saw Shedeur Sanders, the Colorado quarterback, against a very strong North Dakota State team, come from behind and, in decisive fashion, win the game. Fortunately, Nebraska’s defense contained his running game and defended against his powerful passing game. Nebraska wound up winning, 2810.

The other college teams I enjoy

perior Court. If convicted of the charges, the defendants face sentencing ranging from 16 months in jail, to life in state prison.

The fraud was discovered during the course of a homicide investigation when law enforcement found notice of an IRS refund on one of the suspect’s phones. That separate homicide investigation has led to four defendants being charged for the revenge murder of a rival gang member. That case is pending with one of the defendants having been convicted and sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole.

The San Diego Police Department’s Financial Crimes Division was the lead investigative agency on the case and prosecutors worked closely with the East County Gangs Task Force.

The defendants named in the grand jury indictment are Dajon Johnson, 23, Deonte Sherman, 29; Cora Wulff, 25; Roshan McKinney, 29; Shamira Clark, 21; Ashley Davis, 34; Shamar Garcia, 37; Haben Haile, 26; Stephen Pittman, Jr., 31; Jenelle Poutoa, 27; Brandon Scales, 53; Donte Sheffield, 35; Dominik Wells, 47; Gregory Baul, 23; Michael Brooks, 41; Tahamon Brooks, 53; and Michael Bullock, 55.

watching include Colorado, Kansas State, Notre Dame, Oklahoma, Iowa, Iowa State, and a few others.

On the pro side, I still follow the Chargers . . . the Denver Broncos, the Kansas City Chiefs, the Las Vegas Raiders, the 49ers . . . but that’s about it.

Growing up in the midwest (Omaha) I can still vividly recall the smell of burning corn cobs in the air . . . the prairie winds blowing through the cottonwood trees, and a sometimes chill in the air . . . all of which spelled out “it’s time for Husker football.”

Omaha has grown up considerably since I lived there and you have to go further and further west to get to the prairies and farmlands where you might still smell burning corn cobs. The farmlands that were there when I was much younger are now covered with beautiful new housing developments and shopping centers. Omaha itself has become very cosmopolitan and is filled with outstanding restaurants and entertainment revenues . . . far removed from the cattle town it once was. Last week, when we looked at a 112 degree heat wave Omaha

Thanks for this weeks Man About Town. Timely said and well documented. I hope we are beginning to see the end of the insanity that has been driving the ultra-liberal politics of Washington and California. Good job.

Paul Van Middlesworth, San Marcos

In the Man About Town column (9/5/2024 issue), it says that Newsom has signed a bill that authorizes $150,000 to illegal immigrants to make a down payment on a house. I agree - that is ridiculous!

In today’s San Diego Union Tribune, on the front page, there is an article that says “Newsom vetoed

was enjoying 70 degree weather. That’s unusual. Omaha will often have very hot weather with an added burden of high humidity . . . both of which I do not miss. They also tend to have very cold, snowy winters . . . which I most certainly do not miss.

In spite of these difficult and uncomfortable weather patterns, my Nebraska Cornhuskers hit the practice field regularly and then the game field . . . with great determination. Hopefully, they wind up successful.

Go Big Red!

The heat wave is behind us now . . . hopefully.

Last Friday it reached 112 degrees in Escondido.

My home does not have whole house air conditioning. I have a room a/c in my living room and one in my office . . . but none in my bedroom. Normally, an up-

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whole lot of living to do, so find a space where you can live as you want.”

Lifesaving Tip Number Four Control Your Destiny

Many of the seniors were surprised that as soon as they made the decision to downsize, things went smoothly and quickly. Ed Beecan said, “Once the decision was made everything just fell into place. We hired a home organization expert to help us decide what antiques to sell and which to keep. She also helped us prepare our home for sale. Our real estate agent took photographs. We went live online the same day. At our Open House we accepted a cash offer over our asking price.” Ed continues, “My wife Brenda, oversaw the packing of our furniture and our agent and I visited the town where we were moving to. We found the perfect house in two days and settled in within the month.”

Over and over, seniors who had negotiated successful moves were clear about three things. “This is a chance to start over, to choose the house you want to live in, in a place of your choosing, and make new friends in the process. A chance to control your destiny.”

Mary Lou Styles had an interesting

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house and spends a long time asking questions of the son and his parents as to what they want in a wife/daughter-in-law.

They give him a long shopping list of requirements. The marriage broker takes a long time looking, and finally asks to visit the family again.

He then tells them of a wonderful woman he has found.

He says she’s just the right age for the son. She keeps a Glatt Kosher home, she regularly attends synagogue and knows the prayers by heart, and she’s a wonderful cook. She loves children and wants a large family.

And, to crown it all off, she’s gorgeous.

After hearing all this, the family is very impressed and begins to get excited about the prospects of a wedding in the near future.

But the son pauses and asks inappropriately: ‘Is she also good in bed?’

prospective. “We bought our previous house to be near Jack’s work. Industry kept creeping in. Pollution got worse though no one would admit it. We choose our current home because it fit us – we didn’t have to fit it. That’s a big difference.” She looked out the window at her newly installed bird feeder. “We wrote out what we wanted and didn’t settle until we got it.”

I don’t think she’s depressed about moving. Would you agree?

Lifesaving Tip Number Five Have Fun

My wife is very competitive. To the destruction of my ego, we often play games to lighten chores. Like Divide and Conquer of our To Do List. She takes three chores. I take three. The one completing their assigned tasks first has to buy coffee that afternoon. (I seldom win.) A game we enjoyed during downsizing was to see who could memorize and repeat ten streets to our east and west the quickest. (I won!)

This was not only fun, it acclimated us to the area so that when we ventured out - Nancy on her bike, me on my trike - we ‘knew’ the area and could enjoy the neighborhood more fully. A variation of this game is, “Who Cleans the Fastest?” Nancy says, “Our dirt is our dirt. But other people’s dirt? No way.” I clean the kitchen – scrubbing the floor and shining appliances, stove,

The marriage broker answers, ‘Some say yes, some say no....’

A lady went to the bar on a cruise ship, and ordered a Scotch, with two drops of water. The bartender gave her the drink, and she said, “I’m on this cruise to celebrate my 80th birthday, and it’s today.”

The bartender said, “Well, since it’s your birthday, this one’s on me.”

As the lady finished her drink, a woman, to her right, said, “I’d like to buy you a drink, too.”

The lady said, “Thank you, how

stove vent, refrigerator and dishwasher - while. Nancy cleans the living room, dining room, dressing room and her office. (A fair distribution of labor though it may not sound like it.) The loser has to call in our dinner order. I usually win since I hate to order food on the phone.

The idea is to enjoy the moment. Be in the now. Don Lee, an Ohio psychologist, summed up the nexus of downsizing in a phone call. “It’s important to see the big picture,” he said. “What’s the cost emotionally and financially to stay in a home that no longer supports the lifestyle you want? Life is to be lived. Get honest with yourself. Do you really enjoy sweeping the back patio, or do you do it because it has to be done? Be brutal. Assess potential maintenance issues. Review your feelings regarding other chores. Are you willing to continue with issues that frustrate you? If not, what are your options? You can continue to live with discord and upheaval in your life, or you can opt to change it. Your choice.”

Don’s just getting warmed up. “Your heart has big shoulders. It can take any decision you make, but it wants you to be happy. Be honest. How do you feel about your life? Are you truly happy? Would a change of scenery benefit you? Would moving to a smaller, more manageable residence benefit you in a way known only to you?

sweet of you. OK, then, Bartender, I want another Scotch, with two drops of water.”

“Coming up,” said the bartender.

As she finished that drink, a man, to her left, said, “I’d like to buy you a drink too.” The lady said, “Thank you very much, my dear. Bartender, I’ll have another Scotch, with two drops of water.”

“Coming right up,” the bartender said.

