Spotlight July 2022

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Contents ON THE HAMPTONS

FOURTH OF JULY 2022

Vol. 1, No. 2

6 CONTRIBUTORS

Say hi to our Spotlight Spotters!

7 EDITOR’S LETTER

Sparks are flying for founder Sydney Sadick.

10 HOT IN THE HAMPTONS

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Your guide to what’s trending right now in food, nightlife, and fun!

16 SPOTTED

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See the Gen Next Hamptonites who celebrated our mag launch.

18 PODCAST PICKS!

Dig in to these tasty foodoriented series featuring chefs and cookbook authors.

20 CONVERSATION STARTERS 101

Lindsey Metselaar shares her top pointers for chatting up anyone— in person or online.

22 FEELING HOT, HOT, HAUTE!

Writer Peter Davis gives us all the intel on shopping the chicest Hamptons spots.

24 ROUTINE RITUALS

Dale Borchiver and Elizabeth Endres break down how to have fun while breaking a sweat.

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26 ’TIS THE SEASON OF GRILLING

Feel the sizzle as Stephanie “Chefanie” Nass gives some prime suggestions for your next barbecue.

28 FESTIVE FASHION

Shop the best of red, white, and blue swimsuits, sandals, bags, and more!

30 BEAUTY BANTER

Dr. Barbara Sturm dishes on her new skincare line targeted to Gen Z.

32 DEEP DIVE

Citarella founder Joe Gurrera serves up ways to land the best and freshest catches of the summer!

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33 HOW TO BUY YOUR FIRST HOME

Susan Harrison of Compass gives advice on landing your dream home.

34 BETHENNY UNFILTERED You can always count on multihyphenate Bethenny Frankel to tell it like it is.

In an exclusive interview, Spotlight gets all the dirt on her latest projects—and how she met her fiancé.

38 SMALL BIZ BENEFITS

American Express EVP Courtney Kelso highlights the perks of being a Business Platinum Card Member.

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40 A FASHION LOVE STORY Blue One’s Crystal and Jarret Willis give us the backstory of their loves for both dressing East Enders—and each other.

41 SHOP GENERATION LOVE

Indulge in the brand’s most popular pieces of the season.

20 Plus, what’s new with founder Roni Hirshberg.

42 THE RETURN OF THE WALDORF ASTORIA

Get the 411 on the iconic New York landmark, which has been meticulously restored to include a collection of private residences.

44 A DAY IN THE LIFE OF MIA CALABRESE

The real estate agent and Selling the Hamptons star offers a photo diary of her typical schedule Out East.

46 YOUR HAMPTONS HOROSCOPE FOR JULY Summer is starting to heat up, and our resident

astrologer shares some hot takes for the steamy month ahead!

48 CAN YOU SPOT THE DIFFERENCES?

Test your “I Spy” skills with a second look at these notso-identical illustrations from NYC-based artist Deanna First.

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Contributors

THE SPOTTERS

Vol. 1 , No. 2

Say hi to Spotlight’s contributors! Get to know the experts who are sharing their take on all things dating, real estate, lifestyle, fitness, and fashion in this issue.

LINDSEY METSELAAR @WEMETATACME

Lindsey Metselaar is the host of We Met At Acme, one of the leading sex and dating podcasts in the lifestyle space. In addition to the podcast, she is the CEO of Lindsey’s Lunchbox, a social media food/ restaurant consultancy. Given her passion for food, she started her own Instagram handle, better known as @DontExpectSalads, where you can find almost anything but…salads!

DALE BORCHIVER AND ELIZABETH ENDRES

@SWEATSANDTHECITY Blind roommates turned best friends, Dale Borchiver and Elizabeth Endres cultivated and combined their passion for boutique fitness in 2016 to create Sweats & The City—an all-encompassing blog featuring in-depth reviews, trusted recommendations, and the truest tips on all things fitness, health, and wellness.

STEPHANIE NASS

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@CHEFANIE Stephanie Nass is the founder of Chefanie, as well as a caterer, culinary influencer, entertaining expert, and designer. Her eye-catching designs have been featured on the Today show, in The New York Times, and more. She’s the ultimate talent to look to for inspiration on bringing people together over food and art.

ON THE HAMPTONS

SYDNEY SADICK Editor in Chief Publisher JEFFREY SAKS Art Director

AMY KAMIN Staff Writer

GABBY SCARAMUCCI YARDANA ZUELLER Editorial Assistants

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HANNAH TURNER-HARTS Cover Photographer

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SUSAN HARRISON

@SUSANSWEATS Susan Harrison leads the Susan Harrison Team at Compass in the Hamptons and New York City. Having worked with Ultra High Net Worth families for more than 15 years, she’s familiar with the complexities involved in large transactions. She divides her time between Southampton and the Upper East Side with her husband, twin boys, and their labradoodle.

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PETER DAVIS

@PETERDAVISNYC Peter Davis was senior editor and a columnist for Paper magazine before becoming features director of The Daily Front Row and then editor in chief of Avenue. He was the founder and editor in chief of Observer Media Group’s Scene magazine. Davis also created 57 Newspaper, and most recently he was editor in chief of L’Officiel before founding Culture Counsel, a marketing and media agency.

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Editor’s Letter

S PA R K S ARE

HANNAH TURNER-HARTS

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FLYING!

ver since I first started coming to the Hamptons—which was right when I was born—I always had a deep appreciation for celebrating the Fourth of July Out East. There is such a sense of tradition that adds warmth to my heart, like the Southampton parade (yep, even though I can never find parking and am far from an early-morning person, I make sure to go) and fireworks in Sag Harbor (the boats blowing their horns at the end are a little detail that I always find so fun). This year, the Fourth hits a little different.

I’ve realized how lucky we are to be able to find the sparks that light our inner fire each and every day. I’m writing this on the morning after our big launch party celebrating our premier issue, and it reminded me of how important it is to find what we love—and to act on it. For me, that’s been the beauty of developing and producing Spotlight—it’s full of sparks, and with this issue, we’re about to bring it on in a big way! And don’t forget, it’s also about finding and embracing who we love. I’ve been lucky to find that this year, too!

Our Fourth of July cover star is the one and only Bethenny Frankel.

I remember being a little girl dining at Nello (which no longer exists) with my parents and seeing Bethenny walk in. She’d be there quite a bit, and I’d see her around at events, too, and I just always remember thinking to myself, “This is a woman who loves the Hamptons.” It’s been well over a decade since those memories, and now, Bethenny

has become one of the most impactful reality-stars-turnedentrepreneurs who demonstrates how to be strong. Read our interview for her unfiltered take on love, building your brand, and being your most authentic self. She’s a voice for millennials—just take a look at her über popular Instagram and TikTok—and she’s sharing her best advice with us, in Spotlight.

Also, indulge in the latest words from our columnists Peter Davis, Lindsey Metselaar, Sweats and the City’s Dale Borchiver and Elizabeth Endres, Stephanie Nass, and our new real estate contributor, Susan Harrison. We have some great Fourth of July fashion picks and a talk with beauty favorite Dr. Barbara Sturm on her Gen Z venture. Get the scoop on the hottest events and happenings, and see all the big boldfaced names who were Spotted at our launch party, plus more!

Enjoy the Fourth and see you around town!

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Out and About

HOT IN THE HAMPTONS LIFE + STYLE

Your guide to what’s trending right now. Don’t miss a thing!

POP-UP ALERT: OUR 4 FAVES 1. HIDEAWAY HAMPTONS

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SPREAD YOUR WINGS!