As he gave her the drink, this time, he said, “Ma’am, I’m dying of curiosity. Why the Scotch with only

If your answer to these questions is ‘yes’, then you should seriously consider downsizing.”

Harold Jarvis, a retired Navy officer from Encinitas, downsized with his social worker wife in 2022, moving from a seaside home with an ocean view, to a four room cabin in a Wisconsin woods, was even more forthcoming. “There was a time when having a large lawn was a symbol of success. It was great for the kids to play in as they matured. Before we moved, it looked more like a jungle than a place to picnic.” He smiled at this memory. “At one time I enjoyed a cool evening entertaining on green grass. Today, I don’t have the energy to walk behind a mower or wield a hedge trimmer, both necessary actions to a beautiful yard. I’d rather read or work on my carvings.”

Ultimately, the key factor in deciding to downsize or not is the answer to the question will doing so increase my enjoyment of life? Over and over, I heard this advice: “Be clear about what you want. Communicate that desire to your team members. Be polite, but firm. Stay positive. Manage your expectations, but don’t settle for less than what you want..”

I’ve long made it a habit to con-

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two drops of water?”

The old woman giggled, and replied, “Sonny, when you’re my age, you’ve learned how to hold your liquor. Water, however, is a whole other issue.”

There was a young man from Japan, whose poetry would never scan; when he was asked why, this man would reply, “Well, I try to squeeze every significant syllable into that tricky last line that I possibly can”.

The Legislature Has adjourned

The regular legislative session ended on August 31st – and a first extraordinary session was opened. The regular new legislative session will begin December 2nd, after the November election. This session a number of important bills impacting public health/safety came before the Assembly Health Committee, where I serve as Vice Chair.

Among these are AB 1233, a bill I introduced to help deal with the epidemic of overdose deaths sweeping the state. The bill will help ensure that each tribal nation in California has naloxone hydrochloride or another opioid antagonist available to prevent overdose deaths. I also joined Senator Kelly Seyarto of Murrieta as a co-author for SB 67, which requires coroners to report overdose deaths to the National Overdose Detection Mapping Application Program, a tool that enhances local efforts to mobilize an immediate response when overdose deaths suddenly spike. I also supported SB 1320 (Senator Aisha Wahab) which requires health care plans to reimburse medical providers who treat substance use disorders when treatments are integrated into primary care services. I’m happy to report that all three bills have been signed into law by the Governor.

As of this writing, bills still await-

ing the Governor’s signature include AB 2081 (Assemblymember Laurie Davies) which requires operators of licensed alcoholism and drug abuse recovery facilities to inform customers/patients that any possible violations by the facility can be checked on the Department of Health Care Services website. Another bill, AB 1936 (Assemblymember Sabrina Cervantes) requires health care plans to provide at least one maternal mental health screening during pregnancy, and another during the first six weeks of the postpartum period. I also supported AB 2467 (Assemblymember Rebecca Bauer-Kahan) which requires healthcare plans to cover medically necessary treatments for premenopause and menopause.

These are just a few of the healthcare-related bills that passed with overwhelming bipartisan support this session. The Governor will have until September 30th to sign or veto all legislation received prior to adjournment.

Assemblymember Marie Waldron, R- Valley Center, represents the 75th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the cities of Poway, Santee, portions of the City of San Diego, and most of rural eastern and northern San Diego County.

5th

District Supervisor Jim Desmond

Home Loans for illegal immigrants?

California has once again chosen to prioritize dangerous policies over the safety and well-being of its citizens. Last week, lawmakers passed AB 1840, which would make California the first state in the nation to offer state-supported home loans of up to $150,000 to illegal immigrants. At a time when California faces a $60 billion deficit, this decision is a slap in the face to taxpayers and legal residents who are struggling to make ends meet.

This program is yet another example of the state’s misplaced priorities. Instead of focusing on the pressing needs of its citizens, Sacramento continues to incentivize illegal immigration, straining local resources and deepening our housing crisis. This is not just fiscal irresponsibility — it is a betrayal of the hardworking Californians who bear the brunt of these policies.

California is on the edge of financial collapse, yet lawmakers continue to push forward with reckless spending. Expanding home loan programs to illegal immigrants while our state drowns in debt will only worsen the deficit and increase the tax burden on every single Californian. Our citizens deserve better.

Problem solved

by Christopher Elliott

This is set become law unless Governor Newsom steps in to veto it. I urge the Governor to do what is right for California’s safety and financial future. Our communities cannot afford these dangerous policies.

uPDaTE

I am thrilled to share some great news: thanks to your hard work, dedication, and effort in raising awareness, Governor Newsom has vetoed AB 1840! This is a significant win for common sense and a huge relief for the hardworking families of California.

This victory belongs to all of you. It shows that we can make a real difference when we unite and stand up for what is right. I want to thank everyone for your help in this critical effort.

Thank you again for your dedication to this cause. Let’s keep up the momentum and continue to work together for a brighter future for all Californians!

San Diego County District 5 Supervisor Jim Desmond, 1600 Pacific Highway, #335, San Diego, CA 92101, United States http://www.supervisorjimdesmond.com/

my amazon package never arrived. Now they’re hiding behind a freight forwarder.

Q: I live in St Maarten in the Dutch Caribbean. I order a lot from Amazon, using a freight forwarder, a company that receives and ships goods on behalf of other companies.

I recently ordered $430 worth of computer equipment and shelves. Amazon claims the package was delivered, but they have no proof in terms of a signature or picture.

Now they are hiding behind the fact that they sent it through a freight forwarder and will not give me a replacement or refund.

I am going back and forth with emails and keep getting an automated message about what I said before.

I called Amazon, and a representative promised to share my information with the department handling lost freight forwarder information. She said the department would get

Have you ever dealt with a situation like this? Can you give me some guidance on this matter? --

Mirella Veen, Retreat Estate,

St.

Maarten

A: This is the first case involving Amazon and a freight forwarder -and honestly, I hope it’s my last.

Basically, Amazon will not cover any items it hands off to a freight forwarder. (Amazon puts it more delicately on its site, noting that using a freight forwarder “may result in complications.”)

Amazon is pretty clear about its liability once it hands off an item to your freight forwarder: It has none. “Amazon cannot accept returns or issue refunds for lost or damaged items that you or your freight forwarder export,” it says on its

freight forwarding page.

But there’s some ambiguity in the fine print, which was enough to make me take your case. For example, Amazon says it won’t issue a refund if your freight forwarder fails to deliver a package. But what about credit?

Also, will Amazon try to track down a package that isn’t delivered? It seems like Amazon has an entire freight forwarding department that handles situations like yours. By the time you contacted me, it had been three weeks since your freight forwarder had failed to deliver your computer equipment.

Instead of helping you, Amazon was sending you AI-generated emails. You might have done an end run around that department by reaching out to one of the Amazon executives (I publish their names and numbers on my consumer advocacy site, elliott.org). I would

have also contacted your freight forwarder directly to try to track your package -- although, ultimately, I think this was Amazon’s problem to fix.

At a minimum, your freight forwarder should have been able to show you proof of delivery. And Amazon might have also issued you a credit for a future purchase to make up for the loss.

I contacted Amazon on your behalf. A representative reviewed your file and said Amazon would make a “one-time exception” and issued a full refund.

Christopher Elliott is the founder of Elliott Advocacy (https://elliottadvocacy.org), a nonprofit organization that helps consumers solve their problems. Email him at chris@elliott.org or get help by contacting him at https://elliottadvocacy.org/help/

back to me in 24 to 48 hours. I have heard nothing from Amazon.

By Tom Morrow

Imagine the Mexican cities of Tijuana, Ensenada, La Paz, even Cabo San Lucas being part of the U.S. --- it almost happened.