Hop off the Jitney and visit De Beers Jewelers on Madison Avenue to discover the new Butterfly Collection. Inspired by the butterfly’s transformative nature, the collection includes luminous white diamonds in a variety of shapes, tracing the beauty and intricacies of the butterfly’s iridescent wings. $40,000; debeers.com

2. REBECCA TAYLOR

Shop the fashion brand at Topping Rose House at 1 BridgehamptonSag Harbor Turnpike in Bridgehampton from July 1–3 for its romantic Hideaway Hamptons designs and the label’s collaboration with Fisch, the eco-friendly swimsuit brand, which is designed in St. Barths and made in Italy.

3. LOEWE

The luxury fashion house returns to Ryland Life Equipment at 155 Main Street in Sag Harbor, offering a curated edit of women’s ready-to-wear, bags, and accessories.

4. ALISON LOU

The fine jewelry brand is back for another season and offering in-store exclusives at 38 Newtown Lane in East Hampton.

FEEL GOOD CHARMS

Accessorize your summer outfits with Laura Ashley’s Feel Good Charms. Also great for gifting, these charms range from $24–$30 at caroldauplaisejewelry.com.

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FOR THE BOYS

Looking for a great menswear shopping destination? Head to Leonard Frisbie at 78 Main Street in Sag Harbor. The brand epitomizes effortless Hamptons style. This season’s assortment features an array of garment-dyed cotton styles that are sustainably made in Peru.

And look for a Montauk outpost!

STEVE MADDEN HAS ARRIVED!

Shoe legend Steve Madden is opening the doors to his first Hamptons store at 95 Main Street in Southampton.

HITTING UP SAUNDERS REAL ESTATE AGENT VINCENT HORCASITAS Describe for us the Hamptons real estate market right now.

Low inventory. High demand.

Properties that are priced properly are getting offers, sometimes multiple offers.

You began your career as a tennis pro. What drew you to real estate?

I love the competition. There’s something about it that drives me. And it’s always different.

What properties are you most excited about now?

There are two: 104 Halsey Lane—it’s well priced for all the amenities it offers—and 88 Rose Way, which is an amazing cutting-edge modern home.

What’s the first step a millennial should take to purchase their first Hamptons home?

Hire a local real estate agent and local attorney. Make sure you have the funds to cover the mortgage payments.

Favorite spot to play tennis Out East?

East Hampton Tennis Club.

Proudest career moment?

In tennis or real estate?

Real estate.

When I achieve the goals of my clients, whether it’s a $50K rental or a $20M sale.

In tennis: Winning the 2019 Longboat Key Florida Senior Clay tennis tournament!

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Eleven female-founded brands will collectively host a bespoke shopping experience at The Reform Club’s 21 House at 23 Windmill Lane in Amagansett on July 26 and 27. The garden pop-up will feature a range of inventory—everything from fine art to the chicest golfwear, beautiful jewelry, made-toorder belts, handbags, luxury fashion for adults and kids, and housewares. All available items are exclusive and curated for the weekend. Artisans include Berner & Co., Byrdie Golf Social Wear, Capitol, Cesoli, Dondolo, Erin Donahue Tice Fine Art, Katie Kime, Mignonne Gavigan, Pamela Munson, Sue Sartor, and Transparent Sunglasses.

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Out and About

HOT IN THE HAMPTONS FOOD, NIGHTLIFE, AND FUN! MARK YOUR CALENDAR SCHOOL’S OUT (July 9)

It’s the annual Hetrick-Martin Institute event raising funds for LGBT+ youth at Arc House in East Hampton, co-chaired by Benjamin Dixon and Rod Grozier. The evening will feature cocktails and a sitdown dinner. Past hosts include Andy Cohen, Martha Stewart, and Tracy Anderson.

JOIN US FOR A SPOTLIGHT SHOPPING EVENT!

Come join Spotlight on the Hamptons editor in chief Sydney Sadick at Peserico in East Hampton for an in-store shopping event. Get a discount on your purchase and enjoy food, drinks, and more!

August 6, 12–2 p.m.

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WHAT A SLICE! ROBERTA’S IS OPEN FOR BIZ IN THE FORMER ARBOR SPACE, WITHIN WALKING DISTANCE OF THE LIRR AND SURF LODGE. 240 FORT POND ROAD, MONTAUK

JILL ZARIN’S X TICKET2EVENTS LUXURY LUNCHEON (July 16)

Jill Zarin is back! Enjoy an afternoon Out East with the reality star and her guests. Mingle among Bravolebrities and trendsetters. The annual luncheon benefits the International Thyroid Oncology Group in honor of Zarin’s late husband, Bobby. Tickets available online.

MIDSUMMER NIGHT DRINKS (July 16) Designer Aerin Lauder is hosting this memorable evening featuring cocktails, music, and spectacular views at a private home in the Hamptons to raise money for God’s Love We Deliver.

Two legendary comedians are hitting the East End for respective stand-up shows: Life & Beth star Amy Schumer will be here for one night only at The Clubhouse in East Hampton at 7 p.m. A portion of proceeds will be donated to local organization The Retreat.

Meanwhile, veteran comic Jay Leno will be at the Westhampton Beach Performing Arts Amy Schumer Center at 8 p.m.

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CARISSA’S BAKERY TAKES ON SAG HARBOR

Indulge in the eatery’s delish assortment of pastries, sandwiches, cakes, and more at its new digs, opening this month. 3 Bay Street, Sag Harbor; carissasthebakery.com

NEW LOBSTER ROLL LOCATION

The Lobster Roll, a Hamptons landmark for almost 60 years, has opened a second location in Southampton. And the iconic restaurant will now be open year-round. Look for the classic “Lunch” sign at 32 Montauk Highway and you’ll know you’re in the right spot for all your seafood needs!

PARIS JACKSON JETS OFF TO THE HAMPTONS

Did you know the 24-year-old singer performed at Stephen’s Talkhouse on Memorial Day? She’s currently on her first concert tour for her solo debut album, Wilted.

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Hamptons millennials gathered to celebrate our premier issue at a private home, in partnership with Lalique and Wölffer Estate Vineyard.

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Sydney Sadick, Batsheva Haart

Russell H. Lyddane II and Peggy Zabakolas

Geoff McKernan, Eric Viner

Joie Tavernise, Dr. Bridget Glazarov

Dana Hasson

Ilyssa Steinberg Dr. Rajeev Fernando

Mireya and Joseph D’Angelo

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Suleima Arruda and Neil Sadick

Abby Feitler, Simone Silvan

Catey Eubanks, Ilyssa Steinberg, Christine Meagher

Sean Mintz, Nick Adams, Sydney Sadick, Geoff McKernan, Mitchell Sozio, Eric Viner Wölffer Estate Vineyard rosé and wine

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IYKYK (If You Know, You Know)

PODCAST PICKS! Whether you’re a home cook, an aspiring chef, or a dining-out foodie, this installment of Podcasts Picks is simply delicious—and these series are fun and calorie-free! We have a great group of splurgeworthy chefs, restaurateurs, and cookbook authors who will distract and relax you with their lively conversations. For those who are newer in the kitchen, you might pick up a few tips and get inspired to host a summer dinner party of your own. Dig in! BY AMY KAMIN

ALWAYS HUNGRY Bobby Flay and his daughter and co-host Sophie offer a fun melding of different generations and perspectives in this pod.

Flay is the chef and restaurateur behind Mesa Grill and Bobby’s Burger Palace. He’s won four Daytime Emmys for his work on Food Network and proudly has a Hollywood Walk of Fame star. He cooks, and she asks the questions—and eats! Their conversations around food and cooking focus on Sophie being inquisitive and pushing her dad for answers. Topics like oven to table, the art of deep frying, and chocolate are entertaining and thought-provoking. When they cook together you could swear you’re in the room with them. Remember, you can enter Bobby’s kitchen, even if you never enter yours.