The 1854 “Gadsden Purchase” was a 29,670-square-mile region of present-day southern Arizona and southwestern New Mexico. The proposal was made to Mexican President Antonio Lopez de Santa Anna by James Gadsden, U.S. ambassador to Mexico. The original proposal included the entire Baja California peninsula and northern Mexican states. The U.S. wanted the land to build a railroad between El Paso and San Diego.

The financially strapped Mexicans finally agreed to the sale, which netted $10 million (equivalent to approximately $300 million in present-day dollars). Santa Anna thought it was better to yield territory by treaty and receive payment rather than have the territory sim-

Historically Speaking

The Controversial ‘gadsden Purchase’

ply seized by the U.S. Army.

Ambassador Gadsden and business-oriented Southerners saw a railroad linking the South with the Pacific Coast would expand trade oppor tunities. However, the southern portion of the then-existing U.S. border was too mountainous for a direct route.

President Franklin Pierce, strongly influenced by Secretary of War Jefferson Davis, a Southerner, saw an opportunity to acquire significant territory from northern Mexico, but there was a controversial debate whether any new territory would be slave or free.

the acquisition of additional territory. Mexico was going through political and financial turmoil and Santa Anna was willing to deal with the United States because he

anti-slavery U.S. Senators, who saw the purchase as acquisition of more slave territory.

Santa Anna rejected the extension of the border and insisted on reparations for the damages caused by American Indian raids, but agreed to let an international tribunal resolve this problem. President Pierce finally authorized Gadsden to purchase any of six proposed parcels.

The earlier “Treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo,” which ended the Mexican-American War, contained a guarantee the United States would protect Mexicans by preventing cross-border raids by local Comanche and Apache tribes.

President Pierce appointed Ambassador Gadsden to Mexico with specific instructions to negotiate

needed money to rebuild his army for defense against (who else) the Americanos.

As originally envisioned, the Gadsden Purchase would have encompassed a much larger region, extending far enough south to include most of the current Mexican states of Baja California Norte, Baja California Sur (south), the states of Coahuila, Chihuahua, Sonora, Nuevo León, and Tamaulipas. But, Mexico opposed Gadsden’s proposed boundaries, as did northern

Ironically, the $15 million the amount was the price President Thomas Jefferson paid France for the “Louisiana Purchase” a half-century earlier. Gadsden’s orders were to buy the 38,000 square miles of desert necessary for the railroad plans. However, his “antagonistic manner” alienated Santa Anna, who balked at any large-scale sale of territory. The Mexican President felt threatened by U.S. Army renegade William Walker’s bold attempt to capture Baja California and annex the northern state of Sonora – all with only 50 troopers. Ambassador Gadsden

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After a scooter accident, Jim Hutslar cancels his British Airways flight. Expedia offers him a $1,987 ticket credit. But British Airways refuses, claiming he was a “no show” for his flight. Is the money lost?

Q: I had a scooter accident recently. I had a flight scheduled on British Airways that I had booked through Expedia. I asked Expedia to reschedule my flight, and it sent me an email saying they had canceled the trip and that I had a ticket credit of $1,987 on British Airways that needed to be used within a year of my original booking.

I called Expedia last month to use the credit, and they said I had none with them, and that I should call the airline. British Airways said I was a “no-show” for the first flight, so they canceled the entire trip.

I went back to Expedia, and they

said I needed to ask British Airways about the refund. But British Airways won’t give me my money back. Can you help me get Expedia to honor its ticket credit? -- Jim Hutslar, Fort Lauderdale, Fla.

A: I’m sorry about your scooter accident and hope you’re on the road to recovery. Expedia should have honored your ticket credit request, whether British Airways considered you a “no-show” or not.

What’s a no-show? It’s when you fail to show up for your flight. An airline will cancel all the segments of your flight if you miss one segment. So if you miss a flight from Miami to London with a connection, British Airways will also cancel that connection.

It gets worse. If you’re a no-show, the airline keeps your money and you get nothing. You have to let the airline know you’re canceling

before the first segment of your flight leaves.

But Expedia should have done that when you contacted it after your scooter accident. As your travel agent, Expedia is the go-between with British Airways, so it is acting on the airline’s behalf.

Getting a promise of a ticket credit in writing was brilliant. You had an email from Expedia that promised you a $1,987 credit valid for one year from your initial booking. It doesn’t matter if British Airways considered you a no-show or not -- as your agent, Expedia is on the hook for that credit.

You should have leaned on Expedia to do the right thing. I list the names, numbers and email addresses of the Expedia executives on my consumer advocacy site, Elliott.org. A brief, polite email to one of them might have fixed this.

As my advocacy team and I reviewed your paperwork, we concluded that Expedia most likely made a mistake in promising you a ticket credit. You were flying on a highly restricted ticket and were most likely only due a refund of your taxes. But we wanted to get Expedia’s side of the story, so we contacted the online agency.

Expedia apologized to you. Instead of just refunding your taxes on your ticket, it gave back the entire $1,987. “I have taken note of this case and will share appropriate feedback with the relevant team to prevent such instances in future reservations,” the representative added.

Christopher Elliott is the founder of Elliott Advocacy, a nonprofit organization that helps consumers solve their problems. Email him at chris@elliott.org or get help by contacting him on his site.

Travel Troubleshooter

by Christopher Elliott

The Territory Ambassador James Gadsden purchased

Traveling?

Here’s what to say if you want to get the worst treatment.

It’s easy to get treated like a second-class citizen when you travel: Just say the wrong thing.

That’s an undeniable fact that people are rediscovering during the busiest year in the history of modern travel.

Businesses would deny it, of course. Airlines, car rental companies, cruise lines and hotel chains would claim that they have a welltrained staff that provides topnotch customer service, always.

But who are they kidding? Their well-trained employees are only human, and when you disrespect them, they’ll find a way to get back at you. You’ll end up in a middle seat, in a Matchbox car, in a broom closet, or checking into a berth near the engine room.

It’s getting worse, according to research by Christine Porath, a visiting professor at the University of North Carolina and co-author of “The Cost of Bad Behavior.”

“Incivility on the front lines of business is on the rise,” she noted.

How Employees Punish You With The Worst Treatment

How does it happen? Well, I could cite one of the tens of thousands

of cases I handle as a consumer advocate every year. But I’m embarrassed to say it happened to me recently.

I was on assignment in Zürich, Switzerland, and I lost my credit card. My bank promised to overnight a new card to my address but then sent it to the wrong address -- my U.S. residence in-

stead of my Swiss address.

Then things took a turn for the worse. My bank needed to send me a text message to verify my identity, but the message never arrived. It then tried to enable tap-to-pay on my phone, but that didn’t work. Finally, I ended up speaking with someone who sounded like he was in a call cen-

ter halfway around the world.

“You have to help me,” I told him.

“Let me transfer you to someone who can assist,” he promised.

Then he hung up.

I called back and waited in a long queue, and by now I was even more frustrated. Finally, I got through to someone in a call center who promised to transfer me. Another hangup.

I’m sure it was something I said. You never tell someone on the front lines how to do their job, even when you’re irritated -- or maybe I should say, especially when you’re irritated. And by the way, I’m still waiting for my credit card as I write this, and maybe I deserve the wait.

But there are other things you can say that will also get you into trouble.

“Why can’t you just do your job”

“That’s disrespectful and demoralizing,” says Mark Damsgaard, founder of Global Residence In-

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Illustration by Dustin Elliot

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dex, a visa and migration agency. Instead, he recommends showing empathy and respect -- and rephrasing the query to, “How can we fix this?”

“Do you know who I am?”

“That’s always a winner,” says Bob Bacheler, a frequent traveler and managing director of a medical transportation service. (He’s being sarcastic.) Travelers who have to tell you how important they are -- whether they’re an elite-level frequent flier, an influencer or a thought leader -- are just annoying. Employees will find a way to make their lives miserable.

“I’ll sue”

This threat is usually accompanied by yelling and swearing. Barry Maher saw that happen on a recent flight to Chicago. A business class passenger was loudly berating the ticket agent, saying everyone who worked there couldn’t “do any *!*% thing right.” “He had important business in Chicago and if he didn’t make it there on time he was going to sue the airline and everyone responsible, including the airline agent,” says Maher, a professional speaker. It did not make the agent move any faster,

and the loudmouth was eventually rebooked on another flight -- in economy class.

“It’s my anniversary”

Loudly declaring that it’s your special day can have the opposite effect. This is a well-known trick to get special treatment, says Kate Lacroix, a hotel marketer. “You should assume everyone in the room is on a vacation because they are celebrating a special occasion.” I’ll never forget visiting Disney World with a childhood friend and his family.

As they pulled up to the parking attendant, she asked if they could park closer to the front of the lot.

“We have kids,” she said. The attendant could hardly contain his amusement. Everyone there had kids.

“I know the CEO”

“It’s the wrong thing to say,” says Bill Luftig, a former customer relations director for an NFL stadium. “That will almost always guarantee a less-thanenthusiastic response to whatever the problem may be. Also,

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Local author Publishes Captivating Children’s book

It turns out we have an author among us. Her name is Judith Wilson Shadzi and she has just published a book, “American Cat Persian Family,” an interesting story about a Nebraska cat adopted by a Persian family from Iran. The cat, Zeeba, and her sister, Peeshi, experience all the trials of a cat’s life but have to learn Farsi, the Persian language . . . and submerge themselves into a foreign culture, all of which makes for a rather interesting and sometimes, adventurous and exciting, life.

The author’s story is similar to that of the cat’s . . .Judith lived in Iran for five years during the 1979 Iranian Revolution and speaks fluent Farsi.

She is Vice President of Cosmic Solar and Roofing, Inc, a company she and her husband, Bahram, own and with their son, Pey, operate. They live on a solar-powered orchard in Southern California with their cat Una.

She writes quite well and the story moves along quickly and easily. It is a book that could be read to youngsters by parents or grandparents, or, since it is written for the age range of 8-12 years, they may well read it themselves . . . and enjoy. The book is only 40 pages in length and I suspect will be a big hit with the public.

Available on Amazon. Printed copy pre-sale $15.99, Kindle $4.99 available instantly, also available on Barnes & Noble, Book Baby, Apple Books, and other international outlets.

Pastor Huls

The Pastor says . . . What’s Normal?

Often, subjects come up that people want me to write about. Such is the question of what is normal. It is by way of contrast that leads to this question. Is it normal to have this present heat wave? Today, there seems to be more harsh weather with tornadoes and hurricanes. Many would say, “It is not normal.” How far we must look back to find a much different climate pattern. Today, we are seeing a warming cycle with the ice melting at both poles and unusual amounts of rainfall in other parts of our country and the world. When asked about all this, most would say, “All this is abnormal.” We contrast what many would say was normal.

To be fair to our readers, we try to define normal. Normal conforms to a standard that is typical, expected, and usual. Perhaps it is best described as what people are used to in contrast to the unexpected or radically different.

When life becomes abnormal or unnatural, it can be disturbing. Most people want things to be consistent without change. We like it if the weather remains the same over a period of time. This is true with changing seasons. We have learned the projected weather patterns and seasonal changes over the years. We are not used to extreme irregularities. For most, it is not normal if there are these extreme differences.

Even socially, we are confronted with abnormal behavior. It is not normal to have our cities filled with homeless people. What used to be a normal marriage of fifty to sixty years today is the exception, almost abnormal. Men and women used to date, become engaged and then get married. Today, living together and having sex without marriage is common, even more normal than “waiting.” When confronted, even challenged by the religious and secular society as undesirable and abnormal, it is acknowledged as old-fashioned and abnormal today. This reminds me of the word (ain’t) and one of the most used four-letter words, _____, today as a normal part of our vocabulary.

So what is normal? Without sounding archaic and pious, I propose we revisit the Garden of Eden, where normal life was perfect and orderly. There was order, peace, love, joy, and purpose. It was normal for Adam to till the garden, name the animals, walk with God, and enjoy his marriage. The words he used, the time he shared, and his tasks were normal. Once Adam ate the forbidden fruit, everything became abnormal. Conflict arose between husband and wife, sibling rivalry turned to murder, survival became a struggle, and a rebellious world suffered abnormality.

Can we ever become normal again? The closest we can get is to seek and obey God, who created normalcy. Without that, we will continue to live in a world of abnormality.

Pastor Huls Please feel free to call 760-746-6611 for guidance and inspiration.

Pet Parade

Old Western

Old Western is Rancho Coastal Humane Society’s pet of the week. He’s a 6-1/2year-old, 12-pound, male, Domestic Short Hair cat with a Black and White coat.

Old Western was a stray. She was taken to a local shelter. When nobody claimed him, he was transferred to Rancho Coastal Humane Society through Friends of County Animal Shelters (FOCAS.)

The $100 adoption fee for Old Western includes medical exam, neuter, up to date vaccinations, and registered microchip.

Visit Rancho Coastal Humane Society in Encinitas or log on to www. SDpets.org.

Open 11 to 4, Thursday through Monday, and by appointment Wednesday.

San Diego Humane Society is supporting families and their pets who need a little extra help.

Through the Community Pet Pantry, anyone can visit our campuses to pick up a bag of dog or cat food, and other supplies, as available.

No appointment is needed for this service. Hours are Tuesday-Sunday from 10am to 6pm.

El Cajon 373 N. Marshall Ave.

Escondido 3500 Burnet Drive

Oceanside 572 Airport Road

san Diego 5480 Gaines Street

Pet of the Week sandy

Meet Sandy, a sweet 6-year-old terrier mix who is bursting with love and energy that she can’t wait to share with her new family! She is an active lil pup who enjoys going on peaceful walks, playing and getting lots of affection from her people. She adores being brushed and always wants to be the center of attention. She isn’t a fan of other dogs and will need to be the one and only furiend in her new home. Her caregivers will help you set her up for success and a smooth transition to your family. If Sandy (892011) sounds like the dog of your dreams, adopt her at San Diego Humane Society’s Escondido Campus at 3500 Burnet Dr. This Saturday, Sept. 7, adoption fees are waived for EVERY pet! If you have questions about the adoption process, you can visit sdhumane.org/adopt or call 619-299-7012.

Online profile: https://www.sdhumane.org/adopt/available-pets/animal-single.html?petId=892011

The Computer Factory

845 W. san marcos blvd. 760-744-4315 thecomputerfactory.net

The Windows PC “personal computer” is quietly following the horse and buggy down the path to practical irrelevance. Two major factors are responsible for the slow demise of Windows and PCs.

First; the IW’s (intelligent Web) powerful servers are in the process of eliminating the need for local PC processing power. Secondly; In 2014 Microsoft conceded defeat in its attempt to join to join Google and Apple as a major player in “smart phone” Internet access by selling its recently acquired ownership of Nokia’s “smart phone” business. Microsoft’s failure doomed “Windows” to join the PC in a long, slow decline into future oblivion. Many Computer Factory customers are businesses and home users who find the Internet’s information, applications and pro-

How can my dog paw-sibly sleep so much!

“The boys” were our large, senior dogs. Until their last couple years, they were very active. Playing. Running. Zoomies. Ninja attacks. Launching off the stairway, flying through the air, and body slamming each other. We got tired just watching them.

Now our almost-4-year-old, medium-sized, female dog wakes us up early. If we don’t get up right

“One

cessing power combined with local PC features like comfortable workspaces, large screens and peripheral devices to be perfectly tuned to their needs. Windows PCs will be around for as long as home and business users want them. That’s why we’re still here.

Today’s PCs are no longer complex stand alone systems, they are Internet terminals. Servicing them requires lot less space than it did in previous years. We’ve re-purposed some of our extra space and we going to have some fun with it. Here’s how.