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RADIO CHERRY BOMBE Founder Kerry Diamond has achieved the status of being the No. 1 podcast in the U.S. about women and food. She records from wherever she is— Rockefeller Center, her closet in Brooklyn, or at a wedding in Hawaii. The show starts with the upbeat theme song “All Fired Up,” then Diamond switches to her soothing professional radio voice. She highlights chefs, bakers, and cookbook authors who are shaping and shaking up the food industry. Her conversations are with the coolest culinary personalities, including Christine Tobin, the food stylist behind HBO Max’s Julia; wine sommelier Victoria James; Eva Chen and husband Tom talking about their love of granola; and Take Out host Lisa Ling.

FOUR COURSES Chef Geoffrey Zakarian, who penned a cookbook with his two daughters, The Family That Cooks Together, started as an apprentice for Daniel Boulud. He’s been featured on Food Network’s Chopped and The Kitchen. His podcast is divided into four courses, like a meal. Zakarian is so great at describing food and flavors that you feel like you can taste them. Listen to some great past convos with chefs Curtis Stone and Eric Ripert, actor Matthew McConaughey, and Olympic skater Adam Rippon.

FOOD PEOPLE Bon Appétit was founded in 1956 as a giveaway magazine at liquor stores and then became a bimonthly publication based in Chicago. Its debut podcast, Food People, is hosted weekly by editorial director Amanda Shapiro. It’s a show “made by, for, and about people who love food.” Shapiro asks culinary questions to all kinds of cooking experts. Her guests include chefs, writers, or even Bon Appétit staff. You’ll come away with lots of useful info and some recipe ideas you’ll want to try!

FOOD Mark Bittman is the former columnist for The New York Times and an author of 30 books. Although famous in the food world, Spotlight became aware of him during a Zoom with Guild Hall last summer when he was promoting his book Bittman Bread. His wisdom and expertise are unparalleled. Bittman is sharp and pleasant to listen to and has a great variety of interesting foodie guests, including Al Roker, Laura Linney, and fellow chef and cookbook author Yotam Ottolenghi.

RECIPE CLUB Chef David Chang and his cohost Chris Yang, as well as some rotating featured guests, delve into all things food. The famous founder of the Momofuku restaurant group has two Michelin stars and is clearly qualified. He and his team scour through thousands of recipes to find the absolute best way to prepare popular dishes, like meat loaf, spaghetti, and canned tuna. Then they all share their opinions on the best way to prepare them and debate, debate, and debate. The show is creative, quirky, and enjoyable. T

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Summer Lovin’

CONVERSATION STARTERS 101 Whether you’ve eyed someone in person or are eager to swipe right on an intriguing dating profile, sometimes starting a conversation can feel less than easy. So our resident dating expert is sharing her top convo pointers when it comes to dating all around! BY LINDSEY METSELAAR

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until you’ve tried my guac” or “What’s your favorite guacamole in NYC?” A few other lines that are always a hit are “What’s your favorite condiment?”, “What’s your unpopular opinion?”, “What was the last place you got takeout from?”, and “Describe yourself in three emojis.”

Often, someone (especially men) will go back and forth with you on a dating app, having a conversation but never initiate a date. This can be so frustrating.

If that happens to you, I’d say something like “So are you on Hinge for friends?” Or “It’s been fun being pen pals, but I’m looking to actually meet in person.” Sometimes even the

best people need a little nudge.

A huge part of starting up a conversation, whether it’s in person or on a dating app, is confidence. Treat this conversation as if it’s one you’re having with a friend you’ve known forever! That way, you won’t be second-guessing what you say, and you’ll also be able to have fun with it and keep things lighthearted. You can even tell them about your workday, just as you would a person you already know. This creates a sense of closeness and comfortableness in a good way! Make sure to always ask a question back, and don’t say anything that’s a conversation killer. When all else fails, I love a good “Would you rather…” question.

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We’re in the height of summer, and with hot-girl summer in tow, there has never been a better time to strike up a great conversation! Let’s start with in person. If you’re in person with someone, let’s say at an event in the Hamptons, the best (and easiest) conversation starter is making an observation.

It’s that simple. Just make an observation about something that’s going on! “I noticed you’re drinking Diet Coke. Are you one of those three-a-day Diet Coke people?” Or “You look like you know a lot of people here. Have you been before?” If you’re at an event of mutual friends, or a wedding, an easy icebreaker is “How do you know so-and-so?”

And if you’re at a bar, the best way to break into a conversation can be a simple “What are you drinking tonight?”

For my fellow sober ladies and gentlemen, you can say something like “What’s your favorite new restaurant Out East this summer” or “Have you heard of Spotlight magazine? I hear it’s all the rage!” Plus, it never hurts to get right to the point: “I don’t think we’ve met yet. Are you single?” We can all appreciate the directness, and sometimes it’s just refreshing to hear.

If you’re talking to someone on a dating app, I always suggest that you start off by responding to something that they’ve put in their profile. If it says they’re a big fan of guacamole, I’d say something like “You haven’t lived

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FEELING HOT, HOT, HAUTE!

One of the chicest places to fab up your summer fit is the hipster haven hotel The Crow’s Nest in Montauk. Rachelle Hruska MacPherson, the well-connected wife of hotelier Sean MacPherson (who also owns the Bowery, the Jane, the Maritime and is about to reopen the famed Chelsea Hotel) is taking over the location’s shop and stocking both her cult sweater label Lingua Franca (a fave of countless celebs like

Rachelle Hruska MacPherson (left) and Paula Martini

Reese Witherspoon, Karlie Kloss, and America Ferrera) and insider brands for which she has scoured the globe.

“They are all friends of mine,” Rachelle says of the designers she carries, like Chufy (the brand by fashion It Girl Sofia Sanchez de Betak); Edie Parker (designer Brett Heyman created an exclusive MTK bag this summer that reads “The End” as Montauk is known by locals); Paula Martini (from José Ignacio, a Uruguayan fishing village that’s become the Saint-Tropez of South America); and lemlem, the artisan-driven resort line by 22 \ Fourth of July 2022 \ Spotlight

brand that has become the Chanel flat for the haute hippie set.

Other fashion dinners include fêtes for Edie Parker, Tata Harper, Maria McManus, and Carla Sersale, whose husband, Antonio, owns Le Sirenuse, the boutique hotel in Positano, Italy.

With so many dinners to host, Rachelle claims she rarely leaves the area. “I don’t head west of East Hampton,” she says, adding: “We do leave for Patmos, Greece, every August, though.”

Edie Parker’s exclusive MTK bag Not everyone Out East is super casual.

Black-tie benefits, seated dinner parties, and the charity cocktail circuit mean dress to impress.

Sandals and blue jeans just won’t cut it.

Manuel Tiscareño, a second-generation bridal designer, is bringing his couture and architectural Blind in Emotion’s creator Patrick Plum model Liya Kebede (who is from Ethiopia) that is made entirely in Africa.

Montauk is like the Williamsburg of the Hamptons—edgy, young, and stylishly disheveled. “It’s Birkenstocks and caftans,” Rachelle explains. “Laidback chic, comfortable but sophisticated. I think this is a defining feature of the clientele of Lingua Franca and The Crow’s Nest; it’s perfect for Montauk, as opposed to more fancy, buttoned-up East Hampton.”

Lingua Franca recently collaborated with Birkenstock and is hosting a dinner at the hotel for the German footwear

Manuel Tiscareño

eveningwear to the Hamptons this season with a pop-up shop in Southampton. “Having shown collections in cities from Mexico City to Dubai, it was

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time to bring couture pieces to the Hamptons,” Manuel says.

One of the coolest local designer stars is just 19 years old. Patrick Plum, who grew up in Southampton, launched his streetwear brand Blind in Emotion when he was 15.

Patrick started with hats and T-shirts with bold graphics for family and friends, created an Instagram page, and before he knew it, he was making custom hoodies for Lizzo and her sister.

Blind in Emotion’s latest drop is called SALT—a terry cloth shirtand-shorts set with pop-art style images of a surfboard, a starfish, and waves. Half the sales of the SALT line will benefit the Surfrider Foundation, which is dedicated to the protection of the world’s oceans and beaches.