At the end of WW II Dad and Mom moved us from New Jersey to Richmond, an industrial city in east-central Indiana where my dad started a wholesale food business. We bought a large, century old home on 11th street. The five block stretch of 11th between “A” and “E” streets was lined on both sides with stately hundred year old mansions that had been the 19th century homes of Richmond’s elite founders of the town and its industries. By the mid 20th century the “richies” had moved to the suburbs and the mansions had been converted to apartments. 11th street had become a working class neighborhood.

As these large old homes came to market, Mom would buy them and convert or rehab them to apartment buildings for her working class tenants. Eventually she came to own nearly a hundred and fifty furnished rental units. Most of the house wares needed to furnish her

apartments came from live auctions. There were several each week and Mom was well known to the local auctioneers and regular auction fans as Mrs. Van. She was tough competitor and many experienced auction fans would drop out when she started bidding. We kids often tagged along with her and learned to love the auction action. My brother Doug even worked his way through college and law school as an auctioneer.

As a young married couple Nome and I were auction junkies. We furnished our homes with auction triumphs and became fairly competent “collectors” over the years. Today many of the “collectables” we purchased have been gathering dust since we bought them. Perhaps it’s time to let them out of “jail” so that others can enjoy them, after

all, “you can’t take it with you”. We cleared out a thousand square feet of space in our store and started putting the “stuff” on tables and racks. In addition to the collectables we found hundreds of music CDs and DVD movies with Hispanic and English artists, back packs, wine aerators, stuffed dolls and animals and dozens of other things we don’t need. These are things we’ve accumulated over the years. We’ve decided that we are going to sell or give it away and de-clutter our house, store and lives. The grand opening of “Another Man’s Treasure” (Working title) will be on Friday, September thirteenth at 9:00am. “If you snooze you lose”, the free stuff always goes first. If it works for us we’ll let you know. Perhaps you’d like to get in on it with you “stuff” too.

staying Connected or Drop Out?

For the first time ever, the entirety of human knowledge and history is instantly available to us through our Internet connection devices. This ever evolving IW or “Intelligent Web” technology is less than twenty years old and every living human is “in on the ground floor” of the most impactful technological development in human history. To take full advantage of this ever evolving technology today, you need four things. Internet connectivity, a smart phone, a PC workstation and smart speakers. Most Americans have the first three things and many have all four, but few of us truly comprehend the massive impact the IW is having on us today and on the future of humanity. It’s a bit scary!

away, she gives us a “Woof” to remind us it’s time to get out of bed and feed the dog. She trots outside for her morning break, then comes back in for her breakfast.

Here’s the part I don’t understand. She eats her breakfast, then goes back to bed where she’s completely zonked out within two minutes.

Why (and how) do dogs sleep so much?

A Google search came up with one post said that it’s about energy conservation. Dogs burn energy faster than we do. They sleep to balance their energy so they can stay active during the time when they are awake.

Puppies and older dogs are likely to sleep more. Puppies because they use more energy. Old dogs because they get tired easier.

Big dogs need more sleep because they use more energy than little dogs.

Purina says dogs sleep 12 to 14 hours per day. When a dog gets tired, it sleeps. That could be at home in bed, in the car, or in the yard. Anywhere it feels safe.

Humans have busy schedules. Instead of thinking about the rest we

need, we think about the stuff we want or need to do. We ignore it when our bodies tell us to rest.

Once in a while I take a break from my work at Rancho Coastal Humane Society and walk up the driveway to Kamp Kanine Daycare to check on my dog. I love midafternoon when she’s sound asleep in the play yard, surrounded by her napping dog friends.

Later I pick her up then we walk back to my office where she immediately (you guessed it) goes back to sleep. Then we go home, and she has her dinner, just in time to take her evening nap.

I want to be my dog.

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grief support group

Find comfort, validation and the knowledge that you are not alone in healing from loss.

September 12th and 26th (2nd and 4th Thursday each month) 1:00pm - 2:00pm

Senior Service Council Escondido 728 N Broadway - Oak Room Escondido, CA 92025 (760) 480-0611 ***

mcClellan senior Center Exercise Room for Vista’s Seniors

The City of Vista is excited to announce the grand opening of a new exercise room at the McClellan Senior Center, designed exclusively for Vista residents aged 50 and older. This new facility offers a welcoming and accessible space for seniors to independently engage in physical activity, promoting health and wellness within the community.

Located within the Azalea Building, the exercise room is equipped with a variety of user-friendly machines, including treadmills, stationary bikes, and strength training equipment. Vista seniors are encouraged to take advantage of this opportunity to stay active and healthy, all at no cost.

To ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all, participants are required to check in at the Azalea Building Welcome Desk upon arrival. There, they will sign a waiver before entering the exercise room. Please note that the facility accommodates a maximum of 10 people at a time, so plan your visit accordingly.

The exercise room is open weekdays from 8 am to 3:30 pm, providing a convenient option for seniors to incorporate fitness into their daily routine. For more information, call the McClellan Senior Center at 760.643.5288. ***

silent auction and mega sale September 14 • 10:00-2:00 pm United Methodist Church of Vista 490 South Melrose Dr., Vista

Don’t miss the Biggest Sale of the Year for Quilters and Non-Quilters throughout the North County San Diego Area. This event promises to be bigger and better than ever.

We’ve received hundreds of yards of fabric off the bolt and tons of pre-cuts still in their original packaging ready for purchase at incredible prices. Finished goods and gift items galore.

A variety of Theme Baskets and exciting items will be available for bid throughout the day including a Singer Featherweight.

Free admission and free parking. Refreshments available for purchase.

Presented by El Camino Quilters –www.elcaminoquilters.com

Weekday Wellness & Fun for seniors

11am - Noon

McClellan Senior Center

Calling all seniors! Looking for a way to add some excitement to your weekdays? Look no further! From 11 am until noon, join us at the McClellan Senior Center for a variety of engaging activities designed just for you!

• Unleash your creativity in our lively art class on Mondays.

• Test your luck and socialize with friends in a thrilling game of bingo on Tuesdays.

• Enjoy some friendly competition with games and cards on Wednesdays.

• Keep your mind sharp with trivia and brain games on Thursdays.

Don’t miss out on the opportunity to connect, have fun, and make new memories with fellow seniors. Mark your calendars and join us for a fulfilling and enjoyable time at McClellan Senior Center! For more information, call 760.643.5288.

Chess at Park avenue Community Center

Home of Escondido Senior Center 210 Park Avenue, Escondido 760-839-4688

Chess players of all skill levels are welcome every Wednesday in the shuffleboard building from Noon –3 p.m. Friendly games with large boards and pieces provided. Follow the signs or ask at the front desk for directions.

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a bill Friday that could have made immigrants without legal status eligible for loans under a state program offering assistance to firsttime home buyers.”

If what was mentioned in The Paper is the one that Newsom vetoed, then I think that correction needs to be stated.

One sad thing is that he vetoed it because of lack of money from the State, not because they are illegal. The State of California is going CRAZY!! ~ Linda Hanson

Editor’s Note: Yes, we saw the same information that Newsom had vetoed the bill. We suspect the reason he vetoed the bill was both a lack of money to fund the project and the enormous amount of pushback he encountered from a very angry and disillusioned electorate.

Man About Town from page 4

right fan is sufficient to keep me comfortable and able to sleep. Not last week. I used my fan but it was like a sauna in my bedroom so I would duck into the shower, twice, drench myself, throw a beach towel on my bed and plop myself down. The fan breezes hit my very wet body and instant cool down! I also had bottled water at my bedside so would occasionally pour it on my chest, belly and head . . .and another instant cool down. It worked. I was able to enjoy a delicious sleep for 6-7 hours. Improvisation I think it’s called.

My office away from home:

Three or four days a week you can find me at Charlie’s Family Restaurant, 210 N. Ivy St., in Escondido. That has become my “home away from home,” and my “personal office space.”