“SALT represents what is most nostalgic and memorable about the beach to me,” Patrick says.

“The feeling of getting out of the ocean and lying on the beach with a head of salty hair and not a care in the world.”

A fashion marketing and design student at SCAD in Savannah, Patrick is back in Southampton for the summer, where he’ll be dropping more designs via Instagram and the Blind in Emotion website. “Living here has had a monumental effect on how I design,” he adds. “I’ve always loved the pillars of Southampton beach style— frilly sundresses, swimsuits with colorful patterns—but I longed to contribute a younger, childish take to this signature style and create something more fresh for the youth to associate with their childhood in a beach town.” T

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Consider your relationship with alcohol. Maybe nothing needs to change, but it’s okay (and totally normal) to check in with yourself and evaluate how it makes you feel.

“Hangxiety”—aka hangover anxiety that comes after a night of drinking—is very common and something we’ve both experienced. On holidays away, like the Fourth, there can be that pressure to drink in excess. If and when you drink, remember that it’s your decision and to never let others idea of what you should be doing dictate your actions!

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Start your day our favorite way—with movement.

We’re all about rest days and rest weekends, but sometimes sneaking in a little exercise before you begin your day of R&R does the body and mind good.

It can be whatever your body is asking for; for us, this usually looks like a 20–30 minute yoga or sculpt class. We have tons of options on the ORRO app (and they’re great for travel!). Even a light walk to grab a coffee is beneficial for your mind and body.

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Carve out some alone time.

Holiday weekends can feel like a lot more socialization and itineraries than we’re used to (especially nowadays). There’s no shame in taking some time to yourself—do a quick meditation, listen to music, or read a book for as long or as little as you need.

ROUTINE RITUALS

Our fitness experts break down how to have fun and let go with five ultimate routine-building tips, while still maintaining a healthy lifestyle this Fourth of July!

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BY DALE BORCHIVER AND ELIZABETH ENDRES

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Do you ever feel those post-vacation blues that require a few days to recover and regroup?

While they are relaxing, holiday weekends can sometimes throw us off our routines and leave us feeling a bit unsettled upon return. Routines are obviously important; they help us carve out that “me” time and allow us to feel grounded no matter where we are. But striking a balance is also important; not every day needs to be rigid and scheduled. We value breaks that allow us to have fun and let go. If you’re having anxiety around the upcoming July 4th holiday weekend, here are some tips you can implement to find that middle ground of letting loose but also feeling your best.

We hope that by applying these tips, you’ll enter the weekend feeling a little more grounded, so you can enjoy the holiday and return to your life feeling new! T

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Let go of anxious thoughts.

Weekends away are meant to be recharging. We’re so plugged in with work and weekly to-do lists, but this is the time to slow down your brain!

Worrying about what you ate and how much work you have piling up will only take you out of the present moment.

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Make sure to keep hydrated.

We’ll say this over and over again, but it’s so essential. The July heat, being out and about, or drinking alcohol will always require you to hydrate more. We also swear by this to optimize our digestion and skin!

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Chefanie Says…

‘TIS THE SEASON OF GRILLING Feel the sizzle with some prime suggestions for your next barbecue.

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V Mom’s Dry Rub, $12, chefanie.com V Thermapen, $88, available at Loaves & Fishes Cookshop For dessert, grill a pie! Pop some pie dough (either premade or homemade) into a buttered metal pan. Peel and chop your favorite summer fruit, combine with cornstarch and sugar, and pour the mixture into the dough.

Place the pan on top of another

pan (so pie pan is not directly on metal). Cook on the grill until the crust is golden brown, at least 20 minutes, depending on how hot the grill is.

Make sure you have the correct grilling accoutrements.

Head to Loaves & Fishes

Cookshop for a Thermapen and extra-long tongs. For your table, I love these navy striped cotton table linens with golden bamboo napkin rings. You can add garden flowers in low bud vases. To drink, prepare some fruity sangria. Enjoy! T

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For a small or large group, the grill is a great way to cook in July.

The high heat gets food ready quickly and easily. Cooking outside keeps your home cool, and there’s something about the char that just tastes like summer.

So many ingredients local to the Hamptons are perfect to pop over the fire right now. Here are some grilling ideas!

This month, farmstands are brimming with ripe produce. A lovely appetizer is bruschetta, using grilled Carissa’s bread, chopped tomatoes, and fresh basil. Grilled vegetables are dairy-free, gluten-free, and delicious. Zucchini and corn are also simple to grill. Each requires a touch of olive oil (preferably Fancy Peasant, produced by Southampton local Anastasia Ganias-Gellin), a sprinkle of salt, and just a kiss of heat. You could add sliced almonds and freshly ground pepper to the zucchini.

To the corn, try adding chives, harissa, or smoked paprika.

From the ocean, local fish abound this time of year.

Striped bass, tuna, and flounder are being caught off the shores of Montauk. All are delicious sprinkled with our Dry Rub— the actual mixture that my mom sprinkled on almost everything at home growing up.

For more carnivorous palates, burgers and sausage are available for delivery by Baldor. Instead of potato buns, you can slide these meats into grilled pitas sprinkled with za’atar for a Mediterranean flair. Of course, you can’t beat a good rib-eye steak either.

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Shine On

Dr. Barbara Sturm

Barbara, why did you want to tap into the Gen Z market?

As an aesthetics doctor, I see girls as young as late teens coming in and wanting quick-fix solutions to acne scarring and even preventative Botox. This is due to not having the correct skincare when they’re young, and a big education gap when it comes to skincare. During the pandemic, I started a virtual education series aimed at teens and young adults called Skin School to teach this generation about the science of their skin as our largest organ and how to have beautiful, glowing skin for longer by focusing on the skin’s barrier function and overall health. I decided that instead of just an education program, they also needed to benefit from correct ingredient science and skincare solutions. This is how the idea of the Microbiotic Collection was born.

What are the most important preventative anti-aging steps you recommend?

The answer lies in adopting the anti-inflammatory lifestyle, and part of that is only using a skincare regimen deploying potent anti-aging ingredient science, as well as your diet.

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orthopedics. Why did you pivot to this area?

I studied sports medicine and worked in the field of anti-inflammatory molecular orthopedics before shifting into anti-inflammatory aesthetics; inflammation is the trigger for most of the dysfunction and disease in our bodies, and in our skin. I started injecting hyaluronic acid and Botox in the early 2000s and translated the science from orthopedics into the skin to create the first patient blood-plasma facial in 2002. Soon after, I invented my first doctor-issued blood plasma–based cream, called MC1, and prescribed it to my patients. They asked me to create an entire skincare regime, and my anti-inflammatory line was eventually born.

Was it always your plan to open brick-and-mortar stores?

I’ve always had my clinic and am deeply passionate about education. My boutique and spas have been a dream come true because they not only provide a space to experience my treatments and products, but also my expert aestheticians are at each location to give more insight and further education about my philosophy.

Customers love your Glow Drops. What makes them so special?

My Glow Drops are a great makeup alternative for a radiant complexion. It’s a skin-perfecting serum containing a blend of botanical extracts that transform tired, dull complexions into radiant skin—polygonum bistorta root optimizes skin tone and strengthens the collagen synthesis; wild rose extract refines the pores; and hyaluronic acid delivers instant moisture to the surface and deeper skin layers. It also contains lightreflecting mineral pigments, which instantly create a visible, youthful radiance and even out any irregularities in the complexion.

Tell us about your collaboration with Aquazzura!