It’s a great place to hold business meetings. The food is good, more than reasonable in price, and the service is outstanding.

Because I have a hearing loss problem I usually meet either way in back, away from the clatter of pots and pans in the kitchen, or on the patio . . . usually before 11am as it is both shaded, cool, and quiet.

I very much recommend it for business meetings. If you have a large group they have a banquet room in back that will work for you. If you see me there, stop by and say hello. Charlie’s will treat you right.

See you again next week?

Historically Speaking from page 7

disavowed any U.S. government backing of Walker, who ended up being cashiered by the Army and placed on trial as a criminal.

Even the sale of a relatively small strip of land angered the Mexican people, who saw Santa Anna’s actions as a betrayal of their country. They watched in dismay as he squandered the funds generated by “the Purchase.” Today, some historians believe the Gadsden Purchase partially contributed to the negative relationship that has existed between our two countries.

The final “Purchase included the cities of Tucson, Yuma, Bisbee, Douglas and Tombstone. For many years an outlaw band known as “The Cowboys,” frequently robbed stagecoaches and brazenly stole Mexican cattle in broad daylight, scaring off Mexican ranchers who were watching over their herds. Accordingly, Mexican authorities complained to the U.S. about those “Cowboy” raids. The 1880s conflict, known as the “Cochise County War,” came to an end by the Earp and Clanton families with Tombstone’s historic Gunfight at the O.K. Corral and Wyatt Earp’s infamous “Vendetta Ride” against the “Cowboys.”

The included counties in Arizona do not follow the northern boundary of the Gadsden Purchase. Pima County, which includes Tucson, is Arizona’s second most populated county. Four of these also contain areas north of the Gadsden Purchase, but they have relatively low population densities, with the exception of northeastern Pinal County’s towns of Apache Junction and Florence. Maricopa County south of Phoenix also extends into the area of the Purchase, but this area also is thinly populated. Tucson is the largest city in the Gadsden Purchase.

It 2009, it was estimated the purchased land had not been profitable for the United States. Historical accounts take it for granted the Purchase has been a boon to the United States, but that region produces very little tax revenue and most mines are on Indian reservations which receive all royalties. The federal government spent a great deal of money during the 19th century to defend the territory from Apaches which might not have been necessary without the Purchase.

The Gadsden Purchase remains a little-known nugget of Southwest U.S. history.

SERVICE DIRECTORY MIGHTY MOJO

Downsize from page 5

cede to professionals. During our downsizing saga if an issue came up that baffled me, I turned to a pro. Cindy Ellison of Compass Real Estate was our ‘go to’ person, our real estate agent sure, but a friend as well. She understood our neighborhood, and was on a first name basis with our seller’s agent. Cindy communicated our desires well, gave us advice on issues as varied as hot water recirculation systems to how to use pillows to accent a room. While our move was not immune to minor problems, it was completed on time with good vibrations all around.

Do What’s important to You

In summary, if you’re 55 years of age or older it is not if you’ll be faced with a downsizing decision but when. If you’ve decided to Age in Place as do the majority of senior citizens, be sure you have important information readily available – doctors’ names, numbers, specialties and other information. Provide a list of medications you and your significant other take.

If you’re ambivalent about the process of downsizing, you might think about the benefits most often mentioned. The majority of successful downsizers noted Simplified home upkeep and less maintenance work. Tiny Home owners in particular stated this as the single

greatest advantage to living small. A close second was a fresh start in life. Downsizing was touted as the perfect vehicle to meet and make new friends – often ones in the same stage of life as you, so there’s a mutual attraction- a great way to add another dimension to your life without past baggage. Finally, lower living costs was an advantage often mentioned by those who have been there, done that. Frederica and Ronald Jackson are good examples of this. They cut their food bill in half and enjoy more free time.

Almost all the folks we talked to said that if the why was big enough, the how, the when and where would fall into place. Setting all the financial advantages aside, Nancy and I determined that our two sweetheart grandsons made our why urgent. When they smile, storm clouds turn to sunshine. Recently, after a morning of play, Reid Lawrence Peterson crawled onto Nana’s lap. “I could stay here all the time,” he said. Is that a big enough reason to downsize?

If not, watch Miles Joseph Peterson gap-toothed smile, black eyes dancing, confidence in his every move, climb onto his tricycle and speed off with a wave of hand, “Watch out world,” he seems to say, “I’m out to conquer all.”

That my friends is why we downsized. If you know the why, the what and when will make themselves known . Enjoy the process. It’s an exciting and fun adventure.

Treatment from page 9

stating that they want the name of your immediate boss so he can fire you. Again, not effective -- and my boss would most likely back me up anyway.” What’s the best way of getting what you want? Let the facts of your case speak for themselves.

“But I’m American”

Your nationality is no one’s business, but with anti-American sentiment running high in some parts of the world, volunteering that information may translate into bad service. “Never flat-out say you are American,” advises Brandon Scivolette, a frequent international traveler who runs a moving company. “There’s nothing wrong with being an American, and most people accept us -- but never say it as a qualifying statement.” Also, don’t assume everyone speaks English. Because they don’t.

How To Get Better Service

You’re probably wondering what you should say to get better service. If you can’t curse, yell, threaten, or wave your platinum card around, then what can you do?

be calm. Whether something has gone wrong or you just have a special request, emotion is the enemy. A level-headed, rational

approach is always more effective. Employees are trained to handle angry and hysterical customers: They call security.

be factual. Describe what you want without embellishing. Let the facts speak for themselves. Don’t tell the employee that you’re important or that if you don’t get your way you’re going to sue. Every customer is important, and when things go wrong, you always have the option of going to court -- so both these things are already implied.

be friendly. Employees are people, and they’re far more likely to go out of their way for you if you’re nice to them.

The unfortunate truth is: At a time of record travel, expectations are at a record high. Getting preferential treatment is hard, but getting the worst treatment is as easy as saying a few careless words.

Christopher Elliott is an author, consumer advocate, and journalist. He founded Elliott Advocacy, a nonprofit organization that helps solve consumer problems. He publishes Elliott Confidential, a travel newsletter, and the Elliott Report, a news site about customer service. If you need help with a consumer problem, you can email him at chris@elliott.org.

Free Oktoberfest Event in Encinitas Expected To Draw 15,000

If you’re looking for a way to blend Southern California sunshine with the festive spirit of a classic German celebration, then the Encinitas Oktoberfest on Sunday, September 29th is where you need to be. The Encinitas Chamber of Commerce and Visit Encinitas have announced that their 28th annual Oktoberfest will take place with new hours this year -- from 11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. More than 15,000 guests are expected to attend this premier Oktoberfest in San Diego County spanning1/3 of a mile along Mountain Vista Drive off El Camino Real between Wandering Road and Rambling Road. The ceremonial parade is slated for noon.

This family-oriented and petfriendly festival and artisan faire is free and open to the public. Live entertainment including Bavarian music and dance troupes keep the atmosphere buzzing with energy. Authentic German food, international refreshments, two beer gar-

dens and a diverse selection of local artisan products make the event a great opportunity to eat, drink and be merry and shop for unique crafts, jewelry and other handmade goods while supporting local businesses. A special kids play zone with inflatable slides, games, crafts, face painting and a rockclimbing wall make sure there is plenty to keep the little ones entertained while the adults enjoy the festivities. And for the first time, there will be a pet costume contest where furry friends get to show off their best German-themed costumes and compete for fun prizes.

As lively oompah music plays in the background, festival goers will be transported to Munich as steins of golden frothy beers flow freely and the aroma of sizzling sausages, crispy schnitzel and warm pretzels waft through the air.