I admire beautiful shoes, and Edgardo Osorio, the designer of Aquazzura, is a genius and a dear friend. The collection includes my new foot spray and two shoe designs—mules and footbed slides. The foot spray refreshes and revitalizes tired, stressed feet and legs using a combination of powerful ingredients. The shoes embody my idea of style, which is a perfect balance of comfort and femininity! T

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DEEP DIVE WITH CITARELLA’S JOE GURRERA The founder behind beloved seafood shop Citarella, Joe Gurrera, serves up some ways to land the best catches of summer! BY SYDNEY SADICK

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Are there seasonal varieties of fish?

Most associate seasonal eating with produce, but it applies to seafood as well.

Because of the development of farm-raised seafood and the ability to ship from all over the world, seasonal isn’t as relevant as it used to be, but there are still some. In the summer, look for fish that grills well, like swordfish and salmon. In the winter, look for Nantucket Bay scallops; from early March through September, soft-shell crabs are in season.

How do you source fish one day and deliver it to a customer the next?

When seafood is ordered from our website, you’re guaranteed to receive the freshest product available. The fish is caught in Montauk or arrives at the fish market, then our fishmongers prepare it by hand that same day, wrap it in waxed paper, pack it with ice packs (never frozen!), and ship it overnight in an insulated box.

Which fish would be the easiest to prepare for the millennial who doesn’t have a ton of experience?

Grill salmon, swordfish, or tuna, about three minutes on each side (for a cut that’s

approximately an inch thick) and you’re done!

Entertaining is especially big for the Fourth of July. How does one satisfy all their guests’ palates?

Because Citarella is a full gourmet market, the options are unlimited. You can choose anything from three-inch cowboy steaks for the grill and get some of our handmade prepared foods for the sides or create your own spread by selecting artisanal cheeses,

dips, fresh seasonal fruits, and vegetables. If you’d rather spend the time with your guests and leave the work to us, then your best bet is to order from our seasonal catering menu, where you can select from a range of raw bar items, caviar, handcarved meats, imported cheese platters, and desserts.

How have you seen food trends evolve over the years?

There have been so many changes during my time in the food business but recently, you see less frying than you did years ago as people want healthier preparations.

Organic foods are big as well.

Do you go out to restaurants in the Hamptons or do you usually cook at home?

I enjoy both! Sant Ambroeus, Argento, Pierre’s, Tutto il Giorno, and Le Bilboquet are a few of my favorite spots.

Your July 4th menu this year?

I usually cook for family and friends. We start with East Coast oysters on the half shell.

Then I’ll make 10–12 whole fish on the grill or some of our fantastic Ultimate Aged Burgers.

Who are your favorite chefs?

I admire Jean-Georges, Éric Ripert, Daniel Boulud, Thomas Keller, Michael White—and, of course, the chefs at Citarella! T

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Your father was in the fish industry. Did you feel pressure to go into the same business or was it also your passion?

My dad wanted me to be a lawyer, but my passion was the seafood business. It started when I was a teenager working in my family’s seafood shop in Greenwich Village, but I always wanted to do something on my own. In those days, the atmosphere at the Fulton Fish Market was very different— more like the stock market, where everyone was buying, selling, and making deals. It was exciting to be a part of it.

When did you recognize the opportunity and decide to acquire Citarella?

I bought Citarella on Manhattan’s Upper West Side when I was 28, in 1983. At the time, the store was small [occupying just a fraction of the space that Citarella’s flagship location does today], but I saw it as an opportunity to build my love of seafood in this local treasure.

Citarella is known to source and sell the finest and most varieties of fish. How have you accomplished this?

Our uncompromising standard is the result of several factors, one being my relentless approach to hand-selecting the seafood for Citarella every day.

And equally important are the decades-long relationships we’ve forged with the world’s best fishermen. I’m thankful for our fishermen in Montauk, who have supplied us with fish for years and work so hard all year round.

Joe Gurrera

Sweet Living

HOW TO BUY YOUR FIRST HOME

The NYC- and Hamptons-based real estate agent shares her advice on landing your dream home!

BY SUSAN HARRISON

Susan Harrison

b HAMPTONS VS. CITY Many clients are at the point in their careers where they’re renting in the city and in the Hamptons and would like to take the plunge and buy in one market and continue renting in the other. There are clearly a myriad of factors to consider in this extremely personal decision. Buying in the Hamptons can offer a bit of flexibility, which the city does not, in that it can serve as a rental property down the line. With stringent rules on subleasing at most co-ops and even some condos in the city, this is not really an option. b KNOW THYSELF Are you a fixer upper who

relishes buying a wreck and demoing to your hearts content? Or are you someone who wants to be able move right in? You may be somewhere in between—willing to buy a somewhat older home and renovate the kitchen and bathroom. Or perhaps you’re looking for that ideal plot of land on which to build your dream home. The more you are honest with yourself about your appetite for doing work vs. paying a premium for “turnkey,” the better. bM AKE YOURSELF ATTRACTIVE AND BE PREPARED Will you be financing? How much? It’s imperative that you figure out not only your

budget, but also your financing plan. Will your purchase be contingent on financing? Being preapproved for a mortgage is a necessity. With Hamptons inventory levels at their lowest ever, sellers can be demanding.

It helps to have everything lined up when presenting your offer.

Have your preapproval as well as your inspector ready to go.

If your offer doesn’t depend on financing, make sure you’re able to provide proof of funds and have the documentation ready. Limiting contingencies and being prepared is a way to establish yourself as stronger than another buyer. b BE OPEN-MINDED “Value” is not a word you hear

in the same sentence as the Hamptons these days. However, you may be limiting yourself based on what you have allowed yourself to experience.

You may have rented in the same town for the past four summers, but you may now be priced out of Bridgehampton equestrian country. My advice: Explore. The Hamptons is so incredibly rich and diverse in architecture, style, topography, and aesthetic, just by driving a few miles! b FIND YOURSELF A LOCAL AGENT WHO “GETS IT” Ask friends and colleagues for referrals and interview a couple of them. You want to work with someone who knows the markets here, who will take the time to educate you on the process and the nuances of different towns, and who will work for and with you. You want someone who is connected to the pulse of the market and is savvy and creative about structuring and sourcing deals in this environment. T

TEREZ FOUNDER ZARA TISCH’S TOP CLOSET TIPS

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Your Hamptons home wouldn’t be complete without a swoon-worthy closet!

Zara Tisch, the founder of athleisure brand Terez, is sharing her top-5 organizational hacks with Spotlight!

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Take everything out and put it all in one spot. This lets you know how much space you have to work with.

Declutter, downsize, and discard! Make three piles labeled “Keep,” “Donate,” and “Throw Out.” Organize by ROYGBIV and categorize by type of clothing.

This will make it a lot easier to find what you’re looking for.

On laundry day, take a moment to notice what’s remaining in your closet. If the same pieces are left over, they need to go!

Each time you buy a new item, make a rule for yourself that when one thing goes in, another has to come out.

Zara Tisch

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IN A WORLD WHERE SO MUCH OF WHAT WE SEE ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS CURATED, YOU CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON BETHENNY FRANKEL TO BE THE REAL DEAL AND TELL IT LIKE IT IS. HERE’S HOW SHE’S LIGHTING THINGS UP THIS SUMMER—AND BEYOND!

BY SYDNEY SADICK PHOTOGRAPHY BY HANNAH TURNER-HARTS Photography Assistant: Mark Grochowski

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Bethenny’s Fashion: Domenica Embellished Ball Gown Dress, Alice + Olivia Jewelry, her own

People often say that one can’t have it all, but it seems like you’ve achieved that throughout your career.

Would you agree with that?

Not all at once. I think that the more that you say no to things that aren’t giving you return on an investment emotionally, spiritually, financially, or in a humanitarian sense, then you take on too much and you’re doing things where more becomes more and you can’t find a balance. The road to balance is really being strict about what you say yes and no to.

And a lot of people also say that it doesn’t matter where you come from but what you do with your life.

I grew up in a hustler racetrack environment, so I have definitely hustled, but I have a stable relationship with my daughter.

I’m a good mother, and there’s a lot of structure and discipline.

I have a wonderful, wonderful daughter. She’s an incredible person, so I’m proud of that.

When you look back, was it The Apprentice or The Real Housewives of New York that gave you your big break?

Martha Stewart’s The Apprentice didn’t move the needle. It was next to nothing. It wasn’t a successful show, and Housewives was. I did do some press because as a natural-foods chef, that’s all I wanted to be. But Housewives really tipped the scale.

And now people get to listen to you wherever they go on your podcast, Just B with Bethenny Frankel. How has that evolved?

The podcast is successful, and I had so many people who didn’t want to get into the podcast space with me, and they said, “You can’t make a lot of money doing it anyway.

They don’t pay well.” I ended up creating situations by just being passionate about it and liking it.

Just like Housewives, I ended up being paid literally nothing in the beginning to now having a multimillion-dollar business in the podcast space.

Of all the people you’ve interviewed, who has surprised you the most?

It surprised me that Kelly Ripa was the most popular episode; I don’t want to say surprising because she’s fascinating and I love her, but I was thinking, wow! Paul, my fiancé, said it was his favorite because it was like “game copies game”—we’re the same age, we’re born close to each other, and we both have come up in our own way being scrappy and probably underestimated. I always remind Kelly that she’s the most successful guest.

Speaking of Paul, you met on a dating app. How did you hit the jackpot with him?

I took it seriously. It was hard for me, though, because it felt like it wasn’t fair to people who knew who I was and I didn’t know who they were, so I was embarrassed [on the apps]. I felt self-conscious and I didn’t like it, so I would go on and off them.

I met him pretty early in the process. I came from a different generation, so I felt bizarre and strange. It took me a long time to do it. I just thought it was crazy.

How was the first IRL meeting?

I was at a women’s conference in Boston, and I figured the people on dating apps were all just playing around and meeting different people and I said to him, “A women’s conference is a great place to meet women.” He said to me, “I’m a one-woman kind of guy.” I said, “Oh.” And he said, “But when you’re in New York, I’d like to take you for a drink.” And I said, “Great.”

I don’t remember what he asked for, but I told him I was free on Monday from 2 to 4 p.m., which he found to be a winning time slot. [Laughs] So he said, “I’ll take it.” And he took it, and he was just very, very handsome. He’s conservative, appropriate, and funny. But only for an audience of one. He’s not interested in everybody knowing that he can be inappropriate and

reverent. He’s great. I did hit the jackpot. Maybe it’s good karma!

It’s a great story!

I think most guys are good, you just have to know how to find them. It’s like fruit. You go to the store and you got to find the good pieces.

What would you tell single millennials right now?

I’m not going to give relationship advice, but I can give advice on meeting someone great. I know that girls say to other girls, “How does she always meet these great guys?” That I know. I know I’m good at meeting good people, attracting good people.

My advice is to go for quality versus quantity. Don’t do a volume business. Otherwise, you get nauseated by all the garbage, and then you might miss something good because you’re just over it. Do a lot of research.

Know where to look. You have to know how to read a dating app and look for the right things.

It’s like going into business and going into a store. You need to know what you’re shopping for and be specific about that. Don’t compromise. You end up down a rabbit hole. You know how on TikTok you end up in some other world that you didn’t know you were in and you’re now looking at buttons or crafts? You need to be in the store that you’re supposed to be in.

What are your top tips for launching your own business?

You have to be honest with yourself about whether you’re an entrepreneur or not. Not everybody is good, and you have to be honest. Everybody thinks it looks so easy and so many people are successful, but it’s gnarly and there’s a lot to deal with. Things will go wrong. If you don’t have the right kind of financial cushion, you could drown. You have to write prenups. You have to know before you get married to somebody that if the ship goes sideways, what’s going to happen. You have to have the fiercest drive, passion, and determination that you could Spotlight \ Fourth of July 2022 \ 35

ever imagine because most people won’t work as hard as you will. When you don’t have kids and when you don’t have all these obligations, that’s when you’ve got to put the pedal to the metal. Later, life is more complicated and it’s hard to find balance and it’s hard to do it all.

The truth is, if you want to get something done, ask the busy woman to do it.

What would you identify as your biggest strength?

residence because that’s what we were doing. That was the real reason. I thought it would be just a cute summer place, and it ended up being something that I fell madly in love with. I love the Hamptons year-round.

It’s my happy place. I live for it.

I have a beautiful house there, but you know what, I have bigger houses elsewhere. It’s just so charming, and you don’t have to be in the scene when you’re

Frankel with fiancé Paul Bernon

Tell us about your new book, Business Is Personal.

The title says it all. There’s so much gray. If you’re giving up time with your family and putting your all into something that you believe in and putting your money, time, and passion into something you believe in, then it’s entirely personal. You should take it personally. It’s your business.

There’s just so many stories, so many anecdotes, and actual

resources, with how lean we are, has literally never been done in philanthropy. That is pretty remarkable. And the storm is still going on.

You’re always so confident posting on social media in your PJs with no makeup, which so many celebrities don’t do. What do you attribute to your confidence?

It’s not that I’m confident. It’s that I’m a human being. I’m just not painfully superficial and

Fun in the sun with daughter Bryn

I get things done. Nobody can keep up with me. I’m unstoppable.

And what about your weakness?

It’s probably the same, actually.

I’ve never said that before, but that’s probably the same weakness.

You’ve been coming to the Hamptons for years. What initially drew you to the East End? Frankly, my terrible divorce and me needing a place to take my daughter. To be honest, it was just to not be living in the same

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there at all. There’s something for everyone. There’s pool culture, music, and bohemian Coachella vibes in Montauk.

There’s the whole Lilly Pulitzer and polo vibe in Southampton.

In Bridgehampton, there’s the bridge. In Sag Harbor, there’s this cute, charming town.

Dinners in Westhampton.

There’s just so many places to go. I adore it. I think it’s amazing.

How do you typically spend the Fourth of July?

If it’s nice out, we’re always on a boat. We find a way to see fireworks in a non-stuck-intraffic sort of way. We just drive somewhere and park in a parking lot and watch the fireworks.

prescriptive advice for getting what you want. For how to do it.

For how so many people can do it and how anybody can do it no matter what your education is, no matter what your business plan is, no matter what your financial situation.

You’ve raised millions for efforts in Ukraine through your BStrong charity. What’s been most rewarding?

The massive nature of it and that it’s literally unprecedented.

We can say that. It’s something of this magnitude, with these

insecure. If I put up a picture of a hospital that we donated to Ukraine, nobody would give a s*it. I post a picture of myself in a bathing suit with some fake life, some fake bag, some fake vacation, and some fancy car, that ranks. We’re all broke now.

It’s like we’re all showing our fake lives so we can one-up other people with a humble brag.

Someone’s got to cut through it. Someone’s gotta say, “This is what I look like.” People just believe this myth that everyone’s portraying. I don’t like the filterbased culture. But it’s okay.

I’ll be looking like s*it while everyone else looks good. T

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We offer a wide range of Cards, from fee-based, high-value products, like the Business Platinum Card; to simple cashback products; to our co-brand Cards with Amazon, Delta, Marriott, and more.

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What are some top travel perks Card Members can use?

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What business rewards are currently the most helpful to small businesses?

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Do American Express Business Cards make sense for a millennial business owner?

Definitely. We’ve been excited by the fact that we’re seeing more and more millennials starting and growing small businesses.

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A FASHION LOVE STORY Crystal and Jarret Willis are the Hamptons couple you always keep loving!

The duo behind the Bridgehampton fashion destination Blue One share the backstory of their loves for both dressing Hamptonites—and each other. BY SYDNEY SADICK Crystal, how did you and Jarret first meet?