“Encinitas Oktoberfest brings the best of Bavaria to the California

coast and is the perfect way to kick off the fall season,” said Sherry Yardley, CEO of the Encinitas Chamber of Commerce and Visit Encinitas. “Whether you’re a longtime resident or a visitor, this event offers a unique blend of tradition, community and entertainment that you won’t want to miss.”

The food and refreshment tents will serve authentic German beer and food from Tarantino’s Gourmet Sausage and Taste of Poland. The Local Craft Beer Garden celebrates San Diego’s thriving craft beer scene and features local breweries Burgeon Beer Co. Bivouac Ciderworks, Duck Foot Brewing, Julian Hard Cider, Modern Times Beer, RationAle non-alcoholic craft beer and Fox Point Brewing Company, who is also the beer stein sponsor. This year’s Family Tent Beer Sponsor is Craft Coast Beer & Tacos, whose beer will be exclusively poured there. They will also be pouring beer and giv-

Humane society Offers many resources For Pet Families

Unexpected life events like housing instability, hospitalization or other emergencies can make caring for a pet feel impossible. Many owners are faced with the heartbreaking decision to give up their beloved companion during times of hardship, but this isn’t the only option.

The San Diego Humane Society provides resources and support for families looking for short-term care options, including pet boarding, guides for temporary care agreements and pet-friendly housing resources. Additionally, our Safety Net Foster Program offers foster care for pets while their families are experiencing hardship or instability. This gives community members time to get back on their feet and then reunite with their pets.

resources For Pet Families

Community Veterinary Program

Our Community Veterinary Program helps pet owners keep their beloved companions healthy and happy by providing low-cost preventive and basic sick care. Our San Diego Campus clinic services are now available by appointment only, Tuesday through Saturday from 8 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Appointments can be made by calling 858-216-3908 during business hours. We also offer mobile clinic services, bringing veterinary services directly into the communities that need them most. The Community Veterinary Program does not provide emergency or urgent care services.

Community Pet Pantry

We’re always here to support pet families when they need a helping hand. Our Community Pet Pantry is open to provide free pet food and other supplies as available. You can visit our campuses in El Cajon, Escondido, Oceanside and San Diego to access this service, no appointment needed. You can also find our Pantry at neighborhood distribution locations across San Diego County:

Spay/Neuter Vouchers

Spaying and neutering helps your pets stay healthy and prevents overpopulation in our community. San Diego Humane Society offers a limited number of spay/neuter vouchers each month for dogs, cats and rabbits that can be redeemed at local participating veterinary clinics. There are no eligibility requirements to apply. Visit our website and follow the instructions to apply. If no vouchers are available, please check back as new vouchers are released at the beginning of each month.

Rehome Your Pet

Unexpected life changes can happen to anyone. If you are unable to keep your pet, we provide resources and tools you can use to find them a new home without taking them to a shelter. Our online rehoming platforms help owners place their pets directly with a new family. Adopters also get the benefit of learning about the animal from the people who know them best! With Home To Home (all species) or Rehome by Adopt-a-Pet (cats and dogs only), you can easily connect with potential adopters in your community and choose the one who best fits your animal’s unique personality and needs.

End-of-Life Services and Pet Loss Support

Saying goodbye to a cherished pet can be emotional and overwhelming. We’re here to support you through this difficult time with humane endof-life euthanasia services, after care and support resources. We offer compassionate euthanasia services at a reduced cost and help guide owners through the options for after care when it’s time to let a pet go. We also recommend pet loss support resources to help navigate the mourning and healing process, no matter what stage of loss you are experiencing.

For more information visit sdhumane.org

ing away free tacos to the first 500 served in the Craft Beer Garden. Los Cuernos California Wine will be served in both tents.

Live entertainment is sponsored by Wild Fork Meat & Seafood Market and will include Bavarian music from the Our Song band. Dance troupes from The Gemütlichkeit Alpine Dancers and the Encinitas Ballet will perform, and a DJ will provide music at the Craft Beer Garden. Buskers will perform live throughout the festival, showcasing their talent. More than 150 local vendors and North County businesses will be featured at the artisan craft fair. Pixel Pro Photo Booth will be taking free framed Oktoberfest photos for attendees, and participants in the Stein Holding Contest and kids games have a chance to win passes from San Diego-area attractions and museums. Also new this year: The Johnny Deadly Trio will close out the event from 6:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. in the Family Tent.

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016387

The name of the business: Happy Boxes Cactus, located at 1850 Warmland Ave., Vista, CA 92084. Registrant, Estefani Carrasco, 3461 Royal Road, Vista, CA 92084. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 7/4/2022

/s/ Estefani Carrasco with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/ Recorder of San Diego on 8/13/2024

8/22, 8/29, 9/5, 9/12/2024

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The name of the business: I Had Those Toys, located at 2625 El Camino Real, Carlsbad, CA

92008. Registrant, Stuart Kearns, 120 Flamingo Dr., Oceanside, CA 92054. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 11/1/2023

/s/ Stuart Kearns with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 7/16/2024

8/22, 8/29, 9/5, 9/12/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016488

The name of the business: Shop At Charlie’s Co, shopatcharliesco, located at 1575 Oak Dr., #L5, Vista, CA 92084. Registrant, Limitless Charlie LLC, 1275 E. Vista Way, #314, Vista, CA 92084. This business is operated by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Charlotte Skolnick, CEO with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/13/2024

8/22, 8/29, 9/5, 9/12/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016357

The name of the business: Angelika’s Photography, located at 740 13th Street, San Diego, CA 92101. Registrant, Angelika Feldt, 6421 La Paloma Street, Carlsbad, CA 92009. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 1/14/2008

/s/ angelika Feldt with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/12/2024

8/22, 8/29, 9/5, 9/12/2024

OrDEr TO sHOW CausE FOr CHaNgE OF NamE 24Cu005240C TO ALL INTERESTED PER-

SONS: Petitioner Patricia Messick filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: aka Patrizia Asprella, aka Patricia Messick, aka Patricia Asprella to Proposed name Patricia Elenia Asprella. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objections that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing.

NOTICE OF HEARING:

Date: September 26, 2024, 8:30 am, in Dept. C-61. No hearing will occur on above date. Please see attachment

The address of the court is: 330 West Broaway, San Diego, CA 92101. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county:

San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Dated August 12, 2024 /s/ Maureen F. Hallahan, Judge of the Superior Court 8/22, 8/29, 9/5, 9/12/2024

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The name of the business: Trini Truck Food Truck, located at 5296 University Ave., Suite D, San Diego, CA 92104. Registrant, Trinidad Perez, 5296 University Ave., Suite D, San Diego, CA 92104. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Trinidad Perez with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 6/18/2024 7/18, 7/25, 8/1, 8/8/2024

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The name of the business: Marvelous Moments, located 628 Michael St., Oceanside, CA 92057. Registrant, Marilyn Morgan, 628 Michael St., Oceanside, CA 92057. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Marilyn Morgan with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 7/26/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016945

The name of the business: CR Insulation Inc., located at 7081 Consolidated Way, San Diego, CA 92121. Registrant, CR Insulation Inc., 7081 Consolidated Way, San Diego, CA 92121. This business is operated by a Corporation. First day of business: 3/2/2019

/s/ Jesus Rodrigo Corona, President with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/19/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016997

The name of the business: Pho Ocean Garden, located at 4111 Oceanside Blvd., Suite 102, Oceanside, CA 92056. Registrant, Pho Ocean Garden LLC, 26160 Cortrite Ave., Hemet, CA 92545. This business is operated by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business: N/A /s/ Thanh Trinh, Secretary with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/20/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016912

The name of the business: Purely Sauce, located at 3542 Sitio Baya, Carlsbad, CA 92009. Registrant, Alessandra Rocha Patterson, 3542 Sitio Baya, Carlsbad, CA 92009. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/19/2024 /s/ Alessandra Patterson with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/19/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017078