We met while I was attending college Upstate. I was in my third year and walked into a bar called P&G’s and spotted him immediately. He was the sexiest guy I had ever seen. I would later find out he was modeling for Ford and walking runway shows! I was 20 years old. Jarret is two years older.

Why did you decide to open your own store together?

I worked in retail while growing up and cultivated a following; customers would come to me for fashion inspiration on what to wear and what was in style. I worked those dreadful summer weekends for years and knew what it took to work hard, so I realized with my eye for fashion and work ethic I could do it.

By that time, Jarret and I had a long-distance relationship.

He was in the city, and I was in Westhampton Beach. We decided this could be a great collaboration—we could buy together and work together— and boy, did we have fun doing it! We would go out to dinner with clients and then open the 40 \ Fourth of July 2022 \ Spotlight

store at midnight for them to shop! It just worked.

How would you describe your unique roles at Blue One? Jarret is the social butterfly [Laughs], so if you want to know anything about anything, just ask him; he’s an open book!

I’m more of the “we gotta get it done” girl. We both do the buying and look to each other for inspiration and approval.

It’s a team effort.

How do you balance your work and personal lives?

It’s chaotic, fun, and crazy,

especially with an almost 3-year-old [son, Jacobi]. Jarret is an amazing multitasker— from real estate mogul to super dad to caring and wonderfully supportive husband. We love going home to our little guy!

Jarret, what’s your favorite thing about Crystal?

She is without question the hardest-working, driven person I have ever met. She has magically managed to balance being a wife,

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mother, and business partner.

I’m truly in awe of her every single day.

And Crystal, what about Jarret?

He’s the most wonderful father.

I can say hands down I have never seen or experienced one like him. He’s incredible.

Do you advise each other on your personal style?

Yes, and a lot of times we dress the same! It’s funny.

No. 1 tip for being a millennial business owner?

Work ethic!

As a Hamptons power couple, what’s your advice to the singles out here this summer?

Put down your phone! Look around, engage people, get to know someone in person, not via text.

Jarret, what’s something we’d be surprised to learn about both of you?

I do the cooking and cleaning at home, and Crystal is an amazing sous-chef!

Crystal, what’s new at the store this summer?

I will be launching for the second year in a row my new Mommy and Me pajamas collaboration with Sammy + Nat. This year’s Hamptons print has a more modern, edgy feel with bright neon colors.

What else is next?

We want to open another location in Florida, so that’s what we’re working toward! T

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Live and Entertain

THE 411 ON THE RETURN OF THE ICONIC WALDORF ASTORIA NEW YORK Winter Garden

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Starlight Terrace

Starlight Pool

after their engagement in 1956; The Winter Garden, a relaxing verdant lounge and bar next to the Starlight Pool; The Starlight Lounge and Bar, named as an homage to the Waldorf Astoria’s famed Starlight Roof, aka the nightclub of choice in the 1930s and ’40s; and The Presidential Library Bar, which honors every president who stayed or lived in the famous hotel.

In addition, multiple elegant entertaining spaces include The Grand Salon, with high arched ceilings and windows; and The Chrysler Room, providing group dining and private dining rooms with an incredible view of the Chrysler Building. Residents can also entertain at the Cue Club, featuring two 9-foot U.S. billiard tables and one standardsize snooker table, and the Monte Carlo Gaming Room.

Enjoy a private concert at the Stage & Screen Theater with

a performance stage, green room, grand piano, and movie screen.

Residents and their guests can Monte Carlo Gaming Room take advantage of generations, while bringing ordering drinks and food directly it into a new age. As it was to these private amenity spaces the place to be in the 1930s, with signing privileges. NYC’s the meticulous restoration most opulent work-from-home will usher in the next century amenity is the Empire Club, of nightlife, culture, and which includes a co-working entertainment for guests and lounge, private fully equipped residents of The Towers. offices, reception facilities, a The Towers of the Waldorf board room, and meeting rooms.

Astoria will offer 375 When the Waldorf Astoria opened, it was the largest and condominium residences starting from $1,800,000, tallest hotel in the world and represented exclusively by known as “the unofficial palace Douglas Elliman Development of New York.” Now, as the Marketing. Visit waldorftowers building celebrates 90 years, .nyc, follow the building’s renowned architects Skidmore, Instagram @WaldorfNYC, or Owings & Merrill have invested call 212-872-1210 for a private years of work to understand the appointment at the on-site building’s history in order to residential gallery. T maintain its heritage for future

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The world’s most fascinating and influential people have always lived and entertained at the Waldorf Astoria. Since opening in 1931, this iconic symbol of New York luxury has been the residence of choice for world leaders, celebrities, and the global elite. Today’s unprecedented restoration of the Park Avenue landmark will deliver a collection of contemporary residences in The Towers above the legendary hotel, with interiors and amenities artfully designed by world-renowned interior designer Jean-Louis Deniot. This marks the first-ever opportunity to own a residence in one of the world’s most coveted addresses.

The Towers are introducing an elevated lifestyle to residents, including more than 50,000 square feet (4,645 square meters) of private residential amenities, ranging from health and wellness to entertainment and business—the stunning 25-meter Starlight Pool, stateof-the-art fitness center, opulent private spas, and numerous spaces to host private events.

Residents will have access to the hotel’s acclaimed heritage spaces, spa, restaurants, and bars, too. There are also four private bars, including The Monaco Bar, named for Grace Kelly and Prince Rainier III of Monaco, who made their first public appearance at the hotel

A Day in the Life of Mia Calabrese

Here’s a photo diary of what an East End day looks like for former model, current real estate agent, and Selling the Hamptons star Mia Calabrese! BY SYDNEY SADICK

8 a.m.

7:30 a.m.

One of the lead trainers from Casa Cipriani, Angela, trains me in person or virtually.

I start my day with a juice or a smoothie.

9 a.m.

Office time!

I make sure everything is running smooth with the business.

1 p.m.

Lunch at Sant Ambroeus.

3 p.m.

11 a.m.

Go for a walk on the beach.

Site visit in Southampton with a client.

6 p.m.

Dinner at Lulu’s.

7:45 p.m.

Watch the sunset in Sag Harbor.

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10 p.m.

I put eight different products on my face and go to sleep to a podcast!

What made you go from modeling to being a real estate agent?

I spent my early twenties traveling all over the world and was able to experience stunning boutique hotels in some of the most sought-after destinations. When I was ready for a career change, I wanted to do something that I had a sincere excitement for. With my background traveling, I gained a unique appreciation for real estate, and I knew it was the right fit for me. Working with clients is truly a privilege, and I feel fortunate to have both my buyers and sellers trust in me!

What do you love about Summer Fridays Out East?

Seeing my friends come from the city and spending time with them in a relaxed environment.

We love going to Wölffer Estate Vineyard and catching up!

You’re from Chicago. What were your first impressions of the Hamptons?

I started coming to the Hamptons 12 years ago, and I just loved how quaint and peaceful everything was here.

Your go-to lunch spot?

My office is in Southampton, and I love Sant Ambroeus. If I’m on a time crunch, I’ll grab a smoothie from Juice Press!

Who are you closest to from the show’s cast?

I get along with everyone well!

But I’m a girl’s girl, so definitely Bianca and Peggy.

Describe your summer style!

Rather than the more “relaxed” summer Friday look, I like to experiment with bold colors.

My inspiration is a mix between Fran Fine from The Nanny and Olivia Pope from Scandal.

Favorite Hamptons town?

Sag Harbor! It’s quaint, my favorite restaurants are there, and I love being by the water.

What have you learned about yourself through reality TV? Adjusting to seeing myself on TV has taken time to get used to.

It all still feels surreal! Putting yourself out there can be scary, but I’m loving the journey. T

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Hamptons Fashion Week features Runway On Jobs Lane, Fashion Icon Awards, and Nicole Miller celebrating 40 years in fashion as the show finale!

DCG Media Group is returning this August for its annual Fashion Week. Packed with cocktails, fun, and a lineup of top sponsors, celebrities, designers, and media partners, the fourth-annual Hamptons Fashion Week® will celebrate fashion icon Nicole Miller’s 40 years in fashion!

This Luxury Shops Runway Show features local stores in the Hamptons—including Marina St. Barth, Unsubscribed, Fivestory, and a plethora of other brands—showcasing their latest collections. After the fashion show, things come alive with an after-party that includes a Shop & Sip with participating shops offering bites and cocktails, and an opportunity to win $500 worth of swag! The first 200 attendees SPONSORED ADVERTISEMENT

who go to each store, take a photo of their favorite item, and tag us will get a goody bag.

But the party really gets going on Saturday, August 6, with Hamptons Fashion Week’s Full Frontal Fashion Day of Shows at Southampton Arts Center.

This is an A-list event that will include the best in fashion, including indie designers.

During the Day of Shows, DCG Media Group will be presenting its annual Fashion Icon Awards, including Trendsetter of the Year Award to celebrity designer Cesar Galindo, Fashion Media Award to author Constance White, Rising Star Award to Gloria Lee, and Designer of the Year Award to Nicole Miller.

Schneps Communications CEO Vicki Schneps and founder of Hamptons Fashion Week

Dee Rivera will be presenting the awards.

Something new this year is the Hamptons Fashion Week Metaverse, where you can enter a new world of experiential fashion. Guests will enjoy food bites from participating restaurants and chefs, a wine bar, a barista bar, a step-andrepeat red-carpet selfie station, signature cocktails, a full fashion show throughout the night, and swag.

As we wrap up the weekend, Day 3 will consist of an exclusive invite-only Bites, Bubbles, & Brunch for press, VIP guests, and designers, curated by Picnic & Peonies Luxury Picnics, including a signing with Constance White for her book, How to Slay.

Hamptons Fashion Week was created by DCG Media Group and curated by producer Dee Rivera, a veteran in fashion and CEO of DCG Media Group. Event sponsors include Ozone Metaverse, Samsung, Spring44, Scott’s Protein Balls, Maison Marcel, Hampton Coffee Company, Smartwater, Vitaminwater, Alizé, Complete Burger, Backyard BBQ, DeJesus Deli & Grocery, Ruta Oaxaca, Marc Bynum Concepts, Grande Cosmetics, YouCam, and BOLD Swim, among many others.

“The Hamptons is my happy place, and I’m so proud of my team and what we built so far. This year, we’re bringing the Hamptons Fashion Week Metaverse, which is a whole new level of experiencing Fashion Week,” says Dee Rivera. “This special event is a unique, fun, and allencompassing opportunity to share with residents and visitors, enjoy fashion and beauty brands found on the East End, and give brands and designers an opportunity to showcase their collections.” T Hamptons Fashion Week runs from August 5–7, 2022.

For more information, visit hamptonsfashionweek.com.

CATCHING UP WITH NICOLE MILLER How does it feel to be receiving the Designer of the Year Award?

I’m honored because it’s our 40th anniversary this year. This show is important to us because we wanted to showcase our most iconic pieces from the decades.

Some of them have inspired some of our most recent collections.

Why is it important for the Hamptons to have its own Fashion Week?

There are so many people in the Hamptons in the summer months.

It’s a great place to get people together. There’s a great clientele and customer base as well. It’s important that the Hamptons gets to make its own fashion statement.

How has your brand evolved over 40 years?

We started just a dress business, eventually evolving into a lifestyle brand with everything from sportswear, home, accessories, and eveningwear. We have created a lifestyle that shapes our company into what it is today.

What have been some of your proudest accomplishments?

My first runway show, which featured all the top supermodels.

This gave my brand a lot of recognition. We’ve also created popular prints, which gave us a lead in the men’s industry and helped us gain visibility.

Where will you be watching fireworks on the Fourth?

On our boat, under the stars!

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Zodiac Thrillers

YOUR HAMPTONS HOROSCOPE FOR JULY

Summer is heating up, and our resident astrologer is back to share some hot takes for the month ahead!

BY NANCY KOAN

CANCER

June 21–July 22 It’s your birthday month. Are you going to let healing planet Chiron help you release the past or mope about while others frolic? You’ve got Venus in Virgo on the 21st, so go to Stephen’s Talkhouse and share real sensuality with someone you’re learning to trust.

SCORPIO

October 23–November 21 This month, your Scorpion gaze will go inward as you fuss about your home, art, and hobbies.

Around the 15th, healing Chiron will have you doing dark shadow work as you get your psyche in order for delivering Mars’ passionate foreplay on the 29th.

PISCES

February 19­–March 20 Pisces, you may be a deep thinker, but you can still put yourself first. On the 21st, your seventh house of relationship glows, so swim out to Potato Beach and greet all the mermaids and mermen waving their tails in your direction.

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LEO

July 23­­–August 22 TikTok is full of videos of lions nurturing puppies, but it’s an aberration. Royal lions take care of No. 1, and July is no exception.

You have lots to think about in terms of sharing your regal spirit.

Perhaps an Aries has the stamina your fiery feline wiles require?

SAGITTARIUS

November 22–December 21 Thinking of a permanent move to the beach? July 9th may be the time to start looking. Travel is what gives a Sag joy, but open your mind to some local fun, like fishing in Montauk. It’ll keep you moving, and you can look for romance under the stars later.

ARIES

March 21­–April 19 We all get tired of our close pals but usually stay quiet. Not you, Martian warriors. It’s time to open your mouth and ask your heart what you need. This July, Chiron the healer will help you help yourself. Show vulnerability and you might find your mate.

VIRGO

August 23–September 22 Though Mercury may be a challenge around the 4th, better let the fireworks do the blasting, not you, Virgo. Friends are mucho important now; they’ll help you when Chiron’s healing wand makes an appearance on the 15th.

After that, it’s pure August fun.

CAPRICORN

December 22–January 19 When an eagle tried to snare a goat off a cliff, the eagle crashed and the goat kept grazing. That’s sturdy Capricorn. Chiron on the 15th says to relax. Your friends don’t need you tough all the time.

It’s summer, so balance toil and play. Build a sandcastle for fun!

TAURUS

April 20–May 20 Lucky for us, the new moon says take a rest. It’s okay to go for a walk down Hedges Lane after we pamper ourselves. On the 21st, your ruler Venus whispers it’s time to find someone worthy to love. All is possible now that you’ve gotten your beauty sleep.

LIBRA

September 23–October 22 Your sense of justice never sleeps, especially when comet Vesta hits your sign on the 19th. You’ll continue balancing priorities, like getting just enough sun to glow your cheekbones while passing on the cream pies from Tate’s.

AQUARIUS

January 20–February 18 Don’t overthink this July. Keep a notebook by your towel and jot down every brilliant idea. If you spill your Aperol Spritz on it, the sun will dry it out. This is a time for healing—until the new moon on the 23rd, when the gates of pleasure open once again.

GEMINI

May 21–June 20 You butterfly twins will party hardy toward the end of the month, but until then, boost your financial worth and ask for a deserved raise. Venus will bring you that salary news on the 21st.

From there on, it’s you and your admirers dancing into August.

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Before You Go…

Can You SPOT the Differences?

Test your “I Spy” skills with a second look at these not-so-identical illustrations of Montauk’s The Surf Lodge

by NYC-based fashion illustration artist Deanna First. Find the six changes on the bottom of the page, and follow Deanna on Instagram and TikTok @Deanna_First. Now, let’s getting SPOTTING!

Changes in Bottom Illustration: 1. Butterfly added; 2. bow added to purse; 3. green shoes; 4. blue missing from bike wheels; 5. flowers on plant at left; 6. stripe added to surfboard

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