The name of the business: Thrifty Supply Company, located at 929 Poinsettia Ave., Suite 101, Vista, CA 92081. Registrant, American General Tool Group, 929 Poinsettia Ave., Suite 101, Vista, CA 92081. This business is operated by a Corporation. First day of business: 6/25/2019 /s/ Altaf Godil, Secretary with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/21/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016931

The name of the business: Small Kine Kreations, located at 3635 Contour Place, Carlsbad, CA 92010. Registrant, Kamali’i Pikake Hoahu Ona Pua Peneku, 3635 Contour Pl., Carlsbad, CA 92010. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A /s/ Kamali’i Pikake Hoahu Ona Pua Peneku with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/19/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016951

The name of the business: Specialty Automotive Services, located at 1620 Grand Avenue, Suite 4, San Marcos, CA 92078. Registrant, Jay Michael Williams, 1620 Grand Avenue, Suite 4, San Marcos, CA 92078. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 6/1/2016 /s/ Jay Michael Williams with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/20/2024 8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016366

The name of the business: Green Power Forklift Batteries, located at 28205 Mountain Meadow, Escondido, CA 92026. Registrant, Eco-Power Batteries LLC, 28205 Mountain Meadow Rd., Escondido, CA 92026. This business is operated by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business: N/A /s/ Thomas Gustavsson, Managing Member with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/12/2024 8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: Mortgage Funding, Cal Mission Realty, located at 122 Civic Center Dr., #204, Vista, CA 92084. Registrant, Charles Quinones, 122 Civic Center Dr., #204, Vista, CA 92084, Steven C. Quinones, 122 Civic Center Dr., #204, Vista, CA 92084. This business is operated by a General Partnership. First day of business: 4/8/1985 /s/ Charles Quinones with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/ Recorder of San Diego on 8/13/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: Thinking Music Studios, located at 2108 Curtis Dr., Vista, CA 92084. Registrant, Ruben De Anda Jr., 2108 Curtis Dr., Vista, CA 92084. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A /s/ Ruben De Anda Jr. with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/13/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: C&T Housekeeping Services, located at 404 1/2 Holly St., Oceanside, CA 92058. Registrant, Carlos Natividad Carrillo, 404 1/2 Holly St., Oceanside, CA 92058. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/1/2024 /s/ Carlos Carrillo with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/16/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: Martin 29 Coaching Hub, located at 2600 Gage Dr., #335, Carlsbad, CA 92010. Registrant, Saladin Martin, 2600 Gagge Dr., #335, Carlsbad, CA 92010. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/20/2024

/s/ Saladin Martin with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/20/2024 8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016967

The name of the business: angie Massage, located at 1248 E. Mission Rd., San Marcos, CA 92069. Registrant, Yan Sun, 15961 Pilot Ave., Chino, CA 91708. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/1/2024

/s/ Yan Sun with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/20/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9016744

The name of the business: Offroad VW Design & Fabrication, located at 724 Rincon Street, Vista, CA 92083. Registrant, Susan Kay McNulty, 724 Rincon Street, Vista, CA 92083. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 9/12/2012 /s/ Susan Kay McNulty with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/15/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: No Corners Cut Quality Assurance Consulting Services, located at 777 Lupine Drive, San Marcos, CA 92078. Registrant, LyndleDan Ray Clemont, 777 Lupine Drive, San Marcos, CA 92078. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Lyndle-Dan Ray Clement with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/16/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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The name of the business: Precision Flow, located at 1363 Avenida Arana, San Marcos, CA 92069. Registrant, Kristofer Esteban Kuenzi, 1363 Avenida Arana, San Marcos, CA 92069. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Kristofer Esteban Kuenzi with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/9/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017385

The name of the business: Macdat, located at 5453 Reef Circle, Carlsbad, CA 92008. Registrant, Andrew Victor Mackey, 5453 Reef Circle, Carlsbad, CA 92008. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: N/A /s/ andrew Victor Mackey with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/26/2024

8/29, 9/5, 9/12, 9/19/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017490

The name of the business: Advantage Remodeling, located at 1500 Shadowridge Dr., Vista, CA 92081. Registrant, Mahssa Sabouhi, P.O. Box 501166, San Diego, CA 92150. This business

is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 7/1/2024

/s/ Mahssa Sabouhi with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/27/2024

9/5, 9/12, 9/19 9/26/2024

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The name of the business: Origin Golf, Peterson Fine Mill, located at 925 Poinsettia Ave., Suite 2, Vista, CA 92081. Registrant, Kevin Mark Peterson, 925 Poinsettia Ave., Suite 2, Vista, CA 92081. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 12/28/2005

/s/ Kevin Mark Peterson with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/16/2024

9/5, 9/12, 9/19 9/26/2024

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The name of the business: Martinenzi Cuisine Collection, located at 1487 Goldrush Way, Oceanside, CA 92057. Registrant, Maia Martinelli, 1487 Goldrush Way, Oceanside, CA 92057. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/27/2024 /s/ Maia Martinelli with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/27/2024 9/5, 9/12, 9/19 9/26/2024

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The name of the business: TRD Financial, located at 987 4th Ave., Chula Vista, CA 91911. Registrant, Casandra Mercedes Alvarez, 987 4th Ave., Chula Vista, CA 91911. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/3/2024

/s/ Casandra Mercedes Alvarez with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/23/2024

9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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The name of the business: Mamma Pinsa, located at 1281-A N. Escondido Boulevard, Escondido, CA 92026. Registrant, GSB Foods Inc., 2051 Palomar Airport Road, Suite 175, Carlsbad, CA 92011. This business is operated by a Corporation. First day of business: N/A

/s/ Giacomo Giovanetti, President with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/27/2024

9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017238

The name of the business: Hollywood Film Supplies, located at 300 Carlsbad Village Dr., Ste 216, Carlsbad, CA 92008. Registrant, Arthur Leo Lansdale IV, 1711 Creekside Ln., Vista, CA 92081. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 1/11/2018

/s/ Arthur Leo Lansdale IV with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/23/2024 9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017965

The name of the business: Blue Water Hybrid Operating System (BWHOS), located at 28805 Mountain Meadow Rd., Escondido, CA 92026. Registrant, Hamed Fathi, 28805 Mountain Meadow Road, Escondido, CA 92026. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 9/4/2024

/s/ Hamed Fathi with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 9/4/2024

9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9018028

The name of the business: Hernandez Family Produce, located at 14191 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido, CA 92027. Registrant, Xochitl Hernandez Duran, 14305 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido, CA 92027. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 9/4/2024 /s/ Xochitl Hernandez Duran with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 9/5/2024

9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9017280

The name of the business: Ag Home Remodeling, located at 300 Similax Rd., Apt #2, San Marcos, CA 92069. Registrant, Antonio Gonzales Alva, 300 Similax Rd., Apt #2, San Marcos, CA 92069. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 8/23/2024

/s/ Antonio Gonzales Alva with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 8/23/2024

9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

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sTaTEmENT 2024-9018140

The name of the business: Excellent Nails, located at 1817 W. Vista Way, #C, Vista, CA 92083. Registrant, Thien Nguyen, 1817 W. Vista Way, #C, Vista, CA 92083. This business is operated by an Individual. First day of business: 9/5/2024

/s/ Thien Nguyen with Jordan Z. Marks, SD County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 9/5/2024 9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/6/2024

OrDEr TO sHOW CausE FOr CHaNgE OF NamE 24Cu005237N TO ALL INTERESTED PERSONS: Petitioner Luke Somino filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: Luke Somino to Proposed name Sommano Sivongsay. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objections that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing.

NOTICE OF HEARING:

Date: October 4, 2024, 8:30 am, in Dept. N-25 No hearing will occur on above date. Please see attachment The address of the court is: 325 S. Melrose, Vista, CA. 92081. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Dated August 12, 2024 /s/ Brad A. Weinreb, Judge of the Superior Court 9/12, 9/19, 9/23, 10/3/2024